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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you. Thank you for listening to us.

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Speaker 2: Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 1: A historic week in Los Angeles. I've been here a

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Speaker 1: long time, not all my life. You know a lot

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Speaker 1: of people that have been evacuated and tragically have lost

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Speaker 1: their homes, have lived in their neighborhoods for generations or

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Speaker 1: for a long time, as someone guy lived in a

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Speaker 1: house out on the West Side for sixty five years.

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Speaker 1: And you just keep hearing stories. No one's seen anything

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Speaker 1: like this like we saw this week. We've seen fires,

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Speaker 1: We've dealt with fires. We know what fires are all

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Speaker 1: about in southern California. It's part of life, right, flooding, fires, earthquakes.

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Speaker 2: But just the amount of wind is what is the

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Speaker 2: historical part.

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Speaker 1: Unprecedented winds and scary winds. No matter where you were

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Speaker 1: with those winds, with your my doors were going banging

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Speaker 1: back and forth, and it's frightening to hear that wind.

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Speaker 1: And then of course when you've got fire in that wind,

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Speaker 1: there's just nothing you can do. That was the situation

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Speaker 1: we've been in, and it's been interesting to see, certainly

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Speaker 1: with people that are around you that have been affected

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Speaker 1: or could be affected, how they handle this situation, like,

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Speaker 1: what kind of a person are you handling that kind

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Speaker 1: of pressure and stress? I saw some people with buckets

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Speaker 1: trying to pour water on their houses, trying to fight

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Speaker 1: it with their own hoses. You know, Officials say, don't

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Speaker 1: do that hose because it's not gonna it's not going

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Speaker 1: to get you anywhere, and it's just wasting the water

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Speaker 1: the firefighters need exactly and obviously we need all the water,

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Speaker 1: or they need all the water they can to fight

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Speaker 1: those fires. But resources spread thin, so many authorities and

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Speaker 1: agencies risking their own lives whose family members were some

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Speaker 1: of the officials, the firefighters, and the police officers. Families

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Speaker 1: were evacuated too while they were on the front lines.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's double and triple the stress, right, not

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Speaker 1: knowing how your family members doing out there, and then

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Speaker 1: also not knowing how your home is doing, because you know,

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Speaker 1: unless somebody can get down the street and send you

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Speaker 1: a video of your place, you may not be able

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Speaker 1: to get into see. But it is interesting to see

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Speaker 1: how different people handle these kinds of situations. I would

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Speaker 1: imagine I think you're like me. I'm glued to the news.

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Speaker 1: I can watch the news for hour after hour after hours,

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Speaker 1: I did too.

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Speaker 2: I couldn't stop watching it. And we have like a

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Speaker 2: TV in our house that we can wheel out usually

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Speaker 2: like into the backyard if we wanted to, or wheel

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Speaker 2: it wherever, and I like I wheeled it into my

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Speaker 2: kitchen so that I could continue watching while I was

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Speaker 2: cooking dinner all you know, all this week, and it's everything.

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Speaker 2: It's just devastating to see how displaced it's making so

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Speaker 2: many people, thousands of people here in Soka.

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Speaker 1: It really is. I mean, you know, there's no one

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Speaker 1: who doesn't know someone that hasn't been affected. Yeah, by

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Speaker 2: One of my good friends lost their home in Malibu.

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Speaker 1: Same the leader a little further east U Yeah, home

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Speaker 1: lost friends, evacuated crew members from Wheel a fortune, we're

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Speaker 1: evacuated out in that Altadena Pasadena fire. And it's just,

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Speaker 1: you know, it's just it's it's like we know that

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Speaker 1: this is a risk when we live here. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: we've never seen it like this with hurricane force winds,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what they're saying. It's like it was like

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Speaker 2: a what category one or two?

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Speaker 1: Think hurricane win is seventy four miles per hour, right,

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Speaker 1: and once it hits that, yes, it's considered hurricane win.

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Speaker 3: But also seeing the people that step up and you know,

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Speaker 3: like they're pharmacies that are opening their doors for anybody

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Speaker 3: I just feel like a lot of people really want

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Speaker 3: that's also really beautiful to see.

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Speaker 1: Also, I feel like in neighborhoods that were not impacted

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Speaker 1: and affected, people were saying hi when they passed each other,

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Speaker 1: saying hi, or stay safe for how were you have

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Speaker 1: the best day you can? It brings out, It brings

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Speaker 1: but it is. It is a beautiful thing to see

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Speaker 1: it is how you handle it and how you you know,

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Speaker 1: after all of this, ask the tough questions about how

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Speaker 1: do we keep this from happening again in the future? Right,

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Speaker 1: so we are wait too for a few hours this morning,

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Speaker 1: and here for you eight hundred and five two O

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Speaker 1: one O two seven. We'll put on a show and

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Speaker 1: do we can and maybe even get your mind off

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Speaker 1: some of this stuff. All right, Friday, January tenth, got

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Speaker 1: your horoscopes coming up. Let's hope they're all just good.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to hear any horoscopes that are not positive.

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Speaker 3: Well, this one is a little bit different because it's

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Speaker 3: the one thing that you'll finally let go of in

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Speaker 3: twenty twenty five.

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Speaker 4: Based on your zodiac sign.

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Speaker 1: One thing will let go of in twenty twenty five.

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Speaker 3: Yes, all right, So, Aries, you'll let go of the

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Speaker 3: need to prove yourself to others.

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Speaker 2: Taurus, you'll release your fear of change and embrace the unknown.

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Speaker 3: Gemini you'll let go of overthinking your every move.

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Speaker 2: Cancer, you'll release the emotional weight you've been carrying on

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Speaker 4: Leo, you'll let go of the need for constant validation.

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Speaker 2: Virgo, you'll stop trying to control every outcome.

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Speaker 3: Libra, you'll stop pleasing everyone at the expense of yourself.

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Speaker 2: Scorpio, you'll release the pain you've held onto from past betrayals.

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Speaker 3: Sagittarius you'll let go of the fear of settling down.

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Speaker 2: Capricorn, you'll release the pressure to always be on Oh

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Speaker 2: really yeah, really.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Aquarius, you'll let go of the walls you've built

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Speaker 1: So hold on for a second. I'm gonna I would

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Speaker 1: like to copy all I think we could all do

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Speaker 1: all of those. Yeah, they all adapted my life. I

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Speaker 1: would like every single one of those. You run them like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that'd be great. Oh, that'd be great. Yeah, first stop

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Speaker 1: trying to please. Yeah, that's good.

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Speaker 4: Let's share all of them. Have you built walls around

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Speaker 4: your heart?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Are you just meeting me name? Have you not met

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Speaker 1: me for twenty years?

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Speaker 2: I build walls around my heart sea.

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Speaker 1: Crest bricks in the backyard, just to build more walls.

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Speaker 1: So I do late at night. I build more walls.

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Speaker 3: Time to time to feel like you even build walls

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Speaker 2: Knock them down.

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Speaker 1: Boundaries, you guys are boundaries.

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Speaker 3: Twenty five we let go of the boundaries amongst us.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm trying to create more boundaries, and you're going

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Speaker 1: to buy friends for all. Good morning. The NFL playoffs

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Speaker 1: begin this weekend. The Chargers playing in Houston one thirty,

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Speaker 1: that's tomorrow. Yeah, could probably use a little relief in

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Speaker 1: the form of some sport event. Uh tomorrow's CBS PERI

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Speaker 1: plus the Rams play Monday night, that is at home

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Speaker 1: with highs around seventy, we are paying your bills. That

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Speaker 1: is back. If you're going to the mall this weekend,

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Speaker 1: beware these things. They are five times more bacteria you're

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Speaker 1: ridden than the floor. I'll tell you about that. So

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Speaker 1: Patti Rodriguez is on the line, let me grab her.

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Speaker 1: Remember Patty Rodriguez from Seacrest morning.

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Speaker 5: Hi, good morning everyone.

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Speaker 1: It has been a historically tragic week, and you were

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Speaker 1: top of mind because you've been through this before, and

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Speaker 1: you're home burning down.

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Speaker 5: I have I lost my house ten years ago. You

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Speaker 5: guys know that was that?

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Speaker 1: Was that a decade ago?

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Speaker 4: That's wild.

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Speaker 1: I must say. Patty does keep in touch with me.

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Speaker 1: If there's ever any a restaurant she goes to anywhere

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Speaker 1: go here. If I go back and look at my history,

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Speaker 1: I think it's all restaurants you sent me.

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Speaker 2: By the way, Patty, you still help produce this show,

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Speaker 2: like you'll text, not like you guys should talk about this.

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Speaker 5: Oh I do, I do. I'm always I miss you all.

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Speaker 4: Miss you too.

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Speaker 1: So you post something very timely about what's happening here.

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Speaker 5: Yes, I did, you know.

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Speaker 6: It's it's so tragic and I understand all too well

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Speaker 6: what many Angelino's are going through right now. There's no

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Speaker 6: pain than losing everything all at once, and nothing, nothing

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Speaker 6: can describe Ryan Cusinitania, this type of loss when you

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Speaker 6: when you lose your home and you lose everything, your memories,

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Speaker 6: uh pictures, your your children's first one scene, there's no

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Speaker 6: there's no way to describe it. But I think you

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Speaker 6: know what I I do know is that I promise

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Speaker 6: that everyone listening that has lost their home this week

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Speaker 6: it's it's also very tough to navigate your insurance during

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Speaker 6: to share with everyone listening is you know you have

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Speaker 6: to cont have your insurance immediately, but you do not

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Speaker 6: have to sign anything right now. I would I would

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Speaker 6: suggest you know, you get a complete copy of your policy.

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Speaker 6: I would also suggest you document all the conversations you

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Speaker 6: have with your insurance, record them if you can, because

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Speaker 6: I promise you will not remember a thing.

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Speaker 1: Wow, that's an interesting point because it's so emotional and

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Speaker 1: your heart's pounding and beating, and you're talking about these

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Speaker 1: important things in your life and you may not remember

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Speaker 1: all that. Patty. Also, you know some people sadly take

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Speaker 5: HM and and it's gonna happen, and you just have

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Speaker 6: No to everyone that's coming to you, say you know,

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Speaker 6: I don't have time for this right now. I think

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Speaker 6: it's just about reading, greaving the loss and knowing that

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Speaker 6: you will get through it, and just connecting with friends

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Speaker 6: and family right now. And the insurance claim all that.

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Speaker 6: You have time to do all that. So if they're

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Speaker 6: rushing you to sign anything, don't take your time to

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Speaker 5: There's no rush, there's there's there's.

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Speaker 6: No reason for you to sign anything while you're grieving

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Speaker 6: this loss.

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Speaker 1: And trying to figure out where you're going to be

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Speaker 1: and stay and get organized to get your life back

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Speaker 1: on track in the immediate future.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, exactly. Just take your time with it, and I

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Speaker 6: It just feels like the entire world just collapsed on you.

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Speaker 5: But but we we're all going to get through it.

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Speaker 6: We're the greatest city in this in this world, and

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Speaker 6: we're all here for each other.

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Speaker 5: And you know, just just right now.

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Speaker 6: Michael just lefts to go evacuate a.

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Speaker 5: Pig, the three hundred pounds pig. So we're all we're

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's fun. Yeah, yours one this week.

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Speaker 3: It shows me that deep down you love commitment, deep

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Speaker 1: Don't you go next week? Can you do a segment?

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Speaker 2: Ask her things like how does he make you feel?

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Speaker 1: There's a way. You've got to be smart and you

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Speaker 1: Done that third year you start getting the symptoms two

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: No, please?

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Speaker 3: I mean I would love for you to speak more

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Speaker 3: from the heart. But I had the same kind of

445
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Speaker 3: sentiment because there was two really big breakups Southern Charms,

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Speaker 3: Craig Conover and Summerhouse's page Disorbo.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I know people were shook and sad.

448
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Speaker 2: And I thought they were going to go to the distance.

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Speaker 1: Can you show me pictures of.

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Speaker 2: Who these are a long distance for years?

451
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Speaker 1: Butler and Kay Gerber?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

453
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Speaker 3: And then that was the other two is Kay Gerber

454
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Speaker 3: and Austin Butler. Kai went on vacation with her family

455
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Speaker 3: and people noticed that he was very much not there

456
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Speaker 3: and it turns out that they too also have split.

457
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Speaker 3: And both couples were dating for about three plus years.

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Speaker 1: That's hard. After three years you're really infused into each

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Speaker 1: other's lives because like.

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Speaker 3: The first year, you're really just starting to get to

461
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Speaker 3: know someone. Year two you really fall into that true

462
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Speaker 3: deep love and you're like very compatible.

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Speaker 4: And then year three is when like one.

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Speaker 2: Person, he's something going to happen eventually, Yes, yes, yes,

465
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Speaker 2: honey out? Are you in? Are you out?

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Speaker 3: Which means in my theory is that one person in

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Speaker 3: the couple wants it to go the distance and the

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Speaker 3: other it does not.

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Speaker 1: Yea of those two didn't want to go to the

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Speaker 1: true speculation, but do you have an idea?

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Speaker 4: I know, do you think it was Paige.

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Speaker 2: I think mutual. I think the page didn't want to

473
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Speaker 2: go the distance, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: And then my feeling is in Austin kai that it was.

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Speaker 3: Austin based on no facts, no fact, the fact I

476
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Speaker 3: watched Southern Charm in summer House religiously.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you could come to the conclusion as two

478
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Speaker 1: people at the same place go, you know what this

479
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Speaker 1: is not This has been great, but you probably aren't

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Speaker 1: going to go forever.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, probably all right, but why not if you could

482
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Speaker 3: make it to three years, why can't you make it

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Speaker 3: to forever?

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Speaker 2: Because that third year was a fraud. It should have

485
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Speaker 2: never done. That third year fraud. Yes, it was. You know,

486
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Speaker 2: I knew I want to marry Michael month one.

487
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Speaker 1: I mean, everybody doesn't know right when they meet.

488
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Speaker 2: Somebody year three, even at the beginning of year three,

489
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Speaker 2: you know. So that's why you get through that third

490
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Speaker 2: year and then four or five whatever how.

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Speaker 1: Many years total for you? Michael? With dating, we were

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Speaker 1: coming up on.

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Speaker 2: The end of our fourth year by the time he proposed,

494
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Speaker 2: and I was like, if you do it, I'm out

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Speaker 2: of here.

496
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Speaker 1: You almost twenty years together.

497
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Speaker 2: We were, we were sixteen years together, sixteen together, sixteen together,

498
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Speaker 2: eleven married in a week.

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Speaker 1: Yes, how many years together?

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Speaker 2: Five together? That's a run, run, that's a long time.

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Speaker 2: I imagine if you were engaged right now, you'd be

502
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Speaker 2: like freaking out.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, you would have itched out. Oh yes, sure,

504
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Speaker 3: sueld the stab.

505
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Speaker 1: We are going to take our minds off of some

506
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Speaker 1: serious things and play the match game. The match game

507
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Speaker 1: for tickets to go see the weekend at the Rose Bowl.

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Speaker 1: So let me grab Lizex. He was in La Lizette's

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Speaker 1: Good Morning, tell me about yourself, Lyzette, Hi.

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Speaker 2: Good morning, Ryan.

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Speaker 8: Well, I really love the show, and I'm in my

512
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Speaker 8: late twenties, I work from home, and I'm currently single.

513
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Speaker 5: If you know anybody, Oh.

514
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Speaker 1: Yes, thank you for listening to us. We appreciate you

515
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Speaker 1: liking the show, and we're glad that you're listening and

516
00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:22,920
Speaker 1: working and doing all that stuff. So let me get

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Speaker 1: Lancaster's Lily on Lily and Lancaster, Good Morning. You're number

518
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Speaker 1: two player here, tell us about yourself.

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Speaker 9: So I have two kids whose birthdays are both coming up.

520
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Speaker 9: So my daughter is almost twenty seven, she's turning thirteen,

521
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Speaker 9: and my son is turning sixteen. On the twenty six.

522
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Speaker 1: Wow, oh my gosh, how different Lyzette's life is from yours. Okay,

523
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:54,399
Speaker 1: so well, congratulations on having those teenagers and celebrating their birthdays.

524
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 1: So Lazette and Lily. Lazette contested number one. Lily contested

525
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Speaker 1: number two. We're playing for the weekend tickets at the

526
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Speaker 1: Rose Bowl. That could be a good birthday present, Lily.

527
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Speaker 1: Now here's how it works. We'll give you a phrase

528
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Speaker 1: with a blank in it. You'll play once at a time.

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00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:11,840
Speaker 1: Our panel here Sidney, Chanya Ruby and engineer Tubs will

530
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Speaker 1: write down what they think should go in the blank.

531
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Speaker 1: Then we'll hear your answer and see who you match with.

532
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Speaker 1: All right, where gets the most matches wins? Contested Number one.

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Speaker 1: Lizette will start with you in Alhambra. Hang on, Lily, Lizette,

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Speaker 1: don't say it out loud, just think about what's in

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Speaker 1: the blank for you? Winter blank, winter blank? What do

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Speaker 1: you think the panel is going to put in that blank?

537
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Speaker 1: The most common winter? What is what we're going for here?

538
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:35,440
Speaker 1: And what'd you say, Lizette?

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Speaker 5: I'm going to go with winter wonderland.

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Speaker 1: It is such a great expression. Let's see if we

541
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Speaker 1: can get a match here. Sysany Winter Wonderland. You got one, okay,

542
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Speaker 1: Tania Winter Wonderland, Ruby Winter.

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Speaker 2: I said, Winter Jacket.

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Speaker 1: Just couldn't keep it going, kuld we no an engineer

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Speaker 1: tub Winter winter Coat. You Ruby, you have a match?

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Speaker 1: All right?

547
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:06,080
Speaker 7: Well?

548
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:07,040
Speaker 1: You got what two?

549
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:07,600
Speaker 2: Two?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Two? Very good? Okay, Lily, let's see if you

551
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Speaker 1: can tie or get more than two?

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00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:15,600
Speaker 4: Are you ready's that's a game?

553
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Speaker 1: We salad blank? I don't say anything anybody the salad blank?

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Speaker 9: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, Lily, what'd you say?

556
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Speaker 9: Dressing?

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Speaker 1: Salad dressing. There's a chance here we can get two

558
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Speaker 1: matches Siciny Salad dressing is the tightest game we've ever

559
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Speaker 1: had in match game for the tie, Tanya salad.

560
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Speaker 2: Salad dressing never happens.

561
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Speaker 1: Never happens like this. This is so good for the win.

562
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Speaker 1: Ruby salad dressing the greatest come back in NFL history

563
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Speaker 1: right there. And Tom's what you're saying, salad tongs, Salid

564
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Speaker 1: could we Lily? Congratulations, We've got a couple of tickets

565
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Speaker 1: for you. That was a remarkable comeback to go see

566
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Speaker 1: the weekend. Thank you for listening. All right, I have

567
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Speaker 1: a question, Lily, go ahead.

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Speaker 9: Is there anyway, my two kids obviously are not old

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Speaker 9: enough to go to the concert by themselves. Is there

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Speaker 9: any way to get a third ticket?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, here's what we'll do. Let me just manage this here. Lily,

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Speaker 1: I'll give you the third ticket, and Lizette, I'll give

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Speaker 1: you two tickets. So I think that's the only way

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Speaker 1: I can do the math. Yeah, Lily, you get threette,

575
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Speaker 1: you only get two. I think that's fair.

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Speaker 9: I am happy that I like it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, good done. Everybody wins, but Lily gets three. I

578
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Speaker 1: think that's right.

579
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Speaker 2: I love it, Okay, I love it.

580
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Speaker 1: On air with Ryan Seacrest, if you wake up in

581
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Speaker 1: the middle of the nights are early morning to be

582
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 1: here and work here on this show, you are getting

583
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Speaker 1: married right now except me, Except me, everyone here, everyone's

584
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 1: either married or getting married. What is going on?

585
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Speaker 7: Love?

586
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:13,400
Speaker 1: What's going on is.

587
00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:16,560
Speaker 4: In the air, and you're just not getting married right now?

588
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 6: Oh?

589
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Speaker 1: Is that right? What time am I getting married?

590
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Speaker 7: No?

591
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Speaker 4: I'm just saying what era, I don't know? You only

592
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Speaker 4: know the ends? Well, you actually probably don't even know

593
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Speaker 4: the I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I've table that.

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Speaker 2: I'm not because you can't, but just because I don't

596
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Speaker 2: think you want to.

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Speaker 1: Uh, well, quite frankly, I have been able to focus

598
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Speaker 1: on one for me because of all of you.

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Speaker 2: Guys and no getting stopped.

600
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Speaker 1: But there are a lot of ins and outs. I

601
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Speaker 1: was reading about this somehow, I guess my phone hears

602
00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:54,840
Speaker 1: me talking about your weddings and sends me wedding articles.

603
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Speaker 2: Same thing happens to me.

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Speaker 1: So, uh, this is a year we're having a lot

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Speaker 1: of weddings. Ruby Collette tubs were all getting I mean

606
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Speaker 1: we're not all they are all getting married. I feel

607
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Speaker 1: like it's a we let's see. So the ins and

608
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Speaker 1: outs tell me what you think about this? They say

609
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Speaker 1: in for weddings and if you are planning one, think

610
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Speaker 1: about this. Detailed dress code with helpful mood boards makes

611
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Speaker 1: the photos look amazing and it looks like everyone is

612
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Speaker 1: at the same party.

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Speaker 3: Mood boards are very helpful because everybody always asks.

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Speaker 2: What to wear? Or aren't I just asking you before we

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Speaker 2: got on the air this morning.

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Speaker 3: Yes, do the men have to wear tuxes because it's

617
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Speaker 3: black tie?

618
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Speaker 4: And I was like, that's more loose.

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Speaker 2: But then I was like, then make it black tie optional.

620
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Speaker 2: And she's like, what's that? And I was like, oh, boy,

621
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Speaker 2: you don't know what black tie optional is.

622
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Speaker 1: So wait, wait, we don't need to rent a tux.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well it says black tie on her website.

624
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Speaker 4: You might need to be in a tuxs because you're officiating.

625
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Speaker 1: So much pressure.

626
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Speaker 2: But yet, if you went on your website and you

627
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Speaker 2: had a mood board of like appropriate attire, then actually

628
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Speaker 2: might be helpful.

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Speaker 3: My girlfriend and made a mood board for her bachelorette party,

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Speaker 3: and I found it very helpful.

631
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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm here for it.

632
00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:10,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, another inn one thoughtful gift rather than wasteful gift bags.

633
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 1: All right, wellness activities for a wedding. Wow, how do

634
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:18,120
Speaker 1: sports at a wedding?

635
00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 2: A destination wedding?

636
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Speaker 4: Yeah, like an activity?

637
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Speaker 1: And decadent desserts during the dancing force in the evening,

638
00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:27,440
Speaker 1: they're saying, it's very cool to do a gelato cart

639
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Speaker 1: or cake stations, different options for the sugar rush. What

640
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Speaker 1: are you doing for your dessert?

641
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Speaker 3: So we opted out of doing a cake and we

642
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Speaker 3: are going to do like chios and.

643
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Speaker 1: So much more fun. Yeah, really, cut a big cake.

644
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Speaker 1: No cake.

645
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Speaker 4: No, we don't want to stop the party for anything.

646
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 8: Really, we don't have to stop the party.

647
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 1: This is the the ouls for weddings. They say photo

648
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 1: booths are out. Nobody wants to play in those anymore.

649
00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:56,280
Speaker 2: I know at every event.

650
00:31:56,640 --> 00:32:02,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, and predictableness, justable stuff, first dance, cake cutting, bouquet toss,

651
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 1: all of the predictability is out. I love that. Yeah,

652
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 1: a little more non traditional, a little more fun, break

653
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Speaker 1: the rules.

654
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 2: I like traditional.

655
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Speaker 1: I like traditional, but not at a wedding.

656
00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:13,560
Speaker 2: I still want to, you know, hatch the bouquet and

657
00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:15,720
Speaker 2: toss the garter and all that work.

658
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:18,960
Speaker 1: You catch the I've caught the bouquet.

659
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 2: Tanya caught the bouque at my wedding.

660
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 4: I caught Sydney's bouquet.

661
00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:25,560
Speaker 2: See it worked how many years ago? Though eleven years ago.

662
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Speaker 2: It doesn't really work this. It's not a fast action.

663
00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:34,960
Speaker 2: Patience is a virtue anyway, her wedding, Tanya's wedding coming

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Speaker 2: up here.

665
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Speaker 1: In just a couple of months. I think we're broadcasting

666
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Speaker 1: live of your wedding.

667
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:44,360
Speaker 2: I just booked our flights and I didn't even ask

668
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:48,000
Speaker 2: for vacation. I'm just like, we're just all going there, right, and.

669
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Speaker 1: Make sure we put in for that.

670
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Speaker 10: Uh.

671
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Speaker 1: It's been a rough start for a lot of families.

672
00:32:53,080 --> 00:32:56,280
Speaker 1: And people to the new year. But Sydney, in an

673
00:32:56,280 --> 00:33:00,280
Speaker 1: effort to find some positive light, yes, said that there're

674
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:03,400
Speaker 1: is special meaning to the numerology of twenty twenty five.

675
00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 1: What is numerology.

676
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 2: Numerology is the it's like the belief in numbers and

677
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:11,480
Speaker 2: that they have a special important significance.

678
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 1: So it's the numeral version of the horoscope.

679
00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it'll have a significance to your life specifically,

680
00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:24,560
Speaker 2: So you would adapt these numerology terms to your life

681
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:26,840
Speaker 2: and live your life like this for this year.

682
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:29,479
Speaker 1: Okay, well what did you discover? Because we could use

683
00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 1: some positive right.

684
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:32,920
Speaker 2: So when it comes to twenty twenty five, it all

685
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:35,640
Speaker 2: centers around the number nine.

686
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 4: Ooh, it's good.

687
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:42,720
Speaker 2: Well I haven't even said anything yet. So what makes

688
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:46,040
Speaker 2: twenty twenty five a nine year is the numerology of

689
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:48,120
Speaker 2: it in general. So if you take the digits, you

690
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 2: add them up two plus zero plus two plus five

691
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 2: equals nine. Within numerology, nine is considered a transformative and

692
00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:58,160
Speaker 2: selfless number.

693
00:33:58,400 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 4: Yep.

694
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 2: That urges you to get back.

695
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 6: Yep.

696
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 2: Okay, that's number one. Since it is the last single

697
00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:10,040
Speaker 2: digit number, it represents growth and evolution.

698
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:11,280
Speaker 4: Oh say it again.

699
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:14,399
Speaker 2: Themes associated with the end of a cycle and the

700
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:19,239
Speaker 2: beginning of a new one. Nine also represents a spiritual attitude,

701
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:22,920
Speaker 2: giving us the power to turn past experiences into life

702
00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:25,799
Speaker 2: lessons and wisdom. And after the week that we have

703
00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:30,000
Speaker 2: had here, couldn't we all let's have a kick in exactly?

704
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 2: Self love, self awareness are all themes that are going

705
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 2: to be explored in twenty twenty five. And so think

706
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 2: about maybe journaling or maybe finally trying meditation. All things

707
00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 2: like that are considered to be in theme for twenty

708
00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:49,400
Speaker 2: twenty five. And there you have it, so good.

709
00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:51,800
Speaker 1: I need some other options journaling and meditation.

710
00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:54,120
Speaker 2: I well, there's some of the stuff that's interesting here

711
00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:55,879
Speaker 2: that I kind of just took away, even just based

712
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:57,800
Speaker 2: on the week that we've had, is that nine is

713
00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:00,799
Speaker 2: considered a transformative and selfless number, and it urges us

714
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:03,920
Speaker 2: to give back. So if we have friends, family, people

715
00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:05,960
Speaker 2: that we know that have been affected by these fires,

716
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:08,239
Speaker 2: like this is our time to like give back to

717
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 2: the families, open our door for them, like apartment, Yes,

718
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:13,239
Speaker 2: come sleep at my house whatever you need.

719
00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 1: Yes, that's something that's a that's a good numerological outcome

720
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 1: for the numerology, which is hard for me to say.

721
00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:22,680
Speaker 2: Well, and it represents growth and evolution. So it's like

722
00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:25,399
Speaker 2: if you're like, you're going to have to.

723
00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:27,840
Speaker 1: Grow from this to be forced into growth and evolutions

724
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:30,240
Speaker 1: exactly the way, not the way you saw it coming.

725
00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:32,279
Speaker 2: At the beginning of a new cycle for you.

726
00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:34,680
Speaker 1: Lisa, good morning, How are you?

727
00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:36,480
Speaker 10: Good morning?

728
00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:38,759
Speaker 5: I'm doing okay, how are you doing well?

729
00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:41,200
Speaker 1: Thank you for asking. So you need some help with

730
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 1: your father in law? What's up?

731
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:47,879
Speaker 10: Yes, So we hosted Christmas this year for the first time,

732
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:51,240
Speaker 10: and overall it went buying, but we're in no shoes

733
00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:55,680
Speaker 10: house and he refused to take his shoes off over

734
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:57,399
Speaker 10: the night. Of course of the night I was saying

735
00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:01,960
Speaker 10: to see him, same things to him, like hey, Doug relocs,

736
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 10: take your shoes off, you know, trying to keep it light,

737
00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:05,520
Speaker 10: and he was all like.

738
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:06,720
Speaker 5: Nope, I'm good.

739
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 10: Like okay, that's one thing, but the shoes were disgusting.

740
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:15,839
Speaker 10: And I took a photo that I sent to you,

741
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 10: so you know what I'm talking about.

742
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna check my phone hand well the station, you know, Okay,

743
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:24,960
Speaker 1: let me see Mark has it. Oh, he has really

744
00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:31,960
Speaker 1: like thick tread on his shoes, some spots of stuff

745
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:40,279
Speaker 1: you know, in between or what is that? Oh oh my,

746
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:42,879
Speaker 1: what is that stuff in between the tread?

747
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 2: Oh wow, it's on your couch.

748
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:51,680
Speaker 1: I mean, look, I get it. I don't have people

749
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 1: take their shoes off at my place, but I do

750
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:55,000
Speaker 1: have friends that do that, and you kind of got

751
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 1: to respect it. It's crossing a line if you don't

752
00:36:57,680 --> 00:37:00,600
Speaker 1: do it, especially when you ask for it, and then

753
00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:02,600
Speaker 1: putting his feet up on like that on the furniture.

754
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:07,719
Speaker 10: Yeah. So I don't know what to do because it's

755
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:10,400
Speaker 10: my father in law. They'll be back, and my husband

756
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 10: didn't want to say anything. He's like, well, that's just

757
00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 10: how he is. You know, he might be a little

758
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:16,160
Speaker 10: scared of him.

759
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 1: This is your home, your pad, your place, your rules.

760
00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 1: Uh so I think that you're If it's not you

761
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 1: being direct, then your husband's got to be a little

762
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:27,600
Speaker 1: bit more directed with his father. He's got to appreciate

763
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:30,040
Speaker 1: what you want. But those shoes are disgusting. I've never

764
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 1: seen so much stuff inside the shred of a shoe,

765
00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:32,960
Speaker 1: I know.

766
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 10: I mean, thankfully didn't smell like, so I knew it

767
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 10: wasn't like something from a dog that he stepped in,

768
00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:39,840
Speaker 10: but like it.

769
00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:42,759
Speaker 1: Looks like it grow. So look, look, this is this

770
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:44,799
Speaker 1: is I mean, this is a direct handle. I mean

771
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:47,840
Speaker 1: either you are direct with him again and serious about it,

772
00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:48,920
Speaker 1: or your husband does it.

773
00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:54,520
Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean I guess I could be more direct and.

774
00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 2: Not are you just let it go.

775
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:02,239
Speaker 3: Just get those little things that you slip over them,

776
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:04,360
Speaker 3: that they you know, like that they were at the hospitals.

777
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:09,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, get some booties. Yeah, it's so passive aggressive.

778
00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:11,520
Speaker 4: No, you don't want to take off your shoes. Put

779
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:12,879
Speaker 4: these bad boys on. Thank you.

780
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:15,400
Speaker 1: I mean that's a good solution. Oh man, right, so

781
00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:17,919
Speaker 1: you got some options there at leasta. Thanks for calling.

782
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:20,919
Speaker 1: I appreciate you listen to us. Do you make people

783
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:22,400
Speaker 1: take their shoes off? Cyste at your place?

784
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 2: I don't make people, But when the babies were babies

785
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:27,680
Speaker 2: and crawling around, I did make people take off their shoes.

786
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:29,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, well I understand that.

787
00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I was a little bit more strict about

788
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:33,360
Speaker 2: it then, but no, not so much now. If you

789
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:34,560
Speaker 2: want to take them off, take them off.

790
00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 1: But I put a blanket on the couch because Georgia

791
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:44,480
Speaker 1: licks so much like the Chushians get wet. All right,

792
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:48,080
Speaker 1: if you need a distraction, need to detach and disconnect

793
00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 1: over the weekend. A couple things to put on the

794
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 1: weekend watch lists. Just let's start here with Sisney. What's

795
00:38:58,600 --> 00:38:59,080
Speaker 1: on your list?

796
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:03,360
Speaker 2: Well, it is a Vichy I'm Tim. It's on Netflix,

797
00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:06,799
Speaker 2: and this is a new documentary that just came out

798
00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:09,440
Speaker 2: on New Year's Eve, and it really just takes you

799
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:14,799
Speaker 2: through his life before he was gone way too soon.

800
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:18,239
Speaker 2: And what I found really interesting from this documentary is

801
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:22,160
Speaker 2: that he is narrating it, So I don't know, yes,

802
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 2: so I don't know how they got clips of That's

803
00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:28,440
Speaker 2: what I was wondering, if it was a I or

804
00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:30,720
Speaker 2: if it's some of the stuff is like from old

805
00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:33,799
Speaker 2: videos that like he obviously was like there's a few

806
00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:37,000
Speaker 2: videos where it's him talking to the camera and stuff.

807
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:39,800
Speaker 2: They lifted the audio or the things. But it's very

808
00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:44,800
Speaker 2: very and his parents are in it, and Chris Martin,

809
00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:46,960
Speaker 2: isn't it, David Ghetta. There's just a lot of people

810
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:49,239
Speaker 2: that are speaking so highly of him. He was just

811
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:53,120
Speaker 2: so talented. I didn't realize that he produced cold plays,

812
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:56,840
Speaker 2: sky full stars, uh huh. And so it's just a

813
00:39:56,920 --> 00:39:58,919
Speaker 2: really good documentary. And there's two of them. Actually, there's

814
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:01,200
Speaker 2: the one that's I'm Tim Avichi and then there's the

815
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:04,440
Speaker 2: Avich My Final Show, which is his final show, any Visa,

816
00:40:04,440 --> 00:40:06,720
Speaker 2: and that one's like another so really good.

817
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 1: Vich on tim Netflix, Tin me what's on your weekend

818
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:09,120
Speaker 1: watched list?

819
00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 3: I was so ready for season two of Squid Game

820
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 3: and I was counting down the days.

821
00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:16,640
Speaker 4: It came out the day after Christmas.

822
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:20,680
Speaker 3: It is on Netflix, and season two follows the same guy, Jihan,

823
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:23,919
Speaker 3: the player four fifty six from season one, so he

824
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:26,400
Speaker 3: basically instead of getting on the plane to like go away,

825
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:29,200
Speaker 3: he returns to the Squid Game because he wants to

826
00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:30,200
Speaker 3: stop it.

827
00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:31,320
Speaker 4: It's so good.

828
00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:34,360
Speaker 3: There are seven episodes that are all out now on Netflix,

829
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:36,919
Speaker 3: and then the rumor is that season three or part

830
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:39,120
Speaker 3: three is going to be coming out later this year,

831
00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:41,239
Speaker 3: and then that's the last season of it.

832
00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 1: It's over.

833
00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:43,800
Speaker 2: I don't know how you watched this show.

834
00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:46,880
Speaker 3: It's very not on brand for me. It's like very

835
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:51,239
Speaker 3: weird that I world loved it. I know, because the

836
00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 3: storytelling is so great. They just had a really good.

837
00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:57,640
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, Ruby the last show Girl, Huh, that's a

838
00:40:57,680 --> 00:40:58,880
Speaker 1: new weekend watch those Yes.

839
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:02,040
Speaker 8: It's in theaters. It's a drug film directed by Gia Coppola.

840
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:04,919
Speaker 8: And it stars Pamela Anderson, who of course we love,

841
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:07,960
Speaker 8: but it follows a season show Girl who must plan

842
00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 8: for a future when her show abruptly closes after a

843
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:12,840
Speaker 8: thirty year run. So it looks really really good and

844
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:15,839
Speaker 8: she's gotten a lot of like good feedback on the film,

845
00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:16,879
Speaker 8: so I'm excited for that one.

846
00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:18,880
Speaker 1: All right. So that's the last show Girl in theaters

847
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:20,800
Speaker 1: and coming soon. Just put on your radar on Wednesday

848
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:23,759
Speaker 1: with Love Megan with Megan Markle on Netflix. I don't

849
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:26,240
Speaker 1: know if you want to check that out. Thursday, SNL

850
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:30,480
Speaker 1: fifty Beyond Saturday Night's a documentary of SNL Beyond Peacock

851
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:33,720
Speaker 1: and the next Friday, severnth this season two Severn Wow

852
00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:37,919
Speaker 1: post up on Apple tv Plus. So just some things

853
00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 1: to keep in mind if uh yeah, Just thinking of everybody,

854
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:44,680
Speaker 1: and here for anybody who wants to call in at

855
00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:47,160
Speaker 1: any point in time to share any story or reach

856
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:49,239
Speaker 1: out about any aspect of what's happened this week, or

857
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:52,920
Speaker 1: just to talk. We can take your call one eight

858
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:55,400
Speaker 1: hundred and five to two, one to twenty seven. We

859
00:41:55,520 --> 00:42:01,200
Speaker 1: can all the different fires over the we and look

860
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:04,960
Speaker 1: at the different places and the acreage all over Los Angeles.

861
00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:07,200
Speaker 1: We've never seen anything like it because of the winds.

862
00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 1: We've seen the fires, but never seen anything like this

863
00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:12,200
Speaker 1: because of the winds. And the firefighters couldn't get up

864
00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:14,719
Speaker 1: in the air to fight from the air with all

865
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:17,480
Speaker 1: that water that they could, you know, really have used

866
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:19,920
Speaker 1: to help try to control some of it early on.

867
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 1: So it's been very challenging and you've seen that all unfold,

868
00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:28,680
Speaker 1: but so many heroes and so much in the midst

869
00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:31,200
Speaker 1: of all of it, so much beautiful spirit from neighbors,

870
00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:33,360
Speaker 1: and so much beautiful spirit from community members, and so

871
00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:36,800
Speaker 1: much beautiful spirit from people who live in this great city.

872
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:39,640
Speaker 1: And I think that that's something that definitely was shining

873
00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:44,080
Speaker 1: through as it was so tough, as the dark cloud

874
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 1: literally hung over Los Angeles this week. But you know,

875
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:51,000
Speaker 1: one of the things that many people had to figure

876
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:53,279
Speaker 1: out was what to grab and take to go if

877
00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 1: they had to leave their home, and tens of thousands

878
00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 1: of people did. But what do you take? And that's

879
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:02,360
Speaker 1: something we talked about. Documents, prescriptions, birth certificate, Where is

880
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:03,200
Speaker 1: all that stuff do you have?

881
00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:04,920
Speaker 4: Where is all that stuff we have?

882
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 2: Oursn't a fire bag?

883
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:08,920
Speaker 1: Well this might be the time you didn't have to

884
00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:11,239
Speaker 1: take everything now to organize it. So if you ever do,

885
00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:13,719
Speaker 1: it's ready to go. But they safe to have in

886
00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:16,319
Speaker 1: that go bag, food and water at least three days

887
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 1: of supply that your phone chargers. My friends had to

888
00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:22,839
Speaker 1: go to other people's houses charge their devices because theydn't

889
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:23,720
Speaker 1: have their phone chargers.

890
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:25,080
Speaker 2: Yep, and they left.

891
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:29,440
Speaker 1: So your first aid kit, your phone chargers, your personal items,

892
00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 1: which is a change of clothes, good shoes. Those shoes

893
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:36,799
Speaker 1: you can walk around different terrain, in your toothbrush, all

894
00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:39,240
Speaker 1: that kind of stuff. A whistle.

895
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:41,320
Speaker 2: See, I would not think of a whistle.

896
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:44,839
Speaker 1: A whistle that wouldn't come to me. So you can

897
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 1: yell for help.

898
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:47,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I guess if you evacuate it and

899
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 2: you ended up still being stuck somewhere, didn't make it

900
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:52,799
Speaker 2: out of your neighborhood, who knows, right, Yeah.

901
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:57,680
Speaker 1: Follow this sound of the whistle, your documents. Something that

902
00:43:57,760 --> 00:43:59,320
Speaker 1: is a comfort item. This is interesting to put in

903
00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:01,840
Speaker 1: your to go something it's a comfort item, so that

904
00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:03,759
Speaker 1: whether it's chocolate or a book or a board game,

905
00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:05,759
Speaker 1: something that gives you a little bit of piece, a

906
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:06,520
Speaker 1: little bit of comfort.

907
00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:09,040
Speaker 2: See, I would think that for my kids, like their lovies,

908
00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:10,200
Speaker 2: their blankets.

909
00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:12,239
Speaker 1: Type of stuff in there that makes them have one

910
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 1: little beat of normalcy. And then if you can other

911
00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:20,480
Speaker 1: items multipurpose tools, plastic sheeting, scissors, duct tape. I don't

912
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 1: have any of that.

913
00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:23,160
Speaker 2: Stuff that I've that I would never think to get, like.

914
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:26,840
Speaker 1: Manual can opener, because if you got your canned foods

915
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:30,239
Speaker 1: the phone opener. But it is interesting to have to

916
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:32,239
Speaker 1: think about what to put in that bag. And if

917
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 1: you didn't have to grab this time around at the

918
00:44:34,719 --> 00:44:37,520
Speaker 1: last minute, might need a plan ahead. Maybe it's just

919
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:39,320
Speaker 1: you don't want to do it, but you should.

920
00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 2: No, And that's the thing. And we live in California,

921
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:43,200
Speaker 2: so right now we're dealing with the fires, but you

922
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:45,040
Speaker 2: never know when it's going to be an earthquake or

923
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:46,319
Speaker 2: you know, so it's just that.

924
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:48,759
Speaker 1: Or after all of this, I mean, you know, with

925
00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:51,760
Speaker 1: that brush burnt, there's going to be flooding. Oh gosh,

926
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 1: that's the post effect of these things. So tit is

927
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:57,360
Speaker 1: important to have that bag ready to go. It's going

928
00:44:57,440 --> 00:44:59,800
Speaker 1: to wrap it up for the morning show today. Appreciate

929
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:03,920
Speaker 1: y'all checking in throughout the week. Just looking ahead to

930
00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 1: the weekend, clear skies, seventies, temperatures, the wind is going away.

931
00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 1: We'll be back next week. Make sure you check in

932
00:45:14,160 --> 00:45:16,560
Speaker 1: with your friends and your family that need you. Yep,

933
00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:19,160
Speaker 1: and appreciate everybody that reached out to tell their stories

934
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:20,919
Speaker 1: here this week on our show. We'll be back next

935
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 1: week with a lot of different things and some normalcy here.

936
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:26,920
Speaker 1: We do have a bunch of Ryan's roses emails that

937
00:45:27,040 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 1: still continue to come in, so we'll get back into that.

938
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 1: I have some tips on how to win an argument

939
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:39,280
Speaker 1: in your relationship, right I know you'd like to keep score.

940
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:42,200
Speaker 2: I always, I mean, I always win, so keep it going.

941
00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:45,239
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't like to argue. I like to

942
00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:46,560
Speaker 1: let's talk about it tomorrow.

943
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:49,840
Speaker 2: I'm like you, I can shelf it and be like,

944
00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 2: let us not, let's move.

945
00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 4: Past, never come back it right here, right now.

946
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:59,840
Speaker 1: I'm surprised that your boyfriend fiance can handle that. We

947
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:02,320
Speaker 1: he'd remarkable. Oh he can't.

948
00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:05,840
Speaker 3: No, he says, no, We're gonna go to bed and

949
00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:07,280
Speaker 3: we're gonna talk about it tomorrow.

950
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:09,000
Speaker 2: And I'm like, no, we're not.

951
00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:10,120
Speaker 4: I want to talk about it now.

952
00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:10,920
Speaker 1: Is human?

953
00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:12,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't picture you guys arguing.

954
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:16,240
Speaker 3: It's not It's like like chill, He's so chilled, annoying.

955
00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:18,440
Speaker 1: It's the benefit of being with an older dude.

956
00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:25,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's definitely thinking, we're tired, we have aim us

957
00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:25,560
Speaker 3: to argue.

958
00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:28,520
Speaker 2: It's so it's so true. But it's also like maturity,

959
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:31,560
Speaker 2: like you just as you gets older. Right when I

960
00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:34,080
Speaker 2: was dating Michael in my twenties and he's two years

961
00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:35,799
Speaker 2: younger than me, which is not that big of a gap,

962
00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:38,040
Speaker 2: but like we would get in argument with my sister

963
00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:40,400
Speaker 2: who's eight years older than me, she goes, he's just immature.

964
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:43,040
Speaker 2: You're just gonna have to wait till you. Guys both mature.

965
00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:43,880
Speaker 2: And it's so true.

966
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 1: I mean, like you need to argue with me. I'm like, guys,

967
00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:47,680
Speaker 1: I got twenty five years that you want. You want

968
00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:51,759
Speaker 1: to fight about this, You're gonna outlive me. You're gonna

969
00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 1: out live me, honey.

970
00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:54,160
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

971
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:55,799
Speaker 2: But it has the time. We just let you win

972
00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:57,239
Speaker 2: because I don't want to argue with you either.

973
00:46:57,920 --> 00:46:59,719
Speaker 1: I don't argue with you guys, And yes, you.

974
00:47:02,000 --> 00:47:02,200
Speaker 7: Come.

975
00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:06,440
Speaker 1: Gosh, really, I feel like I wave a white flag

976
00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:06,960
Speaker 1: all the time.

977
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:09,359
Speaker 4: Oh, it's like a daily boxing ring in here.

978
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:14,560
Speaker 1: Defeat defeat all right, big hugs, everybody take care of her.

979
00:47:14,600 --> 00:47:16,560
Speaker 1: The weekend. I'll be with you on America Top forty

980
00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:18,040
Speaker 1: this weekend if you want to check it out tonight.

981
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:19,760
Speaker 1: If you want an escape, I'll see on a Wheel

982
00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 1: of Fortune and big hugs. All right, Thanks for listening

983
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:26,400
Speaker 1: to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe,

984
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:29,440
Speaker 1: and we'll talk to you again Monday.