WEBVTT - Change things up for back-to-school

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of iHeartRadio. Good Morning,

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<v Speaker 1>This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. Today's

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<v Speaker 1>tip is to change it up. We're back to school.

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<v Speaker 1>September is a great time to revisit your household chore distribution.

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<v Speaker 1>No allocation of responsibilities works forever. You are probably changing

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<v Speaker 1>lots of routines right now as the seasons change, so

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<v Speaker 1>this can be a great time to shift anything that

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<v Speaker 1>has to get done. Most households wind up dividing and

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<v Speaker 1>conquering with a lot of chores. I cook, you wash up.

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<v Speaker 1>One person is in charge of laundry, and the other

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<v Speaker 1>is in charge of trash. One person walks the dog,

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<v Speaker 1>one buys the groceries. If there are little kids in

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<v Speaker 1>your household, you may have established teens for splitting childcare tasks.

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<v Speaker 1>If the children are older, they may have their own chores.

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<v Speaker 1>If all is going well, then carry on. But if

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<v Speaker 1>things feel unequal or people are getting really tired of

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<v Speaker 1>their current chores, then the back to school season is

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<v Speaker 1>a natural time to redistribute these tasks. Even if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have school aged kids, this time of year tends

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<v Speaker 1>to bring new rhythms for everyone, so it's a great

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<v Speaker 1>time to experiment with new chore rhythms as well. There

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<v Speaker 1>are lots of ways to do this. First, look to

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<v Speaker 1>see if any chores aren't being done consistently or adequately.

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<v Speaker 1>These are chores that may be ripe for a new owner. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>ask the people in your household whether there are any

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<v Speaker 1>chores that they are tired of, or any tasks that

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<v Speaker 1>they'd like to take on. If you have little kids

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<v Speaker 1>in your family, pay attention to what they can do

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<v Speaker 1>now that they couldn't do a year ago. A ten

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<v Speaker 1>year old might take pride in being able to roll

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<v Speaker 1>the trash and recycling binds to the curb on trash day.

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<v Speaker 1>If you notice that his height and strength make that

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<v Speaker 1>possible for him now and it wasn't six months ago,

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<v Speaker 1>you may be able to let go of a chore

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<v Speaker 1>that you're grouchy about. He'll be excited about taking out

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<v Speaker 1>the trash, and you will be excited that you are

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<v Speaker 1>not taking out the trash. As you redistribute chores. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>consider whether there are any chores that you could eliminate

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<v Speaker 1>now that your kids are older. Could they walk to

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<v Speaker 1>school or bike so that no one needs to drive them?

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<v Speaker 1>Can they simply be told to showers, so you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to actively supervise this. Can they do their own laundry,

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<v Speaker 1>or at least put all of their laundry away from

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<v Speaker 1>the dryer. Maybe they can make their own lunches or

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<v Speaker 1>figure out how to read the lunchmen you and buy

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<v Speaker 1>on certain days. How important is it to you that

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<v Speaker 1>your car darkling clean? Maybe you could wash your car

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<v Speaker 1>when the mood strikes, instead of thinking of it as

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<v Speaker 1>something that has to happen often. You might also automate

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<v Speaker 1>things as a way of lessening the mental load. Rather

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<v Speaker 1>than meal planning. Each week, you decide that Monday is pasta,

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<v Speaker 1>Tuesday is tacos, and Friday is pizza. Now you only

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<v Speaker 1>have to think about Wednesday and Thursday each week. Or

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you can come up with a template for those

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<v Speaker 1>days too. Or conversely, maybe you are working a different

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<v Speaker 1>schedule or several of your kids have left the nest

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<v Speaker 1>and you have more time for planning elaborate meals. You

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<v Speaker 1>could decide that Wednesday is new recipe night and then

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<v Speaker 1>have the leftovers every Thursday. The point is that just

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<v Speaker 1>because you have been doing something a certain way doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>mean you have to keep doing something a certain way.

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<v Speaker 1>The back to school season offers a fresh start for

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<v Speaker 1>routines and schedus jules, so use this time to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out if your current chore distribution is working for you.

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<v Speaker 1>With a little refresh, you may find that chores get

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<v Speaker 1>done effectively and almost painlessly, which would be a nice

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<v Speaker 1>way to start a new school year if you change

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<v Speaker 1>things up with chores. I'd love to hear how it goes.

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<v Speaker 1>You can reach me at Laura at Laura vandercam dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>In the meantime, this is Laura. Thanks for listening, and

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<v Speaker 1>here's to making the most of our time. Hey everybody,

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