Speaker 1: Greetings or links, and welcome back to in our own world.
Speaker 1: Join us as we open up the onboard vault and
Speaker 1: share an unreleased part of our amazing conversation with Valet
Speaker 1: and Sebastian Gent to buckle in and prepare for Reorbit
Speaker 1: being canceled.
Speaker 2: Definitely in the thought. But I feel like, I don't say,
Speaker 2: like crazy stuff, but if there is like phases of life,
Speaker 2: like during COVID and stuff where I feel like people
Speaker 2: were getting canceled.
Speaker 3: Lefty happy Birthday, Yeah, like I remember people got mad
Speaker 3: for your celebraty fourth of July that year, and I
Speaker 3: was like, I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 4: Jem and I have had some fights also, to be honest,
Speaker 4: where it's like, you know, look at her fight.
Speaker 5: It's never violet. It was like, this is weird, all
Speaker 5: these random people following me. I'm like, don't be stupid.
Speaker 5: I'm like, we can like monetize.
Speaker 2: I love the worst. It was always and I was like,
Speaker 2: I just want to be in high school, Like.
Speaker 3: It's embarrassing that I'm in high school and I have
Speaker 3: one hundred thousand follers.
Speaker 5: I'm like to who oh.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're pretty.
Speaker 4: Of course you post and people are going to pay
Speaker 4: you like hunt and you try to wake up and
Speaker 4: plan your fucking post for the next month and then tell.
Speaker 2: Me if you've got to be in here and make
Speaker 2: up and be.
Speaker 4: Good and be in a good mood and girl, come u.
Speaker 2: L okay.
Speaker 4: How about how do you balance something like privacy when
Speaker 4: you're sharing so much of yourselves and your family online?
Speaker 4: Is that something that you guys value.
Speaker 2: I think that's something that we've learned over time. We've
Speaker 2: been doing this for so long that I think in
Speaker 2: the beginning I was like share, share, like share everything,
Speaker 2: but then along with that comes opinions, and then you know,
Speaker 2: comes angry people or whatever, like opinions that are not
Speaker 2: asked for. And so I think the more that that
Speaker 2: happened to me, the more I realize I'm going to
Speaker 2: pick and choose what I share and like, for example,
Speaker 2: like I feel like my relationship with Ben a lot
Speaker 2: my fiance, I don't really share that much he's on there,
Speaker 2: but like I'm not going to be talking about us
Speaker 2: online because like this is like weird and maybe a
Speaker 2: little woo woo, But like I do feel like the
Speaker 2: energy that you get from someone could like come to
Speaker 2: you physically.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, even online, even.
Speaker 2: Online, like if you if I'm reading a message like
Speaker 2: I hate message online, Like I'm like, oh, I don't
Speaker 2: want that energy, Like I just don't want that, and
Speaker 2: especially not in my relationship that I work so hard on,
Speaker 2: like to be good and healthy and everything. So I
Speaker 2: think that's one of the main things I try not
Speaker 2: to share too much, Yeah, because I just don't care
Speaker 2: about people's opinions, Like it's.
Speaker 6: Just like it's nice to have something for yourself exactly.
Speaker 2: Not everything needs to be public, for sure.
Speaker 4: And unfortunately balancing the fact that this is part of
Speaker 4: our job now in the entertainment world, the fact that
Speaker 4: we are that filter that call under for what we
Speaker 4: actually choose to share. I struggle with that all the time. Yeah,
Speaker 4: Jem and I have had some fights also, to be honest,
Speaker 4: where it's like, you know, look at her fight. It's
Speaker 4: never no but about you know, you have power and
Speaker 4: using the internet. It's tough because also, yeah, my private
Speaker 4: life is my private life. But also if there's something
Speaker 4: going on in the world that I feel needs to
Speaker 4: be spoken about, if I don't add my voice to
Speaker 4: that pot, like.
Speaker 5: What's your responsibility?
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, a very weird middle ground that you need to
Speaker 2: I like, I'm I'm I just started a podcast with
Speaker 2: this girl who is.
Speaker 4: On a reality show what's the name plug is.
Speaker 5: Called Don't Be Ridiculous.
Speaker 3: She asked me to do it like six months ago,
Speaker 3: and I was like, I don't know because of this,
Speaker 3: like I feel like I'm like so filtered online and
Speaker 3: now it's like a podcast is different. Yeah, you're really
Speaker 3: talking again. You can edit it after, but I've already
Speaker 3: kind of gotten burnt by the like fire of what
Speaker 3: I've said in the it's only been three episodes.
Speaker 4: Different than a picture of your hot ass acts, but
Speaker 4: I can say are so hot.
Speaker 3: So part of me is like, no, let people know
Speaker 3: your personality. Don't just post like sexy picks, you know,
Speaker 3: like be yourself.
Speaker 2: Because he has such a good personal and he's so funny.
Speaker 2: It's like I think it's such a good way of
Speaker 2: showing that side of him. But also you need to
Speaker 2: be careful.
Speaker 3: You need to be careful because you don't know what
Speaker 3: you might say that miss might piss somebody off, or
Speaker 3: you know, nain dropping of like just little things or like.
Speaker 4: We're here, like right now, the cameras are on we're
Speaker 4: having this conversation. Yeah, we're not thinking of the implication
Speaker 4: of what this conversation going after who.
Speaker 5: Might have upset or whatever.
Speaker 3: And you never do it with that intent, of course,
Speaker 3: but it just happens sometimes and unfortunately.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and you can't please everybody, I think.
Speaker 3: So I'm not here to like please everybody, but I think, yeah,
Speaker 3: to just be weary.
Speaker 4: Of Like are you both afraid of being canceled?
Speaker 3: I'm afraid because I feel like some of my comments
Speaker 3: may be taken offensively when it's not an offensive thing.
Speaker 4: But do you believe like do you do you stand
Speaker 4: behind them?
Speaker 5: I think I'm joking a lot.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and they don't get your humor exactly.
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, it's true. But there it's like some like
Speaker 2: you have to be careful.
Speaker 5: You have to be.
Speaker 3: Careful, like you know how we were in high school,
Speaker 3: like so direct and so honest and like it didn't
Speaker 3: Those are different times though, like ten years ago, like now,
Speaker 3: things are different and.
Speaker 5: You just have to be more careful with what you say.
Speaker 2: You know, being canceled definitely in the thought. But I
Speaker 2: feel like I don't take like crazy stuff. But there
Speaker 2: is like phases of life, like during COVID and stuff
Speaker 2: where I feel like people were getting canceled Lefty.
Speaker 3: Happy Birthday, Yeah, like the I remember people got mad
Speaker 3: for your celebrating fourth.
Speaker 5: Of July that year, and I was like, I mean,
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 2: Like those type of things. I'm like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: it's like anxiety. It's like did I post something wrong?
Speaker 2: Did I do something wrong?
Speaker 5: Like dms?
Speaker 2: Like when I open like.
Speaker 5: So to like put it into contacts.
Speaker 3: On our last podcast, we obviously had to address the
Speaker 3: election and the presidency, and we didn't sway either way
Speaker 3: on purpose. We were just like, you know, this is
Speaker 3: what happened, like yeah, like the factual just report and
Speaker 3: then I check our DMS and it's a long ass
Speaker 3: message from this girl. Yeah, she's just like, you know,
Speaker 3: it's very ballsy to even bring up politics, especially when
Speaker 3: you just started a podcast, like I gave you guys
Speaker 3: a chance, and now yeah, like upset, even though we
Speaker 3: never really said yeah.
Speaker 5: Because I was like, I don't know, just the fact
Speaker 5: that you brought it up.
Speaker 3: We bought it up, and maybe your tone was like
Speaker 3: a little one way.
Speaker 5: I mean it was yeah, it is like he went unfortunately, well,
Speaker 5: you couldn't cut.
Speaker 2: That out, yeah, said unfortunately, and you you left them, Yeah,
Speaker 2: because I didn't think it was that big of a deal.
Speaker 6: Listen, our first season, we would create, we would perform
Speaker 6: surgery on our I swear to you. Always said, Aunt
Speaker 6: always said, oh you're nervous. You don't ever want to
Speaker 6: misrepresent yourself totally. You never say it with the purpose
Speaker 6: of offending anybody. And we we live in this like
Speaker 6: post cancel culture world where we've seen people be completely
Speaker 6: torn down by something that they said fifteen years which
Speaker 6: is crazy, Like you can't hold this, hold somebody to
Speaker 6: what they believed today. If they committed an error, they
Speaker 6: should absolutely atone for it.
Speaker 4: But like accountability, guys.
Speaker 5: You are at sixteen is not.
Speaker 4: Accountability is so big. Like I can be the first
Speaker 4: person to say that I've said things that are probably
Speaker 4: horrible against my own Cuban culture everything just merely because
Speaker 4: I didn't know what I was even.
Speaker 7: Talking about, yes, like how deep it was exactly regurgitating
Speaker 7: things that people that I want to be friends with
Speaker 7: think are funny, and then as a result, I then
Speaker 7: have to think are funny or whatnot?
Speaker 4: But I do think, at least from my perspective, which
Speaker 4: is what I struggle with because I grew up in
Speaker 4: a world where old Hollywood, what my parents went through
Speaker 4: is way different than now. We're not talking about Instagram,
Speaker 4: we're talking about paparazzi, we're talking about interviews. We're still
Speaker 4: people would be like, oh shit, I said that interview.
Speaker 4: For me, I think that the hardest thing is like
Speaker 4: standing by what I know, because I feel the same way.
Speaker 4: I would never want to hurt somebody accidentally. But if
Speaker 4: I do, still standing behind what I think is right,
Speaker 4: I'm like, all right, that's your problem.
Speaker 2: Like I can't do it anymore.
Speaker 4: This planet is too freaking weird. That's why we're out
Speaker 4: here or somewhere else, you.
Speaker 5: Know, exactly.
Speaker 6: Because I also wish people were more curious, you know,
Speaker 6: like rather than attack somebody, because that's another thing this
Speaker 6: happened to us in the beginning of the podcast to
Speaker 6: not anymore, thank god, as much. I think people like
Speaker 6: know what to expect now, but they would watch like
Speaker 6: a one minute clip and make gross assumption.
Speaker 2: Right, It's like, this is.
Speaker 6: A forty five minute episode. This is meant to be
Speaker 6: a clickbait for you, so want to click on and
Speaker 6: hopefully if you are engaging with the material then go
Speaker 6: listen to the full episode. But I wish that people
Speaker 6: instead of like jumping the gun and drawing conclusions from
Speaker 6: like what's obviously a thirty second clip, they'd be like, hey,
Speaker 6: you know what, even if it's valid, right, like Sebastian,
Speaker 6: you said this thing that I'm not sure if I
Speaker 6: interpreted it the right way, maybe it rub me the
Speaker 6: wrong way. Is that what you met? Is that what
Speaker 6: you meant? Or can you clarify? No, we're just like
Speaker 6: putting people on crossing have those conversations.
Speaker 2: People can't have conversations anymore.
Speaker 3: I also think that not everyone, but a lot of
Speaker 3: people aren't even offended or outraged by what it is
Speaker 3: they're saying. They're just so excited to cancel someone that's
Speaker 3: really true, and it's I'm like, you did that really
Speaker 3: hurt your feelings?
Speaker 5: Are you?
Speaker 3: Just like Gemeny's is something that is and once it
Speaker 3: catches on like your screws.
Speaker 2: And it's comforting, and yeah, I want to be a
Speaker 2: part of a group.
Speaker 5: I want to be the man.
Speaker 3: Yeah, mentality on the internet is very scary, you know,
Speaker 3: and yeah, the cancel culture, so I think, yeah, you
Speaker 3: just see to chat lightly and again coming from all
Speaker 3: of us. I don't think anyone's looking to offend or
Speaker 3: trying to be controversial. It's just more, you know, sometimes
Speaker 3: we're human, Yeah.
Speaker 6: And on the side of controversy, you know, because it
Speaker 6: happens to us all the time when we're like measuring
Speaker 6: our words. I also I'm trying to I'm not a
Speaker 6: master at this in any way, but I often try to,
Speaker 6: like ask myself, I'm like, if this that I really
Speaker 6: feel right, like I've I've measured my words. This is
Speaker 6: actually how I feel I'm properly representing myself. If this
Speaker 6: alienates me from a certain kind of audience, that's not
Speaker 6: my audiences.
Speaker 2: One hundred percent.
Speaker 6: I don't want yeah, love you best of loved to you.
Speaker 6: I hope you wish me ill because I don't wish
Speaker 6: you ill. But we're not for each other. Consume somebody
Speaker 6: else's meeting.
Speaker 3: Not every brand, not every person is meant to appeal
Speaker 3: to you.
Speaker 2: Which is fine, So unfollow me, don't DM me hate
Speaker 2: I know, and it's just like go away.
Speaker 3: But it has this girl, this one girl who's been
Speaker 3: following her for years and just sends me messages.
Speaker 5: But it's like funny, honest. It that one girl that
Speaker 5: just continuously sends.
Speaker 7: The religious Yeah, it's always don't worry, I have a
Speaker 7: religious online.
Speaker 6: Oh okay, he loves them.
Speaker 4: She has this Sati scammel.
Speaker 6: Oh my god. Well, you guys have been doing this
Speaker 6: for for so many years. What do you think is because,
Speaker 6: I mean the world has changed so much. We have
Speaker 6: freaking Tesla robots now, I know you're right, we don't
Speaker 6: we don't, But what do you what do you perceive
Speaker 6: as like the largest or the biggest change in like
Speaker 6: the influencer creator landscape since you started.
Speaker 2: I think people now, like then, people believed you waymore now,
Speaker 2: like your audience doesn't believe anything you say because there's
Speaker 2: so many influencers now, and there's so many people trying
Speaker 2: to sell you something that everyone like. And now the
Speaker 2: entire audience thinks that you're just trying to sell them something,
Speaker 2: or that you don't believe in what you're talking about
Speaker 2: or something like that, because the Internet is such a
Speaker 2: fake place, and so I feel like that's changed a lot.
Speaker 2: In the beginning, you can be like this guy's purple,
Speaker 2: and I was like, oh yeah, this guy's purple. Now it's
Speaker 2: like I'm like I swear I love this product, and
Speaker 2: then your life right, and I'm like, I'm not getting
Speaker 2: paid for this, like I swear, I'm like I actually
Speaker 2: like it's hard to like, Yeah, that's changed a lot.
Speaker 3: I think the public is a lot more intelligents, Like
Speaker 3: consumers are.
Speaker 4: Smarter, you know, and they know the interface more exactly.
Speaker 5: That's a bad thing for sure.
Speaker 3: You know, they're just smarter and more weary of what
Speaker 3: they're being sold and whatnot. So I think yeah, and
Speaker 3: also as a creator, you're way more cognizant of what
Speaker 3: you're selling, right because you're you want to sell something
Speaker 3: you believe in, work with a brand that you feel passionate.
Speaker 2: I feel like in day one out they're like, sell
Speaker 2: the pencil. I'm like, I'll sell the like.
Speaker 5: Anything for a dollar.
Speaker 2: My god, this is they're paying me amazing. I mean
Speaker 2: it's a real but it's actually work, Like I need
Speaker 2: to pay my bills, you know, Like I don't think
Speaker 2: people understand that, but you do have to get like
Speaker 2: more picky about what you work with.
Speaker 3: When Ballet started getting like followers in the beginning, this
Speaker 3: was not a career, you know what I mean, it
Speaker 3: was like yeah, yeah, it.
Speaker 5: Was like a vine like it was and violet. It
Speaker 5: was like, this is weird all these random people following me.
Speaker 2: I like, don't be stupid.
Speaker 5: I'm like, we can like monetize.
Speaker 2: I love the worst. It was always and I was like,
Speaker 2: I just want to be in high school.
Speaker 3: It's embarrassing that I'm in high school and I have
Speaker 3: one hundred thousand dollars. I'm like to who I'm like,
Speaker 3: because obviously people were like talking ship whatever, like, but
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, And I remember I.
Speaker 5: Think it was like pop tart. The first thing was
Speaker 5: my first friend.
Speaker 7: It was like, no, way, that's amazing, amazing, like four mines.
Speaker 2: I paid me like eight hundred bucks, which at the
Speaker 2: time not enough.
Speaker 5: Imagine your ship for eight hundred bucks is like eight
Speaker 5: hundred dollars.
Speaker 2: I was like, this is it pop tart? And you
Speaker 2: said that's not enough.
Speaker 5: Imagine, but I remember eight hundred bucks when you're in
Speaker 5: high school. It was amazing. Yeah, So it was just
Speaker 5: and then I think you realized like, oh, like we
Speaker 5: can't do something, and that's.
Speaker 3: Like where the whole thing came from. But it was
Speaker 3: really funny in the beginning. She was like not about it.
Speaker 4: Also like you guys work your ass off, and I
Speaker 4: feel people don't realize misrepresentation about people that happen to
Speaker 4: be pretty, like y'all that are online, you know to
Speaker 4: be real because people say, oh, yeah you're talented, but
Speaker 4: you're a nipple baby, Like of course you are. Your
Speaker 4: parents this.
Speaker 2: There's always something Oh yeah you're pretty.
Speaker 4: Of course you post and people are gonna pay you.
Speaker 4: Like hunting, you try to wake up and plan your
Speaker 4: fucking post for the next month and then tell me.
Speaker 2: If you've got to be in hair and make up
Speaker 2: and be good and.
Speaker 4: Be in a good mood.
Speaker 2: A girl, come be on camera. Be creative, think of
Speaker 2: something that a thousand other influencers in my How.
Speaker 7: Do you do that?
Speaker 4: How do you what's your guys CREATI.
Speaker 2: I mean I have to say, like he's the more
Speaker 2: creative one. Like to give you an example, the Idea
Speaker 2: brand was like, oh, you need to write up a
Speaker 2: concept before we give you this offer. Like, you need
Speaker 2: to write up a concept and then we'll see if
Speaker 2: we like you got the job.
Speaker 5: Pitch.
Speaker 2: I called him. I'm like, can you grab me pitch?
Speaker 2: Thirty minutes later he wrote me this insane, amazing concept.
Speaker 2: I was like amazing and like I got it. So
Speaker 2: it's like we work with each other a a lot
Speaker 2: in that way, Like I think we're both creative, but
Speaker 2: you're definitely better at putting it on paper.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah again, but it's hard, like she said, like there's
Speaker 3: so much creativity and it's such a saturated space. Now
Speaker 3: I feel like we feel a lot more confident in
Speaker 3: Miami than we did in LA.
Speaker 6: Though.
Speaker 2: Why is that LA is much.
Speaker 5: More saturated one with creators, Like there was so many
Speaker 5: like cont talent whatever, and we also weren't from there.
Speaker 3: Miami feels like our home city, Like we just feel
Speaker 3: like much more comfortable here, and so there's just there
Speaker 3: was much less of a present here.
Speaker 5: Now Miami is.
Speaker 6: Like has changed change now.
Speaker 3: I say that with a you know, grain of salt. Now,
Speaker 3: I think the influencer space, we feel.
Speaker 2: More at home here. Obviously, being in LA we felt
Speaker 2: so out of our comfort zone, which is good, but
Speaker 2: at the same time, like we didn't know anyone, Like
Speaker 2: people are mean there. Yeah, I hate you can't do it.
Speaker 4: Everybody's there that you I'm already five two, it's enough.
Speaker 2: I can't keep up.
Speaker 4: La.
Speaker 6: Last me, when I went to a restaurant and I
Speaker 6: was trying to order a dish, Oh my god, and
Speaker 6: they they refused to call the dish by like what
Speaker 6: it was. They wanted me. They wanted me to order
Speaker 6: it by like the name they gave this.
Speaker 2: You are beautiful gratitude.
Speaker 5: I am, Oh, I am.
Speaker 2: They were like, hey, can we have the noodles?
Speaker 6: Are like, do you mean the Bliss Joy or I
Speaker 6: was like, no, we want.
Speaker 5: The fucking Kelp noodles.
Speaker 2: I'm like, voice is not for mic.
Speaker 4: We're woo woo, but we're not woo wa Okay, We're
Speaker 4: not going to fucking have the Oracle of Joy when
Speaker 4: we really want to muffin please.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I went there a few times. I went there
Speaker 3: a few times. Is good, but yeah, but it's also
Speaker 3: thirty dollars for a month.
Speaker 6: And the guy was sorry, it's not about gratitude.
Speaker 2: Sorry, it's called the Awakening. No, it's crazy.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's not my that's not my vibe. I'd rather
Speaker 6: go to like, you know, like the Rundown Plate.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm.
Speaker 2: Going to cross Road.
Speaker 4: Can I have a Billie Eyelids where we can have
Speaker 4: fucking perogis and all that vegan ship that we love.
Speaker 6: I know they do have.
Speaker 4: Good food, and that's what you guys do well, Vegetarian.
Speaker 5: Launch.
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