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Speaker 1: sah dot com Brooking Cuble. In the morning, Second Date Update,

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Speaker 1: a listener named Amy is on the phone for a

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Speaker 1: second date update today and her email had the subject

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Speaker 1: line date backfired, which means one of three things. Somebody farted, two,

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Speaker 1: somebody's car needs to be tuned up because it backfired

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Speaker 1: a few times or three. I said three things, but

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Speaker 1: I only had two things. I'm out. Um, Well, let's

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Speaker 1: go to Amy and find out what happened. Hey, Amy,

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Speaker 1: how are you? Hey? I'm good. How are you good?

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Speaker 1: So your email said that your date backfired. We'll get

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Speaker 1: to that in a second. First, tell us about the

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Speaker 1: guy you want to call. What's his name? His name

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Speaker 1: is Jay. Where'd you meet him? I met him online

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Speaker 1: and it just seemed like we had a lot in common.

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Speaker 1: I thought he was cute and good sense of humor.

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Speaker 1: And you know, I've been doing this online dating thing

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Speaker 1: for like over a year and it's getting kind of stale.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm ready to meet somebody nice, so you

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Speaker 1: don't have to meet weirdos online anymore. I can understand that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So I thought this sounded promising. So Jay and I

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Speaker 1: decided to meet up, and I just I wanted to

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Speaker 1: kind of date. So I asked him, before we meet,

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Speaker 1: just let me be in charge of the date. And

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Speaker 1: I'm okay, Yeah that was he was he into a

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Speaker 1: woman that's in charge. Yeah, he seemed fine with it.

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Speaker 1: I told him, it's a surprise. I'm not going to

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Speaker 1: tell you what we're doing until we meet. I know

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Speaker 1: it was me. I'd be like, sweet, don't have to

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Speaker 1: do any work. This is great. So what'd you plan

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Speaker 1: for your date? Well, it's called the Lost and Found

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Speaker 1: Couples Challenge. Oh no, what is it? Well? I thought

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Speaker 1: it would be really fun. You know, we met at

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Speaker 1: a park, and what you do is you turn your

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Speaker 1: backs to each other and then you each rock away

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Speaker 1: for fifteen minutes, and then you turn around and walk back,

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Speaker 1: and then you tell each other everything that you saw

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Speaker 1: on your walk, Like you go have a drink or

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Speaker 1: about it. Yeah, and the fun part of it is okay, good,

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Speaker 1: I'm glad there's a fun part. Because I was looking

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Speaker 1: for it, I didn't hear it. No, it is, it's fun.

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Speaker 1: You can't text each other. That's cheating. You can't text

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Speaker 1: have to find each other, so, you know, you take

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Speaker 1: a little different path and then you come back and

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Speaker 1: meet up and find each other. That's the way it's

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Speaker 1: supposed to work. It sounds like I mean, it sounds

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Speaker 1: like it's something that like couples should do that have

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Speaker 1: to talk about and connection. I don't know, I think

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Speaker 1: it's more like a get to know you kind of thing.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I thought it was a really fun idea. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, you planning it took the work

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Speaker 1: Was he lost and scared somewhere? Well? No, no, he

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Speaker 1: He essentially stood you up on your date. Well, I

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Speaker 1: not like something horrible happened. It's just, you know, there

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Speaker 1: I just want to see what happened. Okay, And I

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Speaker 1: second day update. Okay, okay, thank you. Just make sure

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Speaker 1: Second date update if you're just joining us for today's

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Speaker 1: second date update. Amy is on the phone, and Amy

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Speaker 1: really knows how to spark romance. On a date, she

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Speaker 1: lost and Found couple's challenge. You're supposed to walk fifteen

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Speaker 1: all for creative dates. Would you do not run this

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Speaker 1: I did, And I actually found this idea online and

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Speaker 1: I've read that it's supposed to work great. So I

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Speaker 1: don't know what happened. Yeah, it didn't work out great

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Speaker 1: thank yep, here we go. Hello, Hi, I was looking

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Speaker 1: for Jay. Hello, Yeah, Hey, what's up? Jay? How are you?

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Speaker 1: This is Jewel from the radio show Brooke and Jewel

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. I'm sorry what this is Jewel from

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Speaker 1: the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Hi, Hey,

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Speaker 1: why are you calling me? Good question. I'm calling you

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Speaker 1: because we got an email about you from one of

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Speaker 1: our listeners, an email about me. Yes, I like this,

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Speaker 1: I say something, you repeat it with a question mark.

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Speaker 1: This is a fun game we're playing. Jay got an

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Speaker 1: went on a date with Amy, that I went on

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Speaker 1: you to repeat too. Okay, Yeah, you're not calling her back,

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Speaker 1: explain because you're obviously confused. And that's where if you

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Speaker 1: to go out again, and you won't respond to her. Oh,

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Speaker 1: he's trying not to ask a question right now? Is

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Speaker 1: there a reason why, Jay? I mean, I don't really

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Speaker 1: feel like sharing with Amy, What like, let's go. You

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Speaker 1: like telling her or something screw her. No, oh my god,

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