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Speaker 1: Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect. Then as the ask back there,

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Speaker 1: Oh ship, we back on the air. Welcome to the

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Speaker 1: eighth episode of Carefully Reckless. To y'all, it's your girl.

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Speaker 1: Just hilarious, y'all. This feels good. I've been doing this

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Speaker 1: for only eight weeks and I'm killing that thanks to

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Speaker 1: y'all listeners out there. Grab your tea because we're about

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Speaker 1: to get into the storytime. I got some real good

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Speaker 1: ship for you, all right. So for those who don't know,

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Speaker 1: my dad is a karaoke host slash DJ, and he

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Speaker 1: just karaoke at this restaurant every Tuesday in Maryland. Right,

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Speaker 1: I go when I can, and every time I go,

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Speaker 1: I see this particular girl with a different dude. Now

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Speaker 1: I've gone like eight times, so that's like eight niggas.

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Speaker 1: I'll sing all way. Right, let me find out. Eight

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Speaker 1: is the lucky number. We're on the eighth episode. Okay,

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Speaker 1: let me go play that number. So I'm sitting at

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Speaker 1: the bar right now. She sees me and she never

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Speaker 1: says anything, but this particular night last week, she wanted

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Speaker 1: to take a picture. She got kids and they would

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Speaker 1: love if she brought home a picture with Jess hilarious.

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Speaker 1: So I took a picture and she was there with

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Speaker 1: a different dude again last week. The week before that

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Speaker 1: she was there with another dude, and the six times

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Speaker 1: before that she was with different niggas. So in exchange

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Speaker 1: for the picture, I wanted to get in her business.

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Speaker 1: You know, I think that was fair. So after the picture,

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Speaker 1: we got the chopping it up, and I said, Yo,

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Speaker 1: let me ask you something. Every time I'm in here

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Speaker 1: I see you with a different guy, teach me the

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Speaker 1: game goes, How the fund do you do that? Now? Listen.

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Speaker 1: I didn't actually want her to teach me the game.

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Speaker 1: I just wanted her to let her guard down a

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Speaker 1: little bit, to let me know how the funk she

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Speaker 1: is doing this and why the funk she's doing this,

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Speaker 1: because it ain't cute to me. So she said, well, Jos,

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Speaker 1: I got a nigga for every bill that I have.

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Speaker 1: I said, what, Let me let me get this straight.

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Speaker 1: So you got a nigga for the rent? She said, oh, no, baby,

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Speaker 1: the mortgage. I said, okay, okay, Chocho, black woman owning

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Speaker 1: some ship like that? Still a hole? So I said, okay,

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Speaker 1: you gotta nigga for the mortgage. You gotta nigga for

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Speaker 1: the car payment. You gotta nigga for the B G

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Speaker 1: and E, which is electric here in Baltimore. You gotta

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Speaker 1: nigga for the water bill. You gotta nigga for the

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Speaker 1: car insurance. She gotta nigga for And she's not in

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Speaker 1: her head as I'm naming the bills, and so I

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Speaker 1: stopped at six. So I'm like, so you got six niggas.

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Speaker 1: She said, no, no, six men. I said, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: six niggers for each bill. You know that you have

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Speaker 1: to to pay the bill. She said, yeah, because the

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Speaker 1: nigga came funk with me unless he paying a bill.

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Speaker 1: And I said, okay, so you're not in a relationship

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Speaker 1: with any of them. She said, oh no, I'm saying

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Speaker 1: I do what I want. I said, obviously, but they

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Speaker 1: have to pay a bill to funk with you. She said, yes, man,

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Speaker 1: I got kids to feed. I said, okay, where are

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Speaker 1: their fathers? She said, bits not no intervention. I said, no,

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Speaker 1: hopefully it can be by the end of this conversation.

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Speaker 1: Where are their fathers? And she she said, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: and I don't give a funk I said, got many

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Speaker 1: kids you got? She said, I got two girls. I said, okay, okay, cool,

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Speaker 1: two girls. So you only got two baby fathers. Okay.

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Speaker 1: In the world today, it's usually around five or six

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Speaker 1: for your age. She's thirty five. I said, so you

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Speaker 1: don't get emotionally attached to any of these guys. She's like, nah,

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Speaker 1: half of them are in relationships and that's how I

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Speaker 1: I said, okay, you do realize this is prostitution and

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Speaker 1: somewhat extortion. She laughed, and then she ordered around the shots.

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Speaker 1: The nigga she was with came over and I was like,

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Speaker 1: you ready to sing? They were about to go up

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Speaker 1: and sing a song, so she was like, yeah, but

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Speaker 1: when I finished talking to Jazz. When I finished talking

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Speaker 1: to Jazz, so he kissed the on our neck. She

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Speaker 1: was already drunk and ship right. So when he walked

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Speaker 1: off to go back to the table, I leaned over.

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Speaker 1: I said, so, which bill is that? And she laughed

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Speaker 1: and she was like car payment. I said, yeah, he

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Speaker 1: looked like a car payment type nigga. He was lazed.

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Speaker 1: He was good, you know what I'm saying. He looked

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Speaker 1: much younger than her. He looked like he's so drugs.

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Speaker 1: What I'm saying, I'm not stereotype the niggas, but in

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Speaker 1: you've on me, And this nigga looked like he sold

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Speaker 1: some some some mean ass coke, you know. So I'm like, okay.

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Speaker 1: He looked like he he paid and she has she

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Speaker 1: I said, okay, you look like the car payment type.

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Speaker 1: The only thing that threw me off was that he

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Speaker 1: had braids, And I was like, damn it, I don't

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Speaker 1: given how old you are, why do you have braids?

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Speaker 1: It's okay, right, that's neither here there. So she was like,

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Speaker 1: I can't teach you the game if you want. I

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Speaker 1: said no, I was just bullshit. I don't want to

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Speaker 1: be you. I don't want to be like you. In fact,

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Speaker 1: I want you to be more like me, be independent.

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Speaker 1: She walked away. She wasn't trying to hear that ship

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Speaker 1: and it's cool, and it's cool, but that brings me

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Speaker 1: to the carefully reckless discussion. Ladies and these days and times,

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Speaker 1: why the funk do you feel now listen, it's not

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Speaker 1: all of y'all, but it's a lot of women out

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Speaker 1: here these days that feel like a nigga can't funk

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Speaker 1: with me unless he paying for a bill or paying something.

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Speaker 1: That's not how you go into it, unless that's your profession,

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Speaker 1: unless you are a proster to unless you do just

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Speaker 1: want to use this nigga, unless you don't want nothing

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Speaker 1: more than just the coin from the nigga. But if

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Speaker 1: this is the way you're operating in your everyday love life,

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Speaker 1: it's not okay. This is just how I feel, and

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Speaker 1: this is my opinion, and opinions are like assholes. Everybody

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Speaker 1: got one. I got a strong one about this topic.

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Speaker 1: I don't feel that a woman should base her liking

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I feel like self stability,

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Speaker 1: being independent, all of those things are what women must embody,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I've never fucked with a

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Speaker 1: for me. I've never done that. In fact, I've done

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Speaker 1: the total opposite. Now, I've been dumb and shipped for

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Speaker 1: a nigga, Like I didn't took care of a guy

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Speaker 1: two years in a row. Learned to never do that

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Speaker 1: for doing that ship. Even with doing that and never

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Speaker 1: doing it again, I only did it one time. Never,

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Speaker 1: never in my life will I ever do it again.

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Speaker 1: And y'all know who I'm talking about. Took care of

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Speaker 1: the nigga for two years, was with the nigga for three.

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Speaker 1: For the first everything was good. Then he got comfortable

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Speaker 1: because I didn't like being alone, you know, the nigga

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Speaker 1: with the braids. Now, when I woke the funk up right,

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Speaker 1: because I was in denial for a long time, my

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Speaker 1: friends were around me. They were saying, this ship going on.

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Speaker 1: They were like, Yo, this nigger having paid Like my

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Speaker 1: mom even stepped in because my mom is my financial advisor.

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Speaker 1: She pays my bills for me, you know, just to

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Speaker 1: keep my ship all together and organizing ship. She said.

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Speaker 1: I noticed that he hasn't turned in his half for

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Speaker 1: the rent in six months. Jessica, what the funk are

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Speaker 1: you doing? He's still living in your house. You have

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Speaker 1: he's kind of like your oldest son at this point, Ladies,

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying take care of the nigga. I'm not

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Speaker 1: saying pay up for everything. But I'm saying, do not

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Speaker 1: make it a standard for a nigga to pay something

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Speaker 1: of these guys. Now that's different when you want a relationship, yes,

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Speaker 1: but the bill, pay a bill, especially if you're living

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Speaker 1: stand with me, pay some bills, nigga. If I'm staying

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Speaker 1: with you, I'm gonna offer to pay some bills to

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Speaker 1: you because that's not my house, that's your house, you

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Speaker 1: all the time, especially if you make your own money, Ladies.

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Speaker 1: If you make your own money, pay your own ship.

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Speaker 1: Show a nigga that you independent make a niggna want

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Speaker 1: to pay some ship for you because you got your

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Speaker 1: own Like Neo said, she got Harrald like seriously, have

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Speaker 1: your own to make a nigga want to pay yo.

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Speaker 1: Neo said it best. I love it because she got

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Speaker 1: her own. She don't touch mine. She leave my ship alone.

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Speaker 1: There ain't nothing that's more sexy than the girl that

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Speaker 1: feel like you need them, because if you give a

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Speaker 1: nigga the power to feed you, you're giving them the

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Speaker 1: power to starve you. And that's the word. You know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Yeah, Yeah, we're gonna clap it up.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna bring it back. I'm gonna bring

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Speaker 1: it back. If you give a nigga the power to

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Speaker 1: feed you, you're giving them the power to stop you.

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Speaker 1: And we're gonna be serious about that. That's on some

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Speaker 1: real ship. But that gets into something else. I'm letting

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Speaker 1: y'all know. We need to stop normalizing these niggas paying

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Speaker 1: our bills for us for some pussy. That is fucking prostitution.

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Speaker 1: I don't care how you slice it, how your dice it,

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Speaker 1: if you turn it on a side, horizontal, vertical, bitches, prostitution.

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Speaker 1: If you ain't with that, nigga, now listen, I've been

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Speaker 1: a situation where I sucked with a guy. I was

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Speaker 1: working with him for a couple of months, and he

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Speaker 1: was buying me ship. You know what I mean, design

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Speaker 1: and ship Gucci Louis what you know, he was buying

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Speaker 1: me ship. That's different. Those are not my bills, Those

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Speaker 1: are not my bills. I got my bills. Actually got

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Speaker 1: all my fucking shopping too. I got my this. I

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Speaker 1: don't expect that they're gonna buy me because I dressed expensively,

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Speaker 1: now you know what I mean, Like, that's not all

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Speaker 1: I'll wear. I wear Alexander McQueen. Then I might pop

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Speaker 1: up with a pair of fucking Nike Air Forces or

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Speaker 1: pay Adidas or under arm like you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: I wear everything, But I have a very expensive taste

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Speaker 1: when I want to get particularly cute when I go

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Speaker 1: on when you know, when I want to go out

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Speaker 1: and put on my ship. You know, because I throws

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Speaker 1: that ship on you know what I'm saying. I'm just

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Speaker 1: gonna brag and boats for a second, just be throwing

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Speaker 1: that ship on it. I don't give a funk who

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Speaker 1: don't like what I wear A bitch, I love it,

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Speaker 1: and my style can get a bit expensive, So No,

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Speaker 1: I don't expect the guy come and buy me. Why

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Speaker 1: I sell because that's what he sees me wear or

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Speaker 1: that's what he's seeing me put on. You know, I

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Speaker 1: don't expect you to buy me a Gucci bag to match,

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Speaker 1: you know, my Gucci boots and ship. No, I'll do

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Speaker 1: That brings me to my current news. Okay, So Lisa

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Speaker 1: is because we have so much other ship to conquer,

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Speaker 1: so much other racist bullshit that we still have to endure,

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Speaker 1: we still have to face and go through, like police brutality.

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Speaker 1: There are still cops that are not in jail for

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Speaker 1: for killing, wrongfully killing black people. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: You got all types of motherfucker's who did not get

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Speaker 1: locked up for storm in the Capitol, all them white

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Speaker 1: motherfucker's that are still free. Yeah, we got some of

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Speaker 1: them throwing in jail. Fuck that all of the motherfucking

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Speaker 1: nasers deserved to be in jail. We got so much

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Speaker 1: racial injustice going on, and y'all snatching books off the shelves.

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Speaker 1: Y'are removing mops and shipped off of syrup bottles and

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Speaker 1: ship y'are changing the names of the rooms in the houses,

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Speaker 1: like master bedroom. Oh, that's racist. We don't want blacks

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Speaker 1: to feel offended if we call it the master bedroom. Bitch,

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Speaker 1: y'all worring about the wrong ship, That's what y'all worrying about.

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Speaker 1: You asked me, y'all doing all this ship, all this ship,

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Speaker 1: and still not giving the funk about us, still not

436
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Speaker 1: giving us equality, still not giving us what the funk. Well,

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Speaker 1: we don't give a funk about no mop on, no

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Speaker 1: syrup bottle. I know I don't because I'm gonna still

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Speaker 1: eat the ship until we get some black owned seruping

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Speaker 1: this motherfucker cause I ain't gonaver stop eating no no

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Speaker 1: French toasts, worrying about a can doctor Seuss book, My nigga,

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00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:05,080
Speaker 1: what the fuck arrested Brianna Taylor's killers. Give more time

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00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:07,960
Speaker 1: to the nigga who killed George Floyd More time. Now,

444
00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:10,120
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck. Give him the death penalty.

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Speaker 1: Ship like that tripping talking about some fucking books. That

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Speaker 1: ship making me mad. Next story. Okay, so last week

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Speaker 1: Instagram scared all the social media influencers and non social

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Speaker 1: media influencers by taking away the likes. Now, they've been

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Speaker 1: experiencing and trying to test a few new features for

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Speaker 1: the feed, post and everything, and they even wrote something

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Speaker 1: we unintentionally added more people to the test today, which

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Speaker 1: was a bug. We're fixing this issue and restoring like

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Speaker 1: counts to those people who needs it. So Instagram basically apologized.

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Speaker 1: They said they did not mean to hide the likes

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Speaker 1: in the views for everyone's post. Now, you would have

456
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Speaker 1: thought that they snatched away a Grammy from somebody. They

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Speaker 1: snatched away Emmy's. You would have thought that jobs were

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Speaker 1: snatched away from motherfucker's. Do you understand what I'm saying?

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Speaker 1: Do you see how impactful those couple of hours were

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Speaker 1: without people seeing their likes and views? If Do It

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Speaker 1: for Cloud was a people now, I get it, y'all

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Speaker 1: can say the same ship about me. I wasn't upset

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Speaker 1: when that ship happened. You know why, because we've got

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00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 1: so many people nowadays living just to be seen, living

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Speaker 1: to get the most likes, leaving comments that are hurting

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Speaker 1: people mentally, and and fucking with people and and bullying

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Speaker 1: people just to see how many likes they can get

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Speaker 1: on it. Nowadays, you can do anything and become famous

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Speaker 1: internet wise, because famous is a very broad word. If

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Speaker 1: there were no Internet, if it was just the up

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Speaker 1: and cease today, there would be so many suicides. And

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Speaker 1: I know that because people now only live for the Internet,

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Speaker 1: for the approval, for the validation of other people that

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Speaker 1: should trash. We've become a trash ass world. Even myself,

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Speaker 1: like I contributed to it, you know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: Like because I am an influencer. You know that's not

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Speaker 1: only what I am. Don't play with me, baby comedian, actress, entrepreneur,

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Speaker 1: business owners, ceo. Oh that don't play. But I started

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Speaker 1: off as a social media influencer and I'm still once

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Speaker 1: it is day. You know, I still do skits and

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Speaker 1: keep my content fresh for y'all. I'm always creating new ideas,

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Speaker 1: but I don't do it for the likes anymore. There

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Speaker 1: was a time where I did it. There was a

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Speaker 1: time I did that ship man I used to make

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Speaker 1: fun of people all that type of ship, not worried

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Speaker 1: about how they would feel, not even worried about Damn,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna meet this person because I'm actually in the

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Speaker 1: same industry and I'm actually an actress now, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean. Hence the reason why I would love

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Speaker 1: to stop just with the mess but y'all won't let me.

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Speaker 1: But it's not as messy as it used to be.

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Speaker 1: I used to be very mean at times, you know,

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Speaker 1: and I do apologize about that. For no reason. I

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Speaker 1: would just wake up and choose violence that day, you know,

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Speaker 1: on those days, at that point in my life. You know,

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Speaker 1: I can't say at that point in my career because

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Speaker 1: it wasn't a career yet. It didn't feel like a career.

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Speaker 1: Just felt like a habit, you know. It felt like

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Speaker 1: like a playful abbot, felt like a game. But people's

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Speaker 1: lives are not games, you know what I'm saying. And

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Speaker 1: that's why you can't play on people's feelings just for

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Speaker 1: no fucking likes, you know. But going back to that

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00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 1: Instagram ship, social media runs most of our minds everything.

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Speaker 1: You know. There could be somebody on fire, literally burning,

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Speaker 1: burning alive, the average person would not try to put

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Speaker 1: them out first. The average person would pull out their phone.

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Speaker 1: That's sad as fun when you take a moment and

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Speaker 1: really think about it, it's sad. You've got people going

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Speaker 1: through real life relationship problems who would run to social

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Speaker 1: media before they actually can sit down with their mate

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Speaker 1: and talk out their differences. Social media ruins relationships. I

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Speaker 1: don't give an what you say, because you're putting every

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Speaker 1: one of your business and you're you're getting all these

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Speaker 1: different opinions that you don't need to validate your relationship.

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Speaker 1: Social media is not the only thing that ruins your relationships,

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Speaker 1: but it goddamn it doesn't help. So the fact that

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Speaker 1: Instagram had snatched the way those likes by mistake and

518
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Speaker 1: so many people were affected, I'm talking about Twitter went crazy.

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Speaker 1: That's said. That's said, just like the bitch from story

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Speaker 1: Time with the six Niggas who got the bills that

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Speaker 1: she man listen, and I know some of my listeners

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00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:09,639
Speaker 1: are like, no, she she doing what's right. Jacks like

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Speaker 1: don't try to don't try to take her off her throne,

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Speaker 1: and not that ain't no motherfucking queen. That's not a queen.

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Speaker 1: You're a queen. If you can do it for yourself,

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Speaker 1: you don't need no guy. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: You ain't gotta answer to no nigga at the end

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Speaker 1: of the day because they're gonna hold that ship over

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Speaker 1: your head. And even if they don't, bitch still get

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Speaker 1: up and get it on your own. Independent, stability, dignity, pride,

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Speaker 1: have it all. You have it all wrapped up into one.

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Speaker 1: You ain't gonna ever feel like you need nobody for ship, okay,

533
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:39,240
Speaker 1: because it's prostitution, like I told her, And like I'm

534
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Speaker 1: telling y'all, stop selling your pussy to pay your bills,

535
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:44,640
Speaker 1: because that's exactly what you're doing. All my people from

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Speaker 1: just fix my mess, a lot of y'all were right.

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Speaker 1: And I love y'all to death because you're gonna keep

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Speaker 1: loving me. That's the end of this episode of Carefully

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Speaker 1: Reckless episode No but Hey, listen to the episode No

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Speaker 1: But nine next week. I'll be back this be like

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Speaker 1: just you got your aster, nigger, shut the fucker. I've

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00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:11,400
Speaker 1: been out hit on my cash, on sold you bout

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00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:15,679
Speaker 1: my hustle. I've been stop. I don't do no lapping

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00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:22,640
Speaker 1: getting money like it's snapping Carefully Reckless is a production

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Speaker 1: of I heart Radio and The Black Effect. For more

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