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Speaker 1: She's a fresh show. It's Kiki's court. Thanks. You guys

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Speaker 1: are the jury eight five, five, five, nine, one one

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Speaker 1: three five All rise the honorable Kinki Lee take it away.

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Speaker 2: Yes, let's get into the courtroom. The gabble has been hit,

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Speaker 2: it says Kiki. My name is Dean. I'm a sophomore

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Speaker 2: at a religious university in the South. Since moving away

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Speaker 2: to school, my roommate was very helpful with getting me

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Speaker 2: adjusted to a new city. He introduced me to a

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Speaker 2: biggest crush on. I would go to her job and

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Speaker 2: get coffee just to try to start a conversation with her,

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Speaker 2: and I told my roommate how much I liked her. Well,

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Speaker 2: one night, I got the usual text from my roommate

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Speaker 2: to give me the heads up that he had that

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Speaker 2: he had company over. So I hung out in another

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Speaker 2: friend's room for a few hours. But when I finally

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Speaker 2: of shame from our front door. I was so mad

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Speaker 2: in the moment, but I kept my mouth closed, so

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Speaker 2: as payback, I took a photo of my roommate's liquor

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Speaker 2: stash and sent it to our ra Keep in mind

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Speaker 2: we live on a dry campus. My roommate end up

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Speaker 2: getting kicked out of school, damn, because it wasn't his

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Speaker 2: first time being caught with liquor.

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Speaker 3: I told him that the girl must have sent the photo.

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Speaker 3: Am I wrong?

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Speaker 2: I didn't mean for it to go this far, but

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Speaker 2: he betrayed me first.

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Speaker 4: Damn.

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Speaker 1: College over a girl.

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Speaker 3: Yes, that he introduced you too.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's too far. Bruh, way too far. You

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Speaker 1: can't do it. Kick, What do you think?

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Speaker 2: Okay, dean, I mean this in the nicest way, but

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Speaker 2: something is wrong upstairs. Okay, we gotta get you fixed,

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Speaker 2: because if you take it this far with your roommate

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Speaker 2: have a chance with, that's insane. You got this man

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Speaker 2: kicked out of school because you were upset that he

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Speaker 2: smashed a girl before.

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Speaker 1: You could what It wasn't even like I don't know

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Speaker 1: they were dating. The other two were datd The Dean's

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Speaker 1: the dude who got the dude kicked out? Yeah, the dude,

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Speaker 1: the dude, the dude. Every times say dude. So it

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Speaker 1: wasn't even Maybe if Dean had been dating the girl

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Speaker 1: and then she cheated with this guy, and maybe there's

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Speaker 1: some revenge to be had there. But even then, getting

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Speaker 1: someone kicked out of school, that could have lifelong repercussions

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Speaker 1: for somebody, because then you try and go to apply

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Speaker 1: another school, or that somebody asked you why you didn't

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Speaker 1: graduate while I kicked out? You know, you could have

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Speaker 1: lost money. It probably did lose money in the deal.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's that's a major thing to do over

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Speaker 1: a girl that you may have had zero chance with

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Speaker 1: exactly now.

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Speaker 2: I mean your homemade I mean, your roommate is kind

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Speaker 2: of you know, it's a little grimy. I told you

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Speaker 2: I liked this girl. You saw me trying to pursue her.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I don't have as much game as you. That's

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Speaker 2: not it's right, But it's a lot of other girls

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Speaker 2: on the campus that you could have, you know, kicked

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Speaker 3: Why you have to go get the girl that I like?

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Speaker 2: I understand you being upset, But in that moment to

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Speaker 2: be that vindictive where you took a photo and snitched

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Speaker 2: this man out and now he's kicked out of school,

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Speaker 2: you're still not even admitting to that that you did it.

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Speaker 2: You're telling him that you know the girl may have

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Speaker 1: Okay, but I want to be clear. The guy who

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Speaker 1: got the roommate kicked out had no claim to this girl, right.

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Speaker 2: No, he just liked her, Like you know, you tell

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but unfortunately, like you can't. You can't claim people

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Speaker 1: like that like you. I do think it's messed up

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Speaker 1: I've had that one happen before too, where it's like,

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Speaker 2: But isn't there some type of bro code you should

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Speaker 1: That's if that's if someone hooked up with someone else before,

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Speaker 1: Like if one of my friends is hooked up with

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Speaker 1: If I intend to be friends with this guy anymore,

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Speaker 1: I will give it to Dean.

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Speaker 5: There is some sort of bro code that says, you know,

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Speaker 5: if if Dean said to his friend, I like this

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Speaker 1: It some time Dean to to make his move to

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Speaker 1: But maybe maybe the other guy said to the girl, Hey,

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Speaker 1: my roommate likes you or whatever, and she's like, I

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Speaker 5: That boy gotta think his friend gotta tell Dean, or

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Speaker 5: Dean gotta find out for himself. You can't just say

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Speaker 5: if that girl knows I don't like Dean and be like,

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Speaker 5: all right, I'm in You gotta leg it's not that serious.

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Speaker 5: This is a very casual thing. And and the girl

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Speaker 5: chose another guy, or they chose each other.

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Speaker 1: Whatever. You don't go getting people kicked out of college

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Speaker 3: Well, no, you should absolutely not do that.

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Speaker 2: But I do think that there's some type of bro

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Speaker 2: code that was crossed here, because if I tell, you know, Caitln,

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Speaker 2: I really like Omrion girl, that's my dream man. And

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Speaker 2: then she end up with amar I'm gonna look at

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Speaker 2: her sideways whatever.

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Speaker 1: Mm hm, well you, but you should also look at

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Speaker 1: omar on sideways forever in this scenario because he chose

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Speaker 1: it's not it's not all her fault that the dude

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Speaker 1: and fall in love with you and that you know

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Speaker 1: they would never Caitlyn would never do that to you.

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Speaker 2: No, say, she would never do that because there's some

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Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, I would never do I would never do that.

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Speaker 1: She would never look up with to Marian.

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Speaker 2: You hear that, yes, But I'm just saying so in

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Speaker 2: this I give Dean a little bit of credit that

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Speaker 2: you know, the roommate did cross the borough code. However,

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Speaker 2: you cannot get people kicked out of school because you're

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Speaker 2: upset over a girl.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, does anyone disagree with this? Eight five

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Speaker 1: five five nine one three five A text so far,

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Speaker 1: way too far. You altered someone's life for a hookup. Gross,

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Speaker 1: I didn't even get my college roommate booted for taking

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Speaker 1: and sending photos of me sleeping. God, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: especially don't even know. It's a real mess.

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Speaker 5: Well, you just saw her leaving, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: Who knows what they did? You don't even know what

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Speaker 5: they did. They could have had a nice talk and

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Speaker 5: she fell as Now, now now that's exactly what happened.

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Speaker 5: You know better than that, Okay, he said.

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Speaker 2: He sent him the little courtesy text that you send

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Speaker 1: This has happened to everybody. I feel like everybody's been

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Speaker 1: in a situation where they liked somebody and their and

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Speaker 1: you know, I don't know. I can remember in college

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Speaker 1: Like I walk out of my fraternity room, you know,

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Speaker 1: I mean, it sucks, but I don't. You don't own

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Speaker 1: these people like that. Everyone's it's free, will you know,

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Speaker 1: like she chose him, and I don't. I don't think

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Speaker 1: That's now that's messed up. But if two people choose

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Speaker 1: it doesn't mean you could sabotage their whole life.

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Speaker 3: No, you can't. But do you?

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Speaker 2: I'm to look confused about this bro code thing with you,

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Speaker 2: So you where's your code friend?

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Speaker 5: But you can't look if I went to you and

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Speaker 5: be like, yo, I really like Sally and.

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Speaker 1: Then Sally, Sally is fine to She's very nice.

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Speaker 5: I like her a lot, and I tell you that,

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Speaker 5: and then you go and hook up with Sally without

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Speaker 1: That's crossing bro code. But the thing is, if you

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Speaker 1: sit to me, I like Sally, and then I don't

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Speaker 1: you have to know. You know that I like her,

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Speaker 1: but I don't. You's got to be said that. But

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Speaker 1: so long as I'm not out, you're pursuing this woman

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Speaker 1: so I just I just can't get with a girl

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Speaker 1: because you've you've essentially pete on her already.

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Speaker 5: No, I'm just saying, but like if Sally, if you.

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Speaker 1: And I meant that uh metaphor.

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Speaker 5: But there's still code there if if she said something

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Speaker 5: be like, yo, you know my friend likes you, or

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Speaker 5: mentally in your mind, be like, I can't do this

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Speaker 1: Likes I've had that happen too before. You walk into

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Speaker 1: like I like her. It's like, okay, but first of all,

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Speaker 1: you've never spoken to her, know anything about her. Well,

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Speaker 6: I mean that's a random bart like I don't want

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Speaker 6: to It's not like it's not like where the bro

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Speaker 6: code comes in for me, is if you actually had

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Speaker 6: something with someone, then I need to be careful.

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Speaker 1: How I How I again, you look up with somebody

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Speaker 1: one time where you just say I like her, not

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Speaker 1: I I can't see that person. But you don't own anybody.

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Speaker 1: You can't just be. You can't just do that. You

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Speaker 1: can't be. Oh, I like all these girls, so that

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Speaker 1: my friends can't come with any of them. You can't

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Speaker 5: Friend is telling you, I like this girl. You got

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Speaker 5: to give him some time to try to pursue this girl.

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Speaker 5: You also don't get your boy kicked out of college either.

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Speaker 5: I mean, come on, Ashley, how are you doing? Good morning?

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Speaker 1: Good?

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Speaker 1: How I handle this?

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Speaker 7: Dean might be crazy? See, I agree with me. He

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Speaker 7: Dean is totally crazy. And it was a casual hook up.

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Speaker 2: But like she said, he didn't meant for him to

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Speaker 1: Glad you called. Hey, Johnny, Yo, what's going on?

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Speaker 9: Brett A just want to say I love the show.

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Speaker 1: Thank you to you guys every morning. Thank you. We

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Speaker 1: love you too. Now you have an argument here that

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Speaker 1: Now why what?

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Speaker 9: I don't think because it's not like they were going

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Speaker 9: I mean his friend maybe should have been more open

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Speaker 5: That's across the line.

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Speaker 9: Definitely, they would have probably pursued his sister or something,

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Speaker 5: But like Johnny, if you were could come to me

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Speaker 1: That that's okay.

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Speaker 9: Oh I get mad, but I wouldn't try to get

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Speaker 1: But I'm just saying there's code there, That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: There's a bro code there that I shouldn't pursue this

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Speaker 3: Johnny said the cody is he gonna get.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't like this. Did this dude? And then

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Speaker 9: It, tell him like, yeah, bro, that was my bad.

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Speaker 1: It's week. It's weak all around. Hey, Johnny, thank you,

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Speaker 1: have a great day.

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Speaker 9: Hey you true can't wait to see you guys.

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Speaker 1: Alaa man, Yes, sir, Johnny, Hey, Alex.

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Speaker 1: How are you guys? Wait a minute, and why are good?

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Speaker 1: Fred has to be a horrible heart rble wing man

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Speaker 1: if he doesn't agree with bur code. No again, I

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. And again, if it's a matter of I

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Speaker 5: That's not seeking claim on somebody, I like that girl,

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Speaker 1: You're arguing you should. He was just telling her I

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Speaker 3: I don't know, friend.

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Speaker 1: That is not fair. She's been a good wigman and

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Speaker 1: hyped you up, you know. Okay, So anyone that Rufio says,

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Speaker 1: We don't know the timeframe. Alex, what did you want

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Speaker 8: I just wanted to let you guys know that back

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Speaker 10: And I say had because they are no longer in

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Speaker 8: But I told him, I'm like, hey, man, I'm very

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Speaker 1: Knowing you as the player, but you know, me having

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Speaker 8: I told him, I'm like, hey, well, she's taking a

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Speaker 10: Out that day.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, she ended up posting a snapchat of herself past

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Speaker 1: Yeah, did you get revenge?

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Speaker 10: That was like a public advertisement that she was already

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Speaker 1: That is one way to handle that American pie. Yeah, exactly. Wow.

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Speaker 1: And did you find out? No?

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Speaker 1: Wow. Okay, well that is one way to get revenge.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, alex Epic. Have a good day. See this

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Speaker 1: text here. Fred doesn't understand other people's feelings. I'm wrong again.

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Speaker 1: You can't just point people out and go that one,

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Speaker 3: That's exactly what he mean. And that's what I would do.

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Speaker 1: And that is not right.

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Speaker 3: No, it's not right. But it seems like he was

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Speaker 2: He was going to her coffee shop, right, Yeah, you're

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Speaker 1: He was stalking this girl. I'm just all I'm saying

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Speaker 1: Have you ever had a friend in your friend group

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Speaker 1: who likes everybody all the time? Oh? Yes, And what

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Speaker 1: are you supposed to do about that? Just everybody they

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Speaker 1: point out and like, whether they're liked back or not,

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Speaker 1: you just can't that's true.

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Speaker 3: But he has like everybody, he liked this one girl.

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Speaker 1: If you are if you're my boy, and you're like,

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Speaker 1: I'm so into this girl, yes, I am not pursuing

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Speaker 1: that person. I'm not like and you're trying, and you're trying,

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Speaker 1: and there's a chance I might never because but at

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Speaker 1: the same time, there are so many variables here. That

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Speaker 1: we don't know about. And again you just pointed out

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Speaker 1: this duty is stalking this woman at work. I mean

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Speaker 1: he has no chance. Oh my god, he never had

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Speaker 1: a chance. You want, He's never had a chance, Okay,

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Speaker 1: and then on time up of that, he goes out

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Speaker 1: and does a B thing and won't even take credit

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Speaker 1: for being the b I'm sorry. I don't like it.

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Speaker 1: I don't like it. I don't I don't feel bad

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Speaker 1: for this stuff.

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Speaker 5: I don't