WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Relationship Recipe Fail

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<v Speaker 1>Second dat. Nowadays, most people who are on Facebook use

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<v Speaker 1>it to either stalk their exes to find out who

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<v Speaker 1>they're dating. Now okay, purchase discount Chinese made products off

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<v Speaker 1>the marketplace, or angrily scream their political beliefs in all

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<v Speaker 1>caps while vowing to unfriend anyone who disagrees with them.

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<v Speaker 1>This is all everything that's happening in the world. This

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<v Speaker 1>all checks out, right, But it's all checks out, Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently there are some people who still use Facebook to

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<v Speaker 1>find love. Are they not in a senior center, because

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<v Speaker 1>that's what happened to one of our listeners, Eric, Eric,

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<v Speaker 1>which extremist chat group? Did you meet your lady? We

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<v Speaker 1>met on the comment sections of a Facebook group called

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<v Speaker 1>gross food? Gross Food? I think that is the only

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<v Speaker 1>thing left that's fun on Facebook are the fun groups.

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<v Speaker 1>You can be part of that and the Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey Facebook page. Oh yeah, you should go follow if

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't already. But tell us Eric about the girl

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<v Speaker 1>that you met. What's her name, Samantha? Okay, Samantha. What's

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<v Speaker 1>funny is that I wanted to ask first about the

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<v Speaker 1>gross food that you both commented on. Yeah, actually I

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<v Speaker 1>was thinking that. Okay, what was it. Yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 1>this chili burger and it just it looked awful. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>someone's chili is like a weird brown is not a

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<v Speaker 1>real photograph friendly food. That is definitely for sure. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>Eric sent us a picture of them, so here it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I printed it out. It was exactly Yeah. Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>looks like somebody took two buns and then reached into

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<v Speaker 1>a porta potty basically. I mean it lives up to

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<v Speaker 1>the gross food filter that you needed to post. Pretty disgusting.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you guys start talking about it? She was like,

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<v Speaker 1>is it bad that I want to put that in

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<v Speaker 1>my face? And I was like, twenty bucks? Can I watch? You?

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<v Speaker 1>Guys were meant for each other because after I saw that,

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<v Speaker 1>oh wow, that's a visuals So did you actually, like

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<v Speaker 1>you actually parlayed that into a date? Well yeah, sort of.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we started DM in for a while and

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<v Speaker 1>I really did want to hang out, but she told

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<v Speaker 1>me that she doubted I could actually watch her eat

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<v Speaker 1>it because live like three hundred miles apart. Oh right,

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say, like, what are the chances you're

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<v Speaker 1>in the same city. That's what video chat dates are for. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>video chat eating. This is that what you guys did? No,

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<v Speaker 1>So we stayed friends on Facebook for a few weeks

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<v Speaker 1>and mostly just talk about food and getting to know

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<v Speaker 1>each other and stuff. And I was finally like, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what if I fly you out over my way and

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<v Speaker 1>we try to cut the chili brigger together? Nice? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna cook that thing together. That's what you're thinking.

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<v Speaker 1>I think she's going to spend a whole weekend with

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<v Speaker 1>a strange her that she met on Facebook. Get a

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<v Speaker 1>hotel or he can get her a hotel. And they

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<v Speaker 1>also talked for a few weeks. He said before he

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<v Speaker 1>made that offer, right, like a lot of time with

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<v Speaker 1>one person. But so she was kind of surprised, but

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<v Speaker 1>she eventually said okay, and we sure the weekend to

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<v Speaker 1>do it. Wow. So you guys spent a whole weekend together?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah kind of. What was it like when you picked

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<v Speaker 1>her up at the airport? Well, I offered, but she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want me to. Oh, you know, trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>or she just tried to get a free weekend vacation.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm moving into the hotel. I'll be fine. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of times we don't look our best as

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<v Speaker 1>soon as we get off of an airplane, so maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she needed some time to collect herself before the actual

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<v Speaker 1>dates start. So I mean, when did you guys finally

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<v Speaker 1>meet up? She came over to my place and we

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<v Speaker 1>have the same chemistry that we had online. Nice, that's

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<v Speaker 1>really important, dude. Yeah, but then the disappointment started. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>why who was disappointed? Both of you? Both of us? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the recipe was just awful. So the one that we

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<v Speaker 1>found said that you should bake the burger, like the

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<v Speaker 1>raw meat and the chili and the cheese and everything together,

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<v Speaker 1>all wrapped inside a tinfoil. Oh, I mean you're following

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<v Speaker 1>recipes based on gross food pictures? Like what do you

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<v Speaker 1>expecting to get the hilarious point right? Like, let's recreate?

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<v Speaker 1>Why would you be disappointed? Like I get? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>how did that turn out? I mean after an hour

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<v Speaker 1>it was a total mess, horrible and it just walked

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<v Speaker 1>it on. But I put it back in the oven

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<v Speaker 1>and we tried cooking it some more and thought we

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<v Speaker 1>eat again later, but she said it was getting late

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<v Speaker 1>and she should go back to her hotel. Okay, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>But I was like, you know, you can stay over,

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<v Speaker 1>It's all right if you want. It sounds romantic. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>was there any chemistry between you two, like you're watching

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<v Speaker 1>a show. Nothing happened, There was no. Yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 1>a good chemistry at the beginning of it. But like

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<v Speaker 1>as the of anticipation for this nightmare burger that we've

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<v Speaker 1>been waiting for and talking about for weeks, just ros,

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<v Speaker 1>I just got nervous. Wow, so the horrible food that

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<v Speaker 1>you planned to make was so horrible that it actually

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<v Speaker 1>ruined the day. Yeah, rose emotionally as well. How did

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<v Speaker 1>you anything that night? Well? I got real nervous, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, you don't play a board game? So

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<v Speaker 1>I started pulling some that and stuff, but she wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>do it. Yeah, I mean, I don't want to fly

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<v Speaker 1>to a new city to play board games. Inside her

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<v Speaker 1>out at that point, showing her around. Let's go to

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<v Speaker 1>a real restaurant. Yeah, some good food. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>playing candy Land with a stranger in his apartment could

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<v Speaker 1>be kind of fun. That sounds like Facebook, honestly. So

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<v Speaker 1>did you guys meet up the next day? Nah? She

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<v Speaker 1>took her early flight home and that was it. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>even paid the change fee to make it happen. You're

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<v Speaker 1>desperate to get out when that happens looking kind of

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<v Speaker 1>bleak at the moment, but we've started off with worse.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you like her still? Yeah? Of course. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>that's why I reached out. I mean I want another chance.

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<v Speaker 1>That's something that isn't gonna go terrible. Well, and you

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<v Speaker 1>had chemistry the very beginning before you cooked, you said

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<v Speaker 1>you felt the same chemistry. So there's something there, but

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<v Speaker 1>you got to you gotta find it. Bro, We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>help you find it. We're gonna play a song. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>come back Hall Samantha for you and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update right after this. All right, awesome? Thanks? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, how do two people hundreds of miles apart

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<v Speaker 1>have a common bond? I'll tell you how it sounds deep, Jeffrey,

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<v Speaker 1>it's through gross looking food. Yeah, because that's where they met.

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<v Speaker 1>On a Facebook group dedicated to ugly meals talking about

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<v Speaker 1>Eric and Samantha. They both commented on the same chili

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<v Speaker 1>burger and sparks flew from there. It's it isn't life

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<v Speaker 1>amazing that people can connect that way? Now? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>actually do love that any type of food. I will

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<v Speaker 1>continue to stay on Facebook. This didn't do it for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Flash forward to their wedding, and it's like, I married

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<v Speaker 1>this woman because we both commented on a burger that

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<v Speaker 1>looks like it was found in an outhouse at coach

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<v Speaker 1>this woman. I mean er, you guys are getting way

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<v Speaker 1>ahead of yourself. We couldn't even get through one successful

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<v Speaker 1>night after he paid for a plane ticket. You can

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<v Speaker 1>focus on all the negative stuff, but I think life

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<v Speaker 1>is pretty great. Oh that's good, Jeff. I start imagining

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<v Speaker 1>their six chili king. Yeah, it might not be that

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<v Speaker 1>great because they did try to recreate the recipe that

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<v Speaker 1>they saw online, which took so long that Samantha left

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<v Speaker 1>and went back to her hotel and then rebooked her

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<v Speaker 1>flight home for the next morning. What's your take on

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<v Speaker 1>this type of mess? You love? Maybe she just wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>as dedicated to gross food as you thought, you know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm just saying, Eric, you hear that you're

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<v Speaker 1>too good for her. She actually likes attractive food. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we have a great conversation for like multiple

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<v Speaker 1>weeks about it, so I think we're on the same page. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's true, you guys, just a long way for that

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<v Speaker 1>still to be a thing, though, Like the joker should

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<v Speaker 1>have ended yeah, did you connect over other things? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we talked about a bunch of stuff over

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and via text, the stuff. Yeah, broke a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of stuff. Yeah, stuff. But all right, now we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to ask her a bunch of stuff when we

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<v Speaker 1>call Samantha and try and get the second Date update

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<v Speaker 1>for you. All right, Eric, here we go. Yeah, definitely please,

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<v Speaker 1>And like I know, you guys normally do like gift

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<v Speaker 1>cards or something, but if you could get her just

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<v Speaker 1>a flight out, that'd be great. You looked at a

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<v Speaker 1>radio station's budget lately, Yeah, here's three hundred Delta gift cards. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll work on it. Okay, let's just dial her number

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<v Speaker 1>and see what she has to say. Here we go. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>Hey is this Samantha. Yeah, Hey Samantha. What's up? This

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<v Speaker 1>is Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Oh yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean not listen. I don't know. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>we're on in your city. Yeah, we're on in a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of cities. Samantha Radio show high a radio show. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And we do a segment here called a second Date Update,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're trying to help one of our listeners get

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<v Speaker 1>in touch with you after you went. You went out

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<v Speaker 1>really far from him, You flew three hundred miles to

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<v Speaker 1>hang out with him. Eric called you. Yes, Yes, he thanks,

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<v Speaker 1>You're fantastic. That's so weird. Really why, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it sounds like he went long ways to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure that you could come visit him. He played for well,

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<v Speaker 1>technically she went along, But you guys had a big connection,

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<v Speaker 1>Like why would you say yes to an entire weekend

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody if you didn't. Oh my god, this is

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<v Speaker 1>like really arkwerd to talk about this generally, But like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know if you guys are real people

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<v Speaker 1>like you got us we are robots so bad only

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<v Speaker 1>a human could have possibly come up with that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're real. We're real, and we're seriously trying to help

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<v Speaker 1>out one of our listeners because he's really confused after

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<v Speaker 1>your hangout. He does not know why you ran back

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<v Speaker 1>to your hotel and then booked a flight home the

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<v Speaker 1>next morning. Yeah, I know, but like, did Eric tell

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<v Speaker 1>you the story? I don't know. I mean, we heard

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<v Speaker 1>about your guys are going to make a chili burger

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<v Speaker 1>at his apartment and it was taking way longer than expected,

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<v Speaker 1>started to get late. He tried pulling out some board

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<v Speaker 1>games and you had to go. That's all we really know. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I had to go because he kept asking me to

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<v Speaker 1>stay the night. And that was the first time we met,

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<v Speaker 1>right he said he mentioned that he told you he

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<v Speaker 1>could stay, but he kept asking me, and I was like, Eric,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know you, like, this has been a nice date.

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<v Speaker 1>And he was like pouting. He was like doing the

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<v Speaker 1>guy thing of like, oh, but like you came out here,

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<v Speaker 1>like I really like hanging out with you all of that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he was making you feel guilty about it. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I don't even know you, like you almost

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<v Speaker 1>like you invited me here in your fall sweet tenses. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was understandable. We did not know that he made

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<v Speaker 1>you feel that way. And honestly, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>Eric realizes he made you feel that way either, But

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<v Speaker 1>we can ask him right now because he's on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening and wants to talk to you. Yeah. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't need to make you feel uncomfortable. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to be aspitable, and it's all the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't like answering you to talk. Staffer should say something,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh all right, cool. All right, Cool, it's hard. You're

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<v Speaker 1>not a man of many words. Maybe you should have

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<v Speaker 1>like talk to her more. I mean, maybe that's why

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<v Speaker 1>she felt uncomfortable, because the only thing that was coming

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<v Speaker 1>out of your mouth was that question, over and over again.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you drinking that night? Maybe you forgot that you

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<v Speaker 1>asked that question. Yeah, I guess. I mean I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it's that rude to offer someone to

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<v Speaker 1>not have to go drive their car rental car around

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<v Speaker 1>a city they all know. Yeah, but I said that

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to stay, So I'm actually really glad

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<v Speaker 1>I got a hotel because well kind of possession? Whatd

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<v Speaker 1>that put me in? You know? Oh you paid for

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<v Speaker 1>your own hotel? Yeah? Okay, but I mean I had

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<v Speaker 1>a spare bed room for you. I guess I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really go into the details about everything, but probably should have. Yeah. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I wouldn't even have done that. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know you. I'm like single going into a new city

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<v Speaker 1>that I don't know. And then, like it would have

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<v Speaker 1>been different if we were like boyfriend girlfriend, like officially dating,

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<v Speaker 1>but we learned and this was just like a first

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<v Speaker 1>time thing. Okay, Well, well do you want to be

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<v Speaker 1>my girlfriend, I don't think that was what she meant,

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<v Speaker 1>although it is a good question. Would you have an

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<v Speaker 1>answer for him, samanthat it not like that. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>going to do that over the radio. Sorry, the radio

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't good. Maybe should text her the question. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think that he was purposely trying to make you feel uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>But Eric, I do think if you're going to invite

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<v Speaker 1>a woman into your city, you have to go the

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<v Speaker 1>extra mile to make sure if she feels safe and

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<v Speaker 1>that she feels comfortable. Coming from someone who has offered

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<v Speaker 1>and flown girls out to cities, Okay, they have a hotel,

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<v Speaker 1>expect you do your thing. It's all about communication. Show

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<v Speaker 1>them that gesture. Take the front door off of the hinge,

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<v Speaker 1>just so that you can get out whenever you want.

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<v Speaker 1>It is wide open. I mean, Sam, maybe it just

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<v Speaker 1>didn't cross his mind, you know, like guys don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to think about that when they go into new cities

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<v Speaker 1>to meet people. Yeah. Yeah, Well, I mean I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I've just totally screwed the pooch on this one

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<v Speaker 1>and there's no real recovery. But I mean I'd still

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<v Speaker 1>like to have a second chance. Was that a. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I heard in there. I heard something about poop screwing,

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<v Speaker 1>but let's call it. I'm sorry. No, this is just

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<v Speaker 1>too weird. I feel like it doesn't make sense to

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<v Speaker 1>like have strangers i've never met speaking for him. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it is one of those things. You got

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<v Speaker 1>to go with your gut on this, and that's that's

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<v Speaker 1>what your gut's telling you. Well, I just don't want

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<v Speaker 1>this potential relationship to go down in flames. Because so

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<v Speaker 1>few people in this world actually bond over gross food.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a whole page for it, Jeffrey. It seems like

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<v Speaker 1>there's like hundreds of thousands. Yea, how many of them

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<v Speaker 1>actually fall in love? Yeah, that's none. Apparently they didn't

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<v Speaker 1>think we wanted it to be one. Okay, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I really wanted to try a meatball shake that

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<v Speaker 1>I saw with her. No, Eric, I think we're done here, Samantha,

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<v Speaker 1>because we would offer to pay for that meatball shake

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<v Speaker 1>on your second day. I think I can afford to

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<v Speaker 1>make a meatball shake on my own. Yeah, we were

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<v Speaker 1>talking to money bags. Samantha makes her own meat balls. Jeffrey,

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<v Speaker 1>excuse me, it's broken, Jeffrey in the morning. Well, that

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<v Speaker 1>may have been the most cringe worthy moment of the

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<v Speaker 1>entire year. It would have been different if we were

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<v Speaker 1>like boyfriend girlfriend, like officially dating, but we weren't, and

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<v Speaker 1>this is just like a first time thing. Well, well,

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to be my girlfriend? You play it?

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<v Speaker 1>What if he's listening right now, he should. I had

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<v Speaker 1>to live through it once. He's the one who said it. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>thank god she said no to that, because if that worked,

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<v Speaker 1>I would have thrown my headphones down and been like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm done with this job. Isn't really that easy? What

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<v Speaker 1>happened to you? All? Rooting for love? Had love? He

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even sound like he was into there for most

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<v Speaker 1>of the call. Yeah, it doesn't sound like he's a

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<v Speaker 1>guy who's like super passionate maybe about anything, like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't be a romantic Yeah yeah, I mean I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like he learned a lot from this, For example, not

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<v Speaker 1>pressuring people to stay at his house when they don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to people feel comfortable. Yeah, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>he actually learned that lesson. Yeah, his lessons like next

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<v Speaker 1>time ask her to be my girlfriend, yeah, I fly

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<v Speaker 1>her out. Yeah, but we can help. You learned some

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<v Speaker 1>important life lessons in your dating life. You just make

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<v Speaker 1>fun of you afterwards. Sure, we'll do it all. Just

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<v Speaker 1>emailed the show. We'll call the person who wasn't calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back Brook and Jeffrey in the morning