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Speaker 1: Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning show.

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Speaker 2: There's something else. Oh, let me ask you. I'm asking

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Speaker 2: for a friend. Would you care if you dated a

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Speaker 2: guy who had flawless hair It looked real and natural,

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Speaker 2: but it wasn't. Would you be okay with that?

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Speaker 1: In which respect? Like it it could peel off his

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Speaker 1: head by accident.

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Speaker 2: Let's say he never told you you're dating some guy

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Speaker 2: and you don't even think about his hair as not

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Speaker 2: being real because it's so perfect. Would you have an

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Speaker 2: issue with him not telling you absolutely, like out of

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Speaker 2: the shoot. Yeah, like on our first date, I gotta

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Speaker 2: tell you my hair is a piece. This is a

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Speaker 2: squirrel on my head.

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Speaker 1: This is a tough one. I don't know. I think

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Speaker 1: I think it's partially dishonest. However, women self included, use

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Speaker 1: fake hare all the time, so and I don't think

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Speaker 1: that women run around telling me. I mean I do

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Speaker 1: if anyone ever compliments my hair, I'm like, God, that's

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Speaker 1: not real. But I don't know it's a double standard.

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Speaker 3: I think that guys are so sensitive about their hair

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Speaker 3: and it's so important to them, and they get so

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Speaker 3: upset when a lot of them lose it and it's

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Speaker 3: you know, I don't think i'd be mad. I think

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Speaker 3: i'd be like, I'd understand.

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Speaker 2: Well, so if things got hot and heavy, and you.

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Speaker 1: Know, I mean, if things go hot heavy and it

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Speaker 1: came off.

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Speaker 4: In my hand, exactly, I feel weird about it.

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Speaker 5: I take a step back.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, because you're you're grabbing his head and forcing it

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Speaker 6: here and there, thinking of a rat It comes off

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Speaker 6: in your hand.

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Speaker 1: Right, Suddenly there's a raccoon in your paul Like.

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Speaker 2: But you know, if the relationship turned into something, yeah,

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Speaker 2: there would be a disclosure.

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Speaker 4: I would think you were old.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, just asking.

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Speaker 1: As a guy. What do you think as far as

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Speaker 1: the honesty or dishonesty about it?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't know. I'm just I'm just kind of curious.

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Speaker 1: I mean, wait, are you what do you mean asking

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Speaker 1: for a friend whose hair fell off in your head?

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Speaker 2: Don't you love it? We got so crazy pulled his

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Speaker 2: hair right off his head. Here's another one. You're out

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Speaker 2: on a date. Okay, you find doubt that it's a

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Speaker 2: convicted murderer you're sitting across from, but it's now out.

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Speaker 2: At what point should they tell you no? Hold on? Now,

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Speaker 2: let's say I was convicted of murder and I got

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Speaker 2: out of jail. I'm out of prison. I served my time.

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Speaker 1: But you're convicted. So it was a bad murder.

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Speaker 2: Well, any murder, it's probably pretty bad.

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Speaker 5: But it was not a self defense murder.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Okay, okay, okay, let's say it's a

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Speaker 2: self defense. It wouldn't be murder if it's self defense went.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Okay, let's say in self defense, I took a live okay,

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Speaker 2: and I went to prison and served time and I'm

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Speaker 2: out and now I'm out with you on a date. No, no, people, really,

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Speaker 2: So I have to wear that badge. I have to

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Speaker 2: wear that badge at all times. I have to have

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Speaker 2: the the scarlet A is that what it is? On

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Speaker 2: the on the on my yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think people should be given the correct facts about

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Speaker 1: somebody and then allowed to decide for themselves. Is this

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Speaker 1: something I'm into or not. I think that there are

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Speaker 1: so people out there who would happily date a convicted

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Speaker 1: self defense killer or whatever it is that we're talking about,

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Speaker 1: who is in prison. I think there are people who

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Speaker 1: would do that, But I don't think you should hide

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Speaker 1: it from someone and take away their choice.

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Speaker 7: No.

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Speaker 3: I dated someone whose dad was on house arrest with

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Speaker 3: the little bracelet, and I remember it was like.

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Speaker 4: Date one or date two that I asked him.

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Speaker 3: Hey, what's going on, like where are your parents? Like

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Speaker 3: tell me about your parents, And he came right out

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Speaker 3: and they said, well, my dad's up for possibly killing

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Speaker 4: Like it was a whole big thing. Wow, But I

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Speaker 4: still dated him.

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Speaker 6: Beautiful children the same guy.

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Speaker 2: It's yeah, Nate, what okay?

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Speaker 8: I think we've all been out of the dating game

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Speaker 8: for too long, because do you realize what happens when

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Speaker 8: somebody meets somebody else. They do a deep dive on

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Speaker 8: that other person. They they have friends that have background

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Speaker 8: check information, they have logins, They go deep on people

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Speaker 8: before they even sit.

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Speaker 5: Down for drinks.

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Speaker 2: Google Yes, So I sit down on a date with

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Speaker 2: you and I say, Okay, it's nice meeting you, thanks

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Speaker 2: for inviting me out. But I'm gonna say right now,

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Speaker 2: I did some looking. That hair is not real. You

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Speaker 2: wouldn't even go on the day because you're like, he's

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Speaker 2: bull that hair is not real.

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Speaker 1: I have a question that does it bother guys when

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Speaker 1: women have fake hair? Are you guys like, what the hell?

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Speaker 1: Like if it just comes out like independently hanging on

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Speaker 1: a hook or something.

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Speaker 2: Okay, then then case closed. Then uh yeah, we got

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Speaker 2: to run here, scary? What's I just want to say,

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Speaker 2: similarly to people who are not allowed to be around children,

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Speaker 2: then that's why it should be disclosed.

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Speaker 5: Same exact thing.

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, that's that's different.

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Speaker 1: Different, Like you're banned from places.

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Speaker 2: I'm saying these people need to wear that badge.

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Speaker 5: But that's in the same vein as a murderer.

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Speaker 1: No, it's not not. If it's a self defense killer.

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Speaker 2: If you are a pedophile, I don't want you near

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Speaker 2: my kids, right, I'm sorry, maybe I'm a little sensitive

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Speaker 2: about that. I don't say.

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Speaker 3: Hey, I wasn't convicted. It was just manslaughter, Like just

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Speaker 3: so you know, it was defense.

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Speaker 4: Like how are you even bringing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like you accidentally ran someone over with your car, right, Okay,

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Speaker 1: you're probably not going to do that again. But a

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Speaker 1: child molester, I.

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Speaker 6: Love, I can't be with a school. We got to

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Speaker 6: go to a different restaurant, right, yeah, scar going there scary?

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Speaker 2: Okay. I just want to say, if you if you

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Speaker 2: murdered somebody, I need to know about that. I have

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Speaker 2: a right to know about that whether and you do

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Speaker 2: you have a right?

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Speaker 1: I think you would definitely know. But I don't think

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Speaker 1: murderers and pedophiles are necessarily in the same case.

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Speaker 2: And I'm talking first date. I'm not talking like would

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Speaker 2: marry you. I'm saying, on the first date, do you

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Speaker 2: need any murderer right there?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I know if I should pursue this with you,

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Speaker 3: and I should have the option whether or not I can.

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Speaker 4: There are tons of people that would.

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Speaker 2: Date to mon. It's first date. If you stand a question,

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Speaker 2: Hold on a second, it's a first date. If you

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Speaker 2: know that there's a pursuit going on, then I can say, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I gotta let you know.

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Speaker 4: But that's a pretty big thing.

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Speaker 3: It's not a tiny thing like you don't like bacon,

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Speaker 3: Like this is a big thing, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Come on, what's that froggy?

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Speaker 5: Well, when do you think it's appropriate to tell somebody that?

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Speaker 2: I think if if there are feelings, you think this

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Speaker 2: is going to go somewhere, then yeah, absolutely Suppose before

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Speaker 2: we ordered dinner, I'm want to let you know I'm

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Speaker 2: a murderer. So what would you like?

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Speaker 1: Nothing that needs a nice any food allergy?

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Speaker 3: I just think before we even go out on a date.

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Speaker 3: That's something we should discuss. That's a big thing.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: I have friends that do deep dives on people before

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Speaker 1: I do, and I'd be really mad if my friend

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Speaker 1: Ashley found out that my date was a killer before

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Speaker 1: I did. So I think you have to tell people.

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Speaker 2: We're so late, by the way, but we got to

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Speaker 2: take this call. Then we'll get into the phone tap Hello, Alison.

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Speaker 7: Hi, how are you you well?

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Speaker 2: I love that you're wrong with us. I'm gonna go ahead

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Speaker 2: read your text. Alison said, my husband is an ex felon,

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Speaker 2: ex addict and everything, and I haven't gotten more than

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Speaker 2: lunch attention in eighth grade. Not gonna lie. Freakd me

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Speaker 2: out hearing the info in the first date. But there

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Speaker 2: are multiple dates after that, there were and now he's

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Speaker 2: your husband, yes, yes.

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Speaker 7: I mean I didn't know this going into him. I've

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Speaker 7: been talking to him for a while and we went

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Speaker 7: on our first date. He gave me all the info

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Speaker 7: right there. He wanted to say it in person, tell

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Speaker 7: me his whole history. Funny enough, we want to go

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Speaker 7: see The Joker that day and we all know how.

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Speaker 7: So I went home. I was very nervous. He even

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Speaker 7: went in for a first kiss and I even avoided

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Speaker 7: it and gave him a hug because I was so nervous.

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Speaker 2: Well, so was he Was he in for murder?

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Speaker 7: No? No, no, no, nothing like that. It was, uh,

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Speaker 7: you know, like kind of breaking bad situation.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, advocates, Okay, go if you found out on that.

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Speaker 3: Date that he was in for murder, would it have

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Speaker 3: changed your mind?

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Speaker 7: See, you know, possibly, But just the way that we

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Speaker 7: had connected so much, and how how amazing of a

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Speaker 7: person he really is and the person that I got

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Speaker 7: to know. I mean I just fell for him for

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Speaker 7: everything that he was and not everything.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So it didn't bother that he was in a

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Speaker 2: mobile home in the desert, cooking up crack in the kitchen.

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Speaker 7: He's good, I wouldn't say, Okay, is it made him

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Speaker 7: a great person? So I really can't say anything about

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Speaker 7: that exactly.

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Speaker 2: That's my point. It's each situation is different. You can't

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Speaker 2: really bad.

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Speaker 3: I think it depends on what you're in for. To

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Speaker 3: be honest, if you sat there and told me you

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Speaker 3: were a murderer, I think it would be different if then,

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Speaker 3: if you were in for something else.

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Speaker 2: The media scenario. Then here we go. Let's say someone

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Speaker 2: hurts my kid and I turn around and put a

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Speaker 2: bullet to their head. I'm not a murderer. Would you

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Speaker 2: still date me for doing it? It's all they're They're

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Speaker 2: all differ.

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Speaker 7: And people get convicted, collapse of creditors and stuff like that.

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Speaker 7: I mean, it's just one of those situations where you

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Speaker 7: have to look at the whole picture and really see,

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Speaker 7: you know, was it was it malice that they were

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Speaker 7: doing this for or is it a different circumstance.

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Speaker 5: Exactly if you're a vigilante, then that's different.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, people get convicted all the time too. That didn't

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Speaker 1: necessarily do it. We get a lot of jail mail

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Speaker 1: letters here. Not one of them did what they were convicted.

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Speaker 2: That's what they're saying. None. You gotta roll, Allison, Thank

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Speaker 2: you for listening and all the best to you.

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Speaker 7: Okay, thank you, Love you guys, love you more.

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Speaker 2: That's free money. Botah, there you go, just thirty minutes late.

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Speaker 2: But that's okay, Actually scary one for the good point.

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Speaker 2: Do I want to go further in my relationship with you?

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Speaker 2: If I find out that you owe like five hundred

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Speaker 2: thousand dollars and you're in debt. No, no, that's not

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Speaker 2: the big thing. People were doing credit checks, okay,