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<v Speaker 1>a listener named Amy is on the phone for a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update today and her email had the subject

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<v Speaker 1>line date backfired, which means one of three things. Somebody farted, two,

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<v Speaker 1>somebody's car needs to be tuned up because it backfired

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<v Speaker 1>a few times or three. I said three things, but

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<v Speaker 1>I only had two things. I'm out. Um, Well, let's

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<v Speaker 1>go to Amy and find out what happened. Hey, Amy,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? Hey? I'm good. How are you good?

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<v Speaker 1>So your email said that your date backfired. We'll get

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<v Speaker 1>to that in a second. First, tell us about the

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<v Speaker 1>guy you want to call. What's his name? His name

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<v Speaker 1>is Jay. Where'd you meet him? I met him online

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<v Speaker 1>and it just seemed like we had a lot in common.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought he was cute and good sense of humor.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I've been doing this online dating thing

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<v Speaker 1>for like over a year and it's getting kind of stale.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm ready to meet somebody nice, so you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to meet weirdos online anymore. I can understand that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So I thought this sounded promising. So Jay and I

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<v Speaker 1>decided to meet up, and I just I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>make it more fun than usual, just like the average

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<v Speaker 1>kind of date. So I asked him, before we meet,

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<v Speaker 1>just let me be in charge of the date. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm okay, Yeah that was he was he into a

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<v Speaker 1>woman that's in charge. Yeah, he seemed fine with it.

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<v Speaker 1>I told him, it's a surprise. I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 1>tell you what we're doing until we meet. I know

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<v Speaker 1>it was me. I'd be like, sweet, don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>do any work. This is great. So what'd you plan

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<v Speaker 1>for your date? Well, it's called the Lost and Found

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<v Speaker 1>Couples Challenge. Oh no, what is it? Well? I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it would be really fun. You know, we met at

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<v Speaker 1>a park, and what you do is you turn your

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<v Speaker 1>backs to each other and then you each rock away

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<v Speaker 1>for fifteen minutes, and then you turn around and walk back,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you tell each other everything that you saw

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<v Speaker 1>on your walk, Like you go have a drink or

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<v Speaker 1>coffee and then so you just go on a fifteen

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<v Speaker 1>minute walk and then come back and tell your date

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<v Speaker 1>about it. Yeah, and the fun part of it is okay, good,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad there's a fun part. Because I was looking

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<v Speaker 1>for it, I didn't hear it. No, it is, it's fun.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't text each other. That's cheating. You can't text

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<v Speaker 1>and say hey, where are you? You know, you just

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<v Speaker 1>have to find each other, so, you know, you take

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<v Speaker 1>a little different path and then you come back and

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<v Speaker 1>meet up and find each other. That's the way it's

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to work. It sounds like I mean, it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like it's something that like couples should do that have

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<v Speaker 1>been together for a long time and need something new

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about and connection. I don't know, I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's more like a get to know you kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I thought it was a really fun idea. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, you planning it took the work

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<v Speaker 1>away from him, and then you gave him a whole

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<v Speaker 1>bunch more on the date. It is unique. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>seem to like it? No? Hence the backfires. What happened, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>what happened was that I couldn't find him after the

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen minutes. I couldn't find him. We were supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>meet up, like in the general vicinity, and I just

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't find him anywhere. So I started getting worried, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I didn't want to ruin the game by

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<v Speaker 1>texting him, so I gave him a little extra time.

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<v Speaker 1>But then I really had to text him because I

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<v Speaker 1>just couldn't find him. Right, So did you find him finally?

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<v Speaker 1>Was he lost and scared somewhere? Well? No, no, he

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<v Speaker 1>texted back and we agreed to meet up at this

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<v Speaker 1>nearby a coffee shop, and so I went right over

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<v Speaker 1>there and I thought he would be there, but he

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't there, and I was waiting for like a half

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<v Speaker 1>hour and didn't see him. So wait, did he never

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<v Speaker 1>show up? That's right, he wasn't there. So I texted

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<v Speaker 1>him again and I was like, where are you And

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<v Speaker 1>he said, well, I'm here, and I said, no, you're not.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, like, I don't know if we went he

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<v Speaker 1>went to a different and play for what because he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, no, you're not here, but I was at

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<v Speaker 1>the place where we planned to meet. That'd be frustrating

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<v Speaker 1>to go on the first of all, the date and

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<v Speaker 1>then not be able to find each other and then

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<v Speaker 1>not be able to find each other in a coffee shop, right,

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<v Speaker 1>exactly did you ever actually link up? I said, well,

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<v Speaker 1>are you coming over? Like this is where I am.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you coming over? And he said, you know, I've

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<v Speaker 1>got something else I have to do. It would be

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<v Speaker 1>better for me if we just reschedule. I've kind of

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<v Speaker 1>put a lot of time into this, and so he

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<v Speaker 1>was just not into this. Sounds like it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>it did backfire and it turned him off after trying

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<v Speaker 1>to search for you for two hours or whatever. But Amy,

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<v Speaker 1>why do you want to go out with him again?

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<v Speaker 1>He essentially stood you up on your date. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought that actually it went pretty well for those few

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<v Speaker 1>minutes that we did meet up. I mean, we liked

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<v Speaker 1>each other, and I don't know what happened, but I

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<v Speaker 1>think that we should give another try. I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not like something horrible happened. It's just, you know, there

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<v Speaker 1>was a misunderstanding. So, you know, I still like him.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to see what happened. Okay, And I

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<v Speaker 1>had to get a hold of him since he said,

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<v Speaker 1>let's reschedule. Yeah, I tried to get a hold of him,

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<v Speaker 1>but he hasn't responded. Okay, Well, we'll play a song

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<v Speaker 1>and then come back and call him and get your

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<v Speaker 1>second day update. Okay, okay, thank you. Just make sure

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<v Speaker 1>you're hanging out on the right phone. You don't go

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<v Speaker 1>to a different phone you can't find you. Just hold

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<v Speaker 1>on a second right, Okay, brooking jubil in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update if you're just joining us for today's

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Amy is on the phone, and Amy

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<v Speaker 1>really knows how to spark romance. On a date, she

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<v Speaker 1>met this dude named Jay, and then they went to

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<v Speaker 1>the park and walked in opposite directions together. Just they

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<v Speaker 1>met at the park and then they left each other

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<v Speaker 1>and that was basically her date. Very romantic. Amy wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to do something a little creative, so she did this

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<v Speaker 1>lost and Found couple's challenge. You're supposed to walk fifteen

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<v Speaker 1>minutes in the opposite direction and then try to find

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<v Speaker 1>each other again. But they never found each other. They

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<v Speaker 1>even ended up at opposite coffee shops after an hour

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<v Speaker 1>of searching for each other, and it seems like the

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<v Speaker 1>dude just got frustrated and didn't want to see her again.

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<v Speaker 1>But now she's not able to get ahold of him.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're about to get him on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>find out if that is the reason why. Maybe I'm

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<v Speaker 1>all for creative dates. Would you do not run this

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<v Speaker 1>by any of your friends before you like pulled the trigger?

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<v Speaker 1>I did, And I actually found this idea online and

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<v Speaker 1>I've read that it's supposed to work great. So I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what happened. Yeah, it didn't work out great

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<v Speaker 1>for you, but but I'm a Dallas who number right

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<v Speaker 1>now and see if we can get him on the phone. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank yep, here we go. Hello, Hi, I was looking

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<v Speaker 1>for Jay. Hello, Yeah, Hey, what's up? Jay? How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jewel from the radio show Brooke and Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. I'm sorry what this is Jewel from

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<v Speaker 1>the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Hi, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>why are you calling me? Good question. I'm calling you

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<v Speaker 1>because we got an email about you from one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners, an email about me. Yes, I like this,

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<v Speaker 1>I say something, you repeat it with a question mark.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a fun game we're playing. Jay got an

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<v Speaker 1>email about you from a girl named Amy that you

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<v Speaker 1>went on a date with Amy, that I went on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with. Yeah, and I got another one for

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<v Speaker 1>you to repeat too. Okay, Yeah, you're not calling her back,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's wondering why she contacted you. Because she's wondering

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<v Speaker 1>why that is exactly what happened. We do a segment

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<v Speaker 1>on our show called the second Date Update. Jay, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>explain because you're obviously confused. And that's where if you

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a date with somebody and then up

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<v Speaker 1>not calling them after, people can email us to get

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<v Speaker 1>that person on the phone and ask what happened. So

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<v Speaker 1>Amy emailed us because she's tried to hit you up

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<v Speaker 1>to go out again, and you won't respond to her. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>he's trying not to ask a question right now? Is

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<v Speaker 1>there a reason why, Jay? I mean, I don't really

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<v Speaker 1>feel like sharing with Amy, What like, let's go. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to share with Amy, you can share with us. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you guys are probably going to wind up

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<v Speaker 1>like telling her or something screw her. No, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean yeah, we will tell her. That's why she

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<v Speaker 1>wants to know. That's the whole deal. She said that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she's been frustrated by online dating. She finally

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<v Speaker 1>finds somebody that she's connected with and then it doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>work out, and that that's a real bummer. You can

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<v Speaker 1>understand that. I mean, I do understand that. I just

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to like say something that's going to get

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<v Speaker 1>back to her and she's going to like get mad

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<v Speaker 1>or anything. Well, we can try to sugarcoat it for you.

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<v Speaker 1>And we already made fun of her date idea when

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<v Speaker 1>she told us about the yeah you guys walking in

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<v Speaker 1>different directions. So I'm not the only one that thought

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<v Speaker 1>that was a dumb date idea. Yeah, I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>sound horrible. Yeah, for real, can I do a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of dumb dates? And I'm even on your pay On

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<v Speaker 1>your side with that one was that it was it

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<v Speaker 1>just the whole concept of the date. And she also

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<v Speaker 1>told us how you couldn't find each other either. That

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<v Speaker 1>would be frustrating, that would make me want to leave. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't just a concept of the date, Like it's

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<v Speaker 1>weird enough to just show up and have and be like, hi,

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<v Speaker 1>okay leave Now that was a little weird, but I

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<v Speaker 1>mean at first, you know, I was excited to meet her,

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<v Speaker 1>so I was kind of cool with it. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I started walking away and after a minute or two,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I don't really want to just walk

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<v Speaker 1>for fifteen minutes to turn around and walk back. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So there was a are like a block away from

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<v Speaker 1>where we had met up, and I kind of ducked

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<v Speaker 1>in there to just grab a drink and hang out,

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<v Speaker 1>and a couple of my buddies lived like around the corner,

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<v Speaker 1>and one of them had texted me to see what

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<v Speaker 1>I was up to. And I'm like, hey, man, you

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't believe this. I'm on a date with a check

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm not on a date with her. I'm actually

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<v Speaker 1>at this bar just hanging out for the next half hour.

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<v Speaker 1>So they were like, oh, cool, we'll meet you over there.

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<v Speaker 1>And we had more than one drink, and then we

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<v Speaker 1>had more than two drinks. All right. So since you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't go on your walk and ended up getting drunk

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<v Speaker 1>with your friends, she told us how she was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to meet up with you at a coffee shop. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you actually try to meet up with our Originally, when

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<v Speaker 1>I went to go and get the drink, I had

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<v Speaker 1>intended on meeting up with her back at the park,

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<v Speaker 1>but then one of my buddies was like, it's happy

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<v Speaker 1>hour getting free over at the strip club. Oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>So we kind of slid over that way, and then

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<v Speaker 1>she started texting me being like where are you? And

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to be like hey, I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>just got out of there, so I was like I

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<v Speaker 1>can't find you either. We should try this another time.

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<v Speaker 1>So you went. You went on a day date with

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<v Speaker 1>a nice girl who put energy and effort into your date,

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<v Speaker 1>and you ended up at the strip club your bros.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like an awesome day. I don't know how much

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<v Speaker 1>energy she put into the date. Like the energy she

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<v Speaker 1>put into the date was, Hey, I found a thing

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<v Speaker 1>that we can not do together and not get to

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<v Speaker 1>know each other. Well, that wasn't her intention. She was trying.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you never screwed up a date before with a

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<v Speaker 1>bad idea? Well, I've screwed up a date with a

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<v Speaker 1>bad idea, but I was in person to screw it up.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't leave let it get screwed up away from me.

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<v Speaker 1>Why aren't you going out with her now? Why aren't

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<v Speaker 1>you calling her back? She doesn't know, honestly. The next day,

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<v Speaker 1>I just kind of felt really really bad about the

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing, And I don't know if I can look

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<v Speaker 1>her in the eye again if we ever go out

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<v Speaker 1>of Yeah, I mean it is kind of messed up.

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<v Speaker 1>No matter how bad the date was, to be on

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<v Speaker 1>a date and leave that date to go to the

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<v Speaker 1>strip club with your bros. I know you didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>us to tell her all of that, so I'm glad

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't, but you did, because she's actually on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening and wants to talk to you. She's

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<v Speaker 1>on the other line. Yes, there you go, repeating my questions,

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<v Speaker 1>my statements again. Yes, unless you hung up. Amy is

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<v Speaker 1>still on the other line, Amy, or are you still there? Yeah? Am?

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<v Speaker 1>Why didn't you just be honest with me? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>so you went to get drunk with your friends. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean you could have just told me that. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't intend to be like really rude to you. It

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of snowballed and then I felt bad about it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I felt it would just be better to not continue.

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<v Speaker 1>And honestly, I absolutely intended to come back and meet

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<v Speaker 1>up with you after I had a drink and I

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<v Speaker 1>just I got caught up, and you know, I had

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<v Speaker 1>a couple more drinks and then a friend of point.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah we heard the story. Yeah, yeah, I heard the

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<v Speaker 1>whole story. So is this supposed to make me feel better?

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<v Speaker 1>Just the idea that you wanted to hang out with me.

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<v Speaker 1>You meant to meet up with me, you were going to,

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<v Speaker 1>but you didn't. How am I supposed to feel about that? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I guess kind of the same way

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm supposed to feel about You wanted that idea

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<v Speaker 1>to be a good first aid idea. It is a

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<v Speaker 1>good idea. It's supposed to go much better than that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just that you didn't follow the rules that song.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say, Amy does have a point though, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it is one of those things where it's not going

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<v Speaker 1>to be fun unless both people really participated in it.

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<v Speaker 1>Like literally, within five minutes of the date, you decided

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<v Speaker 1>that going to drink by yourself was going to be

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<v Speaker 1>more fun. You know what, though, it is kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a good idea because it's you're supposed take a fifteen

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<v Speaker 1>minute walk and then see what happens. You started to

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<v Speaker 1>take your walk, and then that led you on a

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<v Speaker 1>path to a bar and then to a strip club

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle of the day. So actually a lot

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<v Speaker 1>can happen on this date. Yeah, you should have joined

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<v Speaker 1>back up there been like check this out and seeing

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<v Speaker 1>a reaction. I mean, don't you feel bad knowing that

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<v Speaker 1>I was walking around the park and the coffee shop

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<v Speaker 1>looking for you for hours, and meanwhile you were getting

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<v Speaker 1>drunk with your friends and going to a strip club

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<v Speaker 1>and throwing down singles. This is the fight that usually

0:13:33.280 --> 0:13:37.680
<v Speaker 1>happens later in a relationship. Well, hey, look at it

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<v Speaker 1>this way. All those things that you saw on that

0:13:40.440 --> 0:13:43.600
<v Speaker 1>long walk around the park for hours is now a

0:13:43.720 --> 0:13:46.680
<v Speaker 1>thing you can tell me about. Oh come, oh, there

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<v Speaker 1>you go. Now if you both have your stories, It's

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<v Speaker 1>actually just kind of like it turned into a really

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<v Speaker 1>really long game, the loss and found couple's challenge or

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<v Speaker 1>whatever you called it. Amy, would you like like to

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<v Speaker 1>get together and swap story? Jay, we'll pay for a

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<v Speaker 1>second day. Will you got with Amy again? Wait? Hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>I already know his whole story. I mean he ruined it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but he doesn't know yours could be fun. Come on,

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<v Speaker 1>do you even want to go out with him? Amy?

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be a lot more pissed if I were you.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that we should do it over again and

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<v Speaker 1>do it the right way, and if he can play

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<v Speaker 1>by the rules, then we'll give it another try. Okay, So, Jay,

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<v Speaker 1>are you down to try it one more time? And

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<v Speaker 1>no going to the strip club? Actually go walking with

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<v Speaker 1>you minutes to come back. Yeah, I'd like to, but

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<v Speaker 1>just with one little change. We meet up and use

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<v Speaker 1>that time to talk about everything we've seen up to

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<v Speaker 1>that point, you know, like our lives and where we've been.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a regular day and we talk about those things. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not letting you off that easy. This is a

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<v Speaker 1>fun game, and I want to try it again and

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<v Speaker 1>do it right, and then we can talk about other things.

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<v Speaker 1>She really wants to do it, Jay, will you give

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<v Speaker 1>her another shot? You know, Amy, I feel bad about it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I had a lot of fun chatting with you

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<v Speaker 1>leading up to that first eight and I do want

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<v Speaker 1>to really see what's up. So yes, okay, okay, you

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<v Speaker 1>decided this is exciting or the start of a really

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<v Speaker 1>unhealthy relations At least guys are actually going out again. Jay,

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for your time, Man, I appreciate it. Thank you. Guys.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we'll get it all set up and hopefully

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<v Speaker 1>we can get an update from you. All right, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>take care man. Amy? Are you still there? Yeah? Amy?

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you going out with him again? Yeah? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm actually not. I'm just going to schedule it and

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<v Speaker 1>he'll show up and then I won't, so it is

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<v Speaker 1>still a successful second day up date. Let's take it broken.

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<v Speaker 1>Jewil in the morning got a text in at seven

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<v Speaker 1>eight five to nine two that says that sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>a horrible idea for a date, but I'm kind of

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<v Speaker 1>want to do it me too. If you missed it,

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking about today's second day update. Amy wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>call this dude named Jay. She planned the date, and

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<v Speaker 1>she had an interesting idea. She wanted to walk fifteen

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<v Speaker 1>minutes in the opposite direction at the park and then

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<v Speaker 1>turn back around and try to find each other so

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<v Speaker 1>that you can share what you saw during your walk.

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<v Speaker 1>But they got lost during the date and decided to

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<v Speaker 1>try again another time. They never actually met back up.

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<v Speaker 1>After they started walking in different directions. We got Jay

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and found out that he didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to walk around. He thought the date idea was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of weird, so he just went and got drunk with

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<v Speaker 1>his friends at a bar, then ended up at a

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<v Speaker 1>strip club a little while later, and then lied to

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<v Speaker 1>Amy about it because the whole time they were like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't find you, let's meet up at a coffee shop,

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<v Speaker 1>and he never did. But he was actually with his buddies.

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<v Speaker 1>She was upset that Jay didn't follow the rules and

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<v Speaker 1>got drunk and went to a strip club instead, but

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<v Speaker 1>she said she did want to see him again the

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<v Speaker 1>right way. I will say, though, he wins that game,

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<v Speaker 1>like because he's got a way better story than she does. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>time that he spent on the walk happened. He saw

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<v Speaker 1>a lot more interesting things than she did. Maybe she

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<v Speaker 1>saw maybe a bird and a homeless person. Well, Jay

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<v Speaker 1>felt guilty and agreed to go on a second date

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