WEBVTT - EP #56 - When Kids Want To Do Everything On Their Own + Will Preps For Vacation | For The Dads 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:02.920 Hey, bet six ers, this is Willie one show. You're 0:00:02.920 --> 0:00:05.080 about to listen to an automated ad read after this 0:00:05.160 --> 0:00:06.960 call to action if you're on the Busting with the 0:00:06.960 --> 0:00:08.119 Boys audio channel. 0:00:08.360 --> 0:00:10.320 If you want to listen to four the Dads. 0:00:10.080 --> 0:00:12.800 Automated ad free, be sure to head over to the 0:00:12.800 --> 0:00:14.960 four the Dad's channel. And wherever you listen to us 0:00:15.000 --> 0:00:18.920 on audio, enjoy this episode of for the Dads. Listen 0:00:18.960 --> 0:00:21.080 to this one from Go Birds fifty two to fifty 0:00:21.120 --> 0:00:24.319 nine on Spotify. New segment idea for you boys, dumb 0:00:24.400 --> 0:00:27.640 shit kids get upset about? Oh first one, my four 0:00:27.760 --> 0:00:31.080 year old had a meltdown because we wouldn't buy, in 0:00:31.240 --> 0:00:34.800 his words, cleaning robot to clean the house for us 0:00:34.800 --> 0:00:35.479 from Costco. 0:00:35.920 --> 0:00:40.200 He's referring to a roomba. Oh yeah, no brainer, no brain, 0:00:40.320 --> 0:00:40.800 no brainer. 0:00:40.840 --> 0:00:45.440 On the the shit that kids break down about. Literally yesterday, Yeah, 0:00:45.520 --> 0:00:48.200 I asked Rue if she could go upstairs and get 0:00:48.200 --> 0:00:50.680 a band aid for Scotty. Scotty stepped on a screw 0:00:50.760 --> 0:00:53.640 the other day, but Rue like brought down something. I 0:00:53.680 --> 0:00:55.280 was like, hey, sweetheart, do you mind going up? Do 0:00:55.320 --> 0:00:58.040 you mind going up and grabbing another band aid for Scotti? 0:00:58.360 --> 0:01:02.440 And she just immediately shoulders drop, she drops to her 0:01:02.520 --> 0:01:05.120 knees in sadness, and I'm like, oh, dude, what are 0:01:05.120 --> 0:01:06.480 we doing? All you got to say is like no, 0:01:06.840 --> 0:01:08.840 I'd rather like dedic, can you go up and get it? 0:01:08.920 --> 0:01:11.200 Yeah? And it just the whole way. 0:01:11.080 --> 0:01:14.319 As I'm just stomping up the stairs, just thinking, God, 0:01:14.400 --> 0:01:17.080 oh you win. Yeah I went got it, because once 0:01:17.120 --> 0:01:19.240 she dropped to her knees, I'm all right, dude, I'm 0:01:19.240 --> 0:01:19.759 just trying to. 0:01:19.680 --> 0:01:22.160 See if you'll or a tribe or a team here 0:01:22.400 --> 0:01:24.880 help Dada. Can you just help that? It looked like, look, 0:01:24.920 --> 0:01:26.720 I'll go get this is not that big of a deal. 0:01:26.800 --> 0:01:29.800 You don't have to break down over this. You simply say, like, 0:01:29.840 --> 0:01:31.280 you know, you can kindly try and say no. 0:01:31.480 --> 0:01:32.920 I will push you to try and go up there 0:01:32.959 --> 0:01:34.840 and get it, but you don't got to break that. 0:01:34.959 --> 0:01:38.280 They break these kids, man, They break down over the 0:01:38.400 --> 0:01:39.759 craziest stuff. 0:01:39.920 --> 0:01:42.280 If you want to see a real life interpretation of 0:01:42.319 --> 0:01:45.240 that wet, hot American summer, have you ever seen that? 0:01:45.400 --> 0:01:49.200 I havena you would think it's very funny. Have you 0:01:49.240 --> 0:01:50.440 seen that chef? Yeah? 0:01:50.600 --> 0:01:54.160 All right, the scene with Paul Rudd where they jess 0:01:54.280 --> 0:01:57.360 essentially he's a grown acidult in the movie too, and 0:01:57.520 --> 0:02:01.680 the head of the summer camp tells Paul Rudd's character, 0:02:01.720 --> 0:02:05.240 who's a counselor, hey, do you mind taking that tray 0:02:05.520 --> 0:02:08.320 to the like where we put the trays in the lunchroom, 0:02:08.680 --> 0:02:10.400 Like you can't just leave it out, And Paul Red's 0:02:10.480 --> 0:02:14.880 character just instantly throws it and throws his arms downd 0:02:14.880 --> 0:02:15.919 and just starts going. 0:02:17.520 --> 0:02:20.280 And he does. It's like a five minute scene of 0:02:20.400 --> 0:02:22.560 him acting like a four year old day. 0:02:22.800 --> 0:02:25.560 You will love it because you're like, yeah, yeah, that's it, 0:02:25.680 --> 0:02:26.119 that's it. 0:02:26.200 --> 0:02:28.320 That's what these kids do. That's what these toddlers do. 0:02:29.680 --> 0:02:32.600 But anyway, welcome to another episode of four The Dad's 0:02:32.639 --> 0:02:34.520 Papa Team six. As you know, I was just reading 0:02:34.520 --> 0:02:36.919 to comment, we are massive in our community of Papa 0:02:36.960 --> 0:02:39.280 Team six Milk Team six. See him in Team six 0:02:39.320 --> 0:02:42.480 goombrace everybody out there tuned in right now. If you 0:02:42.560 --> 0:02:45.200 are new to this show, We're happy you're here. We 0:02:45.400 --> 0:02:48.720 just basically embrace the love and suck a fatherhood. You 0:02:48.720 --> 0:02:50.520 can get a lot of marriage talk, you get a 0:02:50.520 --> 0:02:52.239 lot of parenthood talk. 0:02:52.400 --> 0:02:53.880 I am a girl dad myself. 0:02:53.919 --> 0:02:56.640 I have two little ones, a four year old rue 0:02:56.680 --> 0:02:59.200 who just heard four in April, a nineteen month old 0:02:59.200 --> 0:03:02.320 Scottie and my co host here Sherman Young. He is 0:03:02.360 --> 0:03:08.600 a father of one baby scar scar Scarlet, who turns one. 0:03:08.080 --> 0:03:08.880 On July third. 0:03:09.000 --> 0:03:12.680 Rhind of applause sound off in the chat Happy birthday, Scarlet. 0:03:12.919 --> 0:03:15.160 I'm gonna pepper him a questions, but again, welcome to 0:03:15.200 --> 0:03:18.200 another episode of four the Dads. Make sure you are subscribed. 0:03:18.400 --> 0:03:23.040 Make sure you're following on all of our channels Spotify, Apple, Amazon, YouTube, 0:03:23.040 --> 0:03:25.280 We're on all of it. We're also on social media 0:03:25.360 --> 0:03:29.160 at for the Dad spot We are massive in engaging 0:03:29.160 --> 0:03:31.560 with our community of PT six and Papa Team six. 0:03:31.760 --> 0:03:34.560 So leave comments throughout the episode. Leave comments on our 0:03:34.600 --> 0:03:36.800 social channels if you want to be featured on the show. 0:03:36.840 --> 0:03:39.000 That is how you get featured on the show, because 0:03:39.080 --> 0:03:45.920 we read a palletha of comments crossing from social media 0:03:46.280 --> 0:03:49.040 all the way to the comments on our episodes. 0:03:49.440 --> 0:03:51.200 But this week I'm going to sure them. 0:03:51.240 --> 0:03:54.640 I am going to pepper you with questions about Scarlet 0:03:54.640 --> 0:03:59.440 turning one. Reflecting on the first year with scarscar me myself, 0:03:59.520 --> 0:04:03.480 I am itchin and right now it's Friday, June twenty sixth, 0:04:03.520 --> 0:04:06.640 by the way, anniversary it's your boys anniversary with Charro 0:04:07.360 --> 0:04:09.200 one shelf and. 0:04:09.280 --> 0:04:11.800 A round of applause because it is his anniversary. We 0:04:11.840 --> 0:04:13.920 got a little something for you though, oh for you 0:04:14.160 --> 0:04:20.120 to open because it is Charo and Will's anniversary today 0:04:20.200 --> 0:04:21.760 and we love our Willie one shelf. 0:04:23.040 --> 0:04:24.800 Best part, here's the card. 0:04:24.839 --> 0:04:27.400 Best part about me being married is having someone to 0:04:27.440 --> 0:04:30.000 split the pizza with, to binge watch the new season with, 0:04:30.200 --> 0:04:32.919 to laugh out loud with, to hug during the storm, 0:04:33.279 --> 0:04:37.960 to always lean on always. What's the best part about 0:04:38.000 --> 0:04:41.119 being married knowing that you'll always be sharing your life 0:04:41.120 --> 0:04:44.400 with your favorite person by your side. Happy anniversary, Signed 0:04:44.400 --> 0:04:45.279 by all the boys. 0:04:45.440 --> 0:04:50.880 Yeah, I love you, guys, Man and Charie. If you're listening, 0:04:50.920 --> 0:04:54.320 Happy anniversary, we are. She's listening now. That means she's 0:04:54.360 --> 0:04:56.560 listening to this podcast in the middle of our vacation. 0:04:56.600 --> 0:04:58.839 We are going on vacation. I said I was itching. 0:04:58.920 --> 0:05:01.919 It was June twenty six, on Friday tomorrow, on the 0:05:01.920 --> 0:05:05.039 twenty seventh, we're taking off Italy and Argentina. 0:05:05.080 --> 0:05:09.960 Man, come on, come on, we'll be buenoses. 0:05:10.760 --> 0:05:15.000 We'll be in northern Italy in Austria for two weeks. 0:05:15.240 --> 0:05:17.080 Full two weeks. That's sick. 0:05:17.240 --> 0:05:20.080 Actually just found out we weren't getting back until the eleventh, 0:05:20.240 --> 0:05:22.960 two days ago. I thought we were always getting back 0:05:23.000 --> 0:05:27.919 on July eighth. Yeah, here's the problem with that, Papa 0:05:28.000 --> 0:05:31.040 Team six. This is communication. How do we always mess 0:05:31.040 --> 0:05:33.920 this up? I'm telling Charlie, you always told me July eighth. 0:05:33.920 --> 0:05:36.760 She's like, I sent, we sent the itinerary over. You 0:05:36.800 --> 0:05:38.920 were all about the itinerary. I'm like, yeah, but I 0:05:38.960 --> 0:05:41.680 always still always thought it was July eighth. I didn't 0:05:41.720 --> 0:05:44.520 see the flights where it says July eleventh. The problem 0:05:44.560 --> 0:05:47.640 with that is on July eleventh, Connor McGregor fights in 0:05:47.760 --> 0:05:50.800 Vegas and my wife when we were getting to know 0:05:50.880 --> 0:05:54.760 each other, she asked me my bucket list. She asked 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:57.080 me the bucket list question. And I'm in the middle 0:05:57.080 --> 0:05:59.680 of I'm in Washington, I'm in the middle I'm football 0:05:59.680 --> 0:06:00.479 will see. 0:06:00.600 --> 0:06:00.960 Yeah. 0:06:01.000 --> 0:06:03.839 So I've never had like a bucket list. So she's 0:06:03.920 --> 0:06:05.240 kind of laughing at She's like, you don't have a 0:06:05.240 --> 0:06:06.839 bucket list, Like what are things you want to do? 0:06:06.880 --> 0:06:08.880 And I'm like, man, I don't know. She's like, do 0:06:08.920 --> 0:06:10.920 you want to go places? I'm like, I haven't really taught, 0:06:11.040 --> 0:06:13.080 like I don't really go on trips or nothing. 0:06:12.960 --> 0:06:16.320 Because again, win the Super Bowl, Yeah, win the Super Bowl, 0:06:16.400 --> 0:06:17.920 like be a pro bowler. 0:06:17.960 --> 0:06:20.359 Like, that's on my bucket list. You know what do 0:06:20.400 --> 0:06:21.479 you mean bucket list? 0:06:21.560 --> 0:06:25.279 Yeah, hundred tackles in a year, that's a bucket list item. 0:06:25.920 --> 0:06:28.200 Mean, fellas in the A Gap, don't don't you want 0:06:28.200 --> 0:06:31.560 to go somewhere? Oh? Yeah, the the NFL Hall of Fame. 0:06:31.680 --> 0:06:34.039 Yeah, yeah, I'd be sick to go down against the 0:06:34.080 --> 0:06:36.640 beach in Florida or something. She's like, what about other countries? 0:06:36.680 --> 0:06:39.560 And she's like laughing at me, And when I she 0:06:39.680 --> 0:06:41.680 was pressing me to think about it, I'm like, all right, 0:06:41.680 --> 0:06:43.320 what do I love? And I'm like, I grew up. 0:06:43.320 --> 0:06:46.000 I love free Willie. It'd be sick to swim with 0:06:46.160 --> 0:06:50.360 orcas in Norway, Oh it would be. And then I'm like, 0:06:50.480 --> 0:06:55.200 in this era I was, I loved Connor McGregor, Like 0:06:55.279 --> 0:06:57.839 it'd be sick to see Connor McGregor in Vegas. I 0:06:57.880 --> 0:07:00.800 had two items on my bucket list swim with whales, 0:07:00.839 --> 0:07:03.680 swimming the work of Whales, free Way, Connor McGregor, fight, 0:07:03.880 --> 0:07:06.760 come on, And those were the two. And so when 0:07:06.800 --> 0:07:08.960 she hit me with the eleventh and I'm like, Connor 0:07:09.120 --> 0:07:12.560 fights on the eleventh. How am I gonna get? Like, 0:07:12.800 --> 0:07:14.320 I'm not gonna be able to go now? And she's like, 0:07:14.320 --> 0:07:15.720 I mean, is that something you had to go to? 0:07:15.760 --> 0:07:18.920 And I'm like that that's that's you. You're not you 0:07:19.000 --> 0:07:22.200 created this monster, charl I didn't have a bucket, yeah, 0:07:22.360 --> 0:07:24.680 and I gave you two things. This is the bucket list. 0:07:24.720 --> 0:07:29.040 And now I'm hey, I was tight. It was one 0:07:29.080 --> 0:07:31.760 of those silent we drove to we were driving to 0:07:31.760 --> 0:07:33.840 get to get pizza at the time with the Kiddosy, 0:07:34.040 --> 0:07:39.040 She's gonna sat silently because there's a part of I 0:07:39.120 --> 0:07:43.280 gotta accept this, like nothing's gonna change, so so why 0:07:43.360 --> 0:07:45.760 create something bigger than it needs to be. I'm already 0:07:45.800 --> 0:07:48.120 here right now. Yeah, so let me just I'm more 0:07:48.160 --> 0:07:51.920 of an internalized like, just sit in it, just be silent. Yeah, 0:07:52.360 --> 0:07:53.880 but now I'm gonna try and make a play. 0:07:54.320 --> 0:07:58.840 You were You are quite literally explaining exactly where I 0:07:58.960 --> 0:08:04.239 was with first birthday party Baylor versus Aubury and Atlanta. 0:08:04.520 --> 0:08:08.880 Yes kind of yeah. I don't want to fully put 0:08:09.760 --> 0:08:13.080 charrowing the wrong of we oh said no, no, there 0:08:13.160 --> 0:08:15.080 was nothing you're putting Jill fulling the wrong. But I'm 0:08:15.120 --> 0:08:19.080 feeling like there wasn't like I didn't buy, I didn't 0:08:19.120 --> 0:08:21.280 do the planning, I didn't buy the tickets. 0:08:21.360 --> 0:08:22.679 Yeah, yeah, to where I'm. 0:08:22.520 --> 0:08:24.400 Setting, and she throws something on me, Hey, we need 0:08:24.440 --> 0:08:26.320 to be staying untill the eleventh because of X, Y 0:08:26.360 --> 0:08:29.240 and Z. Yeah, this was like very premature when we're 0:08:29.280 --> 0:08:31.960 talking about it. When can you be gone for busting 0:08:32.000 --> 0:08:34.920 with the boys, because again, very intentional about trying to plan, prioritize, 0:08:35.000 --> 0:08:37.640 let's get away, Let's do vacation with your family, Let's 0:08:37.679 --> 0:08:39.559 just get out because we've been doing just a lot 0:08:39.600 --> 0:08:39.920 of shit. 0:08:40.120 --> 0:08:41.679 Yeah, And it was. 0:08:41.679 --> 0:08:44.960 Just always either June twenty sixth to July eighth or 0:08:45.080 --> 0:08:47.679 June twenty seventh to July ninth. When I look at 0:08:47.679 --> 0:08:49.520 the calendar, I'm like, it's gonna be our anniversary on 0:08:49.559 --> 0:08:51.880 the twenty sixth, It's gonna be a Friday. Let's just 0:08:51.920 --> 0:08:53.480 go on Friday because then we can get back a 0:08:53.559 --> 0:08:55.400 day sooner because I'm thinking about the work weeks and 0:08:55.440 --> 0:08:59.160 everything else. So when I found out it was the eleventh, dude, 0:08:59.160 --> 0:09:01.000 because she hit me with something, this is this would 0:09:01.000 --> 0:09:02.360 be like person, I don't know if I'm allowed to 0:09:02.360 --> 0:09:04.560 talk about it yet, but she's like, hey, I'm able 0:09:04.600 --> 0:09:06.080 to do X, Y and Z on Monday when we 0:09:06.080 --> 0:09:09.440 get back. And I'm like, Monday, when we get back, 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:11.240 I was like, we don't get back into Wednesday. 0:09:11.240 --> 0:09:12.920 I'm like, when are we getting back? Thinking we're gonna 0:09:12.920 --> 0:09:16.440 get back the weekend before July eighth, and she's like, oh, 0:09:16.480 --> 0:09:17.600 we get back on July eleventh. 0:09:17.600 --> 0:09:19.320 And I like sat up out of my chair and 0:09:19.360 --> 0:09:21.839 like looked over at her because over in the passenger seat, 0:09:21.880 --> 0:09:22.319 and I'm. 0:09:22.120 --> 0:09:25.120 Like, July eleventh, She's like, yeah, what's going on? I 0:09:25.200 --> 0:09:26.480 was like, what do you mean? What's going on? 0:09:26.559 --> 0:09:33.920 McGregor fights, And obviously perspective, there's way more situations to 0:09:34.000 --> 0:09:36.319 be there and be like, I'm gonna be stuck in 0:09:36.360 --> 0:09:37.360 Austria and Italy. 0:09:37.840 --> 0:09:39.160 I can't see McGregor fight. 0:09:39.559 --> 0:09:41.480 But I'm thinking, you know, you know, the seats we 0:09:41.520 --> 0:09:45.880 get at these UFC fights, we're like up there feeling everything, 0:09:46.040 --> 0:09:51.080 feeling the sweat, tasting the salt, bro feeling the blows 0:09:51.400 --> 0:09:54.839 and the McGregor being away for five years walking. 0:09:54.480 --> 0:09:58.800 Inted that arena. Oh, it's gonna be pandemonium against Max 0:09:58.840 --> 0:10:02.120 all Away. It's gonna to be a movie. It's also it's. 0:10:02.000 --> 0:10:05.839 The I would love to know how women feel when 0:10:05.880 --> 0:10:09.360 they're talking to us men. And I'm just gonna take 0:10:09.440 --> 0:10:13.040 Jill Jill's stance on this. Yeah, and Charo probably feels 0:10:13.040 --> 0:10:17.040 similarly of Jill saying there taught me. Katie said this 0:10:17.200 --> 0:10:19.760 to this And did you know Chelsea and Brad they're 0:10:19.800 --> 0:10:22.559 pregnant and da dah dah and oh and we can't 0:10:22.559 --> 0:10:25.640 make that birthday party. Da da da And I'm just 0:10:25.640 --> 0:10:28.840 sitting there driving on Oh, yeah, oh they're pregnant. 0:10:28.920 --> 0:10:32.320 Yeah, that reminds me of life that mister Incredibles or 0:10:32.320 --> 0:10:35.720 the Incredibles and mister Credibles. Yeah, he's just on auto 0:10:35.760 --> 0:10:38.120 pilot work. He was good. 0:10:38.240 --> 0:10:40.559 Yeah, and you're just you're just kind of going, oh, 0:10:40.559 --> 0:10:42.960 I can't believe Katie said that to Chelsea. That's crazy 0:10:43.080 --> 0:10:46.000 blah blah blah and yeah, and then I and the 0:10:46.320 --> 0:10:48.800 eleventh is wide open, So I booked us for a boat. 0:10:50.240 --> 0:10:52.920 Wait, honey, what you just said the eleventh? What what 0:10:52.960 --> 0:10:53.760 about the eleventh? 0:10:54.000 --> 0:10:57.280 Oh, I booked us a reservation for blah blah blah. 0:10:57.360 --> 0:11:02.880 That's when McGregor fids, like, that's the that's their Fray 0:11:03.080 --> 0:11:05.199 turns on the Huskers kick. 0:11:05.040 --> 0:11:06.800 Off at that time. What are you talking about? 0:11:07.240 --> 0:11:07.320 What? 0:11:08.520 --> 0:11:10.480 As she just said that, like your best couple of 0:11:10.559 --> 0:11:14.240 friends are pregnant and you show like very little excit 0:11:14.720 --> 0:11:15.080 for that. 0:11:15.720 --> 0:11:16.440 Yeah. 0:11:16.520 --> 0:11:18.520 A couple of years a couple of years ago, when 0:11:18.720 --> 0:11:20.040 Huskers played Illinois on. 0:11:20.000 --> 0:11:23.160 My birthday, Charlie can put it up together birthday dinner. 0:11:23.160 --> 0:11:26.640 And I'm like, as long as we can watch the Huskers, yeah, 0:11:26.800 --> 0:11:29.360 I don't care what you put together, but they play on. 0:11:29.480 --> 0:11:31.560 I want to say it was a Friday night game. Yeah, 0:11:31.600 --> 0:11:33.559 they play Friday night lights. 0:11:33.280 --> 0:11:33.719 All my brother. 0:11:33.880 --> 0:11:36.800 As long as I'm watching the Huskers, sure, I'll go 0:11:36.840 --> 0:11:38.760 out to eat dinner. We can invite friends, but as 0:11:38.760 --> 0:11:40.439 long as we can we can watch the Husk I'll 0:11:40.480 --> 0:11:43.160 get my toes. I'll get my toes done, honey, I 0:11:43.200 --> 0:11:45.760 don't care. As long as there's a TV. Yeah, the 0:11:45.800 --> 0:11:47.959 huskars on it. I forget where the restaurant is. It's 0:11:47.960 --> 0:11:51.040 over in Germantown, awesome restaurant. And we walk in and 0:11:51.040 --> 0:11:53.880 there ain't no TVs. And right we walk into the 0:11:53.960 --> 0:11:56.000 room where we we got my dinner set up. I 0:11:56.040 --> 0:11:59.880 was like, sweet, how were we gonna watch the Husker 0:12:00.160 --> 0:12:03.480 Nebraska game, and she's like, well, I talked to the rustaurant. 0:12:03.520 --> 0:12:05.400 They said they have a TV and they're like, oh, yeah, 0:12:05.200 --> 0:12:06.080 we got your TV. 0:12:06.480 --> 0:12:10.319 It's a roller TV that they bring into the room 0:12:10.720 --> 0:12:12.800 and they like kind of can't get the channels going 0:12:12.840 --> 0:12:16.200 at first. Yeah, and I'm like, what are we doing? 0:12:16.200 --> 0:12:17.800 I'm just gonna have to sit here on my phone, 0:12:17.920 --> 0:12:18.800 like and. 0:12:18.800 --> 0:12:22.800 Everybody knows, like, guys, I am so grateful that you're 0:12:22.800 --> 0:12:26.440 here from our birthday, but you all know I love Nebraska. Like, 0:12:26.520 --> 0:12:29.280 I've got to watch this game, hey, waiter. 0:12:29.240 --> 0:12:33.880 Wa yesterday, did you decide on those specials? Nah? I 0:12:33.880 --> 0:12:38.600 can't get the TV. It won't go esb it. 0:12:38.960 --> 0:12:42.200 Everybody else is mingling and I'm just watching on my phone. 0:12:43.200 --> 0:12:46.200 The Huskers play Illinois. We lost in Otah, Yeah, and 0:12:46.280 --> 0:12:47.040 it was brutal. 0:12:47.679 --> 0:12:50.360 Y'all were up early too. I remember that we missed 0:12:50.400 --> 0:12:51.400 one in the end zone. 0:12:51.440 --> 0:12:53.120 Two game winning drive to where we even had a 0:12:53.160 --> 0:12:55.080 game winning field goal not a harborin like a thirty 0:12:55.160 --> 0:12:56.360 yard and we shanked it. 0:12:56.400 --> 0:12:59.040 You did they score OT? 0:12:59.280 --> 0:13:01.880 We start off with the series and OT or then 0:13:01.880 --> 0:13:03.880 we get the ball in OT We'll start off with 0:13:03.920 --> 0:13:07.720 the penalty yep, then a false start, we get sacked. 0:13:08.760 --> 0:13:11.000 You know, I want it off myself. But yeah, yeah, 0:13:11.120 --> 0:13:14.360 that's neither. It was my birthday, hey, but it was 0:13:14.400 --> 0:13:15.360 a good birthday party. 0:13:15.360 --> 0:13:18.040 It was a good birthday dinner. Thanks Sonny. I didn't 0:13:18.080 --> 0:13:21.800 talk to nobody, Dude, I love. 0:13:21.679 --> 0:13:26.040 That so much. That is such guy energy. Forget. I'm 0:13:26.040 --> 0:13:26.840 making a play. 0:13:27.040 --> 0:13:30.080 Yeah, wait, what is the play for the eleventh we Land? 0:13:30.200 --> 0:13:33.480 I texted my wife yesterday. I'm talking with Clump, I'm 0:13:33.480 --> 0:13:37.320 talking with Taylor, and I'm like, sweetart. When do we 0:13:37.440 --> 0:13:40.560 land on the eleventh we land at six pm? 0:13:41.760 --> 0:13:43.319 Oh? The fight won't be till late. 0:13:44.040 --> 0:13:48.120 Yeah, and you buy two hours going to Vegas and 0:13:48.240 --> 0:13:51.360 you land four pm Vegas side getting a play, brother, 0:13:51.679 --> 0:13:53.360 you Gucci getting a plant. 0:13:53.360 --> 0:13:55.880 It's gonna leave at seven. Should probably land at like 0:13:56.080 --> 0:13:58.920 eight thirty or me, I should land at eight thirty 0:13:59.040 --> 0:14:00.360 or nine local time. 0:14:01.080 --> 0:14:03.760 Fights. I might miss a couple of fights, like on 0:14:03.840 --> 0:14:06.000 the main card. Yeah, but as long as I'm in 0:14:06.040 --> 0:14:10.640 their seated for that McGregor fight main event, because it'll 0:14:10.640 --> 0:14:13.080 probably that fight local time will probably happen around ten 0:14:13.160 --> 0:14:17.200 thirty minue time, because usually like eleven thirty midnight here 0:14:18.440 --> 0:14:23.600 I'm making that fight and then Taylor their due date 0:14:23.840 --> 0:14:26.520 is July fifteenth. Oh god, So he's kind of like 0:14:26.600 --> 0:14:28.920 on the call while he's out there. But after we 0:14:28.920 --> 0:14:30.640 see the fight, then we're getting to the airport. We're 0:14:30.640 --> 0:14:32.240 flying back right away, same night. 0:14:33.440 --> 0:14:37.040 Dude, there's so much going on kid wise in this 0:14:37.160 --> 0:14:39.560 office that completely goes. 0:14:39.440 --> 0:14:43.400 Wow on me. Yeah, Clump, clump. The clumps are due 0:14:43.560 --> 0:14:45.760 around the same time the clumps are due. 0:14:45.800 --> 0:14:49.920 It's looking like Scarlett might have a birthday twin, like 0:14:50.000 --> 0:14:51.160 a very good chance. 0:14:51.160 --> 0:14:55.240 They're saying the third or fourth will be the day. 0:14:55.440 --> 0:14:59.240 Yeah, clumps are doing July early July. Lawans are doing 0:14:59.360 --> 0:15:01.880 July scarlets turning one. 0:15:02.480 --> 0:15:05.480 Scarlett's turning one. I had a great APR from my mom. 0:15:06.360 --> 0:15:08.160 Oh, my wife. My mom. 0:15:09.400 --> 0:15:12.840 Got a nice little text after last week's episode. Y'all 0:15:12.880 --> 0:15:15.320 remember me saying, Hey, my best friend just had a 0:15:15.440 --> 0:15:19.840 daughter born the day before my birthday. Get a nice 0:15:19.840 --> 0:15:22.480 little text from my mom, goes, y'all are birthday twins. 0:15:22.560 --> 0:15:25.480 Remember it was a huge deal. She was born on 0:15:25.520 --> 0:15:27.640 your birthday, not the day before. 0:15:27.760 --> 0:15:30.640 Well there you go, APR, you got a birthday twin. 0:15:30.720 --> 0:15:34.400 That was the craziest dad brain of all time. I 0:15:34.560 --> 0:15:37.360 just was like, yeah, she was born like I don't know, 0:15:37.400 --> 0:15:39.920 a day before me. She's born on my birthday. She's 0:15:39.960 --> 0:15:46.360 my birthday twin. Who's the birthday twin Brian's daughter, Lucy 0:15:46.360 --> 0:15:49.560 I was talking about on last week's episode. Okay, so 0:15:49.600 --> 0:15:53.840 that's just a simple APR, simple APR, simple APR. Yes, Yeah, 0:15:54.640 --> 0:15:56.880 I haven't had many recently. The dad Brain's starting to 0:15:56.880 --> 0:15:58.720 show up a little bit more on my end. 0:16:00.480 --> 0:16:03.160 You gotta get to some of them. No free shout out, 0:16:03.200 --> 0:16:07.480 of free shout outs, no free shots. If they create 0:16:07.560 --> 0:16:09.680 doesn't get it by now, they ain't ever gonna get it. 0:16:10.440 --> 0:16:11.000 You forgot that. 0:16:11.080 --> 0:16:12.760 You sent me the picture for Father's Day and he 0:16:12.800 --> 0:16:15.160 sent me like three different iterations of a picture with 0:16:15.240 --> 0:16:16.200 his dad for Father's Day. 0:16:16.800 --> 0:16:20.320 Dad brain will bad. I sent it to him like 0:16:20.360 --> 0:16:23.160 a week before then. 0:16:23.200 --> 0:16:24.960 He followed up in the group text and was like, 0:16:25.000 --> 0:16:27.200 everybody send me pictures. I was like, oh my god, 0:16:27.240 --> 0:16:28.240 I haven't done that yet. 0:16:29.000 --> 0:16:32.280 Send him three more pictures, dude. I got Charles send 0:16:32.320 --> 0:16:34.760 me a voice note this morning. As far as like 0:16:34.840 --> 0:16:37.960 taking advantage of dad brain, because I do feel like wives, 0:16:38.720 --> 0:16:40.800 I do feel like wives and girlfriends. I feel like 0:16:40.800 --> 0:16:44.040 you guys do do this that the male brain is 0:16:44.040 --> 0:16:48.480 obviously fleeting. Dad brain is real. My wife, she sends 0:16:48.520 --> 0:16:50.120 me a little voice out this morning. 0:16:49.880 --> 0:16:54.920 Like she starts it off with like, deep breath, sweetheart, 0:16:55.080 --> 0:16:57.400 she said, deep breath. She said deep breath. Oh no, 0:16:57.600 --> 0:16:58.680 she's trying to temper it for me. 0:17:00.040 --> 0:17:02.640 She's like when my computer is in the office and 0:17:02.680 --> 0:17:06.960 it's open and it's plugged in, yeah, you can't unplug it. 0:17:07.240 --> 0:17:11.800 Oh no, it also not closed the laptop. And I'm thinking, 0:17:11.960 --> 0:17:14.040 what is she talking about? And I'm like, I've just 0:17:14.040 --> 0:17:17.520 put Sweetheart, I love you. I didn't touch your computer 0:17:17.560 --> 0:17:19.240 when I went in there last night. I just opened 0:17:19.280 --> 0:17:21.040 up the box because I got you a gift for 0:17:21.080 --> 0:17:23.680 our anniversary, because a little picnic basket. By the way, 0:17:23.760 --> 0:17:26.320 Year five is wood. The theme is wood. So I 0:17:26.320 --> 0:17:29.240 got her a picnic basket that says Compton Family on 0:17:29.280 --> 0:17:32.119 it because she loves picnics. Do good gift, freaky gift. 0:17:32.359 --> 0:17:34.240 But all I did going in there was get the 0:17:34.320 --> 0:17:36.080 gift out of the box. I was like, I didn't 0:17:36.119 --> 0:17:40.280 touch anything, and she's like, I guess it'll be a mystery. 0:17:40.320 --> 0:17:43.760 Then she's like, I was like, could you have rushed 0:17:43.760 --> 0:17:45.520 out of there when you were on your sales call 0:17:46.600 --> 0:17:49.119 and accidentally done something. She's like, I just got up 0:17:49.119 --> 0:17:52.520 from my computer to go make dinner, is it Yeah? 0:17:52.560 --> 0:17:54.000 And I'm like, why didn't touch it. 0:17:54.400 --> 0:17:56.120 She's like, oh, I guess it'll be a mystery then, 0:17:56.440 --> 0:17:59.560 but I know she thinks I did it. 0:17:59.640 --> 0:18:02.920 Oh No, I thought there's gonna be some kind of 0:18:02.960 --> 0:18:06.000 circle back that it was you. It's I feel and 0:18:06.040 --> 0:18:08.720 now I feel terrible because I was signing with charro 0:18:08.920 --> 0:18:12.120 on yeah, we we do shit like that, But you're 0:18:12.200 --> 0:18:15.600 saying we do do shit like that, to the point 0:18:15.640 --> 0:18:18.840 that if we didn't do that ship they could still say, hey, 0:18:18.880 --> 0:18:19.320 you did it. 0:18:19.359 --> 0:18:21.479 And they say to you enough that you won't you 0:18:21.520 --> 0:18:24.439 start to question your own you can tell yourself. I 0:18:24.560 --> 0:18:28.040 was believing her. I just wrote me that believes her, 0:18:28.040 --> 0:18:31.160 and I know I didn't. Yeah. I thought. 0:18:31.200 --> 0:18:33.000 I truly thought you were about to be like and 0:18:33.040 --> 0:18:35.800 then I realized, oh, after I opened the pic Nick thing, 0:18:35.920 --> 0:18:36.760 I did do it. 0:18:37.960 --> 0:18:40.399 No, that's how they get us. 0:18:40.720 --> 0:18:43.520 Yeah, but then they beat you down with not like 0:18:43.600 --> 0:18:46.119 beat you, but the pepper and enough to where you're like, 0:18:47.240 --> 0:18:49.920 maybe it was me, maybe, and maybe you know that 0:18:50.160 --> 0:18:50.720 it wasn't you. 0:18:50.800 --> 0:18:52.639 At all, but you just come around and take an 0:18:52.640 --> 0:18:55.440 accountability for it, because like this is worth it, he 0:18:55.560 --> 0:18:57.960 worth what's about to happen, and I won't do it again. 0:18:58.080 --> 0:18:59.920 And it doesn't even feel like you're like taking a 0:19:00.080 --> 0:19:02.960 bullet to like protect the president. It ultimately kind of 0:19:02.960 --> 0:19:05.879 feels like you're just humbling yourself. Yeah, just going you 0:19:05.920 --> 0:19:07.840 know what, I strip it off? 0:19:08.119 --> 0:19:12.320 You're right, Yeah, I know I didn't do it. Possibly, 0:19:12.320 --> 0:19:15.359 maybe I guess I did. I don't know. Yeah, because 0:19:15.400 --> 0:19:19.040 the dad bring fails us, gentlemen, and it's starting to 0:19:19.119 --> 0:19:23.120 hit me more and more and more. Yeah, Oh my good. 0:19:23.359 --> 0:19:26.640 Oh I am getting really good sleep. Though. 0:19:26.680 --> 0:19:29.920 If we want to touch back very quickly on the 0:19:30.040 --> 0:19:33.040 early to bed, early to rise quote that I. 0:19:33.440 --> 0:19:37.360 The other way, get in good sleep, brother, this going 0:19:37.440 --> 0:19:38.680 to bed early stuff. 0:19:40.560 --> 0:19:43.600 My parents were right. They were right the whole time. 0:19:44.880 --> 0:19:47.480 This go to bed early, that's all I have to say. 0:19:48.800 --> 0:19:52.600 Get in bed early, pass out early. I woke up 0:19:52.640 --> 0:19:56.959 to no alarm clocks this morning at like five forty 0:19:56.960 --> 0:20:02.480 five ish, like, whoo, let's go. Did I have to 0:20:02.480 --> 0:20:03.320 go hit the coffee? 0:20:03.359 --> 0:20:05.760 What time you going to bed? Oh, dude? Last night 0:20:05.840 --> 0:20:06.840 like eight forty five? 0:20:07.040 --> 0:20:12.639 What Yeah, it's like a yearned for that. It was 0:20:13.080 --> 0:20:16.199 so badass of how I just I locked in. I 0:20:16.240 --> 0:20:21.320 put my audio book on while Jill was doing tucking. 0:20:22.240 --> 0:20:24.960 I put my Game of Thrones audiobook on. I'm doing 0:20:24.960 --> 0:20:25.520 the dishes. 0:20:25.640 --> 0:20:28.960 I'm getting the bottles ready for tomorrow for daycare, which, 0:20:28.960 --> 0:20:31.280 by the way, Scarlett's transitioning to whole milk. 0:20:31.359 --> 0:20:32.159 We can talk about that. 0:20:32.400 --> 0:20:37.120 Hell yeah, talk about that later. But I'm getting everything done. Okay, 0:20:37.160 --> 0:20:39.080 dishes are done. That's been a big thing. 0:20:39.240 --> 0:20:40.960 By the way that you tell you you're you're not 0:20:41.119 --> 0:20:43.120 You're not feeling it because it's natural to you. That's 0:20:43.119 --> 0:20:46.119 a subtle dad hack. Well, mama's up here in bedtime. 0:20:46.160 --> 0:20:49.160 You're getting your prepping. You're you're recapping the day by 0:20:49.200 --> 0:20:52.040 doing the dishes and cleaning off stuff. You're prepping for 0:20:52.080 --> 0:20:54.040 the next day. Ass, you're getting ahead. 0:20:54.480 --> 0:20:55.040 I feed that. 0:20:55.320 --> 0:20:57.879 So your ass is in lazy sitting on the couch 0:20:58.000 --> 0:21:00.560 watching TV and Mama comes down. 0:21:01.520 --> 0:21:03.920 You didn't clean the bottle. You didn't do it. Why 0:21:03.960 --> 0:21:04.720 do you do that? 0:21:05.520 --> 0:21:08.160 Or they don't say nothing, Yeah, here's the hall of fame. 0:21:08.480 --> 0:21:11.600 Here's a Hall of fame play that. They usually go ahead, 0:21:12.720 --> 0:21:17.240 they say nothing. They just get louder when they're doing 0:21:17.280 --> 0:21:19.560 all their things around the house, like in the kitchen. 0:21:24.160 --> 0:21:28.439 Yeah, the dishwasher. Usually when it runs, it's like and 0:21:28.480 --> 0:21:31.720 then for some reason that day you just hear the dishwasher. 0:21:35.680 --> 0:21:40.520 Stopping around the house, and God forbid you mess up 0:21:40.880 --> 0:21:46.680 Dad's by saying, oh, don't say it by just simply 0:21:46.680 --> 0:21:49.720 saying like, hey, sweet, are we going to start the show? 0:21:50.119 --> 0:21:50.399 Oh? 0:21:50.600 --> 0:21:54.280 Oh, I thought you were gonna go with the Hey, honey, 0:21:54.320 --> 0:21:58.159 you need any help in there? Oh yeah, maybe I 0:21:58.359 --> 0:21:59.119 do that. 0:21:59.240 --> 0:22:01.920 You know, it's even worse you say, hey, when we're 0:22:01.920 --> 0:22:03.800 going to get this show going, Oh, I'm sorry. 0:22:03.920 --> 0:22:06.280 I gotta do I gotta do all of this stuff 0:22:06.440 --> 0:22:08.320 around the house. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I. 0:22:08.240 --> 0:22:10.160 Gotta clean the dishes. I gotta put the kid down. 0:22:10.160 --> 0:22:12.320 I gotta get the backpack ready for tomorrow. I gotta 0:22:12.320 --> 0:22:14.600 clean off the counters because you know, I don't like clutter. 0:22:15.119 --> 0:22:16.360 I got to pick up the shoes. 0:22:16.400 --> 0:22:18.760 I gotta do. They're saying everything where you're just sitting 0:22:18.800 --> 0:22:21.960 there like, oh fuck, they're coming at my ass right now. 0:22:22.320 --> 0:22:25.480 Oh, this is something that I did or did not do. 0:22:26.320 --> 0:22:27.280 This is my fault. 0:22:27.280 --> 0:22:30.720 All of a sudden, Yeah, you're getting the very passive 0:22:30.760 --> 0:22:33.520 aggressive lecture in real time. 0:22:34.080 --> 0:22:36.920 Honey, the House of the Dragon season premiere comes out 0:22:36.920 --> 0:22:38.520 at eight, I don't know what they tell you? 0:22:39.000 --> 0:22:42.199 Yes, what did you say? How to Train Your Dragon 0:22:42.280 --> 0:22:42.720 comes back? 0:22:45.600 --> 0:22:49.159 That was really funny. I told Jill. I was like, 0:22:49.359 --> 0:22:52.520 are you excited? She was like excite for Why. 0:22:52.480 --> 0:22:54.440 I do that? Whenever there's like a new show. 0:22:54.600 --> 0:22:57.439 Yeah, coming to get Jill in the mood to watch it, 0:22:57.920 --> 0:23:00.920 I was like, season premiere, How to Train Your Dragon? 0:23:01.720 --> 0:23:02.560 And she was like. 0:23:04.400 --> 0:23:04.520 What? 0:23:04.960 --> 0:23:07.320 And I was like, the new season and she was like, 0:23:07.400 --> 0:23:09.159 I didn't know they were doing a show on that. 0:23:09.760 --> 0:23:12.680 It was like doing a show we've watched the first 0:23:12.680 --> 0:23:15.480 two seasons together. What are you talking about? Finally the 0:23:15.520 --> 0:23:19.359 wires got connected. I figured out my mistake. It was 0:23:19.480 --> 0:23:21.720 not the season premiere of How to Train Your Dragon? 0:23:22.800 --> 0:23:26.320 House the Dragon, good show, good short tone center. 0:23:26.359 --> 0:23:29.240 If you'm a Thrones fan, House the Dragon starts off 0:23:29.240 --> 0:23:32.280 with a bang, I'm a big sheep. 0:23:32.880 --> 0:23:37.040 Yeah, who is it? Man? I can't consume enough of that. 0:23:37.440 --> 0:23:41.280 Oh of that content? I love it? And where was 0:23:41.320 --> 0:23:44.199 I going with all this? Was there? That House the 0:23:44.280 --> 0:23:44.960 Dragon world? 0:23:45.359 --> 0:23:49.080 Even the guy would almost be like, oh yeah, I 0:23:49.200 --> 0:23:51.119 just house the Dragon starts at eight, so I just 0:23:51.119 --> 0:23:53.720 figured we'd watch Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I figured we 0:23:53.800 --> 0:23:55.840 watch How the Dragon at eight, Like, let me help you, 0:23:56.040 --> 0:23:57.000 I've already done it all. 0:23:57.560 --> 0:24:02.399 No, no, well, I guess this blanket's already kind of 0:24:02.440 --> 0:24:04.080 warm because I've been laying here for a minute. 0:24:04.119 --> 0:24:07.200 So come on in. The only the only. 0:24:07.040 --> 0:24:09.200 Saving hate Hail Mary you can make is just getting 0:24:09.240 --> 0:24:10.280 them a glass of ice water. 0:24:10.440 --> 0:24:12.800 Yeah, or make it a little bag of popcorn for 0:24:12.960 --> 0:24:13.520 Jilly Bean. 0:24:13.600 --> 0:24:18.879 That's always a if she's kind of, you know, not 0:24:19.080 --> 0:24:21.359 feeling the movie night or whatever. You get a little 0:24:21.400 --> 0:24:23.560 bag of popcorn going. You get some M and m's 0:24:23.600 --> 0:24:26.760 and sprinkle it into the popcorn for Yeah, game over. 0:24:27.880 --> 0:24:31.199 We're just run of the closet, grab the vacuum and 0:24:31.240 --> 0:24:32.520 just turn it on and start going. 0:24:33.520 --> 0:24:37.680 Yes, the mop and the vacuum are a cheat code, dude, 0:24:38.080 --> 0:24:40.960 those are, but that would almost be with some comedic relief. 0:24:41.160 --> 0:24:44.200 Yes, in this in this scenario that we're talking about 0:24:44.320 --> 0:24:46.520 his mom's already wife, he's already upset. 0:24:46.240 --> 0:24:48.080 And you're really doing it with the mop. 0:24:48.160 --> 0:24:50.600 Yeah, you're really I've already done Oh no, no, no, no, 0:24:50.720 --> 0:24:52.159 there's gotta be something else we can do and then 0:24:52.200 --> 0:24:55.960 you just start weirdly like running in place, just kind 0:24:55.960 --> 0:24:57.520 of run the house looking for things. 0:24:57.520 --> 0:25:00.199 So well you mom, yeah, you mom, let's go get 0:25:00.240 --> 0:25:03.119 the back and get the back. You just start doing it. Well, 0:25:03.200 --> 0:25:04.720 all you gotta do is give him a crack a smile. 0:25:05.040 --> 0:25:09.000 Then you stop turn off. I got you. I'm sorry, 0:25:09.280 --> 0:25:12.919 I fucked that up. I'll do better. I am sorry. 0:25:12.960 --> 0:25:15.760 The House of the Dragon. Yeah, can we were? 0:25:16.320 --> 0:25:20.919 Yeah, dude, it does work. 0:25:21.200 --> 0:25:25.120 It does work. Yeah, And truthfully, like. 0:25:25.119 --> 0:25:26.840 As long as you keep your poise in the pocket, 0:25:27.040 --> 0:25:29.760 you have to because right there is a domino effect 0:25:29.840 --> 0:25:31.600 of now we're just both getting kind of pissed off 0:25:31.600 --> 0:25:32.040 at each other. 0:25:32.119 --> 0:25:37.280 Yes, because I can apologize profusely, which will then lead 0:25:37.320 --> 0:25:39.640 to Jill being like, well, this is the same old 0:25:39.680 --> 0:25:42.520 story that I've heard thirty million times. Yeah, of Sherman 0:25:42.600 --> 0:25:45.520 apologizing saying I'm going to do a better job. 0:25:46.280 --> 0:25:48.199 And if they hit you with the trigger, uh, the 0:25:48.200 --> 0:25:52.159 trigger word of always you always say you always say this, 0:25:52.359 --> 0:25:56.240 you always do that. It's always me doing it. That's 0:25:56.280 --> 0:25:58.640 my trigger. The always is my trigger work. 0:25:58.880 --> 0:26:02.800 Guess why I don't always spread to the vacuum closet, 0:26:02.840 --> 0:26:03.960 whip out the vacuum. 0:26:03.960 --> 0:26:04.760 It just start going. 0:26:04.920 --> 0:26:08.960 Yeah, so I'll switch it up for us. But truly, 0:26:09.080 --> 0:26:13.640 that's what Jill was when we were whisper arguing of 0:26:13.880 --> 0:26:18.199 like prioritizing things around the house so Jill doesn't have 0:26:18.280 --> 0:26:20.879 to prioritize him, so Jill has more time to do 0:26:20.960 --> 0:26:23.359 stuff that Jill likes to do instead. 0:26:22.960 --> 0:26:23.800 Of prep the house. 0:26:25.280 --> 0:26:28.840 And so I was like, I love audio books. I 0:26:28.880 --> 0:26:31.160 love walking in for that kind of stuff. I'm down 0:26:31.160 --> 0:26:34.439 there by myself anyways, and so I've been doing the 0:26:34.520 --> 0:26:38.959 audiobooks while I do the dishes, clean up scarlets, stuff, 0:26:39.359 --> 0:26:40.240 prep for all the day. 0:26:40.240 --> 0:26:41.520 Like you're saying a dad. 0:26:41.320 --> 0:26:44.480 Hack, ye, but it's honestly a dad hack from the 0:26:44.520 --> 0:26:47.480 standpoint of then it's like what else do I do? 0:26:48.080 --> 0:26:51.440 I was getting into the bed while Jill was technically 0:26:51.480 --> 0:26:55.000 still upstairs tucking in Scarlet, so I may have even 0:26:55.040 --> 0:26:56.400 been in bed like around. 0:26:56.119 --> 0:27:00.480 Eight to fifteen. I know, good for you, man, dude, 0:27:00.480 --> 0:27:04.240 it was kind of sick. I have a big weekend 0:27:04.280 --> 0:27:04.720 ahead of me. 0:27:05.720 --> 0:27:09.040 Big week yeah, big weekend of like getting ready for 0:27:09.080 --> 0:27:13.119 this Florida trip, dude, getting ready for Scarlett's birthday trip. 0:27:13.600 --> 0:27:15.680 When is the trip? Uh? 0:27:15.720 --> 0:27:18.680 We leave on the second, which correct me if I'm wrong, Deeck, 0:27:18.800 --> 0:27:20.240 Is that Thursday next week? 0:27:21.080 --> 0:27:22.640 Yes? Okay, yeah, we. 0:27:22.720 --> 0:27:23.440 Leave on. 0:27:25.359 --> 0:27:31.160 Actually we leave Wednesday. We leave Wednesday evening. Wednesday would 0:27:31.160 --> 0:27:33.320 be the first because you're you're. 0:27:33.760 --> 0:27:35.760 You're gonna hit him with the drive hack. 0:27:35.920 --> 0:27:38.280 Gonna hit him with the drive hack late at night. 0:27:38.840 --> 0:27:41.680 We're gonna get yet to purchase the turtleshell. That's also 0:27:41.840 --> 0:27:46.440 on my to do list. Gotta get the yard mode. 0:27:47.200 --> 0:27:50.119 Who's gonna watch the dogs? Who's gonna do it? Intern? 0:27:50.200 --> 0:27:54.240 Chris got inter hired? Intern Chris, He's going to house 0:27:54.280 --> 0:27:56.520 it slash watch the dog? 0:27:56.720 --> 0:27:57.120 Nice? 0:27:57.400 --> 0:28:00.960 Yes, he said, I have some free coming in town 0:28:01.000 --> 0:28:03.320 because he's gonna be my birthday. We guys said, Chris, 0:28:04.080 --> 0:28:07.040 are they good people? He goes, they're real good people. 0:28:07.080 --> 0:28:09.600 They're real nice. I go, they're staying in my house 0:28:09.600 --> 0:28:12.400 with you, Chris. They don't need to all cram into 0:28:12.440 --> 0:28:14.959 your little Verbot thing that you're living in. 0:28:15.280 --> 0:28:16.040 They can come over. 0:28:16.480 --> 0:28:19.520 Is there concerns that he's twenty one now? After the 0:28:19.560 --> 0:28:21.600 Sunday I kind of want the kid that he needs 0:28:21.640 --> 0:28:23.560 to let loose. He needs to have a little fun. 0:28:23.600 --> 0:28:23.960 It's just her. 0:28:24.119 --> 0:28:27.080 Jills on board. Jills on board. I gave him the 0:28:27.359 --> 0:28:30.040 pool pass for our community pool. I say, y'all go 0:28:30.080 --> 0:28:33.520 to the pool. You have do happy birthday, Happy twenty three. 0:28:34.080 --> 0:28:34.680 Nice move. 0:28:35.000 --> 0:28:36.960 Just make sure you walk the dogs every morning and 0:28:37.000 --> 0:28:39.360 every evening. And I'm a happy man. And if there's 0:28:39.360 --> 0:28:42.000 holes in the drywall, I do somewhat know how to 0:28:42.040 --> 0:28:42.480 fix that. 0:28:43.040 --> 0:28:44.560 No, no, you can't even give boundary. 0:28:44.960 --> 0:28:47.560 You can't give a loose boundary of I didn't say 0:28:47.600 --> 0:28:50.440 that part say buddy, the place better be spotless. 0:28:50.480 --> 0:28:52.040 I didn't say that part out loud. 0:28:52.240 --> 0:28:54.680 That's the part in the back of my head that 0:28:54.840 --> 0:28:57.800 I'm like, worst comes to worst and there's some hole 0:28:57.800 --> 0:28:59.600 in the drywall, I can take care of them. 0:28:59.680 --> 0:29:04.040 Yeah, but yeah, I gave him the you know you 0:29:04.160 --> 0:29:04.880 gotta be stern. 0:29:05.000 --> 0:29:09.400 Hey, every room, dude is free reign, no nursery, no 0:29:09.520 --> 0:29:11.480 master bedroom, and we're good. 0:29:12.880 --> 0:29:15.320 You let him bring gals to the house. 0:29:15.840 --> 0:29:20.960 Yeah, yeah, Hey, Chrit, Hey, Chris needs. 0:29:20.760 --> 0:29:23.880 A left loose man. I don't. I don't I agree 0:29:23.920 --> 0:29:26.040 with you there. It's his birthday weekend. I don't. 0:29:26.080 --> 0:29:28.160 I don't disagree with you there. But I'm saying, like, 0:29:28.400 --> 0:29:30.200 would that would be gone? Like I wouldn't give him 0:29:30.200 --> 0:29:31.960 the keys of the house and be like, this is 0:29:31.960 --> 0:29:34.200 your airbnb for the weekend. Just make sure it's clean. 0:29:34.240 --> 0:29:36.560 When it's back, you can have the chicken whatever you 0:29:36.560 --> 0:29:38.080 guys do. You can do whatever in the middle of 0:29:38.080 --> 0:29:38.360 the night. 0:29:38.440 --> 0:29:40.280 Yeah. Yeah, it ain't going down like that. 0:29:40.360 --> 0:29:43.240 If Matt Malone is watching my house, it ain't going 0:29:43.280 --> 0:29:43.920 down like that. 0:29:44.400 --> 0:29:50.080 Does that make sense? Se? Does that make sense? Yeah? 0:29:50.120 --> 0:29:53.240 And that's nothing against Matt Malone. Like I love Matt Malone. 0:29:53.240 --> 0:29:55.920 It's against there'd be more parameters. But when you just 0:29:56.080 --> 0:29:57.520 you know, you don't think he's gonna wait in them 0:29:57.560 --> 0:30:02.920 with you don't think Chris is gonna lay in it. 0:30:10.960 --> 0:30:16.920 Chris is making that I want Chris have fun. I 0:30:17.000 --> 0:30:20.080 hear what you're saying. Hey, I hear what you're saying. 0:30:21.720 --> 0:30:23.880 Because got his boys. Or they're gonna play board games. 0:30:24.800 --> 0:30:27.600 They're gonna play some board games. Maybe it's a video game. 0:30:28.480 --> 0:30:30.880 Oh my god, they're gonna be respectful. 0:30:31.520 --> 0:30:35.280 Sure, Okay, if I plug in your Xbox one for 0:30:35.440 --> 0:30:40.280 you into the TV, yeah ahead, that's no call. Hey, 0:30:40.480 --> 0:30:42.960 I know you said people coming over was like good? 0:30:43.840 --> 0:30:46.840 Is it like good? If it's like forty or fifty people, 0:30:46.880 --> 0:30:49.800 do is that Matt that's called the party. That's a 0:30:49.800 --> 0:30:52.360 little different than how many friends is he having in town? 0:30:52.600 --> 0:30:56.640 Chris too, okay, they're aggies. 0:30:57.080 --> 0:30:59.640 If there's any school, they're like, okay, I can live 0:30:59.680 --> 0:31:01.320 with this. If they go to Texas A and M 0:31:01.360 --> 0:31:05.640 I feel like the student body there, I'd be like, yeah, yeah. 0:31:05.480 --> 0:31:07.520 Chris is a good boy. He's a good boy. He's 0:31:07.520 --> 0:31:12.479 a good boy. Blake, now just Blake. Oh Blake is aware? 0:31:12.920 --> 0:31:15.280 Is Blake? Blake? I don't want Yeah, Blake's I don't. 0:31:16.280 --> 0:31:18.240 You need to have Blake keep an eye. I need to. 0:31:18.760 --> 0:31:22.120 I might need to have Blake mess around with them alone. Yeah, 0:31:22.360 --> 0:31:25.240 mess around, yeah, Sherman. Sherman told me to come pop 0:31:25.280 --> 0:31:26.880 my head and kind of, you know, check. 0:31:26.760 --> 0:31:27.320 Around the house. 0:31:27.320 --> 0:31:29.600 Blake should put packages on your front door for Blake's 0:31:29.600 --> 0:31:30.959 house and see if Chris brings them up. 0:31:32.080 --> 0:31:33.440 That would actually be funny. 0:31:34.280 --> 0:31:38.720 Just force his hand in like doing interactions with Tell 0:31:38.720 --> 0:31:41.840 Blake to come over and like leave the backyard gate 0:31:41.920 --> 0:31:45.560 open so the dogs get Yeah, well, Chris, what are 0:31:45.560 --> 0:31:48.200 you doing? Sherman asked you to watch his dogs. They're 0:31:48.200 --> 0:31:52.200 out running around everywhere. I found him though, good thing 0:31:52.280 --> 0:31:55.920 I was here of Blake stealed the dogs, and yo. 0:31:56.000 --> 0:31:58.640 That would be funny, that would be funny, have him 0:31:58.680 --> 0:32:00.000 take the dogs. 0:32:00.440 --> 0:32:06.000 He just finished his fence. He hand built his fence. 0:32:06.120 --> 0:32:10.200 Y'all his backyard fence. I'll get some pictures for you. You 0:32:10.400 --> 0:32:13.080 need a Yeah, your dogs need to be in his yard, 0:32:13.160 --> 0:32:17.840 his backyard, and Chris has got to have the stones to, 0:32:18.120 --> 0:32:20.600 you know, get the dogs back and then you want 0:32:20.600 --> 0:32:24.280 to see if Chris tells you about it, mister Blake, Sir, 0:32:25.560 --> 0:32:29.880 I believe Sherman's dogs are in your backyard. 0:32:30.040 --> 0:32:33.720 Watch them. Oh my god, that's a good impression of them. 0:32:33.800 --> 0:32:34.120 Thank you. 0:32:34.240 --> 0:32:36.760 Yeah, that's a good impression of them. How long are 0:32:36.760 --> 0:32:37.719 you guys staying in Florida? 0:32:38.960 --> 0:32:43.000 A week? A week? That's gonna be awesome. Yeah, second 0:32:43.040 --> 0:32:46.960 to the ninth, dude, I'm really excited. I know. I 0:32:47.000 --> 0:32:50.280 can't wait for the vacation either. The travel there is 0:32:50.280 --> 0:32:51.000 going to be a grind. 0:32:51.320 --> 0:32:53.800 Like we fly to Chicago first, and it's from Chicago 0:32:53.840 --> 0:32:57.200 to Munich and then it's transportation for two and a 0:32:57.240 --> 0:33:01.360 half hours, so we're gonna be traveling a while. That'll 0:33:01.400 --> 0:33:03.800 be a grind. It is what it is. Those are 0:33:03.840 --> 0:33:05.480 the ones you're just gonna have to accept and embrace 0:33:05.520 --> 0:33:10.240 the suck. But being there, dude, it's going to be phenomenal. 0:33:10.560 --> 0:33:13.400 Each spot we're at has some childcare services with it. Oh, 0:33:13.720 --> 0:33:14.720 there's just gonna be the family. 0:33:14.720 --> 0:33:16.920 It's just gonna be us for ripping, like the hotels 0:33:16.960 --> 0:33:19.600 that you're the hotels that dude, that's sick. 0:33:19.960 --> 0:33:23.200 Yeah, and I'm so excited. Everybody keeps talking about the Dolmites. 0:33:24.000 --> 0:33:28.840 What is I don't know, Austria is range the mountains. 0:33:28.880 --> 0:33:32.600 Like sound of music that I've told Will about time, dude, 0:33:32.680 --> 0:33:34.680 got to see sound of music rips. 0:33:34.880 --> 0:33:38.880 Yeah, that's what people say that. But I'm fired. It's 0:33:38.880 --> 0:33:39.760 gonna be so nice. 0:33:39.840 --> 0:33:42.760 That's gonna be really nice having childcare there too, dude, 0:33:42.800 --> 0:33:46.000 that y'all can sneak off and go do like anniversary 0:33:46.120 --> 0:33:50.800 style like things of dinners and no pressure of watching 0:33:50.840 --> 0:33:51.400 the kids. 0:33:51.720 --> 0:33:55.120 Yeah, because when it's just when it's just the fam, Yeah, 0:33:55.160 --> 0:33:58.200 when it's just you guys, your tribe on vacation, like, 0:33:58.560 --> 0:33:59.720 it's still chaotic. 0:34:00.120 --> 0:34:02.720 Yes, because you do. You're just you're juggling so many 0:34:02.760 --> 0:34:06.640 things and you have no help. Yeah, So there. 0:34:06.560 --> 0:34:10.120 Is a sucky part of going on vacation with the fam. 0:34:11.200 --> 0:34:13.600 Those moments that do make like the vacation itself and 0:34:13.680 --> 0:34:15.520 makes it all worth it. Yeah, but yeah, no one, 0:34:15.520 --> 0:34:17.319 we're gonna have some childcare. Is going to be a 0:34:17.360 --> 0:34:18.200 breath of fresh air. 0:34:18.440 --> 0:34:21.799 Dude, that's gonna be nice. Get to go be a couple. Yeah, 0:34:21.920 --> 0:34:25.080 that's a good feeling. I know that that is probably 0:34:25.160 --> 0:34:30.600 built in with like our vacation to Florida. Like I'm 0:34:30.640 --> 0:34:34.799 sure that Papa Sherman and miss Amy are gonna, you know, 0:34:35.200 --> 0:34:38.759 not gonna to pay you guys, go do whatever one 0:34:38.800 --> 0:34:39.440 of the nights. 0:34:40.840 --> 0:34:43.799 I'm looking forward to that, like, yeah, man, that's gonna 0:34:43.800 --> 0:34:45.400 be that's gonna be amazing. 0:34:45.600 --> 0:34:49.000 And just during the day too, I have another video 0:34:49.040 --> 0:34:53.680 I need to send a chef. Scarlett is ripping on 0:34:53.760 --> 0:34:58.120 her walker. Dude, those you know those stand up walkers. Yeah, yeah, 0:34:58.680 --> 0:35:04.000 fast like like out of control, fast like doesn't have control. 0:35:04.280 --> 0:35:06.200 Yes, go and makes you a little nervous. Makes me 0:35:06.400 --> 0:35:07.200 really nervous. 0:35:07.239 --> 0:35:11.680 But she's staying vertical somehow, and I'm like, okay, like 0:35:11.719 --> 0:35:13.240 I'm a proud dad, but I'm also. 0:35:13.080 --> 0:35:13.600 Kind of filming. 0:35:13.640 --> 0:35:17.759 I'm like, oh shit, she bang it up against the wall. Yeah, 0:35:17.960 --> 0:35:18.799 turned around with one. 0:35:18.920 --> 0:35:20.719 Then you're questioning yourself for filming it. 0:35:21.160 --> 0:35:23.480 It's like the video I had of Scottie like walking 0:35:23.600 --> 0:35:25.200 or like taking a couple of steps, and remember she 0:35:25.320 --> 0:35:27.400 like toppled over and hit that on the floor and 0:35:27.440 --> 0:35:29.919 I was like, oh, yeah, you just hear crying before 0:35:29.920 --> 0:35:30.760 the video stops. 0:35:30.880 --> 0:35:34.319 Yeah, I mean truly, I'm starting to now know what 0:35:34.360 --> 0:35:35.920 that feels like, because because. 0:35:35.760 --> 0:35:38.600 There's no graceful way for the for like a one 0:35:38.640 --> 0:35:41.319 year old when they start walking, there's no graceful way 0:35:41.320 --> 0:35:44.359 for them to fall whatsoever at all. It's just from 0:35:44.360 --> 0:35:45.359 the top top down. 0:35:45.480 --> 0:35:48.400 Yes, and you hope it's on the butt. Yeah, Like 0:35:48.440 --> 0:35:50.120 I used to kind of be nervous when it was 0:35:50.160 --> 0:35:52.359 the butt. Now I pray for her to fall on 0:35:52.400 --> 0:35:53.040 her butt. 0:35:52.840 --> 0:35:56.240 But fall on her butt to where they're leaning forward, yes, 0:35:56.680 --> 0:35:59.000 because they hitting there like this, she's like, oh God, 0:35:59.080 --> 0:36:00.560 then the back of her head. 0:36:00.239 --> 0:36:04.840 And you you just explained the biggest wipeout to date. 0:36:05.080 --> 0:36:09.680 She's on the walker doing that uncontrollable speed thing where 0:36:09.680 --> 0:36:13.360 she truly just goes, I'm gonna go until I hit something. 0:36:13.800 --> 0:36:17.640 That's how I stop. And she hits the thing. She 0:36:18.160 --> 0:36:21.800 does this, falls on her butt and holds onto walker. 0:36:22.080 --> 0:36:27.680 Oh and flies back so head goes and I want 0:36:27.719 --> 0:36:31.360 to go back. Oh brother falls back and like that 0:36:32.280 --> 0:36:36.160 held onto walker. So Walker literally then goes goom on 0:36:36.200 --> 0:36:36.680 her face. 0:36:37.239 --> 0:36:39.480 I was like, oh my god. 0:36:39.360 --> 0:36:42.120 Like before she even started crying, and I was like, oh, 0:36:42.200 --> 0:36:45.480 here we this is about to be the worst cry. 0:36:46.200 --> 0:36:48.440 Poor little thing, dude, she just starts losing. 0:36:48.560 --> 0:36:51.000 I put her right into mom's arms because she wants 0:36:51.080 --> 0:36:55.719 mom when it starts hurting, and it was actually very 0:36:55.760 --> 0:36:58.320 cute and sweet. I then laid there and was watching 0:36:58.480 --> 0:37:04.160 like Aladdin or some Disney yeah, and I was horizontal, 0:37:04.360 --> 0:37:06.719 laying on my back and I had her on my chest, 0:37:06.760 --> 0:37:09.279 sitting on her butt, and she had her passing in 0:37:09.360 --> 0:37:11.680 and she had tears coming down and she had stopped 0:37:11.760 --> 0:37:14.400 like the crying crying. Yeah, but she saw the tears 0:37:14.400 --> 0:37:18.680 go down and was going And I just kept on 0:37:18.719 --> 0:37:21.879 looking at Jill and going, we have to put her 0:37:21.920 --> 0:37:24.920 back on that walker in the next ten minutes. I 0:37:24.960 --> 0:37:27.560 don't want her scared of that thing. We gotta put 0:37:27.560 --> 0:37:30.120 her back on it. I don't want her scared. And 0:37:30.160 --> 0:37:32.160 we didn't even have to put her back on the walker. 0:37:32.320 --> 0:37:35.880 She wanted more. She was making noises reaching for it. 0:37:35.960 --> 0:37:38.080 I'm like, get back at gamer. 0:37:38.200 --> 0:37:40.520 We got a gamer put her back on the walker. 0:37:41.160 --> 0:37:43.680 Didn't it change the strategy up at all? As fast 0:37:43.719 --> 0:37:46.799 as I can go until I hit something. So I 0:37:46.880 --> 0:37:49.920 kind of liked the bravery that's been amayed by Scarlett. 0:37:50.760 --> 0:37:52.960 I can work with Bray. Yeah, I can work with 0:37:53.000 --> 0:37:54.680 Bray toughness, toughness. 0:37:55.080 --> 0:37:57.759 We got vacations coming up. Scar Scars turn in one. 0:37:58.280 --> 0:38:01.160 We opened the episode with the temper tantrums, the dumb 0:38:01.160 --> 0:38:03.840 shit kids get upset about I'm fully bought into Gobirt's 0:38:03.880 --> 0:38:06.960 fifty two to fifty nine. I feel like Rue gets 0:38:07.040 --> 0:38:12.040 upset about damn near everything everything. No, it's I want 0:38:12.040 --> 0:38:14.520 to do the seat belt, sweetheart. I'm just helping you, like, 0:38:14.560 --> 0:38:16.200 I'm just trying to get your arm. And then she's like, 0:38:16.320 --> 0:38:18.200 I wanted to do it. Well, the seat belt's kind 0:38:18.200 --> 0:38:19.960 of like sitting over. I wanted to do it. And 0:38:20.000 --> 0:38:24.000 I'm like, oh uh, do you do you want to 0:38:24.040 --> 0:38:25.840 finish it? You can still click all the buttons, and 0:38:25.880 --> 0:38:27.200 she's like, well, I wanted to do it, and then 0:38:27.239 --> 0:38:29.319 she starts like crying or getting sad, and I'm like, god, 0:38:30.200 --> 0:38:30.480 you know. 0:38:30.480 --> 0:38:32.600 Let's take it all off. Let's get out of the car. 0:38:32.920 --> 0:38:34.799 Do you do it all, you do it all. I 0:38:34.840 --> 0:38:36.560 was just about to say that was going to be 0:38:36.600 --> 0:38:37.080 my solf. 0:38:37.360 --> 0:38:41.239 Get some impossible task and put reroot down and say 0:38:41.280 --> 0:38:41.960 reddo it. 0:38:43.080 --> 0:38:46.360 No, do it, you want to do it. You're big girl, 0:38:46.480 --> 0:38:47.240 you big girls. 0:38:47.840 --> 0:38:49.600 Just get her a big old axe in some wood 0:38:49.600 --> 0:38:51.600 and say hey, we're splitting wood and dad is going 0:38:51.680 --> 0:38:53.520 to do all of it. I'm splitting all this would 0:38:53.880 --> 0:38:56.400 you don't get to touch the axe at all? Real, No, 0:38:57.000 --> 0:38:58.600 but they want to do it. But then when she 0:38:58.719 --> 0:39:01.600 can't do it, get upset that she can't do it, 0:39:02.719 --> 0:39:04.520 and she doesn't ask Dad have. 0:39:04.560 --> 0:39:04.880 To do it. 0:39:04.920 --> 0:39:07.800 Then No, I'm just saying, like for all the parents 0:39:07.800 --> 0:39:09.640 that have the four year old that go birds here 0:39:09.719 --> 0:39:10.799 is talking about. 0:39:11.560 --> 0:39:16.840 There ain't no gold birds. There ain't no angle. Damn. 0:39:17.640 --> 0:39:22.400 Just like talking through it. You lose either way. Because 0:39:22.840 --> 0:39:24.600 we get to the point, like tron I get to, 0:39:24.920 --> 0:39:27.000 we're getting to the spots where we're just like, hey, 0:39:27.640 --> 0:39:29.360 we're not going to answer you if you're whining. 0:39:29.560 --> 0:39:32.000 Yeah, we're not going to answer you. In your wine voice. 0:39:32.000 --> 0:39:34.120 You can use a strong voice, you can use confident voice. 0:39:34.160 --> 0:39:36.000 Whenever you calm down and can breathe and know this 0:39:36.160 --> 0:39:39.600 is Honestly, this is not a big fucking deal. Yeah, 0:39:40.040 --> 0:39:42.000 And when you touch it on the arm and talk 0:39:42.040 --> 0:39:44.360 to us, we'll listen to you. But while you're whining, 0:39:44.600 --> 0:39:47.120 you're not gonna hear from me. Yeah, because I'm sick 0:39:47.200 --> 0:39:50.960 of it, sick of dealing with it. Now that I 0:39:51.040 --> 0:39:53.120 think about it, I can't even hear it. 0:39:53.440 --> 0:39:56.160 Yeah, yeah, yeah, I really can't even hear it when 0:39:56.200 --> 0:39:57.359 you start talking like that. 0:39:58.239 --> 0:40:02.480 I fully support that because Scarlett is starting to do 0:40:02.560 --> 0:40:07.120 that too with the separation anxiety. Whenever we put her down, 0:40:07.200 --> 0:40:14.760 dude and start doing stuff around the house, it's just instantly, oh. 0:40:12.840 --> 0:40:15.399 Of like come pick me up, like what are you doing? 0:40:15.840 --> 0:40:17.719 Then you ask parents, you start to question do we 0:40:17.760 --> 0:40:19.879 hold and do all this stuff way too much? 0:40:20.040 --> 0:40:25.040 And I've taken this staunch approach of I know she 0:40:25.080 --> 0:40:28.560 can't really understand me at eleven in some odd months, 0:40:28.560 --> 0:40:33.800 but I'm like, Scarlet, no, no, no whining, no whining. 0:40:34.040 --> 0:40:36.880 You cant play by yourself. You can play by yourself. 0:40:36.880 --> 0:40:39.879 And she'll start crawing to me like still crying. You'll 0:40:39.920 --> 0:40:42.000 walk away from her and I get a toy and 0:40:42.040 --> 0:40:44.480 I put it. Yes, I walk away. I get a 0:40:44.520 --> 0:40:46.320 toy and I give it to her. I go, you, 0:40:46.320 --> 0:40:47.759 you know how to play on your own? 0:40:47.840 --> 0:40:48.359 You got this? 0:40:48.680 --> 0:40:50.759 Yeah, you big girl, Go and resituate and put the 0:40:50.760 --> 0:40:52.520 toy in front of me. Yeah you can play, you 0:40:52.600 --> 0:40:53.080 big girl. 0:40:53.280 --> 0:40:53.879 You got it. 0:40:54.200 --> 0:40:57.560 Like I and Jill and I have been joking, I'm 0:40:57.600 --> 0:41:00.319 not putting Jill on blasts like Jill was on her 0:41:00.360 --> 0:41:03.280 mom Sherman's way better at that than me, because Jill's 0:41:03.280 --> 0:41:05.840 the one that wants to go pick her up and 0:41:06.280 --> 0:41:11.600 it's okay, yep, And I'm like, honey, you can't you know, 0:41:11.760 --> 0:41:14.600 every now and then, yeah, like if she's really really 0:41:14.680 --> 0:41:17.640 sad and we haven't been holding her, amen, go pick 0:41:17.640 --> 0:41:19.920 her up. But like if we've been holding her all 0:41:20.000 --> 0:41:23.880 day and we're just taking ten minutes to make dinner, 0:41:24.440 --> 0:41:25.960 I think she's gonna be okay. 0:41:27.440 --> 0:41:30.960 Yeah, is she How close is she to walking? She's 0:41:31.000 --> 0:41:35.480 getting close. From the standpoint of on the walker, it 0:41:35.800 --> 0:41:39.160 was like we're kind of figuring it out. We're figuring 0:41:39.200 --> 0:41:40.000 it out now. 0:41:40.120 --> 0:41:45.279 It's like who down hallways, like going long ranges with that, 0:41:45.800 --> 0:41:50.160 and then she's independently standing up now of like independent 0:41:50.239 --> 0:41:54.120 of furniture. But once she gets up, she has no 0:41:54.160 --> 0:41:56.839 idea what to do she just instantly pops down. 0:41:56.960 --> 0:41:59.480 You you have, I think, right, like maybe I got 0:41:59.480 --> 0:42:03.160 this from you. You have the little seat that sits 0:42:03.160 --> 0:42:03.760 on the island. 0:42:04.600 --> 0:42:06.600 Oh yeah, to where. 0:42:06.560 --> 0:42:08.640 It's like when you're making dinner doing stuff around the kitchen, 0:42:08.680 --> 0:42:10.759 you have them propped up to where they're they're like, yeah, 0:42:10.760 --> 0:42:13.080 you can keep themselves busy. Yeah, because then you'll get 0:42:13.080 --> 0:42:15.680 to where you can get them their little side stool 0:42:15.760 --> 0:42:17.319 or whatever where they can kind of stand at the 0:42:17.360 --> 0:42:21.799 island with you. But you're probably you're probably a couple 0:42:21.800 --> 0:42:24.279 of months from that because you want them to because 0:42:24.280 --> 0:42:26.520 it's like there's also the one that we have is 0:42:26.560 --> 0:42:28.319 there's like an opening in the back so if she 0:42:28.440 --> 0:42:30.719 wasn't you know, you didn't trust her enough, she. 0:42:30.680 --> 0:42:33.040 Could like fall and go out the backside. Yeah. Yeah, 0:42:33.120 --> 0:42:37.319 because you can like take this uh was it there? Yeah? 0:42:37.360 --> 0:42:40.920 Their stool, I forget exactly the name of it, but 0:42:41.000 --> 0:42:42.759 you can fold it into a table too, so if 0:42:42.760 --> 0:42:45.200 they sit down at the little table or you can 0:42:45.239 --> 0:42:45.839 prop it up. 0:42:46.040 --> 0:42:50.440 Yes, okay, I have seen that in y'all's kitchen before. Yeah, yeah, to. 0:42:50.360 --> 0:42:52.400 Where you'll just sit them there and they're like in 0:42:52.520 --> 0:42:54.839 the they're like doing stuff, whether you give them something 0:42:54.840 --> 0:42:57.359 to do, yes, or a little snack whatever to keep 0:42:57.400 --> 0:42:59.920 them occupied. Yeah, but once you get strong enough to do, 0:43:00.200 --> 0:43:01.319 you'll be able to get one of those. 0:43:01.560 --> 0:43:01.880 Yeah. 0:43:01.960 --> 0:43:06.200 Because she's at the point where she can, I can 0:43:06.239 --> 0:43:09.040 confidently put her down in the living room and know 0:43:09.400 --> 0:43:11.920 that she's not gonna hurt herself from falling. 0:43:12.320 --> 0:43:13.960 She's gonna crawl to a piece of furniture. 0:43:14.040 --> 0:43:16.360 She's going to prop herself up on it and stand 0:43:16.960 --> 0:43:20.040 turned her body out with like one hand on the furniture. 0:43:20.239 --> 0:43:23.080 Yeah, to like wave hide did dad? Dad? Of course? 0:43:23.320 --> 0:43:23.920 Of course? 0:43:24.239 --> 0:43:28.680 Watch blue We love Bluie And what a bozo move 0:43:29.080 --> 0:43:32.120 I did week three on this show. I don't like 0:43:32.200 --> 0:43:35.680 the show Bluey, and you can run the clip. I'm 0:43:35.719 --> 0:43:37.839 such an idiot, dude. Bluey is one of the best 0:43:37.840 --> 0:43:38.760 shows of all time. 0:43:38.680 --> 0:43:40.520 Dad, Brain, I don't even remember you saying that. 0:43:41.200 --> 0:43:45.120 It's like one of our initial quote graphics that did numbies, 0:43:45.160 --> 0:43:48.280 because everybody was in the comments like this Sherman guy's 0:43:48.320 --> 0:43:48.960 an idiot. 0:43:49.520 --> 0:43:52.080 Yeah, that's an idiot remark. It was an idiot remark. 0:43:52.239 --> 0:43:54.080 Blue's a great show, one of the better ones. 0:43:53.920 --> 0:43:57.160 Out there, one of like a top three, and we've 0:43:57.160 --> 0:43:59.560 been ripping bluey. But she's at a point where I 0:43:59.560 --> 0:44:04.640 can calmly, she can operate in the living room. But 0:44:04.760 --> 0:44:07.680 the solo walking, we're I mean, we're probably you know, 0:44:08.520 --> 0:44:11.040 what would it be like three months away from that, 0:44:11.160 --> 0:44:15.560 two months away from that of unless she keeps on 0:44:15.680 --> 0:44:18.840 my diving headfirst into it. The people at the daycare 0:44:18.880 --> 0:44:22.600 are like, she is so confidently like moving around without 0:44:22.680 --> 0:44:25.920 us that we're honestly wanting to kind of move her 0:44:26.000 --> 0:44:29.759 up into the older class. We just have to get 0:44:29.800 --> 0:44:32.680 her on whole milk in off of formula in order 0:44:32.760 --> 0:44:36.200 to do that, because she's still two naps a day 0:44:36.680 --> 0:44:39.760 and formula. And they said she needs to be fully 0:44:39.800 --> 0:44:42.960 whole milk, no bottles, and one nap a day before 0:44:43.000 --> 0:44:45.480 we move her up. And so that's Jilla and I's. 0:44:45.280 --> 0:44:47.920 Like new project challenge. 0:44:48.000 --> 0:44:52.279 Yeah, because you start, when you start introducing whole milk, 0:44:52.320 --> 0:44:53.919 you'll mix it with some of the formula, Yes. 0:44:53.920 --> 0:44:56.000 Sir, start going a little bit at a time, yep. 0:44:56.440 --> 0:44:59.040 And that's exactly what we're doing right now. Six ounces 0:44:59.080 --> 0:45:00.719 of formula, one ounce. 0:45:00.480 --> 0:45:04.520 Of whole mil Yeah, and she doesn't she's none the wiser. 0:45:04.880 --> 0:45:08.359 She's deleting her bottles. Yeah, she'll love that whole milk. Yeah, 0:45:08.360 --> 0:45:10.759 we'll get We'll get her onto it. I did. I 0:45:10.800 --> 0:45:12.319 had a follow up that I did want to read. 0:45:12.760 --> 0:45:15.200 Yeah, let's see some comments, because there were some comments 0:45:15.239 --> 0:45:19.480 from our episode with the dads that we didn't follow 0:45:19.560 --> 0:45:21.160 up until just now. 0:45:21.360 --> 0:45:21.920 This one. 0:45:22.200 --> 0:45:26.279 I just made eye contact with senor Chef Chef. There 0:45:26.320 --> 0:45:31.000 were it was pretty much just John and Jack Hanning 0:45:31.160 --> 0:45:37.280 comments on last week's episode. People love, what a great episode. 0:45:37.360 --> 0:45:40.160 Chef and his dad sound so much alike. 0:45:42.239 --> 0:45:43.520 What was the man? 0:45:43.600 --> 0:45:46.600 There was one comment we might even said it last week, 0:45:47.360 --> 0:45:49.200 but there was one comment to where it's like. 0:45:50.000 --> 0:45:53.200 The Helium one. No, it's the one where your dad's 0:45:53.800 --> 0:45:54.920 better at being you. 0:45:56.000 --> 0:46:00.839 Oh, Papa Chef is better than Chef trying to do 0:46:01.000 --> 0:46:02.200 a chef impersonation. 0:46:03.600 --> 0:46:07.160 I didn't see that. Ye, yeah, it's pretty spot on. Yeah, 0:46:07.280 --> 0:46:09.040 I'm gonna for the viewers. I'll throw in a little 0:46:09.080 --> 0:46:11.120 picture just the show that's been like this since I 0:46:11.160 --> 0:46:13.680 was a little kid. That comment. It's kind of funny 0:46:13.680 --> 0:46:16.960 like reading all those because I've heard that since I 0:46:17.000 --> 0:46:19.000 was four years old. And I'll throw in a picture 0:46:19.239 --> 0:46:21.359 of me and my dad and my little brother really young, 0:46:22.800 --> 0:46:24.640 and you'll see that. It's just been like this since 0:46:24.680 --> 0:46:26.240 I was a little kid, So this is nothing. 0:46:26.280 --> 0:46:28.680 How has it been with you and your brother? Brother 0:46:28.840 --> 0:46:31.399 got to the family event and there were some words 0:46:31.400 --> 0:46:34.080 said on the pod, there were some there were some 0:46:34.160 --> 0:46:34.719 words said. 0:46:35.080 --> 0:46:37.479 He texted me when the pod came out and he said, 0:46:37.640 --> 0:46:40.480 he sent me a picture of Connor McGregor, uh with 0:46:40.840 --> 0:46:45.400 when he threw the chair at Aldo's bus and he 0:46:45.480 --> 0:46:48.800 just said, I'm going to kill you. But he's Actually 0:46:48.800 --> 0:46:51.439 he came home last night, but for circumstances I can't 0:46:51.480 --> 0:46:54.440 talk about in the pod for someone that a funeral, 0:46:54.600 --> 0:46:58.000 So no blood has been drawn yet, but I'm sure 0:46:58.320 --> 0:47:00.840 I'm just waiting for him to bow up to me. 0:47:00.920 --> 0:47:01.560 It's gonna happen. 0:47:01.680 --> 0:47:03.520 I text Cheff for the weekend. I said, ask your brother. 0:47:03.560 --> 0:47:04.680 I said, how big a boy are you? 0:47:06.520 --> 0:47:10.960 Somebody picked up the uh there was a comment that 0:47:11.120 --> 0:47:15.120 said love it when Willie c h references roy D Mercer, 0:47:16.320 --> 0:47:18.800 which that was roy D Mercer was something we bonded 0:47:18.840 --> 0:47:20.320 over right when I first. 0:47:20.120 --> 0:47:22.879 See Yeah, I mean you're you're you're from that era, 0:47:22.960 --> 0:47:25.160 you're in that era, or you're a roy D Mercer sickle. 0:47:25.200 --> 0:47:27.400 There's no I think I know who roy D Mercer is. 0:47:27.400 --> 0:47:28.680 You either know him or you don't. 0:47:28.840 --> 0:47:31.360 I got a pine wood stained box full of ass 0:47:31.360 --> 0:47:39.279 whooping that Outn't mind opening on you. Also Chip with 0:47:39.320 --> 0:47:41.160 one of my favorite quotes of all time, and I'm 0:47:41.400 --> 0:47:44.200 was so sad that it happened off the pod when 0:47:44.239 --> 0:47:48.600 the printer was giving deep fits and uh deeke sad. 0:47:48.680 --> 0:47:52.319 Chipper looking at me so serious, was not looking for 0:47:52.360 --> 0:47:55.160 a laugh and just goes a lot of his mom 0:47:55.239 --> 0:47:58.879 coming out right now, a lot of his mom coming 0:47:58.920 --> 0:48:02.399 out right now, and like, you can't pay a man 0:48:02.440 --> 0:48:04.000 to like come up with. 0:48:04.040 --> 0:48:06.920 Something that good on the sea, come off with it 0:48:06.960 --> 0:48:10.200 on the spot. He's just saying that for thirty that's 0:48:09.760 --> 0:48:12.200 a that's a big dad ism, that's a wholster. 0:48:12.360 --> 0:48:14.560 Like if he's a Pokemon trainer with six starters, that's 0:48:14.640 --> 0:48:15.080 number two. 0:48:17.080 --> 0:48:20.480 Well, my dad would email with coach Dobson and Nebraska 0:48:20.560 --> 0:48:21.319 my strength coach. 0:48:21.480 --> 0:48:25.680 He would email with him. Incredible, dude. 0:48:25.800 --> 0:48:27.839 My dad would like check in like, hey, you don't 0:48:27.840 --> 0:48:29.920 get him going enough, just start throwing empties at him. 0:48:30.040 --> 0:48:31.080 That'll get his ass going. 0:48:32.920 --> 0:48:36.239 I was about to say, dude, does he still have 0:48:36.320 --> 0:48:39.480 that email address? Because you have to find that email 0:48:39.560 --> 0:48:44.640 check back, so throwing empties at it. 0:48:43.560 --> 0:48:45.719 Or like when I have surgery on my had I 0:48:45.760 --> 0:48:48.880 broke my foot. I had surgery on my ankle in Nebraska. 0:48:49.080 --> 0:48:52.040 And then when they would just catch up, he'd be like, 0:48:52.160 --> 0:48:53.440 he's got his mom's feet. 0:48:55.840 --> 0:49:03.520 Brother, start throwing empties at him. Oh my god, dude. 0:49:04.640 --> 0:49:08.200 I'll read another comment and that was, hey, something about 0:49:08.200 --> 0:49:09.800 your dad, Lucas Meyer. 0:49:10.800 --> 0:49:12.759 This was something that Chipper also brought up. 0:49:13.239 --> 0:49:20.680 F y Schwanz in German means eggplant emoji and pronounced schawns, 0:49:21.000 --> 0:49:26.040 I believe in German. The whole segment had me dying 0:49:26.160 --> 0:49:29.120 laughing for the Dad's replied, damn. They really had us 0:49:29.200 --> 0:49:33.080 running around saying we can't wait for the eggplant man, 0:49:33.680 --> 0:49:34.480 the schwan's man. 0:49:36.040 --> 0:49:42.040 Funs. Yeah, it's the Swans. I got a couple here. 0:49:42.880 --> 0:49:46.600 This is from Polo Magno twenty three on YouTube. Again, 0:49:46.640 --> 0:49:49.120 if you were listening and watching right now, leave comments, 0:49:49.200 --> 0:49:54.280 drop some comments, please come on Opa, Willy sees donut, 0:49:54.520 --> 0:49:58.759 Willy sees donut. Now this lock in and I got 0:49:58.760 --> 0:49:59.319 another one here. 0:49:59.360 --> 0:50:03.160 A matter of fact, we got a double from gobirds 0:50:03.160 --> 0:50:04.840 five two five nine on Spotify. 0:50:04.880 --> 0:50:07.000 Another one from gobirds he's been beat you twice now 0:50:07.000 --> 0:50:09.520 on this one. That's gotta be your grandparents who struggle 0:50:09.560 --> 0:50:12.919 with watching grandkids blow my mind, Like, bro, you did 0:50:12.960 --> 0:50:14.440 this ship for eighteen years. 0:50:14.640 --> 0:50:16.839 How am I better at it than you? And I 0:50:16.880 --> 0:50:22.839 could not, like agree moor to Willie's burner. Yeah. 0:50:23.239 --> 0:50:25.960 I looked at my mom when Scarlett first came home 0:50:25.960 --> 0:50:28.040 from the hospitality were maried. They stuck around for a 0:50:28.080 --> 0:50:30.560 little bit and she asked me one of those types 0:50:30.600 --> 0:50:33.440 of questions that I legitimately looked at her, and all 0:50:33.440 --> 0:50:35.960 I wanted to say in that moment is shouldn't you 0:50:36.040 --> 0:50:36.640 be telling me? 0:50:37.160 --> 0:50:40.040 Yeah, I don't know. I don't know. I just met 0:50:40.040 --> 0:50:45.240 this thing two weeks ago. Yeah, and now it's been decades. Yeah, 0:50:45.280 --> 0:50:50.160 so you can be forgetful, but there's it's like you 0:50:50.200 --> 0:50:54.160 can't even find the instinct in them. Yeah for the 0:50:54.280 --> 0:50:55.400 kind of the right answer. 0:50:55.560 --> 0:50:59.319 Yeah, the only thing that I have that I try 0:50:59.320 --> 0:51:02.399 and come to grips with perspective wise, Yeah, what's going on. 0:51:02.560 --> 0:51:05.799 It's just that the era of fatherhood was different back 0:51:05.880 --> 0:51:08.239 in the day. It was like I can tell it 0:51:08.400 --> 0:51:11.920 was I can tell my dad never changed my diaper. 0:51:12.000 --> 0:51:15.160 I can tell my dad never really did a whole 0:51:15.200 --> 0:51:17.880 lot of the baby stuff. Yeah, toddler stuff. 0:51:18.920 --> 0:51:21.440 You can't convince me Johnny and Nitis could teach Patrick 0:51:21.440 --> 0:51:24.280 Mahomes a thing about football. But we know Johnny Unitis 0:51:24.320 --> 0:51:26.640 was good at football. And that's kind of where my 0:51:26.640 --> 0:51:29.760 head's at with our dads. Yeah, the great And that's 0:51:29.920 --> 0:51:33.600 a really good one. That's because, like I know, if 0:51:33.600 --> 0:51:36.080 my mom was here, she would crush it. 0:51:36.440 --> 0:51:38.640 I think so, Like I believe I've seen her around 0:51:38.680 --> 0:51:41.240 even other kids as I've gotten older, Like she would 0:51:41.280 --> 0:51:41.719 crush it. 0:51:41.760 --> 0:51:44.720 And I can just tell she was like the mom 0:51:44.800 --> 0:51:48.480 and the dad. Yeah, dad just worked. It's like putting 0:51:48.640 --> 0:51:50.520 putting put food on the table, but it was just 0:51:50.520 --> 0:51:52.279 a pudding food. It's we're in a different era. 0:51:52.960 --> 0:51:54.839 Matter of fact, I'm gonna try and find this, but 0:51:55.040 --> 0:51:59.840 how much involved dads now are in this generation is 0:52:00.880 --> 0:52:04.200 massive percentage more a big margin more than dad's were 0:52:04.480 --> 0:52:05.479 back in the old era. 0:52:05.680 --> 0:52:08.240 Well, and a lot of a lot more women working 0:52:08.440 --> 0:52:11.560 as well, full time, which I feel like has a 0:52:11.600 --> 0:52:15.600 lot to do with it. Like your marriage, you and 0:52:15.719 --> 0:52:20.560 Charro both working, Yes, my marriage both working full time. 0:52:21.040 --> 0:52:24.799 Your fiance and yourself both working full time. You and 0:52:24.840 --> 0:52:29.200 your girlfriend both working full time like it's it's a 0:52:29.200 --> 0:52:29.759 different world. 0:52:30.080 --> 0:52:33.319 Roll through the mold got a job and said you're 0:52:33.320 --> 0:52:38.440 gonna do this with me? Yeah? Yeah, somebody said, somebody 0:52:38.480 --> 0:52:39.480 put their hands up. 0:52:40.239 --> 0:52:46.560 This, somebody let them work. Just joking, it's a bt bit. 0:52:46.800 --> 0:52:50.160 That's a bt bit, that's a that's just dad's in 0:52:50.200 --> 0:52:54.440 the garage. Milk knowing we fall short and just saying 0:52:54.560 --> 0:52:58.560 easy low hanging through Joe hanging for that was immature. 0:52:59.400 --> 0:53:03.960 Milk Teams, we love you, and mill Team six we 0:53:04.040 --> 0:53:05.279 love the paychecks too. 0:53:05.880 --> 0:53:06.239 I will. 0:53:06.280 --> 0:53:08.960 I'll raise my hand and say it. Love double salaries, 0:53:09.080 --> 0:53:14.200 Love double salaries. Yeah, duel income with kids. We were 0:53:14.320 --> 0:53:18.279 duel income with no kids, ink a dink, But now 0:53:18.360 --> 0:53:19.480 duel income with kids. 0:53:19.520 --> 0:53:23.520 That's crazy. There was something else I was going to say, though. 0:53:23.560 --> 0:53:25.239 You want to say something about my dad. I'm gonna 0:53:25.280 --> 0:53:26.879 read this comment. I want to say somebody your dad. 0:53:28.719 --> 0:53:30.520 I was going to say something about your dad. 0:53:31.400 --> 0:53:34.279 I don't remember specifically, so I will just say an 0:53:34.360 --> 0:53:38.239 overarching thing. It's always good to see Billy C. And 0:53:38.400 --> 0:53:40.000 I got to talk to Billy C. 0:53:40.800 --> 0:53:41.759 Way more. 0:53:43.120 --> 0:53:46.840 This time around, and it sounds like from the conversation 0:53:46.960 --> 0:53:49.480 I have with them, your dad listens to the show 0:53:49.640 --> 0:53:50.759 pretty religiously. 0:53:51.880 --> 0:53:54.360 My dad list consumes all of my content. 0:53:54.480 --> 0:53:57.640 Okay, that makes a ton of sense, because it felt 0:53:57.680 --> 0:54:01.360 like he knew me more than the last because he 0:54:01.400 --> 0:54:03.920 didn't know me the last time I met him, and 0:54:04.000 --> 0:54:06.960 he was talking to me very comfortably because he's a 0:54:06.960 --> 0:54:08.960 man of few words. But the way that he was 0:54:08.960 --> 0:54:12.160 speaking with me, I was like, yo, Billy, c is 0:54:12.280 --> 0:54:14.880 like having a full on combo with me and opening. 0:54:15.000 --> 0:54:17.480 It was just very fun to get to like know 0:54:17.560 --> 0:54:20.839 your dad way more. He rips dude, he's the man, bro, 0:54:20.960 --> 0:54:23.480 He's the man. The Duke of bon Terre, the Duke. 0:54:23.719 --> 0:54:27.040 I found what I was thinking about because somebody, this 0:54:27.320 --> 0:54:32.920 gentleman named Brad Wilcox on x OH treated the alert emoji. 0:54:33.400 --> 0:54:37.600 Married dad's engagement on the home front has tripled. Married 0:54:37.719 --> 0:54:40.640 dads of young children in nineteen sixty five did, on 0:54:40.760 --> 0:54:44.000 average less than ten hours a week of any kind 0:54:44.040 --> 0:54:46.960 of childcare or help around the house. Dad's in twenty 0:54:47.000 --> 0:54:49.759 twenty four contributed to nearly thirty hours a week. 0:54:49.880 --> 0:54:51.279 Oh my, so dad's out there. 0:54:52.040 --> 0:54:54.840 Keep going. You're doing a good job. You're doing a 0:54:54.880 --> 0:54:57.399 good job. I know, we beat ourselves up. Still a lot, 0:54:57.600 --> 0:55:01.640 which is at times probably justified. But just know you're 0:55:01.680 --> 0:55:03.640 doing a hell of a job and keep fucking going. 0:55:04.160 --> 0:55:06.000 I remember the other thing that I was going to say. 0:55:06.000 --> 0:55:08.799 You were talking about grandparents. Opah, what are you doing? 0:55:09.120 --> 0:55:09.560 Yeah? 0:55:09.600 --> 0:55:13.680 Even Lisa, who I would say, of the grandparents that 0:55:13.680 --> 0:55:17.759 we have, Jill's mom, Jill single parent home, Lisa had 0:55:17.800 --> 0:55:18.479 to do it all. 0:55:18.600 --> 0:55:19.720 She's a rock star. 0:55:20.120 --> 0:55:22.960 But even Lisa will look at me sometimes and asking 0:55:23.040 --> 0:55:26.560 a question like am I supposed to do this? And 0:55:26.600 --> 0:55:28.960 she's not quizzing me, she's not trying to like catch 0:55:29.000 --> 0:55:33.480 me in something. She's genuinely asking And even I'm like, 0:55:33.840 --> 0:55:36.360 I don't know the answer to that. So I feel 0:55:36.440 --> 0:55:39.360 less bad about knowing the answer sometimes because I'm like, 0:55:39.400 --> 0:55:40.520 even Lisa doesn't know. 0:55:40.680 --> 0:55:45.879 Yeah, I'm good. Yeah, imagine their parents are grandparents parents. 0:55:47.280 --> 0:55:50.040 Dude, listening to like the childhood that my dad had 0:55:50.239 --> 0:55:55.080 of he had two sisters and two brothers, and they 0:55:55.280 --> 0:55:59.600 literally was just like go rip, have fun, you go outside, 0:55:59.680 --> 0:56:00.080 see how. 0:56:02.239 --> 0:56:05.160 See it for two days? Yeah? Oh you're at Bobby's 0:56:05.160 --> 0:56:07.239 house spending the night. Great. Sounds good. 0:56:08.400 --> 0:56:12.120 I got some new dad shout outs here new dad's 0:56:12.160 --> 0:56:15.840 Here's one from Josh Wooley on Spotify found out yesterday 0:56:16.360 --> 0:56:19.120 evening baby number two is a boy. That is two 0:56:19.160 --> 0:56:23.720 boys for this pet Siko Boomer soon er baby boom 0:56:24.040 --> 0:56:29.239 or multi prayer hands. Josh, congratulations, man, congratulations, congrat. Me 0:56:29.360 --> 0:56:31.600 would be very jealousy of you for having two boys. 0:56:32.320 --> 0:56:35.480 Me Now, I love my girls. I do hope to 0:56:35.480 --> 0:56:38.200 have a boy one day. But shout out Josh Wooley 0:56:38.200 --> 0:56:38.879 on getting a couple. 0:56:39.280 --> 0:56:42.799 Shout out Josh, and shout out some growth there, yeah, man, 0:56:43.360 --> 0:56:45.680 growth and yeah. And also shout out Josh Wooly on 0:56:45.719 --> 0:56:48.319 two opportunities at a scholarship. Come on, man. 0:56:49.239 --> 0:56:53.719 Ross Tooley wrote in Ross Tooley says supsickos. Well, just 0:56:53.760 --> 0:56:56.200 have my first Father's Day and it was everything I 0:56:56.239 --> 0:56:58.319 could have hoped for it more. My dad and I 0:56:58.360 --> 0:57:00.840 have watched a US Open on Father's Day Sunday for 0:57:00.880 --> 0:57:04.320 the last thirty years. I'm thirty six years old. This 0:57:04.840 --> 0:57:07.720 one was different because I will be holding my daughter 0:57:07.760 --> 0:57:11.080 while watching. Here's how the perfect Father's Day unfolded and 0:57:11.160 --> 0:57:16.520 instead of goods, we're putting greats pickleball with pops only 0:57:16.600 --> 0:57:20.240 yelled at each other twice. Great return home only to 0:57:20.280 --> 0:57:23.280 receive a card book and PT six. Shirp for iaway 0:57:24.040 --> 0:57:27.680 amazing wife. Great watch the US Open with my dad 0:57:27.720 --> 0:57:30.320 and daughter. Great watch my dad who has been scared 0:57:30.320 --> 0:57:32.520 to hold my daughter finally hold her and sooth her. 0:57:32.840 --> 0:57:35.920 Great hit a one hundred to one US Open. Bed 0:57:36.000 --> 0:57:41.840 On Wyndham Clark greareat that you're in with Taylorawan on 0:57:41.880 --> 0:57:44.400 that one. Shout out to my dad, who's been my 0:57:44.480 --> 0:57:46.960 idol and hero ever since I was a kid. I 0:57:47.000 --> 0:57:48.880 look up to him more than he knows, and I 0:57:48.920 --> 0:57:51.800 am sure trying hard nowadays to make sure he knows that. 0:57:51.840 --> 0:57:54.920 Shout out to my amazing wife Amy for buying the 0:57:55.000 --> 0:57:58.120 sick merch and watching me and my dad watch golf 0:57:58.160 --> 0:58:01.480 for eight hours straight. To you guys for creating a 0:58:01.520 --> 0:58:04.880 family and community for dads. I've never felt so much 0:58:04.960 --> 0:58:07.720 a part of something in my life. My mom asked 0:58:07.720 --> 0:58:10.520 what shirt, what the shirt was, and when I told her, 0:58:10.560 --> 0:58:14.120 she was so happy. She wished that this had been 0:58:14.480 --> 0:58:18.200 back in had been around for my dad back in 0:58:18.200 --> 0:58:21.680 the day. Pretty amazing stuff and keep going please Sicico 0:58:21.840 --> 0:58:26.280 out PS bought all my boys matching PT Shirt six 0:58:26.320 --> 0:58:29.480 shirts for us to wear on Father's Day. Moving forward, 0:58:29.840 --> 0:58:34.560 that Rockin' the shirts he said, Also, shurm, You'll love this. 0:58:34.760 --> 0:58:38.240 Tin Cup is my favorite movie and I always watch 0:58:38.240 --> 0:58:41.840 it every summer. I've recently started watching it closer to 0:58:41.840 --> 0:58:45.880 when the US Open is in. Now I am making 0:58:45.920 --> 0:58:49.200 it a Father's Day tradition. Moving forward, Just a thought 0:58:49.680 --> 0:58:53.000 for you, since I know you love golf. Ross just 0:58:53.160 --> 0:58:58.040 unlocks something that I was going to play the Tin 0:58:58.120 --> 0:59:01.840 Cup scene where he asked for another ball very recently 0:59:01.880 --> 0:59:07.560 for a I do a clip inspo clip before our 0:59:07.640 --> 0:59:11.560 busting meetings. I was gonna do that scene from Tin Cup. 0:59:11.640 --> 0:59:14.320 That's one of my favorite movies. Ross, that's a that's 0:59:14.360 --> 0:59:17.040 a really good call, dude. I actually cried the first 0:59:17.040 --> 0:59:19.560 time I watched Tin Cup. I was an adult and 0:59:19.680 --> 0:59:22.320 I teared up at that scene where he's asking for 0:59:22.360 --> 0:59:25.200 another ball again again and. 0:59:25.560 --> 0:59:28.320 Roy, this is your this is your last one. Man. 0:59:28.720 --> 0:59:30.320 You miss this and we're out. 0:59:31.200 --> 0:59:33.600 I can get in on that green then fucking do 0:59:33.760 --> 0:59:36.000 it and he gives them the last ball. Dude, It's 0:59:36.080 --> 0:59:39.040 so good. Have you seen Tim have not? 0:59:39.440 --> 0:59:40.800 I love listen to the story. 0:59:41.000 --> 0:59:43.920 God, it is shout out Ross Tooley, Come on, I 0:59:43.920 --> 0:59:45.400 got one here from Corey Barnhart. 0:59:45.440 --> 0:59:45.760 What's up? 0:59:45.800 --> 0:59:48.600 Boys, My name's Corey from Upstate New York. Day One 0:59:48.680 --> 0:59:51.920 listener pet Sicico girl, dad of an almost nine year 0:59:51.960 --> 0:59:56.560 old four years ago. On June twenty second, we lost 0:59:56.600 --> 0:59:58.680 our little boy at twenty four weeks old. 0:59:59.720 --> 1:00:00.800 It's been a long road. 1:00:00.880 --> 1:00:03.240 It's been a long road mourning the loss, but happy 1:00:03.280 --> 1:00:06.160 to say my wife and I are expecting fourteen weeks 1:00:06.160 --> 1:00:08.480 in and just found out it's a girl who the 1:00:08.520 --> 1:00:11.440 only thing my daughter has ever wanted was a sibling, 1:00:11.440 --> 1:00:13.600 and when we told her, she broke down in tears 1:00:13.600 --> 1:00:16.680 of joy. She celebrates and includes your brother in her 1:00:16.680 --> 1:00:20.280 life and all of her stories. Very nervous about the 1:00:20.320 --> 1:00:22.520 age gap, but no, in my heart, we are making 1:00:22.520 --> 1:00:25.680 the right choice by trying again. Love the show, never 1:00:25.720 --> 1:00:29.000 miss an episode and definitely never forget to take the 1:00:29.120 --> 1:00:29.720 trash out. 1:00:30.040 --> 1:00:34.240 Much love, Corey And what was Corey's full name, Corey Barnhart. 1:00:34.520 --> 1:00:38.000 Dude, Corey Barnhart, thank you for writing in and sharing that. 1:00:38.120 --> 1:00:38.520 Dude. 1:00:38.720 --> 1:00:42.520 Yeah, I can only imagine how much they're hanging on 1:00:42.720 --> 1:00:45.000 to get beyond the twenty four weeks. 1:00:44.800 --> 1:00:48.560 Oh for sure, because that is a Yeah. That is hard. Yeah, 1:00:48.600 --> 1:00:51.200 that is hard. That is hard. It warms my heart 1:00:51.840 --> 1:00:54.200 to know that their nine year old just broke down 1:00:54.240 --> 1:00:57.000 and is just excited. 1:00:57.080 --> 1:01:02.080 And for excitement, for further excitement for him. Our neighbor 1:01:02.160 --> 1:01:04.040 that I talk about a lot. They have a seven 1:01:04.120 --> 1:01:06.520 year old and a two year old, and they often 1:01:06.640 --> 1:01:12.160 talk about how awesome their kid's relationship is with that 1:01:12.360 --> 1:01:15.480 large age gap, how helpful their daughter is and a 1:01:15.480 --> 1:01:18.560 lot of things, and what incredible big sister she. 1:01:18.680 --> 1:01:21.520 Is and Taylor's about. They're about to have their third 1:01:21.840 --> 1:01:24.400 the oldest Win is nine. It's going to be nine, 1:01:24.840 --> 1:01:26.600 So you have a nine year age gap. She's going 1:01:26.680 --> 1:01:29.160 to be nine. Yeah, White and I are six years apart. 1:01:29.920 --> 1:01:33.400 I love Wyatt, dude. 1:01:33.640 --> 1:01:37.240 Her being nine makes me really sad. When I first 1:01:37.320 --> 1:01:41.280 learned here, she was legal and now she's taller than Jill. 1:01:41.560 --> 1:01:45.240 Jill's five foot by the way. Uh no, dude, I 1:01:46.440 --> 1:01:47.640 she was the bean bro. 1:01:47.920 --> 1:01:52.840 Yeah, we'd be over playing shuffleboard and she'd bean would 1:01:52.840 --> 1:01:53.600 be down for a nap. 1:01:53.680 --> 1:01:58.760 She'd come down, embrace everybody. Now she's nine. That long 1:01:58.800 --> 1:02:01.320 curly hair, it's crazy. 1:02:00.960 --> 1:02:05.800 It's crazy. I have a shout out here from Connor Ferguson. 1:02:06.960 --> 1:02:07.400 Boys. 1:02:07.720 --> 1:02:09.680 Just wanted to write in with some birthday wishes. My 1:02:09.760 --> 1:02:12.880 son Cooper turns one on July fourth. Let's go Coop, 1:02:13.760 --> 1:02:17.040 and I know baby Scarlet hits that milestone the day before, 1:02:17.120 --> 1:02:20.760 so let's crack some ice cold ollipops and light some 1:02:20.840 --> 1:02:22.280 fireworks for the kiddos. 1:02:22.360 --> 1:02:24.040 I will take a sip to that. I have to. 1:02:24.600 --> 1:02:27.280 I got a little orange squeeze Connor, great call, dude. 1:02:28.440 --> 1:02:31.720 I got Jase Daniels Hated Rival Chris Bapple in my head. 1:02:33.560 --> 1:02:36.600 Thank you Ellas for all the laps in stories each week. 1:02:37.800 --> 1:02:40.160 My buddy introduced me to the pod right after Coop 1:02:40.280 --> 1:02:43.560 was born by sending me the Jocko Good clip while 1:02:43.560 --> 1:02:46.320 we're still in the hospital. I've been an avid listener 1:02:46.400 --> 1:02:49.040 ever since. You guys are truly in inspiration to all 1:02:49.120 --> 1:02:51.960 dads out there in the trenches every day, and the 1:02:51.960 --> 1:02:55.040 community you've built is phenomenal. Remember boys, we don't have 1:02:55.160 --> 1:02:58.560 to we get to sureman, It's been awesome listening to 1:02:58.600 --> 1:03:02.560 you describe the milestones hilarious stories with Scarlet because I 1:03:02.560 --> 1:03:05.960 can absolutely relate with my boy being the same age 1:03:05.960 --> 1:03:09.720 Willie Ce where Spot is a big hit in our 1:03:09.800 --> 1:03:13.480 bedtime story rotation as well, and Coop is getting a 1:03:13.520 --> 1:03:16.400 copy of what do you do with an idea? For 1:03:16.440 --> 1:03:20.880 his birthday. Yeah, Daddy, thank you for the recommendation. Shout 1:03:20.880 --> 1:03:24.040 out to my amazing wife Steph for being the greatest 1:03:24.080 --> 1:03:27.480 mom and wife. Coop Man and I could ever ask for. 1:03:27.960 --> 1:03:30.640 We love you so much, Babe. To the pet Sikos, 1:03:30.720 --> 1:03:34.600 remember to empty the diaper, Genie, take out the trash. 1:03:34.760 --> 1:03:37.800 We are truly the lucky ones. Pet six out Connor 1:03:38.240 --> 1:03:41.800 and Vermont and Connor provided us with some pictures of 1:03:41.960 --> 1:03:46.400 that's him, let's go and Steph, there's little Steph and 1:03:46.440 --> 1:03:47.560 there mister Coop. 1:03:47.880 --> 1:03:49.880 Do the wear Spot book. 1:03:51.520 --> 1:03:55.640 I get so bored reading that damn book because like, oh, 1:03:55.640 --> 1:03:57.880 where's that spot? He hasn't gotten his dinner yet, and 1:03:57.960 --> 1:03:59.880 he's like, is he behind the door? She opens up 1:03:59.880 --> 1:04:03.320 the flap and it's a bear. No, turn the page. 1:04:03.480 --> 1:04:06.040 Is he behind the clock? She opens up the clock. No, 1:04:06.320 --> 1:04:08.160 and it's a snake inside. So I'll just be like, 1:04:10.200 --> 1:04:12.960 now I switch it up last night, I changed the 1:04:13.000 --> 1:04:17.479 whole thing up. Now when she opens the flaps, because 1:04:17.520 --> 1:04:20.200 again this is a very short story. It's like, it's 1:04:20.280 --> 1:04:24.040 just where spot. You turn the page, and the only 1:04:24.040 --> 1:04:25.840 thing in the book is do you just open up 1:04:26.240 --> 1:04:28.480 open up a flat? And when you open the flap. 1:04:28.520 --> 1:04:30.440 It's just an animal and all it says is no, 1:04:31.840 --> 1:04:33.240 there's no other words. 1:04:33.880 --> 1:04:35.680 It's probably a good sign that you're bored with your 1:04:35.720 --> 1:04:39.360 child's book. It's probably a good sign. But she always 1:04:39.440 --> 1:04:40.000 picks it. 1:04:39.960 --> 1:04:42.040 Like she never wants to with me. Charle's like, oh 1:04:42.040 --> 1:04:44.880 she never does. Where it's she's always one spot with me. 1:04:45.160 --> 1:04:48.280 You gotta get in there and you gotta put you 1:04:48.360 --> 1:04:52.840 gotta tape in little factoids about your career in football 1:04:53.160 --> 1:04:57.120 behind me? Each think, is he behind the clock? Oh wait, 1:04:57.160 --> 1:04:59.840 what is that career? Career tackles? 1:05:01.320 --> 1:05:05.720 That's it's really see in twenty twelve ten tackles, one 1:05:05.760 --> 1:05:11.120 interception against Wisconsin. What that's crazy? Bought the green dot? 1:05:11.240 --> 1:05:13.880 Is he? Is he under the bed? Oh that's me? 1:05:14.120 --> 1:05:19.520 Second Sam, it's will comps first start because the Arizona 1:05:19.560 --> 1:05:23.760 Cardinals two tackles, that's not spot. Huh. Let's check. Let's 1:05:23.840 --> 1:05:24.480 check over here. 1:05:24.480 --> 1:05:30.680 In the twenty fifteen against the Cowboys, this first interception, Oh, 1:05:30.800 --> 1:05:33.240 is that him doing the swagon surf? 1:05:34.720 --> 1:05:41.840 You have the little town that falls in Oh my god, 1:05:42.240 --> 1:05:44.480 we got to do our own kids. Buck. We'll look 1:05:44.520 --> 1:05:45.960 into it. Yeah, we'll look into it. 1:05:46.000 --> 1:05:47.800 But what I've started to do is now I just 1:05:47.880 --> 1:05:50.479 attack her with whatever what I think the animal would 1:05:50.480 --> 1:05:52.800 do when she opens the flat, like look under the 1:05:52.800 --> 1:05:54.560 bed in its the crocodile and I'm just like my 1:05:54.280 --> 1:05:55.880 mom and just started. 1:05:55.840 --> 1:05:59.560 Biting on her leg. She loved it. Wait, is this 1:06:00.200 --> 1:06:03.400 were Scott Zila? Scott? Oh, Scott who reads all the books? 1:06:03.400 --> 1:06:06.160 We're you know, all the books long stories, Charles. You know. 1:06:06.320 --> 1:06:08.360 She apologized to me this morning because she's like this 1:06:08.400 --> 1:06:09.960 one that we got. I told her to pick out 1:06:09.960 --> 1:06:11.520 a book from the bookshelf that she hadn't read in 1:06:11.600 --> 1:06:14.240 a while, and it's like something due with Maine. Yeah, 1:06:14.440 --> 1:06:16.160 she like, get's a long one, but she loved it, 1:06:16.200 --> 1:06:17.400 so you're probably gonna have to read it. 1:06:17.640 --> 1:06:19.480 I'm like, god, these long ones, man. 1:06:19.560 --> 1:06:21.680 Yeah, you're gonna start reaching in the library. It's gonna 1:06:21.680 --> 1:06:24.840 be like Pride and Prejudice. You're like, wonder we rude? 1:06:24.880 --> 1:06:29.680 You just read? We're doing Pride and Prejudice. Time we 1:06:29.800 --> 1:06:30.200 do it. 1:06:30.360 --> 1:06:33.680 I have a new new one here from Oscar Knella 1:06:34.400 --> 1:06:38.160 via email. Hi guys, longtime listener, first time writer on 1:06:38.240 --> 1:06:40.439 my brand new dad to be with our little ones. 1:06:40.520 --> 1:06:44.000 Expected arrival in February twenty twenty seven. Come on at 1:06:44.040 --> 1:06:46.240 forty years old with my wife at thirty nine. We're 1:06:46.280 --> 1:06:49.480 starting this adventure a little later than some, but we're 1:06:49.520 --> 1:06:52.760 incredibly grateful and excited to finally be here. That fires 1:06:52.760 --> 1:06:54.880 me up. So a lot of women that get very 1:06:55.960 --> 1:06:59.640 get anxious when that thirty six year old mark kits Yeah, 1:07:00.160 --> 1:07:01.760 because risk and everything else goes up. 1:07:01.800 --> 1:07:02.440 Oh for sure. 1:07:02.840 --> 1:07:04.560 But I love this, and to be honest, I'm feeling 1:07:04.600 --> 1:07:08.680 just about every emotion possible right now. Excited, nervous, hopeful, overwhelmed, 1:07:09.320 --> 1:07:11.880 you name it. It feels like I've officially entered the 1:07:11.920 --> 1:07:14.880 trenches of soon to be fatherhood, and I'm trying to 1:07:14.880 --> 1:07:18.320 prepare as best as i can. Great head Start February 1:07:18.440 --> 1:07:21.880 twenty seven, Like you're you have the right urgency right now? 1:07:22.000 --> 1:07:22.760 Yes, you're good. 1:07:23.240 --> 1:07:26.680 I've already started scouting local dad groups around LA because 1:07:26.680 --> 1:07:28.560 I know I'm going to need the wisdom of veterans 1:07:28.600 --> 1:07:32.480 who have survived diaper blowout, sleep deprivation, and toddler negotiations. 1:07:32.600 --> 1:07:32.800 Yeah. 1:07:32.920 --> 1:07:35.720 I've also been working out more partly for my health, 1:07:35.760 --> 1:07:38.560 but mostly because I figure fatherhood is going to involve 1:07:38.600 --> 1:07:41.760 a lot of bending, lifting, carrying, and chasing tiny little 1:07:41.840 --> 1:07:43.520 humans at full speed yep, one. 1:07:43.480 --> 1:07:44.240 Hundred percent on that. 1:07:45.040 --> 1:07:46.880 I like to think I'm a new recruit hoping to 1:07:46.920 --> 1:07:49.120 earn a spot in Papa Teams. In the Papa Team 1:07:49.200 --> 1:07:52.560 six squadron, training has begun, morales high, and readiness is 1:07:52.600 --> 1:07:55.960 somewhere between fully prepared and absolutely no idea what I'm doing. 1:07:56.080 --> 1:07:58.040 You're in the right pocket. Yeah, you're part of the 1:07:58.120 --> 1:08:00.480 right squadron. That's me. 1:08:01.040 --> 1:08:04.400 Come on, Chef, I'd love to hear anybody you have 1:08:04.480 --> 1:08:06.000 for the first time Dad, who are a few months 1:08:06.040 --> 1:08:08.280 into the journey and trying to get their minds and 1:08:08.400 --> 1:08:09.840 backs ready for what's ahead. 1:08:10.200 --> 1:08:11.040 Thanks for all you do. 1:08:11.120 --> 1:08:13.840 Your conversations have already helped me feel more prepared and 1:08:13.920 --> 1:08:16.959 a little less alone as I step into this next chapter. Cheers, 1:08:17.400 --> 1:08:20.080 says future Papa Team six recruit recruit. This is a 1:08:20.120 --> 1:08:23.439 fellow Papa Team six recruit, Oscar Canela. 1:08:23.760 --> 1:08:24.000 Dude. 1:08:24.120 --> 1:08:29.200 Oscar is very locked in and already on the right track. 1:08:30.840 --> 1:08:33.479 The only advice that I was going to give, which 1:08:33.520 --> 1:08:35.400 he said, it best, that Dad's group. 1:08:36.240 --> 1:08:38.759 I feel like doing this show with you. 1:08:38.800 --> 1:08:43.679 Kind of filled the gap for me finding a Dad group, 1:08:43.840 --> 1:08:45.680 Like I didn't really need it because I got to 1:08:45.720 --> 1:08:48.519 do this show with you, and it made it very 1:08:48.560 --> 1:08:53.800 tangible and realistic to just hear you talk about. 1:08:52.520 --> 1:08:55.960 The right ends of people giving his ri and wins. 1:08:55.640 --> 1:09:00.160 And losses, and even even seeing Taylor and Jeremy in 1:09:00.200 --> 1:09:03.240 the office and talking with them, hearing them talk about 1:09:03.280 --> 1:09:06.840 like getting around other dads, dude, is just such a 1:09:06.880 --> 1:09:09.559 pro move. It's like, if you wanted to be a 1:09:09.560 --> 1:09:12.160 good golfer, you'd probably hang out with other golfers. If 1:09:12.160 --> 1:09:15.040 you wanted to be good at writing, you probably go 1:09:15.080 --> 1:09:19.040 to writer convenient. You know what I'm saying. Just oh, yeah, 1:09:19.080 --> 1:09:21.400 that would be my advice. Yeah, it seems like he's 1:09:21.400 --> 1:09:25.000 on it. He's urgent, he's preparing. Just prepare to fail. 1:09:25.479 --> 1:09:28.240 Also that that's the biggest thing is don't go sideways 1:09:28.280 --> 1:09:30.960 when things don't go to planna. You're gonna learn throughout 1:09:30.960 --> 1:09:33.160 the entire process, you're gonna fail through it all. 1:09:33.240 --> 1:09:33.439 Man. 1:09:33.880 --> 1:09:36.280 Yes, the best thing, like for me, what I did 1:09:36.320 --> 1:09:39.439 when I was preparing for Rue to come was, and 1:09:39.520 --> 1:09:42.760 I've said it in several episodes, but I wanted to 1:09:42.760 --> 1:09:46.160 be on top of what sleep training was and involved 1:09:46.200 --> 1:09:51.160 like twelve hours by twelve weeks. I've read strong Fathers, 1:09:51.200 --> 1:09:52.960 Strong daughters because I was having a girl. 1:09:53.120 --> 1:09:54.599 I read at wall Rue was here. 1:09:54.800 --> 1:10:00.360 Yep, those things help me, like figuring out no, that 1:10:00.560 --> 1:10:05.439 like my dumb brain before I had my wife and 1:10:05.640 --> 1:10:09.880 obviously before we got pregnant, was a Mary a wife 1:10:09.920 --> 1:10:12.200 and she'll do everything like, she'll do all the stuff 1:10:12.240 --> 1:10:14.120 at home, she'll do all the stuff, help and raise 1:10:14.120 --> 1:10:16.080 the kids. Like I'll just hope it's a boy, and 1:10:16.120 --> 1:10:17.800 I'll want him to be a football player when he 1:10:17.840 --> 1:10:20.760 grows up. I'll want him to be like dad. Yeah. 1:10:21.120 --> 1:10:24.000 And then because of how much my mom did for us, 1:10:24.160 --> 1:10:26.879 did for me, I'm just like, you marry somebody. 1:10:27.160 --> 1:10:27.880 They'll handle it. 1:10:27.960 --> 1:10:30.040 Yeah, they'll tell me what to do. Then you learn, 1:10:30.120 --> 1:10:33.120 as we all know, in marriage, it doesn't work like that. 1:10:33.120 --> 1:10:38.559 That expectation is insane and you work together. And so 1:10:38.920 --> 1:10:43.240 figuring out that how much the women's stress when they're 1:10:43.280 --> 1:10:47.639 pregnant and losing identity and going from whoever they were 1:10:47.760 --> 1:10:50.280 to now going into the identity of mom and losing 1:10:50.280 --> 1:10:53.720 themselves a little bit and seeing the hormone adaptations that 1:10:53.920 --> 1:10:57.479 take place, the mental shift that they have, the things 1:10:57.520 --> 1:11:00.439 that they have to be on top of, well, it 1:11:00.560 --> 1:11:03.519 puts a lot of stress on them. For me, it 1:11:03.600 --> 1:11:06.519 was obviously conversations with my wife by figuring out like, yeah, 1:11:06.560 --> 1:11:09.000 I need to do I need to prepare. I need 1:11:09.040 --> 1:11:11.120 to figure out lanes of preparing on my own. So 1:11:11.160 --> 1:11:12.960 it's not me just be like, Hey, what what do 1:11:13.000 --> 1:11:14.760 you need me to do? What do you want me 1:11:14.800 --> 1:11:18.040 to do? What book should I read? Like you can 1:11:18.160 --> 1:11:20.439 ask simple things like that, but I can tell you this, 1:11:20.560 --> 1:11:24.560 your partner wants you to be intentional and think for yourself, 1:11:24.600 --> 1:11:27.360 and it's just not them doing all the thinking. And 1:11:27.400 --> 1:11:29.720 so my lane felt more of like, how do I 1:11:29.800 --> 1:11:34.599 prepare for when the baby's here? The sleep training, because 1:11:34.640 --> 1:11:37.200 obviously nobody gets a lot of sleep on the babies here. 1:11:38.160 --> 1:11:39.920 How you can be how I can be supportive because 1:11:39.920 --> 1:11:41.720 they're gonna wake They're gonna be waking up a lot 1:11:41.720 --> 1:11:43.599 more in the middle of the night than I am, 1:11:43.920 --> 1:11:46.200 or I'm hopeful anyway, there's some situations where you wake 1:11:46.280 --> 1:11:50.759 up with your partner while they feed or plump, whatever 1:11:50.800 --> 1:11:54.160 the case may be. But just I prepare that. I 1:11:54.200 --> 1:11:56.000 don't know if I gave you a whole lot there 1:11:56.120 --> 1:11:59.559 you did, But those are the things I thought about 1:11:59.720 --> 1:12:04.160 as I was developing my own sense of self into Fatherhood. 1:12:04.360 --> 1:12:10.200 A creator in the dad space, Trey Kennedy hopefully future 1:12:10.200 --> 1:12:13.679 friend of the show. Tray Kennedy has a great character 1:12:13.800 --> 1:12:18.040 that he does of a terrible father. Yeah, and my 1:12:18.160 --> 1:12:21.519 favorite pit that he does is, honey, I'm here awaiting 1:12:21.560 --> 1:12:22.400 your instructions. 1:12:23.120 --> 1:12:26.599 I won't be doing anything until told otherwise. Yeah. 1:12:26.680 --> 1:12:32.080 Yeah, that is every woman's worst nightmare. Yes, you haven't 1:12:32.080 --> 1:12:34.600 told me to do anything, so I'm just waiting. I 1:12:34.640 --> 1:12:36.680 won't do anything until you tell me what to do. 1:12:37.000 --> 1:12:37.240 Yeah. 1:12:37.280 --> 1:12:41.640 If you're doing stuff proactively, that dude. And that's not 1:12:41.680 --> 1:12:44.400 even just with kids, that's just around the house. That's 1:12:44.439 --> 1:12:46.280 like you want to get some bonus points with your 1:12:46.320 --> 1:12:49.360 wife and your marriage. Not even talking about being a 1:12:49.360 --> 1:12:52.599 good dad, dude. Oh my god. We just talked about 1:12:52.600 --> 1:12:54.240 it at the beginning of the show where I was 1:12:54.800 --> 1:12:56.599 doing the dishes and have the headphones off. 1:12:56.720 --> 1:13:00.800 Yeah, just keep the eyes and ears open here because again, 1:13:00.840 --> 1:13:02.519 there's nothing that you're going to be able to I mean, 1:13:02.520 --> 1:13:04.000 there are things you're gonna be able to prepare for 1:13:04.080 --> 1:13:07.559 before the baby comes, but just prepare to fail and 1:13:07.800 --> 1:13:10.360 just be aware because you're gonna be in your own situation. 1:13:10.560 --> 1:13:13.000 Like me, I was still trying to play football. We 1:13:13.000 --> 1:13:15.639 had busts with the boys going. But knowing how much 1:13:15.680 --> 1:13:18.599 work goes into the kid, goes into the newborn. When 1:13:18.600 --> 1:13:22.280 they get here, you realize how much your wife has 1:13:22.360 --> 1:13:27.040 to kind of sacrifice and do for all of it 1:13:27.080 --> 1:13:27.920 to function. 1:13:28.360 --> 1:13:32.599 Yeah, and the mental you touched on it with your 1:13:32.640 --> 1:13:36.639 initial answer to you, the mental weight really anything to 1:13:36.760 --> 1:13:40.839 soften that mental weight as the do date comes closer, 1:13:40.880 --> 1:13:44.640 and because how many weeks pregnantity I forget from his. 1:13:45.160 --> 1:13:48.280 The baby is due February twenty seven. Okay, so he's 1:13:48.320 --> 1:13:49.200 got plenty. 1:13:48.920 --> 1:13:51.240 Of he's just seeing prep right now. He is so 1:13:51.479 --> 1:13:52.320 locked years. 1:13:52.920 --> 1:13:56.160 Keep that years ahead, keep that same energy, h Oscar, 1:13:56.400 --> 1:14:03.280 and just keep on lessening that mental load on your wife. 1:14:03.360 --> 1:14:05.479 And dude, everyone wins. 1:14:05.560 --> 1:14:08.040 And you're saying it right now, it's less about the 1:14:08.080 --> 1:14:11.360 newborn and more about the partnership, yes, more about the 1:14:12.040 --> 1:14:15.480 teammate aspect with your wife, Yes, Because. 1:14:15.120 --> 1:14:18.800 When y'all are a good team and are fully operating 1:14:18.920 --> 1:14:22.320 and know that you have each other's backs, that's when 1:14:22.320 --> 1:14:24.920 the fireworks and the fund happen with the kiddo. 1:14:25.160 --> 1:14:27.160 That's when the mental load is off and. 1:14:27.080 --> 1:14:31.120 Now we're both explore operating Yes, we're operating, and we're 1:14:31.160 --> 1:14:33.960 having fun with our girl and we're able to play 1:14:33.960 --> 1:14:36.160 with her at dinner and make funny faces at her 1:14:36.200 --> 1:14:39.800 and feed her because dad's got clean up and mom's 1:14:39.800 --> 1:14:40.799 got bedtime duty. 1:14:40.840 --> 1:14:45.800 After this, we're good. We got it. Like it, everything 1:14:45.880 --> 1:14:47.840 starts working, Everything starts working. 1:14:48.560 --> 1:14:50.839 It's fun to watch you, man, because I just remember 1:14:50.880 --> 1:14:54.240 when you were not even having Scarlet yet, the conversations 1:14:54.240 --> 1:14:56.400 we would have, and even when Scarlett was here, the conversation, 1:14:56.560 --> 1:15:01.160 how they've developed over the last year. Your confidence, your 1:15:01.200 --> 1:15:04.519 comfort in talking about these things. Now that you have 1:15:04.720 --> 1:15:07.479 a year of experience, well, a year of messing up 1:15:07.680 --> 1:15:10.240 exactly like you said, truly like it. 1:15:10.680 --> 1:15:14.160 You will learn so much from just fucking up. It's 1:15:14.200 --> 1:15:15.639 the best way to learn as a dad. 1:15:15.720 --> 1:15:18.040 And as long as you care and your intentional, like, 1:15:18.080 --> 1:15:19.439 you're gonna figure it out. 1:15:19.720 --> 1:15:20.840 Yeah. 1:15:20.920 --> 1:15:23.960 And if you care and your intentional, you're still gonna 1:15:24.000 --> 1:15:26.320 fuck up, like you are. Not just saying that to 1:15:26.360 --> 1:15:29.080 make people feel good. Yeah, No, not at all. This 1:15:29.280 --> 1:15:32.639 is something that will never ever go to plan ever, 1:15:33.520 --> 1:15:34.400 just being a dad. 1:15:34.560 --> 1:15:39.040 Yeah, man, I'd love to do a crack a cold one. 1:15:39.520 --> 1:15:42.160 Oh well, as you know, Willy see crack a cold 1:15:42.160 --> 1:15:44.200 one is brought to us by Ollipop. 1:15:44.880 --> 1:15:47.599 What do you got right there, Chris, Bapples and grape 1:15:47.640 --> 1:15:48.240 sitting next to me. 1:15:48.280 --> 1:15:50.240 I mean, honestly shout out all the alipops, but you 1:15:50.280 --> 1:15:52.040 guys know these are my two favorites right here. 1:15:52.200 --> 1:15:54.599 Raspberry Sherbert's right there, which is a new new one. 1:15:54.920 --> 1:15:58.360 BlackBerry Vanilla's right here, new flavor, every one, you know, 1:15:58.439 --> 1:16:02.599 it's not new. The deal the lollipop is still doing. 1:16:02.960 --> 1:16:05.960 They they nice transition, Thank you very much. They want 1:16:06.040 --> 1:16:10.080 everybody to enjoy lollipop as much as they can. And 1:16:10.160 --> 1:16:13.080 it's still to buy two, get one free. They will 1:16:13.120 --> 1:16:16.519 pay you back for any two lollipops that you purchase 1:16:16.840 --> 1:16:20.040 that works at any retailer, that works with any flavor 1:16:20.160 --> 1:16:22.960 you can mix and match. You just go to drinkollipop 1:16:23.040 --> 1:16:28.559 dot com forward slash bwtb by any two individual cans. 1:16:28.640 --> 1:16:30.760 They will pay you back for one. 1:16:31.479 --> 1:16:31.759 Guys. 1:16:31.760 --> 1:16:33.960 You can find them at Walmart. You can find them 1:16:34.000 --> 1:16:39.280 at Target or in the refrigerated aisle. In the refrigerated aisle. Amazon. 1:16:39.360 --> 1:16:42.720 You can buy them online at Amazon. Yeah, you can 1:16:42.720 --> 1:16:44.920 also buy them online at drinkolipop dot com. 1:16:45.240 --> 1:16:48.960 This is a perfect one I have a dad hack 1:16:49.000 --> 1:16:49.960 here on Discord. 1:16:50.400 --> 1:16:54.000 Oh what bishop what they love? Attention sickos. 1:16:54.000 --> 1:16:57.240 Our beloved lollipop is on sale for Prime Day twenty 1:16:57.280 --> 1:17:00.160 to twenty four percent off. I know, good day, and 1:17:00.280 --> 1:17:03.559 well all of our empty sichos will be having thirty 1:17:03.560 --> 1:17:05.760 plus packages showing up to the house over the next 1:17:05.760 --> 1:17:08.040 few days. Get her to throw some on the cart 1:17:08.320 --> 1:17:09.960 and he even set a picture how he's got some 1:17:10.040 --> 1:17:10.320 on the. 1:17:10.240 --> 1:17:13.920 Cart going right, Yan dude, so he's even we got 1:17:13.920 --> 1:17:15.719 the boys. What a dad hack? 1:17:16.520 --> 1:17:19.439 Yeah that it was under as you guys see, just 1:17:19.479 --> 1:17:21.519 so you guys know dad hacks. 1:17:22.560 --> 1:17:27.599 Hey, I'm gonna that actually really gets me. My Cracker 1:17:27.600 --> 1:17:31.200 cool one is the first birthday and going on vacation. 1:17:31.400 --> 1:17:33.240 Oh Cracker cool one, Right, We're we're in the middle 1:17:33.240 --> 1:17:33.639 of summer. 1:17:33.680 --> 1:17:35.720 I hope everybody's crack of cole one is figuring out 1:17:35.760 --> 1:17:39.160 some vacation they're going on, because mine is to Italy 1:17:39.200 --> 1:17:39.799 and Austria. 1:17:39.960 --> 1:17:44.400 Yes, and I'm pretty sure, and I don't want to 1:17:44.400 --> 1:17:47.200 put them on blast, but I'm pretty sure that my 1:17:47.400 --> 1:17:52.280 dad and my brother and my mom all sparkling water peeps. 1:17:52.680 --> 1:17:56.080 But I don't know if they are on the new 1:17:56.160 --> 1:17:59.240 kind of soda ollipop like they should be. And I 1:17:59.240 --> 1:18:02.479 think that I'm gonna be a lollipop sicko on my 1:18:02.640 --> 1:18:08.920 baka com strapped with ollipop. I'm going to convert them. 1:18:09.400 --> 1:18:11.880 That's actually that is also my crack of cole One 1:18:12.000 --> 1:18:14.760 is I'm going to get my mom addicted to ollipop. 1:18:14.760 --> 1:18:18.400 There we go, drink lollipop, man, Come on, man, drink lollipop. 1:18:18.800 --> 1:18:20.519 I have some shout outs, so we want to rip 1:18:20.560 --> 1:18:21.880 through shout outs. 1:18:21.520 --> 1:18:23.920 Please, And then I have a fun little PT six 1:18:23.960 --> 1:18:24.719 community read. 1:18:24.880 --> 1:18:27.680 Okay, it's from Brian Friedman. 1:18:28.240 --> 1:18:30.880 The email email is six so when the dad's at 1:18:30.920 --> 1:18:34.720 gmail dot com APT six. I wanted to give a 1:18:34.800 --> 1:18:38.160 first Father's Day shout out to my husband Jordan. He 1:18:38.200 --> 1:18:40.400 wrote in to you guys for an MT six shout 1:18:40.400 --> 1:18:43.800 out for myself, Brie for giving birth on March nineteenth 1:18:43.840 --> 1:18:46.280 to our eight pounds seven ounce son. Oh when you 1:18:46.320 --> 1:18:49.080 officially had joined the PT six gang. That was read 1:18:49.160 --> 1:18:51.640 on your March twenty fifth episode, and I think it 1:18:51.680 --> 1:18:54.880 would be so amazing for the follow up shout out. 1:18:55.000 --> 1:18:58.519 I've included a picture of Jordan walking our son out 1:18:58.520 --> 1:19:01.360 of the hospital, rocking his and. 1:19:01.360 --> 1:19:03.040 Here's the shout out. He deserves. 1:19:03.120 --> 1:19:04.720 Come on, I want to give you, Hugh shout out 1:19:04.760 --> 1:19:08.559 to my husband Jordan for his first Father's Day. Just 1:19:08.600 --> 1:19:11.120 as we preface that in the first paragraph, that's not 1:19:11.200 --> 1:19:16.280 a I shouldn't even said that brand Our sweet boys 1:19:16.320 --> 1:19:18.280 only a few months old, but he's already won the 1:19:18.360 --> 1:19:20.559 dad Lottery and I couldn't be more grateful to be 1:19:20.680 --> 1:19:23.160 raising him alongside such an incredible man. 1:19:23.520 --> 1:19:24.559 He is the backbone of. 1:19:24.479 --> 1:19:26.800 Our family and watching him love, care for, and show 1:19:26.880 --> 1:19:29.800 up for our son and myself every single day has 1:19:29.800 --> 1:19:32.600 made embracing the suck so much easier. Thank you for 1:19:32.640 --> 1:19:35.640 an amazing podcast that has given Jordan the confidence to 1:19:35.640 --> 1:19:37.920 become the best first time father that I knew he 1:19:37.960 --> 1:19:38.360 would be. 1:19:38.680 --> 1:19:39.920 He deserves all the praise. 1:19:40.000 --> 1:19:42.400 In a shout out from the boys, love you, guys, 1:19:42.479 --> 1:19:48.640 empty six Bree Jordan's Let's. 1:19:48.360 --> 1:19:51.960 Go, Jordan, thank you for rocking our stuff. Leaving the 1:19:52.040 --> 1:19:56.200 hustle Deek will Will was laughing, saying he shouldn't have 1:19:56.240 --> 1:19:58.800 read the top part of the email out loud, but 1:19:58.880 --> 1:19:59.800 I'm glad he did. 1:20:00.479 --> 1:20:03.000 I'm yeah. I was trying, no, no, no, no, you were breaking. 1:20:03.600 --> 1:20:06.000 I'm down that I read the first part of the 1:20:06.040 --> 1:20:10.599 email I'm saying, Look, I'm saying she structured it already 1:20:10.760 --> 1:20:12.519 saying I wanted to give a first Father's Day shout 1:20:12.520 --> 1:20:15.920 out to my husband Jordan. Yeah, so she doesn't need 1:20:15.960 --> 1:20:19.080 to put that in her next shout out. This says 1:20:19.120 --> 1:20:20.320 I want to give a huge shout out to my 1:20:20.400 --> 1:20:23.240 husband Jordan for his first Father's Day. Yes, because I'm 1:20:23.240 --> 1:20:25.439 already this is already the shout out for the Father's 1:20:25.520 --> 1:20:26.360 Day shout. 1:20:26.920 --> 1:20:29.760 You already said that. It's a shout now Father's Day. 1:20:29.760 --> 1:20:33.639 What I don't like is that this episode coming before Greg, 1:20:33.680 --> 1:20:36.439 where Greg, I think, has taught you a few things 1:20:36.479 --> 1:20:40.000 now about getting back and reading grammar and cards, and 1:20:40.000 --> 1:20:40.880 that's a teaser. 1:20:40.600 --> 1:20:43.479 For the Greg. It seems like you're in that headspace now. Yeah, 1:20:43.479 --> 1:20:46.519 but I didn't mess nothing up you. I wrote bo 1:20:46.640 --> 1:20:47.600 was on the card. 1:20:47.400 --> 1:20:52.840 And everyone is in full agreement, like if I was 1:20:52.840 --> 1:20:53.439 friends with Brien. 1:20:53.520 --> 1:20:55.200 She's like, hey, Willie, see can you check this over 1:20:55.200 --> 1:20:56.519 before I said it in the six and one the 1:20:56.600 --> 1:20:58.680 dad's at gmail dot com. Yeah, so yeah, let me 1:20:58.720 --> 1:21:03.160 take a look at Brie. This is this is honestly amazing. 1:21:03.200 --> 1:21:04.960 The only thing I would correct is you don't have 1:21:05.000 --> 1:21:06.280 to see I want to give a huge shout out 1:21:06.320 --> 1:21:08.519 to my husband Jordan for his first Father's Day, because 1:21:08.560 --> 1:21:10.760 you already said that in the first paragraph, So just 1:21:10.760 --> 1:21:13.400 delete that part and just go in, just go into 1:21:13.400 --> 1:21:15.200 the shout out or a little boy only a few 1:21:15.200 --> 1:21:15.639 months old. 1:21:15.640 --> 1:21:17.400 And if I delete that part, then it's good to go. 1:21:17.439 --> 1:21:19.599 I can send him Yeah, yeah, yeah, because will if 1:21:19.600 --> 1:21:22.320 you watch, he reads everything that's on the card. 1:21:22.680 --> 1:21:26.080 Oh don't you don't want to repeat himself? That is right. 1:21:26.200 --> 1:21:28.080 Let me change that. Yeh, I'll get that change. 1:21:28.160 --> 1:21:32.679 And for all the haters out there, Greg the one 1:21:32.680 --> 1:21:35.439 you here, listen to next week with Greg, it was 1:21:35.640 --> 1:21:36.960 it was a moment of relief. 1:21:39.080 --> 1:21:42.559 We put one card in that man's hands, one and 1:21:42.640 --> 1:21:46.519 he tore it apart. He tore it apart. 1:21:46.760 --> 1:21:49.240 Imagine if we had had of do like eight by 1:21:49.280 --> 1:21:50.880 the end of it, he would have been like, why 1:21:50.920 --> 1:21:51.760 why do y'all do this? 1:21:52.520 --> 1:21:54.400 Why do you do it? Because for the love of 1:21:54.439 --> 1:21:57.360 the game, man, the love of the game. I have 1:21:57.439 --> 1:21:59.080 a PT six community. 1:21:59.520 --> 1:22:04.000 Uh note this came from this is a really cool name, 1:22:04.200 --> 1:22:06.080 Riker McClaskey. 1:22:06.720 --> 1:22:07.040 Wow. 1:22:07.280 --> 1:22:12.840 Riiker McClaskey wrote in PT sikos lifelong listener here one 1:22:12.840 --> 1:22:16.920 full year and proud father of my daughter, thirteen month 1:22:17.000 --> 1:22:20.400 old Scottie aka another Scott Sille. 1:22:20.479 --> 1:22:21.040 Let's go. 1:22:21.240 --> 1:22:23.840 Come on, Riker, Thank you boys for all that you do. 1:22:23.880 --> 1:22:26.639 I've enjoyed episodes at two am while rocking my daughter 1:22:26.680 --> 1:22:29.439 back to sleep in the trenches and on PT fit 1:22:29.560 --> 1:22:33.000 runs where I'm mostly just trying not to die. Thanks 1:22:33.040 --> 1:22:38.640 for keeping this fatherhood journey fun. Today's topic trash etiquette. 1:22:39.479 --> 1:22:42.160 Nice you see what Riker has to stave in as 1:22:42.200 --> 1:22:46.599 a dad. I am drowning in trash, Amazon boxes, white 1:22:46.720 --> 1:22:51.440 diaper boxes, everything in between, and never ends. My cans 1:22:51.560 --> 1:22:54.920 are full midway through the week every week, so I 1:22:55.000 --> 1:22:58.720 need the PT ruling. Is it acceptable to throw your 1:22:58.800 --> 1:23:03.080 overflow of draft into a neighbor's can when theirs isn't full. 1:23:05.840 --> 1:23:12.559 I'll go ahead and tell you I'm already doing it, Riker, 1:23:16.080 --> 1:23:19.080 every Wednesday night under the cover of darkness. I'm making 1:23:19.200 --> 1:23:23.880 the rounds, Riker, I'm making the rounds. I'll let you 1:23:23.960 --> 1:23:27.240 weigh in, but I am PTT Poppa team trash. 1:23:27.320 --> 1:23:28.320 So here's the question. 1:23:28.439 --> 1:23:30.960 If your cans are full, is it fair game to 1:23:31.000 --> 1:23:33.639 buy extra trash in your neighbor's cans? 1:23:37.000 --> 1:23:37.920 Don't get caught. 1:23:40.400 --> 1:23:47.559 I think I think it's ruling upheld. I see where 1:23:47.600 --> 1:23:48.320 his head's at. 1:23:49.200 --> 1:23:51.360 I think I've done it like a couple times in 1:23:51.400 --> 1:23:55.360 my life, not anytime recently, but I've like taken trash 1:23:55.400 --> 1:23:56.000 and put it in. 1:23:56.000 --> 1:24:01.360 Lean it's on. This would be my I take on it. 1:24:02.680 --> 1:24:07.120 If mine are full and they're overflowing and they look ugly, 1:24:07.520 --> 1:24:10.320 and it's first thing in the morning, and my neighbors 1:24:10.360 --> 1:24:13.200 have already wheeled theirs to the curb and mine are 1:24:13.200 --> 1:24:15.880 doing this game where the lid's like up like this 1:24:15.920 --> 1:24:18.880 because I have so much trash. Yeah, I would then 1:24:19.040 --> 1:24:21.760 check their cans. Oh, they got some room in there. 1:24:21.960 --> 1:24:24.760 I'll put some of mine in there so then mine 1:24:24.800 --> 1:24:28.400 don't look crazy ugly. Yeah, I'm cool with that. But 1:24:28.600 --> 1:24:32.040 I think he's talking about midweek being like, go put 1:24:32.080 --> 1:24:34.760 this over and uh, I'll go put it in there can. 1:24:36.040 --> 1:24:36.880 Is that what he's saying. 1:24:37.000 --> 1:24:40.040 We ain't gonna tell on him. I would never. We 1:24:40.080 --> 1:24:42.519 ain't gonna tell on them. Have you done? Have you done? 1:24:42.640 --> 1:24:42.800 No? 1:24:42.640 --> 1:24:44.760 No, No, I haven't done anything like I can't. The 1:24:45.080 --> 1:24:48.400 biggest one where I'm laughing at the feeling that you 1:24:48.600 --> 1:24:51.360 know he has, he feels going alive because when we 1:24:51.400 --> 1:24:53.559 were oh yeah, like when we were going back to 1:24:53.600 --> 1:24:56.720 when it was the snowstorm and we were going, you know, 1:24:56.840 --> 1:24:59.519 dumpsters taking our trash do on them and on dump. 1:24:59.560 --> 1:25:02.599 Oh yet, don't let me judge. I hope nobody thinks about. 1:25:02.400 --> 1:25:04.320 I'm saying the feeling you have when you get out 1:25:04.320 --> 1:25:06.240 throwing in the dumpster, where you're like, man, is there 1:25:06.320 --> 1:25:08.960 somebody in a window somewhere seeing me right now? 1:25:09.040 --> 1:25:11.400 Yeah? Yea, And they got their phone in their hand, 1:25:11.439 --> 1:25:13.559 like I'm gonna get this. They call the cup. Yeah, 1:25:13.560 --> 1:25:14.960 I'm gonna call the cops on them. 1:25:15.040 --> 1:25:17.639 But knowing he's like sneaking over kind of like looking around, 1:25:18.240 --> 1:25:20.760 check in, being like and then having to make the 1:25:20.800 --> 1:25:23.800 decision I'm good to do this throwing in there. 1:25:24.439 --> 1:25:24.680 I need. 1:25:25.479 --> 1:25:28.800 I need a selfie from Riker while he's doing the 1:25:28.840 --> 1:25:32.200 trash run, is what I need? Or a video? Yeah, 1:25:32.360 --> 1:25:34.160 I might need a selfie video of. 1:25:34.160 --> 1:25:36.760 Right he's pulling a you just did the Neutral, the 1:25:36.800 --> 1:25:38.080 Neutral commercial for Busting. 1:25:38.200 --> 1:25:40.360 Yeah, he's want to go, go, go, go, go, go go. 1:25:40.680 --> 1:25:43.639 He sneaking around Ryker when you sit in the video, 1:25:44.000 --> 1:25:46.040 wear a ski mask, whatever you need to do to 1:25:46.200 --> 1:25:49.680 keep yourself anonymous. But would love a selfie video of 1:25:49.760 --> 1:25:53.040 Riker showing us how it's done, and Riker what you 1:25:53.120 --> 1:25:57.880 can probably do if you think they're. 1:25:57.640 --> 1:26:01.760 Not onto you, you know you do this us. Get 1:26:01.840 --> 1:26:07.040 him a gift. Yeah, set it on their porch, neighbor, 1:26:07.080 --> 1:26:11.439 and maybe a written card. Maybe you allude to you 1:26:11.520 --> 1:26:13.640 putting some trash in their their bits. I don't know 1:26:13.680 --> 1:26:15.799 what his relationship is with it with the neighbors. 1:26:15.800 --> 1:26:17.720 Sneak it in there, so you gotta get it off 1:26:17.760 --> 1:26:21.960 your conscient Yeah, yeah, exactly. If I ever felt like 1:26:22.040 --> 1:26:24.439 my trash was overflowing and I could put it in 1:26:24.479 --> 1:26:27.640 your cants, like I would feel comfortable enough to do that. 1:26:27.640 --> 1:26:29.160 That's how much I love you guys. 1:26:29.160 --> 1:26:32.040 Do you know what we're doing? East genuinely? Uh, My 1:26:32.520 --> 1:26:35.599 neighbor's really cool. I have two recycles, he has one. 1:26:35.680 --> 1:26:37.439 We each have one trash can, so he'll put stuff 1:26:37.439 --> 1:26:38.880 in mine. I put stuff in his. If I put 1:26:38.880 --> 1:26:41.599 stuff in his, I bring his bins back because they're 1:26:41.640 --> 1:26:43.679 next to each other. So I have trash that's extra 1:26:43.720 --> 1:26:44.880 and I see it. 1:26:44.920 --> 1:26:45.439 There we go. 1:26:47.920 --> 1:26:49.160 He looked at me when he goes say thanks for 1:26:49.160 --> 1:26:50.519 bringing the bins back. I was like, yeah, I filled 1:26:50.560 --> 1:26:52.439 yours up, so like got it and he's done it 1:26:52.479 --> 1:26:54.680 for me too, So that's our Like, if we put 1:26:54.680 --> 1:26:56.439 stuff in yours, I'll bring your bins back for it. 1:26:56.320 --> 1:26:58.400 It sounds like Ryker just needs to get some rapport 1:26:58.479 --> 1:26:59.320 going with his neighbors. 1:26:59.400 --> 1:27:02.600 Yeah, sitting on the guilt or find a neighbor that 1:27:02.800 --> 1:27:07.280 just sucks you hold them up, mold of up. 1:27:07.320 --> 1:27:12.519 Maybe that's the spotty's in I either either way, I'm 1:27:12.560 --> 1:27:16.000 pro Riker, I'm team Riker. Yeah, of course we're pro 1:27:16.120 --> 1:27:20.280 Dad's man. We're figuring it out. I have some voicemails here. 1:27:21.760 --> 1:27:23.760 Do you want to do a voicemails to a voicemail? 1:27:24.560 --> 1:27:27.439 This one is called grandparent Teams six on one, the 1:27:27.479 --> 1:27:30.240 Dad's call in, leave a voicemail. And if you don't 1:27:30.240 --> 1:27:32.840 want to call in and leave a voicemail, you said 1:27:32.840 --> 1:27:33.800 it earlier in the show. 1:27:34.360 --> 1:27:36.280 Yeah, the email, hit the email, hit the email. 1:27:36.040 --> 1:27:42.479 Six on one, the Dad's at gmail dot com. 1:27:42.520 --> 1:27:47.120 Good morning, this is Heather calling from Colorado. I am 1:27:47.160 --> 1:27:51.280 currently only on episode I'm not even sure what episode. 1:27:51.280 --> 1:27:54.679 October eight, twenty twenty five. I started from the beginning. 1:27:54.760 --> 1:27:58.320 I am almost getting caught up working on it turned 1:27:58.360 --> 1:28:03.040 onto the podcast from my boys. They are twenty nine 1:28:03.320 --> 1:28:07.520 and currently twenty seven, and I just wanted. 1:28:07.280 --> 1:28:07.760 To call in. 1:28:07.880 --> 1:28:11.439 You know, pizza Fridays growing up definitely was a thing 1:28:11.479 --> 1:28:13.720 for our family, and I just want to say that 1:28:14.840 --> 1:28:18.439 doing that with my boys being twenty nine, twenty seven, 1:28:18.680 --> 1:28:23.320 My oldest is part of PT six for thirteen months now. 1:28:23.880 --> 1:28:26.120 My other son is actually going to be part of 1:28:26.160 --> 1:28:29.800 PT six in less than four weeks. Super stoked about that, 1:28:30.560 --> 1:28:34.240 but calling in to say that we get together every 1:28:34.320 --> 1:28:38.240 Wednesday for family dinner. We rotate between the houses our 1:28:38.280 --> 1:28:43.800 house the boys' houses, and we get together once a week, 1:28:43.960 --> 1:28:49.799 touch base with the family and definitely creating that dinner 1:28:49.840 --> 1:28:54.080 time conversation being around the table, growing up, watching our 1:28:54.160 --> 1:28:56.840 kids grow up, and us having grandkids now, so we 1:28:56.880 --> 1:29:02.720 need a part of PT six or grandparents because Rock 1:29:02.760 --> 1:29:07.559 in this lolly position as grandma is absolutely amazing, great 1:29:07.560 --> 1:29:11.160 and best job I've ever had in the entire world. However, 1:29:11.240 --> 1:29:14.280 I just wanted to say that creating that family time, 1:29:14.439 --> 1:29:17.519 creating that bond. We have been doing this now since 1:29:17.560 --> 1:29:20.479 the boys came back from college, that we get together 1:29:20.600 --> 1:29:23.439 every Wednesday night for dinner, regardless of our schedules. We 1:29:23.520 --> 1:29:26.200 plan around family dinner, and we are very intentional with 1:29:26.240 --> 1:29:29.400 our time, and I think it's created a bond that 1:29:29.479 --> 1:29:32.479 we have that a lot of other families don't. So 1:29:32.479 --> 1:29:36.479 it's worth creating that intentional time with your family as 1:29:36.479 --> 1:29:40.320 soon as you can, because every minute counts. And now 1:29:40.439 --> 1:29:43.760 those grand babies are going to be understanding that, Yep, 1:29:43.880 --> 1:29:46.599 Wednesday nights, we all get together regardless of what else 1:29:46.680 --> 1:29:49.479 is going on in our lives because we love each other, 1:29:49.520 --> 1:29:52.879 support each other, and will always be the anchors for everyone. 1:29:54.280 --> 1:29:57.360 Shout out to you guys for doing such an amazing job. 1:29:57.560 --> 1:29:58.880 Appreciate the podcast. 1:29:59.479 --> 1:30:06.439 Love you. It's a wonderful voicemail that right there, Like, 1:30:07.800 --> 1:30:09.600 for me, that's a that's a family when they have 1:30:09.720 --> 1:30:11.120 those gatherings every Wednesday. 1:30:11.320 --> 1:30:13.720 If I was like in their bubble, Yeah, that'd be 1:30:13.720 --> 1:30:15.720 a family. I look at back, man. I want that 1:30:16.720 --> 1:30:20.720 for my family because they're a generation. They got a generational, 1:30:20.800 --> 1:30:23.120 they got the grandparents. They do it every Wednesday. Now 1:30:23.160 --> 1:30:25.840 their grandkids are gonna become, like she's saying, they're going 1:30:25.920 --> 1:30:28.160 to be coming into that routine. They're just gonna know like, 1:30:28.240 --> 1:30:30.880 this is the standard. This is the intentionality that we 1:30:30.920 --> 1:30:33.000 put in with our family. That fires me up. 1:30:33.439 --> 1:30:37.120 What do you think about G unit for the grandparents? 1:30:39.439 --> 1:30:43.000 Do we like that? G unit? Grand Team six, Grand 1:30:43.080 --> 1:30:54.240 Team six, sag Team six, William, I hope you salt face. 1:30:55.200 --> 1:30:58.840 That was a nice voicemail from a really that she 1:30:59.040 --> 1:30:59.799 loves us. 1:31:00.280 --> 1:31:03.120 I know we're not gonna call her sagg Tude six. 1:31:03.280 --> 1:31:07.360 Well, but if they're if they're sick gos like we 1:31:07.520 --> 1:31:08.879 think they are, they're. 1:31:08.720 --> 1:31:13.439 Laughing right now watching this. They're we're joking. He's a 1:31:13.600 --> 1:31:20.200 jokey guy. He's like, hey, Jo, you gotta swoop. He said, Saggy, 1:31:20.400 --> 1:31:23.760 what you know what? 1:31:25.120 --> 1:31:29.040 Great idea And we'll we'll look into it. We'll look 1:31:29.040 --> 1:31:29.240 at it. 1:31:29.360 --> 1:31:37.559 We'll look into it. My grandma she had hearing aids 1:31:37.560 --> 1:31:41.360 strong ones. She him out death type where you could 1:31:41.360 --> 1:31:42.760 hear yourself when you talk to her. 1:31:43.000 --> 1:31:45.719 Sometimes yeah, or they'd be going out of whack, like Grandma, 1:31:45.720 --> 1:31:46.200 do not hear that? 1:31:46.240 --> 1:31:50.080 You got to fix it. It's like R two D. 1:31:50.600 --> 1:32:12.719 Just do that again, Grandma, Deaf Team six deep space again. 1:32:15.800 --> 1:32:20.080 We're building the community. We're just building the community, guys. 1:32:21.960 --> 1:32:26.680 But yeah, Amen, Race Hall Praise Dale is ourre We 1:32:26.800 --> 1:32:28.080 go there we go. 1:32:28.080 --> 1:32:36.120 Yeah, boys, Day one, Peach Sick oh here, the trenches 1:32:36.439 --> 1:32:43.240 just got deeper. Got my first daughter, Girl, Dad mode activated, boys, 1:32:43.840 --> 1:32:46.800 got a two and a half year old son. Daughter 1:32:46.920 --> 1:32:48.839 was born today. We're stoked. 1:32:49.160 --> 1:32:49.760 You can hear it. 1:32:49.840 --> 1:32:52.240 And the reason why I'm calling. Tell you the story 1:32:52.240 --> 1:32:56.680 of how we got here. Okay, we were close to 1:32:56.720 --> 1:33:00.559 having this baby in the car, all right, eighteen minutes 1:33:00.600 --> 1:33:05.960 from hospital arrivals to delivery. Okay, cutting it that close, yelling. 1:33:06.040 --> 1:33:09.320 I was driving faster than Fat Stafford on the way 1:33:09.400 --> 1:33:15.439 to a Texas barbecue buffet. Okay, through the intersection, I 1:33:15.640 --> 1:33:20.519 swear I heard somebody yell raishel praise Dale. That's what 1:33:20.560 --> 1:33:23.879 I was going through there. But we made it safe. Okay, 1:33:24.000 --> 1:33:27.640 maybe or maybe not. Some traffic laws were broken, you know, 1:33:28.880 --> 1:33:33.240 but we made it. Everybody's happy and healthy. Couldn't be 1:33:33.360 --> 1:33:39.479 more excited. Uh yeah. Pt six, Uh Chapter two, Here 1:33:39.479 --> 1:33:42.400 we go, girl, dad life, Let's go, boys. 1:33:42.320 --> 1:33:42.840 Let's go. 1:33:43.080 --> 1:33:47.880 Man, He's a cup of tea or something for that boy. 1:33:47.960 --> 1:33:49.760 I was about to say, he's been yelling. 1:33:49.560 --> 1:33:51.800 Some honey and lemon in it. He's been yelling. 1:33:51.840 --> 1:33:55.559 He's he was literally driving and the baby's literally coming 1:33:55.600 --> 1:33:56.160 out in the car. 1:33:56.760 --> 1:34:00.280 You didn't like shut you squeeze some shut he wait 1:34:00.400 --> 1:34:04.120 till we get there. He close it up. I don't 1:34:04.160 --> 1:34:08.400 care what you got it. We ain't having it in 1:34:08.400 --> 1:34:11.800 the car. Oh man, he's gone through it. 1:34:12.120 --> 1:34:15.880 Oh yeah, I mean two seconds into that call, I 1:34:15.960 --> 1:34:18.960 was like, there's some where it might just happened. Yeah, 1:34:19.000 --> 1:34:21.960 we're about to hear a crazy story. What's going on? 1:34:23.439 --> 1:34:29.160 That's tight? Yeah, that's tight tight. Top tiered Dad Songs 1:34:29.320 --> 1:34:30.360 is our last voicemail. 1:34:32.200 --> 1:34:36.320 Hey boys, Brian from Long Island here, father of one 1:34:36.560 --> 1:34:39.760 stud twenty month old boy. Yeah, my second baby boy, 1:34:39.800 --> 1:34:42.240 on the way to sit here into August. Yeah, so 1:34:42.280 --> 1:34:45.080 we're getting dangerously close to man coverage in my house. Uh, 1:34:45.960 --> 1:34:49.559 but just listen to the latest episode, Boys and other 1:34:49.600 --> 1:34:52.559 banger is always with the Dad Done. But after the 1:34:52.720 --> 1:34:59.120 episode was over, song called came on Spotify by Charles 1:34:59.160 --> 1:35:03.360 Wesley Godwin and boys. It's It's enough to make your 1:35:03.360 --> 1:35:07.360 grown man cry, top tier dad song. So it got 1:35:07.360 --> 1:35:10.559 me thinking, what are some of your top tier dad songs? 1:35:11.760 --> 1:35:15.479 Like me and my Dad, we have drinking beer with Dad. 1:35:16.080 --> 1:35:19.479 My kid rock that always hits. But I know, girl, 1:35:19.560 --> 1:35:23.920 dad songs just hit different, you know, hit that softer spot. 1:35:24.040 --> 1:35:26.599 But yeah, just wanted to know what your opinions, your 1:35:26.680 --> 1:35:29.800 your top dad songs were and uh, you know, I 1:35:29.840 --> 1:35:33.080 know people say it every week, but deserves being reiterated. 1:35:34.240 --> 1:35:36.160 Thank you boys for all you do for this community, 1:35:37.960 --> 1:35:39.840 the wins and the losses, you know, the highs and 1:35:39.880 --> 1:35:42.680 the lows botherhood. It's good to know you're not you know, 1:35:42.720 --> 1:35:45.320 you're not the only one who's falling short sometimes or 1:35:45.360 --> 1:35:47.160 you know, getting the same wins. 1:35:47.320 --> 1:35:51.880 But yeah, appreciate all you boys do. Uh pepe sick 1:35:51.880 --> 1:35:57.120 go out, top tiered dad song? What was the song 1:35:57.200 --> 1:36:00.719 that he said? It kind of cuts out when he says, 1:36:00.960 --> 1:36:08.559 let me try it one more time. Hey, their Son 1:36:11.880 --> 1:36:15.400 by Charles Wesley Godwin, Hey, their Son? And why Flores? 1:36:15.560 --> 1:36:17.800 And whyfe Flores? He wants a girl? Dad one? 1:36:19.520 --> 1:36:24.680 Yours by Post Malone. Oh that's right, you want to 1:36:24.800 --> 1:36:25.439 you want to cry? 1:36:25.560 --> 1:36:27.840 Yeah, you said that one broke. 1:36:27.680 --> 1:36:30.320 Buckled me in the car. It has through on three 1:36:30.320 --> 1:36:39.160 different occasions. But yours throwback Kenny Chesney, there goes my life. Oh, 1:36:39.240 --> 1:36:42.280 it's so funny listening to it now because obviously think 1:36:42.280 --> 1:36:43.080 about my daughters. 1:36:43.360 --> 1:36:47.559 But when you think about in high school playing ball, Yeah, 1:36:47.760 --> 1:36:50.479 isn't that what it's about originally about football. 1:36:50.680 --> 1:36:52.960 Yeah, it starts off that way like, there goes my life. 1:36:53.000 --> 1:36:55.400 He's losing his football career. Then at the end of it, 1:36:55.439 --> 1:36:57.839 there goes my life. As she's she's going up the stairs. 1:36:58.400 --> 1:37:03.639 Oh yeah, full circle when your first felix, I've lost everything. Ah, 1:37:04.120 --> 1:37:06.559 there goes my entire life. I had played out for myself. 1:37:06.800 --> 1:37:10.320 And Boys of Fall too. Tell me you don't. I 1:37:10.360 --> 1:37:12.200 know you've played that a few times in the car. 1:37:13.000 --> 1:37:15.920 Boys of Fall. Yeah, Boys of Fall by Kenny Chesney. 1:37:16.920 --> 1:37:17.760 I'm sure I've heard it. 1:37:17.760 --> 1:37:20.160 It's not raining about We'll listen to it after you Okay, Well, 1:37:20.960 --> 1:37:22.280 it's about playing ball with the boys. 1:37:23.560 --> 1:37:24.599 That's literally what it is. 1:37:24.760 --> 1:37:30.200 It's about putting the parent So you guys like the 1:37:30.320 --> 1:37:33.120 tal you just talking about Kenny Chesnay and I just 1:37:33.160 --> 1:37:35.160 said Boys of Fall because I thought that would be 1:37:35.160 --> 1:37:36.679 one that that's a good. 1:37:36.520 --> 1:37:44.200 One, professional fall. You played ball. He's like dirty dads, a. 1:37:44.240 --> 1:37:48.920 C DCM hey back in black. 1:37:48.960 --> 1:37:51.320 That would get your juice floor for a football game. 1:37:53.360 --> 1:37:56.040 You ever heard that one? It's a good one. 1:37:56.800 --> 1:37:58.840 You got a nice a c D FOI a c 1:37:59.000 --> 1:38:00.559 DC voice. 1:38:00.760 --> 1:38:02.200 I practiced ad. 1:38:02.640 --> 1:38:07.400 I got a nice ac D boys, DHD boys. 1:38:12.160 --> 1:38:15.360 I practiced in the MITA this morning before I got 1:38:15.439 --> 1:38:18.960 to the office. Uh, you'll be in my heart, Phil Collins. 1:38:19.680 --> 1:38:25.040 We played it when we left uh the hospital with Scarlet. 1:38:26.080 --> 1:38:30.280 I heard it. I believe in a target just like 1:38:30.439 --> 1:38:34.679 playing over the talk about like the least romantic place 1:38:34.840 --> 1:38:39.200 ever of just fluorescent lights, people all around, and that 1:38:39.320 --> 1:38:40.000 song was playing. 1:38:40.080 --> 1:38:40.360 Dude. 1:38:40.680 --> 1:38:43.719 I haven't sat there and listened to it by myself, 1:38:43.720 --> 1:38:46.200 but I think I know what will happen when I do. 1:38:47.640 --> 1:38:51.320 It's a very sweet song, yours post Malone. I need 1:38:51.320 --> 1:38:54.840 to listen to that. Listen to that one. You're in 1:38:54.880 --> 1:38:56.920 a safe space. Hey, what do you got right there? Man? 1:38:57.240 --> 1:38:59.880 I got an email from whaling Rant. 1:39:00.800 --> 1:39:04.200 Oh talk about Now that's a Texas quarterback name. 1:39:04.360 --> 1:39:08.559 By the way, say that one again? Whyalon Ransom? First up? Boys, 1:39:08.760 --> 1:39:10.559 I want to give a shout out to my wife, Caitlin. 1:39:10.640 --> 1:39:12.960 She got me some merch for my birthday June sixth, 1:39:13.240 --> 1:39:17.719 just in time for our vacation, summertime vacation. Boy Mama. 1:39:18.320 --> 1:39:20.679 The one item I had to have was the white 1:39:20.720 --> 1:39:24.400 hat and black rope that says good war. At the 1:39:24.600 --> 1:39:27.400 entire seventeen and a half hour drive also got a 1:39:27.439 --> 1:39:29.760 four the Dead shirt with no One's Coming to save You, 1:39:30.439 --> 1:39:33.880 a Bustle with the boys and Budweiser collab shirt, and 1:39:33.920 --> 1:39:39.519 a PT six coffee mug. No so shout out awesome wife, well, 1:39:39.640 --> 1:39:42.240 awesome wife for almost eleven years, and shout out to 1:39:42.280 --> 1:39:44.800 you boys. Keep it under an hour, make sure the 1:39:44.840 --> 1:39:49.639 trash is put out. PT sicko OLPs. Thinking about getting 1:39:49.680 --> 1:39:51.840 some new inks soon, might need to get a PT 1:39:51.960 --> 1:39:54.040 six tattoo else blessing of course? 1:39:54.120 --> 1:40:01.200 Oh Whalen's sick, dude, do it yards on the carry 1:40:01.640 --> 1:40:07.560 my Whalin Ransom. That's another first down Agles, Whylan Ransom. 1:40:08.000 --> 1:40:09.559 Isn't that just a quarterback? 1:40:09.720 --> 1:40:09.920 Yeah? 1:40:09.960 --> 1:40:11.760 I love that You're still on Waylon Ransom. That's a 1:40:11.760 --> 1:40:14.400 football player's name. Now you're just you're painting his. 1:40:14.400 --> 1:40:17.600 Career for a stinky in real time. Thank you. What 1:40:17.800 --> 1:40:24.240 tat should he get? Is this PT six specific? He 1:40:24.240 --> 1:40:26.400 should get the bear. I'll just say, right behind Sharon, 1:40:26.800 --> 1:40:27.679 he should get the bear. 1:40:28.320 --> 1:40:34.880 I'm thinking bear, simply pop a team six or simply good. 1:40:35.760 --> 1:40:37.880 I like the wolves too. 1:40:38.120 --> 1:40:41.000 Right behind the Wolves, behind you, shir, What if it's 1:40:41.040 --> 1:40:43.880 the bear and he's the smoke from his cigarles and 1:40:43.920 --> 1:40:44.439 on his helmet. 1:40:44.439 --> 1:40:51.280 It's as good God. 1:40:51.280 --> 1:40:55.680 It depends on where he gets the tattoo forehead, forehead 1:40:56.040 --> 1:40:56.719 or a tear. 1:40:56.600 --> 1:40:57.720 Drop of the Teddy Bear. 1:40:57.800 --> 1:41:05.320 But I something something like that on like a leg 1:41:05.600 --> 1:41:09.040 or like thigh, Like I just feel like that would 1:41:09.040 --> 1:41:10.520 look really good on the thigh. 1:41:10.800 --> 1:41:13.519 That feels like an arm tat to me, like a 1:41:13.560 --> 1:41:16.960 forearm tat. He can do something sick on his chest 1:41:17.479 --> 1:41:21.200 or he get ass tat. Ooh that says put a 1:41:21.240 --> 1:41:21.680 bow on it. 1:41:24.360 --> 1:41:27.640 That on his ass would put a bow on it 1:41:27.840 --> 1:41:30.480 underneath it would go crazy. 1:41:31.640 --> 1:41:33.679 I hope he does it, and I hope he sends photos, 1:41:33.720 --> 1:41:34.599 maybe even a video. 1:41:34.640 --> 1:41:39.720 Who knows Whylen Ransom with the assat put a bow 1:41:39.800 --> 1:41:44.800 on it? I have an email that apparently is a 1:41:44.840 --> 1:41:46.000 sad alert email. 1:41:46.920 --> 1:41:49.720 Oh hello, I will get into that. 1:41:50.720 --> 1:41:55.200 Uh, Alexis, I want to apologize and advance for the 1:41:55.240 --> 1:41:59.480 pronunciation of your last name. This comes from Alexis Wquez. 1:42:00.520 --> 1:42:05.439 Good morning boys. My name is Alexis. I am so sorry. 1:42:05.600 --> 1:42:08.040 Let me start again. The s as silent in her name. 1:42:08.120 --> 1:42:12.160 So my name is Alexi and I joined Papa Team 1:42:12.200 --> 1:42:15.479 six three months ago thanks to my incredible wife. I'm 1:42:15.520 --> 1:42:19.160 gonna it's a guy. I'm gonna start completely over and 1:42:19.200 --> 1:42:20.360 apologize for everything. 1:42:20.400 --> 1:42:22.120 I assume it is a gentlem I should say, but 1:42:22.160 --> 1:42:24.639 the name is Alexi, as in the guy from Stranger Things. 1:42:24.760 --> 1:42:28.240 Yeah, Alexi, Okay, I am locked in now, lock in, 1:42:28.439 --> 1:42:32.040 I am locked in now. This comes from Alexi. What 1:42:32.200 --> 1:42:37.479 guess Alexi says? My name is Alexi and I joined 1:42:37.520 --> 1:42:39.200 Papa Team six three months ago. 1:42:39.360 --> 1:42:40.879 Thanks to my incredible wife. 1:42:40.960 --> 1:42:44.200 She went through forty hours of labor and pushed for 1:42:44.200 --> 1:42:47.599 four hours just to have the obi's cut her stomach 1:42:47.640 --> 1:42:51.720 and simultaneously push and pull our little guy out of 1:42:51.760 --> 1:42:54.439 the birth canal. She went through hell like a true 1:42:54.439 --> 1:42:58.719 empty Siko so we could welcome our little Sebastian into 1:42:58.760 --> 1:43:03.640 our beautiful family. Originally from Belgium, I moved to Indiana 1:43:03.760 --> 1:43:08.280 six years ago. All of my family still lives abroad, 1:43:08.600 --> 1:43:11.920 so we were so excited to have my parents visit 1:43:12.160 --> 1:43:14.760 for five days at the end of April to meet 1:43:14.800 --> 1:43:19.479 their second grandchild. Yes, my older brother beat us by 1:43:19.560 --> 1:43:23.880 welcoming their adorable baby girl a month before us, in 1:43:24.000 --> 1:43:27.719 true firstborn fashion. We were very much in the trenches 1:43:27.800 --> 1:43:31.200 during my parents' visit, but managed to have a great time. 1:43:31.280 --> 1:43:32.679 With them. They were able to give. 1:43:32.600 --> 1:43:35.320 Us downtimes where we could focus on ourselves and our 1:43:35.360 --> 1:43:38.560 little guy. Even spent nights at the Airbnb nearby to 1:43:38.680 --> 1:43:42.080 lighten our load in babysats so we could have our 1:43:42.240 --> 1:43:45.600 first date away from the kid to celebrate our thirteenth 1:43:45.720 --> 1:43:51.479 year anniversary of getting together. We spent quality time with them, 1:43:51.560 --> 1:43:54.240 relaxing in the yard, eating lunch and dinner with them, 1:43:54.320 --> 1:43:58.920 enjoying neighborhood walks and whatnot. Such a great visit. However, 1:43:59.479 --> 1:44:02.000 while they were there, I started noticing that my dad 1:44:02.080 --> 1:44:04.720 wasn't all himself. He seemed very tired, dozing off on 1:44:04.760 --> 1:44:07.519 the couch pretty often throughout the day. I thought he 1:44:07.600 --> 1:44:10.680 was jetlagged and getting to the jet lag I've been 1:44:10.680 --> 1:44:14.479 getting to him. Plus his upcoming retirement at the end 1:44:14.479 --> 1:44:16.920 of May was certainly weighing on his mind. 1:44:17.840 --> 1:44:19.080 He would also use some. 1:44:18.960 --> 1:44:23.480 Weird, out of place words every now and then while conversing, 1:44:23.840 --> 1:44:26.479 think using the word clock instead of saying kitchen. 1:44:27.120 --> 1:44:29.599 It got significantly worse than just a couple days. 1:44:29.680 --> 1:44:31.719 I dropped them off at the airport with the knot 1:44:31.720 --> 1:44:34.679 in my stomach, hopeful that it wasn't anything too serious. 1:44:35.680 --> 1:44:38.680 They landed back home and headed straight to the er 1:44:38.760 --> 1:44:41.240 to get a CT scan, and there it was a 1:44:41.360 --> 1:44:43.560 very large mass in his brain, roughly the size of 1:44:43.600 --> 1:44:45.480 a ping pong ball, with a massive. 1:44:47.600 --> 1:44:52.880 Edema. A massive edema, I believe all around it. 1:44:53.960 --> 1:44:56.800 My parents called me early in the morning to let 1:44:56.840 --> 1:45:00.519 me know and spend the next hour sobbing while looking 1:45:00.520 --> 1:45:03.559 at pictures of our trip. The next couple of weeks 1:45:03.600 --> 1:45:08.320 were pretty intense, countless MRIs and doctor's appointments and hundreds 1:45:08.320 --> 1:45:11.880 of video calls with Belgium trying to be present for 1:45:12.040 --> 1:45:15.400 my dad and my family even five hundred or five 1:45:15.439 --> 1:45:18.799 thousand miles away. They were able to schedule a surgery 1:45:18.880 --> 1:45:21.559 to remove the tumor within two weeks, and that was 1:45:21.560 --> 1:45:25.879 a success. But then the tissue analysis came back cancer 1:45:28.920 --> 1:45:34.719 glio blastoma to be specific, the nastiest one. My mom 1:45:34.840 --> 1:45:37.800 joked that for someone that never really got sick at all, 1:45:37.920 --> 1:45:41.080 my dad really picked a good one, true empty siko 1:45:41.200 --> 1:45:42.679 right there with the sense of humor. 1:45:43.320 --> 1:45:44.439 So yeah, here we are. 1:45:45.040 --> 1:45:48.840 My dad start chemotherapy and radiotherapy treatments last week and 1:45:48.880 --> 1:45:52.040 he's in for a long fight. I'm here celebrating my 1:45:52.120 --> 1:45:54.600 first Father's Day. Well, I don't know if there was 1:45:54.880 --> 1:45:57.719 also the last one I can celebrate with my dad. 1:45:58.160 --> 1:46:00.599 I'm glad my parents were able to visit before all 1:46:00.640 --> 1:46:04.000 of this happened. I will share those memories forever, as 1:46:04.040 --> 1:46:07.760 I'm sure they will. I was able to surprise my 1:46:07.840 --> 1:46:10.519 dad on Father's Day by telling him we'd be traveling 1:46:10.600 --> 1:46:13.160 back home with the kid in August, a lot sooner 1:46:13.200 --> 1:46:16.840 than expected, which means my siblings, my grandma, and my 1:46:16.960 --> 1:46:21.320 friends will all be able to meet Sebastian and I 1:46:21.360 --> 1:46:24.200 get to meet my little niece as well. I know 1:46:24.320 --> 1:46:28.040 everyone is looking forward to our family vacation, and if 1:46:28.080 --> 1:46:30.400 you really think about it, my dad was able to 1:46:30.520 --> 1:46:32.360 leave for retirement a month early. 1:46:32.720 --> 1:46:38.799 Good silver linings, Silver linings. Overall, all of this seems unfair. 1:46:38.960 --> 1:46:42.360 The old man just became a grandpa for the first 1:46:42.400 --> 1:46:44.760 time and was on the verge of a retirement only 1:46:44.800 --> 1:46:48.759 to be hit by this cancer bs. But we're only 1:46:48.800 --> 1:46:52.080 looking forward now. We'll fight this together and we'll come 1:46:52.080 --> 1:46:56.640 out and we will come out of it stronger. I 1:46:56.720 --> 1:46:58.920 just wanted to thank you guys for starting this pod, 1:46:59.479 --> 1:47:03.040 for providing a community to dads out there, and for 1:47:03.120 --> 1:47:07.559 the distractions these last couple of weeks. Remember to take 1:47:07.600 --> 1:47:10.080 out the trash, to hug your dads, and to tell 1:47:10.120 --> 1:47:13.320 people close to you that you love them before it's 1:47:13.320 --> 1:47:20.960 too late. It matters. Cheers Alexi and him being from Belgium, 1:47:21.080 --> 1:47:26.760 I believe that's vacaz, not whakaz. So I apologize for that, Alexi. 1:47:29.800 --> 1:47:31.840 But yeah, what are some of the thoughts going through 1:47:31.880 --> 1:47:32.280 your head? 1:47:32.439 --> 1:47:32.679 Will? 1:47:34.600 --> 1:47:39.080 Yeah, I'm sure it's just a wave, a wave of 1:47:39.160 --> 1:47:46.240 like various emotions, right, sadness, anger, questioning God, questioning why, 1:47:46.840 --> 1:47:50.200 feeling like you're running out of time and it's bullshit 1:47:50.320 --> 1:47:53.200 that your kids are only going to get to meet 1:47:53.280 --> 1:47:58.240 him once twice a handful of times, not knowing how 1:47:59.040 --> 1:48:06.679 you know how quick or how long this fight could be. Yeah, 1:48:06.760 --> 1:48:09.400 I guess if I had any advice for just being 1:48:09.439 --> 1:48:14.439 in this moment would be what can you do right now? 1:48:15.120 --> 1:48:17.760 It sounds like there's a trip on the books that 1:48:17.800 --> 1:48:19.439 people will be at comes great. 1:48:19.760 --> 1:48:21.160 Yeah, people don't get that. 1:48:22.120 --> 1:48:24.120 A lot of people don't get people don't you know, 1:48:24.160 --> 1:48:25.719 there's there's a lot of people out there that don't 1:48:25.760 --> 1:48:31.760 get to see their grandparents whatsoever. Yeah, if Grandpa is 1:48:31.840 --> 1:48:36.880 able to have conversation, dude, start journaling. Yes, like get 1:48:36.880 --> 1:48:40.320 with them on the phone when you're there, ask him 1:48:40.360 --> 1:48:43.160 things about his past, what he loved about raising you, 1:48:44.080 --> 1:48:49.599 what you hope advice that grandpa would give him to 1:48:49.680 --> 1:48:54.120 give his kids, Yeah, dude, the journal thing, Yeah, really 1:48:54.120 --> 1:48:58.680 good advice. I often think about my grandfather Chatshaw that 1:48:58.760 --> 1:49:02.719 had Parkinson's, who was all still there you just couldn't talk. 1:49:03.479 --> 1:49:07.680 I wish so badly that we had allowed, you know, 1:49:07.760 --> 1:49:10.680 to write down his thoughts, to write down stories. 1:49:10.760 --> 1:49:12.720 And I'm sure that was hard for. 1:49:12.720 --> 1:49:16.519 My mom sitting there and thinking, my kids aren't really 1:49:16.600 --> 1:49:20.960 getting to meet the granddad I know, but also counting 1:49:20.960 --> 1:49:23.440 your blessings of they're getting to meet granddad. 1:49:23.640 --> 1:49:27.920 Yeah, yeah, I know it's tough. I'm not Yeah, no, 1:49:28.560 --> 1:49:31.920 of course, I know it's very hard, of course. Yeah, 1:49:31.960 --> 1:49:34.960 but also how lucky are you? Yes? Take advantage? 1:49:36.080 --> 1:49:39.840 Yeah, and take advantage, like try to do your best 1:49:39.880 --> 1:49:43.680 to compartmentalize the noise and figure out what can you 1:49:43.760 --> 1:49:45.080 do and create and stuff. 1:49:45.120 --> 1:49:47.640 Now, I'm in full agreement with that. 1:49:47.920 --> 1:49:52.000 I think that everyone benefits from that, the memory of 1:49:52.040 --> 1:49:56.400 your father, you and your grandkids, even your wife, dude, 1:49:56.479 --> 1:50:02.479 Like everybody benefits from that. And yeah, also, congratulations on 1:50:02.520 --> 1:50:05.920 your first Father's Day and your brother's first Father's Day. 1:50:06.080 --> 1:50:07.400 So much to celebrate. 1:50:07.479 --> 1:50:10.439 Dude, y'all get together and have a really fun time 1:50:11.160 --> 1:50:16.000 in August. Gonna be a blast. Oh, I have an 1:50:16.040 --> 1:50:25.679 email here from let me see, Derek Stewart, Will and Shurham. 1:50:25.920 --> 1:50:27.960 I called into the show, but it ended before I 1:50:27.960 --> 1:50:29.320 could get my whole story out. 1:50:29.400 --> 1:50:32.080 Oh, we hit the he went up against the clock, 1:50:32.160 --> 1:50:33.240 He went up against the clock. 1:50:34.320 --> 1:50:35.960 I wanted to make sure you guys got it, because 1:50:36.000 --> 1:50:39.160 I think you guys deserve the credit. When I called, 1:50:39.200 --> 1:50:41.040 I was talking about how I'm a high school teacher 1:50:41.080 --> 1:50:43.080 trying to make a little extra money over the summer. 1:50:43.439 --> 1:50:45.000 I picked up a job where I'm sitting in a 1:50:45.080 --> 1:50:48.120 cubicle all day staring at a computer screen and not 1:50:48.320 --> 1:50:51.160 talking to anybody. Since I was bored at my desk 1:50:51.200 --> 1:50:53.720 as I decided to find a podcast. All right you 1:50:53.720 --> 1:50:56.680 guys before but never really had the time to listen consistently, 1:50:56.760 --> 1:50:59.599 so I figured this was the perfect opportunity. Well, scoring 1:50:59.600 --> 1:51:02.720 through the episodes, I came across the one where you 1:51:02.760 --> 1:51:05.160 were talking about health scares, and Will shared the story 1:51:05.160 --> 1:51:07.880 about his daughter having a seizure and finding about it 1:51:07.880 --> 1:51:08.439 over the phone. 1:51:08.439 --> 1:51:10.480 And finding out about it over the phone. 1:51:10.680 --> 1:51:13.160 Ever since becoming a dad, I've dealt with a level 1:51:13.160 --> 1:51:17.120 of health anxiety that I never had before. My daughter 1:51:17.160 --> 1:51:19.720 once had a serious breathing issue and had to be 1:51:19.760 --> 1:51:22.160 taken to the hospital by ambulance. It was one of 1:51:22.240 --> 1:51:24.639 the scariest moments of my life hearing that and hearing 1:51:24.640 --> 1:51:27.439 that story, I felt a sense of relief because it 1:51:27.520 --> 1:51:30.840 was one of the first times I'd heard someone describe 1:51:31.280 --> 1:51:34.559 that same fear and helplessness that comes with not knowing 1:51:34.560 --> 1:51:35.000 what's going. 1:51:34.920 --> 1:51:35.840 To happen to your child. 1:51:37.040 --> 1:51:39.679 I got pretty emotional listening listening to it, and actually 1:51:39.680 --> 1:51:41.120 started tearing up at my desk. 1:51:41.880 --> 1:51:43.040 Here's where it gets funny. 1:51:43.600 --> 1:51:45.759 At the exact moment I had tears in my eyes, 1:51:45.800 --> 1:51:48.160 my boss walked by and asked, Hey, is everything okay? 1:51:48.439 --> 1:51:48.880 You good? 1:51:49.960 --> 1:51:53.840 Of course I told him, yeah, yeah, I'm good, because 1:51:53.880 --> 1:51:54.920 I don't I don't really. 1:51:54.720 --> 1:51:57.080 Want to explain that a podcast had me emotional in 1:51:57.080 --> 1:51:58.000 the middle of a work day. 1:51:58.080 --> 1:51:58.880 Hashtag good. 1:52:00.280 --> 1:52:03.559 The funny part is this is only my second week 1:52:03.600 --> 1:52:06.160 on the job, and ever since then, my boss has 1:52:06.200 --> 1:52:07.599 become incredibly helpful. 1:52:08.200 --> 1:52:12.719 I think he assumes I'm struggling and need some mess. 1:52:14.720 --> 1:52:17.479 I think he assumes I'm struggling and needs some extra support, 1:52:17.840 --> 1:52:19.479 so he's eased up on my workload. 1:52:19.560 --> 1:52:20.040 Kind of good. 1:52:23.200 --> 1:52:26.080 So now I'm in a pretty pretty great win win situation. 1:52:26.680 --> 1:52:29.280 Your podcast helped me feel understood, and somehow it also 1:52:29.320 --> 1:52:30.600 got me a lighter workload. 1:52:33.160 --> 1:52:34.600 I just wanted to share that story and let you 1:52:34.640 --> 1:52:36.519 know how much I appreciate what you guys are doing. 1:52:36.840 --> 1:52:38.439 You don't have to do this podcast, but I know 1:52:38.479 --> 1:52:40.400 you're bringing a lot of relief, encouragement, and. 1:52:40.400 --> 1:52:45.639 Joy to dad's everywhere. Appreciate you boys. Cheers, Derek, thank 1:52:45.680 --> 1:52:47.960 you for writing in that is all. What a great email. 1:52:48.320 --> 1:52:52.080 That was a fabulous email. You're doing it, man, you do. 1:52:52.160 --> 1:52:55.280 You're doing all right. First couple of weeks they're like, fuck, 1:52:56.320 --> 1:52:59.519 fuck it good? Yeah, really good. Actually, just take a 1:52:59.520 --> 1:53:00.720 little bit off your plate. Man. 1:53:00.920 --> 1:53:03.839 You know, Derek does a great job around here. Everybody 1:53:03.960 --> 1:53:07.400 really loves him. But uh, some crying his cubicle the 1:53:07.439 --> 1:53:10.719 other day. Yeah, maybe we're putting too much on his plate. 1:53:10.840 --> 1:53:13.559 Do you think he's yeah, overore, somebody's like, hey, I 1:53:13.560 --> 1:53:15.360 think something's off of Derek. No, man, you don't know 1:53:15.400 --> 1:53:20.160 what he's going through. He works, he shows up buses 1:53:20.280 --> 1:53:23.960 ass here, whatever baggage he's got going on outside of here. 1:53:24.080 --> 1:53:25.639 I think he wears it at work because I saw 1:53:25.680 --> 1:53:27.920 him struggling the other day at the cubicle. So keep 1:53:27.960 --> 1:53:30.120 your mouth shut about there. Yeah, yeah, why don't you 1:53:30.120 --> 1:53:32.479 cut on a little extra time, Maybe spend some time 1:53:32.520 --> 1:53:33.280 with him, get to know. 1:53:33.320 --> 1:53:36.639 Him, Maybe you would understand where he's coming. Yeah, get 1:53:36.640 --> 1:53:39.480 to know what's behind the tiers. He's always on these podcasts. 1:53:39.520 --> 1:53:42.080 No he ain't. He's either working or crying. 1:53:43.360 --> 1:53:46.559 I see, Derek, Yeah, Derek, you you really kind of 1:53:46.560 --> 1:53:49.120 fell into a nice little situation there. 1:53:49.280 --> 1:53:49.599 Yeah. 1:53:49.520 --> 1:53:52.000 When he said you guys deserve all the crowdit, I'm thinking, okay, 1:53:52.160 --> 1:53:53.679 let's hear let's hear what he's gonna say. 1:53:53.800 --> 1:53:56.120 Yeah, yeah, that we don't feel deserving him that one. 1:53:56.120 --> 1:53:57.920 It's like, okay, yeah, yeah, we'll take that crit We'll 1:53:57.960 --> 1:53:59.960 take that one. Yeah, that was us. We'll take credit 1:54:00.080 --> 1:54:03.880 for the lighter workload. Yeah, we had some very kind 1:54:03.920 --> 1:54:07.479 words from the EA guys that we're here. 1:54:07.560 --> 1:54:09.800 Did that one Yang guy talk to you with the 1:54:09.840 --> 1:54:13.000 whole miss yo? Yeah? Dude, so nice. 1:54:13.000 --> 1:54:14.559 A couple of them came up and was talking about 1:54:14.560 --> 1:54:17.200 before the dad spot. I was like, dang, dude, people 1:54:17.280 --> 1:54:21.679 running in from Belgium. That's also crazy. A dad that's 1:54:21.920 --> 1:54:26.000 not even a dad yet, not coming until February twenty seven, 1:54:26.120 --> 1:54:28.680 twenty seven out in la Oscar trying to get in 1:54:28.760 --> 1:54:30.240 dad communities. 1:54:29.760 --> 1:54:34.720 Oscar, Come on, man and g Unit Saggy teams. Yeah, yes, 1:54:37.520 --> 1:54:38.200 I love that. 1:54:38.200 --> 1:54:42.600 That grandma called in. That was actually really cool to hear. 1:54:43.120 --> 1:54:44.720 You could hear how proud she was. 1:54:45.000 --> 1:54:49.040 Yeah, for sure. She had two sons that in their. 1:54:48.880 --> 1:54:52.880 Twenty seven kids on the pod and are like excited. 1:54:52.560 --> 1:54:54.520 Let me see what my boys are listening to. I 1:54:54.560 --> 1:54:55.000 hope that. 1:54:55.440 --> 1:54:58.560 I hope that that Fat Stafford in that one shell 1:54:58.720 --> 1:54:59.800 for nice boys. 1:55:00.440 --> 1:55:03.760 Show your mom the Show. Yeah, yeah, I love the ship. 1:55:03.800 --> 1:55:05.240 My mom listened to it on the way down. Show 1:55:05.280 --> 1:55:07.760 your Mom's the show, You show your moms, Show your 1:55:07.800 --> 1:55:11.640 parents the show, Spread the Good News. This was a 1:55:11.640 --> 1:55:14.960 great sod. This was a very fun. So. I know. 1:55:16.400 --> 1:55:18.760 This is probably really inaccurate, but it feels like it's 1:55:18.800 --> 1:55:20.800 been a long time since we've recorded. 1:55:20.840 --> 1:55:25.160 For some reason, uh, just in my head along you're 1:55:25.160 --> 1:55:26.360 saying this has been a long sode. 1:55:26.600 --> 1:55:29.520 No, like it feels like it's been a minute since 1:55:29.520 --> 1:55:32.040 we've sat down and talked for some minute, and I 1:55:32.080 --> 1:55:35.560 know that we've just been going a million miles an hour. 1:55:35.760 --> 1:55:40.640 Yeah at all times, man, Yeah, this was the huge 1:55:41.240 --> 1:55:45.400 teams you guys building commercials. True, like all the interviews 1:55:45.440 --> 1:55:47.320 tight end you coming to town, cramming in a bunch 1:55:47.360 --> 1:55:48.880 of interviews, traveling. 1:55:49.400 --> 1:55:54.320 Yeah, a lot happens, bro and it flies. Yes, but 1:55:54.400 --> 1:55:56.600 it's been a fun sit down. It's been a fun combo. 1:55:56.760 --> 1:55:58.320 This has been good. I'm gonna miss you guys over 1:55:58.320 --> 1:55:59.640 the next couple of weeks, two weeks. 1:55:59.640 --> 1:56:02.600 I'm gonna enjoined the vacation obviously, but I'm gonna miss 1:56:02.640 --> 1:56:03.120 you boys. 1:56:04.080 --> 1:56:05.840 I am too. Keep it together here. 1:56:06.320 --> 1:56:08.280 It's just Chef and I for a little while, like 1:56:09.880 --> 1:56:12.400 us against busting at this point, we're gonna miss you guys. 1:56:12.440 --> 1:56:14.600 Sure. How long are you going for the second to 1:56:14.680 --> 1:56:18.200 the ninth Too long? Yeahs. 1:56:18.920 --> 1:56:21.360 And there are several guys going on some vacations, right, 1:56:21.960 --> 1:56:23.320 I ain't taking time. 1:56:23.160 --> 1:56:24.720 Off, so I mean, I know we have a couple 1:56:24.720 --> 1:56:26.560 of days and a couple of guys are moving around 1:56:26.600 --> 1:56:27.240 a bit, which is good. 1:56:27.320 --> 1:56:30.680 JP's going. I think Jack's going. This football season is 1:56:30.720 --> 1:56:36.320 gonna be a bear, yo, It really will be. It's 1:56:36.320 --> 1:56:42.080 gonna be it's gonna be awesome. But shit just goes fast, man. Yeah. 1:56:42.160 --> 1:56:44.640 And a lot of a lot of conversations being had 1:56:44.680 --> 1:56:47.320 here in the office just to like tease the tease 1:56:47.560 --> 1:56:51.160 of future stuff, Like a lot of really fun community 1:56:51.760 --> 1:56:56.680 content conversations are being had around for the dads in 1:56:56.760 --> 1:57:03.560 preparation for football season and beyond. And very excited for 1:57:03.600 --> 1:57:05.600 that too, Like that's gonna be a that's gonna be 1:57:05.640 --> 1:57:06.240 a lot of fun. 1:57:06.600 --> 1:57:06.920 Yeah. 1:57:07.160 --> 1:57:11.000 Yeah, Hey, what'd you end up getting for Father's Day? 1:57:11.200 --> 1:57:17.320 Just super quick? Did I? I'll talk about this last week? 1:57:18.320 --> 1:57:22.480 Did we we? Oh we did a pre at for 1:57:22.800 --> 1:57:23.360 Father's Day? 1:57:23.400 --> 1:57:28.040 Yeah? Yeah, right, that's right. See, shit goes fast, it does, dude. 1:57:28.080 --> 1:57:30.600 It was a plus. I made the comment on Busting 1:57:30.600 --> 1:57:32.680 with the Boys. I was like, this could be a 1:57:32.720 --> 1:57:34.760 clean take for your boy. I'm kind of liking Father's 1:57:34.800 --> 1:57:38.200 Day more than I like my birthday. I could see, 1:57:38.240 --> 1:57:42.120 because Father's Day is universal. Yeah, It's like I love attention, 1:57:42.240 --> 1:57:44.360 but when all the attentions on you, it gets a 1:57:44.400 --> 1:57:47.960 little uncomfy. Like I love all the birthday wishes and 1:57:48.000 --> 1:57:50.120 everything else, but you're not saying You're just saying thanks. 1:57:50.120 --> 1:57:52.880 In response to everybody. But on Father's Day, all the 1:57:52.880 --> 1:57:55.240 boys that you're your dad's with and friends with, you're 1:57:55.240 --> 1:57:57.400 both saying fathers that Happy Father's Day, back and forth 1:57:57.480 --> 1:58:00.880 with each other. Yeah, kids are all about My wife's 1:58:00.920 --> 1:58:04.680 all about it. I woke up, so I stayed up 1:58:04.720 --> 1:58:08.600 watching I Will Find You till about twelve thirty one 1:58:08.600 --> 1:58:11.720 in the morning the night before show or movie show 1:58:11.800 --> 1:58:15.480 on Netflix. Awesome show, good show, Okay, good show. You 1:58:15.560 --> 1:58:17.840 and Wifey. That's a that's one. That's a good couple 1:58:17.840 --> 1:58:23.320 one to watch. It's a little thriller, suspense conspiracies. 1:58:24.040 --> 1:58:24.520 It's good. 1:58:26.520 --> 1:58:28.480 But I knew Charle was gonna let me sleep in 1:58:28.520 --> 1:58:30.640 a little bit. So I woke up the next morning 1:58:30.680 --> 1:58:34.880 around eight fifteen on my own come on with an 1:58:35.080 --> 1:58:37.680 iced Americanos sitting on the night stand with a little 1:58:37.680 --> 1:58:40.760 note for my wife wishing me happy Father's Day, saying 1:58:40.800 --> 1:58:41.960 she got the kids out of the house. 1:58:42.000 --> 1:58:42.400 There. 1:58:42.440 --> 1:58:43.840 You know, She's like, go get a work out in, 1:58:43.960 --> 1:58:47.320 do your thing. So then from about eight thirty to 1:58:47.440 --> 1:58:49.800 ten ten thirty, I'm out in the garage, solo dolo, 1:58:50.000 --> 1:58:53.160 just working out, getting a good sweat popatine fit. It 1:58:53.280 --> 1:58:57.560 was unbelievable and then they come home. We get the 1:58:57.600 --> 1:59:00.800 backpacks there. I mean they're already kind of ready to go, kids, 1:59:00.800 --> 1:59:02.760 ready to go. We go and get breakfast burritos over 1:59:02.760 --> 1:59:05.280 at Do Santos over in Wedgwood, Houston. 1:59:05.360 --> 1:59:07.720 We love going to that spot outdoors there. 1:59:07.960 --> 1:59:09.880 Do I go ask for breakfast Sico, DM, We asked 1:59:09.880 --> 1:59:12.000 for breakfast spot. I said, go to Dosanta, Yes, bro. 1:59:12.000 --> 1:59:14.040 Do Santos and if you got kiddos too, Like, it's 1:59:14.040 --> 1:59:16.640 perfect for Scott' Zilla, because Scott'szilla. She just doesn't fucking 1:59:16.680 --> 1:59:19.400 sit down. She doesn't stage, she doesn't sit the whole meal. 1:59:19.440 --> 1:59:19.840 She doesn't. 1:59:19.840 --> 1:59:23.000 You gotta let her run around. But do Santos. You 1:59:23.040 --> 1:59:24.920 go up to this window, get the breakfast burritos. But 1:59:24.960 --> 1:59:28.120 there's a big, you know, artistic hands that she can 1:59:28.120 --> 1:59:30.160 go and see. It's just an open space where she 1:59:30.160 --> 1:59:32.040 can just kind of run around eat her food. But 1:59:32.080 --> 1:59:35.840 we went and got breakfast burritos. Came home close to 1:59:36.040 --> 1:59:39.760 nap time. I took Rude to see Toy Story five. 1:59:40.240 --> 1:59:42.760 That's Charles stayed back with Scottie so she could do 1:59:42.840 --> 1:59:44.480 naptime and get some free time. 1:59:44.520 --> 1:59:45.800 That's kind of how I was setting it up. 1:59:45.800 --> 1:59:47.240 I was like, I can go take Rude to Toy 1:59:47.280 --> 1:59:49.680 Story five at one and you can have a couple 1:59:49.680 --> 1:59:52.320 hours of free time yourself. I come back home, Charlo 1:59:52.360 --> 1:59:55.600 didn't take any free time. She cleaned and organized my 1:59:55.640 --> 1:59:59.560 closet and that was honestly my favorite gift. 2:00:00.040 --> 2:00:01.840 But yeah, she. 2:00:02.000 --> 2:00:04.280 Organized cleaned my closet to where I can just walk 2:00:04.280 --> 2:00:06.280 in and it's just like nothing's on the floor. Like 2:00:06.320 --> 2:00:08.400 obviously stuff will probably gather on the floor a little bit, 2:00:08.560 --> 2:00:12.720 but as far as like getting like you know, notebooks, papers, 2:00:12.880 --> 2:00:15.720 boxes that held stuff like situated. 2:00:15.160 --> 2:00:17.960 And organized where it's just like a clean space. She 2:00:18.040 --> 2:00:19.680 did that. Then we picked up Answer. 2:00:20.480 --> 2:00:23.480 She had an Answer already picked up Answer ribs, Answer rips. 2:00:23.480 --> 2:00:27.400 They had an awesome like a prime rib. Yeah, they 2:00:27.440 --> 2:00:31.160 had prime rib, mashed potatoes, cream, spinach, soured nough bread. 2:00:31.680 --> 2:00:34.600 We uh. When I got home, we Rue and I 2:00:34.640 --> 2:00:35.480 swam in the pool. 2:00:36.320 --> 2:00:39.240 Scotti was messing around with mom Sarun and I had 2:00:39.240 --> 2:00:42.520 pool time. Charle got all the food ready from Answer 2:00:42.520 --> 2:00:44.560 and set it up. We ate, We ate outside and 2:00:44.640 --> 2:00:47.840 it was an a plus father's day. 2:00:47.880 --> 2:00:51.240 What a queen, dude. Yeah, man, that is a great 2:00:51.400 --> 2:00:57.880 father's Day. My first Father's Day really really good. Got 2:00:57.920 --> 2:01:01.200 to sleep in similarly like I'm at eight o'clock mark, 2:01:01.640 --> 2:01:05.080 and then Jill was playing music like pretty loud from 2:01:05.080 --> 2:01:08.600 the kitchen, but like really sweet songs like you know 2:01:08.760 --> 2:01:10.000 I wish, Yeah. 2:01:11.240 --> 2:01:14.520 They did now is that? 2:01:14.800 --> 2:01:14.920 Oh? 2:01:15.120 --> 2:01:19.000 Yeah, the same. I woke up at eleven thirty. 2:01:19.240 --> 2:01:21.840 That dude, if that had happened again, I would have 2:01:21.840 --> 2:01:25.120 been very sad. I actually would have been like somewhat 2:01:25.120 --> 2:01:29.800 matt Uh sleeping music playing music playing, went into the 2:01:29.880 --> 2:01:33.720 kitchen and she was standing there with uh Scarlett and 2:01:33.760 --> 2:01:35.800 they have the little card and the picture frame that 2:01:35.880 --> 2:01:39.080 Deke took that picture of it was like sure one 2:01:39.200 --> 2:01:42.120 best at ever, congratulations. 2:01:43.160 --> 2:01:45.760 And I didn't want to do this, but thank you. Uh. 2:01:46.760 --> 2:01:49.760 And then they got me this watch which I freaking 2:01:49.840 --> 2:01:52.160 love it. And I had like a little engraving on 2:01:52.200 --> 2:01:55.440 the inside of it, which could be the lesson of 2:01:55.440 --> 2:01:58.480 the week. I had a lesson of the week. But uh, 2:01:58.720 --> 2:02:03.560 life is not measured in but in moments. I love 2:02:03.640 --> 2:02:07.480 that to my dad from Scarlett on his first fallow. 2:02:07.760 --> 2:02:10.840 That's big time she has you. She gotbed had some 2:02:10.880 --> 2:02:12.040 side hustles to get. 2:02:11.840 --> 2:02:14.520 That, Yeah, I said, I said, Jill, I see what 2:02:14.600 --> 2:02:17.040 you mean about how I could maybe do a better 2:02:17.120 --> 2:02:18.960 job on the Mother's Day stuff. 2:02:18.680 --> 2:02:21.480 Like yes, she said, exit she set the bar. 2:02:21.680 --> 2:02:23.960 Yeah, it's like, here's how you do it, I said, 2:02:24.800 --> 2:02:27.720 started eating my pancakes and bacon and going. 2:02:27.680 --> 2:02:30.160 Yeah, I could have done a better job on the 2:02:30.200 --> 2:02:30.880 Mother's Day. 2:02:31.840 --> 2:02:33.280 I didn't come over here and I go will Did 2:02:33.280 --> 2:02:36.760 you see Sherman's major award? He won Best at Ever? 2:02:36.840 --> 2:02:42.080 And will without miss b who voted? Because I didn't 2:02:42.080 --> 2:02:45.040 get the I didn't get the vote. Are they going 2:02:45.120 --> 2:02:46.400 to do a recount. 2:02:46.040 --> 2:02:50.880 Or won an award? Best dat Ever? Who voted? Yeah? 2:02:51.000 --> 2:02:53.320 Who voted? Well? Where did that come from? 2:02:53.640 --> 2:02:55.840 Was it like an option where it's like Willie and 2:02:55.880 --> 2:02:58.280 Sherman because we do a dad podcast together. 2:02:59.200 --> 2:03:00.240 They didn't do. 2:03:00.200 --> 2:03:04.360 That, but yeah, you learn how to do Father's Day, 2:03:04.440 --> 2:03:06.840 Mother's Day? Oh yeah, I wish I had Mother's Day back. 2:03:06.880 --> 2:03:08.560 That's when we were coming back from that wedding, and 2:03:08.600 --> 2:03:10.560 so I had to kind of cram it in like 2:03:10.640 --> 2:03:12.280 I did solid and putting it all together. 2:03:12.320 --> 2:03:15.560 But just a full day of celebration. Yeah, full day 2:03:15.560 --> 2:03:19.320 of like you're gonna do you? I got you, And 2:03:19.360 --> 2:03:19.880 I know what. 2:03:19.800 --> 2:03:22.840 You mean about Like I weirdly kind of feel that 2:03:22.880 --> 2:03:25.920 way about Father's Day too, now now that I've experienced it. 2:03:27.920 --> 2:03:32.040 We had a funny little like text thread at the 2:03:32.160 --> 2:03:33.520 very end of Father's Day. 2:03:33.800 --> 2:03:37.760 We were just texting each other, going, they look at us, man, Yeah, 2:03:37.760 --> 2:03:38.560 that's what I'm saying. 2:03:38.640 --> 2:03:41.000 Then you get to engage with all the yeah guys, 2:03:41.080 --> 2:03:43.360 you think highly of guys who've been father figures in 2:03:43.400 --> 2:03:46.320 your life, my dad. You just get to shoot out 2:03:46.400 --> 2:03:48.200 messages saying Happy Father's Yeah. 2:03:48.360 --> 2:03:52.240 I have like work acquaintances type people reaching out and 2:03:52.240 --> 2:03:54.640 saying Happy Father's Day. That I could say, dude, Nick 2:03:54.680 --> 2:03:59.480 sent me a text say it back, Nick Hallett. Yeah, 2:03:59.560 --> 2:04:01.880 it wouldn't And I forgot to respond to him. 2:04:01.960 --> 2:04:04.400 Oh no, yeah. 2:04:04.400 --> 2:04:06.560 It wouldn't be an episode of four the Dads if 2:04:06.560 --> 2:04:07.960 we didn't bring up Nick Hallett. 2:04:09.600 --> 2:04:13.280 I thought he said Happy Father's Day, Willie because Nick 2:04:13.320 --> 2:04:16.040 walked out of the hospital wearing six boom. Was that 2:04:16.160 --> 2:04:17.200 that was Nick? Right? Yeah? 2:04:17.720 --> 2:04:23.240 Yeah boom twice So on Sunday he texts, Happy Father's Day, Willie. 2:04:23.240 --> 2:04:23.840 You're a good one. 2:04:23.840 --> 2:04:25.800 Thanks for making the fourth of Dad spot and brand 2:04:26.640 --> 2:04:28.800 I forgot to fucking respond to him. 2:04:28.840 --> 2:04:30.480 No, no, no, you were waiting and as he's. 2:04:30.360 --> 2:04:32.960 Listening, it's like, oh, Will just sending out happy Father's 2:04:33.040 --> 2:04:35.760 Days to people, and they couldn't high. 2:04:35.640 --> 2:04:40.120 Quality dads that you're getting the well written, structured. 2:04:41.200 --> 2:04:47.240 I got to have these thin high These are like 2:04:47.360 --> 2:04:52.840 I'm talking dupt dads out there, man. But I was 2:04:52.920 --> 2:04:54.080 like text. 2:04:54.080 --> 2:04:55.800 I was like, man, because he texted the next day 2:04:55.840 --> 2:04:58.960 on Monday around two pm, and he just responded to 2:04:59.040 --> 2:05:00.480 his text and goes just kidding. 2:05:03.040 --> 2:05:05.800 I laughed and I was like, man, I'm so sorry. 2:05:05.800 --> 2:05:08.200 I was literally singing your praises yesterday too, and I 2:05:08.280 --> 2:05:10.520 forgot to text back like one of those ones where 2:05:10.520 --> 2:05:12.080 he text and it just takes your mind. 2:05:11.880 --> 2:05:14.240 And dude, Nick, blah blah blah. Yeah. And then I 2:05:14.360 --> 2:05:17.920 just my god, dad, brain dad, brain, nikky boy, dad 2:05:18.080 --> 2:05:20.440 brak Hey, Nikki boy, we love you. 2:05:20.520 --> 2:05:22.400 I told him he's got to come on, did you 2:05:22.480 --> 2:05:24.080 because I want to say we talked about on the pod. 2:05:24.600 --> 2:05:27.920 Yeah, we did. We hates his voice too much. I'ment 2:05:28.520 --> 2:05:30.680 I can mute him, do it like a thing. Yeah 2:05:30.720 --> 2:05:34.120 yeah yeah, yeah, he would be great. He would be great, 2:05:34.120 --> 2:05:38.520 he'd be phenomenal. Yeah. But Nick, Happy Father's Day, man, Happy. 2:05:38.240 --> 2:05:42.240 Father's Day to every all the dad's out dads happy, blayd. 2:05:44.640 --> 2:05:49.000 Great, so great, so great, soad, Take out. 2:05:48.920 --> 2:05:52.600 The trash, take up the trash like subscribed he had 2:05:52.600 --> 2:05:54.520 the jury vacation you as well. 2:05:54.680 --> 2:05:55.960 Thank you how far Man