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Speaker 1: Poor people can't have kids.

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Speaker 2: So I forced my parents to stop paying for my

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Speaker 2: sister's IVF.

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Speaker 1: Am I the a whole.

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Speaker 2: If you're poor, your penis don't work.

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Speaker 1: I'm male twenty three.

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Speaker 2: My sister is female twenty eight, married to male thirty

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Speaker 2: for six years, six years of marriage time. My sister

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Speaker 2: has been trying for a baby for about three years

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Speaker 2: now without any success. Rough eighteen months ago, eighteen months ago.

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Speaker 2: Eighteen months ago, she and her husband came to my

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Speaker 2: parents and asked if we would finance in IVF treatments,

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Speaker 2: that is, in vitro fertilization to help make debabies. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: some fuck juice, that is the medical term juice.

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Speaker 1: If you want to be a doctor about it? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I want to be a Do you want to be

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Speaker 1: a doctor?

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Speaker 2: Read? My parents have some savings separate from retirement and

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Speaker 2: agreed to pay for it. And I even pitched in

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Speaker 2: a few hundred dollars to show my support, even though

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Speaker 2: I don't have a lot of savings, having just started

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Speaker 2: work after graduation. That's super nice, dude. I mean, he's

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Speaker 2: twenty three years old, like literally, he was already given

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Speaker 2: h cash. Doesn't have a lot of this, No, all right,

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Speaker 2: you know you if you want to make the babies,

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Speaker 2: this is what you need. Just shove it on us,

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Speaker 2: shove it down the rolls.

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Speaker 1: Food.

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Speaker 2: Babies are expensive, yo, exactly, this is what you need.

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Speaker 1: Okay. Unfortunately the IVF failed.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you have to like pay for it each time,

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Speaker 2: so it's like it's pretty expensive. Yesterday, my sister and

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Speaker 2: brother in law came over again for dinner. Afterwards, my

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Speaker 2: sister said she wanted to try another round of IVF

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Speaker 2: and asked my parents if they would pay for it again.

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Speaker 2: I could tell my parents looked hesitant, but they agreed

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Speaker 2: because my sister was crying. Okay, I guess turn on

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Speaker 2: the waterworks and you get free money. There, we got money.

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Speaker 2: Get that money. John, Can you please donate to our

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Speaker 2: patreon to stop John cry?

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Speaker 1: Please the DearS will stop.

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Speaker 2: Forget OnlyFans tears. That's that's our next. Uh.

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Speaker 1: That's literally like the TikTok livestreamers.

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Speaker 2: It's like, like, uh, please give us money, yeah, give

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Speaker 2: us money please. Yeah. It's like it's like that, but

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Speaker 2: it's crying and it's like, uh, I'll I won't. It's

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Speaker 2: like stop crying unless you give me a dollar.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: If you give me a dollar, I'll stop crying for

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Speaker 2: one minute. Yeah, yeah, something like that. At this point,

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Speaker 2: I stood up and said it's not right for her

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Speaker 2: to ask for our parents' money again for something that

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Speaker 2: didn't work before and may not work again. We argued

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Speaker 2: a bit, and I meant that things got heated and

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Speaker 2: we did have a big fight. She yelled at me

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Speaker 2: that it was none of my business, okay, and and

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Speaker 2: I told her if she can't pay for the IVF,

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Speaker 2: then she needs to accept the fact that she cannot

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Speaker 2: afford a kid coming out swinging.

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Speaker 1: It's uh, you know, it's.

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Speaker 2: I mean, but like it really it's between her and

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Speaker 2: the parents of the parents are okay with it, Like yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's a good point. Like does he hmm, interesting, we

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Speaker 2: will opee really need to interfere.

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Speaker 1: That's a good question.

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Speaker 2: She told me to get the earth out, but I refused,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna stand my ground against your baby mania. My

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Speaker 2: parents were trying to calm us down. My mom started

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Speaker 2: telling me that it's not my money, to which I replied,

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Speaker 2: it's basically a gift to one child and not the other,

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Speaker 2: and it was only fair that I'd be given a

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Speaker 2: similar amount of money as she would spend.

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Speaker 1: On my sister. Okay, the phone.

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Speaker 2: Now you're looking like a little bit of a douche.

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Speaker 1: This is not good.

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Speaker 2: I can't tell if he's saying it as like, oh,

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Speaker 2: this is an example, or like like the thought experiment,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Now it seems like it

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Speaker 2: seems like op's like actually serious. My sister started complaining

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Speaker 2: that it's not a gift, it's a treatment for a

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Speaker 2: medical condition, and that if i'd expect payment if she

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Speaker 2: had cancer and my parents pay for chemo, well that's

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Speaker 2: a stretch too, that's I mean, well, it's yeah, it's

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Speaker 2: a it's a different scenario. It's a completely different scenario.

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Speaker 2: But I get, you know, she's illustrating the point. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean it's not quite cancer. It's not no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: it's it's not apples and oranges.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But also like oh, he is like that's kind of braddy,

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Speaker 2: like you you have buddy for your treatment. I want

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Speaker 2: a new land.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 2: I told her not being able to have a kid

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Speaker 2: poses no threat to her life the way cancer does.

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Speaker 2: And it's a completely disingenuous comparison. It isn't the great

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Speaker 2: kind of my dad finally stood up and yelled at

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Speaker 2: us both shut up and sit down. Dad.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Daddy's in the house now.

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Speaker 2: Then he told my sister that they already paid for one,

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Speaker 2: and I had a point that continued to pay for

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Speaker 2: it would be unfair man saying, he said, he's very

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Speaker 2: sorry for what she's going through, but they need to

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Speaker 2: accept things how they are. My sister started crying again,

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Speaker 2: and her husband, who had been quiet looking uncomfortable the

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Speaker 2: whole time, which you know, that's all. It's like, these

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Speaker 2: are your like your in laws. Yeah, I don't know

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Speaker 2: what you say. Yeah, like the family drama. Yeah, the

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Speaker 2: brother in law just ended up taking her and leaving today.

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Speaker 2: And my sister sent me some texts calling me an

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Speaker 2: a hole for sticking my nose in her business and

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Speaker 2: keeping her away from having a baby. I mean it

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Speaker 2: is not quite Ope's business, you know, it is a

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Speaker 2: bit of a stretch for him. Just be like I

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Speaker 2: get him saying like, hey, look, more power to you.

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Speaker 2: But like, at the end of the day, this is

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Speaker 2: your like I shouldn't be responsible for paying for this

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Speaker 2: and then leave it at that, like you.

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Speaker 1: Know, know p.

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Speaker 2: Op yeah, Op, Yeah, I don't think Op needs to

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Speaker 2: pay anything else. But if if the sister is trying

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Speaker 2: to ask something of the parents, I think that's between

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Speaker 2: the parents and the sister. But you know what I

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Speaker 2: I do honestly kind of get like, you know, it's

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Speaker 2: like your parents, and you're like, you don't want to

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Speaker 2: see your parents keep I mean, I don't know if

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Speaker 2: I necessarily agree with him. It depends on their personal situation.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like they're not like loaded, but I kind

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Speaker 2: of understand speaking up and not the way that he

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Speaker 2: did it. Yeah, like give me if you're gonna give

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Speaker 2: your baby to give me a lambo. Yeah, Braddy, dude,