1 00:00:01,520 --> 00:00:02,320 Speaker 1: It's awkward. 2 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:03,640 Speaker 2: It's Tuesday. 3 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. 4 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:11,280 Speaker 3: Planning a wedding can be a pretty stressful thing to do. 5 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 3: That's why Brook let her husband planned most of theirs. 6 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:17,759 Speaker 3: Brook just chose out the pies and that was it. 7 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:20,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know the only thing that has been cared 8 00:00:20,320 --> 00:00:22,480 Speaker 4: about is that we got pizza delivered at eleven o'clock 9 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 4: at night. 10 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, wow, you were involved. 11 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I did it all. 12 00:00:27,840 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 1: Good for you, Brook. 13 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 3: Most women don't get that intense and to their weddings, 14 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:34,920 Speaker 3: and one couple hasn't really even gotten to that stage 15 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 3: of the planning yet, but already the groom is anxious 16 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:41,600 Speaker 3: and it has nothing to do with their actual wedding event, 17 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:44,600 Speaker 3: but it's a situation that's bad and awkward enough where 18 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 3: he has to have a difficult conversation with his bride 19 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 3: to be. So he's turning to us for a little 20 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 3: bit of help. Let's welcome Travis to the show. Travis, 21 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:53,199 Speaker 3: how you doing? 22 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:53,480 Speaker 1: Man? 23 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:57,160 Speaker 5: Hey, guys, good morning, doing well? Thanks for having me going. 24 00:00:56,960 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 4: God, I feel like if you're turning to us, like 25 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 4: on a scale of one to ten of how scared 26 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 4: you are of your fiance, it's going to be high. 27 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:06,199 Speaker 5: Yeah, man, this is a tough one. 28 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:07,760 Speaker 1: Okay, what's going on. 29 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:12,959 Speaker 5: Basically, my girlfriend and I we got engaged three months ago. 30 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:16,759 Speaker 1: Okay, well, now be called your fiance if you're engaged. 31 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:17,920 Speaker 2: Doesn't it sound so good? 32 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:22,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's awesome, congratulations. 33 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 5: Thank you. So, I mean, we've been just really excited 34 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:28,120 Speaker 5: and we're kind of getting into the whole wedding planning thing, 35 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 5: and we've been founding all of our family and friend However, 36 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 5: there is a bit of an issue and I'm not 37 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 5: sure how to go about it, and it has to 38 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 5: do with like the last names. 39 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:43,759 Speaker 2: What do you mean, who's last names? 40 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 5: Well, so I know that like typically the women takes 41 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 5: the man's last name, right. 42 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 2: It's kind of old fashion these days. 43 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 1: But yeah, well you took your husband's last name broke. 44 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 3: Oh no, you took my Okay, that's kind of an 45 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 3: easy swap since you had the same lesson. 46 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 2: The same last name. We're not cousins. 47 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 4: You can't say that because people actually believe, I'm sorry, 48 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 4: because we make. 49 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 3: Fun of at least that's what she wants everybody. So 50 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 3: traditionally women take the man's last name. Why is that 51 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 3: a problem? 52 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 5: Well, it's a problem you guys, because I hate my 53 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 5: last name. 54 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 4: Oh, are you thinking about taking her last name? 55 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:26,840 Speaker 5: Yeah? I would love to take her last name. 56 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 1: Great, that's awesome, she's gonna like love that. Why do 57 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 1: you hate your last name though? What's wrong with your now? 58 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 5: Just because like growing up, it was just like super 59 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 5: awkward in school, people always made fun of me for it. 60 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:41,119 Speaker 6: Oh? 61 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 2: Interesting, Well you have to tell us now? 62 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:45,200 Speaker 1: Can we know what your last name is? 63 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:52,239 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's Hubbard? 64 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: What like puberty fun of his name? He's self conscious 65 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:01,800 Speaker 1: about it. It's funny and you know it. Did we 66 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 1: get it right? How do you spell it? 67 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:07,400 Speaker 5: Yeah? It's p U b b E r t y. 68 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 2: Wow. She probably doesn't want it either. 69 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 5: Yeah. 70 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:14,920 Speaker 4: I mean it's interesting that they haven't had a conversation 71 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 4: about it when it's such an easy name to make 72 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 4: fun of. 73 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 7: Right, But that's probably why she hasn't brought it up. 74 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:23,359 Speaker 1: I mean, it's probably in your day. 75 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:24,640 Speaker 2: I feel like i'd bring it up all the time. 76 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:28,360 Speaker 1: You discussed this at all with your fiance. 77 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 5: Yet so I haven't yet. But you know, my last 78 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 5: name is Palmer. 79 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 1: H Yeah, sorry, I mean it's way different. That's more 80 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 1: classic tradition. 81 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 4: It may not be the fiance that has the issue. 82 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 4: It may be your family that has the issue. 83 00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:47,320 Speaker 1: Oh, I didn't think of it, Like, who. 84 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 2: Are you worried about telling this to? 85 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 5: Basically, I'm just worried about telling Jane and Jane's family 86 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 5: family is very traditional. 87 00:03:57,720 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 2: That's interesting. So I would think that you'd be worried 88 00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 2: about your family. 89 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, more so hers, because you know, they're just very traditional. 90 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 5: And I don't want to have that awkward conversation. I 91 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 5: was like, Oh, well, it's always happened where you know 92 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 5: the wife takes the man's name. 93 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 2: Okay, And I'm. 94 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 4: Sure you're thinking of like kids and stuff too, like 95 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:16,640 Speaker 4: you don't want to put your kids through what you 96 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 4: had to go through. 97 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 2: I think they don't want. 98 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:23,039 Speaker 5: To, right, I mean, I still haved we can tell. 99 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:25,360 Speaker 3: Honestly, I don't think you sound bad at all. I 100 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 3: think you sound like a stand up. Don't laugh at him, 101 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 3: but he sounds like a great guy. 102 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 4: He does sound like a great guy, but he sounds 103 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:33,279 Speaker 4: like he still has a lot of trauma from what 104 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 4: the bullying that he endured because of his last name. 105 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:38,120 Speaker 1: I'm not picking up trauma vibes off of you at all. 106 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:40,279 Speaker 7: I still think you embraced him. Now name is Bologna, 107 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 7: something called Jose Bloni my whole life, and I think 108 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 7: it's hilarious. 109 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:44,600 Speaker 1: You just have fun with it. 110 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:47,159 Speaker 3: It's too late for that, yeah, I mean he doesn't 111 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:50,279 Speaker 3: want to perpetuate that name anymore, and that you bet. 112 00:04:50,440 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 2: Okay, No, we're not doing it. 113 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 1: It's his choice. 114 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:54,920 Speaker 3: Like, if you don't want to keep your last name, 115 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 3: that's up to you. But you're worried that your fiance 116 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 3: isn't going to be receptive. She wants your life. 117 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean she loves me. I love her. It's 118 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 5: all good. I got to figure out a way to 119 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 5: bring it up, and I'm just really hesitanting. 120 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:10,479 Speaker 2: I mean, I just think that she's going to be relieved. 121 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, why would you say that? 122 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 2: I don't think she wants that last. 123 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 1: Year with his last name. I think it's great. 124 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 4: Jeff, we've gone over what's wrong with his day and 125 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 4: what he's had to endure because of it. 126 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 3: I'm considering changing my last name to your last name, 127 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:27,160 Speaker 3: But if you want to do it your way, it's 128 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 3: up to you. Man, we're going to call your fiance here. 129 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:30,919 Speaker 3: Is that what you want to do? 130 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:32,000 Speaker 5: Yeah? 131 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:35,919 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, we're going to call her and try and 132 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:38,800 Speaker 3: give you some advice on how to convince her to 133 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 3: not take your name when you guys get married. 134 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:44,840 Speaker 5: Well, and don't forget I would like her last name too. 135 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:46,720 Speaker 3: Okay, we'll see if we can make that happen for 136 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 3: you when we do your awkward Tuesday phone call next. 137 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 1: It's awkward. 138 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 2: It's Tuesday. 139 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 1: It's an awkward Tuesday phone call. 140 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 3: We're in the middle of our awkward Tuesday phone call 141 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 3: trying to help out our listener. Try Travis, who is 142 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:06,280 Speaker 3: engaged to be married. What a special time. 143 00:06:06,040 --> 00:06:08,039 Speaker 1: In your life before it all goes downhill. 144 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 3: But he doesn't want to do the traditional thing where 145 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 3: the woman takes the man's last name. Why well, he 146 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 3: doesn't like his last name because it's p u B 147 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 3: b e r t y Puverty, one extra B away 148 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:26,039 Speaker 3: from puberty and he's had a lot of issues with 149 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:27,839 Speaker 3: that growing up, probably. 150 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 2: Even getting like new to jobs and stuff. Last name 151 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:34,080 Speaker 2: on the back of jerseys. 152 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 3: I didn't realize I was trying to defend you for 153 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:39,799 Speaker 3: a bit there to my co host earlier. 154 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:41,600 Speaker 2: But but you told our. 155 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 3: Producer off the air. Look, Jeff doesn't have to defend 156 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:44,520 Speaker 3: me so much. 157 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:45,799 Speaker 1: I don't even like my name. 158 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:48,680 Speaker 3: So I guess the room has the green light to 159 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:50,840 Speaker 3: have fun with it and roast him alive. 160 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 2: I don't know that that's what he meant either. 161 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:56,280 Speaker 3: Well, yeah, that's how I'm taking This isn't going to 162 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 3: be his name forever. 163 00:06:57,600 --> 00:06:58,480 Speaker 1: At least he hopes. 164 00:06:58,760 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 3: He wants to take his bride's last name, which is Palmer, 165 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:04,159 Speaker 3: and he just needs our help to convince her to 166 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 3: go along with that idea. 167 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:07,640 Speaker 1: So, Brooke, what do you have for him? What's your advice? 168 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 4: Well, you said that your wife is really traditional, but 169 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:14,240 Speaker 4: I think that there is one thing that runs deep 170 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 4: in women and all women, and that is the need 171 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 4: to protect your babies or your future babies. Yeah, right, 172 00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 4: Like I think that that's how you pitch it to her. 173 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:26,880 Speaker 4: You're like, hey, listen, I really want to do something 174 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 4: to protect them from going through what I had to 175 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 4: go through. 176 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 1: But if that's true, why did you name your daughter 177 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 1: Nora and your son Adler? 178 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 2: And those are beautiful days, Jeffrey. You don't think they 179 00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 2: get teas y. 180 00:07:41,360 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 4: They don't get teased for that, They get teased for 181 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 4: mommy's jobs. 182 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, Travis, what do you think of that? Bring your 183 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:49,680 Speaker 3: future children into the picture. 184 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, thank you. I can definitely work that in. 185 00:07:52,280 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe give her. 186 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 3: An example of how you would pre bully your future kids. 187 00:07:56,240 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 1: But Jose, what do you think he should do? 188 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 7: Well, we're all focused on the first part, but I 189 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 7: think the hardest part of this is actually the second 190 00:08:03,120 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 7: request of taking her family's name. So I just think 191 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 7: be prepared for her to not be able to answer that. 192 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 2: That's a huge ask. 193 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 3: How do you think of that, Travis? I'm not really 194 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 3: sure what the advice is, but be prepared for a bag. 195 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:21,960 Speaker 2: Okay, you have some other last names on deck, and 196 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 2: well that's. 197 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:26,000 Speaker 3: Our advice for you, Travis. Hopefully you can choose to 198 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 3: use it or not use it however you want. This 199 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 3: is your call, but we're going to dial your fiance 200 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:33,240 Speaker 3: Jane and let you make your awkward Tuesday phone call. 201 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 1: Okay, good luck, my man. All right, we'll jump in 202 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 1: and feel like a little help. Here we go. 203 00:08:46,760 --> 00:08:49,960 Speaker 5: Hello, any babe, how's it going? 204 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:53,199 Speaker 6: Oh that's so weird. 205 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:56,080 Speaker 5: I don't know why you didn't pop up? 206 00:08:56,600 --> 00:09:01,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, there's your day, freaking crazy. You know, Abby, that 207 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:05,320 Speaker 6: chick that I work with, she is pushing me, pushing 208 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:09,680 Speaker 6: me beyond I'm just okay, just pleading. 209 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:15,079 Speaker 5: How are you good? Good? Yeah, hopefully we can I 210 00:09:15,120 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 5: don't know, go out grab some some Chinese tonight or something. 211 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:22,359 Speaker 6: Lease and why yeah, absolutely? 212 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:27,720 Speaker 5: But look, I actually, uh, I had something on my 213 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 5: mind and I kind of wanted to talk to you 214 00:09:31,559 --> 00:09:32,079 Speaker 5: about it. 215 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 6: Okay, are you okay? 216 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:41,600 Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, okay. So I just have been thinking about 217 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 5: like the issue of like co ass names, right. 218 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:47,920 Speaker 6: With our last names. 219 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 5: So when we get married, were you thinking of taking 220 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 5: my last name? 221 00:09:54,440 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 6: Well, of course, but I mean, like, you know, that's 222 00:09:57,800 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 6: what you do, That's what you do. 223 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:04,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, That's what I was worried about. 224 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:10,240 Speaker 6: I don't understand what the issue I'm looking. 225 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:14,840 Speaker 5: Forward to taking a name that well, yeah, you know 226 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 5: how I told you when we were first dating, like 227 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:21,960 Speaker 5: about my childhood, the bullying and everything like from my 228 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:22,640 Speaker 5: last name. 229 00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:27,840 Speaker 6: Well yeah, but like we all, like I got teased. 230 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:32,400 Speaker 6: I was freaking Jane Doe. That's what kids do. And 231 00:10:32,640 --> 00:10:36,280 Speaker 6: so so what it's just I love your name. 232 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 5: But it's poverty. Like I don't want our children to 233 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:42,920 Speaker 5: have to go through the same thing that I went through. 234 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:47,200 Speaker 6: I mean, I think it's a lovely last name. In fact, 235 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 6: to me, it sounds like a bit British, like Jane Puverty. 236 00:10:52,400 --> 00:10:56,240 Speaker 6: You know, it's it's it's elegant, you. 237 00:10:56,200 --> 00:11:00,800 Speaker 5: Know, are you kidding? I mean it's it's one letter 238 00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:06,200 Speaker 5: away from puberty. Nobody thinks that, I mean, but they do. 239 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 5: I lived it. I mean, where's your name? I mean, 240 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:13,760 Speaker 5: it's just it's normal. You know, Palmer sounds boring. 241 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:16,480 Speaker 6: It's just boring. 242 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:19,199 Speaker 5: Well, I think, listen, I think we should take your 243 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:22,240 Speaker 5: last name. If I'm being serious. 244 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:29,720 Speaker 6: What yeah, Oh no, no, no, no, I no, okay. 245 00:11:29,760 --> 00:11:33,960 Speaker 6: For one, there's a million Palmers out there. I like 246 00:11:34,040 --> 00:11:36,080 Speaker 6: the idea of having a unique name. 247 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:39,480 Speaker 5: I like that your name is basic. That's the whole point. 248 00:11:39,679 --> 00:11:42,319 Speaker 5: Like it's a name that nobody makes fun of. I mean, 249 00:11:42,360 --> 00:11:44,320 Speaker 5: I've been made one of my whole life for the 250 00:11:44,320 --> 00:11:46,319 Speaker 5: way that my name sounds. 251 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:47,760 Speaker 8: What your whole life like? 252 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:52,320 Speaker 6: I mean, seriously, when you're talking about what grade school 253 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:54,360 Speaker 6: or middle school or something, I mean that that's just 254 00:11:55,000 --> 00:11:58,360 Speaker 6: and it probably made you stronger, right. 255 00:11:58,600 --> 00:12:03,440 Speaker 5: No, you don't understand. By week, I'm very very stop it. 256 00:12:05,400 --> 00:12:07,439 Speaker 5: Are you kidding me? It would crush me. I mean 257 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 5: we're at the bar doing trivia night and they call 258 00:12:10,200 --> 00:12:13,559 Speaker 5: our name and some people laugh. It's like I can't 259 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:14,960 Speaker 5: stand it. It's traumatized. 260 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 6: Oh my god, Like, are you really this upset? 261 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:20,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean look, I really really really think we 262 00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:22,720 Speaker 5: should consider your name. 263 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:29,600 Speaker 6: Well, okay, what if we What if we did like 264 00:12:29,640 --> 00:12:38,360 Speaker 6: some hypenated thing like palmer pupperty or puberty Palmer, that 265 00:12:38,400 --> 00:12:39,640 Speaker 6: would be kind of cool. 266 00:12:41,400 --> 00:12:44,439 Speaker 5: That sounds like a perverted cartoon bear, Like. 267 00:12:50,679 --> 00:12:55,880 Speaker 1: That's normal, kids, sounds. 268 00:12:55,559 --> 00:13:04,480 Speaker 3: Like, Hey, Jane, I'm sorry to interrupt your conversation, but 269 00:13:04,840 --> 00:13:06,079 Speaker 3: we need to let you know that you're on the 270 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 3: radio right now with a show called Brook and Jeffrey 271 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:09,079 Speaker 3: in the Morning, and we. 272 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:13,000 Speaker 2: Just got to my god, yeah we did. Bubby Palmer 273 00:13:13,120 --> 00:13:15,040 Speaker 2: is definitely the mascot. 274 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:17,600 Speaker 6: Wait, I'm on the radio this whole time. 275 00:13:18,120 --> 00:13:19,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, don't worry. 276 00:13:19,960 --> 00:13:24,160 Speaker 3: Your fiance called us for help because he wanted to 277 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 3: have this conversation with you, but he was worried about 278 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:29,000 Speaker 3: how you might react to the name change idea. 279 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:32,880 Speaker 4: And you are like the sweetest, most encouraging fiance. 280 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 2: You have a good partner. 281 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:37,240 Speaker 8: I love him so the last names part of him 282 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:40,440 Speaker 8: and that's how I met him. And I don't know 283 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:43,600 Speaker 8: it just it just has a nice I like multi 284 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:45,000 Speaker 8: syllabic things. 285 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 1: Wow, what does that mean? But he really likes your 286 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:53,760 Speaker 1: name though, that's the issue. 287 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, I really do. I like your name better better. 288 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:02,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, and object actively. I know you're trying to compromise 289 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:03,239 Speaker 3: with like the hyphenation. 290 00:14:03,400 --> 00:14:03,960 Speaker 1: I idea. 291 00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 3: I don't think those names should be near each other 292 00:14:10,120 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 3: poem her Puverty. That's a terrible, terrible No. I think 293 00:14:15,040 --> 00:14:17,520 Speaker 3: if you really want his name and he wants yours, 294 00:14:17,559 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 3: maybe the best compromise is you guys just swap names 295 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 3: at the wedding. 296 00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 2: So you're still Liberty and Palmer, they're just on different people. 297 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:27,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, one has already gone through poverty and the other 298 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 4: one has it yet. 299 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:34,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, she'll get through it experience. I mean, I think 300 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 1: that might be a fair compromise. Are you okay with 301 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:38,240 Speaker 1: that idea, Travis? 302 00:14:38,680 --> 00:14:41,960 Speaker 5: I mean yeah, I mean, hey, like, if she's down 303 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:43,680 Speaker 5: with the swap, I'm down with the swap. 304 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 1: Okay, we have Travis's vote of approval. All we need 305 00:14:46,560 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 1: is you to sign off. 306 00:14:47,400 --> 00:14:48,000 Speaker 5: On a James. 307 00:14:48,040 --> 00:14:48,560 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 308 00:14:49,240 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm thinking I'm I don't know, idea, like, talk 309 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:58,360 Speaker 6: to my parents about it, Like it's not just me, 310 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 6: it's their name, and it's fIF the name of our children. 311 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:05,040 Speaker 3: But it sounds like you're open to the idea if 312 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 3: you're willing to bring it. 313 00:15:06,600 --> 00:15:08,480 Speaker 6: I just want him to be happy, and I want 314 00:15:08,520 --> 00:15:11,200 Speaker 6: to like just have like a I just don't want 315 00:15:11,200 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 6: to freaking complicate our lives. 316 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:15,960 Speaker 2: Okay, totally, you are so stinking cute. 317 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:17,520 Speaker 1: You're very understanding. 318 00:15:17,680 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 3: You set out with a goal to just like try 319 00:15:19,760 --> 00:15:22,440 Speaker 3: and help Travis here, who absolutely hated his last name. 320 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:24,200 Speaker 1: He would he was one of the digit for anything. 321 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:24,560 Speaker 2: Really. 322 00:15:24,600 --> 00:15:27,840 Speaker 4: Maybe maybe now that this conversation is out in the open, Travis, 323 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:31,440 Speaker 4: she can teach you how to lean into being mister Pubbarty, 324 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:33,240 Speaker 4: mister and missus Pubbarty. 325 00:15:33,560 --> 00:15:37,120 Speaker 5: Yeah me Pubbarty Palmer walking down the woods looking for Barry. 326 00:15:38,200 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 2: You still think it sounds like a bear? 327 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 1: I would watch that TV honestly. 328 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 4: Do you think it's a bear that they bring in 329 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:47,440 Speaker 4: around sixth grade to teach kids about their bodies? 330 00:15:48,280 --> 00:15:51,960 Speaker 1: Why is he not wearing any paints? It's brooking Jeffrey 331 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 1: in the morning. 332 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:54,440 Speaker 2: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.