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Speaker 1: waiting by the phone? It's the Fread Show. Hey Teddy,

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Speaker 1: good morning, welcome to the program. How are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm doing all right?

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Speaker 1: How are you doing doing? Okay?

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Speaker 2: Man?

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Speaker 1: What's going on with this woman Lisa? It's waiting by

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Speaker 1: the phone. We're trying to figure out if you've been ghosted.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like maybe you have, but we need the backstory.

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Speaker 1: How did you meet Lisa? Tell us about any dates

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Speaker 1: you'd been on, and then where things are now?

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Speaker 2: So we met on Hinge and I asked her out

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Speaker 2: to dinner and we went out. She was even hotter, funnier,

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Speaker 2: hit in person than she was when we were texting.

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Speaker 2: We had a great time, I thought, and we were

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Speaker 2: planning date number two, but then she just sort of disappeared.

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Speaker 2: Oh I don't know why.

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Speaker 1: Okay, And you look back on this date, I ask everybody,

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Speaker 1: but you look back on this date and everything went well.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you left the date feeling pretty good about

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Speaker 1: where things stood. Hey, I'm we're going to go out again,

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Speaker 1: Like I'm going to reach out and she's going to

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Speaker 1: be interested. The chemistry was there, the conversation was there,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, like I said, she was funny. I

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Speaker 2: was actually really laughing a lot, and I was having

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Speaker 2: a great time, and she seemed like she was too.

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Speaker 1: Okay because the mood's light, you know. So then what

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Speaker 1: could possibly have gone wrong? I've said that many times too,

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Speaker 1: and then and then I find out. But okay, well, Teddy,

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Speaker 1: let's play a song. We'll come back and we'll call Liza.

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Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone. We'll ask these questions on

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Speaker 1: your behalf, and you know, the hope is that we

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Speaker 1: can figure out what's going on. It's possible that she

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Speaker 1: has something on her end and we can straighten things out.

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Speaker 1: I said, you guys have one another day that we

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Speaker 1: pay for. Sound good? Yeah? Sound good? Hey, Teddy, yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, let's call Lisa. You guys met, you went

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Speaker 1: on a date. You thought the date went great, tales

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Speaker 1: so old as time. Hell, but you have not heard

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Speaker 1: from Lisa since the date, and you're puzzled. You're disappointed.

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Speaker 1: You want to know why.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, I mean I've reached out to her, but

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, let's call Lisa and see if we can

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Speaker 1: get her on the phone and figured this out. Good luck, Teddy. Hi'

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Speaker 1: is Lisa? Yeah, Lisa, Hi, good morning, It's Fred. My

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Speaker 1: name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show, the

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Speaker 1: morning radio show. I have to tell you that we

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Speaker 1: are on the radio right now, and I would need

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Speaker 1: your permission to continue with the call. Can reach out

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Speaker 1: for just a second. Okay, all right, well thank you?

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Speaker 1: That was yes, I like it. We're calling on We

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Speaker 1: have of a guy named Teddy and he reached out

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Speaker 1: that he felt went really well. But he says he's

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Speaker 1: reached out to you since the date and you have responded.

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Speaker 1: He's puzzled, why is why are you not responding to

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is awkward.

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Speaker 3: I mean, Teddy is okay, I'm not I'm just not interested,

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Speaker 3: all right, I'm just a but there's.

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Speaker 1: More of this story though, there's more of the story.

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Speaker 1: Why are you not interested? Like, here's the thing. Maybe

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you've ever been ghosted, maybe never

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Speaker 1: been ghosted before, but he feels like he's being ghosted.

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Speaker 1: It's bugging him. He kind of wants some closure if

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Speaker 4: So Teddy basically asks his mom for permission to do

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Speaker 1: Okay, well what does that mean? Like give me an example?

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right. So when we first matched, he he

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Speaker 2: And he'd like, you know what, I need to call.

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Speaker 4: My mom and ask her I need call no, And

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Speaker 4: I was just I was like, all right, in truth

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Speaker 4: I just was like, all right, then when we were

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Speaker 4: then my final straw was when we were on the

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Speaker 4: date and towards the end of the date, I was like,

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Speaker 4: we're like finishing up dinner and I was like, hey,

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Speaker 2: You know what, I just need to run by.

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Speaker 1: My mom really first. So this dude, he actually it

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Speaker 1: overlook that and go out with him again. So he

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Speaker 1: it's one thing to have a great relationship with your mom.

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Speaker 1: I think that's usually a good sign. But I also,

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Speaker 1: you know, I don't need to ask my mom like

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Speaker 1: where to take you on a date and if I

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Speaker 2: Man, exactly. I was.

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Speaker 3: I was like, this is you know what now, dude?

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Speaker 4: Like absolutely, if you need to go to the bathroom

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Speaker 4: to check with your mom, Like no, no, this.

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Speaker 2: Is a lot a lot.

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Speaker 1: I forgot to mention Lisa that Teddy is here and

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Speaker 1: Teddy's been very quiet throughout this. Teddy, why do we

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Speaker 1: Why are we asking mom, you know, for permission to

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Speaker 2: Okay, So just to be clear, I don't need my

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Speaker 2: mom's permission, Like, I'm not asking for her permission. I

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Speaker 2: just I like to get her opinion. What do you talk?

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Speaker 4: You ask her for anything, all her opinions before you

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Speaker 4: do anything, do you not?

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Speaker 2: So what that's not weird?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, it is weird. It is weird. Like at

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Speaker 1: some point you have to make decisions for yourself because

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Speaker 1: you know, if I can go to a concert next week.

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Speaker 2: So you don't consult your mom on anything.

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Speaker 1: I'm not on. No, not as it pertains to you know,

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Speaker 1: life issues and decisions that I need to make for myself. No, Like,

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Speaker 1: my schedule is my schedule. You know what I do

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Speaker 1: with my dating my call, right, it's you know you

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Speaker 1: do at your mound with the calendar invite. Well, I

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Speaker 1: mean yes, but that doesn't mean. That doesn't mean if

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Speaker 1: she gets a vote. I mean, she has a right

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Speaker 1: to know where I am at all times. But other

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Speaker 1: than that, you know, a couple of facetimes throughout the date.

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Speaker 1: But other than that, No, that's crazy. Teddy on man,

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Speaker 1: you're grown up.

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Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, she with her before I even did this.

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Speaker 2: She thought it was a good idea to find.

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Speaker 1: Out your mom told you to come on the radio.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well, in that case, you know, Mama's always round.

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Speaker 1: We love Mama, get out of here on radio. I mean,

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Speaker 1: there is a difference between having a close relationship and

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Speaker 1: being a full on mama's boy, And I think this

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Speaker 1: and beyond just mama's boy. I mean, because this is like,

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Speaker 2: And I think, yeah, again, I don't I'm not asking

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't know. I just like to get

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Speaker 2: her input. But why can't you on her own anything

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Speaker 1: And why are you telling maybe this is something you

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Speaker 1: do in you know, in your private life. But I

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Speaker 1: don't know that I would tell everybody that, because again,

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Speaker 1: I think women want a confident, decisive guy who has

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Speaker 1: for permission to do basic things.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I guess I'm realizing that.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I again, I'm not asking for permission.

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Speaker 4: It's just a're you're asking all the time.

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Speaker 2: This is weird checking in. It's just checking in.

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Speaker 1: It's a lot whatever it is.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, Well, next time you're going to ask

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Speaker 4: if we should have sex?

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Speaker 3: Is that? Like?

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Speaker 1: What would say about that? Do you think you think

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Speaker 1: mom would be in favor?

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Speaker 2: I mean, my mom, she's very encouraging of using protection

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Speaker 2: so un.

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Speaker 1: I'm glad that mom says it's okay sex with protection.

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Speaker 1: Very strange. All right, look, Lisa, I'll ask the question.

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Speaker 1: I know the answer is rhetorical. Would you like to

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Speaker 1: go out with Teddy again? And we'll pay for it.

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Speaker 1: We'll ask mom first and clear it all with her.

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Speaker 2: This is way too excessive for me. Absolutely not weird.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, not going to work out. Hey, Teddy, look again,

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Speaker 1: I'm glad that you have a good relationship with your mom.

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Speaker 1: That's a nice thing. I might not tell everybody that

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Speaker 1: I have to ask for her permission to use the

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Speaker 1: bathroom and and that I run every decision by her.

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Speaker 1: I might not share that I might maybe consider not

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Speaker 1: doing that.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I hear you. I think I'm just gonna

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Speaker 2: not so I'll just say I need to think about it.

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Speaker 1: Right and then do it anyway. Okay, All right, Well, hey,

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Speaker 1: whatever float you bout? I guess Teddy right right right right,

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Speaker 1: We've really we've really got nowhere here but at Lisa,

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Speaker 1: thanks for your time, Teddy, good luck to you as well.