Speaker 1: Second date update date. You know, in all the years
Speaker 1: that we've done this segment, we've had a few listeners
Speaker 1: call up saying, I know that we only hung out once,
Speaker 1: but I'm pretty sure they're the one.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: We've had other people say I am ready to marry
Speaker 1: this person right now. Yeah, that's not a red flag
Speaker 1: on the phone. Yeah yeah, But rarely do we have
Speaker 1: people email and tell us I want a date even
Speaker 1: though I'm not one hundred percent sure I really want
Speaker 1: to go out with them again.
Speaker 2: Okay, well, I mean even if they don't tell us,
Speaker 2: most of them are thinking that, you know, sure.
Speaker 1: But it's a little bit confusing to me. So we're
Speaker 1: just gonna get the listener on the phone who said
Speaker 1: that to us today. Her name is Ari. Welcome to
Speaker 1: the show. You do realize this is second date update
Speaker 1: and not second date.
Speaker 3: Maybe I don't know.
Speaker 1: We'll see how I feel about the end of the call,
Speaker 1: right A.
Speaker 4: Hi, Yes, I do understand.
Speaker 5: Okay, your community, I mean, are we just calling this
Speaker 5: person because they rejected you.
Speaker 2: Let's be honest for a second.
Speaker 4: No, it's not even like this, like I like this guy.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, tell us a little bit about what's his name?
Speaker 1: How'd you meet?
Speaker 3: So?
Speaker 4: His name is Victor. I met him online and he
Speaker 4: really looked so nice. He had a really nice beard.
Speaker 2: I love a good beard. It's just Jeff looking at you.
Speaker 4: I know.
Speaker 1: Of course she brought it up because I know the
Speaker 1: winks were a little bit aggressive. But that's okay, okay, God, anyway,
Speaker 1: so uncomfortable. Clearly you're not alone? Are so good? Beard
Speaker 1: stuck out to you?
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, it was really nice. So we went on three.
Speaker 5: Days, three and there's a fourth date update actually today.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 4: Okay, well listen, the first two they went really will Okay, so.
Speaker 1: What'd you do?
Speaker 2: Just real quick? Are you doing coffee or what?
Speaker 4: So the first day we showed up in max and
Speaker 4: outfits first on purpose? No, this was like it was active.
Speaker 2: That's so.
Speaker 5: Was it like jeans and a plain T shirt or
Speaker 5: like something crazy?
Speaker 4: It was like white cops, brown bottles and white shoes.
Speaker 1: Chemistry. You're on the same way what I thought. The
Speaker 1: room thinks this is a good thing. Okay. What were
Speaker 1: you doing for your date?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 4: So, like we just went for a drink. Okay, it
Speaker 4: was a really good time. So he's like, look, let's
Speaker 4: go for our second one, right, so we diss up
Speaker 4: the fun again. Just drink and nothing too heavy.
Speaker 1: Okay, So you basically went on the same date twice,
Speaker 1: the same good date twice, just with different outfits. Yeah,
Speaker 1: unless you guys decided to wear the exact same one
Speaker 1: for date number two again because the first one went
Speaker 1: so well, I am going to you in the restaurant.
Speaker 4: We were just wearing different clothes on it second okay.
Speaker 2: Okay, so that one obviously went well because there was
Speaker 2: a third.
Speaker 4: Date, right, yeah, so we decided it is to go
Speaker 4: a little more upscale for the third date.
Speaker 2: That's the right day.
Speaker 4: We did dinner at this fancy restaurant. It's really nice.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so how to date three go? Once you
Speaker 1: got to this nice restaurant, So like I had.
Speaker 4: Got there first, and in order, you know, to get seated,
Speaker 4: you have to have a credit card on foul with
Speaker 4: the host. So I put my credit card down, so
Speaker 4: we want to lose the table. Okay, you know he
Speaker 4: was running a little late, Okay.
Speaker 1: Nice, Well that's not nice that he's late. That's a
Speaker 1: bad news.
Speaker 2: I mean it's a third date. Like things happen, right,
Speaker 2: Like maybe Scott caught at work or.
Speaker 1: Something like four hours later, when.
Speaker 4: No, it wasn't that late. It was like he's about
Speaker 4: like sixteen to twenty minutes.
Speaker 2: Okay, so you're still feeling good.
Speaker 4: Yeah, everything is fine, And then like the bill comes
Speaker 4: in the waiter. It's like, hey, should I just go
Speaker 4: ahead and run the credit card that's on the file?
Speaker 1: Oh, that's your card?
Speaker 4: Yeah, what happened? Well, like he's just looking like stupid.
Speaker 1: The waiter or victor you're dad, he's confused?
Speaker 2: Is he confused or is he trying not to hear it?
Speaker 4: Like I know he's making it awkward because he's very
Speaker 4: like hesitant and he knows that my card is on file.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's defaulting to you. I guess to be like,
Speaker 1: it's your card. You get to make the decision.
Speaker 2: Did you pay for the last two dates? Because then
Speaker 2: I could kind of see it.
Speaker 4: He paid for them.
Speaker 3: But I mean he's the guy, so.
Speaker 4: Traditional guys would go, oh, no way, give me that
Speaker 4: bill a few dates?
Speaker 5: I like, yeah, day, Like, and she's the one that
Speaker 5: put the credit card down. I would think that you're
Speaker 5: telling me that you're so what happened?
Speaker 4: So? Because things is just so weird and awkward and
Speaker 4: the waiter just standing there looking at both of us.
Speaker 4: I'm like, well, just go ahead and run my car, okay, okay,
Speaker 4: wants the waiter walked away. He's just like, your cards
Speaker 4: already on file, so you know, we should just make
Speaker 4: it less of a headache for the waiter.
Speaker 2: He didn't say thank you.
Speaker 4: No oh oh yeah. And the bill. The bill was
Speaker 4: over two hundred.
Speaker 1: Dollars oh place, oh.
Speaker 4: Okay, but I'm like whatever, I'm like, I'm not chipping
Speaker 4: about it, okay. But like after that date, we haven't
Speaker 4: really been talking as much. Like at first, I felt
Speaker 4: like he was really putting a pressure on me and
Speaker 4: keeping in contact and like when I'm going to see
Speaker 4: you again type of thing. But like since that day,
Speaker 4: everything slowed down a lot. And I really don't know why.
Speaker 2: That's weird because you paid.
Speaker 1: Like it feels like yeah, so going back to the
Speaker 1: beginning of this call, is that why you were saying
Speaker 1: because of the whole bill situation, maybe you're not one
Speaker 1: hundred percent sure you really want to see him again
Speaker 1: for another date.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And if he doesn't want to see me again,
Speaker 4: I feel like he needs to run me my money,
Speaker 4: Like he said, for half of the date.
Speaker 2: Oh wow, his half okay, easier. You can't say that
Speaker 2: if like I like a guy can't come back and
Speaker 2: say you didn't go, and if you're never gonna see
Speaker 2: him again, what's the harmon asking like a dude asked that,
Speaker 2: you'd be so upset, But I would do it because
Speaker 2: I can't say.
Speaker 1: No, it doesn't have But if he says yes, then
Speaker 1: you don't care about the bill situation.
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, I don't care because we'll probably go to
Speaker 4: more fancy.
Speaker 1: Well, we're going to see how this goes when we
Speaker 1: call Victor to get you your second date update and
Speaker 1: maybe half of your money back. Right after this second
Speaker 1: date update. We're in the middle of a second date update,
Speaker 1: and if this doesn't go well with Victor, we may
Speaker 1: need to go full Godfather on him.
Speaker 2: Wait, I haven't seen these movies.
Speaker 1: Explain from the second date up. I'm gonna make you
Speaker 1: you can't review.
Speaker 2: That's pretty good, Jeff.
Speaker 1: You paid the nice woman. Oh, we can make it
Speaker 1: real uncomfortable for you. A gift card Apple with half
Speaker 1: of the balance got It's actually the worst thing that
Speaker 1: we could do in this situation. Give a half used
Speaker 1: gift card to somebody it's just disrespectful.
Speaker 2: You have an old Italian foster living inside your body.
Speaker 2: Not actually good.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna we can't really threaten Ari's date here,
Speaker 1: but if he says he does not want to see
Speaker 1: her again, Ari wants to ask him to pay her
Speaker 1: back for half of the bill from their final date
Speaker 1: because it was at this nice upscale restaurant. He kind
Speaker 1: of stuck her with it. Yeah, so kind of awkward.
Speaker 2: Like don't you think Ari that he thought you wanted
Speaker 2: to pay?
Speaker 4: Absolutely not. He should have never thought that.
Speaker 1: Oh, he showed you disrespect and it's not old killing.
Speaker 2: Okay, I think you need the music.
Speaker 1: We're gonna call Victor here, hopefully we can avoid all
Speaker 1: of that. And he just says, yes, he would love
Speaker 1: to see you again. It's all a big misunderstanding. But
Speaker 1: I'm an dial his number right now. Here we go, Hello, Hey,
Speaker 1: is this Victor?
Speaker 3: Here's a Victor. How you doing?
Speaker 1: Oh you're so you're so politely. I'm good to you
Speaker 1: asking what about you, Alexis.
Speaker 2: I don't think he cares.
Speaker 1: Sorry to confuse you, but you're on a radio show
Speaker 1: right now. Okay, but for what you said about what
Speaker 1: good question? How do you feel about us setting you
Speaker 1: up on a hot date with a sexy woman that
Speaker 1: you've already been out with multiple times.
Speaker 2: Why don't your voice get deeper and deeper.
Speaker 1: Than one it to sound entice?
Speaker 3: All right, I'm interested telling more.
Speaker 1: Because there is a woman who has gone through us
Speaker 1: to reach you, and her name is Ari.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I remember are here?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I hope.
Speaker 2: So you guys have went on three dates together.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we went a couple dations together. We had a
Speaker 3: good time.
Speaker 1: Okay. We're trying to help Ari feel this out and
Speaker 1: get a vibe of where your relationship with her is at.
Speaker 1: Not that it's a relationship, but just she wants to
Speaker 1: see more of you, and it hasn't happened, and she's
Speaker 1: not sure why.
Speaker 2: It feels like the momentum has stopped a little bit.
Speaker 3: Yeah about mont for my options. I mean, I'm new
Speaker 3: to the city, so I wanted to, you know, dates
Speaker 3: a little bits. I want to see who's in the city.
Speaker 3: But she's still you know.
Speaker 2: She's still in the fold.
Speaker 1: Okay, And of course you're not going to tell her that, like, hey, sorry,
Speaker 1: not hating you up, I'm going on a lot of dates.
Speaker 3: Yeah, of course, of course, not you're allowed to do.
Speaker 1: How many women are in the are in your fold.
Speaker 3: I've been on maybe two other dates, probably not too bad.
Speaker 2: Okay, that seems normal.
Speaker 1: So you're not completely cutting her out. It's just you're
Speaker 1: also opening yourself up to other possibilities.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, I said it was for my options in
Speaker 3: the city.
Speaker 1: You're ros well, I mean it gives a little bit
Speaker 1: of clarity.
Speaker 2: It doesn't feel great, yeah, specific.
Speaker 1: Because what we do have to deliver it.
Speaker 2: I mean, this is the awkward part.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Victor. The part that you might not know about
Speaker 1: this is that Ari is actually already on this phone call, listening,
Speaker 1: waiting to talk to you.
Speaker 3: You need this phone call right now.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, that's what I meant when I said this
Speaker 1: call Okay. So yeah, I'll just as I think you're okay, Well,
Speaker 1: let's ask Ari are you there?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 3: Hey, Victory, are you doing?
Speaker 4: Oh I'm doing great. But yeah, like I heard everything
Speaker 4: that you said.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So, like I said, we went on a couple
Speaker 3: of days, had a great time. I'm still new to
Speaker 3: the city, so I'm exploring my options.
Speaker 2: See what was out there again?
Speaker 4: Yeah, like you already said that, you keep saying it
Speaker 4: over and over nervous or something.
Speaker 3: I'm not nervous at all.
Speaker 4: No, okay, well you should be. You should be nervous
Speaker 4: because I'm not with none of that. Like I'm not
Speaker 4: part of your starting lineup, buddy. I don't know what
Speaker 4: you think you got going on here, but like we've
Speaker 4: been on three days, so you should have like some
Speaker 4: type of idea, like whether you want to take this
Speaker 4: farther or not. I don't care about you being new
Speaker 4: to a city. Like I'm not one of your little flings.
Speaker 3: I don't move like that.
Speaker 1: I mean, how many dates does it take for you,
Speaker 1: Victor to decide whether or not? Like it's it's the
Speaker 1: real deal with somebody.
Speaker 3: I don't have to answer that. I mean it takes
Speaker 3: the amount of time it takes me to still a
Speaker 3: person out.
Speaker 1: So she just feels like she's waiting forever.
Speaker 2: I don't know about forever. I think she's just saying,
Speaker 2: three days. You need to know.
Speaker 4: Coming the names of the girls you've been and dam I.
Speaker 3: Might know that.
Speaker 1: Never do names, maybe just addresses or something.
Speaker 2: Welcome to our city.
Speaker 1: We're really nice here. I promise the dating scene is
Speaker 1: totally cool. Victor.
Speaker 4: You're not saying anything, what are the girl's names?
Speaker 3: I don't need to tell you that information. That's my information.
Speaker 3: Like I said, I'm exploring with in the city. I
Speaker 3: had a great time with you.
Speaker 4: I feel like that's a BS excuse. I feel like
Speaker 4: that's a BS exkulls.
Speaker 5: Because do you think that he's just trying to cover
Speaker 5: like maybe he just doesn't like.
Speaker 2: You that much or something. I don't mean it in
Speaker 2: a mean way, yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, or maybe he just wanted a free meal that
Speaker 4: night because I paid.
Speaker 1: Remember I knew here we go.
Speaker 4: Since you don't want to, like you don't really care to,
Speaker 4: like going on the date or whatever, I'm fine with that.
Speaker 4: You need to go ahead and pay me up half
Speaker 4: for that dinner. So you need to go outhand and
Speaker 4: like vemo me half of that bill I have to
Speaker 4: receive if you need me this textual picture of it,
Speaker 4: and you could split it down the middle and send
Speaker 4: me your half.
Speaker 3: Okay, I could say the same thing to you. I
Speaker 3: paid for the drinks for the first two days, so
Speaker 3: why don't you send me that money back to drink.
Speaker 4: Drinking funny drink and a whole steak meal appatiser. You
Speaker 4: had a four quart on you.
Speaker 3: You had four lemon drops on the first day.
Speaker 1: And that's a classic drink.
Speaker 2: I appreciate that she's doing all the.
Speaker 1: Work for us. Sugar on the rim too. Do you
Speaker 1: see the point here? It's okay if you're asking, but
Speaker 1: not okay if he's asking.
Speaker 4: Oh no, it's definitely okay if I'm asking. He's a man,
Speaker 4: a real man wouldn't even let me pay. You have
Speaker 4: pulled out your credit card. Let's start there.
Speaker 3: I mean, the reason why you put your credit card
Speaker 3: is because I got to wait, I strut'll try to
Speaker 3: get in there. But at the same time, I mean,
Speaker 3: I thought you were paying for dinner because I paid
Speaker 3: for the drinks on the first few days.
Speaker 1: It seemed like.
Speaker 2: But but you didn't even say thank you afterwards.
Speaker 3: I'm sure I said thank you after word. We had
Speaker 3: a little, you know, situation in the parking lot. Afterwards,
Speaker 3: I gave her a nicettle kiss, said thank you, and
Speaker 3: get the movie.
Speaker 1: The kiss is a thank you, isn't it?
Speaker 4: Running me my money back would be a thank you.
Speaker 1: I believe she's gonna drop pretty. She's pretty stric she
Speaker 1: wants the money back. So do you want to give
Speaker 1: your venmo out right now. No, no, I'm.
Speaker 3: Not giving a veno your shirt.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, I guess you do really well.
Speaker 4: Guess what This year isn't that big. I'll see you around, buddy, godfather.
Speaker 1: We need you make enough prepared all of god.
Speaker 2: No, this is not sounded like stroke.
Speaker 1: Well, we got all the breadsticks that you can put
Speaker 1: in your mouth if you're willing to go out all
Speaker 1: the wrong more time, and that that we on our
Speaker 1: on our time.
Speaker 3: You want to go out again, all nice me and you,
Speaker 3: but I'm never paying you that money bag.
Speaker 4: Oh god, Okay, that's fine, that's cool.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to But hey, ladies, Vic Sir, don't
Speaker 1: dake him because if you do, we're gonna have to
Speaker 1: break some kneecaps. Jeffrey find them. Maybe we'll see you too.
Speaker 1: On Small Claims Court on Judge Judy, all right, good luck,
Speaker 1: it's brooking Jeffrey in the morning.