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Speaker 1: The show is on.

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Speaker 2: It's stay or go. Mike is here. Good morning, Mike.

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Speaker 2: How you doing. Welcome, Hey guys.

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Speaker 1: And I'm doing all right. I'm just not sure what

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Speaker 2: Oh look at this guy. He sounds truly distraught. Well,

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Speaker 2: this is what we're here for. We're here to comment

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Speaker 2: on your life. What's going on Mike with you? This

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Speaker 2: is your wife, the situation with your wife? Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: So what's the name.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, I work in construction and she works from

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Speaker 3: home in a corporate job.

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Speaker 1: So when we moved in together, we agreed she would.

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Speaker 3: Handle like the laundry, the cooking, and some other little

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Speaker 3: things around the house. So she's home all day and

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Speaker 3: I go to work and construction heavy labor. But for

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Speaker 3: a while now she's been slipping, like she agreed to

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Speaker 3: do these things and she's not doing anymore. And when

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Speaker 3: we talk about it, she reminds me like, hey, we

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Speaker 3: both work. Just because I work from home doesn't mean

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Speaker 3: you know all this time to do this stuff. And

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Speaker 3: I'm like, you're at home typing, and you know.

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Speaker 2: It goes like that, It goes like that, Yeah, she's

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Speaker 2: at home type right, No, No, she's so she's at home

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Speaker 2: not necessarily exerting herself the way that you are in

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Speaker 2: your opinion, exactly.

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Speaker 3: I mean between calls she be could it's like throwing

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Speaker 3: a laundry or cook some food.

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Speaker 1: That's all she's going anywhere.

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Speaker 2: Exactly. Yeah, Mike, I don't know. You may not have

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Speaker 2: a home crowd he or like. Okay, but but here now,

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Speaker 2: in fairness, I'm trying, Mike. You guys agreed to this though,

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Speaker 2: or did you? Did you have a conversation about this?

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Speaker 2: Did you guys agree and and like a division of

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Speaker 2: labor that you discussed.

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Speaker 3: We did agree upon this, and she did it for

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Speaker 3: a little while, but lately she has been slipped.

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Speaker 1: And I can't get it across to her.

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Speaker 3: We always have arguments. And look, I make way more

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Speaker 3: money than she does. I pay like all the bills.

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Speaker 4: You should hire a housekeeper or you know, you should

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Speaker 4: hire some help, and she makes so much money.

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Speaker 2: Exactly, I'm ready for Mike.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry. I had a very little sympathy for you. Bruh,

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Speaker 4: I really do.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but and again I'm scared but you you guys,

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Speaker 2: I want to be clear about this. You sat down.

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Speaker 2: This isn't just your expectation. This isn't just I'm the man,

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Speaker 2: and when I come home from my construction job with

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Speaker 2: the table and my laundry done or whatever. Like you

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Speaker 2: guys sat down and said, Okay, look, I'm going to

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Speaker 2: do this and you're going to do that. What do

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Speaker 2: you do aside from your job? Do you do anything

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Speaker 2: that she was going to do all of that.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I need time to do decompressed when I

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Speaker 1: get home. It's long days. I work ten twelve hour days.

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Speaker 2: So you decided you're not going to do any of that.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I make the good bills, Sue, Oh oh,

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Speaker 5: Mean I am going to say construction is a very

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Speaker 5: difficult job.

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Speaker 2: I'm just adding that in there. I'm not saying. I'm

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Speaker 2: not saying anything else in the agreement that they had.

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Speaker 2: I guess I love it.

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Speaker 3: I appreciate my wife, and we talked about this before

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Speaker 3: and she did it for a while, but now she's slipping.

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Speaker 2: I mean, maybe she doesn't want to feel like she's

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Speaker 2: agreed to it, but maybe it's time to reassess a

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Speaker 2: little bit. Maybe you guys sit down and talk a

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Speaker 2: little bit more about it and say, hey, look, this

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Speaker 2: stuff's not getting done. We talked about you doing it.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't seem like you want to do it anymore.

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Speaker 2: Like maybe have the demand of your job has it changed?

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Speaker 2: I mean, you know, how do we do this? Why

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Speaker 1: We are communicating?

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Speaker 3: And I'm fuster I'm extremely frustrated because it's just arguing

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Speaker 1: Oh God, she doesn't want to do her anymore.

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Speaker 6: You don't have kids, right, Mike, you don't have kids, right?

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Speaker 1: No, no kids.

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Speaker 6: Okay, that's a good thing in the situation, because I

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Speaker 6: feel like the day that happens, she'sn't the what your

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Speaker 6: wife or your girlfriend. It's gonna be expected to do

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Speaker 6: all of this. I'm telling you right now, she'd be

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Speaker 6: expected to work. She'll be expected to do like laundry,

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Speaker 6: bath time. Like you're not really giving equal partner right now.

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Speaker 6: And I know construction is difficult. You work outside, she's inside,

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Speaker 6: but you both are still working.

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Speaker 2: She wants to decompressed too.

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Speaker 6: After she's done typing.

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Speaker 2: Exactly, but like she and she's not just sitting on

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Speaker 2: her butt doing nothing. You're saying she has a corporate job.

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Speaker 2: She has a job.

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Speaker 1: Correct, Yes she does. It's a corporate job.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So, but what I mean is just because she

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Speaker 2: mean that. Yes, I suppose she could put laundry in,

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Speaker 2: you know, between calls or whatever. I guess she could

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Speaker 2: do that, But I mean she also has she going

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Speaker 2: to lose your physical labor.

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Speaker 4: Bruh, She's doing mental labor. That's even that's even worse. Sometimes,

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Speaker 4: like I would love to go hold the sign sometimes

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Speaker 2: No real life.

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Speaker 7: Guard.

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Speaker 4: I would be anything some days other than working from home.

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Speaker 4: Let me tell you something. I was one of these.

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Speaker 4: My God was like you before I worked from home.

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Speaker 4: I thought work working from home was the biggest luxury.

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Speaker 2: You don't know that.

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Speaker 4: Hell, so you are in it when your house is

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Speaker 4: your job, and your job is your house, and there

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Speaker 4: is no escape. So if she's at home all day working,

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Speaker 4: imagine closing her laptop and stopping typing to only come

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Speaker 4: home to now work for you as well, it's too

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Speaker 4: much and if you make so much money, sir, I

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Speaker 4: would highly suggest you hiring some help for your wife

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Speaker 4: your relationship.

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Speaker 2: This is what about this? What about this? What if

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Speaker 2: you like? What if she just quits your job and

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Speaker 2: that becomes her job is to manage the house? Not

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Speaker 2: that I'm not that I think she would be fulfilled

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Speaker 2: by that, because that's done something. Maybe she would be

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Speaker 2: It sounds like she wouldn't like that, But is is

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Speaker 2: that an option? If it's like, Look, I can't manage

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Speaker 2: all of this because I still do have an obligation

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Speaker 2: iron your shirts. So my question to you is, what

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Speaker 2: if she comes to you and says, or what if

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Speaker 2: you go to her and say, quit your job? I

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Speaker 2: make enough money for both of us, but I do

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Speaker 2: expect that you're gonna clean the house and make food.

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Speaker 3: That's that's an option, because I really think she hates

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Speaker 5: I mean, one is physically taxing, one is mentally taxing.

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Speaker 5: But they're both taxing and they should both be looked

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Speaker 5: at equally.

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Speaker 2: Yes, let me take some phone calls. Mike, I don't

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Speaker 2: think this is going to go well for you, but

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Speaker 2: I wish you the best and thank you for calling, you,

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Speaker 2: for listening.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, eight three five, you can call it text the

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Speaker 2: same number. I mean she Yeah. If in fact they

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Speaker 2: of it, Hey, I'm gonna I agree to do this

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Speaker 2: and that and then it's not happening, then it's probably

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Speaker 2: worthy of a conversation. But they're married. He loves her,

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Speaker 2: he should want her to be happy and fulfilled. Maybe

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Speaker 2: she's not fulfilled doing his laundry and wiping his butt,

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Speaker 2: and so they need to sort of reassess, and he

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Speaker 2: needs to communicate that as opposed to just expecting it,

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Speaker 2: because he didn't seem he didn't say no, but he

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Speaker 2: didn't seem all that into the idea of her not working.

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Speaker 2: Because again, I think homemaking quote unquote or managing a

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Speaker 5: Right, or like maybe the over the weekend, if he's

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Speaker 5: so you know, burnt out, then he can do all

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Speaker 5: the housework or I don't know, they need to work

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Speaker 5: something out because he can't put it.

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Speaker 2: All on Tammy. How you doing, Tammy? Hey y'all.

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Speaker 4: Girl, Hey friend, Hey, Mike, get me upset.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Yeah, Twitch, listen, I'm working from home.

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Speaker 4: I'm in it.

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Speaker 8: Okay, someday I can't even showered.

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Speaker 1: That's how awesome.

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Speaker 3: So me, this job is and if you got kids,

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Speaker 3: is over with.

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Speaker 8: I have opened so many kids, y'all have.

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Speaker 1: I to chill out.

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Speaker 2: My needs to chill and grow up.

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Speaker 8: And it's your goal for Mike, stay or go from

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Speaker 8: homebir she needs to.

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Speaker 4: Get out of it.

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Speaker 2: I agree with that. I agree with them. I think everybody,

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Speaker 2: everybody just assumes that staying at home is the better

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Speaker 2: of the two options. But we've talked about this before.

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Speaker 2: I have friends who who they're out working all day

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Speaker 2: and you know, taking the kids to school, making lunches,

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Speaker 2: can be reverse of course. Dude comes home and then

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Speaker 2: he wants to like kick back, and his wife is like, no,

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Speaker 2: you got kids, you got stuff to do, and he's like,

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Speaker 2: but I've been out all day, and she's like what

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't give to be out all day, you know

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Speaker 2: what I mean. So I think everyone thinks that it's

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Speaker 2: great her on the other side, but yet you've got

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Speaker 2: to compromise because yes, it's hard work doing twelve hours

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Speaker 2: of construction, but it's also you know, she has a

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Speaker 2: job and she's doing it. Little Washington his underwear too,

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Speaker 2: and I guess not well enough. So yeah, and this

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Speaker 2: dude doesn't seem like he's maybe the best communicator either.

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Speaker 2: So there's that.

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Speaker 8: Get no.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Tammy. I love it. This reminds me that

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Speaker 2: Dave Chappelle's git when he's with Wayne Brady and the

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Speaker 2: hose come up and run. Wayne and Brady have to

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Speaker 2: smack it. Aaron, How you doing, Aaron?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, Hi, how you doing? Hey?

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Speaker 2: Good morning, Welcome. What do you want to say?

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Speaker 1: Good morning?

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Speaker 9: Yes, I would say I know you know, last caller

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Speaker 9: was kind of mad at Mike, but uh, he definitely

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Speaker 9: the communication needs to be open, kind of what everyone

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Speaker 9: is saying and just hear everyone's side. It's like you said,

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Speaker 9: the workload maybe increased on her end, and he doesn't

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Speaker 9: have a clear understanding. He just keeps saying she's flipping.

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Speaker 9: But why is that. Another thing is too, I would

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Speaker 9: recommend anyone hiring help if you can afford it, since

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Speaker 9: he's making good money. But it definitely takes a lot

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Speaker 9: of the like his expectations of her doing all this.

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Speaker 9: you know you're paying her, so it's easier to do that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, man, it makes sense. Thank you, Aron, have a

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Speaker 2: good day. Glad you called. That's another thing too, is

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Speaker 2: We talked about this, and you said you didn't want

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Speaker 2: I think he would have mentioned that if that weren't

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Speaker 2: we don't want to spend the money. You want to

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I mean this goes back to my whole like we

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Speaker 5: people think and we have, you know, relatively easy jobs,

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Speaker 4: Absolutely, y'all. Yeah, No, I know. Morning they wake up,

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Speaker 4: they're done talking about team. They got the rest of

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Speaker 4: their day. Oh, how I apologize, Thank you, keeping I'm

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Speaker 2: I've been waiting for that apology for something you used

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Speaker 2: out here. Thank you for that apology. Been waiting for that. Tiffany,

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Speaker 2: Good morning, Tiffany, good morning. What do you want to

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Speaker 2: This dude, he's upset because his wife, he's a construction worker,

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Speaker 2: she's slipping that the home, you know, the work of

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 8: I'm of the opinion that if he has a standard

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Speaker 8: that is not being upheld, then why don't the two

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Speaker 8: She does what's good for her, she does what's good

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Speaker 8: for him. It's twenty twenty four. You can get laundry service,

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Speaker 8: you can get groceries delivered. You don't have to do

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think you're right, Tiffany. Thank you, have

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Speaker 2: a good day. Thank you for calling, Thanks for listening. Hey, Jason,

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Speaker 2: good morning, Jason. Is it mike ye mechanic? He has

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Speaker 2: a few words he's called himself, Jason, though, Hi, Jason,

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Speaker 2: what do you want to say?

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Speaker 9: Hey?

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Speaker 7: Honestly, it shouldn't even be about him staring or going.

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Speaker 7: She needs to go ahead and go and go quickly

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Speaker 7: because if this is the way he's acting now, how

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Speaker 7: is he gonna act when kids are around? For anything

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Speaker 7: else down the line, like it is ridiculous that this

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Speaker 7: grown ass man can't cook a dinner, clean up a

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Speaker 7: little bit, and guarantee she's not happy, and Ben, I

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Speaker 7: guarantee it.

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Speaker 2: You know what, let's go ahead and call this man

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Speaker 2: a short short man as well. Yeah, that's exactly right.

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Speaker 2: You know what, Jason, this guy's not putting it down

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Speaker 2: your dark I agree. Have you heard the men talk

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Speaker 2: like that? He gave tu pup shop energy? He did? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: he certainly did, Jason, I agree with you.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, he's a grown ass man. He needs the man

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Speaker 7: up and do do equalnestly.

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Speaker 1: He needs to go.

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Speaker 2: I agree, Thank you, Jason, have a good day. I

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Speaker 2: I think that's if someone texted this. A few people

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Speaker 2: that's what I think. That's what it probably comes down to,

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Speaker 2: not that she didn't agree to do it, not that

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Speaker 4: Probably already beating herself up about this already because I

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Speaker 4: no excuse. But like until you hear that little Microsoft team,

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Speaker 4: you don't.

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Speaker 2: Know the shruggle, right, I used to think pre COVID. Honestly,

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Speaker 2: if you had told me, I've said this so many times,

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Speaker 2: if you had told me Fred, here's the deal. We're

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Speaker 2: gonna put everything you need in your house and you

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Speaker 2: can do the show and you don't have to leave

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Speaker 2: your house. You'll do anything, I would have thought that

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Speaker 2: was the greatest thing ever until it happens. And then

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Speaker 2: we did that for about three days and we're like, nope, no,

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Speaker 2: not having it. Couldn't do it, not having no eggs

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Speaker 2: in the air once that's what did you. Yeah we

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Speaker 2: were on the air. Yeah, yeah, we were on the air. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I made eggs. That's where we were at. It was like,

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Speaker 2: please bring me back to the office. I'm really glad

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Speaker 2: that we came in just to wear my eggs. I'm hungry.

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Speaker 2: I'd enjoyed it, The entertainber reports the next Fred's show,