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Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if

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Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more. Please, baby,

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Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey sm and

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Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. Okay, we could be reading your

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Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're going to

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Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now, and you never know,

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Speaker 1: it could be yours.

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Speaker 2: It could be Buckle up, hold on tight, we got it.

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Speaker 2: Fool you.

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Speaker 3: Here it is Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew, I mean, thank you, Thomas Miles. That's

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Speaker 1: right this week here, Thomas Miles. All right, subject, please

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Speaker 1: leave me alone in the morning. Please all right. Dear

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Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, I'm fifty years old and I've been in

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Speaker 1: an open relationship with my man for almost twenty years.

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Speaker 1: Instead of cheating on one another, we do what we

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Speaker 1: do and keep it one hundred at all times. It

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Speaker 1: works for us, so people can judge us all they

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Speaker 1: want to. I get so tired of my man times,

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Speaker 1: and I'm glad I can go and release my tension elsewhere.

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Speaker 1: It's not always about sex either. I have a soul

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Speaker 1: tie with another man and he's just as special as

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Speaker 1: my live in partner. I have to keep him satisfied

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Speaker 1: and nurture that relationship, and it's wearing me. Then I

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Speaker 1: work from home and my live in wakes up at

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Speaker 1: four point thirty in the morning to start his day.

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Speaker 1: He's a morning person, meaning he's a type to want

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Speaker 1: not be a problem until I started dealing with my

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Speaker 1: other man more regularly. He also likes sex in the morning,

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Speaker 1: and when I meet him a few days a week

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Speaker 1: for breakfast, I sometimes have to forego the sex because

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Speaker 1: I've already been thoroughly pleased for the day. It has

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Speaker 1: gotten to the point where I have to ask both

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Speaker 1: of the men if they.

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Speaker 3: Could please leave me alone in the morning.

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Speaker 1: It's like the older they got, the more they want sex,

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Speaker 1: and I'm just the opposite. I enjoy the connections with

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Speaker 1: them over the sex. I know my live in has

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Speaker 1: a great woman that he spends the night with sometimes,

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Speaker 1: so that takes a pressure off of me. But the

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Speaker 1: other man in my life is only having sex with

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Speaker 1: me and only me. He is hopeful that I will

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Speaker 1: come to my senses and be his wife one day soon,

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Speaker 1: But I'm cool with the arrangement.

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Speaker 3: All I need is more peaceful mournings.

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Speaker 1: How do I create balance for both relationships without slighting

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Speaker 1: one of them?

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Speaker 3: Please advise?

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, this is what you're signed up for, right,

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Speaker 1: I mean an open relationship.

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Speaker 3: This is what you do in open relationships.

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Speaker 1: You set out of your own mouth that this works

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Speaker 1: for you. You've been doing this for twenty years. Twenty years,

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Speaker 1: that's a very very long time. Who wouldn't be tired. Okay,

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Speaker 1: here's the thing about life, though, it is ever changing.

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Speaker 1: You are fifty now, you are changing. You're slowing down

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Speaker 1: a little bit. Things change, Circumstances change, feelings change. The

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Speaker 1: only thing that doesn't change are the facts. And the

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Speaker 1: facts are that you are in an open relationship and

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Speaker 1: pretty much anything and everything goes in these types of situations.

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Speaker 3: You know that.

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Speaker 1: But remember you said this works for you. Guess what, No,

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Speaker 1: it doesn't not anymore. I mean, you can't keep up

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Speaker 1: with you can't keep up with this unrealistic pace. You

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Speaker 1: have changed. I told you that it's way too much

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Speaker 1: for you now. And because you're in an open relationship,

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Speaker 1: that quote works for you.

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Speaker 3: You said it.

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Speaker 1: You are allowing, You're allowed to bring other people in.

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Speaker 1: So you're sleeping with another man now who's wearing you out?

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Speaker 1: You're getting worn out. You said they just won't leave

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Speaker 1: you alone in the morning, So for all we know,

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Speaker 1: you guys are like doing it right now.

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Speaker 3: I mean, this is a morning show. I don't even

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Speaker 3: want to think about that.

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Speaker 1: But but really it's always going on in the morning,

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Speaker 1: so you know, but you know, but you said it

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Speaker 1: works for you. I say, stop all of this. You

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Speaker 1: can do that. It's for a change. How much longer

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Speaker 1: are you gonna put yourself through this? Surely not another

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Speaker 2: Steeve, you better talk serly now.

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Speaker 4: You told some truth today, man, I wish I had

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Speaker 4: thought of that line. You came on. You better tell

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Speaker 4: the truth. You said it worked for you. No it ain't, No,

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Speaker 4: it ain't. This ain't working for you. The whole damn letter,

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Speaker 4: stupid let me opened by just saying this, I don't

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Speaker 4: I don't care about none of this. Foolish This ain't

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Speaker 4: this is working. This ain't working for nobody but them.

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Speaker 4: Stupid foolishness, your old ass. Let me tell you something.

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Speaker 4: Fifty is old for this foolishness here now, I'm me

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Speaker 4: tell you that right now. You pulling this at fifty

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Speaker 4: and been doing it for twenty years, it's old.

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Speaker 2: You old, and it thene got old.

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Speaker 4: That's an age limit for all this ignorant mess you

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Speaker 4: doing so stupid behind. I can't stand people like this,

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Speaker 4: and then gone right in on the National show like

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Speaker 4: we got some help for you. We ain't doing this. Well,

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Speaker 4: know what to tell you? Everybody in no damn open relationship,

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Speaker 4: you're in a situation.

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Speaker 2: That ain't no relationship.

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Speaker 4: Relationships is when you have relations with people and you

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Speaker 4: can relate to them. You relating to everybody so stupid

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Speaker 4: behind and you set up in here and you got

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Speaker 4: this man that y'all stay with, and you get tired

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Speaker 4: of him sometime. Okay, there you go. I thought it

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Speaker 4: was working for you, and I can go over release

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Speaker 4: my tension elsewhere else. Well, now it ain't always about sex.

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Speaker 4: Well what are you over that release?

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Speaker 2: Huh?

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Speaker 4: When you go to release your tension and it ain't

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Speaker 4: about sex, tell me what it is.

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Speaker 2: But y'all over there playing dominoes what.

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Speaker 3: You was wrong?

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Speaker 4: And then you say I have a soul tie with

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Speaker 4: another man, and he's just as special as my living

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Speaker 4: in partner.

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Speaker 2: What soul tied? Y'all having sex? This ain't no soul tie.

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Speaker 4: It's the same thing you got as you live in.

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Speaker 4: All y'all see and who y'all want to see? And

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Speaker 4: now you tied? You know why cause you own you

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Speaker 4: old and woa out they your old tail.

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Speaker 2: I have to say that it ain't even fresh tale

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Speaker 2: no more. You just wow.

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Speaker 1: Out old tale of your response coming up, Steve at

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour Today's strawberry letter subject,

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Speaker 1: Please leave me alone.

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Speaker 3: In the morning. We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 2: Did you know?

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Speaker 4: and crossing some te's, waila, your Hondai is ready for

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Speaker 4: pick up.

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Speaker 2: It's that easy.

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 3: The subject is please leave me alone in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Recap this pigment ass letter.

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Speaker 4: This old ass woman that wrote in she fifties, and

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Speaker 4: I'm not saying fifties old, but for this type of

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Speaker 4: thing right here, this hole.

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Speaker 2: You too old for this.

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Speaker 4: You should have tried this in your twenties, but oh no,

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Speaker 4: you've been doing it for twenty years.

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Speaker 2: You just hold.

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Speaker 4: Ragged ass letter. You can call in here with this

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Speaker 4: ragged ass story. Now you want me and Shelley to

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Speaker 4: help you, hear Steven Sherrell, leave our name off the

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Speaker 4: payment from now call us with this foolishness. We don't

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Speaker 4: know how to help you through this here. We ain't

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Speaker 4: in no relationship like that. I'm in a real relationship.

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Speaker 4: My relationship closed off. Seal got nails in the coffin,

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Speaker 4: worter up at the door. It's a tight can't get

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Speaker 4: nothing else in here. You're sitting up in here being

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Speaker 4: twenty years with the same man. Y'all do what y'all

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Speaker 4: want to do. He got somebody and then you sometimes

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Speaker 4: gonna talk about it so people can.

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Speaker 2: Judge us all they want.

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Speaker 4: Well, okay, well here comes some more judging, because he

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Speaker 4: wrote in now here comes some more damn judge.

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Speaker 2: I get so tired of my man at time.

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Speaker 4: Well okay, so I got glad I can go somewhere

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Speaker 4: and release my attention.

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Speaker 2: So you gonna go somewhere in hair set. That's what

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Speaker 4: It's not always about sex, yes it is. What else

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Speaker 4: is you doing over there to release? Where's you going

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Speaker 4: over that washed dishes?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 2: What is you out there taking out the garbage? How

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Speaker 3: You just a lie card.

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Speaker 4: You over there having sex with this man and then

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Speaker 4: sitting in there talking about I have a soul tie

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Speaker 4: living in partner. Now, Lord, have mercy, make up your

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 4: You gotta live in partner and a soul tie with

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Speaker 4: a man that's just as special as your live in partner.

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Speaker 2: Hen you come sitting up in here.

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Speaker 4: I got to keep him satisfied, to nurture that relationship,

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Speaker 4: and it's wearing me thin.

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Speaker 2: No, theyin't thin out. Then wore your ass out.

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Speaker 4: You ain't reped being no more, can't keep this up,

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Speaker 4: you fit it. I work from home and my live

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Speaker 4: in wakes up at four thirty in the morning start

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Speaker 4: his day here a morning person, and he got to

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Speaker 4: have that type of sex to wont when he roll

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Speaker 4: over every morning. Okay, And then that used to not

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Speaker 4: be a problem. Then you started dealing with your other

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Speaker 4: man on the regular. And he likes sex too in

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Speaker 4: the morning. And when I meet him a few days

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Speaker 4: a week for breakfast, I sometimes had to forego to

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Speaker 4: sex because he already been thoroughly pleased for the day.

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Speaker 2: What what? What? So everywhere you go.

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Speaker 4: Somebody trying to do you. You can't go no damn

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Speaker 4: well without somebody trying to do you.

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Speaker 2: Man, that's a lot of damn pressure right there.

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Speaker 4: If everywhere you go you woke up somebody, did you

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Speaker 4: gonna meet the other one for breakfast?

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Speaker 2: He wanted to do you. Then you get back home

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Speaker 2: and lo and behold his ass is fuck in.

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Speaker 3: For twenty years.

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Speaker 2: Twenty years. It is the warhat old ass out.

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Speaker 4: It's gotten to the point where I've had to ask

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Speaker 4: both of my men if they could please leave me

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Speaker 4: alone in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Why don't you leave them alone? You're stupid? It ain't live.

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Speaker 2: They messing with you because they like using you, because

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Speaker 2: that's what you are. You the dumpster.

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Speaker 4: You got two men dumping on you, and more than that,

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Speaker 4: because you've been doing it for twenty years. It's just

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Speaker 4: another one, this one you're telling us. So you've been,

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Speaker 4: You've been a girl. Please come on now, let me

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Speaker 4: that takes the pressure off of what he got. A

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Speaker 2: Over here.

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Speaker 4: But the other man in my life is only having

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Speaker 2: You still you think, let me ask you something.

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Speaker 4: You think he know you live with this man and

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Speaker 4: know you having sex with him, and you having sex

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Speaker 2: You dumb, just like the rest of this damn letter.

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Speaker 2: Is you dumb? Just like the rest of this damn letter?

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Speaker 2: You one stupid woman?

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Speaker 4: And if you think this man is just having sex

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Speaker 4: breakfast and you too tired because you got wore out.

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Speaker 2: Girl. Bye.

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Speaker 4: He is hopeful that I will come to my senses

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Speaker 4: and be his wife one day soon. Oh that's what

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Speaker 4: he told you. Wait, wait, that's what he told you.

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Speaker 4: Hold up, lady, you think that this man wants you

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Speaker 1: Girl?

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Speaker 2: No, that's what he said.

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Speaker 4: We have no advice for you doing what you're doing

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Speaker 4: and to you where let me tell you will not

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Speaker 4: come back. I'm gonna tell you one other thing about

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Speaker 3: Do you wanting?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 1: before we get to your sports, see if you wanted

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Speaker 1: to add one more thing to the Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 2: Please, I don't ask something to this.

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Speaker 4: You know this PRIs Bowman that rode in on this

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Speaker 4: Strawberry letter that's got these two men she been dating,

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Speaker 4: and now she been in a twenty year open relationship

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Speaker 4: and now ball her men like to have sex in

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Speaker 4: the morning, so now they the woeha out. Now she

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Speaker 4: talking about she needs some advice. You fifty, you're too damn.

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Speaker 2: Old for this. Nobody won't tell ohd you done?

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Speaker 4: Woe?

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Speaker 2: That old raggedy tail out? Now you sitt to been

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Speaker 4: And I'm gonna tell you something. As a little boy,

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Speaker 4: I had a raggedy tail. One time I had two

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Speaker 4: rat coon tails on my bike. They were stuck in

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Speaker 2: I remember one time I got that rat coon tail.

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Speaker 4: Caught in a card dough somehow, and I kept trying

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Speaker 4: I was just wearing that tail out, and then it

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Speaker 4: down to me and say, Stevie, where you get that

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Speaker 4: little raggedy tail from? Now you probably said, Steve, what

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Speaker 4: they got to do with this story? Well, let's fire

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Speaker 4: the old woman that got caught in the card dough,

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Speaker 4: then snatched all the half her tail, then.

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Speaker 2: Roll it out in and got rained on.

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Speaker 4: And now little Stevie looking at hair, trying to figure

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Speaker 4: little raggedy tail you got you exhausted, then wow yourself

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Speaker 4: out and I throwing a thank God for that analogy

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Speaker 4: from me riding my bike with that one little raggedy

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Speaker 4: tail on raising hot tail raggedy, don't let your tail

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Speaker 2: Yes, girl, don't let your tail get rained. Thought. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: like a good raggedy.

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Speaker 4: Tail story, man, And the last thing you want to

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Speaker 4: do is put a raggedy tail hanging out your hand.

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Speaker 2: It didn't look nothing like the other tails. Lord, hair raggedy.

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Speaker 4: What a beautiful moment, Junior. I'm side about Lord, I'm talking.

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Speaker 2: I love it, man.

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Speaker 4: But it was kind of it was a little sport too,

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Speaker 4: because I was talking about bike riding, so that was

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Speaker 4: not sports for the day.

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Speaker 2: Was cycling. Now, yeah, then you're.

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Speaker 4: Gonna tell me cycling, thank you, Yes, cycling that not

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Speaker 3: To man coming up at the top of the uptail.

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Speaker 2: Look record were fifty years old.

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Speaker 1: We'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning

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Speaker 1: Show right after this