WEBVTT - Ep. 358: From Sub To Dom (Ft. Mistress Mia Darque) 0:00:02.560 --> 0:00:05.800 Guess what decision we're about to make. Horrible decision. 0:00:08.800 --> 0:00:12.720 May the fifth, we are pulling up to London, y'all. 0:00:12.880 --> 0:00:15.200 It's the day you need to block out in your calendar. 0:00:15.240 --> 0:00:18.520 It's on a Sunday, So London surrounding areas, all the 0:00:18.520 --> 0:00:19.439 black people that live in. 0:00:19.440 --> 0:00:22.320 Europe, wherever you at, it's your chance. That's right. 0:00:22.360 --> 0:00:25.400 We're super excited to be bringing the last portion of 0:00:25.440 --> 0:00:28.880 the Climax Tour to London. If you came to our 0:00:28.920 --> 0:00:32.400 show last year, this will be a completely different show. 0:00:32.400 --> 0:00:33.800 Wilder, more fun. 0:00:34.120 --> 0:00:36.280 Well, I did get on top of The Help and 0:00:36.440 --> 0:00:37.120 the Sixth. 0:00:37.080 --> 0:00:39.440 And there was a woman who stapled money to her 0:00:39.560 --> 0:00:40.880 cheek and started bleeding. 0:00:40.960 --> 0:00:42.080 But we gotta step it up to London. 0:00:42.120 --> 0:00:44.159 We're gonna step it up, So head on over to 0:00:44.360 --> 0:00:49.080 hohorhive dot com and get your tickets. Now, y'all, welcome 0:00:49.120 --> 0:00:53.600 to another episode We Bite Baby and we're in Vegas today. 0:00:53.640 --> 0:00:57.480 But welcome to another episode of Horrid Gladness the Old. 0:00:58.440 --> 0:01:04.080 I am Beach Mandy b aka pant Stallion. What's up, y'all, 0:01:04.120 --> 0:01:07.080 I'm weezy. Thank you for joining us for another episode. 0:01:07.240 --> 0:01:09.120 It looks a little different because we are not in 0:01:09.120 --> 0:01:11.200 New York. We're not in La like Mandy said, We're 0:01:11.240 --> 0:01:13.760 in Vegas, and we're here because we're actually up for 0:01:13.840 --> 0:01:17.200 another AVN award. We're up for best Pot. 0:01:18.000 --> 0:01:20.679 Apparently, you know niggas be fucking on some podcasts like 0:01:20.720 --> 0:01:21.600 plug Talk and all. 0:01:21.480 --> 0:01:22.000 That other shit. 0:01:22.120 --> 0:01:24.240 So I'm not saying that I have a lot of 0:01:24.240 --> 0:01:27.920 faith in receiving this big Golden Dick Globe award. However, 0:01:28.040 --> 0:01:29.880 what I would like to say is why we like 0:01:29.959 --> 0:01:31.559 to come here is put of tea. 0:01:32.000 --> 0:01:33.399 We got some tea in the house tonight. 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:35.160 We do. We have a whole time in the building, 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:39.360 and I'm really excited. We have Mistress Mia dark right 0:01:39.560 --> 0:01:41.080 DARKQ dot quad dot com. 0:01:41.600 --> 0:01:43.479 I knew it was dark and I was like, girl, 0:01:43.560 --> 0:01:44.880 she spelt it all fancy. 0:01:45.000 --> 0:01:47.520 I saw that and I was like, actually, my domb 0:01:47.600 --> 0:01:50.200 last name was given to me in Australia. 0:01:50.800 --> 0:01:52.400 Wait sometimes tell you travel bitch. 0:01:54.920 --> 0:01:57.840 Post pandemic, not as globally as I used to. This 0:01:57.920 --> 0:01:59.880 year will hopefully be the beginning of that dot com. 0:02:00.000 --> 0:02:04.240 We're going to be moving over to London, so we're. 0:02:04.000 --> 0:02:06.640 Going to talk about dom com is first. 0:02:06.560 --> 0:02:12.160 Okay, don Con is the biggest in North America domination event, 0:02:12.639 --> 0:02:15.440 Like it is an educational event, it's bending its parties, 0:02:15.520 --> 0:02:17.920 it's everything that you usually get from separate events rolled 0:02:17.919 --> 0:02:18.760 into one big event. 0:02:19.000 --> 0:02:20.639 How long has it been going to years? 0:02:20.639 --> 0:02:21.920 This be the twenty first. 0:02:21.840 --> 0:02:23.880 And I'm just I was today years old when I 0:02:23.960 --> 0:02:24.760 found out about it. 0:02:24.840 --> 0:02:27.079 Yo, not like I'm trying to Okay, So we heard 0:02:27.120 --> 0:02:29.760 about this podcast Mandy and I from Wolf called Keep 0:02:29.800 --> 0:02:31.680 It in the Basement, and one of my friends who's 0:02:31.720 --> 0:02:34.560 working at ABN uh, basically I was like, what's the 0:02:34.760 --> 0:02:35.560 what's the con light? 0:02:35.760 --> 0:02:37.560 What's convention? Like she goes it's. 0:02:37.440 --> 0:02:39.680 Like autisms are don't do that? Oh because and then 0:02:39.720 --> 0:02:41.760 I agree and then Mandy's like, yeah it was. 0:02:41.880 --> 0:02:44.000 And so my friend Wolf for our friend of the show, 0:02:44.240 --> 0:02:46.440 he was like, Yo, it's literally about like basement guy 0:02:46.560 --> 0:02:49.120 kind of culture about how he is this like underground thing. 0:02:49.360 --> 0:02:51.480 So literally I was thinking to myself when you said 0:02:51.480 --> 0:02:53.480 dom com, I'm like, was it domb that put it 0:02:53.480 --> 0:02:55.560 together debate money or was it just a bunch of 0:02:55.840 --> 0:02:58.440 basement creepy guys that were like let's get them out. 0:02:58.480 --> 0:03:00.639 Well, and I want to actually draw the distinction too. 0:03:00.800 --> 0:03:06.519 To me, abn convention is more centered towards porn and 0:03:06.840 --> 0:03:09.680 dom Con is more of the BDSM aspects, like what 0:03:09.720 --> 0:03:12.720 we would see at Exotic. Yeah, so it's different because 0:03:12.760 --> 0:03:16.320 like the when we're talking about also the basement jerkers. 0:03:16.919 --> 0:03:18.880 So I went to the convention last year with my partner, 0:03:19.240 --> 0:03:21.239 my ex now ill gross. 0:03:21.520 --> 0:03:24.440 And it was she literally was like, maybe we should. 0:03:24.160 --> 0:03:26.640 Stay at the hotel where it's at, and I said, girl, 0:03:26.680 --> 0:03:29.920 the people that are there for the convention look like 0:03:29.960 --> 0:03:32.240 the guys that don't ever leave their basement that jacks 0:03:32.320 --> 0:03:34.320 off all the time, and they're there to see the 0:03:34.360 --> 0:03:36.160 women that they jack off to all the time. 0:03:36.280 --> 0:03:39.000 But what is dom How did dom com start? 0:03:39.440 --> 0:03:41.840 Dom Con started what is now twenty one years ago 0:03:42.360 --> 0:03:44.880 by misters Cyan based out of Los Angeles with the 0:03:44.920 --> 0:03:45.800 Sanctuary Studios. 0:03:45.880 --> 0:03:46.240 Dungeon. 0:03:47.680 --> 0:03:50.640 She started this out as a dream of getting all 0:03:50.800 --> 0:03:53.400 of the pro doms together and do something together instead 0:03:53.400 --> 0:03:55.160 everybody being like this is my money, that's my boy. 0:03:55.240 --> 0:03:58.040 No no, no, no no, and to stop the infighting 0:03:58.120 --> 0:04:00.680 that was the theme that was going on, Like if 0:04:00.720 --> 0:04:02.440 you were a bitually had some fucking money and you 0:04:02.520 --> 0:04:04.680 had like at least two or three like memoirs off 0:04:04.720 --> 0:04:07.440 Geisha Dunna as boys in the background, you could say 0:04:07.440 --> 0:04:08.240 that you were the shit. 0:04:08.600 --> 0:04:09.800 But literally, it's that. 0:04:10.600 --> 0:04:14.400 Gigantic shark, tiny ass pond aspect me myself, and I'm 0:04:14.400 --> 0:04:16.960 a bitch for fucking Memphis, Tennessee. I am Southern as fucked, 0:04:17.480 --> 0:04:20.240 So like, I didn't have no big mass appeal when 0:04:20.240 --> 0:04:23.440 I first got there. My first dom con was twenty 0:04:23.480 --> 0:04:25.800 fifteen in Atlanta when they were still in Atlanta and 0:04:25.800 --> 0:04:28.839 that was their last year, and like, I was happless 0:04:28.839 --> 0:04:29.200 to prose and. 0:04:29.200 --> 0:04:30.640 See, there's brown people here. 0:04:31.480 --> 0:04:33.520 And I was like, all right, I do it because 0:04:33.560 --> 0:04:35.560 I had been told by so many people inside of 0:04:35.600 --> 0:04:38.640 the community that were like bipoc, like hmm, that's the 0:04:38.640 --> 0:04:39.360 white people show. 0:04:40.000 --> 0:04:41.520 You really need to ask you something. 0:04:41.520 --> 0:04:45.080 That so what I used to watch, and it's just 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:47.760 the spirit of Vegas for anybody that's watched sex Cells. 0:04:47.800 --> 0:04:50.479 I was at a brothel where I worked there for 0:04:50.480 --> 0:04:52.200 the day and learned about the business. And I only 0:04:52.200 --> 0:04:54.479 wanted to do this so badly because I was so 0:04:54.600 --> 0:04:56.720 obsessed with cat House and I always thought, and it's 0:04:56.720 --> 0:04:58.240 not even Vegas, it's Reno, right. I was like, oh 0:04:58.279 --> 0:05:01.080 my god, what brothel and the culture say that to 0:05:01.120 --> 0:05:04.400 say the black women in the brothel. 0:05:04.520 --> 0:05:06.640 How we're always. 0:05:06.200 --> 0:05:08.800 Seeming to be in a dominating role. So when you 0:05:08.800 --> 0:05:10.880 said that there's brown people here, I'm like, oh, I 0:05:11.040 --> 0:05:13.440 always thought when I see like, I thought that was 0:05:13.440 --> 0:05:14.040 the stigma. 0:05:14.160 --> 0:05:16.680 You know what it is, you get like the half 0:05:16.680 --> 0:05:17.320 and half on it. 0:05:17.360 --> 0:05:21.400 I've noticed you either get people who automatically think domination 0:05:21.600 --> 0:05:24.520 is for pretty thin blond head five foot four max 0:05:24.520 --> 0:05:25.880 put on some heels. We'll get you up to five 0:05:25.960 --> 0:05:29.599 nine white girls. And like I like to call myself 0:05:29.680 --> 0:05:32.560 naturally dominant. I have always been bossy. It's not so 0:05:32.680 --> 0:05:34.440 much my way of the highway. But I'm not dealing 0:05:34.440 --> 0:05:37.000 with your bullshit. I need you to work with common sense. 0:05:37.040 --> 0:05:39.080 Math needs the math on all issues. 0:05:39.240 --> 0:05:39.760 Huh. 0:05:39.800 --> 0:05:43.600 And when we did one in particular down in New 0:05:43.680 --> 0:05:46.159 Orleans that we had this one young lady that was 0:05:46.240 --> 0:05:48.200 at our front desk because we were checking into our 0:05:48.240 --> 0:05:51.120 hotel which sits right smack on the corner of Bourbon 0:05:51.160 --> 0:05:54.320 and Canal, okay, And she was like, oh, can I 0:05:54.320 --> 0:05:55.800 get you ladies? And it was me and two of 0:05:55.839 --> 0:05:58.400 my Dom's sisters, Madame Nabia, ok how you doing? I 0:05:58.400 --> 0:06:02.240 love you baby? That name Madam Nay. She is a 0:06:02.320 --> 0:06:04.760 leather title or where she was running for a leather title? 0:06:04.920 --> 0:06:05.720 Uh she is? 0:06:05.760 --> 0:06:06.919 Do we have her on the punt? 0:06:07.520 --> 0:06:11.120 We have a leather you you have not had a 0:06:11.200 --> 0:06:13.440 sister on here because you made you would absolutely remember. 0:06:13.200 --> 0:06:14.880 That somebody else with a name like that. 0:06:15.000 --> 0:06:17.960 Okay, we yes, Okin is a family name. 0:06:18.200 --> 0:06:18.840 But yeah. 0:06:19.120 --> 0:06:20.840 We walked up to the front desk. We're checking in 0:06:20.960 --> 0:06:23.040 all the sexy white girls that come in. You got 0:06:23.080 --> 0:06:25.719 your little latex stress on and ship. I absolutely looked 0:06:25.720 --> 0:06:28.680 the part. And here we show off the plane. We're 0:06:28.720 --> 0:06:31.200 coming from Dallas, y'all. We didnet left from Dallas club, 0:06:31.279 --> 0:06:35.400 not even the big one DFW, so we looked like 0:06:35.480 --> 0:06:39.320 we just escaped from I don't know, something post apocalyptic. 0:06:39.440 --> 0:06:41.320 We had gotten mad at our Uber driver he had 0:06:41.360 --> 0:06:43.360 like the first driver was like, I can't take you. 0:06:43.360 --> 0:06:45.400 You're in a fucking town and country minivan, bitch, Why 0:06:45.680 --> 0:06:48.360 you can't pick used our ride? 0:06:48.360 --> 0:06:49.680 After he saw there was three of us and we 0:06:49.760 --> 0:06:51.840 had luggage and he didn't want pick up luggage. So 0:06:51.880 --> 0:06:53.320 I took pictures up his fucking place and send him 0:06:53.320 --> 0:06:54.720 a fucking Uber. Here are driving no more? 0:06:54.880 --> 0:06:55.680 I know that's right? 0:06:55.720 --> 0:06:56.080 Hold on? 0:06:56.680 --> 0:06:56.800 Is it? 0:06:56.800 --> 0:06:58.919 Because you are? You were dressed. No, I don't know 0:06:59.040 --> 0:06:59.800 what the fuck it was. 0:06:59.839 --> 0:07:02.039 He seen us with bags and he's like, oh, no, 0:07:02.200 --> 0:07:03.920 this is a I just got this detailed. 0:07:04.240 --> 0:07:07.560 It's your drive for Uber up for the airport. And 0:07:07.600 --> 0:07:08.919 I'm like, you're picking up? What the fuck did you 0:07:08.920 --> 0:07:10.960 think we just this? Y'all wasn't but also that y'all 0:07:11.000 --> 0:07:11.840 wasn't gonna have leggings. 0:07:11.920 --> 0:07:14.280 Us in three carry ons. Yes, everybody in this group 0:07:14.320 --> 0:07:17.480 is at least two hundred fucking pounds. I need like 0:07:17.520 --> 0:07:21.120 a carry on just for my fucking shoes, dude. And 0:07:21.440 --> 0:07:23.680 when we got there, this woman was checking us in 0:07:23.720 --> 0:07:25.400 and she was like, oh, I'm so sorry about everything 0:07:25.400 --> 0:07:27.480 that's going on. In the background, we were having a convention, like, 0:07:27.480 --> 0:07:28.680 don't worry about it, and I was like, oh, yeah, 0:07:28.680 --> 0:07:29.720 we're here checking in for the convention. 0:07:30.400 --> 0:07:31.640 She was black, We're black. 0:07:31.760 --> 0:07:35.640 She didn't even She was like, we do this. That's 0:07:35.680 --> 0:07:37.840 literally what came out of her mouth. And I was like, yeah, 0:07:37.960 --> 0:07:40.240 that's when you do this. And I've been doing this 0:07:40.280 --> 0:07:42.400 now for twenty four twenty five years. 0:07:42.480 --> 0:07:43.520 Can we talk about age. 0:07:43.800 --> 0:07:48.080 I'm forty five, when you're growing up and I feel like, 0:07:48.120 --> 0:07:50.000 you know, I know, we do segments I don't, baby, 0:07:50.240 --> 0:07:52.600 I get it, but I really want to know when 0:07:52.600 --> 0:07:55.120 you're growing up. No one fucking thinks they're gonna work 0:07:55.120 --> 0:07:57.800 in sex work. But sometimes they do, but sometimes they don't. 0:07:57.840 --> 0:08:01.240 Be an age to me where you're really loving and 0:08:01.360 --> 0:08:03.320 comfortable with your job and you know it. 0:08:03.440 --> 0:08:04.360 When did that happen? 0:08:05.160 --> 0:08:08.680 M I can't tell you a specific date and or time, 0:08:08.800 --> 0:08:10.960 place or segment of life, but I could tell you 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:13.680 this much. Right before I came here and I cut 0:08:13.680 --> 0:08:14.800 out there, He's like, if you get you like a 0:08:14.800 --> 0:08:16.240 little bit early, I was like, well those snacks for 0:08:16.280 --> 0:08:18.520 rush Jay. We gotta go straight to the studio. I 0:08:18.600 --> 0:08:21.120 just got finished walking too, chicks on leashes through the 0:08:21.280 --> 0:08:23.480 entire floor as cat girls, because you have to have 0:08:23.520 --> 0:08:24.840 real cats to have a cat walk. 0:08:26.200 --> 0:08:27.160 That's my life now. 0:08:27.480 --> 0:08:29.440 And I never loved something so much or so hard 0:08:29.480 --> 0:08:33.080 other than my fucking husband in my life. Wow, other 0:08:33.120 --> 0:08:35.280 than your husband. Other than my husband, my husband of 0:08:35.320 --> 0:08:36.920 sixteen years this year in July. 0:08:37.080 --> 0:08:38.600 And is he is he here with you? 0:08:39.080 --> 0:08:39.160 Like? 0:08:39.320 --> 0:08:42.000 Actually, he works for a bank, so he's doing bank stuff. 0:08:42.280 --> 0:08:46.360 Not bank stuff. Banks, Uh, you know them regular jobs 0:08:46.360 --> 0:08:47.920 that ain't that fun? He don't what I'm doing that. 0:08:48.000 --> 0:08:52.320 You participate when he sees something cute cause we're Polly. 0:08:52.520 --> 0:08:54.920 We've been since the job. He didn't believe we were 0:08:54.960 --> 0:08:56.520 Polly in the beginning. He was just waiting for me, 0:08:56.600 --> 0:08:58.200 like you have a white woman, sus dick, and then 0:08:58.200 --> 0:08:59.440 like something mob was gonna happen, like. 0:08:59.720 --> 0:09:03.840 Smack multiply, how does okay? So then you introduced Polly 0:09:03.960 --> 0:09:04.480 to him? 0:09:04.640 --> 0:09:07.760 Yes, because I told him up front. I at the 0:09:07.800 --> 0:09:08.719 time I did not know. 0:09:08.840 --> 0:09:09.400 I do now. 0:09:09.600 --> 0:09:12.600 I'm highly functioning autistic, y'all. I just found this out 0:09:12.679 --> 0:09:15.840 like just last year. But like I am very much 0:09:15.840 --> 0:09:19.000 of my daddy's girl. My dad was Jamaican. I said, 0:09:19.000 --> 0:09:21.520 it was law, That's how I was raised. They came 0:09:21.600 --> 0:09:23.240 out your mouth. You say, it was a base behind 0:09:23.240 --> 0:09:25.840 your voice and you get shit done. And then we 0:09:25.960 --> 0:09:28.520 met and it was like, what you. 0:09:28.480 --> 0:09:31.040 Think that's a Is that why Jamaica's have so many jobs? 0:09:31.200 --> 0:09:33.240 Because I damn, I'll tell you right, maybe that's the 0:09:33.360 --> 0:09:35.079 Jamaican thing I will be on here. 0:09:35.920 --> 0:09:36.720 It was so funny. 0:09:36.880 --> 0:09:37.880 One of my clients was. 0:09:37.840 --> 0:09:40.640 Like, I'm not trying to be racist, but like you 0:09:40.720 --> 0:09:42.360 were the kind of Jamaican Like in Living Color, I 0:09:42.360 --> 0:09:43.199 got teen down. 0:09:43.080 --> 0:09:46.440 Jobs and I was like, people say that I'm able 0:09:46.480 --> 0:09:48.160 to work so much as soon as I tell them 0:09:48.200 --> 0:09:49.000 I'm Jamaican, and they. 0:09:48.880 --> 0:09:51.600 Said, oh, bitch, now it makes sense. I'm half Jamaican, 0:09:51.720 --> 0:09:54.960 half Black, Native American, Irish, whole bunch of things. I 0:09:55.000 --> 0:09:56.679 was just I like to call myself a good old 0:09:56.720 --> 0:09:58.160 fashion Heiines fifty seven packet. 0:09:59.600 --> 0:10:03.440 That tell me about so sixteen years with your husband, 0:10:03.480 --> 0:10:04.760 twenty eight years you said. 0:10:04.640 --> 0:10:07.199 Oh, I've wich uy old and I am twenty. I'm 0:10:07.200 --> 0:10:09.680 twenty four going into twenty five. Now, I've been doing 0:10:09.720 --> 0:10:11.439 this since I was twenty. 0:10:11.120 --> 0:10:12.120 So before you met. 0:10:12.120 --> 0:10:16.160 Now, so when you were first dating and when you're 0:10:16.200 --> 0:10:18.679 like getting into this because most doms that we interview 0:10:18.960 --> 0:10:20.920 are maybe they've been doing it five ten years, right, 0:10:21.120 --> 0:10:24.480 they don't have that much season today. Yeah, when you 0:10:24.520 --> 0:10:26.920 were first dating, how were you telling them and were 0:10:26.920 --> 0:10:27.840 you even telling them? 0:10:27.920 --> 0:10:29.120 Yeah you were. 0:10:29.200 --> 0:10:30.280 You never had like a fake. 0:10:30.160 --> 0:10:31.199 I don't have to know. 0:10:31.800 --> 0:10:35.040 We're not doing like the stripper logic. So like I 0:10:35.120 --> 0:10:36.800 work in a club, like I'm a bottle service girl. 0:10:36.800 --> 0:10:37.559 Bit you get naked. 0:10:38.760 --> 0:10:41.520 Okay, it's those cities and what is this those city? 0:10:41.559 --> 0:10:42.000 What is the job? 0:10:42.000 --> 0:10:43.800 Because you said, like a you're making many jobs. What 0:10:43.880 --> 0:10:45.120 is the job that's beyond the doms. 0:10:45.160 --> 0:10:47.400 Let's see, I am a professional dominatrix. I have my 0:10:47.440 --> 0:10:50.880 welding license, I work in medical health and I do 0:10:51.080 --> 0:10:51.640 mental health. 0:10:52.960 --> 0:10:54.440 I let's see. 0:10:54.440 --> 0:10:56.160 That's say I run my own catering business. I think 0:10:56.200 --> 0:11:01.680 I did, Uh I have. I'm a hustle period. Tell 0:11:01.720 --> 0:11:03.040 me about the jobs. 0:11:02.760 --> 0:11:06.280 Within the professional dominatrix, inside the professional domination, because it's 0:11:06.280 --> 0:11:07.320 not just like beating eggs up? 0:11:07.320 --> 0:11:08.240 Is it pay pig's what is it? 0:11:08.679 --> 0:11:10.640 Oh? My god, it's everything I've seen some of the 0:11:10.720 --> 0:11:12.480 ladies job had on here, like the oh he likes 0:11:12.600 --> 0:11:14.720 jack off to my shit? That kind of shit. Yes, 0:11:14.800 --> 0:11:17.440 that that's real. The struggle is real. That is what 0:11:17.480 --> 0:11:21.560 they're coming for. And my website just say red is 0:11:21.600 --> 0:11:24.240 literally for that reason. I used to have until somebody 0:11:24.360 --> 0:11:25.720 was like, you're gonna get sued for that shit. It 0:11:25.880 --> 0:11:28.160 used to play the intro for it ain't for everybody 0:11:28.200 --> 0:11:28.720 from jay Z. 0:11:29.360 --> 0:11:30.760 That's hilarious. 0:11:30.920 --> 0:11:32.480 If you go on X videos right now, I have 0:11:32.520 --> 0:11:34.240 a videoup there with a boy sucking my strap on 0:11:34.320 --> 0:11:35.920 and it plays to bitch got a penis. 0:11:37.640 --> 0:11:39.720 I'm not mad at that, not mad at that at all. 0:11:39.800 --> 0:11:44.320 What I guess then what things do you offer across 0:11:44.360 --> 0:11:44.840 the gampit? 0:11:44.960 --> 0:11:46.120 Because again, like. 0:11:46.160 --> 0:11:48.120 Across the board, there's like what you would think of 0:11:48.120 --> 0:11:52.160 as general fetish like humanization, bimblification, like boys who want 0:11:52.160 --> 0:11:55.600 to be transformed into slutty women, beautiful women, very high 0:11:55.640 --> 0:11:56.880 in high class, elegant bro. 0:11:56.960 --> 0:11:58.160 They want to be transformed. 0:11:58.240 --> 0:11:59.679 Yes, they want to be transformed. They don't want to 0:11:59.679 --> 0:12:00.840 be trans they don't. 0:12:00.679 --> 0:12:03.720 No, no, no, they don't want to Actually, what you do 0:12:04.480 --> 0:12:06.440 you are a judge for cross dressing? 0:12:06.640 --> 0:12:10.600 Is this is cross dressing only something that you would 0:12:10.600 --> 0:12:13.760 consider men do? Or I mean, is it across the board? Okay, 0:12:14.000 --> 0:12:17.400 catch me my pictures. That's ad a head full of 0:12:17.400 --> 0:12:18.160 wig right now. 0:12:18.280 --> 0:12:20.280 And by the time it gets hot in summertime and 0:12:20.320 --> 0:12:22.040 I get to do my month and a half almost 0:12:22.040 --> 0:12:25.040 two months of traveling across l A back over here 0:12:25.080 --> 0:12:28.720 and pinging back and forth doing my circuit, I'll be slapped, 0:12:28.720 --> 0:12:33.760 fucking bald. I'll ship all hot outside. That's not my deal. 0:12:34.160 --> 0:12:38.040 Like I am not here to make you happy. It 0:12:38.200 --> 0:12:40.480 is absolutely the other way around. If you don't make 0:12:40.520 --> 0:12:42.400 me happy, you don't have room in my circle. 0:12:42.520 --> 0:12:45.160 So when when they when they come for you and 0:12:45.200 --> 0:12:47.880 want to transform like you said, and get into cross 0:12:47.920 --> 0:12:48.959 dressing and dress up. 0:12:49.440 --> 0:12:51.600 What what does that entail? What do you guys do? What? 0:12:51.600 --> 0:12:53.560 What is the role playing aspect? What are they paying for? 0:12:53.679 --> 0:12:55.959 You need to know they are paying for the experience 0:12:55.960 --> 0:12:58.600 of one. I'm doing it to you, so you're getting 0:12:58.720 --> 0:13:04.600 the Yeah, seriously, like I'm doing this to you, be 0:13:04.720 --> 0:13:08.240 grateful when I'm helping you the fuck out. Motherfuck you 0:13:08.240 --> 0:13:09.600 could be taking your ass the party sit to getting 0:13:09.640 --> 0:13:11.679 bad wig. It's some motherfucking cheap ass, fucking lingerie. No 0:13:11.760 --> 0:13:13.800 qu pase, So you help them dress up? Yeah, I 0:13:14.840 --> 0:13:17.800 will take grown ass men to the fucking hood because 0:13:17.800 --> 0:13:20.880 they're worried about Oh my mother, oh my aunt's my 0:13:20.920 --> 0:13:22.839 grandma shops here, blah blah blah. We can't go to 0:13:22.920 --> 0:13:25.120 Lane Bryant. Well, let me tell you, we about to 0:13:25.120 --> 0:13:27.640 hop over one whole city and go to rain We're 0:13:27.679 --> 0:13:29.559 going to go to the hood and we're going to Rainbow, 0:13:29.600 --> 0:13:34.360 We're going to It's Fashion, We're going to Ashley Stews 0:13:34.360 --> 0:13:36.560 and we gotta get you like the good sized kick. 0:13:36.480 --> 0:13:39.960 Boots is a part of the going shopping together, part 0:13:39.960 --> 0:13:40.880 of public humiliation. 0:13:40.920 --> 0:13:42.920 Do you make sense? So they get out of the oh. 0:13:42.960 --> 0:13:44.240 In my phone, I have a video of a boy 0:13:44.280 --> 0:13:47.920 standing inside of Jenny O's in Dallas, Texas, right outside 0:13:47.920 --> 0:13:50.880 of Dallas and Duncanville, and I'm making him pay for 0:13:51.040 --> 0:13:53.400 all the shit. I'm gonna dress him up in that night, 0:13:53.600 --> 0:13:55.840 the wig that he bought, the nylons he bought, and 0:13:55.880 --> 0:13:57.520 I have the camera right in his fucking face while 0:13:57.520 --> 0:14:00.640 the little girl is bringing him up, and I'll was like, oh, yeah, 0:14:00.640 --> 0:14:02.319 you know, nothing shit is for me. These aren't even 0:14:02.360 --> 0:14:04.760 my colors. That's not my palette. I'm a spring, He's 0:14:04.760 --> 0:14:07.760 a winner. This is all for him, isn't it, bitch? 0:14:08.360 --> 0:14:09.600 Huh yes, mistress? 0:14:10.400 --> 0:14:12.520 Can I ask you because this is what I like 0:14:12.559 --> 0:14:13.560 to know, isn't it? 0:14:13.559 --> 0:14:13.760 Bug? 0:14:13.880 --> 0:14:17.720 Something like that? The shopping about what is the going 0:14:17.800 --> 0:14:19.480 rate for that experience? 0:14:19.600 --> 0:14:23.480 Uh? Non known clients to me fresh off the boat, 0:14:23.520 --> 0:14:27.440 four hundred dollars an hour. That is the bare bones man. 0:14:28.960 --> 0:14:32.920 I also do military discounts, E and T public service 0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:37.760 workers because I'm like this. Everybody can't afford me, and 0:14:37.840 --> 0:14:39.200 most of the guys who are into me now that 0:14:39.240 --> 0:14:41.120 I'm in mithorities have turned into babies. 0:14:41.120 --> 0:14:44.720 There is a bunch of cubs out there like mommy, oh. 0:14:44.400 --> 0:14:47.680 Wow, let me ask for four hundred an hour. You've 0:14:47.680 --> 0:14:50.240 been doing this so long, so you're obviously right. Like 0:14:50.240 --> 0:14:52.000 when I'm my my thing, I spend the most money 0:14:52.000 --> 0:14:53.320 on nowadays is breeding right? 0:14:53.680 --> 0:14:57.520 Some of them bitch seven, some of one fifty. So 0:14:58.280 --> 0:14:59.360 when people are. 0:14:59.240 --> 0:15:02.760 Paying more for a domination experience, what type of care 0:15:03.040 --> 0:15:04.000 generally comes with that. 0:15:04.200 --> 0:15:05.880 I don't care what you're paying. The care is always 0:15:05.960 --> 0:15:08.560 going to be the same. It's always gonna be. We 0:15:08.600 --> 0:15:10.720 are taking what the fuck I need you to crash 0:15:10.760 --> 0:15:12.880 your car for after you left for my motherfucking place, 0:15:13.320 --> 0:15:14.760 and then the police ask me one hundred and one 0:15:14.760 --> 0:15:19.240 fucking questions aftercare is absolutely needed. Let's get some water 0:15:19.320 --> 0:15:21.840 into you. You want a cookie, you want some pedia light. 0:15:22.160 --> 0:15:24.000 Let's pop one of these Gluecoast pills into you because 0:15:24.000 --> 0:15:26.080 you look a little shaky. I keep a first aid 0:15:26.160 --> 0:15:28.000 kit with me, and it's not just band aids, and 0:15:28.040 --> 0:15:30.240 just in case I jazz open. I got like a 0:15:30.280 --> 0:15:32.480 two single tail whips in my purse right now because 0:15:32.520 --> 0:15:34.200 I just left the showroom. 0:15:33.800 --> 0:15:37.240 For what's some of the most extreme I would guess, 0:15:37.240 --> 0:15:38.960 I would say role play that you've had that where. 0:15:38.840 --> 0:15:39.920 You I don't know if we can say it on 0:15:39.920 --> 0:15:43.480 this show, because damn we can. You didn't hear that 0:15:43.520 --> 0:15:46.920 last part. I don't know if I feel like being arrested. Okay, 0:15:47.200 --> 0:15:49.280 I can tell you something. It won't get me arrested, 0:15:49.280 --> 0:15:51.120 but y'all might be kind of shocked by I've coloriformed 0:15:51.120 --> 0:15:52.960 a boy coming from the airport before it, put him 0:15:52.960 --> 0:15:55.040 in the truck of my car and rolled the fuck out. 0:15:55.560 --> 0:15:58.680 Holy do you want to do that? That don't sound 0:15:58.720 --> 0:15:59.120 like crazy? 0:15:59.640 --> 0:16:01.160 I know it isn't crazy. 0:16:01.760 --> 0:16:04.680 I was like, that kink seems like something to me 0:16:05.520 --> 0:16:09.600 that feels okay, like I get it, Like some kinks, 0:16:09.640 --> 0:16:11.920