Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make. Horrible decision.
Speaker 2: May the fifth, we are pulling up to London, y'all.
Speaker 3: It's the day you need to block out in your calendar.
Speaker 3: It's on a Sunday, So London surrounding areas, all the
Speaker 3: black people that live in.
Speaker 1: Europe, wherever you at, it's your chance. That's right.
Speaker 2: We're super excited to be bringing the last portion of
Speaker 2: the Climax Tour to London. If you came to our
Speaker 2: show last year, this will be a completely different show.
Speaker 1: Wilder, more fun.
Speaker 4: Well, I did get on top of The Help and
Speaker 4: the Sixth.
Speaker 2: And there was a woman who stapled money to her
Speaker 2: cheek and started bleeding.
Speaker 1: But we gotta step it up to London.
Speaker 2: We're gonna step it up, So head on over to
Speaker 2: hohorhive dot com and get your tickets. Now, y'all, welcome
Speaker 2: to another episode We Bite Baby and we're in Vegas today.
Speaker 2: But welcome to another episode of Horrid Gladness the Old.
Speaker 2: I am Beach Mandy b aka pant Stallion. What's up, y'all,
Speaker 2: I'm weezy. Thank you for joining us for another episode.
Speaker 2: It looks a little different because we are not in
Speaker 2: New York. We're not in La like Mandy said, We're
Speaker 2: in Vegas, and we're here because we're actually up for
Speaker 2: another AVN award. We're up for best Pot.
Speaker 3: Apparently, you know niggas be fucking on some podcasts like
Speaker 3: plug Talk and all.
Speaker 1: That other shit.
Speaker 3: So I'm not saying that I have a lot of
Speaker 3: faith in receiving this big Golden Dick Globe award. However,
Speaker 3: what I would like to say is why we like
Speaker 3: to come here is put of tea.
Speaker 4: We got some tea in the house tonight.
Speaker 2: We do. We have a whole time in the building,
Speaker 2: and I'm really excited. We have Mistress Mia dark right
Speaker 2: DARKQ dot quad dot com.
Speaker 1: I knew it was dark and I was like, girl,
Speaker 1: she spelt it all fancy.
Speaker 5: I saw that and I was like, actually, my domb
Speaker 5: last name was given to me in Australia.
Speaker 4: Wait sometimes tell you travel bitch.
Speaker 5: Post pandemic, not as globally as I used to. This
Speaker 5: year will hopefully be the beginning of that dot com.
Speaker 5: We're going to be moving over to London, so we're.
Speaker 4: Going to talk about dom com is first.
Speaker 5: Okay, don Con is the biggest in North America domination event,
Speaker 5: Like it is an educational event, it's bending its parties,
Speaker 5: it's everything that you usually get from separate events rolled
Speaker 5: into one big event.
Speaker 1: How long has it been going to years?
Speaker 6: This be the twenty first.
Speaker 2: And I'm just I was today years old when I
Speaker 2: found out about it.
Speaker 3: Yo, not like I'm trying to Okay, So we heard
Speaker 3: about this podcast Mandy and I from Wolf called Keep
Speaker 3: It in the Basement, and one of my friends who's
Speaker 3: working at ABN uh, basically I was like, what's the
Speaker 3: what's the con light?
Speaker 4: What's convention? Like she goes it's.
Speaker 1: Like autisms are don't do that? Oh because and then
Speaker 1: I agree and then Mandy's like, yeah it was.
Speaker 3: And so my friend Wolf for our friend of the show,
Speaker 3: he was like, Yo, it's literally about like basement guy
Speaker 3: kind of culture about how he is this like underground thing.
Speaker 3: So literally I was thinking to myself when you said
Speaker 3: dom com, I'm like, was it domb that put it
Speaker 3: together debate money or was it just a bunch of
Speaker 3: basement creepy guys that were like let's get them out.
Speaker 2: Well, and I want to actually draw the distinction too.
Speaker 2: To me, abn convention is more centered towards porn and
Speaker 2: dom Con is more of the BDSM aspects, like what
Speaker 2: we would see at Exotic. Yeah, so it's different because
Speaker 2: like the when we're talking about also the basement jerkers.
Speaker 2: So I went to the convention last year with my partner,
Speaker 2: my ex now ill gross.
Speaker 1: And it was she literally was like, maybe we should.
Speaker 2: Stay at the hotel where it's at, and I said, girl,
Speaker 2: the people that are there for the convention look like
Speaker 2: the guys that don't ever leave their basement that jacks
Speaker 2: off all the time, and they're there to see the
Speaker 2: women that they jack off to all the time.
Speaker 1: But what is dom How did dom com start?
Speaker 5: Dom Con started what is now twenty one years ago
Speaker 5: by misters Cyan based out of Los Angeles with the
Speaker 5: Sanctuary Studios.
Speaker 6: Dungeon.
Speaker 5: She started this out as a dream of getting all
Speaker 5: of the pro doms together and do something together instead
Speaker 5: everybody being like this is my money, that's my boy.
Speaker 5: No no, no, no no, and to stop the infighting
Speaker 5: that was the theme that was going on, Like if
Speaker 5: you were a bitually had some fucking money and you
Speaker 5: had like at least two or three like memoirs off
Speaker 5: Geisha Dunna as boys in the background, you could say
Speaker 5: that you were the shit.
Speaker 1: But literally, it's that.
Speaker 5: Gigantic shark, tiny ass pond aspect me myself, and I'm
Speaker 5: a bitch for fucking Memphis, Tennessee. I am Southern as fucked,
Speaker 5: So like, I didn't have no big mass appeal when
Speaker 5: I first got there. My first dom con was twenty
Speaker 5: fifteen in Atlanta when they were still in Atlanta and
Speaker 5: that was their last year, and like, I was happless
Speaker 5: to prose and.
Speaker 1: See, there's brown people here.
Speaker 5: And I was like, all right, I do it because
Speaker 5: I had been told by so many people inside of
Speaker 5: the community that were like bipoc, like hmm, that's the
Speaker 5: white people show.
Speaker 1: You really need to ask you something.
Speaker 3: That so what I used to watch, and it's just
Speaker 3: the spirit of Vegas for anybody that's watched sex Cells.
Speaker 3: I was at a brothel where I worked there for
Speaker 3: the day and learned about the business. And I only
Speaker 3: wanted to do this so badly because I was so
Speaker 3: obsessed with cat House and I always thought, and it's
Speaker 3: not even Vegas, it's Reno, right. I was like, oh
Speaker 3: my god, what brothel and the culture say that to
Speaker 3: say the black women in the brothel.
Speaker 1: How we're always.
Speaker 3: Seeming to be in a dominating role. So when you
Speaker 3: said that there's brown people here, I'm like, oh, I
Speaker 3: always thought when I see like, I thought that was
Speaker 3: the stigma.
Speaker 6: You know what it is, you get like the half
Speaker 6: and half on it.
Speaker 5: I've noticed you either get people who automatically think domination
Speaker 5: is for pretty thin blond head five foot four max
Speaker 5: put on some heels. We'll get you up to five
Speaker 5: nine white girls. And like I like to call myself
Speaker 5: naturally dominant. I have always been bossy. It's not so
Speaker 5: much my way of the highway. But I'm not dealing
Speaker 5: with your bullshit. I need you to work with common sense.
Speaker 5: Math needs the math on all issues.
Speaker 1: Huh.
Speaker 5: And when we did one in particular down in New
Speaker 5: Orleans that we had this one young lady that was
Speaker 5: at our front desk because we were checking into our
Speaker 5: hotel which sits right smack on the corner of Bourbon
Speaker 5: and Canal, okay, And she was like, oh, can I
Speaker 5: get you ladies? And it was me and two of
Speaker 5: my Dom's sisters, Madame Nabia, ok how you doing? I
Speaker 5: love you baby? That name Madam Nay. She is a
Speaker 5: leather title or where she was running for a leather title?
Speaker 6: Uh she is?
Speaker 1: Do we have her on the punt?
Speaker 5: We have a leather you you have not had a
Speaker 5: sister on here because you made you would absolutely remember.
Speaker 1: That somebody else with a name like that.
Speaker 6: Okay, we yes, Okin is a family name.
Speaker 1: But yeah.
Speaker 5: We walked up to the front desk. We're checking in
Speaker 5: all the sexy white girls that come in. You got
Speaker 5: your little latex stress on and ship. I absolutely looked
Speaker 5: the part. And here we show off the plane. We're
Speaker 5: coming from Dallas, y'all. We didnet left from Dallas club,
Speaker 5: not even the big one DFW, so we looked like
Speaker 5: we just escaped from I don't know, something post apocalyptic.
Speaker 5: We had gotten mad at our Uber driver he had
Speaker 5: like the first driver was like, I can't take you.
Speaker 6: You're in a fucking town and country minivan, bitch, Why
Speaker 6: you can't pick used our ride?
Speaker 5: After he saw there was three of us and we
Speaker 5: had luggage and he didn't want pick up luggage. So
Speaker 5: I took pictures up his fucking place and send him
Speaker 5: a fucking Uber. Here are driving no more?
Speaker 1: I know that's right?
Speaker 4: Hold on?
Speaker 6: Is it?
Speaker 1: Because you are? You were dressed. No, I don't know
Speaker 1: what the fuck it was.
Speaker 5: He seen us with bags and he's like, oh, no,
Speaker 5: this is a I just got this detailed.
Speaker 1: It's your drive for Uber up for the airport. And
Speaker 1: I'm like, you're picking up? What the fuck did you
Speaker 1: think we just this? Y'all wasn't but also that y'all
Speaker 1: wasn't gonna have leggings.
Speaker 5: Us in three carry ons. Yes, everybody in this group
Speaker 5: is at least two hundred fucking pounds. I need like
Speaker 5: a carry on just for my fucking shoes, dude. And
Speaker 5: when we got there, this woman was checking us in
Speaker 5: and she was like, oh, I'm so sorry about everything
Speaker 5: that's going on. In the background, we were having a convention, like,
Speaker 5: don't worry about it, and I was like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 5: we're here checking in for the convention.
Speaker 6: She was black, We're black.
Speaker 5: She didn't even She was like, we do this. That's
Speaker 5: literally what came out of her mouth. And I was like, yeah,
Speaker 5: that's when you do this. And I've been doing this
Speaker 5: now for twenty four twenty five years.
Speaker 4: Can we talk about age.
Speaker 3: I'm forty five, when you're growing up and I feel like,
Speaker 3: you know, I know, we do segments I don't, baby,
Speaker 3: I get it, but I really want to know when
Speaker 3: you're growing up. No one fucking thinks they're gonna work
Speaker 3: in sex work. But sometimes they do, but sometimes they don't.
Speaker 3: Be an age to me where you're really loving and
Speaker 3: comfortable with your job and you know it.
Speaker 4: When did that happen?
Speaker 5: M I can't tell you a specific date and or time,
Speaker 5: place or segment of life, but I could tell you
Speaker 5: this much. Right before I came here and I cut
Speaker 5: out there, He's like, if you get you like a
Speaker 5: little bit early, I was like, well those snacks for
Speaker 5: rush Jay. We gotta go straight to the studio. I
Speaker 5: just got finished walking too, chicks on leashes through the
Speaker 5: entire floor as cat girls, because you have to have
Speaker 5: real cats to have a cat walk.
Speaker 6: That's my life now.
Speaker 5: And I never loved something so much or so hard
Speaker 5: other than my fucking husband in my life. Wow, other
Speaker 5: than your husband. Other than my husband, my husband of
Speaker 5: sixteen years this year in July.
Speaker 1: And is he is he here with you?
Speaker 5: Like?
Speaker 6: Actually, he works for a bank, so he's doing bank stuff.
Speaker 1: Not bank stuff. Banks, Uh, you know them regular jobs
Speaker 1: that ain't that fun? He don't what I'm doing that.
Speaker 5: You participate when he sees something cute cause we're Polly.
Speaker 5: We've been since the job. He didn't believe we were
Speaker 5: Polly in the beginning. He was just waiting for me,
Speaker 5: like you have a white woman, sus dick, and then
Speaker 5: like something mob was gonna happen, like.
Speaker 2: Smack multiply, how does okay? So then you introduced Polly
Speaker 2: to him?
Speaker 5: Yes, because I told him up front. I at the
Speaker 5: time I did not know.
Speaker 6: I do now.
Speaker 5: I'm highly functioning autistic, y'all. I just found this out
Speaker 5: like just last year. But like I am very much
Speaker 5: of my daddy's girl. My dad was Jamaican. I said,
Speaker 5: it was law, That's how I was raised. They came
Speaker 5: out your mouth. You say, it was a base behind
Speaker 5: your voice and you get shit done. And then we
Speaker 5: met and it was like, what you.
Speaker 1: Think that's a Is that why Jamaica's have so many jobs?
Speaker 5: Because I damn, I'll tell you right, maybe that's the
Speaker 5: Jamaican thing I will be on here.
Speaker 1: It was so funny.
Speaker 6: One of my clients was.
Speaker 5: Like, I'm not trying to be racist, but like you
Speaker 5: were the kind of Jamaican Like in Living Color, I
Speaker 5: got teen down.
Speaker 2: Jobs and I was like, people say that I'm able
Speaker 2: to work so much as soon as I tell them
Speaker 2: I'm Jamaican, and they.
Speaker 5: Said, oh, bitch, now it makes sense. I'm half Jamaican,
Speaker 5: half Black, Native American, Irish, whole bunch of things. I
Speaker 5: was just I like to call myself a good old
Speaker 5: fashion Heiines fifty seven packet.
Speaker 3: That tell me about so sixteen years with your husband,
Speaker 3: twenty eight years you said.
Speaker 5: Oh, I've wich uy old and I am twenty. I'm
Speaker 5: twenty four going into twenty five. Now, I've been doing
Speaker 5: this since I was twenty.
Speaker 1: So before you met.
Speaker 3: Now, so when you were first dating and when you're
Speaker 3: like getting into this because most doms that we interview
Speaker 3: are maybe they've been doing it five ten years, right,
Speaker 3: they don't have that much season today. Yeah, when you
Speaker 3: were first dating, how were you telling them and were
Speaker 3: you even telling them?
Speaker 1: Yeah you were.
Speaker 4: You never had like a fake.
Speaker 1: I don't have to know.
Speaker 5: We're not doing like the stripper logic. So like I
Speaker 5: work in a club, like I'm a bottle service girl.
Speaker 5: Bit you get naked.
Speaker 1: Okay, it's those cities and what is this those city?
Speaker 1: What is the job?
Speaker 3: Because you said, like a you're making many jobs. What
Speaker 3: is the job that's beyond the doms.
Speaker 5: Let's see, I am a professional dominatrix. I have my
Speaker 5: welding license, I work in medical health and I do
Speaker 5: mental health.
Speaker 6: I let's see.
Speaker 5: That's say I run my own catering business. I think
Speaker 5: I did, Uh I have. I'm a hustle period. Tell
Speaker 5: me about the jobs.
Speaker 3: Within the professional dominatrix, inside the professional domination, because it's
Speaker 3: not just like beating eggs up?
Speaker 1: Is it pay pig's what is it?
Speaker 5: Oh? My god, it's everything I've seen some of the
Speaker 5: ladies job had on here, like the oh he likes
Speaker 5: jack off to my shit? That kind of shit. Yes,
Speaker 5: that that's real. The struggle is real. That is what
Speaker 5: they're coming for. And my website just say red is
Speaker 5: literally for that reason. I used to have until somebody
Speaker 5: was like, you're gonna get sued for that shit. It
Speaker 5: used to play the intro for it ain't for everybody
Speaker 5: from jay Z.
Speaker 1: That's hilarious.
Speaker 5: If you go on X videos right now, I have
Speaker 5: a videoup there with a boy sucking my strap on
Speaker 5: and it plays to bitch got a penis.
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at that, not mad at that at all.
Speaker 2: What I guess then what things do you offer across
Speaker 2: the gampit?
Speaker 1: Because again, like.
Speaker 5: Across the board, there's like what you would think of
Speaker 5: as general fetish like humanization, bimblification, like boys who want
Speaker 5: to be transformed into slutty women, beautiful women, very high
Speaker 5: in high class, elegant bro.
Speaker 1: They want to be transformed.
Speaker 6: Yes, they want to be transformed. They don't want to
Speaker 6: be trans they don't.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, they don't want to Actually, what you do
Speaker 1: you are a judge for cross dressing?
Speaker 2: Is this is cross dressing only something that you would
Speaker 2: consider men do? Or I mean, is it across the board? Okay,
Speaker 2: catch me my pictures. That's ad a head full of
Speaker 2: wig right now.
Speaker 5: And by the time it gets hot in summertime and
Speaker 5: I get to do my month and a half almost
Speaker 5: two months of traveling across l A back over here
Speaker 5: and pinging back and forth doing my circuit, I'll be slapped,
Speaker 5: fucking bald. I'll ship all hot outside. That's not my deal.
Speaker 5: Like I am not here to make you happy. It
Speaker 5: is absolutely the other way around. If you don't make
Speaker 5: me happy, you don't have room in my circle.
Speaker 2: So when when they when they come for you and
Speaker 2: want to transform like you said, and get into cross
Speaker 2: dressing and dress up.
Speaker 1: What what does that entail? What do you guys do? What?
Speaker 5: What is the role playing aspect? What are they paying for?
Speaker 5: You need to know they are paying for the experience
Speaker 5: of one. I'm doing it to you, so you're getting
Speaker 5: the Yeah, seriously, like I'm doing this to you, be
Speaker 5: grateful when I'm helping you the fuck out. Motherfuck you
Speaker 5: could be taking your ass the party sit to getting
Speaker 5: bad wig. It's some motherfucking cheap ass, fucking lingerie. No
Speaker 5: qu pase, So you help them dress up? Yeah, I
Speaker 5: will take grown ass men to the fucking hood because
Speaker 5: they're worried about Oh my mother, oh my aunt's my
Speaker 5: grandma shops here, blah blah blah. We can't go to
Speaker 5: Lane Bryant. Well, let me tell you, we about to
Speaker 5: hop over one whole city and go to rain We're
Speaker 5: going to go to the hood and we're going to Rainbow,
Speaker 5: We're going to It's Fashion, We're going to Ashley Stews
Speaker 5: and we gotta get you like the good sized kick.
Speaker 3: Boots is a part of the going shopping together, part
Speaker 3: of public humiliation.
Speaker 1: Do you make sense? So they get out of the oh.
Speaker 5: In my phone, I have a video of a boy
Speaker 5: standing inside of Jenny O's in Dallas, Texas, right outside
Speaker 5: of Dallas and Duncanville, and I'm making him pay for
Speaker 5: all the shit. I'm gonna dress him up in that night,
Speaker 5: the wig that he bought, the nylons he bought, and
Speaker 5: I have the camera right in his fucking face while
Speaker 5: the little girl is bringing him up, and I'll was like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 5: you know, nothing shit is for me. These aren't even
Speaker 5: my colors. That's not my palette. I'm a spring, He's
Speaker 5: a winner. This is all for him, isn't it, bitch?
Speaker 5: Huh yes, mistress?
Speaker 4: Can I ask you because this is what I like
Speaker 4: to know, isn't it?
Speaker 1: Bug?
Speaker 2: Something like that? The shopping about what is the going
Speaker 2: rate for that experience?
Speaker 5: Uh? Non known clients to me fresh off the boat,
Speaker 5: four hundred dollars an hour. That is the bare bones man.
Speaker 5: I also do military discounts, E and T public service
Speaker 5: workers because I'm like this. Everybody can't afford me, and
Speaker 5: most of the guys who are into me now that
Speaker 5: I'm in mithorities have turned into babies.
Speaker 6: There is a bunch of cubs out there like mommy, oh.
Speaker 3: Wow, let me ask for four hundred an hour. You've
Speaker 3: been doing this so long, so you're obviously right. Like
Speaker 3: when I'm my my thing, I spend the most money
Speaker 3: on nowadays is breeding right?
Speaker 1: Some of them bitch seven, some of one fifty. So
Speaker 1: when people are.
Speaker 3: Paying more for a domination experience, what type of care
Speaker 3: generally comes with that.
Speaker 5: I don't care what you're paying. The care is always
Speaker 5: going to be the same. It's always gonna be. We
Speaker 5: are taking what the fuck I need you to crash
Speaker 5: your car for after you left for my motherfucking place,
Speaker 5: and then the police ask me one hundred and one
Speaker 5: fucking questions aftercare is absolutely needed. Let's get some water
Speaker 5: into you. You want a cookie, you want some pedia light.
Speaker 5: Let's pop one of these Gluecoast pills into you because
Speaker 5: you look a little shaky. I keep a first aid
Speaker 5: kit with me, and it's not just band aids, and
Speaker 5: just in case I jazz open. I got like a
Speaker 5: two single tail whips in my purse right now because
Speaker 5: I just left the showroom.
Speaker 3: For what's some of the most extreme I would guess,
Speaker 3: I would say role play that you've had that where.
Speaker 5: You I don't know if we can say it on
Speaker 5: this show, because damn we can. You didn't hear that
Speaker 5: last part. I don't know if I feel like being arrested. Okay,
Speaker 5: I can tell you something. It won't get me arrested,
Speaker 5: but y'all might be kind of shocked by I've coloriformed
Speaker 5: a boy coming from the airport before it, put him
Speaker 5: in the truck of my car and rolled the fuck out.
Speaker 1: Holy do you want to do that? That don't sound
Speaker 1: like crazy?
Speaker 6: I know it isn't crazy.
Speaker 3: I was like, that kink seems like something to me
Speaker 3: that feels okay, like I get it, Like some kinks,
Speaker 3: I don't write like we had on one.
Speaker 6: Of the Kings.
Speaker 5: You absolutely don't like. You don't like the butt stuff,
Speaker 5: and I get it. The girls ass who like just
Speaker 5: opened I think that was no.
Speaker 1: We had someone on Kimo.
Speaker 4: You interviewed her and she said they wanted a hamster
Speaker 4: in a blender.
Speaker 1: No no oh yeah, no no no.
Speaker 6: The trampling extreme trampling where they.
Speaker 5: Wait, what is that called extreme extreme trampling and or squishing,
Speaker 5: which means they want you to use live animals and
Speaker 5: like literally step on them till.
Speaker 1: Yeah, have you have you had someone ask.
Speaker 5: Oh, I've got plenty of people. I got a size
Speaker 5: thirteen women's foot putting, of course.
Speaker 1: And they want, well, what if they wanted you to kill?
Speaker 5: I had a boy was like, I will give you
Speaker 5: two thousand dollars if you take this bag of white
Speaker 5: mice that was inside of a pillow case and just
Speaker 5: trample them with your feet until the case turns red.
Speaker 1: The other bag was like, oh, I hate leeches.
Speaker 5: Would you be into like whack a bag full of
Speaker 5: leeches and then like step all over them?
Speaker 6: I had some crazy ass fuck you.
Speaker 5: Do this shit for twenty five years, It is gonna
Speaker 5: be some motherfuckers out there like, hey, but have you
Speaker 5: heard this ship?
Speaker 4: So the chloroform to me wasn't as crazy.
Speaker 1: Where do you buy chloroform? That's why I was crazy
Speaker 1: to me?
Speaker 6: How you just don't don't ask?
Speaker 5: Okay, never mind, I was just saying, I'm trying to
Speaker 5: keep you all, but I'm trying to keep all three
Speaker 5: of us from going Okay.
Speaker 1: Keathedia seven king like you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: Like I think of bondage, I think of like you know,
Speaker 3: having to be like submissive to something that to me
Speaker 3: is in there. I guess I can't get the trampling
Speaker 3: animal thing cause you not known.
Speaker 5: Either, because I told them both now I am a
Speaker 5: loving dog and cat mom ill personal IgG cringe.
Speaker 1: It's given there, It's given.
Speaker 2: Then one step away from dahmer, like, if you want
Speaker 2: to do that, like you want some want to do that.
Speaker 5: You're two seconds away from like, let's find the darkest
Speaker 5: part of the internet, underneath the mary on the crunch
Speaker 5: of the Internet. I need some fucking smut. And I like,
Speaker 5: don't get me wrong, I am an absolute smut puddler,
Speaker 5: but the kind of smut that you're asking for is
Speaker 5: not the kind of smell. I don't even know yourt
Speaker 5: to put my phone on silent. Tell us what you've
Speaker 5: said no to? Beyond animals, I said no to making
Speaker 5: two siblings. Fuck, I've said no.
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold you. Was they twins? Did they
Speaker 1: look good? Okay, I'm not surprising. It was one request
Speaker 1: from the other one.
Speaker 6: Was can I fuck my sister in front of you?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 6: And I was like, any other time, I love me
Speaker 6: an episode a Game of Thrones?
Speaker 2: But right now, is that something you would say no to?
Speaker 1: Yeah? And is that consensual?
Speaker 5: Even if it's between the two of them and they've
Speaker 5: already had the conversation. I can't stop what they've already
Speaker 5: conversated about. They wanted somebody to be the facilitator.
Speaker 1: Oh, I've already told you.
Speaker 3: I think the most disgusting thing I ever said on this
Speaker 3: show was Jason Love having sex with someone's daughter and well.
Speaker 1: In front of the husband with the mother bread Like.
Speaker 3: Since people say, oh, he's told that story different ways
Speaker 3: or maybe it was a lie, I hope that's true,
Speaker 3: because that checked me out of it.
Speaker 2: I mean, I've said this, I would like brothers or
Speaker 2: even twins that just look real real, Fine.
Speaker 5: That's the whole thing. It's the you're forgetting that they're
Speaker 5: genetically related. In the back here, you toss that ship
Speaker 5: the fuck out like it's the garbage last week. Inside
Speaker 5: of your head, you're like, these two hot motherfuckers, and
Speaker 5: I just want to fuck them both.
Speaker 2: Yes, it ain't been on the top of my head.
Speaker 2: I could name a few sets of brothers now, but
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna name it. I mean, a son father,
Speaker 2: I've said that. That's been kind of now. Clearly they're
Speaker 2: not gonna be sucking each other's Dick.
Speaker 1: This is like a trained gang bang situation. I'm playing
Speaker 1: out here.
Speaker 2: I don't want to a father and a son playing
Speaker 2: with each other, but they could both play with me.
Speaker 5: And there's absolutely nothing wrong with that, as long as
Speaker 5: everybody has been signed off.
Speaker 6: On, like yeah, I'm okay with this. I'm okay with
Speaker 6: okay with this.
Speaker 4: The dad paid for him to watch his daughter.
Speaker 2: So here's the thing I don't think. And look, here's
Speaker 2: how sick my mind is going. If a father had
Speaker 2: sons and wanted to watch the sons fuck me, I
Speaker 2: would even let the daddy in the room.
Speaker 5: I know that does I mean, I'm just matched your
Speaker 5: to understand that. Like when it comes to kings, when
Speaker 5: it comes to fetishing, when it comes to what's inside
Speaker 5: your head, it's inside of your head. You're not gonna
Speaker 5: have a wrong with it. It's when you let it
Speaker 5: out other people.
Speaker 2: Yep, they are. I didn't want to get to our
Speaker 2: vanilla ship. Everybody, keep it, keep it up. I did
Speaker 2: want to bring up our vanilla ship because I did
Speaker 2: want to really draw these differences. When you talk about
Speaker 2: our mind, when we talk about being here at Avian,
Speaker 2: when we talk about dom con, there's just there's a
Speaker 2: difference in the ways that we all view sex. Essentially,
Speaker 2: so Pope Francis actually says that sexual pleasure is a
Speaker 2: gift from God.
Speaker 1: However, he condemns porn.
Speaker 2: The eighty seven year old religious leader told crowds outside
Speaker 2: of the Vatican that sex was something to be cherished,
Speaker 2: but it is ultimately being undermined by pornography.
Speaker 1: I do want to know when.
Speaker 2: Clearly, and and this is where when we talk Mormons,
Speaker 2: when we talked the way that they insert, yeah, when
Speaker 2: they insert, when they insert the Bible into how they
Speaker 2: view you know, intercourse and why we should be having
Speaker 2: sex and those things like that.
Speaker 1: I did want to know.
Speaker 2: Do you think that there's a difference between watching because
Speaker 2: again me fucking the brothers, you didn't cringe until I
Speaker 2: brought the dad into watch. Do you think that there's
Speaker 2: a difference in the way our minds have viewed watching
Speaker 2: people have sex in comparison to the actual act of sex.
Speaker 2: And then I want to compare porn and BDSM as well.
Speaker 5: Okay, first thing, sorry Catholics, Apparently they didn't read the
Speaker 5: whole Bible. Anybody ever read the Song of Solomon Hella
Speaker 5: where he is literally talking about how her great waters
Speaker 5: bitches pussy was.
Speaker 1: With It wasn't the great waters of a lake or ocean.
Speaker 5: I mean he was talking about her pussy. He was
Speaker 5: talking about her titties, he was talking about her ads.
Speaker 1: He's the.
Speaker 6: Yeah, having a little tyler. Do you know it?
Speaker 1: I just know the little look.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, No, the Bible, and the Bible has porn
Speaker 2: in it.
Speaker 5: You have a man who's two daughters come up with
Speaker 5: an idea after their mom gets turned into salt. We
Speaker 5: gotta start more people. You got two brothers, one gigs
Speaker 5: kicked out. Suddenly, we have a sister that is nowhere
Speaker 5: else in the fucking bottle. We have incests at the
Speaker 5: incest porn. At the very beginning of it. God made
Speaker 5: man and Lilith. She said, I don't want nothing to
Speaker 5: do with this. He kicks with the fuck out, makes
Speaker 5: him a brand new bitch. It's like she knew too much.
Speaker 1: Kick both of them the fuck out.
Speaker 5: But before that, it was all naked and happy and shit.
Speaker 1: And even God.
Speaker 5: Said, I'm giving this to you. Enjoy this shit. Like
Speaker 5: I said, I'm Southern, go ahead and give me some
Speaker 5: Bible cruates and I will tell you the parts that
Speaker 5: you skip the fuck over.
Speaker 4: I want to bring up something that will make us
Speaker 4: debat a little.
Speaker 6: Uh oh, here goes a great.
Speaker 3: Bab Okay, So this conversation comes from me being a
Speaker 3: lover of a restaurant in La called Horses. Okay if
Speaker 3: I talked about this story, but the chef at Horses
Speaker 3: was found to have been killing cats, and basically he
Speaker 3: was jerking off.
Speaker 1: This the Chinese restaurant or what type of restaurant?
Speaker 2: This is a American restaurantee you, this is what I
Speaker 2: love Chinese people, and I believe actually all cultures eat
Speaker 2: weird animals. I don't think I think that Chinese shit
Speaker 2: is bullshit. I think all of them do.
Speaker 4: So anyway, uh okay.
Speaker 3: So basically, then this restaurant is like, you know, the
Speaker 3: hardest place to get into in La at the time.
Speaker 3: So the wife basically they keep getting these cats or
Speaker 3: adopting these cats, and they keep ending up dead.
Speaker 4: Come to find out it's a sexual cank.
Speaker 3: So friend and I we're like, bitch, we gotta go
Speaker 3: eat it horses because the fucking open table, so we
Speaker 3: got their food wasn't as good as it was last time.
Speaker 1: But because she said start killing cats had a different
Speaker 1: type of things.
Speaker 3: She's like, you know, this is that murderer ship, that
Speaker 3: documentary who killed don't kill cats or whatever. So she's like,
Speaker 3: you know, what if you have a gene or something
Speaker 3: in you that wants to like feel the breath leave.
Speaker 3: Someone's like, what if that's a thing, right, because we
Speaker 3: know how to do ours safely, right, And she said,
Speaker 3: should it really be illegal if you're not going to
Speaker 3: hurt anyone? What if these people needed to get their
Speaker 3: shit off?
Speaker 1: Another thing?
Speaker 2: For example, I was talking to a doll company and
Speaker 2: they told me that people have been requesting little girl dolls.
Speaker 2: Now the company said, there's this obvious moral clause of
Speaker 2: you no.
Speaker 3: But then the other thing was what if that keeps
Speaker 3: them from actually trying to fuck little kids? So I
Speaker 3: say that to say you made a mention of uh,
Speaker 3: you know, when does it become real or whatever?
Speaker 4: Like when does your king You said something like that.
Speaker 5: We were talking, yeah, what it is inside of your
Speaker 5: into like what's actually half happening?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 5: The two rolls was fine, the two ros plus one.
Speaker 5: Dad was like, that was your personal line in the
Speaker 5: saying me myself and I that would not be my
Speaker 5: personal line in the saying like if it turned into
Speaker 5: like the basketball team of all the cousins showed the
Speaker 5: fuck up, I'd be like, ooh, bitch, pussy gonna hurt though.
Speaker 5: But other than that, like I'm like, this is your thing.
Speaker 5: That's the whole thing about kink. It's supposed to be
Speaker 5: that there are no taboos, but even inside of that subset,
Speaker 5: you're always still going to have somebody saying, ew, cringe,
Speaker 5: no red stop.
Speaker 2: Well, outside the ill and the cringe, there are also
Speaker 2: things that are illegal. How do you stay away from
Speaker 2: when you have these thoughts and you're really you know,
Speaker 2: I guess you said the baby dolls. You know clearly
Speaker 2: they're not fucking kids, but it's a little weird.
Speaker 1: How do you check.
Speaker 2: Yourself if you realize that? And what I kind of
Speaker 2: want to do could get me in trouble, Like I.
Speaker 5: Say something, We're going to start a whole nother debate.
Speaker 5: I'm just about to say this, Okay, think about it. Yes,
Speaker 5: the whole thing you said about they are getting baby dolls.
Speaker 5: We know what they're doing with those baby dolls. What
Speaker 5: if they didn't have those baby dolls?
Speaker 6: That better question.
Speaker 4: That's the conversation.
Speaker 5: If we don't provide anything and bad shit happens. Everybody
Speaker 5: does that twenty twenty hindsight of oh, we should have
Speaker 5: just gave him the dolls. Okay, what if you're using
Speaker 5: that doll to level up like a fucking pokemon up
Speaker 5: to real little kid.
Speaker 1: That was my that was my thought. That's my thought.
Speaker 3: I don't know if you've ever gone through I know
Speaker 3: you were celibate last year. I've actually gone through moments
Speaker 3: of no masturbation.
Speaker 4: Right when I started, right.
Speaker 1: I'm totally good. Look, I just was like trying to.
Speaker 6: I cried when I realized.
Speaker 2: I'm surprised I didn't very obsessed with I ain't gonna
Speaker 2: hold you.
Speaker 1: I will celebrate my baby.
Speaker 2: I'm surprised this click is still here, baby, because that
Speaker 2: little fuck was like.
Speaker 4: No, mine was bad, my worry unhealthy.
Speaker 3: Hell, if anybody were the guys in the experience, but no,
Speaker 3: I would be like literally wouldn't be able to make things.
Speaker 3: I wouldn't want to go see people like. And I'm
Speaker 3: sure someone's probably experienced this. There's also another state of depression. Really,
Speaker 3: but I bring all that up to say, once that
Speaker 3: masturbation started back up after that little stick where I
Speaker 3: stopped a bit.
Speaker 4: Y'all's ready fuck.
Speaker 3: So I just don't understand how this doesn't because a cat.
Speaker 3: I'm like, what's some lady down the street?
Speaker 1: Like that's what your brain's gonna do.
Speaker 2: R I don't know why our woman's brain also does.
Speaker 2: Like you could not fuck for a while, then you
Speaker 2: fuck once, and now you just want to fuck every day.
Speaker 1: You want something like you just want to keep going.
Speaker 5: You know what, I remember when I was younger, in
Speaker 5: my me and my plumpsis were just talking about this
Speaker 5: that I've hit that old lady street. You know, all
Speaker 5: of our aunties used to tell us, like, girl, when
Speaker 5: you get to your voice, dude, stick going damn near,
Speaker 5: follow the fuck off ain't gonna work no more, and
Speaker 5: you're gonna be horny as fucking I'm like, oh my god, cousin,
Speaker 5: I'm filling the blank. That is so not true. Here
Speaker 5: I am forty five two seconds away. I sat on
Speaker 5: the boy last night, dead on his face. I didn't
Speaker 5: give a fuck if he got oxygen. I was mad
Speaker 5: because I left my hatachi at the house next to
Speaker 5: the bed, still on the fucking charger. And now you
Speaker 5: give a damn boy, his face so funny. What I
Speaker 5: wanted you gonna get? You said, you get on the floor.
Speaker 5: Did what the fuck we're doing right now?
Speaker 1: Did y'all see? Uh? And I don't think he knew
Speaker 1: what he was doing. But Meek is gonna Meek. Did
Speaker 1: you see that? Meek Mills said, this lady left this
Speaker 1: at my house? What is it?
Speaker 2: And it was a fucking charger to a sex toy.
Speaker 2: And it's like, I don't think that did what you
Speaker 2: thought I was gonna do, sir. That means you wasn't.
Speaker 5: Good enough, because good hold on to me about this?
Speaker 1: To me, I don't know. I'm just saying for me.
Speaker 2: I have never brought like a sex toy to a
Speaker 2: person that I know outside of like.
Speaker 1: Dildo's my house, to a house shocked to someone's house.
Speaker 5: I haven't done carry on bag of nothing but dig's
Speaker 5: things I can use on people, stuff people can use.
Speaker 1: I haven't done that.
Speaker 4: I literally I took this trip. Well, I brought the
Speaker 4: dude I'm talking to.
Speaker 1: We're here. I hear, yeah, like, okay, extra, it's I
Speaker 1: get in my house, not do it.
Speaker 2: I used toys with my partner, but that took us.
Speaker 2: I was with him for three years. I have not
Speaker 2: really I've done dil do's that I'll do, but the
Speaker 2: vibrators and stuff, I haven't. No, girl, that's a shared experience.
Speaker 3: You get on.
Speaker 6: Any just right on top of life.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I think it takes me a while to like introduce
Speaker 2: that to two new people. You never heard sharing his
Speaker 2: caaren sharing his care.
Speaker 3: Let me just say this, and I've done this A
Speaker 3: lot of people listen to this podcast, and I know
Speaker 3: we've got all the answers over the craziest And you
Speaker 3: said it takes you time, like it's it does take
Speaker 3: me time.
Speaker 1: It will takes me time to introduce it and with men.
Speaker 6: Out of your head, And that's also what I was
Speaker 6: about to say, is it just.
Speaker 2: Well, it's just with dudes, it's just what it's just
Speaker 2: with dudes.
Speaker 1: Like to me, it's.
Speaker 2: Really like eight Everyone already thinks I'm super like sexual
Speaker 2: and stuff like that. So a lot of times when
Speaker 2: I am doing the toy thing, also, it's not I
Speaker 2: don't feel comfortab when niggas just pull out toys that
Speaker 2: they have. So anytime I've even done the toys, we
Speaker 2: have to go together and buy these toys. So then
Speaker 2: it's that experience getting a guy to agree to come
Speaker 2: to sex a sex shop with me.
Speaker 1: That's where we normally buy the strap bonds and things
Speaker 1: like that.
Speaker 2: But no, am I just pulling up to a nigga
Speaker 2: that flew me out and pulling out my bag of tricks. No,
Speaker 2: it takes a while, but that that's.
Speaker 3: Actually something if I do, like a vacation, like first vacation.
Speaker 4: I'm not saying I'm a non contentional person, bitch.
Speaker 3: I'm bringing a vibrator, a cockering, a butt plug, me
Speaker 3: or you, I don't know, and probably something to bound
Speaker 3: me with.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I talk about and I leave them there.
Speaker 2: I've asked if I could bring a book like I
Speaker 2: have to. I've asked and talked about.
Speaker 1: Well I liked.
Speaker 2: I mean, obviously talking before is great. But the last
Speaker 2: time this happened, right my first trip with this person,
Speaker 2: we were in Mexico. I was like, Okay, I'm gonna.
Speaker 1: Go take a tower.
Speaker 3: I'll want you to open the door and then fix
Speaker 3: something you like. And maybe he's sitting there and wondering
Speaker 3: what those things are like and granted a plastic flower
Speaker 3: and granted, I actually think both of these can be healthy. Yeah,
Speaker 3: you know, not everybody is super vocal or able to
Speaker 3: be communicad So maybe just like playing and touching is
Speaker 3: okay first. And also I think with butt play for men,
Speaker 3: I know that you talk about it a lot. On
Speaker 3: my experience, I've just kind of got to bring it.
Speaker 3: And then I'm like, what do you like if I
Speaker 3: do it too much? Pre talk you for butt play,
Speaker 3: you're talking about like for them, for you.
Speaker 1: For them. I realized that a lot of Oh girl,
Speaker 1: I'm definitely talking about that.
Speaker 2: If I pull out a strap on some of the
Speaker 2: niggs out of well, that's bufflay.
Speaker 1: If I pull out a buttlood, they're gonna be like, now, bitch,
Speaker 1: what you're doing with dad? That's for you?
Speaker 2: Right, Like there's like, I know, y'all, I don't know
Speaker 2: what type of man y'all really think I fun because
Speaker 2: I know I'll be talking about been to these niggas
Speaker 2: over a lot, but some of them, there's no way
Speaker 2: I would consider even bringing that into a room without
Speaker 2: talking to them first, because I feel like they would
Speaker 2: feel like I'm playing them or like I'm disrespect.
Speaker 5: Like I need to absolutely get that part. But like
Speaker 5: you also have to remember if a motherfucker ain't gonna
Speaker 5: be cool with what you're already cool with, y'all.
Speaker 1: And then we're not fucking at all. But that's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying.
Speaker 2: I do all the conversating, first conversating conversation convers.
Speaker 6: So I can know what the fuck you're trying to
Speaker 6: get changed on.
Speaker 1: Do y'all?
Speaker 4: Remember sex in the.
Speaker 1: City when here we go co execs City.
Speaker 2: She do it every other but at the part on
Speaker 2: that because they about to put this shit on Netflix,
Speaker 2: you about to rewatch.
Speaker 1: It and bring it all back.
Speaker 3: Random have it a hard time dirty talking with this nigga,
Speaker 3: And finally she was able to get into it.
Speaker 4: He's like, tell me what I like. She's like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 4: you love it when I'm doing this blah blah blah.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, what else do I like?
Speaker 1: You love it when I put your cocky moth?
Speaker 4: Yeah, And you love it when I put my.
Speaker 2: Finger in your ass. And he was like, Oh, they
Speaker 2: don't like, they don't like. They don't like admitting that.
Speaker 2: Oh when I talk dirty either, message, I'll be like, ooh,
Speaker 2: let me seck your dick, ooh, let me spell on
Speaker 2: them balls, ooh, let me And they'll be like yes, yes, yes,
Speaker 2: Then when I say ooh, you gonna let me put
Speaker 2: my tongue deep in that ass? Lol, Like I don't
Speaker 2: get much of a response because it's like they don't
Speaker 2: want to respond or admit that they want it.
Speaker 5: Okay, if we're just going to be honest, black men
Speaker 5: are sheltered, Oh, very much, very I don't give a
Speaker 5: fuck which podcast you listen to who's talking about it.
Speaker 5: If you got five bitches on one mic like dot
Speaker 5: damn Tenttations and then three dudes sharing it O. But okay,
Speaker 5: somebody in this room telling me I'm fucking lying, thank you,
Speaker 5: it ends up being this thing of.
Speaker 6: Like black men are sheltered.
Speaker 1: They just are.
Speaker 5: They've never been given the amount of money to not
Speaker 5: give a fuck about what anybody else thinks about him.
Speaker 6: They never been.
Speaker 5: And when they do get that kind of money, they
Speaker 5: have to be extra sheltered to be able to keep
Speaker 5: said money. Yeah, of my clientele is Caucasian. I said
Speaker 5: what I said, It is a hell I will die on.
Speaker 5: But my black boys, y'all sexy sons, a bit of
Speaker 5: show the fuck up. Oh my god, the things you
Speaker 5: let me get away with. And I don't do that
Speaker 5: little half assi the ass shit like, oh my god,
Speaker 5: I ain't gonna send me back a lo ol bitch.
Speaker 5: I promise you I'll stick my whole fists in there,
Speaker 5: like I have one boy that is like an absolute
Speaker 5: gym rat. You know who I'm talking about, because I'm
Speaker 5: gonna make you watch this podcast. He is fine ass fuck.
Speaker 5: I'm talking about nobody that thighs like whoa ass like
Speaker 5: bounce a quarter off of it front the same fucking way.
Speaker 5: His titt is almost say tit is almost as big
Speaker 5: as mind the Mother. And I'm like, and you know
Speaker 5: what his favorite thing is, but spit in my fucking mouth.
Speaker 5: Smack me, tell me I'm a filthy, fucking horror and
Speaker 5: hold me down.
Speaker 1: I know you want to be held down.
Speaker 6: He wants to be assaulted. Okay, he brought me a toy.
Speaker 5: Uh. Well, we're gonna call it implement, because I know
Speaker 5: y'all are thinking toys like uh, but he brought me
Speaker 5: an implement, which is basically a eighteen wheeler truck tread
Speaker 5: folded in half glued and semi permanent to a fucking
Speaker 5: paddle handle. He's an extreme masochist. How many black men
Speaker 5: you know gonna admit to being like I like being
Speaker 5: like it's on the weekend because wow, and he's super quiet.
Speaker 1: Oh it beat him quiet one.
Speaker 6: Oh, and not just that he's an African in first generation.
Speaker 4: Here Hello, what it's Nigerian mane on my phone.
Speaker 2: For our horder, we like to to ask our our
Speaker 2: guests to give us a sex tip. Let me, I
Speaker 2: wouldn't love I would love one about what about dominating?
Speaker 1: So dead ass?
Speaker 2: So I told Mandy on our Patreon episode a few
Speaker 2: weeks back, how we've recently been doing some domb subplay
Speaker 2: for the most part, Like, I feel like it's super
Speaker 2: basic thinking it's the oh my god, you're coming in.
Speaker 3: I feel like that's kind of Vanella right. However, we
Speaker 3: were in the club the other night and there were
Speaker 3: tiles on the floor and he told me I had
Speaker 3: to stay in the box and.
Speaker 1: The tile, and I loved it right in that spot.
Speaker 6: Damn.
Speaker 1: He was like, don't fucking move. I see you go
Speaker 1: over the line. I'm slapping you.
Speaker 3: So my employees were there and they were starting to leave,
Speaker 3: and I was like, I need to get out.
Speaker 1: I got to take it. He's like, you need to
Speaker 1: figure out how to hug them.
Speaker 3: So this should have been mad fund thinking about trying
Speaker 3: it at the Avian Words tomorrow and he's like, I
Speaker 3: feel like it's a perfect place because if you really
Speaker 3: want to ask me permission to speak, no one's gonna
Speaker 3: think it's crazy because we're in this crazy town. However,
Speaker 3: I want to do my version of dominating. Have I
Speaker 3: already given too much as a submissive at this point
Speaker 3: in the Really.
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, no, you can be switched. Guess what?
Speaker 5: There is an in between. Sometimes I feel like a nut.
Speaker 5: Sometimes I don't. You can switch if he's not cool.
Speaker 5: If you switching, then like either you learn to be
Speaker 5: cool with baby gets her corner and her box. And
Speaker 5: that's what it is. I'm gonna tell you the truth.
Speaker 5: The rest of the show floor was like super amazed
Speaker 5: the fact that I had a white woman on a
Speaker 5: fucking Lesha collar, dressed up like a cat in like
Speaker 5: a Japanese school girl outfit, like on hands and knees
Speaker 5: with no knee pads.
Speaker 6: Her knees are fucked.
Speaker 1: Up because it is a carpeted at yeah.
Speaker 5: So and her favorite thing right now is, oh my god,
Speaker 5: look at my knees.
Speaker 6: And I'm like, yeah, the bitch is look good too.
Speaker 5: Baby, you need to come hang out with us at
Speaker 5: the layer because the rest of the bucket floor is
Speaker 5: all like, oh my god, look at me. My titties
Speaker 5: are almost out unless somebody's coming by, like security or
Speaker 5: some shit.
Speaker 6: But I got my nipplestops on. Fuck dad, we're happening.
Speaker 6: I probably not. We about to do some.
Speaker 5: Horrible things to ser good people, or at least I
Speaker 5: know I'm going to.
Speaker 6: I brought that that was payd for a reason.
Speaker 1: Let me it is heavy.
Speaker 6: It is a two by six and that's solid.
Speaker 1: It is heavy.
Speaker 4: I thought that shit said period it's at perfect.
Speaker 5: Ten because all money ain't good money. That's why it'sb
Speaker 5: dominant want to end up ee.
Speaker 1: So so you do believe, or it's fine.
Speaker 2: A submissive can't be too submissive to want the switch
Speaker 2: the roll switched.
Speaker 5: If if the submissive just wants to be submissive all
Speaker 5: the time, that's fine. But if you went into the
Speaker 5: relationship and you're like, I want to play sometimes and
Speaker 5: then you get to be the poblem and then sometimes
Speaker 5: I'll be the top, then sometimes you'll be the bottom,
Speaker 5: and sometimes I'll be the bottom, that is a switch relationship.
Speaker 6: We like going back and forth.
Speaker 5: If his favorite part is when he gets the top,
Speaker 5: if your favorite part is when you get to top,
Speaker 5: then maybe y'all need to get a third person who
Speaker 5: likes to be a sub all the goddamn time, and
Speaker 5: you can.
Speaker 6: Make that baby stand in the square and y'all can
Speaker 6: do it together.
Speaker 3: Now if you so for in my situation right where
Speaker 3: I've been constantly the sub during this relationship, what are
Speaker 3: some slight or light ways that I could maybe you know,
Speaker 3: get digg into it?
Speaker 4: Snap, because I how does tell shuld I dominate you?
Speaker 5: And he said, if I feel like you're capable, Yeah,
Speaker 5: then guess what, bitch, you need to get capable?
Speaker 1: Okay, what means that you need.
Speaker 5: To cut that old baby girl? I'm look at how
Speaker 5: you're sitting right now.
Speaker 1: You have like it.
Speaker 5: You have a yard and almost thirty three pounds of
Speaker 5: wood just sitting on your left and you're sitting like this.
Speaker 1: Touch it but like if it was men? Can I see? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I want to see how it does? How would you
Speaker 1: hold it?
Speaker 6: What we're doing? Oh, you're gonna get on this floor.
Speaker 6: I'm I have to put you on it.
Speaker 1: I'll get on it.
Speaker 2: No, see you bro, you want to be a son
Speaker 2: so bad?
Speaker 1: That's the thing you mean?
Speaker 5: You just don't.
Speaker 1: I got it off.
Speaker 3: She literally.
Speaker 5: It's see she's y'all are business women. Y'all done locked
Speaker 5: this ship the fuck down because you knew. I'm sorry,
Speaker 5: because you knew. This is what you're supposed to be
Speaker 5: doing when it comes around time for you to be
Speaker 5: the aggressive one.
Speaker 6: You're like the headlights.
Speaker 4: What are some ways I can start? Tell me some
Speaker 4: little thing or not even hard.
Speaker 2: Let's for the public. I would a woman who's mostly
Speaker 2: a sub or a partner. Let's not genderize this. Yes,
Speaker 2: how would anyone who's normally the submissive start inching their
Speaker 2: way towards domit? Being a doctor brat, brat really braded
Speaker 2: the fuck up. Brat is what I like to think
Speaker 2: of as the switch code for switches, Like I'm done
Speaker 2: being baby, Now you go get it?
Speaker 1: Oh did you just.
Speaker 6: To go get something?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Because I don't feel like doing it?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 6: This is that? Who gonna peel the orange thing? Isn't it?
Speaker 5: It's a little bit of pushback, It's baby steps, and
Speaker 5: then eventually the bratting's gonna turn into if it's done correctly,
Speaker 5: if the person feels like indulging you, it's gonna be like, Okay,
Speaker 5: I'll go get you the goddamn orange. Now you got them,
Speaker 5: Now your asses stuck. Now it's gonna be I need
Speaker 5: a little bit more than this orange peeled motherfucker, and
Speaker 5: now I need you go to the episode remind me
Speaker 5: to bread. I know I'm trying to do it tonight.
Speaker 1: At Brat.
Speaker 3: I'm not the diet when you got food poisoning, you know,
Speaker 3: they say bread, rice and tosa something okay.
Speaker 1: And then after after the brad face, what will be the.
Speaker 5: Next thing after the brad face is gonna be the
Speaker 5: like you ever had a man ask you what you
Speaker 5: want to eat and intentionally you said it's whatever you
Speaker 5: wanna need. Mm hmm, I know exactly what the fuck
Speaker 5: I want to eat. Let me tell you exactly.
Speaker 1: What I want sushi.
Speaker 5: Like I'm staring you down right now, I'm gonna tell
Speaker 5: you exactly what I want to eat. Either you're gonna
Speaker 5: get it or you're not. And if it don't, and
Speaker 5: if you don't, we gonna have some situations and maybe
Speaker 5: some moving furniture that we both enjoy. And no ifbody
Speaker 5: gonna get crack to the motherfucker white met we can
Speaker 5: just crack.
Speaker 1: What are some ways?
Speaker 4: And this is like, actually a real serious question.
Speaker 3: I feel like people like us and obviously like I'm
Speaker 3: more of a knilla in this instant than you are.
Speaker 3: But we all have access to maybe feeling comfortable going
Speaker 3: into a toy store or friends that we have to
Speaker 3: speak to. For someone who's possibly just in the middle
Speaker 3: of America who can't walk into the local place, what
Speaker 3: are some scenes they could play out in everyday life
Speaker 3: where they could dominate, whether it be a dinner, a
Speaker 3: car ride, a date night.
Speaker 5: Everybody stopped by Timu and get a vibrating butt plug
Speaker 5: that comes with the Bluetooth connection either through your cell
Speaker 5: phone and an app or actual remote control or I'm.
Speaker 1: Gonna I'm gonna suggest Amazon.
Speaker 2: Hold on Amazon only because Timo was selling people information
Speaker 2: out here.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Like for the fucking I tak yea I got
Speaker 5: it was sixteen bucks, mouer, that thing works had some
Speaker 5: bitch swaps. I was like this, she said, you might
Speaker 5: have my socialis.
Speaker 6: I wasn't even trying that hard. I was like, whoa
Speaker 6: this heard got some.
Speaker 5: Chick and then you get light to that third position
Speaker 5: of like, and you're like, okay, this is nice, and
Speaker 5: then get to that four and it's like, whole position,
Speaker 5: I am holding you like a boat or against my
Speaker 5: fucking pussy. She was like, it's worth the risk, It's
Speaker 5: worth the risk. I think a little bit of information.
Speaker 5: I am literally on the internet everywhere. I've already had sockers.
Speaker 5: I'm forty fucking five. I don't care anymore.
Speaker 1: Now.
Speaker 5: I'm going for fucking experiences only everybody else right, my
Speaker 5: husband's at home, our bills are paid, we have medical insurance.
Speaker 5: If I die, set me on fire, I ain't gonna know.
Speaker 5: I am going for experiences, ladies. I'm going for this
Speaker 5: makes me happy, This lets me be me. If you
Speaker 5: ain't on the boat, get the fuck off the boat
Speaker 5: so we can make room for people on the boat
Speaker 5: who want to fucking do what I said, fucking do.
Speaker 1: Okay, And so I was just gonna do oh.
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, were you gonna answer her question
Speaker 2: on any of the dates for Oh?
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, for the dates, Like, seriously, you just have
Speaker 5: to bump it up a little bit more. It's skill bratting,
Speaker 5: but it's bretting until eventually you brought your way to
Speaker 5: the top. Literally, you're not hyper aggressive. You just give
Speaker 5: the tone like, okay, we're gonna have a conversation. I
Speaker 5: want you to be subby you and I'm gonna be daddy.
Speaker 5: I should have brought my I could be your father
Speaker 5: figure t shirt. It literally says I could be your
Speaker 5: father figure.
Speaker 1: I have an archie.
Speaker 6: That's just a tip.
Speaker 1: I always want more. She only want just the tip
Speaker 1: in her ass. But I want more than the tip
Speaker 1: I said I have.
Speaker 5: Had. I wish you were coming to the Layer party
Speaker 5: tonight because I would introduce you to my boys, Sweat Jade.
Speaker 5: What's it called the layer?
Speaker 1: Why? What Auric? Let me come?
Speaker 6: What so you can go stand in the square?
Speaker 1: Oh no, so you could be a little, a little
Speaker 1: I'm down to go with us.
Speaker 6: I'm down to go lady for y'all to get in.
Speaker 1: I'll get you, okay. So what's it like? Tell me,
Speaker 1: tell me, tell me.
Speaker 2: You gotta let her finish these dates for the people.
Speaker 2: He is kicking, I know, but we are trying to
Speaker 2: get some tips for the audience.
Speaker 6: Wazy for the audience.
Speaker 5: Remember, if you think, just like any other job, if
Speaker 5: you're at the bottom, eventually you want to be at
Speaker 5: the top. Nobody wants to work in the mill room
Speaker 5: for fucking ever.
Speaker 6: Brat your way to success.
Speaker 5: Mm Like, no, daddy, I really don't feel like doing
Speaker 5: it right now. I'm sorry, my leg is tired.
Speaker 6: Outside of the square. Oh you want to get some
Speaker 6: I don't know, you want to give me one?
Speaker 5: Because as soon as you match that energy, that's when
Speaker 5: they start feeling that, like, oh, you want a little
Speaker 5: challenge Wolf today?
Speaker 6: I got you some challenge Wolf.
Speaker 5: And if you challenge Wolf enough back, you never know,
Speaker 5: you might end up checking his fucking oil with us
Speaker 5: to think good big egg, because sometimes that's what the fuck.
Speaker 5: It takes a lot, especially with I'm sorry. I love
Speaker 5: y'all brothers. I do y'all some fine motherfuckers, but god
Speaker 5: damn y'all hard hitted y'all want to try nothing new
Speaker 5: with lesson someplace to eat or someplace to go clubbing,
Speaker 5: Try something different sexually. You ain't got to do it
Speaker 5: for fucking ever. Just try something different.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's bad to say that, though, don't.
Speaker 3: No, I don't think it's because we've already dug into
Speaker 3: like our own troubles on why we're like this, right.
Speaker 3: It's also why I think we've talked about, you know,
Speaker 3: black women, Like one of my friends said to me, like,
Speaker 3: nobody sucks about dick like black girls, but everybody be
Speaker 3: thinking white girls and got the best head, right.
Speaker 4: And it's because because you see it the most, well,
Speaker 4: not see you fast.
Speaker 1: We're not supposed to be out here like this. It's
Speaker 1: that whole.
Speaker 5: Yeah, darling, I will suck your dick at the speed
Speaker 5: and equivalency of a Hooper vacuum.
Speaker 6: You don't come at the end of this the end period.
Speaker 1: I know that's right, And if you don't, we need.
Speaker 6: To start this motherfucker back up, kick tars and light
Speaker 6: the fires.
Speaker 1: Let's go now.
Speaker 2: I wanted to ask you if, in this position in
Speaker 2: the bedroom, bringing yourself maybe all the way back to
Speaker 2: when you first started having sex, did you feel the
Speaker 2: need to be a dom specifically, because I don't know
Speaker 2: if y'all can see if you're not watching on YouTube,
Speaker 2: you came in and you're about six five in these
Speaker 2: hills you said you're six to three without them, you
Speaker 2: have a dominant personality. Did you feel like that was
Speaker 2: something that was almost had to be.
Speaker 1: You in the bedroom, you know, what.
Speaker 5: Just in case y'all haven't heard my backstory, let me
Speaker 5: give you a quick please. I started this when I
Speaker 5: was twenty, back in Chicago. I went to a place.
Speaker 5: This is the kind of show. I can tell the
Speaker 5: whole story. I went to do a party for the
Speaker 5: company I was working for. She was a dominatrix. She
Speaker 5: wanted all that whales and whistles. We got everything for
Speaker 5: I kept coming back to that club because every third
Speaker 5: Thursday they would have like BDSM night before the regular
Speaker 5: people come in and spend like fifty million dollars on drinks.
Speaker 5: They would indulge the people. And I went into one
Speaker 5: of the smaller rooms, kind of like this, maybe a
Speaker 5: little bit bigger, and it had a strip pole, a
Speaker 5: little tiny stage, had a couple of couches, and it
Speaker 5: was meant for like dudes have private shows, like oh baby,
Speaker 5: get up there and do a little polework. And these
Speaker 5: two black men come in with this white woman basically
Speaker 5: on a leash wrapped by her wrist, and she's butt
Speaker 5: fucking naked. They hang her from one of the suspension
Speaker 5: loops that I now know is a suspension loop at
Speaker 5: a hard point in the ceiling. And I'm talking about
Speaker 5: legs up rocky fucker one from the front, one from.
Speaker 1: The back DP.
Speaker 5: I am coming from Mississippi. I had just turned twenty.
Speaker 5: I just left job Corps for Christ fund sakes. I
Speaker 5: had hied up because the first thing my mama said
Speaker 5: when I left was like, girl, don't get you at
Speaker 5: Chicago and do something stupid where me and your daddy
Speaker 5: had to come back.
Speaker 6: And get you. And I was like, no, Mama, I
Speaker 6: won't what the fuck I do.
Speaker 5: And even after I thought I saw a sexual assault
Speaker 5: because I'm from Mississippi and black folks don't get involved
Speaker 5: in white people shit.
Speaker 6: Is that shit?
Speaker 5: And I fucking still kept coming back to that because
Speaker 5: somewhere jep Us Oude of my dumb ass had I
Speaker 5: was like, oh my god, that was horrible.
Speaker 6: It's kind of hot.
Speaker 5: And then eventually the guy who would end up becoming
Speaker 5: my master because I used to be a contracted sub
Speaker 5: in his household. Wow to contracted sub. He gave me
Speaker 5: money to live in his bad ass motherfucking house and
Speaker 5: learn to take an ass whooping because I'm good with
Speaker 5: physical fucking pain, because I will mentally blake the fuck out. Wow,
Speaker 5: I've been tied up and use this furniture before. I've
Speaker 5: been used as a chair in a poker game. I've
Speaker 5: been tied up with three other girls to make their
Speaker 5: own version of like a multi dimensional fucking base and
Speaker 5: or lamp. They would put actual lamp fixtures and the
Speaker 5: cords in between our backs.
Speaker 2: Now you're you don't do that anymore? But is it
Speaker 2: because did you? Did you not get stimulation from being
Speaker 2: a sub the same way you do as a dom
Speaker 2: He'll know, Okay, okay, I'm not a submissive person by nature.
Speaker 2: For money, I was.
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm twenty years old living in Chicago, bitch. Yes,
Speaker 5: I will take this three fifty a week and go
Speaker 5: pick up your motherfucking personal lives of fucking underwear from
Speaker 5: over at three fifty. I think the underground all over
Speaker 5: there was a three fifty Orleans or Yeah, I think
Speaker 5: it was. I go pick up this man's underwear. He
Speaker 5: was like a little tiny white Truman Capodi. His mama
Speaker 5: left him ass load of money after World War Two,
Speaker 5: him and his swim brother, and then the brother passed
Speaker 5: away and he had all the money and more money.
Speaker 6: He was staying out in Cicero.
Speaker 1: Y'all, you ever been in Cicero.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Oh wait, I do know what that said. That's where
Speaker 1: all the fans of rich white people stay out, and
Speaker 1: that's where I did my training when I got hired.
Speaker 5: It's like about an hour outside of Chicago, and it's
Speaker 5: like we're all that's where all the white people.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I did want So then would you say you
Speaker 2: learned what you enjoyed in the bedroom by seeing what
Speaker 2: you did enjoy that you.
Speaker 1: Didn't John, I want to do what you do. Oh.
Speaker 5: I one day got up from getting flogged like a
Speaker 5: motherfucker and I was like, it's cool and everything, but
Speaker 5: I can't do what you're doing. And he was like, well, darling,
Speaker 5: you can't learn to do what I'm doing until you
Speaker 5: walked a midle in the other person's shoes. Like, get
Speaker 5: your ass back up on that fucking horse and let's
Speaker 5: finish what we started. And at the end of that
Speaker 5: we had a conversation. He put me in his MINT program,
Speaker 5: which was the mistress and Training program, and I kept
Speaker 5: in a buck with him. I'm brown and I don't
Speaker 5: think anybody's going to be into this, and he was like,
Speaker 5: you'd be surprised what people are into.
Speaker 4: So Basically it came from you being this up much
Speaker 4: like I just asked you right now.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so that's why I was saying. It's not that
Speaker 5: you have no hope, it's just a but we aren't
Speaker 5: want to be honest. Just talking to you watching former episodes,
Speaker 5: you suby, you know, yes you are. You are very dominant.
Speaker 5: You're dominant with women. You want to be in control
Speaker 5: because you like being the top. But when you with dudes,
Speaker 5: you get the softer side of seis.
Speaker 3: With that through bisexuality too, and there's nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 6: That's where you're a switch.
Speaker 1: You subbed to.
Speaker 6: Me and you dominate women. Why is that so hard done?
Speaker 2: And I'm the opposite. I can't doumb a woman. I
Speaker 2: told you, I haven't stopped a woman ever. I've been
Speaker 2: stopped by a woman. I've only struck men. And then
Speaker 2: when it comes to being with a woman, I like
Speaker 2: pleasing them, but I don't want to feel like I'm
Speaker 2: convincing them to be with me, so I kind of
Speaker 2: wait to see if it's a vibe and then it's
Speaker 2: on and potments. But yeah, I like, I mean, okay,
Speaker 2: I guess it's just conn But.
Speaker 3: You know you're making me think, like, make me a
Speaker 3: good thing for me to start with. Okay, so you know,
Speaker 3: we landed in Vegas and we're all excited, and.
Speaker 2: I'm man, I came here thinking I was gonna suck
Speaker 2: a porn starry nigga, woke up and wipe think.
Speaker 1: I'm like, fuck maybe you yes?
Speaker 4: So he was like yo this ship, making me like
Speaker 4: I'm in the move.
Speaker 3: I'm like, yeo, we should pay for some pussy, like
Speaker 3: the like, sure we get some, but I want to
Speaker 3: pay for some pussy.
Speaker 1: Let's just let's pick a bitch out there.
Speaker 6: We sity you escorts want you know, hell hen he
Speaker 6: likes to.
Speaker 3: So we're talking about it, and now I'm thinking, what
Speaker 3: if I did like a force fuck situation, like I
Speaker 3: was the dom that made him watch me fuck her,
Speaker 3: then I'm like forcing him to fuck me. He is
Speaker 3: to get his face sit on, maybe like he can't come.
Speaker 3: I feel like that might be a good entry away
Speaker 3: for me because I'm actually able to be a domb
Speaker 3: with women.
Speaker 1: So I'll probably feel.
Speaker 5: But see if he has any common sense, he'll realize
Speaker 5: it just as quick as I did because he's been
Speaker 5: fucking you for a second. Now I just met you
Speaker 5: today and I figured that out. Find out what that
Speaker 5: you are dominant with women and submissive to me. Oh,
Speaker 5: I'm saying a starter a starter kit for you.
Speaker 6: Yes, but if he has any common sense and he
Speaker 6: can read you the same way.
Speaker 1: You're not gonna make You're not gonna do your girls only.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I let her do it to me. She's gonna
Speaker 6: be half assed with it.
Speaker 1: But you make him like watch on the couch at
Speaker 1: that time.
Speaker 5: Up.
Speaker 1: That's a good start.
Speaker 3: You've brought this my brain the way it works like
Speaker 3: And I know people hate then that I talk like
Speaker 3: this sometimes because it seems arrogant, but like, I get
Speaker 3: whatever I want. So when there's things that are hard
Speaker 3: for me to attain, I have to figure out how
Speaker 3: I'm gonna do it. And right now is dominating this.
Speaker 1: African Oh my god.
Speaker 2: Well, we haven't got into homemail and a lot of
Speaker 2: episodes in this one. I want to make sure we
Speaker 2: get to because I think you could have us just
Speaker 2: a little bit because it's BDSM MENI so if you
Speaker 2: can help me. By the way, if y'all haven't yet,
Speaker 2: make sure you send us your home mail. That's horrible
Speaker 2: decisions at gmail dot com.
Speaker 1: Hi, me and Neo WEEZI. I just want to hear.
Speaker 2: Your thoughts on this. Should I be concerned and stop
Speaker 2: fucking my ex? Through a DM conversation, I actually learned
Speaker 2: that my exes into BDSM. It started with him commenting
Speaker 2: on pics of gingerbread cookies I made. He told me
Speaker 2: he was making some cookies too, and then sent me
Speaker 2: a meme of a gingerbread man in BDSM gear. Now
Speaker 2: I've seen you one by the way. The caption said
Speaker 2: why I'm not allowed to make cookies for the church?
Speaker 2: Bak and said no more. I laughed and then said, well,
Speaker 2: that's someone's favorite flavor. He then asked me if I
Speaker 2: could be if it could be my new favorite. At
Speaker 2: first I just took it as a joke, but what
Speaker 2: if you was serious? So I asked him if he
Speaker 2: was into BDSM and he said he dabbled in it.
Speaker 2: I think dabble was a wrong word to say, because
Speaker 2: he later said he had constraints and blindfolds. I was
Speaker 2: shocked because when we were together about two years ago,
Speaker 2: and we were together for a year and a half,
Speaker 2: I didn't see any sign of this, and he didn't
Speaker 2: tell me that he was into BDSM. I encouraged us
Speaker 2: to have a conversation about sex because I lost my
Speaker 2: virginity to him. I was twenty nine and I wanted
Speaker 2: to have a great sex life and learn more. He
Speaker 2: asked me if he should bring the restraints and handcuffs
Speaker 2: over and I said yes. I was always curious about BDSM,
Speaker 2: but I was afraid to try it. The first time
Speaker 2: we tried it, it was fun. I came so hard
Speaker 2: and had the best orgasms from fucking him, from him
Speaker 2: fucking me and the restraints, fingering me and spanking me
Speaker 2: while I was handcuffed. When he finished, I asked him
Speaker 2: how long he was into BDSM and he actually said
Speaker 2: a long time. It's the type of porn he watches,
Speaker 2: and he incorporates it into the bedroom depending on the partner.
Speaker 1: I asked him why he.
Speaker 2: Didn't tell me when we were together. Was it because
Speaker 2: he was my first sexual partner? Was it because he
Speaker 2: didn't believe I could handle it? And honestly, I don't
Speaker 2: know if I would accept the answer. I don't want
Speaker 2: to believe that I'm that boring, but if that was
Speaker 2: his answer, I would like it to be fair. He
Speaker 2: told me that's not it and doesn't know why he
Speaker 2: didn't tell me. I could tell this wasn't going to
Speaker 2: get anywhere, and I was starting to feel frustrated and
Speaker 2: wondered if I should fight, But I realized he's not
Speaker 2: my man anymore.
Speaker 1: However we fuck, it's not my problem.
Speaker 2: So all I said was that he should have told me,
Speaker 2: and that it's weird he didn't tell me. If he
Speaker 2: would have told me, we could have been doing some
Speaker 2: wilder shit by now. He agreed, but he didn't apologize.
Speaker 2: We are still looking up and this conversation was around
Speaker 2: the beginning of December. I'm enjoying the sex we're having,
Speaker 2: but I sometimes wonder if I should continue. He's not
Speaker 2: telling me things yet his not telling me things or
Speaker 2: me having to pry information out of him is a
Speaker 2: big reason why we broke up. To begin with, what
Speaker 2: do you think I should do? Sincerely, Angelina, and I
Speaker 2: do want to start off with this, maybe even leaning
Speaker 2: to why do you feel like some people don't share
Speaker 2: with their partner?
Speaker 1: Is that they're into these things in the bedroom? Bless you,
Speaker 1: bless you.
Speaker 5: Lay posts this in a different sense, Yeah, that people
Speaker 5: can understand that like kind of let like sin is sin.
Speaker 5: You can't be picking which one is the worst than
Speaker 5: the two. A you go somebody, They didn't tell you.
Speaker 5: They didn't pay the light bill until the lights got
Speaker 5: cut off while you was in the house.
Speaker 1: Hmm, okay, I.
Speaker 5: Think you would want to come over to the fucking
Speaker 5: house if you knew the lights might get cut off.
Speaker 1: Oh, and he's brown.
Speaker 5: He didn't want to tell you because nine times out
Speaker 5: of ten he might have. You might have thought, oh,
Speaker 5: fucking around with a bunch of white girls, and this
Speaker 5: some white girls. Should you didn't pick this up in
Speaker 5: white folks. Oh, he might not have told you because
Speaker 5: he genuinely liked you and wanted you to stay. And like,
Speaker 5: sometimes we all have our own fucking secrets. Have you
Speaker 5: not kept a secret, big or small, for somebody because
Speaker 5: you thought judgmentally they would judge you like a fucking
Speaker 5: persian and gore a cat? Because they will. It's in
Speaker 5: our nature, it's what we do, is human beings. And
Speaker 5: it's kind of like when people say, don't overshare on
Speaker 5: a first date, but you should share that you do kids,
Speaker 5: but you shouldn't. Sare You've got like a whole house
Speaker 5: full of them, like garbage kids, so like so someone
Speaker 5: tells you that they have kids, but they don't tell
Speaker 5: you how many are they still lying to you? Or
Speaker 5: did they just not give you the whole story? If
Speaker 5: he didn't give her the whole story, like which did
Speaker 5: need to be two separate things? If it was him
Speaker 5: not telling you about him being in the BDSM, then yeah,
Speaker 5: that's kind of fucked up because that's a major relationship
Speaker 5: thing is eventually going to find its way into your bedroom.
Speaker 5: But other than that, like if he had told you,
Speaker 5: what was you going to do?
Speaker 4: I do think her energy invited maybe him not telling
Speaker 4: the truth, and.
Speaker 1: That's that's all I have to say.
Speaker 4: She was a virgin to hear.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean you're a rgeon of twenty nine. What
Speaker 1: did you think he was gonna say?
Speaker 6: Ooh, can I tie you up today?
Speaker 5: Man?
Speaker 6: I knew this is your first time, but we were thinking.
Speaker 3: You know, and here's the thing too, if you are
Speaker 3: less sexually experienced than somebody, right and they're maybe not
Speaker 3: unleashing all their kinks on you, don't always take that.
Speaker 3: It's like, oh my god, maybe he's not that into me,
Speaker 3: or maybe what this is them taking their pace with you.
Speaker 3: I have done this so many times in my life.
Speaker 3: I actually just had a conversation that I want to
Speaker 3: bring up. Hog boy of mine said that he's been
Speaker 3: so turned off by this girl he's dating. He can't
Speaker 3: believe this happened. They were talking about early stages of masturbating,
Speaker 3: and he said, Oh, I told her, like me and
Speaker 3: my homeboys when we were kids, we would go watch
Speaker 3: the DVD or find the magazine.
Speaker 4: He's in his forties, so it's magazines, I think.
Speaker 3: And he was like, and we would like jerk off
Speaker 3: in the same room, and he said, and she was disgusted.
Speaker 3: For the whole week, she's been asking me if I'm gay.
Speaker 3: And he was like, they like, we're kids, Like we're
Speaker 3: learning our bodies. That small thing, he said. She literally
Speaker 3: put her hands and was like, stop talking. I think
Speaker 3: that when you don't welcome somebody's excitements.
Speaker 6: It's an automatic turn off for the person it is.
Speaker 1: I've said this.
Speaker 2: I've said this to quite a bit of my friends,
Speaker 2: Like there's always a conversation about Dang Mandy, how you
Speaker 2: find all these black men that are so freaky, And
Speaker 2: I was like, they're probably no different than the men
Speaker 2: y'all are talking to you.
Speaker 1: Just first off, you'dne told him that you don't like
Speaker 1: the jail polish on.
Speaker 2: His nails because it's feminine. You told him you don't
Speaker 2: like how you hold the sport because it ain't masculine enough. No, no, no, no,
Speaker 2: I don't like jail polish. But I'm also very different
Speaker 2: in I'm gonna tell you very closely if we start
Speaker 2: to have if we're ready to have sex, that I
Speaker 2: probably want to get in your ass, or I'm going
Speaker 2: to tell you the things that I do, like they're
Speaker 2: very anti everything that may lean towards calling someone gay.
Speaker 2: I like a masculine man. That doesn't mean I don't
Speaker 2: want you mental overtaking my stride. So there's two different
Speaker 2: things like give you Yeah, you gotta be careful with words.
Speaker 2: So if you're automatically into calling things out about how
Speaker 2: they walk, or if they're telling you things that they've done,
Speaker 2: and your response to it is.
Speaker 4: Like she lets you do that, that's what.
Speaker 2: You wentto like they could read it from body language,
Speaker 2: from how you respond.
Speaker 1: It's all those things.
Speaker 5: If I have to see one more TikTok video of
Speaker 5: everything a brother could do and it's gay, oh everything
Speaker 5: is everything is good. Yeah, I'm like, Okay, I get it.
Speaker 5: The fingunail polish, it's a stretch.
Speaker 2: But to me saying that that's not gay, it's not gay, but.
Speaker 5: It's not wound it out on Tupac because he had
Speaker 5: nose ring, that's gay as ship.
Speaker 1: I've been watching. I mean, I was, I was seven
Speaker 1: back then. I'm sorry I wasn't around for the conversation.
Speaker 3: Everybody fits, we're gay as fuck, like crap tops and
Speaker 3: flat pants or tight pants and bright colors. And like
Speaker 3: even the way niggas was dancing and moving and shaking,
Speaker 3: it's like I want to know how much.
Speaker 1: To beat up.
Speaker 2: That's why I like them, Kappa's Baby when they be
Speaker 2: doing that little I like the little Baby.
Speaker 5: When I saw the woman who was like, I don't
Speaker 5: like a guy with loose hips. It makes you feel
Speaker 5: like they're doing he was doing the fucking Tyler song
Speaker 5: and he was like doing the whole grace row, and
Speaker 5: I'm like, damn, bro, I get it in the first
Speaker 5: fucking comment, ooh, niggas with loose hips.
Speaker 1: But something like that.
Speaker 2: So even something like that, if she's on a date
Speaker 2: and she just says that, now this man is gonna
Speaker 2: feel like he can't be my rapteen.
Speaker 6: Things I can't have a conversation with you.
Speaker 5: About literally literally, So you turn someone off like that,
Speaker 5: why would they share more of their experience of what
Speaker 5: makes them them If you've already basically said in passing
Speaker 5: random conversation that's just.
Speaker 1: Gay, have you?
Speaker 3: Can you tell us, just as rapping something maybe with
Speaker 3: your husband and you where I don't know you he
Speaker 3: felt or maybe shit with you, that you were such
Speaker 3: a safe space and where you think your sex work
Speaker 3: has come into play for that in the health of
Speaker 3: your relationship.
Speaker 5: I have, like I said, for these past two years,
Speaker 5: been hyper hyper aggressively sexual, but like I've always been
Speaker 5: sexually aggressive, and like things that I found out you
Speaker 5: got to ask my husband questions for you're trying to
Speaker 5: go wait for that dick because that shit h mm hmm,
Speaker 5: because I don't know what happened to him before I
Speaker 5: got him, but apparently that's not his face. So I
Speaker 5: have to like pick my spots, pick your battles, like, hey, baby,
Speaker 5: you're looking good, not.
Speaker 1: That shower, that's how.
Speaker 5: But there's things that you've learned about, but there's things
Speaker 5: I've learned about him, Like I can't be like give
Speaker 5: me that goddamn dick, because he will be.
Speaker 1: Like that is a turn off.
Speaker 6: I'm done going back to the PS five. What's his
Speaker 6: He's cancer, just like me?
Speaker 2: Interesting, this is the weirdest things.
Speaker 5: Now we're not doing the stars in the sky. But like, also,
Speaker 5: my husband is younger than me. This is the weird stuff.
Speaker 1: How many years?
Speaker 6: Seven?
Speaker 5: But also his mother is seven years old with me? Ooh,
Speaker 5: his dad is age.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm gonna hold you.
Speaker 2: My ex was closer to my mom's age than my age.
Speaker 2: We were seventeen years apart. He was three years apart.
Speaker 6: From It's always weird when it's the other way around.
Speaker 5: Everybody's used to it being like a older man a
Speaker 5: young when you're doing like older woman younger man. Ooh,
Speaker 5: you're just trying to got him right off the tit again, bruh,
Speaker 5: still got milk behind his neck and his ears and
Speaker 5: nonder his nose and everything.
Speaker 1: Seven years, ain't that?
Speaker 5: Seven years doesn't seem that crazy until you were sixteen
Speaker 5: years ago. Yeah, until we go back to oh yeah,
Speaker 5: I was getting out of highchool when you were being made. Yeah,
Speaker 5: that's when the conversations get kind of weird. But we
Speaker 5: found a way around it, like ha ha, that's fluddy.
Speaker 5: And he makes me feel sick.
Speaker 1: Because young man as adult and I'm like, yeah, you
Speaker 1: met as adult.
Speaker 5: We met as adult. I thought he was my age,
Speaker 5: he thought I was his age. I looked younger.
Speaker 6: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, uh, Drea thirty nine, Jason Green twenty one, and
Speaker 3: it looks like she's pregnant allegedly.
Speaker 1: How does That's what the blog is saying. How do
Speaker 1: you feel being.
Speaker 4: That your husband is seven years younger, which I again
Speaker 4: don't think that's.
Speaker 3: A lot, but yeah, how do you feel about the
Speaker 3: older younger dynamic and women and men?
Speaker 5: I'm here for it, like if I had to have
Speaker 5: one more auntie. Like they going out on Labrow. We're
Speaker 5: going to see like, oh, what was it they used
Speaker 5: to go to the cabaret shows back in the day.
Speaker 5: I don't know, y'all, said me.
Speaker 1: And my friend. I said, my friends the magic Mike
Speaker 1: out here. Okay, I can't wait to see No no no.
Speaker 6: I went.
Speaker 5: They thunder down undercame to Oklahoma, and I took some
Speaker 5: of my co workers with me and they were like, oh,
Speaker 5: here's some grandma.
Speaker 6: Standing in the oppertators with their SSI checks like.
Speaker 1: Come here, Junia, that's fun. It's fun.
Speaker 5: It was fun, and it was a fun experience when
Speaker 5: you have that what apparently a lot of people see
Speaker 5: is a power dynamic shift with older and younger. For me,
Speaker 5: it was the shift of like I'm having and learning
Speaker 5: have to redact myself a lot for him because things
Speaker 5: that I know he might not know, but he's cool
Speaker 5: with it. He doesn't ever while out like, you know,
Speaker 5: I don't know what the fuck they're talking about. He's like, oh,
Speaker 5: who's that hoodey? And then I just fell in the blanks.
Speaker 5: For he talks about somebody who raps mumbly and I
Speaker 5: have them.
Speaker 3: Like, Honestly, I think probably one of my favorite things
Speaker 3: I've heard someone say, because the thing that annoys me
Speaker 3: a lot is and I don't really do it, but
Speaker 3: sometimes I watch it like someone just doesn't know what
Speaker 3: you're talking about and they shun away from it, or
Speaker 3: just like are annoyed by it, or make you feel
Speaker 3: feel super old because now I'm getting to that age,
Speaker 3: which I'm sure you're laughing at me saying that, because
Speaker 3: I'm almost thirty three, but i.
Speaker 5: Amber thirty three years. A guy who used to buy
Speaker 5: my age equivalent in shoes back then.
Speaker 3: I feel like sometimes and now I'm that person that's
Speaker 3: saying something old, and I'm like, damn, it's just so annoying.
Speaker 3: Just shut the fuck up and listen, just like I'm
Speaker 3: gonna do to you, you know. And I think that
Speaker 3: in relationships, especially with the age dynamic, we don't want
Speaker 3: to hear about nothing from then or nothing from your
Speaker 3: bat Like that's just exploring each other's history.
Speaker 5: Like if you're not willing to deal with somebody else's past,
Speaker 5: what the fuck you think you about to build with
Speaker 5: the future?
Speaker 1: Mm? Hello?
Speaker 5: Like serious business? Like my husband is the plainest negro
Speaker 5: on the block. No kids, no arrests, no warrants, never
Speaker 5: seen the inside of a jail, Celle.
Speaker 1: What's wrong on them? That's the same thing I say.
Speaker 1: And guess what.
Speaker 5: I picked him up and he picked me up through
Speaker 5: a goddamn window at McDonald's. He was the fried guy,
Speaker 5: he sure the fuck was. And I was having a
Speaker 5: depressive moment while I was in cosmology school because I
Speaker 5: thought this wasn't gonna work the fuck out and pay
Speaker 5: all the bills.
Speaker 1: You met him and I was window putting.
Speaker 6: I met him when I was homeless.
Speaker 1: The dude that I was wit and we were living
Speaker 1: together with his mother.
Speaker 5: This this woman decided to tell him, oh, yeah, I'm
Speaker 5: not really your mom, I'm your grandma. And the lady
Speaker 5: that we've been telling you as your sister is actually
Speaker 5: your mother. And then he met the dope dude down
Speaker 5: the street named for lemon, named after the king in
Speaker 5: the fucking Bible, by the way, and that was starting
Speaker 5: sucking dick for cocaine, you know what, such a and
Speaker 5: I'm like, he's having a whole moment.
Speaker 1: I can't deal with this.
Speaker 6: I left.
Speaker 5: His sister was a fucking strip from my tires, got slashed.
Speaker 5: Nobody's bet an adult in any of these situations. We
Speaker 5: found out we had been playing dominoes with a dude
Speaker 5: off the first fucking forty eight who would like killed
Speaker 5: two people and set him off fire in their car.
Speaker 6: And I was like, this enough, and you.
Speaker 2: Found your king flipping fried at motherfucking McDonald's.
Speaker 5: He put his number on the back of my fucking
Speaker 5: receipt because I was having a depressed moment about everything
Speaker 5: that happened to me.
Speaker 1: And now I have made again, and.
Speaker 5: I am going to deal with this homelesseness.
Speaker 1: And I will be all right, and he was like.
Speaker 5: I put an extra burger in the bag for you
Speaker 5: because you And at the time, I had a pair
Speaker 5: of official cop because I was fucking an official cop
Speaker 5: fury handcuffs that were hanging from my rearview mirror, and
Speaker 5: he was like, what's up with the cuffs. I was like,
Speaker 5: if I told you I have to put them on you,
Speaker 5: I like balled out the damn park lot. I never
Speaker 5: looked at the receipt, so I never got his number.
Speaker 5: And the next time I came through and he had
Speaker 5: been bumped up from fried to the front window. He
Speaker 5: was like, you never called me and I was like,
Speaker 5: I didn't know I was fucking supposed to. And he
Speaker 5: was like, I put my number on your receipt. I
Speaker 5: was like, dude, I ate three fucking triple cheeseburgers. I
Speaker 5: was not looking at my fucking receipt. I'm sad the fuck.
Speaker 5: And he was like, well, i'd really like to take
Speaker 5: you out, wow. And I was like, you know what,
Speaker 5: I'd have been through, dope boys. I'd have been through
Speaker 5: dudes with money. I've been through so much, but they
Speaker 5: were just had me a regular ass dude like a
Speaker 5: regular dude working a regular job, ask me out on
Speaker 5: a regular date that probably won't end up in fucking
Speaker 5: and I was like, fuck it, I'll do anything once.
Speaker 5: I'm adventurous like that. And here I am, sixteen years later,
Speaker 5: still marriage the same dude. Why I asked him to
Speaker 5: marry me. I wasn't waiting on him to be like,
Speaker 5: let me give him courage up.
Speaker 1: How did you ask that? Did you get on one knee?
Speaker 1: Let me see this guest over here, so hold on,
Speaker 1: look she about to see it. The get guess what.
Speaker 3: Now?
Speaker 1: You was Christy and Jim Jones.
Speaker 2: Huh, yeah, I know how they're like, well, no, he
Speaker 2: clearly said I know you're looking at the clock, pitch
Speaker 2: and you know, and then you said taking.
Speaker 3: Different cocaine homeless that literally she said, I know my
Speaker 3: time is up.
Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all everything good. I'm proposted that, nigga.
Speaker 5: What because now just let y'all know now that we
Speaker 5: have just a little teeny mieny bit more time. I
Speaker 5: had been engaged five times before him, and I always
Speaker 5: run away bright on that shit.
Speaker 6: Let's see I was engaged.
Speaker 4: How old were you at that time that you would
Speaker 4: have been engaged five times.
Speaker 5: I met him when I was twenty nine. Okakay, so
Speaker 5: by twenty nine, I have been engaged five times to
Speaker 5: five individual men, all of them looking like us, the
Speaker 5: last one looking more like you because he was how yellows.
Speaker 1: All right, how yellow nigga, I just came back from Mexico.
Speaker 1: This is a tan baby. Okay, don't do that. It's
Speaker 1: the lighting. It's the lighting.
Speaker 5: Don't do this, don't do And then it was stretch you, like,
Speaker 5: are you the same color?
Speaker 3: I want to get cozy, bitch, I'm abod listen to this. Okay,
Speaker 3: So how long are you together? We were together for
Speaker 3: just a little bit over a year.
Speaker 4: That's kind of early.
Speaker 6: But okay, no, not really when you know what you want.
Speaker 4: No, No, I'm saying for like, in terms of people
Speaker 4: that are getting engaged.
Speaker 5: Not I've met people who have come to this raggedy
Speaker 5: ass fucking city, met each other at a hotel casino,
Speaker 5: and got married at by fucking night.
Speaker 3: My mom married her ex husband on the second day
Speaker 3: of them knowing each other.
Speaker 1: They were together seven years.
Speaker 3: But I do think in terms of like today, I
Speaker 3: don't really hear about people getting engaged in a year
Speaker 3: So in this year, what made you feel like you
Speaker 3: couldn't wait or wait for him?
Speaker 4: And also was there some shame from people that you
Speaker 4: cared about you around it?
Speaker 6: No, I didn't have any shame from my side. Its
Speaker 6: side though. Oh this old ass bitch coming in, she's
Speaker 6: gonna give you worms. That's what people were telling me
Speaker 6: in this South putting.
Speaker 5: That's his mama was telling she hated my motherfucking because
Speaker 5: he had been her extra free chick. You never heard
Speaker 5: that before. You fuck old women that'll give you worms
Speaker 5: or they'll bury you. Draws on the only.
Speaker 2: Thing I used to the only thing I used to
Speaker 2: hear about worms, And my mama used to tell it
Speaker 2: to me to not drink the beer because me and
Speaker 2: my sister used to sneak and like drink the spirntoffs
Speaker 2: and the MIC's Heart lemonade. So she used to start
Speaker 2: telling us, well, don't drink it, there's worms at the
Speaker 2: bottom of the beer.
Speaker 6: She tried to keep you out of her motherfucking drinks, that.
Speaker 2: Is, but that's what she That's the only thing I
Speaker 2: know exactly, But that's what she used to tell us
Speaker 2: to stay away from the beer.
Speaker 1: So how to propose? And we were know was it.
Speaker 5: We were sitting on the couch now at the time,
Speaker 5: I was doing nails and I had set up the
Speaker 5: master bedroom because they had on sweet bathroom and I
Speaker 5: turned it into my shop. We were sleeping in the
Speaker 5: guest bedroom. We were sitting on the couch. The dog's
Speaker 5: on the floor. She had just literally jumped across the
Speaker 5: couch and snatched a whole chicken breast that I just
Speaker 5: cooked for him. The head her on the part.
Speaker 6: And he was like, damn baby, this up. Damn good
Speaker 6: look at chicken breast.
Speaker 5: Dog comes over and runs out into the hallway and
Speaker 5: I was like, well, here goes an opportunity time.
Speaker 4: He was like, you just see this fucking dog take
Speaker 4: my whole piece of chicken.
Speaker 5: And I'm like, babe, but what about this fifteen ninety
Speaker 5: nine ring I got from the fucking shouting sack place
Speaker 5: at the corner store that's made a stainless steel.
Speaker 6: And I love you?
Speaker 5: Will you marry me? I didn't get down on no knee.
Speaker 5: I said, I like you, I love you. I would
Speaker 5: prefer not to share you with other people unless that's
Speaker 5: the agreement that we're coming to, But I want to
Speaker 5: be with you for the rest of my life because
Speaker 5: you cool like that and I appreciate you. And he's
Speaker 5: always been my biggest cheerleader. He's always been my grand
Speaker 5: stand fan and it's always going to be that way.
Speaker 5: And I was like, I'm never going to get another
Speaker 5: one of these. This is the one that I'm you
Speaker 5: know what, fuck it before I fucked this up?
Speaker 1: Will you marry me? Wow? I think we need to
Speaker 1: go to McDonald's.
Speaker 2: She's like, my friend got this's just me a dark.
Speaker 2: You were phenomenal. Please let everyone know where they could
Speaker 2: follow you, find you, support you.
Speaker 1: All the things.
Speaker 6: You can support me with cash. I love cash.
Speaker 5: But you can find me on my social media if
Speaker 5: it says just say red bitch pudding, any of that,
Speaker 5: that's how you find me on social media. Or you
Speaker 5: could just goo old fashioned google mistress me a dark
Speaker 5: spelt with a que at the end period.
Speaker 1: All of that will be in the description of this episode.
Speaker 1: I am so.
Speaker 2: Hopped in and said you and I said, I like, hun,
Speaker 2: was that just off the pay Yes?
Speaker 4: Okay?
Speaker 1: When that person was like do you want your red balls?
Speaker 1: Like who's that sun? No? And I wasn't gonna answer
Speaker 1: for you. You see, I'm.
Speaker 6: Looked at you.
Speaker 3: I ain't no, okay, I wasn't even trying to be disrespectful,
Speaker 3: because you never know.
Speaker 6: When it comes down to that.
Speaker 5: I always people are always like, oh, there's Jay for
Speaker 5: Japanese housewife, because he'll either be off to my side
Speaker 5: and back a couple steps, or he'll be directly behind
Speaker 5: me a couple of steps. Either care anythings that I
Speaker 5: can't carry for myself and stuff like that. But Jay
Speaker 5: also knows that I'm the same person that bit off
Speaker 5: every last one of these long ass fucking nails and
Speaker 5: changed out his head both his headlights too, so I
Speaker 5: know that's right.
Speaker 3: All right, man, give me a You have been phenomenals
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Speaker 2: know and y'all will see. We've done a lot of recording.
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Speaker 1: They were really cool episodes.
Speaker 2: We like, we like recorded a lot and had some
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Speaker 4: So Nicole Ki, I forgot about her.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we did Vegas. We did so many here. Then
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Speaker 2: cut off twenty two year old, right, h I don't
Speaker 2: remember that, Okay, So I'm.
Speaker 1: Gonna be really quick with it.
Speaker 2: Well quick girl, because I just realized girl dating with
Speaker 2: standard sucks. This is raggedy. So got back from it
Speaker 2: might have been coming back from LA. I have one
Speaker 2: day here before I had to go to Florida. Yes,
Speaker 2: so one day here. So he hits me up and
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm gonna be in town tomorrow. Looked up
Speaker 2: what I know he does, and I'm like, oh, he's
Speaker 2: finna be in town.
Speaker 1: Okay, So I hit him up. Let him know I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be in town.
Speaker 2: But I had to get my nails done and then
Speaker 2: I would be free. I said, all I gotta do
Speaker 2: is pack into my nails. But I leave to Florida
Speaker 2: in the morning. And so we were like dinner and
Speaker 2: Dick and he laughed. He was like, bet dinner and Dick.
Speaker 1: That is what it was supposed to be. It was
Speaker 1: supposed to be a double d night, right.
Speaker 2: So I get done with my nail Mind you, we
Speaker 2: make these plans at eleven am.
Speaker 1: Okay, it was already planned. What it was already planned.
Speaker 2: This is what we made plans. It's eleven am. So
Speaker 2: I go to get my nails done. I get my
Speaker 2: nails done in Brooklyn, and it's a process rested like
Speaker 2: a yeah, so I.
Speaker 1: Don't have to get that much ready. I just had
Speaker 1: to get my nails done. Nigga, excuse me. We don't
Speaker 1: have antal sex. It's great.
Speaker 6: I'm there.
Speaker 2: So I get done with my nails at five thirty
Speaker 2: six pm, and I'm in Brooklyn and he live in Brooklyn.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, okay, let me just.
Speaker 2: Hit them while i'm here, because then either I could
Speaker 2: just slide to his house or we could just find
Speaker 2: somewhere to eat in Brooklyn. Girl, I hit this nigga
Speaker 2: and he's like, oh, my chef came and I didn't know.
Speaker 2: So I'm full as hell. Sends me a picture five
Speaker 2: thirty six. See, I'm glad you said. So this was
Speaker 2: my reaction. So he sends me his plate of it
Speaker 2: all demolished or whatever, and I'm just.
Speaker 1: Like, so, fuck the plans.
Speaker 2: Fuck that I may have been holding out to eat
Speaker 2: because we said we was gonna do dinner and fuck
Speaker 2: what the fuck.
Speaker 1: So literally I sit with it for a while and
Speaker 1: I'm like wow.
Speaker 2: So then I'm like, okay, well, if your chef is
Speaker 2: still there or maybe mind you, if we had plans
Speaker 2: for dinner.
Speaker 1: You could have easily just asked your chef to make
Speaker 1: it for two. Did you have a place that in
Speaker 1: set time?
Speaker 2: No, we just said dinner and Dick I told him
Speaker 2: I would hit it with my nails were done.
Speaker 1: It was spot thirty. We have plenty of time to
Speaker 1: find any restaurant to eat and cook.
Speaker 2: So I'm like, wow, well I'm in Brooklyn, Like, I
Speaker 2: don't know if she's still over there. I can come
Speaker 2: over there and Nika, you could, you know, have her
Speaker 2: cooked me a meal since that was the plan.
Speaker 1: And his response was no, I'm gonna just come to
Speaker 1: your house.
Speaker 2: So I immediately responded, let me see if I show
Speaker 2: you mind you oh oh? And it was it was
Speaker 2: and was. I pretty much hit him with have a
Speaker 2: good life, so I said, I said, he said, my
Speaker 2: chef cook, I'm full ofs hell. I said, shake my head.
Speaker 2: See how you do me ain't even get an invite? Raggedy.
Speaker 2: It's cool, I can come there to me, I said,
Speaker 2: mm hmm, she said, And she was here when I
Speaker 2: got out of work.
Speaker 1: I said, m He said, what you doing that for? Lmao?
Speaker 2: And I literally just had to end it there. I said,
Speaker 2: don't worry, enjoy your night. I think I need a
Speaker 2: little bit more than drop off Dick. I'd like company
Speaker 2: and cuddles and just a little more than of what
Speaker 2: I think you're offering. I don't want to get locked
Speaker 2: into this type of cycle right now. Good luck with work,
Speaker 2: and his response not picking up any of the cues
Speaker 2: as to why I said this was lmao, all because
Speaker 2: I ate at the crib ribb