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Speaker 2: May the fifth, we are pulling up to London, y'all.

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Speaker 3: It's the day you need to block out in your calendar.

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Speaker 3: It's on a Sunday, So London surrounding areas, all the

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Speaker 1: Europe, wherever you at, it's your chance. That's right.

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Speaker 2: We're super excited to be bringing the last portion of

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Speaker 2: the Climax Tour to London. If you came to our

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Speaker 2: show last year, this will be a completely different show.

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Speaker 1: Wilder, more fun.

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Speaker 4: Well, I did get on top of The Help and

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Speaker 2: And there was a woman who stapled money to her

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Speaker 1: But we gotta step it up to London.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna step it up, So head on over to

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Speaker 2: hohorhive dot com and get your tickets. Now, y'all, welcome

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Speaker 2: to another episode We Bite Baby and we're in Vegas today.

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Speaker 2: But welcome to another episode of Horrid Gladness the Old.

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Speaker 2: I am Beach Mandy b aka pant Stallion. What's up, y'all,

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Speaker 2: I'm weezy. Thank you for joining us for another episode.

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Speaker 2: It looks a little different because we are not in

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Speaker 2: New York. We're not in La like Mandy said, We're

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Speaker 2: in Vegas, and we're here because we're actually up for

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Speaker 2: another AVN award. We're up for best Pot.

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Speaker 3: Apparently, you know niggas be fucking on some podcasts like

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Speaker 3: plug Talk and all.

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Speaker 1: That other shit.

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Speaker 3: So I'm not saying that I have a lot of

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Speaker 3: faith in receiving this big Golden Dick Globe award. However,

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Speaker 3: what I would like to say is why we like

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Speaker 3: to come here is put of tea.

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Speaker 4: We got some tea in the house tonight.

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Speaker 2: We do. We have a whole time in the building,

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Speaker 2: and I'm really excited. We have Mistress Mia dark right

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Speaker 2: DARKQ dot quad dot com.

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Speaker 1: I knew it was dark and I was like, girl,

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Speaker 1: she spelt it all fancy.

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Speaker 5: I saw that and I was like, actually, my domb

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Speaker 5: last name was given to me in Australia.

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Speaker 4: Wait sometimes tell you travel bitch.

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Speaker 5: Post pandemic, not as globally as I used to. This

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Speaker 5: year will hopefully be the beginning of that dot com.

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Speaker 5: We're going to be moving over to London, so we're.

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Speaker 4: Going to talk about dom com is first.

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Speaker 5: Okay, don Con is the biggest in North America domination event,

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Speaker 5: Like it is an educational event, it's bending its parties,

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Speaker 5: it's everything that you usually get from separate events rolled

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Speaker 1: How long has it been going to years?

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Speaker 6: This be the twenty first.

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Speaker 2: And I'm just I was today years old when I

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Speaker 3: Yo, not like I'm trying to Okay, So we heard

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Speaker 3: about this podcast Mandy and I from Wolf called Keep

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Speaker 3: It in the Basement, and one of my friends who's

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Speaker 3: working at ABN uh, basically I was like, what's the

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Speaker 4: What's convention? Like she goes it's.

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Speaker 1: Like autisms are don't do that? Oh because and then

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Speaker 3: And so my friend Wolf for our friend of the show,

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Speaker 3: he was like, Yo, it's literally about like basement guy

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Speaker 3: So literally I was thinking to myself when you said

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Speaker 3: dom com, I'm like, was it domb that put it

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Speaker 2: Well, and I want to actually draw the distinction too.

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Speaker 2: To me, abn convention is more centered towards porn and

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Speaker 2: So I went to the convention last year with my partner,

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Speaker 1: And it was she literally was like, maybe we should.

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Speaker 2: Stay at the hotel where it's at, and I said, girl,

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Speaker 2: the people that are there for the convention look like

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Speaker 1: But what is dom How did dom com start?

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Speaker 5: Dom Con started what is now twenty one years ago

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Speaker 5: She started this out as a dream of getting all

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Speaker 5: No no, no, no no, and to stop the infighting

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Speaker 5: that was the theme that was going on, Like if

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Speaker 1: But literally, it's that.

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Speaker 5: Gigantic shark, tiny ass pond aspect me myself, and I'm

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Speaker 5: So like, I didn't have no big mass appeal when

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Speaker 5: And I was like, all right, I do it because

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Speaker 3: That so what I used to watch, and it's just

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Speaker 3: the spirit of Vegas for anybody that's watched sex Cells.

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Speaker 3: I was at a brothel where I worked there for

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Speaker 3: not even Vegas, it's Reno, right. I was like, oh

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Speaker 3: my god, what brothel and the culture say that to

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Speaker 3: say the black women in the brothel.

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Speaker 3: Seeming to be in a dominating role. So when you

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Speaker 6: You know what it is, you get like the half

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Speaker 5: I've noticed you either get people who automatically think domination

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Speaker 5: naturally dominant. I have always been bossy. It's not so

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Speaker 5: Math needs the math on all issues.

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Speaker 1: Huh.

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Speaker 5: And when we did one in particular down in New

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Speaker 5: my Dom's sisters, Madame Nabia, ok how you doing? I

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Speaker 5: love you baby? That name Madam Nay. She is a

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Speaker 5: We have a leather you you have not had a

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Speaker 1: That somebody else with a name like that.

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Speaker 5: We walked up to the front desk. We're checking in

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Speaker 5: We had gotten mad at our Uber driver he had

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Speaker 6: You're in a fucking town and country minivan, bitch, Why

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Speaker 5: After he saw there was three of us and we

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Speaker 1: I know that's right?

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Speaker 6: She was black, We're black.

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Speaker 5: She didn't even She was like, we do this. That's

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Speaker 3: Be an age to me where you're really loving and

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Speaker 5: just got finished walking too, chicks on leashes through the

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Speaker 6: That's my life now.

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Speaker 5: And I never loved something so much or so hard

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Speaker 5: other than my fucking husband in my life. Wow, other

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Speaker 5: than your husband. Other than my husband, my husband of

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Speaker 5: sixteen years this year in July.

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Speaker 1: And is he is he here with you?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 6: Actually, he works for a bank, so he's doing bank stuff.

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Speaker 1: Not bank stuff. Banks, Uh, you know them regular jobs

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Speaker 1: that ain't that fun? He don't what I'm doing that.

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Speaker 5: You participate when he sees something cute cause we're Polly.

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Speaker 5: We've been since the job. He didn't believe we were

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Speaker 2: Smack multiply, how does okay? So then you introduced Polly

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Speaker 6: I do now.

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Speaker 5: I'm highly functioning autistic, y'all. I just found this out

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Speaker 1: Think that's a Is that why Jamaica's have so many jobs?

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Speaker 5: Because I damn, I'll tell you right, maybe that's the

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Speaker 1: It was so funny.

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Speaker 6: One of my clients was.

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Speaker 5: Like, I'm not trying to be racist, but like you

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Speaker 2: Jobs and I was like, people say that I'm able

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Speaker 2: I'm Jamaican, and they.

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Speaker 5: Said, oh, bitch, now it makes sense. I'm half Jamaican,

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Speaker 3: That tell me about so sixteen years with your husband,

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Speaker 5: Oh, I've wich uy old and I am twenty. I'm

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Speaker 1: So before you met.

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Speaker 3: Now, so when you were first dating and when you're

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Speaker 3: they don't have that much season today. Yeah, when you

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Speaker 3: you even telling them?

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Speaker 1: Yeah you were.

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Speaker 4: You never had like a fake.

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Speaker 1: I don't have to know.

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Speaker 5: We're not doing like the stripper logic. So like I

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Speaker 5: Bit you get naked.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's those cities and what is this those city?

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Speaker 1: What is the job?

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Speaker 3: Because you said, like a you're making many jobs. What

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Speaker 5: Let's see, I am a professional dominatrix. I have my

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Speaker 5: welding license, I work in medical health and I do

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Speaker 6: I let's see.

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Speaker 5: That's say I run my own catering business. I think

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Speaker 5: I did, Uh I have. I'm a hustle period. Tell

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Speaker 3: Within the professional dominatrix, inside the professional domination, because it's

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Speaker 1: Is it pay pig's what is it?

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Speaker 5: Oh? My god, it's everything I've seen some of the

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Speaker 5: ladies job had on here, like the oh he likes

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Speaker 5: jack off to my shit? That kind of shit. Yes,

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Speaker 5: that that's real. The struggle is real. That is what

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Speaker 5: they're coming for. And my website just say red is

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Speaker 5: literally for that reason. I used to have until somebody

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Speaker 5: used to play the intro for it ain't for everybody

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Speaker 5: from jay Z.

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Speaker 1: That's hilarious.

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Speaker 5: If you go on X videos right now, I have

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Speaker 5: a videoup there with a boy sucking my strap on

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Speaker 5: and it plays to bitch got a penis.

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Speaker 1: I'm not mad at that, not mad at that at all.

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Speaker 2: What I guess then what things do you offer across

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Speaker 2: the gampit?

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Speaker 1: Because again, like.

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Speaker 5: Across the board, there's like what you would think of

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Speaker 5: as general fetish like humanization, bimblification, like boys who want

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Speaker 5: to be transformed into slutty women, beautiful women, very high

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Speaker 1: They want to be transformed.

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Speaker 6: Yes, they want to be transformed. They don't want to

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Speaker 6: be trans they don't.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, they don't want to Actually, what you do

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Speaker 1: you are a judge for cross dressing?

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Speaker 2: Is this is cross dressing only something that you would

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Speaker 2: consider men do? Or I mean, is it across the board? Okay,

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Speaker 2: catch me my pictures. That's ad a head full of

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Speaker 5: And by the time it gets hot in summertime and

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Speaker 5: I get to do my month and a half almost

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Speaker 5: two months of traveling across l A back over here

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Speaker 5: and pinging back and forth doing my circuit, I'll be slapped,

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Speaker 5: fucking bald. I'll ship all hot outside. That's not my deal.

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Speaker 5: Like I am not here to make you happy. It

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Speaker 5: is absolutely the other way around. If you don't make

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Speaker 2: So when when they when they come for you and

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Speaker 2: want to transform like you said, and get into cross

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Speaker 1: What what does that entail? What do you guys do? What?

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Speaker 5: What is the role playing aspect? What are they paying for?

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Speaker 5: You need to know they are paying for the experience

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Speaker 5: of one. I'm doing it to you, so you're getting

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Speaker 5: the Yeah, seriously, like I'm doing this to you, be

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Speaker 5: grateful when I'm helping you the fuck out. Motherfuck you

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Speaker 5: could be taking your ass the party sit to getting

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Speaker 5: bad wig. It's some motherfucking cheap ass, fucking lingerie. No

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Speaker 5: qu pase, So you help them dress up? Yeah, I

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Speaker 5: will take grown ass men to the fucking hood because

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Speaker 5: they're worried about Oh my mother, oh my aunt's my

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Speaker 5: grandma shops here, blah blah blah. We can't go to

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Speaker 5: Lane Bryant. Well, let me tell you, we about to

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Speaker 5: hop over one whole city and go to rain We're

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Speaker 5: going to go to the hood and we're going to Rainbow,

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Speaker 5: We're going to It's Fashion, We're going to Ashley Stews

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Speaker 5: and we gotta get you like the good sized kick.

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Speaker 3: Boots is a part of the going shopping together, part

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Speaker 3: of public humiliation.

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Speaker 1: Do you make sense? So they get out of the oh.

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Speaker 5: In my phone, I have a video of a boy

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Speaker 5: standing inside of Jenny O's in Dallas, Texas, right outside

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Speaker 5: of Dallas and Duncanville, and I'm making him pay for

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Speaker 5: all the shit. I'm gonna dress him up in that night,

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Speaker 5: the wig that he bought, the nylons he bought, and

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Speaker 5: I have the camera right in his fucking face while

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Speaker 5: the little girl is bringing him up, and I'll was like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 5: you know, nothing shit is for me. These aren't even

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Speaker 5: my colors. That's not my palette. I'm a spring, He's

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Speaker 5: a winner. This is all for him, isn't it, bitch?

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Speaker 5: Huh yes, mistress?

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Speaker 4: Can I ask you because this is what I like

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Speaker 4: to know, isn't it?

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Speaker 1: Bug?

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Speaker 2: Something like that? The shopping about what is the going

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Speaker 2: rate for that experience?

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Speaker 5: Uh? Non known clients to me fresh off the boat,

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Speaker 5: four hundred dollars an hour. That is the bare bones man.

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Speaker 5: I also do military discounts, E and T public service

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Speaker 5: workers because I'm like this. Everybody can't afford me, and

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Speaker 5: most of the guys who are into me now that

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Speaker 5: I'm in mithorities have turned into babies.

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Speaker 6: There is a bunch of cubs out there like mommy, oh.

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Speaker 3: Wow, let me ask for four hundred an hour. You've

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Speaker 3: been doing this so long, so you're obviously right. Like

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Speaker 3: when I'm my my thing, I spend the most money

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Speaker 3: on nowadays is breeding right?

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Speaker 1: Some of them bitch seven, some of one fifty. So

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Speaker 1: when people are.

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Speaker 3: Paying more for a domination experience, what type of care

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Speaker 5: I don't care what you're paying. The care is always

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Speaker 5: going to be the same. It's always gonna be. We

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Speaker 5: are taking what the fuck I need you to crash

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Speaker 5: your car for after you left for my motherfucking place,

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Speaker 5: and then the police ask me one hundred and one

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Speaker 5: fucking questions aftercare is absolutely needed. Let's get some water

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Speaker 5: into you. You want a cookie, you want some pedia light.

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Speaker 5: Let's pop one of these Gluecoast pills into you because

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Speaker 5: kit with me, and it's not just band aids, and

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Speaker 5: just in case I jazz open. I got like a

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Speaker 5: two single tail whips in my purse right now because

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Speaker 5: I just left the showroom.

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Speaker 3: For what's some of the most extreme I would guess,

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Speaker 3: I would say role play that you've had that where.

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Speaker 5: You I don't know if we can say it on

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Speaker 5: this show, because damn we can. You didn't hear that

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Speaker 5: last part. I don't know if I feel like being arrested. Okay,

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Speaker 5: I can tell you something. It won't get me arrested,

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Speaker 5: but y'all might be kind of shocked by I've coloriformed

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Speaker 5: a boy coming from the airport before it, put him

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Speaker 5: in the truck of my car and rolled the fuck out.

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Speaker 1: Holy do you want to do that? That don't sound

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Speaker 1: like crazy?

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Speaker 6: I know it isn't crazy.

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Speaker 3: I was like, that kink seems like something to me

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Speaker 3: that feels okay, like I get it, Like some kinks,

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Speaker 3: I don't write like we had on one.

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Speaker 6: Of the Kings.

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Speaker 5: You absolutely don't like. You don't like the butt stuff,

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Speaker 5: and I get it. The girls ass who like just

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Speaker 5: opened I think that was no.

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Speaker 1: We had someone on Kimo.

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Speaker 4: You interviewed her and she said they wanted a hamster

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Speaker 4: in a blender.

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Speaker 1: No no oh yeah, no no no.

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Speaker 6: The trampling extreme trampling where they.

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Speaker 5: Wait, what is that called extreme extreme trampling and or squishing,

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Speaker 5: which means they want you to use live animals and

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Speaker 5: like literally step on them till.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, have you have you had someone ask.

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Speaker 5: Oh, I've got plenty of people. I got a size

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Speaker 5: thirteen women's foot putting, of course.

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Speaker 1: And they want, well, what if they wanted you to kill?

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Speaker 5: I had a boy was like, I will give you

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Speaker 5: two thousand dollars if you take this bag of white

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Speaker 5: mice that was inside of a pillow case and just

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Speaker 5: trample them with your feet until the case turns red.

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Speaker 1: The other bag was like, oh, I hate leeches.

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Speaker 5: Would you be into like whack a bag full of

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Speaker 6: I had some crazy ass fuck you.

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Speaker 5: Do this shit for twenty five years, It is gonna

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Speaker 5: be some motherfuckers out there like, hey, but have you

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Speaker 5: heard this ship?

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Speaker 4: So the chloroform to me wasn't as crazy.

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Speaker 1: Where do you buy chloroform? That's why I was crazy

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Speaker 1: to me?

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Speaker 6: How you just don't don't ask?

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Speaker 5: Okay, never mind, I was just saying, I'm trying to

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Speaker 5: keep you all, but I'm trying to keep all three

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Speaker 5: of us from going Okay.

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Speaker 1: Keathedia seven king like you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: Like I think of bondage, I think of like you know,

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Speaker 3: having to be like submissive to something that to me

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Speaker 3: is in there. I guess I can't get the trampling

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Speaker 3: animal thing cause you not known.

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Speaker 5: Either, because I told them both now I am a

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Speaker 1: It's given there, It's given.

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Speaker 2: Then one step away from dahmer, like, if you want

445
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Speaker 2: to do that, like you want some want to do that.

446
00:17:46,840 --> 00:17:48,960
Speaker 5: You're two seconds away from like, let's find the darkest

447
00:17:48,960 --> 00:17:50,920
Speaker 5: part of the internet, underneath the mary on the crunch

448
00:17:50,960 --> 00:17:54,199
Speaker 5: of the Internet. I need some fucking smut. And I like,

449
00:17:54,240 --> 00:17:56,520
Speaker 5: don't get me wrong, I am an absolute smut puddler,

450
00:17:56,640 --> 00:17:58,560
Speaker 5: but the kind of smut that you're asking for is

451
00:17:58,600 --> 00:18:01,000
Speaker 5: not the kind of smell. I don't even know yourt

452
00:18:01,040 --> 00:18:03,120
Speaker 5: to put my phone on silent. Tell us what you've

453
00:18:03,160 --> 00:18:07,879
Speaker 5: said no to? Beyond animals, I said no to making

454
00:18:07,880 --> 00:18:09,360
Speaker 5: two siblings. Fuck, I've said no.

455
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Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold you. Was they twins? Did they

456
00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:18,520
Speaker 1: look good? Okay, I'm not surprising. It was one request

457
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Speaker 1: from the other one.

458
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Speaker 6: Was can I fuck my sister in front of you?

459
00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:24,200
Speaker 1: Oh?

460
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Speaker 6: And I was like, any other time, I love me

461
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Speaker 6: an episode a Game of Thrones?

462
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Speaker 2: But right now, is that something you would say no to?

463
00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:36,600
Speaker 1: Yeah? And is that consensual?

464
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Speaker 5: Even if it's between the two of them and they've

465
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Speaker 5: already had the conversation. I can't stop what they've already

466
00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:43,760
Speaker 5: conversated about. They wanted somebody to be the facilitator.

467
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Speaker 1: Oh, I've already told you.

468
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Speaker 3: I think the most disgusting thing I ever said on this

469
00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:50,360
Speaker 3: show was Jason Love having sex with someone's daughter and well.

470
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Speaker 1: In front of the husband with the mother bread Like.

471
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Speaker 3: Since people say, oh, he's told that story different ways

472
00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:57,359
Speaker 3: or maybe it was a lie, I hope that's true,

473
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Speaker 3: because that checked me out of it.

474
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Speaker 2: I mean, I've said this, I would like brothers or

475
00:19:04,680 --> 00:19:07,200
Speaker 2: even twins that just look real real, Fine.

476
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Speaker 5: That's the whole thing. It's the you're forgetting that they're

477
00:19:10,119 --> 00:19:12,200
Speaker 5: genetically related. In the back here, you toss that ship

478
00:19:12,280 --> 00:19:14,560
Speaker 5: the fuck out like it's the garbage last week. Inside

479
00:19:14,560 --> 00:19:18,600
Speaker 5: of your head, you're like, these two hot motherfuckers, and

480
00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:19,800
Speaker 5: I just want to fuck them both.

481
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Speaker 2: Yes, it ain't been on the top of my head.

482
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Speaker 2: I could name a few sets of brothers now, but

483
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Speaker 2: I ain't gonna name it. I mean, a son father,

484
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Speaker 2: I've said that. That's been kind of now. Clearly they're

485
00:19:31,119 --> 00:19:32,560
Speaker 2: not gonna be sucking each other's Dick.

486
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Speaker 1: This is like a trained gang bang situation. I'm playing

487
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Speaker 1: out here.

488
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Speaker 2: I don't want to a father and a son playing

489
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Speaker 2: with each other, but they could both play with me.

490
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Speaker 5: And there's absolutely nothing wrong with that, as long as

491
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Speaker 5: everybody has been signed off.

492
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Speaker 6: On, like yeah, I'm okay with this. I'm okay with

493
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Speaker 6: okay with this.

494
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Speaker 4: The dad paid for him to watch his daughter.

495
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Speaker 2: So here's the thing I don't think. And look, here's

496
00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:56,960
Speaker 2: how sick my mind is going. If a father had

497
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Speaker 2: sons and wanted to watch the sons fuck me, I

498
00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:02,800
Speaker 2: would even let the daddy in the room.

499
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Speaker 5: I know that does I mean, I'm just matched your

500
00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:09,640
Speaker 5: to understand that. Like when it comes to kings, when

501
00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:11,280
Speaker 5: it comes to fetishing, when it comes to what's inside

502
00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:14,400
Speaker 5: your head, it's inside of your head. You're not gonna

503
00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:16,439
Speaker 5: have a wrong with it. It's when you let it

504
00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:18,040
Speaker 5: out other people.

505
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Speaker 2: Yep, they are. I didn't want to get to our

506
00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:30,640
Speaker 2: vanilla ship. Everybody, keep it, keep it up. I did

507
00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:33,160
Speaker 2: want to bring up our vanilla ship because I did

508
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Speaker 2: want to really draw these differences. When you talk about

509
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Speaker 2: our mind, when we talk about being here at Avian,

510
00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:40,280
Speaker 2: when we talk about dom con, there's just there's a

511
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Speaker 2: difference in the ways that we all view sex. Essentially,

512
00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:48,719
Speaker 2: so Pope Francis actually says that sexual pleasure is a

513
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Speaker 2: gift from God.

514
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Speaker 1: However, he condemns porn.

515
00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:55,840
Speaker 2: The eighty seven year old religious leader told crowds outside

516
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Speaker 2: of the Vatican that sex was something to be cherished,

517
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Speaker 2: but it is ultimately being undermined by pornography.

518
00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:03,040
Speaker 1: I do want to know when.

519
00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:06,400
Speaker 2: Clearly, and and this is where when we talk Mormons,

520
00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:08,960
Speaker 2: when we talked the way that they insert, yeah, when

521
00:21:08,960 --> 00:21:11,639
Speaker 2: they insert, when they insert the Bible into how they

522
00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:14,960
Speaker 2: view you know, intercourse and why we should be having

523
00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:16,080
Speaker 2: sex and those things like that.

524
00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:17,159
Speaker 1: I did want to know.

525
00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:20,000
Speaker 2: Do you think that there's a difference between watching because

526
00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:22,320
Speaker 2: again me fucking the brothers, you didn't cringe until I

527
00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:24,560
Speaker 2: brought the dad into watch. Do you think that there's

528
00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:27,680
Speaker 2: a difference in the way our minds have viewed watching

529
00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:32,119
Speaker 2: people have sex in comparison to the actual act of sex.

530
00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:35,360
Speaker 2: And then I want to compare porn and BDSM as well.

531
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Speaker 5: Okay, first thing, sorry Catholics, Apparently they didn't read the

532
00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:43,200
Speaker 5: whole Bible. Anybody ever read the Song of Solomon Hella

533
00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:46,119
Speaker 5: where he is literally talking about how her great waters

534
00:21:46,480 --> 00:21:47,480
Speaker 5: bitches pussy was.

535
00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:53,720
Speaker 1: With It wasn't the great waters of a lake or ocean.

536
00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:56,679
Speaker 5: I mean he was talking about her pussy. He was

537
00:21:56,720 --> 00:21:59,600
Speaker 5: talking about her titties, he was talking about her ads.

538
00:21:59,680 --> 00:21:59,960
Speaker 1: He's the.

539
00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:05,000
Speaker 6: Yeah, having a little tyler. Do you know it?

540
00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:06,880
Speaker 1: I just know the little look.

541
00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:14,119
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, No, the Bible, and the Bible has porn

542
00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:14,560
Speaker 2: in it.

543
00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:18,199
Speaker 5: You have a man who's two daughters come up with

544
00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:20,280
Speaker 5: an idea after their mom gets turned into salt. We

545
00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:23,240
Speaker 5: gotta start more people. You got two brothers, one gigs

546
00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:25,480
Speaker 5: kicked out. Suddenly, we have a sister that is nowhere

547
00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:27,840
Speaker 5: else in the fucking bottle. We have incests at the

548
00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:30,480
Speaker 5: incest porn. At the very beginning of it. God made

549
00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:33,399
Speaker 5: man and Lilith. She said, I don't want nothing to

550
00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:34,880
Speaker 5: do with this. He kicks with the fuck out, makes

551
00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:39,400
Speaker 5: him a brand new bitch. It's like she knew too much.

552
00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:40,800
Speaker 1: Kick both of them the fuck out.

553
00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:43,280
Speaker 5: But before that, it was all naked and happy and shit.

554
00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:44,400
Speaker 1: And even God.

555
00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:48,959
Speaker 5: Said, I'm giving this to you. Enjoy this shit. Like

556
00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:50,840
Speaker 5: I said, I'm Southern, go ahead and give me some

557
00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:52,439
Speaker 5: Bible cruates and I will tell you the parts that

558
00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:53,440
Speaker 5: you skip the fuck over.

559
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Speaker 4: I want to bring up something that will make us

560
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Speaker 4: debat a little.

561
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Speaker 6: Uh oh, here goes a great.

562
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Speaker 3: Bab Okay, So this conversation comes from me being a

563
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Speaker 3: lover of a restaurant in La called Horses. Okay if

564
00:23:06,080 --> 00:23:08,280
Speaker 3: I talked about this story, but the chef at Horses

565
00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 3: was found to have been killing cats, and basically he

566
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:13,960
Speaker 3: was jerking off.

567
00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:16,440
Speaker 1: This the Chinese restaurant or what type of restaurant?

568
00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:23,920
Speaker 2: This is a American restaurantee you, this is what I

569
00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:28,760
Speaker 2: love Chinese people, and I believe actually all cultures eat

570
00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:30,600
Speaker 2: weird animals. I don't think I think that Chinese shit

571
00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:31,960
Speaker 2: is bullshit. I think all of them do.

572
00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:34,280
Speaker 4: So anyway, uh okay.

573
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Speaker 3: So basically, then this restaurant is like, you know, the

574
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Speaker 3: hardest place to get into in La at the time.

575
00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:41,399
Speaker 3: So the wife basically they keep getting these cats or

576
00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:43,000
Speaker 3: adopting these cats, and they keep ending up dead.

577
00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:44,440
Speaker 4: Come to find out it's a sexual cank.

578
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:48,200
Speaker 3: So friend and I we're like, bitch, we gotta go

579
00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:51,000
Speaker 3: eat it horses because the fucking open table, so we

580
00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:53,680
Speaker 3: got their food wasn't as good as it was last time.

581
00:23:54,160 --> 00:24:03,200
Speaker 1: But because she said start killing cats had a different

582
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:03,720
Speaker 1: type of things.

583
00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:05,639
Speaker 3: She's like, you know, this is that murderer ship, that

584
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 3: documentary who killed don't kill cats or whatever. So she's like,

585
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 3: you know, what if you have a gene or something

586
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:15,720
Speaker 3: in you that wants to like feel the breath leave.

587
00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:18,240
Speaker 3: Someone's like, what if that's a thing, right, because we

588
00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:22,359
Speaker 3: know how to do ours safely, right, And she said,

589
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:26,960
Speaker 3: should it really be illegal if you're not going to

590
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:28,959
Speaker 3: hurt anyone? What if these people needed to get their

591
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:29,400
Speaker 3: shit off?

592
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:29,879
Speaker 1: Another thing?

593
00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 2: For example, I was talking to a doll company and

594
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Speaker 2: they told me that people have been requesting little girl dolls.

595
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:42,399
Speaker 2: Now the company said, there's this obvious moral clause of

596
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Speaker 2: you no.

597
00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:45,840
Speaker 3: But then the other thing was what if that keeps

598
00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:49,480
Speaker 3: them from actually trying to fuck little kids? So I

599
00:24:49,520 --> 00:24:52,639
Speaker 3: say that to say you made a mention of uh,

600
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:55,159
Speaker 3: you know, when does it become real or whatever?

601
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:56,879
Speaker 4: Like when does your king You said something like that.

602
00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:59,960
Speaker 5: We were talking, yeah, what it is inside of your

603
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:02,399
Speaker 5: into like what's actually half happening?

604
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:02,680
Speaker 6: Yeah?

605
00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:04,639
Speaker 5: The two rolls was fine, the two ros plus one.

606
00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:06,560
Speaker 5: Dad was like, that was your personal line in the

607
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:08,399
Speaker 5: saying me myself and I that would not be my

608
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:10,960
Speaker 5: personal line in the saying like if it turned into

609
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:13,080
Speaker 5: like the basketball team of all the cousins showed the

610
00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:14,920
Speaker 5: fuck up, I'd be like, ooh, bitch, pussy gonna hurt though.

611
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:17,920
Speaker 5: But other than that, like I'm like, this is your thing.

612
00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 5: That's the whole thing about kink. It's supposed to be

613
00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 5: that there are no taboos, but even inside of that subset,

614
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 5: you're always still going to have somebody saying, ew, cringe,

615
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:27,359
Speaker 5: no red stop.

616
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Speaker 2: Well, outside the ill and the cringe, there are also

617
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:34,200
Speaker 2: things that are illegal. How do you stay away from

618
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:37,119
Speaker 2: when you have these thoughts and you're really you know,

619
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Speaker 2: I guess you said the baby dolls. You know clearly

620
00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:44,040
Speaker 2: they're not fucking kids, but it's a little weird.

621
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 1: How do you check.

622
00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:47,679
Speaker 2: Yourself if you realize that? And what I kind of

623
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 2: want to do could get me in trouble, Like I.

624
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Speaker 5: Say something, We're going to start a whole nother debate.

625
00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:55,640
Speaker 5: I'm just about to say this, Okay, think about it. Yes,

626
00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:58,200
Speaker 5: the whole thing you said about they are getting baby dolls.

627
00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:00,280
Speaker 5: We know what they're doing with those baby dolls. What

628
00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:02,600
Speaker 5: if they didn't have those baby dolls?

629
00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 6: That better question.

630
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 4: That's the conversation.

631
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:10,719
Speaker 5: If we don't provide anything and bad shit happens. Everybody

632
00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:12,920
Speaker 5: does that twenty twenty hindsight of oh, we should have

633
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:15,480
Speaker 5: just gave him the dolls. Okay, what if you're using

634
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:17,520
Speaker 5: that doll to level up like a fucking pokemon up

635
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:18,280
Speaker 5: to real little kid.

636
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:20,800
Speaker 1: That was my that was my thought. That's my thought.

637
00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:22,600
Speaker 3: I don't know if you've ever gone through I know

638
00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:25,240
Speaker 3: you were celibate last year. I've actually gone through moments

639
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:26,760
Speaker 3: of no masturbation.

640
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:28,960
Speaker 4: Right when I started, right.

641
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:31,199
Speaker 1: I'm totally good. Look, I just was like trying to.

642
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 6: I cried when I realized.

643
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:36,359
Speaker 2: I'm surprised I didn't very obsessed with I ain't gonna

644
00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:36,560
Speaker 2: hold you.

645
00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:37,560
Speaker 1: I will celebrate my baby.

646
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:39,960
Speaker 2: I'm surprised this click is still here, baby, because that

647
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:41,040
Speaker 2: little fuck was like.

648
00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:43,240
Speaker 4: No, mine was bad, my worry unhealthy.

649
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:47,720
Speaker 3: Hell, if anybody were the guys in the experience, but no,

650
00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:50,399
Speaker 3: I would be like literally wouldn't be able to make things.

651
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:53,560
Speaker 3: I wouldn't want to go see people like. And I'm

652
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:57,399
Speaker 3: sure someone's probably experienced this. There's also another state of depression. Really,

653
00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:00,439
Speaker 3: but I bring all that up to say, once that

654
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:03,280
Speaker 3: masturbation started back up after that little stick where I

655
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:04,119
Speaker 3: stopped a bit.

656
00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:04,880
Speaker 4: Y'all's ready fuck.

657
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:08,640
Speaker 3: So I just don't understand how this doesn't because a cat.

658
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:10,880
Speaker 3: I'm like, what's some lady down the street?

659
00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 1: Like that's what your brain's gonna do.

660
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:13,880
Speaker 2: R I don't know why our woman's brain also does.

661
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 2: Like you could not fuck for a while, then you

662
00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:18,680
Speaker 2: fuck once, and now you just want to fuck every day.

663
00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:21,160
Speaker 1: You want something like you just want to keep going.

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Speaker 5: You know what, I remember when I was younger, in

665
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Speaker 5: my me and my plumpsis were just talking about this

666
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 5: that I've hit that old lady street. You know, all

667
00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 5: of our aunties used to tell us, like, girl, when

668
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:32,640
Speaker 5: you get to your voice, dude, stick going damn near,

669
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:33,960
Speaker 5: follow the fuck off ain't gonna work no more, and

670
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:36,639
Speaker 5: you're gonna be horny as fucking I'm like, oh my god, cousin,

671
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 5: I'm filling the blank. That is so not true. Here

672
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 5: I am forty five two seconds away. I sat on

673
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:45,520
Speaker 5: the boy last night, dead on his face. I didn't

674
00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:48,320
Speaker 5: give a fuck if he got oxygen. I was mad

675
00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 5: because I left my hatachi at the house next to

676
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:52,720
Speaker 5: the bed, still on the fucking charger. And now you

677
00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 5: give a damn boy, his face so funny. What I

678
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:57,080
Speaker 5: wanted you gonna get? You said, you get on the floor.

679
00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:58,560
Speaker 5: Did what the fuck we're doing right now?

680
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 1: Did y'all see? Uh? And I don't think he knew

681
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 1: what he was doing. But Meek is gonna Meek. Did

682
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 1: you see that? Meek Mills said, this lady left this

683
00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:07,440
Speaker 1: at my house? What is it?

684
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:09,800
Speaker 2: And it was a fucking charger to a sex toy.

685
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:11,600
Speaker 2: And it's like, I don't think that did what you

686
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 2: thought I was gonna do, sir. That means you wasn't.

687
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 5: Good enough, because good hold on to me about this?

688
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 1: To me, I don't know. I'm just saying for me.

689
00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:22,399
Speaker 2: I have never brought like a sex toy to a

690
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:24,000
Speaker 2: person that I know outside of like.

691
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 1: Dildo's my house, to a house shocked to someone's house.

692
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:31,680
Speaker 5: I haven't done carry on bag of nothing but dig's

693
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:34,119
Speaker 5: things I can use on people, stuff people can use.

694
00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:35,119
Speaker 1: I haven't done that.

695
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:37,359
Speaker 4: I literally I took this trip. Well, I brought the

696
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 4: dude I'm talking to.

697
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:42,760
Speaker 1: We're here. I hear, yeah, like, okay, extra, it's I

698
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:46,440
Speaker 1: get in my house, not do it.

699
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 2: I used toys with my partner, but that took us.

700
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:51,400
Speaker 2: I was with him for three years. I have not

701
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 2: really I've done dil do's that I'll do, but the

702
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:58,280
Speaker 2: vibrators and stuff, I haven't. No, girl, that's a shared experience.

703
00:28:57,960 --> 00:28:58,360
Speaker 3: You get on.

704
00:28:58,320 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 6: Any just right on top of life.

705
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:02,280
Speaker 5: I don't know.

706
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 2: I think it takes me a while to like introduce

707
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:06,560
Speaker 2: that to two new people. You never heard sharing his

708
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:07,960
Speaker 2: caaren sharing his care.

709
00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 3: Let me just say this, and I've done this A

710
00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 3: lot of people listen to this podcast, and I know

711
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 3: we've got all the answers over the craziest And you

712
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:19,120
Speaker 3: said it takes you time, like it's it does take

713
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 3: me time.

714
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:22,360
Speaker 1: It will takes me time to introduce it and with men.

715
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 6: Out of your head, And that's also what I was

716
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:25,680
Speaker 6: about to say, is it just.

717
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 2: Well, it's just with dudes, it's just what it's just

718
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 2: with dudes.

719
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:32,640
Speaker 1: Like to me, it's.

720
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 2: Really like eight Everyone already thinks I'm super like sexual

721
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 2: and stuff like that. So a lot of times when

722
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 2: I am doing the toy thing, also, it's not I

723
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:42,840
Speaker 2: don't feel comfortab when niggas just pull out toys that

724
00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:45,120
Speaker 2: they have. So anytime I've even done the toys, we

725
00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 2: have to go together and buy these toys. So then

726
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:49,440
Speaker 2: it's that experience getting a guy to agree to come

727
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 2: to sex a sex shop with me.

728
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 1: That's where we normally buy the strap bonds and things

729
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:54,120
Speaker 1: like that.

730
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 2: But no, am I just pulling up to a nigga

731
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:58,600
Speaker 2: that flew me out and pulling out my bag of tricks. No,

732
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:02,240
Speaker 2: it takes a while, but that that's.

733
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:04,880
Speaker 3: Actually something if I do, like a vacation, like first vacation.

734
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 4: I'm not saying I'm a non contentional person, bitch.

735
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 3: I'm bringing a vibrator, a cockering, a butt plug, me

736
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:16,240
Speaker 3: or you, I don't know, and probably something to bound

737
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 3: me with.

738
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:19,400
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I talk about and I leave them there.

739
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:21,520
Speaker 2: I've asked if I could bring a book like I

740
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 2: have to. I've asked and talked about.

741
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:23,840
Speaker 1: Well I liked.

742
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:27,520
Speaker 2: I mean, obviously talking before is great. But the last

743
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 2: time this happened, right my first trip with this person,

744
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 2: we were in Mexico. I was like, Okay, I'm gonna.

745
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:31,240
Speaker 1: Go take a tower.

746
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 3: I'll want you to open the door and then fix

747
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:36,640
Speaker 3: something you like. And maybe he's sitting there and wondering

748
00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 3: what those things are like and granted a plastic flower

749
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:45,240
Speaker 3: and granted, I actually think both of these can be healthy. Yeah,

750
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 3: you know, not everybody is super vocal or able to

751
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:50,600
Speaker 3: be communicad So maybe just like playing and touching is

752
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 3: okay first. And also I think with butt play for men,

753
00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:58,520
Speaker 3: I know that you talk about it a lot. On

754
00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:01,920
Speaker 3: my experience, I've just kind of got to bring it.

755
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 3: And then I'm like, what do you like if I

756
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 3: do it too much? Pre talk you for butt play,

757
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:08,640
Speaker 3: you're talking about like for them, for you.

758
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:11,080
Speaker 1: For them. I realized that a lot of Oh girl,

759
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:12,080
Speaker 1: I'm definitely talking about that.

760
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 2: If I pull out a strap on some of the

761
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 2: niggs out of well, that's bufflay.

762
00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 1: If I pull out a buttlood, they're gonna be like, now, bitch,

763
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 1: what you're doing with dad? That's for you?

764
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:23,680
Speaker 2: Right, Like there's like, I know, y'all, I don't know

765
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:25,360
Speaker 2: what type of man y'all really think I fun because

766
00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:26,840
Speaker 2: I know I'll be talking about been to these niggas

767
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:29,400
Speaker 2: over a lot, but some of them, there's no way

768
00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:32,240
Speaker 2: I would consider even bringing that into a room without

769
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:33,840
Speaker 2: talking to them first, because I feel like they would

770
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:37,320
Speaker 2: feel like I'm playing them or like I'm disrespect.

771
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:40,120
Speaker 5: Like I need to absolutely get that part. But like

772
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:42,120
Speaker 5: you also have to remember if a motherfucker ain't gonna

773
00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 5: be cool with what you're already cool with, y'all.

774
00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:45,080
Speaker 1: And then we're not fucking at all. But that's what

775
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 1: I'm saying.

776
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 2: I do all the conversating, first conversating conversation convers.

777
00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 6: So I can know what the fuck you're trying to

778
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 6: get changed on.

779
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:53,520
Speaker 1: Do y'all?

780
00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:54,280
Speaker 4: Remember sex in the.

781
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 1: City when here we go co execs City.

782
00:31:57,280 --> 00:32:00,160
Speaker 2: She do it every other but at the part on

783
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:01,880
Speaker 2: that because they about to put this shit on Netflix,

784
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:03,280
Speaker 2: you about to rewatch.

785
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:03,760
Speaker 1: It and bring it all back.

786
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 3: Random have it a hard time dirty talking with this nigga,

787
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 3: And finally she was able to get into it.

788
00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 4: He's like, tell me what I like. She's like, oh, yeah,

789
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:13,240
Speaker 4: you love it when I'm doing this blah blah blah.

790
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, what else do I like?

791
00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 1: You love it when I put your cocky moth?

792
00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:17,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, And you love it when I put my.

793
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 2: Finger in your ass. And he was like, Oh, they

794
00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 2: don't like, they don't like. They don't like admitting that.

795
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:25,440
Speaker 2: Oh when I talk dirty either, message, I'll be like, ooh,

796
00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:27,280
Speaker 2: let me seck your dick, ooh, let me spell on

797
00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 2: them balls, ooh, let me And they'll be like yes, yes, yes,

798
00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 2: Then when I say ooh, you gonna let me put

799
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 2: my tongue deep in that ass? Lol, Like I don't

800
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 2: get much of a response because it's like they don't

801
00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:40,440
Speaker 2: want to respond or admit that they want it.

802
00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:43,040
Speaker 5: Okay, if we're just going to be honest, black men

803
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 5: are sheltered, Oh, very much, very I don't give a

804
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:48,000
Speaker 5: fuck which podcast you listen to who's talking about it.

805
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 5: If you got five bitches on one mic like dot

806
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 5: damn Tenttations and then three dudes sharing it O. But okay,

807
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:57,120
Speaker 5: somebody in this room telling me I'm fucking lying, thank you,

808
00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:00,240
Speaker 5: it ends up being this thing of.

809
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 6: Like black men are sheltered.

810
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:03,400
Speaker 1: They just are.

811
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:05,880
Speaker 5: They've never been given the amount of money to not

812
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 5: give a fuck about what anybody else thinks about him.

813
00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:09,120
Speaker 6: They never been.

814
00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 5: And when they do get that kind of money, they

815
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 5: have to be extra sheltered to be able to keep

816
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:17,240
Speaker 5: said money. Yeah, of my clientele is Caucasian. I said

817
00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 5: what I said, It is a hell I will die on.

818
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 5: But my black boys, y'all sexy sons, a bit of

819
00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 5: show the fuck up. Oh my god, the things you

820
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 5: let me get away with. And I don't do that

821
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:30,720
Speaker 5: little half assi the ass shit like, oh my god,

822
00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 5: I ain't gonna send me back a lo ol bitch.

823
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 5: I promise you I'll stick my whole fists in there,

824
00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:39,240
Speaker 5: like I have one boy that is like an absolute

825
00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:41,600
Speaker 5: gym rat. You know who I'm talking about, because I'm

826
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:46,760
Speaker 5: gonna make you watch this podcast. He is fine ass fuck.

827
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 5: I'm talking about nobody that thighs like whoa ass like

828
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:53,200
Speaker 5: bounce a quarter off of it front the same fucking way.

829
00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 5: His titt is almost say tit is almost as big

830
00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 5: as mind the Mother. And I'm like, and you know

831
00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:02,960
Speaker 5: what his favorite thing is, but spit in my fucking mouth.

832
00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:05,480
Speaker 5: Smack me, tell me I'm a filthy, fucking horror and

833
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:06,600
Speaker 5: hold me down.

834
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:08,479
Speaker 1: I know you want to be held down.

835
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:14,720
Speaker 6: He wants to be assaulted. Okay, he brought me a toy.

836
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 5: Uh. Well, we're gonna call it implement, because I know

837
00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:20,440
Speaker 5: y'all are thinking toys like uh, but he brought me

838
00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:23,600
Speaker 5: an implement, which is basically a eighteen wheeler truck tread

839
00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 5: folded in half glued and semi permanent to a fucking

840
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 5: paddle handle. He's an extreme masochist. How many black men

841
00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 5: you know gonna admit to being like I like being

842
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 5: like it's on the weekend because wow, and he's super quiet.

843
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:44,200
Speaker 1: Oh it beat him quiet one.

844
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:48,720
Speaker 6: Oh, and not just that he's an African in first generation.

845
00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:51,600
Speaker 4: Here Hello, what it's Nigerian mane on my phone.

846
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:55,399
Speaker 2: For our horder, we like to to ask our our

847
00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:57,600
Speaker 2: guests to give us a sex tip. Let me, I

848
00:34:57,640 --> 00:35:01,120
Speaker 2: wouldn't love I would love one about what about dominating?

849
00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 1: So dead ass?

850
00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:04,799
Speaker 2: So I told Mandy on our Patreon episode a few

851
00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:08,680
Speaker 2: weeks back, how we've recently been doing some domb subplay

852
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 2: for the most part, Like, I feel like it's super

853
00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 2: basic thinking it's the oh my god, you're coming in.

854
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:17,719
Speaker 3: I feel like that's kind of Vanella right. However, we

855
00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:19,080
Speaker 3: were in the club the other night and there were

856
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:21,239
Speaker 3: tiles on the floor and he told me I had

857
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:22,359
Speaker 3: to stay in the box and.

858
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 1: The tile, and I loved it right in that spot.

859
00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 6: Damn.

860
00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 1: He was like, don't fucking move. I see you go

861
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 1: over the line. I'm slapping you.

862
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:33,440
Speaker 3: So my employees were there and they were starting to leave,

863
00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:35,000
Speaker 3: and I was like, I need to get out.

864
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:36,840
Speaker 1: I got to take it. He's like, you need to

865
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:38,040
Speaker 1: figure out how to hug them.

866
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:42,399
Speaker 3: So this should have been mad fund thinking about trying

867
00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:43,960
Speaker 3: it at the Avian Words tomorrow and he's like, I

868
00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:45,960
Speaker 3: feel like it's a perfect place because if you really

869
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 3: want to ask me permission to speak, no one's gonna

870
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 3: think it's crazy because we're in this crazy town. However,

871
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:55,120
Speaker 3: I want to do my version of dominating. Have I

872
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:59,319
Speaker 3: already given too much as a submissive at this point

873
00:35:59,400 --> 00:35:59,920
Speaker 3: in the Really.

874
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:03,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, no, you can be switched. Guess what?

875
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:06,279
Speaker 5: There is an in between. Sometimes I feel like a nut.

876
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:09,640
Speaker 5: Sometimes I don't. You can switch if he's not cool.

877
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:11,880
Speaker 5: If you switching, then like either you learn to be

878
00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:15,960
Speaker 5: cool with baby gets her corner and her box. And

879
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:17,960
Speaker 5: that's what it is. I'm gonna tell you the truth.

880
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:21,880
Speaker 5: The rest of the show floor was like super amazed

881
00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 5: the fact that I had a white woman on a

882
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:25,680
Speaker 5: fucking Lesha collar, dressed up like a cat in like

883
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 5: a Japanese school girl outfit, like on hands and knees

884
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:29,800
Speaker 5: with no knee pads.

885
00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:32,160
Speaker 6: Her knees are fucked.

886
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:36,279
Speaker 1: Up because it is a carpeted at yeah.

887
00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:39,440
Speaker 5: So and her favorite thing right now is, oh my god,

888
00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 5: look at my knees.

889
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:42,279
Speaker 6: And I'm like, yeah, the bitch is look good too.

890
00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:44,120
Speaker 5: Baby, you need to come hang out with us at

891
00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:46,040
Speaker 5: the layer because the rest of the bucket floor is

892
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 5: all like, oh my god, look at me. My titties

893
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:51,480
Speaker 5: are almost out unless somebody's coming by, like security or

894
00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:51,839
Speaker 5: some shit.

895
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 6: But I got my nipplestops on. Fuck dad, we're happening.

896
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 6: I probably not. We about to do some.

897
00:36:57,640 --> 00:37:01,440
Speaker 5: Horrible things to ser good people, or at least I

898
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 5: know I'm going to.

899
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:04,200
Speaker 6: I brought that that was payd for a reason.

900
00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:08,280
Speaker 1: Let me it is heavy.

901
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 6: It is a two by six and that's solid.

902
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 1: It is heavy.

903
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:13,359
Speaker 4: I thought that shit said period it's at perfect.

904
00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 5: Ten because all money ain't good money. That's why it'sb

905
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 5: dominant want to end up ee.

906
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:19,800
Speaker 1: So so you do believe, or it's fine.

907
00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 2: A submissive can't be too submissive to want the switch

908
00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:24,280
Speaker 2: the roll switched.

909
00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:27,799
Speaker 5: If if the submissive just wants to be submissive all

910
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:30,040
Speaker 5: the time, that's fine. But if you went into the

911
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:32,200
Speaker 5: relationship and you're like, I want to play sometimes and

912
00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:33,399
Speaker 5: then you get to be the poblem and then sometimes

913
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:34,840
Speaker 5: I'll be the top, then sometimes you'll be the bottom,

914
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:37,560
Speaker 5: and sometimes I'll be the bottom, that is a switch relationship.

915
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:39,920
Speaker 6: We like going back and forth.

916
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:41,799
Speaker 5: If his favorite part is when he gets the top,

917
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:43,319
Speaker 5: if your favorite part is when you get to top,

918
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:44,799
Speaker 5: then maybe y'all need to get a third person who

919
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:46,239
Speaker 5: likes to be a sub all the goddamn time, and

920
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:46,560
Speaker 5: you can.

921
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 6: Make that baby stand in the square and y'all can

922
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 6: do it together.

923
00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:52,319
Speaker 3: Now if you so for in my situation right where

924
00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 3: I've been constantly the sub during this relationship, what are

925
00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 3: some slight or light ways that I could maybe you know,

926
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:00,400
Speaker 3: get digg into it?

927
00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:04,880
Speaker 4: Snap, because I how does tell shuld I dominate you?

928
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 5: And he said, if I feel like you're capable, Yeah,

929
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:08,800
Speaker 5: then guess what, bitch, you need to get capable?

930
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:11,120
Speaker 1: Okay, what means that you need.

931
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 5: To cut that old baby girl? I'm look at how

932
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:15,480
Speaker 5: you're sitting right now.

933
00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:17,440
Speaker 1: You have like it.

934
00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:20,880
Speaker 5: You have a yard and almost thirty three pounds of

935
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 5: wood just sitting on your left and you're sitting like this.

936
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:29,920
Speaker 1: Touch it but like if it was men? Can I see? Yeah?

937
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 1: I want to see how it does? How would you

938
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:33,480
Speaker 1: hold it?

939
00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 6: What we're doing? Oh, you're gonna get on this floor.

940
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:39,279
Speaker 6: I'm I have to put you on it.

941
00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 1: I'll get on it.

942
00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:43,719
Speaker 2: No, see you bro, you want to be a son

943
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 2: so bad?

944
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:46,160
Speaker 1: That's the thing you mean?

945
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 5: You just don't.

946
00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 1: I got it off.

947
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:51,160
Speaker 3: She literally.

948
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:57,319
Speaker 5: It's see she's y'all are business women. Y'all done locked

949
00:38:57,320 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 5: this ship the fuck down because you knew. I'm sorry,

950
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 5: because you knew. This is what you're supposed to be

951
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 5: doing when it comes around time for you to be

952
00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:05,319
Speaker 5: the aggressive one.

953
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:06,920
Speaker 6: You're like the headlights.

954
00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:08,719
Speaker 4: What are some ways I can start? Tell me some

955
00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:09,920
Speaker 4: little thing or not even hard.

956
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:13,440
Speaker 2: Let's for the public. I would a woman who's mostly

957
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:16,319
Speaker 2: a sub or a partner. Let's not genderize this. Yes,

958
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 2: how would anyone who's normally the submissive start inching their

959
00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:25,400
Speaker 2: way towards domit? Being a doctor brat, brat really braded

960
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:27,919
Speaker 2: the fuck up. Brat is what I like to think

961
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 2: of as the switch code for switches, Like I'm done

962
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:32,799
Speaker 2: being baby, Now you go get it?

963
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:34,799
Speaker 1: Oh did you just.

964
00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:35,760
Speaker 6: To go get something?

965
00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 1: Yeah?

966
00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:39,040
Speaker 5: Because I don't feel like doing it?

967
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:39,600
Speaker 1: Oh?

968
00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 6: This is that? Who gonna peel the orange thing? Isn't it?

969
00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:46,719
Speaker 5: It's a little bit of pushback, It's baby steps, and

970
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:50,160
Speaker 5: then eventually the bratting's gonna turn into if it's done correctly,

971
00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:53,200
Speaker 5: if the person feels like indulging you, it's gonna be like, Okay,

972
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:55,879
Speaker 5: I'll go get you the goddamn orange. Now you got them,

973
00:39:56,040 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 5: Now your asses stuck. Now it's gonna be I need

974
00:39:58,120 --> 00:40:00,200
Speaker 5: a little bit more than this orange peeled motherfucker, and

975
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:03,600
Speaker 5: now I need you go to the episode remind me

976
00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:05,320
Speaker 5: to bread. I know I'm trying to do it tonight.

977
00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:08,360
Speaker 1: At Brat.

978
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:10,800
Speaker 3: I'm not the diet when you got food poisoning, you know,

979
00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:13,200
Speaker 3: they say bread, rice and tosa something okay.

980
00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:19,879
Speaker 1: And then after after the brad face, what will be the.

981
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:21,759
Speaker 5: Next thing after the brad face is gonna be the

982
00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:24,719
Speaker 5: like you ever had a man ask you what you

983
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:27,360
Speaker 5: want to eat and intentionally you said it's whatever you

984
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:30,359
Speaker 5: wanna need. Mm hmm, I know exactly what the fuck

985
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:33,240
Speaker 5: I want to eat. Let me tell you exactly.

986
00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 1: What I want sushi.

987
00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:38,200
Speaker 5: Like I'm staring you down right now, I'm gonna tell

988
00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:39,879
Speaker 5: you exactly what I want to eat. Either you're gonna

989
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:42,360
Speaker 5: get it or you're not. And if it don't, and

990
00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:45,359
Speaker 5: if you don't, we gonna have some situations and maybe

991
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:48,319
Speaker 5: some moving furniture that we both enjoy. And no ifbody

992
00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:49,920
Speaker 5: gonna get crack to the motherfucker white met we can

993
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:51,200
Speaker 5: just crack.

994
00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:52,960
Speaker 1: What are some ways?

995
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:55,000
Speaker 4: And this is like, actually a real serious question.

996
00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:58,359
Speaker 3: I feel like people like us and obviously like I'm

997
00:40:58,360 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 3: more of a knilla in this instant than you are.

998
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:02,680
Speaker 3: But we all have access to maybe feeling comfortable going

999
00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:04,880
Speaker 3: into a toy store or friends that we have to

1000
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:07,640
Speaker 3: speak to. For someone who's possibly just in the middle

1001
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:10,000
Speaker 3: of America who can't walk into the local place, what

1002
00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:12,520
Speaker 3: are some scenes they could play out in everyday life

1003
00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:15,120
Speaker 3: where they could dominate, whether it be a dinner, a

1004
00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:16,680
Speaker 3: car ride, a date night.

1005
00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:19,640
Speaker 5: Everybody stopped by Timu and get a vibrating butt plug

1006
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 5: that comes with the Bluetooth connection either through your cell

1007
00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:24,760
Speaker 5: phone and an app or actual remote control or I'm.

1008
00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:26,520
Speaker 1: Gonna I'm gonna suggest Amazon.

1009
00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:29,600
Speaker 2: Hold on Amazon only because Timo was selling people information

1010
00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:29,960
Speaker 2: out here.

1011
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:30,239
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1012
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, Like for the fucking I tak yea I got

1013
00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:38,040
Speaker 5: it was sixteen bucks, mouer, that thing works had some

1014
00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 5: bitch swaps. I was like this, she said, you might

1015
00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:40,960
Speaker 5: have my socialis.

1016
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:44,840
Speaker 6: I wasn't even trying that hard. I was like, whoa

1017
00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 6: this heard got some.

1018
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:47,440
Speaker 5: Chick and then you get light to that third position

1019
00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:50,320
Speaker 5: of like, and you're like, okay, this is nice, and

1020
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:52,600
Speaker 5: then get to that four and it's like, whole position,

1021
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:54,719
Speaker 5: I am holding you like a boat or against my

1022
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:57,120
Speaker 5: fucking pussy. She was like, it's worth the risk, It's

1023
00:41:57,120 --> 00:41:59,280
Speaker 5: worth the risk. I think a little bit of information.

1024
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:02,840
Speaker 5: I am literally on the internet everywhere. I've already had sockers.

1025
00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:04,960
Speaker 5: I'm forty fucking five. I don't care anymore.

1026
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 1: Now.

1027
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:08,799
Speaker 5: I'm going for fucking experiences only everybody else right, my

1028
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:12,240
Speaker 5: husband's at home, our bills are paid, we have medical insurance.

1029
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:14,600
Speaker 5: If I die, set me on fire, I ain't gonna know.

1030
00:42:16,960 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 5: I am going for experiences, ladies. I'm going for this

1031
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 5: makes me happy, This lets me be me. If you

1032
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:25,799
Speaker 5: ain't on the boat, get the fuck off the boat

1033
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 5: so we can make room for people on the boat

1034
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:29,600
Speaker 5: who want to fucking do what I said, fucking do.

1035
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:36,680
Speaker 1: Okay, And so I was just gonna do oh.

1036
00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:38,560
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, were you gonna answer her question

1037
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:39,920
Speaker 2: on any of the dates for Oh?

1038
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:42,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, for the dates, Like, seriously, you just have

1039
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:44,880
Speaker 5: to bump it up a little bit more. It's skill bratting,

1040
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:48,120
Speaker 5: but it's bretting until eventually you brought your way to

1041
00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:51,839
Speaker 5: the top. Literally, you're not hyper aggressive. You just give

1042
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:54,360
Speaker 5: the tone like, okay, we're gonna have a conversation. I

1043
00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:56,800
Speaker 5: want you to be subby you and I'm gonna be daddy.

1044
00:42:56,800 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 5: I should have brought my I could be your father

1045
00:42:58,120 --> 00:43:01,319
Speaker 5: figure t shirt. It literally says I could be your

1046
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:01,759
Speaker 5: father figure.

1047
00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:02,239
Speaker 1: I have an archie.

1048
00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:03,319
Speaker 6: That's just a tip.

1049
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:06,399
Speaker 1: I always want more. She only want just the tip

1050
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:08,439
Speaker 1: in her ass. But I want more than the tip

1051
00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:09,160
Speaker 1: I said I have.

1052
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:12,839
Speaker 5: Had. I wish you were coming to the Layer party

1053
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:15,520
Speaker 5: tonight because I would introduce you to my boys, Sweat Jade.

1054
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:16,839
Speaker 5: What's it called the layer?

1055
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:18,440
Speaker 1: Why? What Auric? Let me come?

1056
00:43:19,440 --> 00:43:20,760
Speaker 6: What so you can go stand in the square?

1057
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:24,320
Speaker 1: Oh no, so you could be a little, a little

1058
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 1: I'm down to go with us.

1059
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 6: I'm down to go lady for y'all to get in.

1060
00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:31,880
Speaker 1: I'll get you, okay. So what's it like? Tell me,

1061
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:32,360
Speaker 1: tell me, tell me.

1062
00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:35,600
Speaker 2: You gotta let her finish these dates for the people.

1063
00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:39,080
Speaker 2: He is kicking, I know, but we are trying to

1064
00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:40,600
Speaker 2: get some tips for the audience.

1065
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:42,120
Speaker 6: Wazy for the audience.

1066
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:45,480
Speaker 5: Remember, if you think, just like any other job, if

1067
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:47,360
Speaker 5: you're at the bottom, eventually you want to be at

1068
00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:49,239
Speaker 5: the top. Nobody wants to work in the mill room

1069
00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:49,879
Speaker 5: for fucking ever.

1070
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:51,720
Speaker 6: Brat your way to success.

1071
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:54,759
Speaker 5: Mm Like, no, daddy, I really don't feel like doing

1072
00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:56,720
Speaker 5: it right now. I'm sorry, my leg is tired.

1073
00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:59,880
Speaker 6: Outside of the square. Oh you want to get some

1074
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:01,920
Speaker 6: I don't know, you want to give me one?

1075
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:07,120
Speaker 5: Because as soon as you match that energy, that's when

1076
00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:10,480
Speaker 5: they start feeling that, like, oh, you want a little

1077
00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:11,480
Speaker 5: challenge Wolf today?

1078
00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:13,480
Speaker 6: I got you some challenge Wolf.

1079
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 5: And if you challenge Wolf enough back, you never know,

1080
00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:17,920
Speaker 5: you might end up checking his fucking oil with us

1081
00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:23,040
Speaker 5: to think good big egg, because sometimes that's what the fuck.

1082
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 5: It takes a lot, especially with I'm sorry. I love

1083
00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:29,479
Speaker 5: y'all brothers. I do y'all some fine motherfuckers, but god

1084
00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:31,680
Speaker 5: damn y'all hard hitted y'all want to try nothing new

1085
00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:34,480
Speaker 5: with lesson someplace to eat or someplace to go clubbing,

1086
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 5: Try something different sexually. You ain't got to do it

1087
00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:39,600
Speaker 5: for fucking ever. Just try something different.

1088
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:41,680
Speaker 1: I don't think it's bad to say that, though, don't.

1089
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 3: No, I don't think it's because we've already dug into

1090
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:46,040
Speaker 3: like our own troubles on why we're like this, right.

1091
00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:48,759
Speaker 3: It's also why I think we've talked about, you know,

1092
00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:50,759
Speaker 3: black women, Like one of my friends said to me, like,

1093
00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:53,040
Speaker 3: nobody sucks about dick like black girls, but everybody be

1094
00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:54,520
Speaker 3: thinking white girls and got the best head, right.

1095
00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:56,839
Speaker 4: And it's because because you see it the most, well,

1096
00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:58,160
Speaker 4: not see you fast.

1097
00:44:58,200 --> 00:45:00,480
Speaker 1: We're not supposed to be out here like this. It's

1098
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:01,000
Speaker 1: that whole.

1099
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:04,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, darling, I will suck your dick at the speed

1100
00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:05,960
Speaker 5: and equivalency of a Hooper vacuum.

1101
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:11,080
Speaker 6: You don't come at the end of this the end period.

1102
00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 1: I know that's right, And if you don't, we need.

1103
00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:15,759
Speaker 6: To start this motherfucker back up, kick tars and light

1104
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:16,200
Speaker 6: the fires.

1105
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:20,720
Speaker 1: Let's go now.

1106
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:24,600
Speaker 2: I wanted to ask you if, in this position in

1107
00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:27,560
Speaker 2: the bedroom, bringing yourself maybe all the way back to

1108
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:30,239
Speaker 2: when you first started having sex, did you feel the

1109
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:34,440
Speaker 2: need to be a dom specifically, because I don't know

1110
00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:36,400
Speaker 2: if y'all can see if you're not watching on YouTube,

1111
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:38,400
Speaker 2: you came in and you're about six five in these

1112
00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:41,279
Speaker 2: hills you said you're six to three without them, you

1113
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:45,080
Speaker 2: have a dominant personality. Did you feel like that was

1114
00:45:45,120 --> 00:45:47,440
Speaker 2: something that was almost had to be.

1115
00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:49,120
Speaker 1: You in the bedroom, you know, what.

1116
00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 5: Just in case y'all haven't heard my backstory, let me

1117
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:54,200
Speaker 5: give you a quick please. I started this when I

1118
00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:56,520
Speaker 5: was twenty, back in Chicago. I went to a place.

1119
00:45:56,600 --> 00:45:57,719
Speaker 5: This is the kind of show. I can tell the

1120
00:45:57,719 --> 00:46:00,080
Speaker 5: whole story. I went to do a party for the

1121
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:02,440
Speaker 5: company I was working for. She was a dominatrix. She

1122
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:04,799
Speaker 5: wanted all that whales and whistles. We got everything for

1123
00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:07,720
Speaker 5: I kept coming back to that club because every third

1124
00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 5: Thursday they would have like BDSM night before the regular

1125
00:46:11,200 --> 00:46:13,440
Speaker 5: people come in and spend like fifty million dollars on drinks.

1126
00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:16,839
Speaker 5: They would indulge the people. And I went into one

1127
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:18,400
Speaker 5: of the smaller rooms, kind of like this, maybe a

1128
00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:20,360
Speaker 5: little bit bigger, and it had a strip pole, a

1129
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:22,920
Speaker 5: little tiny stage, had a couple of couches, and it

1130
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:25,640
Speaker 5: was meant for like dudes have private shows, like oh baby,

1131
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:28,520
Speaker 5: get up there and do a little polework. And these

1132
00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:31,760
Speaker 5: two black men come in with this white woman basically

1133
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:34,719
Speaker 5: on a leash wrapped by her wrist, and she's butt

1134
00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:37,320
Speaker 5: fucking naked. They hang her from one of the suspension

1135
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:38,880
Speaker 5: loops that I now know is a suspension loop at

1136
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:41,600
Speaker 5: a hard point in the ceiling. And I'm talking about

1137
00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:44,920
Speaker 5: legs up rocky fucker one from the front, one from.

1138
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:45,480
Speaker 1: The back DP.

1139
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:50,080
Speaker 5: I am coming from Mississippi. I had just turned twenty.

1140
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:53,200
Speaker 5: I just left job Corps for Christ fund sakes. I

1141
00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:54,919
Speaker 5: had hied up because the first thing my mama said

1142
00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:56,759
Speaker 5: when I left was like, girl, don't get you at

1143
00:46:56,880 --> 00:46:58,680
Speaker 5: Chicago and do something stupid where me and your daddy

1144
00:46:58,680 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 5: had to come back.

1145
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:01,120
Speaker 6: And get you. And I was like, no, Mama, I

1146
00:47:01,160 --> 00:47:02,640
Speaker 6: won't what the fuck I do.

1147
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:06,800
Speaker 5: And even after I thought I saw a sexual assault

1148
00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:09,560
Speaker 5: because I'm from Mississippi and black folks don't get involved

1149
00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:10,480
Speaker 5: in white people shit.

1150
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:11,080
Speaker 6: Is that shit?

1151
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:16,680
Speaker 5: And I fucking still kept coming back to that because

1152
00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:18,440
Speaker 5: somewhere jep Us Oude of my dumb ass had I

1153
00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:20,120
Speaker 5: was like, oh my god, that was horrible.

1154
00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:20,919
Speaker 6: It's kind of hot.

1155
00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:24,080
Speaker 5: And then eventually the guy who would end up becoming

1156
00:47:24,120 --> 00:47:27,960
Speaker 5: my master because I used to be a contracted sub

1157
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:31,239
Speaker 5: in his household. Wow to contracted sub. He gave me

1158
00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:33,480
Speaker 5: money to live in his bad ass motherfucking house and

1159
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 5: learn to take an ass whooping because I'm good with

1160
00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:40,360
Speaker 5: physical fucking pain, because I will mentally blake the fuck out. Wow,

1161
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:43,200
Speaker 5: I've been tied up and use this furniture before. I've

1162
00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:45,520
Speaker 5: been used as a chair in a poker game. I've

1163
00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:47,400
Speaker 5: been tied up with three other girls to make their

1164
00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:51,400
Speaker 5: own version of like a multi dimensional fucking base and

1165
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:53,960
Speaker 5: or lamp. They would put actual lamp fixtures and the

1166
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:55,280
Speaker 5: cords in between our backs.

1167
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:57,200
Speaker 2: Now you're you don't do that anymore? But is it

1168
00:47:57,200 --> 00:47:59,879
Speaker 2: because did you? Did you not get stimulation from being

1169
00:47:59,880 --> 00:48:01,560
Speaker 2: a sub the same way you do as a dom

1170
00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:05,600
Speaker 2: He'll know, Okay, okay, I'm not a submissive person by nature.

1171
00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:06,880
Speaker 2: For money, I was.

1172
00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:10,040
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm twenty years old living in Chicago, bitch. Yes,

1173
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:11,520
Speaker 5: I will take this three fifty a week and go

1174
00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 5: pick up your motherfucking personal lives of fucking underwear from

1175
00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:17,920
Speaker 5: over at three fifty. I think the underground all over

1176
00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:20,480
Speaker 5: there was a three fifty Orleans or Yeah, I think

1177
00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:23,120
Speaker 5: it was. I go pick up this man's underwear. He

1178
00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:25,359
Speaker 5: was like a little tiny white Truman Capodi. His mama

1179
00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:27,359
Speaker 5: left him ass load of money after World War Two,

1180
00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 5: him and his swim brother, and then the brother passed

1181
00:48:29,120 --> 00:48:30,799
Speaker 5: away and he had all the money and more money.

1182
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:32,240
Speaker 6: He was staying out in Cicero.

1183
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:33,600
Speaker 1: Y'all, you ever been in Cicero.

1184
00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:34,279
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1185
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:36,040
Speaker 1: Oh wait, I do know what that said. That's where

1186
00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:37,640
Speaker 1: all the fans of rich white people stay out, and

1187
00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:40,320
Speaker 1: that's where I did my training when I got hired.

1188
00:48:40,920 --> 00:48:44,120
Speaker 5: It's like about an hour outside of Chicago, and it's

1189
00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:46,200
Speaker 5: like we're all that's where all the white people.

1190
00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:50,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I did want So then would you say you

1191
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:53,960
Speaker 2: learned what you enjoyed in the bedroom by seeing what

1192
00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 2: you did enjoy that you.

1193
00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:59,400
Speaker 1: Didn't John, I want to do what you do. Oh.

1194
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:03,040
Speaker 5: I one day got up from getting flogged like a

1195
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:05,320
Speaker 5: motherfucker and I was like, it's cool and everything, but

1196
00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 5: I can't do what you're doing. And he was like, well, darling,

1197
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:10,840
Speaker 5: you can't learn to do what I'm doing until you

1198
00:49:10,960 --> 00:49:12,520
Speaker 5: walked a midle in the other person's shoes. Like, get

1199
00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:14,200
Speaker 5: your ass back up on that fucking horse and let's

1200
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:16,400
Speaker 5: finish what we started. And at the end of that

1201
00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 5: we had a conversation. He put me in his MINT program,

1202
00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:22,520
Speaker 5: which was the mistress and Training program, and I kept

1203
00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:24,839
Speaker 5: in a buck with him. I'm brown and I don't

1204
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:26,319
Speaker 5: think anybody's going to be into this, and he was like,

1205
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:27,640
Speaker 5: you'd be surprised what people are into.

1206
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 4: So Basically it came from you being this up much

1207
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:30,960
Speaker 4: like I just asked you right now.

1208
00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:32,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, so that's why I was saying. It's not that

1209
00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:37,480
Speaker 5: you have no hope, it's just a but we aren't

1210
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:41,000
Speaker 5: want to be honest. Just talking to you watching former episodes,

1211
00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:45,080
Speaker 5: you suby, you know, yes you are. You are very dominant.

1212
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:48,360
Speaker 5: You're dominant with women. You want to be in control

1213
00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:51,640
Speaker 5: because you like being the top. But when you with dudes,

1214
00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:53,520
Speaker 5: you get the softer side of seis.

1215
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:57,640
Speaker 3: With that through bisexuality too, and there's nothing wrong with that.

1216
00:49:57,640 --> 00:49:58,760
Speaker 6: That's where you're a switch.

1217
00:49:59,200 --> 00:49:59,840
Speaker 1: You subbed to.

1218
00:49:59,880 --> 00:50:02,480
Speaker 6: Me and you dominate women. Why is that so hard done?

1219
00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:06,200
Speaker 2: And I'm the opposite. I can't doumb a woman. I

1220
00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:09,279
Speaker 2: told you, I haven't stopped a woman ever. I've been

1221
00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:11,319
Speaker 2: stopped by a woman. I've only struck men. And then

1222
00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:13,600
Speaker 2: when it comes to being with a woman, I like

1223
00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:16,200
Speaker 2: pleasing them, but I don't want to feel like I'm

1224
00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:18,160
Speaker 2: convincing them to be with me, so I kind of

1225
00:50:18,200 --> 00:50:20,200
Speaker 2: wait to see if it's a vibe and then it's

1226
00:50:20,239 --> 00:50:22,799
Speaker 2: on and potments. But yeah, I like, I mean, okay,

1227
00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:24,239
Speaker 2: I guess it's just conn But.

1228
00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:25,680
Speaker 3: You know you're making me think, like, make me a

1229
00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:28,440
Speaker 3: good thing for me to start with. Okay, so you know,

1230
00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:31,080
Speaker 3: we landed in Vegas and we're all excited, and.

1231
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:32,520
Speaker 2: I'm man, I came here thinking I was gonna suck

1232
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:34,719
Speaker 2: a porn starry nigga, woke up and wipe think.

1233
00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:37,120
Speaker 1: I'm like, fuck maybe you yes?

1234
00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:41,040
Speaker 4: So he was like yo this ship, making me like

1235
00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:41,719
Speaker 4: I'm in the move.

1236
00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:43,640
Speaker 3: I'm like, yeo, we should pay for some pussy, like

1237
00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:46,080
Speaker 3: the like, sure we get some, but I want to

1238
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:46,760
Speaker 3: pay for some pussy.

1239
00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:48,000
Speaker 1: Let's just let's pick a bitch out there.

1240
00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:50,920
Speaker 6: We sity you escorts want you know, hell hen he

1241
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:51,279
Speaker 6: likes to.

1242
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:55,000
Speaker 3: So we're talking about it, and now I'm thinking, what

1243
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:58,719
Speaker 3: if I did like a force fuck situation, like I

1244
00:50:58,840 --> 00:51:01,440
Speaker 3: was the dom that made him watch me fuck her,

1245
00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:03,600
Speaker 3: then I'm like forcing him to fuck me. He is

1246
00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:05,719
Speaker 3: to get his face sit on, maybe like he can't come.

1247
00:51:05,760 --> 00:51:07,960
Speaker 3: I feel like that might be a good entry away

1248
00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:10,240
Speaker 3: for me because I'm actually able to be a domb

1249
00:51:10,560 --> 00:51:11,200
Speaker 3: with women.

1250
00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:13,439
Speaker 1: So I'll probably feel.

1251
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:15,880
Speaker 5: But see if he has any common sense, he'll realize

1252
00:51:15,880 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 5: it just as quick as I did because he's been

1253
00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:18,799
Speaker 5: fucking you for a second. Now I just met you

1254
00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:22,440
Speaker 5: today and I figured that out. Find out what that

1255
00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:25,480
Speaker 5: you are dominant with women and submissive to me. Oh,

1256
00:51:25,560 --> 00:51:27,960
Speaker 5: I'm saying a starter a starter kit for you.

1257
00:51:28,080 --> 00:51:30,000
Speaker 6: Yes, but if he has any common sense and he

1258
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:30,879
Speaker 6: can read you the same way.

1259
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:33,800
Speaker 1: You're not gonna make You're not gonna do your girls only.

1260
00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:35,719
Speaker 6: Yeah, I let her do it to me. She's gonna

1261
00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:36,480
Speaker 6: be half assed with it.

1262
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:38,000
Speaker 1: But you make him like watch on the couch at

1263
00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:38,239
Speaker 1: that time.

1264
00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:38,520
Speaker 5: Up.

1265
00:51:38,520 --> 00:51:39,640
Speaker 1: That's a good start.

1266
00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:46,520
Speaker 3: You've brought this my brain the way it works like

1267
00:51:47,200 --> 00:51:49,120
Speaker 3: And I know people hate then that I talk like

1268
00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:50,839
Speaker 3: this sometimes because it seems arrogant, but like, I get

1269
00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:53,120
Speaker 3: whatever I want. So when there's things that are hard

1270
00:51:53,120 --> 00:51:55,400
Speaker 3: for me to attain, I have to figure out how

1271
00:51:55,400 --> 00:51:58,719
Speaker 3: I'm gonna do it. And right now is dominating this.

1272
00:51:58,680 --> 00:51:59,960
Speaker 1: African Oh my god.

1273
00:52:00,560 --> 00:52:03,000
Speaker 2: Well, we haven't got into homemail and a lot of

1274
00:52:03,040 --> 00:52:05,279
Speaker 2: episodes in this one. I want to make sure we

1275
00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:06,920
Speaker 2: get to because I think you could have us just

1276
00:52:06,960 --> 00:52:10,160
Speaker 2: a little bit because it's BDSM MENI so if you

1277
00:52:10,200 --> 00:52:12,080
Speaker 2: can help me. By the way, if y'all haven't yet,

1278
00:52:12,080 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 2: make sure you send us your home mail. That's horrible

1279
00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:16,000
Speaker 2: decisions at gmail dot com.

1280
00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:18,560
Speaker 1: Hi, me and Neo WEEZI. I just want to hear.

1281
00:52:18,400 --> 00:52:21,040
Speaker 2: Your thoughts on this. Should I be concerned and stop

1282
00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:25,440
Speaker 2: fucking my ex? Through a DM conversation, I actually learned

1283
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:29,440
Speaker 2: that my exes into BDSM. It started with him commenting

1284
00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:32,360
Speaker 2: on pics of gingerbread cookies I made. He told me

1285
00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:34,360
Speaker 2: he was making some cookies too, and then sent me

1286
00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 2: a meme of a gingerbread man in BDSM gear. Now

1287
00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:41,360
Speaker 2: I've seen you one by the way. The caption said

1288
00:52:41,760 --> 00:52:43,640
Speaker 2: why I'm not allowed to make cookies for the church?

1289
00:52:43,680 --> 00:52:47,799
Speaker 2: Bak and said no more. I laughed and then said, well,

1290
00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:50,960
Speaker 2: that's someone's favorite flavor. He then asked me if I

1291
00:52:51,000 --> 00:52:53,960
Speaker 2: could be if it could be my new favorite. At

1292
00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:55,880
Speaker 2: first I just took it as a joke, but what

1293
00:52:55,960 --> 00:52:58,080
Speaker 2: if you was serious? So I asked him if he

1294
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:01,080
Speaker 2: was into BDSM and he said he dabbled in it.

1295
00:53:01,719 --> 00:53:04,640
Speaker 2: I think dabble was a wrong word to say, because

1296
00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:08,880
Speaker 2: he later said he had constraints and blindfolds. I was

1297
00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:11,080
Speaker 2: shocked because when we were together about two years ago,

1298
00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:13,040
Speaker 2: and we were together for a year and a half,

1299
00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:15,160
Speaker 2: I didn't see any sign of this, and he didn't

1300
00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:17,759
Speaker 2: tell me that he was into BDSM. I encouraged us

1301
00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:19,840
Speaker 2: to have a conversation about sex because I lost my

1302
00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:22,439
Speaker 2: virginity to him. I was twenty nine and I wanted

1303
00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:24,640
Speaker 2: to have a great sex life and learn more. He

1304
00:53:24,680 --> 00:53:27,840
Speaker 2: asked me if he should bring the restraints and handcuffs

1305
00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:30,880
Speaker 2: over and I said yes. I was always curious about BDSM,

1306
00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:33,560
Speaker 2: but I was afraid to try it. The first time

1307
00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:35,839
Speaker 2: we tried it, it was fun. I came so hard

1308
00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:38,839
Speaker 2: and had the best orgasms from fucking him, from him

1309
00:53:38,840 --> 00:53:42,640
Speaker 2: fucking me and the restraints, fingering me and spanking me

1310
00:53:42,719 --> 00:53:45,359
Speaker 2: while I was handcuffed. When he finished, I asked him

1311
00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:47,960
Speaker 2: how long he was into BDSM and he actually said

1312
00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:50,640
Speaker 2: a long time. It's the type of porn he watches,

1313
00:53:50,760 --> 00:53:53,920
Speaker 2: and he incorporates it into the bedroom depending on the partner.

1314
00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:55,120
Speaker 1: I asked him why he.

1315
00:53:55,120 --> 00:53:57,520
Speaker 2: Didn't tell me when we were together. Was it because

1316
00:53:57,719 --> 00:54:00,040
Speaker 2: he was my first sexual partner? Was it because he

1317
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:02,919
Speaker 2: didn't believe I could handle it? And honestly, I don't

1318
00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:04,879
Speaker 2: know if I would accept the answer. I don't want

1319
00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:07,560
Speaker 2: to believe that I'm that boring, but if that was

1320
00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:10,000
Speaker 2: his answer, I would like it to be fair. He

1321
00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:12,040
Speaker 2: told me that's not it and doesn't know why he

1322
00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:14,360
Speaker 2: didn't tell me. I could tell this wasn't going to

1323
00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:16,680
Speaker 2: get anywhere, and I was starting to feel frustrated and

1324
00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:19,080
Speaker 2: wondered if I should fight, But I realized he's not

1325
00:54:19,160 --> 00:54:19,840
Speaker 2: my man anymore.

1326
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:22,200
Speaker 1: However we fuck, it's not my problem.

1327
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:25,440
Speaker 2: So all I said was that he should have told me,

1328
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:28,040
Speaker 2: and that it's weird he didn't tell me. If he

1329
00:54:28,080 --> 00:54:30,840
Speaker 2: would have told me, we could have been doing some

1330
00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:33,840
Speaker 2: wilder shit by now. He agreed, but he didn't apologize.

1331
00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:36,439
Speaker 2: We are still looking up and this conversation was around

1332
00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:39,200
Speaker 2: the beginning of December. I'm enjoying the sex we're having,

1333
00:54:39,440 --> 00:54:42,080
Speaker 2: but I sometimes wonder if I should continue. He's not

1334
00:54:42,120 --> 00:54:45,759
Speaker 2: telling me things yet his not telling me things or

1335
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:48,040
Speaker 2: me having to pry information out of him is a

1336
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:50,279
Speaker 2: big reason why we broke up. To begin with, what

1337
00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:53,319
Speaker 2: do you think I should do? Sincerely, Angelina, and I

1338
00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:55,920
Speaker 2: do want to start off with this, maybe even leaning

1339
00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:59,040
Speaker 2: to why do you feel like some people don't share

1340
00:54:59,280 --> 00:54:59,960
Speaker 2: with their partner?

1341
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:03,200
Speaker 1: Is that they're into these things in the bedroom? Bless you,

1342
00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:03,879
Speaker 1: bless you.

1343
00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:09,120
Speaker 5: Lay posts this in a different sense, Yeah, that people

1344
00:55:09,160 --> 00:55:11,399
Speaker 5: can understand that like kind of let like sin is sin.

1345
00:55:11,480 --> 00:55:13,120
Speaker 5: You can't be picking which one is the worst than

1346
00:55:13,120 --> 00:55:15,040
Speaker 5: the two. A you go somebody, They didn't tell you.

1347
00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:16,440
Speaker 5: They didn't pay the light bill until the lights got

1348
00:55:16,480 --> 00:55:17,480
Speaker 5: cut off while you was in the house.

1349
00:55:18,080 --> 00:55:19,840
Speaker 1: Hmm, okay, I.

1350
00:55:21,360 --> 00:55:22,920
Speaker 5: Think you would want to come over to the fucking

1351
00:55:22,920 --> 00:55:25,000
Speaker 5: house if you knew the lights might get cut off.

1352
00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:26,160
Speaker 1: Oh, and he's brown.

1353
00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:28,759
Speaker 5: He didn't want to tell you because nine times out

1354
00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:31,120
Speaker 5: of ten he might have. You might have thought, oh,

1355
00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:32,600
Speaker 5: fucking around with a bunch of white girls, and this

1356
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:33,880
Speaker 5: some white girls. Should you didn't pick this up in

1357
00:55:33,880 --> 00:55:37,760
Speaker 5: white folks. Oh, he might not have told you because

1358
00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:40,120
Speaker 5: he genuinely liked you and wanted you to stay. And like,

1359
00:55:40,160 --> 00:55:43,520
Speaker 5: sometimes we all have our own fucking secrets. Have you

1360
00:55:43,600 --> 00:55:45,800
Speaker 5: not kept a secret, big or small, for somebody because

1361
00:55:45,800 --> 00:55:49,240
Speaker 5: you thought judgmentally they would judge you like a fucking

1362
00:55:49,320 --> 00:55:52,360
Speaker 5: persian and gore a cat? Because they will. It's in

1363
00:55:52,480 --> 00:55:55,799
Speaker 5: our nature, it's what we do, is human beings. And

1364
00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:57,840
Speaker 5: it's kind of like when people say, don't overshare on

1365
00:55:57,840 --> 00:56:00,239
Speaker 5: a first date, but you should share that you do kids,

1366
00:56:00,239 --> 00:56:01,640
Speaker 5: but you shouldn't. Sare You've got like a whole house

1367
00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:05,880
Speaker 5: full of them, like garbage kids, so like so someone

1368
00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:07,600
Speaker 5: tells you that they have kids, but they don't tell

1369
00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:10,880
Speaker 5: you how many are they still lying to you? Or

1370
00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:13,080
Speaker 5: did they just not give you the whole story? If

1371
00:56:13,080 --> 00:56:14,879
Speaker 5: he didn't give her the whole story, like which did

1372
00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:17,759
Speaker 5: need to be two separate things? If it was him

1373
00:56:17,760 --> 00:56:20,520
Speaker 5: not telling you about him being in the BDSM, then yeah,

1374
00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:22,800
Speaker 5: that's kind of fucked up because that's a major relationship

1375
00:56:22,800 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 5: thing is eventually going to find its way into your bedroom.

1376
00:56:25,320 --> 00:56:29,160
Speaker 5: But other than that, like if he had told you,

1377
00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:30,200
Speaker 5: what was you going to do?

1378
00:56:30,360 --> 00:56:32,600
Speaker 4: I do think her energy invited maybe him not telling

1379
00:56:32,600 --> 00:56:33,120
Speaker 4: the truth, and.

1380
00:56:33,080 --> 00:56:34,600
Speaker 1: That's that's all I have to say.

1381
00:56:34,719 --> 00:56:35,560
Speaker 4: She was a virgin to hear.

1382
00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:37,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean you're a rgeon of twenty nine. What

1383
00:56:37,560 --> 00:56:38,600
Speaker 1: did you think he was gonna say?

1384
00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:40,200
Speaker 6: Ooh, can I tie you up today?

1385
00:56:40,239 --> 00:56:40,399
Speaker 5: Man?

1386
00:56:40,480 --> 00:56:42,360
Speaker 6: I knew this is your first time, but we were thinking.

1387
00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:45,359
Speaker 3: You know, and here's the thing too, if you are

1388
00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:48,840
Speaker 3: less sexually experienced than somebody, right and they're maybe not

1389
00:56:48,920 --> 00:56:51,400
Speaker 3: unleashing all their kinks on you, don't always take that.

1390
00:56:51,440 --> 00:56:52,920
Speaker 3: It's like, oh my god, maybe he's not that into me,

1391
00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:55,399
Speaker 3: or maybe what this is them taking their pace with you.

1392
00:56:55,760 --> 00:56:57,480
Speaker 3: I have done this so many times in my life.

1393
00:56:57,560 --> 00:56:59,560
Speaker 3: I actually just had a conversation that I want to

1394
00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:02,359
Speaker 3: bring up. Hog boy of mine said that he's been

1395
00:57:02,360 --> 00:57:04,120
Speaker 3: so turned off by this girl he's dating. He can't

1396
00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:08,239
Speaker 3: believe this happened. They were talking about early stages of masturbating,

1397
00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:09,400
Speaker 3: and he said, Oh, I told her, like me and

1398
00:57:09,440 --> 00:57:11,359
Speaker 3: my homeboys when we were kids, we would go watch

1399
00:57:11,400 --> 00:57:12,600
Speaker 3: the DVD or find the magazine.

1400
00:57:12,640 --> 00:57:14,279
Speaker 4: He's in his forties, so it's magazines, I think.

1401
00:57:14,560 --> 00:57:15,960
Speaker 3: And he was like, and we would like jerk off

1402
00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:18,200
Speaker 3: in the same room, and he said, and she was disgusted.

1403
00:57:18,480 --> 00:57:20,040
Speaker 3: For the whole week, she's been asking me if I'm gay.

1404
00:57:20,040 --> 00:57:22,240
Speaker 3: And he was like, they like, we're kids, Like we're

1405
00:57:22,320 --> 00:57:26,560
Speaker 3: learning our bodies. That small thing, he said. She literally

1406
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:29,200
Speaker 3: put her hands and was like, stop talking. I think

1407
00:57:29,240 --> 00:57:33,240
Speaker 3: that when you don't welcome somebody's excitements.

1408
00:57:33,640 --> 00:57:35,920
Speaker 6: It's an automatic turn off for the person it is.

1409
00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:37,280
Speaker 1: I've said this.

1410
00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:39,320
Speaker 2: I've said this to quite a bit of my friends,

1411
00:57:39,360 --> 00:57:42,520
Speaker 2: Like there's always a conversation about Dang Mandy, how you

1412
00:57:42,760 --> 00:57:44,600
Speaker 2: find all these black men that are so freaky, And

1413
00:57:44,640 --> 00:57:46,760
Speaker 2: I was like, they're probably no different than the men

1414
00:57:46,840 --> 00:57:48,040
Speaker 2: y'all are talking to you.

1415
00:57:48,160 --> 00:57:50,520
Speaker 1: Just first off, you'dne told him that you don't like

1416
00:57:50,560 --> 00:57:51,360
Speaker 1: the jail polish on.

1417
00:57:51,360 --> 00:57:53,560
Speaker 2: His nails because it's feminine. You told him you don't

1418
00:57:53,600 --> 00:57:57,440
Speaker 2: like how you hold the sport because it ain't masculine enough. No, no, no, no,

1419
00:57:57,480 --> 00:57:59,840
Speaker 2: I don't like jail polish. But I'm also very different

1420
00:57:59,840 --> 00:58:02,240
Speaker 2: in I'm gonna tell you very closely if we start

1421
00:58:02,280 --> 00:58:05,640
Speaker 2: to have if we're ready to have sex, that I

1422
00:58:05,640 --> 00:58:07,160
Speaker 2: probably want to get in your ass, or I'm going

1423
00:58:07,240 --> 00:58:09,160
Speaker 2: to tell you the things that I do, like they're

1424
00:58:09,400 --> 00:58:13,600
Speaker 2: very anti everything that may lean towards calling someone gay.

1425
00:58:13,800 --> 00:58:15,760
Speaker 2: I like a masculine man. That doesn't mean I don't

1426
00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:18,120
Speaker 2: want you mental overtaking my stride. So there's two different

1427
00:58:18,160 --> 00:58:21,440
Speaker 2: things like give you Yeah, you gotta be careful with words.

1428
00:58:21,440 --> 00:58:24,880
Speaker 2: So if you're automatically into calling things out about how

1429
00:58:24,880 --> 00:58:26,960
Speaker 2: they walk, or if they're telling you things that they've done,

1430
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:28,680
Speaker 2: and your response to it is.

1431
00:58:28,680 --> 00:58:31,040
Speaker 4: Like she lets you do that, that's what.

1432
00:58:30,960 --> 00:58:33,200
Speaker 2: You wentto like they could read it from body language,

1433
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:34,080
Speaker 2: from how you respond.

1434
00:58:34,120 --> 00:58:34,880
Speaker 1: It's all those things.

1435
00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:36,720
Speaker 5: If I have to see one more TikTok video of

1436
00:58:37,680 --> 00:58:41,880
Speaker 5: everything a brother could do and it's gay, oh everything

1437
00:58:41,920 --> 00:58:44,000
Speaker 5: is everything is good. Yeah, I'm like, Okay, I get it.

1438
00:58:44,000 --> 00:58:45,360
Speaker 5: The fingunail polish, it's a stretch.

1439
00:58:45,400 --> 00:58:48,800
Speaker 2: But to me saying that that's not gay, it's not gay, but.

1440
00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:52,160
Speaker 5: It's not wound it out on Tupac because he had

1441
00:58:52,240 --> 00:58:53,840
Speaker 5: nose ring, that's gay as ship.

1442
00:58:53,920 --> 00:58:55,600
Speaker 1: I've been watching. I mean, I was, I was seven

1443
00:58:55,640 --> 00:58:58,120
Speaker 1: back then. I'm sorry I wasn't around for the conversation.

1444
00:58:59,400 --> 00:59:03,920
Speaker 3: Everybody fits, we're gay as fuck, like crap tops and

1445
00:59:04,000 --> 00:59:06,720
Speaker 3: flat pants or tight pants and bright colors. And like

1446
00:59:06,880 --> 00:59:09,160
Speaker 3: even the way niggas was dancing and moving and shaking,

1447
00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:10,720
Speaker 3: it's like I want to know how much.

1448
00:59:11,240 --> 00:59:11,920
Speaker 1: To beat up.

1449
00:59:12,040 --> 00:59:14,160
Speaker 2: That's why I like them, Kappa's Baby when they be

1450
00:59:14,200 --> 00:59:16,280
Speaker 2: doing that little I like the little Baby.

1451
00:59:16,960 --> 00:59:18,600
Speaker 5: When I saw the woman who was like, I don't

1452
00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:20,200
Speaker 5: like a guy with loose hips. It makes you feel

1453
00:59:20,200 --> 00:59:23,040
Speaker 5: like they're doing he was doing the fucking Tyler song

1454
00:59:23,120 --> 00:59:26,080
Speaker 5: and he was like doing the whole grace row, and

1455
00:59:26,080 --> 00:59:28,320
Speaker 5: I'm like, damn, bro, I get it in the first

1456
00:59:28,360 --> 00:59:31,560
Speaker 5: fucking comment, ooh, niggas with loose hips.

1457
00:59:32,800 --> 00:59:34,520
Speaker 1: But something like that.

1458
00:59:34,640 --> 00:59:36,480
Speaker 2: So even something like that, if she's on a date

1459
00:59:36,560 --> 00:59:38,959
Speaker 2: and she just says that, now this man is gonna

1460
00:59:38,960 --> 00:59:41,000
Speaker 2: feel like he can't be my rapteen.

1461
00:59:40,640 --> 00:59:42,120
Speaker 6: Things I can't have a conversation with you.

1462
00:59:42,080 --> 00:59:45,400
Speaker 5: About literally literally, So you turn someone off like that,

1463
00:59:45,440 --> 00:59:47,440
Speaker 5: why would they share more of their experience of what

1464
00:59:47,520 --> 00:59:49,920
Speaker 5: makes them them If you've already basically said in passing

1465
00:59:49,960 --> 00:59:51,080
Speaker 5: random conversation that's just.

1466
00:59:51,120 --> 00:59:52,000
Speaker 1: Gay, have you?

1467
00:59:52,040 --> 00:59:55,480
Speaker 3: Can you tell us, just as rapping something maybe with

1468
00:59:55,520 --> 00:59:59,080
Speaker 3: your husband and you where I don't know you he

1469
00:59:59,160 --> 01:00:00,840
Speaker 3: felt or maybe shit with you, that you were such

1470
01:00:00,840 --> 01:00:03,000
Speaker 3: a safe space and where you think your sex work

1471
01:00:03,000 --> 01:00:04,560
Speaker 3: has come into play for that in the health of

1472
01:00:04,600 --> 01:00:05,320
Speaker 3: your relationship.

1473
01:00:05,560 --> 01:00:08,480
Speaker 5: I have, like I said, for these past two years,

1474
01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:11,680
Speaker 5: been hyper hyper aggressively sexual, but like I've always been

1475
01:00:11,720 --> 01:00:14,640
Speaker 5: sexually aggressive, and like things that I found out you

1476
01:00:14,760 --> 01:00:16,960
Speaker 5: got to ask my husband questions for you're trying to

1477
01:00:16,960 --> 01:00:19,560
Speaker 5: go wait for that dick because that shit h mm hmm,

1478
01:00:20,200 --> 01:00:22,600
Speaker 5: because I don't know what happened to him before I

1479
01:00:22,640 --> 01:00:25,960
Speaker 5: got him, but apparently that's not his face. So I

1480
01:00:26,000 --> 01:00:28,960
Speaker 5: have to like pick my spots, pick your battles, like, hey, baby,

1481
01:00:28,960 --> 01:00:29,920
Speaker 5: you're looking good, not.

1482
01:00:29,960 --> 01:00:32,320
Speaker 1: That shower, that's how.

1483
01:00:32,880 --> 01:00:34,680
Speaker 5: But there's things that you've learned about, but there's things

1484
01:00:34,720 --> 01:00:36,800
Speaker 5: I've learned about him, Like I can't be like give

1485
01:00:36,840 --> 01:00:39,240
Speaker 5: me that goddamn dick, because he will be.

1486
01:00:39,160 --> 01:00:40,120
Speaker 1: Like that is a turn off.

1487
01:00:40,160 --> 01:00:43,640
Speaker 6: I'm done going back to the PS five. What's his

1488
01:00:44,440 --> 01:00:45,440
Speaker 6: He's cancer, just like me?

1489
01:00:45,720 --> 01:00:48,640
Speaker 2: Interesting, this is the weirdest things.

1490
01:00:49,160 --> 01:00:53,280
Speaker 5: Now we're not doing the stars in the sky. But like, also,

1491
01:00:53,400 --> 01:00:55,720
Speaker 5: my husband is younger than me. This is the weird stuff.

1492
01:00:55,760 --> 01:00:56,480
Speaker 1: How many years?

1493
01:00:56,560 --> 01:00:56,880
Speaker 6: Seven?

1494
01:00:58,000 --> 01:01:01,360
Speaker 5: But also his mother is seven years old with me? Ooh,

1495
01:01:01,840 --> 01:01:04,520
Speaker 5: his dad is age.

1496
01:01:04,720 --> 01:01:05,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm gonna hold you.

1497
01:01:05,560 --> 01:01:08,200
Speaker 2: My ex was closer to my mom's age than my age.

1498
01:01:08,360 --> 01:01:10,680
Speaker 2: We were seventeen years apart. He was three years apart.

1499
01:01:10,560 --> 01:01:12,520
Speaker 6: From It's always weird when it's the other way around.

1500
01:01:12,720 --> 01:01:14,480
Speaker 5: Everybody's used to it being like a older man a

1501
01:01:14,520 --> 01:01:17,360
Speaker 5: young when you're doing like older woman younger man. Ooh,

1502
01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:20,760
Speaker 5: you're just trying to got him right off the tit again, bruh,

1503
01:01:20,840 --> 01:01:23,040
Speaker 5: still got milk behind his neck and his ears and

1504
01:01:23,080 --> 01:01:24,360
Speaker 5: nonder his nose and everything.

1505
01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:25,400
Speaker 1: Seven years, ain't that?

1506
01:01:26,280 --> 01:01:29,160
Speaker 5: Seven years doesn't seem that crazy until you were sixteen

1507
01:01:29,240 --> 01:01:31,760
Speaker 5: years ago. Yeah, until we go back to oh yeah,

1508
01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:36,040
Speaker 5: I was getting out of highchool when you were being made. Yeah,

1509
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:37,560
Speaker 5: that's when the conversations get kind of weird. But we

1510
01:01:37,600 --> 01:01:39,400
Speaker 5: found a way around it, like ha ha, that's fluddy.

1511
01:01:39,440 --> 01:01:40,480
Speaker 5: And he makes me feel sick.

1512
01:01:40,320 --> 01:01:41,800
Speaker 1: Because young man as adult and I'm like, yeah, you

1513
01:01:41,920 --> 01:01:42,720
Speaker 1: met as adult.

1514
01:01:42,480 --> 01:01:44,320
Speaker 5: We met as adult. I thought he was my age,

1515
01:01:44,360 --> 01:01:46,440
Speaker 5: he thought I was his age. I looked younger.

1516
01:01:46,600 --> 01:01:46,960
Speaker 6: I don't know.

1517
01:01:48,080 --> 01:01:52,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, uh, Drea thirty nine, Jason Green twenty one, and

1518
01:01:52,600 --> 01:01:54,200
Speaker 3: it looks like she's pregnant allegedly.

1519
01:01:54,280 --> 01:01:55,920
Speaker 1: How does That's what the blog is saying. How do

1520
01:01:56,040 --> 01:01:57,360
Speaker 1: you feel being.

1521
01:01:57,200 --> 01:01:59,600
Speaker 4: That your husband is seven years younger, which I again

1522
01:01:59,640 --> 01:02:00,360
Speaker 4: don't think that's.

1523
01:02:00,200 --> 01:02:02,800
Speaker 3: A lot, but yeah, how do you feel about the

1524
01:02:02,840 --> 01:02:04,920
Speaker 3: older younger dynamic and women and men?

1525
01:02:05,920 --> 01:02:08,640
Speaker 5: I'm here for it, like if I had to have

1526
01:02:08,680 --> 01:02:10,640
Speaker 5: one more auntie. Like they going out on Labrow. We're

1527
01:02:10,680 --> 01:02:12,760
Speaker 5: going to see like, oh, what was it they used

1528
01:02:12,760 --> 01:02:14,120
Speaker 5: to go to the cabaret shows back in the day.

1529
01:02:14,120 --> 01:02:15,520
Speaker 5: I don't know, y'all, said me.

1530
01:02:15,480 --> 01:02:16,960
Speaker 1: And my friend. I said, my friends the magic Mike

1531
01:02:16,960 --> 01:02:19,040
Speaker 1: out here. Okay, I can't wait to see No no no.

1532
01:02:20,160 --> 01:02:20,440
Speaker 6: I went.

1533
01:02:20,560 --> 01:02:22,920
Speaker 5: They thunder down undercame to Oklahoma, and I took some

1534
01:02:23,000 --> 01:02:24,840
Speaker 5: of my co workers with me and they were like, oh,

1535
01:02:24,920 --> 01:02:25,880
Speaker 5: here's some grandma.

1536
01:02:25,640 --> 01:02:27,560
Speaker 6: Standing in the oppertators with their SSI checks like.

1537
01:02:27,720 --> 01:02:30,800
Speaker 1: Come here, Junia, that's fun. It's fun.

1538
01:02:30,840 --> 01:02:33,040
Speaker 5: It was fun, and it was a fun experience when

1539
01:02:33,080 --> 01:02:36,439
Speaker 5: you have that what apparently a lot of people see

1540
01:02:36,480 --> 01:02:40,040
Speaker 5: is a power dynamic shift with older and younger. For me,

1541
01:02:40,400 --> 01:02:43,240
Speaker 5: it was the shift of like I'm having and learning

1542
01:02:43,440 --> 01:02:46,680
Speaker 5: have to redact myself a lot for him because things

1543
01:02:46,680 --> 01:02:49,400
Speaker 5: that I know he might not know, but he's cool

1544
01:02:49,440 --> 01:02:50,800
Speaker 5: with it. He doesn't ever while out like, you know,

1545
01:02:50,840 --> 01:02:53,200
Speaker 5: I don't know what the fuck they're talking about. He's like, oh,

1546
01:02:53,240 --> 01:02:55,240
Speaker 5: who's that hoodey? And then I just fell in the blanks.

1547
01:02:55,240 --> 01:02:58,240
Speaker 5: For he talks about somebody who raps mumbly and I

1548
01:02:58,360 --> 01:02:58,920
Speaker 5: have them.

1549
01:02:58,960 --> 01:03:01,800
Speaker 3: Like, Honestly, I think probably one of my favorite things

1550
01:03:01,840 --> 01:03:04,320
Speaker 3: I've heard someone say, because the thing that annoys me

1551
01:03:04,400 --> 01:03:06,320
Speaker 3: a lot is and I don't really do it, but

1552
01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:09,360
Speaker 3: sometimes I watch it like someone just doesn't know what

1553
01:03:09,400 --> 01:03:11,240
Speaker 3: you're talking about and they shun away from it, or

1554
01:03:11,360 --> 01:03:13,040
Speaker 3: just like are annoyed by it, or make you feel

1555
01:03:13,160 --> 01:03:15,320
Speaker 3: feel super old because now I'm getting to that age,

1556
01:03:15,320 --> 01:03:17,000
Speaker 3: which I'm sure you're laughing at me saying that, because

1557
01:03:17,000 --> 01:03:19,000
Speaker 3: I'm almost thirty three, but i.

1558
01:03:19,000 --> 01:03:20,840
Speaker 5: Amber thirty three years. A guy who used to buy

1559
01:03:20,840 --> 01:03:22,400
Speaker 5: my age equivalent in shoes back then.

1560
01:03:24,200 --> 01:03:27,160
Speaker 3: I feel like sometimes and now I'm that person that's

1561
01:03:27,160 --> 01:03:29,640
Speaker 3: saying something old, and I'm like, damn, it's just so annoying.

1562
01:03:29,680 --> 01:03:31,480
Speaker 3: Just shut the fuck up and listen, just like I'm

1563
01:03:31,480 --> 01:03:33,440
Speaker 3: gonna do to you, you know. And I think that

1564
01:03:33,800 --> 01:03:37,840
Speaker 3: in relationships, especially with the age dynamic, we don't want

1565
01:03:37,840 --> 01:03:39,640
Speaker 3: to hear about nothing from then or nothing from your

1566
01:03:39,640 --> 01:03:41,920
Speaker 3: bat Like that's just exploring each other's history.

1567
01:03:42,040 --> 01:03:44,439
Speaker 5: Like if you're not willing to deal with somebody else's past,

1568
01:03:44,480 --> 01:03:45,800
Speaker 5: what the fuck you think you about to build with

1569
01:03:45,840 --> 01:03:46,240
Speaker 5: the future?

1570
01:03:46,480 --> 01:03:47,640
Speaker 1: Mm? Hello?

1571
01:03:47,880 --> 01:03:52,520
Speaker 5: Like serious business? Like my husband is the plainest negro

1572
01:03:52,720 --> 01:03:56,280
Speaker 5: on the block. No kids, no arrests, no warrants, never

1573
01:03:56,320 --> 01:03:57,960
Speaker 5: seen the inside of a jail, Celle.

1574
01:03:57,760 --> 01:03:59,840
Speaker 1: What's wrong on them? That's the same thing I say.

1575
01:04:00,320 --> 01:04:00,920
Speaker 1: And guess what.

1576
01:04:01,160 --> 01:04:03,400
Speaker 5: I picked him up and he picked me up through

1577
01:04:03,480 --> 01:04:06,360
Speaker 5: a goddamn window at McDonald's. He was the fried guy,

1578
01:04:06,400 --> 01:04:08,520
Speaker 5: he sure the fuck was. And I was having a

1579
01:04:08,560 --> 01:04:10,840
Speaker 5: depressive moment while I was in cosmology school because I

1580
01:04:10,840 --> 01:04:12,760
Speaker 5: thought this wasn't gonna work the fuck out and pay

1581
01:04:12,800 --> 01:04:13,560
Speaker 5: all the bills.

1582
01:04:13,880 --> 01:04:16,840
Speaker 1: You met him and I was window putting.

1583
01:04:16,840 --> 01:04:19,240
Speaker 6: I met him when I was homeless.

1584
01:04:20,040 --> 01:04:21,800
Speaker 1: The dude that I was wit and we were living

1585
01:04:21,840 --> 01:04:22,880
Speaker 1: together with his mother.

1586
01:04:23,320 --> 01:04:26,080
Speaker 5: This this woman decided to tell him, oh, yeah, I'm

1587
01:04:26,120 --> 01:04:27,959
Speaker 5: not really your mom, I'm your grandma. And the lady

1588
01:04:28,000 --> 01:04:29,720
Speaker 5: that we've been telling you as your sister is actually

1589
01:04:29,800 --> 01:04:31,800
Speaker 5: your mother. And then he met the dope dude down

1590
01:04:31,840 --> 01:04:34,200
Speaker 5: the street named for lemon, named after the king in

1591
01:04:34,240 --> 01:04:37,320
Speaker 5: the fucking Bible, by the way, and that was starting

1592
01:04:37,400 --> 01:04:43,920
Speaker 5: sucking dick for cocaine, you know what, such a and

1593
01:04:44,040 --> 01:04:45,720
Speaker 5: I'm like, he's having a whole moment.

1594
01:04:45,800 --> 01:04:46,720
Speaker 1: I can't deal with this.

1595
01:04:46,840 --> 01:04:47,240
Speaker 6: I left.

1596
01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:49,640
Speaker 5: His sister was a fucking strip from my tires, got slashed.

1597
01:04:49,800 --> 01:04:51,960
Speaker 5: Nobody's bet an adult in any of these situations. We

1598
01:04:52,000 --> 01:04:53,720
Speaker 5: found out we had been playing dominoes with a dude

1599
01:04:53,760 --> 01:04:55,400
Speaker 5: off the first fucking forty eight who would like killed

1600
01:04:55,400 --> 01:04:56,880
Speaker 5: two people and set him off fire in their car.

1601
01:04:57,000 --> 01:04:58,320
Speaker 6: And I was like, this enough, and you.

1602
01:04:58,400 --> 01:05:02,240
Speaker 2: Found your king flipping fried at motherfucking McDonald's.

1603
01:05:02,320 --> 01:05:04,520
Speaker 5: He put his number on the back of my fucking

1604
01:05:04,520 --> 01:05:06,680
Speaker 5: receipt because I was having a depressed moment about everything

1605
01:05:06,680 --> 01:05:07,360
Speaker 5: that happened to me.

1606
01:05:07,400 --> 01:05:11,520
Speaker 1: And now I have made again, and.

1607
01:05:11,640 --> 01:05:13,560
Speaker 5: I am going to deal with this homelesseness.

1608
01:05:13,600 --> 01:05:15,960
Speaker 1: And I will be all right, and he was like.

1609
01:05:16,320 --> 01:05:17,760
Speaker 5: I put an extra burger in the bag for you

1610
01:05:17,840 --> 01:05:19,959
Speaker 5: because you And at the time, I had a pair

1611
01:05:20,040 --> 01:05:22,760
Speaker 5: of official cop because I was fucking an official cop

1612
01:05:23,000 --> 01:05:27,000
Speaker 5: fury handcuffs that were hanging from my rearview mirror, and

1613
01:05:27,040 --> 01:05:28,360
Speaker 5: he was like, what's up with the cuffs. I was like,

1614
01:05:28,360 --> 01:05:29,480
Speaker 5: if I told you I have to put them on you,

1615
01:05:29,560 --> 01:05:32,040
Speaker 5: I like balled out the damn park lot. I never

1616
01:05:32,080 --> 01:05:34,200
Speaker 5: looked at the receipt, so I never got his number.

1617
01:05:34,640 --> 01:05:36,480
Speaker 5: And the next time I came through and he had

1618
01:05:36,480 --> 01:05:40,040
Speaker 5: been bumped up from fried to the front window. He

1619
01:05:40,200 --> 01:05:42,240
Speaker 5: was like, you never called me and I was like,

1620
01:05:42,280 --> 01:05:44,400
Speaker 5: I didn't know I was fucking supposed to. And he

1621
01:05:44,440 --> 01:05:46,040
Speaker 5: was like, I put my number on your receipt. I

1622
01:05:46,080 --> 01:05:48,240
Speaker 5: was like, dude, I ate three fucking triple cheeseburgers. I

1623
01:05:48,280 --> 01:05:50,800
Speaker 5: was not looking at my fucking receipt. I'm sad the fuck.

1624
01:05:51,600 --> 01:05:53,760
Speaker 5: And he was like, well, i'd really like to take

1625
01:05:53,800 --> 01:05:55,800
Speaker 5: you out, wow. And I was like, you know what,

1626
01:05:55,880 --> 01:05:57,600
Speaker 5: I'd have been through, dope boys. I'd have been through

1627
01:05:57,680 --> 01:06:00,120
Speaker 5: dudes with money. I've been through so much, but they

1628
01:06:00,160 --> 01:06:02,480
Speaker 5: were just had me a regular ass dude like a

1629
01:06:02,520 --> 01:06:04,920
Speaker 5: regular dude working a regular job, ask me out on

1630
01:06:04,960 --> 01:06:07,360
Speaker 5: a regular date that probably won't end up in fucking

1631
01:06:08,120 --> 01:06:10,600
Speaker 5: and I was like, fuck it, I'll do anything once.

1632
01:06:10,960 --> 01:06:13,760
Speaker 5: I'm adventurous like that. And here I am, sixteen years later,

1633
01:06:13,840 --> 01:06:16,680
Speaker 5: still marriage the same dude. Why I asked him to

1634
01:06:16,760 --> 01:06:18,960
Speaker 5: marry me. I wasn't waiting on him to be like,

1635
01:06:19,000 --> 01:06:20,040
Speaker 5: let me give him courage up.

1636
01:06:22,600 --> 01:06:25,200
Speaker 1: How did you ask that? Did you get on one knee?

1637
01:06:25,480 --> 01:06:29,520
Speaker 1: Let me see this guest over here, so hold on,

1638
01:06:30,160 --> 01:06:33,520
Speaker 1: look she about to see it. The get guess what.

1639
01:06:37,120 --> 01:06:37,320
Speaker 3: Now?

1640
01:06:37,360 --> 01:06:38,800
Speaker 1: You was Christy and Jim Jones.

1641
01:06:38,840 --> 01:06:42,320
Speaker 2: Huh, yeah, I know how they're like, well, no, he

1642
01:06:42,320 --> 01:06:44,919
Speaker 2: clearly said I know you're looking at the clock, pitch

1643
01:06:45,040 --> 01:06:46,560
Speaker 2: and you know, and then you said taking.

1644
01:06:46,400 --> 01:06:51,800
Speaker 3: Different cocaine homeless that literally she said, I know my

1645
01:06:51,880 --> 01:06:52,360
Speaker 3: time is up.

1646
01:06:52,440 --> 01:06:55,040
Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all everything good. I'm proposted that, nigga.

1647
01:06:55,240 --> 01:06:58,560
Speaker 5: What because now just let y'all know now that we

1648
01:06:58,640 --> 01:07:01,240
Speaker 5: have just a little teeny mieny bit more time. I

1649
01:07:01,240 --> 01:07:04,320
Speaker 5: had been engaged five times before him, and I always

1650
01:07:04,360 --> 01:07:05,480
Speaker 5: run away bright on that shit.

1651
01:07:05,520 --> 01:07:06,440
Speaker 6: Let's see I was engaged.

1652
01:07:06,480 --> 01:07:07,720
Speaker 4: How old were you at that time that you would

1653
01:07:07,720 --> 01:07:08,840
Speaker 4: have been engaged five times.

1654
01:07:09,560 --> 01:07:14,000
Speaker 5: I met him when I was twenty nine. Okakay, so

1655
01:07:14,160 --> 01:07:17,120
Speaker 5: by twenty nine, I have been engaged five times to

1656
01:07:17,400 --> 01:07:20,760
Speaker 5: five individual men, all of them looking like us, the

1657
01:07:20,800 --> 01:07:22,960
Speaker 5: last one looking more like you because he was how yellows.

1658
01:07:22,640 --> 01:07:25,680
Speaker 1: All right, how yellow nigga, I just came back from Mexico.

1659
01:07:25,880 --> 01:07:28,360
Speaker 1: This is a tan baby. Okay, don't do that. It's

1660
01:07:28,360 --> 01:07:29,240
Speaker 1: the lighting. It's the lighting.

1661
01:07:29,360 --> 01:07:32,600
Speaker 5: Don't do this, don't do And then it was stretch you, like,

1662
01:07:32,640 --> 01:07:33,320
Speaker 5: are you the same color?

1663
01:07:33,400 --> 01:07:36,040
Speaker 3: I want to get cozy, bitch, I'm abod listen to this. Okay,

1664
01:07:36,200 --> 01:07:39,400
Speaker 3: So how long are you together? We were together for

1665
01:07:39,720 --> 01:07:41,640
Speaker 3: just a little bit over a year.

1666
01:07:41,760 --> 01:07:42,600
Speaker 4: That's kind of early.

1667
01:07:42,680 --> 01:07:44,560
Speaker 6: But okay, no, not really when you know what you want.

1668
01:07:44,600 --> 01:07:46,120
Speaker 4: No, No, I'm saying for like, in terms of people

1669
01:07:46,160 --> 01:07:47,280
Speaker 4: that are getting engaged.

1670
01:07:47,400 --> 01:07:50,120
Speaker 5: Not I've met people who have come to this raggedy

1671
01:07:50,160 --> 01:07:52,320
Speaker 5: ass fucking city, met each other at a hotel casino,

1672
01:07:52,320 --> 01:07:53,680
Speaker 5: and got married at by fucking night.

1673
01:07:53,760 --> 01:07:56,720
Speaker 3: My mom married her ex husband on the second day

1674
01:07:56,760 --> 01:07:57,600
Speaker 3: of them knowing each other.

1675
01:07:57,600 --> 01:07:58,720
Speaker 1: They were together seven years.

1676
01:07:58,760 --> 01:08:01,280
Speaker 3: But I do think in terms of like today, I

1677
01:08:01,280 --> 01:08:03,360
Speaker 3: don't really hear about people getting engaged in a year

1678
01:08:03,520 --> 01:08:06,320
Speaker 3: So in this year, what made you feel like you

1679
01:08:06,360 --> 01:08:08,120
Speaker 3: couldn't wait or wait for him?

1680
01:08:08,200 --> 01:08:10,920
Speaker 4: And also was there some shame from people that you

1681
01:08:11,080 --> 01:08:12,000
Speaker 4: cared about you around it?

1682
01:08:12,240 --> 01:08:14,880
Speaker 6: No, I didn't have any shame from my side. Its

1683
01:08:14,920 --> 01:08:17,800
Speaker 6: side though. Oh this old ass bitch coming in, she's

1684
01:08:17,840 --> 01:08:21,479
Speaker 6: gonna give you worms. That's what people were telling me

1685
01:08:21,560 --> 01:08:22,559
Speaker 6: in this South putting.

1686
01:08:22,560 --> 01:08:24,880
Speaker 5: That's his mama was telling she hated my motherfucking because

1687
01:08:24,880 --> 01:08:27,280
Speaker 5: he had been her extra free chick. You never heard

1688
01:08:27,320 --> 01:08:29,200
Speaker 5: that before. You fuck old women that'll give you worms

1689
01:08:29,280 --> 01:08:31,360
Speaker 5: or they'll bury you. Draws on the only.

1690
01:08:31,200 --> 01:08:32,760
Speaker 2: Thing I used to the only thing I used to

1691
01:08:32,760 --> 01:08:34,960
Speaker 2: hear about worms, And my mama used to tell it

1692
01:08:34,960 --> 01:08:37,200
Speaker 2: to me to not drink the beer because me and

1693
01:08:37,240 --> 01:08:39,480
Speaker 2: my sister used to sneak and like drink the spirntoffs

1694
01:08:39,520 --> 01:08:41,719
Speaker 2: and the MIC's Heart lemonade. So she used to start

1695
01:08:41,720 --> 01:08:43,680
Speaker 2: telling us, well, don't drink it, there's worms at the

1696
01:08:43,680 --> 01:08:44,360
Speaker 2: bottom of the beer.

1697
01:08:44,720 --> 01:08:47,120
Speaker 6: She tried to keep you out of her motherfucking drinks, that.

1698
01:08:47,160 --> 01:08:48,880
Speaker 2: Is, but that's what she That's the only thing I

1699
01:08:49,520 --> 01:08:51,000
Speaker 2: know exactly, But that's what she used to tell us

1700
01:08:51,000 --> 01:08:51,920
Speaker 2: to stay away from the beer.

1701
01:08:52,160 --> 01:08:55,280
Speaker 1: So how to propose? And we were know was it.

1702
01:08:57,160 --> 01:08:58,800
Speaker 5: We were sitting on the couch now at the time,

1703
01:08:58,840 --> 01:09:00,519
Speaker 5: I was doing nails and I had set up the

1704
01:09:00,560 --> 01:09:02,479
Speaker 5: master bedroom because they had on sweet bathroom and I

1705
01:09:02,479 --> 01:09:04,320
Speaker 5: turned it into my shop. We were sleeping in the

1706
01:09:04,320 --> 01:09:07,639
Speaker 5: guest bedroom. We were sitting on the couch. The dog's

1707
01:09:07,680 --> 01:09:10,519
Speaker 5: on the floor. She had just literally jumped across the

1708
01:09:10,560 --> 01:09:12,680
Speaker 5: couch and snatched a whole chicken breast that I just

1709
01:09:12,720 --> 01:09:14,240
Speaker 5: cooked for him. The head her on the part.

1710
01:09:14,160 --> 01:09:15,639
Speaker 6: And he was like, damn baby, this up. Damn good

1711
01:09:15,640 --> 01:09:16,320
Speaker 6: look at chicken breast.

1712
01:09:16,360 --> 01:09:18,880
Speaker 5: Dog comes over and runs out into the hallway and

1713
01:09:18,920 --> 01:09:20,599
Speaker 5: I was like, well, here goes an opportunity time.

1714
01:09:20,760 --> 01:09:22,639
Speaker 4: He was like, you just see this fucking dog take

1715
01:09:22,680 --> 01:09:23,759
Speaker 4: my whole piece of chicken.

1716
01:09:23,800 --> 01:09:26,439
Speaker 5: And I'm like, babe, but what about this fifteen ninety

1717
01:09:26,479 --> 01:09:28,679
Speaker 5: nine ring I got from the fucking shouting sack place

1718
01:09:28,960 --> 01:09:30,880
Speaker 5: at the corner store that's made a stainless steel.

1719
01:09:31,160 --> 01:09:32,440
Speaker 6: And I love you?

1720
01:09:32,479 --> 01:09:35,080
Speaker 5: Will you marry me? I didn't get down on no knee.

1721
01:09:35,120 --> 01:09:37,439
Speaker 5: I said, I like you, I love you. I would

1722
01:09:37,439 --> 01:09:40,080
Speaker 5: prefer not to share you with other people unless that's

1723
01:09:40,120 --> 01:09:41,880
Speaker 5: the agreement that we're coming to, But I want to

1724
01:09:41,920 --> 01:09:43,280
Speaker 5: be with you for the rest of my life because

1725
01:09:43,280 --> 01:09:45,479
Speaker 5: you cool like that and I appreciate you. And he's

1726
01:09:45,840 --> 01:09:49,120
Speaker 5: always been my biggest cheerleader. He's always been my grand

1727
01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:51,559
Speaker 5: stand fan and it's always going to be that way.

1728
01:09:51,640 --> 01:09:53,439
Speaker 5: And I was like, I'm never going to get another

1729
01:09:53,479 --> 01:09:54,960
Speaker 5: one of these. This is the one that I'm you

1730
01:09:55,000 --> 01:09:57,080
Speaker 5: know what, fuck it before I fucked this up?

1731
01:09:57,280 --> 01:10:00,479
Speaker 1: Will you marry me? Wow? I think we need to

1732
01:10:00,479 --> 01:10:01,920
Speaker 1: go to McDonald's.

1733
01:10:04,320 --> 01:10:06,679
Speaker 2: She's like, my friend got this's just me a dark.

1734
01:10:06,880 --> 01:10:09,800
Speaker 2: You were phenomenal. Please let everyone know where they could

1735
01:10:09,800 --> 01:10:11,599
Speaker 2: follow you, find you, support you.

1736
01:10:12,080 --> 01:10:12,919
Speaker 1: All the things.

1737
01:10:13,520 --> 01:10:15,920
Speaker 6: You can support me with cash. I love cash.

1738
01:10:16,200 --> 01:10:18,599
Speaker 5: But you can find me on my social media if

1739
01:10:18,640 --> 01:10:21,960
Speaker 5: it says just say red bitch pudding, any of that,

1740
01:10:21,960 --> 01:10:23,479
Speaker 5: that's how you find me on social media. Or you

1741
01:10:23,479 --> 01:10:25,599
Speaker 5: could just goo old fashioned google mistress me a dark

1742
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Speaker 5: spelt with a que at the end period.

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Speaker 1: All of that will be in the description of this episode.

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01:10:31,000 --> 01:10:31,760
Speaker 1: I am so.

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01:10:33,600 --> 01:10:35,800
Speaker 2: Hopped in and said you and I said, I like, hun,

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01:10:36,000 --> 01:10:37,639
Speaker 2: was that just off the pay Yes?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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01:10:38,200 --> 01:10:39,760
Speaker 1: When that person was like do you want your red balls?

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01:10:39,760 --> 01:10:43,880
Speaker 1: Like who's that sun? No? And I wasn't gonna answer

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01:10:43,880 --> 01:10:44,639
Speaker 1: for you. You see, I'm.

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01:10:44,520 --> 01:10:44,920
Speaker 6: Looked at you.

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01:10:44,960 --> 01:10:47,440
Speaker 3: I ain't no, okay, I wasn't even trying to be disrespectful,

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01:10:47,439 --> 01:10:48,360
Speaker 3: because you never know.

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01:10:48,479 --> 01:10:49,320
Speaker 6: When it comes down to that.

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01:10:49,320 --> 01:10:52,040
Speaker 5: I always people are always like, oh, there's Jay for

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01:10:52,200 --> 01:10:56,800
Speaker 5: Japanese housewife, because he'll either be off to my side

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01:10:56,800 --> 01:10:58,800
Speaker 5: and back a couple steps, or he'll be directly behind

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01:10:58,840 --> 01:11:00,600
Speaker 5: me a couple of steps. Either care anythings that I

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01:11:00,600 --> 01:11:02,840
Speaker 5: can't carry for myself and stuff like that. But Jay

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01:11:02,880 --> 01:11:04,800
Speaker 5: also knows that I'm the same person that bit off

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Speaker 5: every last one of these long ass fucking nails and

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01:11:06,560 --> 01:11:08,559
Speaker 5: changed out his head both his headlights too, so I

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01:11:08,600 --> 01:11:09,240
Speaker 5: know that's right.

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Speaker 3: All right, man, give me a You have been phenomenals

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01:11:13,120 --> 01:11:14,000
Speaker 3: and patreons do.

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Speaker 1: Y'all.

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Speaker 2: This has been yet another episode of Horrid Decisions.

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Speaker 1: A bye. It's funus bitches.

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01:11:25,240 --> 01:11:27,599
Speaker 4: Yes, welcome back for another episode.

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01:11:27,640 --> 01:11:30,280
Speaker 3: If you're currently listening to this episode and you can't

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Speaker 3: see us, just upgrade another five dollars.

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Speaker 1: No, it's another ten bad is another chune get.

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Speaker 3: Your money, but for another ten dollars you get full video,

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Speaker 3: you get our not so simple life episodes, or Mandy

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Speaker 3: and I are out in the world doing things together.

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01:11:42,760 --> 01:11:43,479
Speaker 1: It's a lot of fun.

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Speaker 3: You get our bts, you get access to town halls.

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Speaker 3: For another ten bucks, you get everything video. Five dollars

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Speaker 3: is our audio only platform.

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Speaker 1: So yep, here you go by the way too.

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Speaker 2: If you want to join us on our not so

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Speaker 2: simple life rendezvous or be a part of our town hall,

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Speaker 2: join those fifteen or twenty five dollars here and.

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01:12:01,200 --> 01:12:04,479
Speaker 1: Really get in with the tea. We get it to it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well it's another ketchup and mustard, just because y'all

1786
01:12:11,000 --> 01:12:13,320
Speaker 2: know and y'all will see. We've done a lot of recording.

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01:12:13,320 --> 01:12:16,080
Speaker 2: We did a lot of recording in January, like, so

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01:12:16,200 --> 01:12:18,240
Speaker 2: much recording. I don't even know how to fuck. I

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01:12:18,240 --> 01:12:20,640
Speaker 2: had a voice in January because.

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Speaker 1: They were really cool episodes.

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01:12:22,240 --> 01:12:24,640
Speaker 2: We like, we like recorded a lot and had some

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01:12:24,680 --> 01:12:25,519
Speaker 2: really dope guests.

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01:12:25,560 --> 01:12:27,240
Speaker 4: So Nicole Ki, I forgot about her.

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01:12:27,400 --> 01:12:30,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, we did Vegas. We did so many here. Then

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01:12:30,320 --> 01:12:33,679
Speaker 2: we went to La and filmed another four. Like, we

1796
01:12:34,400 --> 01:12:36,840
Speaker 2: shot a lot of content so here on Patreon, we

1797
01:12:36,960 --> 01:12:38,880
Speaker 2: like to keep y'all up to up to date, up

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01:12:38,880 --> 01:12:42,280
Speaker 2: to tea. And I shared on here already that I

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01:12:42,280 --> 01:12:45,040
Speaker 2: cut off twenty two year old, right, h I don't

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01:12:45,040 --> 01:12:47,160
Speaker 2: remember that, Okay, So I'm.

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01:12:46,960 --> 01:12:48,120
Speaker 1: Gonna be really quick with it.

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01:12:48,400 --> 01:12:52,840
Speaker 2: Well quick girl, because I just realized girl dating with

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01:12:52,880 --> 01:12:58,240
Speaker 2: standard sucks. This is raggedy. So got back from it

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01:12:58,320 --> 01:13:00,160
Speaker 2: might have been coming back from LA. I have one

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01:13:00,200 --> 01:13:02,400
Speaker 2: day here before I had to go to Florida. Yes,

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01:13:02,680 --> 01:13:06,720
Speaker 2: so one day here. So he hits me up and

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01:13:06,760 --> 01:13:09,720
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm gonna be in town tomorrow. Looked up

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01:13:10,560 --> 01:13:12,120
Speaker 2: what I know he does, and I'm like, oh, he's

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01:13:12,120 --> 01:13:12,800
Speaker 2: finna be in town.

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01:13:12,880 --> 01:13:14,760
Speaker 1: Okay, So I hit him up. Let him know I'm

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01:13:14,800 --> 01:13:15,439
Speaker 1: gonna be in town.

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01:13:15,680 --> 01:13:19,640
Speaker 2: But I had to get my nails done and then

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01:13:19,680 --> 01:13:21,240
Speaker 2: I would be free. I said, all I gotta do

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01:13:21,280 --> 01:13:23,280
Speaker 2: is pack into my nails. But I leave to Florida

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01:13:23,320 --> 01:13:27,160
Speaker 2: in the morning. And so we were like dinner and

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01:13:27,200 --> 01:13:30,360
Speaker 2: Dick and he laughed. He was like, bet dinner and Dick.

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Speaker 1: That is what it was supposed to be. It was

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01:13:32,160 --> 01:13:33,720
Speaker 1: supposed to be a double d night, right.

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01:13:34,520 --> 01:13:36,800
Speaker 2: So I get done with my nail Mind you, we

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01:13:36,840 --> 01:13:38,280
Speaker 2: make these plans at eleven am.

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01:13:39,680 --> 01:13:44,679
Speaker 1: Okay, it was already planned. What it was already planned.

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01:13:44,680 --> 01:13:47,200
Speaker 2: This is what we made plans. It's eleven am. So

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01:13:47,320 --> 01:13:49,080
Speaker 2: I go to get my nails done. I get my

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01:13:49,160 --> 01:13:51,640
Speaker 2: nails done in Brooklyn, and it's a process rested like

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01:13:51,760 --> 01:13:54,599
Speaker 2: a yeah, so I.

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01:13:54,560 --> 01:13:56,240
Speaker 1: Don't have to get that much ready. I just had

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01:13:56,240 --> 01:13:58,040
Speaker 1: to get my nails done. Nigga, excuse me. We don't

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01:13:58,080 --> 01:13:59,800
Speaker 1: have antal sex. It's great.

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01:14:00,000 --> 01:14:00,400
Speaker 6: I'm there.

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01:14:00,760 --> 01:14:03,920
Speaker 2: So I get done with my nails at five thirty

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01:14:04,000 --> 01:14:07,240
Speaker 2: six pm, and I'm in Brooklyn and he live in Brooklyn.

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01:14:07,439 --> 01:14:08,800
Speaker 1: So I'm like, okay, let me just.

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01:14:08,800 --> 01:14:10,519
Speaker 2: Hit them while i'm here, because then either I could

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01:14:10,520 --> 01:14:12,360
Speaker 2: just slide to his house or we could just find

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01:14:12,360 --> 01:14:17,360
Speaker 2: somewhere to eat in Brooklyn. Girl, I hit this nigga

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Speaker 2: and he's like, oh, my chef came and I didn't know.

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Speaker 2: So I'm full as hell. Sends me a picture five

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Speaker 2: thirty six. See, I'm glad you said. So this was

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01:14:32,200 --> 01:14:35,439
Speaker 2: my reaction. So he sends me his plate of it

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01:14:35,520 --> 01:14:37,120
Speaker 2: all demolished or whatever, and I'm just.

1841
01:14:37,040 --> 01:14:41,240
Speaker 1: Like, so, fuck the plans.

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01:14:41,320 --> 01:14:43,880
Speaker 2: Fuck that I may have been holding out to eat

1843
01:14:44,040 --> 01:14:46,679
Speaker 2: because we said we was gonna do dinner and fuck

1844
01:14:47,240 --> 01:14:47,880
Speaker 2: what the fuck.

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01:14:48,160 --> 01:14:50,680
Speaker 1: So literally I sit with it for a while and

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01:14:50,720 --> 01:14:51,679
Speaker 1: I'm like wow.

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01:14:52,640 --> 01:14:55,200
Speaker 2: So then I'm like, okay, well, if your chef is

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01:14:55,240 --> 01:14:59,240
Speaker 2: still there or maybe mind you, if we had plans

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01:14:59,280 --> 01:14:59,719
Speaker 2: for dinner.

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01:15:00,479 --> 01:15:02,240
Speaker 1: You could have easily just asked your chef to make

1851
01:15:02,280 --> 01:15:04,519
Speaker 1: it for two. Did you have a place that in

1852
01:15:04,800 --> 01:15:05,280
Speaker 1: set time?

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01:15:05,479 --> 01:15:07,479
Speaker 2: No, we just said dinner and Dick I told him

1854
01:15:07,479 --> 01:15:08,639
Speaker 2: I would hit it with my nails were done.

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01:15:08,680 --> 01:15:10,439
Speaker 1: It was spot thirty. We have plenty of time to

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01:15:10,479 --> 01:15:12,240
Speaker 1: find any restaurant to eat and cook.

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01:15:12,840 --> 01:15:17,120
Speaker 2: So I'm like, wow, well I'm in Brooklyn, Like, I

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01:15:17,120 --> 01:15:18,559
Speaker 2: don't know if she's still over there. I can come

1859
01:15:18,600 --> 01:15:21,400
Speaker 2: over there and Nika, you could, you know, have her

1860
01:15:21,400 --> 01:15:23,200
Speaker 2: cooked me a meal since that was the plan.

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01:15:24,040 --> 01:15:27,040
Speaker 1: And his response was no, I'm gonna just come to

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Speaker 1: your house.

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01:15:29,240 --> 01:15:31,439
Speaker 2: So I immediately responded, let me see if I show

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01:15:31,439 --> 01:15:35,519
Speaker 2: you mind you oh oh? And it was it was

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01:15:36,520 --> 01:15:37,920
Speaker 2: and was. I pretty much hit him with have a

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01:15:37,920 --> 01:15:42,640
Speaker 2: good life, so I said, I said, he said, my

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01:15:42,960 --> 01:15:45,599
Speaker 2: chef cook, I'm full ofs hell. I said, shake my head.

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01:15:45,640 --> 01:15:47,960
Speaker 2: See how you do me ain't even get an invite? Raggedy.

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01:15:48,479 --> 01:15:50,599
Speaker 2: It's cool, I can come there to me, I said,

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01:15:50,720 --> 01:15:53,280
Speaker 2: mm hmm, she said, And she was here when I

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01:15:53,320 --> 01:15:54,000
Speaker 2: got out of work.

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01:15:54,120 --> 01:15:56,880
Speaker 1: I said, m He said, what you doing that for? Lmao?

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01:15:57,400 --> 01:15:59,479
Speaker 2: And I literally just had to end it there. I said,

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01:15:59,560 --> 01:16:02,479
Speaker 2: don't worry, enjoy your night. I think I need a

1875
01:16:02,479 --> 01:16:05,360
Speaker 2: little bit more than drop off Dick. I'd like company

1876
01:16:05,760 --> 01:16:07,960
Speaker 2: and cuddles and just a little more than of what

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01:16:08,040 --> 01:16:10,280
Speaker 2: I think you're offering. I don't want to get locked

1878
01:16:10,320 --> 01:16:13,599
Speaker 2: into this type of cycle right now. Good luck with work,

1879
01:16:15,000 --> 01:16:17,880
Speaker 2: and his response not picking up any of the cues

1880
01:16:17,880 --> 01:16:21,040
Speaker 2: as to why I said this was lmao, all because

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01:16:21,080 --> 01:16:22,720
Speaker 2: I ate at the crib ribb