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Speaker 1: is Strawberry Letter. Thank En Nephew. Subject hump Day and

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Speaker 1: Wednesday are two different days. I love that title. Dear

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Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I'm a forty seven year old married woman

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Speaker 1: and I've been married for twenty five years. We met

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Speaker 1: when we were very young, and we got married and

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Speaker 1: had our four children while we were still young. My

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Speaker 1: husband was a big nerd that was slightly overweight, had

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Speaker 1: bad skin, and he needed braces. I was shy and

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Speaker 1: didn't have any friends, so I was eager to have

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Speaker 1: a boyfriend for the first time. He made me feel

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Speaker 1: like a princess and I have never been with another

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Speaker 1: man in my life, but he has definitely been with

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Speaker 1: other women. After we'd been married for fifteen years, a

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Speaker 1: woman called my house and said she had been dating

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Speaker 1: my husband for six years and she wanted me to

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Speaker 1: know because she knew I was a good, god fearing woman.

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Speaker 1: I started to feel guilty because I had stopped having

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Speaker 1: sex with my husband after our last child, So I

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Speaker 1: blamed myself for the cheating. I got my act together

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Speaker 1: and we talked to our pastor to fix our marriage.

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Speaker 1: I had no reason to believe he was cheating anymore

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Speaker 1: because he was a model citizen after the affair. Well,

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Speaker 1: fast forward to last November and I'm standing in the

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Speaker 1: kitchen and my husband got a text with a happy

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Speaker 1: hump Day message with no name listed. I got the

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Speaker 1: phone and texted back, but it's Sunday. The reply was

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Speaker 1: stopped playing I can't wait to see you. I texted where,

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Speaker 1: and the reply was that you hump day spot. I

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Speaker 1: took his phone upstairs to him and asked him, what's

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Speaker 1: the hump day spot? He grabbed his phone for me,

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Speaker 1: and he examined the messages, and then he said somebody

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Speaker 1: must have texted him by mistake. He changed his number

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Speaker 1: and lead it all of his social media. Now I

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Speaker 1: hate Wednesdays because I think he was using hump day

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Speaker 1: as a special code. Is he still a cheater? Yes? Yes, yes, yes, Okay,

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Speaker 1: your nerd of a husband is still cheating on you.

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Speaker 1: And how do I know that? How does everyone know

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Speaker 1: that but you the same? I mean, it's obvious. The

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Speaker 1: evidence was right there in the text. The woman clearly said,

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Speaker 1: I can't wait to see you at the usual hump

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Speaker 1: day spot. I mean, what more do you need? That

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Speaker 1: means they have a special location where they have sex,

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Speaker 1: or a special time day that they have sex at

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Speaker 1: an appointed time. Okay, I know you're confused and don't

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Speaker 1: want to believe it, but please don't lie to you self.

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Speaker 1: Please don't do that. Your husband is doing enough of

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Speaker 1: that for the both of you. Okay, this time, he

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Speaker 1: has no one to blame but himself, because you said

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Speaker 1: you got yourself together. You said that in the letter,

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Speaker 1: you got your act together, worked on your marriage. And

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Speaker 1: you know, there's a saying once a cheater, always a cheater,

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Speaker 1: and I think your husband fits that description because he

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Speaker 1: was cheating on you for six years during your twenty

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Speaker 1: five year marriage. You had a break when you stopped

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Speaker 1: having sex with him, you know, got counseling and everything,

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Speaker 1: and you thought it was all over. But nope. Once

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Speaker 1: now you have to decide should you stay with this cheater?

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Speaker 1: Should you leave? That's on you, Steve Well. It seems

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Speaker 1: to be a little bit to unpack in this letter

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Speaker 1: because I feel for her, but then I feel for him,

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Speaker 1: but then I'm a really feel for Nita one of them.

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Speaker 1: Sort of, It's a lot in this torn. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: a little bit torn. I'm gonna try to walk you

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Speaker 1: through the process that I'm having in this letter because

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Speaker 1: I see, of course other stuff and I'll be pointing

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Speaker 1: it out. Hump Day and Wednesday are two different days.

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Speaker 1: Did Stephen shl I'm forty seven year old married woman.

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Speaker 1: I've been married twenty five years. They was young when

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Speaker 1: they got married. They had four children while they was young.

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Speaker 1: My husband was a big nerd listened to this now

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Speaker 1: it needed bracest. Now let's talk about diffic. The dude

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Speaker 1: that you man was fat, had bad ass skin and

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Speaker 1: ragged ass teeth. Really, that's just whole package. Everything about

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Speaker 1: him was jacked up and then shot. I was shy

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Speaker 1: your pick. You picked a fat nerd with the bad

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Speaker 1: skin and the ragged ass mouth. Oh my gosh, that

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Speaker 1: ain't no reason to quit being shot. I'd have just

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Speaker 1: stayed shine with hand on friends. Because what I'm not

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Speaker 1: gonna do is introduce him as it excuse me, everybody,

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Speaker 1: I want to introduce you to somebody. He's a nerd,

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Speaker 1: he's overweight, he got a lot of acne on his face. Uh,

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Speaker 1: that ain't trash, that's his skin. And when he opened

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Speaker 1: coming at you. So now this is my boyfriend? What

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Speaker 1: what the reaction that they must have had? See? I

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Speaker 1: But he made you feel like a princess. But he

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Speaker 1: had and how he gonna mistreat somebody with his fat

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Speaker 1: glass This fatter glass man with his ragged ass mouth,

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Speaker 1: then got a girlfriend to try to stop mistreating up

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Speaker 1: like he like he got choices, Like the options is

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Speaker 1: just wide over, Like he's a green thing. He want

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Speaker 1: to do he didn't lucky. She even talking to his ass.

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Speaker 1: All right, all those wonderful thoughts he left her. Two

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Speaker 1: of your spots coming up at twenty three minutes after

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Speaker 1: the hours you're listening Morning show. All right, Come on, Steve,

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Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject hump day and

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Speaker 1: Wednesdays are two different days. Now. He is a woman

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Speaker 1: was shy and didn't have friends, and so a man

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Speaker 1: They've been married twenty five years. They got four kids,

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Speaker 1: and husband big nerd. And the word is big nerd

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Speaker 1: because she was telling us right after that he was

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Speaker 1: slappingly overweight. So that's what made him a big nerd.

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Speaker 1: He was big nerd on both sides. He was very

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Speaker 1: nerdy and large. Somehow he didn't looked at himself and

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Speaker 1: just stop washing his face or using cleanse or whatever.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what it is. But he had bad

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Speaker 1: face of just bad skin and everywhere. That's because he

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Speaker 1: was so big. He had stretched it and stretched it

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Speaker 1: so bad that his ski and had to react some

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Speaker 1: kind of way. I'm not taking that out the show.

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Speaker 1: I don't care what y'all say. Don't start in this

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Speaker 1: make me in twenty twenty two A bout fat shan it,

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Speaker 1: the lady wrote in the let. No, the lady wrote

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Speaker 1: in the letter, he is a big nerd and slightly overweight.

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Speaker 1: You know that's being nice about it. Slight? You know

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Speaker 1: if your ass is fat, don't matter if you slight overweight?

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Speaker 1: What are we talking about? Three hundred three? What is

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Speaker 1: where's okay? I'm trying to go on, but you tried to.

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Speaker 1: I saw Carlin in her zoom, lean in like she

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Speaker 1: was gonna say something. I'm putting stop to this here

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Speaker 1: in twenty two, don't don't write me if you don't

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Speaker 1: want the truth. And then she said, uh and it

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Speaker 1: and he needed braces. Now hold up and he needed

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Speaker 1: brace Now you got teeth sitting up in your head

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Speaker 1: don't like when I'm talking to people and one of

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Speaker 1: their teeth is laying down. I don't care for that,

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Speaker 1: because now I got to see what your way? Is

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Speaker 1: he trying to chew? Is he talking? What is he doing? Okay?

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Speaker 1: Now I was shy. I didn't have any friends, so

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Speaker 1: I was eager to have a boyfriend for the first time.

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Speaker 1: Then she said, he made me feel like a princess.

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Speaker 1: I would imagine, so I can't imagine him being mistreating

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Speaker 1: you in any kind of way. Why would he hitting

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Speaker 1: Nobody else wants it? And then she says, and after that,

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Speaker 1: I've never been with another man in my life. Where hell,

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Speaker 1: after you have made this choice, why would you try

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Speaker 1: this again? I've never been with another man in my life.

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Speaker 1: If this was my first moment, I wouldn't have picked

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Speaker 1: know how to recover from mistake. This was your first choice,

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Speaker 1: and you decided I'm not going to try this. No,

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Speaker 1: damn mode, some of our decisions can be that shocking.

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Speaker 1: We've been married for fifteen years. And then a woman

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Speaker 1: for six years, and she wanted me to know because

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Speaker 1: told you that's why she called. She'd been sleeping with

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Speaker 1: your man for six years and said, I'm calling you

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Speaker 1: and woman. Well who is she? Then she didn't tell

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Speaker 1: you who she was, this you. She called you to

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Speaker 1: I started to feel so guilty because I stopped having

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Speaker 1: blamed myself for the cheating. Well, you didn't stop having

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Speaker 1: think he finally hit you because you didn't say that

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Speaker 1: in these years to head lost the weight, that he

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Speaker 1: had stopped becoming to nerd, you never even said he

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Speaker 1: I'm just not doing this stuff. I've just woke my

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Speaker 1: Ain't got nothing to do with this last child or nothing. No, no,

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Speaker 1: this was just the last time, just the last time.

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Speaker 1: I'm pulling myself up, summoning the courage to do this

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do this no more. And then talking

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Speaker 1: to me as a nerd all this comic con conversation.

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Speaker 1: We have old baby, you just Nutratron and me what,

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Speaker 1: I'm a con. He don't even know how to talk

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Speaker 1: so you didn't have no reason believe he was cheating anymore.

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Speaker 1: He became a model citizen after the affair. Fast forward

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Speaker 1: last November. I'm standing in the kitchen. My husband got

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Speaker 1: a text with Humpy with a happy humph Day message

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Speaker 1: and no one listen. I got the phone and text back,

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Speaker 1: but it's Sunday. The reply was stopped playing I can't

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Speaker 1: was the usual hump Day spot. I took his phone upstairs,

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Speaker 1: ask him, what's the hump Day spot? He grabbed my phone,

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Speaker 1: examined the message and said somebody must have texted him

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Speaker 1: by mistake. My man, boy, the only good thing he's

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Speaker 1: done in this damn for that, he changed his number,

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Speaker 1: deleted all his social media. NA. I hate Wednesdays because

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Speaker 1: I think he's using hump Day as a special code.

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Speaker 1: Is he still the cheatah? First of all, lady, hump

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Speaker 1: Day ain't no damn cold If a woman checks your

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Speaker 1: think she told Marty Wednesday? All right, See it doesn't

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Speaker 1: damn special code. Well, you know, I was just you know,

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Speaker 1: Wait wait, wait, so hold up, hold that thought. We'll

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Speaker 1: come back from part three of hump Day and Wednesday

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Speaker 1: or two different days right after this. You're listening Steve

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Speaker 1: Hardy Morning Show. All right, Steve, you know sometimes occasionally

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Speaker 1: Strawberry letter, hump Day and Wednesday are different day. What. Well,

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Speaker 1: you know, the lady that was head messed around and

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Speaker 1: and pick this dude right here over twenty five years ago.

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Speaker 1: But he was a big nerd. He was overweighted, he

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Speaker 1: had braceist and bad skin. You know, just damn any

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Speaker 1: good qualities. Why are we even talking into the first place?

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Speaker 1: So she sat, you know, yeah, he's smartest hell, and

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Speaker 1: he made her feel like a princess, which like poor,

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Speaker 1: I mean, how could he not? And then you know,

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Speaker 1: She said, I'm not been to pick another one because

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Speaker 1: there's enough for this here. I've looked at this his fat,

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Speaker 1: all this bad ass skins, and we're just not doing

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Speaker 1: this no more. I kind of struggle for folk kids.

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Speaker 1: I'd later been had four kids. We're messing around do this.

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Speaker 1: I'm not having sex with you, no damn more. So,

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Speaker 1: for six years she didn't have sex with his ass

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Speaker 1: and was fine with it. Well, he went and got

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Speaker 1: he's stupid and you know cheating, and when you cheating,

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Speaker 1: you can't leave your phone. His stupid had left his

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Speaker 1: The reply will stop playing. I can't wait to see you,

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Speaker 1: and then I text whearing the reply was the usual

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Speaker 1: day as a special code day? Is not a special cold?

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Speaker 1: That's just you stupid? And he I got to hear somebody,

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Speaker 1: if you got a hump day, that's not a damn cold.

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Speaker 1: That's the day we hump That's what human. If you

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Speaker 1: like happy Eastern, you know, like you know he'll come

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Speaker 1: Peter Cotton tell you know, hopping down the bunnet trail

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Speaker 1: from hold the whole stuff like that. You got to

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Speaker 1: have stuff like that. You got to say something like this.

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Speaker 1: You know you ready for the lad supper. You know

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Speaker 1: these is cold words stuff you better for the last supper,

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Speaker 1: you know, I'm bad. You gotta, you gotta, you got

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Speaker 1: a little stuff you can gone, can't wait to Halloween.

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Speaker 1: You know she probably make his ass wear a mask too,

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Speaker 1: because he got that bad skin in the ragged head's mouth.

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Speaker 1: even even the lady's having the fan making wearing a mask.

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Speaker 1: We'll be back with more what you should have did

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Speaker 1: after that fourth baby to be. You're listening