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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya Rap an iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.

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Speaker 3: Scrub dub dub.

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Speaker 4: Tanya, you are so glam for today's podcast, right.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 3: I like to do this every once in a while,

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Speaker 3: go from.

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Speaker 4: Garbage to look like Barbie.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Barbi, Hey Barby.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 3: I did it because I'm going to be hosting the

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Speaker 3: iHeartRadio Music Awards Yellow Carpet later on today, so had

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Speaker 3: to get it done in between the morning show and

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Speaker 3: the podcast.

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Speaker 4: She's a busy She's a business woman.

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Speaker 3: She's a business gal today, busy gal.

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Speaker 4: Yes, who are you going to be interviewing at the awards?

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Speaker 3: Who will I not be interviewing? That's the question.

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Speaker 4: The question is who will you be interviewing?

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Speaker 3: I mean whoever we can get, whoever's there? Rilla's on

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Speaker 3: my list?

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Doci? Who else? TLC Green Day?

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Speaker 1: Uh so Beyonce is not in your list?

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Speaker 3: Beyonce is not on my list. No, she will be there,

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Speaker 3: but I don't think I'll even be breathing the same

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Speaker 3: air as her, although I would love it.

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Speaker 4: What did I think today was the podcast? I Heart

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Speaker 4: Podcast Awards?

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Speaker 3: No I heard Radio Music Awards. Oh, the Podcast Awards

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Speaker 3: were in Texas, I think a couple of weeks ago. Wow,

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Speaker 3: we were not dominated that.

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Speaker 4: Okay, wow, that's exciting. So Beyonce will be there?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Who else?

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Speaker 3: Share? Justin Timberlake. Tate McCrae, Oh my gosh. Yeah, Ludacris

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Speaker 3: is hosting it.

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Speaker 4: Are you gonna meet Tate McRae. I hope? I mean

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Speaker 4: you've met her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I hope.

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Speaker 2: So wow, that's cool. Yeah, stay tuned for the Yellow Carpet.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I will say though. Avri Labine is supposed to

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Speaker 3: be there, and I really have met her before.

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Speaker 4: But did you meet her or Melissa?

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh? Are you into the conspiracy theory?

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Speaker 2: I I don't know, but like it's fun to it's

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Speaker 2: just fun.

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Speaker 4: It's crazy, it's crazy. So which one did you meet?

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Speaker 3: Avril?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I'm sure of it because she knew me. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 3: she knew she remembered me, that's right.

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Speaker 4: Who wouldn't remember you? Well, a lot of people really

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Speaker 4: like people have introduced themselves up to you multiple times.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I'm like, I just interviewed you last week.

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Speaker 4: It's fine, I think.

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Speaker 2: I I guess you can't get to a point where

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Speaker 2: you just say, oh, yeah, we met like we did

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Speaker 2: the interview.

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Speaker 4: I mean, that's a polite way of saying it, right.

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Speaker 3: None take celebrity out of it, just in general, Peep.

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Speaker 3: You meet people at the grocery store, the doctor's office.

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Speaker 3: You never know we're going to meet someone, so always

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Speaker 3: just say nice to see you, nice to see you.

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Speaker 3: I do never reach out a hand, just never it

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Speaker 3: went and out. Don't throw it out.

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Speaker 2: Wow, it took one person to say we've met before

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Speaker 2: for me to go I'm never saying nice to meet

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Speaker 2: you again. I'm only seeing saying it's so great to

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Speaker 2: see you.

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Speaker 4: How have you been, how are you? What have you

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Speaker 4: been up to?

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Speaker 2: Just so i'll see reference any anything that clicks yeah.

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Speaker 3: Wow, yeah. Just take that away from today's podcast. When

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Speaker 3: in doubt, don't throw it out.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what that means, but.

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Speaker 3: Like it Ryan, in doubt, don't throw it out, throw

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Speaker 3: what out, throw out the it's nice to meet you, Okay.

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Speaker 4: When in doubt, don't throw it out.

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Speaker 1: Ryan and Sys again on Tanya's case recently, because sometimes

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Speaker 1: she'll say something and they'll say what does that mean,

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Speaker 1: and she'll just repeat it exactly the same way said

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Speaker 1: the first time, which just you just end up going

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Speaker 1: in circles. Right, I don't know what that means. Then

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Speaker 1: she just repeated it when in doubt, don't throw it

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Speaker 1: out right.

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Speaker 2: It's her way of she doesn't know what it means,

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Speaker 2: but it's her way of gaslighting you into thinking that

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Speaker 2: explains what it means, right, maybe to.

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Speaker 1: Work it out in her head.

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Speaker 4: What it it's her stalling?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, is that what it is?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I have a gas lighter you are. Yeah, that's right.

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Speaker 4: It's it's a it's gentle gas lighting.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not harmful. It's not intentional.

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Speaker 4: No, it's not harmful. What did you do over the weekend?

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Speaker 3: I feel like you really want to talk about the

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Speaker 3: Bachelor finale, so I'm gonna I'm gonna just skip to

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Speaker 3: the good part.

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Speaker 4: I wasn't I wasn't like racing to talk about it.

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Speaker 3: But okay, we can talk about it a little bit

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Speaker 3: because I know you have a lot of thoughts. My

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Speaker 3: weekend was I think a lot more chill than your weekend.

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Speaker 4: My weekend is quite chill. Oh really, just out of

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Speaker 4: town to Mechula.

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Speaker 3: I know, it's very funny.

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Speaker 1: I was.

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Speaker 3: I can't remember I was trying to talk business to

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Speaker 3: you or something over the weekend, and Robbie goes, can't

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Speaker 3: you just call her right now? And I was like, well, no,

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Speaker 3: I know she's in Temecula for Haley's birthday, so I

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Speaker 3: don't want to bog her down. Is that nice? I

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Speaker 3: respect people's boundaries these days, those very these days and

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Speaker 3: trying to inspect people's boundaries.

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Speaker 4: Yes, no, I appreciate that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. We went to Temecula for Haley's little birthday get

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Speaker 2: away with all her.

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Speaker 4: Besties, and it rained the whole weekend.

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Speaker 2: We literally got the house that we got because it

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Speaker 2: had a pickleball court, it had like sand beach volleyball,

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Speaker 2: it had this beautiful pool, outdoor grill, outdoor fire pit.

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Speaker 4: It rained the like poured rain.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so I did.

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Speaker 2: We did some rigs, some umbrellas together and got in

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Speaker 2: the jacuzzi.

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Speaker 4: So that was nice. Nice, But it was really fun.

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Speaker 2: You know, it really tests the type of people you

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Speaker 2: surround yourself with. If you can be indoors and playing

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Speaker 2: games and just chilling for a whole weekend, yes.

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Speaker 4: And everyone's good with it.

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Speaker 3: Nice.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So it was really fun, very fun, chill, relaxing.

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Speaker 2: And Haley's love language is food and games and just

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Speaker 4: So she has a couple who are.

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Speaker 2: Amazing chefs and they made the most incredible meal.

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Speaker 4: It was insane. I was like, wow, this is so cool.

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Speaker 3: That just she can whip this stuff and they.

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Speaker 4: Just whip it up. They had a whole menu.

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Speaker 3: Made it come so like natural to some people. It

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Speaker 3: does not come natural to me.

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Speaker 4: And I think it's a passion.

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Speaker 2: Like people love it and they love trying things and

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Speaker 2: tasting them, and it was it was really special.

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Speaker 3: So I think she feels loved through my chia pudding

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Speaker 3: that I made for her.

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Speaker 4: Tanya has made her.

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Speaker 3: Award winning what a word? It won Bestchia Pudding and

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Speaker 3: by whom West La Robbie.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Robbie Yadegar has made this West l A's best pudding.

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Speaker 2: And Haley loves chia pudding and so this they made

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Speaker 2: this for Haley's birthday. So this is such a great

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Speaker 2: gift because she loves food.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think she's I think it's gonna be

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Speaker 3: the best Shea pudding she's ever tasted.

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Speaker 2: And the reason is because it's homemade almond milk and

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Speaker 2: Tany was like, well, you're in trouble if she likes it,

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Speaker 2: because then you're gonna have to make it. I was like, no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: you're gonna have to make it. No, no, no, no

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Speaker 2: one thing about me. I don't make my own milk.

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Speaker 3: Well, well think about you is you might have to.

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Speaker 4: I did do it during the pandemic a few times,

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Speaker 4: so it's really good. Just a lot of work.

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Speaker 3: It's a lot of work, but the payoff is worth

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Speaker 3: it in my opinion. Yeah, okay, so we I just

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Speaker 3: have to tell you, I know I recommended Traders. You

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Speaker 3: haven't seen anything until you watch the UK season two

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Speaker 2: Haley is either watching or almost done with season one.

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Speaker 3: Season two is absolutely extraordinary. Why extraordinary? Why it is

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Speaker 3: so good? And I've come to the conclusion that I

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Speaker 3: think I do not like celebrities on Traders anymore. I

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Speaker 3: think it's better when it's normis because I think celebrities

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Speaker 3: care too much about their image. Okay, Like you know,

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Speaker 3: Peter was like, no, I cannot be a Trader faith,

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Speaker 3: you know, like people had to have this like nobleness

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Speaker 3: It is fantastic television.

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Speaker 4: But there was one person who got recruited on season

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Speaker 3: Who was it?

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Speaker 3: Oh right, right, right, That's what I'm saying. Season two,

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Speaker 3: Season two, it's just like a free for all.

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Speaker 2: It has made me question myself and just like who

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Speaker 2: I am as a person because I don't think I mean,

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Speaker 2: maybe it'd be different if I was in it, but

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Speaker 2: let's go love it.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna like season two of the UK version.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 3: So that was like really a huge highlight of the weekend, honestly,

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Speaker 3: because we spent the rest of the weekend just like

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Speaker 3: rehabilitating our dog and food prepping. We're kind of in

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Speaker 3: our homestead era, you're nesting, Yeah, like making our food,

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Speaker 3: prepping our food for the week.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I felt like it took me a few days to

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Speaker 3: I think it took me a full week.

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Speaker 2: I still am not one hundred percent sure I've recovered, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: because it just felt like I was trying to get ready. Oh,

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Speaker 2: I get home last week after the podcast and Haley's

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Speaker 2: at home. She was doing meetings and Phoebe comes running

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Speaker 2: at me and she's she's lifting her her back like

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Speaker 2: she like won't put it down, and I'm like, oh no,

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Speaker 2: sometimes here, sometimes her knee pops out, so I was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: I need to pop her knee back in.

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Speaker 3: So sad.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but it didn't pop back in, and so she

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Speaker 2: wouldn't put it down, and I was at multiple vet

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Speaker 2: of her ACL, which is a CCL. So I took

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Speaker 2: her to this place to see if we can rehabit

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Speaker 2: before going to surge, and I told Donnya about it

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Speaker 2: because they did like acupuncture. It was a very thorough consultation,

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Speaker 2: which I really appreciated because she really took the time

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Speaker 2: to learn about Phoebe and me. And I told Donia

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Speaker 2: about it because Sonny's had all her back issues and

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Speaker 2: she was like, I made an appointment for Saturday.

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Speaker 3: Times Saturday morning. But the best part was is like

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Speaker 3: Yeah. We felt very psychoanalyzed in that appointment like never before.

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Speaker 4: Twenty seven tracks.

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Speaker 3: That's right.

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Speaker 4: Yah Yah, Tyrant.

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Speaker 2: And Texas hold Him and I Love, I Love Joelene

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 3: First off, the entire thing being a radio broadcast is iconic.

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Speaker 3: The Blackbird reimagined has me fully living the Miley posty

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I didn't read that you're reading it. I was like,

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Speaker 2: I was like, that's the person I'm hearing the response.

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Speaker 2: now I can really appreciate it. Yeah, but yeah, it

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Speaker 3: I really loved too most wanted. I feel like it's

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Speaker 3: So I think it's just super super cute. And I

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Speaker 2: You think she do you think artists know which song

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Speaker 2: a lot of people say Yaya. Do you think she

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Speaker 2: knew Yagya was going to be the one that people

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I do, Yeah, Yeah, you do, I do, Yeah, yeah

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I just always wonder, you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, as Tony you mentioned earlier, I do want to

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Speaker 4: We should do that.

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Speaker 3: You want to do it after this break?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, let's do that. All right, we're back.

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Speaker 2: Before we get into Bachelor, Danya just goes, I think

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Speaker 2: my breath might seem really bad. I was like, okay,

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Speaker 2: like it doesn't matter because I'm not, you know, her

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Speaker 2: far apart, and then I just she does, sorry Liz

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Speaker 2: who just did her make up.

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Speaker 4: For how long? Like an hour and a half?

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Speaker 3: Like an hour? Yeah, I'm sorry, text her, just text

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Speaker 3: her sorry. I think my breath smelted.

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Speaker 2: So I can't believe, like, if I know someone's gonna

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Speaker 2: be my face, I am So.

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Speaker 3: The problem is I was eating eating my breakfast. I

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Speaker 4: You gotta keep things on the hand.

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Speaker 3: It was quick. I got gotta go.

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Speaker 2: That's what the Bachelor always has, listing strips, ready to go.

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Speaker 2: You're going to talk to him, producer hand give.

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Speaker 3: Me a Bachelor producer of twenty four to seven. That's

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Speaker 3: what I need in my life.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you do.

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Speaker 2: So the Bachelorette finale happened last week, and you know,

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry the Bachelor finale happened last week.

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Speaker 3: Boiler alert.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if you haven't watched it, Like, I don't know

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Speaker 2: what's interesting to me. We're trying to get Daisy on

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Speaker 2: the podcast, but they're they're really tight now with what

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Speaker 2: they allow the like ABC. I guess in their contract

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Speaker 2: because when I was on it, we didn't have podcasts,

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Speaker 2: we didn't have the social media thing was new, so

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Speaker 2: they didn't really know how to nap.

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Speaker 3: Again, we're a rogue.

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Speaker 4: We're a rogue.

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Speaker 2: Anyways, we're trying to get Daisy, but I don't know

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Speaker 2: if you know this, but at the beginning of this season,

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Speaker 2: Reality Steve posted that Daisy won, so everyone was anyone

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Speaker 2: who saw spoilers was watching through the lens of Daisy

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Speaker 2: And then a lot of people were kind of like,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I'm not seeing it.

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Speaker 4: You know, it's kind of controversial.

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Speaker 2: Well then reality Steve came out and said that he

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Speaker 2: could confirm it was Kelsey who won. So all of

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Speaker 3: I'm surprised you listen to those spoilers.

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Speaker 4: I don't.

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Speaker 2: I just I scrolled TikTok and the comments and they'll

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Speaker 2: then I never saw the second spoiler, which enough like

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Speaker 2: spoiled like Kelsey one, right, because that would have been

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Speaker 2: crazy because it ended with such I feel like you

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Speaker 4: Women's power empowerment.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the writing together.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, part of me was like, did that didn't. I

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Speaker 4: Well yeah, I mean, I'm sure they were fine with it.

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Speaker 2: But I imagine if if I was writing potentially either to

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Speaker 2: I'd need to be alone in my thought.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: True, But it was.

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Speaker 3: Really cute, right, like if the producers were like, this

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Speaker 2: So Daisy goes to and man, the editors are so good.

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Speaker 2: They made it look like Daisy was knocking on Joey's door,

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Speaker 2: and and then it was actually Kelsey's room, and Kelsey

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Speaker 2: liked Kelsey, and so he gave that to her just

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Speaker 2: But it was the first time we watched a bachelor

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Speaker 4: Like that's what he did with Daisy.

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Speaker 2: It was kind of like, no matter what happens, I

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Speaker 4: Like there was never any moment where.

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Speaker 2: She could have felt confident, right, and so I appreciated

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Speaker 2: that because every other bachelor has been like I love you,

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Speaker 2: I'm in love with you to the final two women, right,

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Speaker 2: and it feels so sad, so sad, like Jojo, remember

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Speaker 4: Dark, so dark.

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Speaker 2: I think Ben was actually the first person to say

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Speaker 3: He's like, yeah, now that, like I feel bad, Like

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Speaker 3: like tell her how you feel. Just tell both of

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's like, oh, if you feel like you

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Speaker 3: And Ben's just like this little puppy dog and he's

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Speaker 4: He's like I do like both of them wonderful girls.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but so yeah, Daisy goes, and then she basically

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Speaker 2: tells Kelsey, I don't think it's me. I think it's you.

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Speaker 2: They ride together. Uh, Daisy gets out and she goes

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Speaker 2: and she basically says I know it's not me to him,

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Speaker 4: She like takes control and then he's like, can I

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Speaker 2: Which is what every bachelor has ever done, and you

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Speaker 2: know the girls. I was like, yeah, sure, I got

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Speaker 4: She goes, I think I need to do this on

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Speaker 4: my own. She walked back.

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Speaker 2: She hugs Kelsey, and Kelsey's mom passed away a few

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Speaker 2: years ago from cancer, and she goes, your mom is

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Speaker 4: And as she was walking away from Joey, she was like,

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Speaker 3: Well, who else is it going to be? No?

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Speaker 4: No, she told Joey that.

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Speaker 2: Daisy told Joey like, I'm pulled, Like, even though I'm

447
00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:37,560
Speaker 2: walk away.

448
00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:38,800
Speaker 4: I'm for you and Kelsey.

449
00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:43,800
Speaker 2: Oh wow, wow, it was crazy chills chills on my

450
00:20:43,840 --> 00:20:44,439
Speaker 2: body right now.

451
00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:47,760
Speaker 3: Then here's my question. I heard and I read this summer,

452
00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:51,040
Speaker 3: so I could be wrong that Good Morning America published

453
00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:55,480
Speaker 3: like a story saying that Daisy was going to be

454
00:20:55,480 --> 00:21:01,359
Speaker 3: the next bachelor. Wait, who did Good Morning America? Oh yeah,

455
00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:04,040
Speaker 3: I think I heard on Dumois. I think Dumois was

456
00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:06,080
Speaker 3: talking about it on their podcast where basically like Good

457
00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:08,480
Speaker 3: Morning America had up and like, you know, no, maybe

458
00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:10,639
Speaker 3: it's US Weekly, I think I saw. But you know

459
00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:14,320
Speaker 3: how a lot of sites has stuff like pre written

460
00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:16,280
Speaker 3: so that the minute it goes live on the air,

461
00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:18,800
Speaker 3: they just like publish it, right, so it's like pre written.

462
00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:21,760
Speaker 3: So like people were saying that like for some reason

463
00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:25,200
Speaker 3: Daisy was the bachelorette at some point and it never

464
00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:29,080
Speaker 3: got switched before whoever published the story.

465
00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:31,959
Speaker 2: Well, because they announced Jen and everyone was really surprised

466
00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:34,520
Speaker 2: because I think people really liked Jen. But I it

467
00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:37,600
Speaker 2: was the amount of people who were obsessed with Maria

468
00:21:37,720 --> 00:21:39,920
Speaker 2: and Daisy. It felt like it had to be one

469
00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:43,480
Speaker 2: of them because people were just obsessed with them on

470
00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:44,520
Speaker 2: social media and tick.

471
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Speaker 3: That I also read in these the same article that

472
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Speaker 3: Maria and Daisy turned it down.

473
00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:50,440
Speaker 4: I'm sure they did.

474
00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:52,000
Speaker 3: Why would you turn it down?

475
00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:55,119
Speaker 4: Because I think there's more opportunity.

476
00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:56,920
Speaker 3: I don't.

477
00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:59,360
Speaker 4: I mean, I think there's more opportunity maybe to go

478
00:21:59,440 --> 00:21:59,800
Speaker 4: and like.

479
00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:04,880
Speaker 2: Create your own My thing is, if they're under contract

480
00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:07,480
Speaker 2: and they can't do like podcasts and social media stuff

481
00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:12,800
Speaker 2: without permission, do they have the do they really have

482
00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:17,800
Speaker 2: the freedom to go out and create business?

483
00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:18,240
Speaker 1: Yeah?

484
00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 4: Right, I don't know.

485
00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:21,800
Speaker 3: And like, how long does that contract last?

486
00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:24,560
Speaker 4: I think it's two years. I don't know, though I

487
00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:25,720
Speaker 4: could be wrong. I could that.

488
00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:28,800
Speaker 2: I don't have proof of that, but I want to

489
00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:29,760
Speaker 2: say it's around two years.

490
00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:31,080
Speaker 4: But yeah, that's I know.

491
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Speaker 3: I was like, I just don't understand the mindset of

492
00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:36,679
Speaker 3: turning it down. If like, you're getting all these amazing

493
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:41,720
Speaker 3: opportunities from being on the Bachelor, you would think, Okay,

494
00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:44,200
Speaker 3: if I'm the Bacherette, I'll get those same opportunities and

495
00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:46,080
Speaker 3: then I'll find out of these twenty five men, I'm

496
00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:46,959
Speaker 3: going to find my husband.

497
00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:49,600
Speaker 2: Maybe they I mean, maybe they were both like after

498
00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:53,199
Speaker 2: you know, it was weird because after Ben's season, I

499
00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:57,520
Speaker 2: specifically remember being like that was when I first started thinking,

500
00:22:57,560 --> 00:22:59,639
Speaker 2: am I ready to get married because I felt like

501
00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:01,520
Speaker 2: my whole life it was like I need to be

502
00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:03,600
Speaker 2: married by twenty five and have two kids, you know.

503
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:06,000
Speaker 2: And then I think I took a step back after

504
00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:09,640
Speaker 2: getting dumped on TV at second time, and I go,

505
00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:11,520
Speaker 2: do I even really.

506
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:14,240
Speaker 4: Want to be married right now? Like is that what

507
00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:14,919
Speaker 4: I'm trying to do?

508
00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:17,480
Speaker 2: Or am I doing something that's And maybe they had

509
00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:19,960
Speaker 2: a real realization of I just want to have fun

510
00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:23,520
Speaker 2: and I'm not trying to get married or like engaged

511
00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:26,520
Speaker 2: at the end of this interesting point, which props if

512
00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:29,240
Speaker 2: they did that, because they could have just taken the

513
00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:32,600
Speaker 2: opportunity and been like, I'll take it right right, I'll

514
00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:36,640
Speaker 2: use this to my advantage. Wow, I don't know, but yeah,

515
00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:38,959
Speaker 2: it was. It was a really it was a great season.

516
00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:41,840
Speaker 2: Gotta say congrats to everybody involved.

517
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:46,280
Speaker 3: So dare listening, We would love to have you.

518
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:50,479
Speaker 4: Messager, she's down, she's gotta ask ABC.

519
00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:55,479
Speaker 3: So ABC, come on, come on, let us let us talk.

520
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:57,320
Speaker 4: Let the girls talk.

521
00:23:57,720 --> 00:23:59,920
Speaker 2: The girls, just have some girl child, have some girl

522
00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:02,200
Speaker 2: hit chat, girl chit chat.

523
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:05,359
Speaker 3: You know who won't be coming on our podcast? Who

524
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 3: Harry Shum Junior.

525
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 4: He will not, he will not. He passed he passed.

526
00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:14,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're we don't know if it was the team

527
00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:16,960
Speaker 3: or public publicity team of who.

528
00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:19,920
Speaker 4: We don't know who passed, but we do know.

529
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:24,199
Speaker 3: That we are beyond the passing. We are past the passing.

530
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 1: That's unfortunate. I am caught up on Gray's Anatomy, or

531
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:28,640
Speaker 1: either of you caught up on Gray's Anatomy.

532
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:31,159
Speaker 3: No, no, but are you liking it?

533
00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:32,080
Speaker 4: Yeah?

534
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:35,080
Speaker 3: Actually, yeah, at one to ten, I don't.

535
00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:37,800
Speaker 1: I don't. I just enjoy watching Gray's Anatomy. When I

536
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:40,640
Speaker 1: watch Gray's Anatomy, I am in my happy place. I'm

537
00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:43,280
Speaker 1: with people that I love and trust.

538
00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:45,360
Speaker 3: I don't believe you, I do.

539
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 1: I enjoy this show.

540
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:47,320
Speaker 2: I have.

541
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:49,000
Speaker 1: This show has been part of my life for a

542
00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:52,719
Speaker 1: very very long time. So yeah, I'm enjoying it.

543
00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:55,240
Speaker 2: I get that it's been a part of my life

544
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:58,560
Speaker 2: as well for the same amount of time. Yeah, but

545
00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:02,439
Speaker 2: I don't all the warm fuzzies that I once felt.

546
00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:03,360
Speaker 3: Correct.

547
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:05,720
Speaker 1: You know this isn't going to help get the Harry

548
00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:06,640
Speaker 1: Sham juniors up.

549
00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:09,440
Speaker 4: The world set. We're upset.

550
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:11,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, let us be upset.

551
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:13,400
Speaker 4: No, here's my thing.

552
00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:17,159
Speaker 2: I watched the I know it was a joke that

553
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:18,800
Speaker 2: I fell asleep during it. I didn't fall asleep because

554
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:21,159
Speaker 2: I wasn't enjoying it. I just fell because I was exhausted.

555
00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:23,800
Speaker 2: But I'm not a post I liked that Bailey is

556
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:25,840
Speaker 2: back when she walked in and she said I have

557
00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:27,960
Speaker 2: five rules and that's how it ended.

558
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 3: Hm.

559
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:31,520
Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, I do like this little flashback,

560
00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:33,960
Speaker 2: you know. I like that Meredith is still wanted even

561
00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:37,880
Speaker 2: though wrote our goodbye letter and everything.

562
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:41,280
Speaker 3: I'm not writing it off. I'm just like, so, I

563
00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 3: like to binge if I get one episode of something

564
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:46,320
Speaker 3: it drives men, letting it build up a little bit.

565
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 1: How many are you gonna get? Because we got three

566
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:48,439
Speaker 1: right now?

567
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:49,120
Speaker 3: I do three?

568
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 1: Okay? Great?

569
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, yah, yeah, I'll kick back with a little great good.

570
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:53,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd like that. I'd like to be able to

571
00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:55,640
Speaker 1: talk to about to you about it.

572
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, no problem.

573
00:25:57,440 --> 00:26:01,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, back with the ice water and Almonds family.

574
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 1: Yeah. I really want Meredith to solve Alzheimer's. I'm really hoping.

575
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, that'd be a good one.

576
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:08,160
Speaker 1: It'd be great.

577
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:09,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, gosh, I would love it.

578
00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:11,800
Speaker 4: Can she do that on the show if they haven't

579
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:12,680
Speaker 4: done it in real life?

580
00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, he knows, because I feel like they really followed

581
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 2: the trajectory of real medical I wonder how.

582
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:20,720
Speaker 1: They're doing that. I wonder if they're like tracking the

583
00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 1: actual developments and Alzheimer's and kind of having her research

584
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:25,240
Speaker 1: mirror it, because that would be neat.

585
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:27,440
Speaker 4: What if that's why they just keep the show going.

586
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:30,639
Speaker 4: Maybe that would be so epic.

587
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:33,439
Speaker 3: That's not like art art imitating life.

588
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:36,120
Speaker 4: Wait, yeah, it is right right?

589
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:38,040
Speaker 3: What is the life?

590
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:42,760
Speaker 2: It's yeah, you had it the first time. Ye damn,

591
00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:50,360
Speaker 2: you almost just nail that. It's okay, okay, so we'll

592
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:53,920
Speaker 2: get caught up on grays. We're just you know, what

593
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:55,159
Speaker 2: you have to do is you have to put the

594
00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:57,160
Speaker 2: feelers out there of who wants to come on the show.

595
00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:00,520
Speaker 2: And if they say no, you say, you're gonna miss

596
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:01,240
Speaker 2: me when I'm gone.

597
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:04,640
Speaker 3: You're when I'm going when I'm gone.

598
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:09,280
Speaker 4: You're gonna miss me when I'm gone. You're gonna miss

599
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 4: me by by hair, You're gonna miss me everywhere. You're

600
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:16,959
Speaker 4: gonna miss me when I'm gone. Nice. Oh, what's your

601
00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:18,639
Speaker 4: pick for Song of the Year tonight? Do you want

602
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 4: me to read the nominees?

603
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:20,360
Speaker 3: Yeah?

604
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:23,600
Speaker 4: Calm down? Is it rima or rama?

605
00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:25,600
Speaker 1: You want to sing a little bit of each one

606
00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 1: or something that people can show.

607
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 3: Me how you calm down, calm down, dance with me

608
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:37,560
Speaker 3: and take the Lena. That's that one creeping I thought

609
00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:40,359
Speaker 3: I saw you hung the.

610
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:45,919
Speaker 4: Cruel Summer and you.

611
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:48,680
Speaker 3: It's a crul soum.

612
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:50,640
Speaker 4: The thing with this is weird.

613
00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:52,920
Speaker 2: I don't think we could get in trouble for this

614
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:54,639
Speaker 2: because it doesn't sound like it.

615
00:27:57,320 --> 00:28:05,679
Speaker 3: You take that night, doesn't run, watch me dance the

616
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 3: night away, best card. You got a fast come, I

617
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:13,639
Speaker 3: got a ticket to anywhere. And we're gonna have the

618
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:18,920
Speaker 3: convenience store flowers. I can buy mysel flowers.

619
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 4: Kill Bill, I just killed my es.

620
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:30,240
Speaker 3: I still love him though. Last night, Man, last night

621
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 3: we let the winder talk. I can't remember everything said.

622
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:39,360
Speaker 4: Paint the town red, Oh, paint the town red.

623
00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:41,200
Speaker 3: We had de.

624
00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:43,680
Speaker 4: She Rebel.

625
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 3: I don't know, Vampire.

626
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 2: You made some real big mistakes, but I made.

627
00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 3: The most looks.

628
00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 4: Okay, so what your vote?

629
00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:57,640
Speaker 3: There's a lot of them.

630
00:28:57,640 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 1: Wow.

631
00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm gonna have to have it to Cral Summer

632
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 3: by Taylor Swift.

633
00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 1: No no, no, no.

634
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 4: No, I take it back.

635
00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:05,480
Speaker 3: I'm gonna go do Alipa dance to night.

636
00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:11,280
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go Flowers, Maya Cyrus. Wow, what about artists

637
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 2: of the Year. We have Drake, Jelly Roll, Luke Holmb's,

638
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 2: Miley Cyrus, Morgan Wall and Olivia Rodrigo, Shakira, Sizza, Taylor

639
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:19,600
Speaker 2: Swift and not sure.

640
00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:22,960
Speaker 4: Has to go to Taylor Swift obviously is she gonna

641
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 4: be there?

642
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 3: I don't know. Oh, she's not like reported to be there.

643
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:30,840
Speaker 1: Correct, we have not been publicizing her attendance.

644
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:33,280
Speaker 3: Correct, But I can either confirm nor deny.

645
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:39,840
Speaker 2: I'm going to say, Sizza, that's actually a good pick.

646
00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:41,480
Speaker 3: I do think she's going to be there.

647
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:44,680
Speaker 4: Thank you? Yeah, Okay, I wanted to. We're going to

648
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:48,000
Speaker 4: talk about birth order, dating theory and human design, but

649
00:29:48,200 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 4: first we're going to take a break. All right, we

650
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 4: are back.

651
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:12,920
Speaker 2: So TikTok has recently popular popularized the birth order of

652
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 2: dating theory.

653
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 4: So that means whatever order you and.

654
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:20,320
Speaker 2: Your siblings are born, or you have lack of siblings altogether,

655
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:24,960
Speaker 2: it might affect who you're drawn to to date, correct,

656
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 2: which is interesting, very interesting. So the Tony tone is

657
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 2: an author, and she said, he said, I.

658
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 3: Don't know if it's a guy or girl. Tony is really.

659
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:41,400
Speaker 4: Tony to.

660
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:45,719
Speaker 3: Give it to ton.

661
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 1: Mark I'm working on it. Tony Tone is an ASAP

662
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:50,600
Speaker 1: rocky song. Someone have to go deeper than that, because

663
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 1: I don't think that's what we're looking for.

664
00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:52,760
Speaker 4: T O and I.

665
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 3: By the way, Liz said that my breath did not smell.

666
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:58,560
Speaker 4: Oh that's so nice, thank you. She's very polite.

667
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 1: It's a woman is a female. That is confirmed.

668
00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:03,120
Speaker 4: Great, Okay.

669
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 2: So she says that unions of individuals with different birth

670
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 2: orders are actually generally more successful than unions of individuals

671
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 2: with the same birth order, citing an article she read

672
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:19,000
Speaker 2: of called how birth order affects marriage. So firstborn's rule,

673
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:21,960
Speaker 2: middleborn's mediate, and last born's charm.

674
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 3: So what's very funny is because I like look at

675
00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:29,360
Speaker 3: this stuff and I like panic, and I'm like, so

676
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:33,240
Speaker 3: doctor who believed all these people? But anyway, she slays

677
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:37,960
Speaker 3: doctor Lemon. Lemon Lemon believes that the highest divorce rate

678
00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 3: is actually an only child with another only child.

679
00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:44,920
Speaker 4: So that's wait because it might make cause both to

680
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:46,280
Speaker 4: fight for attention.

681
00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 3: Which I believe. But then Tony Tone says this, the

682
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 3: most successful marriage is is when a firstborn marries a

683
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:57,400
Speaker 3: last born, and that's the situation. Rhyme. Yeah, wow, Robby's

684
00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 3: the firstborn and I'm the last born.

685
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:03,800
Speaker 4: So it's like an opposite attract thing going on. That's why.

686
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:07,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, and the firstborn is usually like very type A,

687
00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 3: but I'm the last.

688
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:09,400
Speaker 1: I know.

689
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:12,080
Speaker 3: The last born keeps it like light and stuff. And

690
00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 3: it's very funny because rob and I are actually the opposite.

691
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 3: I'm more type A and he's kind of easy breezy.

692
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 4: But y'all are opposite.

693
00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:19,719
Speaker 2: But really it could have nothing to do with your

694
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:21,800
Speaker 2: birth order. We're about just being opposite.

695
00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:23,560
Speaker 3: But I love it when something tells me our mayriorg

696
00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:24,400
Speaker 3: just gonna be successful.

697
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 4: I love that too.

698
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:25,200
Speaker 1: Well.

699
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:28,200
Speaker 2: Haley and I are both second born. I guess technically middle.

700
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:31,160
Speaker 2: She's a true middle because she has she's one of three.

701
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 2: I'm one of five, so I'm the second oldest of

702
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:37,240
Speaker 2: five kids. It says if you are a middle child,

703
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 2: the best match is the last born and the worst

704
00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:44,680
Speaker 2: match is another middle child. But I'm gonna tell Becca this,

705
00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:50,520
Speaker 2: oh tony to It says middle children do not communicate well,

706
00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:52,960
Speaker 2: which actually I don't communicate well.

707
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 4: I've had to really work on that.

708
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:57,400
Speaker 2: But Haley is like an expert communicator, so maybe that's

709
00:32:57,440 --> 00:32:59,760
Speaker 2: where she defies the odds.

710
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:01,680
Speaker 4: That's where we defy the odds.

711
00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 2: They don't tend to confront each other about things because

712
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:06,800
Speaker 2: they feel it isn't worth the hassle.

713
00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:09,040
Speaker 4: So that's me, Like I'm a true middle child in that.

714
00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 2: But I think Hayley has more firstborn tendencies where she's

715
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 2: like a leader, she's doesn't mind confrontation, she's good communicator.

716
00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 2: So I think that's why we work because I do

717
00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:22,240
Speaker 2: think if someone else had my personality was like lax

718
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:26,960
Speaker 2: and like not confrontational and didn't communicate.

719
00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:27,720
Speaker 4: It'd be very hard.

720
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:29,280
Speaker 3: It would be very hard for.

721
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:32,040
Speaker 4: Us because nothing would ever be accomplished.

722
00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 3: So so it's something to look at.

723
00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:37,440
Speaker 4: It's something to look at, but don't get to ponder.

724
00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 4: Get a what's it? What do you open.

725
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:43,920
Speaker 3: To the possibility? Not attached to the outcom exactly.

726
00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is a great example.

727
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:48,400
Speaker 1: So my wife and I are both firstborn, So that's bad, right.

728
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:51,360
Speaker 4: Oh, it says you tend to Oh wait wait wait

729
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:51,960
Speaker 4: it says that.

730
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 3: It says, who's gonna tell mar I know the highest divorce?

731
00:33:57,640 --> 00:33:59,800
Speaker 1: Oh no, I was pretty happy. That's the terrible news

732
00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:00,160
Speaker 1: from me?

733
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:02,760
Speaker 2: Who are both Oh it says this leads to higher

734
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:05,560
Speaker 2: divorce writing people who are both firstborns because they can

735
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 2: disagree more often.

736
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 4: Do you all disagree a lot?

737
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 1: You know lately?

738
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:14,160
Speaker 4: Is it because of all.

739
00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:17,440
Speaker 2: The attention you're getting on our TikTok reels and videos?

740
00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:18,320
Speaker 3: You know, it's so funny.

741
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:22,000
Speaker 1: My kids obviously see those and they never say a

742
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:23,839
Speaker 1: word about it. I think they see it. They roll

743
00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:29,480
Speaker 1: their eyes and they scroll on by Hilary just dad.

744
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:32,400
Speaker 1: You know, it's like not even worth commenting on.

745
00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:33,440
Speaker 4: Wow.

746
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I had a lot of people be like, I

747
00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:38,319
Speaker 2: need to know Mark's kids reactions to that.

748
00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:40,279
Speaker 1: Not zero was the reaction to that.

749
00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 4: Zero reaction snap chatting their friends about it.

750
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:46,040
Speaker 1: I mean, it's possible, but I was told nothing of it.

751
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:46,439
Speaker 3: Wow.

752
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's pretty funny.

753
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:51,120
Speaker 3: That is so funny. Like I also just can't imagine

754
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:52,440
Speaker 3: like when I was a kid, like my dad was

755
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:55,040
Speaker 3: a psychiatrist, Like if I saw my dad pop up

756
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 3: on social media, I'd be so thrown off.

757
00:34:57,200 --> 00:34:59,520
Speaker 2: I think they just used to this kind of nonsense, right,

758
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:01,759
Speaker 2: I think the well, I also think that's just they're

759
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 2: used to seeing people on like social media, like.

760
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:09,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, like yeah, you're just Ken, I'm just Ken. Yeah,

761
00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:10,359
Speaker 3: you're just dad.

762
00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:11,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

763
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:13,000
Speaker 3: Yeah.

764
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:17,760
Speaker 2: We briefly touched on the human design test last week.

765
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:23,160
Speaker 2: What right, Yeah, I was wanted to get into it

766
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:27,400
Speaker 2: a little deeper today if y'all are open to it, sure, Okay.

767
00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 2: So basically, you go to this website it's called a

768
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:33,560
Speaker 2: humandesign dot com, and all you need is your date

769
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:36,600
Speaker 2: of birth, the time you were born, and then the

770
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 2: city in town where you were born in and then

771
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 2: I think it asked for your name. That's it, just

772
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:42,160
Speaker 2: all your information.

773
00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:43,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, so what it.

774
00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:45,880
Speaker 1: Looks at, what it looks at the stars, the position

775
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:48,520
Speaker 1: of the stars the minute you were born, and how

776
00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 1: that relates to the actual town you're in at the time.

777
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:54,640
Speaker 1: Where they don't explain these things.

778
00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:57,360
Speaker 3: We don't know where anything gets itself.

779
00:35:57,040 --> 00:36:03,319
Speaker 4: Stuff from giving our personal information. Yeah, for this, for

780
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:05,360
Speaker 4: this clarity we needed.

781
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:08,319
Speaker 1: But so what you're saying is it's all made up.

782
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:11,520
Speaker 1: Excuse me, I feel like that's what you just said. No,

783
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 1: we don't know where they get the stuff because they've

784
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:14,040
Speaker 1: made it all up.

785
00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:16,240
Speaker 3: But it's so accurate that it obviously comes from somewhere.

786
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:17,320
Speaker 1: I don't think it's that accurate.

787
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:20,840
Speaker 2: Oh, I think it's a I'm sure there's some science

788
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:23,080
Speaker 2: or astrology associated with it.

789
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:25,719
Speaker 1: You're putting astrology and science in the same sentence in

790
00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 1: those do not go together in any way.

791
00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 3: Actually, but that's okay. Becca. It is funny though, because

792
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:34,360
Speaker 3: all this stuff, like I believe in all this stuff

793
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:37,000
Speaker 3: so much. And it was very funny because over the

794
00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:39,560
Speaker 3: weekend we were talking about our attachment styles, Robbie and

795
00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:44,040
Speaker 3: I because I'm insecurely, yeah, anxious attached. And he looks

796
00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:45,680
Speaker 3: at me and he's kind of just like, so, how

797
00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:48,359
Speaker 3: long are you going to be that? He's like, we're engaged,

798
00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:51,520
Speaker 3: we're about to get married, are you that? He's like,

799
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:52,760
Speaker 3: are you insecurely attached?

800
00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:53,240
Speaker 4: For life?

801
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:54,879
Speaker 3: Like is that what we're doing? I was like, that's

802
00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:57,279
Speaker 3: a great question, Like I don't you know, like I

803
00:36:57,320 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 3: only took the quiz. I think I took the quiz

804
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:01,920
Speaker 3: before I started dating him, So that's really all I've

805
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 3: ever you know what I mean, Like I never I

806
00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:07,360
Speaker 3: haven't taken the quiz inside my relationship. And I was like, Wow,

807
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:08,880
Speaker 3: what a profound question.

808
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:10,359
Speaker 4: How long are you going to be that?

809
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:14,440
Speaker 3: It's so funny, So just like an a like for

810
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:16,520
Speaker 3: the rest of our lives thing, or like you know,

811
00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 3: I would think you'd feel pretty secure now, you know.

812
00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 3: And I was like, wow, yeah, interesting perspective.

813
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:24,360
Speaker 1: Well it's here, with help and support, it's possible to

814
00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 1: overcome an anxious attachment style. So maybe, yeah, you can

815
00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:28,240
Speaker 1: really what I said.

816
00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:30,840
Speaker 3: With a little help and support, I thought that.

817
00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:33,319
Speaker 4: I think he maybe felt that big old rock on

818
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:35,560
Speaker 4: your finger was the help and support.

819
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:38,840
Speaker 2: He thought, you know what, I know what to do

820
00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 2: to calm her anxious attachment.

821
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:43,879
Speaker 3: Right, this is going to solve it right there, put

822
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:44,640
Speaker 3: it right on her face.

823
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:46,880
Speaker 4: But but no.

824
00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:49,080
Speaker 3: Well I don't know. Like now I'm like, I don't know.

825
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:51,040
Speaker 3: I've I haven't really taken the quiz.

826
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 4: Taking the quiz, how do you feel? I think it's

827
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:54,920
Speaker 4: less about what a quiz says and more about how

828
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:55,560
Speaker 4: you feel.

829
00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 3: About they known myself to be this way. I haven't

830
00:37:57,560 --> 00:38:01,239
Speaker 3: like really gone introspective on myself in a while, so

831
00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:01,960
Speaker 3: maybe I need to.

832
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:06,320
Speaker 2: I think, Wait, I'm so confused because being anxiously attaches

833
00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:08,759
Speaker 2: how you react to certain situations in your relationship.

834
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:12,200
Speaker 4: What do you get insecure about? How when you feel safe? If?

835
00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 4: Do you feel seen? Do you feel securely attached?

836
00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:21,600
Speaker 1: Right? I'm asking that was an actual question.

837
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:26,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think so, I was like, I think I'm there.

838
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:26,880
Speaker 4: Great.

839
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:30,600
Speaker 2: Then I don't know that you need to rattle yourself

840
00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:32,320
Speaker 2: up by taking it online quiz.

841
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:33,480
Speaker 3: I might need to take the quiz.

842
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:36,719
Speaker 2: I don't think if you feel like you can say

843
00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:37,680
Speaker 2: you're there.

844
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 3: It's like my whole life, you're being told one thing

845
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:42,520
Speaker 3: and then it's just flips, like you know, yeah, because

846
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:46,640
Speaker 3: you take someone who need to digest this new era

847
00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:47,360
Speaker 3: of myself.

848
00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:49,440
Speaker 1: But does it mean that you're if you're an anxious

849
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 1: attached person, but you've been in a relationship for I

850
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:53,640
Speaker 1: don't know ten years or something, are you then are

851
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 1: you just more susceptible to paranoia?

852
00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:00,160
Speaker 3: Yeah? I think it's like the anxious attached person it's

853
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:02,879
Speaker 3: always waiting for the shoe to drop right right right,

854
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:05,560
Speaker 3: which is like a horrible way terrible, yeah, horrible.

855
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 1: So hopefully you can get past this.

856
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:09,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I'm there, But.

857
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:11,719
Speaker 1: Also you might be there and then something might happen.

858
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:12,799
Speaker 3: To bring it back.

859
00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:16,840
Speaker 1: Yeah right right, yeah, like you're never far from it.

860
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:19,799
Speaker 3: Right exactly. It takes one little I'm right back in

861
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 3: it right yeah. Oh man, I know, try living in

862
00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:23,800
Speaker 3: it for a minute.

863
00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:27,840
Speaker 2: I mean I did, I kind of did you're avoidant?

864
00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 4: No, I was not. I think I I think I've shifted.

865
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:31,800
Speaker 4: I think I had a shift.

866
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:33,280
Speaker 3: I was you can shift.

867
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:38,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I lived avoid avoidantly attached for most of

868
00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:42,920
Speaker 2: my life and then when I started dating Haley, it.

869
00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 3: Switched, which is tough.

870
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 4: It's not what you want. No, you don't want to go.

871
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 2: You want to go from anxious to secure or avoidant

872
00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:52,840
Speaker 2: to secure.

873
00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:54,880
Speaker 4: You don't want to go backwards.

874
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 3: No, or avoidant to insecure feels dark.

875
00:39:58,360 --> 00:39:59,800
Speaker 4: Let me tell you it was a shift.

876
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:01,680
Speaker 3: Is a shift in the shift.

877
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:03,200
Speaker 4: To darkness of night?

878
00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:03,640
Speaker 3: Yeah?

879
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:07,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, So you are in the human design You're

880
00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 2: a manifestor.

881
00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:11,799
Speaker 3: That's right. Only eight percent of the population is a manifestor.

882
00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:12,960
Speaker 4: Wow, sang Son.

883
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:18,200
Speaker 3: But in terms of career, manifestors possess a strong ability

884
00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:22,279
Speaker 3: to initiate projects. Though they often face challenges in sustaining

885
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,520
Speaker 3: energy levels, they thrive in roles where they can initiate projects.

886
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:30,320
Speaker 3: In terms of relationship, manifestors nurture healthy relationships by openly

887
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:33,719
Speaker 3: communicating their need for autonomy and freedom, while emphasizing the

888
00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:36,040
Speaker 3: importance of informing before taking action.

889
00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 1: How many of these do we need?

890
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:39,960
Speaker 3: So many?

891
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 1: Like we have the horoscopes. We have this. Now we

892
00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 1: have the life path numbers, love languages. Do we know?

893
00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:46,919
Speaker 1: Do we need all these?

894
00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 3: Yes? Because the more knowledge is power? Mark, do you

895
00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:52,239
Speaker 3: not feel more powerful when you know this stuff about you?

896
00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 1: I know I've met myself and I don't know that

897
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 1: this is accurate. And I don't know that any of

898
00:40:57,200 --> 00:40:59,719
Speaker 1: it met yourself. See that's the problem. That's how you

899
00:40:59,760 --> 00:41:02,719
Speaker 1: do it. You say this sounds like you. No, it doesn't, Oh,

900
00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:05,719
Speaker 1: because you don't know yourself. Wouldn't I know myself better

901
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:07,760
Speaker 1: than the life path number would know myself?

902
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:10,880
Speaker 3: I don't think so. I don't think so.

903
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 1: Boy, they just they see you coming with this stuff,

904
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:13,680
Speaker 1: don't they? You are.

905
00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:17,080
Speaker 3: I'm the target. I'm totally the target.

906
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:18,239
Speaker 4: I'm like, how do you feel?

907
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:19,759
Speaker 2: She's like, well, I got to take a test, and

908
00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:24,080
Speaker 2: I'll let you know, take my attachment test.

909
00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:27,000
Speaker 4: You know, I can tell you to feel the relationship.

910
00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:31,240
Speaker 4: Do you feel secure to not get back to you?

911
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:34,160
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yours could say like you're a huge sports fan.

912
00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:36,400
Speaker 1: He'd be like, am I I don't think I am.

913
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:38,920
Speaker 1: I've never liked sports before. I need to start watching sports.

914
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:41,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, let me explore it. Maybe I'm missing something. But

915
00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:43,640
Speaker 3: maybe they just wrong locked the inner child in myself.

916
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 1: But couldn't they just be wrong? Nope, because seems very General's.

917
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:52,680
Speaker 3: Because a projector so. Projectors represent twenty percent of the

918
00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:54,040
Speaker 3: human design population.

919
00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:58,839
Speaker 2: Wait, this is Mine's actually quite interesting. So unlike generators

920
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:04,239
Speaker 2: and manifestors, they await invitations aligning with valued opportunities. Embracing

921
00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 2: this way strategy is key to their effectiveness. Understanding their

922
00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 2: human design enhances their potential thriving on rest in short

923
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:17,160
Speaker 2: bursts of work, they require ample time to recharge.

924
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:20,320
Speaker 1: Okay, here's a question. How many of these are there?

925
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:20,879
Speaker 4: Four?

926
00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:24,560
Speaker 2: Well, I think there's four because there's a generating manifesto.

927
00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:26,920
Speaker 3: I think that's what Mark's a manifesting general.

928
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 1: That's sure, a tried and true, born and raged. So

929
00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:34,359
Speaker 1: there's eight billion people on Earth. Saying that there's two

930
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 1: billion of each of these, and all those two billion

931
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:39,320
Speaker 1: people have these traits.

932
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 4: Well, it's not all evenly dispersed exactly, Mark.

933
00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:44,600
Speaker 1: I don't think that helps the argument, though. What I'm

934
00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:47,239
Speaker 1: saying is there's billions of people and they all fit

935
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:48,759
Speaker 1: into one of these categories.

936
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 4: At the end of the day, we're all humans, Mark,

937
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:52,720
Speaker 4: Not everyone's going to take the test.

938
00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:55,800
Speaker 3: Also at the end of the day, Yes, that is accurate.

939
00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:58,920
Speaker 4: Okay, this is important. This is important.

940
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:02,719
Speaker 2: They thrive when their gifts are appreciated, fostering meaningful connections

941
00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:08,000
Speaker 2: while preserving boundaries. Rest is crucial, requiring partner understanding. Although

942
00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:12,000
Speaker 2: drawn to certain types, successful relationships are possible through mutual respect.

943
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:13,040
Speaker 4: Okay.

944
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 2: So basically it says you projectors bring unique strengths to

945
00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 2: the workplace, such as understanding systems and guiding others towards efficiency,

946
00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:24,839
Speaker 2: but traditional work structures can be challenging due to their

947
00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:26,280
Speaker 2: inconsistent energy.

948
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:29,280
Speaker 3: Becca, that's so Beca.

949
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:30,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, but most of what you just read is true

950
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:33,880
Speaker 1: of a lot of people, especially the projectors, but especially

951
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:37,520
Speaker 1: the nice stuff. Everyone takes those compliments as like, yep,

952
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:38,680
Speaker 1: that's me for sure.

953
00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:40,520
Speaker 4: I do that nice to be like I don't.

954
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:44,040
Speaker 1: But rest is crucial. Everybody in the world could be like, yes, I.

955
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:46,160
Speaker 2: Do need to know, but like how much you and

956
00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:48,880
Speaker 2: Tanya rest is very different than how much I rest?

957
00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 4: Okay, because manifested to.

958
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:55,759
Speaker 1: Justify laziness, aren't you with this point?

959
00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:57,399
Speaker 4: Is cent noon?

960
00:43:57,480 --> 00:44:01,440
Speaker 2: But I when I when I know a lot of No,

961
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 2: it's because I'm a projector allet like when I did

962
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:07,600
Speaker 2: the Bachelorette. But like all the socializing, I have to

963
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:11,520
Speaker 2: I need a day of like nothingness, like don't look

964
00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:13,480
Speaker 2: at me, don't talk to me, like Tanya called me,

965
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:15,880
Speaker 2: and I was like, I'm having my day of nothing

966
00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 2: and you're trying to talk about work and I have

967
00:44:17,719 --> 00:44:19,600
Speaker 2: to cut you off right, oh god.

968
00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:22,360
Speaker 1: But also I don't honestly, I don't think you're lazy.

969
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:23,480
Speaker 1: I think if you wanted to.

970
00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:25,680
Speaker 2: Be said that. My test didn't say I was lazy.

971
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:26,880
Speaker 2: Said I needed to rechart.

972
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:29,719
Speaker 1: You said, okay, But I don't want you to take

973
00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:31,319
Speaker 1: me the wrong way. I think about you that you

974
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:33,440
Speaker 1: could do a rewarding radio show if you wanted to

975
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:33,759
Speaker 1: do it.

976
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:36,880
Speaker 4: But I need time to recharge. I want to go.

977
00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:39,399
Speaker 2: If I did what y'all did, I would go home

978
00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:41,640
Speaker 2: and sleep. I want to go and run errands and

979
00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:43,200
Speaker 2: try to get more stuff done.

980
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:45,160
Speaker 4: I'd be like, I'm good. You would do what you

981
00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:46,919
Speaker 4: gotta do exactly I go to bed.

982
00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 1: No, I don't think you might.

983
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:49,080
Speaker 4: I would get up.

984
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:50,960
Speaker 3: You get up and you do the morning show, and

985
00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 3: then you would have stuff to do. You need to

986
00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:54,040
Speaker 3: take Phoebe to the vet. You need to get groceries.

987
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:56,000
Speaker 3: Like there's just like life, you make it happen.

988
00:44:57,560 --> 00:45:01,200
Speaker 2: I appreciate, I appreciate your hope and trust and faith

989
00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:03,920
Speaker 2: in me, but I want it well, Mark, what is

990
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:07,760
Speaker 2: yours that you don't see as yourself manifesting?

991
00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:11,200
Speaker 1: This is so long and reading it is so what

992
00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:14,600
Speaker 1: are the parts? I'm known from my energetic nature and

993
00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:16,920
Speaker 1: unique approach to life? Like that everybody can say that's

994
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:19,840
Speaker 1: true of themselves. Now it's like unique are just generic.

995
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:22,360
Speaker 1: They throw them out there so that it matches everybody,

996
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:25,880
Speaker 1: and everybody go, yeah, that's me. In relationships, they inspire

997
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 1: with their creativity and drive and may face misunderstanding to

998
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:31,600
Speaker 1: their nonlinear style. I don't know what any of that means.

999
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:35,080
Speaker 1: Got a wife and we haven't a nice time? Like,

1000
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:38,280
Speaker 1: there's no none of that's actually the work work.

1001
00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:40,880
Speaker 3: You excel in the workplace due to their ability to

1002
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:46,160
Speaker 3: respond and manifest, making them versatile and dynamic. They thrive

1003
00:45:46,320 --> 00:45:49,719
Speaker 3: and environments that allow them to utilize their energy, creativity,

1004
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:54,600
Speaker 3: and rapid manifestation abilities, but may feel constrained by rigid structures.

1005
00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:56,080
Speaker 3: That's you, it's not me.

1006
00:45:56,239 --> 00:45:57,600
Speaker 4: He loves rigid structure.

1007
00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:00,400
Speaker 1: I love I am born to be rigidly structure.

1008
00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:05,759
Speaker 2: I don't know a more rigidly structured person, Like, but.

1009
00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:07,560
Speaker 1: Do you see how your brain just made that fit

1010
00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:09,000
Speaker 1: me even though it's completely not.

1011
00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 3: Me because I don't think I think rigid structure. I

1012
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 3: think in terms of work, because that's what we're looking

1013
00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:20,239
Speaker 3: at here. A rigid structured job would be. You do

1014
00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:21,919
Speaker 3: not work in a rigid structured job.

1015
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:24,200
Speaker 1: I mean I, but I kind of do. I don't

1016
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:26,920
Speaker 1: do nine to five, but my days on the morning

1017
00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:30,000
Speaker 1: show are rigidly structured. I know when I'm getting up,

1018
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:31,480
Speaker 1: I know what I'm eating my oatmeal, I know when

1019
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:33,080
Speaker 1: I'm starting the show. I know what I'm doing after

1020
00:46:33,120 --> 00:46:35,800
Speaker 1: the show. It's structure. I thrive on structure.

1021
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:41,360
Speaker 3: I wouldn't say it's rigidly structured your work environment, okay,

1022
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:44,279
Speaker 3: Like rigidly structured would be like a doctor in the

1023
00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:44,560
Speaker 3: O R.

1024
00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:47,560
Speaker 1: Becca's right, though, and I disagree with that because a

1025
00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:49,279
Speaker 1: doctor in the O R has a lot of stuff coming.

1026
00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:52,120
Speaker 1: Beca's right that I when she said I'm the most

1027
00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:54,120
Speaker 1: rigidly structured person, I.

1028
00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 2: Gotta say, like, you eat your same things every well,

1029
00:46:58,200 --> 00:46:59,680
Speaker 2: every night of the week, every.

1030
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:03,400
Speaker 1: Day, same I'm boom structured.

1031
00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:08,239
Speaker 3: Honestly, I'm getting close to that. I'm creeping up you originally,

1032
00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:11,359
Speaker 3: Like between our meal prep, I'm like, I literally feel

1033
00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:13,400
Speaker 3: like I meaning the same four things. I just go

1034
00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:14,759
Speaker 3: in the fridge and let me take that and take

1035
00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:19,600
Speaker 3: that and go. Yeah, it's kind of nice as a projector.

1036
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:20,759
Speaker 4: That's a projector.

1037
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 2: That does not sound blissful to me, But I'm happy

1038
00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:26,239
Speaker 2: for y'all. All right, Well, you know, to each their

1039
00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:29,040
Speaker 2: own to be open to the outcome.

1040
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:33,279
Speaker 4: Possibility is not attached to the outcome. There we go.

1041
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:38,799
Speaker 2: That's all for now, because Tanya, we have to get

1042
00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:40,680
Speaker 2: you off to the iHeart Awards.

1043
00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:43,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, Mama's got, Mama's gotta go.

1044
00:47:47,560 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 2: There's a part of me that feels like she thinks

1045
00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:50,760
Speaker 2: those are the worst.

1046
00:47:51,880 --> 00:47:55,960
Speaker 3: Mama's gotta go. I sing it to myself often, So

1047
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:57,799
Speaker 3: what's the real song? I don't know, but I sing

1048
00:47:57,840 --> 00:48:00,319
Speaker 3: it to my dog whenever I leave the house. Mamma's

1049
00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:01,239
Speaker 3: gotta go.

1050
00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:06,120
Speaker 2: Have you seen those blind karaoke challenges? I really want

1051
00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:08,320
Speaker 2: to that might be enough. I don't know how we

1052
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:08,640
Speaker 2: could do.

1053
00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:12,239
Speaker 1: I think we can do that, but it's so funny.

1054
00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 4: As a TikTok video.

1055
00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:16,400
Speaker 1: The original song at Jane's.

1056
00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:20,279
Speaker 3: Mama's gotta go.

1057
00:48:21,480 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, on that note, I gotta go, and before

1058
00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 2: we hear that one more time, we're gonna end the podcast.

1059
00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:31,040
Speaker 4: But I will be back on Thursday.

1060
00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:33,840
Speaker 2: I'm doing an interview with a Golden Bachelor lady, Susan

1061
00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:34,360
Speaker 2: and Kathy.

1062
00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:37,880
Speaker 4: I'm very excited. I feel like it'll be a very giggly,

1063
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:40,280
Speaker 4: giggly goosey time.

1064
00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:44,120
Speaker 3: I'm excited for you to chat with the Golden Bachelors

1065
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:45,480
Speaker 3: as well. And I just want to say thank you

1066
00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:48,800
Speaker 3: for the love on the Jason Tarctic interview. Somebody commented

1067
00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 3: underneath the video and said, my questions were very Alex

1068
00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:57,719
Speaker 3: Cooper vibes. Oh thank you. I know, pat myself to

1069
00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:00,239
Speaker 3: great job you.

1070
00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 1: I think it's the new studio. It's bringing out the best.

1071
00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:04,480
Speaker 3: The best of me. Yeah, totally.

1072
00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:07,719
Speaker 4: Well, we'll be back Thursday. Have a great week. We

1073
00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:08,359
Speaker 4: love you so much.

1074
00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:09,160
Speaker 3: Bye bye

1075
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:17,800
Speaker 2: H