Speaker 1: Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio
Speaker 1: and the Black Effect. Then as the ask back there,
Speaker 1: Oh ship, we back on the air. Welcome to the
Speaker 1: eighth episode of Carefully Reckless. To y'all, it's your girl.
Speaker 1: Just hilarious, y'all. This feels good. I've been doing this
Speaker 1: for only eight weeks and I'm killing that thanks to
Speaker 1: y'all listeners out there. Grab your tea because we're about
Speaker 1: to get into the storytime. I got some real good
Speaker 1: ship for you, all right. So for those who don't know,
Speaker 1: my dad is a karaoke host slash DJ, and he
Speaker 1: just karaoke at this restaurant every Tuesday in Maryland. Right,
Speaker 1: I go when I can, and every time I go,
Speaker 1: I see this particular girl with a different dude. Now
Speaker 1: I've gone like eight times, so that's like eight niggas.
Speaker 1: I'll sing all way. Right, let me find out. Eight
Speaker 1: is the lucky number. We're on the eighth episode. Okay,
Speaker 1: let me go play that number. So I'm sitting at
Speaker 1: the bar right now. She sees me and she never
Speaker 1: says anything, but this particular night last week, she wanted
Speaker 1: to take a picture. She got kids and they would
Speaker 1: love if she brought home a picture with Jess hilarious.
Speaker 1: So I took a picture and she was there with
Speaker 1: a different dude again last week. The week before that
Speaker 1: she was there with another dude, and the six times
Speaker 1: before that she was with different niggas. So in exchange
Speaker 1: for the picture, I wanted to get in her business.
Speaker 1: You know, I think that was fair. So after the picture,
Speaker 1: we got the chopping it up, and I said, Yo,
Speaker 1: let me ask you something. Every time I'm in here
Speaker 1: I see you with a different guy, teach me the
Speaker 1: game goes, How the fund do you do that? Now? Listen.
Speaker 1: I didn't actually want her to teach me the game.
Speaker 1: I just wanted her to let her guard down a
Speaker 1: little bit, to let me know how the funk she
Speaker 1: is doing this and why the funk she's doing this,
Speaker 1: because it ain't cute to me. So she said, well, Jos,
Speaker 1: I got a nigga for every bill that I have.
Speaker 1: I said, what, Let me let me get this straight.
Speaker 1: So you got a nigga for the rent? She said, oh, no, baby,
Speaker 1: the mortgage. I said, okay, okay, Chocho, black woman owning
Speaker 1: some ship like that? Still a hole? So I said, okay,
Speaker 1: you gotta nigga for the mortgage. You gotta nigga for
Speaker 1: the car payment. You gotta nigga for the B G
Speaker 1: and E, which is electric here in Baltimore. You gotta
Speaker 1: nigga for the water bill. You gotta nigga for the
Speaker 1: car insurance. She gotta nigga for And she's not in
Speaker 1: her head as I'm naming the bills, and so I
Speaker 1: stopped at six. So I'm like, so you got six niggas.
Speaker 1: She said, no, no, six men. I said, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: six niggers for each bill. You know that you have
Speaker 1: to to pay the bill. She said, yeah, because the
Speaker 1: nigga came funk with me unless he paying a bill.
Speaker 1: And I said, okay, so you're not in a relationship
Speaker 1: with any of them. She said, oh no, I'm saying
Speaker 1: I do what I want. I said, obviously, but they
Speaker 1: have to pay a bill to funk with you. She said, yes, man,
Speaker 1: I got kids to feed. I said, okay, where are
Speaker 1: their fathers? She said, bits not no intervention. I said, no,
Speaker 1: hopefully it can be by the end of this conversation.
Speaker 1: Where are their fathers? And she she said, I don't know,
Speaker 1: and I don't give a funk I said, got many
Speaker 1: kids you got? She said, I got two girls. I said, okay, okay, cool,
Speaker 1: two girls. So you only got two baby fathers. Okay.
Speaker 1: In the world today, it's usually around five or six
Speaker 1: for your age. She's thirty five. I said, so you
Speaker 1: don't get emotionally attached to any of these guys. She's like, nah,
Speaker 1: half of them are in relationships and that's how I
Speaker 1: like to keep it, so there is no emotional attachment.
Speaker 1: I said, okay, you do realize this is prostitution and
Speaker 1: somewhat extortion. She laughed, and then she ordered around the shots.
Speaker 1: The nigga she was with came over and I was like,
Speaker 1: you ready to sing? They were about to go up
Speaker 1: and sing a song, so she was like, yeah, but
Speaker 1: when I finished talking to Jazz. When I finished talking
Speaker 1: to Jazz, so he kissed the on our neck. She
Speaker 1: was already drunk and ship right. So when he walked
Speaker 1: off to go back to the table, I leaned over.
Speaker 1: I said, so, which bill is that? And she laughed
Speaker 1: and she was like car payment. I said, yeah, he
Speaker 1: looked like a car payment type nigga. He was lazed.
Speaker 1: He was good, you know what I'm saying. He looked
Speaker 1: much younger than her. He looked like he's so drugs.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying, I'm not stereotype the niggas, but in
Speaker 1: my city, I know each and every type of nigga
Speaker 1: you've on me, And this nigga looked like he sold
Speaker 1: some some some mean ass coke, you know. So I'm like, okay.
Speaker 1: He looked like he he paid and she has she
Speaker 1: got a nice bends, and he pays the car payment.
Speaker 1: I said, okay, you look like the car payment type.
Speaker 1: The only thing that threw me off was that he
Speaker 1: had braids, And I was like, damn it, I don't
Speaker 1: given how old you are, why do you have braids?
Speaker 1: It's okay, right, that's neither here there. So she was like,
Speaker 1: I can't teach you the game if you want. I
Speaker 1: said no, I was just bullshit. I don't want to
Speaker 1: be you. I don't want to be like you. In fact,
Speaker 1: I want you to be more like me, be independent.
Speaker 1: She walked away. She wasn't trying to hear that ship
Speaker 1: and it's cool, and it's cool, but that brings me
Speaker 1: to the carefully reckless discussion. Ladies and these days and times,
Speaker 1: why the funk do you feel now listen, it's not
Speaker 1: all of y'all, but it's a lot of women out
Speaker 1: here these days that feel like a nigga can't funk
Speaker 1: with me unless he paying for a bill or paying something.
Speaker 1: That's not how you go into it, unless that's your profession,
Speaker 1: unless you are a proster to unless you do just
Speaker 1: want to use this nigga, unless you don't want nothing
Speaker 1: more than just the coin from the nigga. But if
Speaker 1: this is the way you're operating in your everyday love life,
Speaker 1: it's not okay. This is just how I feel, and
Speaker 1: this is my opinion, and opinions are like assholes. Everybody
Speaker 1: got one. I got a strong one about this topic.
Speaker 1: I don't feel that a woman should base her liking
Speaker 1: of a guy on what he can pay for her,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I feel like self stability,
Speaker 1: being independent, all of those things are what women must embody,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I've never fucked with a
Speaker 1: dude based off of what the funk he could do
Speaker 1: for me. I've never done that. In fact, I've done
Speaker 1: the total opposite. Now, I've been dumb and shipped for
Speaker 1: a nigga, Like I didn't took care of a guy
Speaker 1: two years in a row. Learned to never do that
Speaker 1: ship again. So I kicked myself for my own ass
Speaker 1: for doing that ship. Even with doing that and never
Speaker 1: doing it again, I only did it one time. Never,
Speaker 1: never in my life will I ever do it again.
Speaker 1: And y'all know who I'm talking about. Took care of
Speaker 1: the nigga for two years, was with the nigga for three.
Speaker 1: For the first everything was good. Then he got comfortable
Speaker 1: and I started taking care of him. And it was
Speaker 1: convenient for me because in those times I didn't like
Speaker 1: to be alone. So I just stayed with this nigga
Speaker 1: because I didn't like being alone, you know, the nigga
Speaker 1: with the braids. Now, when I woke the funk up right,
Speaker 1: because I was in denial for a long time, my
Speaker 1: friends were around me. They were saying, this ship going on.
Speaker 1: They were like, Yo, this nigger having paid Like my
Speaker 1: mom even stepped in because my mom is my financial advisor.
Speaker 1: She pays my bills for me, you know, just to
Speaker 1: keep my ship all together and organizing ship. She said.
Speaker 1: I noticed that he hasn't turned in his half for
Speaker 1: the rent in six months. Jessica, what the funk are
Speaker 1: you doing? He's still living in your house. You have
Speaker 1: a son, You're feeding everybody in your fucking household, so
Speaker 1: he's kind of like your oldest son at this point, Ladies,
Speaker 1: I'm not saying take care of the nigga. I'm not
Speaker 1: saying pay up for everything. But I'm saying, do not
Speaker 1: make it a standard for a nigga to pay something
Speaker 1: to funk with you. Now, I'm not even saying to
Speaker 1: be with you, because this girl at the bar, she
Speaker 1: was telling me she's not in a relationship with any
Speaker 1: of these guys. Now that's different when you want a relationship, yes,
Speaker 1: but the bill, pay a bill, especially if you're living
Speaker 1: in my house or we're living together everything. If you
Speaker 1: stand with me, pay some bills, nigga. If I'm staying
Speaker 1: with you, I'm gonna offer to pay some bills to
Speaker 1: you because that's not my house, that's your house, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. I feel like she should be
Speaker 1: all the time, especially if you make your own money, Ladies.
Speaker 1: If you make your own money, pay your own ship.
Speaker 1: Show a nigga that you independent make a niggna want
Speaker 1: to pay some ship for you because you got your
Speaker 1: own Like Neo said, she got Harrald like seriously, have
Speaker 1: your own to make a nigga want to pay yo.
Speaker 1: Neo said it best. I love it because she got
Speaker 1: her own. She don't touch mine. She leave my ship alone.
Speaker 1: There ain't nothing that's more sexy than the girl that
Speaker 1: want but don't need me. Ladies, don't make these niggas
Speaker 1: feel like you need them, because if you give a
Speaker 1: nigga the power to feed you, you're giving them the
Speaker 1: power to starve you. And that's the word. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Yeah, Yeah, we're gonna clap it up.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna bring it back. I'm gonna bring
Speaker 1: it back. If you give a nigga the power to
Speaker 1: feed you, you're giving them the power to stop you.
Speaker 1: And we're gonna be serious about that. That's on some
Speaker 1: real ship. But that gets into something else. I'm letting
Speaker 1: y'all know. We need to stop normalizing these niggas paying
Speaker 1: our bills for us for some pussy. That is fucking prostitution.
Speaker 1: I don't care how you slice it, how your dice it,
Speaker 1: if you turn it on a side, horizontal, vertical, bitches, prostitution.
Speaker 1: If you ain't with that, nigga, now listen, I've been
Speaker 1: a situation where I sucked with a guy. I was
Speaker 1: working with him for a couple of months, and he
Speaker 1: was buying me ship. You know what I mean, design
Speaker 1: and ship Gucci Louis what you know, he was buying
Speaker 1: me ship. That's different. Those are not my bills, Those
Speaker 1: are not my bills. I got my bills. Actually got
Speaker 1: all my fucking shopping too. I got my this. I
Speaker 1: don't expect that they're gonna buy me because I dressed expensively,
Speaker 1: now you know what I mean, Like, that's not all
Speaker 1: I'll wear. I wear Alexander McQueen. Then I might pop
Speaker 1: up with a pair of fucking Nike Air Forces or
Speaker 1: pay Adidas or under arm like you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I wear everything, But I have a very expensive taste
Speaker 1: when I want to get particularly cute when I go
Speaker 1: on when you know, when I want to go out
Speaker 1: and put on my ship. You know, because I throws
Speaker 1: that ship on you know what I'm saying. I'm just
Speaker 1: gonna brag and boats for a second, just be throwing
Speaker 1: that ship on it. I don't give a funk who
Speaker 1: don't like what I wear A bitch, I love it,
Speaker 1: and my style can get a bit expensive, So No,
Speaker 1: I don't expect the guy come and buy me. Why
Speaker 1: I sell because that's what he sees me wear or
Speaker 1: that's what he's seeing me put on. You know, I
Speaker 1: don't expect you to buy me a Gucci bag to match,
Speaker 1: you know, my Gucci boots and ship. No, I'll do
Speaker 1: that my own self. But by all means, if you
Speaker 1: want to go to fun Head, even if you want
Speaker 1: to pay a bill, you can ask, but I won't
Speaker 1: be asking you. I don't feel that we should ask
Speaker 1: these niggas to pay bills, like I said, unless they're
Speaker 1: staying in our homes or we're in relationships. It's just different.
Speaker 1: I don't know it would be a turn off to
Speaker 1: me if I was a nigga. Bitch. I just I like, you,
Speaker 1: can can we go out on a date? Like? Can
Speaker 1: can we please go out on the date? Before you
Speaker 1: ask me? You know? Can I pay your water bill?
Speaker 1: And I'm saying, bitch, I I ain't. I ain't wash
Speaker 1: my hands in your house one time and I'm paying
Speaker 1: the fucking water bill. Bitch? Can I drink some water
Speaker 1: in your house before I go ahead? And you know,
Speaker 1: give you some money for this bill? Damn? Can I
Speaker 1: watch TV in your ship? Can I at least watch
Speaker 1: a commercial before I pay your cable bill? Bitch, before
Speaker 1: I buy you a fighter stick? Damn something. Now we
Speaker 1: got a commercial, and if you click off of this podcast,
Speaker 1: I swear I'm gonna beat your ass. Listen that brings
Speaker 1: me to just fix my mess where I ask questions
Speaker 1: to my fans about their personal experiences and I help
Speaker 1: y'all or try my best to help y'all get out
Speaker 1: of the ship that y'all got yourselves into. So I'm
Speaker 1: gonna read a little bit off I posted on Instagram. Ladies,
Speaker 1: do you feel a man it's obligated to pay your bills?
Speaker 1: If y'all are involved, go and explain your answer. Shanny
Speaker 1: Crawford said, Um, if we're together, he's definitely paying all
Speaker 1: the major your ones, rent, utilities, et cetera. I can
Speaker 1: take care of everything else. And this is coming from
Speaker 1: a space of me already being financially stable. Well, bet
Speaker 1: you're selfish and greedy at the same time, because what
Speaker 1: if he got his own goddamn house, so we're gonna
Speaker 1: pay his bills and your bills, and then your selfish
Speaker 1: that sitting up there some about and I'm already financially stable,
Speaker 1: So I'm yeah, like bitch, and I didn't say if
Speaker 1: y'all were together. Now, I like what she said at
Speaker 1: the beginning. I'm gonna take back one of my bitches.
Speaker 1: I called you a bit twice. I'm gonna leave one there,
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna take back the one because you did
Speaker 1: say if we're together. However, I'm not talking about if
Speaker 1: y'all are together. I'm saying if y'all are involved. Involved,
Speaker 1: can be dating, involved, can be just fucking involved, can
Speaker 1: be you talked this the nigga you text every day
Speaker 1: when you wake up, the nigga the last nigga you
Speaker 1: talked to every night before you go to sleep. But
Speaker 1: y'all are not necessarily together because in relationships it is different.
Speaker 1: Billion Blinks says, not obligated, but if I need, he
Speaker 1: should provide or offer without me asking. I like that.
Speaker 1: I agree, she said, not obligated. I love the non
Speaker 1: obligation because the guy is not required to pay any
Speaker 1: fucking thing just to funk with you, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, just to take you out, you know, just
Speaker 1: to see you, just to like you. I shouldn't have
Speaker 1: to pay a bill to like you. You understand what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Now, that's a manly duty. Anyway, if you
Speaker 1: see that the woman that you are dealing with, or
Speaker 1: you're involved with, or even in a relationship needs something,
Speaker 1: it's your manly duty to do that, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, Like like it's your manly duties. Like for instance,
Speaker 1: the guy that I'm dealing with now, who shall reing
Speaker 1: main nameless and don't be in my d m asking
Speaker 1: me who it is. I don't give a fox that
Speaker 1: my job business my job business. So he goes shopping
Speaker 1: from my house. He loves going to like home goods
Speaker 1: and and and marshals, and like he loves home decor.
Speaker 1: And now he's older, you know what I mean. And
Speaker 1: and he loves doing this ship for me. Fine, you
Speaker 1: guys own ship. But he sees like in my house
Speaker 1: when I need ship, so he gets it for me,
Speaker 1: all types of ship like that. I think that's fine.
Speaker 1: I'm not really a needy person to need and if
Speaker 1: I did need him, not the type to show you
Speaker 1: that I need anything. That's just my dignity and my pride.
Speaker 1: I've never been the type to let a nigga know
Speaker 1: I'm broke, like I really need it not, it's not
Speaker 1: gonna have a happened. I just I don't know. I've
Speaker 1: never been I wasn't raised like that. I'm very very
Speaker 1: strong in that particular area. I've never been. I need
Speaker 1: you to pay my bill and I and I there
Speaker 1: has been times I've been flat broke as a fuck. Okay,
Speaker 1: still faking it till I make it. You would never notice,
Speaker 1: bitch was broke. My rent was late so many times,
Speaker 1: and I was dealing with guys with money and they
Speaker 1: would buy me ship and I would go sell it
Speaker 1: and then pay my bills. You know what I mean.
Speaker 1: But I was never gonna be like, can you pay
Speaker 1: this bill? Can you? Can? You? Can? You? Can? You?
Speaker 1: Can you? I've never been a can you person. Sharon
Speaker 1: d Rogers says, heck no. My responsibilities are mine. Even
Speaker 1: if he's my husband, I'm still going to carry my weight.
Speaker 1: What he does extra is a bonus period. And I
Speaker 1: love you, Sharon d Rogers, because that is the to
Speaker 1: me of a woman, a real woman. My responsibilities are mine.
Speaker 1: That's how I was raised. That's that goes back to
Speaker 1: what I said. I've never been a ken you bitch.
Speaker 1: I've always made it happy. Myself, and that's what we
Speaker 1: want to show these guys, that's what we want to
Speaker 1: normalize again. Independent. Okay, this is interesting. She would like
Speaker 1: to remain anonymous. Okay, so her boyfriend must listen to
Speaker 1: this ship, she said no, because then he's gonna feel
Speaker 1: like he gotta move in or he runs ship. Nah,
Speaker 1: I'm good, Jack, I got these bills. But that's another
Speaker 1: thing that's me. I don't want you to ever ever
Speaker 1: feel like, oh I did this, I paid this, because
Speaker 1: you know, petty, guys will hold ship over your head.
Speaker 1: That's the last thing I've ever take from And don't
Speaker 1: you have in your life throw something back in my face.
Speaker 1: That's not the ship that I'm on. I don't like that,
Speaker 1: and guys have a tendency of doing that. Women do
Speaker 1: it as well. But I'm never, like I said in
Speaker 1: the beginning of this episode, will ever give a nigga
Speaker 1: the power to feed me, Because he can starve you
Speaker 1: with that same drive, with that same money, with that
Speaker 1: very same ship you always got your fucking palm out
Speaker 1: for he can stop dropping in the hand any day
Speaker 1: and hold over your head what he's dropped in it before.
Speaker 1: So I definitely understand baby, who would love to remain
Speaker 1: anonymous sister Underscore Survivor said, uh no, niggas aren't reliable.
Speaker 1: Pay your own ship and use them for what you
Speaker 1: need the dick and some casual chit chat. I know
Speaker 1: that's right. I know that's right. And you're saying pretty
Speaker 1: single sister survivor, and I love it. I love what
Speaker 1: you're staying for now. At least she knows what she wants.
Speaker 1: She knows she just wants. I'm digging some casual chit chat,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. She ain't saying that he
Speaker 1: ain't gotta buy her nothing because gifts are different. But
Speaker 1: you ain't gotta pay my ship. I'm reliable for my
Speaker 1: own ship, not you. I don't want to be redundant
Speaker 1: or repetitive, but y'all need to get to see you'll
Speaker 1: greasy heads and this is the last one I'm gonna read.
Speaker 1: Gabrielle Boysellino says, hell, no, women need to be independent.
Speaker 1: You are your own person. Be okay with taking care
Speaker 1: of yourself. If you take things to the next level,
Speaker 1: like sharing a place together or getting married, then yes,
Speaker 1: splitting bills between both of you is just fair. Relationships
Speaker 1: should be fair. But if you're just involved, take care
Speaker 1: of yourself. Now, listen, I agree with that. It's nothing
Speaker 1: like taking care of yourself. That's how you discover self love.
Speaker 1: That's how you open up Pandora's box of self love
Speaker 1: because you'll learn through taking care of yourself that you
Speaker 1: don't need You don't have to depend on anyone to
Speaker 1: take care of you ever, because you know how it is.
Speaker 1: You know how you've gotten through that struggle. You know
Speaker 1: how you didn't know where your next meal was coming from,
Speaker 1: but you made a motherfucking way. You know how it
Speaker 1: feels to grind it the funk out and get it yourself.
Speaker 1: So therefore, you don't need a negd to take care
Speaker 1: of You don't need a man. And I want you
Speaker 1: all to realize that we don't need these men financially now,
Speaker 1: women we need these men. Set surely we need these men.
Speaker 1: We we need our men. That that's what we were
Speaker 1: created for. A man and a one was created to
Speaker 1: be together. Nowadays, you know it's remixed. You know we
Speaker 1: got a man and man, we've got women and women whatever.
Speaker 1: You know. For all the gays listening, yes, you need
Speaker 1: that affection, you need to love. But You do not
Speaker 1: need your companion to pay your motherfucking bills, especially if
Speaker 1: they ain't your motherfucking If it ain't official between y'all.
Speaker 1: Come on, man, it's normalized stability and people self stability.
Speaker 1: It's normalized responsibility being responsible. If you love me, you'll
Speaker 1: listen to this commercial and then we'll be right back. Now.
Speaker 1: That brings me to my current news. Okay, So Lisa
Speaker 1: Ray has announced that there will be a reboot or
Speaker 1: a remake of Players Club Now Johnson Hernandez Love and
Speaker 1: hip hop reality star and Drea Michelle. They want to
Speaker 1: both go up for the part of Diamond. Um. If
Speaker 1: I had to choose between them too, it would be Drea.
Speaker 1: If I had to choose period, it would be none
Speaker 1: of them. You know what I'm mean. I think there
Speaker 1: are other people who could embody Diamond, and probably a
Speaker 1: little better than Lisa did it, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: She was in a problem, she was very young in
Speaker 1: that movie. She did good. She did good. I just
Speaker 1: feel like it's somebody else that could do, you know,
Speaker 1: even better than she did. Shout out to Lisa Ray.
Speaker 1: I do love her and to death, by the way, now, Joscelyn.
Speaker 1: I do feel like she could play Ronnie with a
Speaker 1: couple of speech classes. And I'm not being funny. Y'all
Speaker 1: know this the fun y'all know, y'all, y'all know this.
Speaker 1: She could clean out English up a little more now
Speaker 1: she's gotten better. But when I was checking out her
Speaker 1: show on Zeus Johnson's Cabaret, I noticed that she still
Speaker 1: says cavaway, you know what I'm saying, And I'm like, damn,
Speaker 1: you know, she sounds like she bought you know, four
Speaker 1: you know, as an English baby. You know that's cavaway,
Speaker 1: you know. But she can clean up in English a
Speaker 1: little bit. I think she would be grateful a movie
Speaker 1: like that. She got the banging body. She knows how
Speaker 1: to dance, you know, how to pop it and ship.
Speaker 1: She could play you know, one of the dances. She
Speaker 1: actually be great on p Valley if you ask me,
Speaker 1: you know. But again, I don't know about about the English,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And then that's a country show,
Speaker 1: you know, that should take place in Mississippi, so you know,
Speaker 1: I don't know. Drea could also be in the movie
Speaker 1: as well. Like I said, if I had to choose
Speaker 1: at all, she wouldn't play Diamond though I'm trying to
Speaker 1: play Ebony. That's just what I'm saying. I could play
Speaker 1: Ebony and let Woodie McClain play Jor the one who
Speaker 1: raped Ebony. Ha ha, y'all get my draft anyway. Anyway, anyway,
Speaker 1: next story, six Doctor Seuss books will no longer be
Speaker 1: published due to racist imagery. Ship is trashed, y'all mean
Speaker 1: Doctor SEUs. Dr SEUs like the niggad that we grew
Speaker 1: up on green eggs and ham. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I am, I am Sam, I am no I. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying that Dr Seuss. I don't like that.
Speaker 1: And the reason why I say I don't like that
Speaker 1: is because we have so much other ship to conquer,
Speaker 1: so much other racist bullshit that we still have to endure,
Speaker 1: we still have to face and go through, like police brutality.
Speaker 1: There are still cops that are not in jail for
Speaker 1: for killing, wrongfully killing black people. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You got all types of motherfucker's who did not get
Speaker 1: locked up for storm in the Capitol, all them white
Speaker 1: motherfucker's that are still free. Yeah, we got some of
Speaker 1: them throwing in jail. Fuck that all of the motherfucking
Speaker 1: nasers deserved to be in jail. We got so much
Speaker 1: racial injustice going on, and y'all snatching books off the shelves.
Speaker 1: Y'are removing mops and shipped off of syrup bottles and
Speaker 1: ship y'are changing the names of the rooms in the houses,
Speaker 1: like master bedroom. Oh, that's racist. We don't want blacks
Speaker 1: to feel offended if we call it the master bedroom. Bitch,
Speaker 1: y'all worring about the wrong ship, That's what y'all worrying about.
Speaker 1: You asked me, y'all doing all this ship, all this ship,
Speaker 1: and still not giving the funk about us, still not
Speaker 1: giving us equality, still not giving us what the funk. Well,
Speaker 1: we don't give a funk about no mop on, no
Speaker 1: syrup bottle. I know I don't because I'm gonna still
Speaker 1: eat the ship until we get some black owned seruping
Speaker 1: this motherfucker cause I ain't gonaver stop eating no no
Speaker 1: French toasts, worrying about a can doctor Seuss book, My nigga,
Speaker 1: what the fuck arrested Brianna Taylor's killers. Give more time
Speaker 1: to the nigga who killed George Floyd More time. Now,
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck. Give him the death penalty.
Speaker 1: Ship like that tripping talking about some fucking books. That
Speaker 1: ship making me mad. Next story. Okay, so last week
Speaker 1: Instagram scared all the social media influencers and non social
Speaker 1: media influencers by taking away the likes. Now, they've been
Speaker 1: experiencing and trying to test a few new features for
Speaker 1: the feed, post and everything, and they even wrote something
Speaker 1: we unintentionally added more people to the test today, which
Speaker 1: was a bug. We're fixing this issue and restoring like
Speaker 1: counts to those people who needs it. So Instagram basically apologized.
Speaker 1: They said they did not mean to hide the likes
Speaker 1: in the views for everyone's post. Now, you would have
Speaker 1: thought that they snatched away a Grammy from somebody. They
Speaker 1: snatched away Emmy's. You would have thought that jobs were
Speaker 1: snatched away from motherfucker's. Do you understand what I'm saying?
Speaker 1: Do you see how impactful those couple of hours were
Speaker 1: without people seeing their likes and views? If Do It
Speaker 1: for Cloud was a people now, I get it, y'all
Speaker 1: can say the same ship about me. I wasn't upset
Speaker 1: when that ship happened. You know why, because we've got
Speaker 1: so many people nowadays living just to be seen, living
Speaker 1: to get the most likes, leaving comments that are hurting
Speaker 1: people mentally, and and fucking with people and and bullying
Speaker 1: people just to see how many likes they can get
Speaker 1: on it. Nowadays, you can do anything and become famous
Speaker 1: internet wise, because famous is a very broad word. If
Speaker 1: there were no Internet, if it was just the up
Speaker 1: and cease today, there would be so many suicides. And
Speaker 1: I know that because people now only live for the Internet,
Speaker 1: for the approval, for the validation of other people that
Speaker 1: should trash. We've become a trash ass world. Even myself,
Speaker 1: like I contributed to it, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like because I am an influencer. You know that's not
Speaker 1: only what I am. Don't play with me, baby comedian, actress, entrepreneur,
Speaker 1: business owners, ceo. Oh that don't play. But I started
Speaker 1: off as a social media influencer and I'm still once
Speaker 1: it is day. You know, I still do skits and
Speaker 1: keep my content fresh for y'all. I'm always creating new ideas,
Speaker 1: but I don't do it for the likes anymore. There
Speaker 1: was a time where I did it. There was a
Speaker 1: time I did that ship man I used to make
Speaker 1: fun of people all that type of ship, not worried
Speaker 1: about how they would feel, not even worried about Damn,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna meet this person because I'm actually in the
Speaker 1: same industry and I'm actually an actress now, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. Hence the reason why I would love
Speaker 1: to stop just with the mess but y'all won't let me.
Speaker 1: But it's not as messy as it used to be.
Speaker 1: I used to be very mean at times, you know,
Speaker 1: and I do apologize about that. For no reason. I
Speaker 1: would just wake up and choose violence that day, you know,
Speaker 1: on those days, at that point in my life. You know,
Speaker 1: I can't say at that point in my career because
Speaker 1: it wasn't a career yet. It didn't feel like a career.
Speaker 1: Just felt like a habit, you know. It felt like
Speaker 1: like a playful abbot, felt like a game. But people's
Speaker 1: lives are not games, you know what I'm saying. And
Speaker 1: that's why you can't play on people's feelings just for
Speaker 1: no fucking likes, you know. But going back to that
Speaker 1: Instagram ship, social media runs most of our minds everything.
Speaker 1: You know. There could be somebody on fire, literally burning,
Speaker 1: burning alive, the average person would not try to put
Speaker 1: them out first. The average person would pull out their phone.
Speaker 1: That's sad as fun when you take a moment and
Speaker 1: really think about it, it's sad. You've got people going
Speaker 1: through real life relationship problems who would run to social
Speaker 1: media before they actually can sit down with their mate
Speaker 1: and talk out their differences. Social media ruins relationships. I
Speaker 1: don't give an what you say, because you're putting every
Speaker 1: one of your business and you're you're getting all these
Speaker 1: different opinions that you don't need to validate your relationship.
Speaker 1: Social media is not the only thing that ruins your relationships,
Speaker 1: but it goddamn it doesn't help. So the fact that
Speaker 1: Instagram had snatched the way those likes by mistake and
Speaker 1: so many people were affected, I'm talking about Twitter went crazy.
Speaker 1: That's said. That's said, just like the bitch from story
Speaker 1: Time with the six Niggas who got the bills that
Speaker 1: she man listen, and I know some of my listeners
Speaker 1: are like, no, she she doing what's right. Jacks like
Speaker 1: don't try to don't try to take her off her throne,
Speaker 1: and not that ain't no motherfucking queen. That's not a queen.
Speaker 1: You're a queen. If you can do it for yourself,
Speaker 1: you don't need no guy. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You ain't gotta answer to no nigga at the end
Speaker 1: of the day because they're gonna hold that ship over
Speaker 1: your head. And even if they don't, bitch still get
Speaker 1: up and get it on your own. Independent, stability, dignity, pride,
Speaker 1: have it all. You have it all wrapped up into one.
Speaker 1: You ain't gonna ever feel like you need nobody for ship, okay,
Speaker 1: because it's prostitution, like I told her, And like I'm
Speaker 1: telling y'all, stop selling your pussy to pay your bills,
Speaker 1: because that's exactly what you're doing. All my people from
Speaker 1: just fix my mess, a lot of y'all were right.
Speaker 1: And I love y'all to death because you're gonna keep
Speaker 1: loving me. That's the end of this episode of Carefully
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Speaker 1: just you got your aster, nigger, shut the fucker. I've
Speaker 1: been out hit on my cash, on sold you bout
Speaker 1: my hustle. I've been stop. I don't do no lapping
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