1 00:00:01,200 --> 00:00:04,160 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, works, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:12,120 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEHARVIFM dot com click 4 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:15,360 Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live 5 00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:17,080 Speaker 1: on the air, just like we're going to read this 6 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 1: one right here, right now. You never know. It could 7 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 1: be yours. 8 00:00:21,880 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle loven, hold on tight. We 9 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 2: got it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter. 10 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 1: Thank you. Nephew's subject I know my man's hands. Here's 11 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I'm a thirty six year old married woman 12 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 1: and my husband is thirty eight. I'm pregnant with my 13 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:39,960 Speaker 1: second child, and I'm too far along to travel, so 14 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 1: my husband went to his baby sister's wedding without me. 15 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:46,400 Speaker 1: He's from Detroit and his ex wife and twelve year 16 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:49,520 Speaker 1: old son live there. When we first met, he would 17 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 1: go to Detroit to visit with his son, and he 18 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:54,720 Speaker 1: would stay at his old home where his ex wife 19 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 1: still lives. He tried to rationalize it by saying he 20 00:00:57,880 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 1: still pays for the house, so he's not going to 21 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:03,200 Speaker 1: go to Detroit and pay for a hotel room. After 22 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:05,480 Speaker 1: I broke up with him for doing it, he started 23 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 1: either staying in a hotel or he would stay with 24 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:11,840 Speaker 1: his cousin. Going back and forth to Detroit has always 25 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:14,280 Speaker 1: been an issue with me because he gets ghost when 26 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: he's there. He tells me that it's because he puts 27 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 1: his phone down so he can be present and in 28 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 1: the moment with his son. But I think he's over 29 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 1: there with his ex wife playing house. When I noticed 30 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:29,039 Speaker 1: I was nagging him about it, I stopped mentioning it. 31 00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 1: Now when he is there, if he ignores my calls, 32 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 1: I ignore his. I hate playing games at this age, 33 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 1: but I have to get his attention somehow. So back 34 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 1: to the topic at hand. My husband went to Detroit 35 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 1: for his sister's wedding and he told me that his 36 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 1: ex wife was invited. I cannot argue with that because 37 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:49,760 Speaker 1: she will be linked to the family forever through their son. 38 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 1: I saw photos days after the wedding and his ex 39 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 1: wife was in a lot of pictures with the family. 40 00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 1: One picture was taken of her back and there was 41 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 1: a hand on her lower back right at her. But 42 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 1: it was my husband's right hand. He can deny it 43 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 1: all he wants, that's right. I know my man's hands. 44 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 1: I'm going crazy thinking he was with his ex all weekend. 45 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 1: Is it not his responsibility to make me think otherwise? No, No, 46 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 1: I don't think it's his responsibility to do that. You 47 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:27,840 Speaker 1: saw what you saw. You saw your husband's hand on 48 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 1: her lower back. Don't leave it up to him to 49 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 1: try to make you think you saw something other than 50 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:37,079 Speaker 1: what you saw. You saw it with your own eyes 51 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 1: and you cannot unsee it. Where there's smoke, there's fire, 52 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:43,960 Speaker 1: and his hand on her lower back, right at her 53 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: butt as you say, means they're still very close and 54 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:50,799 Speaker 1: familiar with each other. Kid aside, Yes, he could very 55 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 1: well have been with her this weekend in Detroit. Of 56 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:56,160 Speaker 1: course he's going to deny it. I mean, what else 57 00:02:56,240 --> 00:03:00,799 Speaker 1: is he going to say? You busted him? What is 58 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 1: he gonna say it wasn't his hand. You definitely should 59 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:04,399 Speaker 1: know your husband's hand. 60 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:04,960 Speaker 3: Uh. 61 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:07,519 Speaker 1: And he's not gonna tell you the truth, no chance 62 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:10,640 Speaker 1: of that. You already know what's up anyway. Then you 63 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 1: say you left him early on in your relationship because 64 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:16,919 Speaker 1: of his situation with her, all of this getting ghost 65 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:20,359 Speaker 1: when he's in Detroit, putting his phone down, not answering 66 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:23,120 Speaker 1: when you call all that sounds very suspect to me. 67 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 1: Spending time with his son does not require him to 68 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:27,959 Speaker 1: spend time with his baby mama. 69 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 2: To period, Steve, it's gonna be a tough one. Yeah, 70 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 2: wiggle out. 71 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 1: Of this one. 72 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 3: I'm already a pop large knoophole. I'm about to die 73 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 3: for you. 74 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 2: What sounds. 75 00:03:56,000 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 3: Me and yeah, would be in some situation here. Whenever 76 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 3: you meet a man or woman, know that there comes 77 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 3: a history with these people. Nobody is history free. Everybody 78 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 3: has a present. However, excuse me, everybody has a past. 79 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 3: That's how you get to the present. You need a 80 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 3: small P to become the big pe past president. And 81 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 3: what's the most important thing, the big P present. But you' 82 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 3: all like to bring up the past. So now what 83 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 3: we got to do is cover the past, shade the past, 84 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:38,160 Speaker 3: make it appear to be something that it wasn't so 85 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:41,480 Speaker 3: we can get on with the present. See, I'm doing 86 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:43,839 Speaker 3: the same thing this woman did in this letter, because 87 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:46,919 Speaker 3: it took her a long time to get down to 88 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 3: the crux of this letter. But she thought she was 89 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:54,039 Speaker 3: in court, so she was presenting her case. She's thirty six, 90 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 3: her husband thirty eight. She's pregnant with her second child, 91 00:04:57,320 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 3: so she can't travel. So your husband went to his 92 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:03,840 Speaker 3: baby sister's wedding without me. Well he is his baby sister, 93 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:05,599 Speaker 3: so we don't have a problem now. But this is 94 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:09,400 Speaker 3: all to set us up for her side of the story. 95 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:12,839 Speaker 3: He's from Detroit. His ex wife and twelve year old 96 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 3: son lived there. He has a past. They were married, 97 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:27,599 Speaker 3: they had a child, they were together. Now when we 98 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:30,040 Speaker 3: first met, he'd go to Detroit to visit his son, 99 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:33,320 Speaker 3: and he'd stay at his old home where's ex wife 100 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 3: still lives. He tried to rationalize it by saying he 101 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:38,600 Speaker 3: still pay for the house. He ain't gonna go to 102 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:42,960 Speaker 3: Detroit and pay for a hotel room. Rival brother, nice things, 103 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:46,160 Speaker 3: but you know that one ain't gonna last. That one 104 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:48,720 Speaker 3: ain't gonna last. Now I must tell you that that 105 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:50,920 Speaker 3: type of thinking is not gonna last. 106 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 2: I can't help you with this one. Dog. 107 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:55,560 Speaker 3: I ain't over here. I'm going to Detroit. I'm paying 108 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:56,840 Speaker 3: for this har I'm to pay for a house and 109 00:05:56,880 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 3: the hotel, Yes you will. So you brought up with 110 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 3: him for doing it. He started either staying in the 111 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:05,280 Speaker 3: hotel or to stay at his cousin's house. 112 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 2: And that's the way you get your way. Lady. 113 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:11,640 Speaker 3: I commend you for that. I'm on your side. Going 114 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 3: back to forth. Detroit's always been an issue with me 115 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:17,480 Speaker 3: because he gets ghosts when he's there. You man about 116 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 3: to hold Detroit situation anyway. The man got to go 117 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:22,680 Speaker 3: see his son. We get beat up all the time 118 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:24,880 Speaker 3: for not taking care of our kids. Then when we 119 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 3: go and be a quality father, somebody got a problem 120 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:30,039 Speaker 3: with that part too. Now you can't have your cake 121 00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:33,160 Speaker 3: and eat it too. We come back. We'll just talk 122 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 3: about what you actually gonna eat though, okay, because they 123 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 3: ain't gonna be cake. 124 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:40,360 Speaker 1: All right, all right, hold that thought, Steve. Coming up 125 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after the hour, we will recapped 126 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 1: today's strawberry letter and have more of your response. The 127 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:51,040 Speaker 1: subject is I know my man's hands. We'll get back 128 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening hard morning show. 129 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter. 130 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:02,599 Speaker 1: The subject is I know my man's hands. 131 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:06,680 Speaker 3: Well, lady, you set up this letter to get to 132 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 3: this long park. We waited till the end of this letter. 133 00:07:09,760 --> 00:07:12,320 Speaker 3: You told us because you were staying your case that 134 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 3: you thirty six thirty eight, you're having your second child. 135 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 3: I don't know if that's with him. I'm pregnant with 136 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 3: my second child and I wasn't able to travel. I'm 137 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 3: probably assuming as y'all's two children or you had one before, 138 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 3: but this one is his for sure, doesn't matter. 139 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 2: He's from Detroit. 140 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 3: His ex wife and twelve year old son lived there. 141 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:36,800 Speaker 3: Then when he first met, y'all would go back and 142 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 3: forth to Detroit, and he would stay at his old 143 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 3: home where his ex still lives, and he tried to 144 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:44,240 Speaker 3: rationalize that he ain't paying for a house at the 145 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:47,320 Speaker 3: hotel when he goes to Detroit. You got on him 146 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:50,640 Speaker 3: about it, and you broke up with him for doing it. 147 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 3: So he either stays at a hotel or with his cousin. Now, bravo, lady, 148 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:57,640 Speaker 3: you did the right thing. Put your foot down. Stop that. 149 00:07:58,080 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 3: It's hard for me to fix that one too. Bruhs cussin. 150 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna be able to help you with this one. 151 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 3: Right here, you can't stay at the moment house and 152 00:08:10,200 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 3: give you you devil ain't gonna fly. So anyway, going 153 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 3: back and forth Detroit's always been an issue because he 154 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 3: gets ghost when he's down, Ah, he tells me, is 155 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 3: because he puts his phone down so he can be 156 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 3: present and in the moment. 157 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:38,599 Speaker 2: With his son. Ain't God good? Now, Daddy, listen to me. 158 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:41,920 Speaker 3: If your son twelve and he don't know that the 159 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:45,680 Speaker 3: phone gonna ring sometime, we need to turn him on 160 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 3: to technology because he at that age where y'all probably 161 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:52,400 Speaker 3: considering getting him my phone anyway, So you're putting your 162 00:08:52,480 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 3: phone down so you can be present. Then you say, 163 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:57,559 Speaker 3: but I think he over there with his ex wife 164 00:08:57,559 --> 00:09:00,400 Speaker 3: playing house. Then you said, what I know. I was 165 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 3: nagging him about it. I stopped mentioning it. So when 166 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 3: he's there, he ignores my call, ignore. 167 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:08,280 Speaker 2: The wife's calls. 168 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 1: Help him. 169 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 2: Boy, I can't. I can't help you with this right here. 170 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:21,400 Speaker 3: Ignore the wife's calls. Bruh. You have got to find 171 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 3: a way to answer that phone and say, baby, were 172 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:28,960 Speaker 3: in the movies? Now, baby, I'm putting him to sleep. 173 00:09:29,400 --> 00:09:32,080 Speaker 3: But he twelve, so that ain't gonna work. I don't 174 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:36,720 Speaker 3: know you the reading bedtime, Stuard. You got to do something. 175 00:09:37,080 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 3: But you cannot ignore her cause you gotta pick that 176 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:43,880 Speaker 3: phone up and say something else. Though you cannot ignore 177 00:09:43,920 --> 00:09:46,839 Speaker 3: your wife call I can't help you with him. 178 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:48,640 Speaker 2: So if he. 179 00:09:48,640 --> 00:09:52,720 Speaker 3: Ignores my cause I ignore his. Well, he probably said 180 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 3: hallelujah to that. I called your baby. You ain't answer. 181 00:09:56,280 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 3: That's the release. So you stupid, you're giving him more 182 00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:02,040 Speaker 3: free time. Now, you stupid. That's a dumb move, lady. 183 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 3: Stop doing that, stopping knowing he's gonna pick him up 184 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 3: and just say hello, where you being? 185 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:08,839 Speaker 1: Oh? 186 00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:10,200 Speaker 2: Are you ready to talk? Now? 187 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:14,960 Speaker 3: Oh? I guess, I guess it's convenient for me now 188 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 3: while I'm carrying your baby. Oh, it's a whole lot 189 00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:19,240 Speaker 3: of stuff you can say when you picked that phone 190 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 3: up to make him wann a vomited. My husband went 191 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:24,440 Speaker 3: to Detroit for his sister's wedding and he told me 192 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 3: his ex wife was invited. Oh, first of all, let 193 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:29,760 Speaker 3: me tell you this, she said, I hate playing games 194 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:32,200 Speaker 3: at this age, but I have to get his attention somehow. 195 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:35,600 Speaker 3: So back to the topic at him. We are ninety 196 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:37,720 Speaker 3: percent through with the letter before she gets to this part. 197 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:40,280 Speaker 3: My husband went to Detroit for a sister's wedding. He 198 00:10:40,320 --> 00:10:43,079 Speaker 3: told me his ex wife was invited. I cannot argue 199 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 3: with that because she is linked to the family forever 200 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:48,560 Speaker 3: through the sun Okay, got that. I saw photos today 201 00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:51,080 Speaker 3: after the wedding. His ex wife was in a lot 202 00:10:51,080 --> 00:10:53,679 Speaker 3: of pics with the family. Yeah, she was there. You 203 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 3: would have been in picks too, but you couldn't make 204 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:56,440 Speaker 3: it because you was pregnant. 205 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:58,440 Speaker 2: Right. One picture was taken. 206 00:10:58,240 --> 00:11:02,040 Speaker 3: Of her back, and that was a on her lower back, 207 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:05,960 Speaker 3: right at her butt. It was my husband's hand. He 208 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:09,240 Speaker 3: can deny it all he wants. I know my man's hands. 209 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:12,320 Speaker 3: I'm going crazy thinking he was with his ex all weekend. 210 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 3: It is it not his responsibility to make me think otherwise. Yes, 211 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:23,439 Speaker 3: it is his responsibility to make you think otherwise. And 212 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:30,079 Speaker 3: he did just that. He said, that is not my hand, 213 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:35,040 Speaker 3: you says, he can deny it all he wants. I 214 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:39,320 Speaker 3: know my man's head. That is not my head. You 215 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 3: know how many people got this head right here? 216 00:11:42,800 --> 00:11:46,640 Speaker 2: You just you, the whole lot. 217 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:50,720 Speaker 3: Of people got hair looked like mine. Did you see 218 00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:52,240 Speaker 3: my face back there. 219 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:55,559 Speaker 2: On her back, on her butt? 220 00:11:56,280 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 3: Did you see my wedding ring on her back? Because 221 00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:03,840 Speaker 3: I always wear my wedding ring. 222 00:12:04,760 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 2: Huh. Look how small that. 223 00:12:07,080 --> 00:12:10,800 Speaker 3: Man's hands is. I look at my hands. See the 224 00:12:10,840 --> 00:12:13,920 Speaker 3: picture that deception? Pictures are never as clear as that. 225 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:15,960 Speaker 2: It is the size. 226 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:18,840 Speaker 3: Of the man's hand. That what I would win this argument. 227 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 3: And I will make a refer to a case in 228 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:27,840 Speaker 3: the past. If it doesn't fit, you must week. That 229 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:31,360 Speaker 3: is not my hand. It is the wrong side. Oh, 230 00:12:31,400 --> 00:12:34,400 Speaker 3: it looked like my hand, But I put my hand 231 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:37,040 Speaker 3: up against that picture, which will be way bigger, and 232 00:12:37,160 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 3: I'll go right there, look at that, Look at the 233 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 3: hand side. Let me take my hand and put it 234 00:12:43,520 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 3: on your lower back. 235 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:47,400 Speaker 1: All right? Leave your comments. 236 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:50,440 Speaker 2: That is not my hand. Is it his responsibility to 237 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 2: make me think otherwise? Yes? And he did it. He 238 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:54,840 Speaker 2: doesn't know. 239 00:12:56,120 --> 00:13:02,080 Speaker 1: Leave your comments on Today's on Instagram at Steve Harvey 240 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:06,319 Speaker 1: sm and check us out on the Strawberry Letter podcast 241 00:13:06,400 --> 00:13:09,520 Speaker 1: on the Free iHeartRadio app where free never sounded so good. 242 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 1: Coming up next is the Nephew and for Junior and 243 00:13:13,920 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 1: sports talk. Right after this, you're listening to Harvey Morning Show.