WEBVTT - Mama’s Gotta Go

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<v Speaker 1>Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya Rap an iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.

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<v Speaker 3>Scrub dub dub.

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<v Speaker 4>Tanya, you are so glam for today's podcast, right.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>I like to do this every once in a while,

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<v Speaker 3>go from.

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<v Speaker 4>Garbage to look like Barbie.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, Barbi, Hey Barby.

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<v Speaker 2>No.

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<v Speaker 3>I did it because I'm going to be hosting the

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<v Speaker 3>iHeartRadio Music Awards Yellow Carpet later on today, so had

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<v Speaker 3>to get it done in between the morning show and

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<v Speaker 3>the podcast.

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<v Speaker 4>She's a busy She's a business woman.

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<v Speaker 3>She's a business gal today, busy gal.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, who are you going to be interviewing at the awards?

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<v Speaker 3>Who will I not be interviewing? That's the question.

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<v Speaker 4>The question is who will you be interviewing?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean whoever we can get, whoever's there? Rilla's on

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<v Speaker 3>my list?

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<v Speaker 2>Wow?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Doci? Who else? TLC Green Day?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh so Beyonce is not in your list?

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<v Speaker 3>Beyonce is not on my list. No, she will be there,

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<v Speaker 3>but I don't think I'll even be breathing the same

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<v Speaker 3>air as her, although I would love it.

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<v Speaker 4>What did I think today was the podcast? I Heart

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<v Speaker 4>Podcast Awards?

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<v Speaker 3>No I heard Radio Music Awards. Oh, the Podcast Awards

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<v Speaker 3>were in Texas, I think a couple of weeks ago. Wow,

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<v Speaker 3>we were not dominated that.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, wow, that's exciting. So Beyonce will be there?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Who else?

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<v Speaker 3>Share? Justin Timberlake. Tate McCrae, Oh my gosh. Yeah, Ludacris

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<v Speaker 3>is hosting it.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you gonna meet Tate McRae. I hope? I mean

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<v Speaker 4>you've met her?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I hope.

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<v Speaker 2>So wow, that's cool. Yeah, stay tuned for the Yellow Carpet.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I will say though. Avri Labine is supposed to

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<v Speaker 3>be there, and I really have met her before.

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<v Speaker 4>But did you meet her or Melissa?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh? Are you into the conspiracy theory?

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<v Speaker 2>I I don't know, but like it's fun to it's

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<v Speaker 2>just fun.

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<v Speaker 4>It's crazy, it's crazy. So which one did you meet?

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<v Speaker 3>Avril?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sure of it because she knew me. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>she knew she remembered me, that's right.

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<v Speaker 4>Who wouldn't remember you? Well, a lot of people really

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<v Speaker 4>like people have introduced themselves up to you multiple times.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I'm like, I just interviewed you last week.

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<v Speaker 4>It's fine, I think.

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<v Speaker 2>I I guess you can't get to a point where

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<v Speaker 2>you just say, oh, yeah, we met like we did

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<v Speaker 2>the interview.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, that's a polite way of saying it, right.

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<v Speaker 3>None take celebrity out of it, just in general, Peep.

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<v Speaker 3>You meet people at the grocery store, the doctor's office.

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<v Speaker 3>You never know we're going to meet someone, so always

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<v Speaker 3>just say nice to see you, nice to see you.

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<v Speaker 3>I do never reach out a hand, just never it

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<v Speaker 3>went and out. Don't throw it out.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, it took one person to say we've met before

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<v Speaker 2>for me to go I'm never saying nice to meet

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<v Speaker 2>you again. I'm only seeing saying it's so great to

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<v Speaker 2>see you.

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<v Speaker 4>How have you been, how are you? What have you

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<v Speaker 4>been up to?

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<v Speaker 2>Just so i'll see reference any anything that clicks yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, yeah. Just take that away from today's podcast. When

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<v Speaker 3>in doubt, don't throw it out.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know what that means, but.

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<v Speaker 3>Like it Ryan, in doubt, don't throw it out, throw

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<v Speaker 3>what out, throw out the it's nice to meet you, Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>When in doubt, don't throw it out.

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan and Sys again on Tanya's case recently, because sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>she'll say something and they'll say what does that mean,

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<v Speaker 1>and she'll just repeat it exactly the same way said

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<v Speaker 1>the first time, which just you just end up going

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<v Speaker 1>in circles. Right, I don't know what that means. Then

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<v Speaker 1>she just repeated it when in doubt, don't throw it

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<v Speaker 1>out right.

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<v Speaker 2>It's her way of she doesn't know what it means,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's her way of gaslighting you into thinking that

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<v Speaker 2>explains what it means, right, maybe to.

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<v Speaker 1>Work it out in her head.

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<v Speaker 4>What it it's her stalling?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, is that what it is?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I have a gas lighter you are. Yeah, that's right.

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<v Speaker 4>It's it's a it's gentle gas lighting.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's not harmful. It's not intentional.

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<v Speaker 4>No, it's not harmful. What did you do over the weekend?

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like you really want to talk about the

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<v Speaker 3>Bachelor finale, so I'm gonna I'm gonna just skip to

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<v Speaker 3>the good part.

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<v Speaker 4>I wasn't I wasn't like racing to talk about it.

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<v Speaker 3>But okay, we can talk about it a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>because I know you have a lot of thoughts. My

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<v Speaker 3>weekend was I think a lot more chill than your weekend.

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<v Speaker 4>My weekend is quite chill. Oh really, just out of

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<v Speaker 4>town to Mechula.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, it's very funny.

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<v Speaker 1>I was.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't remember I was trying to talk business to

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<v Speaker 3>you or something over the weekend, and Robbie goes, can't

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<v Speaker 3>you just call her right now? And I was like, well, no,

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<v Speaker 3>I know she's in Temecula for Haley's birthday, so I

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<v Speaker 3>don't want to bog her down. Is that nice? I

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<v Speaker 3>respect people's boundaries these days, those very these days and

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<v Speaker 3>trying to inspect people's boundaries.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, no, I appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. We went to Temecula for Haley's little birthday get

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<v Speaker 2>away with all her.

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<v Speaker 4>Besties, and it rained the whole weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>We literally got the house that we got because it

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<v Speaker 2>had a pickleball court, it had like sand beach volleyball,

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<v Speaker 2>it had this beautiful pool, outdoor grill, outdoor fire pit.

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<v Speaker 4>It rained the like poured rain.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so I did.

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<v Speaker 2>We did some rigs, some umbrellas together and got in

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<v Speaker 2>the jacuzzi.

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<v Speaker 4>So that was nice. Nice, But it was really fun.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, it really tests the type of people you

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<v Speaker 2>surround yourself with. If you can be indoors and playing

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<v Speaker 2>games and just chilling for a whole weekend, yes.

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<v Speaker 4>And everyone's good with it.

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<v Speaker 3>Nice.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, So it was really fun, very fun, chill, relaxing.

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<v Speaker 2>And Haley's love language is food and games and just

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<v Speaker 2>like hanging out with her friends.

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<v Speaker 4>So she has a couple who are.

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<v Speaker 2>Amazing chefs and they made the most incredible meal.

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<v Speaker 4>It was insane. I was like, wow, this is so cool.

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<v Speaker 3>That just she can whip this stuff and they.

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<v Speaker 4>Just whip it up. They had a whole menu.

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<v Speaker 3>Made it come so like natural to some people. It

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<v Speaker 3>does not come natural to me.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think it's a passion.

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<v Speaker 2>Like people love it and they love trying things and

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<v Speaker 2>tasting them, and it was it was really special.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think she feels loved through my chia pudding

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<v Speaker 3>that I made for her.

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<v Speaker 4>Tanya has made her.

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<v Speaker 3>Award winning what a word? It won Bestchia Pudding and

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<v Speaker 3>by whom West La Robbie.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Robbie Yadegar has made this West l A's best pudding.

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<v Speaker 2>And Haley loves chia pudding and so this they made

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<v Speaker 2>this for Haley's birthday. So this is such a great

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<v Speaker 2>gift because she loves food.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and I think she's I think it's gonna be

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<v Speaker 3>the best Shea pudding she's ever tasted.

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<v Speaker 2>And the reason is because it's homemade almond milk and

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<v Speaker 2>Tany was like, well, you're in trouble if she likes it,

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<v Speaker 2>because then you're gonna have to make it. I was like, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>you're gonna have to make it. No, no, no, no

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<v Speaker 2>one thing about me. I don't make my own milk.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, well think about you is you might have to.

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<v Speaker 4>I did do it during the pandemic a few times,

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<v Speaker 4>so it's really good. Just a lot of work.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a lot of work, but the payoff is worth

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<v Speaker 3>it in my opinion. Yeah, okay, so we I just

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<v Speaker 3>have to tell you, I know I recommended Traders. You

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<v Speaker 3>haven't seen anything until you watch the UK season two

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<v Speaker 3>of Traders.

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<v Speaker 2>Haley is either watching or almost done with season one.

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<v Speaker 3>Season two is absolutely extraordinary. Why extraordinary? Why it is

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<v Speaker 3>so good? And I've come to the conclusion that I

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<v Speaker 3>think I do not like celebrities on Traders anymore. I

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<v Speaker 3>think it's better when it's normis because I think celebrities

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<v Speaker 3>care too much about their image. Okay, Like you know,

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<v Speaker 3>Peter was like, no, I cannot be a Trader faith,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, like people had to have this like nobleness

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<v Speaker 3>to them when they're like a public figure, whereas I

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<v Speaker 3>think just these normal people are so cutthroat and ruthless.

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<v Speaker 3>It is fantastic television.

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<v Speaker 4>But there was one person who got recruited on season

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<v Speaker 4>one of UK and she didn't take it either.

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<v Speaker 3>Who was it?

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<v Speaker 4>Alex?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh right, right, right, That's what I'm saying. Season two,

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<v Speaker 3>Season two, it's just like a free for all.

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<v Speaker 2>It has made me question myself and just like who

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<v Speaker 2>I am as a person because I don't think I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe it'd be different if I was in it, but

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<v Speaker 2>my brain is like, if I got recruited, I'd be like,

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<v Speaker 2>let's go love it.

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<v Speaker 3>You're gonna like season two of the UK version.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow.

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<v Speaker 3>So that was like really a huge highlight of the weekend, honestly,

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<v Speaker 3>because we spent the rest of the weekend just like

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<v Speaker 3>rehabilitating our dog and food prepping. We're kind of in

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<v Speaker 3>our homestead era, you're nesting, Yeah, like making our food,

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<v Speaker 3>prepping our food for the week.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I felt like it took me a few days to

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<v Speaker 2>like a genuine few days to recover from the bachelorette party.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it took me a full week.

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<v Speaker 2>I still am not one hundred percent sure I've recovered, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>because it just felt like I was trying to get ready. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I get home last week after the podcast and Haley's

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<v Speaker 2>at home. She was doing meetings and Phoebe comes running

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<v Speaker 2>at me and she's she's lifting her her back like

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<v Speaker 2>she like won't put it down, and I'm like, oh no,

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes here, sometimes her knee pops out, so I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I need to pop her knee back in.

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<v Speaker 3>So sad.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but it didn't pop back in, and so she

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<v Speaker 2>wouldn't put it down, and I was at multiple vet

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<v Speaker 2>visits and ended up she tore her little dog version

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<v Speaker 2>of her ACL, which is a CCL. So I took

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<v Speaker 2>her to this place to see if we can rehabit

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<v Speaker 2>before going to surge, and I told Donnya about it

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<v Speaker 2>because they did like acupuncture. It was a very thorough consultation,

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<v Speaker 2>which I really appreciated because she really took the time

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<v Speaker 2>to learn about Phoebe and me. And I told Donia

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<v Speaker 2>about it because Sonny's had all her back issues and

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<v Speaker 2>she was like, I made an appointment for Saturday.

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<v Speaker 3>Times Saturday morning. But the best part was is like

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<v Speaker 3>I felt like they were analyzing us as the owners.

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<v Speaker 3>So she was going into like Chinese medicine and she

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<v Speaker 3>was trying to decipher it like if Sonny Sonny was fire,

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<v Speaker 3>and so she was like, are one of you would

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<v Speaker 3>are one of your You're more water and I'm like

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<v Speaker 3>reading the traits of water and it's all like like

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<v Speaker 3>lazy and like sit sits back and I'm like, excuse me.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh she said you were water? Yeah, lazy because.

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<v Speaker 3>Robbie's like the wood who's like the assertive one. And

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, oh yeah. It was very very funny.

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<v Speaker 4>She didn't do that with me, She definitely did it

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<v Speaker 4>with us, but she was definitely studying me.

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<v Speaker 2>And she'd be like we had to walk out of

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<v Speaker 2>the room while Phoebe is getting acupuncture, because Phoebe was

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<v Speaker 2>really anxious seeing me. She wanted me to be holding her,

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<v Speaker 2>and she's like, do you feel okay leaving her? And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like yeah, I think I think she'll relax more.

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<v Speaker 2>So we walk out.

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<v Speaker 4>She's like are you okay? And I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm good, she's fine, She's okay, just checking.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So she was definitely taking me in.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. We felt very psychoanalyzed in that appointment like never before.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I was like whoa.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Something else that happened over the weekend is Beyonce released

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<v Speaker 2>her album Cowboy Carter.

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<v Speaker 4>Twenty seven tracks.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but I feel like it's not twenty seven actual

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<v Speaker 3>tracks because there's like the intros and stuff in between

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<v Speaker 3>some of the songs. But let me tell you, this

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<v Speaker 3>might be my second favorite Beyonce album of all time.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, what's your first one?

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<v Speaker 3>Lemonade?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, Lemonade. It's so good.

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<v Speaker 3>Upon first listen, you didn't love it.

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<v Speaker 2>I was a little underwhelmed because I wou'd say, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not gonna like label myself as the biggest Beyonce fan,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'm I was curious to know what, like legit,

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<v Speaker 2>real Beyonce fans that like deep dive into the albums

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<v Speaker 2>and everything, what they thought of it. And apparently everyone

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<v Speaker 2>loves it. So I listened to it and I felt

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<v Speaker 2>like it was a little There were a lot more ballads,

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<v Speaker 2>and it was a little slower than I thought it

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<v Speaker 2>was gonna be. With the start, I thought it was

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be a lot more Texas hold them vibes like not.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't really think it was gonna be country. I

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<v Speaker 2>just thought it was gonna have that catchy beat sweat

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<v Speaker 2>he thought twy swing and my standouts were Levi's Jeans.

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<v Speaker 4>Yah Yah, Tyrant.

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<v Speaker 2>And Texas hold Him and I Love, I Love Joelene

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<v Speaker 2>and I Love Blackbirds.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't even get me started up. We had a beck

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<v Speaker 3>and I had a little tex exchange over the album,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's just so you can hear my you can

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<v Speaker 3>hear my passion through the dms. We were underwhelmed. What

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<v Speaker 3>made you love it?

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<v Speaker 2>What?

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<v Speaker 3>First off, the entire thing being a radio broadcast is iconic.

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<v Speaker 3>The Blackbird reimagined has me fully living the Miley posty

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<v Speaker 3>yah yah. And then you never responded.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I didn't read that you're reading it. I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>this is the first ever.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, that's the person I'm hearing the response.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm glad I got to hear it through your voice. Wow,

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<v Speaker 2>now I can really appreciate it. Yeah, but yeah, it

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<v Speaker 2>sounds like your favorites were the ones that I liked too.

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<v Speaker 3>I really loved too most wanted. I feel like it's

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<v Speaker 3>kind of like a Bonnie and Clyde, but for best friends.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think it's just super super cute. And I

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<v Speaker 3>am obsessed with the Blackbird remix. I don't even know

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<v Speaker 3>what it's called a remix. Reimagined, it is so good

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<v Speaker 3>and yeah, yeah is my favorite. I think, yeah, do.

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<v Speaker 2>You think she do you think artists know which song

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<v Speaker 2>is going to be the I feel like I'm hearing

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of people say Yaya. Do you think she

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<v Speaker 2>knew Yagya was going to be the one that people

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<v Speaker 2>talked about a lot?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I do, Yeah, Yeah, you do, I do, Yeah, yeah

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<v Speaker 3>I do. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I just always wonder, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, as Tony you mentioned earlier, I do want to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about the Bachelor, and.

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<v Speaker 4>We should do that.

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<v Speaker 3>You want to do it after this break?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, let's do that. All right, we're back.

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<v Speaker 2>Before we get into Bachelor, Danya just goes, I think

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<v Speaker 2>my breath might seem really bad. I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>like it doesn't matter because I'm not, you know, her

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<v Speaker 2>far apart, and then I just she does, sorry Liz

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<v Speaker 2>who just did her make up.

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<v Speaker 4>For how long? Like an hour and a half?

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<v Speaker 3>Like an hour? Yeah, I'm sorry, text her, just text

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<v Speaker 3>her sorry. I think my breath smelted.

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<v Speaker 2>So I can't believe, like, if I know someone's gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be my face, I am So.

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<v Speaker 3>The problem is I was eating eating my breakfast. I

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<v Speaker 3>was eating my breakfast while she was doing my makeup,

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<v Speaker 3>so you know, I was eating something. I didn't have

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<v Speaker 3>anything with me.

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<v Speaker 4>You gotta keep things on the hand.

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<v Speaker 3>It was quick. I got gotta go.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what the Bachelor always has, listing strips, ready to go.

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<v Speaker 2>You're going to talk to him, producer hand give.

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<v Speaker 3>Me a Bachelor producer of twenty four to seven. That's

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<v Speaker 3>what I need in my life.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, you do.

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<v Speaker 2>So the Bachelorette finale happened last week, and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry the Bachelor finale happened last week.

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<v Speaker 3>Boiler alert.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, if you haven't watched it, Like, I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>how to help you at this point. So this is

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<v Speaker 2>what's interesting to me. We're trying to get Daisy on

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<v Speaker 2>the podcast, but they're they're really tight now with what

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<v Speaker 2>they allow the like ABC. I guess in their contract

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<v Speaker 2>they have to get permission to do like anything promotional

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<v Speaker 2>because when I was on it, we didn't have podcasts,

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<v Speaker 2>we didn't have the social media thing was new, so

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<v Speaker 2>they didn't really know how to nap.

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<v Speaker 3>Again, we're a rogue.

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<v Speaker 4>We're a rogue.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyways, we're trying to get Daisy, but I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>if you know this, but at the beginning of this season,

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<v Speaker 2>Reality Steve posted that Daisy won, so everyone was anyone

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<v Speaker 2>who saw spoilers was watching through the lens of Daisy

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<v Speaker 2>the one. So it was and it felt very obvious.

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<v Speaker 2>And then a lot of people were kind of like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, I'm not seeing it.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, it's kind of controversial.

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<v Speaker 2>Well then reality Steve came out and said that he

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<v Speaker 2>was wrong and he had prove like he knew what

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<v Speaker 2>could confirm it was Kelsey who won. So all of

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<v Speaker 2>a sudden, you're like view switches of how you're watching

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<v Speaker 2>the show, which was very interesting.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm surprised you listen to those spoilers.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I just I scrolled TikTok and the comments and they'll

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<v Speaker 2>be like in there and I don't care enough to

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<v Speaker 2>try and avoid them. But it would have been really

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<v Speaker 2>fun if I thought Daisy one the whole time and

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<v Speaker 2>then I never saw the second spoiler, which enough like

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<v Speaker 2>spoiled like Kelsey one, right, because that would have been

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<v Speaker 2>crazy because it ended with such I feel like you

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<v Speaker 2>would have really appreciated and it was such.

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<v Speaker 4>Women's power empowerment.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the writing together.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, part of me was like, did that didn't. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know if they wanted.

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<v Speaker 3>To do that or if they were forced to do it.

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<v Speaker 4>Well yeah, I mean, I'm sure they were fine with it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I imagine if if I was writing potentially either to

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<v Speaker 2>go break up with someone or get engaged with someone,

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<v Speaker 2>I'd need to be alone in my thought.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>True, But it was.

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<v Speaker 3>Really cute, right, like if the producers were like, this

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<v Speaker 3>has never happened before, let's get them together in a

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<v Speaker 3>car exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>So Daisy goes to and man, the editors are so good.

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<v Speaker 2>They made it look like Daisy was knocking on Joey's door,

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<v Speaker 2>and and then it was actually Kelsey's room, and Kelsey

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<v Speaker 2>moves this it really fast, like you see this letter

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<v Speaker 2>on the table, and she moves it really fast. And

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<v Speaker 2>I was kind of curious, like, oh, I wonder what

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<v Speaker 2>that was if maybe it was a letter she had

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<v Speaker 2>written to him, But I just saw on a podcast

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<v Speaker 2>they did, I think with Chicks in the Office, where

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<v Speaker 2>he had written her a letter on one of their

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<v Speaker 2>earlier dates or written in his journal, like his only

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<v Speaker 2>journal entry was this like letter about how much he

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<v Speaker 2>liked Kelsey, and so he gave that to her just

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<v Speaker 2>to have, like some reassurance before going into the last night.

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<v Speaker 2>But it was the first time we watched a bachelor

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<v Speaker 2>basically tell one of the last final girls like I

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<v Speaker 2>can't say it's not you, but try to read between

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<v Speaker 2>the lines.

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<v Speaker 4>Like that's what he did with Daisy.

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<v Speaker 2>It was kind of like, no matter what happens, I

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<v Speaker 2>hope we both end up happy.

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<v Speaker 4>Like there was never any moment where.

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<v Speaker 2>She could have felt confident, right, and so I appreciated

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<v Speaker 2>that because every other bachelor has been like I love you,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm in love with you to the final two women, right,

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<v Speaker 2>and it feels so sad, so sad, like Jojo, remember

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<v Speaker 2>when Ben was like told Jojo, you're my best friend.

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<v Speaker 4>Dark, so dark.

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<v Speaker 2>I think Ben was actually the first person to say

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<v Speaker 2>I love you to the final two to both.

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<v Speaker 3>He's like, yeah, now that, like I feel bad, Like

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<v Speaker 3>because you're right, the producers are probably egging them on,

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<v Speaker 3>like tell her how you feel. Just tell both of

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<v Speaker 3>them how you feel.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, it's like, oh, if you feel like you

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<v Speaker 2>should say it right, you know, follow your heart right.

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<v Speaker 3>And Ben's just like this little puppy dog and he's

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<v Speaker 3>like okay.

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<v Speaker 4>He's like I do like both of them wonderful girls.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but so yeah, Daisy goes, and then she basically

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<v Speaker 2>tells Kelsey, I don't think it's me. I think it's you.

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<v Speaker 2>They ride together. Uh, Daisy gets out and she goes

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<v Speaker 2>and she basically says I know it's not me to him,

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<v Speaker 2>like doesn't really give him a chance to break up

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<v Speaker 2>with her.

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<v Speaker 4>She like takes control and then he's like, can I

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<v Speaker 4>walk you out?

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<v Speaker 2>Which is what every bachelor has ever done, and you

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<v Speaker 2>know the girls. I was like, yeah, sure, I got

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<v Speaker 2>walked out of a barn and I said no.

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<v Speaker 4>She goes, I think I need to do this on

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<v Speaker 4>my own. She walked back.

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<v Speaker 2>She hugs Kelsey, and Kelsey's mom passed away a few

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<v Speaker 2>years ago from cancer, and she goes, your mom is

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<v Speaker 2>your mom is so proud of you watching you right

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<v Speaker 2>now or something like really sweet like that, and hugs her.

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<v Speaker 4>And as she was walking away from Joey, she was like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm pulling. I'm rooting for you. I'm pulling for you

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<v Speaker 4>or something.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, who else is it going to be? No?

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<v Speaker 4>No, she told Joey that.

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<v Speaker 2>Daisy told Joey like, I'm pulled, Like, even though I'm

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<v Speaker 2>walk away.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm for you and Kelsey.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, wow, it was crazy chills chills on my

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<v Speaker 2>body right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Then here's my question. I heard and I read this summer,

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<v Speaker 3>so I could be wrong that Good Morning America published

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<v Speaker 3>like a story saying that Daisy was going to be

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<v Speaker 3>the next bachelor. Wait, who did Good Morning America? Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I think I heard on Dumois. I think Dumois was

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<v Speaker 3>talking about it on their podcast where basically like Good

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<v Speaker 3>Morning America had up and like, you know, no, maybe

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<v Speaker 3>it's US Weekly, I think I saw. But you know

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<v Speaker 3>how a lot of sites has stuff like pre written

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<v Speaker 3>so that the minute it goes live on the air,

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<v Speaker 3>they just like publish it, right, so it's like pre written.

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<v Speaker 3>So like people were saying that like for some reason

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<v Speaker 3>Daisy was the bachelorette at some point and it never

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<v Speaker 3>got switched before whoever published the story.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, because they announced Jen and everyone was really surprised

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<v Speaker 2>because I think people really liked Jen. But I it

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<v Speaker 2>was the amount of people who were obsessed with Maria

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<v Speaker 2>and Daisy. It felt like it had to be one

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<v Speaker 2>of them because people were just obsessed with them on

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<v Speaker 2>social media and tick.

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<v Speaker 3>That I also read in these the same article that

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<v Speaker 3>Maria and Daisy turned it down.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sure they did.

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<v Speaker 3>Why would you turn it down?

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<v Speaker 4>Because I think there's more opportunity.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I think there's more opportunity maybe to go

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<v Speaker 4>and like.

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<v Speaker 2>Create your own My thing is, if they're under contract

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<v Speaker 2>and they can't do like podcasts and social media stuff

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<v Speaker 2>without permission, do they have the do they really have

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<v Speaker 2>the freedom to go out and create business?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Right, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>And like, how long does that contract last?

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's two years. I don't know, though I

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<v Speaker 4>could be wrong. I could that.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have proof of that, but I want to

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<v Speaker 2>say it's around two years.

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<v Speaker 4>But yeah, that's I know.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, I just don't understand the mindset of

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<v Speaker 3>turning it down. If like, you're getting all these amazing

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<v Speaker 3>opportunities from being on the Bachelor, you would think, Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>if I'm the Bacherette, I'll get those same opportunities and

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<v Speaker 3>then I'll find out of these twenty five men, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>going to find my husband.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe they I mean, maybe they were both like after

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<v Speaker 2>you know, it was weird because after Ben's season, I

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<v Speaker 2>specifically remember being like that was when I first started thinking,

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<v Speaker 2>am I ready to get married because I felt like

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<v Speaker 2>my whole life it was like I need to be

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<v Speaker 2>married by twenty five and have two kids, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I think I took a step back after

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<v Speaker 2>getting dumped on TV at second time, and I go,

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<v Speaker 2>do I even really.

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<v Speaker 4>Want to be married right now? Like is that what

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<v Speaker 4>I'm trying to do?

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<v Speaker 2>Or am I doing something that's And maybe they had

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<v Speaker 2>a real realization of I just want to have fun

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm not trying to get married or like engaged

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<v Speaker 2>at the end of this interesting point, which props if

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<v Speaker 2>they did that, because they could have just taken the

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<v Speaker 2>opportunity and been like, I'll take it right right, I'll

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<v Speaker 2>use this to my advantage. Wow, I don't know, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it was. It was a really it was a great season.

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<v Speaker 2>Gotta say congrats to everybody involved.

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<v Speaker 3>So dare listening, We would love to have you.

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<v Speaker 4>Messager, she's down, she's gotta ask ABC.

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<v Speaker 3>So ABC, come on, come on, let us let us talk.

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<v Speaker 4>Let the girls talk.

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<v Speaker 2>The girls, just have some girl child, have some girl

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<v Speaker 2>hit chat, girl chit chat.

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<v Speaker 3>You know who won't be coming on our podcast? Who

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<v Speaker 3>Harry Shum Junior.

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<v Speaker 4>He will not, he will not. He passed he passed.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we're we don't know if it was the team

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<v Speaker 3>or public publicity team of who.

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<v Speaker 4>We don't know who passed, but we do know.

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<v Speaker 3>That we are beyond the passing. We are past the passing.

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<v Speaker 1>That's unfortunate. I am caught up on Gray's Anatomy, or

0:24:27.080 --> 0:24:28.640
<v Speaker 1>either of you caught up on Gray's Anatomy.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, but are you liking it?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Actually, yeah, at one to ten, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I just enjoy watching Gray's Anatomy. When I

0:24:37.840 --> 0:24:40.640
<v Speaker 1>watch Gray's Anatomy, I am in my happy place. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>with people that I love and trust.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't believe you, I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I enjoy this show.

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<v Speaker 2>I have.

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<v Speaker 1>This show has been part of my life for a

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<v Speaker 1>very very long time. So yeah, I'm enjoying it.

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<v Speaker 2>I get that it's been a part of my life

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<v Speaker 2>as well for the same amount of time. Yeah, but

0:24:58.840 --> 0:25:02.439
<v Speaker 2>I don't all the warm fuzzies that I once felt.

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<v Speaker 3>Correct.

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<v Speaker 1>You know this isn't going to help get the Harry

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<v Speaker 1>Sham juniors up.

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<v Speaker 4>The world set. We're upset.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, let us be upset.

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<v Speaker 4>No, here's my thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I watched the I know it was a joke that

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<v Speaker 2>I fell asleep during it. I didn't fall asleep because

0:25:18.800 --> 0:25:21.159
<v Speaker 2>I wasn't enjoying it. I just fell because I was exhausted.

0:25:21.400 --> 0:25:23.800
<v Speaker 2>But I'm not a post I liked that Bailey is

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<v Speaker 2>back when she walked in and she said I have

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<v Speaker 2>five rules and that's how it ended.

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<v Speaker 3>Hm.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, Okay, I do like this little flashback,

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<v Speaker 2>you know. I like that Meredith is still wanted even

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<v Speaker 2>though wrote our goodbye letter and everything.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not writing it off. I'm just like, so, I

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<v Speaker 3>like to binge if I get one episode of something

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<v Speaker 3>it drives men, letting it build up a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>How many are you gonna get? Because we got three

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<v Speaker 1>right now?

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<v Speaker 3>I do three?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay? Great?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yah, yeah, I'll kick back with a little great good.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'd like that. I'd like to be able to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to about to you about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no problem.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, back with the ice water and Almonds family.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I really want Meredith to solve Alzheimer's. I'm really hoping.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that'd be a good one.

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<v Speaker 1>It'd be great.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, gosh, I would love it.

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<v Speaker 4>Can she do that on the show if they haven't

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<v Speaker 4>done it in real life?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he knows, because I feel like they really followed

0:26:15.560 --> 0:26:19.000
<v Speaker 2>the trajectory of real medical I wonder how.

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<v Speaker 1>They're doing that. I wonder if they're like tracking the

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<v Speaker 1>actual developments and Alzheimer's and kind of having her research

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<v Speaker 1>mirror it, because that would be neat.

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<v Speaker 4>What if that's why they just keep the show going.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe that would be so epic.

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<v Speaker 3>That's not like art art imitating life.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, yeah, it is right right?

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<v Speaker 3>What is the life?

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<v Speaker 2>It's yeah, you had it the first time. Ye damn,

0:26:44.119 --> 0:26:50.360
<v Speaker 2>you almost just nail that. It's okay, okay, so we'll

0:26:50.359 --> 0:26:53.920
<v Speaker 2>get caught up on grays. We're just you know, what

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<v Speaker 2>you have to do is you have to put the

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<v Speaker 2>feelers out there of who wants to come on the show.

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<v Speaker 2>And if they say no, you say, you're gonna miss

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<v Speaker 2>me when I'm gone.

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<v Speaker 3>You're when I'm going when I'm gone.

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<v Speaker 4>You're gonna miss me when I'm gone. You're gonna miss

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<v Speaker 4>me by by hair, You're gonna miss me everywhere. You're

0:27:12.760 --> 0:27:16.959
<v Speaker 4>gonna miss me when I'm gone. Nice. Oh, what's your

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<v Speaker 4>pick for Song of the Year tonight? Do you want

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<v Speaker 4>me to read the nominees?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Calm down? Is it rima or rama?

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<v Speaker 1>You want to sing a little bit of each one

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<v Speaker 1>or something that people can show.

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<v Speaker 3>Me how you calm down, calm down, dance with me

0:27:31.880 --> 0:27:37.560
<v Speaker 3>and take the Lena. That's that one creeping I thought

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<v Speaker 3>I saw you hung the.

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<v Speaker 4>Cruel Summer and you.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a crul soum.

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<v Speaker 4>The thing with this is weird.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think we could get in trouble for this

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<v Speaker 2>because it doesn't sound like it.

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<v Speaker 3>You take that night, doesn't run, watch me dance the

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<v Speaker 3>night away, best card. You got a fast come, I

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<v Speaker 3>got a ticket to anywhere. And we're gonna have the

0:28:13.680 --> 0:28:18.920
<v Speaker 3>convenience store flowers. I can buy mysel flowers.

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<v Speaker 4>Kill Bill, I just killed my es.

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<v Speaker 3>I still love him though. Last night, Man, last night

0:28:30.480 --> 0:28:35.320
<v Speaker 3>we let the winder talk. I can't remember everything said.

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<v Speaker 4>Paint the town red, Oh, paint the town red.

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<v Speaker 3>We had de.

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<v Speaker 4>She Rebel.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, Vampire.

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<v Speaker 2>You made some real big mistakes, but I made.

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<v Speaker 3>The most looks.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so what your vote?

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<v Speaker 3>There's a lot of them.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I'm gonna have to have it to Cral Summer

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<v Speaker 3>by Taylor Swift.

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<v Speaker 1>No no, no, no.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I take it back.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna go do Alipa dance to night.

0:29:06.200 --> 0:29:11.280
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna go Flowers, Maya Cyrus. Wow, what about artists

0:29:11.320 --> 0:29:14.000
<v Speaker 2>of the Year. We have Drake, Jelly Roll, Luke Holmb's,

0:29:14.080 --> 0:29:18.640
<v Speaker 2>Miley Cyrus, Morgan Wall and Olivia Rodrigo, Shakira, Sizza, Taylor

0:29:18.680 --> 0:29:19.600
<v Speaker 2>Swift and not sure.

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<v Speaker 4>Has to go to Taylor Swift obviously is she gonna

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<v Speaker 4>be there?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. Oh, she's not like reported to be there.

0:29:28.040 --> 0:29:30.840
<v Speaker 1>Correct, we have not been publicizing her attendance.

0:29:30.920 --> 0:29:33.280
<v Speaker 3>Correct, But I can either confirm nor deny.

0:29:33.520 --> 0:29:39.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to say, Sizza, that's actually a good pick.

0:29:40.080 --> 0:29:41.480
<v Speaker 3>I do think she's going to be there.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you? Yeah, Okay, I wanted to. We're going to

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<v Speaker 4>talk about birth order, dating theory and human design, but

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<v Speaker 4>first we're going to take a break. All right, we

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<v Speaker 4>are back.

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<v Speaker 2>So TikTok has recently popular popularized the birth order of

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<v Speaker 2>dating theory.

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<v Speaker 4>So that means whatever order you and.

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<v Speaker 2>Your siblings are born, or you have lack of siblings altogether,

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<v Speaker 2>it might affect who you're drawn to to date, correct,

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<v Speaker 2>which is interesting, very interesting. So the Tony tone is

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<v Speaker 2>an author, and she said, he said, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't know if it's a guy or girl. Tony is really.

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<v Speaker 4>Tony to.

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<v Speaker 3>Give it to ton.

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<v Speaker 1>Mark I'm working on it. Tony Tone is an ASAP

0:30:48.920 --> 0:30:50.600
<v Speaker 1>rocky song. Someone have to go deeper than that, because

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that's what we're looking for.

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<v Speaker 4>T O and I.

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<v Speaker 3>By the way, Liz said that my breath did not smell.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh that's so nice, thank you. She's very polite.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a woman is a female. That is confirmed.

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<v Speaker 4>Great, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So she says that unions of individuals with different birth

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<v Speaker 2>orders are actually generally more successful than unions of individuals

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<v Speaker 2>with the same birth order, citing an article she read

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<v Speaker 2>of called how birth order affects marriage. So firstborn's rule,

0:31:19.240 --> 0:31:21.960
<v Speaker 2>middleborn's mediate, and last born's charm.

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<v Speaker 3>So what's very funny is because I like look at

0:31:24.680 --> 0:31:29.360
<v Speaker 3>this stuff and I like panic, and I'm like, so

0:31:30.560 --> 0:31:33.240
<v Speaker 3>doctor who believed all these people? But anyway, she slays

0:31:33.280 --> 0:31:37.960
<v Speaker 3>doctor Lemon. Lemon Lemon believes that the highest divorce rate

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<v Speaker 3>is actually an only child with another only child.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's wait because it might make cause both to

0:31:45.000 --> 0:31:46.280
<v Speaker 4>fight for attention.

0:31:46.040 --> 0:31:49.600
<v Speaker 3>Which I believe. But then Tony Tone says this, the

0:31:49.640 --> 0:31:53.280
<v Speaker 3>most successful marriage is is when a firstborn marries a

0:31:53.400 --> 0:31:57.400
<v Speaker 3>last born, and that's the situation. Rhyme. Yeah, wow, Robby's

0:31:57.440 --> 0:31:59.320
<v Speaker 3>the firstborn and I'm the last born.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's like an opposite attract thing going on. That's why.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and the firstborn is usually like very type A,

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<v Speaker 3>but I'm the last.

0:32:09.200 --> 0:32:09.400
<v Speaker 1>I know.

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<v Speaker 3>The last born keeps it like light and stuff. And

0:32:12.080 --> 0:32:14.320
<v Speaker 3>it's very funny because rob and I are actually the opposite.

0:32:14.320 --> 0:32:16.400
<v Speaker 3>I'm more type A and he's kind of easy breezy.

0:32:16.480 --> 0:32:17.320
<v Speaker 4>But y'all are opposite.

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<v Speaker 2>But really it could have nothing to do with your

0:32:19.720 --> 0:32:21.800
<v Speaker 2>birth order. We're about just being opposite.

0:32:21.840 --> 0:32:23.560
<v Speaker 3>But I love it when something tells me our mayriorg

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<v Speaker 3>just gonna be successful.

0:32:24.480 --> 0:32:25.000
<v Speaker 4>I love that too.

0:32:25.000 --> 0:32:25.200
<v Speaker 1>Well.

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<v Speaker 2>Haley and I are both second born. I guess technically middle.

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<v Speaker 2>She's a true middle because she has she's one of three.

0:32:31.360 --> 0:32:33.320
<v Speaker 2>I'm one of five, so I'm the second oldest of

0:32:33.360 --> 0:32:37.240
<v Speaker 2>five kids. It says if you are a middle child,

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<v Speaker 2>the best match is the last born and the worst

0:32:39.640 --> 0:32:44.680
<v Speaker 2>match is another middle child. But I'm gonna tell Becca this,

0:32:44.800 --> 0:32:50.520
<v Speaker 2>oh tony to It says middle children do not communicate well,

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<v Speaker 2>which actually I don't communicate well.

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<v Speaker 4>I've had to really work on that.

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<v Speaker 2>But Haley is like an expert communicator, so maybe that's

0:32:57.440 --> 0:32:59.760
<v Speaker 2>where she defies the odds.

0:33:00.320 --> 0:33:01.680
<v Speaker 4>That's where we defy the odds.

0:33:03.360 --> 0:33:05.600
<v Speaker 2>They don't tend to confront each other about things because

0:33:05.640 --> 0:33:06.800
<v Speaker 2>they feel it isn't worth the hassle.

0:33:06.840 --> 0:33:09.040
<v Speaker 4>So that's me, Like I'm a true middle child in that.

0:33:09.080 --> 0:33:12.200
<v Speaker 2>But I think Hayley has more firstborn tendencies where she's

0:33:12.280 --> 0:33:16.680
<v Speaker 2>like a leader, she's doesn't mind confrontation, she's good communicator.

0:33:16.760 --> 0:33:19.520
<v Speaker 2>So I think that's why we work because I do

0:33:19.600 --> 0:33:22.240
<v Speaker 2>think if someone else had my personality was like lax

0:33:22.320 --> 0:33:26.960
<v Speaker 2>and like not confrontational and didn't communicate.

0:33:26.760 --> 0:33:27.720
<v Speaker 4>It'd be very hard.

0:33:28.120 --> 0:33:29.280
<v Speaker 3>It would be very hard for.

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<v Speaker 4>Us because nothing would ever be accomplished.

0:33:32.880 --> 0:33:34.720
<v Speaker 3>So so it's something to look at.

0:33:34.920 --> 0:33:37.440
<v Speaker 4>It's something to look at, but don't get to ponder.

0:33:39.080 --> 0:33:41.800
<v Speaker 4>Get a what's it? What do you open.

0:33:41.600 --> 0:33:43.920
<v Speaker 3>To the possibility? Not attached to the outcom exactly.

0:33:44.120 --> 0:33:45.280
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, this is a great example.

0:33:45.320 --> 0:33:48.400
<v Speaker 1>So my wife and I are both firstborn, So that's bad, right.

0:33:48.720 --> 0:33:51.360
<v Speaker 4>Oh, it says you tend to Oh wait wait wait

0:33:51.400 --> 0:33:51.960
<v Speaker 4>it says that.

0:33:52.040 --> 0:33:57.520
<v Speaker 3>It says, who's gonna tell mar I know the highest divorce?

0:33:57.640 --> 0:33:59.800
<v Speaker 1>Oh no, I was pretty happy. That's the terrible news

0:33:59.840 --> 0:34:00.160
<v Speaker 1>from me?

0:34:00.280 --> 0:34:02.760
<v Speaker 2>Who are both Oh it says this leads to higher

0:34:02.800 --> 0:34:05.560
<v Speaker 2>divorce writing people who are both firstborns because they can

0:34:05.600 --> 0:34:06.760
<v Speaker 2>disagree more often.

0:34:07.200 --> 0:34:08.200
<v Speaker 4>Do you all disagree a lot?

0:34:08.560 --> 0:34:10.520
<v Speaker 1>You know lately?

0:34:13.280 --> 0:34:14.160
<v Speaker 4>Is it because of all.

0:34:14.080 --> 0:34:17.440
<v Speaker 2>The attention you're getting on our TikTok reels and videos?

0:34:17.480 --> 0:34:18.320
<v Speaker 3>You know, it's so funny.

0:34:18.440 --> 0:34:22.000
<v Speaker 1>My kids obviously see those and they never say a

0:34:22.000 --> 0:34:23.839
<v Speaker 1>word about it. I think they see it. They roll

0:34:23.880 --> 0:34:29.480
<v Speaker 1>their eyes and they scroll on by Hilary just dad.

0:34:29.920 --> 0:34:32.400
<v Speaker 1>You know, it's like not even worth commenting on.

0:34:33.080 --> 0:34:33.440
<v Speaker 4>Wow.

0:34:33.640 --> 0:34:36.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I had a lot of people be like, I

0:34:36.120 --> 0:34:38.319
<v Speaker 2>need to know Mark's kids reactions to that.

0:34:38.520 --> 0:34:40.279
<v Speaker 1>Not zero was the reaction to that.

0:34:40.400 --> 0:34:43.680
<v Speaker 4>Zero reaction snap chatting their friends about it.

0:34:43.800 --> 0:34:46.040
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's possible, but I was told nothing of it.

0:34:46.200 --> 0:34:46.439
<v Speaker 3>Wow.

0:34:46.600 --> 0:34:47.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's pretty funny.

0:34:47.840 --> 0:34:51.120
<v Speaker 3>That is so funny. Like I also just can't imagine

0:34:51.120 --> 0:34:52.440
<v Speaker 3>like when I was a kid, like my dad was

0:34:52.480 --> 0:34:55.040
<v Speaker 3>a psychiatrist, Like if I saw my dad pop up

0:34:55.040 --> 0:34:57.160
<v Speaker 3>on social media, I'd be so thrown off.

0:34:57.200 --> 0:34:59.520
<v Speaker 2>I think they just used to this kind of nonsense, right,

0:34:59.560 --> 0:35:01.759
<v Speaker 2>I think the well, I also think that's just they're

0:35:01.880 --> 0:35:05.600
<v Speaker 2>used to seeing people on like social media, like.

0:35:05.640 --> 0:35:09.560
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like yeah, you're just Ken, I'm just Ken. Yeah,

0:35:09.800 --> 0:35:10.359
<v Speaker 3>you're just dad.

0:35:10.680 --> 0:35:11.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:35:11.160 --> 0:35:13.000
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:35:13.040 --> 0:35:17.760
<v Speaker 2>We briefly touched on the human design test last week.

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<v Speaker 2>What right, Yeah, I was wanted to get into it

0:35:23.200 --> 0:35:27.400
<v Speaker 2>a little deeper today if y'all are open to it, sure, Okay.

0:35:27.520 --> 0:35:30.600
<v Speaker 2>So basically, you go to this website it's called a

0:35:30.800 --> 0:35:33.560
<v Speaker 2>humandesign dot com, and all you need is your date

0:35:33.640 --> 0:35:36.600
<v Speaker 2>of birth, the time you were born, and then the

0:35:36.600 --> 0:35:38.520
<v Speaker 2>city in town where you were born in and then

0:35:38.600 --> 0:35:41.120
<v Speaker 2>I think it asked for your name. That's it, just

0:35:41.360 --> 0:35:42.160
<v Speaker 2>all your information.

0:35:42.360 --> 0:35:43.279
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so what it.

0:35:43.239 --> 0:35:45.880
<v Speaker 1>Looks at, what it looks at the stars, the position

0:35:45.920 --> 0:35:48.520
<v Speaker 1>of the stars the minute you were born, and how

0:35:48.560 --> 0:35:51.560
<v Speaker 1>that relates to the actual town you're in at the time.

0:35:52.640 --> 0:35:54.640
<v Speaker 1>Where they don't explain these things.

0:35:54.760 --> 0:35:57.360
<v Speaker 3>We don't know where anything gets itself.

0:35:57.040 --> 0:36:03.319
<v Speaker 4>Stuff from giving our personal information. Yeah, for this, for

0:36:03.360 --> 0:36:05.360
<v Speaker 4>this clarity we needed.

0:36:05.440 --> 0:36:08.319
<v Speaker 1>But so what you're saying is it's all made up.

0:36:09.280 --> 0:36:11.520
<v Speaker 1>Excuse me, I feel like that's what you just said. No,

0:36:11.600 --> 0:36:13.279
<v Speaker 1>we don't know where they get the stuff because they've

0:36:13.280 --> 0:36:14.040
<v Speaker 1>made it all up.

0:36:13.960 --> 0:36:16.240
<v Speaker 3>But it's so accurate that it obviously comes from somewhere.

0:36:16.280 --> 0:36:17.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't think it's that accurate.

0:36:17.400 --> 0:36:20.840
<v Speaker 2>Oh, I think it's a I'm sure there's some science

0:36:20.960 --> 0:36:23.080
<v Speaker 2>or astrology associated with it.

0:36:23.239 --> 0:36:25.719
<v Speaker 1>You're putting astrology and science in the same sentence in

0:36:25.760 --> 0:36:28.120
<v Speaker 1>those do not go together in any way.

0:36:28.239 --> 0:36:32.600
<v Speaker 3>Actually, but that's okay. Becca. It is funny though, because

0:36:32.640 --> 0:36:34.360
<v Speaker 3>all this stuff, like I believe in all this stuff

0:36:34.400 --> 0:36:37.000
<v Speaker 3>so much. And it was very funny because over the

0:36:37.040 --> 0:36:39.560
<v Speaker 3>weekend we were talking about our attachment styles, Robbie and

0:36:39.560 --> 0:36:44.040
<v Speaker 3>I because I'm insecurely, yeah, anxious attached. And he looks

0:36:44.040 --> 0:36:45.680
<v Speaker 3>at me and he's kind of just like, so, how

0:36:45.719 --> 0:36:48.359
<v Speaker 3>long are you going to be that? He's like, we're engaged,

0:36:48.719 --> 0:36:51.520
<v Speaker 3>we're about to get married, are you that? He's like,

0:36:51.560 --> 0:36:52.760
<v Speaker 3>are you insecurely attached?

0:36:52.800 --> 0:36:53.240
<v Speaker 4>For life?

0:36:53.280 --> 0:36:54.879
<v Speaker 3>Like is that what we're doing? I was like, that's

0:36:54.920 --> 0:36:57.279
<v Speaker 3>a great question, Like I don't you know, like I

0:36:57.320 --> 0:36:59.960
<v Speaker 3>only took the quiz. I think I took the quiz

0:37:00.080 --> 0:37:01.920
<v Speaker 3>before I started dating him, So that's really all I've

0:37:01.920 --> 0:37:03.640
<v Speaker 3>ever you know what I mean, Like I never I

0:37:03.680 --> 0:37:07.360
<v Speaker 3>haven't taken the quiz inside my relationship. And I was like, Wow,

0:37:07.760 --> 0:37:08.880
<v Speaker 3>what a profound question.

0:37:09.000 --> 0:37:10.359
<v Speaker 4>How long are you going to be that?

0:37:10.400 --> 0:37:14.440
<v Speaker 3>It's so funny, So just like an a like for

0:37:14.520 --> 0:37:16.520
<v Speaker 3>the rest of our lives thing, or like you know,

0:37:16.560 --> 0:37:18.680
<v Speaker 3>I would think you'd feel pretty secure now, you know.

0:37:18.800 --> 0:37:21.520
<v Speaker 3>And I was like, wow, yeah, interesting perspective.

0:37:21.880 --> 0:37:24.360
<v Speaker 1>Well it's here, with help and support, it's possible to

0:37:24.400 --> 0:37:27.200
<v Speaker 1>overcome an anxious attachment style. So maybe, yeah, you can

0:37:27.280 --> 0:37:28.240
<v Speaker 1>really what I said.

0:37:28.040 --> 0:37:30.840
<v Speaker 3>With a little help and support, I thought that.

0:37:30.920 --> 0:37:33.319
<v Speaker 4>I think he maybe felt that big old rock on

0:37:33.360 --> 0:37:35.560
<v Speaker 4>your finger was the help and support.

0:37:36.560 --> 0:37:38.840
<v Speaker 2>He thought, you know what, I know what to do

0:37:39.080 --> 0:37:41.000
<v Speaker 2>to calm her anxious attachment.

0:37:41.440 --> 0:37:43.879
<v Speaker 3>Right, this is going to solve it right there, put

0:37:43.880 --> 0:37:44.640
<v Speaker 3>it right on her face.

0:37:45.080 --> 0:37:46.880
<v Speaker 4>But but no.

0:37:47.239 --> 0:37:49.080
<v Speaker 3>Well I don't know. Like now I'm like, I don't know.

0:37:49.080 --> 0:37:51.040
<v Speaker 3>I've I haven't really taken the quiz.

0:37:50.960 --> 0:37:52.960
<v Speaker 4>Taking the quiz, how do you feel? I think it's

0:37:53.040 --> 0:37:54.920
<v Speaker 4>less about what a quiz says and more about how

0:37:54.960 --> 0:37:55.560
<v Speaker 4>you feel.

0:37:55.360 --> 0:37:57.520
<v Speaker 3>About they known myself to be this way. I haven't

0:37:57.560 --> 0:38:01.239
<v Speaker 3>like really gone introspective on myself in a while, so

0:38:01.320 --> 0:38:01.960
<v Speaker 3>maybe I need to.

0:38:03.239 --> 0:38:06.320
<v Speaker 2>I think, Wait, I'm so confused because being anxiously attaches

0:38:06.400 --> 0:38:08.759
<v Speaker 2>how you react to certain situations in your relationship.

0:38:09.400 --> 0:38:12.200
<v Speaker 4>What do you get insecure about? How when you feel safe? If?

0:38:12.200 --> 0:38:17.120
<v Speaker 4>Do you feel seen? Do you feel securely attached?

0:38:17.280 --> 0:38:21.600
<v Speaker 1>Right? I'm asking that was an actual question.

0:38:23.040 --> 0:38:26.040
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think so, I was like, I think I'm there.

0:38:26.560 --> 0:38:26.880
<v Speaker 4>Great.

0:38:27.080 --> 0:38:30.600
<v Speaker 2>Then I don't know that you need to rattle yourself

0:38:30.680 --> 0:38:32.320
<v Speaker 2>up by taking it online quiz.

0:38:32.360 --> 0:38:33.480
<v Speaker 3>I might need to take the quiz.

0:38:33.480 --> 0:38:36.719
<v Speaker 2>I don't think if you feel like you can say

0:38:36.719 --> 0:38:37.680
<v Speaker 2>you're there.

0:38:37.640 --> 0:38:39.680
<v Speaker 3>It's like my whole life, you're being told one thing

0:38:39.719 --> 0:38:42.520
<v Speaker 3>and then it's just flips, like you know, yeah, because

0:38:42.520 --> 0:38:46.640
<v Speaker 3>you take someone who need to digest this new era

0:38:46.719 --> 0:38:47.360
<v Speaker 3>of myself.

0:38:47.680 --> 0:38:49.440
<v Speaker 1>But does it mean that you're if you're an anxious

0:38:49.440 --> 0:38:51.120
<v Speaker 1>attached person, but you've been in a relationship for I

0:38:51.160 --> 0:38:53.640
<v Speaker 1>don't know ten years or something, are you then are

0:38:53.640 --> 0:38:57.920
<v Speaker 1>you just more susceptible to paranoia?

0:38:58.160 --> 0:39:00.160
<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I think it's like the anxious attached person it's

0:39:00.200 --> 0:39:02.879
<v Speaker 3>always waiting for the shoe to drop right right right,

0:39:02.920 --> 0:39:05.560
<v Speaker 3>which is like a horrible way terrible, yeah, horrible.

0:39:05.719 --> 0:39:07.520
<v Speaker 1>So hopefully you can get past this.

0:39:07.719 --> 0:39:09.480
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think I'm there, But.

0:39:09.440 --> 0:39:11.719
<v Speaker 1>Also you might be there and then something might happen.

0:39:11.440 --> 0:39:12.799
<v Speaker 3>To bring it back.

0:39:12.920 --> 0:39:16.840
<v Speaker 1>Yeah right right, yeah, like you're never far from it.

0:39:16.880 --> 0:39:19.799
<v Speaker 3>Right exactly. It takes one little I'm right back in

0:39:19.880 --> 0:39:23.160
<v Speaker 3>it right yeah. Oh man, I know, try living in

0:39:23.200 --> 0:39:23.800
<v Speaker 3>it for a minute.

0:39:24.120 --> 0:39:27.840
<v Speaker 2>I mean I did, I kind of did you're avoidant?

0:39:27.880 --> 0:39:30.680
<v Speaker 4>No, I was not. I think I I think I've shifted.

0:39:30.880 --> 0:39:31.800
<v Speaker 4>I think I had a shift.

0:39:31.920 --> 0:39:33.280
<v Speaker 3>I was you can shift.

0:39:33.640 --> 0:39:38.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I lived avoid avoidantly attached for most of

0:39:38.160 --> 0:39:42.920
<v Speaker 2>my life and then when I started dating Haley, it.

0:39:43.120 --> 0:39:45.520
<v Speaker 3>Switched, which is tough.

0:39:45.920 --> 0:39:48.480
<v Speaker 4>It's not what you want. No, you don't want to go.

0:39:49.040 --> 0:39:52.160
<v Speaker 2>You want to go from anxious to secure or avoidant

0:39:52.200 --> 0:39:52.840
<v Speaker 2>to secure.

0:39:53.040 --> 0:39:54.880
<v Speaker 4>You don't want to go backwards.

0:39:54.960 --> 0:39:57.640
<v Speaker 3>No, or avoidant to insecure feels dark.

0:39:58.360 --> 0:39:59.800
<v Speaker 4>Let me tell you it was a shift.

0:40:00.120 --> 0:40:01.680
<v Speaker 3>Is a shift in the shift.

0:40:01.440 --> 0:40:03.200
<v Speaker 4>To darkness of night?

0:40:03.400 --> 0:40:03.640
<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

0:40:03.680 --> 0:40:07.319
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Okay, So you are in the human design You're

0:40:07.360 --> 0:40:08.160
<v Speaker 2>a manifestor.

0:40:08.360 --> 0:40:11.799
<v Speaker 3>That's right. Only eight percent of the population is a manifestor.

0:40:11.600 --> 0:40:12.960
<v Speaker 4>Wow, sang Son.

0:40:15.520 --> 0:40:18.200
<v Speaker 3>But in terms of career, manifestors possess a strong ability

0:40:18.200 --> 0:40:22.279
<v Speaker 3>to initiate projects. Though they often face challenges in sustaining

0:40:22.400 --> 0:40:25.520
<v Speaker 3>energy levels, they thrive in roles where they can initiate projects.

0:40:26.480 --> 0:40:30.320
<v Speaker 3>In terms of relationship, manifestors nurture healthy relationships by openly

0:40:30.360 --> 0:40:33.719
<v Speaker 3>communicating their need for autonomy and freedom, while emphasizing the

0:40:33.719 --> 0:40:36.040
<v Speaker 3>importance of informing before taking action.

0:40:37.440 --> 0:40:38.680
<v Speaker 1>How many of these do we need?

0:40:39.480 --> 0:40:39.960
<v Speaker 3>So many?

0:40:40.239 --> 0:40:42.080
<v Speaker 1>Like we have the horoscopes. We have this. Now we

0:40:42.160 --> 0:40:45.960
<v Speaker 1>have the life path numbers, love languages. Do we know?

0:40:46.160 --> 0:40:46.919
<v Speaker 1>Do we need all these?

0:40:47.120 --> 0:40:50.200
<v Speaker 3>Yes? Because the more knowledge is power? Mark, do you

0:40:50.200 --> 0:40:52.239
<v Speaker 3>not feel more powerful when you know this stuff about you?

0:40:52.520 --> 0:40:54.960
<v Speaker 1>I know I've met myself and I don't know that

0:40:55.000 --> 0:40:57.160
<v Speaker 1>this is accurate. And I don't know that any of

0:40:57.200 --> 0:40:59.719
<v Speaker 1>it met yourself. See that's the problem. That's how you

0:40:59.760 --> 0:41:02.719
<v Speaker 1>do it. You say this sounds like you. No, it doesn't, Oh,

0:41:03.080 --> 0:41:05.719
<v Speaker 1>because you don't know yourself. Wouldn't I know myself better

0:41:05.760 --> 0:41:07.760
<v Speaker 1>than the life path number would know myself?

0:41:07.840 --> 0:41:10.880
<v Speaker 3>I don't think so. I don't think so.

0:41:11.040 --> 0:41:12.920
<v Speaker 1>Boy, they just they see you coming with this stuff,

0:41:12.960 --> 0:41:13.680
<v Speaker 1>don't they? You are.

0:41:15.120 --> 0:41:17.080
<v Speaker 3>I'm the target. I'm totally the target.

0:41:17.320 --> 0:41:18.239
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, how do you feel?

0:41:18.320 --> 0:41:19.759
<v Speaker 2>She's like, well, I got to take a test, and

0:41:19.760 --> 0:41:24.080
<v Speaker 2>I'll let you know, take my attachment test.

0:41:23.719 --> 0:41:27.000
<v Speaker 4>You know, I can tell you to feel the relationship.

0:41:27.360 --> 0:41:31.240
<v Speaker 4>Do you feel secure to not get back to you?

0:41:31.320 --> 0:41:34.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Yours could say like you're a huge sports fan.

0:41:34.239 --> 0:41:36.400
<v Speaker 1>He'd be like, am I I don't think I am.

0:41:36.400 --> 0:41:38.920
<v Speaker 1>I've never liked sports before. I need to start watching sports.

0:41:38.960 --> 0:41:41.279
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, let me explore it. Maybe I'm missing something. But

0:41:41.320 --> 0:41:43.640
<v Speaker 3>maybe they just wrong locked the inner child in myself.

0:41:43.680 --> 0:41:51.080
<v Speaker 1>But couldn't they just be wrong? Nope, because seems very General's.

0:41:49.000 --> 0:41:52.680
<v Speaker 3>Because a projector so. Projectors represent twenty percent of the

0:41:52.800 --> 0:41:54.040
<v Speaker 3>human design population.

0:41:54.800 --> 0:41:58.839
<v Speaker 2>Wait, this is Mine's actually quite interesting. So unlike generators

0:41:58.880 --> 0:42:04.239
<v Speaker 2>and manifestors, they await invitations aligning with valued opportunities. Embracing

0:42:04.280 --> 0:42:08.160
<v Speaker 2>this way strategy is key to their effectiveness. Understanding their

0:42:08.239 --> 0:42:12.080
<v Speaker 2>human design enhances their potential thriving on rest in short

0:42:12.080 --> 0:42:17.160
<v Speaker 2>bursts of work, they require ample time to recharge.

0:42:17.280 --> 0:42:20.320
<v Speaker 1>Okay, here's a question. How many of these are there?

0:42:20.680 --> 0:42:20.879
<v Speaker 4>Four?

0:42:21.040 --> 0:42:24.560
<v Speaker 2>Well, I think there's four because there's a generating manifesto.

0:42:24.640 --> 0:42:26.920
<v Speaker 3>I think that's what Mark's a manifesting general.

0:42:27.040 --> 0:42:31.000
<v Speaker 1>That's sure, a tried and true, born and raged. So

0:42:31.040 --> 0:42:34.359
<v Speaker 1>there's eight billion people on Earth. Saying that there's two

0:42:34.440 --> 0:42:37.160
<v Speaker 1>billion of each of these, and all those two billion

0:42:37.200 --> 0:42:39.320
<v Speaker 1>people have these traits.

0:42:39.000 --> 0:42:41.560
<v Speaker 4>Well, it's not all evenly dispersed exactly, Mark.

0:42:42.719 --> 0:42:44.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't think that helps the argument, though. What I'm

0:42:44.600 --> 0:42:47.239
<v Speaker 1>saying is there's billions of people and they all fit

0:42:47.360 --> 0:42:48.759
<v Speaker 1>into one of these categories.

0:42:48.880 --> 0:42:51.080
<v Speaker 4>At the end of the day, we're all humans, Mark,

0:42:51.160 --> 0:42:52.720
<v Speaker 4>Not everyone's going to take the test.

0:42:53.120 --> 0:42:55.800
<v Speaker 3>Also at the end of the day, Yes, that is accurate.

0:42:56.360 --> 0:42:58.920
<v Speaker 4>Okay, this is important. This is important.

0:42:59.280 --> 0:43:02.719
<v Speaker 2>They thrive when their gifts are appreciated, fostering meaningful connections

0:43:02.760 --> 0:43:08.000
<v Speaker 2>while preserving boundaries. Rest is crucial, requiring partner understanding. Although

0:43:08.080 --> 0:43:12.000
<v Speaker 2>drawn to certain types, successful relationships are possible through mutual respect.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So basically it says you projectors bring unique strengths to

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<v Speaker 2>the workplace, such as understanding systems and guiding others towards efficiency,

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<v Speaker 2>but traditional work structures can be challenging due to their

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<v Speaker 2>inconsistent energy.

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<v Speaker 3>Becca, that's so Beca.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but most of what you just read is true

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<v Speaker 1>of a lot of people, especially the projectors, but especially

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<v Speaker 1>the nice stuff. Everyone takes those compliments as like, yep,

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<v Speaker 1>that's me for sure.

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<v Speaker 4>I do that nice to be like I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>But rest is crucial. Everybody in the world could be like, yes, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Do need to know, but like how much you and

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<v Speaker 2>Tanya rest is very different than how much I rest?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, because manifested to.

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<v Speaker 1>Justify laziness, aren't you with this point?

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<v Speaker 4>Is cent noon?

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<v Speaker 2>But I when I when I know a lot of No,

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<v Speaker 2>it's because I'm a projector allet like when I did

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<v Speaker 2>the Bachelorette. But like all the socializing, I have to

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<v Speaker 2>I need a day of like nothingness, like don't look

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<v Speaker 2>at me, don't talk to me, like Tanya called me,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, I'm having my day of nothing

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<v Speaker 2>and you're trying to talk about work and I have

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<v Speaker 2>to cut you off right, oh god.

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<v Speaker 1>But also I don't honestly, I don't think you're lazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I think if you wanted to.

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<v Speaker 2>Be said that. My test didn't say I was lazy.

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<v Speaker 2>Said I needed to rechart.

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<v Speaker 1>You said, okay, But I don't want you to take

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<v Speaker 1>me the wrong way. I think about you that you

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<v Speaker 1>could do a rewarding radio show if you wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>do it.

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<v Speaker 4>But I need time to recharge. I want to go.

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<v Speaker 2>If I did what y'all did, I would go home

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<v Speaker 2>and sleep. I want to go and run errands and

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<v Speaker 2>try to get more stuff done.

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<v Speaker 4>I'd be like, I'm good. You would do what you

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<v Speaker 4>gotta do exactly I go to bed.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I don't think you might.

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<v Speaker 4>I would get up.

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<v Speaker 3>You get up and you do the morning show, and

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<v Speaker 3>then you would have stuff to do. You need to

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<v Speaker 3>take Phoebe to the vet. You need to get groceries.

0:44:54.080 --> 0:44:56.000
<v Speaker 3>Like there's just like life, you make it happen.

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<v Speaker 2>I appreciate, I appreciate your hope and trust and faith

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<v Speaker 2>in me, but I want it well, Mark, what is

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<v Speaker 2>yours that you don't see as yourself manifesting?

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<v Speaker 1>This is so long and reading it is so what

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<v Speaker 1>are the parts? I'm known from my energetic nature and

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<v Speaker 1>unique approach to life? Like that everybody can say that's

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<v Speaker 1>true of themselves. Now it's like unique are just generic.

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<v Speaker 1>They throw them out there so that it matches everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>and everybody go, yeah, that's me. In relationships, they inspire

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<v Speaker 1>with their creativity and drive and may face misunderstanding to

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<v Speaker 1>their nonlinear style. I don't know what any of that means.

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<v Speaker 1>Got a wife and we haven't a nice time? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no none of that's actually the work work.

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<v Speaker 3>You excel in the workplace due to their ability to

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<v Speaker 3>respond and manifest, making them versatile and dynamic. They thrive

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<v Speaker 3>and environments that allow them to utilize their energy, creativity,

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<v Speaker 3>and rapid manifestation abilities, but may feel constrained by rigid structures.

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<v Speaker 3>That's you, it's not me.

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<v Speaker 4>He loves rigid structure.

0:45:57.800 --> 0:46:00.400
<v Speaker 1>I love I am born to be rigidly structure.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know a more rigidly structured person, Like, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you see how your brain just made that fit

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<v Speaker 1>me even though it's completely not.

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<v Speaker 3>Me because I don't think I think rigid structure. I

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<v Speaker 3>think in terms of work, because that's what we're looking

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<v Speaker 3>at here. A rigid structured job would be. You do

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<v Speaker 3>not work in a rigid structured job.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I, but I kind of do. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>do nine to five, but my days on the morning

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<v Speaker 1>show are rigidly structured. I know when I'm getting up,

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<v Speaker 1>I know what I'm eating my oatmeal, I know when

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<v Speaker 1>I'm starting the show. I know what I'm doing after

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<v Speaker 1>the show. It's structure. I thrive on structure.

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<v Speaker 3>I wouldn't say it's rigidly structured your work environment, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>Like rigidly structured would be like a doctor in the

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<v Speaker 3>O R.

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<v Speaker 1>Becca's right, though, and I disagree with that because a

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<v Speaker 1>doctor in the O R has a lot of stuff coming.

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<v Speaker 1>Beca's right that I when she said I'm the most

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<v Speaker 1>rigidly structured person, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Gotta say, like, you eat your same things every well,

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<v Speaker 2>every night of the week, every.

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<v Speaker 1>Day, same I'm boom structured.

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, I'm getting close to that. I'm creeping up you originally,

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<v Speaker 3>Like between our meal prep, I'm like, I literally feel

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<v Speaker 3>like I meaning the same four things. I just go

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<v Speaker 3>in the fridge and let me take that and take

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<v Speaker 3>that and go. Yeah, it's kind of nice as a projector.

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<v Speaker 4>That's a projector.

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<v Speaker 2>That does not sound blissful to me, But I'm happy

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<v Speaker 2>for y'all. All right, Well, you know, to each their

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<v Speaker 2>own to be open to the outcome.

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<v Speaker 4>Possibility is not attached to the outcome. There we go.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all for now, because Tanya, we have to get

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<v Speaker 2>you off to the iHeart Awards.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Mama's got, Mama's gotta go.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a part of me that feels like she thinks

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<v Speaker 2>those are the worst.

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<v Speaker 3>Mama's gotta go. I sing it to myself often, So

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<v Speaker 3>what's the real song? I don't know, but I sing

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<v Speaker 3>it to my dog whenever I leave the house. Mamma's

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<v Speaker 3>gotta go.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you seen those blind karaoke challenges? I really want

0:48:06.160 --> 0:48:08.320
<v Speaker 2>to that might be enough. I don't know how we

0:48:08.360 --> 0:48:08.640
<v Speaker 2>could do.

0:48:08.719 --> 0:48:12.239
<v Speaker 1>I think we can do that, but it's so funny.

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<v Speaker 4>As a TikTok video.

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<v Speaker 1>The original song at Jane's.

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<v Speaker 3>Mama's gotta go.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well, on that note, I gotta go, and before

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<v Speaker 2>we hear that one more time, we're gonna end the podcast.

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<v Speaker 4>But I will be back on Thursday.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm doing an interview with a Golden Bachelor lady, Susan

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<v Speaker 2>and Kathy.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm very excited. I feel like it'll be a very giggly,

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<v Speaker 4>giggly goosey time.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm excited for you to chat with the Golden Bachelors

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<v Speaker 3>as well. And I just want to say thank you

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<v Speaker 3>for the love on the Jason Tarctic interview. Somebody commented

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<v Speaker 3>underneath the video and said, my questions were very Alex

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<v Speaker 3>Cooper vibes. Oh thank you. I know, pat myself to

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<v Speaker 3>great job you.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's the new studio. It's bringing out the best.

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<v Speaker 3>The best of me. Yeah, totally.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, we'll be back Thursday. Have a great week. We

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<v Speaker 4>love you so much.

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<v Speaker 3>Bye bye

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<v Speaker 2>H