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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.

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Speaker 1: Scrub dub dub mah.

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Speaker 2: We're actually recording this early because by the time this

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Speaker 2: comes out, it will not be a surprising Moore. But

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Speaker 2: I'm surprising Haley in Denver.

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Speaker 1: Oh you're surprising and you were surprising her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, to do just text her and say something.

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Speaker 1: No, okay, no, no, no, but I'm just gonna make

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Speaker 1: sure Robbie doesn't say anything.

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Speaker 3: Yeah please.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's one thing you got to realize. When you

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Speaker 2: have a best friend and they have a partner, news

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Speaker 2: get spread quickly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it does. And like he does things, not like

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Speaker 1: in a sweet way. He comments. He always is like

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Speaker 1: commenting on maybe text him right now, always commenting on

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Speaker 1: people's stories, you know, like just.

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Speaker 3: You may have already said something. Who knows you're gonna say?

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Speaker 1: Becca going to see Haley is a surprise FYI.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so yeah, I'm flying.

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Speaker 2: So Originally when she left for the US tour, it

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Speaker 2: was like, Okay, around the two week mark, will be

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Speaker 2: Denver and she has a day off, so that was

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Speaker 2: like our plan. But then I was like, you know,

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Speaker 2: what let's make this fun. So I was like, I

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Speaker 2: have an event that is like a work. I'm getting

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Speaker 2: paid to go, so like I can't say no for

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Speaker 2: real or you told her.

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Speaker 3: This, that's why I told her.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I said I.

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Speaker 2: Had an industry event, industry event, and I it was

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Speaker 2: like good, I was getting paid to go, so I

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Speaker 2: couldn't say no. So I wasn't gonna be able to go.

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Speaker 3: And then like.

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Speaker 2: Realistically, with her schedule and how it's lined up, we

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Speaker 2: wouldn't see each other basically till she comes to LA

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Speaker 2: for her show here, which would be like another two weeks.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So she was like what.

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Speaker 3: Like, how are we supposed to go that long? And

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Speaker 3: I'm like, we can do it.

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Speaker 2: Like I I think she's like triggered from how I

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Speaker 2: was when she was in Europe. But I'm like, I

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Speaker 2: feel good, like we're good. You know, I can do it.

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Speaker 2: I know it's gonna be hard, but we've got this.

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Speaker 2: But I'm flying around, I'm flying out. And then she

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Speaker 2: was saying the.

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Speaker 1: Other day, prize like that, like right now, I feel

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Speaker 1: like it's very intricate because I feel like, at this point,

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Speaker 1: you guys have been together for five years. You know

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Speaker 1: each other's lives, so well you know each other, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like, you know what you it's

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Speaker 1: good that you made up the industry event because.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you always got a thoroughly industry I can't say

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Speaker 3: no to those.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But then the last week she was just saying, She's like,

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Speaker 2: I miss you so much, but I also just like

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Speaker 2: really miss my friends. So I'm flying out one of

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Speaker 2: her best friends with me, so that her friend Monica,

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Speaker 2: so we're both gonna show up. Wow, so it's gonna

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Speaker 2: be really fun. And then my youngest sister, Henk, lives

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Speaker 2: in Denver, so we get to hang out with her.

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Speaker 3: So it's gonna be fun.

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Speaker 2: But I leave Saturday, okay, buy in Saturday she arrives.

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Speaker 2: I think their buscuits there like Sunday morning. So I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna just like figure out how I want to surprise her,

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Speaker 2: like or do I just send like Monica First, I

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Speaker 2: don't know, no, because how if she thinks i'mbout the

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Speaker 2: industry of it?

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Speaker 1: And then I'm like, no, you know you need to do,

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Speaker 1: but you just need to somehow somehow get her off

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Speaker 1: the bus. Okay, get off the bus. Yeah, Okay, get

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Speaker 1: her off the bus. You sneak into the bus and

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Speaker 1: just get in her bed and then have somebody get

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Speaker 1: her back in and be like, oh, can you grab

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Speaker 1: something from your bathroom or have them I don't know.

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Speaker 1: You have to figure this. I'm I'm just falling here. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I think when she's off the bus, she's off the bus.

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Speaker 1: And then be like, oh my gosh, wait, can you

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Speaker 1: so she has to go back in and she just

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Speaker 4: Well, I was thinking, oh on the bus.

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Speaker 3: Vulnerable, great idea, thank you.

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Speaker 2: I was thinking about messaging her tour manager and getting

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Speaker 2: her to put my name on her room reservation so

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Speaker 3: Okay, not even better surprise or anything, just like to

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Speaker 1: I feel like the crotches fannies just add to the vibe.

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Speaker 3: Yeah for you, I think your vibe. Share your location.

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Speaker 2: No, we don't share our location because because her reasoning

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Speaker 2: has always been like, what if we want to surprise

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Speaker 2: each other? And I've always been like, okay, I don't check.

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Speaker 2: I'm not like Tanya, like I'm not checking your location.

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Speaker 2: Twenty Tanya uses Fine my Friends as like a social

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Speaker 2: media app.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I use it.

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Speaker 1: When I tell you, I probably look at Fine my

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Speaker 1: Friends a dozen times a day. I'm not even joking.

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Speaker 1: I look at it constantly.

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Speaker 3: It's such a that's so strange to me.

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Speaker 1: First of all, it's really great when you're waiting for somebody,

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Speaker 1: let's say, at dinner, and they say they're gonna be late,

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Speaker 1: so it's nice to see like how late they're gonna be.

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Speaker 3: Never use that.

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Speaker 2: You always go what like how long will you, like,

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Speaker 2: how much longer until you're here? You never just check

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Speaker 2: it first, and then you'll be like, oh wait, wait, yeah,

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Speaker 2: but you always ask first.

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Speaker 1: I forget to have it at my fingertips.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And it's it's nice on the daily, like when I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to see when Robbie's gonna get home so I

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Speaker 1: can like make sure I I mean, I don't really

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Speaker 1: off chance I am making dinner, so I can make

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Speaker 2: That feels like an excuse of having someone's uh location,

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Speaker 2: but not really having a good reason of needing it.

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Speaker 1: I think that's a great reason you just said. I

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Speaker 1: don't like to just like at random points the day.

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Speaker 1: I just like to see where people are.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, I don't feel that. I The only.

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Speaker 2: Time I like, really used it consistently is when my

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Speaker 2: both my younger sisters lived with me, and it would

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Speaker 1: Where there are? Do you never look at see where

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Speaker 1: I am?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: I know where you are most of the time. You're

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Speaker 1: Oh that's so sad.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, you're you're in a routine wisely a what.

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Speaker 3: You're in a very committed routine in your life.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh?

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Speaker 3: Where I know where your spots are?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're a home.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're either work at the Higheart studio or at

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Speaker 2: your choice of Why do I call that where you

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Speaker 2: live but don't live?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my like temporary housing, her temporary housing. Although I

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Speaker 1: would like to say that we made no no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: nothing crazy. We made May goals for like the month

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Speaker 1: of May, and one of my goals was to finally

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Speaker 1: finish cleaning out that front room that I can move

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Speaker 3: That's a big deal.

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Speaker 1: It's a big deal, and I've kind of just been like, yes,

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Speaker 1: I've been waiting on certain things to happen, but also

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Speaker 1: like I should there's so much stuff in there that

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Speaker 1: But I decided in the month of May that I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna clean it out so it's clean and I'm going

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Speaker 1: to paint the walls. What color white? Oh, it's like

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, just going first standard.

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Speaker 1: It's really just gonna like clean it out, make it

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Speaker 3: Great.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm proud of you. I feel like that's the

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Speaker 2: big move for you. Yeah, it's been like in the

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Speaker 1: It's been in the works for a while now. Tis

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Speaker 1: But I will say if, oh, I went to my parents'

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Speaker 1: excited about the idea of moving and doing all that

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Speaker 3: It's very laborious. It's very laborious and tedious.

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Speaker 2: No matter how much help like you have, whether you

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Speaker 2: hire movers, packers, whatever, it is still laborious.

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Speaker 1: Right, and even when you hire movers, you still have

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Speaker 1: to unpack and somehow organize your stuff. Like I can't

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Speaker 1: Like I have to have a system in place.

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Speaker 2: You could just like hire Life in General to just

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Speaker 2: like come in and be like, here's where everything is.

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Speaker 2: They just do it for you in the most like

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Speaker 1: I'm kind of in like the purging era of my life.

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Speaker 1: So right now, I think for the next like year

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Speaker 1: when I end up in my like final destination home,

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Speaker 1: then I want to hire. Then I want to hired

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Speaker 1: Life in General to come and like set me up.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so stay tuned for a year and a half.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's kind of my timeline. I'm looking at

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Speaker 3: So you have things planned out so far in advance.

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Speaker 1: That's how I roll, baby, Okay, So, but I wanted

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Speaker 1: to talk about, uh, moving out of going to see

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Speaker 1: my childhood home for the last time. Yeah, what's that.

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Speaker 3: I didn't have a.

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Speaker 2: I didn't really have a child like I had my

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Speaker 1: Have like attachment to it, right, I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: I did not expect to be like crying all weekend.

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Speaker 1: And the minute we drove up to the house and

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Speaker 1: I saw the Soul sign in the front, I just started,

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Speaker 1: like I lost it. I just lost it. And then

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Speaker 1: walking in seeing like my old bedroom completely empty with

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Speaker 1: these memories of like and I was telling Robbie, like

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Speaker 1: this is the I had like this little shh like

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Speaker 1: I'm not a shed because it wasn't a shed. It

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Speaker 1: was like this like random little like drawer outside the

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Speaker 1: outside of my bedroom. And I kept all my like

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Speaker 1: everybody else started shaving their legs. So I'd steal their

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I don't know I've I've never dealt with

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Speaker 3: I watched the Ed Cheran documentary. It's on Disney Plus.

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Speaker 3: I I've always loved Ed cheering. I love him.

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Speaker 1: Really, I just need to watch it. Yes, it's so

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Speaker 2: It's emotional, but it's not like I mean, you know,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I was watching stuff that's like way at

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know. I tried to watch it myself.

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Speaker 1: So then I went back to Shrinking, which everybody raves about.

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Speaker 1: I don't know that one Shrinking. It's on Apple TV

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Speaker 1: I leave that started watching The Diplomat that everybody's raving

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Speaker 3: You didn't like it.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't into that back to shrinking.

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Speaker 1: The Lewis Capaldi documentary. I think I was not paying

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean documentaries, especially it's about a singer.

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Speaker 3: Know, Yeah, because like there's only so like you're they're.

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Speaker 2: Just following their lives, so it's not like it's gonna

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: But have you watched Firefly Lane? Because everyone talks about that.

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Speaker 1: So that was recommended to me the most out of

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Speaker 1: and I'm just like not in the place where I

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Speaker 3: That, Okay, but in due time.

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Speaker 1: In due time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, everybody loves it. Yeah, everyone raves about it. I've

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, no, but that cheering documentary. Okay, that's good.

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Speaker 1: I'll watch it this weekend.

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Speaker 2: And we'll be back with more where this came from.

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Speaker 2: So the Gala happened last well earlier this week, whatever

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Speaker 2: is about the met galat that someone posted about that

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Speaker 2: said the mech like, have you seen the comparisons of

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Speaker 2: like the met Gala to like the Hunger Games. No,

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Speaker 2: it's so freaky, because someone was saying, like, we're in

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Speaker 1: Oh that's right.

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Speaker 3: I know. I was like, it's kind of think about it.

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Speaker 3: I know, it's scary. And then the guy that was

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Speaker 3: Did you see that?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: an educational like.

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00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:54,400
Speaker 1: A I got into all the AI stuff I don't

445
00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:57,520
Speaker 1: want the Snapchat AI friend. I don't want chat GPT.

446
00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:00,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, well it's happening, like whether we want or not.

447
00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:03,040
Speaker 2: I think that's the scary part is like even the

448
00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:05,800
Speaker 2: guy who was like part of the like leaders in

449
00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:07,880
Speaker 2: creating it is like stepped away from it.

450
00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:10,560
Speaker 1: I'm like terrified that people aren't even gonna want to

451
00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:14,359
Speaker 1: be in like relationships with other humans anymore, because if

452
00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:16,120
Speaker 1: you think about it, I was actually reading this article

453
00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:18,719
Speaker 1: about sex robots. Have you heard about sex robots?

454
00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:18,800
Speaker 3: No?

455
00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:22,600
Speaker 1: I think that there are some people that are so

456
00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:26,520
Speaker 1: plagued by the idea of like getting on a dating

457
00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:28,199
Speaker 1: app and like meeting people. You know that people have

458
00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:30,440
Speaker 1: a lot of anxiety around especially I think the pandemic

459
00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:32,639
Speaker 1: made it even worse where people are more fearful to

460
00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:36,280
Speaker 1: like meet, And I think that it's going to get

461
00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:39,240
Speaker 1: to a place where people just have relationships with these

462
00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:42,880
Speaker 1: like sex robots, because they're going.

463
00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:45,560
Speaker 2: To make them so lifelike now where they have like

464
00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:48,560
Speaker 2: intimate relate like connections.

465
00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:51,000
Speaker 1: With you, Yeah, have dinner with you.

466
00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:54,560
Speaker 2: I just don't know that I want to be around

467
00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:58,320
Speaker 2: for this, Like no, seriously, I was thinking about this

468
00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:01,239
Speaker 2: because you know, there's like sists and people who are

469
00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:04,159
Speaker 2: like are preparing for like an apocalypse or whatever, and

470
00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:06,199
Speaker 2: they like they have like bunkers and stuff or like

471
00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:09,440
Speaker 2: to survive. Yeah, I don't want to be like I'm

472
00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:13,440
Speaker 2: not trying to fight to be here. Yeah, like I'm

473
00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:17,400
Speaker 2: not trying to fight apocalypse apocalypse.

474
00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:20,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know this stuff or that whatever you're

475
00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:24,640
Speaker 1: talking about. Robot revolution is really scared freaking me out.

476
00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:26,560
Speaker 3: You feeling like you're gonna get replaced.

477
00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:30,560
Speaker 1: No, I'm safe, but I'm worried for the younger generation.

478
00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:33,679
Speaker 2: No, Seriously, it's like, are people gonna be able to

479
00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:36,280
Speaker 2: form like genuine real connections to people?

480
00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:39,480
Speaker 1: Like relationships are hard? Man.

481
00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:42,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, But I.

482
00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:45,200
Speaker 2: Mean that's if you went to that route, you could

483
00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:48,200
Speaker 2: just be like why dates why to anyone?

484
00:21:48,320 --> 00:21:50,240
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. That's why things gonna happen.

485
00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:53,280
Speaker 3: And that they're just gonna get their fulfilled, like.

486
00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:57,720
Speaker 1: They're robots, their physical needs, their emotional connection needs, like

487
00:21:57,720 --> 00:22:01,680
Speaker 1: what else this robot not gonna have an opinion?

488
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:02,600
Speaker 4: You know?

489
00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:04,160
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, they're not gonna be able to argue.

490
00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:06,000
Speaker 1: They're not going to tell you how to spend your Saturday.

491
00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:08,760
Speaker 2: Well that's what you think until have you seen the

492
00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:13,520
Speaker 2: Disney movie Smart House? No, well, she turned on her owners.

493
00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:19,400
Speaker 2: It's so freaky, like genuinely scares me. And I can't

494
00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:24,400
Speaker 2: think about it too much. But wait, I was gonna say, oh,

495
00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:26,960
Speaker 2: you know what I've had like this shift in my

496
00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:30,800
Speaker 2: mind about compared to how I was a couple of

497
00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:34,359
Speaker 2: weeks ago. Yeah, and I don't know what this where

498
00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:37,520
Speaker 2: the shift happened, but I have never Okay, can I

499
00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:38,639
Speaker 2: be honest what I think it is?

500
00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:40,400
Speaker 1: What you got your mojo back?

501
00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:42,240
Speaker 3: I'm working on it.

502
00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:45,800
Speaker 2: My nails did get done, that's not Unfortunately, it wasn't

503
00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:52,480
Speaker 2: that easy. I've been eating healthier and exercising every day

504
00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:59,880
Speaker 2: and I think it's helped with my like mental clarity

505
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:00,920
Speaker 2: like everything.

506
00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:02,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's amazing.

507
00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:06,560
Speaker 2: It's crazy, and like I'm not I'm not like, oh,

508
00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:08,919
Speaker 2: I'll never eat the things that I like again, but

509
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:13,160
Speaker 2: it is shocking to see how different I feel. And

510
00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 2: I've found that very interesting. But so I think that

511
00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:20,919
Speaker 2: was a big part of it. But someone I posted

512
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:23,440
Speaker 2: a TikTok that said it was something about like it

513
00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:26,520
Speaker 2: was a sound, and I just posted, like when you

514
00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:29,639
Speaker 2: accidentally manifest a long distance relationship because you like your

515
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:33,840
Speaker 2: alone time and now you're dating. And people were like,

516
00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:36,800
Speaker 2: it's it's more like split custody beca like we'll give

517
00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:40,680
Speaker 2: her back, and I'm like, yeah, it is, that's so true.

518
00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:47,280
Speaker 2: They were like sharing our parent or a child. I

519
00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:51,320
Speaker 2: don't know, split custody way. So I've had that mindset,

520
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:55,480
Speaker 2: happy to happy to let her go and entertain the masses.

521
00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:57,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you do your thing.

522
00:23:57,640 --> 00:23:58,720
Speaker 3: I do my thing. Yeah.

523
00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 1: Wow. It does really like impact a lot. I do

524
00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:06,359
Speaker 1: find that I generally eat clean and I eat like

525
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:09,280
Speaker 1: from the earth, and I try to work out. But

526
00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:11,440
Speaker 1: I did like there were moments where like a lot

527
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,040
Speaker 1: of time would go by and I hadn't worked out

528
00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:15,719
Speaker 1: in a really long time. When I'm on a routine

529
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 1: and a schedule, i do feel I'm sleeping good, I'm

530
00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:22,199
Speaker 1: drinking a lot of water. I feel like I'm firing

531
00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:24,080
Speaker 1: at all cylinders.

532
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:29,240
Speaker 2: I'm not sleeping great. Well, I'm like falling asleep and

533
00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:32,760
Speaker 2: then I'm not. I'm like up all throughout the night.

534
00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:34,480
Speaker 2: So I haven't cracked that code yet.

535
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:37,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, but baby steps, Yeah.

536
00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:39,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, one thing at a time at a time, I.

537
00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:43,720
Speaker 1: Will say, though, too, I'm on another mission because I

538
00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:46,359
Speaker 1: asked I wanted to have James Marson because we're obsessed

539
00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:48,600
Speaker 1: with Jerry Duty. So I really wanted to have James

540
00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:51,440
Speaker 1: Marsin on the podcast, and we gotta know, we.

541
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:54,719
Speaker 3: Gotta yeah, we got denied. We got to people from

542
00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:55,439
Speaker 3: Jerry Duty.

543
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:57,960
Speaker 1: So I went on the Morning Show with Ryan. I

544
00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:00,639
Speaker 1: went Honor with Ryan Seacrest, and I told Ryan I

545
00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:03,360
Speaker 1: wanted James Marson on my podcast. He said no, can

546
00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:05,160
Speaker 1: we have him on the Morning Show? And He's like, sure,

547
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:07,960
Speaker 1: So James Marson comes on. But it was a couple

548
00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:10,880
Speaker 1: of days in between. And I also like, when it's

549
00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:13,320
Speaker 1: on the morning show, I don't want it. I don't

550
00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:16,120
Speaker 1: want to like take over and like say anything inappropriate

551
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:18,160
Speaker 1: in an interview. So I didn't know if I should

552
00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:21,080
Speaker 1: go there. And I think at that point everybody else

553
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:24,040
Speaker 1: kind of just like forgot, and I'm really upset. I

554
00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:26,720
Speaker 1: did not take the opportunity to be like, hey, James Marson,

555
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:29,800
Speaker 1: because we had like kind of a fun exchange. I

556
00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:31,159
Speaker 1: really want to have you on my podcast, but he

557
00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:33,120
Speaker 1: said no, can you please come on my podcast?

558
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:37,440
Speaker 3: That would have been so epic. I know that felt

559
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:39,320
Speaker 3: like a beckon may of that you didn't do that.

560
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 1: I was thinking about it, but I didn't want to

561
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:49,199
Speaker 1: be like inappropriate. But I'm not giving up because I

562
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 1: think his publicist knows Robbie because she messaged him and

563
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:55,399
Speaker 1: was like, you were just brought up in this interview

564
00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:58,040
Speaker 1: with Ryan and Tanya and Da da da da, and

565
00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:00,080
Speaker 1: he goes, yeah, he nagged her on her podcast and

566
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:03,520
Speaker 1: she was, oh, sorry, I think that was me. So

567
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:06,359
Speaker 1: I'm like, maybe if we have enough scrubbers, reach out

568
00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 1: to James Marsden or I don't know how we're going

569
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:13,679
Speaker 1: to go about this, but I'm not just hanging my

570
00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:14,399
Speaker 1: hat up on this.

571
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, well that's you. Don't You're not a hat hanger.

572
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:20,359
Speaker 1: No, no, So Patrick Dempsey and James Marsden are still

573
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 1: in the twenty twenty three bucket list.

574
00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:26,200
Speaker 2: I gotta say, James Marston is like such a beautiful man.

575
00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:29,719
Speaker 1: You know What's interesting. I feel like he does not

576
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:33,560
Speaker 1: get the credit that he deserves as he's a major

577
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:37,639
Speaker 1: mega star. He's been in so many movies, but I

578
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:39,000
Speaker 1: feel like he's not a name, Like.

579
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's not. He's not like a broad note Because.

580
00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:43,880
Speaker 1: We've been talking about Jury Duty and I'm like, yeah,

581
00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:46,040
Speaker 1: it's got James Marsden and people like who's James Marsden.

582
00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:46,960
Speaker 3: I know, it's kind of weird.

583
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:51,480
Speaker 2: Weird, Yeah, because he's been in so many big movies,

584
00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:56,440
Speaker 2: like big movies, name Some Notebook, Yes, Enchanted, Yes, Guardians

585
00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:57,120
Speaker 2: of the Galaxy.

586
00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 3: I'm just kidding, but he's in a.

587
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 1: Movie yeah, yeah, no song, He's in Sonic, Oh, son

588
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:11,240
Speaker 1: Sonic Favorite, Disenchanted. He was Dead to Me, he was

589
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 1: in twenty seven Dresses.

590
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:14,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's been in a lot of movies that like

591
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:16,040
Speaker 2: are big movies.

592
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:18,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, and Dead to Me was a massive show a

593
00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:19,359
Speaker 1: couple of years ago.

594
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, it's it is weird.

595
00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:23,720
Speaker 2: I was just thinking that because I just watched the

596
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,080
Speaker 2: first episode and I was like, he's so handsome, Like

597
00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:28,760
Speaker 2: he's like so classically handsome.

598
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 3: Okay, switching gears. Did you have anything else said to that?

599
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:35,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, So any if anybody knows James Marsen or knows

600
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:37,200
Speaker 1: somebody that knows James Marsden, and.

601
00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 3: You do you know his publicist.

602
00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:41,760
Speaker 1: Or Robbie to get on it.

603
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 3: That's that's the only that's.

604
00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:46,480
Speaker 2: The biggest connect that we're probably gonna have, unless someone's

605
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 2: married to James Marsden.

606
00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:50,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, if he has a secret wife out there, actually

607
00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 1: know nothing about his personal life, like truly, like he

608
00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 1: could have a lot of kids and a wife. I

609
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:58,919
Speaker 1: have no idea, but if anybody, yeah, I'm gonna I'm

610
00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:00,760
Speaker 1: gonna put I'm gonna get Rob back on the job.

611
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:03,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, you need to assign that to him.

612
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,359
Speaker 1: Yeah that does feel like our key, but I'm saying

613
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:10,080
Speaker 1: that's the publicist. If anybody knows James mars day, okay,

614
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:13,200
Speaker 1: a personal relationship.

615
00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:14,240
Speaker 3: And listen to this podcast with these two girls, I

616
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:15,480
Speaker 3: love you they weren't.

617
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:17,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but then you have to watch Jerry Duty

618
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 1: and like really.

619
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 3: Kind I know I heard it.

620
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:22,239
Speaker 2: It takes a couple episodes before like you gotta like

621
00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:23,720
Speaker 2: set the scene or whatever.

622
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:26,480
Speaker 1: I haven't laughed that hard in a very long time.

623
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:27,040
Speaker 3: Yeah.

624
00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:31,520
Speaker 2: That makes me nervous because lasso, yeah, and other things.

625
00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:37,400
Speaker 2: But so yesterday I went to hot pilates and it's

626
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 2: so freaking hot in there that like you don't want

627
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 2: to be too close to anybody because it's already just

628
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 2: hot and stuffy, so you're like try to set your space.

629
00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:46,280
Speaker 2: So I got there early enough where I had like

630
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 2: I was against the wall and the next person closest

631
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 2: to me was like a good distance. Well, as this

632
00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 2: class starts to get fuller, this guy comes and puts

633
00:28:57,640 --> 00:29:00,479
Speaker 2: his mat in between us, and so we're like it's close,

634
00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 2: and I'm like no, but like I get it, you know,

635
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 2: you have to just find the space. But then I

636
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:09,480
Speaker 2: couldn't see the instructor because his legs were blocking her,

637
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:11,320
Speaker 2: so like I kept having to sit up to see.

638
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 2: So I was just like he did nothing to me,

639
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:15,440
Speaker 2: but like he did everything to me, you know what

640
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:15,880
Speaker 2: I'm saying.

641
00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:20,080
Speaker 1: You know, workout classes are so funny because so I

642
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 1: do berries a lot, and in the pandemic, they spaced

643
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:26,200
Speaker 1: everything out. So like normally what you do is you

644
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:27,800
Speaker 1: share a treadmill and you share a floor and you

645
00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 1: just like flip flop and how they kind of pack

646
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 1: everybody in. But because of the pandemic, they spaced everything out.

647
00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:35,080
Speaker 1: They did them in parking lots, and you had your

648
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 1: own treadmill and your own thing, and it was like

649
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:41,600
Speaker 1: an oasis. It was just luxury right in a parking lot.

650
00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:44,960
Speaker 1: But now that we're out of it, like everything's back

651
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 1: indoors now and I'm sharing my space with like these sweaty,

652
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:54,480
Speaker 1: sweaty men and like it's fine if you sweat. I

653
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 1: sweat too, and I drip on the floor and I

654
00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 1: take the wipes and I clean my thing. I don't

655
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 1: know what it is about. I'm not going to generalize

656
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:04,200
Speaker 1: and say all men, but the men that the two

657
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:07,840
Speaker 1: men that I've shared stations with, it's like they are

658
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:11,320
Speaker 1: Niagara falls and they're not even touching it. They're not

659
00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 1: even wiping it down. They're not even using their towel

660
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 1: to wipe it. I'm like, I'm gonna put my hands

661
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 1: and my like body on top of this. This is

662
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 1: so gross. So I'm sitting there like spending two minutes

663
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:26,000
Speaker 1: wiping down each round. There's they're sweat off the mirror,

664
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 1: off the floor.

665
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 3: Okay, so you get it.

666
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:30,680
Speaker 1: I get it.

667
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 2: Well. Then so you do hot plates barefoot or I

668
00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:36,280
Speaker 2: guess all plates.

669
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 1: Barefoot all or like yoga everything kind of like yeah, And.

670
00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:42,160
Speaker 2: I'm already just annoyed because like I've I've had to

671
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:44,920
Speaker 2: like sit up because he's blocking the teacher, and like

672
00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:47,200
Speaker 2: if you miss what she's saying, it goes so fast

673
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:49,120
Speaker 2: that if you miss like what she's telling you to do,

674
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:50,680
Speaker 2: you kind of like miss that exercise.

675
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:52,760
Speaker 3: Then I look over towards the.

676
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 2: End and we're like doing abs and his toes are

677
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:59,080
Speaker 2: like tense and like spread, and I.

678
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 3: Was just like, ugh, I got like the ick.

679
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 2: But it like I wonder if, like I just need

680
00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 2: to know from two Hanna's in here too, two straight women.

681
00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 3: Who are like fully straight. Yeah, do men's feet give

682
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:16,040
Speaker 3: you the ick?

683
00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:19,720
Speaker 1: Or like yes, I don't want to see a man's foot,

684
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 1: like the sandals are meant for the beach and quite

685
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 1: frankly not even there if you can avoid it and

686
00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:29,240
Speaker 1: like throw on some toms or something. I hate sandals

687
00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 1: on men's feet. I cannot stand them. And Hannah is

688
00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:35,920
Speaker 1: shaking her head in a greance, so.

689
00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 3: You understand that like seeing a man, because I'm.

690
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:40,040
Speaker 2: Sure all of our feet looked like that, like your

691
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:42,320
Speaker 2: tents and like trying to hold the apposition, but like

692
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 2: his feet specifically, I was like, no, like you need

693
00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 2: to have socks on, Like I even think that if

694
00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 2: Jesus was walking amongst.

695
00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:59,479
Speaker 1: Me, I'd be like, you gotta clean those up.

696
00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 2: No, well, you gotta get some closed toe shoes on

697
00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 2: those bad boys.

698
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:07,720
Speaker 1: And I love Robbie's feet. I think he's gorgeous feet.

699
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:09,400
Speaker 1: They're very Yeah.

700
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:11,960
Speaker 2: This kind was like like he was like a good

701
00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 2: looking guy. I felt like he was clean his.

702
00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:17,000
Speaker 1: Feet or an extension of his hands. You know, they're

703
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 1: pretty great, Okay, and I still don't see them like, wow, yeah,

704
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 1: speaks some volumes I don't want. I don't like him

705
00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 1: flipping around and flip flops.

706
00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:28,320
Speaker 2: I was talking about this on my Instagram live last night,

707
00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 2: and I was like, like, imagine you get home from

708
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 2: a long day and like your husband or boyfriend just

709
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 2: like throws his feet on your lap.

710
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:37,520
Speaker 3: What are you doing? And one girl was like, I.

711
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:40,160
Speaker 2: Mean, I love my husband, so like, I wouldn't mind

712
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 2: if you put him on there, but I'm not trying

713
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 2: to touch.

714
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:45,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the thing. Like it, I wouldn't mind. I

715
00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:46,520
Speaker 1: do like his feet.

716
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:48,440
Speaker 3: You'd give him like a little massage.

717
00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:53,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh have you sucked his toes before? No?

718
00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:59,080
Speaker 3: Okay, but I would like.

719
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 1: Sure, why not? You know?

720
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:02,719
Speaker 3: Okay.

721
00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:04,360
Speaker 2: On that note, we're going to take a break and

722
00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 2: we'll be back with emails. All right, we are back.

723
00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 2: This is back to old times me reading the emails. Yeah, okay,

724
00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 2: this is from anonymous guys. I'm devastated. My dad just

725
00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 2: admitted he had a sexual relationship with someone for the

726
00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:35,400
Speaker 2: last few months. My mom and him have been married

727
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 2: for forty years. I am completely shocked and I don't

728
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 2: know where to go from here.

729
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:43,520
Speaker 1: Well, that's a lot in two sentences.

730
00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:48,560
Speaker 3: That's really horrible, horrible situation.

731
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 2: And I'm so sorry that you're navigating this, and I'm

732
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:55,280
Speaker 2: so sad and sorry for your mom that she's having

733
00:33:55,280 --> 00:34:02,560
Speaker 2: to navigate this. I genuinely cannot imagine being with someone for.

734
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:05,720
Speaker 3: That long and having that type of betrayal.

735
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:10,799
Speaker 1: No, I would be if I were your mom, I

736
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 1: would be very not Well.

737
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, I think that obviously this is a horrible

738
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:22,080
Speaker 2: time for your family in general, but I think that

739
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:25,200
Speaker 2: you and your mom need to just, you know, lean

740
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 2: into each other. And I don't know if you have siblings,

741
00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:30,239
Speaker 2: but like really just like be there for each other.

742
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:34,400
Speaker 2: But you know, I think maybe you need to find

743
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:38,120
Speaker 2: comfort and support from your friends and people close to

744
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:41,480
Speaker 2: you and have something so you can give to your

745
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:44,000
Speaker 2: mom because this is going to be just like a

746
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:44,920
Speaker 2: horrible time for her.

747
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:46,400
Speaker 3: And I don't know what the situation is.

748
00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:48,880
Speaker 2: I don't know if she's gonna stay forgive him and

749
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,600
Speaker 2: stay with him, but she's gonna need a lot of

750
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:55,640
Speaker 2: support and strength, and that not saying that's all on you,

751
00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:57,799
Speaker 2: but just saying like where you can give to her,

752
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 2: like give to her because it's very I can't e

753
00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:04,800
Speaker 2: I genuinely I can't imagine because I've been with Haley

754
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 2: for five years and if she betrayed me like that,

755
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 2: it would be horrible.

756
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 1: This would be Yeah, I can't I'm so so sorry.

757
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,680
Speaker 1: I would try and if your mom is trying to

758
00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:20,120
Speaker 1: stay with him, I would try and encourage her to

759
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:23,560
Speaker 1: not stay with him, because I really I'm a firm

760
00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:27,319
Speaker 1: believer in character, and to me, somebody that's going to

761
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:31,520
Speaker 1: do that after forty years of marriage does not have character.

762
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:36,880
Speaker 3: And we don't know the whole situation.

763
00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:40,319
Speaker 2: Like I know, you know Lauren Kennedy, her parent, Jason's wife, Yeah,

764
00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:42,920
Speaker 2: they have. Her parents went through a divorce. I think

765
00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:47,120
Speaker 2: there was an affair or something and they got back together.

766
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:49,839
Speaker 2: They were able to heal their marriage. So I don't

767
00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:53,200
Speaker 2: think it's impossible, but I think you should encourage your

768
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:55,480
Speaker 2: mom to maybe go I don't know if she's in therapy,

769
00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:58,399
Speaker 2: but like talk to someone and they obviously will need

770
00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:01,799
Speaker 2: to go through a lot together, I think. But I

771
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:03,799
Speaker 2: think you just need to support her. If your dad

772
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:04,440
Speaker 2: is like not.

773
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:08,319
Speaker 1: If he's just like, I can't tell you how we

774
00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:10,680
Speaker 1: don't know. I can't tell if he's sorry and he's

775
00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 1: like feels bad, or if he's.

776
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:14,680
Speaker 3: Just saying like I'm bagging with this person.

777
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:18,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, but either way, I really don't like him honestly.

778
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 3: Sorry, Yeah, he sucks for that.

779
00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:22,680
Speaker 1: Yeah.

780
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:24,600
Speaker 2: So I wish you the best, and I hope that

781
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:26,760
Speaker 2: you and your mom are able to find like peace

782
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:32,440
Speaker 2: and healing and honestly forgiveness eventually, because I think that's

783
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:35,400
Speaker 2: that's really how you heal from things and you're able

784
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:43,480
Speaker 2: to move on. This is also anonymous engagement advice. I

785
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:45,360
Speaker 2: have been with my boyfriend for over a year and

786
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 2: a half. In the conversations we have had about our

787
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:51,320
Speaker 2: relationship moving forward, we have been vague with the timeline,

788
00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 2: but he has indicated that an engagement would likely happen

789
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:56,520
Speaker 2: this year. I love him and would say yes if

790
00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 2: he proposed today. Here's the thing I can just tell.

791
00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:01,480
Speaker 2: He is the type to not ask what type of

792
00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 2: ring i'd want. He knows I want yellow gold. He

793
00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:06,520
Speaker 2: bought me a nice necklace for Christmas that was yellow

794
00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:08,839
Speaker 2: gold and said he had noticed I really only wear

795
00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:11,640
Speaker 2: yellow gold, and I told him, Yes, I strongly prefer it.

796
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 2: I also feel very strongly that I do not want

797
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:17,279
Speaker 2: a halo. Those are so popular right now that I'm

798
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:20,239
Speaker 2: scared he'd go for something like that. I also have

799
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:23,080
Speaker 2: a few cuts I highly prefer to others. My sister

800
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:24,759
Speaker 2: and I share a note on our phone that has

801
00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:27,040
Speaker 2: our ring side slash what we want for our ring.

802
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:29,239
Speaker 2: Should I mention to him that we share that so

803
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:31,319
Speaker 2: that when he is thinking about buying a ring, he

804
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:33,960
Speaker 2: can go to her and not ruin the surprise. Should

805
00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:36,680
Speaker 2: I even bring up anything at all? I don't want

806
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,360
Speaker 2: him to think I'm trying to pressure him into proposing sooner.

807
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:41,160
Speaker 2: I wish I could say I'm one of those girls

808
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:43,040
Speaker 2: that would be happy with anything, but if I have

809
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:44,400
Speaker 2: to wear it for the rest of my life, I

810
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 2: want to like it. I'm so scared he will just

811
00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:48,400
Speaker 2: pick something random out.

812
00:37:49,800 --> 00:38:03,279
Speaker 1: This is so funny, been there. I think you can

813
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:08,440
Speaker 1: express things that you like to your significant other without

814
00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 1: telling them exactly what to get, and also encourage them

815
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:14,400
Speaker 1: to like. Run it by friends of yours.

816
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, maybe your sister reaches out to

817
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:20,760
Speaker 2: him and says, hey, just to give.

818
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:23,000
Speaker 3: Your heads up. She's so picky about what she wants.

819
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 2: I wanted to like, I want you to just like

820
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:28,040
Speaker 2: know what she's liking, just so you can go off

821
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:28,800
Speaker 2: of an idea.

822
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 1: I don't like the thought of somebody reaching out to him.

823
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:35,359
Speaker 1: I think he should reach out to I don't.

824
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:37,160
Speaker 3: I think she's worried he's not going on I know.

825
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:39,200
Speaker 1: But if he doesn't, then he doesn't. We have to

826
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 1: figure out different ways. So I don't know if you

827
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:45,720
Speaker 1: vision board anonymous, but putting Vivian photos of the rings

828
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 1: that you like on different several vision boards might stick

829
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 1: with him. When you guys are like window shopping and

830
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 1: stuff you can express like I really don't like it. Hey,

831
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:57,720
Speaker 1: I feel like there's ways to drop hints about stuff

832
00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:00,319
Speaker 1: that maybe he'll pick up on. And I do think

833
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:01,480
Speaker 1: you just have to trust him at the end of

834
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 1: the day, because also he's not gonna just pick something

835
00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 1: random out, you think.

836
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:09,320
Speaker 2: So I think, yeah, I think that could go wrong

837
00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:11,680
Speaker 2: if she just trusts that he's gonna do Yes.

838
00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:13,360
Speaker 3: Here's what I think.

839
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:17,200
Speaker 2: Why not just be direct and say, hey, I am

840
00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:20,359
Speaker 2: so ready to say yes to you whenever you're ready.

841
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:22,000
Speaker 2: I don't want there to be any pressure, but I

842
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:24,520
Speaker 2: do want I have rings in mind that I've dreamed

843
00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 2: of my whole life. And my sister and I share

844
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 2: a notes file, so if you have any questions about

845
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,640
Speaker 2: what I want, you can text her and ask her.

846
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:33,759
Speaker 2: And I also want it to be from you, but

847
00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:35,319
Speaker 2: just so you have an idea of what I like.

848
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:39,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like I've done that in various ways.

849
00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 3: Yeah.

850
00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:43,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like like expressed what I like what

851
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:48,920
Speaker 1: I don't like, but I've never said exactly what i want.

852
00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:51,120
Speaker 1: I've just like showed pictures.

853
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:53,799
Speaker 2: He's seen photos, just like give him an idea of

854
00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 2: what you're leaning towards. Yeah, And I think that sometimes

855
00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:00,319
Speaker 2: we feel so scared to be direct, But why not

856
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:01,000
Speaker 2: be direct?

857
00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:04,040
Speaker 3: You know what you want? What a what a gift that.

858
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:05,960
Speaker 2: You know what you want or don't want, and you

859
00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:08,719
Speaker 2: can just share it with him without saying like I

860
00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:12,439
Speaker 2: need this like tomorrow. You're just saying, like, hey, when

861
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:15,880
Speaker 2: the time comes right, this is what I'm looking for. Yeah,

862
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:17,560
Speaker 2: Or you can ask my sister what I'm looking for

863
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:19,080
Speaker 2: because she knows if you want it to be a

864
00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:19,480
Speaker 2: full sup.

865
00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:22,320
Speaker 1: Yes, I don't think having other parties reach out to

866
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:23,239
Speaker 1: him is the move.

867
00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:31,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, so but exciting congratulations, very exciting for your future

868
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:38,359
Speaker 2: engagement proposal. Well, folks, that'll be all By the time

869
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:41,640
Speaker 2: this comes out. I will be in Denver, Colorado.

870
00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:44,200
Speaker 3: Oh yes, Haley Kyoko show.

871
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 1: Also yeah, and if you see Becca there, give her

872
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:50,279
Speaker 1: a shout out, send give her some loves, Give her

873
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 1: some loves. Today. Actually, May sixth is the most romantic

874
00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:55,879
Speaker 1: day of the year.

875
00:40:57,000 --> 00:40:58,920
Speaker 2: No, that's Saturday. I don't think we're going to be out.

876
00:40:59,000 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 2: I don't think this podcast.

877
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,480
Speaker 1: Oh wait what no Saturday. No, then that's wrong. It's

878
00:41:03,520 --> 00:41:05,920
Speaker 1: not May sixth, it's the eighth. So yeah, yeah, it's

879
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:06,759
Speaker 1: the eighth. Eighth.

880
00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:08,359
Speaker 3: Oh, it's the most romantic day of the year.

881
00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 1: I Robbie brought it up to me. He goes, So

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Speaker 1: May eighth is the most romantic day of the year

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Speaker 1: on the calendar, And I'm like, this definitely came from

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Speaker 1: me at some point, Like I probably talked about this

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Speaker 1: on the morning show. It's like some zodiac thing. It

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Speaker 1: had to have been because it was like in his calendar. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so he's like planning a date night.

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Speaker 3: That is so cute. I know. But regardless of where

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Speaker 3: he heard that from, that sure.

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Speaker 1: Was something I had said to him and he put

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Speaker 1: in his calendar because there's no he that's so not him.

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Speaker 3: I love that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so he's planning a date. Yeah, actually ready at

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Speaker 1: six fifteen.

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Speaker 3: Well, I can't wait to hear about it.

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Speaker 1: And I'm gonna be ready if you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, right, yeah that's right, hair done all right?

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm gonna go like chill girl these days. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Well, thanks changed day to day.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we gotta really tune in and see what's happening

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Speaker 1: because things change like the wind.

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Speaker 2: Well, I hope you all have a super romantic day,

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Speaker 2: even if you treat yourself.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the best type of love, right, oh, self

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Speaker 1: soothing is so love?

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Speaker 2: Yes, all right, we love you all, and we love

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Speaker 2: you back next week.

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Speaker 1: Yes, we will love you bye, love you bye,