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Speaker 1: It's The French Show Morning Everybody. Tuesday, June twenty second,

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Speaker 1: The Fred Show. He's on, Hello Christy, Hi, Hello Kaylyn,

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Speaker 1: Morning Rufie, Hey Paulina, Hello, Owner Bonner um Stair go

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Speaker 1: Ggs here. We'll talk to her in just a second

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Speaker 1: to base someone's relationship drama, the entertainer Report. After that,

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Speaker 1: what's coming up in there? Man Christin Thompson. He ventured

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Speaker 1: a room with three women and didn't come out for

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Speaker 1: a while. What do you think he was doing in there?

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Speaker 1: Bible study? I mean he's known to be such a solid,

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Speaker 1: solid guy. Yeah, you know, a loyal, solid guy. I'm

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Speaker 1: sure that it was a sumpt of Tupperware. Yeah, I know, acquisition.

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Speaker 1: What do they call those? Not tack. They don't call

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Speaker 1: pepperware acquisitions parties, tupperware party. I'm not through what I

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Speaker 1: went to. Were having a Temperware acquisition this week? I'm

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Speaker 1: extremely fancy. Everyone knows that some people go to Tumperware parties.

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Speaker 1: I go to Tupperware acquisition right acquire them there. I

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Speaker 1: think I acquired temperware for the food that I order

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Speaker 1: in its own temperware. What am I saving? Um? Let's

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Speaker 1: see joby Shelley. Gabby's back for another tie today. Waiting

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Speaker 1: by the phone this morning. Tip to Vegas. Lots of

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Speaker 1: number one Hit Music Stage with Fred Show. Geese's here,

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Speaker 1: Hello Geeg, good morning, Hello, welcome to the show. We

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Speaker 1: call this stair go debating someone's relationship issue here and

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Speaker 1: that's someone as you today. So we have your email

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Speaker 1: about your husband. So, so what did he do? He's wrong?

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Speaker 1: He is? I already know, I already know it. He

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Speaker 1: did some ad what did he do? I'm glad we agree.

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Speaker 1: So recently had a huge fight and you know, he

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Speaker 1: left for a few days to calm down after the fight.

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Speaker 1: And I don't know when he left. I just I

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Speaker 1: a few hours. And oh, yeah, I'm a fight escapist,

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Speaker 1: escape escape artist. Yeah, I bail from fights like I'm

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Speaker 1: then then then and that's what he does too, and

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Speaker 1: that's okay, okay, So this time, so he wanted out

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Speaker 1: of his fight and so you guys fight. So he

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Speaker 1: normally would go for what would you normally do. It's

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Speaker 1: like three or four hours he'd go. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: something like that. He'd be gone, he'd come back, and

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Speaker 1: But this time it was a few days. Oh oh wow,

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Speaker 1: he left for a few days. Okay, where where did

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Speaker 1: he go? I have no idea. He didn't tell me

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Speaker 1: I had no idea when or if he was coming back.

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Speaker 1: And all he told me it was that he was going.

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Speaker 1: That was that he went to a lake to go

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Speaker 1: think about things. Okay, So so this dude shows up,

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Speaker 1: So did you try reaching out to him over the

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Speaker 1: but you didn't learn that right right? So and he

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Speaker 1: you know, Craig, you know what I mean, You get

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Speaker 1: Like you could just be thinking that he's dead in

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Speaker 1: So you're arguing, how do you say that about someone?

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Speaker 1: How do you say that for someone? Just don't fight? Right?

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Speaker 1: I don't think it said maybe maybe the fight wasn't

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Speaker 1: If you just don't fight, well, I mean, yeah, great,

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Speaker 1: great advice to af. You know you're right, You're right.

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Speaker 1: but you have to communicate that, in my opinion, and

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Speaker 1: Like my first thought goes, who are you with? You

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Speaker 1: And he about to be too dead? People, I'll put

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Speaker 1: you in say ho yeah, um, okay, let me take

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Speaker 1: thank you, GEEGI have a great deal. And I think

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Speaker 1: the yeah right, like yeah, yeah right, leaving for days

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Speaker 1: and whatever? No, thank you, Jesse, you have a good

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Speaker 1: day too, glad you call and rufio. What would happen

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Speaker 1: to you? I already know the answer. What would happen

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Speaker 1: you disappeared for four days? My baby? She being smiling

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Speaker 1: I've done it where I just whatever, like left four

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Speaker 1: phone were read before the court, including one that said

421
00:21:56,480 --> 00:22:03,080
Speaker 1: how to commit murder and then she get it. He

422
00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:05,480
Speaker 1: supported it had been murdered for three point five million

423
00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:08,160
Speaker 1: dollars for his three point five million dollars twelve hundred

424
00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:11,840
Speaker 1: acre estate, of which Darcy was the sole beneficiary, So

425
00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:15,200
Speaker 1: she got the estate and all of them. Uh sheep sheep.

426
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:17,680
Speaker 1: I guess she can't win for that to be on dateline,

427
00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:20,000
Speaker 1: you don't need to watch it anymore because it's the

428
00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:27,280
Speaker 1: whole thing. You details of the tool can whatever you

429
00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:31,720
Speaker 1: just said, Well, I mean yeah, but probably if if

430
00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:33,320
Speaker 1: for some reason she was a victim of some kind

431
00:22:33,320 --> 00:22:37,080
Speaker 1: of abuses then don't google murdered. How to commit murder? Yeah,

432
00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:39,280
Speaker 1: I mean, maybe like leave God to this lake, go

433
00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:41,240
Speaker 1: to this you know, the lake house or wherever this

434
00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:43,680
Speaker 1: guy's hiding up where all the people go when they're scorned.

435
00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:47,680
Speaker 1: But I would saved bad advice to google any sort

436
00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:50,360
Speaker 1: of how do I kill someone? How do I commit murder?

437
00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:52,840
Speaker 1: If you intend to do it, probably a bad idea.

438
00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:55,639
Speaker 1: Get yourself a burner phone or something. Everyone knows the

439
00:22:55,720 --> 00:23:00,200
Speaker 1: burner phone. Everybody knows you gotta have a burner phone own,

440
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:02,680
Speaker 1: and then you gotta fully destroy it. By the way,

441
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:06,240
Speaker 1: that's the other thing. I googled how to murder my

442
00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:08,520
Speaker 1: girlfriend on my EXAs phone just in case, you know

443
00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:10,119
Speaker 1: what I mean. I did it like five times in

444
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:13,600
Speaker 1: that relationship. Huh, just in case. Yeah, now it's on

445
00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 1: the record here, so that's a good time. I would

446
00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:17,080
Speaker 1: be like, just so you know, you can't call me,

447
00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:20,520
Speaker 1: something's gonna happen at five nine, guys, we're all gonna

448
00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:22,760
Speaker 1: get subpoina. They're gonna call us in as as as

449
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:25,280
Speaker 1: Christy ever talked about murdering anyone, well, as a matter

450
00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:30,400
Speaker 1: of fact, guys, I got you a bunch of presents

451
00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:34,199
Speaker 1: because I ordered my gopuff the other day. You know,

452
00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:37,040
Speaker 1: gopuff will deliver things to your home, you know, whatever

453
00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:40,760
Speaker 1: you want, like snacks and anything you need stuff for

454
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:42,960
Speaker 1: your house. I thought it was gonna be justin fields.

455
00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:53,240
Speaker 1: No it's not not, and you know some of the stuff. Um,

456
00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:54,800
Speaker 1: here we go. So this is what I got. I

457
00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:57,440
Speaker 1: gotta gift for everybody from Gopuff, and I really thought

458
00:23:57,480 --> 00:23:59,679
Speaker 1: long and hard about what each person would want. So

459
00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:02,840
Speaker 1: the the first gift just Jack Daniels for for Kalin,

460
00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 1: I got you that honey is fire. Oh, I got

461
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:25,040
Speaker 1: you combos. Oh jive. I'll be really honest with you.

462
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:27,640
Speaker 1: I asked. I asked for one particular thing for two

463
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:30,359
Speaker 1: of you, one one in particular, and I thought they

464
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:32,720
Speaker 1: were pretty generous with their selection. But here this is

465
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:39,960
Speaker 1: for five nine guys. It's a box of condoms. Was

466
00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:43,640
Speaker 1: gonna stick his leg in there. I'm just gonna say, Christie,

467
00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:46,639
Speaker 1: I told him that you needed some protection. That was

468
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 1: very generous to assume that you needed that. I also

469
00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:56,000
Speaker 1: I also bought some hobby too, but they didn't we

470
00:24:56,080 --> 00:25:01,439
Speaker 1: don't need them. Way you talk, I don't know. I

471
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:06,159
Speaker 1: got you some flaming chee though. I got it was

472
00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:12,919
Speaker 1: a puff too, all right, it's the throwing for me,

473
00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:19,280
Speaker 1: thank you. He's just whipping diapers. I got Rufio diapers.

474
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:23,440
Speaker 1: You really got all this? Yeah? I want to. Yes,

475
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:26,879
Speaker 1: I did, I really did. And I got cont me

476
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:31,919
Speaker 1: twizzlers and sell it, sell it. That's the that's the

477
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:34,560
Speaker 1: iHeart radio app pretty easy to use, just like me,

478
00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:39,440
Speaker 1: but not with a large condoms too much, Thank you, friend.

479
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:42,240
Speaker 1: I really thought long and hard about what each of

480
00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:44,359
Speaker 1: you would want from gopuff and I got you a

481
00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 1: nice present. Um. But yeah, I thought that was funny. Whoever,

482
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:50,399
Speaker 1: whoever got this stuff from gopuff it has a lot

483
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 1: more faith in you Christie then and the rest of

484
00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:55,479
Speaker 1: us for large. Yeah, you might need these. You might

485
00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:58,040
Speaker 1: need these diapers because that condom is not gonna work.

486
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:17,160
Speaker 1: It's gonna She waves around her Cheetos because she knows

487
00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 1: a thing about that. My best Friend seven thirty seven

488
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 1: Friend Show one or three five FM, Chicago's number one

489
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:29,800
Speaker 1: hit music station show. But Shelley against Gabby tiebreaker number too, well,

490
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:33,520
Speaker 1: I guess well, So she played Jewelry Friday, Gabby did,

491
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 1: and then she played Shelley for the first time yesterday.

492
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:37,679
Speaker 1: So tiebreaker number one. I guess against Shelley. We'll do

493
00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:39,960
Speaker 1: it next for one hundred and three dollars and fifty seven.

494
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,120
Speaker 1: So when number four hundred and sixty is on the line,

495
00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:45,479
Speaker 1: five hundred is possible in the near future, and then

496
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:48,480
Speaker 1: she'll get health insurance. Shelley, there, show you there? What

497
00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:52,679
Speaker 1: are you doing taking a balloon? Why did you just

498
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:56,480
Speaker 1: make a condom balloon? I want to do, but why

499
00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:58,119
Speaker 1: would you need to know how big it gets when

500
00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 1: you blow it up? Honestly, I've never used one this bag.

501
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 1: I've never used the conduct if you're not supposed to.

502
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:05,480
Speaker 1: But hey, here's a news flash for you. Then ain't

503
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:14,439
Speaker 1: gonna fit like that either. Yeah, okay, what good morning?

504
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:16,760
Speaker 1: You've never somebody had a lot of faith in your

505
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:19,720
Speaker 1: dating life when they when they selected those because I

506
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:22,159
Speaker 1: just selected a general category. But it's good to know

507
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:24,120
Speaker 1: the go puff will bring you that, you know, because

508
00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:27,320
Speaker 1: dance you up? Safety first? Yeah, and apparently yeah, I don't.

509
00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 1: Can we put that away? No? No, no, no, I

510
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:37,160
Speaker 1: no disgusting you guys. Stop. Yeah, there's a there's a

511
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 1: get rid of that. It's disgusting. Shelly in Florida. Really,

512
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 1: I mean honesty really said, I'm missing this. There's a balloon.

513
00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 1: There's a blown up balloon condom being pushed around the room,

514
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:53,120
Speaker 1: and I don't appreciate it at all. Honestly, no better

515
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 1: way to start the morning, I guess, going on twelve ridiculous. Absolutely,

516
00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:04,240
Speaker 1: I do know what to work. Hugie means no because

517
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 1: you know, because as you know, um, I am on

518
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:10,119
Speaker 1: the pulse of all of the lexicon that is that

519
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 1: is being used by cool people. No, no cap, no

520
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:16,119
Speaker 1: cap because it'd be very sussy. It mad not to

521
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:19,199
Speaker 1: know what all these these words mean. V sussy. You

522
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:21,640
Speaker 1: can't say very it's gonna be vt. I'll say, however,

523
00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:24,719
Speaker 1: I want I know how to do it, you don't, Okay,

524
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:26,960
Speaker 1: So anyway, So this is a word that I want

525
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:29,280
Speaker 1: everyone to know today. It describes a person who is

526
00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 1: out me, out of trend, or trying too hard, um

527
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 1: blown up on TikTok, prompting users, particularly twenty and thirty

528
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 1: some things to wonder if they fall into the category.

529
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 1: So choogie is the word. Gucci belts, ripped skinny jeans,

530
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:50,520
Speaker 1: monogram tops, all made it onto users. Certain users list

531
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 1: of these choogie items garnering nearly three hundred thousand likes.

532
00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:58,320
Speaker 1: Other things called out um ray done pottery, what is that?

533
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 1: Um having hashtag girl boss energy and um and decorative

534
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:09,760
Speaker 1: wooden signs for the Live Last Love variety, that kind

535
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 1: of thing. Oh it's chuge, it's ch okay. Somebody put

536
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 1: phonetics up on here. I guess I'm not either. Really. Uh.

537
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:23,800
Speaker 1: It may seem like a playful label, but it can't

538
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 1: have negative effects, particularly for women. Experts said that we

539
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 1: shouldn't pay the the trendy put down too much attention

540
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:33,320
Speaker 1: at it's the latest version of as. It's the latest

541
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 1: version of a tired insult um. So we're not supposed

542
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 1: to call people now. But but that's what it is.

543
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 1: If you're trying too hard, um, then you are huge.

544
00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 1: Shall So if I have those live laugh love signs,

545
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 1: that's a chugie because I have a few of those.

546
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:50,040
Speaker 1: Unless you have it ironically, like, unless you're trying to

547
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:53,800
Speaker 1: be ironic with it, then you're no. I really have

548
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:56,160
Speaker 1: no Do you really? You have little laugh love sign

549
00:29:56,200 --> 00:30:00,840
Speaker 1: in your house? Yea love? You can find them all

550
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:06,800
Speaker 1: at hobby lobby. She shops a hobby lobby. She has

551
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 1: a sign that tells her where the kitchen is because

552
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 1: it says I forget no. I mean those are those

553
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 1: are important signs to have. Yeah, cussing, no fussing, no back.

554
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:24,960
Speaker 1: Talking of those sights, I have one in my says,

555
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:34,840
Speaker 1: what is it? No ass, no grass, nobody rides for free. Yeah,

556
00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 1: that's just funny. What was it again? It was it

557
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 1: waiting by the phone. It was grass or something. Nobody

558
00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 1: rides for it. What was the third one? No cash?

559
00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 1: Oh cash, grass or ass? Nobody rides for free. I

560
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 1: had that made into a wooden sign hung above my door,

561
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 1: my entryway. As you come in, your neighbors love you. Yeah,

562
00:30:57,000 --> 00:30:59,160
Speaker 1: oh boy. Anyway, it's a new word for you, showed

563
00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 1: Bis Shelley. But a pair you might be it. You

564
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:03,600
Speaker 1: might be that. Well, I guess I am one. So

565
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:08,600
Speaker 1: I'm a chuggie here you are You're not, Oh, I'm

566
00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 1: You're just cho Yeah. And she's always Shelley's always walking

567
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:17,480
Speaker 1: around hashtag girl boss all the time. Back on your

568
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 1: damn Instagram caption. That is Choogy. If you're like being

569
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:22,320
Speaker 1: dead serious and you're like, take me back and it's

570
00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 1: a trip picture of Florida, go there, it's two hundred

571
00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:27,479
Speaker 1: flight show. I'm glad that we could learn a new

572
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:30,600
Speaker 1: word together today. Um so you know you can use

573
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:32,600
Speaker 1: that in a sentence later on today. But I'm glad

574
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:35,040
Speaker 1: that we were able to tell you the proper tense

575
00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 1: in which to use her to the proper application, because

576
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:39,160
Speaker 1: I don't want you. What would make you even more

577
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:41,959
Speaker 1: chuggie is if you use the word improperly, you call

578
00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:45,840
Speaker 1: yourself a just I know, not even worse. I know,

579
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:48,720
Speaker 1: um Vin, Shelley, shut out. We're playing next after you.

580
00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 1: Olivia Drigo in three minute seven forty three Friend Show

581
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:57,920
Speaker 1: one h three five. It's the Friends Show on one

582
00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:01,520
Speaker 1: three five? Kiss of him? Do you have what it takes?

583
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 1: The battle showbish, Shelley? In the Showbiz Showdown showback? Do

584
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:16,200
Speaker 1: you call me showbiz choogy? Now? Is that you wore

585
00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 1: choogie the word of the day. Everyone go, she belt

586
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:25,760
Speaker 1: her choogie? That's too bad. You know those basic wines

587
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 1: that everyone wears, especially with the rip black jeans, Like,

588
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:30,840
Speaker 1: oh yeah, stop doing it. You know, thank god, I

589
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 1: don't have any ripped jeans. There's I don't have any

590
00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:36,280
Speaker 1: of that. I love her gene, You're not supposed to.

591
00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:40,800
Speaker 1: That's shoogae just telling you I'm trying to help you, Kalen.

592
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:43,760
Speaker 1: I don't I don't want you out here being that,

593
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:46,600
Speaker 1: know what. I don't want you out here being sussy.

594
00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Hey, Gabby, harny, Gabby. You know,

595
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:53,080
Speaker 1: just trying to help everybody, You know what I mean,

596
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 1: just trying to help everybody. Be familiar with the learners verna,

597
00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:58,760
Speaker 1: the latest vernacular, you know what I mean. She's choogie

598
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:03,440
Speaker 1: right now. She choogies Hillan since the ninety whatever you

599
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 1: are choogie anyway? Um, I am one Dabby. Good morning,

600
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 1: one tie with shoe min Shelley back for another round.

601
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:13,680
Speaker 1: How are you feeling today? Oh? I'm good. Didn't really

602
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:17,800
Speaker 1: get great sleep last night. So were you nervous about this?

603
00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:21,680
Speaker 1: Were you studying about this? Like what what's going on? No?

604
00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:25,560
Speaker 1: Just probably actually more exciting because today is my last

605
00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 1: day of fool Oh, congratulation, you made it. What are

606
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 1: you gonna do a whole summer? How do you occupy

607
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:34,840
Speaker 1: yourself with the company from Well, actually, this is the

608
00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:37,480
Speaker 1: first summer that I don't have to do anything. I

609
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:41,160
Speaker 1: saved up enough money. I don't have to work another job,

610
00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:43,920
Speaker 1: so I, for the first time in six years, get

611
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 1: to relax. You're talking about this yesterday. Um so do

612
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 1: you do you have the option at your school to

613
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 1: get paid all year round? Like just space about. You

614
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:55,360
Speaker 1: don't have that option? No? You there are like credit

615
00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:57,720
Speaker 1: unions or banks that will like do it for you,

616
00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:02,960
Speaker 1: like a direct deposit um an amount that can a

617
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:05,440
Speaker 1: percentage for this summer and another account. But yeah, no,

618
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:07,880
Speaker 1: they don't have an option from the school, yes, roofing.

619
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:11,920
Speaker 1: What kind of jobs would you get in the summertime? Um? Camp,

620
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:15,360
Speaker 1: I've been like a last summer it was like a

621
00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:20,919
Speaker 1: nanny to a family with medically uh wow, vulnerable child. Yeah.

622
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 1: I've done a bunch of stuff mostly camp. I've also

623
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:28,360
Speaker 1: taught summer school. Okay, um yeah, but this year I

624
00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:30,840
Speaker 1: get to stay home. I don't know if you're getting

625
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:33,680
Speaker 1: like jobs with and you're working with the students that

626
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,360
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, like like you're getting a

627
00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:38,760
Speaker 1: part time job and like a student because she's a teacher.

628
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Speaker 1: Like it's also like you like you're both working at

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Speaker 1: Subway together like a sandwich artist city summer like a

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Speaker 1: little summer fun you know, like your summer camp. But

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Speaker 1: you know, I did work with high schoolers at camp

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Speaker 1: um as like a head counselor okay so these yeah, okay, um,

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Speaker 1: Let's play the game, Shelley. Five questions and Scabby's very

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Speaker 1: good four fifty nine and thirty two. The overall record

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Speaker 1: one hundred and three dollars and fifty cents. You're ready, Yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm ready? Okay, Gabby, Good luck, Shelley respectfully, get out

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Speaker 1: to the Samboo foof she goes here we go, Gaby

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Speaker 1: Question number one. Ellen Pompeo responded to a fan on

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Speaker 1: Twitter that said that the latest season of this medical

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Speaker 1: drama was trash named the drama. Dave Chappelle joined the

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Speaker 1: Foo Fighters to cover the song Creep at Madison Square Garden.

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Speaker 1: True or False Creep is a Radiohead song. True Real

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Speaker 1: Housewife Porsche Williams celebrates her fortieth birthday today. Is she

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Speaker 1: a housewife in Potomac or Atlanta? To potomake him? Um?

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Speaker 1: What is the next album Taylor Swift is re releasing?

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Speaker 1: Oh three? Jen Harley is the X of this Jersey

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Speaker 1: short Are was arrested again on charges of domestic violence.

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Speaker 1: Name her X Oh, Mike, No, that's that's a foe.

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Speaker 1: You got a foe. Let's see Shelley might get a

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Speaker 1: foe too. We'll see what happens. Shelley's back. Four is

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Speaker 1: the score? You gotta get okay um question number one.

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Speaker 1: Shelley Ellen Pompeo responded to a fan on Twitter that

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Speaker 1: said that the latest drama of this a season. I'll

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Speaker 1: fix it if this medical drama was trash, named the

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Speaker 1: drama Grey's Anatomy. Dave Chappelle joined the Foo Fighters to

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Speaker 1: cover the song Creep at Madison Square Garden too or false?

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00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:44,719
Speaker 1: Creep is a Radiohead song that is true, Yes it

658
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Speaker 1: is real. Housewife Porshe Williams celebrates her fortieth birthday today.

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Speaker 1: Is she a housewife on Potomac or Atlanta? Oh? I

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Speaker 1: got a choice, say Atlanta. That's right. What is the

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00:36:56,239 --> 00:37:02,799
Speaker 1: next album? Taylor Swift is rereleasing redho that's correct. And

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00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 1: Jen Harley, the X of This Jersey Shore star, was

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00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:12,120
Speaker 1: arrested again on charges of domestic violence. Name her X Ronnie.

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Speaker 1: That's right. There's a five right there, right there, man,

665
00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:19,960
Speaker 1: I thought it was a four. It was a five.

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Speaker 1: What could I say? Gabby, You're gonna have to say it.

667
00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:24,400
Speaker 1: My name is Gabby. I got showed up on the Showdown.

668
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:28,000
Speaker 1: My name is Gabby. I got showed up on the

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00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:38,880
Speaker 1: showdown again, and I still cannot gang with a gorilla.

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Speaker 1: That was so good scob I don't even have to

671
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Speaker 1: do it now because you were so good Gabby. All right, um,

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Speaker 1: have a great day. Hang on one second. We'll talk

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Speaker 1: to you soon and thanks for playing. Okay, Okay, good

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Speaker 1: shells looks coming up on the program today, The showby

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Speaker 1: Shelley Radio program one on three point five for that

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Speaker 1: ass ten until noon. All the chooginess you could ever

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Speaker 1: dream of. Um no, we're trying to do it away,

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Speaker 1: Gucci Belts. What's going on here? I don't know if

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Speaker 1: I still I'm not quite sure what it means. So

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Speaker 1: but um okay, so if you want to take a

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Speaker 1: vacation later this summer, that's like the new thing I'm

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Speaker 1: to go. Oh um yeah. Then lots of more prizes

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Speaker 1: as usual, Pride the Park passes and Raging Wave passes,

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Speaker 1: uh and Lalla after Show passes as well. Oh all

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Speaker 1: are you with Duncan? Yeah, Trevor Daniel Actually, okay, show

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Speaker 1: Shelley ten to noon. We'll see you then. Have a

687
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Speaker 1: good day. Okay you too, Bye choogy warn't of the day.

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Speaker 1: There you have it, let's come back. We'll do waiting

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Speaker 1: by the phone, good news stories coming up. Trip to

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Speaker 1: Vegas too. I heard radio music festival about an hour

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Speaker 1: away on the French friend shown it like the Windress

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Speaker 1: studios in America's greatest city, Chicago and Heart radio station.

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Speaker 1: It's the French Morning. Everybody, good news choicing just the

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Speaker 1: second waiting by the phone. After that, why no second

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Speaker 1: day for this couple? Then the entertainer report, what's in there? All?

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Speaker 1: Um te pain is depressed and it's Usher's fault. And

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you why. Really Okay, maybe he should go

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Speaker 1: to this cabin and Wisconsin mansions. Yeah, what was it again,

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Speaker 1: like fifteen thousand square feet or something? The mansion was

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Speaker 1: a mansion again? It was a tea pain mansion or

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Speaker 1: what was it again? Actually as a song, I thought

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00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:42,799
Speaker 1: he was just rhyming mansion and nobody. Who were we

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00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:45,600
Speaker 1: talking about last week that had the rapper that had

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Speaker 1: like a monstrous Rick Ross. It was Rick Ross. Yes, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was like it was ridiculously huge, like like almost

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Speaker 1: the size of Paulina's house, but not quite yeah, not exactly. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it doesn't have the train though, that goes nearly through it.

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Speaker 1: So how else do you get around the house. No,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. You must have to use his legs

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Speaker 1: and walk. It's crazy up trending stories and blogs this

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Speaker 1: hour too. The French Show is one. It feels good,

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Speaker 1: I say, and you say goals in Goals, in Goals.

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Speaker 1: University of Chicago Ingles memorial, good News, happy stories everyday

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Speaker 1: Kaling go I love her so much so. Megan the

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Speaker 1: Stallion is paying her respects to the family of a

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Speaker 1: fan who died last week. The twenty six year old

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Speaker 1: rapper donated a gofund me to a gofund me account

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Speaker 1: to cover funeral costs for a late fan her name

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Speaker 1: was Shania Lee Scales, after a friend contacted Megan for

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Speaker 1: help with reaching the sixteen at thousand dollars goal. Funerals

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Speaker 1: are so expensive, it's really sad. The tweet read, Meg,

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Speaker 1: we lost a hottie, which is not her, just saying that.

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Speaker 1: That's what Meghan calls her fans. Our best friend passed

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Speaker 1: away unexpectedly. She absolutely loved you. Listening to your songs

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Speaker 1: with something we did every time we were together. Megan

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Speaker 1: responded on Today, writing how much do y'all need. Soon after,

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Speaker 1: she shared a screenshot of her eight hundred and fifty

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Speaker 1: five dollars donations to go fund me, the fundraising page

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Speaker 1: smashed its original goal. The friend reached out to Megan

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Speaker 1: and shared her excitement and appreciation. She said, I'm crying

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Speaker 1: so hard. I will ride for you until the day

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Speaker 1: I die. I know our friend is up in heaven

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Speaker 1: smiling so hard right now. I can't believe this. Thank

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Speaker 1: you for helping us and their family. Wow. Very sweet.

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Speaker 1: High school senior headed to Harvard has asked that a

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Speaker 1: forty thousand dollars scholarship she earned be given to a

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Speaker 1: student attending community college instead. Her name is Verda from

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Speaker 1: the Finchburg High School in Massachusetts where that Davey is

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Speaker 1: where I was born. Oh, she lives in a place

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Speaker 1: where I was born, Massachusetts. Struggle every time. At least

741
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Speaker 1: you're stopping yourself at the end from now the girls.

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Speaker 1: The girl's going to Harvard and given her scholarship away,

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Speaker 1: and she lives aware again. I want to get to

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Speaker 1: keep Massa shut um massa shute. No, I don't want

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Speaker 1: to say its mass She knows how a community college

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Speaker 1: can impact someone's life as her mother attended one. At

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Speaker 1: age thirty nine, she plans on major in chemistry and

748
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Speaker 1: following a premed track at Harvard. She turned down the

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Speaker 1: forty thousand dollars scholarship money from her high school while

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Speaker 1: accepting the school's General Excellent award on June fourth. IM

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00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:30,279
Speaker 1: so very grateful for this, but I also know that

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00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:32,240
Speaker 1: I am not the one who needs it the most,

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00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:34,520
Speaker 1: and knowing my mom went to community college and how

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00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:37,480
Speaker 1: much that was helpful, I would be so very grateful

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Speaker 1: if administration would consider giving the general Excellent scholarship to

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Speaker 1: someone who's going to community college. It's a great honor.

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00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 1: But I also know that I am not the most

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00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:46,839
Speaker 1: in need of it. So she's giving it away going

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00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:51,160
Speaker 1: to Harvard because she's brilliant, very cool. Waiting by the phone?

760
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:53,280
Speaker 1: Why a second day for this couple? Next after Olivia

761
00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:58,560
Speaker 1: Rodrigo in two minutes, good for you, kiss the friend,

762
00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:03,240
Speaker 1: show the money? Why were you left waiting by the phone?

763
00:43:03,280 --> 00:43:07,520
Speaker 1: And Jennifer, good morning, Hey, how are you great? Welcome

764
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:09,160
Speaker 1: to the show? Waiting by the phone, of course, why

765
00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 1: don't we I had your email here about Matt, But

766
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:12,799
Speaker 1: why don't you tell us what's going on? How you

767
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:16,319
Speaker 1: Matt any dates that you've been on. Tell us what's

768
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:18,160
Speaker 1: going on with him right now? We're not going on

769
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Speaker 1: great Okay. So yeah, Matt and I met Actually we

770
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:25,520
Speaker 1: were both at brunch separately. We were you know, we

771
00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:28,600
Speaker 1: were with our separate groups of friends, and we happened.

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Speaker 1: It was a fun brunch place. We happened to kind

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00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:35,480
Speaker 1: of meet each other. We exchanged numbers, and then as

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00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:39,279
Speaker 1: the day went on, our friends all left and we

775
00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:45,360
Speaker 1: decided to keep drinking together, and we drank all day

776
00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:49,800
Speaker 1: and then into dinner, and we just had the best time.

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00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:52,160
Speaker 1: Like honestly, we had such a good day. It was

778
00:43:52,239 --> 00:43:56,279
Speaker 1: so fun. You know, Yeah, we had been drinking all day,

779
00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:58,120
Speaker 1: but it didn't it didn't get to the point where

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00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:02,000
Speaker 1: we were you know that I can't remember what happened,

781
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:05,080
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. We just were having a

782
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:08,480
Speaker 1: really great time. And then we you know, I was

783
00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 1: sure that we would see each other again, without a doubt,

784
00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:14,399
Speaker 1: like this guy. I was sure of it. And then

785
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:19,239
Speaker 1: after we left each other. Since then, I haven't heard

786
00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:23,080
Speaker 1: from him. He's essentially been ghosting me, if you will,

787
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:26,160
Speaker 1: and I have no idea why, and I don't know

788
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 1: if it's just like, was he just trying to have

789
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:33,040
Speaker 1: fun that day. I'm just so confused, and I just

790
00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:35,759
Speaker 1: kind of want answers because I thought that he was

791
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:39,279
Speaker 1: into me. I thought that we had fun together, and

792
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:41,680
Speaker 1: you know, he would want to at least see me

793
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:45,920
Speaker 1: again to explore it. So I'm just really curious. I

794
00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:49,279
Speaker 1: don't know why. I'll do a side note, Jennifer, is

795
00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:51,720
Speaker 1: my favorite kind of drinking when you start in the morning,

796
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:55,359
Speaker 1: little brunch, maybe some Mimosa's bloody Mary, something like that,

797
00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:57,399
Speaker 1: and then you move on to I don't know, watch

798
00:44:57,400 --> 00:45:00,160
Speaker 1: a game day drink, you know, and then that's that

799
00:45:00,520 --> 00:45:02,560
Speaker 1: you speak in my language. But anyway, you don't know

800
00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:07,719
Speaker 1: why this guy is ghosting at night, So there you go. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

801
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:09,600
Speaker 1: we're on the same page, so you maybe we should

802
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:11,200
Speaker 1: go out. But anyway, you don't know why this guy

803
00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 1: is ghosting. You want to know why. That's where we come.

804
00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:16,160
Speaker 1: And we're gonna call his dude, Matt, see if we

805
00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:17,760
Speaker 1: can get him on the phone and ask some questions.

806
00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:19,719
Speaker 1: At some point, definitely jump in on the call and

807
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:22,799
Speaker 1: hopefully there's a good explanation here, you know, who knows

808
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:24,759
Speaker 1: what it is, and we can straighten this out. And

809
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:28,040
Speaker 1: set you guys up on another date that we pay for. Okay, Yeah,

810
00:45:28,120 --> 00:45:33,319
Speaker 1: I'm really curious, so I hope that he perfect. I'm

811
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:35,200
Speaker 1: gonna play one song, come back, and we'll do it.

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00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:37,839
Speaker 1: Hang on, Okay, cool, let's see what happens the next

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00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:42,440
Speaker 1: part two after Travis Scott one oh three five Scots

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Speaker 1: one on three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number one hit

815
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Speaker 1: music station. Good morning, it's the Fred Show. Hey, Jennifer,

816
00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:51,719
Speaker 1: all right, welcome back. Let's call this dude mad You guys,

817
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 1: actually you met um. You were out to brunch with

818
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:56,760
Speaker 1: some friends. He was out to brunch with some friends.

819
00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:58,960
Speaker 1: You met there. I wanted up hanging that old day.

820
00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:01,600
Speaker 1: You hit it all of you really hit it off,

821
00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:04,719
Speaker 1: except now you're being ghosted, and you want to know

822
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:09,080
Speaker 1: why exactly. Yeah, I'm just really curious. Perfect. All right,

823
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:22,880
Speaker 1: let's call him right now. Good luck? Okay? Is this Matt? Yeah?

824
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:24,759
Speaker 1: Is it? Hey? Man Fred? The Fred Show one or

825
00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:27,359
Speaker 1: three five Kim in Chicago. The whole crew is here.

826
00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:29,120
Speaker 1: I have to tell you though, that we are on

827
00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 1: the radio right now. I need your permission to continue

828
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:37,759
Speaker 1: with this. Calls that okay? If we talked for a second. Wow, Yeah, yeah, cool. Perfect, Hey,

829
00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:40,560
Speaker 1: thank you, we appreciate that. Um, I'll get right to it.

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00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:42,719
Speaker 1: We're calling on behalf of a woman who I guess

831
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Speaker 1: you met um at brunch named Jennifer. Do you remember

832
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:50,319
Speaker 1: spending the day with a girl named Jennifer? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,

833
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:53,800
Speaker 1: I remember. Yeah. Okay, okay, Well it sounds like that

834
00:46:53,840 --> 00:46:56,200
Speaker 1: maybe there's a story there because she just, to give

835
00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:58,480
Speaker 1: you some context, reach out to us and told us

836
00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:00,839
Speaker 1: about you and how you met and how you spent

837
00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:03,839
Speaker 1: the day together. She really liked you, expected to hear

838
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:06,320
Speaker 1: from you again for another date, and says that you're ghosting,

839
00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:09,880
Speaker 1: not responding, not reaching out. Um, so what what's that about?

840
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:13,800
Speaker 1: Why aren't you calling her at all? Well? I mean, honestly,

841
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:16,200
Speaker 1: it was all fun and games until she started bragging

842
00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:18,839
Speaker 1: about the gaggle of dude she boint in college. I mean,

843
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:24,960
Speaker 1: can we talk about the word boind real fast? Is

844
00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:28,520
Speaker 1: that your word or hers as mine? It's just kind

845
00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:33,240
Speaker 1: of a thing, a gaggle of dudes that she boinked. Okay,

846
00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:37,799
Speaker 1: so you guys, so how does that come up? Well, basically,

847
00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:39,680
Speaker 1: we were just sitting there and we were drinking a

848
00:47:39,719 --> 00:47:41,399
Speaker 1: whole bunch and we were having a lot of fun,

849
00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:44,600
Speaker 1: and she just starts talking about like all these dudes

850
00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:47,319
Speaker 1: that she but she hooked up with. I mean, like,

851
00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:50,879
Speaker 1: I don't understand. Why why do you would brag about

852
00:47:50,960 --> 00:47:53,080
Speaker 1: dudes you hooked up with when you're on a date

853
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:56,320
Speaker 1: with a new guy, Like, it's just no, no, I

854
00:47:56,400 --> 00:47:59,960
Speaker 1: can see that, I can see. Okay, Oh, sorry, that's her,

855
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:01,799
Speaker 1: by the way, I love me. I forgot to mention

856
00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:06,839
Speaker 1: Jennifer's here. I always forget that part. There's Jennifer. So

857
00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:13,000
Speaker 1: what's your side of the gaggle of blinking? Yeah? Come on, really,

858
00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:16,879
Speaker 1: I we were just chatting. I mean, we were having fun,

859
00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:19,080
Speaker 1: you know, and honestly, like I was kind of like

860
00:48:19,239 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 1: joking around about it. It was okay. Well, I tried

861
00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 1: to make it seem like it was really no big

862
00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 1: feel like I was laughing the whole time about it.

863
00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:31,279
Speaker 1: It really wasn't a big deal. It was more so

864
00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:33,799
Speaker 1: like just trying to show you that I was kind

865
00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:36,160
Speaker 1: of just a fun, easy going person. That was really

866
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:39,120
Speaker 1: the only point about it. No, no, no, How would

867
00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:41,000
Speaker 1: you feel if I started bragging about the same thing

868
00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:44,759
Speaker 1: like all the girls, I splat, no, no, yeah, I

869
00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:47,560
Speaker 1: mean and like, look, we're all adults. Right, hold on,

870
00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:51,440
Speaker 1: we're adults. So everybody has it passed. Most people have

871
00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:54,440
Speaker 1: done something, They have some level of experience before they

872
00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:57,120
Speaker 1: meet somebody new. Most people don't want to hear about

873
00:48:57,200 --> 00:48:59,200
Speaker 1: that experience. So like you don't have to have that

874
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:03,080
Speaker 1: conversation because it's like nobody really wants to know what

875
00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:06,080
Speaker 1: happened before the person that they now, Like I three,

876
00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:11,600
Speaker 1: I was just having fun. It's just, you know, like

877
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:14,759
Speaker 1: if I get it that we are adulton, you know,

878
00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 1: we've all been in our relationships and stuff. But I'm

879
00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:19,320
Speaker 1: not just gonna straight up say, hey, you know every

880
00:49:19,360 --> 00:49:21,280
Speaker 1: weekend I was in college, you know, I was banging

881
00:49:21,320 --> 00:49:23,040
Speaker 1: this girl, and then I was banging that girl, and

882
00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:28,560
Speaker 1: you know this one. It's a point baby in just

883
00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:37,600
Speaker 1: yet gaggle gaggles of boinking. Hey, actually, you know what,

884
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:45,719
Speaker 1: that's probably a promotion. I mean, I don't show a

885
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:49,759
Speaker 1: PowerPoint presentation of everything that's happened, but that would take

886
00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:53,880
Speaker 1: a lot longer than brunch. But I just can't we

887
00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:56,160
Speaker 1: just like not talk about that. I mean again, I

888
00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:59,200
Speaker 1: know that you could argue it's a little immature. I mean, yes,

889
00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:01,560
Speaker 1: we're all grown up and you know stuff happened. But

890
00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:03,359
Speaker 1: I don't need to know about it. I can know

891
00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:06,360
Speaker 1: that it happened, and you don't have to tell me. Jennifer,

892
00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:08,120
Speaker 1: But you say you were just kidding. You say that

893
00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:12,000
Speaker 1: it's not as he described. Absolutely, it was all fun

894
00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:14,360
Speaker 1: in games and I mean tom on, we were drinking

895
00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:17,960
Speaker 1: all day. We were in a really fun atmosphere, fun environment.

896
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:24,359
Speaker 1: It was a very playful environment. Yeah, he's overreacting. You're

897
00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:28,120
Speaker 1: saying he's overreacting, Matt, Are you overreacting? No? No, no,

898
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:31,359
Speaker 1: no, no no, no, this is this is any If this

899
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:33,040
Speaker 1: is any indication of what it's going to be like

900
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:35,279
Speaker 1: in a relationship potential, She'll be onto the next food

901
00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:38,480
Speaker 1: with the like do we Oh, you're not trying to

902
00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:44,800
Speaker 1: be part of that gang, are you? That's not at all? Okay, Okay,

903
00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:47,120
Speaker 1: I guess I'm sorry. I gave you the wrong impression.

904
00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:49,760
Speaker 1: And if you're going to take it there, then somebody

905
00:50:49,800 --> 00:50:52,919
Speaker 1: who ghosts on somebody after I tried reaching out to you,

906
00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:55,960
Speaker 1: tried being like the bigger person, for you to ignore

907
00:50:56,000 --> 00:50:58,480
Speaker 1: me and for you to ghost me, that's not somebody

908
00:50:58,560 --> 00:51:00,719
Speaker 1: that has a character that I I want us to

909
00:51:00,920 --> 00:51:03,839
Speaker 1: be in a relationship with either, So I mean, I mean,

910
00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:12,000
Speaker 1: I already rejected you pretty much though. No I dumped you. No,

911
00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 1: I dumped you. I love it. I love it. So

912
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:20,000
Speaker 1: no second date since you both rejected each other simultaneously.

913
00:51:20,040 --> 00:51:24,600
Speaker 1: Apparently absolutely, Look, Matt, thank you for answering. Thank you

914
00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:26,840
Speaker 1: for your time, Jennifer. I don't really know what happened,

915
00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:28,520
Speaker 1: but it's I guess it's not going to work out.

916
00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:31,960
Speaker 1: So he sounds like a good conversationalist. You can meet

917
00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:34,520
Speaker 1: people all over the place. You'll be fine. Oh, I know,

918
00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:36,839
Speaker 1: I will, I know, I will. I'm glad I got

919
00:51:36,840 --> 00:51:41,000
Speaker 1: this answer. Don't don't you be shamed for gaggling in

920
00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:43,360
Speaker 1: the gaggle of the boy king. Don't you worry about

921
00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:48,400
Speaker 1: that if it happens to the best of us. Yeah. Yeah,

922
00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:51,360
Speaker 1: those are my two new favorite words that were absolutely

923
00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:54,480
Speaker 1: bringing back into the American lexicon. Thank you guys so much.

924
00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:57,440
Speaker 1: Have a great day. We appreciate your time. Beautiful. The

925
00:51:57,560 --> 00:51:59,879
Speaker 1: entertainer off Killen has it next. That's a Little Naz

926
00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:02,680
Speaker 1: two minutes to Away, one h three five, The Fred Show,

927
00:52:02,719 --> 00:52:08,000
Speaker 1: Good Morning, Go Bad, just to day kism. The latest

928
00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:11,040
Speaker 1: entertainment news is on The Fred Show. Billy Eilish responded

929
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:15,239
Speaker 1: to accusations of racial slurs and mocking the Asian community

930
00:52:15,320 --> 00:52:19,200
Speaker 1: in recent viral TikTok's Billy who is nineteen now, so

931
00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:22,320
Speaker 1: she's being labeled as something that she's not. She wrote,

932
00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:24,560
Speaker 1: there's a video edit going around with me when I

933
00:52:24,600 --> 00:52:27,239
Speaker 1: was thirteen or fourteen, where I mouthed the word for

934
00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:29,640
Speaker 1: a song that at the time I didn't know was

935
00:52:29,840 --> 00:52:34,279
Speaker 1: derogatory term used against members of the Asian community. I'm

936
00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:36,839
Speaker 1: appalled and embarrassed. I want to barth that I ever

937
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:39,920
Speaker 1: mouthed that word, regardless of my ignorance and age at

938
00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:42,160
Speaker 1: the time. Nothing excuses the fact that it was hurtful,

939
00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:44,800
Speaker 1: and for that I am sorry. She also addressed a

940
00:52:44,840 --> 00:52:48,280
Speaker 1: second clip that showed her appearing to mock an Asian accent,

941
00:52:48,360 --> 00:52:51,120
Speaker 1: while her brother Phineas later called her out for speaking

942
00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:54,520
Speaker 1: with a quote black accent. She said, the other video

943
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:57,719
Speaker 1: is me speaking in silly gibberish. It's a made up voice,

944
00:52:57,760 --> 00:52:59,960
Speaker 1: something I started doing as a kid. I've done it

945
00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:02,440
Speaker 1: my whole life when talking to my pets, friends, family.

946
00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:06,080
Speaker 1: It's absolutely gibberish. It's just me goofing around. In no

947
00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:09,800
Speaker 1: way is an imitation of anyone or any language, accent,

948
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:12,480
Speaker 1: or culture in the slightest trapped up by saying she

949
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 1: was sorry and that we all need to continue having conversations,

950
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:18,279
Speaker 1: listening and learning. I hear you, and I love you.

951
00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:21,799
Speaker 1: Thank you for taking the time to read this. So

952
00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:24,320
Speaker 1: she um. People are calling for her to be canceled,

953
00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:27,480
Speaker 1: but I feel like she addressed it. And hopefully she's

954
00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 1: eight eighteen, right, she's nineteen nineteen. Yeah, yeah, let's I mean,

955
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:33,839
Speaker 1: she's young. You learned from yours, Hopefully she learned some, right.

956
00:53:34,360 --> 00:53:36,239
Speaker 1: I don't know that she needs to be canceled, but

957
00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:38,719
Speaker 1: I don't think I was doing stuff like that, but

958
00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:39,920
Speaker 1: it is it probably a good thing there was in

959
00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:42,000
Speaker 1: social media when I was younger, because I don't know.

960
00:53:42,400 --> 00:53:46,480
Speaker 1: I mean, just everybody does stupid stuff and on whatever level, right,

961
00:53:46,520 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 1: and it is immature and doesn't understand the impact and

962
00:53:50,760 --> 00:53:53,400
Speaker 1: that they're having other people because you really can't, right,

963
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:56,560
Speaker 1: doesn't excuse it, but it also means that it's probably

964
00:53:56,560 --> 00:53:59,440
Speaker 1: a good thing. There wasn't any way to memorialize stupid

965
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:01,680
Speaker 1: things I was doing. And you're not the same person

966
00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:03,920
Speaker 1: you were in high school, none of us, awright, So

967
00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:06,239
Speaker 1: I hope she learned. Yeah, there was social media. Back then,

968
00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:10,160
Speaker 1: I'd probably still be in jail. Same no way. Now,

969
00:54:12,920 --> 00:54:16,680
Speaker 1: just a little bit more. They could have filmed the

970
00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:27,120
Speaker 1: back then it's blurring. Oh man, so this is kind

971
00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:29,640
Speaker 1: of a wild story. Tpan is opening up about how

972
00:54:29,680 --> 00:54:33,240
Speaker 1: a negative comment from Usher kicked off a really difficult

973
00:54:33,239 --> 00:54:35,240
Speaker 1: period in his life. In a clip from the upcoming

974
00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:38,200
Speaker 1: Netflix series This Is Pop, the singer says he fell

975
00:54:38,239 --> 00:54:42,319
Speaker 1: into a year's long depression after Usher criticized his use

976
00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:44,839
Speaker 1: of auto tune and music. Usher was my friend, he said,

977
00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:47,640
Speaker 1: I really respect Usher, and he was like, man, I'm

978
00:54:47,640 --> 00:54:49,799
Speaker 1: going to tell you something. Man, you kind of aft

979
00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:53,480
Speaker 1: up music. That's what Usher said to him. Um. Tpan

980
00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:56,680
Speaker 1: said he let out a nervous chuckle, trying to see

981
00:54:56,680 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 1: if Usher was kidding, but he wasn't. I didn't understand.

982
00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:00,680
Speaker 1: I thought he was joking at for but he doubled

983
00:55:00,719 --> 00:55:03,040
Speaker 1: down and was like, yeah, man, you really aft up

984
00:55:03,120 --> 00:55:05,239
Speaker 1: music for real singers. According to t pay And, his

985
00:55:05,320 --> 00:55:08,400
Speaker 1: comment was the beginning of a trying time for his

986
00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:11,319
Speaker 1: mental health. He thought I used it. I didn't tell

987
00:55:11,360 --> 00:55:13,359
Speaker 1: anybody else to start using it. I don't even think

988
00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:16,040
Speaker 1: I realized for a long time. But that's the very

989
00:55:16,080 --> 00:55:19,120
Speaker 1: moment that started a four year depression for me. T

990
00:55:19,320 --> 00:55:23,040
Speaker 1: Paining almost single handedly popularize the use of auto tune

991
00:55:23,040 --> 00:55:25,920
Speaker 1: in hip hop, beginning in oh five with his banger

992
00:55:26,080 --> 00:55:29,160
Speaker 1: I'm Sprung He walked so Paulina could fly with the

993
00:55:29,200 --> 00:55:32,840
Speaker 1: auto tune back. The wild part though, is he actually

994
00:55:32,840 --> 00:55:34,560
Speaker 1: has a really beautiful voice. Like I think he was

995
00:55:34,600 --> 00:55:37,000
Speaker 1: just using auto tune because it was a different sound

996
00:55:37,040 --> 00:55:39,680
Speaker 1: and something different. But damn, Like, what kind of friend

997
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:41,880
Speaker 1: is that? He's like, Yeah, you screwed up all of music.

998
00:55:42,680 --> 00:55:45,319
Speaker 1: It seems you know. Why didn't you say something to you?

999
00:55:45,360 --> 00:55:47,960
Speaker 1: And they think it's innocent, but you'll never forget it.

1000
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:49,520
Speaker 1: I had a friend one time. I said, Christy, you

1001
00:55:49,560 --> 00:55:52,400
Speaker 1: touch your bangs too much. It's a bearrassing, isn't that.

1002
00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:54,320
Speaker 1: It's a small thing she said to me, and I

1003
00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:56,160
Speaker 1: couldn't talk to her again. I was like, why would

1004
00:55:56,160 --> 00:55:59,440
Speaker 1: you say that? Are you serious? Yeah? Her name was

1005
00:55:59,640 --> 00:56:02,560
Speaker 1: Kenna and ever since then and she she was a

1006
00:56:03,080 --> 00:56:06,160
Speaker 1: thing like your name is shut up. She criticized everything

1007
00:56:06,200 --> 00:56:08,160
Speaker 1: I did choose, like you look like you're always embarrassed

1008
00:56:08,200 --> 00:56:11,280
Speaker 1: of yourself, like just be cool, And I'm like, okay, wowkay,

1009
00:56:11,360 --> 00:56:15,480
Speaker 1: what's Canna? Doing nowadays. That's why exactly people say things

1010
00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:18,520
Speaker 1: that's come off to them innocent, but you'll remember it

1011
00:56:18,680 --> 00:56:20,759
Speaker 1: and it hurts you for sure. I think we're all

1012
00:56:20,800 --> 00:56:23,320
Speaker 1: guilty of being on the receiving end though, and also

1013
00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:27,000
Speaker 1: saying something like as a joke that probably hurt someone. Um, yeah,

1014
00:56:27,040 --> 00:56:29,440
Speaker 1: but I definitely remember someone cares how often I touch

1015
00:56:29,520 --> 00:56:35,239
Speaker 1: my bag? This impact did? I went through a spiral.

1016
00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:38,080
Speaker 1: I it was, it was I don't know why I'm breaking.

1017
00:56:38,239 --> 00:56:40,120
Speaker 1: It was a weird thing, That's what I'm saying, Just like,

1018
00:56:40,200 --> 00:56:42,759
Speaker 1: keep paying. It's a weird thing to say to your friend. Yeah,

1019
00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:47,160
Speaker 1: I think it's worse to say that you ruin music. Look,

1020
00:56:47,680 --> 00:56:49,759
Speaker 1: you just look like you're always self conscious, just trying

1021
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:51,200
Speaker 1: to be cool and stop trying to fit in all

1022
00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:53,680
Speaker 1: the time. Something like that. I was like a whole thing. Yeah,

1023
00:56:53,719 --> 00:56:57,920
Speaker 1: it was rough though, for me. Yeah, is she cool? No?

1024
00:56:58,040 --> 00:57:02,480
Speaker 1: Why do you say to your friends many? Yeah, but

1025
00:57:03,040 --> 00:57:06,160
Speaker 1: you know you didn't ruin anything, so I don't. I

1026
00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:09,040
Speaker 1: didn't listen to that many people anymore. I just don't care. Really,

1027
00:57:09,239 --> 00:57:13,040
Speaker 1: I've really liked my no care quotition has grown significantly

1028
00:57:13,040 --> 00:57:15,200
Speaker 1: in the past few months. Age. I don't know what happened.

1029
00:57:15,239 --> 00:57:17,600
Speaker 1: But I just don't. I really just don't care, like

1030
00:57:17,640 --> 00:57:21,440
Speaker 1: it's it's something like that would do nothing too. You're like, okay, yeah,

1031
00:57:21,600 --> 00:57:23,720
Speaker 1: you know, you know, I mean, I don't know. I

1032
00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:25,600
Speaker 1: just don't. It's like there's so many haters out there

1033
00:57:25,640 --> 00:57:27,320
Speaker 1: and there's so many people to say things that aren't true,

1034
00:57:27,600 --> 00:57:34,280
Speaker 1: and you know, I just like, cool, yeah, right, that's right.

1035
00:57:34,320 --> 00:57:36,240
Speaker 1: I don't have the energy to hold on to stuff

1036
00:57:36,280 --> 00:57:39,600
Speaker 1: like that. And I also, at a point in your life,

1037
00:57:39,600 --> 00:57:42,080
Speaker 1: you did, right, I did. But I take ownership of

1038
00:57:42,120 --> 00:57:44,919
Speaker 1: that because in many ways, it's not what the other

1039
00:57:44,960 --> 00:57:47,880
Speaker 1: person said necessarily, it's the credence and the way that

1040
00:57:48,000 --> 00:57:51,240
Speaker 1: I gave it. So I need to be responsible for

1041
00:57:51,280 --> 00:57:53,880
Speaker 1: how I interpreted people's comment and made the morse in

1042
00:57:53,920 --> 00:57:57,280
Speaker 1: my own head. That's my bad, not necessarily their back,

1043
00:57:57,320 --> 00:58:00,400
Speaker 1: because I gave them too much power, right, So progress,

1044
00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:01,720
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't even think she meant it in

1045
00:58:01,760 --> 00:58:03,880
Speaker 1: a malicious way, and I'm sure usher probably set in

1046
00:58:03,920 --> 00:58:05,920
Speaker 1: a more casual way than that. But then you just

1047
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:08,080
Speaker 1: take it and internalize it so much and you have

1048
00:58:08,120 --> 00:58:10,600
Speaker 1: to own that. That's on you, that's on the other person,

1049
00:58:10,680 --> 00:58:13,880
Speaker 1: that's on you. Yeah, I'm just saying that similar situation.

1050
00:58:13,920 --> 00:58:16,120
Speaker 1: I ruined banks for the world, he ruined music, same thing,

1051
00:58:16,240 --> 00:58:18,920
Speaker 1: same thing, same exact thing, different more did a check

1052
00:58:18,920 --> 00:58:22,600
Speaker 1: out online today? Tony Hawk taught Avril Levine how to skateboard.

1053
00:58:22,600 --> 00:58:24,920
Speaker 1: How does Avril Levine not know how to do this already?

1054
00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:27,320
Speaker 1: Also she looks the exact same that's on Frenchshaw radio

1055
00:58:27,400 --> 00:58:29,200
Speaker 1: dot com. Yeah, every Levine you say you'd like the

1056
00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:32,520
Speaker 1: skater boys, you don't even know how to skate Paulina.

1057
00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:34,840
Speaker 1: Paulina was like that love this place. I was trying

1058
00:58:34,880 --> 00:58:36,600
Speaker 1: to learn how to skate. They went to Walmart and

1059
00:58:36,640 --> 00:58:38,439
Speaker 1: bought a skateboard, and they told me that's not where

1060
00:58:38,440 --> 00:58:44,280
Speaker 1: you go. You have no street credit with that rolling

1061
00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:47,640
Speaker 1: up with your huffy skateboard or whatever. No, man, you

1062
00:58:47,720 --> 00:58:50,280
Speaker 1: gotta go. I don't know where you a skate shop.

1063
00:58:50,320 --> 00:58:52,320
Speaker 1: I guess I don't know. I tried to be I

1064
00:58:52,360 --> 00:58:55,320
Speaker 1: tried to learn how to skateboard, too, and I don't

1065
00:58:55,360 --> 00:58:57,439
Speaker 1: have the court. It means six foot five guy who

1066
00:58:57,480 --> 00:59:00,520
Speaker 1: was also gangly, eighth grader, six four games eighth grade

1067
00:59:00,560 --> 00:59:04,080
Speaker 1: or trying to skateboard was not a good idea. Snowboard. No,

1068
00:59:04,320 --> 00:59:06,120
Speaker 1: I was a skier when I grew up. When I

1069
00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:08,680
Speaker 1: grew up, we skied, so I don't know. I guess

1070
00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:10,120
Speaker 1: at this point has been so long I could start

1071
00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:12,480
Speaker 1: over again. But the problem was skiing and snowboarding and

1072
00:59:12,520 --> 00:59:14,360
Speaker 1: all of that is that, um, I got a long

1073
00:59:14,400 --> 00:59:16,800
Speaker 1: way to fall now, and stuff actually breaks and like

1074
00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:18,760
Speaker 1: doesn't Well, you gotta have a hot tiddy or two

1075
00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:20,919
Speaker 1: before you go down the hill. Maybe, But like people

1076
00:59:20,960 --> 00:59:23,080
Speaker 1: who are forty and fall skiing, they also wind up

1077
00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:25,560
Speaker 1: with like acl reconstruction. So it's the kind of things

1078
00:59:25,560 --> 00:59:27,120
Speaker 1: that didn't happen when I was in you know, eighth

1079
00:59:27,160 --> 00:59:29,240
Speaker 1: grade and I would go plowing into the side of

1080
00:59:29,280 --> 00:59:31,800
Speaker 1: a you know, snow bank or something and it didn't hurt.

1081
00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:35,000
Speaker 1: I'd just get up and walk away. Now i'd water

1082
00:59:35,040 --> 00:59:37,680
Speaker 1: sport now, yeah, now I would need like a helicopter

1083
00:59:37,720 --> 00:59:39,520
Speaker 1: to airlift me off the side of the mountain or whatever.

1084
00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:45,200
Speaker 1: Surfing is your thing. My dad's method of teaching me

1085
00:59:45,240 --> 00:59:46,920
Speaker 1: how to ski, And my dad grew up in Vermont

1086
00:59:46,960 --> 00:59:54,280
Speaker 1: and he's a skier. He's a really good skier. Yeah. Yeah.

1087
00:59:54,280 --> 00:59:56,240
Speaker 1: His method of teaching me how to ski was to

1088
00:59:56,240 --> 00:59:58,440
Speaker 1: take me in a green that and that you know,

1089
00:59:58,440 --> 01:00:00,040
Speaker 1: went about as well as you'd expect for someone I

1090
01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:01,800
Speaker 1: never skied before and then take me in a double

1091
01:00:01,840 --> 01:00:06,360
Speaker 1: black diamond, and I was so angry. I remember we

1092
01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:08,160
Speaker 1: fought on the side of the mountain for like two

1093
01:00:08,200 --> 01:00:10,440
Speaker 1: hours because we turned the corner and there we are,

1094
01:00:10,480 --> 01:00:13,240
Speaker 1: and now we're committed. We're committed, and like I could

1095
01:00:13,840 --> 01:00:15,960
Speaker 1: down and I'm like on a I'm like on a

1096
01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:18,200
Speaker 1: forty five degree angle to the to the mountain, like

1097
01:00:18,240 --> 01:00:20,160
Speaker 1: if I like stick my hand out, like there's the

1098
01:00:20,240 --> 01:00:24,959
Speaker 1: snow right there. I was screaming. I'm like twelve screaming

1099
01:00:24,960 --> 01:00:27,320
Speaker 1: in him, I'm like there's no way, and he's trying

1100
01:00:27,360 --> 01:00:28,880
Speaker 1: to convince me. And his whole thing was if you

1101
01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:30,440
Speaker 1: can get down this hill, then you can get down

1102
01:00:30,440 --> 01:00:32,640
Speaker 1: any hill. So like figure it out. I'm like, yeah,

1103
01:00:32,680 --> 01:00:34,760
Speaker 1: but if I if I get down this hill improperly,

1104
01:00:34,800 --> 01:00:37,040
Speaker 1: I'm dead. But there are a couple of ways I

1105
01:00:37,160 --> 01:00:39,040
Speaker 1: get down this hill. I take it down the hill.

1106
01:00:39,040 --> 01:00:41,040
Speaker 1: And he was right, you know, because then greens and

1107
01:00:41,080 --> 01:00:45,000
Speaker 1: blues and whatever else, they all seem like easy. Yeah,

1108
01:00:45,360 --> 01:00:47,680
Speaker 1: for two hours we fought on the side of the mountain.

1109
01:00:47,760 --> 01:00:49,560
Speaker 1: He's like, take your skis off and walk down. Then

1110
01:00:49,560 --> 01:00:55,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, I can't even do that. That's my dad.

1111
01:00:55,080 --> 01:00:56,800
Speaker 1: That was my dad's way of teaching me how to ski.

1112
01:00:56,960 --> 01:01:00,919
Speaker 1: Very traumatic. I guarantee he recalls it totally differently. Oh yeah,

1113
01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:02,960
Speaker 1: I doubt it. I know. I think he would tell

1114
01:01:02,960 --> 01:01:04,560
Speaker 1: if he were awake, I'd call him and he'd tell

1115
01:01:04,600 --> 01:01:05,920
Speaker 1: the story the same way. He'd be like, yeah, we

1116
01:01:05,960 --> 01:01:07,440
Speaker 1: went on a double black diamond and we fought for

1117
01:01:07,440 --> 01:01:09,760
Speaker 1: two hours. More chill about it. Like kids, things are

1118
01:01:09,840 --> 01:01:15,480
Speaker 1: traumatic when you remember them. Well, it was an aggressive method,

1119
01:01:15,680 --> 01:01:17,800
Speaker 1: but it worked. I guess it works kind it really.

1120
01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:19,480
Speaker 1: I mean, your confidence is very high if you can

1121
01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:21,480
Speaker 1: get down from something like that. But I was certainly

1122
01:01:21,560 --> 01:01:24,640
Speaker 1: not qualified. Did you speaking of parent, did your parents

1123
01:01:24,640 --> 01:01:27,600
Speaker 1: ever did they have creative ways to punish you? Or

1124
01:01:27,600 --> 01:01:29,800
Speaker 1: did they punish you in the way that everybody five

1125
01:01:29,880 --> 01:01:32,280
Speaker 1: five nine one one h three five? But JB before

1126
01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:34,840
Speaker 1: you go, did um? Because JB ass the phones? But

1127
01:01:34,840 --> 01:01:37,320
Speaker 1: then he also talks on the radio? Ye did? Did

1128
01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:39,280
Speaker 1: James Lee Roy Brown? Your father? Did he? Did he

1129
01:01:39,280 --> 01:01:41,360
Speaker 1: have creative ways to punish you? Or was it like

1130
01:01:41,400 --> 01:01:43,680
Speaker 1: your grounded you can't go out? Yeah? It was grounding.

1131
01:01:43,800 --> 01:01:45,400
Speaker 1: I mean it was when you were like when I

1132
01:01:45,440 --> 01:01:47,520
Speaker 1: was young, it was like the spanking, you know, And

1133
01:01:47,560 --> 01:01:49,760
Speaker 1: he'll tell the story to this day where he he

1134
01:01:49,920 --> 01:01:52,320
Speaker 1: spanked me in the store and it was so bad.

1135
01:01:52,320 --> 01:01:54,440
Speaker 1: People were like looking at him like, well, what is

1136
01:01:54,520 --> 01:01:57,120
Speaker 1: going on? He told He still says tells that to

1137
01:01:57,200 --> 01:01:58,920
Speaker 1: this day. But no, it was very much. I was

1138
01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:01,040
Speaker 1: so scared of him because he was such like a

1139
01:02:01,160 --> 01:02:04,120
Speaker 1: large man with a deep voice, like it was scary.

1140
01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:06,120
Speaker 1: I didn't do anything bad. I was a really good kid.

1141
01:02:06,200 --> 01:02:08,320
Speaker 1: I was too, but yeah I got ground. It was

1142
01:02:08,360 --> 01:02:11,120
Speaker 1: like they take away, they take something away, you know,

1143
01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:12,480
Speaker 1: for a while. They sent me into my room. But

1144
01:02:12,520 --> 01:02:14,240
Speaker 1: in my room I had a TV and a Nintendo.

1145
01:02:14,600 --> 01:02:16,720
Speaker 1: So that wasn't that much of a punishment, you know.

1146
01:02:16,760 --> 01:02:20,320
Speaker 1: So I have a really creative punishment. So when I

1147
01:02:20,400 --> 01:02:23,040
Speaker 1: was a kid, I walked into a tree and my

1148
01:02:23,080 --> 01:02:25,600
Speaker 1: whole school Saul and my brother started the nickname Tree

1149
01:02:25,800 --> 01:02:27,440
Speaker 1: and everyone made front of me. So I cried. I

1150
01:02:27,480 --> 01:02:30,040
Speaker 1: told my mom and she made my brother at home

1151
01:02:30,480 --> 01:02:33,920
Speaker 1: walk into the wall in front of everybody. This is

1152
01:02:33,960 --> 01:02:36,640
Speaker 1: creative punishment, I'm telling him. So she was like, you

1153
01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:38,640
Speaker 1: made fun of your sister for walking into the tree,

1154
01:02:38,680 --> 01:02:40,720
Speaker 1: so you have to walk into a wall. How fast

1155
01:02:40,720 --> 01:02:42,000
Speaker 1: did he have to go. He had to go. It

1156
01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:44,280
Speaker 1: was a pretty decent speed. You go like a Harry

1157
01:02:44,280 --> 01:02:46,120
Speaker 1: Potter scar in your forehead is away. I got bangs

1158
01:02:47,760 --> 01:02:50,280
Speaker 1: from the tree. I was reading and walking outside because

1159
01:02:50,280 --> 01:02:52,280
Speaker 1: I was really nerdy, so I walked into the tree.

1160
01:02:52,400 --> 01:02:54,120
Speaker 1: So then my brother had to walk into a wall

1161
01:02:54,120 --> 01:02:56,760
Speaker 1: as punishment walk into it. I don't even know how

1162
01:02:56,800 --> 01:02:59,439
Speaker 1: to walk right into a wall. I don't keep going.

1163
01:03:00,040 --> 01:03:01,480
Speaker 1: I feel like if I see the wall coming that

1164
01:03:01,600 --> 01:03:03,520
Speaker 1: I walked slowly and I don't hit it that hard

1165
01:03:03,560 --> 01:03:06,400
Speaker 1: and it's not much of again, not a little faster

1166
01:03:08,760 --> 01:03:14,760
Speaker 1: wild nuts. Well, I'm looking what about you, any any

1167
01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:17,800
Speaker 1: Paulina like MoMA Martha, you know, because she grew up

1168
01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:21,160
Speaker 1: in the Old Country. She's Old Country country, So I mean,

1169
01:03:21,200 --> 01:03:23,640
Speaker 1: what kind of stuff did she? I love my mom

1170
01:03:23,680 --> 01:03:25,440
Speaker 1: so much, but some of the things she did, I

1171
01:03:25,480 --> 01:03:29,120
Speaker 1: really don't understand if they're like even acceptable to any standard.

1172
01:03:29,160 --> 01:03:31,640
Speaker 1: I hear you on that one. I feel like I'm

1173
01:03:31,680 --> 01:03:34,520
Speaker 1: not trying to like appropriate here. But my my my

1174
01:03:34,520 --> 01:03:37,360
Speaker 1: friends in the South, and my friends whose parents were

1175
01:03:37,360 --> 01:03:40,960
Speaker 1: Eastern European or Asian in many cases, they had to

1176
01:03:41,000 --> 01:03:44,360
Speaker 1: do some really crazy stuff. Yeah, the Eastern European friends

1177
01:03:44,560 --> 01:03:46,280
Speaker 1: like really crazy stuff. And I don't know if it's

1178
01:03:46,280 --> 01:03:49,320
Speaker 1: just because maybe they grew up and I don't I

1179
01:03:49,320 --> 01:03:51,280
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know why, but it was. It

1180
01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:53,640
Speaker 1: was much worse than anything I ever had to do

1181
01:03:53,760 --> 01:03:56,200
Speaker 1: in the South. It was my friends would have to

1182
01:03:56,200 --> 01:03:59,480
Speaker 1: go outside, pick their own switch, pick their own stick

1183
01:03:59,520 --> 01:04:01,880
Speaker 1: to then get MA the butt with and if you

1184
01:04:01,920 --> 01:04:03,360
Speaker 1: didn't maake it thick enough one you had to ahead

1185
01:04:03,360 --> 01:04:05,600
Speaker 1: and get another one that I had to get. I

1186
01:04:05,600 --> 01:04:08,560
Speaker 1: got my butt beat many times with many different objects,

1187
01:04:08,600 --> 01:04:11,200
Speaker 1: like we got the sandal, we got the cord from

1188
01:04:11,240 --> 01:04:14,040
Speaker 1: the lamp, we got everything everything. Yeah, and I had

1189
01:04:14,040 --> 01:04:16,720
Speaker 1: it like bare butt. I don't know this conversation. I

1190
01:04:16,760 --> 01:04:18,960
Speaker 1: had a marebut out like my whole butt. So that

1191
01:04:19,040 --> 01:04:21,320
Speaker 1: was really painful. I had to kneel, I'm the like

1192
01:04:21,400 --> 01:04:26,120
Speaker 1: by the wall. Yeah, I had to hit two books

1193
01:04:26,120 --> 01:04:28,480
Speaker 1: like Jesus and stand like this. We had a whole

1194
01:04:28,560 --> 01:04:30,640
Speaker 1: two text books. I don't feel was like encyclopedias and

1195
01:04:30,800 --> 01:04:33,520
Speaker 1: Jesus do that he didn't. He helped. He helped two

1196
01:04:33,600 --> 01:04:36,800
Speaker 1: encyclopedia just trying to make Jesus. I'm not very religious,

1197
01:04:36,800 --> 01:04:40,640
Speaker 1: so I didn't know if it was the encyclopedia Britannica.

1198
01:04:41,560 --> 01:04:43,959
Speaker 1: They were yeah, he got him free when he signed

1199
01:04:43,960 --> 01:04:47,360
Speaker 1: the first checking account of the exactly Yeah. He tried

1200
01:04:47,360 --> 01:04:48,640
Speaker 1: to tell hey, can I can I hold up in

1201
01:04:48,680 --> 01:04:53,400
Speaker 1: Carter you know those city ROMs, And they said no, no,

1202
01:04:53,440 --> 01:04:56,760
Speaker 1: this is good Poland I got into like a chicken

1203
01:04:56,800 --> 01:04:59,080
Speaker 1: fight if you will, because I we have chickens right

1204
01:04:59,120 --> 01:05:01,040
Speaker 1: and the farms, like, oh, I thought it was funny

1205
01:05:01,120 --> 01:05:03,680
Speaker 1: to like hit them with sticks or the hit them

1206
01:05:03,840 --> 01:05:06,600
Speaker 1: chase them with sticks because it was like funny. I

1207
01:05:06,640 --> 01:05:08,640
Speaker 1: got in trouble out of everybody with me and my cousin,

1208
01:05:08,640 --> 01:05:10,200
Speaker 1: but the little kids didn't get in trouble. So I

1209
01:05:10,240 --> 01:05:12,479
Speaker 1: had a shovel cow crap for like the night because

1210
01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:14,360
Speaker 1: it was a farm. So I was just like very

1211
01:05:14,440 --> 01:05:17,960
Speaker 1: labor intensive. Um. Yeah, I'm looking at read it. And

1212
01:05:17,960 --> 01:05:20,160
Speaker 1: there was a comment or there was a threat about this.

1213
01:05:20,360 --> 01:05:24,760
Speaker 1: Um we lost it. Shows snow shovels during building snow Ford,

1214
01:05:24,800 --> 01:05:28,600
Speaker 1: so our parents made a shovel snow using pots and pans. Um.

1215
01:05:28,920 --> 01:05:31,600
Speaker 1: Anything we broke we had to fix. I signed the

1216
01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:33,120
Speaker 1: door really hard when I was mad. My mom and

1217
01:05:33,160 --> 01:05:35,880
Speaker 1: grandparents would make me practice closing it nicely. I would

1218
01:05:35,920 --> 01:05:38,160
Speaker 1: have to open and close it gently about fifty times,

1219
01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:39,920
Speaker 1: counting out loud. If I closed too hard, I have

1220
01:05:40,000 --> 01:05:43,400
Speaker 1: to start over. I once misfired a NERF gun in

1221
01:05:43,440 --> 01:05:45,400
Speaker 1: front of my dad and he had me go through

1222
01:05:45,440 --> 01:05:52,680
Speaker 1: a manual on gun safety. Hey Michael, Yeah, Michael, how

1223
01:05:52,760 --> 01:05:57,320
Speaker 1: did your parents punish you? So? When I was young,

1224
01:05:57,800 --> 01:06:00,480
Speaker 1: my grandpa I started the car one I was like

1225
01:06:00,520 --> 01:06:03,160
Speaker 1: maybe five years old, and my grandpa brought me in

1226
01:06:03,160 --> 01:06:05,400
Speaker 1: the house. He put me and then after that I

1227
01:06:05,400 --> 01:06:07,200
Speaker 1: had to kneel down for like a good hour and

1228
01:06:07,240 --> 01:06:11,000
Speaker 1: a half. But the kneel for an hour and a half. Yeah,

1229
01:06:11,120 --> 01:06:16,600
Speaker 1: like the kneel down in the bedroom. You know, have

1230
01:06:16,920 --> 01:06:20,760
Speaker 1: problems right? Oh you know what a nice shirt there

1231
01:06:20,800 --> 01:06:26,280
Speaker 1: you go. I'm telling you there's the explanation I did.

1232
01:06:26,320 --> 01:06:28,800
Speaker 1: Just hear you say though about maybe from redd and

1233
01:06:28,880 --> 01:06:33,560
Speaker 1: somebody having closed the door whatever time. My mom actually

1234
01:06:33,640 --> 01:06:35,160
Speaker 1: used to do that too, Like we would slam the

1235
01:06:35,160 --> 01:06:38,480
Speaker 1: door to close it ten times. Nice. You know what?

1236
01:06:38,800 --> 01:06:41,600
Speaker 1: I know people more than one person who would they

1237
01:06:41,600 --> 01:06:43,480
Speaker 1: would close their door and lock the door when they

1238
01:06:43,520 --> 01:06:45,160
Speaker 1: were in a fight with their parents. And more than

1239
01:06:45,240 --> 01:06:47,200
Speaker 1: one dad came and ripped the door off the hinges.

1240
01:06:47,280 --> 01:06:50,360
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, either either physically ripped it off or or

1241
01:06:50,400 --> 01:06:53,120
Speaker 1: like removed it. Yeah, and there was no door on

1242
01:06:53,200 --> 01:06:55,720
Speaker 1: the on their room. Yeah, thank you, Michael, have a

1243
01:06:55,720 --> 01:06:58,680
Speaker 1: good days. We didn't have locks on the doors. My

1244
01:06:58,680 --> 01:07:00,240
Speaker 1: sister and I did not have locks on our doors.

1245
01:07:00,240 --> 01:07:02,240
Speaker 1: We were not allowed to lock it. We couldn't. That's crazy.

1246
01:07:02,320 --> 01:07:05,480
Speaker 1: My best friend Ashley got caught drinking and her dad

1247
01:07:06,040 --> 01:07:09,440
Speaker 1: poured like a full glass of bourbon and was like, drink.

1248
01:07:09,520 --> 01:07:13,120
Speaker 1: This whole thing didn't feel nice for her. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: can tell you my parents in it earlier age it

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01:07:15,160 --> 01:07:17,160
Speaker 1: was probably appropriate. I mean not like he's a child,

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Speaker 1: but maybe he's a teenager. Would let me drink on

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Speaker 1: vacation and they'd let me take it a little far

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Speaker 1: under their supervision. And the reality is I learned my limit,

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Speaker 1: and when I didn't feel well, they wouldn't get let

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Speaker 1: me off the hook. But you probably had like Dakiri's

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Speaker 1: or something. Oh yeah, it wasn't wild, like trust me,

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Speaker 1: It wasn't out of control. But here's the thing. And

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Speaker 1: people might argue that, well, that's not appropriate or whatever.

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Speaker 1: But then when I went to college, there was no

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Speaker 1: real like need to experiment. I knew my limit and

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Speaker 1: I wasn't really impressed by it or whatever. And when

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Speaker 1: you know, half of people I went to college where

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Speaker 1: were hammered in the hallway and like couldn't go to

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Speaker 1: class and had no idea because they were repressed from

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Speaker 1: everything growing up. Hey, Rachel, Hi, Hi, Rachel, how'd your

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Speaker 1: parents punish you? So? One time it was in junior

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Speaker 1: high and I asked only shrunk all my mom's pants

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Speaker 1: in the dryer, So she took all of my jeans

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Speaker 1: and I had to wear strashy pants and overalls for

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Speaker 1: a month. That's when they were not cool. She took

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Speaker 1: all of your jeans that I'm everywhere I could not

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Speaker 1: find them. Wow, she stole your pants, man, so you

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Speaker 1: had to look. I'm really good at laundry now, I bet,

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Speaker 1: I bet. Thank you, Rachel, have a great day. She

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Speaker 1: doesn't want a dryer, just a washer. Yeah, right there,

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Speaker 1: and with a clothes line. I would get a friend

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Speaker 1: to bring me pants every day to school. I guess. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's good thinking work around there. Alex, Hi, Hi, Hi,

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Speaker 1: Alex had your parents punish you? Well? It wasn't really

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01:08:44,200 --> 01:08:47,679
Speaker 1: my parents. It was my grandmother because she would watch

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01:08:47,800 --> 01:08:50,920
Speaker 1: me and my sister during the summer and stuff like that,

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Speaker 1: and my grandma's old country from Europe, so Paulina probably

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01:08:56,880 --> 01:09:00,240
Speaker 1: knows this. Oh yeah, he would have at a lot

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01:09:00,280 --> 01:09:04,280
Speaker 1: of corner on rice. Or she'd put us in the

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01:09:04,360 --> 01:09:10,400
Speaker 1: closet and tell us the devil was in there, Grandma,

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01:09:10,720 --> 01:09:13,320
Speaker 1: the devil was in there. What she would she say,

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01:09:13,360 --> 01:09:14,920
Speaker 1: what you got to go in there with the devil?

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01:09:16,680 --> 01:09:18,800
Speaker 1: Tell us like he was in there because you were

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01:09:18,840 --> 01:09:21,200
Speaker 1: bad and everything else, and like it's dark in the

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01:09:21,280 --> 01:09:26,639
Speaker 1: closet and everything else in there. Do you have kids? Now?

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01:09:27,760 --> 01:09:31,679
Speaker 1: I do, yes, but I don't say like, it's probably

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01:09:31,680 --> 01:09:35,639
Speaker 1: nothing like that, right, No. No, I even got beat

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01:09:35,680 --> 01:09:38,240
Speaker 1: with like a wooden spoon. Yeah, I'm telling you. It's

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01:09:38,280 --> 01:09:41,200
Speaker 1: my friends whose parents, you know, the first genera a

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01:09:41,240 --> 01:09:46,000
Speaker 1: lot of first generation, regardless of the ethnicity. Uh, the

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01:09:46,000 --> 01:09:48,320
Speaker 1: punishment was way worse than it is, you know, from

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01:09:48,360 --> 01:09:50,920
Speaker 1: my parents. But thank you so much, Alice. Have a

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01:09:50,920 --> 01:09:53,280
Speaker 1: good day. You're welcome. I don't know what that's about.

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01:09:53,320 --> 01:09:56,760
Speaker 1: I guess it's just stylistically different. Hey Jen, Yeah, Jen,

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01:09:56,880 --> 01:09:59,720
Speaker 1: good morning. How are you punished? So my mom, when

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01:09:59,760 --> 01:10:02,519
Speaker 1: I was high school, she would call up my friends

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01:10:02,600 --> 01:10:04,800
Speaker 1: find out where the nearest party was, and then she

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01:10:04,840 --> 01:10:10,160
Speaker 1: would show up. So you could imagine the guys would

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01:10:10,160 --> 01:10:12,640
Speaker 1: be like, Jen, mom's here, and it was, you know,

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01:10:14,439 --> 01:10:16,560
Speaker 1: telling her. What's the lesson? Then, Like the lesson is

1306
01:10:16,600 --> 01:10:18,080
Speaker 1: you just wouldn't go to parties because you didn't want

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01:10:18,120 --> 01:10:20,040
Speaker 1: her to show up. Oh well, the lesson was don't

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01:10:20,120 --> 01:10:22,360
Speaker 1: kiss off your mom because she's gonna show up to

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01:10:22,400 --> 01:10:25,320
Speaker 1: the party and ruin the day. Yeah, yeah, I don't

1310
01:10:25,360 --> 01:10:28,000
Speaker 1: like your mom wanted to go to these parties. She

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01:10:28,120 --> 01:10:35,479
Speaker 1: probably did. Jen's here at our house. I could always remember.

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01:10:35,840 --> 01:10:38,120
Speaker 1: I remember the girls who had hot moms, and it

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01:10:38,200 --> 01:10:40,840
Speaker 1: was you know, yeah, yeah, you know. Stacy's mom played

1314
01:10:40,840 --> 01:10:44,200
Speaker 1: on replay it everywhere. Oh yeah, you know about that.

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01:10:44,320 --> 01:10:46,880
Speaker 1: Yeah she does. Yeah, but she doesn't like it when

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01:10:46,880 --> 01:10:48,639
Speaker 1: I say that, so I don't anymore. Thank you, Jim,

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01:10:48,720 --> 01:10:51,200
Speaker 1: have a good day. Thank you. I think she's an attractive,

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01:10:51,200 --> 01:10:56,680
Speaker 1: intelligent woman. That's what I think. Hello Jordan, Jordan, had

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01:10:56,680 --> 01:10:59,880
Speaker 1: your parents punish you? Oh? This is my mother and

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01:11:00,000 --> 01:11:02,160
Speaker 1: I'm forty and I still think of this in the winter.

1321
01:11:02,280 --> 01:11:05,120
Speaker 1: So obviously it worked. But I was little and I

1322
01:11:05,120 --> 01:11:08,400
Speaker 1: wouldn't wear gloves, and so she took me to the library.

1323
01:11:08,479 --> 01:11:11,760
Speaker 1: And obviously this is pre you know, computer research, but

1324
01:11:11,920 --> 01:11:15,479
Speaker 1: you made me write a research paper with documentation on

1325
01:11:15,640 --> 01:11:21,920
Speaker 1: frost bite. Oh no, it reive bibliography and I had

1326
01:11:21,920 --> 01:11:23,920
Speaker 1: to do that. I had to write a really long

1327
01:11:23,960 --> 01:11:26,080
Speaker 1: paper on the destroite riots because my teacher caught me

1328
01:11:26,120 --> 01:11:29,000
Speaker 1: flicking him off. And every day late it was it

1329
01:11:29,200 --> 01:11:32,960
Speaker 1: like was another page longer up, like a sixteen page paper.

1330
01:11:33,200 --> 01:11:36,639
Speaker 1: Oh my mom was a teacher, so maybe that makes sense.

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01:11:36,760 --> 01:11:39,120
Speaker 1: That makes sense. Thank you, Gretan, have a great day.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for listening. Hey, Nikki, by guys morning, Nicky,

1333
01:11:43,280 --> 01:11:46,360
Speaker 1: good morning. How'd your parents punish you creative ways? So

1334
01:11:46,680 --> 01:11:49,640
Speaker 1: we are Italian, and contrary a popular opinion, it was

1335
01:11:49,680 --> 01:11:52,360
Speaker 1: never anything physical. But I always say that my mom

1336
01:11:52,400 --> 01:11:55,880
Speaker 1: would play mental games. So when I was doing something wrong,

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01:11:56,160 --> 01:11:58,240
Speaker 1: she would say, Nikki, that's it, I'm taking into new

1338
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Speaker 1: Mommy store. And sometime, even at a young age, I

1339
01:12:01,360 --> 01:12:03,680
Speaker 1: knew that whatever was at the new Mommy store was

1340
01:12:03,720 --> 01:12:05,720
Speaker 1: probably going to be worse than whatever I was with

1341
01:12:05,880 --> 01:12:14,080
Speaker 1: now Mommy's store. Yeah it work. I really set me

1342
01:12:14,120 --> 01:12:16,040
Speaker 1: in line, like I don't want a new mom so

1343
01:12:16,120 --> 01:12:18,680
Speaker 1: I'll behave now. I'm like, if they was so good,

1344
01:12:18,720 --> 01:12:20,439
Speaker 1: they wouldn't be at the new Mommy store for me

1345
01:12:20,479 --> 01:12:23,800
Speaker 1: to choose, you know what I mean. If they're still

1346
01:12:23,800 --> 01:12:26,880
Speaker 1: on the shelf, that means, oh my god, is so

1347
01:12:26,920 --> 01:12:29,080
Speaker 1: screwed up. But look at this. You don't forget this stuff. However,

1348
01:12:29,120 --> 01:12:33,200
Speaker 1: many years later you don't forget that. Now do you

1349
01:12:33,200 --> 01:12:35,519
Speaker 1: think it? Did it? Did you behave because of it?

1350
01:12:35,640 --> 01:12:40,280
Speaker 1: Or not? Really? Yes? Because you know what he teachers

1351
01:12:40,320 --> 01:12:42,719
Speaker 1: and this is what I'm not learning. Pretic you're great,

1352
01:12:44,240 --> 01:12:46,760
Speaker 1: say all right, yeah, probably not the worst it could be.

1353
01:12:47,720 --> 01:12:50,840
Speaker 1: Thank you, Nick, you have a good day. Yes, thank

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01:12:50,880 --> 01:12:53,000
Speaker 1: you have a good one. I was scared of my

1355
01:12:53,040 --> 01:12:56,040
Speaker 1: parents growing up. I really didn't defy them. I really

1356
01:12:56,080 --> 01:12:59,360
Speaker 1: I thought they had me convinced it, like, disappointing them

1357
01:12:59,479 --> 01:13:02,120
Speaker 1: was the worst thing that could possibly happen. It was

1358
01:13:02,600 --> 01:13:05,640
Speaker 1: my grandfather's disappointment was the worst thing I could think of,

1359
01:13:06,120 --> 01:13:09,160
Speaker 1: way worse than any thing else. All he had to do,

1360
01:13:09,200 --> 01:13:11,639
Speaker 1: and he didn't do it very often. The guy knew,

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01:13:11,800 --> 01:13:14,280
Speaker 1: you know, he knew how to use that phrase maybe

1362
01:13:14,320 --> 01:13:16,080
Speaker 1: two or three times ever, but when he did it,

1363
01:13:16,120 --> 01:13:19,439
Speaker 1: I was I was crushed. Yeah. I think that's the

1364
01:13:19,520 --> 01:13:21,240
Speaker 1: kind of power you want to have over your children,

1365
01:13:21,320 --> 01:13:25,960
Speaker 1: complete mental control. That's what do you want. Trending stories

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Speaker 1: feel bad for this dude, by the way, ben Joe Brist,

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, what's happening. This lady right here, big cheater

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Speaker 1: allegedly Julianna Zobrist, She's alive. I'm gonna sing it's not

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Speaker 1: good to pad choice choices. I don't understand. You'll explain

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Speaker 1: this now this, and then she did. Then she remained

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Speaker 1: Benny and the Jets because Benz and I was like,

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Speaker 1: oh so. Former Chicago Cup start benz Obris claims it

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Speaker 1: is a strange wife, Julianna's Obrist, who we just heard

1376
01:14:51,120 --> 01:14:53,639
Speaker 1: singing a song she should probably listen to a few times.

1377
01:14:54,120 --> 01:14:58,080
Speaker 1: UM had an affair with their former pastor. In the lawsuit,

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Speaker 1: the former World series MVP claimed that his strange wife

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Speaker 1: Julianna had the affair with the man when he was

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Speaker 1: their pastor of Community Bible Church in Nashville. According to

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Speaker 1: the suit, the pastor served as the couple's pre and

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Speaker 1: post marital counselor, so he was giving them advice on

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Speaker 1: their marriage. He was texting this dude about their marriage

1384
01:15:16,640 --> 01:15:22,360
Speaker 1: while dude was allegedly sleeping with his wife those pastors

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Speaker 1: probably Instagram. Joe Bris filed for legal separation from Julianna

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Speaker 1: in May of twenty nineteen, alleging that she had was

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Speaker 1: guilty of inappropriate marital conduct. I guess he's suing for

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Speaker 1: lost income from what if I read correctly, yesterday, he

1389
01:15:38,720 --> 01:15:42,080
Speaker 1: missed out at eight million bucks because he took time

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Speaker 1: away from the Cubs to deal with this or whatever,

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Speaker 1: and so now he wants he's suing for like six

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Speaker 1: of the eight million bucks on this dude m The

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Speaker 1: dude was also taken a salary from the charity. From

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Speaker 1: their charity, Ben also made donations to the church. All

1395
01:15:55,600 --> 01:15:59,519
Speaker 1: this different stuff it allegedly um there was some cheating

1396
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Speaker 1: going on. Las Vegas Raiders defensive end. Carl Nasid came

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Speaker 1: out yesterday, becoming the first active openly gay NFL player.

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Speaker 1: He posted a video on Instagram saying I just wanted

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Speaker 1: to take a quick moment to say that I'm gay.

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Speaker 1: I've been meaning to do this for a while now,

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Speaker 1: Yeah it's cool. A shocking amount of people won't have

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Speaker 1: to Vegas for our iHeartRadio Music Festival. Now right show

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Speaker 1: live from the Windress Studios in America's Great a City

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Speaker 1: UKSCFM Chicago three five Kiss and I Heart Radio Station Michael,

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Speaker 1: It's the French Show. Everybody, Tuesday, June twenty second, The

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Speaker 1: French Show. So it's nine oh five. Hello Christie, I

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Speaker 1: Kalin Proofy, Hello, Paulina. Hello, owner Boner. Let's see blogs

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Speaker 1: in just a second trip to Vegas for I Heart

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Speaker 1: Radio Music Festival, all expenses paid. That's about five minutes away.

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Speaker 1: The entertainment report after that. What's in there? So movie

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Speaker 1: theaters are back, y'all in a very cool way. I

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Speaker 1: will tell you about the first ever Cinema week and

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Speaker 1: Pride in the Park tickets as well, and fifty bucks

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Speaker 1: to Castaways in about twenty minutes. Yeah, they talk better

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Speaker 1: than they tie. These are the radio blogs on the

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Speaker 1: Frend Show. Veronica on Twitter says that bends over a

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Speaker 1: story reminds me of the marriage counsel or Jessica and

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Speaker 1: married at first Sight that wound up with the guy

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Speaker 1: she was counseling always that the guy that you stop it? No, guys,

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Speaker 1: actually no, I did not. Who's the guy you're talking

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Speaker 1: about on the show, Beard, don't feel stop it? My goodness,

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Speaker 1: the whole guy. Wait and wait, at what point between

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Speaker 1: oh my goodness? What point between the show and Jessica?

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Speaker 1: Were you in the middle. I don't want to talk

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Speaker 1: about this one guy who I dated a little bit

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Speaker 1: from because with her, Now, isn't he Is he married

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Speaker 1: to her? No? He's not married the guy he's with.

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Speaker 1: Are we talking about the same guy from Married A

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Speaker 1: First Sight that I hooked up with is currently not

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Speaker 1: married The only season I ever watched and he was

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Speaker 1: the biggest thing I know is that one of them,

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, maybe this wasn't the guy. I know

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Speaker 1: that one of the guys was with a girl who

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Speaker 1: was not nice to him, like it didn't know, she

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Speaker 1: was not cool to him at all. I don't think

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Speaker 1: this is the same guy, and it was not cool

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Speaker 1: to him at all. And then the whole time that

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Speaker 1: the counselor lady on the show is like calling this

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Speaker 1: lady out for being so terrible and basically talking him

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Speaker 1: out of marrying her, which may have been good advice,

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Speaker 1: but you know, fast forward a couple months after the

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Speaker 1: show wrapped and now they're together. Can you imagine that?

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Speaker 1: Can you imagine if if you're going to do a

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Speaker 1: marriage counselor and the marriage counselor the whole time is like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, like you're terrible, You're terrible, you're bad. No,

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Speaker 1: that's a different guy. Stop showing picks. You're bad, you're awful.

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Speaker 1: You guys should get divorced or whatever. And then you

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Speaker 1: get divorced, and then you know, two months later there together. Dude,

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Speaker 1: I'm serving twenty five to life if that happens, I

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Speaker 1: do not care. I mean, let me die. I mean,

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Speaker 1: ain't right? Can you can you imagine? You know? Oh

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Speaker 1: I hooked up? No, it wasn't the same guy. Audio

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Speaker 1: Journal six fifty and eighth fifty. Christie's doing a blog

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Speaker 1: today to set myself on fire. Dear blow every one,

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Speaker 1: hang onto your hold onto your bangs, everybody on your

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Speaker 1: hats and bangs, and what a friends? Where she goes,

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Speaker 1: here comes soul five nine Glory has nothing to do

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Speaker 1: with five nine guys. I'm not even talking to him anymore.

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Speaker 1: Here is my issue, I might I'm in a group

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Speaker 1: of friends. If three of us, three females that hang

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Speaker 1: out all the time, right, is this your group of friends?

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Speaker 1: It's on that profile, yes, the hinge profile used dating

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Speaker 1: used to be kicked off the dating apps. So anyway,

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Speaker 1: they the two of them, yesterday went to the Cubs

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Speaker 1: game and I never got any text invite, Like, nobody

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Speaker 1: hit me up. No one was like, hey, Christy, do

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Speaker 1: you want to go? And then I just saw them

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Speaker 1: posting on Instagram together. I'm like what's happening? Okay, well,

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Speaker 1: I feel where did they go? With two guys from

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Speaker 1: our volleyball team? So two men and two women went

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Speaker 1: to a Cubs game. We have no idea where the

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Speaker 1: tickets came from. No, I don't know. It's very possible

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Speaker 1: that I'm just saying hypothetically. One of the guys in

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Speaker 1: the volleyball league was like, Hey, my buddy and I

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Speaker 1: are going to the Cubs game because work gave us tickets.

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Speaker 1: I got two more seats, and then they take those two.

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Speaker 1: So there weren't enough tickets for everyone, right, and everyone

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Speaker 1: couldn't sit together because it's that's not like a hey,

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Speaker 1: we're all going to the bar, you know, at five

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Speaker 1: o'clock today for happy hour, and you weren't invited. Where

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Speaker 1: anybody can just walk in and get a table. I mean,

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Speaker 1: this is a a refined number. This is a you know,

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Speaker 1: the word is escaping me. But this is a finite

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Speaker 1: number of resources here which I'm about. I'm assuming there

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Speaker 1: are four tickets, four people are going, five people cannot go.

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Speaker 1: I could have easily bought a ticket to let them,

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Speaker 1: said somewhere else. Yeah, you can't just buy a ticket

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Speaker 1: and sit where up. I don't know sports stuff. Like

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Speaker 1: I even said over the weekend that I wanted to

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Speaker 1: go to a Cubs game soon, Like yeah, I was

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Speaker 1: buying a jersey. I'm sensitive to your feelings because we

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Speaker 1: can't control them always and they're hurt and I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: for that. But do you guys always have to do

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Speaker 1: everything together? Is my question? Well no, but I just

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Speaker 1: would have appreciated the invite, like even if you like

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Speaker 1: but maybe it wasn't for them to invite. Like if

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Speaker 1: somebody calls me and says, hey, Fred, do you want

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Speaker 1: to go to a concert or whatever, and I say, yes,

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Speaker 1: it's their ticket, it's their invite. It's not for me

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Speaker 1: to go. But we got to invite our other buddies too.

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Speaker 1: It's it's not for me to do. It's like I

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Speaker 1: got one ticket, I want you to go. It's up

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Speaker 1: to them, not it's up to you. I seriously doubt

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Speaker 1: the four of them went in on tickets to the

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Speaker 1: Cubs game and didn't include you. I'm just in spiral

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Speaker 1: here because I'm like, wow, I noticed anytime I hang

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Speaker 1: out with one of them, I always text the other like, Hey,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna do this if you want to join like

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Speaker 1: I always extend and invite. Okay, just to be polite. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so let me ask you this. So Christie, so a guy.

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Speaker 1: Let's say that. Let's say that I ask you to

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Speaker 1: go to the Cubs game. I go, let's go to

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Speaker 1: thet I got four tickets to the Cubs game. My

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Speaker 1: buddies going, Pauline's going. Do you want to go to

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Speaker 1: the Cubs game? You would say yes, Pauline is gonna

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Speaker 1: say no, you know whatever, and so well one of

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Speaker 1: your friends then reach out and go, I'm so mad

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Speaker 1: at you that you didn't invite me to the Cubs game. No.

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Speaker 1: But if you said, hey, you and a friend, I

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Speaker 1: would have texted the group chat and said, hey, who

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Speaker 1: wants to join me? But then that means one person's

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Speaker 1: not going because I only offered you one other tickets,

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Speaker 1: or maybe I offered you zero other tickets, which means

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Speaker 1: it's either you're going or no one's going. It's just

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Speaker 1: different what I'm saying. With three, it's very you have

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Speaker 1: to be sensitive to the other person's feeling. It's like

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Speaker 1: the friend is saying there was four tickets available. One

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Speaker 1: of the dudes on the volleyball team had fours that

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Speaker 1: we don't know. I mean, we're as Yeah, and then

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Speaker 1: he had three people to invite, and he invited his

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Speaker 1: buddy and then the two girls, Like, I think you're

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Speaker 1: more upset that you didn't get invited out of the three,

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Speaker 1: and that if you had been there with one of

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Speaker 1: the other girls in the other and you weren't the

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Speaker 1: one that felt quote unquote excluded. We wouldn't be talking

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Speaker 1: about this, no, because anytime any me and one of

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Speaker 1: them get together, I always text the other one and

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Speaker 1: let them know or like, hey, hey, we're doing this,

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Speaker 1: let's meet up after if they could. That's nice, But

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Speaker 1: maybe they don't view it in the same way, Like

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Speaker 1: maybe they didn't realize that it was rude to not

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Speaker 1: do that, Like you know what I mean, I think

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Speaker 1: we all view friendship in a different way. And I

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Speaker 1: know you do it and that's very nice, But maybe

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Speaker 1: they didn't even realize they were doing something wrong. I

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Speaker 1: don't know, I need to make new friends. I think

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Speaker 1: you're gonna dump your friends over It's a really big

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Speaker 1: commitment to say that we all three always have to

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Speaker 1: go everywhere, every single place together. Yeah, that's a that's

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Speaker 1: a lifelong commitment. Of like, we can't do anything without

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Speaker 1: the other two. I understand, the ride only takes two seats.

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Speaker 1: You gotta sit by yourself every time. I fully understand

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Speaker 1: what you guys are saying. I get it. And you're

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Speaker 1: just choosing to be mad. You're choosing to be mad

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Speaker 1: about something that you know logically you shouldn't be mad about. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're playing out a scenario in your head that is

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Speaker 1: not even existent because feelings are hurt. But like you're

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Speaker 1: overthinking sometimes, Yes, you're you're definitely overthinking things because who

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Speaker 1: knows where these tickets came from, who had the power

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Speaker 1: to invite who? And I feel like you're not just

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Speaker 1: being left out. It's just that there wasn't an option,

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. So your feelings can be hurt,

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Speaker 1: but then you got to own the fact that they're

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Speaker 1: not necessarily hurt. Because anyone meant to her communicate that

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Speaker 1: to them. I would say, hey, like, what was the

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Speaker 1: deal with the Cubs game? I was kind of bombed

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Speaker 1: that you guys were there and I wasn't invited, And

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Speaker 1: they could tell you this a situation, you know, it's

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Speaker 1: the psychological babble jabble that I don't agree with is that.

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Speaker 1: I agree that you're allowed to feel any way you

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Speaker 1: want to feel about anything, but that doesn't mean that

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Speaker 1: you get to attach that to me and my behavior.

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Speaker 1: What I'm saying, thinking action is that you know, if

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Speaker 1: she doesn't, she's not friends with them anymore. That's the issue,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But you can have your

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Speaker 1: feelings hurt and work through it on your own. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I can't help the fact that it just made me upset. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's okay. Like then I started thinking, what if they

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Speaker 1: actually don't like me that much? Like what if I

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Speaker 1: would talk to them about I need to find new friends.

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Speaker 1: I overly communicate everything because then there's nothing left on side,

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Speaker 1: and your friends can say, oh my god, no we

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Speaker 1: had this happened or that happened and we're so sorry.

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Speaker 1: You know. Yeah, logically this all makes sense. You're over community.

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Speaker 1: Oh boy, um, let's get away ship to Vegas. I

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Speaker 1: heard radio music festival showailable you're going. That's it done?

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Speaker 1: Olive here Hendrigo one oh three five