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Speaker 1: your favorite store. Second date updates. You know, there's a
Speaker 1: popular saying third times the charm. Yeah, And there's also
Speaker 1: another popular saying, three strikes You're out. Okay, it's good boy,
Speaker 1: and then Brooks always three sheets to the wind, three
Speaker 1: blind mice. There's there's a lot of sayings about three. Yeah,
Speaker 1: two's company, three's a crowd. Yeah, yeah. I don't know
Speaker 1: if three is a good number or a bad number.
Speaker 1: There is a lot of mixed messages here. I can't
Speaker 1: really tell. But for one of our listeners, Allison, she
Speaker 1: went out on three dates with a guy recently and
Speaker 1: now she's not getting a call back. Well, already she's
Speaker 1: breaking second date update rules. Well, we're gonna make an
Speaker 1: except for her, though, Alison, how you doing, I'm doing
Speaker 1: all right. Appreciate you taking the call though, with three dates.
Speaker 1: I appreciate that. Yeah, okay, all right, you sound kind
Speaker 1: of disappointed already. I don't know sad um no, no,
Speaker 1: I just I'm really hoping that you can help me
Speaker 1: out because I think this is a good one. I
Speaker 1: think this guy is really awesome. Okay, what's the name
Speaker 1: of this guy that you want us to call? His
Speaker 1: name's Russell Okay, And he's like really funny, but not
Speaker 1: in that doofy way or making fun of other people away.
Speaker 1: He just has like a really natural humor that I love,
Speaker 1: so kind of like me, oh yeah, exactly exactly, Like
Speaker 1: it's that unassuming funny sneaks up on that funny that
Speaker 1: you don't notice. Yeah, so where did you meet him?
Speaker 1: We actually met online and like it's been three dates,
Speaker 1: but it's been like two or three months because he
Speaker 1: has a crazy work schedule. Oh oh wow, it took
Speaker 1: you two or three months to go on three dates? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean he travels a lot for work, so it's
Speaker 1: hard for us to get the schedules together. And the
Speaker 1: first two days it was he seemed really eager to
Speaker 1: make the day and it didn't seem like he was
Speaker 1: being resistant. But after the third one, now I haven't
Speaker 1: been able to get him to call me back. So
Speaker 1: do we get to know what you guys did on
Speaker 1: any of these three dates. Yeah. Well, our last date,
Speaker 1: he took me to one of those wine and like
Speaker 1: vino and art places, you know, where you drink wine
Speaker 1: and you get to paint. Yeah, those places are cool.
Speaker 1: That's a good sign because that's a thoughtful date. If
Speaker 1: a guy just wants to hang out out, it's also
Speaker 1: like a couple's day. Yeah, exactly. That means he's probably
Speaker 1: more committed if he's willing to stay there for a
Speaker 1: couple hours and paint and drink, or he's just trying
Speaker 1: to impress you. Then doesn't really care about any of
Speaker 1: that stuff on the third date, like you're committed. That's
Speaker 1: a lot of time put into one person. But do
Speaker 1: you think that the third date is where everything changed?
Speaker 1: It sounds like yeah, I do, And I'm just trying
Speaker 1: to kind of decipher what happened. So I don't know
Speaker 1: if you've ever been to one of those. You know,
Speaker 1: you're drinking and everybody gets canvases, and then everybody's sort
Speaker 1: of copying this one piece of art and so we're
Speaker 1: all sitting around, we're doing our painting. It's going really well.
Speaker 1: And there was this guy who was just kind of
Speaker 1: off to my left a little bit, and he was
Speaker 1: a really good artist. I also did notice he was
Speaker 1: very attractive. Yeah, I mean he has a stulted body,
Speaker 1: more of a three D artist. No, no, listen, he
Speaker 1: really not, even as he was not as attractive his
Speaker 1: Russell Russell is really handsome. He's got this ruggedly handsome
Speaker 1: facial hair without looking like a bum. I'm totally into Russell. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm glad that you said that, because if he does
Speaker 1: listen back to this, he should at least hear that. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So was there an incident with hot guy to your left. Well,
Speaker 1: he seemed to be a really good artist, and I
Speaker 1: kind of started copying him a little and I just
Speaker 1: caught myself looking over there more and more at what
Speaker 1: he was doing. And there were a couple of times
Speaker 1: where Russell was talking to me and like he'd noticed
Speaker 1: me looking over there, and he'd stopped and he'd get
Speaker 1: kind of this weird look on his face, and I
Speaker 1: catched myself and it was just it was getting a
Speaker 1: little awkward because your eyes were actually on this guy's
Speaker 1: butt instead of his painting or No. I'm afraid though
Speaker 1: that Russell does thing. I was checking him out the
Speaker 1: whole time. Well, you know what they say, women can't
Speaker 1: resist a guy with a paint brush. Yeah, it's a guitar.
Speaker 1: Or maybe you're thinking of that's what I was thinking of. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, did he ever bring it up? Did he
Speaker 1: seem like a super jealous type of guy. No, he
Speaker 1: didn't bring it up. And I don't think that he is,
Speaker 1: because at the end of the day, things were a
Speaker 1: little bit awkward. But he kissed me good night, and
Speaker 1: things were in a good way, and I told him,
Speaker 1: you know that I wanted to see him some more,
Speaker 1: that I kind of I was sorry that he was
Speaker 1: going to be on the road again. And and I
Speaker 1: don't know if maybe that was it, like if he
Speaker 1: felt that was coming across too cleany. And did you
Speaker 1: guys make out at the end of the night or
Speaker 1: kiss or anything? Brooks, She already said that, Oh sorry, sorry,
Speaker 1: Brooke was distracted thinking about the other painters, butts or
Speaker 1: was it his big paint rush? Right? So is this
Speaker 1: the situation since you guys are dating for several months,
Speaker 1: are you only seeing him or are there other people
Speaker 1: in the picture here? As far as I know, it's
Speaker 1: just been the two of us because I mean, he's
Speaker 1: really really busy and I don't know if he's got time,
Speaker 1: but we haven't had like to sit down and okay,
Speaker 1: let's talk exclusivity. Huh. Okay, you guys are taking it
Speaker 1: really really a snails pace relationship, and you do take
Speaker 1: it very slow. You want to be sure when you
Speaker 1: make that commitment that it's gonna stay. You don't want
Speaker 1: to rush into I don't know. All I'm thinking is
Speaker 1: third date and you didn't go home with him? Like,
Speaker 1: what is going What is in your coffee cup today?
Speaker 1: Is there any wine in there? Like? You are out
Speaker 1: of sorts. I apologize for Brooks. Yeah, we're gonna we're
Speaker 1: gonna throw a brook into a shower and while we
Speaker 1: do that, we're gonna play a song. We'll come back
Speaker 1: and we'll try and get you your second date update. Okay, Alison,
Speaker 1: all right, thank you? All right? Hold on, Pablo Picasso,
Speaker 1: Michaelangelo Diego, I don't know who that is. Believe they're
Speaker 1: all world renowned painters, but more importantly, world renowned lovers.
Speaker 1: You know, Pica lover he was trust me and one
Speaker 1: of our listeners, Alison met her own sensual suave artist.
Speaker 1: His name is Hersel. I think said Russell Russell. Someone
Speaker 1: got stuck in my throat. But Russell, he's not He's
Speaker 1: not like a professional painter. But they did go on
Speaker 1: a wine in painting date. Yeah, it was actually their
Speaker 1: third date, and after the watercolors dried, things have been
Speaker 1: kind of weird between them. I like that picture. Yeah,
Speaker 1: But there was another guy she mentioned that was sitting
Speaker 1: next to her in that class, and she says she
Speaker 1: couldn't stop looking at his amazing painting. Yeah, she was
Speaker 1: trying to copy what he was doing because he had
Speaker 1: a handle on it. And when I say painting, I
Speaker 1: don't know if that's code for something else. Is amazing painting.
Speaker 1: But she's worried that maybe her date Russell noticed, and
Speaker 1: that's why he's been avoiding her. Yeah, I could see that.
Speaker 1: Are you nervous about this, Alison? I am a little,
Speaker 1: just because if it's just about the other guy, then
Speaker 1: that seems a little like Russell that has to be worried.
Speaker 1: He should be a little more confident than that. And
Speaker 1: I don't like that it's that tenuous. But I'm honestly
Speaker 1: kind of hoping that he got more spooked because of
Speaker 1: feeling like I'm pushing way so the whole like you
Speaker 1: want what you can't have, you're pushing away a little.
Speaker 1: Maybe you'll want to know because she may mention that
Speaker 1: she wants to see him more often than once a month,
Speaker 1: and maybe that's too fast for him. So we'll find out.
Speaker 1: Let's call Russell and get your second date update. You
Speaker 1: ready for this, Allison? I'm ready. Let's do it. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm a dollar phone number right now. Hello, Hi, can
Speaker 1: I speak to Russell? Please? This is Russell. Who is this?
Speaker 1: My name is Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the Morning. Give a moment to talk with us.
Speaker 1: Hello Russell? Um, oh you're there. Okay. Did you just
Speaker 1: wake up? Russell? We wake you up? No, I'm just
Speaker 1: not used to random numbers calling my phone. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: we have a good reason for calling you today. We're
Speaker 1: calling because we're doing something called a second date update.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna assume you've never heard of it before. Nope.
Speaker 1: All right. Well, basically, the way it works is if
Speaker 1: you go out with someone and afterwards, if they're not
Speaker 1: calling you back, you can email our show and we'll
Speaker 1: reach out to that person for you to try and
Speaker 1: figure out the reason why they're avoiding you. Do you
Speaker 1: know who might have emailed us about you? Is it Marty?
Speaker 1: He's kind of a prankster. Oh no, no, this isn't
Speaker 1: a prank call. We're trying to learn a little bit
Speaker 1: about your dating life, specifically about your dating life with
Speaker 1: a woman named Alison. Oh okay, you know Alison? Right? Yes, okay,
Speaker 1: you're a little bit slow on the answers, but that's
Speaker 1: okay because Alison says that you like to take things
Speaker 1: slow in your dating life. It seems apparently you've been
Speaker 1: on three dates with her over the course of several months,
Speaker 1: and she tells us that you're a pretty busy dude. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I've been swampled work. Do you like her? I mean, she,
Speaker 1: I think seems to be really into you. You guys
Speaker 1: have spent three dates together. That's a good chunk of time. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I do like her. I've just been on this transitional
Speaker 1: face and you know, I've been busy with work. What
Speaker 1: does that mean, like you're moving or something. No, Um,
Speaker 1: this is kind of embarrassing, so I don't I don't
Speaker 1: know if I want to say it or not. Um, Oh,
Speaker 1: don't be embarrassed. Man, we don't judge here on this
Speaker 1: show in front of people. Yeah too much. Okay, we'll
Speaker 1: wait till you hang up and then we'll judge you.
Speaker 1: Well that's the honesty. But no, the thing is Allison
Speaker 1: says that she had a really, really nice time with you.
Speaker 1: She told us a little bit about going to the
Speaker 1: wine and Peyton night together, and she thought that you
Speaker 1: guys were a really good match and she was actually
Speaker 1: hoping to see you more often. And she said, you're
Speaker 1: really funny. Most people don't think I'm funny, so that's
Speaker 1: pretty nice though. Her stick a natural, unassuming funny. Where
Speaker 1: was her words? But the point is she had a
Speaker 1: good time with you, and she'd really like to know,
Speaker 1: like what's going on how she's not able to get
Speaker 1: in touch with you anymore. Um, I'm gonna get back
Speaker 1: to her in a couple of weeks. I've been going
Speaker 1: through this this space. Okay, well, we can't wait a
Speaker 1: couple of weeks. The segment only lasts a few more minutes,
Speaker 1: so if you get to it a little quicker that
Speaker 1: would be awesome. Okay, all right, here it is, so
Speaker 1: we were on this day, Um, Okay, you guys didn't
Speaker 1: mention the wine and painting that night, so a little embarrassed.
Speaker 1: But I'll tell you, Um, there's a guy that was
Speaker 1: sitting next to her, and she kept looking in that direction,
Speaker 1: and he had the biggest, most defined, muscular calves I've
Speaker 1: ever seen in my life. Calves. Calves. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: my husband is obsessed with other men's calves too, because
Speaker 1: he's got he's got skinny chicken legs. And so is
Speaker 1: that what? You just really liked his calves? Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: pretty insecure about mine. I look like mister Incredible with
Speaker 1: one of those Pixar characters little chicken legs. But what
Speaker 1: does that have to do with your date? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't know. I felt threatened that she I don't know
Speaker 1: what's digging his and and I wanted that to be
Speaker 1: my thing. So you thought she was looking at his calves.
Speaker 1: I knew she was looking at his calves. Everybody was
Speaker 1: looking at it. I was looking at his calves. Everybody
Speaker 1: whoa doubt that? I think? I mean, alexis is here.
Speaker 1: I think it's only a thing that guys recognize each
Speaker 1: other look at guys calves more. I'm looking for Yeah,
Speaker 1: more than girls like guys are the ones that are
Speaker 1: like nice calves. Dude, So hold on, this is why
Speaker 1: you're not calling her back. Yeah, I need a couple
Speaker 1: of weeks to work. I'm a calv get a bigger
Speaker 1: Oh oh, you're doing calf raises for a few weeks
Speaker 1: to try and thicken up down there. I got a
Speaker 1: personal trainer, So work on it and get it bigger
Speaker 1: right away. Did you not hear? Like the two women
Speaker 1: in this room, big calves not not necessary, not a
Speaker 1: deal breaker. It doesn't pop up in two weeks. You're
Speaker 1: gonna need a longer time. What is there like a
Speaker 1: calf specialist that you have to go to to do this? Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm just telling you. It's just something that I want
Speaker 1: to do for myself. That's great, that's great, But that
Speaker 1: shouldn't stop you from dating Allison, or at least communicating
Speaker 1: with her. Yeah. See, I want her to look at
Speaker 1: my cats next time we go out, like she looked
Speaker 1: at that guys. I mean, I don't think that she
Speaker 1: cared about that guy's cast. Well, I don't know. Don't
Speaker 1: don't put thoughts into her head. She may be a
Speaker 1: calf girl. I've never even heard those two words together. Ever, Well,
Speaker 1: let's just ask her, because Russell, I need to tell
Speaker 1: you Allison's actually been on the other line listening this
Speaker 1: entire call. What Yeah, she wants to talk to you. Alison, Hey, Russell,
Speaker 1: you're sweetie. I felt his calves tense up. So yeah,
Speaker 1: So I called these guys because they wanted to find
Speaker 1: out what was going on, and I wanted you to know.
Speaker 1: It wasn't about the guys calves. I was watching him
Speaker 1: paint because he was a really good artist, and I
Speaker 1: was so nervous about messing up. Right, Okay, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie to you. I did notice that he was attractive,
Speaker 1: but you can go back and ask these guys. I
Speaker 1: told them, I think you were way more attractive. She
Speaker 1: did say that to us. Um, wow, I'm quite embarrassed. Um,
Speaker 1: I didn't know you were looking at his painting, and
Speaker 1: I just I thought you were looking at his calves,
Speaker 1: and I didn't I didn't want to be one of
Speaker 1: those guys and ask you what you were looking at.
Speaker 1: That's a sweet response. Yeah, what do you think, Alison?
Speaker 1: That makes sense. You guys are pretty darn cute together.
Speaker 1: I mean, and Russell, I don't feel like like, maybe
Speaker 1: that guy's got calves, but he definitely can't have that
Speaker 1: deep voice that you. Hey, you never know, maybe I
Speaker 1: can have both. I am taking calf hormones too. So
Speaker 1: what are calf hormones? It sounds like something they are
Speaker 1: a small cow. Ye, well, my personal trainer gave it
Speaker 1: to me. I probably shouldn't have said that over the radio.
Speaker 1: It's probably illegal. Whatever. It's like a back Alley personal trainer.
Speaker 1: Wheren't you hired him? You're gonna be able to milk
Speaker 1: him soon, Russell, aren't you hearing what Alison says? She's
Speaker 1: super attracted you and thinks you're awesome. I think working
Speaker 1: out is great to make yourself feel better, but like,
Speaker 1: don't go too extreme, man, Yeah, I'm not. I'm not
Speaker 1: overly worried about the calves. I like you the where
Speaker 1: you are. This seems like a good opportunity to ask Russell,
Speaker 1: would you like to go on another date with Alison?
Speaker 1: We will pay for it. That sounds great of Alison.
Speaker 1: Do you want to wait for two weeks for my
Speaker 1: calves to blow up? No? I have waited long enough
Speaker 1: for you to sell me back. Let's go out. Let's
Speaker 1: go soon. Okay, yes, you're fine. Sounds good. I look
Speaker 1: forward to seeing you all right. Congratulations Allison and Russell.
Speaker 1: You guys are going on a fourth date now getting closer.
Speaker 1: In two years you might be dating. Yeah, you know.
Speaker 1: Moving ninety two point five