1 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:07,480 Speaker 1: Welcome back, happy our listeners. It's been another wild, wild week. 2 00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:09,600 Speaker 1: I was going to say in the West, but we 3 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:12,720 Speaker 1: were now in Canada, and we have so much to 4 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 1: cover from last night's episode because as on Power with 5 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 1: the babelor there was a lot of drama that we saw, 6 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: Yes Becca, last night's episode was definitely intense. But I 7 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 1: am so excited that we have Gabby here today because 8 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 1: we saw a bit more of a serious side to her. 9 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 1: You know, a lot of the girls have come in 10 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:34,559 Speaker 1: and said she's the funniest in the house, but she 11 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 1: definitely has depth too, and I want to dive in 12 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 1: with her more. I also, I am so excited to 13 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:42,440 Speaker 1: talk about this episode because we were in Toronto, my 14 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 1: fast city. That's what I was thinking about the entire time. 15 00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, Oh, I wonder if Serena's bended these places 16 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 1: or could give them recommendations anywhere. It was fun to 17 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 1: see the hometown, and so I can't wait to get 18 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 1: into it with both you and Gabby because she obviously 19 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 1: got that first one on one in the New Country. 20 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:02,760 Speaker 1: But before we do that, let's just get into last 21 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 1: night's episode and we have to do my favorite moment 22 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 1: for you, Serena our favorite fashion moment. Who all right, 23 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 1: let's get right. I don't know it did. Honestly, I 24 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:20,840 Speaker 1: want that audio every single week from you. I expected 25 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:25,040 Speaker 1: every week now and nonetheless, Okay, I wish we could 26 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:27,959 Speaker 1: show a photo of my notes right now, because it 27 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 1: is such a mess on this page because there was 28 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:34,319 Speaker 1: so many amazing fashion moments that I was just writing 29 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:37,399 Speaker 1: them down constantly. But I think I've narrowed them down 30 00:01:37,600 --> 00:01:39,679 Speaker 1: to my favorites and I'm really excited to share them 31 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:42,199 Speaker 1: with you. So let's here. We're gonna start off. Let's 32 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 1: start off with We're gonna go chronologically this week. So 33 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 1: night My favorite night look was Serene on her One 34 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 1: on one day right at the top of the episode. 35 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:58,120 Speaker 1: I thought that her black cocktail dress was such a 36 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 1: staple dress. It was is kind of close to the 37 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 1: knee form fitting. But what I love that she did 38 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 1: was it had a I think it was like a 39 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:12,799 Speaker 1: like a sparkly silver like bedazzled strap and it matched 40 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 1: her shoe and her earrings so well. So it just 41 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 1: really tied the whole look together with you know, all 42 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 1: of the glitz and glam, but kind of elevated that, 43 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:26,920 Speaker 1: you know, classic staple cocktail dress. Then my day. Look, 44 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 1: you're gonna be very excited about this one Backham because 45 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 1: it's going to our girl, Marleina. I love her. I 46 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:37,400 Speaker 1: love her so much every week I don't think I 47 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 1: can get more obsessed with her, and I do. But 48 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 1: this day portion of this group date, I'm not going chronologically, 49 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 1: but you know, my badge, it was so many fashion moments. 50 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 1: We saw so many trends on this date. We saw 51 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:54,080 Speaker 1: these long trench coats. We saw Rachel with a really 52 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:58,360 Speaker 1: gorgeous bage cut out shirt. But Marlena takes cake for me. 53 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 1: She's rocking Denimo Denham and platform shoe. She's hitting two 54 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:05,400 Speaker 1: major twenty twenty trends, and it just stood out for me. 55 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 1: It was this all black outfit but really pieced together 56 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 1: in a very cool, stylish way, perfect for the Distillery 57 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 1: district where they filmed the date, and last but not least, 58 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 1: my rose ceremony. Look, I'm gonna give two honorable mentions 59 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:20,359 Speaker 1: because there were so many great outfits, and then I'm 60 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:23,239 Speaker 1: gonna give you my top one, So shout out to Teddy. 61 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 1: She was in a beautiful magenta slip dress with an 62 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 1: awesome shoe. I wish we had seen more of that. 63 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:33,080 Speaker 1: I caught a glimpse of it and I wrote it down. 64 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 1: And Genevieve had a great gold form fitting, very elegant 65 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 1: gown on with I loved her earring pairing with this dress. 66 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 1: But I hate to do this, but I have to. 67 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:52,120 Speaker 1: I think I think you do too. I think you 68 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 1: do too, And it hurts me to do it, but 69 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 1: I have to. My go to Rose ceremony look best 70 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 1: dress of the night was Channel. It was face right now, 71 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 1: and I tried to not do it. There was so 72 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 1: many great looks, but I have to. I was obsessed 73 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 1: with her dress. I was obsessed with the whole look. 74 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 1: I thought it was trendy, it was chic, it was flattering. 75 00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 1: It stood out to me. She's bringing in the gold 76 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:24,720 Speaker 1: with her blonde hair, everything about it. I loved the look. So, yeah, 77 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:27,599 Speaker 1: she's taking my best dress at the Roast ceremony. I 78 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 1: knew you were gonna say it right when you pause, 79 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:32,040 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I know what's coming. I wanted 80 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 1: to add on to well, not to Shona's look, but 81 00:04:34,640 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 1: again to Serene at that cocktail or yeah, the cocktail 82 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:41,159 Speaker 1: party at the Roast ceremony, she was wearing. It was 83 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:45,240 Speaker 1: like this shard truth mustard. Yes, and she had a 84 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 1: like a square or a rectangle chunky gold staring with it. Yes, 85 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:51,480 Speaker 1: and that color was beautiful. But the top, like the 86 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 1: cut of the and the fit of that dress was 87 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:57,719 Speaker 1: so beautiful. It was like once I think had the 88 00:04:57,760 --> 00:05:00,080 Speaker 1: thinner spaghetti strap, the other side I had the the 89 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 1: thicker tank strap, but it was just so in that color. 90 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, where is she finding? I just need a 91 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:08,680 Speaker 1: DM Serena think to get her style picks and just 92 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:11,160 Speaker 1: where she shops because she is just knocking it out 93 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 1: of the ballpark for me every single week she is. 94 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 1: She has some really great looks and she got the 95 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 1: rose on that one on one day. So lots more 96 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 1: good fashion looks from Serena and the women to come. 97 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:25,039 Speaker 1: I can't wait. Well now was the time. You know, 98 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:28,839 Speaker 1: it's been fun. We've covered some fabrics, some fashion, but 99 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 1: we got to get into the down and dirt. Thank god. 100 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 1: Let me just say this, thank god we did not 101 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 1: talk about shrimp this week. Okay. I was if we 102 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 1: need to hear the women bickering about shrimp anymore, I'm 103 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:45,719 Speaker 1: going to turn off the TV. But just like the 104 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:49,480 Speaker 1: bast couple of weeks. Of course, we went into the 105 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 1: middle of an episode where there's still drama happening, just 106 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 1: like last week. Though, one of my issues with clay 107 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 1: was that he didn't seem to be asking enough questions 108 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:04,360 Speaker 1: to gain clarity on any sort of situation involving Cheney, 109 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 1: and that carried into this week, and I think I 110 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 1: left even more frustrated because we saw some great women 111 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:14,440 Speaker 1: who I think I would say deserved to be there, 112 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:16,760 Speaker 1: who I think are actually serious and ready to be 113 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:19,280 Speaker 1: in a long lasting relationship go home, and that was 114 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:23,920 Speaker 1: very unfortunate. Yeah, I would definitely agree with that. I mean, 115 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:26,560 Speaker 1: the women who went home this past week. I think 116 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:28,600 Speaker 1: it probably came down to a lack of a connection, 117 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:31,760 Speaker 1: But it's unfortunate that someone went home and maybe just 118 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:36,040 Speaker 1: didn't get a fair shot overall, because so much of 119 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:39,479 Speaker 1: Clayton's time has gone to Cheney. I mean, did we 120 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:42,599 Speaker 1: even see him talk to anyone else other than you know, 121 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:46,599 Speaker 1: that group chat conversation with the women and then Chenney. No. No, 122 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:48,680 Speaker 1: And that's what I was thinking. It was weird because 123 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 1: then from a bystander, they didn't cancel that cocktail party. 124 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 1: It made it look like they had the party still, 125 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:57,360 Speaker 1: but it was very condensed. It seemed like those were 126 00:06:57,400 --> 00:07:01,799 Speaker 1: the only two conversations, which I understand from a TV 127 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 1: aspect of like, you have so much to condense in 128 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 1: one episode now because you started at the middle, in 129 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:11,560 Speaker 1: the middle of a cocktail party, but it's there at 130 00:07:11,560 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 1: this point, I'm like, there's so many women here that 131 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 1: like I'll see bits and pieces of, but not enough 132 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 1: of and not him conversing with. So I'm like, I 133 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:20,679 Speaker 1: don't even know who have these women are still unless 134 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 1: you've been on a one on one or involved directly 135 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 1: in the Cheney drama, like they're not getting any airtime. Yeah, 136 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 1: you know what I'm gonna say about the Schney thing 137 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 1: and that I want to I just want to point 138 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:35,400 Speaker 1: this out. And this is not me being pro Cheney. 139 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:38,680 Speaker 1: I do not condone her behavior. But something that I 140 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 1: think she did that I was actually surprised she did 141 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 1: this and it definitely worked in her favor, was when 142 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 1: Clayton pulled her aside, she sat down and went, yeah, 143 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:50,320 Speaker 1: I went, I yelled at the girls, and I threw 144 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 1: the trophy in the pond. That was, in my opinion, 145 00:07:53,280 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 1: the best, the only thing she could have done to 146 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 1: maybe make Clayton feel like he could trust her, because 147 00:07:59,920 --> 00:08:01,840 Speaker 1: he was like, oh, yeah, this story lines up with 148 00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:04,920 Speaker 1: this story. You know she's being honest. She went apologize 149 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 1: to the girls, But I just don't know how he 150 00:08:07,040 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 1: is not fed up with it at this point. Well, right, 151 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 1: And that's where i think not only my frustration lies, 152 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 1: but I'm sure many of our viewers, and he's going 153 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 1: to hear it about. He's going to hear it from 154 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 1: the world this week, and I feel bad because I 155 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:24,320 Speaker 1: kind of know what's to come for him. But at 156 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 1: this point, like you've had what eight women talked to 157 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:32,840 Speaker 1: you directly telling you the situation, how she was behaving, 158 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:37,360 Speaker 1: what she said, what her actions were. Obviously not somebody 159 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 1: that I'm assuming Clayton would want to be in a 160 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 1: relationship with and like has as a future wife. But yeah, 161 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 1: he still chose to keep her. It's still again unfortunate 162 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:50,280 Speaker 1: that she's gotten this far based upon everything she's saying 163 00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:53,559 Speaker 1: and doing and just really I think like really working 164 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 1: him over, really working the girls, over being very caddy, 165 00:08:56,400 --> 00:08:59,200 Speaker 1: very two faced, pretending to be one way in front 166 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 1: of them and then going and talking mad, mad shit 167 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 1: in all of her interviews. Well, when we were watching 168 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:07,960 Speaker 1: her give her crying apology, I was like, I want 169 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 1: the IM. Where's this IM? Because I was like, she 170 00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:13,920 Speaker 1: is either going to go into i TM and be genuine, 171 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 1: which I highly doubt. But I was waiting for the 172 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 1: IM because I felt like she was going to go 173 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 1: and be like I think cried. I pulled one over 174 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:23,320 Speaker 1: on them once again. But I mean, at the end 175 00:09:23,320 --> 00:09:26,079 Speaker 1: of the day, I really don't think Clayton and Sene 176 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:29,079 Speaker 1: have that strong connection with or without the drama. I 177 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 1: just don't really see it between them. So if she 178 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 1: makes it past this two on one, I will be 179 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:38,960 Speaker 1: absolutely floored. Honestly, if she makes it past the two 180 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:42,480 Speaker 1: on one, I'm gonna question Clayton all. I'm calling Clayton, 181 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 1: I'm con Clayton with a lot of questions whatever. All 182 00:09:45,920 --> 00:09:48,559 Speaker 1: I gotta say is, after all this Shenee stuff, I 183 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 1: cannot wait for Women Tell All because it is going 184 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 1: to be probably the most heated Women Tell All we've 185 00:09:55,760 --> 00:09:58,760 Speaker 1: ever seen. It's gonna be gonna be so good. Like 186 00:09:58,920 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 1: I'm a little a bit scared him up. Innna lie 187 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:07,839 Speaker 1: like I am worried at women Tall. After everything is 188 00:10:07,840 --> 00:10:11,839 Speaker 1: said and done, the weird thing is is I don't 189 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 1: think she's worried for say, I think says just decided, 190 00:10:15,360 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 1: you know what, I'm just gonna lean into this until 191 00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:21,959 Speaker 1: the day I die. Oh gosh. I just there's gotta 192 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 1: be some part though that like still cares about just 193 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 1: being a kind human right, Like, I can't imagine her 194 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 1: being okay with now seeing how everything has played out 195 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:37,079 Speaker 1: so far and the mad ship she's talked and how 196 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 1: she keeps refer she doesn't even call these this group 197 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:42,319 Speaker 1: of women women anymore. She literally only refers to them 198 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:46,440 Speaker 1: as bitches, which is not okay in itself. Yeah, it 199 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 1: will be a very interesting episode, and I'm what, So 200 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:54,440 Speaker 1: we're on episode five, so we're not that far out 201 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:57,560 Speaker 1: from women till all. We're creeping up. It's gonna come 202 00:10:57,640 --> 00:10:59,600 Speaker 1: up quick. I mean, yeah, we're already almost halfway done 203 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 1: with the Sea In, which seems crazy in itself because 204 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:05,600 Speaker 1: I feel like we just started it. But I feel 205 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 1: like each week we say we have there's so much 206 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:10,080 Speaker 1: still to come, there's so much still to watch, But 207 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:13,080 Speaker 1: like every week I get thrown for a loop and 208 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:15,320 Speaker 1: it just keeps you know, at this point, it's just 209 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:18,040 Speaker 1: I'm ready for the Cheney story to be done and 210 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 1: for like the actual love stories to unfold. I think 211 00:11:20,840 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 1: it's time. Well, I think we deserve that. We do 212 00:11:23,400 --> 00:11:25,280 Speaker 1: deserve it, Becca, And it does feel like we're at 213 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 1: that turning point where the drama has kind of peaked 214 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:31,040 Speaker 1: and we're hopefully seeing the end of it in next 215 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 1: week's episode and kind of the love stories are on 216 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 1: the rise. I mean this episode, even though it was 217 00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:38,600 Speaker 1: filled with drama, I really felt like we got to 218 00:11:38,640 --> 00:11:45,679 Speaker 1: see a lot of his connections. I mean, Rachel, Susie, Serene, Gabby. 219 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:47,959 Speaker 1: I mean there's a lot of girls that you can 220 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:52,600 Speaker 1: tell he is strong, strong feelings for. Definitely, before we 221 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:56,720 Speaker 1: bring on Gabby, I want to get your favorite because 222 00:11:56,720 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 1: obviously they filmed in Toronto, your hometown, you know that area. 223 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:03,320 Speaker 1: Was there anything that stuck out to you that you 224 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:05,720 Speaker 1: were like, I used to go there, this is my spot, 225 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 1: I Beckus will I will talk about this all day. 226 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 1: I was so directly excited watched this episode. So the 227 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:18,080 Speaker 1: Toronto Sign is in like a main spot in Toronto, 228 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 1: and there's like an ice skating rink there in the winter, 229 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:23,800 Speaker 1: and then they went through like you might have seen 230 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:26,480 Speaker 1: the fountain with all the little doggies on it. That 231 00:12:26,760 --> 00:12:29,199 Speaker 1: is like I used to walk past that every day 232 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 1: when I was going to do my postgrad program at 233 00:12:32,240 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 1: Georgia and College, which is like a few blocks up, 234 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:37,480 Speaker 1: and I'm trying to think, oh, where they filmed the 235 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:40,360 Speaker 1: group date. That is the Distillery District. So it's this 236 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:43,600 Speaker 1: really cute little area in downtown Toronto. It's like all 237 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:47,080 Speaker 1: cobblestones and brick and it looks almost like somewhat Europeans, 238 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:50,080 Speaker 1: so that's really pretty. I'm trying to even think Gabby, 239 00:12:50,120 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 1: I don't know what the heck was up with her date. 240 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:55,240 Speaker 1: I just feel like, you know, no shade to the show. 241 00:12:55,360 --> 00:13:00,920 Speaker 1: But guys, serena pe Hometown Date hockey, Blake Moyne's hometown 242 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:06,840 Speaker 1: Date hockey, Gabby's candid date hockey, Canada and specifically Toronto 243 00:13:06,880 --> 00:13:09,520 Speaker 1: has so much more to offer you, guys than just 244 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:15,440 Speaker 1: some quick rookie hockey matches. Yes, when I think of Canada, 245 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:17,920 Speaker 1: I don't know if this is actually accurate, but I 246 00:13:17,960 --> 00:13:21,120 Speaker 1: think of poutine, which you had on your date day 247 00:13:21,160 --> 00:13:25,000 Speaker 1: you on your hometown date, didn't we did, and we 248 00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:27,680 Speaker 1: did have beaver tails. We just I don't think that 249 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:29,840 Speaker 1: got shown. But those were really good. I guess she 250 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 1: did get to go on a helicopter, which was kind 251 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:34,199 Speaker 1: of like the main event. At least they're finally able 252 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:37,120 Speaker 1: to travel internationally. That made me happy. I guess Michelle 253 00:13:37,160 --> 00:13:40,200 Speaker 1: season did too. But it's just fun to see new places, 254 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 1: especially for you being from your hometown. I remember feeling 255 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:45,120 Speaker 1: like that on Michelle's season when they were in Minneapolis. 256 00:13:45,160 --> 00:13:46,640 Speaker 1: I was like, this is where I used to go 257 00:13:46,679 --> 00:13:50,560 Speaker 1: on field trips as a young little child. Yeah. I 258 00:13:50,640 --> 00:13:52,760 Speaker 1: was watching with Joe and I was like, see where 259 00:13:52,760 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 1: this group date is, this is where we went for 260 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 1: the Christmas market in December, and say it was cool, 261 00:13:57,520 --> 00:14:00,640 Speaker 1: so fun. Well, we should just bring on Gabby now. 262 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:03,200 Speaker 1: Because she was the one to experience it. We can 263 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:05,760 Speaker 1: ask her how she felt about playing hockey in Toronto, 264 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:07,880 Speaker 1: if she liked it, if she hated it. I just 265 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:09,360 Speaker 1: can't wait to have her on. She's been one of 266 00:14:09,400 --> 00:14:11,599 Speaker 1: my favorites so far and again because all of the 267 00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:14,000 Speaker 1: women keep talking about how fun she is and how 268 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:17,280 Speaker 1: just comedic and hilarious she is. I can't wait to 269 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:21,160 Speaker 1: speak with her. So, ladies and gents, without further ado, 270 00:14:21,320 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 1: let's bring on Gabby to Happy Hour Okay, Gabby, welcome 271 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:28,680 Speaker 1: to Bachelor Happy Hour. This is the first time we 272 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 1: have you for an extended period of time and I'm 273 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 1: so excited. So just to start us off, how the 274 00:14:35,280 --> 00:14:40,000 Speaker 1: hell are you. I'm good. It's been like a whirlwind. 275 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 1: I'm sure you guys know, kind of once the season 276 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:46,520 Speaker 1: starts airing and like you're watching yourself on TV and 277 00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 1: kind of navigating that whole part of things. So it's 278 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:54,760 Speaker 1: been crazy, it's been fun. But yeah, overall, I'm good. Good. 279 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:57,920 Speaker 1: It's Serena, and I can speak from experience. It's a 280 00:14:57,960 --> 00:15:01,840 Speaker 1: weird world when you from filming it and then you 281 00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:04,360 Speaker 1: come back home and you're back in your real life, 282 00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 1: your real space, and then it starts to air. It's 283 00:15:06,680 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 1: like this limbo phase. We're like, I don't know what 284 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:11,560 Speaker 1: to quite do. I don't know how to act how 285 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:14,240 Speaker 1: people are perceiving me. So it's it's a lot to 286 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:17,120 Speaker 1: take in, um, but you seem to be handling it 287 00:15:17,360 --> 00:15:20,040 Speaker 1: very well. So oh, I go in and now I 288 00:15:20,080 --> 00:15:23,960 Speaker 1: don't want to give you the wrong idea you might 289 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 1: not be okay, thanks, Yeah, but I think everyone is 290 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 1: in the same spot, like you said, so it's nice 291 00:15:29,720 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 1: to kind of have the girls to be able to 292 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:36,880 Speaker 1: relate to, and um, yeah it is. It's hard also 293 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:39,000 Speaker 1: because I feel like it's still even though the show 294 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:40,920 Speaker 1: has been airing for a while, I still feel like 295 00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:46,240 Speaker 1: it's pretty like early in this season. So that too, 296 00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:48,560 Speaker 1: like is just kind of like there's just a lot 297 00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:52,040 Speaker 1: of anticipation, a lot to look forward to. So yeah, 298 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 1: you can't wait. Well, let's get right into this episode, Gabby. 299 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 1: Because we have seen a used an amount of you 300 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:03,320 Speaker 1: throughout the season. I mean we've definitely gotten little bits 301 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:06,320 Speaker 1: of you on group dates and interviews, but you got 302 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 1: the first one on one date in Toronto in this episode. 303 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:12,520 Speaker 1: How did it feel when you heard your name on 304 00:16:12,520 --> 00:16:16,560 Speaker 1: that date card? Oh my god. I was actually so 305 00:16:16,720 --> 00:16:19,720 Speaker 1: overwhelmed and like so grateful. There was kind of a 306 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:22,840 Speaker 1: lot was going through my mind, like thinking about it now, 307 00:16:24,560 --> 00:16:26,280 Speaker 1: I feel kind of like I said, I feel like 308 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:29,040 Speaker 1: it's still a little early in the season for me, 309 00:16:29,200 --> 00:16:31,280 Speaker 1: Like as a person, it takes me a while to 310 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:35,440 Speaker 1: warm up, so especially like in a relationship setting. So 311 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:38,200 Speaker 1: I thought my one on one happened at like the 312 00:16:38,280 --> 00:16:41,680 Speaker 1: perfect time, but I was definitely like ready for it. 313 00:16:41,720 --> 00:16:44,640 Speaker 1: I feel like Clayton and Ice connection had kind of 314 00:16:44,680 --> 00:16:48,280 Speaker 1: started to become stronger, like throughout the group dates and 315 00:16:48,280 --> 00:16:50,760 Speaker 1: stuff and just the time that we were able to 316 00:16:50,760 --> 00:16:53,120 Speaker 1: spend with each other, but it is still pretty like 317 00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:56,320 Speaker 1: just small snippets, like we didn't get to spend an 318 00:16:56,320 --> 00:16:59,880 Speaker 1: extended period of time. So when I heard we'll go 319 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:02,280 Speaker 1: to Toronto, it's like at that point you just like 320 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:04,040 Speaker 1: know you want a one on one. You're like, I'm 321 00:17:04,080 --> 00:17:06,400 Speaker 1: into him. I dig it, like I just need a chance. 322 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:10,000 Speaker 1: So I was hoping that for Toronto, and then to 323 00:17:10,080 --> 00:17:12,639 Speaker 1: have it happen, I was like over the moon and 324 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:16,120 Speaker 1: so excited, so nervous, like so many emotions, but all 325 00:17:16,160 --> 00:17:18,200 Speaker 1: the girls were so happy for me, So I think 326 00:17:18,280 --> 00:17:21,680 Speaker 1: that was kind of a nice thing too. I start crying, 327 00:17:22,040 --> 00:17:25,960 Speaker 1: but it was like real raw emotion. So well, I 328 00:17:26,040 --> 00:17:28,800 Speaker 1: thought that moment was so sweet, to be honest, because 329 00:17:28,880 --> 00:17:31,480 Speaker 1: it's not something that we see enough on this show, 330 00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:34,920 Speaker 1: in this setting where once you got that day card, 331 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:37,600 Speaker 1: you were so excited. The women were most of the 332 00:17:37,640 --> 00:17:40,000 Speaker 1: women besides one, we're very excited for you. But I 333 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:42,080 Speaker 1: thought it was so sweet that you thanked them, like, 334 00:17:42,160 --> 00:17:45,720 Speaker 1: thank you for being excited for me. So what was 335 00:17:45,760 --> 00:17:47,640 Speaker 1: that like? Knowing that for the most part, you had 336 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:50,760 Speaker 1: all of the support behind you. It's probably like you 337 00:17:50,840 --> 00:17:52,440 Speaker 1: were like a girl back and calls me like I'm 338 00:17:52,440 --> 00:17:54,600 Speaker 1: going on a first date with this guy, and everyone's like, 339 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 1: go get him, honey, we'll have wine waiting for when 340 00:17:56,880 --> 00:17:59,040 Speaker 1: you get home. How was that with all the women 341 00:17:59,080 --> 00:18:03,720 Speaker 1: and that support. Oh yeah, like a hundred percent even 342 00:18:04,000 --> 00:18:07,120 Speaker 1: I mean I felt it really felt so real, Like 343 00:18:07,240 --> 00:18:10,560 Speaker 1: I was so excited, like I said, also really nervous 344 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:13,120 Speaker 1: to have you know, your kind of best girlfriends at 345 00:18:13,119 --> 00:18:15,960 Speaker 1: the time with you and being happy for you, Like 346 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:17,800 Speaker 1: it really just meant the whole world. And I think 347 00:18:18,040 --> 00:18:20,080 Speaker 1: that is a big reason why I got so emotional, 348 00:18:20,119 --> 00:18:23,280 Speaker 1: because we're we're kind of in like a weird place 349 00:18:23,359 --> 00:18:27,119 Speaker 1: at this point, like you know, um, like women are 350 00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:30,560 Speaker 1: leaving each week, You're getting more serious with Clayton, so 351 00:18:30,680 --> 00:18:34,560 Speaker 1: like your your attention is kind of divided, but so 352 00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:37,359 Speaker 1: you want you're so happy like for yourself on like dang, 353 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:39,480 Speaker 1: I think, you know, this could really be something with 354 00:18:39,560 --> 00:18:41,760 Speaker 1: him and I, But I care so much about these 355 00:18:41,760 --> 00:18:44,960 Speaker 1: girls back at home or you know, on the couch 356 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:47,640 Speaker 1: around me that they've given me so much support and 357 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:49,800 Speaker 1: like I don't know, like what more could you ask 358 00:18:49,840 --> 00:18:52,280 Speaker 1: for I honestly just felt like the luckiest person in 359 00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:56,040 Speaker 1: the whole world then, and having gotten so close with 360 00:18:56,600 --> 00:18:58,959 Speaker 1: most of the girls, I knew their reaction was just 361 00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:01,880 Speaker 1: so genuine, like it wasn't force. So I think that's 362 00:19:01,880 --> 00:19:03,439 Speaker 1: when I was like, I didn't know what else to 363 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:08,000 Speaker 1: do but cry. Now that moment, it was a really 364 00:19:08,040 --> 00:19:10,080 Speaker 1: sweet moment, and I think it's nice to see those 365 00:19:10,119 --> 00:19:13,400 Speaker 1: moments to show like, hey, there's drama, but a lot 366 00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:16,119 Speaker 1: of these girls are amazing women and do care about 367 00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:18,119 Speaker 1: each other and support one another. I do want to 368 00:19:18,119 --> 00:19:20,560 Speaker 1: ask a question, though, not to take this wonderful moment 369 00:19:20,600 --> 00:19:23,080 Speaker 1: and be cynical about it, but I just found it 370 00:19:23,080 --> 00:19:27,440 Speaker 1: really interesting because on my season, I think like after 371 00:19:27,520 --> 00:19:31,960 Speaker 1: week one no joke into week two day cards, people 372 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:35,360 Speaker 1: were happy and definitely like kind about it. But I 373 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:40,280 Speaker 1: think what Matt Arley did was make everyone feel really special, 374 00:19:40,320 --> 00:19:42,520 Speaker 1: so everyone felt like it could be their name on 375 00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:45,239 Speaker 1: the day card, and when it wasn't, everyone was like 376 00:19:45,359 --> 00:19:49,040 Speaker 1: sunk in with disappointment. On your season, I could be 377 00:19:49,080 --> 00:19:51,879 Speaker 1: way off with this question. Did you guys feel like 378 00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:56,080 Speaker 1: you had as a group, maybe like inclinations about who 379 00:19:56,280 --> 00:20:01,840 Speaker 1: was potentially getting the date? That week. It's hard because 380 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:06,640 Speaker 1: I can't speak for any of the other women, and 381 00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:09,160 Speaker 1: like I was just starting to get the groove of things, 382 00:20:09,359 --> 00:20:13,560 Speaker 1: you know, I really hadn't. I think I almost watched 383 00:20:13,560 --> 00:20:16,640 Speaker 1: the full season of your season with Matt James, but 384 00:20:17,240 --> 00:20:18,679 Speaker 1: since then I was kind of in and out, so 385 00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:21,560 Speaker 1: I really didn't know like the whole flow of the show. 386 00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:24,160 Speaker 1: So I feel like everything was pretty much a surprised 387 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:27,879 Speaker 1: to me. And the mansion happened so fast, and then 388 00:20:27,880 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 1: all of a sudden we were traveling and then Rachel 389 00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:32,200 Speaker 1: and Sering got the one. I went in Houston, so 390 00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:34,800 Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, this all makes sense. But literally 391 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 1: something switched when we got to Toronto. It was kind 392 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:40,760 Speaker 1: of more like holy shit, this is getting real, Like 393 00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:45,240 Speaker 1: we're discovering a pattern, you know. So I don't know 394 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:49,360 Speaker 1: if it was if other women would say like they 395 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:51,720 Speaker 1: had an idea about who was gonna get picked and 396 00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 1: stuff next. I mean, we literally, and I don't know 397 00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:56,240 Speaker 1: if you guys felt the same way, but I feel 398 00:20:56,240 --> 00:20:59,800 Speaker 1: like all of our women were so incredible. Like walking 399 00:20:59,840 --> 00:21:02,119 Speaker 1: in to the room night one, I'm like, oh, I 400 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:06,800 Speaker 1: ain't shit actually, and I'm actually like so nervous. You know, 401 00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:12,719 Speaker 1: everyone's super smart, funny, beautiful, So it's like you really 402 00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:16,720 Speaker 1: just had no idea at that point, and you don't 403 00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:19,640 Speaker 1: see a lot of the conversations with Clayton. So as 404 00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:21,639 Speaker 1: much as it was a surprise, at least for me, 405 00:21:21,760 --> 00:21:24,199 Speaker 1: I had felt Clayton and his relationship kind of building 406 00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:27,640 Speaker 1: over the last couple of weeks, but our dates were 407 00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:30,800 Speaker 1: a little bit more playful, like less serious compared to 408 00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:35,439 Speaker 1: the vulnerability dates and things like that. So I feel 409 00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:38,320 Speaker 1: like I was definitely surprised, but I feel like I 410 00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:40,359 Speaker 1: was ready and I think some of the other women 411 00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:43,280 Speaker 1: noticed that too. But just like Matt, it sounds like 412 00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:46,040 Speaker 1: Serena yours day, and Clayton has a really special way 413 00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:48,720 Speaker 1: of making everyone feel special, like when you sit down 414 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:50,280 Speaker 1: with him, you feel like you're the only woman in 415 00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:52,560 Speaker 1: the room. So I think there's a lot of that too. 416 00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:58,479 Speaker 1: I think that you probably did get a date at 417 00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:00,439 Speaker 1: the perfect time, because, like you said, when you're in 418 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:03,359 Speaker 1: the mansion, it's such a whirlwind. You're just meeting everyone, 419 00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:06,520 Speaker 1: You're moving into this new place, drama is starting to happen. 420 00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:08,800 Speaker 1: You don't quite have your bearings. So when you're finally 421 00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:12,800 Speaker 1: able to travel and get the feel for your relationship 422 00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:15,479 Speaker 1: with Clayton and your relationship with the women. It's a 423 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:18,960 Speaker 1: good spot at that midpoint to go into and feel like, Okay, 424 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:21,239 Speaker 1: I've had several conversations with this guy. I know I'm 425 00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 1: vibing with him, but let's now see if we can 426 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 1: make it to the next level. It seems like you 427 00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:29,760 Speaker 1: two had a really fun day. Obviously, you were the 428 00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:32,600 Speaker 1: first person with him to explore Toronto, you went in 429 00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:35,600 Speaker 1: the helicopter, you played some hockey. So how much fun 430 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:38,119 Speaker 1: did you have with him during that day? Yeah, we 431 00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:40,960 Speaker 1: don't want to ask how much fun did you have 432 00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:44,919 Speaker 1: with the dog during the day? Oh my god? Oh no, No, 433 00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:47,560 Speaker 1: it was so cute. I like, Gabby is me? I 434 00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:49,760 Speaker 1: would be doing the same thing that guy. I thought that. 435 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:54,400 Speaker 1: I literally thought that. I was like this girl is Becca. 436 00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:59,239 Speaker 1: I'm actually so dead that they aired that because I 437 00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:01,280 Speaker 1: was like, not, we were like waiting to kind of 438 00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:06,480 Speaker 1: start and but yeah, but I think overall, kind of 439 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:08,679 Speaker 1: like I said before, a lot of the days Clayton 440 00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:10,960 Speaker 1: and I had been on were more like playful and 441 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:14,359 Speaker 1: heaviness into humor is huge to me. I ultimately the 442 00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:15,960 Speaker 1: person I end up with, I just want to make 443 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:17,720 Speaker 1: sure we can like laugh and laugh throughout all of 444 00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:21,800 Speaker 1: our days. I think that's something that has longevity in it. 445 00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:24,680 Speaker 1: You know, there's a lot of passion in the beginning 446 00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:27,399 Speaker 1: of relationships, Like there's so you know, hot and heavy 447 00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:30,119 Speaker 1: and attraction. You need all those things, but those are 448 00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:32,480 Speaker 1: also kind of the first to go to the wayside. 449 00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:36,760 Speaker 1: So personality and humor is huge for me. So knowing 450 00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:38,840 Speaker 1: that we already kind of had a connection, like a 451 00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:41,840 Speaker 1: little bit of a flirtatious vibe going on, I was 452 00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:44,359 Speaker 1: like so stoked to see, you know, if if we 453 00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:48,560 Speaker 1: could kind of keep it not only not keep it up, 454 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:51,880 Speaker 1: but it's like you spending all day with this one person, 455 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,479 Speaker 1: that's kind of a lot of pressure going in. So 456 00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:56,359 Speaker 1: it's like you don't want any like slow moments or 457 00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 1: boring or what if. But that's kind of all life too. 458 00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:03,640 Speaker 1: But I feel like we just so effortless, effortlessly had 459 00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:07,000 Speaker 1: so much fun together. I feel like leaving that date, 460 00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:09,320 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, we're like boyfriend girlfriend, 461 00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:12,400 Speaker 1: you know, And I think that was really special because 462 00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:15,520 Speaker 1: ultimately that's what the show wants to be able to mimic, 463 00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:22,040 Speaker 1: because you want to be successful leaving the show room. Yeah. Absolutely, 464 00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:25,720 Speaker 1: I think that like friends first mentality is such a 465 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:28,919 Speaker 1: good one because you're right, like, that's what's gonna last 466 00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:31,960 Speaker 1: if all the passion the looks fade away. You know, 467 00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:34,159 Speaker 1: being able to laugh together is so vague. And I 468 00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:37,520 Speaker 1: feel like you kind of saw you bring out Clayton's 469 00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:41,120 Speaker 1: goofy side. This was like he looked just so relaxed 470 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:43,080 Speaker 1: in the moment on that date with you, which I 471 00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:47,080 Speaker 1: really like to see. But I was definitely jealous of 472 00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:49,760 Speaker 1: the helicopter portion of your date. Have you ever flown 473 00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:54,520 Speaker 1: the helicopter before? I haven't. No, I'm like trying to 474 00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:56,840 Speaker 1: think I've been in the helicopter before, but it was grounded, 475 00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:02,560 Speaker 1: so I yeah, it's almost a yeah, there's like I 476 00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:04,680 Speaker 1: think you can kind of tell him a little apprehensive, 477 00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:08,680 Speaker 1: not that like I'm afraid of heights, but after Susie's Day, 478 00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:11,040 Speaker 1: who like took a helicopter to like land on a 479 00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:13,800 Speaker 1: yacht and then then jumping off the yacht, I was 480 00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:15,600 Speaker 1: kind of like, oh my gosh, are you having so 481 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,440 Speaker 1: many nerves? And didn't know what I was getting myself into. 482 00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:21,600 Speaker 1: But it was so much fun and just as I 483 00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:24,320 Speaker 1: think I was able to bring out Clayton's goofy or 484 00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:27,440 Speaker 1: sillier side. He was always like very grounding for me. 485 00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:30,600 Speaker 1: It was always really easy for me to be myself 486 00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:33,320 Speaker 1: and be comfortable, even if I knew what was ahead 487 00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:36,159 Speaker 1: was going to make me uncomfortable, Having him kind of 488 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:41,360 Speaker 1: next to me was really helpful. So what was your 489 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:45,280 Speaker 1: favorite part overall day night that you that you experienced 490 00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:49,920 Speaker 1: was Clayton? Um, I thought the hockey game was really fun. Actually, 491 00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:53,719 Speaker 1: even though I'm like not a sports person, I'm no Gabby. 492 00:25:53,840 --> 00:26:00,400 Speaker 1: I talked about the host Oh really were like if 493 00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:02,800 Speaker 1: I were Gabby would be bess if we just showed 494 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:07,800 Speaker 1: up to this like concrete sidewalk and they're like, oh no, naturally. 495 00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:11,080 Speaker 1: I was like actually pissed off because they after having 496 00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:13,720 Speaker 1: done the football day, Like, why are they trying to 497 00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:16,359 Speaker 1: make me do sports? It's just something I don't do. 498 00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:19,639 Speaker 1: But um, we were able to make it super funny 499 00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:21,760 Speaker 1: and we basically just goofed around the whole time like 500 00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:25,680 Speaker 1: it wasn't serious. Um, but I love having an excuse 501 00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:28,840 Speaker 1: to just like all bitch and complain the whole time. 502 00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:31,840 Speaker 1: But deep down, I like love, you know, anything that 503 00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:35,480 Speaker 1: makes me feel like a kid. So that was super fun. 504 00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:38,720 Speaker 1: And then I think you guys see, like us in 505 00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:42,520 Speaker 1: the hot tub or the pool that was like really fun. 506 00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:46,200 Speaker 1: And that was after there was honestly so many good 507 00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:48,840 Speaker 1: parts of the day. Um, I'm sure that you guys saw. 508 00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:51,919 Speaker 1: I really opened up to him, like on the nighttime portion, 509 00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:55,080 Speaker 1: and I knew I was ready and I wanted to 510 00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:57,320 Speaker 1: and kind of like I alluded to before, he made 511 00:26:57,320 --> 00:27:00,639 Speaker 1: it such a safe place for me, so um, after that, 512 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:02,680 Speaker 1: I kind of felt like a huge weight was lifted, 513 00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:05,560 Speaker 1: not just like for me and my journey, but kind 514 00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:07,520 Speaker 1: of for us, Like I feel like it brought us 515 00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:09,879 Speaker 1: so much closer. So then we got in the pool 516 00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:13,600 Speaker 1: after that, and it was like it was just so easy, 517 00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:17,199 Speaker 1: so fun and really natural. Kind of like what I 518 00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:19,679 Speaker 1: said earlier, he makes me feel so comfortable, So it 519 00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:22,119 Speaker 1: really felt like I was truly dating him, like in 520 00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:24,800 Speaker 1: a relationship, and it was the first glimpse I had had, 521 00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:27,920 Speaker 1: you know, since coming on the show. So I feel like, 522 00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:30,679 Speaker 1: and then after that, I think you can kind of 523 00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:33,440 Speaker 1: visibly see me like relax and be so much more 524 00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:37,639 Speaker 1: comfortable around him. So I think like the whole experience 525 00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:42,159 Speaker 1: in its entirety was a huge kind of game changer 526 00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:46,800 Speaker 1: for me. Let's skip into the evening portion, because it 527 00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:48,920 Speaker 1: seemed like the day you had this great balance you 528 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:52,600 Speaker 1: of course had the incredible helicopter, but still some down 529 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:56,760 Speaker 1: to earth moments, and it seems so landhearted, so comfortable, 530 00:27:56,840 --> 00:28:00,320 Speaker 1: so natural. And then you go to dinner and we 531 00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:02,760 Speaker 1: saw I think this is probably the first time we 532 00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,160 Speaker 1: saw the more serious side to you where you were 533 00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:08,240 Speaker 1: able to open up about kind of why you are 534 00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:11,720 Speaker 1: the way you are, how you were raised. So sitting 535 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:15,440 Speaker 1: down knowing that, Okay, I'm about to have this conversation 536 00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:18,520 Speaker 1: with Clayton, how scary or nerve racking was that for you? 537 00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:23,680 Speaker 1: I was really scared, I think, like anyone else would 538 00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:27,760 Speaker 1: be in that position. Of course, you know he I 539 00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:33,040 Speaker 1: knew that this was my chance to kind of deepen 540 00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:38,200 Speaker 1: our relationship. And I've had these conversations with boyfriends before, 541 00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:41,680 Speaker 1: and you want to make sure one that you are 542 00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:46,200 Speaker 1: sharing these things that are kind of a big part 543 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:48,520 Speaker 1: of you that the other person is going to be 544 00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:52,280 Speaker 1: able to not not like handle it, but kind of 545 00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:55,040 Speaker 1: reciprocate and appreciate it. Like I think, so much of 546 00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:58,680 Speaker 1: what's scary about being vulnerable is you never know how 547 00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:01,240 Speaker 1: the other person is going to act. So in order 548 00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:04,320 Speaker 1: to kind of protect yourself and have some self preservation 549 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:06,960 Speaker 1: about moving forward, you want to make sure that it 550 00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:10,479 Speaker 1: is a safe space, and Clayton had definitely proved to 551 00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:14,080 Speaker 1: be that for me, so I was ready. I was nervous. 552 00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:18,040 Speaker 1: I think this whole time. It you know, the season's 553 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:20,680 Speaker 1: been airing for a while, so it's like, you know, 554 00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:22,640 Speaker 1: you should be comfortable with him. Maybe some people are 555 00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:24,080 Speaker 1: thinking this, I don't know. I'm just like kind of 556 00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:27,720 Speaker 1: coming up with scenarios. But the time you have to 557 00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:30,680 Speaker 1: wait also until it feels right. Like all of our 558 00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:33,520 Speaker 1: kind of interactions and stuff before had been really light 559 00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:36,920 Speaker 1: and funny, and sometimes that's just the way things are. 560 00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:40,240 Speaker 1: And I of course want to read the room. And 561 00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:43,479 Speaker 1: I never felt comfortable to a place where I'd be like, Okay, 562 00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:47,920 Speaker 1: I just like, whatever did all that shit on the 563 00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:50,200 Speaker 1: Lifeguard date and now I'm going to sit down and 564 00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:52,360 Speaker 1: like talk to you about kind of my childhood, Like 565 00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:55,120 Speaker 1: it didn't really match up. So I feel like, again 566 00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:56,920 Speaker 1: it was the perfect time for me to have a 567 00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:59,840 Speaker 1: one on one hand to open up, and I really 568 00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:03,120 Speaker 1: did feel confident going in that he would receive it well. 569 00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:05,400 Speaker 1: And that means so much because it's kind of like 570 00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:09,160 Speaker 1: positive reinforcement, like, oh, you can trust people and they 571 00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:12,160 Speaker 1: will appreciate where you're coming from and understand how this 572 00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:16,840 Speaker 1: makes you who you are. Well. I thought it was 573 00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:19,960 Speaker 1: an incredible moment because you not only share your story, 574 00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:22,360 Speaker 1: but one part that stuck out and resonated with me 575 00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:24,560 Speaker 1: and I'm sure it did with many viewers is you 576 00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:29,239 Speaker 1: talked about putting in the work and learning from your 577 00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:32,120 Speaker 1: childhood and why those moments shaped you into the woman 578 00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:35,760 Speaker 1: you are today, but then putting in time for therapy 579 00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:38,920 Speaker 1: and how that helped grow you into the woman that 580 00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:41,840 Speaker 1: you are now able to be on the show, be 581 00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:44,400 Speaker 1: able to give your all in a relationship, to potentially 582 00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:48,320 Speaker 1: say yes to a future and a partnership at the 583 00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:49,960 Speaker 1: end of this And I thought that was such a 584 00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:53,800 Speaker 1: mature standpoint, because you know, every season there's so many 585 00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:58,040 Speaker 1: different ages maturity levels on the show. But for I 586 00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:00,959 Speaker 1: think you to sit down and talk YEP therapy has 587 00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:03,360 Speaker 1: helped me and this is why, and this is how 588 00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:05,400 Speaker 1: it shamed to me. I think was so important that 589 00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:07,920 Speaker 1: the viewers will definitely appreciate that. So thank you for 590 00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:10,600 Speaker 1: sharing that. That was I can't imagine it was easy, 591 00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:13,520 Speaker 1: but that was a big moment, and so I'm glad 592 00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:16,280 Speaker 1: that Clain was able to hear that from you. Did 593 00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:18,920 Speaker 1: you feel good in his responses to you after sharing 594 00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:23,640 Speaker 1: all of that, Oh, definitely, which I think there's also 595 00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:27,360 Speaker 1: something to be said about when something when someone does 596 00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:29,360 Speaker 1: have something to share to you that's kind of heavy 597 00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:32,720 Speaker 1: and big, sometimes there's not always a perfect response. In fact, 598 00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:35,800 Speaker 1: a lot of times I think there's not, so for me, 599 00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:39,560 Speaker 1: he kind of understood that and really just gave me space, 600 00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:43,440 Speaker 1: and I could tell with his body language and just 601 00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:46,640 Speaker 1: as overall demeanor that he in that moment he knew 602 00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:49,880 Speaker 1: he there was nothing really right of him to say, 603 00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:52,600 Speaker 1: but he just like allowed me to say it and 604 00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:55,240 Speaker 1: made me feel really safe. So I think that's really 605 00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:58,200 Speaker 1: the best thing that anyone can do for someone in 606 00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:01,400 Speaker 1: this situation. And then he said some really nice, like 607 00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:05,640 Speaker 1: heartfelt things afterwards to where I knew that not only 608 00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:08,720 Speaker 1: was he kind of processing it, but he wanted to 609 00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:13,120 Speaker 1: kind of reciprocate and give me some validation, which was 610 00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:16,360 Speaker 1: huge in that moment. I mean, and the bigger context 611 00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:20,040 Speaker 1: of things, I'm here kind of showing all of like 612 00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:25,760 Speaker 1: my deepest, darkest innards while there's, however, many women still here, 613 00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:28,720 Speaker 1: you know, at home, but you take that chance. And 614 00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:34,280 Speaker 1: he made me feel really good doing that. So yeah, yeah, well, 615 00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:36,680 Speaker 1: I think we've seen that kind of theme. We've heard 616 00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:38,400 Speaker 1: a lot of women say that he really made you 617 00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:41,280 Speaker 1: guys feel safe, which I think is such a wonderful quality. 618 00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:43,560 Speaker 1: And I think it was really beautiful seeing you open 619 00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:46,760 Speaker 1: up and be vulnerable, and you just came across so 620 00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:52,320 Speaker 1: confident and self aware and mature in your delivery. Thank you. 621 00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:57,920 Speaker 1: So I really commend you for that. And I'm pro therapy. Also, 622 00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:03,280 Speaker 1: I love therapy. I think it's the best thing. Oh yeah, 623 00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:05,440 Speaker 1: and I don't know, I don't think we hear enough 624 00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:07,960 Speaker 1: about that on the show. So I think that it 625 00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:10,600 Speaker 1: was great to kind of have that advocacy moment. I 626 00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:12,200 Speaker 1: do want to ask you a question. I'm taking so 627 00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:15,840 Speaker 1: long to get to it, but welcome to my word 628 00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:26,120 Speaker 1: three back. I'm turning into you. But you discussed um. 629 00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:30,680 Speaker 1: So when we saw you discuss this with Clayton, you 630 00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:35,160 Speaker 1: started off by sharing, UM, how you are good at 631 00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:39,360 Speaker 1: giving love but not receiving love and why that has 632 00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:42,800 Speaker 1: um why you were like that, And I just want 633 00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:44,880 Speaker 1: to know because I thought that was such a brave 634 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:47,360 Speaker 1: and almost important thing to share with a partner. Is 635 00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:50,640 Speaker 1: that something that you have always shared in relationships? Yeah? 636 00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:52,880 Speaker 1: I think so. And kind of going back to the 637 00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:57,920 Speaker 1: therapy talk, which like there's so many layers and um, well, 638 00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:00,000 Speaker 1: I feel like we're lucky to live in an age 639 00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:04,320 Speaker 1: where we have a ton of resources and there's actually 640 00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:07,400 Speaker 1: you know, a ton of like research and education out 641 00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:10,960 Speaker 1: there to help people and what they've gone through and stuff. 642 00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:14,799 Speaker 1: So I but I just like, just I don't want 643 00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:16,640 Speaker 1: to act like I know everything whatever. This is like 644 00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:19,839 Speaker 1: very specific to me, but therapy kind of teaches you 645 00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:22,360 Speaker 1: a lot about why you are the way you are, 646 00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:26,120 Speaker 1: and knowing that there's reasoning and where it came from 647 00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:30,400 Speaker 1: is huge for processing and growing and learning. So kind 648 00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:34,440 Speaker 1: of initially going to therapy as like I know something's off, 649 00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:38,200 Speaker 1: you know, like the way that I interact in my 650 00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:41,759 Speaker 1: romantic relationships even friendships at times two I kind of 651 00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:46,040 Speaker 1: have a hard time fully trusting. But therapy was able 652 00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:51,200 Speaker 1: to give me some insight and educate me on because 653 00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:55,200 Speaker 1: growing up I kind of go into this on the 654 00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:59,120 Speaker 1: show my mom and I kind of had an atypical relationship. 655 00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:03,759 Speaker 1: My parents were pretty young having us. My parents divorced early, 656 00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:07,160 Speaker 1: and my dad was active duty, so he wasn't always 657 00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:14,040 Speaker 1: around in the military, and so my mom was working 658 00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:16,840 Speaker 1: two jobs. Kind of she did the best she could, basically, 659 00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:20,359 Speaker 1: but I had to learn how to be my own 660 00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:22,960 Speaker 1: parent at a young age. So there's a lot of 661 00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:27,160 Speaker 1: like self predetection and self preservation in that moving forward 662 00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:30,400 Speaker 1: as a child. So I think that has kind of 663 00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:32,920 Speaker 1: led me to be, like, I can give. I feel 664 00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:37,720 Speaker 1: comfortable giving because that's less scary to me than receiving 665 00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:40,560 Speaker 1: something that may or may not be true or that 666 00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:44,880 Speaker 1: maybe could be taken away later, or what does receiving 667 00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:48,360 Speaker 1: love actually mean? Because when I was younger, it was 668 00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:52,719 Speaker 1: a little muddled. So that had kind of helped me, 669 00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:57,080 Speaker 1: you know, move forward and share those things with Clayton 670 00:35:57,200 --> 00:36:01,000 Speaker 1: kind of from a more objective standpoint. I do get emotional, 671 00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:05,160 Speaker 1: of course, but I'm kind of learning how to process 672 00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:08,560 Speaker 1: things and take it more objectively instead of emotionally. So 673 00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:11,600 Speaker 1: I think that and it has in common in my 674 00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:14,560 Speaker 1: prior relationships, but I honestly didn't know that much about 675 00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:20,000 Speaker 1: it until recently. And yeah, I don't want to speak 676 00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:23,439 Speaker 1: for you because everyone's situation is so vastly different. But 677 00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:27,400 Speaker 1: you know, I can speak from my personal experience. You know, 678 00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:30,000 Speaker 1: if you're more of a nurture, it's sometimes weird when 679 00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:31,799 Speaker 1: that comes back to you. You don't quite know how 680 00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:36,320 Speaker 1: to process and handle it. But you mentioned just putting 681 00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:38,520 Speaker 1: in so much time and work to get to this 682 00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:41,520 Speaker 1: place that you are now, which is an incredible place 683 00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:43,400 Speaker 1: to be. And of course there's always going to be 684 00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:45,719 Speaker 1: growth that can happens in life. But do you have 685 00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:48,560 Speaker 1: any advice for people out there who might be struggling 686 00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:54,399 Speaker 1: with a similar situation. Oh gosh, that is really nice 687 00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:58,080 Speaker 1: that you think I could ever give advice. I honestly 688 00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:04,719 Speaker 1: try and always steer clear. But I think for me, 689 00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:09,520 Speaker 1: it's just like one knowing like you're not alone. I 690 00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:12,400 Speaker 1: know it sounds so cliche, but going to therapy I 691 00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:15,479 Speaker 1: think really helps open that door. That's like we've kind 692 00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:19,359 Speaker 1: of and and also every experience is different and each 693 00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:23,520 Speaker 1: person has a different amount of resilience that you're able 694 00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:26,279 Speaker 1: to kind of execute towards these situations. So even on 695 00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:28,400 Speaker 1: the same thing that could happen to me, maybe it 696 00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:30,360 Speaker 1: could happen to someone else, but they have a completely 697 00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:34,479 Speaker 1: different response. And that's okay. Kind of validating your own 698 00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:39,000 Speaker 1: experience and knowing that it is okay and you that 699 00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:41,399 Speaker 1: you feel these way this way, and like you can 700 00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:46,120 Speaker 1: work towards it. I think just kind of having the 701 00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:49,960 Speaker 1: attitude and encourage to kind of figure it out and 702 00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:52,920 Speaker 1: learn that it's not a bad thing, it's nothing to 703 00:37:52,960 --> 00:38:02,880 Speaker 1: be ashamed of, and like appreciatively, Yeah, I love that. Well. 704 00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:05,040 Speaker 1: I think that it was amazing that we got to 705 00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,040 Speaker 1: see so many more sides of you in this episode. 706 00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:10,640 Speaker 1: We've seen that fun, goofy, playful side, but there's I 707 00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:13,319 Speaker 1: think you actually said this a couple episodes ago, You're like, 708 00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:17,000 Speaker 1: I'm an onion, I have layers, and I feel like 709 00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:19,560 Speaker 1: we've really gotten to see that kind of unfold. So 710 00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:21,840 Speaker 1: it was a really beautiful episode to kind of have 711 00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:24,239 Speaker 1: you share your story. But it wasn't all you know, 712 00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,239 Speaker 1: it was playful and then it got serious and then 713 00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:30,560 Speaker 1: we did have some really wonderful romantic moments. We did 714 00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:33,160 Speaker 1: see you tell Clayton that you were falling for him. 715 00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:38,239 Speaker 1: How did that feel that? I mean, it feels like 716 00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:42,279 Speaker 1: so good. I think looking back on this episode and 717 00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:46,359 Speaker 1: my time there, it really truly felt like all the 718 00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:49,360 Speaker 1: good things that are special about the beginning of relationship. 719 00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:55,320 Speaker 1: I mean, you have butterflies, just kind of emotions are crazy, 720 00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:59,160 Speaker 1: like probably hormones. I mean, all this wild is happening 721 00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:04,040 Speaker 1: like in time that makes you feel so light and 722 00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:06,600 Speaker 1: it's fun, you know, kind of being in a new 723 00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:10,759 Speaker 1: relationship and having these feelings so as much. And I'm like, 724 00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:14,120 Speaker 1: I my love language is definitely not where of affirmation. 725 00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:17,839 Speaker 1: I'm much I can like spend quality time and I'm 726 00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:21,839 Speaker 1: pretty like physically affectionate, but I've never been good with 727 00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:27,040 Speaker 1: my words, so actually verbalizing it was scary, but also 728 00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:29,279 Speaker 1: it felt like so good, you know, just to be 729 00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:32,040 Speaker 1: able to share this with somebody and kind of see 730 00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:35,080 Speaker 1: that the process can work. I think initially I came 731 00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:39,560 Speaker 1: in as a skeptic, which I feel like we kind 732 00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:42,120 Speaker 1: of all should have, making like a huge leap of 733 00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:46,200 Speaker 1: faith in a scenario environment like this. I need to 734 00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:49,479 Speaker 1: maintain kind of a semblance of myself. So that's also 735 00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:52,480 Speaker 1: a reason I think why I wasn't comfortable kind of 736 00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:55,040 Speaker 1: opening up all the way at first, because I was 737 00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:58,439 Speaker 1: still testing the water someone I was actually going on here, 738 00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:03,640 Speaker 1: you know. But I think after that date with him, 739 00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:05,880 Speaker 1: I felt really confident, and I was like, oh wow, 740 00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:09,040 Speaker 1: like you know, we're doing it. I have feelings. It 741 00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:11,480 Speaker 1: seems like, you know, he was able to reciprocate them 742 00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:14,000 Speaker 1: as well. So it really just felt so good and 743 00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:17,759 Speaker 1: it felt so real, which I think is important. I 744 00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:20,600 Speaker 1: love that you mentioned this process actually works because you 745 00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:23,080 Speaker 1: will soon find out. That's one of the main questions 746 00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:25,399 Speaker 1: that anyone that's a fan of the show will ask you, 747 00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:27,759 Speaker 1: like does it actually work? Is it real? And so 748 00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:31,200 Speaker 1: I mean Serena can speak for her for herself, she's 749 00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:35,440 Speaker 1: a ring to prove it is real. But no, I 750 00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:37,480 Speaker 1: what I want to say to that question, just before 751 00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:42,560 Speaker 1: you ask Yoursbeca is real to me is like someone's experience, 752 00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:46,719 Speaker 1: Like my experience was real, Like whether like yes, it's 753 00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:49,040 Speaker 1: an edited TV show, but like my day to day 754 00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:51,000 Speaker 1: experience and like what I live on a to day 755 00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:55,040 Speaker 1: that's real, Like everything experience is real. So it's just 756 00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:57,360 Speaker 1: always a funny question to me when people are like, 757 00:40:57,400 --> 00:40:59,799 Speaker 1: what is the show real? It's like, well, my experience 758 00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:03,960 Speaker 1: was real, and it works for people because people are married, 759 00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:07,799 Speaker 1: people are in babies, people are in relationships. So see, yeah, 760 00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:10,759 Speaker 1: it's it's like, how do you describe what is real 761 00:41:10,800 --> 00:41:14,520 Speaker 1: to someone or not. I want to do this because 762 00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:19,280 Speaker 1: I feel like, especially after this week, Clayton is gonna 763 00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:22,280 Speaker 1: get a lot of backlash just for keeping Channey around 764 00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:24,760 Speaker 1: for all of the drama that is still penetrating throughout 765 00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:26,799 Speaker 1: the I want to say the house, but now the 766 00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:30,440 Speaker 1: hotel that you're in. So what are Let's build him 767 00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:33,759 Speaker 1: up a bit. What are the top three qualities or 768 00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:37,160 Speaker 1: things that you know that you love about Clayton or 769 00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:40,759 Speaker 1: that makes you feel special anything, Let's just hype him up. Yeah. 770 00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:44,879 Speaker 1: I love that, Yeah totally, which I also think it's 771 00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:48,920 Speaker 1: important to know. I mean, watching back and seeing Shiney's interviews, 772 00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:54,160 Speaker 1: we're shocked about like what was said and actually what 773 00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:56,719 Speaker 1: her kind of motives and all tier your motives were. 774 00:41:56,800 --> 00:42:02,239 Speaker 1: So I think it's it's new for everyone almost to 775 00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:06,080 Speaker 1: an extent, and especially Clayton. I mean, he was kind 776 00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:08,879 Speaker 1: of um, I know, we kind of tried to give 777 00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:11,200 Speaker 1: him some insight and stuff, but also there was a 778 00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:14,359 Speaker 1: sense of like, well, I don't want to meddle too 779 00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:17,279 Speaker 1: much because I actually don't know truly what's going on, 780 00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:20,840 Speaker 1: and like this is about finding love, so like who knows, 781 00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:23,680 Speaker 1: you know, maybe like their connection is actually over the moon, 782 00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:26,160 Speaker 1: and like there was like lots of confusion. So I 783 00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:29,279 Speaker 1: do wish people would have a little more grace, not 784 00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:34,839 Speaker 1: saying that any of Sene's actions are like right, but 785 00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:39,319 Speaker 1: I think he's he is He's just super genuine, Like 786 00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:42,719 Speaker 1: he is just a really good person. I think in 787 00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:46,880 Speaker 1: that strives or is that the word no, no, no, 788 00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:50,640 Speaker 1: I don't know, but that is like what he ultimately 789 00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:52,480 Speaker 1: just like wants to do, you know, like wants to 790 00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:56,320 Speaker 1: navigate like and make good decisions as as a good person. 791 00:42:56,360 --> 00:43:00,560 Speaker 1: And I think he really exudes that in in person 792 00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:04,359 Speaker 1: when you're with him, he always kind of just left 793 00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:08,000 Speaker 1: a huge companying space for whoever he was speaking with. 794 00:43:08,200 --> 00:43:10,239 Speaker 1: He always made you feel like you're the only girl 795 00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:13,799 Speaker 1: in the room. Like nothing was like dumb or no 796 00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:16,480 Speaker 1: conversation was off topic. He was down to like talk 797 00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:21,399 Speaker 1: about anything, which I think is great and like he 798 00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:23,680 Speaker 1: does he has a great sense of humor, Like he's 799 00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:25,760 Speaker 1: always down to have fun. He's just a really fun 800 00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:29,080 Speaker 1: person to be around. But I think you can also 801 00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:33,720 Speaker 1: like trust him. You know, he would never on purpose 802 00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:37,040 Speaker 1: hurt anyone's feelings, Like there's just not a malicious bone 803 00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:42,840 Speaker 1: in his body. So I think that's three. I love that. Yeah, 804 00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:44,840 Speaker 1: that's good. I think we need to do that more often, 805 00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:47,920 Speaker 1: especially whether it's with the lead or any contestant, just 806 00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:51,680 Speaker 1: because this world is crazy. You get love, you get hate, 807 00:43:51,800 --> 00:43:54,800 Speaker 1: and it's just good to remember like he was chosen 808 00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:56,920 Speaker 1: as the lead for a reason, and we got to 809 00:43:57,000 --> 00:44:01,399 Speaker 1: keep that at the forefront. One thing that I want 810 00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:03,799 Speaker 1: to ask you about, and kind of going back to 811 00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:08,839 Speaker 1: what you had just said about this is Clayton's and 812 00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:12,279 Speaker 1: everyone's first time really seen how Shane was behind the 813 00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:16,799 Speaker 1: scenes in her itms and in her interviews. You had 814 00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:19,080 Speaker 1: some sort of relationship with her. You obviously lived with 815 00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:22,879 Speaker 1: her for weeks. What is that like now when you're 816 00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:26,560 Speaker 1: at home watching these episodes and hearing her call you 817 00:44:26,640 --> 00:44:29,520 Speaker 1: all bitches? And I hate that word. I hate that 818 00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:32,520 Speaker 1: I keep saying it too, But I'm just using what 819 00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:36,640 Speaker 1: she's saying like she uses these dragatory terms towards all 820 00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:38,760 Speaker 1: of you women. She just has a lot of nasty 821 00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:42,240 Speaker 1: things to say. So how do you feel after living 822 00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:46,200 Speaker 1: with her and hearing those things that she's saying? For me? 823 00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:50,480 Speaker 1: I feel honestly tricked. I think a lot of us 824 00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:52,760 Speaker 1: really tried to give her a benefit of the doubt 825 00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:56,600 Speaker 1: time after time again, because in our minds it's like, well, 826 00:44:56,800 --> 00:44:58,759 Speaker 1: maybe you know, there has to be a reason why 827 00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:01,640 Speaker 1: she's sticking around. We were privy to a lot of 828 00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:05,800 Speaker 1: her conversations, you know, with Elizabeth, but you know, knowing 829 00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:12,600 Speaker 1: nobody should weaponize mental health against someone, and at times 830 00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:14,799 Speaker 1: it seems like shene would kind of come back from 831 00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:18,160 Speaker 1: that be friendly to us. In the house, she was 832 00:45:18,239 --> 00:45:21,239 Speaker 1: kind of hinting that maybe there's like change on the horizon. 833 00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:24,320 Speaker 1: So I think each new place we went, we were like, Okay, 834 00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:26,480 Speaker 1: this is you know, this is when she's going to 835 00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:29,080 Speaker 1: figure it out and be nice to us, or like, 836 00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:31,920 Speaker 1: you know, kind of always give her space and a 837 00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:37,359 Speaker 1: chance for redemption. But then watching her interviews, knowing that 838 00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:41,120 Speaker 1: she was on purpose manipulating the situation and maybe telling 839 00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:44,799 Speaker 1: us one thing and completely thinking another. When we know 840 00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:47,440 Speaker 1: this is going to be aired on national television, people 841 00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:50,239 Speaker 1: will see the full story because you can't hide it. 842 00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:54,200 Speaker 1: So I guess, like the confidence and security she had 843 00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:58,320 Speaker 1: being a complete different way to the women versus Clayton, 844 00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:01,960 Speaker 1: I just felt like the tricked you know, I'm like, damn, 845 00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:05,160 Speaker 1: I feel dumb for trying to stick up for your ass, 846 00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:08,480 Speaker 1: you know, But like I think that's being in that 847 00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:11,719 Speaker 1: situation when you're in such a bubble, and that's how 848 00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:14,480 Speaker 1: good the women are in the house. We didn't want 849 00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:17,520 Speaker 1: to have this drama. We didn't want to like have 850 00:46:17,600 --> 00:46:20,759 Speaker 1: these strong negative feelings towards someone because I think the 851 00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:24,000 Speaker 1: hardest part for me being there and watching back was 852 00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:28,000 Speaker 1: she was taking time away from other phenomenal women who 853 00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:31,359 Speaker 1: also deserve a chance at finding love. But because there 854 00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:34,480 Speaker 1: was so much drama and so much attention given to that, 855 00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:38,319 Speaker 1: I mean, women went under the radar, maybe didn't have 856 00:46:38,800 --> 00:46:40,680 Speaker 1: like as big of a chance as they had to 857 00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:46,400 Speaker 1: to connect with Clayton because this was clouding the whole picture. Yeah, 858 00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:48,160 Speaker 1: And I mean, at the end of the day, you 859 00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:51,359 Speaker 1: guys constantly giving her a chance and trying to see 860 00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:54,080 Speaker 1: the best in her speaks to your character, and her 861 00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:57,239 Speaker 1: interviews speak to her characters. And that's all I'm gonna 862 00:46:57,239 --> 00:47:00,719 Speaker 1: say about that. But I felt so bad for you, 863 00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:03,680 Speaker 1: Gabby when the end of the episode hit and it 864 00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:07,319 Speaker 1: was you and Genevieve and say just stuck in this 865 00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:12,319 Speaker 1: us together what I know, said, like, well, it was 866 00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:15,400 Speaker 1: so crazy. Actually, that whole week was like a whirlwind 867 00:47:15,440 --> 00:47:18,759 Speaker 1: because you know, we got there and I got the 868 00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:21,560 Speaker 1: we like will ever see the place? Read the day card? 869 00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:24,200 Speaker 1: And I'm the first date of the week. So I'm like, 870 00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:26,920 Speaker 1: holy shit, kind of on a different wavelength than that, 871 00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:29,400 Speaker 1: like thinking about myself and like do I get to change? 872 00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:33,439 Speaker 1: I don't like my outfit? And then I was thinking 873 00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:36,120 Speaker 1: about that I would be the same Oh my god, yeah, 874 00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:38,920 Speaker 1: and they're like no, and I was like but um, 875 00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:42,200 Speaker 1: But then the whole week kind of got so crazy. 876 00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:44,960 Speaker 1: I came home kind of late, coming back from the 877 00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:47,040 Speaker 1: one on one. I was in a completely different world, 878 00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:50,080 Speaker 1: you know. I was like, oh, I'm in love and like, 879 00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:53,440 Speaker 1: but there was like kind of attention in the house. 880 00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:57,880 Speaker 1: I was like, what is going on here? And the 881 00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:03,200 Speaker 1: next day, I mean, when was the last two on one? Like, oh, 882 00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:07,480 Speaker 1: kind of a long time ago. Rights doesn't had a 883 00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:11,439 Speaker 1: two on one? Oh it didn't Michelle's have one? Uh no, 884 00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:14,200 Speaker 1: I don't think Michelle's had one. Okay, but Michelle would 885 00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:16,480 Speaker 1: send people home like literally within like four minutes of 886 00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:19,280 Speaker 1: the drama starting and they had a chance the two one. 887 00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:23,640 Speaker 1: I know she's a real one for that. Um, but yeah, 888 00:48:23,680 --> 00:48:26,439 Speaker 1: I wasn't even thinking about that like that it would 889 00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:29,799 Speaker 1: maybe happen, you know, And then the next day the 890 00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:32,759 Speaker 1: girls like who were going on the other date, We're 891 00:48:32,760 --> 00:48:35,960 Speaker 1: all dressed up and then me, jenneteven Cheney are still 892 00:48:35,960 --> 00:48:38,440 Speaker 1: in our sweats and I was like, oh no, something 893 00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:41,880 Speaker 1: weird is happening here. And then we, you know, spent 894 00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:44,239 Speaker 1: like the whole week basically together kind of in the 895 00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:46,560 Speaker 1: house while the other girls were on their dates. So 896 00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:50,120 Speaker 1: it was hard at that point. Honestly, um Sene did 897 00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:52,960 Speaker 1: just really keep her distance from everyone. So I just 898 00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:55,640 Speaker 1: felt bad for my friend Genevieve. I'm like, God, I'm 899 00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:57,480 Speaker 1: so sorry. You know, you have to go through all 900 00:48:57,520 --> 00:49:00,560 Speaker 1: this and you're subject to this basically because she became 901 00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:03,560 Speaker 1: a target because she was sticking up for Elizabeth. Like 902 00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:07,400 Speaker 1: that's you know, well, that's something I want to ask about, 903 00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:09,960 Speaker 1: because I mean, before you hopped on, Serena and I 904 00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:12,120 Speaker 1: did a quick little recap and we obviously talked about 905 00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:14,480 Speaker 1: all of the Schnee drama, and that's I think everyone's 906 00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:17,480 Speaker 1: focused right now, especially with the two on one is Cheney. 907 00:49:18,160 --> 00:49:23,319 Speaker 1: But poor Genevieve is here. She seems very confused of 908 00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:25,400 Speaker 1: like why she's there when I obviously they kind of 909 00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:28,120 Speaker 1: pieced together from the week before, Like you just said, 910 00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:32,080 Speaker 1: her sticking up for Elizabeth, but she, honestly, I was like, 911 00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:34,319 Speaker 1: none of these women belong on the two on one. 912 00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:36,719 Speaker 1: Was say, at this point, it just seems weird and 913 00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:39,800 Speaker 1: it's like he just had to pick somebody in. Poor 914 00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:44,080 Speaker 1: Genevieve was, you know, the victim of this. But how 915 00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:47,160 Speaker 1: was she feeling? Because from what we saw, Sane seemed 916 00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:49,759 Speaker 1: confident she had a plan. She said that she had 917 00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:52,880 Speaker 1: rehearsed her script of what she wanted to Scott. She 918 00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:55,920 Speaker 1: said that, yeah, She's like, I wrote down what I 919 00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:59,719 Speaker 1: want to say practice, I rehearsed it in the mirror 920 00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,239 Speaker 1: and then so and then on the whole other end 921 00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:04,640 Speaker 1: of the spectrum is Genevieve being like, I don't quite 922 00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:06,719 Speaker 1: know why I'm here. This is weird. What am I 923 00:50:06,760 --> 00:50:08,799 Speaker 1: supposed to do? So and it sounds like you were 924 00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:10,920 Speaker 1: closer with Genevieve, So how was she like where was 925 00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:15,400 Speaker 1: her mindset going into that day? I think Genevieve was 926 00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:20,120 Speaker 1: really levelheaded about everything, and like, honestly, good for her, 927 00:50:21,480 --> 00:50:25,080 Speaker 1: because I was nervous. I'm like, I don't know what's 928 00:50:25,080 --> 00:50:27,800 Speaker 1: going on here. You'll only see you don't see both 929 00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:31,080 Speaker 1: sides of things. So when we were like who's gonna 930 00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:34,080 Speaker 1: come home? I wasn't going to be surprised if gene 931 00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:36,759 Speaker 1: came home. I mean she made it this far. Of 932 00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:40,440 Speaker 1: course I would be upset, but I was truly terrified 933 00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:44,320 Speaker 1: on what was going to happen. But Genevieve was honestly 934 00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:47,160 Speaker 1: so good about it. I think she had such a 935 00:50:47,160 --> 00:50:49,080 Speaker 1: good attitude going in. You know, she's not as loud 936 00:50:49,120 --> 00:50:53,399 Speaker 1: as Jenney, but but kind of could almost see like 937 00:50:53,480 --> 00:50:58,120 Speaker 1: the four trees from the forest as I was saying whatever, 938 00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:02,320 Speaker 1: she could see clearly, AND's like good on her because 939 00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:05,239 Speaker 1: I would be freaking out, and I think Genevieve was 940 00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:07,719 Speaker 1: just like, look, I'm gonna be myself. I'm gonna tell 941 00:51:07,760 --> 00:51:09,600 Speaker 1: the truth and that it's like all I can do, 942 00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:12,120 Speaker 1: which is true, like you can only tell your side 943 00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:15,840 Speaker 1: of things. And then ultimately it was up to Clayton. 944 00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:18,839 Speaker 1: So but we all really felt for her. Like the 945 00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:21,520 Speaker 1: mood in the house was so somber, it's just getting 946 00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:25,880 Speaker 1: out of control. We're seeing a lot of negativity and yeah, 947 00:51:25,880 --> 00:51:30,520 Speaker 1: but I mean I'm curious. I mean I'm hopeful I'll 948 00:51:30,560 --> 00:51:32,680 Speaker 1: say that that next week the two on one ends 949 00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:34,560 Speaker 1: the way that we would all like to see. Then, 950 00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:37,680 Speaker 1: but we've got one more question for you, Gabby, and 951 00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:40,680 Speaker 1: then we're gonna play a fun, bastel heavy hour game 952 00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:44,000 Speaker 1: with you. If you could describe the rest of Clayton's 953 00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:48,440 Speaker 1: season without spoiling too much, in only three words, what 954 00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:57,880 Speaker 1: would they be? Twist in urns. Oh god, we've never 955 00:51:57,960 --> 00:52:05,560 Speaker 1: gotten somebody a phrase before, always twists and turns. That's amazing. Yeahabby, 956 00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:08,600 Speaker 1: you are a clever, clever woman. I love that. Yeah 957 00:52:08,840 --> 00:52:14,800 Speaker 1: it usually people are like, um, journey or love. I 958 00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:18,440 Speaker 1: love the twist and journey I mean too. But this 959 00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:20,759 Speaker 1: whole entire season so far has been that, so I 960 00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:24,840 Speaker 1: have I can imagine it keeping up. Um, we're going 961 00:52:24,920 --> 00:52:26,880 Speaker 1: to get into the game. But I just have to 962 00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:29,399 Speaker 1: ask this because we've talked about see in this drama 963 00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:31,840 Speaker 1: for song hes she because I know there's always a 964 00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:34,080 Speaker 1: group chat with all of the girls and the guys 965 00:52:34,120 --> 00:52:38,080 Speaker 1: too on each season. Has she apologized at this point 966 00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:43,400 Speaker 1: to anyone for anything? Not that I'm aware? No? Okay, 967 00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:46,640 Speaker 1: all right, well, women Tell All was coming up in 968 00:52:46,640 --> 00:52:49,719 Speaker 1: in a few weeks, so that will be very interesting. Yea. 969 00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:52,759 Speaker 1: Until then, Miss Gabby, let's get in to our game. 970 00:52:53,120 --> 00:52:54,799 Speaker 1: We play this with all of our guests, so it's 971 00:52:55,000 --> 00:52:58,560 Speaker 1: basically rapid fire bachelor superlatives. So we're going to give 972 00:52:58,600 --> 00:53:02,000 Speaker 1: you most likely to dot dot dot, and then you 973 00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:04,439 Speaker 1: just have to give us the woman in Clayton's group 974 00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:07,800 Speaker 1: of women who it would apply to. All right, Gabby, 975 00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:11,520 Speaker 1: who is most likely to get the party started? Um, 976 00:53:11,680 --> 00:53:16,839 Speaker 1: I would say Marlena? Okay, yes, I think And let 977 00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:19,640 Speaker 1: me just say, you can say yourself for somebody these two? Okay, Okay, 978 00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:25,240 Speaker 1: who is most likely to get the ladies laughing? Oh well, 979 00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:27,960 Speaker 1: I don't want to say myself, but so many other 980 00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:35,160 Speaker 1: people have said it, so yourself, I will say. Marlena 981 00:53:35,239 --> 00:53:39,239 Speaker 1: is hilarious too. So everyone's honestly so funny. We would 982 00:53:39,280 --> 00:53:41,399 Speaker 1: just like laugh our ass off all the time. But 983 00:53:42,400 --> 00:53:47,320 Speaker 1: I'll say it me. Okay, I love it. Okay. Who 984 00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:50,840 Speaker 1: is the best cook? Kate? Oh my god, she would 985 00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:54,560 Speaker 1: always like whip something up for us. Yeah. I liked 986 00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:59,280 Speaker 1: she was gone to way too soon, totally agree. Who's 987 00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:03,720 Speaker 1: the first person to wake up in the morning. Uh, 988 00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:07,200 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know because it definitely wasn't me, honestly, 989 00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:11,960 Speaker 1: probably Molina, Like, yeah, yeah, I heard she was a 990 00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:21,320 Speaker 1: workout beast. Okay, most likely to be named Miss Congeniality. Um, Susie. 991 00:54:23,200 --> 00:54:26,400 Speaker 1: That's a common one too. Best smile in the house, 992 00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:34,839 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Threne has a great smile. She smiles. Yeah, 993 00:54:34,920 --> 00:54:37,040 Speaker 1: lots of good teeth in the scriptful woman? Is that a? 994 00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:41,280 Speaker 1: Is that a weird way? They're all nice and shiny 995 00:54:41,320 --> 00:54:50,600 Speaker 1: white strips. Oh yeah, we're gonna read this as an 996 00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:57,200 Speaker 1: add next week. Serena probably absolutely all right. Best dressed, Uh, 997 00:54:58,120 --> 00:55:04,120 Speaker 1: let's see best dress. I want to say Rachel has 998 00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:08,040 Speaker 1: a really good style. I feel she said some really 999 00:55:08,040 --> 00:55:10,600 Speaker 1: good looks. I feel like, oh yeah, I mean, honestly, 1000 00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:14,160 Speaker 1: all the girls we were all switching clothes like left diner. Right. 1001 00:55:15,160 --> 00:55:17,600 Speaker 1: Oh wait, I have to ask you this. Did you 1002 00:55:17,719 --> 00:55:22,920 Speaker 1: wear um Eliza's dress? Oh yeah this week? Okay, because 1003 00:55:22,920 --> 00:55:24,400 Speaker 1: I was looking at it and I was like, oh, 1004 00:55:24,440 --> 00:55:26,560 Speaker 1: I really liked that open. I was like, I think 1005 00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:31,200 Speaker 1: Eliza was an episode two. I know it wasn't the no, 1006 00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:33,279 Speaker 1: it was the nude one that was like the one 1007 00:55:33,400 --> 00:55:36,560 Speaker 1: strap it was she didn't get the one on one. Um. 1008 00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:38,400 Speaker 1: But I only picked up on it because A I 1009 00:55:38,440 --> 00:55:40,560 Speaker 1: do the fashion recaps and be we used to do 1010 00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:43,280 Speaker 1: that all the time on our season too. Maggie actually 1011 00:55:43,280 --> 00:55:46,640 Speaker 1: got sent home in Rachel's dress on my season and 1012 00:55:46,680 --> 00:55:48,200 Speaker 1: they had to like get it and bring it back 1013 00:55:48,280 --> 00:55:50,359 Speaker 1: to her. Oh my god, that was the best part. 1014 00:55:50,400 --> 00:55:53,120 Speaker 1: It's just it's like a rotating closet each week, and 1015 00:55:53,239 --> 00:55:55,239 Speaker 1: for the most part, everyone's willing to share it. So 1016 00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:58,400 Speaker 1: nice because I need all the help I can get. Okay, 1017 00:55:58,640 --> 00:56:08,520 Speaker 1: biggest gossip, Um, oh well, I mean Cassidy. I feel 1018 00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:14,360 Speaker 1: that's like going to too far back, but yeah, okay. 1019 00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:20,839 Speaker 1: Most likely to steal Clayton first at a cocktail party, Um, 1020 00:56:21,680 --> 00:56:29,719 Speaker 1: I mean Cassidy. Yeah god, yeah yeah. Who was the 1021 00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:34,920 Speaker 1: first to go to bed? Um, Susie is always sleeping, 1022 00:56:36,320 --> 00:56:43,600 Speaker 1: so probably her. I don't blame her. Yeah yeah, all right? 1023 00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:49,320 Speaker 1: Who is the messiest? Oh, you guys are asking hard 1024 00:56:49,320 --> 00:56:55,200 Speaker 1: ones kind of Um. I honestly, I would probably say me, 1025 00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:57,600 Speaker 1: I don't know, you'd I'd like, go into a new 1026 00:56:57,640 --> 00:57:00,680 Speaker 1: hotel that looks like I'd been there for years, It 1027 00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:05,680 Speaker 1: doesn't automatically like throw up everywhere. Ye. Who is most 1028 00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:09,840 Speaker 1: likely to be pound lunge and by the pool? Oh? Um? Me? 1029 00:57:10,200 --> 00:57:12,320 Speaker 1: I did ask right away if there was a cap 1030 00:57:12,320 --> 00:57:14,400 Speaker 1: on how much time we can spend in the pool. 1031 00:57:15,360 --> 00:57:20,840 Speaker 1: I think somebody said someone didn't say yeah, yeah, all right. 1032 00:57:20,880 --> 00:57:23,880 Speaker 1: And last, but not least, who is most likely to 1033 00:57:23,920 --> 00:57:27,600 Speaker 1: be a bridesmaid in your wedding? Oh? Oh my god, 1034 00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:31,959 Speaker 1: that's so sweet. Can I name everybody? You cannot one name? 1035 00:57:34,120 --> 00:57:37,880 Speaker 1: Give us two or three? Yeah? Okay, okay? Um I 1036 00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:45,760 Speaker 1: would say Susie, Marina and Um, I know it's so hard. 1037 00:57:45,840 --> 00:57:52,560 Speaker 1: Oh my god. I don't want to piss anyone up. Hunter, 1038 00:57:53,280 --> 00:57:58,880 Speaker 1: I Molina, I just keep going. I really like Hunter Hunter. 1039 00:57:59,240 --> 00:58:01,560 Speaker 1: Did you say Hunt? I think she's so underrated If 1040 00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:04,560 Speaker 1: she doesn't even I want her. I want her in 1041 00:58:04,560 --> 00:58:06,200 Speaker 1: Paradise and I want to see more of her. Oh, 1042 00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:09,360 Speaker 1: I agree, that's great. Let me ask you this at 1043 00:58:09,400 --> 00:58:13,720 Speaker 1: your future wedding? Will you serve shrimp cocktail? Yes? Or no? Okay, 1044 00:58:13,760 --> 00:58:16,920 Speaker 1: you're asking a wrong girl because I love shrimp cocktail. 1045 00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:20,160 Speaker 1: I do too, but I feel like it's getting tainted 1046 00:58:20,240 --> 00:58:23,600 Speaker 1: for me. Honestly, I can't say the word shrimp in 1047 00:58:23,640 --> 00:58:25,680 Speaker 1: my head. I'm like, what does it even mean anymore? 1048 00:58:25,720 --> 00:58:29,840 Speaker 1: It's completely lost its meeting as a shellfish. The amount 1049 00:58:29,880 --> 00:58:32,600 Speaker 1: of DMS that I've gotten from people just sending me 1050 00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:35,680 Speaker 1: like a picture of a shrimp, or like grocery shopping 1051 00:58:35,680 --> 00:58:37,840 Speaker 1: and seeing the box of shrimp or the bag of shrimp. 1052 00:58:37,880 --> 00:58:39,760 Speaker 1: I'm like you, guys, I'm not even on this season. 1053 00:58:39,760 --> 00:58:42,919 Speaker 1: Don't send it to me. I know everyone's really run 1054 00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:47,680 Speaker 1: in with it. Okay, Well you know that if anyone's 1055 00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:49,800 Speaker 1: on paradise from this season, that's going to be like 1056 00:58:49,840 --> 00:58:55,440 Speaker 1: their intro is them eating shrimper. Somebody was shrimp. Okay, yeah, me, 1057 00:58:55,560 --> 00:58:57,640 Speaker 1: before we let you go, we're all going to go 1058 00:58:57,680 --> 00:58:59,920 Speaker 1: around and share our rose and thorn. So basically what 1059 00:59:00,120 --> 00:59:02,960 Speaker 1: we thought was the best moment, I mean, for Serena 1060 00:59:02,960 --> 00:59:05,560 Speaker 1: and I will do the best and our least favorite 1061 00:59:05,560 --> 00:59:07,440 Speaker 1: moment of the week. But you can do so far 1062 00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:09,920 Speaker 1: this entire season if you want, since you lived it. 1063 00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:14,160 Speaker 1: So to kick it off, I'm gonna say my rose 1064 00:59:14,320 --> 00:59:18,120 Speaker 1: of the week. Oh God, can I give two? Of course? Okay, 1065 00:59:18,480 --> 00:59:20,920 Speaker 1: I have to give a shout out to my girl, Marleina. 1066 00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:26,200 Speaker 1: Her roast was impeccable, The delivery was on point, like 1067 00:59:26,320 --> 00:59:28,560 Speaker 1: everything about it was so good. We didn't talk about 1068 00:59:28,560 --> 00:59:30,120 Speaker 1: it in the recap, and I should have. Yeah, we 1069 00:59:30,200 --> 00:59:32,120 Speaker 1: did not talk about the roast enough. That was a 1070 00:59:32,240 --> 00:59:34,800 Speaker 1: great day. I was so much about watching that. I 1071 00:59:34,840 --> 00:59:37,400 Speaker 1: was so pissed I wasn't on it. Obviously stoked. I 1072 00:59:37,440 --> 00:59:39,040 Speaker 1: was on the one on one, but then when they 1073 00:59:39,080 --> 00:59:40,960 Speaker 1: read the group day card, I wasn't in there and 1074 00:59:41,040 --> 00:59:42,640 Speaker 1: they were like, we think we're going on a rose 1075 00:59:42,720 --> 00:59:47,680 Speaker 1: and I subedit, But Harlena, I'm so bis Marlene. We 1076 00:59:47,720 --> 00:59:50,720 Speaker 1: were roommates in Toronto and she came home from the 1077 00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:53,560 Speaker 1: Rose that like three am, and she like pulled out 1078 00:59:53,560 --> 00:59:55,320 Speaker 1: her notebook and she was like, you want to hear 1079 00:59:55,360 --> 00:59:58,160 Speaker 1: and I was like, I hear it all. She did 1080 00:59:58,280 --> 01:00:01,040 Speaker 1: so good and she opened to the roast too, which 1081 01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:03,480 Speaker 1: really set the bar high. I was like, shit, they 1082 01:00:03,480 --> 01:00:05,960 Speaker 1: should have saved her for last because she was so good. 1083 01:00:06,160 --> 01:00:09,480 Speaker 1: But that was one of my roses. My second rose 1084 01:00:09,720 --> 01:00:14,040 Speaker 1: was our favorite actress. Meryl Streep was dropped in the 1085 01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:17,440 Speaker 1: episode again because I mean she was compared to See 1086 01:00:17,480 --> 01:00:19,320 Speaker 1: which I will not say she is that could have 1087 01:00:19,360 --> 01:00:21,920 Speaker 1: an actress, but she's okay. But I just love that 1088 01:00:22,600 --> 01:00:25,640 Speaker 1: for some reason, vaterination, you know, Meryl Streep is now 1089 01:00:25,680 --> 01:00:29,320 Speaker 1: part of us even yet want to be I mentioned 1090 01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:33,960 Speaker 1: Meryl Streep and I totally and she just keeps coming 1091 01:00:34,000 --> 01:00:38,240 Speaker 1: back um, My Meryl fans out here, Yeah, Yeah. My 1092 01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:44,960 Speaker 1: thorn of the week is um probably the fact for 1093 01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:48,240 Speaker 1: the two on one that those girls looked freezing, and 1094 01:00:48,280 --> 01:00:50,040 Speaker 1: I would have been miserable if I was on that 1095 01:00:50,120 --> 01:00:53,680 Speaker 1: date next to the cold assholes. I've been there and 1096 01:00:53,720 --> 01:00:56,760 Speaker 1: I can confirm it was definitely freezing because in the summer, 1097 01:00:56,800 --> 01:01:03,360 Speaker 1: it's cold, freezing water. Okay, my rose is gonna have 1098 01:01:03,440 --> 01:01:07,680 Speaker 1: to be seeing my city on the screen for the episode. 1099 01:01:07,760 --> 01:01:10,040 Speaker 1: It was so fun for me to watch you guys 1100 01:01:10,200 --> 01:01:13,880 Speaker 1: runner in Toronto. And I'm also gonna say I felt 1101 01:01:13,880 --> 01:01:16,440 Speaker 1: like this was the most relaxed we've seen Clayton yet, 1102 01:01:16,720 --> 01:01:19,680 Speaker 1: just in his connections with the women on the dates. 1103 01:01:19,760 --> 01:01:23,560 Speaker 1: I think he's really kind of like those nerves maybe 1104 01:01:23,600 --> 01:01:26,040 Speaker 1: have kind of settled down, and I like seeing that 1105 01:01:26,120 --> 01:01:29,280 Speaker 1: side of him. And then my thorn is gonna be 1106 01:01:29,560 --> 01:01:32,040 Speaker 1: Chaney's fake tears. I felt like they were fake when 1107 01:01:32,040 --> 01:01:34,760 Speaker 1: I was watching them. She confirmed it in her interview 1108 01:01:35,400 --> 01:01:38,600 Speaker 1: and to me, it is just such a cheap move 1109 01:01:38,800 --> 01:01:43,280 Speaker 1: and I did not enjoy it. Yeah, I remember as 1110 01:01:43,360 --> 01:01:47,640 Speaker 1: it was happening, I was like, oo made her do this? 1111 01:01:48,200 --> 01:01:52,640 Speaker 1: Because this was not her idea. At the eye drops right, 1112 01:01:52,720 --> 01:01:55,240 Speaker 1: she did it, but she still did it. She could 1113 01:01:55,280 --> 01:02:02,640 Speaker 1: have said, yeah, all right, Gabby, give us your m 1114 01:02:03,040 --> 01:02:06,640 Speaker 1: I think my Rose is definitely just my one on one. 1115 01:02:07,000 --> 01:02:10,440 Speaker 1: I think it gave me a chance to really open 1116 01:02:10,560 --> 01:02:14,240 Speaker 1: up and kind of show other sides of me, which 1117 01:02:14,280 --> 01:02:16,959 Speaker 1: I was really excited to do and kind of looking 1118 01:02:17,000 --> 01:02:20,160 Speaker 1: for the opportunity. And I think it is like a 1119 01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:24,600 Speaker 1: jumping off point for Clayton and eyed relationship. And I 1120 01:02:24,640 --> 01:02:29,000 Speaker 1: agree Serena like he also we were also noticing how 1121 01:02:29,040 --> 01:02:31,960 Speaker 1: like more relaxed and kind of comfortable in the role 1122 01:02:32,040 --> 01:02:34,320 Speaker 1: he started to become. So I think that was really 1123 01:02:34,360 --> 01:02:37,160 Speaker 1: fun to see. And then my thorn will always be 1124 01:02:37,480 --> 01:02:40,400 Speaker 1: just watching my friends. Like some of my friends go 1125 01:02:40,480 --> 01:02:45,280 Speaker 1: home every week each Rose ceremony, I'm like sobbing because 1126 01:02:45,320 --> 01:02:48,440 Speaker 1: I do. I hold my girlfriends and my friendships so tight. 1127 01:02:48,800 --> 01:02:51,680 Speaker 1: So it was just so emotional, kind of like a 1128 01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:54,600 Speaker 1: little piece of you leaves, you know, like your comfort 1129 01:02:54,640 --> 01:02:57,280 Speaker 1: and safety net. So that that was always my thorn. 1130 01:02:58,880 --> 01:03:01,280 Speaker 1: I have to ask you this before we let you go. 1131 01:03:01,760 --> 01:03:05,560 Speaker 1: Who was a better kisser, Clinton or that cute little dog. 1132 01:03:06,640 --> 01:03:09,280 Speaker 1: I'm going to say the pillow like I said it 1133 01:03:09,320 --> 01:03:14,880 Speaker 1: on the pillow. Um, I'll have to give it to 1134 01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:21,280 Speaker 1: clay Yeah, yeah, yeah. My favorite part was when you 1135 01:03:21,320 --> 01:03:23,120 Speaker 1: were petting. You were laying on the ground petting the dog, 1136 01:03:23,160 --> 01:03:25,000 Speaker 1: and then Claint came up and started petting the dog's 1137 01:03:25,000 --> 01:03:27,200 Speaker 1: head and then started petting your head. I'm like, I know, 1138 01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:31,680 Speaker 1: and I was like, no, not the time, like I'm 1139 01:03:31,720 --> 01:03:38,240 Speaker 1: busy one okay, yeah, Oh Gabby. It has been such 1140 01:03:38,240 --> 01:03:40,480 Speaker 1: a pleasure having you. You are one of our favorites. 1141 01:03:40,560 --> 01:03:42,800 Speaker 1: We were so excited that we could finally get you 1142 01:03:42,880 --> 01:03:45,240 Speaker 1: this week, especially after your mom. You went to one 1143 01:03:45,280 --> 01:03:47,920 Speaker 1: on one. So thank you for joining Happy Hour and 1144 01:03:47,960 --> 01:03:50,640 Speaker 1: we hope to see so much more of you. Oh yes, 1145 01:03:50,800 --> 01:03:54,680 Speaker 1: thank you for coming. Oh sorry meeting you guys. Thank you. 1146 01:03:55,600 --> 01:03:58,680 Speaker 1: I really like Gabby. I knew, I knew I was 1147 01:03:58,720 --> 01:04:00,880 Speaker 1: gonna like her before she came on. But the fact 1148 01:04:00,920 --> 01:04:02,919 Speaker 1: that she loves dogs just as much as me, Anne 1149 01:04:02,960 --> 01:04:05,640 Speaker 1: doesn't like sports and it's not athletic, I'm like, she 1150 01:04:05,760 --> 01:04:08,120 Speaker 1: is a woman after my own. He's your soul, she 1151 01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:10,160 Speaker 1: truly is. And it doesn't work out with Clayton. It 1152 01:04:10,160 --> 01:04:14,000 Speaker 1: doesn't work out what talk were fellas. It's me and Gabby. No. 1153 01:04:14,160 --> 01:04:16,600 Speaker 1: I really liked her too, I really enjoyed our interview 1154 01:04:16,640 --> 01:04:18,520 Speaker 1: with her. She just I feel like what you see 1155 01:04:18,600 --> 01:04:20,720 Speaker 1: is what you get with her. Like everything we've seen 1156 01:04:20,760 --> 01:04:23,640 Speaker 1: of her on the show, that energy just came right 1157 01:04:23,680 --> 01:04:26,680 Speaker 1: through on this podcast as well. And yeah, she's just 1158 01:04:26,840 --> 01:04:30,160 Speaker 1: she's a very beautiful, confident woman. I really loved having her. 1159 01:04:30,360 --> 01:04:32,360 Speaker 1: Yeah back to I think you had mentioned this earlier, 1160 01:04:32,360 --> 01:04:36,960 Speaker 1: but her self awareness is it's so good and so 1161 01:04:37,000 --> 01:04:39,920 Speaker 1: refreshing to see, especially on this show, on this show, 1162 01:04:39,960 --> 01:04:42,479 Speaker 1: and so I'm glad we were able to have her. 1163 01:04:42,800 --> 01:04:46,320 Speaker 1: She's welcome back anytime. I don't know how far she 1164 01:04:46,360 --> 01:04:47,600 Speaker 1: makes it. I don't know if we'll see her at 1165 01:04:47,640 --> 01:04:50,200 Speaker 1: Woman Tell All, if if we'll see her on the finale, 1166 01:04:50,240 --> 01:04:52,360 Speaker 1: who knows. But all I know is I want to 1167 01:04:52,360 --> 01:04:55,760 Speaker 1: see more of that one. So Serena, thank you for 1168 01:04:55,880 --> 01:04:58,200 Speaker 1: doing this again with me this week. A huge thank 1169 01:04:58,240 --> 01:05:00,960 Speaker 1: you to Gabby for being here. But the biggest thank 1170 01:05:01,000 --> 01:05:02,640 Speaker 1: you goes up to all of our batch are happy, 1171 01:05:02,640 --> 01:05:05,160 Speaker 1: our listeners, because we could not do this without you 1172 01:05:05,200 --> 01:05:08,040 Speaker 1: each and every week. And I've said it before many 1173 01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:09,360 Speaker 1: a time, but I'm going to say it again as 1174 01:05:09,360 --> 01:05:12,280 Speaker 1: a reminder. We are still casting for both The Boucher 1175 01:05:12,360 --> 01:05:16,080 Speaker 1: and boucher atte. 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