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Speaker 1: sah dot com Brooking Cuble. In the morning, Second Date Update,
Speaker 1: a listener named Amy is on the phone for a
Speaker 1: second date update today and her email had the subject
Speaker 1: line date backfired, which means one of three things. Somebody farted, two,
Speaker 1: somebody's car needs to be tuned up because it backfired
Speaker 1: a few times or three. I said three things, but
Speaker 1: I only had two things. I'm out. Um, Well, let's
Speaker 1: go to Amy and find out what happened. Hey, Amy,
Speaker 1: how are you? Hey? I'm good. How are you good?
Speaker 1: So your email said that your date backfired. We'll get
Speaker 1: to that in a second. First, tell us about the
Speaker 1: guy you want to call. What's his name? His name
Speaker 1: is Jay. Where'd you meet him? I met him online
Speaker 1: and it just seemed like we had a lot in common.
Speaker 1: I thought he was cute and good sense of humor.
Speaker 1: And you know, I've been doing this online dating thing
Speaker 1: for like over a year and it's getting kind of stale.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm ready to meet somebody nice, so you
Speaker 1: don't have to meet weirdos online anymore. I can understand that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So I thought this sounded promising. So Jay and I
Speaker 1: decided to meet up, and I just I wanted to
Speaker 1: make it more fun than usual, just like the average
Speaker 1: kind of date. So I asked him, before we meet,
Speaker 1: just let me be in charge of the date. And
Speaker 1: I'm okay, Yeah that was he was he into a
Speaker 1: woman that's in charge. Yeah, he seemed fine with it.
Speaker 1: I told him, it's a surprise. I'm not going to
Speaker 1: tell you what we're doing until we meet. I know
Speaker 1: it was me. I'd be like, sweet, don't have to
Speaker 1: do any work. This is great. So what'd you plan
Speaker 1: for your date? Well, it's called the Lost and Found
Speaker 1: Couples Challenge. Oh no, what is it? Well? I thought
Speaker 1: it would be really fun. You know, we met at
Speaker 1: a park, and what you do is you turn your
Speaker 1: backs to each other and then you each rock away
Speaker 1: for fifteen minutes, and then you turn around and walk back,
Speaker 1: and then you tell each other everything that you saw
Speaker 1: on your walk, Like you go have a drink or
Speaker 1: coffee and then so you just go on a fifteen
Speaker 1: minute walk and then come back and tell your date
Speaker 1: about it. Yeah, and the fun part of it is okay, good,
Speaker 1: I'm glad there's a fun part. Because I was looking
Speaker 1: for it, I didn't hear it. No, it is, it's fun.
Speaker 1: You can't text each other. That's cheating. You can't text
Speaker 1: and say hey, where are you? You know, you just
Speaker 1: have to find each other, so, you know, you take
Speaker 1: a little different path and then you come back and
Speaker 1: meet up and find each other. That's the way it's
Speaker 1: supposed to work. It sounds like I mean, it sounds
Speaker 1: like it's something that like couples should do that have
Speaker 1: been together for a long time and need something new
Speaker 1: to talk about and connection. I don't know, I think
Speaker 1: it's more like a get to know you kind of thing.
Speaker 1: I mean, I thought it was a really fun idea. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I was like, you planning it took the work
Speaker 1: away from him, and then you gave him a whole
Speaker 1: bunch more on the date. It is unique. Did you
Speaker 1: seem to like it? No? Hence the backfires. What happened, Well,
Speaker 1: what happened was that I couldn't find him after the
Speaker 1: fifteen minutes. I couldn't find him. We were supposed to
Speaker 1: meet up, like in the general vicinity, and I just
Speaker 1: couldn't find him anywhere. So I started getting worried, but
Speaker 1: you know, I didn't want to ruin the game by
Speaker 1: texting him, so I gave him a little extra time.
Speaker 1: But then I really had to text him because I
Speaker 1: just couldn't find him. Right, So did you find him finally?
Speaker 1: Was he lost and scared somewhere? Well? No, no, he
Speaker 1: texted back and we agreed to meet up at this
Speaker 1: nearby a coffee shop, and so I went right over
Speaker 1: there and I thought he would be there, but he
Speaker 1: wasn't there, and I was waiting for like a half
Speaker 1: hour and didn't see him. So wait, did he never
Speaker 1: show up? That's right, he wasn't there. So I texted
Speaker 1: him again and I was like, where are you And
Speaker 1: he said, well, I'm here, and I said, no, you're not.
Speaker 1: You know, like, I don't know if we went he
Speaker 1: went to a different and play for what because he
Speaker 1: was like, no, you're not here, but I was at
Speaker 1: the place where we planned to meet. That'd be frustrating
Speaker 1: to go on the first of all, the date and
Speaker 1: then not be able to find each other and then
Speaker 1: not be able to find each other in a coffee shop, right,
Speaker 1: exactly did you ever actually link up? I said, well,
Speaker 1: are you coming over? Like this is where I am.
Speaker 1: Are you coming over? And he said, you know, I've
Speaker 1: got something else I have to do. It would be
Speaker 1: better for me if we just reschedule. I've kind of
Speaker 1: put a lot of time into this, and so he
Speaker 1: was just not into this. Sounds like it sounds like
Speaker 1: it did backfire and it turned him off after trying
Speaker 1: to search for you for two hours or whatever. But Amy,
Speaker 1: why do you want to go out with him again?
Speaker 1: He essentially stood you up on your date. Well, I
Speaker 1: thought that actually it went pretty well for those few
Speaker 1: minutes that we did meet up. I mean, we liked
Speaker 1: each other, and I don't know what happened, but I
Speaker 1: think that we should give another try. I mean, it's
Speaker 1: not like something horrible happened. It's just, you know, there
Speaker 1: was a misunderstanding. So, you know, I still like him.
Speaker 1: I just want to see what happened. Okay, And I
Speaker 1: had to get a hold of him since he said,
Speaker 1: let's reschedule. Yeah, I tried to get a hold of him,
Speaker 1: but he hasn't responded. Okay, Well, we'll play a song
Speaker 1: and then come back and call him and get your
Speaker 1: second day update. Okay, okay, thank you. Just make sure
Speaker 1: you're hanging out on the right phone. You don't go
Speaker 1: to a different phone you can't find you. Just hold
Speaker 1: on a second right, Okay, brooking jubil in the morning.
Speaker 1: Second date update if you're just joining us for today's
Speaker 1: second date update. Amy is on the phone, and Amy
Speaker 1: really knows how to spark romance. On a date, she
Speaker 1: met this dude named Jay, and then they went to
Speaker 1: the park and walked in opposite directions together. Just they
Speaker 1: met at the park and then they left each other
Speaker 1: and that was basically her date. Very romantic. Amy wanted
Speaker 1: to do something a little creative, so she did this
Speaker 1: lost and Found couple's challenge. You're supposed to walk fifteen
Speaker 1: minutes in the opposite direction and then try to find
Speaker 1: each other again. But they never found each other. They
Speaker 1: even ended up at opposite coffee shops after an hour
Speaker 1: of searching for each other, and it seems like the
Speaker 1: dude just got frustrated and didn't want to see her again.
Speaker 1: But now she's not able to get ahold of him.
Speaker 1: So we're about to get him on the phone and
Speaker 1: find out if that is the reason why. Maybe I'm
Speaker 1: all for creative dates. Would you do not run this
Speaker 1: by any of your friends before you like pulled the trigger?
Speaker 1: I did, And I actually found this idea online and
Speaker 1: I've read that it's supposed to work great. So I
Speaker 1: don't know what happened. Yeah, it didn't work out great
Speaker 1: for you, but but I'm a Dallas who number right
Speaker 1: now and see if we can get him on the phone. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: thank yep, here we go. Hello, Hi, I was looking
Speaker 1: for Jay. Hello, Yeah, Hey, what's up? Jay? How are you?
Speaker 1: This is Jewel from the radio show Brooke and Jewel
Speaker 1: in the Morning. I'm sorry what this is Jewel from
Speaker 1: the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Hi, Hey,
Speaker 1: why are you calling me? Good question. I'm calling you
Speaker 1: because we got an email about you from one of
Speaker 1: our listeners, an email about me. Yes, I like this,
Speaker 1: I say something, you repeat it with a question mark.
Speaker 1: This is a fun game we're playing. Jay got an
Speaker 1: email about you from a girl named Amy that you
Speaker 1: went on a date with Amy, that I went on
Speaker 1: a date with. Yeah, and I got another one for
Speaker 1: you to repeat too. Okay, Yeah, you're not calling her back,
Speaker 1: and she's wondering why she contacted you. Because she's wondering
Speaker 1: why that is exactly what happened. We do a segment
Speaker 1: on our show called the second Date Update. Jay, I'll
Speaker 1: explain because you're obviously confused. And that's where if you
Speaker 1: go out on a date with somebody and then up
Speaker 1: not calling them after, people can email us to get
Speaker 1: that person on the phone and ask what happened. So
Speaker 1: Amy emailed us because she's tried to hit you up
Speaker 1: to go out again, and you won't respond to her. Oh,
Speaker 1: he's trying not to ask a question right now? Is
Speaker 1: there a reason why, Jay? I mean, I don't really
Speaker 1: feel like sharing with Amy, What like, let's go. You
Speaker 1: don't have to share with Amy, you can share with us. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean, you guys are probably going to wind up
Speaker 1: like telling her or something screw her. No, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I mean yeah, we will tell her. That's why she
Speaker 1: wants to know. That's the whole deal. She said that.
Speaker 1: I mean, she's been frustrated by online dating. She finally
Speaker 1: finds somebody that she's connected with and then it doesn't
Speaker 1: work out, and that that's a real bummer. You can
Speaker 1: understand that. I mean, I do understand that. I just
Speaker 1: don't want to like say something that's going to get
Speaker 1: back to her and she's going to like get mad
Speaker 1: or anything. Well, we can try to sugarcoat it for you.
Speaker 1: And we already made fun of her date idea when
Speaker 1: she told us about the yeah you guys walking in
Speaker 1: different directions. So I'm not the only one that thought
Speaker 1: that was a dumb date idea. Yeah, I thought it
Speaker 1: sound horrible. Yeah, for real, can I do a lot
Speaker 1: of dumb dates? And I'm even on your pay On
Speaker 1: your side with that one was that it was it
Speaker 1: just the whole concept of the date. And she also
Speaker 1: told us how you couldn't find each other either. That
Speaker 1: would be frustrating, that would make me want to leave. Well,
Speaker 1: it wasn't just a concept of the date, Like it's
Speaker 1: weird enough to just show up and have and be like, hi,
Speaker 1: okay leave Now that was a little weird, but I
Speaker 1: mean at first, you know, I was excited to meet her,
Speaker 1: so I was kind of cool with it. And then
Speaker 1: I started walking away and after a minute or two,
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't really want to just walk
Speaker 1: for fifteen minutes to turn around and walk back. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So there was a are like a block away from
Speaker 1: where we had met up, and I kind of ducked
Speaker 1: in there to just grab a drink and hang out,
Speaker 1: and a couple of my buddies lived like around the corner,
Speaker 1: and one of them had texted me to see what
Speaker 1: I was up to. And I'm like, hey, man, you
Speaker 1: wouldn't believe this. I'm on a date with a check
Speaker 1: but I'm not on a date with her. I'm actually
Speaker 1: at this bar just hanging out for the next half hour.
Speaker 1: So they were like, oh, cool, we'll meet you over there.
Speaker 1: And we had more than one drink, and then we
Speaker 1: had more than two drinks. All right. So since you
Speaker 1: didn't go on your walk and ended up getting drunk
Speaker 1: with your friends, she told us how she was trying
Speaker 1: to meet up with you at a coffee shop. Did
Speaker 1: you actually try to meet up with our Originally, when
Speaker 1: I went to go and get the drink, I had
Speaker 1: intended on meeting up with her back at the park,
Speaker 1: but then one of my buddies was like, it's happy
Speaker 1: hour getting free over at the strip club. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: So we kind of slid over that way, and then
Speaker 1: she started texting me being like where are you? And
Speaker 1: I didn't want to be like hey, I kind of
Speaker 1: just got out of there, so I was like I
Speaker 1: can't find you either. We should try this another time.
Speaker 1: So you went. You went on a day date with
Speaker 1: a nice girl who put energy and effort into your date,
Speaker 1: and you ended up at the strip club your bros.
Speaker 1: Sounds like an awesome day. I don't know how much
Speaker 1: energy she put into the date. Like the energy she
Speaker 1: put into the date was, Hey, I found a thing
Speaker 1: that we can not do together and not get to
Speaker 1: know each other. Well, that wasn't her intention. She was trying.
Speaker 1: Have you never screwed up a date before with a
Speaker 1: bad idea? Well, I've screwed up a date with a
Speaker 1: bad idea, but I was in person to screw it up.
Speaker 1: I didn't leave let it get screwed up away from me.
Speaker 1: Why aren't you going out with her now? Why aren't
Speaker 1: you calling her back? She doesn't know, honestly. The next day,
Speaker 1: I just kind of felt really really bad about the
Speaker 1: whole thing, And I don't know if I can look
Speaker 1: her in the eye again if we ever go out
Speaker 1: of Yeah, I mean it is kind of messed up.
Speaker 1: No matter how bad the date was, to be on
Speaker 1: a date and leave that date to go to the
Speaker 1: strip club with your bros. I know you didn't want
Speaker 1: us to tell her all of that, so I'm glad
Speaker 1: we didn't, but you did, because she's actually on the
Speaker 1: other line listening and wants to talk to you. She's
Speaker 1: on the other line. Yes, there you go, repeating my questions,
Speaker 1: my statements again. Yes, unless you hung up. Amy is
Speaker 1: still on the other line, Amy, or are you still there? Yeah? Am?
Speaker 1: Why didn't you just be honest with me? I mean,
Speaker 1: so you went to get drunk with your friends. I
Speaker 1: mean you could have just told me that. Well, I
Speaker 1: didn't intend to be like really rude to you. It
Speaker 1: just kind of snowballed and then I felt bad about it,
Speaker 1: and I felt it would just be better to not continue.
Speaker 1: And honestly, I absolutely intended to come back and meet
Speaker 1: up with you after I had a drink and I
Speaker 1: just I got caught up, and you know, I had
Speaker 1: a couple more drinks and then a friend of point.
Speaker 1: Yeah we heard the story. Yeah, yeah, I heard the
Speaker 1: whole story. So is this supposed to make me feel better?
Speaker 1: Just the idea that you wanted to hang out with me.
Speaker 1: You meant to meet up with me, you were going to,
Speaker 1: but you didn't. How am I supposed to feel about that? Well,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess kind of the same way
Speaker 1: that I'm supposed to feel about You wanted that idea
Speaker 1: to be a good first aid idea. It is a
Speaker 1: good idea. It's supposed to go much better than that.
Speaker 1: It's just that you didn't follow the rules that song.
Speaker 1: I will say, Amy does have a point though, I mean,
Speaker 1: it is one of those things where it's not going
Speaker 1: to be fun unless both people really participated in it.
Speaker 1: Like literally, within five minutes of the date, you decided
Speaker 1: that going to drink by yourself was going to be
Speaker 1: more fun. You know what, though, it is kind of
Speaker 1: a good idea because it's you're supposed take a fifteen
Speaker 1: minute walk and then see what happens. You started to
Speaker 1: take your walk, and then that led you on a
Speaker 1: path to a bar and then to a strip club
Speaker 1: in the middle of the day. So actually a lot
Speaker 1: can happen on this date. Yeah, you should have joined
Speaker 1: back up there been like check this out and seeing
Speaker 1: a reaction. I mean, don't you feel bad knowing that
Speaker 1: I was walking around the park and the coffee shop
Speaker 1: looking for you for hours, and meanwhile you were getting
Speaker 1: drunk with your friends and going to a strip club
Speaker 1: and throwing down singles. This is the fight that usually
Speaker 1: happens later in a relationship. Well, hey, look at it
Speaker 1: this way. All those things that you saw on that
Speaker 1: long walk around the park for hours is now a
Speaker 1: thing you can tell me about. Oh come, oh, there
Speaker 1: you go. Now if you both have your stories, It's
Speaker 1: actually just kind of like it turned into a really
Speaker 1: really long game, the loss and found couple's challenge or
Speaker 1: whatever you called it. Amy, would you like like to
Speaker 1: get together and swap story? Jay, we'll pay for a
Speaker 1: second day. Will you got with Amy again? Wait? Hold on,
Speaker 1: I already know his whole story. I mean he ruined it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but he doesn't know yours could be fun. Come on,
Speaker 1: do you even want to go out with him? Amy?
Speaker 1: I'd be a lot more pissed if I were you.
Speaker 1: I think that we should do it over again and
Speaker 1: do it the right way, and if he can play
Speaker 1: by the rules, then we'll give it another try. Okay, So, Jay,
Speaker 1: are you down to try it one more time? And
Speaker 1: no going to the strip club? Actually go walking with
Speaker 1: you minutes to come back. Yeah, I'd like to, but
Speaker 1: just with one little change. We meet up and use
Speaker 1: that time to talk about everything we've seen up to
Speaker 1: that point, you know, like our lives and where we've been.
Speaker 1: That's a regular day and we talk about those things. Look,
Speaker 1: I'm not letting you off that easy. This is a
Speaker 1: fun game, and I want to try it again and
Speaker 1: do it right, and then we can talk about other things.
Speaker 1: She really wants to do it, Jay, will you give
Speaker 1: her another shot? You know, Amy, I feel bad about it,
Speaker 1: and I had a lot of fun chatting with you
Speaker 1: leading up to that first eight and I do want
Speaker 1: to really see what's up. So yes, okay, okay, you
Speaker 1: decided this is exciting or the start of a really
Speaker 1: unhealthy relations At least guys are actually going out again. Jay,
Speaker 1: Thank you for your time, Man, I appreciate it. Thank you. Guys.
Speaker 1: All right, we'll get it all set up and hopefully
Speaker 1: we can get an update from you. All right, all right,
Speaker 1: take care man. Amy? Are you still there? Yeah? Amy?
Speaker 1: Why are you going out with him again? Yeah? Oh,
Speaker 1: I'm actually not. I'm just going to schedule it and
Speaker 1: he'll show up and then I won't, so it is
Speaker 1: still a successful second day up date. Let's take it broken.
Speaker 1: Jewil in the morning got a text in at seven
Speaker 1: eight five to nine two that says that sounds like
Speaker 1: a horrible idea for a date, but I'm kind of
Speaker 1: want to do it me too. If you missed it,
Speaker 1: we're talking about today's second day update. Amy wanted to
Speaker 1: call this dude named Jay. She planned the date, and
Speaker 1: she had an interesting idea. She wanted to walk fifteen
Speaker 1: minutes in the opposite direction at the park and then
Speaker 1: turn back around and try to find each other so
Speaker 1: that you can share what you saw during your walk.
Speaker 1: But they got lost during the date and decided to
Speaker 1: try again another time. They never actually met back up.
Speaker 1: After they started walking in different directions. We got Jay
Speaker 1: on the phone and found out that he didn't want
Speaker 1: to walk around. He thought the date idea was kind
Speaker 1: of weird, so he just went and got drunk with
Speaker 1: his friends at a bar, then ended up at a
Speaker 1: strip club a little while later, and then lied to
Speaker 1: Amy about it because the whole time they were like, oh,
Speaker 1: I can't find you, let's meet up at a coffee shop,
Speaker 1: and he never did. But he was actually with his buddies.
Speaker 1: She was upset that Jay didn't follow the rules and
Speaker 1: got drunk and went to a strip club instead, but
Speaker 1: she said she did want to see him again the
Speaker 1: right way. I will say, though, he wins that game,
Speaker 1: like because he's got a way better story than she does. Yeah,
Speaker 1: time that he spent on the walk happened. He saw
Speaker 1: a lot more interesting things than she did. Maybe she
Speaker 1: saw maybe a bird and a homeless person. Well, Jay
Speaker 1: felt guilty and agreed to go on a second date
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