WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Playing Phone Detective 0:00:00.000 --> 0:00:01.400 I hope you're having a great Tuesday. 0:00:01.920 --> 0:00:04.440 That only means one thing on this podcast, and that 0:00:04.559 --> 0:00:08.399 it is awkward Tuesday phone call everything that can overtake 0:00:08.440 --> 0:00:11.120 taco to that's right, that's right, Say good a mile. 0:00:11.480 --> 0:00:14.040 Yeah, this is what we've been training for. 0:00:14.240 --> 0:00:16.640 How did I just know that it just aligns today? 0:00:16.680 --> 0:00:18.680 Starsh My god, you. 0:00:18.640 --> 0:00:20.520 Are not nearly as drunk as you should be right. 0:00:20.440 --> 0:00:23.680 Now, or not even as many tacos as I should 0:00:23.680 --> 0:00:27.720 have either. Full. Okay, let's get it done. 0:00:27.760 --> 0:00:30.120 Let's get a brand new episode out right now, and 0:00:30.160 --> 0:00:31.720 then we're all headed to the bar again. 0:00:32.840 --> 0:00:34.480 Do you have any comments before we get there? 0:00:34.720 --> 0:00:36.560 Yeah? You know, we said the other day someone uses 0:00:36.600 --> 0:00:39.040 our second Ate update to time their showers. Oh yeah, 0:00:39.080 --> 0:00:42.120 so sim commented that guy uses it for shower time. 0:00:42.240 --> 0:00:45.080 Ha, I use it for toilet time. Any longer and 0:00:45.120 --> 0:00:47.000 my legs go numb and I can't walk. 0:00:46.840 --> 0:00:50.800 Right, I know my stomachs have st I've listened to 0:00:50.840 --> 0:00:52.240 two Second Days back and back. 0:00:52.920 --> 0:00:56.120 No, no more details. He loves the classics on the weekend. 0:00:56.560 --> 0:00:59.320 Oh all right, here we go. Let's still make it 0:00:59.360 --> 0:01:02.360 any more awkward than it is. Uh, awkward Tuesday phone 0:01:02.400 --> 0:01:03.840 called brand new starts right now. 0:01:05.800 --> 0:01:09.000 Out of all the milestones in a budding relationship, the 0:01:09.080 --> 0:01:13.640 first kiss, first sleepover, first time clogging their toilet and 0:01:13.680 --> 0:01:14.960 blaming it on their dog. 0:01:16.920 --> 0:01:18.640 Climbed in, Yeah it wasn't me. 0:01:19.360 --> 0:01:22.120 First one I always look forward to the most is 0:01:22.160 --> 0:01:23.800 the first big argument. 0:01:24.040 --> 0:01:25.480 Oh what is it going to. 0:01:25.480 --> 0:01:25.960 Be a power? 0:01:26.120 --> 0:01:28.640 I love that because that's when you really get to 0:01:28.680 --> 0:01:30.360 see what it would be like to date them for 0:01:30.440 --> 0:01:31.080 the long haul. 0:01:31.520 --> 0:01:32.039 That's true. 0:01:32.360 --> 0:01:35.160 Well, one of our listeners reached that milestone on date 0:01:35.240 --> 0:01:36.000 number three. 0:01:36.200 --> 0:01:38.160 Oh oh good man, and it. 0:01:38.160 --> 0:01:39.280 Was not pretty. 0:01:40.120 --> 0:01:42.679 She went in pretty hard on the guide admits she 0:01:42.959 --> 0:01:45.960 was actually the one in the wrong, But is it 0:01:46.040 --> 0:01:49.280 too late to apologize? Now we're going to find out 0:01:49.320 --> 0:01:52.640 what happened and try to help save the relationship when 0:01:52.640 --> 0:01:55.200 we do your brand new awkward Tuesday phone call. 0:01:55.360 --> 0:01:57.280 Next, It's awkward. 0:01:57.640 --> 0:01:59.200 It's Tuesday. 0:01:59.200 --> 0:02:01.200 It's awkward Tuesday phone call. 0:02:02.240 --> 0:02:04.480 One of our bread and butter segments on this show 0:02:04.840 --> 0:02:07.840 is the second date update. Yes, but where do you 0:02:07.920 --> 0:02:10.160 turn if you already had the second date? 0:02:10.520 --> 0:02:13.760 You're on your third. Things are looking really good. 0:02:14.320 --> 0:02:17.520 Trying to land that plane, but you don't see the 0:02:17.639 --> 0:02:22.440 ice on the tarmac. Oh no, Suddenly the butting relationship 0:02:22.560 --> 0:02:26.600 skids off the runway straight into a fireworks factory. 0:02:27.360 --> 0:02:28.200 Wow. 0:02:28.200 --> 0:02:32.680 There just as disastrous as disaster could get built. 0:02:32.480 --> 0:02:34.799 Those next to an airplane runway. 0:02:35.600 --> 0:02:41.080 It was to celebrate the opening of the airport exactly. 0:02:41.360 --> 0:02:45.360 That's basically where our listener, Isabella finds herself after going 0:02:45.400 --> 0:02:48.440 on a third date that went south, and she thinks 0:02:48.639 --> 0:02:51.960 it's all her fault, but she wants our help to 0:02:52.120 --> 0:02:54.720 try and repair it. Isabella, welcome to the show. 0:02:55.520 --> 0:02:57.000 Hi, thanks for having me. Guys. 0:02:57.160 --> 0:02:58.520 Oh you sound down. 0:02:59.200 --> 0:03:02.320 I am down. The guy I've been talking to has 0:03:02.600 --> 0:03:06.960 just like completely ignored me now. 0:03:06.480 --> 0:03:08.680 And for once, it was the woman's fault. This is 0:03:08.680 --> 0:03:09.520 interesting to me. 0:03:09.560 --> 0:03:10.880 Tell me that. 0:03:12.480 --> 0:03:15.000 Fifty percent of the time it's it's the woman's fault. 0:03:15.000 --> 0:03:19.919 I'm she's admitting that it's her and I'm curious why 0:03:20.000 --> 0:03:21.680 you think that, Isabella, what happened? 0:03:22.160 --> 0:03:25.320 Yeah, no, I'm pretty sure it's my fault. It was 0:03:25.360 --> 0:03:29.480 just something that I did. It was stupid, it ruined everything. 0:03:29.840 --> 0:03:33.080 Okay, wait, slow down. Is this something you did on 0:03:33.080 --> 0:03:35.200 the first date? Something you did on the second date? 0:03:35.880 --> 0:03:38.000 It was actually our third Oh you. 0:03:37.880 --> 0:03:39.760 Did go on a third day. I'm sorry. I didn't 0:03:39.840 --> 0:03:40.280 understand that. 0:03:40.400 --> 0:03:42.000 I know my intro was relevant for. 0:03:43.880 --> 0:03:45.600 Who's the guy that you were out with? 0:03:46.600 --> 0:03:47.320 His name is Marco? 0:03:47.800 --> 0:03:53.440 Okay, okay, that would probably get him to stop calling 0:03:53.480 --> 0:03:54.000 with that. 0:03:55.320 --> 0:03:56.960 Yeah, I mean his whole life, right. 0:03:57.400 --> 0:03:59.720 What happened on the third date with Marco that made 0:03:59.800 --> 0:04:01.280 you think something was wrong? 0:04:02.360 --> 0:04:05.080 Okay, well he isn't telling me why, but this is 0:04:05.080 --> 0:04:08.240 my guest. The last time he hung out, I was hoping, 0:04:08.320 --> 0:04:11.440 you know, things would happen if you know what I mean. 0:04:11.600 --> 0:04:13.680 Yeah, okay, you're feeling connected to him. 0:04:13.680 --> 0:04:16.560 You're through some Suku. 0:04:19.200 --> 0:04:22.920 Naked I already did nine. 0:04:23.600 --> 0:04:26.400 So we were hanging out, its getting late. We were 0:04:26.400 --> 0:04:32.039 watching some boring national geographic video about birds I don't know. Okay, yeah, 0:04:32.040 --> 0:04:33.760 he's learning to fall asleep, right, and so. 0:04:33.800 --> 0:04:35.120 Like, wake up Marco. 0:04:35.360 --> 0:04:38.200 Yeah, I know, I wanted him to like stay up 0:04:38.240 --> 0:04:39.479 and have fun. So I was like, you know what, 0:04:39.640 --> 0:04:42.440 let's go get into energy drink and he didn't have 0:04:42.560 --> 0:04:44.400 when it did his place. So he's like, oh, there's 0:04:44.440 --> 0:04:46.400 a gas station a couple of blocks away. Let's just 0:04:46.400 --> 0:04:47.960 hop in the car and I'll take you real quick. 0:04:48.040 --> 0:04:49.400 So okay, we get there. 0:04:49.440 --> 0:04:51.440 He parks the car at one of the pumps, he 0:04:51.480 --> 0:04:54.240 gets gassed. I go inside, and when I come out, 0:04:54.480 --> 0:04:58.000 it looks like he's going through my phone, like he 0:04:58.040 --> 0:05:01.200 it looks like my phone in your hands. So I 0:05:02.720 --> 0:05:05.800 get really aggressive quick and I accuse him. I'm like, hey, 0:05:06.160 --> 0:05:07.960 don't go through my stuff. What are you doing? You 0:05:08.000 --> 0:05:10.240 can't just go through my phone. It's not okay. Well 0:05:10.560 --> 0:05:18.080 it turns out it was his phone, you know, but 0:05:18.120 --> 0:05:20.640 i'd already said it, and I'd already come out of 0:05:20.680 --> 0:05:21.919 him like real aggressive. 0:05:22.279 --> 0:05:25.599 You sound really sweet, Like how scary do you get? 0:05:26.600 --> 0:05:29.119 I mean, I can get mad, especially when I feel 0:05:29.120 --> 0:05:32.040 like boundaries are being cross, you know, and especially since 0:05:32.200 --> 0:05:34.440 I had an ex who went through my stuff and 0:05:34.600 --> 0:05:39.160 he broke trust constantly. But I shouldn't have accused him. 0:05:41.480 --> 0:05:44.400 And when you accused him of going through your phone, 0:05:44.480 --> 0:05:45.640 what was his reaction? 0:05:46.800 --> 0:05:48.040 Well, he was. 0:05:48.000 --> 0:05:50.560 Just sort of like taken aback and he's like, this 0:05:50.920 --> 0:05:54.760 isn't yours, Like what the heck? Like that was crazy reaction. 0:05:55.560 --> 0:05:56.760 It's an energy shift. 0:05:57.120 --> 0:05:59.440 It's so interesting when you're dating someone in the very 0:05:59.480 --> 0:06:00.960 beginning and you see. 0:06:00.720 --> 0:06:05.960 That first side of them. Oh this is what I'm 0:06:06.000 --> 0:06:06.920 getting into. 0:06:06.920 --> 0:06:11.159 Right, But it's not even the worst part my problem 0:06:11.279 --> 0:06:14.040 was that I didn't drop it for the rest of 0:06:14.040 --> 0:06:14.280 the night. 0:06:14.480 --> 0:06:15.880 What do you mean you didn't drop it? 0:06:16.920 --> 0:06:21.400 Well, on the whole right home, I brought it again 0:06:21.440 --> 0:06:23.120 and I was like, just tell me if you look 0:06:23.160 --> 0:06:23.719 through my phone. 0:06:23.920 --> 0:06:29.120 Oh wait, why did you not believe him? 0:06:29.720 --> 0:06:32.039 I think it was just triggering for me. You know, 0:06:32.120 --> 0:06:34.680 it's just like I had EXAs do that to me 0:06:34.680 --> 0:06:35.240 in the past. 0:06:35.520 --> 0:06:37.320 That is obviously not a good look. But we do 0:06:37.400 --> 0:06:40.840 appreciate you being honest and vulnerable. I know that's hard 0:06:40.839 --> 0:06:41.080 to do. 0:06:41.720 --> 0:06:43.800 Yeah, I mean I realized I wasn't going wrong, But 0:06:44.080 --> 0:06:46.680 after that he was like, oh, we just call it 0:06:46.720 --> 0:06:47.039 a knight. 0:06:47.200 --> 0:06:50.680 Oh you don't even want to go inside and drink 0:06:50.720 --> 0:06:52.320 the energy drinks and see what happens. 0:06:53.560 --> 0:06:56.120 No, Geez's pretty much true. 0:06:57.480 --> 0:06:59.279 When did you work in your apology? 0:07:00.320 --> 0:07:04.120 I mean, I've apologized a text a few times, but 0:07:04.440 --> 0:07:07.000 I haven't like called them I've done it over the 0:07:07.080 --> 0:07:08.160 phone or anything yet. 0:07:09.279 --> 0:07:10.239 I mean, I think. 0:07:10.120 --> 0:07:12.560 Part of your biggest hurdle here isn't that you got 0:07:12.600 --> 0:07:15.960 angry and you know missaw the situation. 0:07:16.200 --> 0:07:19.320 It's that the length of time it took you to rebound. 0:07:19.960 --> 0:07:25.600 Yeah, yeah, okay, didn't made that worse. 0:07:27.480 --> 0:07:30.640 What should we bring out? 0:07:31.040 --> 0:07:31.680 I mean, that's just. 0:07:31.640 --> 0:07:34.080 Hard, Like you do owe him a big apology, a 0:07:34.160 --> 0:07:34.880 sincere one. 0:07:35.120 --> 0:07:38.560 Yes, yeah, I know that you're right. I just I'm 0:07:38.760 --> 0:07:41.240 hoping that you guys can help me figure out how 0:07:41.320 --> 0:07:43.120 to do this, Like how do I undo this? How 0:07:43.120 --> 0:07:46.240 do I go about apologizing to them while still expressing 0:07:46.840 --> 0:07:48.760 my boundaries for the future. 0:07:48.960 --> 0:07:50.520 I don't think you need to anymore. I think he 0:07:50.560 --> 0:07:51.360 gets your boundaries. 0:07:51.440 --> 0:07:54.800 Yeah, yeah, I think those are very clear. 0:07:55.040 --> 0:07:58.280 A lot of behavior changes going forward. But in the meantime, 0:07:58.480 --> 0:08:00.200 we're all going to go to the break round. We're 0:08:00.200 --> 0:08:03.200 gonna grab some Monster Energy drinks and pound them to 0:08:03.240 --> 0:08:05.640 think of the best advice we could give you before 0:08:05.680 --> 0:08:08.920 we come back, and let you call your guy Marco 0:08:09.440 --> 0:08:13.160 and Paul guy you're talking to day casually and see 0:08:13.160 --> 0:08:15.080 if we can get him to give you one more chance. 0:08:15.360 --> 0:08:17.120 I'm gonna go through Brooks Phone. Why do that? 0:08:17.200 --> 0:08:18.280 Oh yeah, that's a good call. 0:08:18.360 --> 0:08:22.600 We should all look at Brooks Phone fun, and then 0:08:22.600 --> 0:08:24.360 we'll let you do it with your awkward Tuesday phone 0:08:24.400 --> 0:08:25.360 call right after this. 0:08:25.400 --> 0:08:27.320 Hold on, it's awkward. 0:08:27.680 --> 0:08:29.240 It's Tuesday. 0:08:29.280 --> 0:08:34.400 It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Trust is a fickle beast. 0:08:35.120 --> 0:08:35.920 Yes it is. 0:08:36.040 --> 0:08:39.040 Once you lose it, it's almost impossible to get it back. 0:08:39.120 --> 0:08:41.520 Oh yeah, and that's what our listener, Isabella is dealing 0:08:41.559 --> 0:08:44.280 with after her third date with a guy named Marco, 0:08:44.880 --> 0:08:48.400 where she accused him of looking through her phone while 0:08:48.480 --> 0:08:49.199 she was in a. 0:08:49.160 --> 0:08:50.560 Gas station buying drinks. 0:08:50.760 --> 0:08:51.800 Yeah yeah, it. 0:08:51.840 --> 0:08:54.280 Turns out he was looking at his own phone, and 0:08:54.400 --> 0:08:57.720 her insecurities from a previous relationship kind of took over. 0:08:57.960 --> 0:08:58.520 Yeah. 0:08:59.200 --> 0:08:59.839 Worst port though. 0:09:00.120 --> 0:09:02.920 She wouldn't drop it the entire ride home, and they 0:09:03.040 --> 0:09:06.840 parted ways on a really weird note. Have not spoken since, 0:09:07.240 --> 0:09:09.880 So she's coming to us seeking advice on how to 0:09:10.040 --> 0:09:15.440 properly apologize and hopefully smooth things over. She should be 0:09:15.520 --> 0:09:18.920 super easy, Brook, what's your advice for Isabella? 0:09:19.200 --> 0:09:22.000 Well, this might come off as a little manipulative. 0:09:22.200 --> 0:09:25.280 Oh I like it. I don't like it. 0:09:25.520 --> 0:09:28.480 But what you need to do is you need to 0:09:28.640 --> 0:09:30.679 say you're sorry, say you're so embarrassed. 0:09:31.520 --> 0:09:32.240 Start crying. 0:09:32.880 --> 0:09:34.320 Oh, start crying. 0:09:35.040 --> 0:09:37.720 Yeah yeah, and just tell him that you're just not 0:09:38.000 --> 0:09:42.719 used to being around such an amazing guy like he is, and. 0:09:42.360 --> 0:09:45.040 Then you'll get used to it and you're excited about it. 0:09:45.400 --> 0:09:45.640 Ah. 0:09:46.160 --> 0:09:48.280 Okay, what do you think about that, Isabella? Can you 0:09:48.320 --> 0:09:49.120 cry on command? 0:09:49.840 --> 0:09:50.040 You know? 0:09:50.400 --> 0:09:53.880 I could try, But I like that idea of bettering 0:09:53.960 --> 0:09:54.360 him up. 0:09:54.920 --> 0:09:57.520 Yes, taking a really positive angle. 0:09:57.640 --> 0:09:57.840 Yes. 0:09:57.960 --> 0:10:00.000 Men have a very difficult time when a woman starts 0:10:00.040 --> 0:10:02.959 it's crying, being able to do anything except agree with her. 0:10:03.040 --> 0:10:04.720 Yeah, I'm so sorry. What do I do here? 0:10:04.800 --> 0:10:05.000 Yeah? 0:10:05.960 --> 0:10:08.400 All right, so that's your advice. You can use as 0:10:08.440 --> 0:10:10.160 much or as little of it as you want, Isabella. 0:10:10.160 --> 0:10:13.280 It's really up to you. Yeah, okay, okay, okay, Well, 0:10:13.280 --> 0:10:14.000 don't start crying. 0:10:14.040 --> 0:10:14.199 Yeah. 0:10:14.240 --> 0:10:15.720 We haven't even got Marco on the phone. 0:10:16.000 --> 0:10:17.480 I don't think it's going to be fake. I think 0:10:17.480 --> 0:10:18.840 it's going to come out national. 0:10:19.800 --> 0:10:23.559 Might be, I know, because then I'm going to be uncomfortable. 0:10:24.240 --> 0:10:24.920 That's good. 0:10:24.960 --> 0:10:25.160 Cry. 0:10:25.360 --> 0:10:28.439 Okay, we'll see what happens. I'm gonna dial Marco. We'll 0:10:28.440 --> 0:10:31.599 see if he picks it up. Good luck, Isabella, Thank you? 0:10:31.960 --> 0:10:32.520 Here we go. 0:10:37.600 --> 0:10:46.400 Hello, Hey Marco, I'm why are you who? 0:10:47.120 --> 0:10:51.080 Well you're not answering any of my texts. I really 0:10:51.120 --> 0:10:54.440 wanted to talk to you. Things were good between us 0:10:54.440 --> 0:10:57.400 before the night at the gas station. 0:10:59.080 --> 0:11:01.880 Can we do this time? I really got to run? 0:11:03.000 --> 0:11:05.440 Well, look, I just I just wanted to talk. I 0:11:05.520 --> 0:11:10.920 messed up. Well, I'm just not used to staying around 0:11:11.000 --> 0:11:15.040 such a good guy, you know, And I'm so sorry, 0:11:15.200 --> 0:11:16.920 and I'm embarrassed. 0:11:16.960 --> 0:11:19.520 And wait a second, are you crying? 0:11:20.000 --> 0:11:20.200 Whoa? 0:11:20.280 --> 0:11:20.800 What's wrong? 0:11:21.960 --> 0:11:24.200 I just thought we had a really good connection and 0:11:24.280 --> 0:11:28.120 I'm sorry about that night, and you're just a good 0:11:28.120 --> 0:11:29.400 guy and I'm not used to that. 0:11:29.559 --> 0:11:29.720 You know. 0:11:31.880 --> 0:11:33.360 You need to stop crying. 0:11:34.920 --> 0:11:37.400 Well, no, I really am sorry. I didn't mean to 0:11:37.520 --> 0:11:39.800 come at you so aggressively like that, just like I 0:11:39.840 --> 0:11:41.520 thought you were going through my phone And I've had 0:11:41.559 --> 0:11:44.480 to deal with exes doing that in the past, and 0:11:44.520 --> 0:11:47.600 they broke my trust. And so I'm sorry. I'm sorry 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:48.520 that I accuse you of that. 0:11:48.960 --> 0:11:51.560 Look are you really trying to use this phone thing 0:11:51.640 --> 0:11:52.760 to cover up what you did? 0:11:53.360 --> 0:11:57.680 What you wouldn't mean? What are you talking about? 0:11:57.920 --> 0:11:59.600 Oh? Come on, you know. 0:12:01.360 --> 0:12:04.120 No, I don't know what you What are you talking about? 0:12:04.840 --> 0:12:05.840 At the gas station? 0:12:07.440 --> 0:12:07.800 Hello? 0:12:08.480 --> 0:12:11.040 I saw you? 0:12:11.080 --> 0:12:13.960 What what did you see when you were in the 0:12:14.080 --> 0:12:20.080 store getting the energy drinks? What what I saw you 0:12:20.160 --> 0:12:21.479 flash the employee? 0:12:21.880 --> 0:12:22.640 What? 0:12:22.640 --> 0:12:25.559 What? 0:12:23.480 --> 0:12:23.720 Whoa? 0:12:25.559 --> 0:12:30.959 What I've lift your shirt? 0:12:31.600 --> 0:12:32.600 Is that what you mean by show? 0:12:36.800 --> 0:12:37.000 Oh? 0:12:37.080 --> 0:12:37.559 My god? 0:12:37.880 --> 0:12:39.560 What is this? What's going on. 0:12:39.840 --> 0:12:43.080 He kind of like a flash. 0:12:43.120 --> 0:12:45.440 We're trying to figure out the same thing, Marco. Because 0:12:45.720 --> 0:12:48.000 this is a radio show, we're called Brooke and Jeffrey 0:12:48.040 --> 0:12:51.480 in the morning, and Isabella as a listener. She reached 0:12:51.480 --> 0:12:54.240 out for help trying to have this conversation with you. 0:12:54.480 --> 0:12:57.040 She really wanted to apologize and be sincere about the 0:12:57.120 --> 0:12:59.280 accusations about you going through her phone. 0:13:00.200 --> 0:13:04.440 Uh, okay, well that's not really the problem. 0:13:04.800 --> 0:13:05.120 Okay. 0:13:05.240 --> 0:13:09.679 Well through this, well, whatever you think you saw, it 0:13:09.760 --> 0:13:13.680 probably was like a weird misunderstanding. Isabelle, you didn't actually 0:13:13.720 --> 0:13:15.360 flash the gas station clerk? 0:13:18.120 --> 0:13:22.080 Oh god, WHOA why? 0:13:22.120 --> 0:13:24.400 I've never flashed anyone in my life, and I've done 0:13:24.440 --> 0:13:26.160 all sorts of weird stuck. 0:13:27.480 --> 0:13:31.559 From her husband hasn't seen her with her top a. 0:13:32.160 --> 0:13:35.160 The lighting in a gas station is terrible. Those videos 0:13:35.160 --> 0:13:39.679 go viral all the time. Security camera to flash a 0:13:39.840 --> 0:13:41.040 gas station attended. 0:13:41.400 --> 0:13:43.560 Okay, So when we went to the gas station, I 0:13:43.679 --> 0:13:45.640 left my purse back at the house and I didn't 0:13:45.679 --> 0:13:47.760 have anything to pay for the drinks, and I didn't 0:13:47.760 --> 0:13:50.520 want to bug him, so I asked the clerk if 0:13:50.559 --> 0:13:52.800 I flashed him what he caught me? And he's sun here. 0:13:55.320 --> 0:13:59.199 That works okay, right now, you life hack unlocked. 0:13:59.320 --> 0:14:01.200 I mean you had your bra on. It's just like 0:14:01.200 --> 0:14:03.880 showing a bikini top, right yeah. 0:14:04.960 --> 0:14:06.920 Although both of them were out. 0:14:07.400 --> 0:14:10.880 Oh I'm glad it wasn't just one of them. 0:14:10.920 --> 0:14:11.880 That would be even. 0:14:11.679 --> 0:14:15.800 More often So Marco, that doesn't work for you. 0:14:16.440 --> 0:14:19.680 Okay. Look, we hadn't even kissed yet, and you're already 0:14:19.800 --> 0:14:22.840 showing like you're flashing some gas station weirdo. 0:14:24.960 --> 0:14:26.560 I didn't I couldn't pay for it, and I didn't 0:14:26.560 --> 0:14:28.320 want to ask you'd pay. And for the record, I 0:14:28.360 --> 0:14:30.200 didn't kiss you on the first few days because I'm 0:14:30.200 --> 0:14:31.960 a lady and I don't a lady. 0:14:33.400 --> 0:14:37.000 You pay for two energy dreams by showing some rando 0:14:37.120 --> 0:14:37.640 your booth. 0:14:38.840 --> 0:14:41.680 It was a classy flash broke. That's what a lady. 0:14:41.480 --> 0:14:45.400 Does about the deal. I got a free drink out 0:14:45.400 --> 0:14:46.000 of it, you know. 0:14:46.440 --> 0:14:48.720 Yeah, that's not no Okay. 0:14:48.760 --> 0:14:50.520 What I think we really need to focus on is 0:14:50.560 --> 0:14:54.120 not the flashing, is on getting Marco and Isabella talking 0:14:54.240 --> 0:14:56.160 and possibly hanging out again. 0:14:58.920 --> 0:15:01.520 I don't know, Marc, where where's your head at? 0:15:02.000 --> 0:15:06.520 Ah man? I don't know. I guess it's just I 0:15:07.040 --> 0:15:08.880 don't want to be with someone who does that. 0:15:09.320 --> 0:15:11.400 I mean, think about it, Isabella, if the roles were 0:15:11.440 --> 0:15:14.440 reversed and he went in and dropped trow to get 0:15:14.440 --> 0:15:17.560 a free coffee, Like, how would you feel about the situation? 0:15:17.800 --> 0:15:21.400 Just helicopter for a slurp? You know what I mean? 0:15:21.480 --> 0:15:23.280 I would do that though they just gave these to 0:15:23.360 --> 0:15:26.240 me for free to get out. I didn't even want them. 0:15:27.440 --> 0:15:28.960 You wouldn't like that, Isabella. 0:15:29.600 --> 0:15:32.280 I mean, I don't know what your mama gave you. 0:15:32.360 --> 0:15:40.600 Like, sounded like a brook line the body line broke. Yeah, positivity. 0:15:40.720 --> 0:15:41.720 That's not empowerment. 0:15:41.920 --> 0:15:45.400 Okay, sorry, Isabella. 0:15:45.480 --> 0:15:49.280 The empowerment police apparently just came in, dropped the hammer 0:15:49.320 --> 0:15:50.640 on you in your chest. 0:15:52.000 --> 0:15:56.600 Cries. Now you told her to cry? What is wrong 0:15:56.640 --> 0:15:57.840 with you? 0:15:58.000 --> 0:15:59.440 It's empowering? Cry. 0:15:59.840 --> 0:16:02.760 I never said thanks. I said if it happened that 0:16:02.880 --> 0:16:04.400 that would be a good thing. 0:16:04.840 --> 0:16:07.040 Isabella. You're as messed up as the people you got 0:16:07.120 --> 0:16:07.520 to do this. 0:16:09.320 --> 0:16:13.120 Well, we look bad. I take it as a compliment. Okay. 0:16:13.280 --> 0:16:16.720 I've never been anything but trashy, so it's fine anyway. 0:16:16.760 --> 0:16:19.400 Clearly, I mean, we thought this was a misunderstanding over 0:16:19.480 --> 0:16:22.680 phone stuff. Turns out it was a misunderstanding over a 0:16:22.760 --> 0:16:24.400 topless gas station payment. 0:16:26.280 --> 0:16:29.560 I'm sure Marco would have gladly paid for the energy drinks. 0:16:30.400 --> 0:16:32.880 It was a nice move for her, though, to not 0:16:33.000 --> 0:16:34.640 have to ask for him to pay no. 0:16:34.760 --> 0:16:37.400 More than just two energy drinks at that point. 0:16:38.080 --> 0:16:39.880 Flashing for a good cause. 0:16:39.640 --> 0:16:42.840 Now, Isabelle, I guess that's the lesson that we learned. 0:16:42.840 --> 0:16:44.520 Make sure you grab a bag of funions on your 0:16:44.520 --> 0:16:46.240 way out next time before you show the. 0:16:46.160 --> 0:16:50.800 Good Okay, thanks guys. I I'll try to remember that. 0:16:50.840 --> 0:16:52.760 But Mark, don't we just hang out? 0:16:53.400 --> 0:16:55.360 I will say, she's got a good attitude about all 0:16:55.400 --> 0:16:56.880 of this. We've gone pretty hard on her. 0:16:57.920 --> 0:17:00.520 At least you know why she did it. It wasn't for 0:17:00.640 --> 0:17:02.120 like her own joy. 0:17:02.520 --> 0:17:06.840 She forgot her like it maybe was a little. 0:17:05.400 --> 0:17:07.680 At wasn't void of joy. 0:17:07.760 --> 0:17:10.719 That's true the first time she's done it. 0:17:10.760 --> 0:17:13.040 But she just didn't want to bug you and force 0:17:13.080 --> 0:17:15.159 you to pay. That's somebody that I would want in 0:17:15.200 --> 0:17:18.080 my corner if I was you, so I would rethink 0:17:18.119 --> 0:17:19.480 hanging out with Isabella again. 0:17:19.560 --> 0:17:21.119 I mean, if you ever run out of gas in 0:17:21.160 --> 0:17:23.520 a remote area, you. 0:17:24.240 --> 0:17:27.680 Don't need your apple pay Marco? What do you think? 0:17:29.400 --> 0:17:29.840 I don't know? 0:17:29.880 --> 0:17:32.000 This is all just a little too crazy. For me, 0:17:32.040 --> 0:17:33.480 I'm a pretty simple guy. 0:17:34.520 --> 0:17:39.119 Yeah, maybe we call the gas station attendant for a 0:17:39.160 --> 0:17:39.680 second date. 0:17:39.760 --> 0:17:40.080 Update. 0:17:42.160 --> 0:17:44.720 Well, I mean she's not really my type anyway. I 0:17:44.720 --> 0:17:46.840 don't know what he expects. I'm I'm a lady, so. 0:17:47.160 --> 0:17:50.240 Oh yes, no one will ever doubt that. 0:17:51.960 --> 0:17:53.920 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:55.160 --> 0:17:57.400 And the only other time I've ever heard of flashing 0:17:57.440 --> 0:18:00.639 people to get free stuff was at Marty Grass. I 0:18:00.640 --> 0:18:02.800 didn't know it was an option at seven to eleven. 0:18:03.000 --> 0:18:05.760 You should have signs up that say we accept cash, 0:18:05.880 --> 0:18:08.320 card and sea Yeah. 0:18:08.280 --> 0:18:11.120 Or spring break in the early two thousands in Mexico. 0:18:12.760 --> 0:18:14.440 Well, what else can we get for this? I want 0:18:14.480 --> 0:18:16.159 to turn a board a plane doing You don't think. 0:18:16.040 --> 0:18:17.200 It works as good for you? 0:18:17.560 --> 0:18:18.159 Yeah? 0:18:19.840 --> 0:18:22.360 Yeah, women don't fall for it the same way. 0:18:22.760 --> 0:18:28.919 Yeah, desensitized or something. And it is unfortunate, But I 0:18:28.920 --> 0:18:31.920