1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: My bigbie daddy is blackmailing me because I went into 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:08,319 Speaker 1: postpartum rage. But I have something up my sleeve, so 3 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:13,039 Speaker 1: you get him with the double whammie, no surre like 4 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 1: a magician. She's doing some blackmail, black magic. I'm gonna predict, 5 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:21,120 Speaker 1: not the a hole. Why not? I female twenty three, 6 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:23,960 Speaker 1: have a beautiful child and another one on the way. 7 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 1: After I had my first child, I had really bad 8 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 1: postpartum depression and postpartum rage. I've heard a post part 9 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 1: of depression. I've never heard of postpartum rage. I like that, 10 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 1: like you're just listening to the middle all day, Like, 11 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:41,600 Speaker 1: is that a thing? Ladies? Can you please put it 12 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:45,279 Speaker 1: in the comments? If I have no idea this exists. Okay, 13 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:48,480 Speaker 1: let's look it up really quick. Oh okay. So it's 14 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 1: like a rare but serious mental condition that's connected to 15 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 1: postpartner depression, anxiety, impossible bipolar disorder. Mm okay. So I 16 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 1: did some things that I'm not proud of, and I've 17 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 1: spent years paying and making up for it. I spent 18 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:08,399 Speaker 1: years after this being made to comply to my baby 19 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:11,480 Speaker 1: daddy wishes or else. He was going to press charges 20 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 1: for some of the things I did when I was 21 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:16,480 Speaker 1: going through that rough part of my life. Oh, it 22 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 1: got to be insane on the demands and to the 23 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:22,400 Speaker 1: point he had me living in fear. I recently contacted 24 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 1: the lawyer to see if there's anything I can do. 25 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 1: The lawyer said what he's doing is falling under the 26 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:32,039 Speaker 1: blackmail law and he can legally no longer do anything 27 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:36,560 Speaker 1: due to his blackmailing. So I guess apparently if you're 28 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 1: using something someone has done as blackmail, then you can't 29 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 1: use that anymore. 30 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:46,120 Speaker 2: That's wild because he basically he's saying, like, oh, there's 31 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 2: things that like I could I have a case for 32 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 2: in court and I could do those things, which he 33 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 2: very well could, but him, I guess like threatening to. 34 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: Bring those to court is legally blackmail. Wow, this is 35 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 1: I'm I'm lot on this episode. Yeah, the lawyer took 36 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 1: on the case and filed blackmail charges against him. His 37 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 1: family found out and went off. I responded with, yes, 38 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 1: I did some terrible things. I spent years paying my 39 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:17,919 Speaker 1: debt for them. I'm sorry for everyone that was affected 40 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 1: by my actions, but I can't keep living in fear 41 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:25,800 Speaker 1: and have him controlling me. I have kids to think about. Also, 42 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:28,400 Speaker 1: I see a therapist on a regular basis, and I'm 43 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:30,920 Speaker 1: on depression medicine which helps a lot. I was never 44 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 1: endangering my child. I would lash out, yell, call m names, 45 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 1: push people away. I attempted to unlive myself a few times, 46 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 1: and I locked him out of the house, saying I 47 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:42,480 Speaker 1: no longer wanted him in my life. There was never 48 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 1: anything physical. A good bit of people agree. I have 49 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:48,919 Speaker 1: paid my debt for my wrongs the people who were affected, 50 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 1: and the only ones upset about this is his family. 51 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 1: So am I the A hole? Tough one. John's about 52 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:58,640 Speaker 1: to get into the breakdown, but before he does, I 53 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:00,200 Speaker 1: want you guys to let me know what you think 54 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 1: you know? Is op being the a hole? Is the 55 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:05,639 Speaker 1: baby daddy being the a hole? Is this lawyer being 56 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:08,839 Speaker 1: an a hole? Like all lawyers are just kidding. There's 57 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 1: there's some good lawyers out there, But John, what do 58 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:11,920 Speaker 1: you think? I don't know. 59 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:14,399 Speaker 2: This one's really hard because also also it's like what 60 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 2: did she what she she gave She gave some insight 61 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 2: as to like what she did during her uh post 62 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 2: uh uh postpartum rages. As she mentioned, I don't know 63 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:28,960 Speaker 2: this one's This one's so hard to call honestly for me, 64 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 2: because it's like what exactly did she do? Like in detail, 65 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 2: what what did she do? Like did she harm anybody? 66 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:40,880 Speaker 1: Yeah? And like what's like what is he using as 67 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 1: as the blackmail? You know, like we need to know 68 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 1: what he's using as a blackmail first, like what she 69 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 1: actually did? Also, what is he making her do? Like 70 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:52,680 Speaker 1: what are the requests? Yeah? 71 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah that's the other thing. And and and also 72 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 2: like so it's it sounds like they're like using this 73 00:03:57,560 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 2: in terms of like custody and and and things like that, 74 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 2: like he wants more custody. 75 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know, man, I I have no idea. 76 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 1: I have no idea. Yeah, situations split on this one. Yeah, 77 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 1: I agree. I feel like we don't necessarily have enough 78 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 1: information to like make a decision yet. I agree this 79 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 1: is it's just too too unclear. Yeah. Yeah, I would say, 80 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 1: just like if I had to make a decision, I 81 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 1: would say, to blackmail her is probably an a whole move. 82 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 1: I feel like it probably made sense for her to 83 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 1: go to a lawyer eventually. But again I don't, like, 84 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 1: you know, it's it's hard to make a decision if 85 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:41,040 Speaker 1: we don't know all the information, or we can blindly 86 00:04:41,080 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 1: make decisions and yeah, people blindly make a decision and 87 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 1: just rumble about yeah, blinding no consequences. 88 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 2: Am I the a whole for telling my husband's female 89 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 2: friend zoo or not his best friend? 90 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:02,840 Speaker 1: Okay, Op? This is Okayop. I'm Samuel daughter and I'm 91 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:06,479 Speaker 1: John Fryt, and we tell the funniest stories of the Internet. 92 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:09,000 Speaker 1: In fact, John, I want to get into spaceship go 93 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 1: to Brick and Mars burrow under the depths of the 94 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:16,039 Speaker 1: Martian surface and see if they got a Martian that 95 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:20,600 Speaker 1: is watching, Okop, Because dang straight, everyone in the world 96 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:23,720 Speaker 1: and Mars and beyond should be watching the show. All 97 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:27,679 Speaker 1: the universes, you know, Sextron nine. Oh yeah, dude, Sextron nine. 98 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 1: Damn it. We have a whole fan club over there. 99 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 1: They do they do? Uranus Uranus? Am I the a hole? 100 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 2: Am I the anal cavity of the universe? 101 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 1: John, I heard on your exploration adventure through the Stars 102 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:50,680 Speaker 1: and through the sky. You found a story that might 103 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 1: put a twinkle in my eye. 104 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 2: Me and my boy Elon, we discovered It's check it out. 105 00:05:56,360 --> 00:05:59,040 Speaker 1: Elon is the meme king too. Elon is like a 106 00:05:59,080 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 1: hardcore redditor, foreshore or someone on his team has to 107 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 1: be doing something. There's no way he's not. 108 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:07,600 Speaker 2: Am I the a hole for telling my husband's female 109 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:09,480 Speaker 2: friend you are not. 110 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:12,919 Speaker 1: His best friend? And that just seems mean, you know, 111 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:17,360 Speaker 1: maybe or maybe not. Maybe she deserves it. Let's see, 112 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 1: let's get to it. Actually the TikTok god to decide 113 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 1: who is wrong. That's what's right. 114 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:30,280 Speaker 2: Long story short, my husband has one of those female friends. 115 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 1: What are those females? 116 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 2: One of those I guess it's like someone who's like 117 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 2: slyly trying to like, you know, I will call her. 118 00:06:41,440 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 1: Sarah Sarah going to the grocery store by groceries Sarah. Oh, disgusting. 119 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:51,040 Speaker 1: I would never do such a thing. 120 00:06:52,640 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 2: Sure, and I get along fine, but every once in 121 00:06:55,640 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 2: a while she'll make a comment or sit a little 122 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:01,040 Speaker 2: too close. 123 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:04,279 Speaker 1: Or touch him a little too much. 124 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:09,160 Speaker 2: Or touch my man's or even compete with me on 125 00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 2: how close they are or how well she knows him. 126 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:17,640 Speaker 1: Wow, that's that's a little bit much. That's a little much. Yeah, 127 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 1: you don't ever want to say to someone else's significant other. Yeah, 128 00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 1: like he's so much more about him? Do you even know? 129 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 1: Blah blah, blah about him. Yeah, I bet he would 130 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 1: never tell you that told me. That's a line right there. 131 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:35,760 Speaker 1: I could never tell you that. Oh my God killed 132 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:37,960 Speaker 1: me deep in the throes of a passion. 133 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 2: Now she's one in a big group of about eleven friends. 134 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:47,080 Speaker 2: I've talked to my husband about her several times, but 135 00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 2: it's so many added up micro actions that it's hard 136 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 2: to tell her offer one singular thing without looking crazy. 137 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 2: So it's like her things are so tiny that it's 138 00:07:57,040 --> 00:08:00,120 Speaker 2: like it's weird to call her out for one specific thing. 139 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:03,920 Speaker 1: I guess it's one of those situations where it's like 140 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 1: you're kind of gauging intent, yeah, and like the person 141 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 1: knows how to respect the boundary but also disrespected at 142 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 1: the same time. It's like towing the line, towing the line. 143 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 1: But I am of the opinion, and I'll wait to 144 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:21,480 Speaker 1: hear the story. But I'm kind of of the opinion 145 00:08:21,520 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 1: that if it sounds crazy to call someone out, then 146 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 1: you're probably being crazy. 147 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, yeah, yeah, but let's we'll see, we'll see. 148 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:31,760 Speaker 1: Well. 149 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 2: This past weekend, the group of friends got together for 150 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 2: the first time since. 151 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 1: We were all boosted. 152 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:38,720 Speaker 2: My husband and I eloped a few weeks ago, and 153 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 2: this was the first time that our friends were really 154 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 2: seeing us since we got married. Sarah came right up 155 00:08:43,320 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 2: and got in our face as a group was congratulating us, 156 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:50,160 Speaker 2: to tell my husband how disappointed she was in him 157 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 2: for not telling her about our ceremony, not inviting her. 158 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 1: And not even sending her a photo. No photos, this 159 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:01,960 Speaker 1: wants to be included, Sarah. 160 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 2: He told her nobody except our parents knew, nobody was invited, 161 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:10,320 Speaker 2: and we don't have our professional photos back yet. And 162 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:15,000 Speaker 2: then the girl started sobbing. How could he do this 163 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 2: to her? And she wanted him to be her man 164 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 2: of honor when she gets married. She's single, by the way, 165 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:23,839 Speaker 2: and he didn't even invite her to his and their 166 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 2: friendship now needed some serious TLC to recover. 167 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 1: What's TLC Tender loving care? Ah, okay, this is in 168 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:36,400 Speaker 1: front of a whole group, mind you, I feel like that. 169 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 1: I mean, if no one else is invited, like it's 170 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:40,839 Speaker 1: your wedding, you don't owe anyone anything. 171 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:44,720 Speaker 2: Exactly Right now, I couldn't take it anymore and said 172 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:47,839 Speaker 2: he might be your best friend, but you're not his. 173 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 1: That was between me and him. 174 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:57,080 Speaker 2: You you weren't even a consideration Oh, that last one. 175 00:09:57,920 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 1: That was the twist, baby, Oh, that was the twist 176 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:06,800 Speaker 1: of the dagger. Damn bro. She's like, I think that's 177 00:10:06,559 --> 00:10:09,679 Speaker 1: that's a lot, it's a lot. Both of them are 178 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 1: going a little a little hard man. 179 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 2: There was some frosty ooh from the crowd and she 180 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 2: left the house. The crowd is split. They were all 181 00:10:21,320 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 2: my husband's friends before I came into the picture, and 182 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:26,959 Speaker 2: some think it was uncalled for and that I should 183 00:10:26,960 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 2: have just let my husband handle it. 184 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:31,440 Speaker 1: I was mad in the moment, but now I don't know. 185 00:10:31,760 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 1: Did I go too far? I think I think they're right. 186 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:36,559 Speaker 1: I think they should have let the husband handle it. Yeah, 187 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:41,320 Speaker 1: but honestly, like great burn, though, great bird, great bird, 188 00:10:41,480 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 1: I will, I will applaud the sickness of the burn, 189 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 1: but I think, like, I mean, if this is something 190 00:10:47,679 --> 00:10:51,600 Speaker 1: that has been bothering the wife, like the husband should 191 00:10:51,640 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 1: have done something about this situation. Like that's a good Pointfore, 192 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:56,920 Speaker 1: that's a very good point. I'm just thinking of my 193 00:10:57,200 --> 00:11:00,840 Speaker 1: girlfriend already. On I was ever uncomfortable with my relationship 194 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:03,720 Speaker 1: with one of my one of my girlfriends like that 195 00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:07,120 Speaker 1: we would have talks about like what is appropriate. Yeah, 196 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:11,440 Speaker 1: you know, between my friend and and I, uh, and 197 00:11:11,480 --> 00:11:11,760 Speaker 1: you have. 198 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 2: To communicate that to that person then, like yeah, like 199 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:15,600 Speaker 2: if it's if it's. 200 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:18,840 Speaker 1: At that point exactly exactly, like like hey, like you know, 201 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 1: I don't know if I feel really comfortable with how 202 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 1: you're acting, and you know, neither is my girlfriend. Yeah, 203 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:29,400 Speaker 1: so I think it's somewhat on the boyfriend in general 204 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:33,439 Speaker 1: or on the husband. Yeah, I think it's somewhat. I 205 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 1: think it's somewhat on the husband in general. But I 206 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 1: also think that, uh, the husband should have spoke up 207 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:44,679 Speaker 1: in this situation and and been allowed to to speak 208 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:47,800 Speaker 1: up and and say, you know, respond to Sarah himself. 209 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 1: Any thoughts, John, Yeah, I kind of agree with you. 210 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:52,920 Speaker 2: I think that he definitely should have said something like 211 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:55,960 Speaker 2: if it the thing is that it bothered her, so 212 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:58,079 Speaker 2: they should have worked on that, even if before her 213 00:11:58,240 --> 00:12:01,000 Speaker 2: like little instances were like too small to be a 214 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:04,800 Speaker 2: big deal or whatever, like they should have had that discussion. 215 00:12:04,880 --> 00:12:07,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I wonder if op even brought it up to 216 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 1: him yet. That's a good question. If she hasn't question, 217 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:13,439 Speaker 1: then that's that's like that's kind of on her, that 218 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 1: that's on her. You got to communicate that stuff. But uh, 219 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:20,440 Speaker 1: you know what, it's always something that you should bring up. 220 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:26,280 Speaker 1: Subscribing to ladies, follow us on Spotify, go look at 221 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:29,720 Speaker 1: the podcast everywhere you get your podcasts, and then if 222 00:12:29,760 --> 00:12:32,199 Speaker 1: you want to be a real one, subscribe on Patreon 223 00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 1: and help support the show. We're trying to grow. 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