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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: And two times People's Choice Award winning podcast Hello Everybody Weird.

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Speaker 2: Screrubing It Tanya scrubbing.

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Speaker 3: I was actually gonna text you and see if you

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Speaker 3: wanted to wear scrubs today.

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Speaker 4: I know, why did you have scrubs on earlier?

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Speaker 3: I did this thing with Access Hollywood for like the

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Speaker 3: comeback of the new season.

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Speaker 4: Wow, and.

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Speaker 2: Where was my invite? I've been talking about Grace and

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Speaker 2: Amy way longer than you.

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Speaker 3: Have been done.

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Speaker 2: The salt is yeah, as Hollywood, I got my eyes

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Speaker 2: on you.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 3: But yeah I had them, I like washed all. I

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Speaker 3: hadn't washed my purple ones. I washed my blue ones,

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Speaker 3: and I watched my pink ones, so I was like

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Speaker 3: all fresh there, ready to go.

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Speaker 4: I mean might have been washed, but they've been stored

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Speaker 4: since our visit on set.

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Speaker 3: I know. Oh, I had to seriously search search the

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Speaker 3: rad pad for them because since quarantine, I've been like

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Speaker 3: organizing and putting stuff in different spots, so I like

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Speaker 3: literally couldn't find them for a good hour and a half.

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Speaker 4: That's said, visit is more special than ever, with the

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Speaker 4: fact that we would never be able to do that

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Speaker 4: for I mean, who even knows how long?

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Speaker 3: Who even knows how long because they're only having the

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Speaker 3: people come a set that like need.

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Speaker 4: To be there. Yeah, so we'd literally have to be

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Speaker 4: a scheduled extra.

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Speaker 3: Maybe this is the year to do it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I was gonna say, like, we've been

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Speaker 2: waiting for the sign that it's our time, and I.

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Speaker 3: Think twenty twenty one we need to make it happen.

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Speaker 3: I just don't know how. There's a I know, you know,

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Speaker 3: we don't worry about the how, we don't worry about

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Speaker 3: the how. We just we just do.

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Speaker 4: That is not Tanya attitude.

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Speaker 3: You don't put out there, thank you. We do not

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Speaker 3: know how, but we will. Twenty twenty one is the year.

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Speaker 2: Before we officially jump into the episode for this week.

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Speaker 2: Just a reminder, our virtual live event is this Friday,

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Speaker 2: November thirteenth. It's our Scrubber's Choice Party. It's gonna be

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Speaker 2: so freaking fun. We have so many special guests. We're

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Speaker 2: doing our first live mantal. It's gonna be a really

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Speaker 2: good time live Mantal.

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Speaker 3: You can get your tickets at on location live dot com.

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Speaker 3: Excuse me, and yeah, so our manal is gonna include

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Speaker 3: Nick Vaiel Hunter March, and then we also have Hannah

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Speaker 3: and Am coming by, and then a portion of the

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Speaker 3: proceeds are gonna benefit the Young Survivor Coalition. So it's

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Speaker 3: a great cause. It's gonna be a great time and

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Speaker 3: it's a Friday night, so why not come hang out?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, please come.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna be a really good time and you're not

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Speaker 2: gonna want to miss it because our last live event

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Speaker 2: was a It was hilarious. It was an s h

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Speaker 2: I T show with a lot of fun.

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Speaker 3: That that was like when that was March, I was

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Speaker 3: like very early pandemic.

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Speaker 4: Right, it was somewhere it wasn't I don't think we

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Speaker 4: did it like right, you think maybe it was April. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I mean it was close to the beginning to my

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Speaker 4: own remember we Yeah good drinco.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh my gosh. That was such a wild ride.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was really fun.

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Speaker 2: So don't miss out on this Friday because we hate

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Speaker 2: we hate fomo and you're gonna have phomo if you

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Speaker 2: miss it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and also if you're if you are gonna come,

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Speaker 3: maybe put some of your mantle questions in the Facebook

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Speaker 3: group so we can compile a list for Nick and Hunter.

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Speaker 4: That's right.

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Speaker 2: I'm also excited to talk to Hannah Ann because I

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Speaker 2: haven't I haven't spoken to her. I'd never met her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know her either.

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Speaker 4: It's gonna be a great time. So yeah, this, how

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Speaker 4: was your weekend? What'd you do? It was good? Oh yeah?

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Speaker 3: And then wait, I also want to mention on Sunday,

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Speaker 3: on the actual day and the People's Choice Awards, I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna be hosting a a Twitter watch party on the

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Speaker 3: Kiss FM Twitter account. Fine, I need to come to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay great. And then so that'll be super fun.

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Speaker 3: We're going do on the kiss f Instagram or because

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Speaker 4: That's so freaking exciting. I know, some normalcy.

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Speaker 5: It definitely feels like some normalcy.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's definitely been a different situation because everything

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I saw you, like we're getting styled, just all

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Speaker 4: I miss getting glammed and styled. I know.

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 3: It's interesting though, because getting your makeup done is so

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Speaker 4: Proud of you. Thank you so what you do this weekend?

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Speaker 3: Oh, I actually brought them in. I made great.

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Speaker 4: This is so fun being friends with you.

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Speaker 3: I just never know what's gonna happen.

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, you just never know what you're going to

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Speaker 4: be like excited about. And here we have a thankful turkey,

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Speaker 4: a thankful turkey that looks like something one of us made.

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Speaker 4: And I don't know first grade.

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Speaker 3: Totally, So I'm like, I'm kind of back to like

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Speaker 3: Like I made a turkey about health and I wrote

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Speaker 2: I have to go through that list every time I

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Speaker 2: Bea You're so lucky that you're healthy and you can

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Speaker 3: It's interesting because I feel like, so I had my

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Speaker 3: Just keeps adding up. Now have my public floor stretches

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Speaker 7: We see the routine of the story butterflies pelvic floor

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Speaker 3: I'm just happy to report it's going great. And actually

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Speaker 3: was just gonna do an interview for the blog, like whatever.

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Speaker 4: Totally.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I you know, I go look at the

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Speaker 4: So I think she'd be great.

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Speaker 3: To have one vagina talk. I think people anytime I

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Speaker 3: The craziness, I know, because then the next day Alex

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Speaker 3: Trebek died and it was just like back to twenty.

446
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Speaker 4: Twenty, back to the news cycle.

447
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Speaker 2: Yeah, here we are, I know, but I know we

448
00:20:26,840 --> 00:20:29,399
Speaker 2: have some more to talk about, but we're going to

449
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Speaker 2: take a break, so we'll be right back.

450
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Speaker 4: All right, we're back. So something else very significant happened

451
00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:55,320
Speaker 4: last week in the midst of the election, which was

452
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Speaker 4: the Bachelorette chose her final rose very quickly into the process.

453
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Speaker 3: Okay, I don't want to toot my own horn, but

454
00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:10,800
Speaker 3: beb beebe beebe I picked.

455
00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:14,520
Speaker 4: Dale for her Tanya that everyone would have before the

456
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Speaker 4: first episod aired.

457
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Speaker 2: I know, but I'm just saying, like, just based on

458
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Speaker 2: photos alone.

459
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Speaker 3: It's like, that's pretty I'm not. I just I feel

460
00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:22,880
Speaker 3: like I might have powers.

461
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Speaker 4: Uh. Any other season, i'd give you credit, but this they.

462
00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:30,680
Speaker 3: Hadn't even filmed started filming anything yet. Okay, you know

463
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Speaker 3: what I mean. Like normally there's like buzz on the internet,

464
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Speaker 3: so I can kind of.

465
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Speaker 4: He would have been my first choice. He would have

466
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Speaker 4: been my only choice.

467
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Speaker 3: I just feel good because I have it on record.

468
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Speaker 3: I pull up the tape.

469
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I it's interesting because she got It's weird because

470
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Speaker 4: after the fact, now I feel like everyone in the

471
00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:51,440
Speaker 4: comments and everything are so happy and congratulatory, but during

472
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Speaker 4: the time people were really just like nasty.

473
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Speaker 3: You know what's interesting though, is like I don't know

474
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Speaker 3: why they did, why they brought in a new bachelorette.

475
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Speaker 2: I know, I personally feel like I think, right off,

476
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Speaker 2: this is just my theory.

477
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Speaker 4: I have nothing.

478
00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:10,240
Speaker 3: Mistakes, I have a different theory.

479
00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:12,600
Speaker 4: I have nothing to stand on with this theory. This

480
00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:14,360
Speaker 4: is just where the came from.

481
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Speaker 3: You were on the show, so you have a little

482
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Speaker 3: bit more of a leg than I.

483
00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:18,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I was never a lead.

484
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Speaker 2: So okay, I think right off the bat, they could

485
00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:27,760
Speaker 2: see the connection with Claire and Dale they were like,

486
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Speaker 2: she's so into this guy.

487
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Speaker 4: She said, I think I just met my husband. When

488
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Speaker 4: she met him, there was a clear connection, and I okay.

489
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Speaker 2: Normally, if there's that connection, I think that they kind

490
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Speaker 2: of separate that person.

491
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Speaker 4: I remember Caitlin saying she felt like she didn't get

492
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Speaker 4: to see Sean as much as she would have liked

493
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Speaker 4: because they knew how into him she was at the

494
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Speaker 4: time of her season.

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Speaker 3: I just love the fact that the women just know.

496
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Speaker 3: I feel like the Bachelorette seasons, it's always like laser focused.

497
00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:57,720
Speaker 3: Within the first two weeks, you're like, okay, duh.

498
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Speaker 2: So I think normally they and it send that person

499
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Speaker 2: over to comfort her, like when Yosif went off saying

500
00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:08,359
Speaker 2: like she was the oldest bachelor all that whatever. They

501
00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:10,760
Speaker 2: normally want to send the one that she's the most

502
00:23:10,800 --> 00:23:13,680
Speaker 2: into or have him go interrupt. Several times they would

503
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Speaker 2: kind of keep them separated, just so that the connection

504
00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:19,960
Speaker 2: didn't develop so much faster. I think they could see

505
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Speaker 2: the potential with how into him she was, and that

506
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Speaker 2: she wasn't really feeling that with anyone else, and so

507
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Speaker 2: they said, let's let's just make this happen.

508
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Speaker 3: But so okay, so here's where I come in.

509
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Speaker 2: Okay, but no, but listen, and then they said, let's

510
00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:37,199
Speaker 2: just make this bachelorette he's in crazy and bring in

511
00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:41,280
Speaker 2: and bring in another bachelorette while we let this first

512
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Speaker 2: story unfold.

513
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Speaker 3: Because I was like, why bring in the new one?

514
00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:47,359
Speaker 3: Because what they could have done is they could have

515
00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:49,359
Speaker 3: just flipped it and just kind of made it like

516
00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:51,560
Speaker 3: she could have just sent all the guys home and

517
00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:55,600
Speaker 3: we could have watched Herndale meet his parents and she

518
00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:57,680
Speaker 3: brings him home and like we get to see the thing,

519
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Speaker 3: you know, like actually really see it play out more,

520
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Speaker 3: versus has.

521
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Speaker 4: Just been like for seven more weeks, I don't know,

522
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:04,119
Speaker 4: a couple more weeks.

523
00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:05,359
Speaker 3: Like it was just like wam band.

524
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:07,359
Speaker 4: I know, because that's what I'm saying.

525
00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:08,880
Speaker 2: But if they knew that they were going to bring

526
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Speaker 2: in a new bachelorette, they needed it to be like

527
00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 2: as long as it could because now I feel bad.

528
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Speaker 3: I feel bad for Tasha because these guys were starting

529
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Speaker 3: to like have feelings for her, you know. I mean like,

530
00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:22,240
Speaker 3: first of all, you're quarantined for however long, you're probably

531
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:25,359
Speaker 3: just like and then you meet a girl and you're like,

532
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Speaker 3: I'm in love with you, and then they have Tasha

533
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Speaker 3: come in and like.

534
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Speaker 5: These guys are probably still kind of heartbroken.

535
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Speaker 4: It's twenty four hours, Sonya.

536
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Speaker 2: These guys are not like you or they laser hit

537
00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:38,840
Speaker 2: on one girl and can't think about the next girl.

538
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Speaker 6: It's like Tanya has never met a man before.

539
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:48,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm like, they're very quickly able to shift. Tonya

540
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:51,159
Speaker 4: has never met a man, and like, literally some of

541
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Speaker 4: these guys may have had a total of ten minutes

542
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Speaker 4: with her at this point, seriously, which I.

543
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Speaker 3: Know is not like this sucks for Tasha. These guys

544
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:01,879
Speaker 3: are gonna be heartbroke and then she's gonna come in

545
00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:03,160
Speaker 3: and be like cool.

546
00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 4: Are you kidding?

547
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:07,919
Speaker 2: These guys get the opportunity to date like two gorgeous women,

548
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:10,440
Speaker 2: and like they bring in Tasia, who's like.

549
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:16,119
Speaker 4: A glowing goddess, and yeah, she looks so stunning on television,

550
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:19,720
Speaker 4: And so I'm thinking these guys are probably like, this

551
00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:21,200
Speaker 4: is the best thing ever, because.

552
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:23,720
Speaker 2: Lucky for them, they said, hey, if y'all want to

553
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:27,160
Speaker 2: stay and have the chance, you can, Otherwise we're gonna.

554
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 4: Usher in some other guys that we casted, you know.

555
00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:34,840
Speaker 4: So I don't feel bad for anyone in this situation. No,

556
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:37,399
Speaker 4: I really don't. There's one guy that really poured his

557
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,399
Speaker 4: heart out on the first one on one, like about

558
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:42,040
Speaker 4: his demons and stuff. I felt a little bad for him,

559
00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 4: but he'll be okay.

560
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:46,359
Speaker 3: But then she gets a shortened season, right because they

561
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:49,600
Speaker 3: still have however many weeks, So then, yeah, she's really

562
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 3: got to decide quick.

563
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:55,400
Speaker 2: Girls gotta she has some laser focus on her too.

564
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Speaker 3: But not only did the uh why am I blinking

565
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:00,240
Speaker 3: on the name of the book that I always calling

566
00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:02,600
Speaker 3: in the one? Hopefully she did her homework before she

567
00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 3: went on the show so she could really hone in there.

568
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:09,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm excited, though, I'm I mean, I'm so grateful

569
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:13,119
Speaker 2: to the Bachelor Bachelorette for making it happen during quarantine

570
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:16,959
Speaker 2: for us. Truly, I have, I have no complaints, and

571
00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:19,760
Speaker 2: this has just made it even more epic because it's.

572
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Speaker 3: And you know what's funny what I was thinking this is,

573
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Speaker 3: I mean, when I'm watching it, this is what goes

574
00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:24,400
Speaker 3: through my head. I was like, you know what, I'm

575
00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:27,560
Speaker 3: really happy that they didn't embrace the pandemic, like in

576
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 3: terms of you know, having them meet through cars, you

577
00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 3: know what I mean, Like, you know, how like in

578
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:34,879
Speaker 3: the beginning they were like, just do it and have

579
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 3: everybody wear masks and be dissocial distanced and you know

580
00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:41,560
Speaker 3: that whole thing. And I'm glad that they didn't do

581
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 3: it that way and they like quarantined everybody, you know

582
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:44,240
Speaker 3: what I mean.

583
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:48,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's just funny, like of course they couldn't

584
00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:52,760
Speaker 4: do that. They have to have like interacting, you suck.

585
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:55,960
Speaker 2: I feel bad in this sense because I experienced being

586
00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:58,880
Speaker 2: in the Bachelor Mansion and the feeling that even when

587
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:01,439
Speaker 2: I think about the Bachelor Mansion and all the things

588
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 2: like the memories there, that they don't have that that

589
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:07,880
Speaker 2: experience because it's such an iconic part of the Bachelor

590
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 2: and that was one of my favorite things. So this

591
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 2: season of Guys and then Matt James season of Girls

592
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:16,120
Speaker 2: because they're filming somewhere else too.

593
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:21,920
Speaker 4: But aside from that, wow, eternally grateful. Yeah, thank you Bachelor,

594
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:23,880
Speaker 4: Thank you BA to thank you Chris Harrison.

595
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:28,120
Speaker 3: You guys are Mills givers. You guys are real givers.

596
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:29,679
Speaker 4: Yeah.

597
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:32,720
Speaker 2: Do you do you feel like you relate to Claire

598
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:36,400
Speaker 2: at all in her personality at all?

599
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:43,679
Speaker 7: I do not know, really I do, Yes, I feel

600
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:46,720
Speaker 7: like you would be the bachelorette and find one guy

601
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 7: and be like he's the one, Like.

602
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:51,720
Speaker 3: Like I think I would know, I don't. I don't

603
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:53,240
Speaker 3: think I could play the game, you know how they

604
00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:55,320
Speaker 3: like tell you you need to you know. But I

605
00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:57,679
Speaker 3: do think that I could see if they gave me

606
00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:03,400
Speaker 3: twenty five awesome guys, I could see myself struggling because

607
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 3: I feel like I have feelings for multiples. I think

608
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:08,439
Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't think I can date what

609
00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:09,159
Speaker 3: I know.

610
00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 2: I'm seeing one and then that's the first one that

611
00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 2: comes out of a limo.

612
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:15,160
Speaker 4: That's it.

613
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:17,160
Speaker 5: I don't think I could date multiples at once.

614
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:20,640
Speaker 4: That's why you'd be good on the Bachelor, because then

615
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:21,880
Speaker 4: you just be dating one.

616
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:24,040
Speaker 3: No, but then I see him dating other people, and

617
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:25,000
Speaker 3: that would throw me.

618
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 4: First rate TV.

619
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Speaker 2: It's the TV that I've personally been looking for, searching for.

620
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,359
Speaker 4: Wow. I just meant in a way of like, I

621
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:37,760
Speaker 4: feel like, if you knew you wouldn't waste you one's time,

622
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 4: you'd be like, this is my guy.

623
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, no chance I'm leaving.

624
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:45,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, get bring in someone else because I'm gone. Yeah.

625
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 3: No, I could not play the game.

626
00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 4: Yeah. Anyways, that was also something significant that happened over

627
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:52,720
Speaker 4: the week that I was just.

628
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, and I actually want to I want to

629
00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:56,239
Speaker 3: shout out. So I was doing, you know, I just

630
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 3: really been, you know, just just doing the quarantine thing

631
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 3: this weekend. But the fitting was very a nice distraction.

632
00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 3: I will say. Kylie Geher gave me the suggestion to

633
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 3: do and it was really great. So she says, go

634
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 3: to the beach. I didn't go to the beach. I

635
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 3: did in my apartment. But and write down three people's

636
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:19,959
Speaker 3: names in your life and just sit there and just

637
00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 3: like pray like whatever comes to your mind about those

638
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 3: three people. And I did it for like an hour

639
00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 3: on Sunday and it just felt so good.

640
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:30,479
Speaker 4: What do you pray for me? About?

641
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:31,880
Speaker 3: So many? Thanks?

642
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:41,720
Speaker 4: Hoh? What? Whoa? Can I talk about this?

643
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 3: Can you just keep talking to somebody? Talk to Mark

644
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 3: or something.

645
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 6: Well, I don't know what's happening.

646
00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 4: Register just walked in the door. Yeahs flowers with flowers?

647
00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 1: Okay, give the I met a microphone.

648
00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:06,640
Speaker 4: I love that.

649
00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 3: That is your reaction.

650
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 4: That is so good. I She's like, keep talking. What

651
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 4: do I mean to say? I was not ready for

652
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:19,600
Speaker 4: Red Star to walk through the door with flowers and

653
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 4: it's very handsome.

654
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:22,440
Speaker 3: He had like a handsome.

655
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 4: Red star. What are you wearing? Oh? Wow, stunning. It's

656
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 4: like a blazer sports coat but like cash okay, and

657
00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:38,720
Speaker 4: then he has on some white sneakers and some black

658
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:43,200
Speaker 4: jeans and a black polo. It's a very good look.

659
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 6: Wow.

660
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:49,720
Speaker 4: He came in and gave a kiss, not to me

661
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:50,280
Speaker 4: but to Tan.

662
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:53,920
Speaker 6: We all saw that.

663
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Speaker 8: I'm I thought he walked in the nag ring based

664
00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:01,600
Speaker 8: on that reaction, I.

665
00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 4: Mean nude and see him with flowers.

666
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:09,240
Speaker 6: It was exciting or in a clown costume. It was

667
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:12,840
Speaker 6: very weird. That would have been great.

668
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 3: I also love that they can't see anything right now.

669
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:18,800
Speaker 6: No, we just saw you guys start screaming. Do you

670
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:19,600
Speaker 6: need to call the police?

671
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 9: Is there someone intruding?

672
00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 4: Are you going down there?

673
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 6: Yeah?

674
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:26,480
Speaker 3: I honestly, I swear to you write thought that.

675
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:29,360
Speaker 4: I was like, is the You literally scared me because

676
00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:29,560
Speaker 4: you go?

677
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:32,200
Speaker 3: Because I thought, I was like, did you lock the door?

678
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 3: I just saw a random man walking walk past the doorway.

679
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:37,640
Speaker 6: So I just had like a you have a boyfriend?

680
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:40,080
Speaker 1: Is still that is it's still so new to you

681
00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:41,800
Speaker 1: that you just shocked when he walks in.

682
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 2: I was there, I jumped because she gasped, I'm going

683
00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:53,720
Speaker 2: to get some advice from the boys while you go

684
00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:59,720
Speaker 2: downstairs and we're going to answer some emails. My heart,

685
00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 2: because she like gasped, and you know, my back is

686
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:06,840
Speaker 2: facing the door. So my worst fear of someone seeing

687
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 2: someone behind me, I mean, not knowing we.

688
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 6: Have other people in the chat.

689
00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 1: By the way, Danielle says she thought something paranormal happened,

690
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 1: like TIMEA saw it go.

691
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:18,000
Speaker 4: Danielle, that makes me my I'm nauseous right now.

692
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:20,520
Speaker 1: And Becky says she thought a bird flew in the window.

693
00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:22,720
Speaker 1: That's pretty good. That's pretty accurate to what that is.

694
00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:24,560
Speaker 8: And that's the closest thing to actually happen.

695
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 4: I guess, so funny, so scary.

696
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:31,840
Speaker 6: Tina will never be a boyfriend. It's so interesting.

697
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, we're all shocked the door. Okay, this is good

698
00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:39,760
Speaker 4: because now it's kind of like a mini Mannal version.

699
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 1: Okay, here's Stephanie's email. She says, I'm thirty, my boyfriend's

700
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:48,120
Speaker 1: thirty one. We've been together two years. The other day,

701
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 1: my boyfriend said he needs a break and space to

702
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 1: figure out if he is still emotionally invested in this relationship.

703
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 1: He said he loves me, but doesn't know if he's

704
00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 1: in love with me anymore. I'm devastated, but I agreed

705
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 1: and asked him to define the break so I knew

706
00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 1: my boundaries. He said he still wants to talk for you,

707
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:07,960
Speaker 1: text and start by seeing each other once a week

708
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 1: and take it from there. When he left we lived together,

709
00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 1: he hugged me goodbye and said this isn't the end.

710
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:17,960
Speaker 1: It's okay. I will talk to you tomorrow. I never

711
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:20,120
Speaker 1: heard from him. I'm on day two of our break,

712
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 1: and I'm such a mess. So I guess the wisdom

713
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:25,920
Speaker 1: and advice I'm looking for is what the heck is

714
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:28,160
Speaker 1: going on in his brain? And how do I get

715
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:30,520
Speaker 1: myself through this and be a strong woman.

716
00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 4: This is a great email to have you all.

717
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 1: Wait, I don't know if it is. Honestly, this is

718
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:37,680
Speaker 1: a weird one for me.

719
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:39,640
Speaker 8: I don't like this at all.

720
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:40,080
Speaker 4: You know.

721
00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:42,600
Speaker 9: I was talking to Alison about this last night. I

722
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:46,320
Speaker 9: don't like the breaks. I think breaks don't work. I've

723
00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 9: never known anyone where it's happened successfully. I'm sure it has,

724
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 9: but I think when, especially when a man introduces the

725
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:56,240
Speaker 9: idea of a break my mind, I'm sorry, but like

726
00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 9: I think ninety nine percent of the time that man

727
00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 9: wants to have sex with other people and he is

728
00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:04,720
Speaker 9: not confident or brave enough to end the relationship. He

729
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 9: wants to have something in his back pocket in case

730
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:07,720
Speaker 9: it doesn't work out.

731
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:10,600
Speaker 8: And that's what I think this guy's doing. I really do.

732
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:11,600
Speaker 8: I think it's over.

733
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:15,919
Speaker 2: I'm I'm torn a little bit on it because part

734
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:18,399
Speaker 2: of me wonders if he's kind of getting to I'm

735
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:22,480
Speaker 2: not saying this is right, but part of me is

736
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:27,240
Speaker 2: wondering if he's thinking, like I'm considering this being my person.

737
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:32,840
Speaker 4: And she's back. They're back.

738
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:36,879
Speaker 2: We have two we have we have a tan yet,

739
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:39,440
Speaker 2: and we have a red star. A red star has

740
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:40,920
Speaker 2: taken a seat next to cool.

741
00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:42,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's gonna watch.

742
00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:47,160
Speaker 4: He's gonna watch. Well, he may have, so this actually

743
00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:52,760
Speaker 4: would be a great email to maybe, Yeah, this is interesting, Okay,

744
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 4: it's okay.

745
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:57,319
Speaker 6: Well, if I may, I'll summarize.

746
00:34:57,440 --> 00:35:00,880
Speaker 1: Stephanie is thirty, her boyfriend's thirty one to god two years.

747
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:05,120
Speaker 1: He says he needs a break. He was very He

748
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:07,600
Speaker 1: tried to calm her. We're still gonna talk. It's gonna

749
00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:09,880
Speaker 1: be fine. I just want to be sure, I'm invested

750
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:13,000
Speaker 1: in this relationship. I love you, I may not be

751
00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:15,319
Speaker 1: in love with you anymore. He hugged her when he

752
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:17,719
Speaker 1: left and says, I'll talk to you tomorrow. This isn't

753
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:19,920
Speaker 1: the end, and she hasn't heard from him, and this

754
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:22,200
Speaker 1: is day two that she's sending us this email. She

755
00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:23,680
Speaker 1: wants to know how to get herself through this and

756
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:27,279
Speaker 1: be a strong woman. Easton has a cynical point of

757
00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:29,760
Speaker 1: view that he is looking to sleep with other women.

758
00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:31,879
Speaker 1: And I would love to not be cynical about this.

759
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:34,279
Speaker 1: I'd love to, but I'm a guy, and so I

760
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:37,520
Speaker 1: have a bad feeling about this. I don't My feeling

761
00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 1: is there is somebody else. I don't think he's involved

762
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 1: with her physically at all, but I think he's developing

763
00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:46,400
Speaker 1: an emotional connection and he wants to explore it a

764
00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:48,799
Speaker 1: little bit. And he's keeping you on the bench, which

765
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:51,920
Speaker 1: is a horrible thing to do. But that's my gut,

766
00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:54,920
Speaker 1: is that he is seeking other options. He doesn't want

767
00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:58,640
Speaker 1: to be alone. I really don't think that it's possible.

768
00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:00,600
Speaker 3: I don't give any other backstory, just that they were

769
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:01,399
Speaker 3: together for two years.

770
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's possible.

771
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:04,600
Speaker 1: He just needs some time because he's getting cold feet

772
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:06,279
Speaker 1: because this is going too fast and you're heading too

773
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 1: close to marriage, and he's getting scared. And maybe he

774
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 1: does want her to be with his dudes and play

775
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:12,399
Speaker 1: video games for a while. But my feeling is there's

776
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:12,960
Speaker 1: somebody else.

777
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:16,440
Speaker 3: No guys want to do that. I'm gonna be the

778
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:18,880
Speaker 3: non cynical one here and I'm gonna say that I

779
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:22,400
Speaker 3: don't think that he necessarily has another girl, or that

780
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:26,200
Speaker 3: he wants another girl. But I also think that if

781
00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:28,840
Speaker 3: he said he needs a day, I think she should

782
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:30,560
Speaker 3: just give him the day and.

783
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:32,520
Speaker 2: He needs a break. He said he wants to take

784
00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:34,280
Speaker 2: a break and see her once a week.

785
00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:35,920
Speaker 5: Oh, you didn't say that.

786
00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:37,399
Speaker 3: You said he was gonna talk to her the next day.

787
00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 4: He okay, hold on.

788
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:41,359
Speaker 2: She asked him to define the break, and he said

789
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 2: he still wanted to talk via text and start by

790
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:45,360
Speaker 2: seeing each other once a week and then take it

791
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:45,839
Speaker 2: from there.

792
00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:47,920
Speaker 4: He left and said, I'll talk to you tomorrow. But

793
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:49,560
Speaker 4: she hasn't heard from him for two days.

794
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:52,800
Speaker 5: Oh.

795
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:55,280
Speaker 3: I don't think it necessarily has to do with another girl.

796
00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, we'll keep the possibility in there, but

797
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 1: it's not good.

798
00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 6: None of it's good.

799
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:04,520
Speaker 4: It's not good for her.

800
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:07,120
Speaker 2: But what if he's thinking this could be the person

801
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:10,319
Speaker 2: I'm gonna marry. I'm maybe looking you know, maybe she's

802
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:13,120
Speaker 2: the one, and I'm like considering taking the next step.

803
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:16,680
Speaker 4: But I just I am overwhelmed and need space to

804
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:20,000
Speaker 4: really think about it. Is that too unrealistic?

805
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:21,640
Speaker 1: I mean, I wish you would have said those words,

806
00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:24,239
Speaker 1: but I think that's a possibility, right, And.

807
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:25,799
Speaker 3: That's the thing too. But that's the thing. If you

808
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:28,240
Speaker 3: don't communicate, how is she gonna know? If he literally

809
00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 3: just says that, my mind would go to that place too.

810
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:35,759
Speaker 5: I'd be like, uh, okay, cool. So yeah, So what's

811
00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:36,480
Speaker 5: her advice for her?

812
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 1: Does she need to start emotionally distancing herself from the situation.

813
00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 3: I agree, emotionally and mentally.

814
00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:45,520
Speaker 6: The defense mechanisms it's time for them to kick in.

815
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 2: She's just gonna she's gonna be miserable while he's figuring

816
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 2: things out.

817
00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 3: And I think where that comes from is like the

818
00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:57,960
Speaker 3: the want to be with him, do you know what

819
00:37:58,000 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 3: I mean? Like it's like it's in your heart, it's

820
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:01,879
Speaker 3: in her heart. Obviously she wants to be with him,

821
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 3: and so I think what she just needs to focus

822
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:06,200
Speaker 3: on right now is her own heart and the things

823
00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:09,000
Speaker 3: that bring her joy and happiness, and just go full

824
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:12,760
Speaker 3: throttle into those things during this time, during this season,

825
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:15,600
Speaker 3: because that's the only thing that's going to help her heart.

826
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:16,160
Speaker 5: Do you know what I mean?

827
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:19,319
Speaker 3: Like her worrying about that isn't going to do any

828
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 3: favors for her.

829
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 7: Yeah.

830
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:25,279
Speaker 1: I think there's about ten different possibilities here. One of

831
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:26,319
Speaker 1: them has a happy ending.

832
00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:30,080
Speaker 6: Oh dark, eh, I know, I'm sorry.

833
00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:31,759
Speaker 4: One out of ten has a happy ending.

834
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:35,560
Speaker 6: That's what That's how I see this cynical.

835
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 4: Dark. Definitely keep us posted, please, Yeah, it could be

836
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:43,720
Speaker 4: one of those things if we had a little more information.

837
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:46,640
Speaker 6: Backstory, that's true.

838
00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 4: Has it just been a blissful two years?

839
00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:50,880
Speaker 2: Has it been like did he have stuff going on

840
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:52,239
Speaker 2: where it's been complicated?

841
00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:54,239
Speaker 4: Like, I don't know, I need to hear a little

842
00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:54,520
Speaker 4: bit more.

843
00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 3: I think me too, any of our backstory?

844
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 6: Is Red Star of any thoughts on the situation?

845
00:38:58,120 --> 00:38:59,760
Speaker 4: Sorry? Do you have any advice on this situation?

846
00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:01,239
Speaker 3: I know you're here, I know.

847
00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:04,239
Speaker 5: Well, do you think he's sleeping with somebody else?

848
00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:15,279
Speaker 3: Okay? So Red Stars saying that if he if he

849
00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:17,239
Speaker 3: wanted to see somebody else, if there was another girl

850
00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:18,480
Speaker 3: that he would just end it.

851
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:21,680
Speaker 6: I don't think so, I don't. I disagree with that.

852
00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 4: They disagree, they disagree.

853
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 8: I'm jealous of the guy.

854
00:39:28,640 --> 00:39:34,759
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah. He says, you'd have to be a real

855
00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:35,480
Speaker 5: scumback to do that.

856
00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:40,680
Speaker 6: After you guys are guys.

857
00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:52,800
Speaker 4: He's saying, if you're if you're just true scum, you

858
00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:55,799
Speaker 4: would cheat and not tell her, But to cheat and

859
00:39:55,840 --> 00:40:00,400
Speaker 4: then act like the relationship still has a chance is

860
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:01,240
Speaker 4: real skill.

861
00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:04,560
Speaker 1: He's he's trying to loophole this. This is this way.

862
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:05,480
Speaker 1: It's not chea does.

863
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:07,359
Speaker 8: Not doing anything wrong in his mind by doing this.

864
00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:10,439
Speaker 4: Oh he's he's thinking that he's going to get away

865
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:13,040
Speaker 4: with not being the bad guy if he's like creating

866
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:13,879
Speaker 4: a loophole that.

867
00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:19,320
Speaker 3: Rachel.

868
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:26,520
Speaker 4: Okay, wait, red Star has come around to. So that

869
00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:34,160
Speaker 4: was a full circle moment. I didn't do anything wrong, right, Yeah?

870
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:37,960
Speaker 2: Wow, this reminds me of that time that y'all were

871
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:39,759
Speaker 2: saying something that I finally agreed with.

872
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:47,759
Speaker 4: I know me a second. It's humbling, all right, So

873
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:48,640
Speaker 4: we we didn't.

874
00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:51,719
Speaker 2: We didn't give great advice except to maybe start distancing

875
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 2: herself and keep us updated. And if there's any more

876
00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:56,760
Speaker 2: details where we could really step in and help.

877
00:40:56,880 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 3: I think we gave her great advice to go to

878
00:40:59,640 --> 00:41:01,359
Speaker 3: her heart and find what makes her joy.

879
00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:05,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, focus on you and kind of assume that you're

880
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:06,640
Speaker 1: moving on and then if you're not.

881
00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:12,680
Speaker 4: Awesome, okay, Red Star says she should ask him are

882
00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:14,759
Speaker 4: we allowed to see other people during this break?

883
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 6: And tried that.

884
00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 1: She says, she wanted what she said terms and conditions

885
00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 1: to me. She wanted to establish the terms of the

886
00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:24,279
Speaker 1: of the bra. She wanted to find the break, so

887
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:25,720
Speaker 1: she knew her boundaries.

888
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:29,120
Speaker 6: That is he but he wouldn't give.

889
00:41:29,040 --> 00:41:29,759
Speaker 3: It tack right though.

890
00:41:29,800 --> 00:41:33,120
Speaker 4: But yeah, she said that, but they she didn't say

891
00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:35,880
Speaker 4: can we see other people? Like that's a very specific question.

892
00:41:37,840 --> 00:41:39,120
Speaker 6: I think he probably dodged that.

893
00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 3: Gallery over here.

894
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:42,480
Speaker 2: And I think if he if he freaks out one

895
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 2: at the thought of her seeing other people, then he

896
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:48,360
Speaker 2: doesn't want it to be over. But he's going to

897
00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:51,400
Speaker 2: have to either say, okay, I want to be with

898
00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:53,440
Speaker 2: you or let's break up.

899
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:57,120
Speaker 1: That's why he didn't answer the question, because if he does,

900
00:41:57,160 --> 00:41:59,040
Speaker 1: then she can see other people and not the last thing.

901
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:02,200
Speaker 2: He's seeing other people. And then Red Star says that

902
00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:04,080
Speaker 2: if he says, what was it.

903
00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:08,919
Speaker 4: I don't know. Let's let's see people.

904
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:10,640
Speaker 6: Can he not be on Mike? Is that a thing?

905
00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:12,920
Speaker 4: Because he will be on Mike. He will take him.

906
00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:16,279
Speaker 8: He has another podcast he has.

907
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:18,719
Speaker 6: He's getting a little too chatty for not beyond Mike.

908
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:23,320
Speaker 2: We need to get him one of those Britney Spears headsets,

909
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:25,160
Speaker 2: so he just has the ear and the.

910
00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:27,879
Speaker 5: Thing right ear Britney Spears.

911
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:32,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, well I either way. Stephanie, I'm sorry

912
00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 4: that you're in that position because it's a really tough

913
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:39,480
Speaker 4: place and the right answer is gonna be what you know.

914
00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:41,240
Speaker 4: You have to choose for yourself, honestly.

915
00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:45,560
Speaker 3: Yeahranie, all right, all right, moving but wait before we

916
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:48,120
Speaker 3: move on from Stephanie, I just want to say that

917
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 3: the advice that we give we are outsiders looking in

918
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:54,719
Speaker 3: and it's so hard when your heart's in it. And

919
00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:58,279
Speaker 3: so I just want her to give herself grace and

920
00:42:58,560 --> 00:43:01,360
Speaker 3: be gentle with herself, because I think it's so easy to,

921
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:05,520
Speaker 3: you know, give people advice, and it's so hard when

922
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:08,160
Speaker 3: it's your own heart. So have grace with yourself and

923
00:43:08,200 --> 00:43:10,279
Speaker 3: do what you need to do, because I know it's

924
00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:14,600
Speaker 3: so much harder to do than people that just you

925
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:16,440
Speaker 3: know what I mean, then it's easier said than done.

926
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:18,400
Speaker 4: Very true, Very true.

927
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:21,640
Speaker 1: But sometimes an objective opinion is the best thing you

928
00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 1: can hear.

929
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:26,480
Speaker 2: Yes, So the first five objective opinions is from your

930
00:43:26,520 --> 00:43:27,799
Speaker 2: favorite podcast is what.

931
00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:29,640
Speaker 6: You need, and that's what Sierra is looking for.

932
00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:32,080
Speaker 1: Sierra says, my parents are having problems in their marriage,

933
00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:34,440
Speaker 1: which is nothing new, but now that I'm adult, I'm

934
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:37,520
Speaker 1: twenty one, they're involving me in it more. For me,

935
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 1: it isn't hard to see them fighting. It's just hard

936
00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:43,080
Speaker 1: to see the toxicity, the hurt, and the clear indicators

937
00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:45,680
Speaker 1: of mental illness that perpetuate because no one wants to

938
00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:47,640
Speaker 1: seek help or work towards a solution.

939
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 6: I'm so tempted to.

940
00:43:49,040 --> 00:43:51,319
Speaker 1: Just throw my hands up and stay completely away from

941
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:53,000
Speaker 1: the situation for my own mental health.

942
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:54,840
Speaker 6: My little brother is in his first.

943
00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:56,400
Speaker 1: Year of college and having a really hard time, so

944
00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:59,360
Speaker 1: I'm particularly worried about him. Do I tell my parents

945
00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:01,920
Speaker 1: they are hurt us? Would that be too honest and

946
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:04,440
Speaker 1: cause more harm than good? Is it none of my

947
00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:07,200
Speaker 1: business to get involved in their relationship even though they

948
00:44:07,239 --> 00:44:10,240
Speaker 1: involve me in it? Is it not worth causing conflict

949
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:12,160
Speaker 1: because if they want it to be better, then they

950
00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 1: would have done something already.

951
00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:17,239
Speaker 3: I have an opinion on this, sure because I have

952
00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 3: friends going through this right now, and I think that

953
00:44:21,800 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 3: at the I think that you obviously want to be

954
00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:28,279
Speaker 3: there for your parents, but I think that it's really

955
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:31,399
Speaker 3: important that you set boundaries there and if you don't

956
00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:33,960
Speaker 3: want to know what's going on, you know, like you

957
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:36,279
Speaker 3: need to speak up and say, I love you both

958
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 3: very much, I don't want to know. And it's different,

959
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:41,839
Speaker 3: like if you do want to know, then have at it.

960
00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:43,759
Speaker 3: But if you want to keep your relationship with both

961
00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:46,799
Speaker 3: of your parents the way that you want it, you

962
00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:48,799
Speaker 3: just have to speak up and just say, I need

963
00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:51,120
Speaker 3: to set boundaries. I don't want to hear any of

964
00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 3: this stuff that's going on. I want to keep my

965
00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:55,360
Speaker 3: relationship that I have with the both of you the

966
00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:56,279
Speaker 3: way that I have it.

967
00:44:56,600 --> 00:44:59,520
Speaker 5: And that's it. And you have to be very very

968
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:00,040
Speaker 5: clear about it.

969
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:04,480
Speaker 2: That it's really hard to have these adult conversations with

970
00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:06,880
Speaker 2: your parents, like Tanya and I have talked about it

971
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 2: so many times recently. Of like, as you get older,

972
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:14,000
Speaker 2: you are more aware of certain things and behaviors and

973
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:16,560
Speaker 2: that you take in and that you see other people

974
00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:18,400
Speaker 2: having when it's your own parents, it makes it so

975
00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:22,040
Speaker 2: much harder to communicate your feelings about what they're going through.

976
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 2: But I personally this past year have had some really

977
00:45:25,600 --> 00:45:29,640
Speaker 2: complicated and difficult conversations with my parents, and I'm.

978
00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:32,440
Speaker 3: So I'm so proud of you for having those conversations.

979
00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:33,120
Speaker 4: Thank you so much.

980
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:34,200
Speaker 3: How hard it is for you.

981
00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 2: It is, but they're so necessary, and it's so uncomfortable,

982
00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:39,840
Speaker 2: And like Tanya said, if you want to be in

983
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:41,920
Speaker 2: the know of what's going on, you can say that.

984
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:44,360
Speaker 2: But I also think it's important to let them know

985
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:48,440
Speaker 2: that their relationship, in their arguments and what's going on

986
00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 2: is hurting you and it's affecting you and your brother.

987
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:55,880
Speaker 2: I think saying that is not you taking either one side.

988
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:58,439
Speaker 2: I think it's just being open and honest and kind

989
00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:02,640
Speaker 2: of almost putting the letting them be aware of what

990
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 2: they're doing to not only each other, but to y'all

991
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:06,040
Speaker 2: as well as their children.

992
00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:07,320
Speaker 3: Yeah.

993
00:46:07,520 --> 00:46:12,600
Speaker 9: Yeah, my parents are divorced and they put they have problems,

994
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:13,759
Speaker 9: and they put a lot of it on me and

995
00:46:13,800 --> 00:46:16,359
Speaker 9: my sister as adults, and it's really frustrating and you

996
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:19,040
Speaker 9: have to remind yourself and remind them that, Like they're

997
00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 9: your parents, Like you're not responsible for their happiness, you know,

998
00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:26,640
Speaker 9: and they need to figure it out on their own,

999
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:29,040
Speaker 9: and it's really not appropriate for them to be including

1000
00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:30,120
Speaker 9: you even though you're an adult.

1001
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:30,719
Speaker 4: You know.

1002
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:34,080
Speaker 9: I think they might see their children as like peers

1003
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:38,279
Speaker 9: or something like that, but it's really really destructive to

1004
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:39,600
Speaker 9: put that on your children.

1005
00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:41,799
Speaker 8: So you got to distance yourself from that for your

1006
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:42,560
Speaker 8: own sanity.

1007
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:46,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, boundaries is like key to life.

1008
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:48,239
Speaker 2: And it's the same thing if they are seeing you

1009
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:50,640
Speaker 2: as peers. It's the same as if your best friend

1010
00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:53,400
Speaker 2: and her boyfriend are involving you and all their fights

1011
00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:55,920
Speaker 2: and their arguments and you're kind of like, listen, this

1012
00:46:56,080 --> 00:46:58,359
Speaker 2: is it. You know, it's just the same thing if

1013
00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:00,040
Speaker 2: that's how your parents are treating you.

1014
00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:01,080
Speaker 4: You have a conversation with.

1015
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:03,120
Speaker 2: Your best friend and say, hey, I don't want to

1016
00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:06,040
Speaker 2: this is your relationship. You have to figure it out

1017
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:09,600
Speaker 2: and deal with it, and you know, not not involve

1018
00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:13,080
Speaker 2: me as not only your child, but what you're considering

1019
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:14,760
Speaker 2: me as like a friend at this point.

1020
00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:17,480
Speaker 4: So I think it's just being honest and to.

1021
00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:19,560
Speaker 3: Just be honest with yourself of like what what you want?

1022
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:20,800
Speaker 3: You know, what I mean, like I have a friend

1023
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:23,160
Speaker 3: who wants to be involved and like wants to listen

1024
00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:24,759
Speaker 3: and know what's going on, and then the other one

1025
00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:26,839
Speaker 3: is just like, I don't, I don't want, I want

1026
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:27,400
Speaker 3: none of it.

1027
00:47:27,440 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 5: So it's just communication is key in this.

1028
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:34,920
Speaker 2: Great great advice. We okay this this this week you guys,

1029
00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:42,799
Speaker 2: congrats to all of us into the people who benefit. Wait, Mark,

1030
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:45,520
Speaker 2: you have some more grays Anatomy trivia.

1031
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:47,200
Speaker 1: I just needs you all to be ready for the

1032
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:50,320
Speaker 1: season premiere on Thursday night, a two hour season premiere.

1033
00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:53,279
Speaker 1: I can't have you guys lost it for the first hour,

1034
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:55,600
Speaker 1: So this will help remind us of what happened last year.

1035
00:47:56,280 --> 00:48:01,279
Speaker 2: Okay in a quiz form, Yeah, well do based on

1036
00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:05,040
Speaker 2: past quizes, I feel very confident today going back, I feel.

1037
00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:05,960
Speaker 3: Like a big loser.

1038
00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:23,439
Speaker 10: But it's fine, all right.

1039
00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:29,040
Speaker 1: Gray's Anatomy Season seventeen premiere on Thursday night. It's seventh

1040
00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:32,480
Speaker 1: Central two hour premiere, and I've if I've got some

1041
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:36,200
Speaker 1: questions here for you, So we'll start with Tanya maybe

1042
00:48:36,239 --> 00:48:36,720
Speaker 1: on all.

1043
00:48:36,600 --> 00:48:38,879
Speaker 6: Of these, just because she's at such a disadvantage.

1044
00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:40,160
Speaker 3: Give me a leg up here.

1045
00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:41,080
Speaker 5: I appreciate it.

1046
00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:41,480
Speaker 3: Thank you.

1047
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 4: Feel's unfair since I have been the clear winner.

1048
00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:45,320
Speaker 6: You're going to win again.

1049
00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:47,440
Speaker 1: She won't remember, and then you will steal it. I

1050
00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:49,319
Speaker 1: guarantee it, Tanya.

1051
00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:51,560
Speaker 6: All right, after all of that, and you don't have

1052
00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:51,919
Speaker 6: to give.

1053
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:54,239
Speaker 1: The exact diagnosis, if you can just describe it.

1054
00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 6: What was wrong with Richard?

1055
00:48:57,320 --> 00:49:02,640
Speaker 3: Oh didn't you have? I don't know what he had,

1056
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:04,239
Speaker 3: but I know that De Luca saved.

1057
00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:06,000
Speaker 6: Him, understood, But what was wrong with him?

1058
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:07,239
Speaker 5: I don't know.

1059
00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 3: It was something with his liver. Couldn't even wow. Was

1060
00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:22,200
Speaker 3: it Alzheimer's?

1061
00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:25,600
Speaker 4: No? No, no, they thought they were like worried. It was No,

1062
00:49:25,640 --> 00:49:26,880
Speaker 4: it was it was like something.

1063
00:49:26,680 --> 00:49:28,520
Speaker 6: In his blood getting warmer.

1064
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:32,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was something in his uh like, it was

1065
00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:36,200
Speaker 4: something his blood and it was called a transponster. No,

1066
00:49:36,560 --> 00:49:41,440
Speaker 4: did he have a did he have a blood transplant

1067
00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:42,000
Speaker 4: or something?

1068
00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:45,080
Speaker 1: And I'm declaring this open. Neither one of you can guess.

1069
00:49:45,239 --> 00:49:47,520
Speaker 1: Whoever gets it right, feel free. It is no longer

1070
00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:48,200
Speaker 1: anyone's turn.

1071
00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:50,680
Speaker 3: What's answer?

1072
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:53,279
Speaker 6: Nothing else, no other guesses.

1073
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 4: Let me try.

1074
00:49:54,719 --> 00:49:56,680
Speaker 6: You're both kind of on the right track.

1075
00:49:58,000 --> 00:50:03,320
Speaker 2: Something with his Oh, it was something with his bone marrow.

1076
00:50:04,920 --> 00:50:07,520
Speaker 3: Okay, no, just tell us he gives his torture. Are

1077
00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:08,439
Speaker 3: you kidding me what.

1078
00:50:09,960 --> 00:50:12,040
Speaker 4: I'm so upset because.

1079
00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:14,960
Speaker 5: It has something to do his drinking.

1080
00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:19,719
Speaker 1: No, No, it did not the arrogance, and I mean

1081
00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:20,560
Speaker 1: Beck's closer.

1082
00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:22,120
Speaker 6: But I can't give any points on this.

1083
00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:23,839
Speaker 3: One, Okay, I sad, No points. Some words.

1084
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:25,440
Speaker 6: Richard had a hip replacement.

1085
00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:29,120
Speaker 1: He got cobalt poisoning from the metal and the hip

1086
00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:32,520
Speaker 1: that was leeching into his bloodstream, and de Luca.

1087
00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:36,360
Speaker 4: Found that the metal was corroded or I said something

1088
00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:38,040
Speaker 4: about his blood stream and.

1089
00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:40,440
Speaker 3: He had a hip replacement. It was a faulty hip from.

1090
00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:42,799
Speaker 4: The bacteria went to his bloodstream.

1091
00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:43,279
Speaker 5: That's not right.

1092
00:50:43,360 --> 00:50:44,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I can't give you a point for that.

1093
00:50:44,800 --> 00:50:46,640
Speaker 1: I had I get something to do with a hip

1094
00:50:46,719 --> 00:50:48,080
Speaker 1: or a metal. I needed something there.

1095
00:50:48,200 --> 00:50:50,479
Speaker 3: No, No, I remember this because they had the same

1096
00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:53,200
Speaker 3: issue in what's the show on Fox? I was watching

1097
00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:58,200
Speaker 3: with Resident? The Resident. Yeah, they had like some like

1098
00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:02,840
Speaker 3: machines that were in somebody's knees. Is that word faulty.

1099
00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:05,560
Speaker 4: Machines in the niche?

1100
00:51:07,120 --> 00:51:07,920
Speaker 6: All right, Tanya?

1101
00:51:08,080 --> 00:51:11,520
Speaker 1: Who does Catherine appoint as CMO Chief Medical Officer for

1102
00:51:11,560 --> 00:51:12,440
Speaker 1: the Fox Foundation?

1103
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:14,960
Speaker 3: Miranda?

1104
00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:22,759
Speaker 1: All right, Becca, that wasn't get it?

1105
00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:23,800
Speaker 6: That was not correct?

1106
00:51:24,880 --> 00:51:26,400
Speaker 4: Oh, she put u.

1107
00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:36,040
Speaker 6: She puts, Oh, Maggie, Nope, the answer is classic.

1108
00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:38,760
Speaker 3: Oh that's right.

1109
00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:41,800
Speaker 6: Okay, Tanya.

1110
00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:46,040
Speaker 1: What gift does Christina send Meredith forgetting to keep her

1111
00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:46,840
Speaker 1: medical license?

1112
00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:54,640
Speaker 5: I thought she just called her?

1113
00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:59,680
Speaker 6: See your answer is a phone call? Yeah, okay, Becca,

1114
00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:00,680
Speaker 6: it was a.

1115
00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:02,239
Speaker 3: FaceTime No, it was.

1116
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:10,040
Speaker 4: It was the post it, her and Derk's post it. Wait.

1117
00:52:10,239 --> 00:52:10,520
Speaker 4: You know what.

1118
00:52:10,880 --> 00:52:14,640
Speaker 3: I was actually just watching this episode with the post

1119
00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:18,200
Speaker 3: it and it was just such a sweet moment because

1120
00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:20,640
Speaker 3: they were like, Meredith and Derek were fighting and she

1121
00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:23,120
Speaker 3: just goes post it and I was like, oh, yeah,

1122
00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:25,680
Speaker 3: I love when they do that because they're like, you

1123
00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:27,440
Speaker 3: know what, You're right, we are committed to each other.

1124
00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:28,279
Speaker 3: We're going to get through this.

1125
00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:30,600
Speaker 4: Let's go what she said? Oh no, she said he

1126
00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:32,880
Speaker 4: the hot We have it.

1127
00:52:35,440 --> 00:52:35,960
Speaker 6: All right.

1128
00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:36,440
Speaker 4: That's right.

1129
00:52:36,600 --> 00:52:39,680
Speaker 1: Bonus round, Becca, bonus point. I'm going to you first

1130
00:52:39,680 --> 00:52:42,719
Speaker 1: on this one. Okay, what's that doctor's name and I'll

1131
00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:44,480
Speaker 1: take it first or last name?

1132
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:46,879
Speaker 3: I know this.

1133
00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:53,719
Speaker 4: His name is doctor.

1134
00:52:54,280 --> 00:52:55,200
Speaker 6: That's good so far.

1135
00:52:57,040 --> 00:53:02,480
Speaker 3: He's Australian, Swedish, Dutch.

1136
00:53:04,320 --> 00:53:09,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh my gosh, I'm so annoyed they asked me about.

1137
00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:13,040
Speaker 4: They asked you about him this morning.

1138
00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:15,239
Speaker 3: I don't remember no, because I was like, because they

1139
00:53:15,480 --> 00:53:17,000
Speaker 3: were asking if I think it's gonna last, and I

1140
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:17,879
Speaker 3: don't think it's gonna last.

1141
00:53:17,880 --> 00:53:19,280
Speaker 5: I think it's gonna be it.

1142
00:53:19,320 --> 00:53:20,279
Speaker 4: Does it start with the Z?

1143
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:22,520
Speaker 6: Neither of his names start with the Z.

1144
00:53:22,719 --> 00:53:23,520
Speaker 4: Doesn't start with the C.

1145
00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:27,800
Speaker 6: Yes, Chris, No.

1146
00:53:26,600 --> 00:53:29,200
Speaker 3: No, doctor.

1147
00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:35,600
Speaker 4: Uh. It's like oh doctor oh oh, I think it's

1148
00:53:35,640 --> 00:53:36,480
Speaker 4: doctor Collins.

1149
00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:38,960
Speaker 6: His name is doctor Cormick Hayes.

1150
00:53:39,600 --> 00:53:46,240
Speaker 3: Cormick Hayes, h A y E S zero.

1151
00:53:46,400 --> 00:53:48,919
Speaker 4: I have zero familiarity with that name.

1152
00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:52,279
Speaker 3: It's almost been a year since that episode aired, so.

1153
00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:54,600
Speaker 4: I mean I've I've gotten to connect with him yet.

1154
00:53:54,680 --> 00:53:56,719
Speaker 1: Well, while we're the topic of doctor Cormick Hayes, how

1155
00:53:56,719 --> 00:53:57,399
Speaker 1: did his wife die?

1156
00:53:57,440 --> 00:54:02,800
Speaker 6: Tanya Ka, I don't know, got hit by a B cancer.

1157
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:05,840
Speaker 4: It's right, cancer, very good, very good.

1158
00:54:05,880 --> 00:54:07,600
Speaker 1: That's two points. I mean, only have one more questions.

1159
00:54:07,640 --> 00:54:09,160
Speaker 1: So yeah, I guess you won, but I'll get.

1160
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 2: I'll because she got one point, didn't she I don't

1161
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:14,440
Speaker 2: think so oh no, because she confidently said Miranda.

1162
00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:20,520
Speaker 1: But that wasn't right, okay, super bonus round the uh sunbay.

1163
00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:22,200
Speaker 6: Hold on.

1164
00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:24,160
Speaker 1: I just want to word it correctly so I don't

1165
00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:28,280
Speaker 1: get anything wrong. What's the name of the foster kid

1166
00:54:28,480 --> 00:54:30,840
Speaker 1: that Bailey brings home to live with her and Ben?

1167
00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:43,120
Speaker 4: She his name? His name is what happened to Tuck? Well?

1168
00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:47,319
Speaker 4: She still has a child. Now, you don't have to

1169
00:54:47,320 --> 00:54:51,719
Speaker 4: give away a child to get a child, don you?

1170
00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:54,680
Speaker 4: Can you get me just one hint of what his

1171
00:54:54,800 --> 00:54:55,440
Speaker 4: name starts with?

1172
00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:56,160
Speaker 6: Sure?

1173
00:54:56,280 --> 00:55:04,000
Speaker 3: Such a j Jordan, ja In Jeremy.

1174
00:55:04,760 --> 00:55:06,640
Speaker 1: Keep going, keep going, though, because you probably will get

1175
00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 1: it doing this John.

1176
00:55:10,800 --> 00:55:14,080
Speaker 4: Jedd, No Jester.

1177
00:55:14,960 --> 00:55:17,080
Speaker 6: You know it's strangely not Jester.

1178
00:55:19,480 --> 00:55:20,120
Speaker 3: Jordan's No.

1179
00:55:20,239 --> 00:55:27,960
Speaker 4: I said that that was my first justin No. Hey, hey, sus.

1180
00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:33,120
Speaker 6: All right, I'm gonna put you so weird.

1181
00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:35,200
Speaker 4: Because I was gonna ask. I thought it was Jordan's

1182
00:55:35,239 --> 00:55:37,839
Speaker 4: so in my head I knew it started with the Jay,

1183
00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:39,440
Speaker 4: but it sorts not.

1184
00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:43,040
Speaker 1: Jordan's name is Joey, Joey Phillips. He's a homeless child

1185
00:55:43,080 --> 00:55:44,760
Speaker 1: who's injured, looking for a safe.

1186
00:55:44,600 --> 00:55:45,440
Speaker 6: Place to sleep.

1187
00:55:47,040 --> 00:55:49,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I've gotten that right with Joseph, because you know,

1188
00:55:49,800 --> 00:55:51,440
Speaker 2: Joey was short for maybe.

1189
00:55:51,480 --> 00:55:53,040
Speaker 1: But we never got to that point, so we'll never

1190
00:55:53,480 --> 00:55:55,120
Speaker 1: take away Becca wins as expected.

1191
00:55:55,520 --> 00:55:58,200
Speaker 4: Thank you so much. Another one for me? Another w.

1192
00:55:59,800 --> 00:56:02,640
Speaker 3: We well on not have another w We're gonna get

1193
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:03,320
Speaker 3: one this weekend.

1194
00:56:07,040 --> 00:56:10,799
Speaker 4: Oh, people's oh nervous. Every time I think about it,

1195
00:56:10,880 --> 00:56:12,480
Speaker 4: my heart's do you know anything?

1196
00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:14,640
Speaker 3: I don't know anything, but you know what I actually

1197
00:56:15,320 --> 00:56:16,200
Speaker 3: do you know anything? Mark?

1198
00:56:16,480 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 7: No?

1199
00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:17,520
Speaker 6: Why but I know anything?

1200
00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:18,560
Speaker 4: No?

1201
00:56:18,600 --> 00:56:19,840
Speaker 5: I feel like we're always the last to know.

1202
00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:22,359
Speaker 6: No, you guys always known before me. And you're down there,

1203
00:56:22,360 --> 00:56:23,880
Speaker 6: you're working it, I know.

1204
00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:24,120
Speaker 4: You Know.

1205
00:56:24,120 --> 00:56:26,680
Speaker 3: What's funny is, I was actually thinking about bringing my

1206
00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:29,080
Speaker 3: People's Choice Award to the show because they have us

1207
00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:31,440
Speaker 3: on these like the set. The E set is like

1208
00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:35,279
Speaker 3: a big desk, so just Justin and I are like

1209
00:56:35,320 --> 00:56:37,160
Speaker 3: six feet apart and we both have these like desks,

1210
00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:39,200
Speaker 3: and I was thinking about bringing our People's Choice Ward

1211
00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:40,839
Speaker 3: and like setting it up on my desk because that's

1212
00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:41,680
Speaker 3: super embarrassing.

1213
00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:43,520
Speaker 1: No, I think it's funny and it's clever, and you

1214
00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:45,799
Speaker 1: can spend a segment looking at it so everyone at

1215
00:56:45,800 --> 00:56:47,680
Speaker 1: home knows what it looks like, what it looks.

1216
00:56:47,520 --> 00:56:48,880
Speaker 3: Like, Okay, cool, Yeah, I think I'm gonna bring it.

1217
00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:50,120
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1218
00:56:50,160 --> 00:56:52,239
Speaker 2: Every time I keep thinking about it, because you know,

1219
00:56:52,480 --> 00:56:54,640
Speaker 2: it's been weeks out and now we're in the same

1220
00:56:54,680 --> 00:56:56,040
Speaker 2: week when we find out.

1221
00:56:57,360 --> 00:57:02,920
Speaker 7: Everybody, Yeah, so bad.

1222
00:57:00,719 --> 00:57:04,920
Speaker 4: It's don't say that because then if we lose, I'll

1223
00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:06,600
Speaker 4: be like, that sucks.

1224
00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:08,760
Speaker 3: If we lose, we're gonna lose to an awesome podcast.

1225
00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:11,000
Speaker 3: And then but I know you're right.

1226
00:57:11,360 --> 00:57:14,640
Speaker 4: I hate losing, regardless of who's up against me.

1227
00:57:14,880 --> 00:57:18,640
Speaker 5: So all of Serbia voted every day, so.

1228
00:57:19,120 --> 00:57:23,280
Speaker 4: We have a whole country voting for our victories.

1229
00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:25,240
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1230
00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:28,200
Speaker 2: But anyways, well, next time we see you, we'll or

1231
00:57:28,280 --> 00:57:30,680
Speaker 2: talk to you will know, No, we won't because we'll

1232
00:57:30,680 --> 00:57:32,040
Speaker 2: be doing the virtual live event.

1233
00:57:32,320 --> 00:57:35,520
Speaker 5: We don't know then, No, that's will be drunk.

1234
00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:35,840
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1235
00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:38,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, either way we'll be having a good time, win

1236
00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:41,200
Speaker 2: or lose, but we love you guys.

1237
00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:45,520
Speaker 4: Have a great week. Buy your tickets for.

1238
00:57:45,560 --> 00:57:48,280
Speaker 2: The live show because it can be really funny. You

1239
00:57:48,280 --> 00:57:51,600
Speaker 2: really don't want to miss out it's party. You never

1240
00:57:51,680 --> 00:57:55,320
Speaker 2: know who will show in the USA, like someone showed

1241
00:57:55,400 --> 00:57:55,920
Speaker 2: up today.

1242
00:57:56,800 --> 00:57:57,240
Speaker 4: You never know.

1243
00:57:57,400 --> 00:57:59,320
Speaker 3: I think we're still booking the live shows, so you

1244
00:57:59,400 --> 00:58:00,520
Speaker 3: really don't know who was coming.

1245
00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:02,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah we do. We We were not one hundred

1246
00:58:02,520 --> 00:58:06,360
Speaker 4: percent sure if all the guests have been finalized, so correct,

1247
00:58:07,600 --> 00:58:10,760
Speaker 4: get your tickets and we'll see you then and we

1248
00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:11,960
Speaker 4: love you all. Love you.

1249
00:58:12,760 --> 00:58:13,200
Speaker 3: Bye.