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Speaker 1: Second dat up Day. Whenever you see a guy out
Speaker 1: of the bar alone hitting on girls, and go one
Speaker 1: of two ways. Either he's incredibly creepy and he's the
Speaker 1: guy at the bar that nobody wants to talk to,
Speaker 1: or he's very confident and it seems to work for him.
Speaker 1: Usually I think the first is normally true. Usually the
Speaker 1: first one. Okay, Well, Matt, who's on the phone for
Speaker 1: a second date update today, was the alone guy in
Speaker 1: a bar. Oh, so that leads me to ask a question, Matt,
Speaker 1: which one are you? Are you incredibly creepy? Are you confident?
Speaker 1: How that works? I don't. I don't think it has
Speaker 1: to be on either side. I think, Okay, if I
Speaker 1: had to pick one, I'd say confident creepy. People always
Speaker 1: are unaware. So why were you at a bar alone
Speaker 1: hitting on chick I just moved to my new apartment.
Speaker 1: I just got a new job, I got a new place,
Speaker 1: so I don't have any friends here yet that doesn't
Speaker 1: make me creepy. So I thought, let me go out
Speaker 1: to the bar. So I got the scene. Okay, So
Speaker 1: when I when you know, when I go out, I
Speaker 1: have to make friends there and see how the scene
Speaker 1: is going. And if I like how a girl is looking,
Speaker 1: I'm confident in my willing to go talk to her.
Speaker 1: All right? Do you are you a like line dropper? Matt?
Speaker 1: I don't think I'm a line dropper. I think I
Speaker 1: think I just keep it real. I just just a
Speaker 1: normal conversation, you know. So you went to the bar
Speaker 1: alone out of necessity, not because you didn't have anybody
Speaker 1: would hang out with you. When you put it like that,
Speaker 1: it sounds different. I just read your email, and your
Speaker 1: email just said I was at the bar by myself,
Speaker 1: and then I met this girl. So what's her name?
Speaker 1: Her name was Kelly? Kelly? All right, and how did
Speaker 1: you meet Kelly? Well? I saw her at the bar,
Speaker 1: and first thing I'm attracted to her, I was. I
Speaker 1: was really attracted to her. You know, she had a
Speaker 1: she had a nice I'm not gonna lie, I got
Speaker 1: my attention. So I went up to her, I introduced myself,
Speaker 1: and she was really liking me. She we were We
Speaker 1: had a good deep combo. She seemed like a really
Speaker 1: down on earth girl. And eventually, you know, things happened
Speaker 1: and she came back to my apartment. Wow, she came
Speaker 1: back with you that night. Yeah, she came back with
Speaker 1: me that night, and you know, some stuff happened that
Speaker 1: I'll just leave it at that. Some stuff happened, and
Speaker 1: I've been trying to get in contact with us, so
Speaker 1: you know, I when she was leaving, I waited for
Speaker 1: her with a tax and everything. Everything was going fine.
Speaker 1: I gave her I even gave her a good night kids.
Speaker 1: I thought everything was perfect. Wait, she didn't spend the night.
Speaker 1: She just came over for a little while. Some things happened,
Speaker 1: and then she left that night. Yeah, she left that night.
Speaker 1: She I don't I don't know whether it was my
Speaker 1: new apartment that scared her. She your new apartment that
Speaker 1: scared her. What do you have in your apartment? This
Speaker 1: boxes everywhere. I haven't really you know, settled in yet
Speaker 1: and made it my home. Oh you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: Like I haven't put all the way all my dungeon
Speaker 1: toys yet, you know, very scary stuff. No, it was
Speaker 1: just I have boxes everywhere, empty beer bottles on the
Speaker 1: floor because I don't have my garbage yet. So the
Speaker 1: only thing that was up was my TV and the couch,
Speaker 1: and she noticed, you know, everything else was messy and
Speaker 1: I didn't really clean much all right, so it looks
Speaker 1: kind of like you're you're living in a cracked in
Speaker 1: sort of No, no, but at all. Does it smell Okay,
Speaker 1: it smells good. It smells fine unless I adjusted to it.
Speaker 1: So what did she say when she left? Well, we
Speaker 1: were sitting on the couch and kissing, and all of
Speaker 1: a sudden she backed off and said she has to
Speaker 1: go to work early. And I didn't know where that
Speaker 1: came from, because we were having such a good time
Speaker 1: and I would have loved if she stayed. Was it late?
Speaker 1: It was late. It was about two am. Okay, that's
Speaker 1: not too bad. I mean, if you haven't started doing
Speaker 1: the other stuff yet, you might be like, well, I
Speaker 1: don't want to be up until like four or five
Speaker 1: in the morning when I have to work the next day.
Speaker 1: That's true. I wish I got there. I mean, is
Speaker 1: there a chance that maybe she sobered up and realized,
Speaker 1: I don't know, you weren't as good looking as she
Speaker 1: thought in the bar, or she hey, it happens. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't like to think of myself as an ugly guy.
Speaker 1: I think of myself as handsome, so I hope that's
Speaker 1: not it. Yeah, and have you tried to get a
Speaker 1: hold of her since that night? Yeah? I texted her
Speaker 1: the next day, actually, just a regular hey, what's up?
Speaker 1: And she has not responded to me at all at all?
Speaker 1: And what was the last thing that she said to you?
Speaker 1: The last thing she said to me was goodbye? Okay.
Speaker 1: I was just wondering if she sounded like she wanted
Speaker 1: to see you again, or did it feel like, hey,
Speaker 1: this is kind of like fun that we met and
Speaker 1: then messed around, but I don't want to have anything
Speaker 1: to do with you. She gave me the vibe that
Speaker 1: she would actually talk to me again. That's what hurts.
Speaker 1: So what do you think it is? Then? I think
Speaker 1: it was my apartment. I think I should have cleaned
Speaker 1: up more. Maybe that would have helped. Yeah, but if
Speaker 1: you just moved departments, I mean, you think she would
Speaker 1: understand if there's boxing and stuff everywhere, that's what I saw.
Speaker 1: I'm not sure. I don't know what it is. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I really want to know. And why do you why
Speaker 1: do you want to get hold of her so bad?
Speaker 1: I mean, you see a relationship with this girl, or
Speaker 1: you just want to finish what you guys started. I
Speaker 1: just moved, so I'm just looking for people to hang
Speaker 1: out with, and I would love to hang out with her.
Speaker 1: She's my first friend I met at my first friend.
Speaker 1: All right, well we're gonna play a song. Come back,
Speaker 1: call her and get your second date update. All right,
Speaker 1: thank you? All right, man hang brooking jubil in the morning.
Speaker 1: All right, if you're just tuning in for today's second
Speaker 1: date update, let me set the scene for you. Matt
Speaker 1: is on the phone right now. And Matt went out
Speaker 1: to a bar all by himself, ended up finding an
Speaker 1: innocent girl named Kelly, and somehow convinced her to go
Speaker 1: back to his place, a place that is littered with boxes,
Speaker 1: beer bottles, a very very scary place, and while they
Speaker 1: were making out doing stuff on the couch, at some
Speaker 1: point she must have looked at a clock and realized
Speaker 1: it was getting late and said she had to leave. Okay,
Speaker 1: maybe it wasn't as creepy as I made it sound.
Speaker 1: But Matt is on the phone and Matt went out
Speaker 1: to the bars because he just moved into his apartment,
Speaker 1: wanted to check out the scene around his house, and
Speaker 1: ended up meeting a girl there. He thinks the reason
Speaker 1: she's not calling him back is because his place is
Speaker 1: a mess because he just moved in. Matt, are you
Speaker 1: ready to call her and see if that is the
Speaker 1: reason that she's not getting back to you. Yes, I am,
Speaker 1: And have you cleaned up your place and actually unpacked
Speaker 1: your boxes so if she does actually want to hang
Speaker 1: out again, she's not going to run into that mess. Well,
Speaker 1: it wasn't as creepy as you just made aside. It's
Speaker 1: a little bit better now, Okay, so you got it
Speaker 1: all cleaned up, all right? Well, I'm a dollar phone
Speaker 1: umber right now, get her on the phone and see
Speaker 1: if we can find out why she isn't getting back
Speaker 1: to you. Okay, okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, can
Speaker 1: I speak to Kelly? Please? Hey, Kelly, how are you?
Speaker 1: This is Jewil from brook and Jewil in the morning.
Speaker 1: Um okay, um um. How can I help you? Well,
Speaker 1: somebody recently sent us an email about you, and I
Speaker 1: want to see if you had a few minutes to
Speaker 1: talk to us. Someone you an email about me. Yes, okay.
Speaker 1: We do a segment on our show called the second
Speaker 1: Date Update. It's where if you go out on a
Speaker 1: date with somebody and then stop talking to them, they
Speaker 1: email us to see if we can get you on
Speaker 1: the phone and ask why who someone email you? Who
Speaker 1: was it? His name is Matt, And I wouldn't say
Speaker 1: that you guys necessarily dated, but you did meet one
Speaker 1: evening and go back to his place and mess around
Speaker 1: a little bit. Okay, he told, Okay, yeah I met him. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: we know that. So we talked to Matt a little
Speaker 1: bit after we got his email, and he told us
Speaker 1: sort of how you guys met, But he's confused why
Speaker 1: you're not calling him back. He asked us to get
Speaker 1: you on the phone and find out. That way he
Speaker 1: knows if he did something wrong, So he asked you
Speaker 1: or whatever he reached out to find out. Yes, And
Speaker 1: as we tell everybody who does these things, they're fully
Speaker 1: prepared to hear anything that you have to say. Really,
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what he thinks it is, okay, and
Speaker 1: then you can tell me if I'm right or wrong.
Speaker 1: He thinks it's because his place wasn't ready like any
Speaker 1: boxes everywhere, and he said that he did't I was
Speaker 1: trash set up, so there was beer cans and so
Speaker 1: he feels like you might have thought his place was gross.
Speaker 1: I mean, well he did look like kind of extra
Speaker 1: homeless in there, like, so that is that it? I
Speaker 1: mean no, I mean I understand he was moving, you know,
Speaker 1: but I mean it was dirty. I get it. Okay,
Speaker 1: it sounds like everything was fine and you guys had
Speaker 1: chemistry and liked each other. I mean we did up
Speaker 1: to a certain point. What are you laughing at? What
Speaker 1: are you laughing at? It sounds like so you think
Speaker 1: something is funny. Oh my god. Okay, okay, here we go. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm excited to hear this. So we're, you know, we're
Speaker 1: there at his place kind of having a little you know,
Speaker 1: makeout situation happening. And he just stopped, like just like
Speaker 1: abruptly just stopped. And I'm looking because I'm trying to
Speaker 1: figure out what happened. Something tall, I mean, what's wrong?
Speaker 1: And he says huh. He says, hold on, I want
Speaker 1: to make it all nice for you. And I'm told
Speaker 1: the confused because I'm like, what is he gonna go
Speaker 1: make up a bed? Somewhere. No, this guy says, I
Speaker 1: want to make it all nice for you and starts
Speaker 1: pointing down. You also put a bow on it. I
Speaker 1: was just like, it was just so weird. So he
Speaker 1: hops up and like shogs into the bathroom and I'm
Speaker 1: sitting there beating like I hear clippers and all right,
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. So he stopped your makeout session to
Speaker 1: get up and go trim his area. Yeah, I guess,
Speaker 1: though he didn't come out with a new haircut, So
Speaker 1: I guess what did you say to him when he
Speaker 1: came out of the bathroom. I just said, oh, look
Speaker 1: at that, it's late. I gotta go. I've never that's interesting. Never,
Speaker 1: I've never been in the situation where I'm making out
Speaker 1: with someone and been like, I mean, I've been where
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh man, I'm not the best down there
Speaker 1: right now, But I've never thought this is the appropriate
Speaker 1: time for me to stop and then go manscape right now? Yeah,
Speaker 1: or you keep it quiet. Here's the thing, though, not
Speaker 1: when she's like in the waiting room, did he actually
Speaker 1: say the words let me make it nice for you
Speaker 1: before he did it? Yeah, that's amazing. I wonder if
Speaker 1: he's tried that before, and it's worked. I'd love to
Speaker 1: ask him that, Kelly, aren't you curious? No? Not really,
Speaker 1: that's too bad because he's actually on the other line
Speaker 1: listening right now. Are you kidding me? Wow? Like that's
Speaker 1: really why I'm sorry. I mean, but that was really weird.
Speaker 1: It's not that we what's wrong with me making sure?
Speaker 1: I am good for you? I'm looking out for you.
Speaker 1: I did it for you, not when I'm sitting there
Speaker 1: ready to go. I just figured you would appreciate that.
Speaker 1: I mean, do you like it? MESSI in the future,
Speaker 1: when you're making out with a girl, don't stop bord
Speaker 1: to go get your man skate off. I normally take
Speaker 1: care of it, but I've been so busy with moving.
Speaker 1: I hate that when I'm busy with other things and
Speaker 1: then don't have time to mansk it. Why not just
Speaker 1: tough it out at that point? Go all right, this girl,
Speaker 1: We're gonna do stuff. It's not the best right now,
Speaker 1: but just go ahead and power through. Jubil If that's
Speaker 1: how you think you obviously don't get ready girls, you know,
Speaker 1: maybe you're right. I just am away. If you stay ready,
Speaker 1: you ain't got to get ready. No, I was moving.
Speaker 1: I didn't even expects to meet a girl and Kelly
Speaker 1: shows up just ready to go. But I mean, Matt,
Speaker 1: think about if the tables were turned and Kelly said,
Speaker 1: just wait a minute, and you heard a razor go
Speaker 1: in in five minute, like I would appreciate that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And you know what, Matt, I actually really would too, honestly,
Speaker 1: I really would. Yeah. If a girl's like, hang on,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go take care of some things and I'll
Speaker 1: be back as a guy, I would think that would
Speaker 1: be great. Yes, see, that's what I mean. I was
Speaker 1: just trying to be respectful Kelly. Maybe the timing wasn't
Speaker 1: the best, but you gotta admit it was a nice gesture,
Speaker 1: and if you think about it, it's kind of thoughtful.
Speaker 1: It really it really actually is. It's like flowers. Really yeah,
Speaker 1: she's like, oh that's so sweet, and it's in the
Speaker 1: shape of a heart. Oh my god, I'm not that talented.
Speaker 1: I mean, you guys wanted me to be honest. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I would tell you what happened. Thank you very much
Speaker 1: for being honest. It's an amazing story. I would like
Speaker 1: to ask if you will go on a second date
Speaker 1: with Matt, though I will pay for it. He'll be ready. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he'll trust me. Matt. Before you got on a date
Speaker 1: with Kelly, would you be man escaped before right if
Speaker 1: you knew everything is done? I mascaped and my apartment
Speaker 1: is clean. Oh my god, there you go, Kelly. You
Speaker 1: heard that. You heard that. He's all ready to go.
Speaker 1: His apartment is clean, everything is clean. Oh gross, Oh
Speaker 1: my god. Him but to say this, but okay, you'll
Speaker 1: do it. You'll go out with him again. I will
Speaker 1: give him one more chip. Honestly, I'm excited. I think
Speaker 1: we we've already had too much information here, Matt. I
Speaker 1: don't need to broken jewel in the morning.