WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Making it Nice

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<v Speaker 1>Second dat up Day. Whenever you see a guy out

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<v Speaker 1>of the bar alone hitting on girls, and go one

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<v Speaker 1>of two ways. Either he's incredibly creepy and he's the

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<v Speaker 1>guy at the bar that nobody wants to talk to,

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<v Speaker 1>or he's very confident and it seems to work for him.

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<v Speaker 1>Usually I think the first is normally true. Usually the

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<v Speaker 1>first one. Okay, Well, Matt, who's on the phone for

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update today, was the alone guy in

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<v Speaker 1>a bar. Oh, so that leads me to ask a question, Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>which one are you? Are you incredibly creepy? Are you confident?

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<v Speaker 1>How that works? I don't. I don't think it has

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<v Speaker 1>to be on either side. I think, Okay, if I

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<v Speaker 1>had to pick one, I'd say confident creepy. People always

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<v Speaker 1>are unaware. So why were you at a bar alone

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<v Speaker 1>hitting on chick I just moved to my new apartment.

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<v Speaker 1>I just got a new job, I got a new place,

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<v Speaker 1>so I don't have any friends here yet that doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>make me creepy. So I thought, let me go out

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<v Speaker 1>to the bar. So I got the scene. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>when I when you know, when I go out, I

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<v Speaker 1>have to make friends there and see how the scene

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<v Speaker 1>is going. And if I like how a girl is looking,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm confident in my willing to go talk to her.

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<v Speaker 1>All right? Do you are you a like line dropper? Matt?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I'm a line dropper. I think I

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<v Speaker 1>think I just keep it real. I just just a

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<v Speaker 1>normal conversation, you know. So you went to the bar

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<v Speaker 1>alone out of necessity, not because you didn't have anybody

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<v Speaker 1>would hang out with you. When you put it like that,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds different. I just read your email, and your

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<v Speaker 1>email just said I was at the bar by myself,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I met this girl. So what's her name?

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<v Speaker 1>Her name was Kelly? Kelly? All right, and how did

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<v Speaker 1>you meet Kelly? Well? I saw her at the bar,

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<v Speaker 1>and first thing I'm attracted to her, I was. I

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<v Speaker 1>was really attracted to her. You know, she had a

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<v Speaker 1>she had a nice I'm not gonna lie, I got

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<v Speaker 1>my attention. So I went up to her, I introduced myself,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was really liking me. She we were We

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<v Speaker 1>had a good deep combo. She seemed like a really

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<v Speaker 1>down on earth girl. And eventually, you know, things happened

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<v Speaker 1>and she came back to my apartment. Wow, she came

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<v Speaker 1>back with you that night. Yeah, she came back with

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<v Speaker 1>me that night, and you know, some stuff happened that

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just leave it at that. Some stuff happened, and

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<v Speaker 1>I've been trying to get in contact with us, so

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I when she was leaving, I waited for

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<v Speaker 1>her with a tax and everything. Everything was going fine.

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<v Speaker 1>I gave her I even gave her a good night kids.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought everything was perfect. Wait, she didn't spend the night.

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<v Speaker 1>She just came over for a little while. Some things happened,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she left that night. Yeah, she left that night.

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<v Speaker 1>She I don't I don't know whether it was my

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<v Speaker 1>new apartment that scared her. She your new apartment that

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<v Speaker 1>scared her. What do you have in your apartment? This

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<v Speaker 1>boxes everywhere. I haven't really you know, settled in yet

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<v Speaker 1>and made it my home. Oh you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I haven't put all the way all my dungeon

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<v Speaker 1>toys yet, you know, very scary stuff. No, it was

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<v Speaker 1>just I have boxes everywhere, empty beer bottles on the

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<v Speaker 1>floor because I don't have my garbage yet. So the

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<v Speaker 1>only thing that was up was my TV and the couch,

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<v Speaker 1>and she noticed, you know, everything else was messy and

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't really clean much all right, so it looks

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like you're you're living in a cracked in

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<v Speaker 1>sort of No, no, but at all. Does it smell Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it smells good. It smells fine unless I adjusted to it.

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<v Speaker 1>So what did she say when she left? Well, we

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<v Speaker 1>were sitting on the couch and kissing, and all of

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<v Speaker 1>a sudden she backed off and said she has to

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<v Speaker 1>go to work early. And I didn't know where that

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<v Speaker 1>came from, because we were having such a good time

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<v Speaker 1>and I would have loved if she stayed. Was it late?

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<v Speaker 1>It was late. It was about two am. Okay, that's

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<v Speaker 1>not too bad. I mean, if you haven't started doing

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<v Speaker 1>the other stuff yet, you might be like, well, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to be up until like four or five

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning when I have to work the next day.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true. I wish I got there. I mean, is

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<v Speaker 1>there a chance that maybe she sobered up and realized,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, you weren't as good looking as she

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<v Speaker 1>thought in the bar, or she hey, it happens. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like to think of myself as an ugly guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I think of myself as handsome, so I hope that's

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<v Speaker 1>not it. Yeah, and have you tried to get a

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<v Speaker 1>hold of her since that night? Yeah? I texted her

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<v Speaker 1>the next day, actually, just a regular hey, what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>And she has not responded to me at all at all?

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<v Speaker 1>And what was the last thing that she said to you?

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<v Speaker 1>The last thing she said to me was goodbye? Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just wondering if she sounded like she wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to see you again, or did it feel like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>this is kind of like fun that we met and

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<v Speaker 1>then messed around, but I don't want to have anything

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<v Speaker 1>to do with you. She gave me the vibe that

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<v Speaker 1>she would actually talk to me again. That's what hurts.

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<v Speaker 1>So what do you think it is? Then? I think

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<v Speaker 1>it was my apartment. I think I should have cleaned

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<v Speaker 1>up more. Maybe that would have helped. Yeah, but if

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<v Speaker 1>you just moved departments, I mean, you think she would

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<v Speaker 1>understand if there's boxing and stuff everywhere, that's what I saw.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure. I don't know what it is. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I really want to know. And why do you why

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to get hold of her so bad?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you see a relationship with this girl, or

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<v Speaker 1>you just want to finish what you guys started. I

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<v Speaker 1>just moved, so I'm just looking for people to hang

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<v Speaker 1>out with, and I would love to hang out with her.

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<v Speaker 1>She's my first friend I met at my first friend.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, well we're gonna play a song. Come back,

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<v Speaker 1>call her and get your second date update. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you? All right, man hang brooking jubil in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, if you're just tuning in for today's second

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<v Speaker 1>date update, let me set the scene for you. Matt

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<v Speaker 1>is on the phone right now. And Matt went out

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<v Speaker 1>to a bar all by himself, ended up finding an

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<v Speaker 1>innocent girl named Kelly, and somehow convinced her to go

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<v Speaker 1>back to his place, a place that is littered with boxes,

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<v Speaker 1>beer bottles, a very very scary place, and while they

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<v Speaker 1>were making out doing stuff on the couch, at some

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<v Speaker 1>point she must have looked at a clock and realized

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<v Speaker 1>it was getting late and said she had to leave. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe it wasn't as creepy as I made it sound.

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<v Speaker 1>But Matt is on the phone and Matt went out

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<v Speaker 1>to the bars because he just moved into his apartment,

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to check out the scene around his house, and

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<v Speaker 1>ended up meeting a girl there. He thinks the reason

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<v Speaker 1>she's not calling him back is because his place is

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<v Speaker 1>a mess because he just moved in. Matt, are you

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<v Speaker 1>ready to call her and see if that is the

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<v Speaker 1>reason that she's not getting back to you. Yes, I am,

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<v Speaker 1>And have you cleaned up your place and actually unpacked

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<v Speaker 1>your boxes so if she does actually want to hang

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<v Speaker 1>out again, she's not going to run into that mess. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't as creepy as you just made aside. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit better now, Okay, so you got it

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<v Speaker 1>all cleaned up, all right? Well, I'm a dollar phone

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<v Speaker 1>umber right now, get her on the phone and see

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<v Speaker 1>if we can find out why she isn't getting back

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Okay, okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, can

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<v Speaker 1>I speak to Kelly? Please? Hey, Kelly, how are you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jewil from brook and Jewil in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Um okay, um um. How can I help you? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>somebody recently sent us an email about you, and I

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<v Speaker 1>want to see if you had a few minutes to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to us. Someone you an email about me. Yes, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>We do a segment on our show called the second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update. It's where if you go out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with somebody and then stop talking to them, they

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<v Speaker 1>email us to see if we can get you on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and ask why who someone email you? Who

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<v Speaker 1>was it? His name is Matt, And I wouldn't say

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys necessarily dated, but you did meet one

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<v Speaker 1>evening and go back to his place and mess around

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit. Okay, he told, Okay, yeah I met him. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we know that. So we talked to Matt a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit after we got his email, and he told us

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<v Speaker 1>sort of how you guys met, But he's confused why

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<v Speaker 1>you're not calling him back. He asked us to get

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<v Speaker 1>you on the phone and find out. That way he

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<v Speaker 1>knows if he did something wrong, So he asked you

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever he reached out to find out. Yes, And

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<v Speaker 1>as we tell everybody who does these things, they're fully

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<v Speaker 1>prepared to hear anything that you have to say. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you what he thinks it is, okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you can tell me if I'm right or wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>He thinks it's because his place wasn't ready like any

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<v Speaker 1>boxes everywhere, and he said that he did't I was

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<v Speaker 1>trash set up, so there was beer cans and so

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<v Speaker 1>he feels like you might have thought his place was gross.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, well he did look like kind of extra

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<v Speaker 1>homeless in there, like, so that is that it? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean no, I mean I understand he was moving, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>but I mean it was dirty. I get it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like everything was fine and you guys had

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<v Speaker 1>chemistry and liked each other. I mean we did up

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<v Speaker 1>to a certain point. What are you laughing at? What

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<v Speaker 1>are you laughing at? It sounds like so you think

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<v Speaker 1>something is funny. Oh my god. Okay, okay, here we go. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm excited to hear this. So we're, you know, we're

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<v Speaker 1>there at his place kind of having a little you know,

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<v Speaker 1>makeout situation happening. And he just stopped, like just like

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<v Speaker 1>abruptly just stopped. And I'm looking because I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>figure out what happened. Something tall, I mean, what's wrong?

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<v Speaker 1>And he says huh. He says, hold on, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to make it all nice for you. And I'm told

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<v Speaker 1>the confused because I'm like, what is he gonna go

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<v Speaker 1>make up a bed? Somewhere. No, this guy says, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to make it all nice for you and starts

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<v Speaker 1>pointing down. You also put a bow on it. I

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<v Speaker 1>was just like, it was just so weird. So he

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<v Speaker 1>hops up and like shogs into the bathroom and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sitting there beating like I hear clippers and all right,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh. So he stopped your makeout session to

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<v Speaker 1>get up and go trim his area. Yeah, I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>though he didn't come out with a new haircut, So

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<v Speaker 1>I guess what did you say to him when he

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<v Speaker 1>came out of the bathroom. I just said, oh, look

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<v Speaker 1>at that, it's late. I gotta go. I've never that's interesting. Never,

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<v Speaker 1>I've never been in the situation where I'm making out

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<v Speaker 1>with someone and been like, I mean, I've been where

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh man, I'm not the best down there

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<v Speaker 1>right now, But I've never thought this is the appropriate

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<v Speaker 1>time for me to stop and then go manscape right now? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>or you keep it quiet. Here's the thing, though, not

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<v Speaker 1>when she's like in the waiting room, did he actually

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<v Speaker 1>say the words let me make it nice for you

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<v Speaker 1>before he did it? Yeah, that's amazing. I wonder if

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<v Speaker 1>he's tried that before, and it's worked. I'd love to

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<v Speaker 1>ask him that, Kelly, aren't you curious? No? Not really,

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<v Speaker 1>that's too bad because he's actually on the other line

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<v Speaker 1>listening right now. Are you kidding me? Wow? Like that's

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<v Speaker 1>really why I'm sorry. I mean, but that was really weird.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not that we what's wrong with me making sure?

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<v Speaker 1>I am good for you? I'm looking out for you.

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<v Speaker 1>I did it for you, not when I'm sitting there

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<v Speaker 1>ready to go. I just figured you would appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, do you like it? MESSI in the future,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're making out with a girl, don't stop bord

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<v Speaker 1>to go get your man skate off. I normally take

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<v Speaker 1>care of it, but I've been so busy with moving.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate that when I'm busy with other things and

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<v Speaker 1>then don't have time to mansk it. Why not just

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<v Speaker 1>tough it out at that point? Go all right, this girl,

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna do stuff. It's not the best right now,

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<v Speaker 1>but just go ahead and power through. Jubil If that's

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<v Speaker 1>how you think you obviously don't get ready girls, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you're right. I just am away. If you stay ready,

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<v Speaker 1>you ain't got to get ready. No, I was moving.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even expects to meet a girl and Kelly

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<v Speaker 1>shows up just ready to go. But I mean, Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>think about if the tables were turned and Kelly said,

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<v Speaker 1>just wait a minute, and you heard a razor go

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<v Speaker 1>in in five minute, like I would appreciate that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And you know what, Matt, I actually really would too, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I really would. Yeah. If a girl's like, hang on,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go take care of some things and I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be back as a guy, I would think that would

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<v Speaker 1>be great. Yes, see, that's what I mean. I was

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to be respectful Kelly. Maybe the timing wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>the best, but you gotta admit it was a nice gesture,

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<v Speaker 1>and if you think about it, it's kind of thoughtful.

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<v Speaker 1>It really it really actually is. It's like flowers. Really yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's like, oh that's so sweet, and it's in the

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<v Speaker 1>shape of a heart. Oh my god, I'm not that talented.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you guys wanted me to be honest. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I would tell you what happened. Thank you very much

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<v Speaker 1>for being honest. It's an amazing story. I would like

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<v Speaker 1>to ask if you will go on a second date

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<v Speaker 1>with Matt, though I will pay for it. He'll be ready. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he'll trust me. Matt. Before you got on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with Kelly, would you be man escaped before right if

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<v Speaker 1>you knew everything is done? I mascaped and my apartment

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<v Speaker 1>is clean. Oh my god, there you go, Kelly. You

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<v Speaker 1>heard that. You heard that. He's all ready to go.

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<v Speaker 1>His apartment is clean, everything is clean. Oh gross, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god. Him but to say this, but okay, you'll

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<v Speaker 1>do it. You'll go out with him again. I will

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<v Speaker 1>give him one more chip. Honestly, I'm excited. I think

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<v Speaker 1>we we've already had too much information here, Matt. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't need to broken jewel in the morning.