1 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 1: Hello, baby Mama's and baby daddy. It is Lala. 2 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:12,600 Speaker 2: I have one whole. 3 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 1: It is Lala can't welcome back to the Is this 4 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:19,720 Speaker 1: a bonus episode? No it's not. This is a fall episode. 5 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 1: Welcome back to a full episode. Who give them Laala Podcast? Again? 6 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 1: We are pre recording because mom is ready to pop 7 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:33,199 Speaker 1: in about three weeks. I'm super excited because I've been 8 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 1: asking people that I run into that have two kids, 9 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:38,840 Speaker 1: like what should I expect? And their eyes get really 10 00:00:38,880 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 1: big and I get terrified. And I've told you guys 11 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 1: a million times. Even Stoss was on here where I 12 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:50,920 Speaker 1: said what should I be prepared for? And she doesn't 13 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 1: really tell me. She just says, law having two kids 14 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 1: is no fucking joke, and I'm like, oh. 15 00:00:57,320 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 3: God, it's a whole. One is one, two is twenty thing? 16 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:02,520 Speaker 2: Right? 17 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:05,679 Speaker 4: I remember saying that when Stasi was on here, though, 18 00:01:05,720 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 4: and she was like, it's not really like that. 19 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 1: Well, I think because obviously, when you have like a 20 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:16,759 Speaker 1: brand new baby and a toddler, I'm sure it can 21 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 1: be very intense. But then the baby starts getting older 22 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 1: and developing a personality and it's not so like alien 23 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:28,760 Speaker 1: and oh my gosh, one wrong move and the neck 24 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 1: is snapping right. Oh no, but really, yeah, it's so 25 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:35,319 Speaker 1: intimidating to have a newborn baby. No. 26 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:39,040 Speaker 4: I remember when Ocean couldn't hold her head up because 27 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:41,120 Speaker 4: I would look at you hold her and I'd be like, oh, 28 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 4: this baby can't hold her head up, and like even 29 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 4: watching you hold her and you were holding her beautifully 30 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 4: terrified me so much that I was like, I want 31 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 4: to hold that baby so bad, but I won't until 32 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 4: she can hold her head up. 33 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 1: And were you like, what a rookie human that she 34 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 1: can't even hold her head up? 35 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 3: I was like, can't this baby talk yet? 36 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 1: Why is she not walking around yet? But she was 37 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 1: maybe even do like what does she do? She's three 38 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 1: months old? 39 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 3: She just hangs out. 40 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 1: I guess could she did not keep her head up 41 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 1: at three months? I can't remember. 42 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 3: Well, okay, she could keep her It was very like 43 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:12,920 Speaker 3: she was just a baby. 44 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:14,800 Speaker 5: She was three months old and she is a peanut. 45 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 1: She was very very lismall. And you know that the 46 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 1: baby when you first started working for me, Jess, Yeah, 47 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 1: that's how old the baby baby s is gonna be. 48 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:31,120 Speaker 1: So three months when we go to Hawaii, that is 49 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:33,800 Speaker 1: wild and we started talking about what we were going 50 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 1: to do, and Mom's like, I want to go on 51 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 1: one of those rapture trucks. And I'm like, I cannot 52 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 1: take baby s on a raptor truck. 53 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:44,360 Speaker 3: No, lisaid, yesterday we're talking to you, We're like saying, 54 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:46,080 Speaker 3: let's go hang lie or whatever. 55 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:48,520 Speaker 1: We were saying, what about like a zipline am I line? 56 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 2: You're gonna You're gonna listen to Lisa. 57 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:52,640 Speaker 6: Lisa is the queen of we have a trip coming, 58 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:56,840 Speaker 6: let's plan and then when we're on the trip, let's 59 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:57,920 Speaker 6: just hang today. 60 00:02:58,280 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 3: Oh right, just hang not this time. Let me tell you. 61 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 4: I've been looking on No, I've been on freaking What 62 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 4: the website via tour looking for all the activities. 63 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 3: I'm gonna have a whole list, but will also chill. 64 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:12,680 Speaker 5: But here's pend me them so I can. 65 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 2: Pick and choose. 66 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:15,679 Speaker 1: Okay, Here's what's great about it, though, is that there 67 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 1: are certain things that, like we could leave babys with 68 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 1: mom and us, we could go do. 69 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:22,920 Speaker 3: I don't know if Lisa's gonna love that. 70 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:24,720 Speaker 4: Also, I had a smoothie right before this, and now 71 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 4: I feel like berries are in my teeth. 72 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 1: No, I don't know if Lisa's good. Yeah, you're good. 73 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 1: You have such good teeth. You guys, what do you 74 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 1: do about my teeth? What's wrong with them? 75 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 4: The front two are longer, but your mom said not 76 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 4: to shorten them because it might because of what happens. 77 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:45,800 Speaker 7: I have a Yeah, I don't do that. The fact 78 00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 7: that you said I have good teeth, I hate my teeth. 79 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 7: Really all you would need to do. You don't need 80 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 7: to do anything. But I know what you're saying is 81 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 7: just near like caps. Yeah, just a little cap and 82 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 7: then it evens it out. 83 00:03:57,680 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 3: Teeth doctor, it's cosmetic tooth. 84 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 1: You'd like to sponsor me and East on the podcast. 85 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 5: I do need a new grill. 86 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 1: You know what, though, I second that because when I smile, 87 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 1: it looks like I'm missing my back teeth because I 88 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 1: go narrow through the back like my dad smiles. I've 89 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:18,039 Speaker 1: got broad and then a barrow, so it looks like 90 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 1: I have no teeth right there. 91 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 4: I was gonna say, you're both of your teeth. I 92 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:23,280 Speaker 4: love your smiles. 93 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 5: Well, thank you. 94 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:27,799 Speaker 1: After I have babys if someone wants to broaden my smile, 95 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 1: then come on at it. 96 00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:31,600 Speaker 3: What do we Our list is growing, by the way, tits. 97 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:35,799 Speaker 1: I'm on that last we need new boob, new boobs 98 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 1: possible bbl. No, I'm not. 99 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:41,600 Speaker 2: Teeth. 100 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 1: I'm thinking about maybe a little threading. Maybe a little threading. 101 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 2: You need to get pregnant again, so you don't do anything. 102 00:04:49,640 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 5: Oh, she's about to fuck up everything. 103 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:53,360 Speaker 2: You look beautiful. 104 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:55,040 Speaker 5: Don't touch your face, just like you told her to 105 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 5: not touch your teeth. 106 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:58,040 Speaker 1: I got to touch. I have to look at her. 107 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 1: For me, I just have to glance in the mirror, 108 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 1: and if I don't like what I see, a bort mission, 109 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:07,280 Speaker 1: don't look in the mirror. But I have to look 110 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 1: at her. 111 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, she does every day, which we can of looking 112 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 4: at me. I realized yesterday I can't wink Scout. 113 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:16,719 Speaker 1: And I love it and I'm so jealous. 114 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 5: Thank you Leethetics. 115 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:22,560 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love it. You love it. Oh 116 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 1: you're so lucky. 117 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 3: Are deep foreheadlines? 118 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 1: Because I was like, how are they going to fix those? 119 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:31,280 Speaker 1: And they're gone. They're gone. Oh, they're gone. That's what 120 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 1: I need Lee to do when I'm after I drop 121 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 1: babys which by the time this episode comes out, I 122 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:39,599 Speaker 1: will have hopefully I need it to her to make 123 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 1: it so I can't lift my eyebrows this high, so 124 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:45,880 Speaker 1: I saw this mean you guys, someone else someone saw 125 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:48,359 Speaker 1: did this mean? But they put me and I know 126 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:50,600 Speaker 1: they were trying to be rude, but I was honestly 127 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:53,279 Speaker 1: so flattered because it was me next to Uncle Leo. 128 00:05:53,760 --> 00:06:02,239 Speaker 1: I'm from Seinfeldt, busy of high eyebrows. He did something 129 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 1: in that to make him really high, and I was like, no, 130 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 1: he burns. 131 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 5: He burns his eyebrows off, so they cross. 132 00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:18,160 Speaker 1: Eyebrows. I was so battered. 133 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 5: I was like, God, died. 134 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 1: We look identical past the phone show, show, the audience, 135 00:06:27,200 --> 00:06:27,520 Speaker 1: the phone. 136 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 4: I'm gonna also send this photo to our producers and 137 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:32,240 Speaker 4: maybe they'll cut it in. 138 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:36,360 Speaker 1: That's hilarious. But there are times where my eyebrows get 139 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:39,240 Speaker 1: stuck and I have to go like this to like anyway, 140 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 1: moving on, so let's talk about what to expect with 141 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:46,840 Speaker 1: second baby versus the first. So I want to hear 142 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 1: what our friends say about baby number two coming. I 143 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:54,360 Speaker 1: will say, as far as being pregnant with baby number two, 144 00:06:55,040 --> 00:07:01,159 Speaker 1: completely different pregnancy. And I know that that sounds like, well, no, 145 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:06,839 Speaker 1: no it doesn't, but for me, I was thinking that, however, 146 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 1: because people asked me, did you like being pregnant before 147 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:14,679 Speaker 1: I was pregnant with Babys. I loved being pregnant with Ocean. 148 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 1: I just remember like eating a lot of good food, 149 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 1: taking a load off this pregnancy. It's weird because I've 150 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 1: had a lot of energy, but like yesterday when we 151 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:31,920 Speaker 1: were out and about and I was like, someone needs 152 00:07:31,960 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 1: to unlock the car immediately because my legs are about 153 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:36,000 Speaker 1: to just like collapse. 154 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 3: You have been getting like the dizziness. 155 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 1: I don't. 156 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 4: I wasn't with you during pregnancy for Ocean, but you 157 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:44,800 Speaker 4: didn't have this like dizziness like I might pass out 158 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 4: with Ocean, did you. 159 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 1: I'm so burpy? Me so sorry. No, it's like, really, 160 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 1: I have zero control of my body. 161 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 2: You do. 162 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 1: Well. This is good to include both. By the way, 163 00:07:58,080 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 1: love that I'm like, does I don't know what you 164 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 1: is that your ass? I'm like, I don't know. 165 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:08,480 Speaker 5: What to tell you. We're just making everybody feel comfortable. 166 00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 1: No, I didn't have these waves of like, oh shit, 167 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:15,200 Speaker 1: like I'm really struggling breathing. Like at night, there are 168 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 1: times where I have to lift my arms above my 169 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 1: head and like turn on my side just to get 170 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:22,800 Speaker 1: into a position where I am not struggling. To breathe. 171 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 1: The first time that happened, I spoke about it as 172 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 1: my ache on the podcast because it was very terrifying. 173 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:33,000 Speaker 1: Apparently that's pretty common. It happened to me at my 174 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:38,840 Speaker 1: final anatomy. Every time I say anatomy or anonymity, it's 175 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:45,840 Speaker 1: I feel like Nemo being like anemone anatomy scan, which 176 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:49,439 Speaker 1: normally doesn't happen. Like you only have I think between one, 177 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 1: maybe two of those doctor's appointments during pregnancy. Because of Ocean, 178 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 1: they've been checking me pretty frequently. So I went to 179 00:08:57,280 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 1: my final one. Baby looks great. But while I was 180 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 1: laying there, I was like, I'm getting a little dizzy. 181 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:06,400 Speaker 1: I'm getting a little faint and I can't breathe. And 182 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:10,080 Speaker 1: the doctor was like so nonchalant. Do you remember Jess. 183 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 1: He's like, okay, just turn on your right side. Yeah, 184 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:15,319 Speaker 1: And I started getting nervous. 185 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:18,120 Speaker 4: But seeing how like cool and collected he was, I'm like, oh, 186 00:09:18,160 --> 00:09:19,679 Speaker 4: he probably deals with this all the time. 187 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:21,960 Speaker 2: Did you ever get the legs with Ocean? 188 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:27,040 Speaker 1: No, and I certainly didn't have hot dog legs with 189 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 1: Ocean a hot dog. I had beautiful inkles. 190 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 5: You've got cheese dog legs. 191 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 1: Oh, that sounds really good. A cheese dog. 192 00:09:36,160 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 3: Cheese dogs are vegan cheese dog. 193 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:43,880 Speaker 6: Just a cheese dog, American, thank you. 194 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:47,000 Speaker 1: So I would love to know what people are saying 195 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 1: about their second babies. I also I dropped Ocean off 196 00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 1: at school today and people were talking about their second 197 00:09:55,880 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 1: children and how intense it is. But also most people 198 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:05,880 Speaker 1: that were talking to me about their second babies today 199 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:12,080 Speaker 1: at school they had them within like nineteen months of 200 00:10:12,080 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 1: each other. Oh wow, And I'm like, okay, that does 201 00:10:14,559 --> 00:10:16,920 Speaker 1: sound like a lot. I was like, but so fun 202 00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:20,440 Speaker 1: as time passes, and like they get into like that 203 00:10:20,600 --> 00:10:23,439 Speaker 1: fun stage and even beyond, think about how close they're 204 00:10:23,480 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 1: going to be when they like, I know, this is 205 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:29,480 Speaker 1: a very far far time away, but it's like when 206 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:32,400 Speaker 1: they have kids and it's like Christmas time where you're 207 00:10:32,440 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 1: celebrating Hanukkah and like the kids come and they're only 208 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:41,680 Speaker 1: nineteen months apart. Like I originally wanted that. I wanted 209 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 1: them that close. With Ocean. 210 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 4: I mean, I do have to say, as one of 211 00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 4: five and me and my brother are I think it's like, 212 00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 4: I don't know, very close, like seventeen months apart or something. 213 00:10:52,760 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 4: We were close and we still are but it's very 214 00:10:56,600 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 4: I'm I'm like way closer with my sister and my 215 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:03,280 Speaker 4: younger brother, and my little sister is I don't know, 216 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 4: like five years younger, and my little brother is well 217 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:10,960 Speaker 4: he's twenty one and I'm thirty three. Oh okay, we're 218 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:12,560 Speaker 4: like besties, the three of us. 219 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 1: So I think it just all depends. It just all 220 00:11:15,840 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 1: depends nine and a half years, because it's literally gonna 221 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 1: be three and a half years apart, like exactly. Well, 222 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 1: I mean September is six months away from March. 223 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:28,719 Speaker 5: Right, they do get to go to school together for 224 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 5: a while. 225 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:31,199 Speaker 1: They do get to go to school together for a year, right, 226 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:34,560 Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, it is six months, so they're 227 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:36,320 Speaker 1: still going to be close in age. I think they'll 228 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:38,840 Speaker 1: have a lot of fun. Ocean's super excited about it, 229 00:11:39,280 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 1: and I think I'm doing myself a service by not 230 00:11:44,679 --> 00:11:50,080 Speaker 1: really preparing for it to be one way or the other. Okay, 231 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:54,520 Speaker 1: I'm just welcoming it however it comes. Yeah, I'm not 232 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:59,000 Speaker 1: planning on a second baby being any certain type of way. 233 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:00,600 Speaker 1: If that makes sense, that's good. 234 00:12:01,240 --> 00:12:03,079 Speaker 4: Well, I mean, did anyone tell you to do that? 235 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 4: Or you just feel like I just it's. 236 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:09,720 Speaker 1: So strange, Jess. I have the hardest time finding the 237 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:13,040 Speaker 1: gray in life. I'm so black and white. Easton knows this. 238 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 1: It's like it's this way or that way with motherhood. 239 00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 1: It is the only place in life where I find 240 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:23,440 Speaker 1: the gray when I don't even try. 241 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 2: Really. 242 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:27,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh that's interesting. 243 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 4: That's very interesting because it's almost like when the stress 244 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:34,320 Speaker 4: and anxiety is gone, that's when you can easily find 245 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:37,240 Speaker 4: the gray, like you just naturally find it when the 246 00:12:37,280 --> 00:12:38,720 Speaker 4: stress and I don't know, or. 247 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:41,880 Speaker 1: Maybe I don't, I don't know. I just know it 248 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 1: is completely when I think about every aspect of my 249 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:47,480 Speaker 1: life where I'm like I have to control this, this 250 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 1: needs to go that way, and if it doesn't, you know, 251 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 1: the wind blows the wrong way, I'm gonna be thrown 252 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:55,559 Speaker 1: right with being a mom. 253 00:12:55,880 --> 00:12:58,080 Speaker 5: It is like I'm thinking of that. 254 00:12:58,240 --> 00:12:59,120 Speaker 1: I don't find it now. 255 00:12:59,160 --> 00:13:01,480 Speaker 6: And it's the video that I showed you of the 256 00:13:01,480 --> 00:13:04,320 Speaker 6: girl who's like in the morning where it's like if 257 00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:06,480 Speaker 6: you put your clothes on, we'll do this all right. 258 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 2: You can just wear your pajamas. 259 00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:11,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's maybe the kid makes you fine with the gray. 260 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 1: That's that could be very true. There's a really funny 261 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 1: clip of this woman. She's a comedian. It's a TikTok, right, 262 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:21,320 Speaker 1: I think it's a TikTok. And this was a while ago, 263 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:24,800 Speaker 1: but of course I see everything. I think the two 264 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:28,400 Speaker 1: decades late. Yeah, we did bring it up already where 265 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:30,960 Speaker 1: she said being a parent to a toddler is like 266 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:32,679 Speaker 1: going through the five. 267 00:13:32,559 --> 00:13:33,720 Speaker 2: Stages of grief. 268 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:37,200 Speaker 1: We need to that's a single day. 269 00:13:38,640 --> 00:13:41,240 Speaker 6: If you put on your clothes, this or that, all right, 270 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:43,880 Speaker 6: Just fucking wear your pajamas, anger. 271 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:47,600 Speaker 1: Put your all right, just wear those closes to school. 272 00:13:47,640 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck. Just get in the car. 273 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:53,040 Speaker 1: Acceptance it is. 274 00:13:53,200 --> 00:13:56,679 Speaker 6: I think that's what because it's not up to you, 275 00:13:56,760 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 6: because in your life you choose black and white. 276 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:00,880 Speaker 2: It's not up to you. 277 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:04,000 Speaker 6: It's the kid putting you, and you can only make 278 00:14:04,040 --> 00:14:05,560 Speaker 6: the kid do so much, so fuck it. 279 00:14:05,640 --> 00:14:06,320 Speaker 2: We find the gray. 280 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:09,840 Speaker 1: But that's why I say that, Like when people talk 281 00:14:09,880 --> 00:14:12,640 Speaker 1: about like you have to teach them to do this, 282 00:14:12,920 --> 00:14:15,559 Speaker 1: that and the other, and I'm like, okay, I do 283 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:20,120 Speaker 1: understand that, But there are kids like my kid, who 284 00:14:20,200 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 1: is so defiant and she doesn't give a shit about 285 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 1: anything that I say. On certain days, and if she 286 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:33,000 Speaker 1: doesn't want to clean something up. Or she doesn't want 287 00:14:33,040 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 1: to sleep in her own bed truly, unless I chain 288 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 1: her to the bed, she's not staying there. So what 289 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:42,640 Speaker 1: would you like me to do? You have to do this. 290 00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I I would welcome, come, come, welcome. 291 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:50,160 Speaker 1: Try go do it, Go fucking do it. 292 00:14:50,480 --> 00:14:53,760 Speaker 4: By the way, her name is Sarah Tiana. If you 293 00:14:53,840 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 4: just go to TikTok and look at real s A 294 00:14:56,800 --> 00:14:59,000 Speaker 4: R A h t I A. 295 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:00,680 Speaker 1: N A, it's so funny. 296 00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 3: It's so she's. 297 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:03,800 Speaker 1: So funny, and it resonated with me, and I was like, 298 00:15:03,840 --> 00:15:06,880 Speaker 1: that's it. So maybe I haven't found the gray Maybe 299 00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:09,160 Speaker 1: she's just kicked my ass so hard that this is 300 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:09,720 Speaker 1: just called. 301 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:11,920 Speaker 5: Defeat and that's great. 302 00:15:12,840 --> 00:15:13,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. 303 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:16,120 Speaker 1: Like she'll ask me for a popsicle so many times 304 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:18,200 Speaker 1: and I say no to the point where I'm like, 305 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:19,360 Speaker 1: just fucking eat it. 306 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:21,960 Speaker 6: I don't care, I don't care, or it's not instead 307 00:15:21,960 --> 00:15:24,080 Speaker 6: of the popsicle, you give her a sucker, and it's saying, 308 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:25,160 Speaker 6: here's the gray area. 309 00:15:25,240 --> 00:15:27,640 Speaker 2: Didn't you know what she wanted? But we found something. 310 00:15:27,800 --> 00:15:32,240 Speaker 1: We found something that's absolutely correct. She wants a million 311 00:15:32,320 --> 00:15:37,760 Speaker 1: chocolate kisses. Here's a chocolate covered offsieberry compromise. 312 00:15:37,920 --> 00:15:39,800 Speaker 3: Compromise though, that's teaching compromise. 313 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:42,600 Speaker 1: That's so important, you guys. Today she went to school 314 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:45,920 Speaker 1: and she wanted gel in her hair, so she had 315 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:51,600 Speaker 1: the most slicked back Ballerina Bun I kissed her ever seen, 316 00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 1: and I was like, did she have gel gel on 317 00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:57,880 Speaker 1: her whole head? I know because she was trying to 318 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 1: also do it, so she had like gel marks on 319 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:02,520 Speaker 1: her forehead and I was like, I need to get 320 00:16:02,520 --> 00:16:04,080 Speaker 1: it off, and she wouldn't let me. So she has 321 00:16:04,360 --> 00:16:07,320 Speaker 1: I'm sure gel. It's just a slash. 322 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:10,800 Speaker 4: When she has the slicked hair and the freaking little 323 00:16:10,880 --> 00:16:15,720 Speaker 4: tuft or something on the top, it's the cutest things. 324 00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:19,960 Speaker 1: I love her with you, I just am so obsessed. 325 00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:22,360 Speaker 1: I just look at her and I'm like, you're just 326 00:16:23,360 --> 00:16:26,800 Speaker 1: fucking light dude, so cute, And how will I ever 327 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:29,720 Speaker 1: love anything more than you? 328 00:16:29,720 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 7: You know? 329 00:16:30,320 --> 00:16:36,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, So I would love to know if people are 330 00:16:36,160 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 1: like my second kid was kind of a buzzkilled. 331 00:16:39,200 --> 00:16:42,520 Speaker 4: Many things that so many amazing things people row and 332 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:47,800 Speaker 4: this is where our friends, I think, thrive because just amazing, 333 00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:48,480 Speaker 4: amazing things. 334 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:50,440 Speaker 1: Okay, are you ready? I'm ready. 335 00:16:51,480 --> 00:16:56,320 Speaker 4: So the first thing Rachel said, baby will be so 336 00:16:56,480 --> 00:16:59,480 Speaker 4: easy compared to oh, crying laughing faces. 337 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:02,280 Speaker 1: But why I would. 338 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:07,240 Speaker 3: Assume at least newborn baby. I would assume she means ocean. 339 00:17:07,359 --> 00:17:09,000 Speaker 1: Now I don't know. 340 00:17:09,160 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 6: Okay, I feel she's in the realm of all of it, 341 00:17:11,720 --> 00:17:15,240 Speaker 6: because you've done it. You know, like when she if 342 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:18,080 Speaker 6: new baby starts burping or something like that, and you're 343 00:17:18,280 --> 00:17:23,119 Speaker 6: when it was ocean, there were so many Now you 344 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:25,480 Speaker 6: kind of know, Okay, let's try flipping her and just 345 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:28,440 Speaker 6: patting her. Let's do this, let's do that. You kind 346 00:17:28,480 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 6: of know so you don't get as flustered. 347 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:33,320 Speaker 3: I'd feel that's a great point. That's probably what they mean. 348 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:36,440 Speaker 1: I feel like I forgot. I've forgotten everything. 349 00:17:36,520 --> 00:17:39,359 Speaker 5: I think that until she's in your arms, you'll remember 350 00:17:39,400 --> 00:17:39,600 Speaker 5: it all. 351 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:40,560 Speaker 2: It's like riding a bike. 352 00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:41,719 Speaker 5: Pick the bike back up? 353 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:45,800 Speaker 3: How to ride a b got on one right now, 354 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:47,680 Speaker 3: But we should do that in Hawaiian. 355 00:17:49,840 --> 00:17:52,600 Speaker 1: Ride bike ride would be fun. Hold on, I do 356 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:54,800 Speaker 1: have a follow up to what she said, though, Yes, 357 00:17:55,960 --> 00:18:02,600 Speaker 1: at my doctor's appointment, he said, what did ocean come 358 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:06,040 Speaker 1: out as? And like, how many pounds announces? And I 359 00:18:06,080 --> 00:18:11,160 Speaker 1: said she she arrived at five tens five pounds ten ounces, 360 00:18:11,520 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 1: And he said, well, that's what this kid is at 361 00:18:14,640 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 1: right now, so you'll probably babys will probably be like 362 00:18:19,119 --> 00:18:22,960 Speaker 1: a seven pound baby. I also the way that she's 363 00:18:23,119 --> 00:18:30,280 Speaker 1: moving in my stomach, she feels lanky. Okay, she got limbs. 364 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:31,399 Speaker 5: Okay, come out like. 365 00:18:34,359 --> 00:18:41,320 Speaker 4: Sweet and it's so cute, just shoved up into Lalla's lungs. 366 00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:45,040 Speaker 1: I go, oh, this makes well. I've been wondering what 367 00:18:45,080 --> 00:18:49,159 Speaker 1: it is that keeps going back and forth. Yeah, and 368 00:18:49,240 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 1: it's her foot. She's got her heel there and she's 369 00:18:51,320 --> 00:18:53,720 Speaker 1: just like, no, this is a runner. She's a runner. 370 00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:56,800 Speaker 3: She's a track star for sure inside of their Yeah. 371 00:18:56,880 --> 00:19:00,359 Speaker 1: So that is also going to be very different because Easton, 372 00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:03,320 Speaker 1: don't get freaked out by this. I know it's weird, 373 00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:08,679 Speaker 1: but I have pictures of me nursing ocean and my 374 00:19:09,440 --> 00:19:14,480 Speaker 1: boob is like triple the size of her head because 375 00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:18,120 Speaker 1: she's so so tiny, Like her hand, her head fit 376 00:19:18,240 --> 00:19:20,880 Speaker 1: in my hand and I just have like a watermelon. 377 00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:22,639 Speaker 2: It was like you were just putting a p on 378 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:23,440 Speaker 2: her head. 379 00:19:23,640 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, her head was like the size of Lawless area. 380 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:31,080 Speaker 1: So it will also be different because when this baby comes, 381 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:35,240 Speaker 1: it's like, oh, all right, we got some solidness. Happened 382 00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:38,280 Speaker 1: like Ocean's like a bird. You pick up summer Moon 383 00:19:38,480 --> 00:19:41,200 Speaker 1: and pick up Ocean. There they look the same size, 384 00:19:41,200 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 1: same height. Ocean has hollow she's dense. Yeah, but so 385 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:50,080 Speaker 1: are the rest of the kids. Ocean has like hollow 386 00:19:50,119 --> 00:19:55,680 Speaker 1: bird books. Yes, so it's gonna be different with this kid, 387 00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:58,040 Speaker 1: because I think she's also gonna hat like she's gonna 388 00:19:58,040 --> 00:20:05,960 Speaker 1: be like dance. This is just come out jitsu talk. 389 00:20:06,040 --> 00:20:07,080 Speaker 1: You're like, mom, what's up? 390 00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:13,040 Speaker 2: Like my girl? 391 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:20,560 Speaker 1: Oh like mother like daughter, you know, Mama loves I do. Okay, okay, 392 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:23,480 Speaker 1: this is so this might make you emotional. 393 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:27,280 Speaker 4: But this person said, oh, well, look like an entirely 394 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:30,840 Speaker 4: different kid. After you lay eyes on baby s, they 395 00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:31,879 Speaker 4: grow instantly. 396 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:36,440 Speaker 1: Oh like when I see I know because someone said 397 00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:38,360 Speaker 1: this to me. They were like, you you'll look at 398 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:43,399 Speaker 1: Ocean like she's a grown up, self sufficient because I'm like, 399 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:47,960 Speaker 1: she's my forever baby, right, And they're like no, it's 400 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:51,080 Speaker 1: so weird that it changes where you're like, oh, you're 401 00:20:51,119 --> 00:20:55,640 Speaker 1: not mommy's like baby anymore. Like I'm looking at you 402 00:20:56,600 --> 00:20:58,960 Speaker 1: like a big kid, like you're my little partner in crime. 403 00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:02,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, she's trotting around going off to school, backpack. 404 00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:06,400 Speaker 1: She's so cute. I can't even sad, but you know what, 405 00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:09,480 Speaker 1: and I do think I'll look at her differently because 406 00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:11,439 Speaker 1: I'm going to see her in a position of like 407 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:17,320 Speaker 1: big sister Bottle. I would never speak that way. 408 00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:20,240 Speaker 2: I will I'll be freaking out. 409 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:25,919 Speaker 1: But Ocean just we've spoken about it, and you know, 410 00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:28,560 Speaker 1: someone brought this up. They said, Actually it was Amber, 411 00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:34,160 Speaker 1: who also shares kids with that person. She said, I 412 00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:37,280 Speaker 1: think what you and Ocean have, or what you have 413 00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:39,800 Speaker 1: with Ocean because Ocean was too young to remember, but 414 00:21:39,920 --> 00:21:42,800 Speaker 1: you have a trauma bond with her. And I was like, 415 00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:45,800 Speaker 1: that's so interesting. Maybe that is why I look at 416 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:49,800 Speaker 1: her a certain way because it's a trauma bond, which 417 00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:54,800 Speaker 1: I don't know much about those bonds, like meaning children. 418 00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:58,960 Speaker 1: I've had trauma bonds with friends, but not my baby. 419 00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:03,560 Speaker 1: So I think I will look at Ocean differently because 420 00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:05,520 Speaker 1: she's gonna be in a completely different role. 421 00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:12,560 Speaker 4: It's a completely different experience, which is what this person wrote, 422 00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:17,760 Speaker 4: that everything will be completely different than your first experience. 423 00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:20,920 Speaker 1: Well, and that's also true just the way that we're 424 00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 1: doing it, and like we did a run through me 425 00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:28,480 Speaker 1: Jess and my mom m yesterday just in case there's 426 00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:31,520 Speaker 1: an emergency that happens and we have to get to 427 00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:34,760 Speaker 1: because yes, I was in labor and delivery at the 428 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:37,959 Speaker 1: same exact hospital that I gave birth to Ocean, but 429 00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:40,760 Speaker 1: I was induced, so we kind of had the luxury 430 00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:43,320 Speaker 1: of like taking our sweet time, like going where we 431 00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:45,879 Speaker 1: were going. I need everyone to be on their game. 432 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:49,679 Speaker 1: God forbid the water breaks, and I am the biggest 433 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:53,520 Speaker 1: balls of life, Like I can take no pain. Pussy 434 00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 1: takes pain. I wish I were a pussy, all right. 435 00:22:57,119 --> 00:23:02,639 Speaker 1: I'm a set of freaking nuts sack so freaking soft. 436 00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:07,440 Speaker 6: I'm like, oh pain, no. 437 00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:09,959 Speaker 1: Why So we did the run through and I'm like, 438 00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:14,040 Speaker 1: this is gonna be so fun. Just chicks in the 439 00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:19,240 Speaker 1: house and just like bros and their friends, like, look 440 00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:23,320 Speaker 1: at this little it's gonna be like Simba, I know, baby, 441 00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:26,520 Speaker 1: I know. If I just gave the name away, I 442 00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 1: just had the whole time. 443 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:30,120 Speaker 3: That's kind of sick ass name. 444 00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:34,960 Speaker 1: It's actually going on the list, baby, Simba. 445 00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:37,959 Speaker 4: You know what's wild that we're talking I just I 446 00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:40,560 Speaker 4: love this because we're talking about all this now. 447 00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:42,879 Speaker 3: But you've already had the baby at this point. 448 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:44,480 Speaker 1: I know, Oh my god. 449 00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:46,600 Speaker 3: So we don't know, we don't know if like you 450 00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:47,520 Speaker 3: had it on the day. 451 00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:49,320 Speaker 4: We don't know if it was like your water broke 452 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:51,359 Speaker 4: or we just sauntered on in there and said, okay, 453 00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:51,840 Speaker 4: it's time. 454 00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:53,479 Speaker 1: We have no idea. 455 00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:57,000 Speaker 4: But the good news about this is when we talked 456 00:23:57,000 --> 00:24:00,280 Speaker 4: about like this, Yeah, when we pre recorded and I 457 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:02,800 Speaker 4: said about my jiu jitsu tournament, I was like, I 458 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:05,439 Speaker 4: just hope that, and I said all the things that 459 00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:07,000 Speaker 4: I hoped and it went. 460 00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:08,480 Speaker 1: That way, and then you kicked ass. 461 00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:10,119 Speaker 3: So what do you say? What do you hope? 462 00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:17,400 Speaker 1: What I hope is that I hope for to be induced. Okay, 463 00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 1: I hope to walk in, have the epidural, all the things, 464 00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:25,560 Speaker 1: and have it just be me not experiencing any pain. 465 00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:27,600 Speaker 4: And it would be September first, and we can say 466 00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:29,800 Speaker 4: it now because it's September fourth, right. 467 00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I would like a September baby. I would like 468 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:36,919 Speaker 1: a Virgo baby. I just feel like we would be 469 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:37,560 Speaker 1: good together. 470 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:40,240 Speaker 3: So after August twenty second, Yeah. 471 00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:42,880 Speaker 1: I'm good with I'm good with Leo. Men. I'm good 472 00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:45,840 Speaker 1: with you though, and you're a Leo, but your daughter 473 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:49,240 Speaker 1: are different, then I might want to kill you, yes. 474 00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:55,639 Speaker 4: Very strong like yeah, because as a daughter, we're like 475 00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:57,680 Speaker 4: we're set in the rules. There's not really much you 476 00:24:57,760 --> 00:24:58,960 Speaker 4: can do or say, oh. 477 00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:01,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm fucking you shit up. Yeah, that falls in 478 00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:04,080 Speaker 1: line one hundred percent. 479 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:07,560 Speaker 4: But I had a Leo mom and a whatever December 480 00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:10,159 Speaker 4: twenty second as dad, so I was able to do 481 00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:12,200 Speaker 4: that as a LEO, like I could set the rules. 482 00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:14,200 Speaker 3: And they tried, but I was like, no, this is how. 483 00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:16,879 Speaker 1: Here's what I don't want in motherhood. I want to 484 00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:20,480 Speaker 1: be Lauren from Utah. Okay, but these two little girls 485 00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:22,560 Speaker 1: that are coming into the mix, we got Ocean and baby. 486 00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:26,000 Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. I will become Lalla from 487 00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:29,800 Speaker 1: Banner Pump Rules real quick on your ass. If you, oh, don't. 488 00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:33,520 Speaker 5: Fall in line these children, Oh it's gonna be. 489 00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:36,840 Speaker 4: It's gonna be so fun as the years go on, 490 00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:39,440 Speaker 4: and I'll be there taking content all the way. 491 00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:44,040 Speaker 2: I'll be up. If they're menaces to society, no, they're. 492 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:45,680 Speaker 1: Gonna be great. They're gonna be great. 493 00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:48,919 Speaker 4: This person said, it's as humbling as the first, but 494 00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:50,960 Speaker 4: with an edge of calm and confidence. 495 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:53,920 Speaker 1: That's great. Okay, that's excellent. I will take that and 496 00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:54,639 Speaker 1: manifest that. 497 00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:58,879 Speaker 4: This person said they are feral. I love my second 498 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:02,440 Speaker 4: so much, but she is no limit soldier of chaos. 499 00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:04,520 Speaker 4: She is a no limit soldier of. 500 00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:07,000 Speaker 5: Chaos at least child. 501 00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:11,119 Speaker 1: Literally soldier of chaos? Is it just mirror? All these s? 502 00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:17,040 Speaker 1: Is starting to sound good? Soldier soldiers? Nice to All 503 00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:20,280 Speaker 1: the names that I've been wanting have started with an S. 504 00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:21,960 Speaker 1: So when people ask me, do you have a name, 505 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:23,880 Speaker 1: and I'm like, well, if they follow me at all, 506 00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:27,119 Speaker 1: they're gonna know when if I say no. But I 507 00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:29,480 Speaker 1: don't lie because I'm like, all the names start with 508 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:31,119 Speaker 1: an S. So I'm really lucky. I'm just gonna look 509 00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:33,840 Speaker 1: at her and that's what I'll name her. Yeah, because 510 00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:40,840 Speaker 1: Sunset Sunshine now simba soldier. I literally just almost said 511 00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:41,200 Speaker 1: the name. 512 00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:44,400 Speaker 4: No, I was gonna say blank, and I was like. 513 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:45,919 Speaker 1: What A don't do that? 514 00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:48,240 Speaker 3: Do you think you'll have announced the name by now? 515 00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:54,440 Speaker 1: We'll see? I really no, it's it's Today's Beyonce's birthday, 516 00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:58,320 Speaker 1: September fourth. She's gonna it's her day. I need to 517 00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:02,399 Speaker 1: make sure that it's. Yeah. No, we can't announce. 518 00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:03,640 Speaker 5: Today that she gets her day. 519 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:07,359 Speaker 1: You just can't. I mean, no one's gonna give a 520 00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:09,240 Speaker 1: ship it's Beyonce's birthday. 521 00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:11,560 Speaker 3: But it might be three days later. 522 00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:14,040 Speaker 1: It could be, but it's still September fourth. 523 00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:17,480 Speaker 6: You're gonna you'll post wait on her birthday so Babyes 524 00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:18,240 Speaker 6: gets her moment. 525 00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:24,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, baby, it'll be over shadow, shadowy shadow Damn. I 526 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:26,879 Speaker 1: do like that one too, kind of like shadow is 527 00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:32,720 Speaker 1: just mirrors. Veto starting quote, I don't know that's from 528 00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:33,320 Speaker 1: That's funny. 529 00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:36,359 Speaker 6: No, what we'll say names And if you don't like 530 00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:38,639 Speaker 6: him Veto, they say names Veto. 531 00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:42,760 Speaker 2: If anybody the name Veto, mir is. 532 00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:47,440 Speaker 1: Veto sounding really great. I like the name Veto, very Italian. 533 00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:48,320 Speaker 3: I like that a lot. 534 00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:54,679 Speaker 4: Okay, you going they will be different in personalities and 535 00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:55,800 Speaker 4: that is okay. 536 00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:58,800 Speaker 3: Oh that's a good one because they most likely will be. 537 00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:03,120 Speaker 1: They most likely will be. Okay, So can I tell 538 00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:11,160 Speaker 1: you me? Me and my best friend since birth. She's 539 00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:14,920 Speaker 1: a Pisces, I'm a Virgo. Granted, those are just our 540 00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:19,919 Speaker 1: sun signs, and as everyone knows, your rising sign also 541 00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:25,680 Speaker 1: plays a huge role in your personality. Ocean's double Pisces. 542 00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:30,880 Speaker 1: But if we're just focusing on the sun sign, myself 543 00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:37,359 Speaker 1: and my friend, my bff, my soulmate, we are such 544 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:40,760 Speaker 1: a good balance with each other, like the perfect balance. 545 00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:44,280 Speaker 1: And I think That's why I'm so dead set on 546 00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:49,160 Speaker 1: babys being a virgo, because I love the dynamic between 547 00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:54,880 Speaker 1: two females one Pisces, one virgo. Yeah, I love that. 548 00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:58,400 Speaker 1: This person said, can I say one more thing? Please do? 549 00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:03,240 Speaker 1: Ocean is very like she's here for a good time. 550 00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:05,800 Speaker 1: I'm here for a good time. I want to enjoy myself. 551 00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:08,000 Speaker 1: I want to do arts and crafts. You show me 552 00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:10,400 Speaker 1: a caterpillar that I'm supposed to draw. Fuck that, I'm 553 00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:13,200 Speaker 1: doing whatever I want with this green paint and quarkscrew, 554 00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:18,720 Speaker 1: not cork screw, but the white cork just haven't had school. 555 00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:26,160 Speaker 1: I was like, doesn't look, this is a deconstructive whoever 556 00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:31,560 Speaker 1: it is. Baby s is giving me money making moves 557 00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:34,760 Speaker 1: in that she's a goer, a wheeler, a dealer. You 558 00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:37,320 Speaker 1: can just tell, you know, she's all over the place. Yeah, 559 00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:42,240 Speaker 1: And I just feel like she's got that type of mentality. 560 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:45,000 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna have one kid who's like I want 561 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,400 Speaker 1: to just live in a box and do like artistic 562 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:49,400 Speaker 1: dancing and paint, and then I'm gonna have another one 563 00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:53,000 Speaker 1: who's like, Ocean, you need to get a job and 564 00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:56,800 Speaker 1: pay these bills. Like I just see that happening. 565 00:29:56,880 --> 00:30:00,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, I see I see ocean. I see that one 566 00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:02,960 Speaker 4: hundred percent. I see ocean being like the creative a 567 00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:06,120 Speaker 4: little more wild, and I see baby s being like 568 00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:10,240 Speaker 4: well behaved rule follower, almost to the point where you're like, honey, 569 00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:13,280 Speaker 4: you can mess up. Sometimes you can be a little like, yeah, 570 00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:14,800 Speaker 4: hang out, be a little wild. 571 00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:17,560 Speaker 1: Ocean's gonna be like, it doesn't matter if I'm broke, mom. 572 00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:19,160 Speaker 1: I'm passionate about it. 573 00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:21,040 Speaker 2: And I love that about it. 574 00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:23,520 Speaker 1: I know I love that. And babys is going to 575 00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:27,320 Speaker 1: be the one that says passion doesn't pay bills. Ocean, Yeah, 576 00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:30,120 Speaker 1: it's just I picture it right now. I think you're right, 577 00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:32,320 Speaker 1: and ocean is gonna be kind of short. Ocean is 578 00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:40,400 Speaker 1: my body. I love that growing No, I'm telling you. 579 00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:42,680 Speaker 4: I look at ocean and then I see my baby 580 00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:44,720 Speaker 4: pictures and I'm like, that is me. 581 00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:48,560 Speaker 1: It makes me thrill. I love that a little dense. 582 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:53,360 Speaker 1: I'm so in love. 583 00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:56,120 Speaker 4: I know, Okay, this is this is a very interesting 584 00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:59,480 Speaker 4: and good one. The possibility, oh may regress and start 585 00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:01,920 Speaker 4: acting like a baby are acting out for attention. 586 00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:08,000 Speaker 1: Already happened, already happening, yep, but not for attention. She's 587 00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:13,160 Speaker 1: not doing it for attention. She tells me how the 588 00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:16,560 Speaker 1: baby's gonna talk, and how she's gonna talk to the baby, 589 00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:21,920 Speaker 1: and she walks around and goes, mama, mama, mama, mama. 590 00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:24,880 Speaker 1: And I'm like, okay, but you're a big kid, remember, 591 00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:27,520 Speaker 1: like you're a big kid. That's how baby Ice is 592 00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:29,880 Speaker 1: going to talk at first. But we talked to baby 593 00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:34,440 Speaker 1: because I've always spoken to ocean. Obviously I used cue 594 00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:37,000 Speaker 1: talk at the beginning, but like as she got older 595 00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:41,360 Speaker 1: and was alert, I spoke to her like a normal person, 596 00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:46,920 Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, And I think that that could be 597 00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:50,400 Speaker 1: a big reason why she will and having older siblings, 598 00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:53,680 Speaker 1: because I've learned that having older siblings, they tend to 599 00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:58,240 Speaker 1: grasp vocabulary and they just talk a little bit quicker 600 00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:01,920 Speaker 1: and a little bit better than most. It's their age. 601 00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:06,800 Speaker 1: Not saying that most kids their age are dumbasses, they 602 00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:10,640 Speaker 1: just don't have the older siblings right, right, But I 603 00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:16,240 Speaker 1: feel like that's why she's she spoke. She speaks the 604 00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:18,760 Speaker 1: way she does, you know, like she tells my mom, 605 00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:20,400 Speaker 1: you look phenomenal today. 606 00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:23,800 Speaker 4: No, she has the best vocabulary and she says the 607 00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:28,040 Speaker 4: words correctly. Yes she does, yeah, And the context and 608 00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:29,520 Speaker 4: the timing for her comedy. 609 00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:32,040 Speaker 1: Come on, and when I give her ice cream, she goes, 610 00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:36,560 Speaker 1: this is so delicious. She's so cute. 611 00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:41,960 Speaker 3: I cannot no, she's so cute. This person said, oh, 612 00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:46,360 Speaker 3: feeling like feeling like a shit mom because you can't 613 00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:47,920 Speaker 3: spend as much time with Oh. 614 00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:52,520 Speaker 1: I'm struggling with this. I'm very appreciative that someone would 615 00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:56,680 Speaker 1: open up about that, because that is mom guilt. I 616 00:32:56,680 --> 00:33:01,000 Speaker 1: feel it. It's finest. We struggle with it all the time, 617 00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:05,920 Speaker 1: no matter what, whether we have to go and work 618 00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:08,920 Speaker 1: or there's something that takes time away from our I 619 00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:11,880 Speaker 1: mean I feel that way when i have to go 620 00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:14,400 Speaker 1: do something on a day where I'm like, why couldn't 621 00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:17,040 Speaker 1: this take place on a day that ocean is at 622 00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:17,800 Speaker 1: the other house? 623 00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:18,960 Speaker 5: You know. 624 00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:23,560 Speaker 1: So now new baby comes into the mix, and not 625 00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:27,360 Speaker 1: only do I not have oh full time, I've heard 626 00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:30,520 Speaker 1: the majority of the time, but still, you know, I'm 627 00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:32,680 Speaker 1: the type of person where I'm like not enough. I'm 628 00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:35,600 Speaker 1: an all or nothing kind of gal. Yeah, that's why 629 00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:38,520 Speaker 1: I got a donor. I want all or nothing, just 630 00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:41,280 Speaker 1: kidding all with my kid, I'll take the middle, but 631 00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:43,360 Speaker 1: I think that'll be a struggle for me too. 632 00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:46,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, this person the next one underneath, which I'll read 633 00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:49,400 Speaker 4: also because it kind of goes hand in hand. Involve 634 00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:52,520 Speaker 4: Ocean and make sure she still gets her quality time too, 635 00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:57,800 Speaker 4: maybe like which you guys know, I'm not a mom, 636 00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:01,560 Speaker 4: but like having them make decisions for the baby, like 637 00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:03,760 Speaker 4: what the baby's gonna wear today or something. 638 00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:07,200 Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel and I'm glad that this 639 00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:11,280 Speaker 1: person wrote in just to remind me. But with Ocean 640 00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:14,600 Speaker 1: taking on this role of big sis, I have been 641 00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:18,840 Speaker 1: drilling it in her that this is also your baby, 642 00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:23,839 Speaker 1: like this isn't this isn't just mama's Like this is 643 00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:28,120 Speaker 1: your baby's sister, and you're gonna teach her things and 644 00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:31,439 Speaker 1: you're gonna dress her, and I think I think we're 645 00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:34,480 Speaker 1: gonna have a lot of quality time just me and 646 00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:37,480 Speaker 1: oh and also the three of us, like I'll make 647 00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:39,280 Speaker 1: sure of it. Yeah. 648 00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:44,200 Speaker 4: Actually, losing all your sleep and body bounce back is harder, 649 00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:45,920 Speaker 4: but it's easier in some ways. 650 00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:48,359 Speaker 3: How do you feel about that? 651 00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:50,240 Speaker 4: Are you stressing it? Do you stress about the body 652 00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:51,960 Speaker 4: at all? It's just like it's about to do an 653 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:56,399 Speaker 4: incredible miracle. Let it be what it is for now. 654 00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:59,959 Speaker 1: The sleep thing I think about all the time. But honest, 655 00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:03,120 Speaker 1: right now, I get no sleep, so it's not going 656 00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:07,280 Speaker 1: to be much of a transition as far as like sleepy. 657 00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:09,040 Speaker 1: At least I'll have something to do while I'm awake. 658 00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:11,040 Speaker 1: Right now, I'm like, well, I guess i'll watch Young 659 00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:18,200 Speaker 1: Sheldon at three am. Right. But the body thing, I 660 00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:25,520 Speaker 1: think maybe because I've never I've never struggled with my weight. 661 00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:29,000 Speaker 1: Of course, I've looked at myself and thought, ooh girl, 662 00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:31,360 Speaker 1: we could like definitely do some squats. 663 00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:33,320 Speaker 5: We could definitely get. 664 00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:37,600 Speaker 1: That thing a little. And I've looked at my tummy 665 00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:40,080 Speaker 1: at times where I'm like, okay, we could like definitely 666 00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:43,080 Speaker 1: use some crunches, like that might be something to benefit 667 00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:46,160 Speaker 1: the bod. But I've never looked at my body and 668 00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:50,000 Speaker 1: gone like, I'm struggling. I want to lose X amount 669 00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:53,919 Speaker 1: of pounds. I need to go on a diet. So no, 670 00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:58,680 Speaker 1: I've had the luxury of mentally not ever going there. 671 00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:02,279 Speaker 1: Not because I mean, there's plenty of people who are thin, 672 00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:04,680 Speaker 1: who are banging, who are tough on themselves, and they 673 00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:08,120 Speaker 1: think that if I lose ten pounds, I'll be happy 674 00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:12,560 Speaker 1: with my body. I don't really think that way. I'm 675 00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:17,000 Speaker 1: not worried about losing the baby weight. If it is 676 00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:20,319 Speaker 1: different than it was with baby, oh, then it is 677 00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:23,880 Speaker 1: what it is. But I think that also comes with 678 00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:27,000 Speaker 1: the fact that, like, I don't like men that much. 679 00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:29,719 Speaker 1: Like who the fuck am I trying to impress? But 680 00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:33,760 Speaker 1: I just mean the men. I just kid. I actually 681 00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:37,120 Speaker 1: can I tell you I love men, just not as 682 00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:41,360 Speaker 1: the father of my children. Ah but I no, no. 683 00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:42,160 Speaker 2: No, no never. 684 00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:43,560 Speaker 3: But you loved your dad. 685 00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:45,880 Speaker 1: I love but they don't make them like that anymore. 686 00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:48,279 Speaker 1: We're in a different day and age. I love men, like, 687 00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:51,239 Speaker 1: come one, come all, I want you surrounding me. You're 688 00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:54,400 Speaker 1: sexy or beautiful. Let's like have commitment ceremonies and have 689 00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:56,600 Speaker 1: it just be you and me forever. I don't want 690 00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:58,839 Speaker 1: to have your babies. All good, not a big deal. 691 00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:01,640 Speaker 1: I do love men, but I think because I'm doing 692 00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:03,520 Speaker 1: this on my own and I don't really feel like 693 00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:07,400 Speaker 1: I have anyone to impress, and I just want to 694 00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:10,160 Speaker 1: create my family unit and make a shit ton of 695 00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:14,120 Speaker 1: money and build an empire and have a beautiful family structure. 696 00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:17,520 Speaker 1: I don't think about the body, like I'll get the 697 00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:18,160 Speaker 1: body in check. 698 00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:18,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. 699 00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:19,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. 700 00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:22,000 Speaker 4: And it's also like I know it's like everyone says it, 701 00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:23,920 Speaker 4: but it just performed a miracle. 702 00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:25,920 Speaker 3: Give yourself a break. And I'm not even saying. 703 00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:28,040 Speaker 4: To you, just like people are like body bounce back, 704 00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:30,239 Speaker 4: because some women do. They'll go on socials and be 705 00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:34,000 Speaker 4: like three weeks postpartum and they're like, you know, tiny 706 00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:37,040 Speaker 4: or whatever, and it's like everyone's body's different just because. 707 00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:40,400 Speaker 1: Everyone's Yes, everyone's body is completely different. And yeah, sometimes 708 00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:42,960 Speaker 1: I see trolls on the Internet and I'm like, listen here, motherfucker, 709 00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:45,120 Speaker 1: I just created an immune system today. What the fuck 710 00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:47,160 Speaker 1: did you do? I just created a fucking brain. 711 00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:52,600 Speaker 4: You fucking a heart as a heart chamber, a heart chamber, lungs, 712 00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:53,400 Speaker 4: you bitch. 713 00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:57,440 Speaker 1: Like I'm doing alright, if my ass could use a 714 00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:00,799 Speaker 1: few squats, I'm gonna take the win for today of 715 00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:06,720 Speaker 1: like creating a finger. Yeah, let alone ten let alone 716 00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:10,680 Speaker 1: ten bit No, but I do. I do want women 717 00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:13,080 Speaker 1: to start focusing on the fact that their body just 718 00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:14,480 Speaker 1: did X, Y and. 719 00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:17,360 Speaker 4: Z, right, And I'm sure easier said than done, but 720 00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:18,000 Speaker 4: yeah it is. 721 00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:21,040 Speaker 1: But if you tell yourself that enough, you start to 722 00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:23,359 Speaker 1: believe it. Yeah, fake it till you make it, Take 723 00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:25,440 Speaker 1: it till you make it. You know, yeah, day at 724 00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:28,560 Speaker 1: a time, one day at a time, day at a time. Iow, 725 00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:30,960 Speaker 1: do you want me to read? It applies in every day? 726 00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:37,560 Speaker 3: It does, yes, last but not least. Things that worked 727 00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:41,359 Speaker 3: for baby number one won't necessarily work for baby number two. 728 00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:44,080 Speaker 1: But you're more experienced. That's a good point. The vert 729 00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:47,959 Speaker 1: that freaks my Virgo out because Virgo likes the same. 730 00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:50,799 Speaker 4: You'll be like, why isn't this working, and it just yeah, 731 00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:53,759 Speaker 4: But that's the other thing of like that may not work, 732 00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:54,480 Speaker 4: but you'll do. 733 00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:56,000 Speaker 2: You'll figure out what will work. 734 00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:59,680 Speaker 6: And you've probably done something to ocean that will work 735 00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:03,120 Speaker 6: for baby I work for But you do know what 736 00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:03,719 Speaker 6: you have to do. 737 00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:05,359 Speaker 2: It just can be a different but you. 738 00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:08,120 Speaker 1: Know, and I've been saving a lot of Instagram reels. 739 00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:10,720 Speaker 3: Have you about like what to do and what works 740 00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:11,240 Speaker 3: and stuff. 741 00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:15,240 Speaker 1: Yep, all the different cries that like you learn because 742 00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:17,400 Speaker 1: you're their mom and you know the different cries. But 743 00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:20,400 Speaker 1: just when you're pregnant, you're like, I'm saving this just 744 00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:21,000 Speaker 1: in case. 745 00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:26,319 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I'm very excited by now. Congrats on the 746 00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:28,080 Speaker 4: new baby and the bigger family. 747 00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:35,759 Speaker 1: I know have two kids, wild mom of two, mom 748 00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:36,320 Speaker 1: of two. 749 00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:40,879 Speaker 3: Wild, Damn, I remember Kim Kardashian posting mom of four 750 00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:44,000 Speaker 3: or whatever, and I was like, oh, Mama, anything is 751 00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:44,520 Speaker 3: so hot. 752 00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:47,080 Speaker 4: When you're post a hot photo and it's like mom 753 00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:49,640 Speaker 4: of whatever, it's like, h amazing hot. 754 00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:49,919 Speaker 5: Yeah. 755 00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:52,640 Speaker 1: Pussy dripping, Yeah, pussy dripping. 756 00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:53,640 Speaker 3: To wrap up this. 757 00:39:53,840 --> 00:40:05,880 Speaker 1: Episode, I think we might be overdoing it. We're getting 758 00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:11,719 Speaker 1: too excited. Sorry, all right, it can release, it can relieve. Okay. 759 00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:15,719 Speaker 4: It's September fourth for me, which means this weekend is 760 00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:19,320 Speaker 4: I will be in San Diego for an all women's 761 00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:21,879 Speaker 4: jiu jitsu weekend called Femvasion. 762 00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:24,840 Speaker 3: I'm very excited, very excited. 763 00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:25,600 Speaker 1: It's going to be fun. 764 00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:29,319 Speaker 4: It's with Donna Gonzales and she's a tenth Planet jiu 765 00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:32,080 Speaker 4: Jitsu black belt and so she's gonna kill it, which 766 00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:34,520 Speaker 4: also is exciting because she'll be on the podcast in 767 00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:37,200 Speaker 4: a couple of weeks when Conna and I have our guests. 768 00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:40,760 Speaker 4: I can't wait, and so we'll talk about that. Number 769 00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:42,680 Speaker 4: two is I guess my. 770 00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:45,879 Speaker 3: Ache would be. I haven't decided yet at this point, 771 00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:46,480 Speaker 3: so we'll see. 772 00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:50,799 Speaker 4: But there's a competition the Sunday of this weekend that 773 00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:52,520 Speaker 4: I really want to do. But then I would have 774 00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:55,960 Speaker 4: to miss one of the Fembasian days. So we'll see you, guys. 775 00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:57,720 Speaker 4: It's just a jiu jitsu. 776 00:40:57,440 --> 00:41:00,879 Speaker 1: Time for you and your cauliflower ear. 777 00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:02,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, I hope. 778 00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:04,400 Speaker 1: It's gone by the time September fourth. 779 00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:07,319 Speaker 3: Actually, it must be, it must it must t. 780 00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:08,880 Speaker 1: T what's going on with you. 781 00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:14,799 Speaker 6: My relief of the week is happy birthday. 782 00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:17,680 Speaker 1: Like my real birthday. Yes, so we did the birthday 783 00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:18,880 Speaker 1: episode which came out Monday. 784 00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:21,040 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, we did that also. But it's been a 785 00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:21,720 Speaker 5: great birthdays. 786 00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:24,080 Speaker 1: I've had two birthdays. I've had my own, and I've 787 00:41:24,120 --> 00:41:26,040 Speaker 1: had and I've given something you've given. 788 00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:29,160 Speaker 5: So that is the that's my relief. Love it and 789 00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:30,080 Speaker 5: there's no ache. 790 00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:32,839 Speaker 1: How could there be, right, not a happy day? 791 00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:33,879 Speaker 2: Right? 792 00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:35,839 Speaker 5: Well, we'll see when we Yeah, we'll see how much 793 00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:37,160 Speaker 5: bullshit I. 794 00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:41,719 Speaker 1: May have by the time that's there. My relief, my 795 00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:46,040 Speaker 1: ache is that I can no longer use I'm pregnant 796 00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:50,719 Speaker 1: as an excuse to not do ship. You could say 797 00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:52,359 Speaker 1: that for two months, you could say. 798 00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:53,880 Speaker 5: I just I just know that's going to be. 799 00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:56,239 Speaker 2: I was just about to say something. 800 00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:59,600 Speaker 5: Yeah. 801 00:41:59,840 --> 00:42:03,400 Speaker 1: The relief is the fact that I am a mama 802 00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:06,520 Speaker 1: of two and I've been wanting this and wishing this, 803 00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:09,280 Speaker 1: and I made my life happen on my own terms, 804 00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:11,160 Speaker 1: and that, to me is a beautiful thing. So I'm 805 00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:14,440 Speaker 1: feeling very proud. We love you. 806 00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:17,600 Speaker 3: The family grows, which means the End of the World 807 00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:19,560 Speaker 3: crew has gotten bigger. I will be buying us a 808 00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:20,320 Speaker 3: bunker soon. 809 00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:22,480 Speaker 1: Oh, I love that. Will you buy us a cyber 810 00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:23,120 Speaker 1: truck as well? 811 00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:25,560 Speaker 5: Yeah? 812 00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:28,719 Speaker 1: You, guys, I love you so so much. Thank you 813 00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:31,880 Speaker 1: for listening to this episode of the Give Them Lalla podcast, 814 00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:34,080 Speaker 1: and I will catch you guys next week.