WEBVTT - Emergency Contacts with Mari Pepin 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.640 How I Suck At Dating with Denglert and Jared Haven 0:00:04.920 --> 0:00:10.880 and I heard radio podcast. Hey, welcome to an all 0:00:10.920 --> 0:00:14.040 new episode of Help I Suck At Dating. I am 0:00:14.160 --> 0:00:16.079 Jared Haven and I'll make sure to talking to my 0:00:16.200 --> 0:00:19.079 Mike this week because it always sounds better. And we 0:00:19.120 --> 0:00:22.680 have a very special guest joining us. Also, Dean will 0:00:22.720 --> 0:00:27.440 be on the line with us. Momentarily, we have Marie Peppin. Marie, 0:00:27.600 --> 0:00:31.080 how are you, Hey, I'm good. I'm excited to be here. 0:00:31.680 --> 0:00:34.280 Oh well, thank you for being here. So obviously a 0:00:34.320 --> 0:00:36.880 lot of the Help I Second Dating listeners are Bachelor listeners. 0:00:36.920 --> 0:00:39.280 But just remind us what seasons you were on. You 0:00:39.280 --> 0:00:42.360 were on Wait a minute, let me guess you're Matt 0:00:42.400 --> 0:00:44.960 James season right, I was, yes, and then you are 0:00:45.000 --> 0:00:50.040 obviously on Paradise because you ended up leaving with Kenny. Yes. Well, 0:00:50.040 --> 0:00:51.960 how things are? How are things going right now with 0:00:52.040 --> 0:00:56.200 for you? Yeah? Everything's great. Um. I had been traveling 0:00:56.280 --> 0:00:57.760 quite a bit at the beginning of the year. I 0:00:57.800 --> 0:01:00.160 was competing in a pageant in Puerto Rico, so was 0:01:00.440 --> 0:01:03.880 splitting my time basically between Chicago and Puerto Rico. But 0:01:04.000 --> 0:01:06.560 the patches over now, so I'm full time in Chicago. 0:01:06.720 --> 0:01:09.000 Kenny and I have our place together, and yeah, things 0:01:09.040 --> 0:01:11.399 are good, very cool. Now. We want to catch up 0:01:11.440 --> 0:01:13.080 with you a little bit later on, but we do 0:01:13.160 --> 0:01:15.520 have another episode, so we have a little bit of 0:01:15.560 --> 0:01:18.400 a different format coming up. We have two episodes coming 0:01:18.480 --> 0:01:21.720 up this week, so today we're releasing it. Uh, you're 0:01:21.720 --> 0:01:23.520 probably listening to this on a Monday, and then we 0:01:23.560 --> 0:01:25.120 have our second episode, which is going to be a 0:01:25.120 --> 0:01:27.600 catch up with Mari on Thursday, so make sure you 0:01:27.640 --> 0:01:29.400 tune into that. But right now, it's gonna be hot 0:01:29.440 --> 0:01:32.919 topics because we love hot topics. It's our fair everything 0:01:32.920 --> 0:01:37.040 to talk about. So one of the hot topics this week, Marie, 0:01:37.120 --> 0:01:41.880 are you a Ben Affleck Jennifer Lopez fan? I am? 0:01:42.000 --> 0:01:44.040 You know what, I think a lot of people hate 0:01:44.080 --> 0:01:45.880 on them, but you know, I think it's just that 0:01:46.680 --> 0:01:49.240 timing place type of thing, and you know, now it's 0:01:49.280 --> 0:01:52.080 their time. I don't know who the hell hates on them, 0:01:52.200 --> 0:01:54.440 but if they do hate on them, then they're just haters. 0:01:54.720 --> 0:01:57.880 I love Dean can attest this. I love Ben Affleck 0:01:57.920 --> 0:02:00.600 and Jennifer Lopez together. I Ashley and I pretty much 0:02:00.640 --> 0:02:03.960 fanboy and fan girl over this one because Afflecks a 0:02:04.040 --> 0:02:08.080 Boston boy, so he's a local, and like he's such 0:02:08.120 --> 0:02:10.080 a die hard Boston sports fan, and like when he 0:02:10.080 --> 0:02:13.080 talks about Tom Brady, he has like this passionate inflection 0:02:13.120 --> 0:02:16.320 about him that I have, and there's like this relatability. 0:02:17.040 --> 0:02:19.840 And I also love that Affleck has had this roller 0:02:19.880 --> 0:02:23.800 coaster of not only celebrity status but a life where 0:02:23.840 --> 0:02:27.880 he's been like, you know, he catapulted to the top 0:02:27.919 --> 0:02:30.440 with Good Will Hunting and then he did all these 0:02:30.520 --> 0:02:34.120 like nineties and early two thousands action movies and everybody 0:02:34.160 --> 0:02:36.600 thought that he was never a good actor, but he 0:02:36.760 --> 0:02:39.119 just was a good looking phase and so he made 0:02:39.120 --> 0:02:43.239 movies like Paycheck or Armor Gedton and and then he 0:02:44.520 --> 0:02:48.639 and then of course he like started you know, his 0:02:49.240 --> 0:02:52.880 off his like non movies were more famous than his movies. 0:02:53.040 --> 0:02:57.920 And then he uh came out with The Town and 0:02:58.240 --> 0:03:01.240 Argo and One Best Director and was catapulted back to 0:03:01.320 --> 0:03:05.640 the top. And then he got casted as Batman, and 0:03:05.800 --> 0:03:07.960 as much as I love him as Batman, there was 0:03:08.040 --> 0:03:11.000 like mixed reviews. And then he became like, at least 0:03:11.000 --> 0:03:13.960 in the tabloids, an alcoholic. And then him and Jennifer 0:03:13.960 --> 0:03:16.000 Carter got a divorce and then nobody knew what was 0:03:16.000 --> 0:03:18.560 going to happen, and he seemed like kind of a 0:03:18.560 --> 0:03:20.840 little bit of a distant dad. And then all of 0:03:20.880 --> 0:03:23.840 a sudden he started dating Jennifer Lopez, and it's like 0:03:24.400 --> 0:03:28.520 Affleck is back, and now they're freaking married. When Jared 0:03:28.560 --> 0:03:30.560 kat says these like when he goes on these tangents, 0:03:30.560 --> 0:03:32.239 all you gotta do is just interrupt him real quick, 0:03:32.240 --> 0:03:34.119 snap your fingers a few times, and he'll pop out 0:03:34.120 --> 0:03:37.600 of it. Yeah, it's fun to talk about. I love 0:03:37.640 --> 0:03:39.960 the fact that Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez are freaking 0:03:40.040 --> 0:03:43.920 married now, Like it's Jennifer Lopez Affleck. That's gonna be 0:03:44.000 --> 0:03:47.240 a legal name. Oh I thought she just changed it 0:03:47.280 --> 0:03:50.600 to Affleck. Maybe she did an Affleck now, Yeah, I'm 0:03:50.600 --> 0:03:52.800 pretty sure. But she's Puerto Rican and Puerto Rican, so 0:03:52.880 --> 0:03:54.600 you know there's that connect to and you know she's 0:03:54.600 --> 0:03:58.360 successful and happy. So I'm happy for her. And I'm 0:03:58.400 --> 0:03:59.720 sorry I was just being I was just being a 0:03:59.760 --> 0:04:02.280 little facetious. Um, I'm sorry for being late as well. 0:04:02.320 --> 0:04:05.040 You guys. It is five am in um Hawaii right now, 0:04:05.200 --> 0:04:08.040 and if it wasn't for one of our producers calling me, 0:04:08.120 --> 0:04:11.240 I would have slept until ten am. So, um, I 0:04:11.280 --> 0:04:13.800 just wanted to go ahead and say I apologize. Um, 0:04:13.840 --> 0:04:15.360 but Mary, it's good to see you. It's going to 0:04:15.440 --> 0:04:20.040 meet you. Um, I've got a question you. And this 0:04:20.160 --> 0:04:22.160 is a super off topic and this is me just 0:04:22.600 --> 0:04:24.760 being a ridiculous person right now. Didn't you just run 0:04:24.800 --> 0:04:28.360 for like Miss Petter puert Tariko or something like that. Yeah? 0:04:28.440 --> 0:04:31.160 I did. Yeah, I was competing in Miss World Puerto Rico. 0:04:32.240 --> 0:04:35.440 Sweet and uh did you look around and see Jennifer 0:04:35.520 --> 0:04:38.560 Athleck competing in it? Because I'm sure you didn't. No, 0:04:38.720 --> 0:04:42.320 I did not. That's awesome. I mean, come on, how 0:04:42.360 --> 0:04:43.640 did it go? Can you tell us a little bit 0:04:43.680 --> 0:04:46.560 about It's good? Yeah? I mean, so I had done 0:04:46.560 --> 0:04:49.640 pageants here. I was in Miss Maryland, USA, um, and 0:04:49.960 --> 0:04:52.320 compete at Miss USA, and I thought that I was 0:04:52.360 --> 0:04:55.040 done with pageants once I decided to do Bachelor because 0:04:55.040 --> 0:04:57.360 it was like, Okay, reality TV and patents don't really 0:04:57.360 --> 0:04:59.359 go together, so I'm probably not gonna do this again. 0:05:00.320 --> 0:05:03.200 But so many people from Puerto Rico, since that's where 0:05:03.200 --> 0:05:05.280 I'm originally from, where like you should come compete here, 0:05:05.320 --> 0:05:07.520 please please please represent us all this stuff? And I 0:05:07.520 --> 0:05:09.359 was like, you know, what maybe I'll just give it 0:05:09.440 --> 0:05:12.160 one more shot. So, yeah, I went and competed for 0:05:12.200 --> 0:05:14.880 Miss Weld Puerto Rico. Ended up top seven, so it 0:05:14.920 --> 0:05:18.960 went well, and uh yeah, honestly, I'm I'm really happy 0:05:19.000 --> 0:05:20.640 with how it went because I learned a lot, grew 0:05:20.680 --> 0:05:22.040 a lot, you know, and I got to spend a 0:05:22.040 --> 0:05:27.000 lot of time being back home pretty much. So it's cool. Nice. Um, yeah, 0:05:27.080 --> 0:05:28.760 Puerto Rico. I've heard a lot of good things. I've 0:05:28.800 --> 0:05:30.680 never really been out there for myself to visit, but 0:05:30.760 --> 0:05:32.479 I've heard from a lot of friends who have been 0:05:32.520 --> 0:05:34.800 there that it's an incredible place. Oh you should You 0:05:34.839 --> 0:05:39.719 and Caitlin would love it. Well, one of these days maybe, Um, Jared, 0:05:39.800 --> 0:05:41.640 how's it going over there? By the way, I'm sorry 0:05:41.640 --> 0:05:43.640 that I was late. I just wanted to apologize for that. 0:05:44.800 --> 0:05:46.800 Oh you're fine, as you can hear Lois is barking 0:05:46.800 --> 0:05:51.560 in the background. Dawson was crying earlier. It's just conse nice. Well, 0:05:51.640 --> 0:05:53.480 Caitlin is sleeping four ft away from me, and she's 0:05:53.480 --> 0:05:54.960 got air PUDs, and so I don't think he's gonna 0:05:54.960 --> 0:05:57.520 be able to hear me, fortunately, thank god. Well, you know, 0:05:57.640 --> 0:06:03.800 Lois is just always freaking out, um. Yes, and of course, uh, 0:06:03.960 --> 0:06:05.919 like we talked about earlier, you want to catch up 0:06:05.920 --> 0:06:08.760 with Mari um and I want to talk more about 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:15.000 your experience being Miss Puerto Rico because that's freaking so cool. 0:06:15.040 --> 0:06:16.560 And I've been to Puerto Rico and I love that 0:06:16.600 --> 0:06:22.600 place so much. But we do have uh once again 0:06:22.640 --> 0:06:27.720 hot topics jump into um. So my question for you 0:06:27.760 --> 0:06:30.080 guys because Ben Affleck like we I went on the 0:06:30.080 --> 0:06:32.240 tangent all right, cool, I get it, like I'm a 0:06:32.279 --> 0:06:34.040 big j LO and Ben Affleck plan. What can I say? 0:06:34.080 --> 0:06:37.760 But my question to you guys is they got married 0:06:37.839 --> 0:06:41.279 in Vegas. So, Mari, would you ever marry Kenny in Vegas? 0:06:41.520 --> 0:06:44.240 I feel like that would be such a I mean, granted, 0:06:44.279 --> 0:06:48.159 I've never met you either in person, but judging from Kenny, 0:06:48.200 --> 0:06:50.440 it feels like he would totally get married in Vegas. 0:06:51.240 --> 0:06:53.400 He totally would. He would. He's down for all the 0:06:53.480 --> 0:06:56.360 like unheard of ideas and stuff like that. I don't 0:06:56.360 --> 0:06:58.479 think I would. I think I do like the courthouse 0:06:58.520 --> 0:07:00.760 thing and just not tell anyone, But I don't know 0:07:00.800 --> 0:07:04.080 about Vegas. Well, isn't that kind of what happens in Vegas? 0:07:04.080 --> 0:07:07.480 You get? All right? I'm gonna be I'm gonna sound 0:07:07.480 --> 0:07:10.960 really stupid. It's not. Is it an annulment? What am 0:07:11.000 --> 0:07:14.320 I thinking of? Lopement? You're thinking of a lopement? Lopit? 0:07:14.440 --> 0:07:17.000 Thank you? You get eloped in Vegas? Is that kind 0:07:17.000 --> 0:07:19.000 of the same thing as going to the courtroom? Yeah? 0:07:19.160 --> 0:07:20.920 Kind of. I don't know. I just I'm not sure 0:07:20.960 --> 0:07:23.440 about the whole like they do the impersonators and like 0:07:23.480 --> 0:07:25.280 the weird themes and like, I don't know, that's not 0:07:25.360 --> 0:07:29.560 my style, that's not your style. You don't want you 0:07:29.560 --> 0:07:31.400 don't want Elvis Pressly to marry you guys, is what 0:07:31.440 --> 0:07:36.120 you're saying. No, I don't sorry. Could you imagine if 0:07:36.160 --> 0:07:41.080 Elvis married Jlo and Ben Affleck? Could you imagine being 0:07:39.680 --> 0:07:45.200 a JL just being like next in line? Yeah, no, 0:07:45.320 --> 0:07:47.800 that would be crazy. I don't even know. I mean, 0:07:47.800 --> 0:07:49.600 if I'm trying to put myself in that situation, like, 0:07:49.600 --> 0:07:51.320 what would I do? I just see them walk in, 0:07:51.360 --> 0:07:53.960 I'd freak out. I would freak out too. Well, so 0:07:54.000 --> 0:07:56.120 it's not quite what it's not quite well Ben and Jen, 0:07:56.760 --> 0:07:59.640 Ben and Jen does that sounds so good? That sounds 0:07:59.680 --> 0:08:02.280 so good. A benefits not quite what Beneford did. But 0:08:03.000 --> 0:08:07.040 my brother just got married last Saturday, last weekend. He 0:08:08.000 --> 0:08:10.600 proposed to his girlfriend on a Friday. They got married 0:08:10.600 --> 0:08:14.000 on a Saturday. And while they didn't go to like 0:08:14.040 --> 0:08:17.679 a traditional Vegas chapel with like Elvis getting married, they're 0:08:17.720 --> 0:08:20.320 marrying them, they did like have to do it all 0:08:20.400 --> 0:08:23.200 super quick, and so they like went to this little 0:08:23.280 --> 0:08:27.560 chapel and got their marriage license, and um, it was 0:08:27.600 --> 0:08:29.680 some guy that they had never met. His name was Tom. 0:08:29.760 --> 0:08:32.880 He was good. He kept calling himself Peeping Tom. It 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:36.880 was a little strange, Um, but it was. It was 0:08:36.920 --> 0:08:39.400 Tom marrying me. It was so much. It was the 0:08:39.400 --> 0:08:41.080 Peeping Tom thing kind of freaked me a little bit, 0:08:41.120 --> 0:08:43.280 but it was great. He just, you know, he had 0:08:43.280 --> 0:08:44.720 no connection to the bride of the groom, but he 0:08:44.760 --> 0:08:46.960 still liked it his little thing, and um kind of 0:08:46.960 --> 0:08:49.360 went on his way. So I could see like doing 0:08:49.400 --> 0:08:51.600 the whole Vegas wedding chapel thing, as long as it 0:08:51.640 --> 0:08:56.559 wasn't like an Elvis or I don't know, something like that. Yeah, 0:08:56.600 --> 0:08:59.640 something like that, A little more casual, a little more typical. 0:08:59.679 --> 0:09:02.360 I would say it would be my style maybe, unless 0:09:02.360 --> 0:09:04.079 you're like the biggest I was fan in the world 0:09:04.200 --> 0:09:07.320 who once I was marrying them, you know, could you imagine? Don't? 0:09:07.360 --> 0:09:11.360 My goodness, it makes a great story. What's the deal with? Um? 0:09:11.559 --> 0:09:14.800 You and Kenny right now? So you guys are engaged obviously, 0:09:14.840 --> 0:09:17.600 but like, is there any wedding planning going on? Um? 0:09:17.760 --> 0:09:21.760 So I just started thinking about the wedding planning and 0:09:21.800 --> 0:09:24.160 I'm already stressed out. I'm like, there's so much to do. 0:09:24.200 --> 0:09:26.719 Where do I start? And then I had this big 0:09:26.720 --> 0:09:28.640 deal onea yesterday. I was like, are you supposed to 0:09:28.640 --> 0:09:30.240 do the venue first? Are you suppys do the guest 0:09:30.320 --> 0:09:31.960 this first? But it feels weird to you the guests 0:09:32.000 --> 0:09:33.720 this first? But how do I know what kind of 0:09:33.800 --> 0:09:35.440 venue I want if I don't know how many people 0:09:35.440 --> 0:09:37.120 are going to come? Like, I don't know, It's just 0:09:37.360 --> 0:09:41.200 it's a lot, right Well, I mean Jared is gonna 0:09:41.200 --> 0:09:42.640 guy to ask for that because he's kind of been 0:09:42.679 --> 0:09:46.679 in that same situation at some point right here, Well, 0:09:46.720 --> 0:09:51.440 wedding planning, Yeah, it's listen, don't stress over it. It's 0:09:52.400 --> 0:09:54.480 you know. I was actually listening to a podcast about 0:09:54.840 --> 0:09:58.880 a guy dying and uh, he said on his deathbed, 0:09:59.000 --> 0:10:02.280 he was like so much wasted time, which is quite 0:10:02.320 --> 0:10:04.080 sad when you really think about it. I know, listen, 0:10:04.240 --> 0:10:07.040 hold on. There's a moral to this story, which is 0:10:07.640 --> 0:10:10.040 on It's a sad story, but on your deathbed, you 0:10:10.360 --> 0:10:12.480 the last thing you want to say is so much 0:10:12.559 --> 0:10:15.600 wasted time. So my advice to you, Mary is to 0:10:15.679 --> 0:10:18.360 not stress over that you're If you guys do end 0:10:18.440 --> 0:10:21.439 up getting married, which sounds like you are, which is fantastic, 0:10:22.400 --> 0:10:25.600 don't stress over wedding planning. Oh my are you guys? 0:10:26.320 --> 0:10:27.959 I mean we might as well just dive into it 0:10:28.120 --> 0:10:36.040 right now. So you're you're not engaged? Correct? Oh my god, 0:10:36.040 --> 0:10:38.920 you are engaged? Oh my god. Well, first of all, 0:10:38.920 --> 0:10:42.000 that's right. Okay, so you guys are engaged, but you 0:10:42.080 --> 0:10:45.079 have not like really specifically talked about wedding planning until 0:10:45.200 --> 0:10:48.120 right now. You're just getting into it. Yeah. Yeah, because 0:10:48.160 --> 0:10:49.880 with the whole pageant and everything, I was like, well, 0:10:49.880 --> 0:10:51.480 you can't be married if you're going to compete in 0:10:51.480 --> 0:10:53.800 a mispageant, so we have to wait until afterwards to 0:10:53.840 --> 0:10:55.640 find out if I win or not. And then since 0:10:55.679 --> 0:10:58.160 I didn't win, now we can actually start planning and 0:10:58.200 --> 0:11:01.559 you know, doing all that kind of stuff. So that 0:11:01.880 --> 0:11:05.719 wouldn't you rather be in a Mimsis pageant? Anyways? Yeah? 0:11:05.960 --> 0:11:08.000 You know, I'm not too sure. I think I'm done. 0:11:08.000 --> 0:11:11.400 It's just it's a lot of work. Yeah. Well, I've 0:11:11.400 --> 0:11:14.000 heard Kalen talk about it a little bit too. She 0:11:14.040 --> 0:11:16.880 hasn't been like there any like international stuff, but obviously 0:11:16.880 --> 0:11:19.679 in missed North Carolina, and she always have mentioned how 0:11:19.679 --> 0:11:22.920 stressful and how time consuming and how all of that 0:11:22.920 --> 0:11:24.920 stuff it is. So I can definitely, um, at least 0:11:24.960 --> 0:11:27.080 empathize with you a little bit there. But that's good 0:11:27.080 --> 0:11:29.400 that now it's it's over and so now you guys 0:11:29.440 --> 0:11:31.120 are planning and now you're gonna make the guest list 0:11:31.160 --> 0:11:33.600 before everything else. But I do want to say, um, 0:11:33.600 --> 0:11:37.079 watching Bachelor and Paradise last season, you guys were definitely 0:11:37.080 --> 0:11:38.840 one of my favorite couples because it just seemed like 0:11:39.000 --> 0:11:42.720 you two, um, you just you guys. You guys seem 0:11:42.760 --> 0:11:44.559 win more natural around each other than a lot of people, 0:11:44.679 --> 0:11:46.600 and it was like, you know, you weren't forcing anything, 0:11:46.800 --> 0:11:48.840 and there obviously we're a little bit hiccups along the way, 0:11:48.880 --> 0:11:50.800 but like what good love story doesn't have if you 0:11:50.840 --> 0:11:53.640 hiccups along the way. Anyways, you know I agree, Well, 0:11:53.679 --> 0:11:56.240 thank you. It's nice to hear that because everyone's like, oh, 0:11:56.320 --> 0:11:58.559 my favorite couples are the ones that got together day 0:11:58.559 --> 0:12:02.160 one and stay together. That's so boring. Come on, I 0:12:02.320 --> 0:12:06.439 know that's real life either, Like, in real life, relationships 0:12:06.480 --> 0:12:09.000 aren't like that. So you know, I'm a big fan 0:12:09.040 --> 0:12:12.079 of our story too. Exactly. People seem to forget that 0:12:12.120 --> 0:12:14.080 in real life. There are issues that people face in 0:12:14.120 --> 0:12:16.760 regular relationships, and it's not just like they got together 0:12:16.880 --> 0:12:19.680 day one and that there together day thirty five. It's like, 0:12:19.720 --> 0:12:22.560 come on, let's let's have a little bit of realism 0:12:22.559 --> 0:12:25.640 with exactly. Yeah, um, but no, I respect that. I 0:12:26.120 --> 0:12:29.200 love watching you guys, Kenny. I always told Kalen whenever 0:12:29.320 --> 0:12:30.720 when every Kidney came on the screen, I was like, 0:12:30.760 --> 0:12:32.360 that's the hottest man I've ever seen in my entire 0:12:32.400 --> 0:12:35.880 life for that guy, because he's like a pretty good 0:12:35.880 --> 0:12:38.360 looking man. Thank you. Yeah, I think so too. It 0:12:38.360 --> 0:12:43.360 looks good at the table. Oh nice, nice, Well, don't 0:12:43.360 --> 0:12:47.400 tell myself have a shirt on back from I know 0:12:47.640 --> 0:12:50.480 we did. We did the news interview thinking for this 0:12:50.600 --> 0:12:52.600 charity event that we're doing, so we came straight from that. 0:12:52.640 --> 0:12:58.240 So that's why he's what's it's for special Olympics? Oh 0:12:58.600 --> 0:13:01.040 very nice. What are you guys doing? They're doing a 0:13:01.160 --> 0:13:04.720 duck derby. Every year they released like a million ducks 0:13:04.760 --> 0:13:06.880 into the Chicago River and each duck has a good 0:13:06.920 --> 0:13:09.280 number on it. So you purchased a duck, you donate 0:13:09.520 --> 0:13:12.800 to get a duck, and whoever's duck wins, like gets 0:13:12.880 --> 0:13:15.600 the end first wins like a new car or something 0:13:15.679 --> 0:13:18.400 like that. Oh, that's so cute. That's awesome that you 0:13:18.400 --> 0:13:32.640 guys are a part of that. Yeah, we love Social Olympics. Well, Jared, 0:13:32.640 --> 0:13:33.760 do you want to get into this more of these 0:13:33.760 --> 0:13:37.800 topical headlines for us? Yeah? So, uh, Maria, you're a 0:13:37.880 --> 0:13:42.000 Kardashian fan at all? Um, you know what, I not 0:13:42.080 --> 0:13:43.840 the show. I don't keep up with the show, but 0:13:44.040 --> 0:13:46.480 I am a huge fan of the family in general. 0:13:46.880 --> 0:13:48.640 So we talked about the Kardashians a lot here because 0:13:48.679 --> 0:13:51.280 we're dating podcasts and you know, it's just two guys 0:13:51.320 --> 0:13:54.600 talking about Kardashians stuf. You know, it's a little juicy, 0:13:54.720 --> 0:13:57.440 especially like apparently this new show and Hulu is really good. 0:13:57.480 --> 0:14:01.160 Ashley Craves watching every new episode. I think it just ended, 0:14:01.200 --> 0:14:03.880 but like every Thursday they dropped a new episode, and 0:14:03.920 --> 0:14:06.800 she said, how much in the news show is better? Anyway, 0:14:07.000 --> 0:14:09.520 there's news coming out that have you heard about this 0:14:09.640 --> 0:14:14.640 Tristan and Chloe drama that's going on? Yes, I have. 0:14:15.960 --> 0:14:17.720 Do you know exactly kind of what's going on, because 0:14:17.760 --> 0:14:20.400 I'm still a little confused because I never know what's 0:14:20.440 --> 0:14:22.920 happening in real time or what's being aired on the 0:14:22.960 --> 0:14:27.200 show that actually had happened six months ago. So they 0:14:27.360 --> 0:14:32.560 were they're having another baby via surrogate, right, correct. I 0:14:32.640 --> 0:14:34.440 just want to explain this for the listeners in case 0:14:34.440 --> 0:14:38.320 they're not up to par Alright, So, Chloe, So Tristan Thompson, 0:14:38.720 --> 0:14:45.520 NBA player, dated Chloe Kardashian. They had one kid together, Okay, 0:14:45.760 --> 0:14:50.320 then he cheated for like the second time, several times. 0:14:50.320 --> 0:14:52.840 This guy's cheated on. She broke up with them, then 0:14:52.880 --> 0:14:58.040 they got back together. Then it was announced that Tristan 0:14:58.280 --> 0:15:02.440 and Chloe were having another baby via surrogate. Well, you 0:15:02.480 --> 0:15:05.440 skipped a step there, because I got much together. After 0:15:05.480 --> 0:15:07.240 they got back together a second time, it came out 0:15:07.280 --> 0:15:09.720 that he had also had another child, like a couple 0:15:09.720 --> 0:15:14.120 of months prior with someone else. Oh god, yeah, yeah. 0:15:14.160 --> 0:15:17.680 And then I'm also still a little confused about what 0:15:17.720 --> 0:15:20.040 their status is right now, Like I know that they're 0:15:20.080 --> 0:15:23.200 having this child, which is due supposedly like any minute now, 0:15:23.680 --> 0:15:28.440 but they're not dating and as of late, he was 0:15:28.520 --> 0:15:31.640 in Greece partying with some other chick, like a few 0:15:31.720 --> 0:15:34.440 nights ago. All right, here's Ashley a quick recap. Ready, 0:15:34.640 --> 0:15:37.240 she knows everything to say that. You obviously don't listen 0:15:37.240 --> 0:15:40.440 to me and I talk because I'm very confused because 0:15:40.440 --> 0:15:42.560 sometimes when you explained the Kardashian Oh my god, can 0:15:42.600 --> 0:15:45.440 you believe what happened with was lally interested last week? 0:15:45.480 --> 0:15:48.680 And you were like you, I told you the whole thing, 0:15:48.800 --> 0:15:50.840 but you also said that it was last week on 0:15:50.960 --> 0:15:55.960 the show, but it happened back in December, so this 0:15:56.040 --> 0:15:59.960 is all real time? Yes, okay, was breaking on instag 0:16:00.000 --> 0:16:03.120 Graham last week breaking on Instagram? Got it? Okay? So 0:16:03.480 --> 0:16:06.000 what is the status between Tristan and Chloe right now? Well, 0:16:06.040 --> 0:16:09.320 they apparently hated each other as of you know, December 0:16:09.360 --> 0:16:11.760 and on. But she why are we talking about December? 0:16:11.760 --> 0:16:14.840 It's July. This is what confuses me because the show wrapped, 0:16:14.880 --> 0:16:17.200 like the show is in delayed time. It's just like 0:16:17.240 --> 0:16:20.320 six months delayed. That's what the show time or is 0:16:20.320 --> 0:16:22.560 it real time? In real time? We just found out 0:16:22.640 --> 0:16:25.520 in real time that this baby is do that was 0:16:26.080 --> 0:16:30.160 implanted in the surrogate in November? But when did Chloe 0:16:30.200 --> 0:16:34.360 find out that Tristan cheated on her in December? And 0:16:34.400 --> 0:16:37.920 when was the surrogate planted November? Okay, but why is 0:16:37.920 --> 0:16:40.840 it just coming out now because they're just announcing that 0:16:40.880 --> 0:16:42.880 the mean because the baby's about to be born. This 0:16:42.960 --> 0:16:44.760 is my point. You're going to have a baby be 0:16:44.840 --> 0:16:46.760 born and be like and they have They're like, okay, 0:16:46.800 --> 0:16:49.640 we're going to explain the situation now. They're like, they're like, 0:16:49.800 --> 0:16:52.400 now we will explain the situation because Chloe's about to 0:16:52.400 --> 0:16:53.800 have a new baby. But this was a secret for 0:16:53.800 --> 0:16:55.920 like six months. Yes, got it? Okay, this is that 0:16:56.120 --> 0:16:58.520 was the because you understand the drama here is that 0:16:58.600 --> 0:17:01.960 the surrogate was riding it a month before Chloe found 0:17:01.960 --> 0:17:04.479 out that Triston was cheating again. Yes, of course bad timing. 0:17:05.119 --> 0:17:09.439 So my question, so there are they're not together anymore? No? 0:17:09.960 --> 0:17:12.240 Do you know like she took him back twice after 0:17:12.320 --> 0:17:18.120 cheating ship and now well, I mean maybe one big time. 0:17:18.160 --> 0:17:20.600 But do you know that before the other baby, before 0:17:20.680 --> 0:17:25.879 True was born, literally Chloe found out that Tristan had 0:17:25.960 --> 0:17:29.480 cheated on her a day or two before True was born. 0:17:29.760 --> 0:17:32.919 True is the baby between Chloe and triesting, Yes, the 0:17:32.920 --> 0:17:35.480 one that already is like three. So what's up with 0:17:35.520 --> 0:17:38.400 this man and having horrible timing that I don't understand? 0:17:38.480 --> 0:17:44.120 How are you so bad? How are you saying? What's 0:17:44.160 --> 0:17:47.120 up with the bad timing? Why is Tristan? Why does 0:17:47.119 --> 0:17:49.639 he want? Does he keep getting caught right after like 0:17:49.720 --> 0:17:53.960 you know, and it's amazing, it's crazy. Yeah, just doesn't care. 0:17:54.160 --> 0:17:57.320 Another thing is he loves the bed control. It's gone, okay, 0:17:57.440 --> 0:17:59.159 bye bye. Thank you so much for the recap. I 0:17:59.240 --> 0:18:01.840 really appreciate it. Actually, she knows all thing Kardashian. So 0:18:01.880 --> 0:18:05.120 my question for you, so, yeah, the bad timing thing 0:18:05.160 --> 0:18:08.000 is weird. How does this keep coming out? I think 0:18:08.000 --> 0:18:11.080 he just doesn't care. I think he probably strings Chloe 0:18:11.160 --> 0:18:13.119 along and it's like, oh yeah, it's fine, I'll be 0:18:13.160 --> 0:18:15.159 there for you. We're going to have a family. And 0:18:15.200 --> 0:18:16.920 then like the next day he's like whatever, and he 0:18:16.960 --> 0:18:18.600 does whatever he wants. That's what it seems like, because 0:18:18.600 --> 0:18:20.720 I mean, the baby is about to be born and 0:18:20.760 --> 0:18:23.200 he's out partying with other girls in grease right now. 0:18:23.280 --> 0:18:28.320 So so he's in Greece right now, partying with other girls. Yeah, 0:18:28.359 --> 0:18:30.199 literally like two days ago, I think it was. This 0:18:30.200 --> 0:18:32.760 guy seems like a douche bag. Why is Chloe continuing 0:18:32.840 --> 0:18:35.960 to get back together with him? I don't know. I 0:18:35.960 --> 0:18:38.840 mean I've read online that people were like, Oh, she 0:18:38.880 --> 0:18:41.200 doesn't care, she just wants to have her she wants 0:18:41.200 --> 0:18:43.199 her kids to have the same parents, and it's like 0:18:43.280 --> 0:18:47.840 more that kind of thing. But I don't, I don't know. Yeah, 0:18:48.040 --> 0:18:50.280 I obviously get that you want to try to stick 0:18:50.440 --> 0:18:54.639 together for the kids, But my god, at some point, 0:18:54.800 --> 0:18:56.960 is it even healthy for the family if the mom 0:18:57.000 --> 0:19:00.439 and dad are constantly fighting and the dad is always cheating. 0:19:00.920 --> 0:19:04.000 I mean, of course, yeah, no way. Imagine when they 0:19:04.040 --> 0:19:06.760 get older, they're mega famous, they're going to see all 0:19:06.760 --> 0:19:09.120 this stuff about their parents. I was gonna say, let's 0:19:09.119 --> 0:19:10.800 be honest, it's not because they're gonna have a regular 0:19:10.840 --> 0:19:15.000 childhood anyways, you know what I mean. But not not 0:19:15.040 --> 0:19:18.560 to not to like give a pass to Tristan because 0:19:18.560 --> 0:19:20.520 he sounds like a kind of a diuchebag, But it 0:19:20.560 --> 0:19:22.639 does seem like these kids are kind of destined for 0:19:23.320 --> 0:19:27.040 a lifetime of that. We're like, we're never really gonna 0:19:27.320 --> 0:19:29.679 have any idea of what it's going to be like, 0:19:29.720 --> 0:19:32.879 because they're like the most uber famous family of all time, 0:19:33.200 --> 0:19:35.760 you know what I mean? Yeah, yeah, I agree. I 0:19:35.800 --> 0:19:38.960 mean there's no way to sell to them. Really well. 0:19:38.960 --> 0:19:42.119 My question to you guys is do you think because 0:19:42.160 --> 0:19:44.600 this begs the question, Chloe keeps going back to Tristan, 0:19:45.480 --> 0:19:50.159 and even in this article I was reading from uh 0:19:50.320 --> 0:19:53.919 E News, she mentions that she has zero doubt that 0:19:53.960 --> 0:19:57.159 Tristan will step up after the second baby arrives. And 0:19:57.200 --> 0:19:59.480 it's like, how can you have zero doubt? I mean, 0:19:59.520 --> 0:20:01.600 maybe he's a great father. I'm not denying this, but 0:20:01.680 --> 0:20:04.239 it's pretty clear that he's not a good partner. So 0:20:04.280 --> 0:20:06.879 I questioned to you guys, is do you think you 0:20:06.920 --> 0:20:09.679 could ever get back together someone after you found out 0:20:09.720 --> 0:20:13.399 that they were cheating on you? You know what, now, 0:20:13.440 --> 0:20:17.119 I say no, And I've actually been in that situation before, 0:20:17.680 --> 0:20:22.280