Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya Rap an iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.
Speaker 3: Scrub dub dub.
Speaker 4: Tanya, you are so glam for today's podcast, right.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 3: I like to do this every once in a while,
Speaker 3: go from.
Speaker 4: Garbage to look like Barbie.
Speaker 3: Hey, Barbi, Hey Barby.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 3: I did it because I'm going to be hosting the
Speaker 3: iHeartRadio Music Awards Yellow Carpet later on today, so had
Speaker 3: to get it done in between the morning show and
Speaker 3: the podcast.
Speaker 4: She's a busy She's a business woman.
Speaker 3: She's a business gal today, busy gal.
Speaker 4: Yes, who are you going to be interviewing at the awards?
Speaker 3: Who will I not be interviewing? That's the question.
Speaker 4: The question is who will you be interviewing?
Speaker 3: I mean whoever we can get, whoever's there? Rilla's on
Speaker 3: my list?
Speaker 2: Wow?
Speaker 3: Yeah, Doci? Who else? TLC Green Day?
Speaker 1: Uh so Beyonce is not in your list?
Speaker 3: Beyonce is not on my list. No, she will be there,
Speaker 3: but I don't think I'll even be breathing the same
Speaker 3: air as her, although I would love it.
Speaker 4: What did I think today was the podcast? I Heart
Speaker 4: Podcast Awards?
Speaker 3: No I heard Radio Music Awards. Oh, the Podcast Awards
Speaker 3: were in Texas, I think a couple of weeks ago. Wow,
Speaker 3: we were not dominated that.
Speaker 4: Okay, wow, that's exciting. So Beyonce will be there?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Who else?
Speaker 3: Share? Justin Timberlake. Tate McCrae, Oh my gosh. Yeah, Ludacris
Speaker 3: is hosting it.
Speaker 4: Are you gonna meet Tate McRae. I hope? I mean
Speaker 4: you've met her?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I hope.
Speaker 2: So wow, that's cool. Yeah, stay tuned for the Yellow Carpet.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I will say though. Avri Labine is supposed to
Speaker 3: be there, and I really have met her before.
Speaker 4: But did you meet her or Melissa?
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh? Are you into the conspiracy theory?
Speaker 2: I I don't know, but like it's fun to it's
Speaker 2: just fun.
Speaker 4: It's crazy, it's crazy. So which one did you meet?
Speaker 3: Avril?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I'm sure of it because she knew me. Oh yeah,
Speaker 3: she knew she remembered me, that's right.
Speaker 4: Who wouldn't remember you? Well, a lot of people really
Speaker 4: like people have introduced themselves up to you multiple times.
Speaker 3: Yes, I'm like, I just interviewed you last week.
Speaker 4: It's fine, I think.
Speaker 2: I I guess you can't get to a point where
Speaker 2: you just say, oh, yeah, we met like we did
Speaker 2: the interview.
Speaker 4: I mean, that's a polite way of saying it, right.
Speaker 3: None take celebrity out of it, just in general, Peep.
Speaker 3: You meet people at the grocery store, the doctor's office.
Speaker 3: You never know we're going to meet someone, so always
Speaker 3: just say nice to see you, nice to see you.
Speaker 3: I do never reach out a hand, just never it
Speaker 3: went and out. Don't throw it out.
Speaker 2: Wow, it took one person to say we've met before
Speaker 2: for me to go I'm never saying nice to meet
Speaker 2: you again. I'm only seeing saying it's so great to
Speaker 2: see you.
Speaker 4: How have you been, how are you? What have you
Speaker 4: been up to?
Speaker 2: Just so i'll see reference any anything that clicks yeah.
Speaker 3: Wow, yeah. Just take that away from today's podcast. When
Speaker 3: in doubt, don't throw it out.
Speaker 4: I don't know what that means, but.
Speaker 3: Like it Ryan, in doubt, don't throw it out, throw
Speaker 3: what out, throw out the it's nice to meet you, Okay.
Speaker 4: When in doubt, don't throw it out.
Speaker 1: Ryan and Sys again on Tanya's case recently, because sometimes
Speaker 1: she'll say something and they'll say what does that mean,
Speaker 1: and she'll just repeat it exactly the same way said
Speaker 1: the first time, which just you just end up going
Speaker 1: in circles. Right, I don't know what that means. Then
Speaker 1: she just repeated it when in doubt, don't throw it
Speaker 1: out right.
Speaker 2: It's her way of she doesn't know what it means,
Speaker 2: but it's her way of gaslighting you into thinking that
Speaker 2: explains what it means, right, maybe to.
Speaker 1: Work it out in her head.
Speaker 4: What it it's her stalling?
Speaker 1: Yeah, is that what it is?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have a gas lighter you are. Yeah, that's right.
Speaker 4: It's it's a it's gentle gas lighting.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not harmful. It's not intentional.
Speaker 4: No, it's not harmful. What did you do over the weekend?
Speaker 3: I feel like you really want to talk about the
Speaker 3: Bachelor finale, so I'm gonna I'm gonna just skip to
Speaker 3: the good part.
Speaker 4: I wasn't I wasn't like racing to talk about it.
Speaker 3: But okay, we can talk about it a little bit
Speaker 3: because I know you have a lot of thoughts. My
Speaker 3: weekend was I think a lot more chill than your weekend.
Speaker 4: My weekend is quite chill. Oh really, just out of
Speaker 4: town to Mechula.
Speaker 3: I know, it's very funny.
Speaker 1: I was.
Speaker 3: I can't remember I was trying to talk business to
Speaker 3: you or something over the weekend, and Robbie goes, can't
Speaker 3: you just call her right now? And I was like, well, no,
Speaker 3: I know she's in Temecula for Haley's birthday, so I
Speaker 3: don't want to bog her down. Is that nice? I
Speaker 3: respect people's boundaries these days, those very these days and
Speaker 3: trying to inspect people's boundaries.
Speaker 4: Yes, no, I appreciate that.
Speaker 2: Yeah. We went to Temecula for Haley's little birthday get
Speaker 2: away with all her.
Speaker 4: Besties, and it rained the whole weekend.
Speaker 2: We literally got the house that we got because it
Speaker 2: had a pickleball court, it had like sand beach volleyball,
Speaker 2: it had this beautiful pool, outdoor grill, outdoor fire pit.
Speaker 4: It rained the like poured rain.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I did.
Speaker 2: We did some rigs, some umbrellas together and got in
Speaker 2: the jacuzzi.
Speaker 4: So that was nice. Nice, But it was really fun.
Speaker 2: You know, it really tests the type of people you
Speaker 2: surround yourself with. If you can be indoors and playing
Speaker 2: games and just chilling for a whole weekend, yes.
Speaker 4: And everyone's good with it.
Speaker 3: Nice.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So it was really fun, very fun, chill, relaxing.
Speaker 2: And Haley's love language is food and games and just
Speaker 2: like hanging out with her friends.
Speaker 4: So she has a couple who are.
Speaker 2: Amazing chefs and they made the most incredible meal.
Speaker 4: It was insane. I was like, wow, this is so cool.
Speaker 3: That just she can whip this stuff and they.
Speaker 4: Just whip it up. They had a whole menu.
Speaker 3: Made it come so like natural to some people. It
Speaker 3: does not come natural to me.
Speaker 4: And I think it's a passion.
Speaker 2: Like people love it and they love trying things and
Speaker 2: tasting them, and it was it was really special.
Speaker 3: So I think she feels loved through my chia pudding
Speaker 3: that I made for her.
Speaker 4: Tanya has made her.
Speaker 3: Award winning what a word? It won Bestchia Pudding and
Speaker 3: by whom West La Robbie.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Robbie Yadegar has made this West l A's best pudding.
Speaker 2: And Haley loves chia pudding and so this they made
Speaker 2: this for Haley's birthday. So this is such a great
Speaker 2: gift because she loves food.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think she's I think it's gonna be
Speaker 3: the best Shea pudding she's ever tasted.
Speaker 2: And the reason is because it's homemade almond milk and
Speaker 2: Tany was like, well, you're in trouble if she likes it,
Speaker 2: because then you're gonna have to make it. I was like, no, no, no,
Speaker 2: you're gonna have to make it. No, no, no, no
Speaker 2: one thing about me. I don't make my own milk.
Speaker 3: Well, well think about you is you might have to.
Speaker 4: I did do it during the pandemic a few times,
Speaker 4: so it's really good. Just a lot of work.
Speaker 3: It's a lot of work, but the payoff is worth
Speaker 3: it in my opinion. Yeah, okay, so we I just
Speaker 3: have to tell you, I know I recommended Traders. You
Speaker 3: haven't seen anything until you watch the UK season two
Speaker 3: of Traders.
Speaker 2: Haley is either watching or almost done with season one.
Speaker 3: Season two is absolutely extraordinary. Why extraordinary? Why it is
Speaker 3: so good? And I've come to the conclusion that I
Speaker 3: think I do not like celebrities on Traders anymore. I
Speaker 3: think it's better when it's normis because I think celebrities
Speaker 3: care too much about their image. Okay, Like you know,
Speaker 3: Peter was like, no, I cannot be a Trader faith,
Speaker 3: you know, like people had to have this like nobleness
Speaker 3: to them when they're like a public figure, whereas I
Speaker 3: think just these normal people are so cutthroat and ruthless.
Speaker 3: It is fantastic television.
Speaker 4: But there was one person who got recruited on season
Speaker 4: one of UK and she didn't take it either.
Speaker 3: Who was it?
Speaker 4: Alex?
Speaker 3: Oh right, right, right, That's what I'm saying. Season two,
Speaker 3: Season two, it's just like a free for all.
Speaker 2: It has made me question myself and just like who
Speaker 2: I am as a person because I don't think I mean,
Speaker 2: maybe it'd be different if I was in it, but
Speaker 2: my brain is like, if I got recruited, I'd be like,
Speaker 2: let's go love it.
Speaker 3: You're gonna like season two of the UK version.
Speaker 4: Wow.
Speaker 3: So that was like really a huge highlight of the weekend, honestly,
Speaker 3: because we spent the rest of the weekend just like
Speaker 3: rehabilitating our dog and food prepping. We're kind of in
Speaker 3: our homestead era, you're nesting, Yeah, like making our food,
Speaker 3: prepping our food for the week.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I felt like it took me a few days to
Speaker 2: like a genuine few days to recover from the bachelorette party.
Speaker 3: I think it took me a full week.
Speaker 2: I still am not one hundred percent sure I've recovered, Yeah,
Speaker 2: because it just felt like I was trying to get ready. Oh,
Speaker 2: I get home last week after the podcast and Haley's
Speaker 2: at home. She was doing meetings and Phoebe comes running
Speaker 2: at me and she's she's lifting her her back like
Speaker 2: she like won't put it down, and I'm like, oh no,
Speaker 2: sometimes here, sometimes her knee pops out, so I was like, oh,
Speaker 2: I need to pop her knee back in.
Speaker 3: So sad.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it didn't pop back in, and so she
Speaker 2: wouldn't put it down, and I was at multiple vet
Speaker 2: visits and ended up she tore her little dog version
Speaker 2: of her ACL, which is a CCL. So I took
Speaker 2: her to this place to see if we can rehabit
Speaker 2: before going to surge, and I told Donnya about it
Speaker 2: because they did like acupuncture. It was a very thorough consultation,
Speaker 2: which I really appreciated because she really took the time
Speaker 2: to learn about Phoebe and me. And I told Donia
Speaker 2: about it because Sonny's had all her back issues and
Speaker 2: she was like, I made an appointment for Saturday.
Speaker 3: Times Saturday morning. But the best part was is like
Speaker 3: I felt like they were analyzing us as the owners.
Speaker 3: So she was going into like Chinese medicine and she
Speaker 3: was trying to decipher it like if Sonny Sonny was fire,
Speaker 3: and so she was like, are one of you would
Speaker 3: are one of your You're more water and I'm like
Speaker 3: reading the traits of water and it's all like like
Speaker 3: lazy and like sit sits back and I'm like, excuse me.
Speaker 4: Oh she said you were water? Yeah, lazy because.
Speaker 3: Robbie's like the wood who's like the assertive one. And
Speaker 3: I was like, oh yeah. It was very very funny.
Speaker 4: She didn't do that with me, She definitely did it
Speaker 4: with us, but she was definitely studying me.
Speaker 2: And she'd be like we had to walk out of
Speaker 2: the room while Phoebe is getting acupuncture, because Phoebe was
Speaker 2: really anxious seeing me. She wanted me to be holding her,
Speaker 2: and she's like, do you feel okay leaving her? And
Speaker 2: I'm like yeah, I think I think she'll relax more.
Speaker 2: So we walk out.
Speaker 4: She's like are you okay? And I was like, yeah,
Speaker 4: I'm good, she's fine, She's okay, just checking.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So she was definitely taking me in.
Speaker 3: Yeah. We felt very psychoanalyzed in that appointment like never before.
Speaker 3: Like I was like whoa.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Something else that happened over the weekend is Beyonce released
Speaker 2: her album Cowboy Carter.
Speaker 4: Twenty seven tracks.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I feel like it's not twenty seven actual
Speaker 3: tracks because there's like the intros and stuff in between
Speaker 3: some of the songs. But let me tell you, this
Speaker 3: might be my second favorite Beyonce album of all time.
Speaker 3: That's right.
Speaker 4: Wow, what's your first one?
Speaker 3: Lemonade?
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, Lemonade. It's so good.
Speaker 3: Upon first listen, you didn't love it.
Speaker 2: I was a little underwhelmed because I wou'd say, I'm
Speaker 2: not gonna like label myself as the biggest Beyonce fan,
Speaker 2: but I'm I was curious to know what, like legit,
Speaker 2: real Beyonce fans that like deep dive into the albums
Speaker 2: and everything, what they thought of it. And apparently everyone
Speaker 2: loves it. So I listened to it and I felt
Speaker 2: like it was a little There were a lot more ballads,
Speaker 2: and it was a little slower than I thought it
Speaker 2: was gonna be. With the start, I thought it was
Speaker 2: gonna be a lot more Texas hold them vibes like not.
Speaker 2: I didn't really think it was gonna be country. I
Speaker 2: just thought it was gonna have that catchy beat sweat
Speaker 2: he thought twy swing and my standouts were Levi's Jeans.
Speaker 4: Yah Yah, Tyrant.
Speaker 2: And Texas hold Him and I Love, I Love Joelene
Speaker 2: and I Love Blackbirds.
Speaker 3: Don't even get me started up. We had a beck
Speaker 3: and I had a little tex exchange over the album,
Speaker 3: and it's just so you can hear my you can
Speaker 3: hear my passion through the dms. We were underwhelmed. What
Speaker 3: made you love it?
Speaker 2: What?
Speaker 3: First off, the entire thing being a radio broadcast is iconic.
Speaker 3: The Blackbird reimagined has me fully living the Miley posty
Speaker 3: yah yah. And then you never responded.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I didn't read that you're reading it. I was like,
Speaker 4: this is the first ever.
Speaker 2: I was like, that's the person I'm hearing the response.
Speaker 2: So I'm glad I got to hear it through your voice. Wow,
Speaker 2: now I can really appreciate it. Yeah, but yeah, it
Speaker 2: sounds like your favorites were the ones that I liked too.
Speaker 3: I really loved too most wanted. I feel like it's
Speaker 3: kind of like a Bonnie and Clyde, but for best friends.
Speaker 3: So I think it's just super super cute. And I
Speaker 3: am obsessed with the Blackbird remix. I don't even know
Speaker 3: what it's called a remix. Reimagined, it is so good
Speaker 3: and yeah, yeah is my favorite. I think, yeah, do.
Speaker 2: You think she do you think artists know which song
Speaker 2: is going to be the I feel like I'm hearing
Speaker 2: a lot of people say Yaya. Do you think she
Speaker 2: knew Yagya was going to be the one that people
Speaker 2: talked about a lot?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I do, Yeah, Yeah, you do, I do, Yeah, yeah
Speaker 3: I do. Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I just always wonder, you know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, as Tony you mentioned earlier, I do want to
Speaker 2: talk about the Bachelor, and.
Speaker 4: We should do that.
Speaker 3: You want to do it after this break?
Speaker 4: Yeah, let's do that. All right, we're back.
Speaker 2: Before we get into Bachelor, Danya just goes, I think
Speaker 2: my breath might seem really bad. I was like, okay,
Speaker 2: like it doesn't matter because I'm not, you know, her
Speaker 2: far apart, and then I just she does, sorry Liz
Speaker 2: who just did her make up.
Speaker 4: For how long? Like an hour and a half?
Speaker 3: Like an hour? Yeah, I'm sorry, text her, just text
Speaker 3: her sorry. I think my breath smelted.
Speaker 2: So I can't believe, like, if I know someone's gonna
Speaker 2: be my face, I am So.
Speaker 3: The problem is I was eating eating my breakfast. I
Speaker 3: was eating my breakfast while she was doing my makeup,
Speaker 3: so you know, I was eating something. I didn't have
Speaker 3: anything with me.
Speaker 4: You gotta keep things on the hand.
Speaker 3: It was quick. I got gotta go.
Speaker 2: That's what the Bachelor always has, listing strips, ready to go.
Speaker 2: You're going to talk to him, producer hand give.
Speaker 3: Me a Bachelor producer of twenty four to seven. That's
Speaker 3: what I need in my life.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you do.
Speaker 2: So the Bachelorette finale happened last week, and you know,
Speaker 2: I'm sorry the Bachelor finale happened last week.
Speaker 3: Boiler alert.
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you haven't watched it, Like, I don't know
Speaker 2: how to help you at this point. So this is
Speaker 2: what's interesting to me. We're trying to get Daisy on
Speaker 2: the podcast, but they're they're really tight now with what
Speaker 2: they allow the like ABC. I guess in their contract
Speaker 2: they have to get permission to do like anything promotional
Speaker 2: because when I was on it, we didn't have podcasts,
Speaker 2: we didn't have the social media thing was new, so
Speaker 2: they didn't really know how to nap.
Speaker 3: Again, we're a rogue.
Speaker 4: We're a rogue.
Speaker 2: Anyways, we're trying to get Daisy, but I don't know
Speaker 2: if you know this, but at the beginning of this season,
Speaker 2: Reality Steve posted that Daisy won, so everyone was anyone
Speaker 2: who saw spoilers was watching through the lens of Daisy
Speaker 2: the one. So it was and it felt very obvious.
Speaker 2: And then a lot of people were kind of like,
Speaker 2: I don't know, I'm not seeing it.
Speaker 4: You know, it's kind of controversial.
Speaker 2: Well then reality Steve came out and said that he
Speaker 2: was wrong and he had prove like he knew what
Speaker 2: could confirm it was Kelsey who won. So all of
Speaker 2: a sudden, you're like view switches of how you're watching
Speaker 2: the show, which was very interesting.
Speaker 3: I'm surprised you listen to those spoilers.
Speaker 4: I don't.
Speaker 2: I just I scrolled TikTok and the comments and they'll
Speaker 2: be like in there and I don't care enough to
Speaker 2: try and avoid them. But it would have been really
Speaker 2: fun if I thought Daisy one the whole time and
Speaker 2: then I never saw the second spoiler, which enough like
Speaker 2: spoiled like Kelsey one, right, because that would have been
Speaker 2: crazy because it ended with such I feel like you
Speaker 2: would have really appreciated and it was such.
Speaker 4: Women's power empowerment.
Speaker 3: Yeah, the writing together.
Speaker 4: Yeah, part of me was like, did that didn't. I
Speaker 4: don't know if they wanted.
Speaker 3: To do that or if they were forced to do it.
Speaker 4: Well yeah, I mean, I'm sure they were fine with it.
Speaker 2: But I imagine if if I was writing potentially either to
Speaker 2: go break up with someone or get engaged with someone,
Speaker 2: I'd need to be alone in my thought.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: True, But it was.
Speaker 3: Really cute, right, like if the producers were like, this
Speaker 3: has never happened before, let's get them together in a
Speaker 3: car exactly.
Speaker 2: So Daisy goes to and man, the editors are so good.
Speaker 2: They made it look like Daisy was knocking on Joey's door,
Speaker 2: and and then it was actually Kelsey's room, and Kelsey
Speaker 2: moves this it really fast, like you see this letter
Speaker 2: on the table, and she moves it really fast. And
Speaker 2: I was kind of curious, like, oh, I wonder what
Speaker 2: that was if maybe it was a letter she had
Speaker 2: written to him, But I just saw on a podcast
Speaker 2: they did, I think with Chicks in the Office, where
Speaker 2: he had written her a letter on one of their
Speaker 2: earlier dates or written in his journal, like his only
Speaker 2: journal entry was this like letter about how much he
Speaker 2: liked Kelsey, and so he gave that to her just
Speaker 2: to have, like some reassurance before going into the last night.
Speaker 2: But it was the first time we watched a bachelor
Speaker 2: basically tell one of the last final girls like I
Speaker 2: can't say it's not you, but try to read between
Speaker 2: the lines.
Speaker 4: Like that's what he did with Daisy.
Speaker 2: It was kind of like, no matter what happens, I
Speaker 2: hope we both end up happy.
Speaker 4: Like there was never any moment where.
Speaker 2: She could have felt confident, right, and so I appreciated
Speaker 2: that because every other bachelor has been like I love you,
Speaker 2: I'm in love with you to the final two women, right,
Speaker 2: and it feels so sad, so sad, like Jojo, remember
Speaker 2: when Ben was like told Jojo, you're my best friend.
Speaker 4: Dark, so dark.
Speaker 2: I think Ben was actually the first person to say
Speaker 2: I love you to the final two to both.
Speaker 3: He's like, yeah, now that, like I feel bad, Like
Speaker 3: because you're right, the producers are probably egging them on,
Speaker 3: like tell her how you feel. Just tell both of
Speaker 3: them how you feel.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's like, oh, if you feel like you
Speaker 2: should say it right, you know, follow your heart right.
Speaker 3: And Ben's just like this little puppy dog and he's
Speaker 3: like okay.
Speaker 4: He's like I do like both of them wonderful girls.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but so yeah, Daisy goes, and then she basically
Speaker 2: tells Kelsey, I don't think it's me. I think it's you.
Speaker 2: They ride together. Uh, Daisy gets out and she goes
Speaker 2: and she basically says I know it's not me to him,
Speaker 2: like doesn't really give him a chance to break up
Speaker 2: with her.
Speaker 4: She like takes control and then he's like, can I
Speaker 4: walk you out?
Speaker 2: Which is what every bachelor has ever done, and you
Speaker 2: know the girls. I was like, yeah, sure, I got
Speaker 2: walked out of a barn and I said no.
Speaker 4: She goes, I think I need to do this on
Speaker 4: my own. She walked back.
Speaker 2: She hugs Kelsey, and Kelsey's mom passed away a few
Speaker 2: years ago from cancer, and she goes, your mom is
Speaker 2: your mom is so proud of you watching you right
Speaker 2: now or something like really sweet like that, and hugs her.
Speaker 4: And as she was walking away from Joey, she was like,
Speaker 4: I'm pulling. I'm rooting for you. I'm pulling for you
Speaker 4: or something.
Speaker 3: Well, who else is it going to be? No?
Speaker 4: No, she told Joey that.
Speaker 2: Daisy told Joey like, I'm pulled, Like, even though I'm
Speaker 2: walk away.
Speaker 4: I'm for you and Kelsey.
Speaker 2: Oh wow, wow, it was crazy chills chills on my
Speaker 2: body right now.
Speaker 3: Then here's my question. I heard and I read this summer,
Speaker 3: so I could be wrong that Good Morning America published
Speaker 3: like a story saying that Daisy was going to be
Speaker 3: the next bachelor. Wait, who did Good Morning America? Oh yeah,
Speaker 3: I think I heard on Dumois. I think Dumois was
Speaker 3: talking about it on their podcast where basically like Good
Speaker 3: Morning America had up and like, you know, no, maybe
Speaker 3: it's US Weekly, I think I saw. But you know
Speaker 3: how a lot of sites has stuff like pre written
Speaker 3: so that the minute it goes live on the air,
Speaker 3: they just like publish it, right, so it's like pre written.
Speaker 3: So like people were saying that like for some reason
Speaker 3: Daisy was the bachelorette at some point and it never
Speaker 3: got switched before whoever published the story.
Speaker 2: Well, because they announced Jen and everyone was really surprised
Speaker 2: because I think people really liked Jen. But I it
Speaker 2: was the amount of people who were obsessed with Maria
Speaker 2: and Daisy. It felt like it had to be one
Speaker 2: of them because people were just obsessed with them on
Speaker 2: social media and tick.
Speaker 3: That I also read in these the same article that
Speaker 3: Maria and Daisy turned it down.
Speaker 4: I'm sure they did.
Speaker 3: Why would you turn it down?
Speaker 4: Because I think there's more opportunity.
Speaker 3: I don't.
Speaker 4: I mean, I think there's more opportunity maybe to go
Speaker 4: and like.
Speaker 2: Create your own My thing is, if they're under contract
Speaker 2: and they can't do like podcasts and social media stuff
Speaker 2: without permission, do they have the do they really have
Speaker 2: the freedom to go out and create business?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Right, I don't know.
Speaker 3: And like, how long does that contract last?
Speaker 4: I think it's two years. I don't know, though I
Speaker 4: could be wrong. I could that.
Speaker 2: I don't have proof of that, but I want to
Speaker 2: say it's around two years.
Speaker 4: But yeah, that's I know.
Speaker 3: I was like, I just don't understand the mindset of
Speaker 3: turning it down. If like, you're getting all these amazing
Speaker 3: opportunities from being on the Bachelor, you would think, Okay,
Speaker 3: if I'm the Bacherette, I'll get those same opportunities and
Speaker 3: then I'll find out of these twenty five men, I'm
Speaker 3: going to find my husband.
Speaker 2: Maybe they I mean, maybe they were both like after
Speaker 2: you know, it was weird because after Ben's season, I
Speaker 2: specifically remember being like that was when I first started thinking,
Speaker 2: am I ready to get married because I felt like
Speaker 2: my whole life it was like I need to be
Speaker 2: married by twenty five and have two kids, you know.
Speaker 2: And then I think I took a step back after
Speaker 2: getting dumped on TV at second time, and I go,
Speaker 2: do I even really.
Speaker 4: Want to be married right now? Like is that what
Speaker 4: I'm trying to do?
Speaker 2: Or am I doing something that's And maybe they had
Speaker 2: a real realization of I just want to have fun
Speaker 2: and I'm not trying to get married or like engaged
Speaker 2: at the end of this interesting point, which props if
Speaker 2: they did that, because they could have just taken the
Speaker 2: opportunity and been like, I'll take it right right, I'll
Speaker 2: use this to my advantage. Wow, I don't know, but yeah,
Speaker 2: it was. It was a really it was a great season.
Speaker 2: Gotta say congrats to everybody involved.
Speaker 3: So dare listening, We would love to have you.
Speaker 4: Messager, she's down, she's gotta ask ABC.
Speaker 3: So ABC, come on, come on, let us let us talk.
Speaker 4: Let the girls talk.
Speaker 2: The girls, just have some girl child, have some girl
Speaker 2: hit chat, girl chit chat.
Speaker 3: You know who won't be coming on our podcast? Who
Speaker 3: Harry Shum Junior.
Speaker 4: He will not, he will not. He passed he passed.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're we don't know if it was the team
Speaker 3: or public publicity team of who.
Speaker 4: We don't know who passed, but we do know.
Speaker 3: That we are beyond the passing. We are past the passing.
Speaker 1: That's unfortunate. I am caught up on Gray's Anatomy, or
Speaker 1: either of you caught up on Gray's Anatomy.
Speaker 3: No, no, but are you liking it?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Actually, yeah, at one to ten, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't. I just enjoy watching Gray's Anatomy. When I
Speaker 1: watch Gray's Anatomy, I am in my happy place. I'm
Speaker 1: with people that I love and trust.
Speaker 3: I don't believe you, I do.
Speaker 1: I enjoy this show.
Speaker 2: I have.
Speaker 1: This show has been part of my life for a
Speaker 1: very very long time. So yeah, I'm enjoying it.
Speaker 2: I get that it's been a part of my life
Speaker 2: as well for the same amount of time. Yeah, but
Speaker 2: I don't all the warm fuzzies that I once felt.
Speaker 3: Correct.
Speaker 1: You know this isn't going to help get the Harry
Speaker 1: Sham juniors up.
Speaker 4: The world set. We're upset.
Speaker 3: Yeah, let us be upset.
Speaker 4: No, here's my thing.
Speaker 2: I watched the I know it was a joke that
Speaker 2: I fell asleep during it. I didn't fall asleep because
Speaker 2: I wasn't enjoying it. I just fell because I was exhausted.
Speaker 2: But I'm not a post I liked that Bailey is
Speaker 2: back when she walked in and she said I have
Speaker 2: five rules and that's how it ended.
Speaker 3: Hm.
Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, I do like this little flashback,
Speaker 2: you know. I like that Meredith is still wanted even
Speaker 2: though wrote our goodbye letter and everything.
Speaker 3: I'm not writing it off. I'm just like, so, I
Speaker 3: like to binge if I get one episode of something
Speaker 3: it drives men, letting it build up a little bit.
Speaker 1: How many are you gonna get? Because we got three
Speaker 1: right now?
Speaker 3: I do three?
Speaker 1: Okay? Great?
Speaker 3: Yeah, yah, yeah, I'll kick back with a little great good.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd like that. I'd like to be able to
Speaker 1: talk to about to you about it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no problem.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, back with the ice water and Almonds family.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I really want Meredith to solve Alzheimer's. I'm really hoping.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that'd be a good one.
Speaker 1: It'd be great.
Speaker 3: Yeah, gosh, I would love it.
Speaker 4: Can she do that on the show if they haven't
Speaker 4: done it in real life?
Speaker 2: Yeah, he knows, because I feel like they really followed
Speaker 2: the trajectory of real medical I wonder how.
Speaker 1: They're doing that. I wonder if they're like tracking the
Speaker 1: actual developments and Alzheimer's and kind of having her research
Speaker 1: mirror it, because that would be neat.
Speaker 4: What if that's why they just keep the show going.
Speaker 4: Maybe that would be so epic.
Speaker 3: That's not like art art imitating life.
Speaker 4: Wait, yeah, it is right right?
Speaker 3: What is the life?
Speaker 2: It's yeah, you had it the first time. Ye damn,
Speaker 2: you almost just nail that. It's okay, okay, so we'll
Speaker 2: get caught up on grays. We're just you know, what
Speaker 2: you have to do is you have to put the
Speaker 2: feelers out there of who wants to come on the show.
Speaker 2: And if they say no, you say, you're gonna miss
Speaker 2: me when I'm gone.
Speaker 3: You're when I'm going when I'm gone.
Speaker 4: You're gonna miss me when I'm gone. You're gonna miss
Speaker 4: me by by hair, You're gonna miss me everywhere. You're
Speaker 4: gonna miss me when I'm gone. Nice. Oh, what's your
Speaker 4: pick for Song of the Year tonight? Do you want
Speaker 4: me to read the nominees?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Calm down? Is it rima or rama?
Speaker 1: You want to sing a little bit of each one
Speaker 1: or something that people can show.
Speaker 3: Me how you calm down, calm down, dance with me
Speaker 3: and take the Lena. That's that one creeping I thought
Speaker 3: I saw you hung the.
Speaker 4: Cruel Summer and you.
Speaker 3: It's a crul soum.
Speaker 4: The thing with this is weird.
Speaker 2: I don't think we could get in trouble for this
Speaker 2: because it doesn't sound like it.
Speaker 3: You take that night, doesn't run, watch me dance the
Speaker 3: night away, best card. You got a fast come, I
Speaker 3: got a ticket to anywhere. And we're gonna have the
Speaker 3: convenience store flowers. I can buy mysel flowers.
Speaker 4: Kill Bill, I just killed my es.
Speaker 3: I still love him though. Last night, Man, last night
Speaker 3: we let the winder talk. I can't remember everything said.
Speaker 4: Paint the town red, Oh, paint the town red.
Speaker 3: We had de.
Speaker 4: She Rebel.
Speaker 3: I don't know, Vampire.
Speaker 2: You made some real big mistakes, but I made.
Speaker 3: The most looks.
Speaker 4: Okay, so what your vote?
Speaker 3: There's a lot of them.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm gonna have to have it to Cral Summer
Speaker 3: by Taylor Swift.
Speaker 1: No no, no, no.
Speaker 4: No, I take it back.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna go do Alipa dance to night.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go Flowers, Maya Cyrus. Wow, what about artists
Speaker 2: of the Year. We have Drake, Jelly Roll, Luke Holmb's,
Speaker 2: Miley Cyrus, Morgan Wall and Olivia Rodrigo, Shakira, Sizza, Taylor
Speaker 2: Swift and not sure.
Speaker 4: Has to go to Taylor Swift obviously is she gonna
Speaker 4: be there?
Speaker 3: I don't know. Oh, she's not like reported to be there.
Speaker 1: Correct, we have not been publicizing her attendance.
Speaker 3: Correct, But I can either confirm nor deny.
Speaker 2: I'm going to say, Sizza, that's actually a good pick.
Speaker 3: I do think she's going to be there.
Speaker 4: Thank you? Yeah, Okay, I wanted to. We're going to
Speaker 4: talk about birth order, dating theory and human design, but
Speaker 4: first we're going to take a break. All right, we
Speaker 4: are back.
Speaker 2: So TikTok has recently popular popularized the birth order of
Speaker 2: dating theory.
Speaker 4: So that means whatever order you and.
Speaker 2: Your siblings are born, or you have lack of siblings altogether,
Speaker 2: it might affect who you're drawn to to date, correct,
Speaker 2: which is interesting, very interesting. So the Tony tone is
Speaker 2: an author, and she said, he said, I.
Speaker 3: Don't know if it's a guy or girl. Tony is really.
Speaker 4: Tony to.
Speaker 3: Give it to ton.
Speaker 1: Mark I'm working on it. Tony Tone is an ASAP
Speaker 1: rocky song. Someone have to go deeper than that, because
Speaker 1: I don't think that's what we're looking for.
Speaker 4: T O and I.
Speaker 3: By the way, Liz said that my breath did not smell.
Speaker 4: Oh that's so nice, thank you. She's very polite.
Speaker 1: It's a woman is a female. That is confirmed.
Speaker 4: Great, Okay.
Speaker 2: So she says that unions of individuals with different birth
Speaker 2: orders are actually generally more successful than unions of individuals
Speaker 2: with the same birth order, citing an article she read
Speaker 2: of called how birth order affects marriage. So firstborn's rule,
Speaker 2: middleborn's mediate, and last born's charm.
Speaker 3: So what's very funny is because I like look at
Speaker 3: this stuff and I like panic, and I'm like, so
Speaker 3: doctor who believed all these people? But anyway, she slays
Speaker 3: doctor Lemon. Lemon Lemon believes that the highest divorce rate
Speaker 3: is actually an only child with another only child.
Speaker 4: So that's wait because it might make cause both to
Speaker 4: fight for attention.
Speaker 3: Which I believe. But then Tony Tone says this, the
Speaker 3: most successful marriage is is when a firstborn marries a
Speaker 3: last born, and that's the situation. Rhyme. Yeah, wow, Robby's
Speaker 3: the firstborn and I'm the last born.
Speaker 4: So it's like an opposite attract thing going on. That's why.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and the firstborn is usually like very type A,
Speaker 3: but I'm the last.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 3: The last born keeps it like light and stuff. And
Speaker 3: it's very funny because rob and I are actually the opposite.
Speaker 3: I'm more type A and he's kind of easy breezy.
Speaker 4: But y'all are opposite.
Speaker 2: But really it could have nothing to do with your
Speaker 2: birth order. We're about just being opposite.
Speaker 3: But I love it when something tells me our mayriorg
Speaker 3: just gonna be successful.
Speaker 4: I love that too.
Speaker 1: Well.
Speaker 2: Haley and I are both second born. I guess technically middle.
Speaker 2: She's a true middle because she has she's one of three.
Speaker 2: I'm one of five, so I'm the second oldest of
Speaker 2: five kids. It says if you are a middle child,
Speaker 2: the best match is the last born and the worst
Speaker 2: match is another middle child. But I'm gonna tell Becca this,
Speaker 2: oh tony to It says middle children do not communicate well,
Speaker 2: which actually I don't communicate well.
Speaker 4: I've had to really work on that.
Speaker 2: But Haley is like an expert communicator, so maybe that's
Speaker 2: where she defies the odds.
Speaker 4: That's where we defy the odds.
Speaker 2: They don't tend to confront each other about things because
Speaker 2: they feel it isn't worth the hassle.
Speaker 4: So that's me, Like I'm a true middle child in that.
Speaker 2: But I think Hayley has more firstborn tendencies where she's
Speaker 2: like a leader, she's doesn't mind confrontation, she's good communicator.
Speaker 2: So I think that's why we work because I do
Speaker 2: think if someone else had my personality was like lax
Speaker 2: and like not confrontational and didn't communicate.
Speaker 4: It'd be very hard.
Speaker 3: It would be very hard for.
Speaker 4: Us because nothing would ever be accomplished.
Speaker 3: So so it's something to look at.
Speaker 4: It's something to look at, but don't get to ponder.
Speaker 4: Get a what's it? What do you open.
Speaker 3: To the possibility? Not attached to the outcom exactly.
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is a great example.
Speaker 1: So my wife and I are both firstborn, So that's bad, right.
Speaker 4: Oh, it says you tend to Oh wait wait wait
Speaker 4: it says that.
Speaker 3: It says, who's gonna tell mar I know the highest divorce?
Speaker 1: Oh no, I was pretty happy. That's the terrible news
Speaker 1: from me?
Speaker 2: Who are both Oh it says this leads to higher
Speaker 2: divorce writing people who are both firstborns because they can
Speaker 2: disagree more often.
Speaker 4: Do you all disagree a lot?
Speaker 1: You know lately?
Speaker 4: Is it because of all.
Speaker 2: The attention you're getting on our TikTok reels and videos?
Speaker 3: You know, it's so funny.
Speaker 1: My kids obviously see those and they never say a
Speaker 1: word about it. I think they see it. They roll
Speaker 1: their eyes and they scroll on by Hilary just dad.
Speaker 1: You know, it's like not even worth commenting on.
Speaker 4: Wow.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I had a lot of people be like, I
Speaker 2: need to know Mark's kids reactions to that.
Speaker 1: Not zero was the reaction to that.
Speaker 4: Zero reaction snap chatting their friends about it.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's possible, but I was told nothing of it.
Speaker 3: Wow.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's pretty funny.
Speaker 3: That is so funny. Like I also just can't imagine
Speaker 3: like when I was a kid, like my dad was
Speaker 3: a psychiatrist, Like if I saw my dad pop up
Speaker 3: on social media, I'd be so thrown off.
Speaker 2: I think they just used to this kind of nonsense, right,
Speaker 2: I think the well, I also think that's just they're
Speaker 2: used to seeing people on like social media, like.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like yeah, you're just Ken, I'm just Ken. Yeah,
Speaker 3: you're just dad.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: We briefly touched on the human design test last week.
Speaker 2: What right, Yeah, I was wanted to get into it
Speaker 2: a little deeper today if y'all are open to it, sure, Okay.
Speaker 2: So basically, you go to this website it's called a
Speaker 2: humandesign dot com, and all you need is your date
Speaker 2: of birth, the time you were born, and then the
Speaker 2: city in town where you were born in and then
Speaker 2: I think it asked for your name. That's it, just
Speaker 2: all your information.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so what it.
Speaker 1: Looks at, what it looks at the stars, the position
Speaker 1: of the stars the minute you were born, and how
Speaker 1: that relates to the actual town you're in at the time.
Speaker 1: Where they don't explain these things.
Speaker 3: We don't know where anything gets itself.
Speaker 4: Stuff from giving our personal information. Yeah, for this, for
Speaker 4: this clarity we needed.
Speaker 1: But so what you're saying is it's all made up.
Speaker 1: Excuse me, I feel like that's what you just said. No,
Speaker 1: we don't know where they get the stuff because they've
Speaker 1: made it all up.
Speaker 3: But it's so accurate that it obviously comes from somewhere.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's that accurate.
Speaker 2: Oh, I think it's a I'm sure there's some science
Speaker 2: or astrology associated with it.
Speaker 1: You're putting astrology and science in the same sentence in
Speaker 1: those do not go together in any way.
Speaker 3: Actually, but that's okay. Becca. It is funny though, because
Speaker 3: all this stuff, like I believe in all this stuff
Speaker 3: so much. And it was very funny because over the
Speaker 3: weekend we were talking about our attachment styles, Robbie and
Speaker 3: I because I'm insecurely, yeah, anxious attached. And he looks
Speaker 3: at me and he's kind of just like, so, how
Speaker 3: long are you going to be that? He's like, we're engaged,
Speaker 3: we're about to get married, are you that? He's like,
Speaker 3: are you insecurely attached?
Speaker 4: For life?
Speaker 3: Like is that what we're doing? I was like, that's
Speaker 3: a great question, Like I don't you know, like I
Speaker 3: only took the quiz. I think I took the quiz
Speaker 3: before I started dating him, So that's really all I've
Speaker 3: ever you know what I mean, Like I never I
Speaker 3: haven't taken the quiz inside my relationship. And I was like, Wow,
Speaker 3: what a profound question.
Speaker 4: How long are you going to be that?
Speaker 3: It's so funny, So just like an a like for
Speaker 3: the rest of our lives thing, or like you know,
Speaker 3: I would think you'd feel pretty secure now, you know.
Speaker 3: And I was like, wow, yeah, interesting perspective.
Speaker 1: Well it's here, with help and support, it's possible to
Speaker 1: overcome an anxious attachment style. So maybe, yeah, you can
Speaker 1: really what I said.
Speaker 3: With a little help and support, I thought that.
Speaker 4: I think he maybe felt that big old rock on
Speaker 4: your finger was the help and support.
Speaker 2: He thought, you know what, I know what to do
Speaker 2: to calm her anxious attachment.
Speaker 3: Right, this is going to solve it right there, put
Speaker 3: it right on her face.
Speaker 4: But but no.
Speaker 3: Well I don't know. Like now I'm like, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I've I haven't really taken the quiz.
Speaker 4: Taking the quiz, how do you feel? I think it's
Speaker 4: less about what a quiz says and more about how
Speaker 4: you feel.
Speaker 3: About they known myself to be this way. I haven't
Speaker 3: like really gone introspective on myself in a while, so
Speaker 3: maybe I need to.
Speaker 2: I think, Wait, I'm so confused because being anxiously attaches
Speaker 2: how you react to certain situations in your relationship.
Speaker 4: What do you get insecure about? How when you feel safe? If?
Speaker 4: Do you feel seen? Do you feel securely attached?
Speaker 1: Right? I'm asking that was an actual question.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think so, I was like, I think I'm there.
Speaker 4: Great.
Speaker 2: Then I don't know that you need to rattle yourself
Speaker 2: up by taking it online quiz.
Speaker 3: I might need to take the quiz.
Speaker 2: I don't think if you feel like you can say
Speaker 2: you're there.
Speaker 3: It's like my whole life, you're being told one thing
Speaker 3: and then it's just flips, like you know, yeah, because
Speaker 3: you take someone who need to digest this new era
Speaker 3: of myself.
Speaker 1: But does it mean that you're if you're an anxious
Speaker 1: attached person, but you've been in a relationship for I
Speaker 1: don't know ten years or something, are you then are
Speaker 1: you just more susceptible to paranoia?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I think it's like the anxious attached person it's
Speaker 3: always waiting for the shoe to drop right right right,
Speaker 3: which is like a horrible way terrible, yeah, horrible.
Speaker 1: So hopefully you can get past this.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I'm there, But.
Speaker 1: Also you might be there and then something might happen.
Speaker 3: To bring it back.
Speaker 1: Yeah right right, yeah, like you're never far from it.
Speaker 3: Right exactly. It takes one little I'm right back in
Speaker 3: it right yeah. Oh man, I know, try living in
Speaker 3: it for a minute.
Speaker 2: I mean I did, I kind of did you're avoidant?
Speaker 4: No, I was not. I think I I think I've shifted.
Speaker 4: I think I had a shift.
Speaker 3: I was you can shift.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I lived avoid avoidantly attached for most of
Speaker 2: my life and then when I started dating Haley, it.
Speaker 3: Switched, which is tough.
Speaker 4: It's not what you want. No, you don't want to go.
Speaker 2: You want to go from anxious to secure or avoidant
Speaker 2: to secure.
Speaker 4: You don't want to go backwards.
Speaker 3: No, or avoidant to insecure feels dark.
Speaker 4: Let me tell you it was a shift.
Speaker 3: Is a shift in the shift.
Speaker 4: To darkness of night?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, So you are in the human design You're
Speaker 2: a manifestor.
Speaker 3: That's right. Only eight percent of the population is a manifestor.
Speaker 4: Wow, sang Son.
Speaker 3: But in terms of career, manifestors possess a strong ability
Speaker 3: to initiate projects. Though they often face challenges in sustaining
Speaker 3: energy levels, they thrive in roles where they can initiate projects.
Speaker 3: In terms of relationship, manifestors nurture healthy relationships by openly
Speaker 3: communicating their need for autonomy and freedom, while emphasizing the
Speaker 3: importance of informing before taking action.
Speaker 1: How many of these do we need?
Speaker 3: So many?
Speaker 1: Like we have the horoscopes. We have this. Now we
Speaker 1: have the life path numbers, love languages. Do we know?
Speaker 1: Do we need all these?
Speaker 3: Yes? Because the more knowledge is power? Mark, do you
Speaker 3: not feel more powerful when you know this stuff about you?
Speaker 1: I know I've met myself and I don't know that
Speaker 1: this is accurate. And I don't know that any of
Speaker 1: it met yourself. See that's the problem. That's how you
Speaker 1: do it. You say this sounds like you. No, it doesn't, Oh,
Speaker 1: because you don't know yourself. Wouldn't I know myself better
Speaker 1: than the life path number would know myself?
Speaker 3: I don't think so. I don't think so.
Speaker 1: Boy, they just they see you coming with this stuff,
Speaker 1: don't they? You are.
Speaker 3: I'm the target. I'm totally the target.
Speaker 4: I'm like, how do you feel?
Speaker 2: She's like, well, I got to take a test, and
Speaker 2: I'll let you know, take my attachment test.
Speaker 4: You know, I can tell you to feel the relationship.
Speaker 4: Do you feel secure to not get back to you?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yours could say like you're a huge sports fan.
Speaker 1: He'd be like, am I I don't think I am.
Speaker 1: I've never liked sports before. I need to start watching sports.
Speaker 3: Yeah, let me explore it. Maybe I'm missing something. But
Speaker 3: maybe they just wrong locked the inner child in myself.
Speaker 1: But couldn't they just be wrong? Nope, because seems very General's.
Speaker 3: Because a projector so. Projectors represent twenty percent of the
Speaker 3: human design population.
Speaker 2: Wait, this is Mine's actually quite interesting. So unlike generators
Speaker 2: and manifestors, they await invitations aligning with valued opportunities. Embracing
Speaker 2: this way strategy is key to their effectiveness. Understanding their
Speaker 2: human design enhances their potential thriving on rest in short
Speaker 2: bursts of work, they require ample time to recharge.
Speaker 1: Okay, here's a question. How many of these are there?
Speaker 4: Four?
Speaker 2: Well, I think there's four because there's a generating manifesto.
Speaker 3: I think that's what Mark's a manifesting general.
Speaker 1: That's sure, a tried and true, born and raged. So
Speaker 1: there's eight billion people on Earth. Saying that there's two
Speaker 1: billion of each of these, and all those two billion
Speaker 1: people have these traits.
Speaker 4: Well, it's not all evenly dispersed exactly, Mark.
Speaker 1: I don't think that helps the argument, though. What I'm
Speaker 1: saying is there's billions of people and they all fit
Speaker 1: into one of these categories.
Speaker 4: At the end of the day, we're all humans, Mark,
Speaker 4: Not everyone's going to take the test.
Speaker 3: Also at the end of the day, Yes, that is accurate.
Speaker 4: Okay, this is important. This is important.
Speaker 2: They thrive when their gifts are appreciated, fostering meaningful connections
Speaker 2: while preserving boundaries. Rest is crucial, requiring partner understanding. Although
Speaker 2: drawn to certain types, successful relationships are possible through mutual respect.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 2: So basically it says you projectors bring unique strengths to
Speaker 2: the workplace, such as understanding systems and guiding others towards efficiency,
Speaker 2: but traditional work structures can be challenging due to their
Speaker 2: inconsistent energy.
Speaker 3: Becca, that's so Beca.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but most of what you just read is true
Speaker 1: of a lot of people, especially the projectors, but especially
Speaker 1: the nice stuff. Everyone takes those compliments as like, yep,
Speaker 1: that's me for sure.
Speaker 4: I do that nice to be like I don't.
Speaker 1: But rest is crucial. Everybody in the world could be like, yes, I.
Speaker 2: Do need to know, but like how much you and
Speaker 2: Tanya rest is very different than how much I rest?
Speaker 4: Okay, because manifested to.
Speaker 1: Justify laziness, aren't you with this point?
Speaker 4: Is cent noon?
Speaker 2: But I when I when I know a lot of No,
Speaker 2: it's because I'm a projector allet like when I did
Speaker 2: the Bachelorette. But like all the socializing, I have to
Speaker 2: I need a day of like nothingness, like don't look
Speaker 2: at me, don't talk to me, like Tanya called me,
Speaker 2: and I was like, I'm having my day of nothing
Speaker 2: and you're trying to talk about work and I have
Speaker 2: to cut you off right, oh god.
Speaker 1: But also I don't honestly, I don't think you're lazy.
Speaker 1: I think if you wanted to.
Speaker 2: Be said that. My test didn't say I was lazy.
Speaker 2: Said I needed to rechart.
Speaker 1: You said, okay, But I don't want you to take
Speaker 1: me the wrong way. I think about you that you
Speaker 1: could do a rewarding radio show if you wanted to
Speaker 1: do it.
Speaker 4: But I need time to recharge. I want to go.
Speaker 2: If I did what y'all did, I would go home
Speaker 2: and sleep. I want to go and run errands and
Speaker 2: try to get more stuff done.
Speaker 4: I'd be like, I'm good. You would do what you
Speaker 4: gotta do exactly I go to bed.
Speaker 1: No, I don't think you might.
Speaker 4: I would get up.
Speaker 3: You get up and you do the morning show, and
Speaker 3: then you would have stuff to do. You need to
Speaker 3: take Phoebe to the vet. You need to get groceries.
Speaker 3: Like there's just like life, you make it happen.
Speaker 2: I appreciate, I appreciate your hope and trust and faith
Speaker 2: in me, but I want it well, Mark, what is
Speaker 2: yours that you don't see as yourself manifesting?
Speaker 1: This is so long and reading it is so what
Speaker 1: are the parts? I'm known from my energetic nature and
Speaker 1: unique approach to life? Like that everybody can say that's
Speaker 1: true of themselves. Now it's like unique are just generic.
Speaker 1: They throw them out there so that it matches everybody,
Speaker 1: and everybody go, yeah, that's me. In relationships, they inspire
Speaker 1: with their creativity and drive and may face misunderstanding to
Speaker 1: their nonlinear style. I don't know what any of that means.
Speaker 1: Got a wife and we haven't a nice time? Like,
Speaker 1: there's no none of that's actually the work work.
Speaker 3: You excel in the workplace due to their ability to
Speaker 3: respond and manifest, making them versatile and dynamic. They thrive
Speaker 3: and environments that allow them to utilize their energy, creativity,
Speaker 3: and rapid manifestation abilities, but may feel constrained by rigid structures.
Speaker 3: That's you, it's not me.
Speaker 4: He loves rigid structure.
Speaker 1: I love I am born to be rigidly structure.
Speaker 2: I don't know a more rigidly structured person, Like, but.
Speaker 1: Do you see how your brain just made that fit
Speaker 1: me even though it's completely not.
Speaker 3: Me because I don't think I think rigid structure. I
Speaker 3: think in terms of work, because that's what we're looking
Speaker 3: at here. A rigid structured job would be. You do
Speaker 3: not work in a rigid structured job.
Speaker 1: I mean I, but I kind of do. I don't
Speaker 1: do nine to five, but my days on the morning
Speaker 1: show are rigidly structured. I know when I'm getting up,
Speaker 1: I know what I'm eating my oatmeal, I know when
Speaker 1: I'm starting the show. I know what I'm doing after
Speaker 1: the show. It's structure. I thrive on structure.
Speaker 3: I wouldn't say it's rigidly structured your work environment, okay,
Speaker 3: Like rigidly structured would be like a doctor in the
Speaker 3: O R.
Speaker 1: Becca's right, though, and I disagree with that because a
Speaker 1: doctor in the O R has a lot of stuff coming.
Speaker 1: Beca's right that I when she said I'm the most
Speaker 1: rigidly structured person, I.
Speaker 2: Gotta say, like, you eat your same things every well,
Speaker 2: every night of the week, every.
Speaker 1: Day, same I'm boom structured.
Speaker 3: Honestly, I'm getting close to that. I'm creeping up you originally,
Speaker 3: Like between our meal prep, I'm like, I literally feel
Speaker 3: like I meaning the same four things. I just go
Speaker 3: in the fridge and let me take that and take
Speaker 3: that and go. Yeah, it's kind of nice as a projector.
Speaker 4: That's a projector.
Speaker 2: That does not sound blissful to me, But I'm happy
Speaker 2: for y'all. All right, Well, you know, to each their
Speaker 2: own to be open to the outcome.
Speaker 4: Possibility is not attached to the outcome. There we go.
Speaker 2: That's all for now, because Tanya, we have to get
Speaker 2: you off to the iHeart Awards.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Mama's got, Mama's gotta go.
Speaker 2: There's a part of me that feels like she thinks
Speaker 2: those are the worst.
Speaker 3: Mama's gotta go. I sing it to myself often, So
Speaker 3: what's the real song? I don't know, but I sing
Speaker 3: it to my dog whenever I leave the house. Mamma's
Speaker 3: gotta go.
Speaker 2: Have you seen those blind karaoke challenges? I really want
Speaker 2: to that might be enough. I don't know how we
Speaker 2: could do.
Speaker 1: I think we can do that, but it's so funny.
Speaker 4: As a TikTok video.
Speaker 1: The original song at Jane's.
Speaker 3: Mama's gotta go.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, on that note, I gotta go, and before
Speaker 2: we hear that one more time, we're gonna end the podcast.
Speaker 4: But I will be back on Thursday.
Speaker 2: I'm doing an interview with a Golden Bachelor lady, Susan
Speaker 2: and Kathy.
Speaker 4: I'm very excited. I feel like it'll be a very giggly,
Speaker 4: giggly goosey time.
Speaker 3: I'm excited for you to chat with the Golden Bachelors
Speaker 3: as well. And I just want to say thank you
Speaker 3: for the love on the Jason Tarctic interview. Somebody commented
Speaker 3: underneath the video and said, my questions were very Alex
Speaker 3: Cooper vibes. Oh thank you. I know, pat myself to
Speaker 3: great job you.
Speaker 1: I think it's the new studio. It's bringing out the best.
Speaker 3: The best of me. Yeah, totally.
Speaker 4: Well, we'll be back Thursday. Have a great week. We
Speaker 4: love you so much.
Speaker 3: Bye bye
Speaker 2: H