Speaker 1: You know, most businesses love when customers come back. When
Speaker 1: our customers come back, it means that we failed them.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's what it means.
Speaker 1: But we got a guy back for a second date
Speaker 1: today in your classic. You may have heard him before,
Speaker 1: so that's coming up in just a second. But let's
Speaker 1: start with your comments. Yeah, Rosie said, weird question, But
Speaker 1: have y'all ever done a meet and greet?
Speaker 2: I feel like that would be awesome. Love the show.
Speaker 2: We haven't done a live event in a while.
Speaker 1: We used to take listeners to Vegas. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: you guys, it was so fun. We're going to try
Speaker 1: to bring that back.
Speaker 2: I know time.
Speaker 3: Of course I got hired.
Speaker 2: They didn't have a big enough budget for alcohol. Yeah, exactly, exactly.
Speaker 1: All right, well, we will get something on the books
Speaker 1: for you so that we can all meet up and
Speaker 1: hug each other and be one happy family.
Speaker 2: But if you see us in a grocery store, say hi, this.
Speaker 4: Is Jeff, Like, maybe maybe just wave awkward.
Speaker 2: Just don't expect anything but awkward.
Speaker 5: Small.
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, your second date starts now.
Speaker 4: Second date up date.
Speaker 6: Out of all the second dates we've done, and we're
Speaker 6: talking hundreds and thousands.
Speaker 4: Even I think tens of thousands.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Possibly.
Speaker 6: Every once in a while I say this is a
Speaker 6: first Oh yeah, but this one really is.
Speaker 2: Oh you don't mean it.
Speaker 4: The other time that means no, I.
Speaker 6: Mean those other times, But this time I really mean
Speaker 6: because we have a return caller. His name is Zach
Speaker 6: and you might remember he was on the show a
Speaker 6: while back told us about his mobile bartending business that
Speaker 6: he does for parties and events and.
Speaker 2: Stuff, and he made pretty good money doing it.
Speaker 6: Exactly last time that he was on, he wanted us
Speaker 6: to call a woman named Bethany that he had met
Speaker 6: at one of those parties. Well, now he's back and
Speaker 6: he wants us to call that same woman, Bethany again.
Speaker 4: But she knows us.
Speaker 2: How did that last time though, that we called her?
Speaker 4: I don't think it went well, Zach. Are you okay?
Speaker 4: Did you hit your head? Because we already did this
Speaker 4: and she turned you down right? What happened?
Speaker 7: Well, I just ran into her again and we actually
Speaker 7: went on another first date.
Speaker 2: Oh well, that would be a second date, Zach.
Speaker 6: If you go and if you go out with the
Speaker 6: same girl two times, that's considered two separate dates.
Speaker 4: I do like two first dates.
Speaker 1: First date, she said no to you on our radio show,
Speaker 1: and then you ran into her in person, and then
Speaker 1: she said yes, yeah.
Speaker 7: Yeah, Well it was like a few months in between
Speaker 7: when we did that.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I didn't realize there's like a statute of limitations,
Speaker 6: you know, where after a certain point it like cancels.
Speaker 4: It resets.
Speaker 1: Well, it's probably just she had a lot of bad
Speaker 1: experiences in that couple of months.
Speaker 2: So she's like, I guess I'll tell that guy.
Speaker 6: Okay, But for those of our listeners who don't know
Speaker 6: what happened the last time, or who might not remember Bethany,
Speaker 6: could you jog our memory just a little bit.
Speaker 7: Yeah, man, I met her while I was bartending a
Speaker 7: joint bachelor slash bachelorette backyard party, and she was just
Speaker 7: one of the Guess.
Speaker 4: Okay, right, and why did she not like you?
Speaker 7: Well, she said no.
Speaker 4: Right, yeah, yeah, he can recap. Yeah, what happened the first.
Speaker 7: Time, Well, she said that I basically had talked about
Speaker 7: myself too much and my business too much.
Speaker 4: Right, that's right.
Speaker 6: So it didn't work out the last time you were
Speaker 6: on the show. But now you're saying you ran into
Speaker 6: her again recently. Yeah, what happened in the second meetup.
Speaker 7: Well, that's kind of funny because I was bartending another
Speaker 7: bachelor at party. Oh really she was at that one too.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, this is like a lexus. How many
Speaker 2: times is this woman going to be in a wedding?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 7: I guess a lot of her friends are getting married
Speaker 7: right now, and she's bouncing from wedding the wedding.
Speaker 2: It tends to happen that way.
Speaker 6: Okay, So what happened when you and beth Andy saw
Speaker 6: each other at this new bachelorette party?
Speaker 4: I know you?
Speaker 2: Was it that friendly?
Speaker 4: I'd be shocked.
Speaker 7: First was that deer in the headlights where we both
Speaker 7: just kind of locked guys and froze for a second.
Speaker 4: How did the interaction go? Well?
Speaker 7: I didn't open up very well. I started with, you know, hey,
Speaker 7: it's funny that a lot of your friends are getting
Speaker 7: snatched up and you're still single.
Speaker 4: Oh wow, you said that to her?
Speaker 7: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I think she may like it.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 7: I tried to stop it as it was coming out,
Speaker 7: but it didn't work.
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh. What did she say back?
Speaker 7: Well, she said something like, well, there you have it.
Speaker 7: That's why I didn't want another date with you.
Speaker 4: Ah, yeah, just reconfirming. Well, the sparks are just flying
Speaker 4: between you two right now. The right girls love being
Speaker 4: a little bit of means. So you did get a date?
Speaker 4: How did you pivot?
Speaker 7: Well, it wasn't really a date officially. It was like
Speaker 7: we we were hanging out at the bachelorette party while
Speaker 7: I was on break, and then we were hanging out
Speaker 7: in this garden area and we actually kind of made
Speaker 7: out a little bit. O.
Speaker 2: Wait, did you don't have to work?
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's his own business.
Speaker 4: The bar closed halfway through the park. Just open twenty
Speaker 4: and leave him on the counter. You got to make out?
Speaker 7: I did? I got a makeout?
Speaker 6: Well, okay, of course she did, because she'd been drinking
Speaker 6: and you pointed out how lonely she.
Speaker 4: Is so.
Speaker 7: Wrong.
Speaker 1: Probably was it like super drunk makeout or did you
Speaker 1: guys actually connect?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Go into the details for brook.
Speaker 5: How much.
Speaker 4: I wouldn't.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't interpret a drunk makeout as she's something's interested
Speaker 1: in me.
Speaker 4: I that's true. She could just especially.
Speaker 1: Especially any wedding scenario and after they've turned me down.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I beg the different. I think she was definitely interested.
Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, what gave you those vibes Probably the makeout.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean there seemed like there was sparked flying
Speaker 7: because she didn't pull back. She seemed to be into it,
Speaker 7: and I was certainly into it.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, okay, now you're here.
Speaker 6: Yeah, so you're saying that she's not responding to you
Speaker 6: after your second bachelorette party makeout.
Speaker 5: That's correct.
Speaker 1: At the square once, dude, I am just dying to
Speaker 1: talk to her because she is going to be like,
Speaker 1: what you are calling me again? She's gonna know, yeah,
Speaker 1: She's gonna know yeah.
Speaker 4: And that's what's funny.
Speaker 6: That's what makes this an actual First we have two
Speaker 6: of the exact same people that are being called on
Speaker 6: the second date update and hoping that the second time
Speaker 6: goes better than the first.
Speaker 4: What do we do? Just go, okay, remember last time
Speaker 4: you reconsider.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, by could you answer differently? What's a strategy here?
Speaker 6: I want to We should get her to talk about
Speaker 6: this last date and what her impression was, right, Yeah,
Speaker 6: I mean, we'll just see if she even answers. Because
Speaker 6: she has our number two from the last time to
Speaker 6: be called, we're gonna find out.
Speaker 4: We're going for the very first.
Speaker 6: Time Second date update, redo, will she answer she?
Speaker 4: Is this gonna work out? It's coming up. We'll make
Speaker 4: that call right after this second date update.
Speaker 6: The Great Yogi bearra once said, I'm getting deja vu
Speaker 6: all over again, and I think that's what I'm feeling
Speaker 6: right now.
Speaker 1: Who like a sports guy that's Yogi Bear, Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: baseball player.
Speaker 4: He's just so embarrassing to work with. I don't know anything.
Speaker 6: The thing is I'm having, that's deja vu feeling because
Speaker 6: we're having the exact same two second daters back on again.
Speaker 6: So you think the title of this would be third
Speaker 6: date update, But yeah not.
Speaker 4: According to our listeners, Zach.
Speaker 1: I thought we could call it Groundhog's Day.
Speaker 2: No one's gonnaunderstand that.
Speaker 6: If you remember Zach, he's a mobile bartender who met
Speaker 6: a woman named Bethany at a joint bachelor bachelorette party
Speaker 6: he was working. Bethany said no to us the first
Speaker 6: time that we called her.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean very clearly.
Speaker 6: But fast forward months later, they meet again at a
Speaker 6: different bachelorette party, end up making out, and now she's
Speaker 6: not texting him back.
Speaker 2: Okay, there's no date in any of this story.
Speaker 4: Let's remember that making out is pretty close.
Speaker 2: No, god, ya, do you have any dudes I made
Speaker 2: out with and I didn't even know their names.
Speaker 6: It's interesting the things that you choose to brag about.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like, that's not real life what you're saying.
Speaker 6: I wonder how Bethany is gonna feel when we call
Speaker 6: her and if she answers she hears our voices again, like, Zach,
Speaker 6: doesn't this feel weird to you at all?
Speaker 4: You seem so calm a little bit.
Speaker 7: I mean, come on, things happened for a reason, and
Speaker 7: the fact that we ran into each other again just
Speaker 7: kind of sparked it for me, like, you know, maybe
Speaker 7: there is something there, maybe fate stepping in.
Speaker 4: That's nice, that's.
Speaker 2: A good way to interpret it. And if not, you're
Speaker 2: a chill guy.
Speaker 6: Like and Brook mixed out with chill guys all the
Speaker 6: time without knowing their names, make up.
Speaker 1: With uptight guy whatever guy, I mean, I'm married, nose,
Speaker 1: I can't well before.
Speaker 4: He's also, we'll see. Let's just call her. We'll see
Speaker 4: if she picks up here.
Speaker 5: We go, Hello, Hi, Bethany, so.
Speaker 2: Be morning.
Speaker 1: Remember us like a horror movie.
Speaker 2: Maybe we just started to ask for a review of
Speaker 2: how the first time.
Speaker 3: I mean, it's not you, it's not you, it's me.
Speaker 2: Welcome back to the show, Bethany.
Speaker 3: No, no, Bethany, Bethany, we've done this.
Speaker 5: I'm good, We're good.
Speaker 4: No, Bethany, you don't. You have no idea what we're
Speaker 4: even calling about.
Speaker 3: You know why you don't make me do this because, Bethany.
Speaker 4: Look, I hear you.
Speaker 6: I really want to respect your wishes, but we have
Speaker 6: a job to do on this show, just like a
Speaker 6: certain strapping hunk of a man who was doing his
Speaker 6: job serving you drinks recently, you know.
Speaker 3: Zach, I've been trying to forget.
Speaker 7: Yes, the second time was way.
Speaker 6: Smoother than the first.
Speaker 3: Guys, it was a mistake.
Speaker 5: It was.
Speaker 1: The makeout session was a mistakes.
Speaker 6: Are you sure, because it is interesting that the two
Speaker 6: of you keep randomly running into each other when you're
Speaker 6: at your most vulnerable Bethany.
Speaker 3: Yeah, all of my friends keep getting married and apparently
Speaker 3: only no one Bartender.
Speaker 1: Were you shocked? Like, what were you thinking the first
Speaker 1: moment you saw.
Speaker 3: Zach that I need to talk to the maid of
Speaker 3: honor at the next party I'm going to.
Speaker 2: Wasn't there like just a little bit of you that
Speaker 2: was excited to see him.
Speaker 3: I mean, I guess a little bit because I did
Speaker 3: end up making out with him. But ye, but it
Speaker 3: was like the tiniest I mean, the teenious, the tiniest.
Speaker 6: Okay, well, we want to talk to that teeny tiny
Speaker 6: little part of you and reintroduced that tiny part of
Speaker 6: you to Zach, who you know is already listening and
Speaker 6: desperately wants to talk to you.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I forgot that was how it works.
Speaker 7: Yeah, Zach, you there, Yeah, here, we are back again.
Speaker 3: What are you doing. I told you that that was
Speaker 3: a one time mistake.
Speaker 7: You said that, you said it was a good mistake,
Speaker 7: So so hard say that part.
Speaker 3: I just remember saying it was on a sake. I mean, honestly,
Speaker 3: I mean that with a lot of guys that night,
Speaker 3: so I wouldn't say that it was like that.
Speaker 7: I probably the last guy you made up with.
Speaker 3: So you know.
Speaker 2: The part of the lineup you want to be.
Speaker 7: In that you were kind of to me. You trusted
Speaker 7: me to call you an uber, where you didn't trust
Speaker 7: anyone else to call one for.
Speaker 3: You, because you were the one serving all of us drink.
Speaker 3: Everyone else was drinking.
Speaker 6: I mean What we were just talking about before we
Speaker 6: called you is stuff like fate and destiny.
Speaker 4: Things happened for a reason.
Speaker 3: Oh no, that's a little thief.
Speaker 2: Drunken weddings.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I would think that you keep running
Speaker 1: into each other. There's a tiny bit of you that's
Speaker 1: obviously attracted to him. Why not go on one real
Speaker 1: date just to give it a shot. What's the worst
Speaker 1: that could happen? I mean, you've already drunkenly made out
Speaker 1: with him.
Speaker 3: I mean, I mean actually did that twice. But there
Speaker 3: is a big difference between drunkingly making out with somebody
Speaker 3: and then dating the bar dating it one date.
Speaker 2: We're just asking for one date. That's it, one chance.
Speaker 2: One come on.
Speaker 4: You know he's a good kiss.
Speaker 5: Oh ye, good point.
Speaker 2: We didn't ask for that.
Speaker 6: I mean, Zach, you're the one who has been calling
Speaker 6: us all these times wanting to connect with her. I'll
Speaker 6: give you twenty seconds here to say your piece, convince
Speaker 6: Bethany to meet up with you one more time.
Speaker 7: Okay, you know what if dating a successful mobile bar
Speaker 7: thender isn't really a dream come true for you. I
Speaker 7: do have bigger than that.
Speaker 6: Oh.
Speaker 7: Oh, also want to integrate mobile karaoke with it as well.
Speaker 4: It's actually smart playing.
Speaker 1: It's much better than the sober karaoke mobile details.
Speaker 7: Right, you can come get your confidence from me and
Speaker 7: then go ahead and sing your song right after.
Speaker 5: Dude.
Speaker 1: All you need is a bed situation and you kind
Speaker 1: of have a mobile home at this point.
Speaker 4: Yeah, party, you have a drink and laid out.
Speaker 6: Is that a selling point for you, bethany.
Speaker 7: One thing you probably don't know about me is that
Speaker 7: you know I was basically right in a trailer for
Speaker 7: my ninth birthday. I got a microphone in a boom
Speaker 7: box and I used it. I kind of have a
Speaker 7: natural sound in my voice as well. I wouldn't be
Speaker 7: surprised if it would you just hearing it.
Speaker 2: Oh really, your singing voice is really good.
Speaker 4: Are you here? Serenade?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Get to woo brown, Oh wow?
Speaker 6: Go for blah that love?
Speaker 5: Oh whoa that love?
Speaker 7: All right?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 2: It sounds so fun. Go on one day? Come on?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I will pay for remember Bethany, if you say
Speaker 6: yes the dates on us.
Speaker 2: It won't do it for the plot.
Speaker 3: I can't and I'm not saying that like I never
Speaker 3: want to see you again, but I am going to
Speaker 3: ask if you are bartending at a bachelorette party for
Speaker 3: a girl named Sienna next month, Because if you are,
Speaker 3: I'm going to have to change my rs VP.
Speaker 2: He's a romantic at heart.
Speaker 7: What a guy about silent, So there's a good chance
Speaker 7: you'll see me there that book.
Speaker 6: Solid, Zach, you're her kryptonite. Every time that she's around you,
Speaker 6: she goes weak.
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know it's him or the Mohido.
Speaker 6: But it's the perfect combo.
Speaker 4: It's all leading you towards Zach.
Speaker 6: So it might be a no from you now, Bethany,
Speaker 6: but it could be possible next month at Sienna's bachelorette party.
Speaker 1: Third I say third time on this show call back.
Speaker 1: It's gonna be like fifty first dates.
Speaker 4: Time she goes I'll go.
Speaker 6: We will call you one hundred times until you were great.
Speaker 7: I think she's laughing, right, I think Fate Lenda hand
Speaker 7: and do its thing, And I've got a good feeling
Speaker 7: we'll see each other next month.
Speaker 4: Get your uber apple open, Bethany. He's gonna dial it
Speaker 4: for you. Looking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 6: So yeah, when it comes to Bethany and Zach, we
Speaker 6: are oh for two.
Speaker 2: I really thought you were going to get her right there.
Speaker 2: I thought that she was like, Okay, I'll give him
Speaker 2: a chance.
Speaker 4: She's coming around. She's admitted, Yeah, he's pretty good kisser.
Speaker 4: Yeah when I'm drunk, I guess. But we're gonna get
Speaker 4: her third time. That's the thing. All for two is
Speaker 4: not three strikes. You're out. Zach is still in this
Speaker 4: game for a couple more swings. He just has to
Speaker 4: like run into her again.
Speaker 2: Hey, guys, I think we're done.
Speaker 6: No with me, Brook, I was so proud of you
Speaker 6: during this segment. I really thought in part one you
Speaker 6: were not very on board. Was Zach trying again after
Speaker 6: the rejection? I think you called him sad and desperate
Speaker 6: but say that something like that. But by the end
Speaker 6: you were really on board with Zach pulling for him.
Speaker 2: I think he's a sweet guy. I do. I just think, just.
Speaker 4: Stop there, Okay, I don't need to say anymore.
Speaker 6: Brook, You are my MVP of today's sponge shall even
Speaker 6: if it did end in total utter failure, you could
Speaker 6: take the MVP on this one.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 6: I guess You're welcome, and remember, Brook can be the
Speaker 6: MVP for you if you email the show. We'll call
Speaker 6: that person who's not calling you back, no matter how
Speaker 6: many times you've run out to them and they've said no.
Speaker 1: I'd like to say after twice, we're just gonna call
Speaker 1: it no.
Speaker 6: Yeah, No negative attitudes here, and you won't find any
Speaker 6: negative attitudes on our podcast either.
Speaker 4: You'll find them wherever you get yours A Brook and
Speaker 4: Jeffrey