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Speaker 1: Good news everyone, I listened to the Black Guy Who

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Speaker 1: Tips podcast because Rod and Karen are hot. Hey, welcome

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Speaker 1: to another episode of the Black Autist Podcast. I'm your host,

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Speaker 1: Rod joined us always buy my co host Karen, and

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Speaker 1: we're live doing a feedback show on a Saturday morning.

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Speaker 1: That's where we respond to all the things that y'all

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Speaker 1: had to say to the things that we had to say. Yes, sir,

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Speaker 1: lots of stuff going on out here, lots of stuff

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Speaker 1: we need to get to. The official weapon of the

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Speaker 1: show is an unofficial sport, a bulletball extreme And of

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Speaker 1: course we can't do the show without y'all. Y'all are

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Speaker 1: the listeners. Y'all are the ones who put the money

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Speaker 1: in our pockets, put the batteries in our back and

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Speaker 1: we appreciate y'all for that. And some of y'all even

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Speaker 1: take the time out to literally just give us money,

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Speaker 1: like no, you don't get nothing in return other than

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Speaker 1: just a shout out. And that's what we're about to do.

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Speaker 1: We about to shout y'all out for giving us that

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Speaker 1: much money.

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Speaker 2: Listen to.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to Quick Folks of Times to the Championships. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: New Day, New pay let's talk about the people that

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Speaker 1: gave us Monday. Zach from Living Corporate Podcast, thank you

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Speaker 1: very much, Lynn wood C. The oldest name in listenership,

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Speaker 1: playmakers that's what they call Jasmine A. And lastly, Waste

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Speaker 1: B's by SEVERER. Thank you everybody that came through with

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Speaker 1: the money. We love money. Appreciate you you now. Sadly,

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Speaker 1: we got no five star reviews this week. I don't

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Speaker 1: know what happened. Okay, we fell off y'all work. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. We deserve five star reviews. We deserve and

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Speaker 1: we would like five star reviews.

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Speaker 3: Yes, not unless some of y'all post it and it's

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Speaker 3: just slow, you know. I'll take that for some of you.

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Speaker 1: I don't see nothing new on there, So come on,

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Speaker 1: come on, buddy, you'll say you love the show. You

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Speaker 1: listen to the show. We're here for you during the

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Speaker 1: boring days of work.

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Speaker 2: Come on, come on, Okay, whatever it takes.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I applotted and I scheme, damn, give us the

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Speaker 3: five stars.

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Speaker 2: Yes, that is me right, now.

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Speaker 1: Give us that five stars.

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Speaker 3: Okay, even if you re upp and we don't care,

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Speaker 3: We'll take a refreshing five stars.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so please do that. We appreciate y'all and would

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Speaker 1: be very helpful.

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Speaker 2: Yes, do iTunes.

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Speaker 1: There's a lot of stuff that we're going through out here, okay,

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Speaker 1: and we're trying to, you know, trying to trying to

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Speaker 1: make sure you have a great show every day. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think I think a five star review from we

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Speaker 1: got thousands of people that listen all the time to

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Speaker 2: We love y'all.

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Speaker 3: When y'all gonna do a live show, oh rideer in

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Speaker 2: But you won't put five on it? And not even

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Speaker 2: not even five dollars, just five stars.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, if you haven't left us a five star review,

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Speaker 1: it's basically like you're calling us the N word with

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Speaker 1: the hard art. I'm just gonna say. I'm just gonna

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Speaker 1: say it, just like this gentleman from last night, who

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Speaker 4: A phenomenal day today Nigger League Museum.

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Speaker 1: And Arthur Bryan Spurby. We had it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just that's how I feel that last night. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: when we don't get a five star review, it really

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Speaker 1: feels just like you know, NBC Sports Talk about Baseball.

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Speaker 4: We had a phenomenal day today Nigger League Museum and

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Speaker 1: and all that stuff. Episode twenty seven oh three, twenty

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Speaker 1: Salon was the name of this. It was a feedback episode.

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Speaker 2: First of course, she's in the future.

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Speaker 1: When men bring up the naturalistic argument that they have

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Speaker 1: It would be best if women had several children and

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Speaker 1: infectious disease, for example, going around different genes increase the

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Speaker 1: chance of survival. But do we ever celebrate women who

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Speaker 1: technically that should lead to five different men protecting that woman.

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Speaker 1: We know that's not it normally happens. But these are

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Speaker 1: make that. I mean, like it's it's to me, it's

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Speaker 1: Situation can be whatever it is I'm talking about. When

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Speaker 1: the dudes always go to this weird place of you know,

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Speaker 1: you shouldn't be mad about it, right, because it's my biondogy,

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Speaker 3: That way right, right, And then you know you looking

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Speaker 2: Many Wait a minute, well ain't that what y'all call ups?

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Speaker 2: Ain't that what we are when we just be out

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Speaker 1: so I just find it stupid. By the way, sorry

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Speaker 1: to women's playing, but the frog in hot water who

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Speaker 1: Frogs are smarter. Wikipedia says, while some nineteenth centuries experiment

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Speaker 1: so you can take that woman's plaining ship out of

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Speaker 1: Sh Oh you a scientist. Oh you got a's and ship? Okay,

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Speaker 1: Shannon right sing hey, roding and caring right now on

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Speaker 1: Sunday because I always forget to write in before Saturday,

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Speaker 1: and I'm always behind even when y'all get me time

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and then you like eighteen weeks behind and you

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like Freddie gives on child support, y'all. Just

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Speaker 1: a boycott that work for perceived slights. I don't care

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Speaker 1: that Aquafina has a black sin or Chris Pratt went

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Speaker 1: to a homophobic church. I'm still going to Guardians right. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that that Chris Pratt thing is still weird. As I've

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Speaker 1: even though we don't always agree, And I know you

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Speaker 1: don't need everyone to agree, anyone to agree with y'all, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And I assume if you had a podcast where you

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Speaker 1: of people my feet who are just making people mad

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Speaker 3: And most people, for most people, they're the same person

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Speaker 2: Sooner or later that you're like noping for you know what.

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Speaker 3: You know and shit like that, And it's one of

433
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Speaker 3: those things where when I see that shit is very

434
00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:07,960
Speaker 3: frustrating to me and I'm like, oh, this is why

435
00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:10,160
Speaker 3: y'all stress, y'allself out, because I don't give a fuck

436
00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:11,919
Speaker 3: on certain things. And I will tell you that and

437
00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:15,040
Speaker 3: just turn around and but do do while you over

438
00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:16,879
Speaker 3: here worrying and stressing it. I'm like, you know what,

439
00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:20,120
Speaker 3: fuck that, it don't matter, But you know, online these

440
00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:23,600
Speaker 3: things matter because online has cultivated a space of all

441
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Speaker 3: of nothing.

442
00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:26,480
Speaker 1: Well, it's just like, gotcha, shit, it's not real. It's

443
00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:30,600
Speaker 1: it's like if I said, oh, man, I listen to

444
00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:34,399
Speaker 1: that new Future album and then somebody's like, oh, you

445
00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:37,679
Speaker 1: listen to that new Future album. I didn't know you

446
00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:41,960
Speaker 1: support not taking care of his kids. I'm like, what

447
00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:42,439
Speaker 1: the fuck do.

448
00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:45,280
Speaker 2: Just happened, nigga? What I don't know about child support?

449
00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:48,160
Speaker 1: Yeah? What just happened here? And I think that's what

450
00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:50,359
Speaker 1: the Internet has turned into. And I'm like, I refuse

451
00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:53,359
Speaker 1: to participating that shit. If you won't come to reality

452
00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:56,639
Speaker 1: like me, then I just won't fuck with you. And

453
00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,399
Speaker 1: I think that's why I love having this show. So like,

454
00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:02,639
Speaker 1: being tricked is only I guess what I'm trying to

455
00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:04,879
Speaker 1: say is being tricked only counts if you're already in

456
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,960
Speaker 1: them circles of people that is literally tricking each other.

457
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:10,280
Speaker 1: I think it's just as much a trick to keep

458
00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:12,560
Speaker 1: you not watching it by being like, you know, the

459
00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:15,960
Speaker 1: tenth the tenth lead on this show has said a

460
00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:18,080
Speaker 1: joke once that we don't really have a proof that

461
00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:19,640
Speaker 1: it wasn't Joe, but it sounded like he was talking

462
00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:21,760
Speaker 1: to me. I don't know, he said some shit one time,

463
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:24,439
Speaker 1: and you watched it. If you watch this, you like,

464
00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:26,359
Speaker 1: that's just as much a trick to me, because I

465
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Speaker 1: don't believe in that bullshit. That's all. Sorry for the

466
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Speaker 1: long comment, but I think I've been meaning right there

467
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Speaker 1: for about a month, so I've been saving up love y'all. Shallow,

468
00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:34,840
Speaker 1: I love you too, Shann. Thank you for writing then

469
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Speaker 1: and all the using that was a general or you

470
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Speaker 1: not you, Shannon. I know you probably understand, but I

471
00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:43,720
Speaker 1: want to be clear, right yeah.

472
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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're talking to general Ramsey.

473
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Speaker 1: DJing says five stars for the recap feedback show. You

474
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Speaker 1: to are that important to me and I spent almost

475
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Speaker 1: four hours at the Beauties Line a very uncomfortable chair.

476
00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:54,520
Speaker 1: My back, hips, and knees are not as flexible and

477
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Speaker 1: durable for my younger years when I could sit that

478
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Speaker 1: long To get my hair done.

479
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Speaker 2: I ain't that. I'm like, you know what, No, I'm good,

480
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Speaker 2: but that should take too long.

481
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Speaker 1: Go ahead, speaking on the care Come on now, you

482
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Speaker 1: know you like talking about being old and why? Come on?

483
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Speaker 6: Yes?

484
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Speaker 2: Old? And was crew? Where you at? Where you at?

485
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:19,359
Speaker 2: Come on? My back? Hut my knees hurt? Crew?

486
00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 1: Drop it like his room temperature?

487
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Speaker 3: Come on, yes, room temperatures ain't nothing round room temperature.

488
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Speaker 2: You ain't got to be.

489
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Speaker 1: Burning all right with the pole? Oh wait, let me

490
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Speaker 1: see if we have any comments on on YouTube for

491
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Speaker 1: this one. No, no comments on this one? All right, cool,

492
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:42,120
Speaker 1: no problem. And the poll was do you care about

493
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:45,440
Speaker 1: that guy leaking government secrets on discord? Because I'm be real,

494
00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:49,239
Speaker 1: we hadn't covered it on the show, mostly because I

495
00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:53,280
Speaker 1: didn't care. And then we got a long email that

496
00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:56,119
Speaker 1: I guess a listener really cared, but it just it

497
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:58,320
Speaker 1: wasn't because of no shit we said. I felt like

498
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 1: they tried to tricker us into believing that about it.

499
00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:02,840
Speaker 2: I was like, what if did we talk about that?

500
00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:05,280
Speaker 1: I don't know, I know any of that shit, right,

501
00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:05,960
Speaker 1: I was like.

502
00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:07,960
Speaker 3: I was like, I know we talk a lot and

503
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:10,600
Speaker 3: don't forget shit, but damn I don't remember this conversation.

504
00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:14,000
Speaker 1: Yes, do you care about that guy leaking government secrets

505
00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 1: on discord? Yes? Or no?

506
00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:18,159
Speaker 2: No?

507
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Speaker 1: No? Forty three percent, yes, fifty seven percent. Now on

508
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 1: Spotify it was exactly it was forty six percent, yes,

509
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Speaker 1: fifty four percent.

510
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:29,200
Speaker 2: No, like cause they got the money, they got shit

511
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Speaker 2: to do.

512
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Speaker 1: But it's basically fifty fifty is my point about fifty fifty.

513
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:35,000
Speaker 1: I it just was a story. I didn't care that

514
00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 1: much about it. Didn't have time to get to recipes.

515
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:43,720
Speaker 1: Jerry Springer was the comment on Our Q and A Coach.

516
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:48,159
Speaker 1: Malik says Jerry Jerry. Jerry Redman had a skin on

517
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:50,280
Speaker 1: one of his album called the Jerry Swinger Stick up.

518
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:52,680
Speaker 1: If you have never heard this pretty funny. Thanks for

519
00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:55,600
Speaker 1: all the content, while says Jerry is known for trash TV.

520
00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:59,720
Speaker 1: I hate trash TV all right, well this good look?

521
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:04,720
Speaker 1: Uh Hi personally love trash TV.

522
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I am not above trash TV.

523
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:08,600
Speaker 1: And I wonder how it stayed on all them years.

524
00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:11,080
Speaker 1: I got all them ratings. If so many people hated it,

525
00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 1: I think everybody loves to act like they hate trash TV,

526
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 1: but we love it. I know. I already tell people

527
00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:20,439
Speaker 1: like that I'm probably talking of me saying this, but

528
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 1: this is like when people talk about, you know, ride,

529
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:26,880
Speaker 1: you don't watch reality shows. You think you too good

530
00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:29,760
Speaker 1: for reality. You look down on reality TV, and I'm like, no,

531
00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:34,720
Speaker 1: I watched the worst reality show, Cheaters, because I know

532
00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 1: it's real life and their life actually fucked up. I'm

533
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:40,400
Speaker 1: over here on reality show meth Okay, I don't got

534
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:46,879
Speaker 1: no teeth left. I don't I can't even get hard

535
00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:48,879
Speaker 1: to the regular to reality. I can't get hard the

536
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:52,040
Speaker 1: ninety Days of Fiance. They don't do nothing for me.

537
00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:56,240
Speaker 1: Y'all on that light work. Y'all ain't selling VCRs. I'm

538
00:26:56,280 --> 00:27:00,959
Speaker 1: over here sucking dick for for Cheetahs. Leave me alone.

539
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:03,280
Speaker 1: Let me know when y'all actually serious about.

540
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 3: This is we I don't even know we had it,

541
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:07,639
Speaker 3: but we had like all the episodes on Cheatahs on

542
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 3: VHS that show you have how how how Deep I

543
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:10,920
Speaker 3: Have It Go?

544
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:12,920
Speaker 1: It was on DVD, but yeah, I used to have

545
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:17,240
Speaker 1: the DVD set collection of Cheaters Dog. And I'm not

546
00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 1: talking about recently. I'm talking about over ten years ago

547
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:23,359
Speaker 1: that I was. I would just throw that DVD is

548
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:28,239
Speaker 1: and why the uncensored by the way, the unsensored cheating. Now,

549
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:29,040
Speaker 1: how this was legal?

550
00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 3: I don't know, right, unsensored with no no commercial breaks, bitch.

551
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 1: Not just commercially. It's fuck the commercials. I'm talking about uncensored,

552
00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:39,439
Speaker 1: like it was showing people fucking like, oh here she

553
00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:41,440
Speaker 1: is sucking his digging the car and it's the only

554
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:43,400
Speaker 1: thing is burned out is like the face and the dick.

555
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I don't I don't know how

556
00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:50,560
Speaker 1: this is legal, but that's that's the ship I need.

557
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 1: So I like, I love trash TV. And Jerry was

558
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:54,639
Speaker 1: the king of trash.

559
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 2: Yes.

560
00:27:55,640 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 3: I remember when I was in college child, everybody used

561
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:04,440
Speaker 3: to go to class, take a nap, wig up at

562
00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:10,159
Speaker 3: six pm, motherfucking Jerry came on all through New Residence

563
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 3: Hall at Fairbel State. All the TVs was on Jerry's Springer.

564
00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 3: Because you can hear it from like sweet to Sweet room,

565
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:19,320
Speaker 3: the room, everybody piling up, and it particularly if somebody

566
00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:21,800
Speaker 3: had like a big pretty TV. Somebody pile up in

567
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 3: that room where everybody do it individually and they sweet

568
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:26,760
Speaker 3: with their cute mates, and all you was, oh, oh,

569
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:28,200
Speaker 3: and the if I gonna come out and talk about

570
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:29,160
Speaker 3: ooh did you see that?

571
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 2: So yeah, don't talk to me about how people didn't

572
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:32,240
Speaker 2: like that shit.

573
00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:36,600
Speaker 1: I used to rush home, Doc, and I yeah, you

574
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 1: was real. Weal if you was, you was up on

575
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 1: Jerry being trash back in the day, because I doubt

576
00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:44,880
Speaker 1: it was when I was a kid that this year

577
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:48,160
Speaker 1: was popular. So I was like, what is this Jerry

578
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:52,760
Speaker 1: cross the housewives could walk? Recupees came, says leash. Kat

579
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:57,840
Speaker 1: and says recipees to another after school babysitter. Yes, come on, okay.

580
00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 1: I used to rush home also, so y'all are cute

581
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 1: for the unexpected shout out. Yes, I saw the names

582
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:06,440
Speaker 1: on the orders. Just wanted to send my girl some

583
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 1: sunshine for the summer. Yellows joy. Well, thank you, Katie.

584
00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:12,440
Speaker 1: And she's the one that sent you the bag for

585
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:16,960
Speaker 1: the makeup and the toilet trees. Raphael says, I was

586
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:19,840
Speaker 1: going to talk about discord leaking, but the homie Jerry

587
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:22,360
Speaker 1: Springer died twenty days of morning worldwide should have been

588
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:25,960
Speaker 1: declared during this with no fighting or leaking. I'll be

589
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 1: back play play a sad song. Honestly, Dog, you should

590
00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 1: have had smoke come out of like the place where

591
00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:36,920
Speaker 1: the Pope dies. When Jerry died.

592
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:41,920
Speaker 2: There would never be another. Don't care what nobody say.

593
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 2: They will never be another.

594
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 1: Honestly, Like we should have had a mass paternity test

595
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 1: unveiling at his funeral and then a lot of dancing,

596
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:57,240
Speaker 1: coordinated dancing. I'm surprised that's not a TikTok tearan is

597
00:29:57,480 --> 00:30:00,560
Speaker 1: motherfuckers doing the fake paternity revealing and then doing the

598
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:01,520
Speaker 1: TikTok dance.

599
00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:04,080
Speaker 2: It was that Maury povid. Ain't that the other dude's name?

600
00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 1: Maury Yeah, may be hurting that dude that too, yeah,

601
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 1: Maury less, yeah, Maury yeah. More is like he took

602
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 1: he ran after Jerry walk. Yes he did, because Maury

603
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:18,959
Speaker 1: just like, what's because like this is the other thing

604
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:20,640
Speaker 1: about Jerry and one of the reasons y'all ain't never

605
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 1: gonna get me to turn on Jerry. I'm giving a fuck.

606
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:29,400
Speaker 1: Uh Jerry set up the Klan, Yes he did. And

607
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:31,120
Speaker 1: see this is the one I said, this is my

608
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 1: nigga because I'm sorry this man had the klu klutz

609
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:40,520
Speaker 1: Klan come on his stage, knowing what happens on this stage,

610
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:43,240
Speaker 1: and I think they thought, oh, we just gonna come

611
00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 1: out and clue klutz Klan regalia and we just gonna

612
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:50,480
Speaker 1: intimidate these negroes, the top races, and they gonna blew us,

613
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:53,200
Speaker 1: but we don't care. Look at us, talk to the

614
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 1: negroes all in their face, and they can't do shit

615
00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 1: about it. And when I tell.

616
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 3: You, it did not go the way they thought it

617
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 3: was because y'all, like I said, this is back in

618
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:07,160
Speaker 3: the day, because you know now the side you got

619
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:08,200
Speaker 3: security guards and ship.

620
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:09,520
Speaker 2: This is back in the day. But they was like,

621
00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 2: let you fight.

622
00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 1: When I tell you this man didn't even really get

623
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 1: to introduce these motherfuckers like they were. He was like, hey,

624
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 1: we got some people from the Clue cut like people

625
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 1: was beaten. That was like what the ship out of them? Like,

626
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 1: I don't even know what they were thinking. Line, I

627
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:33,640
Speaker 1: don't you know, I can find it. I don't know

628
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:37,840
Speaker 1: if it's the exact clip that will need, but uh,

629
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:42,640
Speaker 1: let me see this throwback. Jerry Springer confronts the Clue

630
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:45,080
Speaker 1: class plan. I wanted to see the baby is born.

631
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 1: When the baby is born, the baby, in a sense,

632
00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 1: at least politically and socially, it's colorblind.

633
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 2: A baby doesn't know this.

634
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:55,120
Speaker 1: This is him talking to him. No, no, no, no, I

635
00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 1: want to see the brawl because like it was, is

636
00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 1: this the whole show? A kk K family.

637
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:04,640
Speaker 2: That's ninety five? Did this is the one?

638
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 1: Not the one I'm talking about? Oh wait, hold on,

639
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 1: that's hold on. Let me see if I can get

640
00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 1: to the best Jerry Springer fight with the Klan, because

641
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 1: like this this ship was so crazy. It was literally

642
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:19,560
Speaker 1: like he was like and we got some people that's

643
00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:21,479
Speaker 1: from the clan. It's like as soon as they walked out,

644
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 1: like I ain't listening to with put me bam bam bam. Okay,

645
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 1: that's just two women boxing. Yeah that was though. Yet

646
00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 1: look and it's white dudes beating up the Klan too,

647
00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 1: Like it wasn't just no like they was. They was

648
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 1: Antifa before Antifa.

649
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 3: Dog that came out like, oh word, like, how you

650
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:50,080
Speaker 3: don't respect.

651
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:52,760
Speaker 2: This by chance being thrown I haven't seen this in years.

652
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:55,960
Speaker 2: How you don't respect this nigga's calling on stage.

653
00:32:57,440 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 1: This ain't trash TV to me, This is justice. Okay.

654
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:02,200
Speaker 2: That was white on white crime.

655
00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 1: Oh man, that's the white hood crime. Had a white

656
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:07,400
Speaker 1: collar crime. They had white hood crime.

657
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:10,600
Speaker 3: Yes, they came out like oh work, but yeah, that

658
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 3: was what you say there, brother, Like w WE.

659
00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:16,959
Speaker 1: That was my favorite dog. The KKK came out there.

660
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:20,280
Speaker 1: I said, man, what is Jered doing this bullshit? We

661
00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:22,160
Speaker 1: don't need to hear that. Oh wait, Digetting asked, what

662
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:23,080
Speaker 1: hold up?

663
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 2: Now?

664
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 1: Turn it up? Rewind you know when I was a kid.

665
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:30,960
Speaker 1: But yeah, so I disagree. I mean it was trash

666
00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:34,960
Speaker 1: shed right, but I'm disagreeed by hating it. Aaron says, whatever,

667
00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:38,600
Speaker 1: so she don't care about him dying. Marvin says, I

668
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:40,800
Speaker 1: still remember her last episode where two men were fighting

669
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:43,400
Speaker 1: over inflatable dog. Guess the race? You know the other

670
00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:45,520
Speaker 1: thing Jerry Springer used to do. And this is sneaky

671
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 1: because like a lot of nineties two thousand pop culture

672
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 1: did this. Whenever you talked about trans issues, we didn't

673
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 1: have any of the right words. It was a lot

674
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 1: of stuff that I think people may even consider slurs now,

675
00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 1: but mostly because we didn't even say transgender. We didn't

676
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 1: even like as pop culture mainstream culture. People didn't know

677
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:09,600
Speaker 1: the definition of that or whatever. So you would get transvestite, uh,

678
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:14,279
Speaker 1: the one with a why I train you know, uh

679
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:18,080
Speaker 1: uh he she like it was a bunch of shit

680
00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:22,840
Speaker 1: that we think that people. But Jerry was one of

681
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:25,839
Speaker 1: a few places where it was even talked about that

682
00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 1: people like that existed and that there were people that

683
00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:32,440
Speaker 1: loved them and that there were people that you know.

684
00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 1: And so some of it was awful because it's you know,

685
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:39,719
Speaker 1: garbage tropes and stuff and reveals and secrets and da

686
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:44,280
Speaker 1: da da. But like it was crazy because so many

687
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:47,640
Speaker 1: of the shows would end with like even one either

688
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:50,440
Speaker 1: Jerry telling you like, this person should be able to

689
00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 1: live their truth and we should be leaving this person

690
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:54,120
Speaker 1: alone even though I just made a spectacle of it

691
00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:57,000
Speaker 1: and all this shit. But then the other thing is

692
00:34:57,280 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 1: a lot of times the person they were like up

693
00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 1: there with would be like, well, nah, I love you

694
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:05,360
Speaker 1: anyway or something, and it's like, you know, they do

695
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:08,280
Speaker 1: the hilarious not hilarious uncle, but the shock and reveal

696
00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:10,920
Speaker 1: and the person and the whole artists going crazy like oh.

697
00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:20,400
Speaker 1: And it was weird because like I think, with trans

698
00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:24,319
Speaker 1: panic being a defense in court and people really trying

699
00:35:24,320 --> 00:35:26,240
Speaker 1: to use that shit like I got tricked, I should

700
00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:29,439
Speaker 1: be able to kill this person, and Jerry Springer having

701
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 1: a stage where violence took place, it was weird, not weird,

702
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:38,000
Speaker 1: but it was like somehow inclusive and project progressive in

703
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:40,400
Speaker 1: a weird way at that time of course, that he

704
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:43,319
Speaker 1: would bring people on and be like, nah, this is

705
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:46,640
Speaker 1: just a person and you can't hit them. This isn't

706
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:48,799
Speaker 1: like we have violence in this place, and you better

707
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 1: not hit this person. Like you might be hurt, you

708
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 1: might be shocked, but it ain't about that right now,

709
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:56,479
Speaker 1: you know. Like it was just kind of like that.

710
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:58,919
Speaker 1: And the same thing with like sitcoms, and they would

711
00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:02,280
Speaker 1: have like a trans person. They make fun obviously because

712
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:06,839
Speaker 1: it's sitcom and we and we did not have all

713
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 1: these words and stuff, but they make fun. But then

714
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 1: they would always kind of ending with like, this is

715
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 1: this person's life and there's a life of dignity here

716
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 1: and we should learn accept them. And even if it

717
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:18,960
Speaker 1: was some level of like I don't care what you do,

718
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, it was always a level

719
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:24,360
Speaker 1: of that, and I think you know now, you know,

720
00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 1: obviously we wouldn't make that those decisions. But you know,

721
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:30,280
Speaker 1: it wasn't all bad, is what I'm saying. It wasn't

722
00:36:30,320 --> 00:36:33,799
Speaker 1: necessarily good, It wasn't necessarily thoughtful or intelligent all the time.

723
00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:37,880
Speaker 1: It wasn't It was like a way of inclusion through trash.

724
00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:39,960
Speaker 1: I guess It's the best way to say is like

725
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:43,479
Speaker 1: I have a show about trash. Everyone comes on here

726
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 1: and then we have these moments of including all these

727
00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:49,160
Speaker 1: people from different walks of life by being like, okay,

728
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 1: but we're all trash together. You know, such terrible message,

729
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:55,879
Speaker 1: but it's true trash TV.

730
00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 2: That's literally where it came from.

731
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:00,799
Speaker 1: It's like he never had trans people come on and

732
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:03,359
Speaker 1: get bum rushed, like the KKK put it that way,

733
00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:05,799
Speaker 1: like that wasn't the point of those episodes. But still,

734
00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:08,799
Speaker 1: I still man, we lost a good one over that

735
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:11,239
Speaker 1: one with Jerry Spring. I missed more than a few

736
00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:14,759
Speaker 1: classes in college in the nineties watching him. Chicken Thile

737
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:17,319
Speaker 1: saved lives. Chicken Chicken, Chicken Chicken, says James. I don't

738
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:20,399
Speaker 1: even know what that's from, but it's true. I think

739
00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:22,520
Speaker 1: that's from the poll from last week or something. I

740
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:27,480
Speaker 1: think he time traveled episode. Wait, you know what, I

741
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:29,719
Speaker 1: need to play music so I know where to put

742
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:33,840
Speaker 1: the ads for me and get money. So give me

743
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:37,759
Speaker 1: a second to set up some music here so we

744
00:37:37,800 --> 00:38:13,560
Speaker 1: can get this money. Boom song, said Buddha. Steve Wilcos

745
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:17,200
Speaker 1: though agreed Steve ain't had a charisma, he was not

746
00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 1: as good. Steve was the bodyguard from Springer, and he

747
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 1: tried to he got too big for his britches and

748
00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:26,400
Speaker 1: tried to make like his own like, oh look at me,

749
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:31,239
Speaker 1: I'm doing a show with paternity tests. And the fan

750
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 1: Steve is that Steve always wanted to beat people up,

751
00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:36,640
Speaker 1: so then he would like yelp people up as part

752
00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:38,759
Speaker 1: of his brand, where he'd be like, you're not gonna

753
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:40,920
Speaker 1: talk to her like that or whatever, and it just

754
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:43,480
Speaker 1: don't hit the same like Jerry was never getting involved

755
00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:46,319
Speaker 1: in the fight to talk to people. Yeah, so like

756
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:51,359
Speaker 1: Steve Steve shit didn't work. But anyway, twenty seven oh

757
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:54,719
Speaker 1: four probably got a bullet was the name of this episode.

758
00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:59,439
Speaker 1: We got three comments ip your says HPV related throat

759
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:02,160
Speaker 1: cancer again, the fact that I'm caught in a happy marriage.

760
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:04,440
Speaker 1: This is not open. That that is not open, that

761
00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 1: has absolutely no time and energy to cheat. And I'm

762
00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:09,160
Speaker 1: also not a cheater. I couldn't do it and I

763
00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:11,600
Speaker 1: still be in the relationship. I would die from guilt

764
00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:14,920
Speaker 1: on day one. It's saying me is saving me from sickness,

765
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:19,239
Speaker 1: high fiving myself. Well, here's the thing, ip here, I

766
00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:22,680
Speaker 1: believe in you. I think you could be a cheaterh

767
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:25,840
Speaker 1: if you wanted to. You know, I don't think you

768
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:29,919
Speaker 1: should limit yourself like that. I'm not saying you should.

769
00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:33,040
Speaker 2: Cheat, but this whole thing is possibility.

770
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:35,719
Speaker 1: I couldn't do it and I die from guilt. I

771
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:37,440
Speaker 1: don't know, man, I think you could do it and

772
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:39,400
Speaker 1: you wouldn't die from guilt. I'm not saying give it

773
00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:42,400
Speaker 1: a try, but you know, just know that we believe

774
00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:45,279
Speaker 1: in you here, don't don't don't ever say you can't

775
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:50,520
Speaker 1: do something. Yeah, disagree even he says, damn Shane, what

776
00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:53,200
Speaker 1: they did to that poor bird? Now going down on

777
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:54,799
Speaker 1: a woman as a sign of love. If you ain't

778
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:57,080
Speaker 1: willing to resk throat cancer for me, I don't want you.

779
00:39:57,400 --> 00:40:03,279
Speaker 1: Oh no, was DJ Collin right? Yes? Or no? Was

780
00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:05,480
Speaker 1: the poll? Oh wait? Let me make sure there's no

781
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 1: comments on YouTube real quick? One comment? All right? Wait?

782
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:14,799
Speaker 1: Why is the comment showing up? What does it mean

783
00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:16,680
Speaker 1: when say? One comment? I can't see it.

784
00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:17,279
Speaker 3: I don't know.

785
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:21,640
Speaker 1: Oh here, this is all right? You are No, you

786
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:26,520
Speaker 1: are not ready, says The only thing I'm aware of

787
00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:29,360
Speaker 1: Morgan Freeman accomplishing with that crusade of his is to

788
00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:32,560
Speaker 1: get itself quoted by racist right wingers and memes, and

789
00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 1: they use it in bad faith to make it seem

790
00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:37,319
Speaker 1: like he's on their side. Yes, because Morgan Freeman says

791
00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:40,879
Speaker 1: he doesn't believe and he doesn't like Black History Month

792
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:44,400
Speaker 1: or being called black or African American or something like that.

793
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:47,480
Speaker 1: Anyone who's heard him talk about any other racial topic. No,

794
00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:50,239
Speaker 1: it's pretty clear he's not. But people like that don't care,

795
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:53,600
Speaker 1: like he will say there's no White History Month, And

796
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:56,239
Speaker 1: the point he thinks he's making is the opposite of

797
00:40:56,280 --> 00:40:58,919
Speaker 1: what right wingers are saying, that we shouldn't be talking

798
00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:01,359
Speaker 1: about black history at all, which, by the way, we

799
00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 1: know is a major agenda item for them when they

800
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 1: have political power, and they just pretend he in Greece. Yeah,

801
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:09,359
Speaker 1: I just feel like I don't know what he gets

802
00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:11,520
Speaker 1: out of saying it, just because that's you're right, that's

803
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:14,839
Speaker 1: what it always comes down to. So it's always used for,

804
00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:17,880
Speaker 1: and it just pissed off other black people because we

805
00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 1: don't want to hear the shit either. So like I

806
00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:21,600
Speaker 1: don't even really know who he impressed him with that,

807
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:27,360
Speaker 1: you know, saying but yeah, that that was the comments there.

808
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:32,319
Speaker 1: The poe was DJ Colle right, Yes, or no, twelve percent, yes,

809
00:41:32,680 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 1: eighty eight percent No. So even with HPV on his side,

810
00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:42,280
Speaker 1: y'all like, nah, he was wrong, you gotta go down. Meanwhile,

811
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:45,959
Speaker 1: the people with money thirty three percent, yes, sixty seven

812
00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 1: percent no on Spotify. Wow, So they said DJ colleg

813
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:54,520
Speaker 1: was right. Okay, they don't want the HPV. Now. I

814
00:41:54,560 --> 00:41:56,880
Speaker 1: don't know that that was his reasoning, but I don't know.

815
00:41:57,200 --> 00:41:59,400
Speaker 1: I feel like he's in his house with a diagram

816
00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 1: right now, convincing, trying to convince his wife that he

817
00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:09,840
Speaker 1: had a point. He always knew about that HPV for you,

818
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:12,799
Speaker 1: That's what I was saying. It wasn't about all that

819
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:15,560
Speaker 1: other stuff I said. It was about you knew. I

820
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 1: love you, you the best, Steph him Curry, Yes, Karen's

821
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 1: very sweet to tell her he wouldn't go down on her.

822
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:25,839
Speaker 1: Uh Steph him Kerry No, was too like, you can't

823
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 1: take it back and say, oh see the beg uh

824
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:32,320
Speaker 1: huh exactly. That's how it works, James, That's how to

825
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:36,480
Speaker 1: get you. Parrot probably want a dead cracker woman Bang

826
00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 1: recipes African parrot. Uh Walla says, I'm a Calves. You

827
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:45,239
Speaker 1: know how I feel. Furthermore, Uh Morgan Freeman has joined

828
00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:47,200
Speaker 1: the group of old black folk who need to stop talking.

829
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 1: Shout to Jim Brown. Oh damn. Chris says the HPV

830
00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:54,040
Speaker 1: vaccine can prevent throat and throat and cervical cancer, but

831
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:56,600
Speaker 1: the shots need to be a minister before people come sexually,

832
00:42:56,640 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 1: it's active hashtag. The more you know it was too

833
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:00,480
Speaker 1: for me.

834
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:00,839
Speaker 3: Dog.

835
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:02,920
Speaker 1: I hate to say it, but I'm your boys active

836
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:06,279
Speaker 1: about you. Okay, you don't sell I'm pat it up.

837
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:11,360
Speaker 1: Clear Lane says, I used to work at CFA for orders.

838
00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 1: You can input a name, table marker, dying in shirt color,

839
00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:18,080
Speaker 1: takeout and or car color and type. If I didn't

840
00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:20,280
Speaker 1: hear the name right, then I would use other inputs.

841
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:23,120
Speaker 1: Oh so you'd be like, oh blue shirt, Okay, that

842
00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:26,800
Speaker 1: makes sense. Not me personally. I was said nigger face.

843
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:30,520
Speaker 1: Now see you may think that's controversially. Ain't gonna get

844
00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:32,959
Speaker 1: me in trouble, But that's why I say the white

845
00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:34,560
Speaker 1: people typed it. You see what I'm saying. I just

846
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:37,320
Speaker 1: set them up. Can we have a moment of silence

847
00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:40,480
Speaker 1: for African parent I've arranged a healing trip to Africa

848
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 1: for everyone hurt by this hate. Chron let's bond and

849
00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:45,880
Speaker 1: hell together see me for details. Pro take African parents

850
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:46,520
Speaker 1: as I feel.

851
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:46,719
Speaker 4: No.

852
00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:53,000
Speaker 1: Kentrell says, not my mama bird, Mama bird. That's good,

853
00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:58,960
Speaker 1: all right. Next episode is twenty seven five. While Lives

854
00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:04,160
Speaker 1: Matter got Folk comments Rowland. Raphael says, now Stephen A

855
00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:06,799
Speaker 1: Smith voice had to come out after seeing the good

856
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 1: brother Risby. Now I know that brother Risbee, and I

857
00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:13,280
Speaker 1: tell you one shot of Indonesia vodka was too damn

858
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 1: much for him. However, sunstroke will make a good white

859
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:21,760
Speaker 1: man hurt, innocent Boston. So I appealed to my friends

860
00:44:21,800 --> 00:44:25,919
Speaker 1: at the Sharia course in Indonesia. Lot that good man

861
00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:30,560
Speaker 1: free back to his confentry. Now, if he had had

862
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:33,839
Speaker 1: two shots of that vodka, I'd be the first to say,

863
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:38,239
Speaker 1: flogger is asking thrown ocean free. Brisbie, so I guess

864
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:45,560
Speaker 1: he other sed Appia from Germany says, I'm pretty sure

865
00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:47,799
Speaker 1: that discrimination for fat people is way worse than for

866
00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:50,719
Speaker 1: skinny people. But I also believe that every kind of

867
00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:53,719
Speaker 1: body can be criticized and the owner quote unquote made

868
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:56,120
Speaker 1: to feel bad about themselves. When I was younger, I

869
00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:58,360
Speaker 1: always felt too fat, and I was never fat, but

870
00:44:58,480 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 1: I was regular sized maybe well, but my biggest and

871
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:04,480
Speaker 1: not heroin shee thin, I'm tall. When I was younger,

872
00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:07,480
Speaker 1: I was told that straight hair was ugly. Oh straight

873
00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:10,920
Speaker 1: hair got laiter properar, I know, and that I needed curls.

874
00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:13,080
Speaker 1: Also that I was too pale and I needed tan.

875
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:15,480
Speaker 1: It's always something. Now I'm over forty and I don't

876
00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 1: get criticism anymore, and I love it. But I'm also

877
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:19,719
Speaker 1: not a celeb on social media.

878
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:24,080
Speaker 3: And the thing is, particularly being a straight I just

879
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:26,320
Speaker 3: said from a straight woman, you get criticism. You die

880
00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:28,719
Speaker 3: like I was excited, but like this, you just don't

881
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:30,560
Speaker 3: hear it. And you know, once you reach certain nations,

882
00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:32,839
Speaker 3: just don't give a fuck anymore, or you shouldn't give

883
00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:35,319
Speaker 3: a fuck anymore, and you should just fucking live your

884
00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:37,680
Speaker 3: life because that shit will drive you crazy until you

885
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 3: die if you let all these opinions around you affect you.

886
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:45,600
Speaker 3: And it's one of those things where just being born

887
00:45:45,680 --> 00:45:49,560
Speaker 3: a woman is a problem. You know, it's something is

888
00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 3: wrong with you, like just you existing, your existence is

889
00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:54,719
Speaker 3: something wrong with you.

890
00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:57,359
Speaker 2: And everything that you are.

891
00:45:57,880 --> 00:46:00,839
Speaker 3: People are going to say how you shouldn't be that

892
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:04,040
Speaker 3: and everything that you uh, yeah, everything that you are.

893
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:05,959
Speaker 3: People are going to say the opposite.

894
00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:08,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, people always got something to say about your parents

895
00:46:08,200 --> 00:46:10,279
Speaker 1: and your body. It's a service level thing. We can

896
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:14,440
Speaker 1: all judge. Motherfuckers be alcoholics talk about fat people. Motherfuckers

897
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 1: can be right, you know, smoking package they talk about

898
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:20,440
Speaker 1: a fat person, motherfuckers can be because it's just as

899
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:23,040
Speaker 1: easy as visual. There's a lot of assumptions that can

900
00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:28,120
Speaker 1: be made, period. And it's also why people gravitate and

901
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:32,000
Speaker 1: love to see like a fat person that like doesn't

902
00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:34,319
Speaker 1: care because at the end, inside of a lot of

903
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:37,480
Speaker 1: people is this idea of I would like to not care.

904
00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:39,320
Speaker 1: And a lot of the people that you see in

905
00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:42,359
Speaker 1: the bodies that they're in, they're in those bodies because

906
00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:44,399
Speaker 1: they care so much and they're obsessed with what people

907
00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:46,960
Speaker 1: think so much, and what their parents said to them

908
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:48,799
Speaker 1: got to them, or what their peers said to them

909
00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:51,560
Speaker 1: got to them, or what the the gender they're attracted

910
00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:53,719
Speaker 1: to got to them, or what they're you know, like

911
00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:58,400
Speaker 1: they're there, it got to them. And I think whether

912
00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 1: it's rightful or not when you see, like the way

913
00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:05,400
Speaker 1: a lot of the power and emphasis we put on

914
00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:08,799
Speaker 1: people like Lizzo is because in our minds we're imagining

915
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:13,600
Speaker 1: here's a person that doesn't care, and that's real freedom,

916
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:18,000
Speaker 1: and that she doesn't she knows how people feel about

917
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:20,680
Speaker 1: her body, and she doesn't accept that in and start

918
00:47:20,760 --> 00:47:26,080
Speaker 1: living for them. And I think for a lot of

919
00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:29,640
Speaker 1: people it's almost impossible for them to imagine that, you know,

920
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:32,120
Speaker 1: it's almost you know, it's like you owe your body

921
00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:34,400
Speaker 1: to the rest of the world, Like you need to

922
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:36,960
Speaker 1: make us want to fuck you. You need to make

923
00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:39,520
Speaker 1: us not want to look at you unless it's to

924
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:43,680
Speaker 1: covet you. You need to show your participating in the

925
00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:47,360
Speaker 1: societal standards that we have dealt with, Like we've decided,

926
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:53,799
Speaker 1: and everyone has a thing, and so I think it's

927
00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:57,440
Speaker 1: interesting to see how like to me, I think the

928
00:47:57,480 --> 00:48:02,200
Speaker 1: more stories that are told the better because it deconstructs

929
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:04,480
Speaker 1: that everyone. It deconstructs the myth that there's a certain

930
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 1: type of body that has no pressure on it. And

931
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:11,240
Speaker 1: so when you see somebody who is conventionally considered attractive

932
00:48:11,239 --> 00:48:13,080
Speaker 1: and they're telling you about their struggles, I'm not trying

933
00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:15,480
Speaker 1: to shut them up or try to know, push them

934
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:18,960
Speaker 1: out of the conversation. And as you alluded to, it

935
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:21,680
Speaker 1: doesn't mean it's the same. Like there's a certain level

936
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:24,440
Speaker 1: of privilege attached to societal standards in the way it

937
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:26,959
Speaker 1: looks at people's bodies and skin color and skin tone

938
00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 1: and all this shit. There is there's truth to that,

939
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:32,279
Speaker 1: and we can live in that truth and also be

940
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:35,279
Speaker 1: like which means there's pressure on other people as well,

941
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:37,480
Speaker 1: just not the same kind of pressure and maybe not

942
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:41,239
Speaker 1: equal pressure. And those benefits that they receive for that

943
00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:44,440
Speaker 1: pressure that they're yielding to or not yielding to. There

944
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:48,120
Speaker 1: are other people who obviously will receive the detriments, not

945
00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:50,160
Speaker 1: the benefits. And I think all of that can be

946
00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:54,120
Speaker 1: talked about in this conversation, but too often I find

947
00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 1: that it's really more of an anger filter for people,

948
00:48:57,600 --> 00:48:59,680
Speaker 1: and it's not really about having a conversation. It's not

949
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:03,879
Speaker 1: really about everyone taking a turn to speak, and it's

950
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:06,400
Speaker 1: really more about dominance, and it's about people that haven't

951
00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:09,600
Speaker 1: reconciled the anger they have towards other folks, which is

952
00:49:09,600 --> 00:49:12,279
Speaker 1: why we end up in this situation where we feel

953
00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:14,800
Speaker 1: like we need to attack somebody, as if they're the

954
00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:17,680
Speaker 1: people that impose the standards, when they're just a person

955
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:18,760
Speaker 1: getting by.

956
00:49:19,640 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 2: Yep, just like everybody else.

957
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:24,880
Speaker 3: And I've come to the conclusion that a lot of

958
00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:28,240
Speaker 3: people feel trapped and they feel locked and they feel

959
00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:32,919
Speaker 3: chained and because I feel like this, and how dare

960
00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:34,920
Speaker 3: you be free? So I'm gonna take the change that

961
00:49:34,960 --> 00:49:37,680
Speaker 3: I have, throw them up and pull you down, because

962
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:39,239
Speaker 3: at the end of the day, they want you to

963
00:49:39,239 --> 00:49:43,160
Speaker 3: feel as sad and it's depressed and as uncomfortable in.

964
00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:46,360
Speaker 2: Your body as they do. Every day you wake up and.

965
00:49:46,280 --> 00:49:49,120
Speaker 3: You're like, you know, fucking I'm fat, fucking I'm skinny, fucking,

966
00:49:49,160 --> 00:49:52,399
Speaker 3: I'm this, fucking I'm that those people look at you

967
00:49:52,800 --> 00:49:55,960
Speaker 3: and that sadness, that anger that turns to sad.

968
00:49:56,080 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 1: Yess, I'll never understand where the anger at people comes from,

969
00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:04,000
Speaker 1: because like the anger towards Lizzo is one of the

970
00:50:04,040 --> 00:50:06,600
Speaker 1: most telling things. And you can hear the people's voices

971
00:50:06,640 --> 00:50:09,200
Speaker 1: even when they're trying to be supportive as like an

972
00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:12,359
Speaker 1: undertone of like angry, like if that's just what you're

973
00:50:12,360 --> 00:50:15,560
Speaker 1: gonna do type of feeling, And it's like, why aren't

974
00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:18,880
Speaker 1: you examining where that's coming from? Because I feel like

975
00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:21,280
Speaker 1: there's something there that you don't want to talk about.

976
00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:23,719
Speaker 1: You think you're talking about Lizard, but you're really talking

977
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:26,640
Speaker 1: about your own views about fat people and stuff and

978
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:32,520
Speaker 1: it's the hostility, you know that, because like we're the

979
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:34,600
Speaker 1: same people that just went watched everyone at the met

980
00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:37,200
Speaker 1: Gaalap be scantily clad, and we were all going up

981
00:50:37,239 --> 00:50:41,239
Speaker 1: for it, you know, like it's very anyway, it's more

982
00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:44,720
Speaker 1: to it. Let's see how Lotus Flower says the Tosa

983
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:48,280
Speaker 1: Strudel slanger. Lol. Yeah, you should listen to this pregame

984
00:50:48,320 --> 00:50:51,719
Speaker 1: episode we had about it. Even he says, I lived

985
00:50:51,760 --> 00:50:53,920
Speaker 1: for old Man Ta when Quincy Jones came out a

986
00:50:53,920 --> 00:50:56,120
Speaker 1: few years ago with all that tea, it was steaming.

987
00:50:56,480 --> 00:50:58,799
Speaker 1: I just know Smoky has a cat daddy. It was

988
00:50:58,840 --> 00:51:01,200
Speaker 1: a cat daddy back in the day. Come on, was

989
00:51:01,280 --> 00:51:03,719
Speaker 1: he like a cat daddy? Now? He was a good

990
00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:07,040
Speaker 1: he was a good dude, looking dude in a prolific songwriter.

991
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:09,600
Speaker 1: Hope he spills more. I'm waiting for Morgan Freeman and

992
00:51:09,640 --> 00:51:11,680
Speaker 1: Samuel l to start spelling, because I know that to

993
00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:14,600
Speaker 1: you will be piping hot. Morgan might tell you. I

994
00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:17,160
Speaker 1: don't know Sam gonna do it. Sam also been married

995
00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:21,360
Speaker 1: a long time, so I hope, you know, And like

996
00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 1: I think he was mad when he was down bad

997
00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:25,560
Speaker 1: and she held him down. So I really hope he

998
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:27,960
Speaker 1: don't have a bunch of I was fucking everybody's stories.

999
00:51:28,000 --> 00:51:28,719
Speaker 2: I don't think he did.

1000
00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:31,319
Speaker 1: Maybe he will, but I'm not looking forward to his.

1001
00:51:31,440 --> 00:51:36,879
Speaker 1: And he got comments on YouTube. We got one. As

1002
00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:39,360
Speaker 1: Carter says, I was and still am, on the not

1003
00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:42,360
Speaker 1: my business train about Brian McKnight. But there was a

1004
00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:44,560
Speaker 1: post that he put out to explain how he is

1005
00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:47,439
Speaker 1: a good father, and it for me proved he ain't shit.

1006
00:51:47,520 --> 00:51:50,600
Speaker 1: But again, not my problem. Yeah, Like I said, as

1007
00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:52,760
Speaker 1: we were, I was reading that stuff for the first time,

1008
00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:56,200
Speaker 1: and I like, I'm like the way people were talking.

1009
00:51:56,239 --> 00:52:00,120
Speaker 1: They were and it's just because of hyperbolic conversation on

1010
00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:03,319
Speaker 1: social media. It was very much like a y'all didn't know,

1011
00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:06,200
Speaker 1: oh so, y'all just was oh so so now y'all

1012
00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:10,560
Speaker 1: saying and it's like, we didn't know, And of course

1013
00:52:10,600 --> 00:52:13,880
Speaker 1: people's first response is, hey, so when when did this happen?

1014
00:52:13,920 --> 00:52:16,200
Speaker 1: Where are you getting this proofd from? Y'all are saying

1015
00:52:16,239 --> 00:52:18,560
Speaker 1: things without proving it or linking it to anything. Y'all

1016
00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:21,160
Speaker 1: just saying shit and then getting mad at everybody for

1017
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:24,840
Speaker 1: not piling on with you. You ain't even got everybody

1018
00:52:24,920 --> 00:52:28,239
Speaker 1: up to speed yet, you know, And honestly, like I'm

1019
00:52:28,239 --> 00:52:30,239
Speaker 1: not obligated to power on with you. I can still

1020
00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:32,640
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, that seems pretty shitty and move on

1021
00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:37,960
Speaker 1: my fucking day. On't like it's so funny. We're talking

1022
00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:42,279
Speaker 1: about Brian McKnight in twenty twenty three, who even supports him?

1023
00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:44,319
Speaker 2: This nigga came out with music.

1024
00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:46,759
Speaker 1: Like are we like, what's up Brian McKnight staying? Look

1025
00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:49,000
Speaker 1: like in twenty twenty three, right like who got the

1026
00:52:49,040 --> 00:52:51,680
Speaker 1: Brian McKnight toward T shirts? Like why are we even

1027
00:52:51,719 --> 00:52:54,080
Speaker 1: pretending like he's being upheld by a lot of people.

1028
00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:56,640
Speaker 1: It's like we must protect this brother. Like it's not

1029
00:52:56,719 --> 00:52:59,799
Speaker 1: even like that. But oh man, sorry, I just had

1030
00:52:59,800 --> 00:53:05,200
Speaker 1: that realization anyway. I mean it's funny, you know, because

1031
00:53:05,200 --> 00:53:08,520
Speaker 1: I never felt this way about until now.

1032
00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:11,719
Speaker 3: Oh and you know what, I definitely to go back

1033
00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:16,200
Speaker 3: to uh Samuel Jackson's no, the Director of Shield will

1034
00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:17,359
Speaker 3: not be sharing.

1035
00:53:17,120 --> 00:53:21,800
Speaker 2: All his uh party going on. He's a director of Shield. Damnit.

1036
00:53:24,160 --> 00:53:26,440
Speaker 2: That ship is classified. We will never know.

1037
00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:29,680
Speaker 1: Uh, but yes, Scroll did it.

1038
00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:31,520
Speaker 3: If it come out, you know what I'm gonna say,

1039
00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:36,160
Speaker 3: Scroll did it that with him?

1040
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:37,320
Speaker 2: I would be in denial.

1041
00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:48,120
Speaker 3: Ain't gonna lie, all right, that's that's that's what I said.

1042
00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:57,000
Speaker 2: I'm sticking to it. He took a trip to Tahiti. Yep,

1043
00:53:57,400 --> 00:53:58,600
Speaker 2: I'm sticking with that story.

1044
00:53:58,840 --> 00:54:04,480
Speaker 1: Okay. The pole, uh As, y'all don't watch Agents and Shield.

1045
00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:06,040
Speaker 1: I guess y'all probably don't get.

1046
00:54:05,880 --> 00:54:10,080
Speaker 3: Some don't get the references the people to understand what

1047
00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 3: the fuck I'm talking about the pole?

1048
00:54:11,640 --> 00:54:14,440
Speaker 1: Juwanna man too good idea? Bad idea?

1049
00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:18,520
Speaker 2: Do you want to too good idea?

1050
00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:20,640
Speaker 1: I don't care a twenty four percent agree with you

1051
00:54:20,719 --> 00:54:24,360
Speaker 1: good idea? Between seventy six cent people say no. And

1052
00:54:24,440 --> 00:54:28,000
Speaker 1: it's the exact almost exact same on the Spotify people

1053
00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:30,520
Speaker 1: say stay away from this one. Guys, Okay, it's not

1054
00:54:30,600 --> 00:54:31,279
Speaker 1: gonna work out.

1055
00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:34,399
Speaker 2: I feel like that at first, but then I thought

1056
00:54:34,400 --> 00:54:36,560
Speaker 2: about it, fuck it, remake it? Who cas? Who gets

1057
00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 2: the fuck? He just gonna make money or not?

1058
00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:43,240
Speaker 1: And then the quote for Spotify was hotown JL coved

1059
00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:47,040
Speaker 1: comedy genius. He'll be on the show next week. By

1060
00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:49,400
Speaker 1: the way, I think it's Monday. I think.

1061
00:54:49,960 --> 00:54:50,120
Speaker 2: Uh.

1062
00:54:50,200 --> 00:54:52,759
Speaker 1: Wallace says, are you sure that wasn't Kylo ren over

1063
00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:55,880
Speaker 1: in the UK slicing up walls with the sword. Kaden says,

1064
00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:58,680
Speaker 1: we gotta wait for chipping Ham to return his gun

1065
00:54:58,760 --> 00:55:01,759
Speaker 1: hold on. Meanwhile, chipping Hammerson, the real is a real

1066
00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:05,080
Speaker 1: city over here. Oh I made a joke about that. Uh,

1067
00:55:05,200 --> 00:55:09,680
Speaker 1: it's not far away from Lucock Abby at church. I

1068
00:55:09,680 --> 00:55:13,720
Speaker 1: had to visit Lucock Abby. Okay, did they have a

1069
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:21,960
Speaker 1: big black look? They have a bb C Abby over there.

1070
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Speaker 1: You know y'all got the BBC. Yeah, y'all got the

1071
00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:30,600
Speaker 1: big the big back of the clock. Lock. Uh lick,

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00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:33,799
Speaker 1: Jay says, I passed out when you said check the

1073
00:55:33,800 --> 00:55:39,400
Speaker 1: weather report, chance of flog? Thank you, Jay. You know

1074
00:55:39,719 --> 00:55:42,719
Speaker 1: we're over here doing it. We over here making fun sometimes,

1075
00:55:43,600 --> 00:55:46,640
Speaker 1: all right. Last episode of the week was two and

1076
00:55:46,680 --> 00:55:51,319
Speaker 1: the seven oh seven gone too late. We had six comments.

1077
00:55:52,480 --> 00:55:54,680
Speaker 1: Appy says, I think you can have your preferences with dating.

1078
00:55:54,719 --> 00:55:57,799
Speaker 1: That's normal. But when you start with who you won't date,

1079
00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:00,200
Speaker 1: you will hurt some people. So don't I know that

1080
00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:02,480
Speaker 1: white Supremaci is a very bad thing. But however, he

1081
00:56:02,600 --> 00:56:05,480
Speaker 1: usually to explaining her prefaces, she lost me. Not everyone

1082
00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:09,960
Speaker 1: can be over average by definition, if it makes sense.

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00:56:10,320 --> 00:56:13,640
Speaker 3: Man, Oh my god, the season ded motherfucker's out there

1084
00:56:13,680 --> 00:56:15,520
Speaker 3: that that live the best lives.

1085
00:56:15,800 --> 00:56:17,600
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that was a tweet that made me

1086
00:56:17,680 --> 00:56:26,000
Speaker 1: laugh so hard about this. Yesterday, Oh my god, uh.

1087
00:56:24,600 --> 00:56:28,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, everybody average my girl, my girl.

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00:56:28,120 --> 00:56:34,000
Speaker 1: Jenisia from Tea Queen and ju had had Uh tweeted

1089
00:56:34,040 --> 00:56:39,840
Speaker 1: about Ebony K. Williams as she said, what was it

1090
00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:47,040
Speaker 1: every Everony's starting to sound like doctor hardssa olayaka Ali

1091
00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:51,720
Speaker 1: Youngman pre pre pH d Ladies catch show.

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00:56:52,160 --> 00:57:01,040
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, yeah, Oh my god, man, I just oh

1093
00:57:01,160 --> 00:57:06,320
Speaker 6: my god, who oh that was so funny because.

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00:57:06,120 --> 00:57:09,200
Speaker 1: Because like once she turned into a macro thing, I

1095
00:57:09,200 --> 00:57:11,719
Speaker 1: think it just got stupid. It's just I'm sorry, it

1096
00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:14,799
Speaker 1: just you can have your personal preference. I really don't care.

1097
00:57:14,880 --> 00:57:16,960
Speaker 1: But once she started talking about that means you got

1098
00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:20,440
Speaker 1: c's and d's and I'm not standing for anything with

1099
00:57:20,560 --> 00:57:22,760
Speaker 1: black excellence. And by the way, my mama was a

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00:57:22,760 --> 00:57:25,600
Speaker 1: bus driver with us C and D getting dumb ass.

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00:57:25,680 --> 00:57:27,600
Speaker 1: I guess I don't know, Like it was just like

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00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:30,720
Speaker 1: what girl, well you all over the place. You could

1103
00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:32,400
Speaker 1: have just stopped with. I said what I said, I'm

1104
00:57:32,400 --> 00:57:34,160
Speaker 1: not dating the dust bus driver. It's not like we

1105
00:57:34,160 --> 00:57:37,640
Speaker 1: was looking at your Instagram trying to see Oh I see,

1106
00:57:37,680 --> 00:57:39,720
Speaker 1: she ain't got with a bus driver yet, Like we

1107
00:57:39,760 --> 00:57:40,280
Speaker 1: didn't care.

1108
00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:42,840
Speaker 2: We didn't care, actually still don't care.

1109
00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:45,360
Speaker 1: We didn't need to know about the classism of it.

1110
00:57:45,400 --> 00:57:48,200
Speaker 1: We didn't need to know, you know, any of that shit.

1111
00:57:48,240 --> 00:57:50,400
Speaker 1: And I didn't need to see the people, you know,

1112
00:57:50,560 --> 00:57:52,400
Speaker 1: like the same way I don't agree with the people

1113
00:57:52,600 --> 00:57:55,000
Speaker 1: being like you need to lower your stand just why

1114
00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:56,880
Speaker 1: you ain't got no man, I don't have to agree

1115
00:57:56,920 --> 00:58:01,080
Speaker 1: with the like bus drivers or somehow mediocre to bad

1116
00:58:01,120 --> 00:58:03,280
Speaker 1: people or something. It was very weird. It's just weird.

1117
00:58:03,400 --> 00:58:08,800
Speaker 1: It's just weird. It's all weird, guys. Okay, she says,

1118
00:58:08,840 --> 00:58:11,000
Speaker 1: if everyone improves, the average will go up. And I'm

1119
00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:13,240
Speaker 1: bored with the gender expectations of man can provide by

1120
00:58:13,240 --> 00:58:16,240
Speaker 1: taking care of childcare, for example, not only by earning money. Yeah,

1121
00:58:16,280 --> 00:58:18,400
Speaker 1: people don't want to deconstruct any of this shit, and

1122
00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:20,280
Speaker 1: it's just we're one foot in, one foot out, and

1123
00:58:20,320 --> 00:58:23,200
Speaker 1: we don't want to. We're we're such a trick bag

1124
00:58:23,280 --> 00:58:27,360
Speaker 1: because of patriarchy and capitalism and stuff, and we partially

1125
00:58:27,400 --> 00:58:30,040
Speaker 1: believe in it when it's convenient and we don't when

1126
00:58:30,080 --> 00:58:34,840
Speaker 1: it's not, and we don't typically want to truly deconstructing

1127
00:58:35,160 --> 00:58:37,680
Speaker 1: and engage in it in that way. So we end

1128
00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:41,160
Speaker 1: up with this kind of half assed analysis and relationship

1129
00:58:41,200 --> 00:58:44,439
Speaker 1: advice and rules and all this stuff that don't really

1130
00:58:44,480 --> 00:58:50,280
Speaker 1: apply because everyone's a fucking individual. And you know, I

1131
00:58:50,280 --> 00:58:53,160
Speaker 1: think it's one of the reasons that people look at

1132
00:58:54,520 --> 00:58:57,560
Speaker 1: relationships and their workers and we're so fascinated with them

1133
00:58:57,600 --> 00:59:00,960
Speaker 1: because they are individual and we and we like to

1134
00:59:01,000 --> 00:59:03,520
Speaker 1: see how everyone's breaking or changing the rules and making

1135
00:59:03,520 --> 00:59:06,760
Speaker 1: it for themselves. I think people like that stuff, especially

1136
00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:10,680
Speaker 1: when it's working. But uh yeah, I think it gets

1137
00:59:10,800 --> 00:59:12,520
Speaker 1: it gets bogged down in the wheez when we start

1138
00:59:12,600 --> 00:59:16,760
Speaker 1: making it so individual that we I mean, when we

1139
00:59:16,800 --> 00:59:20,480
Speaker 1: start taking our individual and making it go a ground

1140
00:59:20,520 --> 00:59:24,280
Speaker 1: room for everyone else. I don't think. I don't think

1141
00:59:25,040 --> 00:59:28,720
Speaker 1: that I would. I feel confidence saying there's zero brothers

1142
00:59:28,800 --> 00:59:32,919
Speaker 1: that stopped being bus drivers and went to go sign

1143
00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:36,760
Speaker 1: up for law school yesterday because Ebony K Williams said

1144
00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:40,280
Speaker 1: to get in her draws. That's what you guys to do. Zero.

1145
00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:43,080
Speaker 1: That's not like so I don't even really know why

1146
00:59:43,120 --> 00:59:45,720
Speaker 1: it's that like it's like it's a big fight. It's

1147
00:59:45,760 --> 00:59:48,720
Speaker 1: like I don't even I don't think Abny take the bus,

1148
00:59:48,880 --> 00:59:50,600
Speaker 1: she don't she gets she don't got to take the

1149
00:59:50,600 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 1: bus energy. She she don't even run into these dudes.

1150
00:59:54,160 --> 00:59:57,680
Speaker 1: It's like, what are we talking about? Literally, I think

1151
00:59:57,680 --> 00:59:59,520
Speaker 1: it was a yaller that brought up bus driver. She

1152
00:59:59,520 --> 01:00:01,520
Speaker 1: could have said any other profession and we be talking

1153
01:00:01,520 --> 01:00:04,000
Speaker 1: about that. It's just it just is what it is. Like,

1154
01:00:04,080 --> 01:00:06,880
Speaker 1: dating by nature is very exclusionary for a lot of people.

1155
01:00:06,920 --> 01:00:09,320
Speaker 1: It's very this is what I won't deal with. It's like,

1156
01:00:09,360 --> 01:00:10,960
Speaker 1: that's what you kind of have to be on. And

1157
01:00:11,720 --> 01:00:13,720
Speaker 1: once we start expressing that on a macro, man, you're

1158
01:00:13,720 --> 01:00:15,600
Speaker 1: gonna hurt people feelings. It is what it is. Yes,

1159
01:00:15,680 --> 01:00:20,000
Speaker 1: you are, you know, just the same way that I

1160
01:00:20,000 --> 01:00:22,360
Speaker 1: don't think it's personal when someone says I don't date

1161
01:00:22,400 --> 01:00:24,600
Speaker 1: people with children, But when you say you don't date

1162
01:00:24,600 --> 01:00:26,360
Speaker 1: people with children, there's a lot of people with children

1163
01:00:26,360 --> 01:00:28,800
Speaker 1: that's in the dating game. Like, man, fuck you then

1164
01:00:29,720 --> 01:00:31,600
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like it's cool that you

1165
01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:34,480
Speaker 1: up front body blah blah blah your preference, but you

1166
01:00:34,640 --> 01:00:39,400
Speaker 1: just told me your preference was fucked me. So yeah,

1167
01:00:39,440 --> 01:00:42,560
Speaker 1: they gonna return their energy. People are human. My mom

1168
01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:47,000
Speaker 1: is seventy. This is Brooklyn Shoe Babe applying to Apia.

1169
01:00:47,240 --> 01:00:49,360
Speaker 1: My mom is seventy. About ten or fifteen years ago.

1170
01:00:49,400 --> 01:00:51,160
Speaker 1: She confesses she puts up with some bs and her

1171
01:00:51,160 --> 01:00:53,560
Speaker 1: marriage because she likes the comfort that provides her, a

1172
01:00:53,560 --> 01:00:55,440
Speaker 1: comfort that she never had as a single woman who

1173
01:00:55,480 --> 01:00:57,840
Speaker 1: didn't get married until her children were grown. I don't

1174
01:00:57,840 --> 01:00:59,880
Speaker 1: know how old Ebany is, but she might have been

1175
01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:02,360
Speaker 1: used to live in a way that she that was

1176
01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:04,720
Speaker 1: so hard that she just wants to be taken care of.

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01:01:05,560 --> 01:01:09,160
Speaker 3: Could be and there's nothing wrong with that. The problem

1178
01:01:09,200 --> 01:01:11,800
Speaker 3: is once you start expressing that, people start with their

1179
01:01:11,840 --> 01:01:14,200
Speaker 3: own opinions and projecting, and then when you get to

1180
01:01:14,240 --> 01:01:16,480
Speaker 3: where we are, like there's a lot of people that

1181
01:01:16,520 --> 01:01:18,600
Speaker 3: feel just like her. It was like, what I'm not

1182
01:01:18,680 --> 01:01:23,600
Speaker 3: gonna be doing is uh, downgrading my lifestyle. And there's

1183
01:01:23,600 --> 01:01:25,920
Speaker 3: a lot of women that feel like that, and they

1184
01:01:26,000 --> 01:01:28,840
Speaker 3: say it and they mean it, and you know, and

1185
01:01:28,880 --> 01:01:31,720
Speaker 3: a lot of times when they openly express that, niggas

1186
01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:32,240
Speaker 3: get mad.

1187
01:01:32,840 --> 01:01:38,320
Speaker 1: Right, So I think, yeah, Like, there's so many things

1188
01:01:38,400 --> 01:01:41,960
Speaker 1: can moving and conflating and conflicting in this situation, because

1189
01:01:42,680 --> 01:01:45,000
Speaker 1: I'm also not with the people that's coming at her,

1190
01:01:45,120 --> 01:01:48,160
Speaker 1: like you better get with her, Like it's just her,

1191
01:01:48,720 --> 01:01:52,000
Speaker 1: it's her preference. It really don't bother me either. You know,

1192
01:01:52,320 --> 01:01:55,920
Speaker 1: like even the ones that people consider bad, I don't

1193
01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:59,080
Speaker 1: bother me because I think they're true for people and

1194
01:01:59,200 --> 01:02:01,920
Speaker 1: people don't want to. If I personally wouldn't want to

1195
01:02:01,920 --> 01:02:05,760
Speaker 1: deal with somebody's hang ups around these issues, whether they're

1196
01:02:05,760 --> 01:02:07,800
Speaker 1: trying to work them out or not, I wouldn't want to.

1197
01:02:07,920 --> 01:02:09,919
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to be with somebody that didn't want

1198
01:02:09,960 --> 01:02:13,440
Speaker 1: me for whatever reason they said right, So to me,

1199
01:02:13,520 --> 01:02:16,920
Speaker 1: it's like, Okay, you got class hang ups. Clearly you

1200
01:02:17,000 --> 01:02:19,680
Speaker 1: think people that drove the bus got c's and d's

1201
01:02:19,720 --> 01:02:21,920
Speaker 1: and are you know, stupid and were not held to

1202
01:02:22,000 --> 01:02:25,200
Speaker 1: God standards in life. Hey man, do me the favorite,

1203
01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:27,040
Speaker 1: don't and don't date me? Thank you.

1204
01:02:27,560 --> 01:02:29,840
Speaker 2: It ain't that I can scratch you off the list. Yeah,

1205
01:02:29,880 --> 01:02:31,720
Speaker 2: people don't look at it like that. They go something

1206
01:02:31,800 --> 01:02:32,439
Speaker 2: wrong with me.

1207
01:02:33,280 --> 01:02:35,360
Speaker 1: Abbia says, I wrote that comment before you were done

1208
01:02:35,400 --> 01:02:37,520
Speaker 1: talking about it, and you practically said the same good.

1209
01:02:37,680 --> 01:02:39,760
Speaker 1: I also agree with Rod that a good relationship is

1210
01:02:39,840 --> 01:02:42,080
Speaker 1: luck and work. It's luck that I found someone who

1211
01:02:42,120 --> 01:02:44,160
Speaker 1: still loves me and finds me attractive and same with me.

1212
01:02:44,280 --> 01:02:46,680
Speaker 1: I was in relationships before and they were way shorter

1213
01:02:46,680 --> 01:02:49,440
Speaker 1: where I just didn't feel the other person anymore. It

1214
01:02:49,480 --> 01:02:51,360
Speaker 1: was it was, and it was me. I couldn't force

1215
01:02:51,400 --> 01:02:53,160
Speaker 1: myself to be in it anymore, and I had to

1216
01:02:53,160 --> 01:02:55,360
Speaker 1: break it up. Plus, I think it's wrong to speak

1217
01:02:55,400 --> 01:02:58,320
Speaker 1: about lowering standards. Everyone has different standards. It's not a hierchant.

1218
01:02:58,320 --> 01:03:01,480
Speaker 1: We'll see. Also, there's so here's the thing, here's the

1219
01:03:01,480 --> 01:03:04,480
Speaker 1: trick back. For the people that came to Ebony. They

1220
01:03:04,520 --> 01:03:07,560
Speaker 1: would be like, ain't nothing wrong with a bus driver?

1221
01:03:07,960 --> 01:03:15,560
Speaker 1: You need to lower your standards. Well, you kind of

1222
01:03:15,640 --> 01:03:18,520
Speaker 1: just confirm what she was saying about bus drivers being

1223
01:03:18,640 --> 01:03:23,880
Speaker 1: lower So you're kind of agreeing with her that there's

1224
01:03:23,920 --> 01:03:28,439
Speaker 1: a beneath thing happening, which I understand in the way

1225
01:03:28,480 --> 01:03:32,240
Speaker 1: that our world puts things a hierarchy. We're saying, like

1226
01:03:32,280 --> 01:03:34,800
Speaker 1: a bus driver is not as good as this white

1227
01:03:34,800 --> 01:03:39,480
Speaker 1: collar profession. But I'm saying you can't. You can't say

1228
01:03:39,520 --> 01:03:42,960
Speaker 1: that and be against her. You're kind of on her side.

1229
01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:45,960
Speaker 1: What you're saying is like, yeah, he is beneath you,

1230
01:03:46,440 --> 01:03:48,320
Speaker 1: but if you want a man, you need to get

1231
01:03:48,320 --> 01:03:50,520
Speaker 1: with one, open the door of the one being beneath you.

1232
01:03:50,600 --> 01:03:53,120
Speaker 1: And I'm like, so then you don't really you're not

1233
01:03:53,200 --> 01:03:55,280
Speaker 1: on the shit I'm saying, which is like a motherfucker,

1234
01:03:55,280 --> 01:03:58,080
Speaker 1: be a bus drive and be a great person, period sir.

1235
01:03:58,200 --> 01:04:00,000
Speaker 1: I don't even know what those those two things really

1236
01:04:00,040 --> 01:04:02,400
Speaker 1: don't have shit to do with each other. One's a job,

1237
01:04:03,160 --> 01:04:05,800
Speaker 1: you know what. I'm like, it's I don't though. It's

1238
01:04:05,880 --> 01:04:08,320
Speaker 1: all stupid. It's all stupid. We shouldn't even talking about

1239
01:04:08,360 --> 01:04:10,920
Speaker 1: this like this and brother yep, and it's all just

1240
01:04:11,200 --> 01:04:14,200
Speaker 1: very sis head or normative. It's all very shallow. It's

1241
01:04:14,280 --> 01:04:16,640
Speaker 1: you know, it's it's like everybody want to get on

1242
01:04:16,720 --> 01:04:21,600
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey relationship book train. Why I don't watch

1243
01:04:21,640 --> 01:04:23,440
Speaker 1: any sports ever, so the fact that my husband is

1244
01:04:23,600 --> 01:04:25,520
Speaker 1: also never watching any sports a big plus. We have

1245
01:04:25,560 --> 01:04:28,680
Speaker 1: to compromise less here and watch and watch happily star

1246
01:04:28,760 --> 01:04:31,080
Speaker 1: trek together. For a big sports fan, this will be

1247
01:04:31,080 --> 01:04:33,360
Speaker 1: a minus. I don't think that being into sports or

1248
01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:35,760
Speaker 1: not has any hierarchy to it. It's just personal preference.

1249
01:04:36,440 --> 01:04:38,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, And there's a lot of people with one spouse

1250
01:04:38,440 --> 01:04:39,960
Speaker 3: is and the sports and the other spouses not, and

1251
01:04:40,000 --> 01:04:42,520
Speaker 3: that shit functions just fine, right.

1252
01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:48,000
Speaker 1: Brooklyn Shoe Base says, I date a bus drip because

1253
01:04:48,080 --> 01:04:50,240
Speaker 1: one I don't know how to drive, two I want

1254
01:04:50,240 --> 01:04:52,640
Speaker 1: the bus fair hook up two seventy five. One way,

1255
01:04:52,640 --> 01:04:56,040
Speaker 1: there is a lot of money at three. It'll satisfy

1256
01:04:56,080 --> 01:04:59,120
Speaker 1: my uniform kink without the guilt that police uniforms give me.

1257
01:05:02,000 --> 01:05:04,200
Speaker 1: Oh so we're just skipping right over the fair x man,

1258
01:05:04,440 --> 01:05:08,400
Speaker 1: I mean the ups man, We're skipping right over them

1259
01:05:08,400 --> 01:05:10,800
Speaker 1: brown shorts. Nah, I don't blame you them brown, They

1260
01:05:10,840 --> 01:05:15,880
Speaker 1: just smokey Robinson of delivery people come. They're definitely cheating. Seriously, though,

1261
01:05:15,920 --> 01:05:18,840
Speaker 1: I'm so sick of this particular gender war battle. Nobody

1262
01:05:18,880 --> 01:05:21,600
Speaker 1: has to settle to be with someone who doesn't fit

1263
01:05:21,640 --> 01:05:23,840
Speaker 1: their prefaces of values. But don't use your preference to

1264
01:05:23,880 --> 01:05:26,480
Speaker 1: generalize what everyone in your gender desires or to put

1265
01:05:26,520 --> 01:05:28,960
Speaker 1: down everyone who doesn't fit into your preference. I do

1266
01:05:29,040 --> 01:05:31,400
Speaker 1: believe that there's a nuance conversation to be had about

1267
01:05:31,440 --> 01:05:34,040
Speaker 1: straight black women, or any straight woman feeling the pressure

1268
01:05:34,040 --> 01:05:35,640
Speaker 1: to have a man in their life, to feel whole,

1269
01:05:35,640 --> 01:05:38,760
Speaker 1: to be successful, and sometimes that over woman pressure, either

1270
01:05:38,840 --> 01:05:41,960
Speaker 1: internally or externally applied, will cause women to attach themselves

1271
01:05:42,000 --> 01:05:44,160
Speaker 1: to the wrong man. Thus the next man has to

1272
01:05:44,160 --> 01:05:46,959
Speaker 1: deal with the baggage of the woman that woman's fucked

1273
01:05:47,000 --> 01:05:50,080
Speaker 1: up relationship. Yeah, I think there's a lot that you're

1274
01:05:50,120 --> 01:05:53,560
Speaker 1: saying that that is true. It's that pressure societally put

1275
01:05:53,560 --> 01:05:56,240
Speaker 1: on women to be like, you're not complete unless you

1276
01:05:56,360 --> 01:06:00,480
Speaker 1: with a man. As far as straight women shit. Actually,

1277
01:06:00,680 --> 01:06:03,920
Speaker 1: even gender career women get that pressure. Even if it's

1278
01:06:03,960 --> 01:06:07,960
Speaker 1: not they're not something they're gonna do, they still get

1279
01:06:07,960 --> 01:06:10,840
Speaker 1: this pressure of like, you ain't complete, you ain't found

1280
01:06:10,880 --> 01:06:14,560
Speaker 1: a man, and you'll even hear like in that book,

1281
01:06:14,560 --> 01:06:19,280
Speaker 1: Conflict Is Not Abuse. Sarah Shulman she is lesbian, and

1282
01:06:19,400 --> 01:06:23,280
Speaker 1: so she talks about LGBTQ issues at some point and says, like,

1283
01:06:23,800 --> 01:06:28,640
Speaker 1: one issues she has within the community, it's an intercommunity conversation.

1284
01:06:28,720 --> 01:06:30,880
Speaker 1: This isn't me giving an opinion, but one of her

1285
01:06:30,920 --> 01:06:36,840
Speaker 1: issues is we have a chance to reframe what relationships

1286
01:06:36,880 --> 01:06:40,840
Speaker 1: look like, period, because we have never been considered. We've

1287
01:06:40,880 --> 01:06:45,960
Speaker 1: been outside the norm. And she felt like when marriage

1288
01:06:45,960 --> 01:06:49,160
Speaker 1: equality passed, a lot of people felt like it was done,

1289
01:06:49,400 --> 01:06:52,720
Speaker 1: like we won, it's over, and she was like, and

1290
01:06:53,120 --> 01:06:57,160
Speaker 1: in addition to that being mostly a like cis normative

1291
01:06:57,680 --> 01:07:00,560
Speaker 1: thing or very you know, like, she was like, the

1292
01:07:00,600 --> 01:07:04,680
Speaker 1: other part is in the LGBTQ community, there's a lot

1293
01:07:04,680 --> 01:07:08,600
Speaker 1: of different types of relationships and structures that people have

1294
01:07:09,240 --> 01:07:12,000
Speaker 1: and we're just like we did it. We can be

1295
01:07:12,200 --> 01:07:16,120
Speaker 1: like straight people, and people start mimicking, not mimicking, but

1296
01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:20,920
Speaker 1: they're like, let's we can prove our worth by looking straight,

1297
01:07:21,120 --> 01:07:25,560
Speaker 1: like quote unquote, like like there's an acceptable version of

1298
01:07:27,400 --> 01:07:30,640
Speaker 1: a couple for people where it's like, oh, they're same

1299
01:07:30,800 --> 01:07:36,919
Speaker 1: gender in a relationship, but it's okay. They're monogamous, they

1300
01:07:36,960 --> 01:07:40,040
Speaker 1: have kids, they have a house, they have a pick

1301
01:07:40,080 --> 01:07:41,720
Speaker 1: of fance. I'm not saying these are bad things, but

1302
01:07:42,600 --> 01:07:45,280
Speaker 1: like there's a certain way that it's coded to be like, oh,

1303
01:07:45,400 --> 01:07:48,560
Speaker 1: we're they're straight adjacent almost, we're just gonna treat them

1304
01:07:49,160 --> 01:07:52,120
Speaker 1: like the straits and equality has been achieved, And so

1305
01:07:52,400 --> 01:07:55,040
Speaker 1: she was just kind of pointing out, like, Yo, we

1306
01:07:55,200 --> 01:07:59,520
Speaker 1: have a chance to actually make something no one's ever

1307
01:07:59,520 --> 01:08:02,600
Speaker 1: seen before and to push for push the bounties even

1308
01:08:02,600 --> 01:08:06,360
Speaker 1: further than just monogamy and inclusion into the straight world

1309
01:08:06,440 --> 01:08:09,040
Speaker 1: and of insurance and all that shit. But anyway, that's

1310
01:08:09,040 --> 01:08:10,800
Speaker 1: a deeper conversation than for the day. But I just

1311
01:08:10,840 --> 01:08:13,440
Speaker 1: thought it was an interesting thing when you brought up

1312
01:08:13,480 --> 01:08:17,000
Speaker 1: this relationship stuff and the pressure that's applied to people.

1313
01:08:17,960 --> 01:08:20,200
Speaker 1: One could even suggest that development too high standards is

1314
01:08:20,240 --> 01:08:23,360
Speaker 1: a protection mechanism to avoid vulnerability required for dating. I

1315
01:08:23,360 --> 01:08:26,960
Speaker 1: don't know that's true too. That's a good point, like

1316
01:08:27,000 --> 01:08:29,200
Speaker 1: maybe you're saying, like, my standards are high, so I

1317
01:08:29,200 --> 01:08:32,120
Speaker 1: don't even have to worry about being involved or getting hurt.

1318
01:08:32,760 --> 01:08:36,040
Speaker 1: And you know, it's funny because when people say that stuff,

1319
01:08:36,040 --> 01:08:37,960
Speaker 1: they're not really talking about love or the type of

1320
01:08:38,000 --> 01:08:41,720
Speaker 1: person someone is ever like they like. As far as

1321
01:08:41,720 --> 01:08:45,400
Speaker 1: she's concerned, a bus driver is just a bad like

1322
01:08:46,400 --> 01:08:51,080
Speaker 1: they're they did bad in life, yeh, she sa, and

1323
01:08:51,120 --> 01:08:53,720
Speaker 1: shit like that. They didn't do enough in life as

1324
01:08:53,720 --> 01:09:00,200
Speaker 1: far as she's concerned, And she knows. She's not talking

1325
01:09:00,240 --> 01:09:09,320
Speaker 1: about the kind of emotional care, the type of connection

1326
01:09:09,400 --> 01:09:11,920
Speaker 1: you want with a person's it's a completely surface level.

1327
01:09:12,680 --> 01:09:16,400
Speaker 1: And I think when you think about that, the assumption

1328
01:09:16,640 --> 01:09:22,480
Speaker 1: being either a if someone has a more prestigious, lucrative

1329
01:09:22,560 --> 01:09:25,160
Speaker 1: whatever job where if they own the bus or whatever,

1330
01:09:25,680 --> 01:09:29,679
Speaker 1: somehow they're going to be better in a relationship. And

1331
01:09:29,720 --> 01:09:33,840
Speaker 1: it's only it and you. And it's very weird to

1332
01:09:33,960 --> 01:09:37,200
Speaker 1: assume because to me, you still haven't talked about to

1333
01:09:37,640 --> 01:09:42,559
Speaker 1: me my opinion of course, what makes people good in relationships, right,

1334
01:09:42,640 --> 01:09:45,360
Speaker 1: because you've only talked about the surface level, and a

1335
01:09:45,360 --> 01:09:47,680
Speaker 1: lot of people when it comes to data, it is

1336
01:09:47,800 --> 01:09:50,240
Speaker 1: very service level. They care about what people see, what

1337
01:09:50,280 --> 01:09:53,360
Speaker 1: people think when they see them with a person, What

1338
01:09:53,400 --> 01:09:56,360
Speaker 1: does this person say about me? And I think you know,

1339
01:09:56,400 --> 01:09:57,880
Speaker 1: a lot of people are stuck in their hands there.

1340
01:09:57,920 --> 01:10:00,880
Speaker 1: But you're right. Maybe they have those high standards as

1341
01:10:00,920 --> 01:10:02,960
Speaker 1: a way of being like, I don't have to be vulnerable.

1342
01:10:02,960 --> 01:10:07,439
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna find anybody, so I'm fine, he says.

1343
01:10:07,479 --> 01:10:09,080
Speaker 1: I don't know, I just be talking shit. Sometimes I

1344
01:10:09,080 --> 01:10:12,160
Speaker 1: would date someone who is economically or academically quote unquote

1345
01:10:12,200 --> 01:10:14,240
Speaker 1: beneath me if they checked out the other boxes. I'm

1346
01:10:14,240 --> 01:10:16,479
Speaker 1: a growner, independent woman. Financially, I could take care of

1347
01:10:16,479 --> 01:10:18,559
Speaker 1: myself no matter how hard to struggle. What I want

1348
01:10:18,600 --> 01:10:21,400
Speaker 1: is emotional security, if that makes sense. Yeah, that's what

1349
01:10:21,439 --> 01:10:24,000
Speaker 1: you want. You know, some people want the financial security

1350
01:10:24,360 --> 01:10:26,960
Speaker 1: and some you know, I get it. It's everyone's out

1351
01:10:27,000 --> 01:10:30,559
Speaker 1: here looking for something, you know. Good luck to all y'all.

1352
01:10:31,000 --> 01:10:32,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, good luck to you all.

1353
01:10:33,240 --> 01:10:36,040
Speaker 1: Normally almost all the time, I stay out of gender wars.

1354
01:10:36,120 --> 01:10:39,160
Speaker 1: Commentary is from Keith because I just feel like at

1355
01:10:39,280 --> 01:10:41,519
Speaker 1: least seventy five percent of its people projecting and generally

1356
01:10:41,600 --> 01:10:45,519
Speaker 1: unproductive conversations agree. I don't even really like this conversation

1357
01:10:45,680 --> 01:10:49,000
Speaker 1: we have right now, but everyone, I'm dead serious. But

1358
01:10:49,120 --> 01:10:50,960
Speaker 1: every once in a while it gets so loud if

1359
01:10:50,960 --> 01:10:53,240
Speaker 1: it comes impossible to avoid, and this is one of

1360
01:10:53,240 --> 01:10:55,599
Speaker 1: those times. It was refreshing to hear you guys talk

1361
01:10:55,640 --> 01:10:58,080
Speaker 1: about it, because the way the meta discussion around it

1362
01:10:58,160 --> 01:11:00,599
Speaker 1: was happening was making my assts, and I was relieved

1363
01:11:00,600 --> 01:11:03,040
Speaker 1: to see that there were others who saw this the

1364
01:11:03,080 --> 01:11:05,840
Speaker 1: way I did. First off, I obnestly had never heard

1365
01:11:05,880 --> 01:11:08,040
Speaker 1: of Ebony before this, so I have no opinion on

1366
01:11:08,080 --> 01:11:10,519
Speaker 1: her expressing her dating prefaces. She isn't tired to feel

1367
01:11:10,560 --> 01:11:13,200
Speaker 1: how she wants and about that date and not date

1368
01:11:13,240 --> 01:11:16,919
Speaker 1: whoever she wants, and how I feel about it is irrelevant. However,

1369
01:11:18,160 --> 01:11:23,160
Speaker 1: why were bus drivers catching straights for no reason? This

1370
01:11:23,400 --> 01:11:28,280
Speaker 1: was funny? That's a Yonler. Abony didn't bring up bus drivers.

1371
01:11:28,439 --> 01:11:31,360
Speaker 1: YA only hit it with that question. Now, listen, I'm

1372
01:11:31,360 --> 01:11:34,719
Speaker 1: not gonna pretend that this makes Abny innocent or whatever,

1373
01:11:34,760 --> 01:11:38,839
Speaker 1: because I think while a Yalla said bus driver, Abney

1374
01:11:39,720 --> 01:11:42,559
Speaker 1: took the bait unlike you know, I thought Lawyers was

1375
01:11:43,000 --> 01:11:46,080
Speaker 1: you know, a little bit more thoughtful than this, and

1376
01:11:46,120 --> 01:11:49,839
Speaker 1: could see, you know that could see the next step coming.

1377
01:11:50,240 --> 01:11:54,280
Speaker 1: But she jumped into that motherfucking pit fast as hell.

1378
01:11:54,320 --> 01:11:55,960
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, why would you do that? But

1379
01:11:56,479 --> 01:11:58,800
Speaker 1: you hear her out, don't answer the question with a

1380
01:11:58,880 --> 01:12:00,640
Speaker 1: non answers, like see what she going with it? She

1381
01:12:00,800 --> 01:12:03,680
Speaker 1: just like she was basically like the enthusiasm of like,

1382
01:12:03,760 --> 01:12:06,559
Speaker 1: hell no, wasn't they no motherfucker buss stop? Like that's

1383
01:12:06,600 --> 01:12:08,600
Speaker 1: how it felt. She didn't say that, but it was

1384
01:12:08,760 --> 01:12:13,519
Speaker 1: very like like, are you crazy? A bus driver is

1385
01:12:13,600 --> 01:12:16,519
Speaker 1: like Okay, I don't even know that she thought about this,

1386
01:12:17,439 --> 01:12:20,040
Speaker 1: you know, like I think anything, y'all lord have said.

1387
01:12:20,080 --> 01:12:22,479
Speaker 1: She might have been mad. I don't know what she's like, Well,

1388
01:12:22,479 --> 01:12:24,519
Speaker 1: would you date a lawyer? She'd be like a lawyer,

1389
01:12:24,640 --> 01:12:26,600
Speaker 1: just a lawyer? Digga, are you crazy? It's like, but

1390
01:12:26,640 --> 01:12:30,519
Speaker 1: you're a lawyer. What's happening? As you mentioned on the show,

1391
01:12:30,520 --> 01:12:32,759
Speaker 1: that's a solid union job with decent middle class income

1392
01:12:32,800 --> 01:12:35,479
Speaker 1: for benefits and a retirement pension and you'll do doing

1393
01:12:35,600 --> 01:12:37,920
Speaker 1: and they're doing just fine in life. Yeah. I was

1394
01:12:37,960 --> 01:12:41,000
Speaker 1: on the Karen Hunter Show yesterday and the amount of

1395
01:12:41,000 --> 01:12:43,439
Speaker 1: women that called in to be like because we talked

1396
01:12:43,439 --> 01:12:45,240
Speaker 1: about this a little bit The amount of women that

1397
01:12:45,280 --> 01:12:48,439
Speaker 1: called in was like, mo bus drivers for me. I said, okay,

1398
01:12:48,840 --> 01:12:49,479
Speaker 1: I see y'all.

1399
01:12:50,240 --> 01:12:52,719
Speaker 2: Come on, I'm gonna get that month to bus passed.

1400
01:12:52,800 --> 01:12:54,479
Speaker 2: Get on the family prayer for him to go all

1401
01:12:54,520 --> 01:12:55,280
Speaker 2: around the city.

1402
01:12:55,439 --> 01:12:58,880
Speaker 1: They was like, don't let the don't let Avenue speak

1403
01:12:58,920 --> 01:13:00,839
Speaker 1: for me because you don't agree.

1404
01:13:01,040 --> 01:13:03,920
Speaker 2: Come on, they're gonna be driving that bus and driving

1405
01:13:03,920 --> 01:13:05,960
Speaker 2: this pussy. I don't know what you're talking about.

1406
01:13:06,200 --> 01:13:11,040
Speaker 1: He gonna be driving busses and trains. He players cards, right, Okay,

1407
01:13:12,960 --> 01:13:17,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be busting it wide open. Okay. There was

1408
01:13:17,680 --> 01:13:21,759
Speaker 1: a lot of that didn't. A lot of people, depending

1409
01:13:22,240 --> 01:13:24,720
Speaker 1: what Ebane said, were saying, there's nothing wrong with being

1410
01:13:24,760 --> 01:13:26,439
Speaker 1: a bus driver. But the fact that you feel the

1411
01:13:26,479 --> 01:13:28,920
Speaker 1: need to say that is kind of a tell, isn't it.

1412
01:13:28,920 --> 01:13:31,080
Speaker 1: It would be a lot easier to believe you believe

1413
01:13:31,160 --> 01:13:33,559
Speaker 1: that if you didn't immediately undermine that statement with your

1414
01:13:33,560 --> 01:13:36,559
Speaker 1: next centist, which is talking about settling, which damn did

1415
01:13:36,600 --> 01:13:39,519
Speaker 1: you listen to Shawn, which, whether you intended to or not,

1416
01:13:39,560 --> 01:13:41,600
Speaker 1: strongly implied you feel like a person's beneath you in

1417
01:13:41,640 --> 01:13:44,519
Speaker 1: some way. Aboney herself did this when she said ordinary

1418
01:13:44,600 --> 01:13:47,320
Speaker 1: average is not good enough for you either. She would

1419
01:13:47,360 --> 01:13:50,080
Speaker 1: have been better off saying nothing out. Yeah. Her retort is, honestly,

1420
01:13:50,080 --> 01:13:52,719
Speaker 1: where I have the issue. Her first comments don't bother

1421
01:13:52,760 --> 01:13:55,080
Speaker 1: me as much as everybody else. She's expressing the preference. Yes,

1422
01:13:55,200 --> 01:13:57,000
Speaker 1: is in public. Yes, some people are gonna get offended,

1423
01:13:57,400 --> 01:14:00,400
Speaker 1: but it's her preference. And who gives a fuck. She

1424
01:14:00,520 --> 01:14:03,439
Speaker 1: has one vagina to give. She got, you know what

1425
01:14:03,479 --> 01:14:06,599
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like, it's just one fucking person. Guys, we

1426
01:14:06,600 --> 01:14:08,800
Speaker 1: don't need them all, you know what I mean. I

1427
01:14:08,800 --> 01:14:11,120
Speaker 1: don't even drive a bus. I don't care, you know,

1428
01:14:11,400 --> 01:14:14,080
Speaker 1: like good luck. But it was the to me, it

1429
01:14:14,160 --> 01:14:16,720
Speaker 1: was the I'm uplifting y'all with this pussy. It's like,

1430
01:14:16,880 --> 01:14:20,280
Speaker 1: all right, man, I'm all calm down, calm down.

1431
01:14:20,560 --> 01:14:26,719
Speaker 2: This is you're doing a lot right now, Like nobody

1432
01:14:26,720 --> 01:14:27,160
Speaker 2: asks for that.

1433
01:14:27,479 --> 01:14:31,120
Speaker 1: If you ever want to you ever wanna riding mama,

1434
01:14:31,120 --> 01:14:34,479
Speaker 1: say this, boy, you're gonna have to make a few

1435
01:14:34,600 --> 01:14:37,439
Speaker 1: changes in your life, like all right, evany damn, we.

1436
01:14:38,360 --> 01:14:40,320
Speaker 2: Want to drive down my alphabet streak?

1437
01:14:40,600 --> 01:14:45,479
Speaker 1: Right stop, just stop? We okay, we get it. It

1438
01:14:45,560 --> 01:14:47,280
Speaker 1: bothers me when people do this because if he's in

1439
01:14:47,320 --> 01:14:49,559
Speaker 1: the stereotypes about how educated people look down on blue

1440
01:14:49,560 --> 01:14:53,800
Speaker 1: collar workers that the right often suggests successfully plays against us.

1441
01:14:53,960 --> 01:14:56,840
Speaker 1: You can substitute bus driver, truck drive, electrician, constructure work,

1442
01:14:56,840 --> 01:15:00,280
Speaker 1: et cetera. Yeah, exactly exactly, that's y'all said, bust. It

1443
01:15:00,280 --> 01:15:02,519
Speaker 1: could have been a lot of different things. She could

1444
01:15:02,560 --> 01:15:04,960
Speaker 1: have just said, blue collar person. I don't know. I

1445
01:15:05,080 --> 01:15:07,240
Speaker 1: usually try to find out side against this sort of rhetoric.

1446
01:15:07,280 --> 01:15:09,200
Speaker 1: And we know the right absolutely does not give a

1447
01:15:09,200 --> 01:15:11,439
Speaker 1: shit about the working class. But it's pretty hard when

1448
01:15:11,439 --> 01:15:13,640
Speaker 1: people telling themselves like this, like Ebaney said, I just

1449
01:15:13,640 --> 01:15:15,320
Speaker 1: want better for all of us, and this is how

1450
01:15:15,360 --> 01:15:18,200
Speaker 1: we do it. Even he says, I think where Ebony K.

1451
01:15:18,280 --> 01:15:20,799
Speaker 1: Williams went wrong is projecting her prefaces on other people.

1452
01:15:21,280 --> 01:15:22,880
Speaker 1: She doesn't want to predicate a bus driver, that's far,

1453
01:15:23,000 --> 01:15:25,160
Speaker 1: but leave other people's dating prefaces alone. She sounds like

1454
01:15:25,200 --> 01:15:28,439
Speaker 1: some black men try to justify their only day. White women. See,

1455
01:15:28,439 --> 01:15:30,559
Speaker 1: this is the thing a lot of the language, and

1456
01:15:30,560 --> 01:15:33,320
Speaker 1: this is where the disconnect is gonna happen because people

1457
01:15:33,320 --> 01:15:37,080
Speaker 1: get caught up and she's a black woman, we're probably

1458
01:15:37,080 --> 01:15:40,280
Speaker 1: talking about black men, even though she never explicitly said

1459
01:15:40,320 --> 01:15:43,040
Speaker 1: black men. She says she's dated all kinds of people.

1460
01:15:43,520 --> 01:15:47,240
Speaker 1: And then when bus driver came up, it wasn't race

1461
01:15:47,280 --> 01:15:50,160
Speaker 1: attached to it. But you know how motherfuckers started assumming.

1462
01:15:50,800 --> 01:15:54,920
Speaker 1: But what I think is interesting on that is that

1463
01:15:56,040 --> 01:15:59,599
Speaker 1: I am just a person that glombs on to reasoning

1464
01:16:00,040 --> 01:16:04,160
Speaker 1: more than more than the just the like who's saying that?

1465
01:16:04,880 --> 01:16:08,799
Speaker 1: I like to get to the what is the logic

1466
01:16:08,840 --> 01:16:10,960
Speaker 1: of the thing you're saying? And why? Where does it

1467
01:16:11,040 --> 01:16:15,000
Speaker 1: sound familiar to me? And I'm sorry her shit that

1468
01:16:15,080 --> 01:16:18,280
Speaker 1: she was saying in that defense, not the original comment

1469
01:16:19,320 --> 01:16:24,559
Speaker 1: sounds so much like Kevin Samuel's type of logic. You

1470
01:16:24,720 --> 01:16:29,240
Speaker 1: just have to insert different things. But the you're mediocre,

1471
01:16:30,080 --> 01:16:34,479
Speaker 1: you're not good enough. I'm saying this because I'm trying

1472
01:16:34,479 --> 01:16:37,040
Speaker 1: to uplift you as i'm detegrating you and saying you

1473
01:16:37,080 --> 01:16:40,360
Speaker 1: ain't shit. Because let's be honest, who the fuck could

1474
01:16:40,360 --> 01:16:43,240
Speaker 1: be uplifted by that? Right now? In her age range?

1475
01:16:43,320 --> 01:16:45,559
Speaker 1: Right like if you're talking about like some kids or

1476
01:16:45,560 --> 01:16:47,439
Speaker 1: something like maybe there's a kid who has to make

1477
01:16:47,439 --> 01:16:49,880
Speaker 1: a decision today. Am I gonna be a bus driver?

1478
01:16:50,000 --> 01:16:52,519
Speaker 1: Try to be a lawyer? Sure? If I've been driving

1479
01:16:52,520 --> 01:16:55,479
Speaker 1: a bus for twenty years, Nigga, what are you talking

1480
01:16:55,479 --> 01:16:58,800
Speaker 1: about tis, Oh you won't better for me, Well, I

1481
01:16:58,800 --> 01:17:01,840
Speaker 1: guess I better take my ass down to the to

1482
01:17:01,960 --> 01:17:04,160
Speaker 1: the community college and start my life over. Like it

1483
01:17:04,200 --> 01:17:06,600
Speaker 1: doesn't even really make sense in that way, and so

1484
01:17:06,680 --> 01:17:09,200
Speaker 1: I don't. I think she just got defensive because y'all

1485
01:17:09,200 --> 01:17:12,040
Speaker 1: probably not y'all, but people were probably talking crazy to her.

1486
01:17:12,400 --> 01:17:15,160
Speaker 2: It's right, but she's responding to a lot of times.

1487
01:17:15,280 --> 01:17:17,920
Speaker 3: When people make these blanketed statements like that, they are

1488
01:17:18,040 --> 01:17:21,400
Speaker 3: literally they are literally responding to the craziest online and

1489
01:17:21,479 --> 01:17:23,080
Speaker 3: on social media and out in the public.

1490
01:17:23,680 --> 01:17:31,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, like, anyway, that was that was just crazy. Uh.

1491
01:17:31,320 --> 01:17:34,479
Speaker 1: The whole conversation mean, was stupid, to be honest, I'm sorry, man,

1492
01:17:34,520 --> 01:17:37,600
Speaker 1: I I mean, we gotta have conversations, I guess, but

1493
01:17:37,680 --> 01:17:39,120
Speaker 1: I don't know what they were gonna get out of

1494
01:17:39,400 --> 01:17:41,360
Speaker 1: I think the whole thing started with like a black

1495
01:17:41,360 --> 01:17:44,679
Speaker 1: women too masculine or something like, you were never gonna

1496
01:17:44,720 --> 01:17:48,400
Speaker 1: get a good conversation out of this, but they did

1497
01:17:48,439 --> 01:17:50,880
Speaker 1: get the clicks, and maybe that's what it was about.

1498
01:17:51,120 --> 01:17:54,840
Speaker 1: It worked, It worked, so we are talking about it. Yeah,

1499
01:17:54,640 --> 01:17:57,639
Speaker 1: uh but yeah, but yes, the logic is very similar

1500
01:17:57,680 --> 01:17:59,360
Speaker 1: to like what I hear of Keema seventy people say

1501
01:17:59,400 --> 01:18:01,760
Speaker 1: when they start to being in their misogynists always, I

1502
01:18:01,840 --> 01:18:04,400
Speaker 1: just want better for y'all. That's why I'm talking about

1503
01:18:04,400 --> 01:18:06,639
Speaker 1: your b and I and I'm talking about how many

1504
01:18:06,720 --> 01:18:10,320
Speaker 1: kids you got and your education and what kind of

1505
01:18:10,400 --> 01:18:13,880
Speaker 1: job you really got and how you dress. And it's like,

1506
01:18:13,960 --> 01:18:16,840
Speaker 1: I don't know, sounding like you roasting them song, Ain't

1507
01:18:16,840 --> 01:18:18,920
Speaker 1: you really shitting on these people? No? No, no, I

1508
01:18:19,040 --> 01:18:22,160
Speaker 1: just want black love and black people to be together,

1509
01:18:22,240 --> 01:18:25,280
Speaker 1: even though I die with a Latino chick that I

1510
01:18:25,360 --> 01:18:30,519
Speaker 1: wasn't married to in my house, like like like I

1511
01:18:30,520 --> 01:18:32,400
Speaker 1: don't believe, like I just feel like.

1512
01:18:33,280 --> 01:18:34,479
Speaker 2: Known the place right.

1513
01:18:34,600 --> 01:18:36,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'll take it one step further. I feel

1514
01:18:36,920 --> 01:18:38,920
Speaker 1: like a lot of times the people don't even know

1515
01:18:38,960 --> 01:18:41,680
Speaker 1: the issues they have and they're projecting them onto the

1516
01:18:41,720 --> 01:18:45,240
Speaker 1: rest of us. Because like with Kevin Sanuell, shit, looking

1517
01:18:45,280 --> 01:18:47,479
Speaker 1: at the way he died and looking at how he

1518
01:18:47,560 --> 01:18:50,559
Speaker 1: lived and looking at what he promoted. I don't know

1519
01:18:50,560 --> 01:18:53,200
Speaker 1: how y'all didn't just see the wizard behind the curtain,

1520
01:18:53,360 --> 01:18:54,920
Speaker 1: you know, the man behind the curtain.

1521
01:18:54,680 --> 01:18:55,880
Speaker 2: None of that shit mashed up.

1522
01:18:55,960 --> 01:18:57,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would have just been like, oh, you can't

1523
01:18:57,760 --> 01:19:00,160
Speaker 1: listen to these people then, they're projecting some shit they

1524
01:19:00,160 --> 01:19:04,719
Speaker 1: haven't even figured out anyway. So glad Carolyn Brian is dead.

1525
01:19:04,960 --> 01:19:07,719
Speaker 1: Oh this is quite a change. Hope, hope it was painful.

1526
01:19:08,600 --> 01:19:10,479
Speaker 1: The only depth that would make me happy is Trump's

1527
01:19:10,479 --> 01:19:13,120
Speaker 1: because that orange basket is finally gone. I'm gonna find

1528
01:19:13,120 --> 01:19:15,080
Speaker 1: his grave and spit on it, just like I did

1529
01:19:15,120 --> 01:19:17,080
Speaker 1: on his star on or Walk of Fan. Yes, even

1530
01:19:17,120 --> 01:19:22,120
Speaker 1: he keep that same energy. You know what, you can

1531
01:19:22,160 --> 01:19:26,800
Speaker 1: have an RB sandwich today. That's how much I respect that.

1532
01:19:28,240 --> 01:19:30,479
Speaker 1: I respect that, how much I respect that you go.

1533
01:19:30,760 --> 01:19:33,680
Speaker 1: It's on me today. I'll cash happy five dollars.

1534
01:19:34,600 --> 01:19:34,760
Speaker 2: Uh.

1535
01:19:34,840 --> 01:19:37,479
Speaker 1: If you were Slash our single, would you date a

1536
01:19:37,479 --> 01:19:39,760
Speaker 1: bus driver? Was the pole? Oh wait, let me check

1537
01:19:40,160 --> 01:19:45,240
Speaker 1: the comments? Sorry on YouTube? Oh no comments? Interesting because

1538
01:19:45,240 --> 01:19:48,559
Speaker 1: you know this was a hot one, all right? Would

1539
01:19:48,600 --> 01:19:51,120
Speaker 1: you date a bus driver if you were if you

1540
01:19:51,200 --> 01:19:53,439
Speaker 1: were our single? Would you date a bus driver? Yes?

1541
01:19:53,520 --> 01:19:57,320
Speaker 1: Or no? Or only if they owned the bus? Eight yes,

1542
01:19:58,760 --> 01:20:03,799
Speaker 1: nine percent no, twelve percent if they owned the bus.

1543
01:20:05,960 --> 01:20:08,120
Speaker 2: That's what the regular folks. Okay, what do Spotify got

1544
01:20:08,160 --> 01:20:08,400
Speaker 2: to say?

1545
01:20:08,400 --> 01:20:12,599
Speaker 1: The Spotify so sixty eight percent yes, which is lower

1546
01:20:13,439 --> 01:20:17,960
Speaker 1: than the eighty percent fifteen percent no, which is higher

1547
01:20:18,320 --> 01:20:22,240
Speaker 1: than the novicent on our website and lastly, seventeen percent

1548
01:20:22,280 --> 01:20:25,040
Speaker 1: if they owned the bus, which is higher than our website.

1549
01:20:25,040 --> 01:20:27,760
Speaker 1: Wouldn't make sense because y'all are some bougie. Y'all are

1550
01:20:27,800 --> 01:20:30,600
Speaker 1: a bunch of ebonies. Okay, y'all out here, like listen.

1551
01:20:31,360 --> 01:20:33,200
Speaker 2: I will not be lower on my standard.

1552
01:20:33,280 --> 01:20:36,920
Speaker 1: I'm not tagging my LLC brand to these regular negroes.

1553
01:20:37,280 --> 01:20:40,320
Speaker 3: I will not be losing my money to your broke bitches.

1554
01:20:41,880 --> 01:20:43,560
Speaker 3: Basically that I understand.

1555
01:20:43,760 --> 01:20:46,439
Speaker 2: Like we know how y'all get dying mad at you.

1556
01:20:47,120 --> 01:20:49,439
Speaker 2: That's how you got your money. I told my mom,

1557
01:20:49,680 --> 01:20:51,720
Speaker 2: I'll never be like any of those negroes.

1558
01:20:54,040 --> 01:20:58,759
Speaker 1: And then the comment for the show was for Spotify

1559
01:20:58,920 --> 01:21:04,719
Speaker 1: was resting perdition and clue kluts queen. That just says

1560
01:21:04,760 --> 01:21:07,559
Speaker 1: that's not a dating a bust. The other one I

1561
01:21:07,560 --> 01:21:10,240
Speaker 1: had was rest in white power queen. But if that

1562
01:21:10,479 --> 01:21:12,760
Speaker 1: says that's not dating a bus driver. Topic turned into

1563
01:21:13,040 --> 01:21:16,800
Speaker 1: some extra classes borderline consertive respectability politics on the second part,

1564
01:21:17,120 --> 01:21:23,080
Speaker 1: good observations. On the white supremacist part, she said, yeah, yeah, man,

1565
01:21:23,160 --> 01:21:26,800
Speaker 1: that God, that's why we don't talk relationshiship on the show. Guys,

1566
01:21:26,840 --> 01:21:30,840
Speaker 1: it's stupid. I'm sorry, ain't it do as it makes

1567
01:21:30,840 --> 01:21:35,960
Speaker 1: me feel stupid even engaging encountering what I think was

1568
01:21:36,000 --> 01:21:38,400
Speaker 1: stupid because I feel like even a shit I say

1569
01:21:38,400 --> 01:21:42,320
Speaker 1: can't apply to everybody. You know, I don't know what

1570
01:21:42,360 --> 01:21:45,320
Speaker 1: the fuck makes shit work for people. I don't. It'd

1571
01:21:45,320 --> 01:21:47,280
Speaker 1: be people in relationships where I'd be like, damn, the

1572
01:21:47,280 --> 01:21:49,320
Speaker 1: woman gotta walk three feet behind the man, and they

1573
01:21:49,439 --> 01:21:52,439
Speaker 1: love it. They be three feet behind there like yes, nigga,

1574
01:21:52,520 --> 01:21:55,360
Speaker 1: walk me like I and honestly, if.

1575
01:21:55,200 --> 01:21:58,920
Speaker 2: They happy, I literally don't care. You like it, I

1576
01:21:59,040 --> 01:21:59,519
Speaker 2: love it.

1577
01:21:59,720 --> 01:22:02,600
Speaker 1: I ever cared as long as you got consenting adults.

1578
01:22:02,640 --> 01:22:04,040
Speaker 1: Your boy don't care.

1579
01:22:04,200 --> 01:22:06,760
Speaker 2: Yes, everything is a personal preference.

1580
01:22:06,840 --> 01:22:10,000
Speaker 3: Like everything that there's a lot of things, all r

1581
01:22:10,120 --> 01:22:12,200
Speaker 3: socide that people do in their private homes and in

1582
01:22:12,280 --> 01:22:15,120
Speaker 3: their private relationships is not fucking politically correct.

1583
01:22:15,479 --> 01:22:18,720
Speaker 1: It's just not You could be in a fucking septuple.

1584
01:22:18,920 --> 01:22:22,200
Speaker 1: I don't care, and I don't mean that in the

1585
01:22:22,280 --> 01:22:24,000
Speaker 1: I don't care about you in the mean way. I

1586
01:22:24,040 --> 01:22:26,960
Speaker 1: mean in the like I have no animosity towards you.

1587
01:22:27,080 --> 01:22:29,360
Speaker 1: I'm rooting for all the good things for you, and

1588
01:22:29,400 --> 01:22:30,719
Speaker 1: if you find a way to make.

1589
01:22:30,600 --> 01:22:32,080
Speaker 2: It work, that's that.

1590
01:22:32,200 --> 01:22:35,320
Speaker 1: Is so beautiful that you found anything in this fucking

1591
01:22:35,360 --> 01:22:38,960
Speaker 1: world worth trying to make work good, good for you man,

1592
01:22:39,040 --> 01:22:41,400
Speaker 1: So like that's the I just don't know why we

1593
01:22:41,439 --> 01:22:43,679
Speaker 1: can't leave it at that, because it just turned into

1594
01:22:43,720 --> 01:22:47,519
Speaker 1: like I wouldn't deal with, well, somebody would, clearly they would.

1595
01:22:47,720 --> 01:22:50,920
Speaker 1: Somebody would deal with every fucking thing I think is crazy.

1596
01:22:50,960 --> 01:22:55,040
Speaker 1: It's somebody signing up right now to be Future's twelfth

1597
01:22:55,080 --> 01:22:58,160
Speaker 1: baby mama with no fucking qualls.

1598
01:22:57,880 --> 01:22:59,360
Speaker 2: And hey, no problems.

1599
01:22:59,439 --> 01:23:01,599
Speaker 1: I hope. I hope you figure it out. I hope

1600
01:23:01,600 --> 01:23:05,439
Speaker 1: it works for you. But yeah, anyway, Joyce says, I'm

1601
01:23:05,439 --> 01:23:08,840
Speaker 1: calling bs on Washington on Washington KKK story. I don't

1602
01:23:08,840 --> 01:23:11,160
Speaker 1: know any clansmen, but I doubt if any of them

1603
01:23:11,160 --> 01:23:13,360
Speaker 1: will let that child play with a Negro boy. Also

1604
01:23:13,400 --> 01:23:16,439
Speaker 1: spoiler alert, his character on p Valley dies. Well, that

1605
01:23:17,000 --> 01:23:22,559
Speaker 1: like okay, but as far as just.

1606
01:23:22,520 --> 01:23:24,800
Speaker 3: To let you know he is, he might not be

1607
01:23:24,840 --> 01:23:26,719
Speaker 3: dead in real life, he dead on this show.

1608
01:23:26,880 --> 01:23:33,200
Speaker 1: I guess I'll never be watching that show anyway. I

1609
01:23:33,240 --> 01:23:36,760
Speaker 1: do believe his story. I shouldn't say I believe it

1610
01:23:36,800 --> 01:23:38,880
Speaker 1: story because that's not true. I don't believe anything come

1611
01:23:38,920 --> 01:23:41,759
Speaker 1: out that man mouth. I believe it's possible for KKK

1612
01:23:41,840 --> 01:23:44,080
Speaker 1: people to let their kids play because I know down here,

1613
01:23:45,200 --> 01:23:48,920
Speaker 1: So what a lot of people don't understand about racism

1614
01:23:49,160 --> 01:23:55,760
Speaker 1: down here is like every football team, every high school

1615
01:23:55,800 --> 01:24:02,080
Speaker 1: football team in the South, for sure, has racist white

1616
01:24:02,120 --> 01:24:05,320
Speaker 1: people on it, possibly couching. It definitely got their kids

1617
01:24:05,360 --> 01:24:09,080
Speaker 1: on it, of course, and they be playing right next

1618
01:24:09,120 --> 01:24:13,120
Speaker 1: to them black kids that they you know, would not

1619
01:24:13,240 --> 01:24:16,760
Speaker 1: let they sister. You know what I'm saying, Like, sir,

1620
01:24:17,439 --> 01:24:20,760
Speaker 1: there's an understood type of thing that happens sometimes when

1621
01:24:20,800 --> 01:24:25,439
Speaker 1: people be racist, and it's not it's not Mississippi burning,

1622
01:24:26,640 --> 01:24:29,439
Speaker 1: so it's possible, and it's not every white person, right,

1623
01:24:29,760 --> 01:24:31,920
Speaker 1: there's white kids that wouldn't have a problem with that shit.

1624
01:24:32,000 --> 01:24:36,160
Speaker 1: But it's enough for us not to ever assume good

1625
01:24:36,240 --> 01:24:38,600
Speaker 1: intentions and good will. It's enough for us not to

1626
01:24:38,640 --> 01:24:42,480
Speaker 1: feel safe. So yeah, I think it's possible, But yeah,

1627
01:24:42,600 --> 01:24:44,599
Speaker 1: I don't trust anything he says either, so he could

1628
01:24:44,640 --> 01:24:47,479
Speaker 1: be lying. But if you say no clans and will

1629
01:24:47,560 --> 01:24:49,519
Speaker 1: let their child play with a Negro, I think they

1630
01:24:49,560 --> 01:24:52,200
Speaker 1: absolutely would. But like you said that, you can't come

1631
01:24:52,240 --> 01:24:55,040
Speaker 1: in that house because they still recognize their kids need

1632
01:24:55,080 --> 01:24:58,080
Speaker 1: to play, but they also need their kids to feel superior. Yeah,

1633
01:24:59,320 --> 01:25:01,720
Speaker 1: Raphael says, only day bus drivers once stay buy my

1634
01:25:01,760 --> 01:25:04,080
Speaker 1: ticket to Africa. It doesn't matter if matter of fact,

1635
01:25:04,080 --> 01:25:06,880
Speaker 1: I'll take it one step further. Reading back in history,

1636
01:25:07,200 --> 01:25:08,760
Speaker 1: the masters used to let their kids play with the

1637
01:25:08,760 --> 01:25:14,479
Speaker 1: little black slaves. Raphael says, only day bus drivers, once

1638
01:25:14,479 --> 01:25:16,760
Speaker 1: they buy my tickets to Africa. It doesn't matter if

1639
01:25:16,800 --> 01:25:19,679
Speaker 1: they own the bus or a single. The more tickets

1640
01:25:19,680 --> 01:25:21,920
Speaker 1: they buy, the more we mingle. My heart is just big,

1641
01:25:22,040 --> 01:25:26,559
Speaker 1: is big, just like Africa. All right, definitely stay on

1642
01:25:26,600 --> 01:25:32,679
Speaker 1: top of the grift has no bounds none. Nelson says,

1643
01:25:32,720 --> 01:25:35,160
Speaker 1: Miss Williams comments didn't bother me in the slightest. I

1644
01:25:35,160 --> 01:25:36,880
Speaker 1: will say I was entertained by the fighting in the

1645
01:25:36,920 --> 01:25:40,160
Speaker 1: comments sections, particularly of insecut dudes trying to humble an

1646
01:25:40,160 --> 01:25:43,720
Speaker 1: accomplished black woman. Yeah, I hear you. I think I

1647
01:25:43,760 --> 01:25:49,479
Speaker 1: think that's the thing. Nelson is like, if you chose

1648
01:25:49,520 --> 01:25:53,519
Speaker 1: to only concentrate on the riff raft that were coming

1649
01:25:53,560 --> 01:25:56,920
Speaker 1: after her, which is what obviously she chose to do,

1650
01:25:56,960 --> 01:25:58,600
Speaker 1: and then you know, and a lot of people that

1651
01:25:58,680 --> 01:26:04,160
Speaker 1: wanted to defend her chose to do, sure, then of

1652
01:26:04,160 --> 01:26:08,120
Speaker 1: course you can ignore the classism, the you know, the

1653
01:26:08,160 --> 01:26:12,200
Speaker 1: patriarchal things. You can ignore the ship she did where

1654
01:26:12,280 --> 01:26:16,719
Speaker 1: she absolutely shot on blue collar workers at her defense,

1655
01:26:17,320 --> 01:26:20,040
Speaker 1: because you can be like, yeah, but she's fighting these guys.

1656
01:26:20,080 --> 01:26:21,920
Speaker 1: And that's one of the reasons I hate these conversations.

1657
01:26:21,920 --> 01:26:24,800
Speaker 1: I hate to push back because we're never gonna really

1658
01:26:24,800 --> 01:26:26,840
Speaker 1: talk about what she said. We're just talking about the

1659
01:26:26,840 --> 01:26:31,800
Speaker 1: reaction to what she said, you know. And I think

1660
01:26:31,840 --> 01:26:37,920
Speaker 1: a lot of times the allegiance, the allegiance erasist the

1661
01:26:38,000 --> 01:26:40,120
Speaker 1: nuance from the conversation because you feel like you gotta

1662
01:26:40,160 --> 01:26:43,400
Speaker 1: protect her or have her back or nothing she said

1663
01:26:43,479 --> 01:26:46,759
Speaker 1: was wrong, Like we can't even say anything she was wrong.

1664
01:26:46,880 --> 01:26:49,720
Speaker 1: And you know, it's not about whether it bothered you.

1665
01:26:50,040 --> 01:26:51,800
Speaker 1: It could just be wrong. It doesn't even have to

1666
01:26:51,840 --> 01:26:55,439
Speaker 1: bother you. Like, I'm not bothered by what she said either,

1667
01:26:56,040 --> 01:27:01,040
Speaker 1: but some of it was wrong, yeah, you know, or inconsistent.

1668
01:27:01,280 --> 01:27:03,960
Speaker 1: I think that's fair to say. Aaron says, all, look

1669
01:27:03,960 --> 01:27:07,000
Speaker 1: at the little baby clan member the the qu klux plan,

1670
01:27:08,439 --> 01:27:12,559
Speaker 1: not the q klutx plan with a kke too. Oh

1671
01:27:12,800 --> 01:27:16,559
Speaker 1: that's that's hilarious, all right, you guys are so funny. Uh,

1672
01:27:16,680 --> 01:27:52,760
Speaker 1: let's get into the voicemails real quick. Uh, all right,

1673
01:27:52,880 --> 01:27:56,519
Speaker 1: voicemail time. Y'all know the numbers in the show notes.

1674
01:27:56,840 --> 01:27:58,400
Speaker 1: We got one voicemail this week.

1675
01:28:00,920 --> 01:28:01,559
Speaker 5: Hey, y'all.

1676
01:28:01,840 --> 01:28:07,200
Speaker 7: It is at number one ceiling and I am calling

1677
01:28:07,360 --> 01:28:11,360
Speaker 7: because this too much does not have a phone line technically,

1678
01:28:11,760 --> 01:28:14,360
Speaker 7: and I don't know when the next time y'all are

1679
01:28:14,360 --> 01:28:18,679
Speaker 7: going to be together discussing anything. After your most recent

1680
01:28:19,800 --> 01:28:23,559
Speaker 7: three four that you gave us, I really enjoyed it,

1681
01:28:23,680 --> 01:28:26,799
Speaker 7: and I just wanted to leave this comment to say

1682
01:28:27,320 --> 01:28:32,720
Speaker 7: the way I know you and BOSSI rod our true.

1683
01:28:32,439 --> 01:28:37,120
Speaker 5: Friends is that I have noticed the uptick in Bossi's

1684
01:28:37,240 --> 01:28:41,040
Speaker 5: use of Niga in that affectionate way, and I thought

1685
01:28:41,400 --> 01:28:44,840
Speaker 5: I remember Rob saying that, oh, if you're around him

1686
01:28:44,880 --> 01:28:47,559
Speaker 5: long enough, it's going to rub off on you. And

1687
01:28:47,640 --> 01:28:49,920
Speaker 5: there you have it. The proof is in the pudding.

1688
01:28:50,640 --> 01:28:53,400
Speaker 7: I think I should use it at least five times

1689
01:28:53,520 --> 01:28:57,720
Speaker 7: or more. That's just me observing things. Obviously, it's not

1690
01:28:57,760 --> 01:29:01,720
Speaker 7: a problem using that word. But I just wanted to

1691
01:29:01,720 --> 01:29:03,200
Speaker 7: say that, and I thought it was so cute. I

1692
01:29:03,240 --> 01:29:06,240
Speaker 7: was like, Oh, that's friendship right there, A friendship goal

1693
01:29:06,320 --> 01:29:14,280
Speaker 7: UNLOCKEDGGA anyway, enjoying y'all as always and can't wait for

1694
01:29:14,320 --> 01:29:17,200
Speaker 7: the next time that y'all can come together, whether it

1695
01:29:17,280 --> 01:29:22,679
Speaker 7: is you interviewing Baffy about her new audio book coming

1696
01:29:22,760 --> 01:29:25,559
Speaker 7: up or whatever. All right, love you both, Karen and

1697
01:29:25,600 --> 01:29:27,080
Speaker 7: Dodd and talk to you later.

1698
01:29:27,240 --> 01:29:28,160
Speaker 1: Bye.

1699
01:29:29,080 --> 01:29:33,599
Speaker 2: It's true.

1700
01:29:35,640 --> 01:29:38,920
Speaker 1: It is with Justin Yeah, yeah.

1701
01:29:38,760 --> 01:29:40,479
Speaker 2: Have with other people. And all of a sudden, I

1702
01:29:40,520 --> 01:29:42,360
Speaker 2: was like, damn, I just keep saying nigga.

1703
01:29:43,080 --> 01:29:44,880
Speaker 1: It is what it is, man, It's my favorite word.

1704
01:29:44,920 --> 01:29:47,559
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, that's my favorite words. What I grew up saying.

1705
01:29:47,680 --> 01:29:50,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, we had kids, that'd be the they first word, nigga.

1706
01:29:51,040 --> 01:29:54,000
Speaker 1: How we talk and you know, I'm not really sorry,

1707
01:29:54,000 --> 01:29:57,519
Speaker 1: but you know, I don't mean to do it, but

1708
01:29:57,560 --> 01:29:58,920
Speaker 1: it like.

1709
01:29:59,080 --> 01:30:02,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a person for It's a perfect word.

1710
01:30:02,479 --> 01:30:04,679
Speaker 1: Yeah. It's just like how that one dude was talking

1711
01:30:04,720 --> 01:30:08,000
Speaker 1: about the Nigger Museum or whatever. Like you see, y'all

1712
01:30:08,120 --> 01:30:09,720
Speaker 1: just slipped out of him and slip out of me

1713
01:30:09,800 --> 01:30:12,120
Speaker 1: like that sometimes too, without thought. It are just is

1714
01:30:12,160 --> 01:30:16,800
Speaker 1: what it is, guys. All right, emails Newsy right saying

1715
01:30:17,000 --> 01:30:20,320
Speaker 1: dating preference. Your conversation about dating preface is all spot

1716
01:30:20,360 --> 01:30:22,880
Speaker 1: on them. Thirty seven Black and Gay and I've been

1717
01:30:22,920 --> 01:30:26,280
Speaker 1: on Internet since nineteen ninety seven and the gay World

1718
01:30:26,360 --> 01:30:29,559
Speaker 1: one of our internal struggles is with the masculine feminine

1719
01:30:29,600 --> 01:30:33,280
Speaker 1: binary in terms of dating preferences. Sure, you could absolutely

1720
01:30:33,280 --> 01:30:36,040
Speaker 1: have a preference of dating only masculine guys, but if

1721
01:30:36,040 --> 01:30:37,760
Speaker 1: you put that in your profile, you're gonna hear about

1722
01:30:37,800 --> 01:30:40,400
Speaker 1: it from some people, lots of snarky comments. The way

1723
01:30:40,439 --> 01:30:42,759
Speaker 1: I've gotten around is by saying I'm in the blue

1724
01:30:42,800 --> 01:30:45,760
Speaker 1: collar types. It's just my attempt to streamline the kinds

1725
01:30:45,760 --> 01:30:49,080
Speaker 1: of guys who hit me up without making anyone feel bad. Yeah,

1726
01:30:49,120 --> 01:30:51,639
Speaker 1: And I think, especially when you're talking about like a hookup,

1727
01:30:51,720 --> 01:30:57,919
Speaker 1: you're almost nakedly talking about physical attraction, so like it

1728
01:30:57,960 --> 01:31:03,599
Speaker 1: is ugly, it's not there's no good way to like

1729
01:31:03,600 --> 01:31:05,720
Speaker 1: like like, the fact that people want to live out

1730
01:31:05,720 --> 01:31:09,680
Speaker 1: their politics through their sex drive is always interesting to

1731
01:31:09,720 --> 01:31:16,240
Speaker 1: me because you would have to decolonize your sexual preference

1732
01:31:16,960 --> 01:31:21,479
Speaker 1: in a way that I'm not really sure it can

1733
01:31:21,520 --> 01:31:24,840
Speaker 1: be done, and I'm not saying it's impossible, but like,

1734
01:31:25,680 --> 01:31:27,759
Speaker 1: I don't know that people are doing like a vigorous

1735
01:31:27,760 --> 01:31:30,280
Speaker 1: interrogation of why am I attracted to this type of person?

1736
01:31:30,840 --> 01:31:34,080
Speaker 1: I think, and especially whether you've been conditioned to or

1737
01:31:34,120 --> 01:31:37,960
Speaker 1: rather it's just genuinely your preference going against that isn't

1738
01:31:37,960 --> 01:31:40,920
Speaker 1: gonna just like magically be like h and everything's cool

1739
01:31:40,920 --> 01:31:43,320
Speaker 1: now you know it's and it's not the same, but

1740
01:31:43,360 --> 01:31:46,519
Speaker 1: it's similar to like if someone you're hardwired, you're like,

1741
01:31:46,560 --> 01:31:50,040
Speaker 1: I'm gay, and if someone's like, yeah, but you know

1742
01:31:50,920 --> 01:31:53,320
Speaker 1: women have it bad and you should want to have

1743
01:31:53,360 --> 01:31:55,360
Speaker 1: sex with women too, right, you'd be like, what the

1744
01:31:55,360 --> 01:31:59,120
Speaker 1: fuck are you talking about? Right, like like you can't

1745
01:31:59,320 --> 01:32:03,240
Speaker 1: like that's like I can recognize the sagny exists and

1746
01:32:03,320 --> 01:32:06,400
Speaker 1: not feel like the answer to that is my dick,

1747
01:32:06,640 --> 01:32:09,559
Speaker 1: you know, and not and not to mention, just like

1748
01:32:09,640 --> 01:32:17,639
Speaker 1: we've reduced ourselves into like sex as like a not

1749
01:32:17,720 --> 01:32:22,120
Speaker 1: just an act, but like some sort of statement on

1750
01:32:22,439 --> 01:32:24,240
Speaker 1: how good or bad a person you are. And I

1751
01:32:24,280 --> 01:32:27,960
Speaker 1: think you know it's ugly and don't nobody want to

1752
01:32:28,000 --> 01:32:29,840
Speaker 1: deal with it. But it's also like one of the

1753
01:32:29,880 --> 01:32:31,519
Speaker 1: few times when people be upfront and you'd be like,

1754
01:32:31,560 --> 01:32:33,840
Speaker 1: I ain't trying to fuck with Like if you put

1755
01:32:34,040 --> 01:32:36,599
Speaker 1: on there, I don't want to sex with fat people

1756
01:32:36,680 --> 01:32:39,439
Speaker 1: or something, I'm not gonna be like, well, I think

1757
01:32:39,479 --> 01:32:42,160
Speaker 1: you should, like i'ma be like, oh thank god, I

1758
01:32:42,200 --> 01:32:44,800
Speaker 1: don't want I don't want you to feel bad about

1759
01:32:44,840 --> 01:32:47,120
Speaker 1: having sex with me, So I thank you for I

1760
01:32:47,120 --> 01:32:50,400
Speaker 1: appreciate you let me know up front, even if I

1761
01:32:50,520 --> 01:32:52,360
Speaker 1: know that that might not come from a good place,

1762
01:32:52,479 --> 01:32:56,360
Speaker 1: that you feel that way. You know anyway, he says, hopefully,

1763
01:32:56,400 --> 01:32:58,680
Speaker 1: no facts, no Blacks, no feels, no Asians. Is a

1764
01:32:58,720 --> 01:33:01,680
Speaker 1: trope that's been died out out, dying out outwardly on

1765
01:33:01,760 --> 01:33:04,280
Speaker 1: these dating sites. But you know, people still feel that way.

1766
01:33:05,280 --> 01:33:07,559
Speaker 1: They're just tied at the discourse around their preference. If

1767
01:33:07,560 --> 01:33:09,280
Speaker 1: you have a preference, it's best to keep it to yourself,

1768
01:33:09,320 --> 01:33:12,240
Speaker 1: find attack or find attacking way to list it. Yeah,

1769
01:33:13,040 --> 01:33:14,479
Speaker 1: I think it, especially when you're talking about that. I

1770
01:33:14,520 --> 01:33:16,200
Speaker 1: think when you talk about relationships and love, it's a

1771
01:33:16,240 --> 01:33:20,400
Speaker 1: little different. But at the beginning it's all physical, it's

1772
01:33:20,439 --> 01:33:22,519
Speaker 1: all appearance, it's all surface over because you ain't got

1773
01:33:22,560 --> 01:33:25,120
Speaker 1: to know the person yet. I think when you're talking

1774
01:33:25,120 --> 01:33:28,200
Speaker 1: about relationships and love, though, like what Ebanie was saying,

1775
01:33:29,400 --> 01:33:35,080
Speaker 1: it gets a little tricky because it's like you're limiting

1776
01:33:35,200 --> 01:33:38,960
Speaker 1: the abability for people to surprise you. I guess it

1777
01:33:39,040 --> 01:33:41,880
Speaker 1: is what I'm saying, Like, I don't know, I feel

1778
01:33:41,920 --> 01:33:45,720
Speaker 1: like a blanket. Anything is kind of weird, but that's

1779
01:33:45,800 --> 01:33:48,120
Speaker 1: just me, you know. I think I would be open

1780
01:33:48,160 --> 01:33:52,400
Speaker 1: to just about any I would be open to being

1781
01:33:52,479 --> 01:33:54,360
Speaker 1: surprised because I just feel like, on the surface, we

1782
01:33:54,439 --> 01:33:57,720
Speaker 1: say how many times we got to just find out

1783
01:33:57,720 --> 01:33:58,639
Speaker 1: we don't know shit.

1784
01:33:59,080 --> 01:34:00,400
Speaker 2: We don't know nothing.

1785
01:34:00,600 --> 01:34:03,320
Speaker 1: I just don't know how we keep we keep feeling

1786
01:34:03,360 --> 01:34:05,920
Speaker 1: like we know everything. It's just so fucking obviously clear

1787
01:34:06,000 --> 01:34:09,760
Speaker 1: we don't know ship Man anyway. Last ones from John,

1788
01:34:10,120 --> 01:34:13,200
Speaker 1: Good Morning, Rod and Kara. The title is Activism Team

1789
01:34:13,280 --> 01:34:18,040
Speaker 1: Poppy and fast food recipe Receipts, et cetera. Happy Proud

1790
01:34:18,040 --> 01:34:20,960
Speaker 1: Boys convicted us A dishes conspiracy Day. Yeahll save that

1791
01:34:21,040 --> 01:34:27,360
Speaker 1: in my uh election section. UH got him. Also, one

1792
01:34:27,400 --> 01:34:30,799
Speaker 1: person got like the longest sentence ever, which I fucking

1793
01:34:30,880 --> 01:34:33,960
Speaker 1: told y'all was gonna happen. I'll said, they getting the

1794
01:34:34,000 --> 01:34:36,920
Speaker 1: short ones out of the way. Merrick Garland know what

1795
01:34:37,000 --> 01:34:40,200
Speaker 1: he doing and it's just gonna be a matter of time.

1796
01:34:44,640 --> 01:34:44,840
Speaker 5: Yep.

1797
01:34:48,160 --> 01:34:49,160
Speaker 2: Yeah right.

1798
01:34:52,200 --> 01:34:54,880
Speaker 1: Well, were like two years later and Marek's still keeping

1799
01:34:54,920 --> 01:34:58,080
Speaker 1: that same energy and he's still locking motherfuckers up, and

1800
01:34:58,360 --> 01:35:01,519
Speaker 1: the sentence is getting longer and long. I said, listen,

1801
01:35:01,600 --> 01:35:05,200
Speaker 1: the people y'all getting all y'all getting your wide shot

1802
01:35:05,280 --> 01:35:08,639
Speaker 1: all early, and shit, they gave her three months. Yeah,

1803
01:35:08,640 --> 01:35:10,840
Speaker 1: they gave her three months for stepping in the Capitol

1804
01:35:10,840 --> 01:35:12,680
Speaker 1: building and turn around and walking out.

1805
01:35:13,160 --> 01:35:13,479
Speaker 2: Cool.

1806
01:35:13,840 --> 01:35:18,920
Speaker 1: Fine, But when they get to the seditious conspiracy ass niggles.

1807
01:35:18,720 --> 01:35:21,679
Speaker 3: Them, that time gonna go up and not the side

1808
01:35:22,760 --> 01:35:24,640
Speaker 3: not talking. I don't give fuck like, put him in,

1809
01:35:24,680 --> 01:35:27,400
Speaker 3: put him out, let's go. I want the big dogs.

1810
01:35:27,479 --> 01:35:29,080
Speaker 3: And one of the about them and.

1811
01:35:29,080 --> 01:35:31,439
Speaker 1: One of the dudes, the proud boy, he not even

1812
01:35:31,560 --> 01:35:37,480
Speaker 1: motherfucking white. What were you even doing playing with them?

1813
01:35:37,960 --> 01:35:44,320
Speaker 1: You don't go here, boy anyway? Good luck to them. Man.

1814
01:35:44,360 --> 01:35:46,639
Speaker 1: That story about the Black Lives Matter active is mistakenly

1815
01:35:46,720 --> 01:35:48,920
Speaker 1: roasting the white lady at the George Floyd protest was

1816
01:35:49,000 --> 01:35:51,599
Speaker 1: such a perfect example of how the grievous aggregated mindset

1817
01:35:51,640 --> 01:35:54,720
Speaker 1: can be so problematic in activist spaces. Activists get into

1818
01:35:54,760 --> 01:35:57,479
Speaker 1: a state where they are on a hair trigger, looking

1819
01:35:57,520 --> 01:36:00,200
Speaker 1: for something anything to be outraged about, and they end

1820
01:36:00,280 --> 01:36:02,400
Speaker 1: up lashing out at the wrong people, And then those

1821
01:36:02,439 --> 01:36:05,120
Speaker 1: same activists will wonder why people, especially people of privilege,

1822
01:36:05,160 --> 01:36:07,640
Speaker 1: are has't to show up to the meetings. Protests are

1823
01:36:07,680 --> 01:36:09,040
Speaker 1: meaningfully engaging the work.

1824
01:36:08,880 --> 01:36:10,640
Speaker 2: Because people watch your actions.

1825
01:36:10,720 --> 01:36:13,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I know the online thing to say is

1826
01:36:13,400 --> 01:36:16,240
Speaker 1: to be like h and so what if they can't

1827
01:36:16,280 --> 01:36:20,280
Speaker 1: handle the nigga. That's how it worked though They still

1828
01:36:20,360 --> 01:36:24,280
Speaker 1: people and your job supposedly was bringing people together to

1829
01:36:24,280 --> 01:36:28,120
Speaker 1: get shit done. So if part of your dogma is

1830
01:36:29,000 --> 01:36:32,639
Speaker 1: I'm just fuck these people and they better still come out,

1831
01:36:32,720 --> 01:36:34,400
Speaker 1: well that's not how people work.

1832
01:36:34,520 --> 01:36:36,599
Speaker 2: So they're not coming out and they're not showing up.

1833
01:36:36,960 --> 01:36:38,760
Speaker 1: Don't be mad when your movement don't get off the

1834
01:36:38,760 --> 01:36:40,639
Speaker 1: ground because you don't know how to deal with people.

1835
01:36:40,720 --> 01:36:42,240
Speaker 1: Working on people is a big part of it.

1836
01:36:42,360 --> 01:36:43,320
Speaker 2: Yes, it is.

1837
01:36:44,160 --> 01:36:46,080
Speaker 1: Sadly, I know lots of good people who have been

1838
01:36:46,120 --> 01:36:49,000
Speaker 1: turned off from otherwise participating the activist work because the

1839
01:36:49,120 --> 01:36:51,559
Speaker 1: environment where everyone to be ally has to go in

1840
01:36:51,640 --> 01:36:53,240
Speaker 1: knowing it's just a matter of time before they get

1841
01:36:53,320 --> 01:36:56,760
Speaker 1: roasted or in this case much worse over a simple misunderstanding.

1842
01:36:56,880 --> 01:36:59,200
Speaker 1: It ends up taking a very small pool of people,

1843
01:36:59,240 --> 01:37:02,400
Speaker 1: white people who want to actively fight racism, and it

1844
01:37:02,439 --> 01:37:04,760
Speaker 1: shrinks it down even more. It's really frustratings as an

1845
01:37:04,800 --> 01:37:08,439
Speaker 1: undercuts coalition building at one of the most important levels

1846
01:37:08,479 --> 01:37:10,880
Speaker 1: and really helps keep us all in solids. The thing

1847
01:37:11,040 --> 01:37:13,640
Speaker 1: is like, that's it. So that's an easy one to

1848
01:37:13,760 --> 01:37:16,479
Speaker 1: talk about because we're talking about white people, right, and

1849
01:37:16,560 --> 01:37:18,760
Speaker 1: so people already have the feelings about white people, good

1850
01:37:18,880 --> 01:37:21,200
Speaker 1: or bad, and so that every people are like, yeah,

1851
01:37:21,280 --> 01:37:23,679
Speaker 1: look at them, da da da. The thing is that

1852
01:37:23,760 --> 01:37:27,680
Speaker 1: doesn't stop at white people. It keeps going until you're

1853
01:37:27,680 --> 01:37:29,559
Speaker 1: not the right kind of black person, until you're not

1854
01:37:29,600 --> 01:37:32,360
Speaker 1: the right kind of you disagree about one thing, you

1855
01:37:32,400 --> 01:37:34,320
Speaker 1: didn't do this, and then the group because he gets

1856
01:37:34,320 --> 01:37:36,040
Speaker 1: small and small and you realize, like, this is never

1857
01:37:36,120 --> 01:37:38,320
Speaker 1: really about a group, It's about a couple of people's

1858
01:37:38,320 --> 01:37:41,000
Speaker 1: fucking egos. Because if you're not pushing the shit to

1859
01:37:41,000 --> 01:37:44,400
Speaker 1: the side, at some point, you're never going to be

1860
01:37:44,439 --> 01:37:47,400
Speaker 1: able to build the coalition you want, you know. Nope.

1861
01:37:47,800 --> 01:37:50,519
Speaker 3: And also the thing about a lot of activists, which

1862
01:37:50,560 --> 01:37:54,240
Speaker 3: people don't want to talk about, where people start and

1863
01:37:54,280 --> 01:37:57,840
Speaker 3: where people in and activism sometimes changed. Like human beings,

1864
01:37:57,840 --> 01:38:01,040
Speaker 3: they grow, they change, they evolve, they compromise, they see

1865
01:38:01,080 --> 01:38:04,920
Speaker 3: things differently. They end up, you know, talking to people

1866
01:38:05,080 --> 01:38:07,760
Speaker 3: that before they would have said fuck you. Like that

1867
01:38:07,880 --> 01:38:10,120
Speaker 3: is a part of the growth of shit too, because

1868
01:38:10,120 --> 01:38:11,920
Speaker 3: at the end of the day, you know what shit

1869
01:38:12,000 --> 01:38:14,840
Speaker 3: needs to get done, not just you being mad, ranting

1870
01:38:14,920 --> 01:38:16,519
Speaker 3: and raving and talking about how shits.

1871
01:38:16,520 --> 01:38:18,479
Speaker 2: Some fear shit needs to be done too.

1872
01:38:18,760 --> 01:38:20,800
Speaker 3: So if that's what you're gonna do, be on the

1873
01:38:20,840 --> 01:38:22,880
Speaker 3: outside agitating, because we need you people.

1874
01:38:22,920 --> 01:38:24,320
Speaker 2: This is gonna be mad just for the sake of

1875
01:38:24,400 --> 01:38:27,040
Speaker 2: being mad. And I ain't got nothing but fire and britstones.

1876
01:38:26,479 --> 01:38:28,720
Speaker 3: For everybody, bitch to get out there and fuss and

1877
01:38:28,720 --> 01:38:31,439
Speaker 3: fight and argue and and and do that shit all day.

1878
01:38:31,720 --> 01:38:36,280
Speaker 3: But you also need people getting shit done, getting laws passed,

1879
01:38:36,520 --> 01:38:39,839
Speaker 3: talking to people that actually can change the laws.

1880
01:38:40,120 --> 01:38:41,519
Speaker 2: You need those people too.

1881
01:38:41,760 --> 01:38:43,760
Speaker 3: You can't be like I'm just gonna get mad and

1882
01:38:43,840 --> 01:38:45,880
Speaker 3: agitated all day, bitch. All they gonna do is pass

1883
01:38:45,960 --> 01:38:47,760
Speaker 3: laws to what the what the fuck you're doing don't

1884
01:38:47,800 --> 01:38:50,360
Speaker 3: even matter anymore, which they've already started doing.

1885
01:38:55,240 --> 01:38:59,400
Speaker 1: He goes on to say, I hate to be teen Poppy,

1886
01:39:00,439 --> 01:39:02,439
Speaker 1: but I watched the longer clip of Don Lemon in

1887
01:39:02,439 --> 01:39:04,880
Speaker 1: that Republican douchebag, and I'm not really sure that white

1888
01:39:04,920 --> 01:39:07,479
Speaker 1: lady could have Lenarvin in any way that would have

1889
01:39:07,520 --> 01:39:10,320
Speaker 1: come off right. He and first of all, I don't

1890
01:39:10,360 --> 01:39:11,960
Speaker 1: know why you hate to be teen Poppy. I don't

1891
01:39:11,960 --> 01:39:15,000
Speaker 1: think we said anything about her. I just know as

1892
01:39:15,040 --> 01:39:18,599
Speaker 1: the white lady that didn't say shit, and if Don

1893
01:39:18,640 --> 01:39:21,080
Speaker 1: would have been there, shit wouldn't have been said, is

1894
01:39:21,160 --> 01:39:23,000
Speaker 1: how it felt, and that dude would have got up

1895
01:39:23,000 --> 01:39:24,800
Speaker 1: there a lot about the NRA and black people, and

1896
01:39:24,800 --> 01:39:27,240
Speaker 1: she would have just cut the commercial when it was

1897
01:39:27,240 --> 01:39:30,280
Speaker 1: trying to cut the commercials. She to me she was

1898
01:39:31,600 --> 01:39:34,160
Speaker 1: she was in over her head in the first place,

1899
01:39:34,200 --> 01:39:36,479
Speaker 1: and clearly they were in their ears telling them not

1900
01:39:36,520 --> 01:39:39,040
Speaker 1: to talk about that and engage that question. She was

1901
01:39:39,120 --> 01:39:43,599
Speaker 1: doing what the station wanted from her. Don went off script,

1902
01:39:43,960 --> 01:39:46,120
Speaker 1: probably paid the price for that, because I doubt it's

1903
01:39:46,240 --> 01:39:48,439
Speaker 1: how he treated women or being a diva, because I

1904
01:39:48,479 --> 01:39:53,080
Speaker 1: don't think seeing then cares about that shit. So I

1905
01:39:53,120 --> 01:39:55,599
Speaker 1: don't know that it's even like a teen poppy situation.

1906
01:39:55,680 --> 01:39:57,720
Speaker 1: We weren't really going in on her because I was like,

1907
01:39:57,760 --> 01:40:01,280
Speaker 1: I get why she did what she did. He and

1908
01:40:01,320 --> 01:40:03,040
Speaker 1: Don were already going at it pretty hot, and I

1909
01:40:03,080 --> 01:40:04,880
Speaker 1: know if it were me, I wouldn't want to interrupt

1910
01:40:04,880 --> 01:40:07,160
Speaker 1: my black cowork in that situation once they were rolling.

1911
01:40:07,600 --> 01:40:10,599
Speaker 1: Just imagine how the medium think pieces about white women

1912
01:40:10,640 --> 01:40:12,760
Speaker 1: talking of a black man, especially if she somehow fucked

1913
01:40:12,800 --> 01:40:15,400
Speaker 1: up her response. Seriously, though, that's a tricky situation. My

1914
01:40:15,439 --> 01:40:17,439
Speaker 1: approach is usually to give a quick look at to

1915
01:40:17,520 --> 01:40:19,400
Speaker 1: my black friend colleague, like you want me to push

1916
01:40:19,479 --> 01:40:21,360
Speaker 1: back on the shit and then follow their lead. But

1917
01:40:21,600 --> 01:40:23,320
Speaker 1: I'm not sure there was even really time for that

1918
01:40:23,320 --> 01:40:25,360
Speaker 1: in the instance, because that asshole was just flooding its

1919
01:40:25,360 --> 01:40:27,320
Speaker 1: own with all kinds of unrelated to talk to points

1920
01:40:27,479 --> 01:40:29,960
Speaker 1: and Diamond's fund the fast she could have gotten given

1921
01:40:30,080 --> 01:40:32,240
Speaker 1: some head out and the other signs of supporting what

1922
01:40:32,400 --> 01:40:35,120
Speaker 1: Donald's saying though, or and at least she knew well

1923
01:40:35,240 --> 01:40:37,479
Speaker 1: enough to just not to fist up Donald say my

1924
01:40:37,600 --> 01:40:40,679
Speaker 1: mizzle when he finished it's a low bob. She got

1925
01:40:40,720 --> 01:40:44,280
Speaker 1: over it. Yeah, yeah, No, I don't know, but maybe

1926
01:40:44,280 --> 01:40:46,160
Speaker 1: there were other people that ever matter her something. To me,

1927
01:40:46,200 --> 01:40:48,080
Speaker 1: she was kind of a non factor because I just

1928
01:40:49,160 --> 01:40:51,040
Speaker 1: I mean, and this is I guess it's not the

1929
01:40:51,120 --> 01:40:54,200
Speaker 1: kindest thing to say, but she was probably in over

1930
01:40:54,240 --> 01:40:55,640
Speaker 1: her head and out of her lane. She ain't know

1931
01:40:55,680 --> 01:40:58,280
Speaker 1: what the fuck to do. White people don't do the

1932
01:40:58,360 --> 01:41:00,400
Speaker 1: reading most of the time. They don't know how to

1933
01:41:00,479 --> 01:41:01,680
Speaker 1: respond in no situations.

1934
01:41:01,840 --> 01:41:03,760
Speaker 3: That's how she just sat back and kind of look

1935
01:41:03,840 --> 01:41:06,000
Speaker 3: irritating and was like, well, I guess we're doing this.

1936
01:41:06,720 --> 01:41:08,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like so I don't know, I don't know that

1937
01:41:08,439 --> 01:41:10,200
Speaker 1: I was going in on her. She don't deserve no

1938
01:41:10,240 --> 01:41:13,000
Speaker 1: props and no credit, but as she could be a

1939
01:41:13,080 --> 01:41:15,240
Speaker 1: perfectly fine human being. I don't know anything about that

1940
01:41:15,280 --> 01:41:18,160
Speaker 1: woman other than that clip I saw, and she was

1941
01:41:18,520 --> 01:41:20,840
Speaker 1: just out of her lane and wasn't even trying to

1942
01:41:20,880 --> 01:41:23,120
Speaker 1: help or hurt. She was just like trying to get

1943
01:41:23,160 --> 01:41:23,880
Speaker 1: to the next thing.

1944
01:41:24,000 --> 01:41:26,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, she looking like, can we just go to.

1945
01:41:26,920 --> 01:41:29,080
Speaker 1: Because the thing that people don't understand is over the

1946
01:41:29,120 --> 01:41:30,960
Speaker 1: time or that maybe y'all do understand. I'll get it.

1947
01:41:31,040 --> 01:41:33,280
Speaker 1: But the thing people have to see in that situation

1948
01:41:33,439 --> 01:41:36,360
Speaker 1: is the macro of that is they have a boss

1949
01:41:36,360 --> 01:41:39,519
Speaker 1: who wants that kind of content. Yeah, and not the

1950
01:41:39,640 --> 01:41:42,200
Speaker 1: kind of content of Don arguing with this man. The

1951
01:41:42,320 --> 01:41:45,559
Speaker 1: kind of content of that man coming on and saying

1952
01:41:45,560 --> 01:41:49,559
Speaker 1: why supremacist lies and nobody checking it. That's what they

1953
01:41:49,640 --> 01:41:52,599
Speaker 1: wanted seeing is she's under that man date she's decided

1954
01:41:52,640 --> 01:41:56,280
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep my job, and Don decided, even though

1955
01:41:56,280 --> 01:41:58,920
Speaker 1: he was on notice, to go ahead and do it anyway,

1956
01:41:59,000 --> 01:42:02,080
Speaker 1: and now he gone right. A lot of the way

1957
01:42:02,120 --> 01:42:03,639
Speaker 1: you flip things around when you want to touch yourself

1958
01:42:03,640 --> 01:42:05,400
Speaker 1: before the signing your position on the issue, I think

1959
01:42:05,400 --> 01:42:07,439
Speaker 1: that is absolutely The way to go and a great

1960
01:42:07,439 --> 01:42:09,599
Speaker 1: way to strive for more consistency is sometimes I try

1961
01:42:09,640 --> 01:42:12,360
Speaker 1: to put it into practice myself to clarify my thinking.

1962
01:42:12,720 --> 01:42:15,479
Speaker 1: Writing racial epithets on someone's receipt has no place at

1963
01:42:15,560 --> 01:42:19,759
Speaker 1: Chick fil A. I say that employee should be fired immediately,

1964
01:42:19,800 --> 01:42:22,240
Speaker 1: except I'm pretty sure with result in them falling upwards

1965
01:42:22,520 --> 01:42:24,880
Speaker 1: to a management position at Cracker Barrel. And that's how

1966
01:42:24,880 --> 01:42:28,759
Speaker 1: it works. Honestly, you can't even get a Cracker Barrel

1967
01:42:29,600 --> 01:42:32,439
Speaker 1: application until you have done some racist shit at another job.

1968
01:42:32,680 --> 01:42:33,280
Speaker 1: That's what I heard.

1969
01:42:33,320 --> 01:42:35,559
Speaker 2: Oh no, that's rumor.

1970
01:42:35,720 --> 01:42:38,240
Speaker 1: You call anybody in words your old job. It's like, yes,

1971
01:42:38,360 --> 01:42:40,360
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. They're like no, not sorry, you can go

1972
01:42:40,400 --> 01:42:41,639
Speaker 1: straight into management.

1973
01:42:41,840 --> 01:42:42,439
Speaker 2: Rumor has it.

1974
01:42:42,920 --> 01:42:45,320
Speaker 1: PS. Still haven't finished Beef yet, but very excited for

1975
01:42:45,360 --> 01:42:48,000
Speaker 1: the episode you did with bo on Beef Form and Snowfall.

1976
01:42:48,320 --> 01:42:50,840
Speaker 1: The active performance from Damnse and Idris in the last

1977
01:42:50,920 --> 01:42:53,240
Speaker 1: episode was so good. I was getting a lot of

1978
01:42:53,240 --> 01:42:55,600
Speaker 1: Denzel the end the training day viz Amy worthy in

1979
01:42:55,640 --> 01:42:58,080
Speaker 1: my opinion, though I'm sure the Emmy voters will be

1980
01:42:58,200 --> 01:43:02,400
Speaker 1: too busy falling over success to even notice. Too angry faces.

1981
01:43:02,479 --> 01:43:05,200
Speaker 1: Cheers to stay safe, John, Yeah, I wonder. I don't

1982
01:43:05,200 --> 01:43:07,360
Speaker 1: know if Snowfall has ever been nominated for anything. I

1983
01:43:07,360 --> 01:43:08,439
Speaker 1: don't think anything.

1984
01:43:08,600 --> 01:43:09,679
Speaker 2: I don't think it has.

1985
01:43:09,920 --> 01:43:12,840
Speaker 3: Yes, it may have in like smaller categories, but not

1986
01:43:12,880 --> 01:43:14,879
Speaker 3: for the acting, at least not the best my knowledge.

1987
01:43:15,040 --> 01:43:17,559
Speaker 1: Yeah. Oh well, all right, guys, that's it for this

1988
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Speaker 1: day's episode. Thanks for listening everybody. We appreciate y'all. We'll

1989
01:43:20,600 --> 01:43:26,360
Speaker 1: be back throughout the week. Until next time. I love you,

1990
01:43:26,479 --> 01:43:27,400
Speaker 1: I love you to come on.