1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our chief Love Officer, 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:04,600 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. 3 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:08,320 Speaker 2: This is from AMR in Pensacola. Ameer Rights. 4 00:00:08,400 --> 00:00:11,440 Speaker 1: My youngest sister is twenty two, and I found out 5 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 1: that my forty year old friend has been out with 6 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:18,080 Speaker 1: her a few times. I told him I didn't appreciate it, 7 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:21,160 Speaker 1: and he told my sister. She called and went off 8 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:24,360 Speaker 1: on me. I hate that she's mad at me. Should 9 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:26,200 Speaker 1: I mind my business? 10 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:31,320 Speaker 3: You should mind your own business, but she is your business. Yeah, 11 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 3: And if you know an official sister, and if you 12 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 3: know something about this man that she don't know, which 13 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:41,919 Speaker 3: is probably one of your problems, and she. 14 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 4: Just gonna have to be mad. See. 15 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 3: If I know you ain't about nothing and you after 16 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:51,400 Speaker 3: my sister or my daughter, I'm gonna have something to 17 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:51,839 Speaker 3: say about it. 18 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:52,880 Speaker 4: I'm push this side. 19 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, but I'm not gonna let it go. I'm 20 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 3: just not gonna do that. I have never done and 21 00:00:58,760 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 3: I never will. 22 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 1: Okay, So yeah, yeah, I love it. Your your his 23 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:08,480 Speaker 1: sister is your business. Your sister is your business. Like 24 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 1: you said, Coelo, all right, moving on to. 25 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 4: Felicia, I mean she could be mad at me. 26 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:14,959 Speaker 3: I'm would say, look, sis, I'm just doing this because 27 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 3: I know him. 28 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:17,760 Speaker 4: Now you know what you want to do because you're grown. 29 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:19,400 Speaker 4: But I know him. 30 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:21,400 Speaker 2: She's twenty two, he's forty. 31 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 4: Come on them. Yeah, all right. 32 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:28,199 Speaker 1: Moving on to Felicia and Newark, Felicia writes, I haven't 33 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:30,720 Speaker 1: seen one of my old friends in years, and I 34 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:34,520 Speaker 1: ran into her recently. She was acting funny and said 35 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 1: she can see I'm a superstar now. Yes, I have 36 00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:41,319 Speaker 1: a great job and a nice car. Why do some 37 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:44,240 Speaker 1: friends hate on you instead of celebrating you? 38 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 2: Why? 39 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 3: Oh ye, bank, And let me tell you something. Some 40 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 3: people that's from your past need to stay right there. 41 00:01:57,360 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, that part. 42 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 3: And people who can see that you're doing better and 43 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 3: are envious of it and say that to you right now? 44 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:09,359 Speaker 3: That's okay. Hey, God bless you. I'm gonna pray for you. 45 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 3: Hope all is well, and never look back. I get 46 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 3: that all the time. You thank you something now, No, 47 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 3: I don't think nothing. You think I'm something? Yeah, yeah, 48 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 3: I came up to you and spoke, my man, what's 49 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:23,639 Speaker 3: going on? 50 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 2: Okay, we're out the gate with the hate. 51 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 3: Hey man, you don't even come to Cleveland no more. Bro, 52 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 3: I'm busy. They don't tape shows in Cleveland. No, I 53 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 3: don't make it, So how come you don't never come? 54 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 3: I had to tell this one due, I said, Look, man, 55 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:45,519 Speaker 3: going to Cleveland's a little bit hard for me because 56 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 3: every time I go to Cleveland, somebody out and buried 57 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:52,360 Speaker 3: somebody and said everybody I love, a lot of people 58 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 3: I love is gone. And the people that I do 59 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 3: love in Cleveland, they come. 60 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 4: I've sent for. 61 00:02:56,240 --> 00:03:02,400 Speaker 2: Them right there. All right, I think you explained that 62 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:03,639 Speaker 2: quite well. Colo. 63 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:08,639 Speaker 1: Moving on to Tanisha in Atlanta, Tanisia writes, I'm thirty 64 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 1: eight and I just had my breath and my butt done. 65 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:14,960 Speaker 3: Come on. 66 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 1: My husband paid for it, and I wanted to do 67 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:24,639 Speaker 1: the surgery because he cheated on me. I'm still healing 68 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:28,960 Speaker 1: and he has started staying out all night again. Should 69 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 1: I take my new butt and find a new man. 70 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 3: Put the foody on somebody? 71 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 4: Well, I would put this new meat to good use. 72 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 3: Oh listen, I know you healing and everything, and you 73 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 3: try to do that because he cheated. Yeah, but you 74 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 3: getting your body together might not be the cause of it. 75 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 3: He could just be good go through it, and that's 76 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 3: what he is. Right now. Now, you can cheat and 77 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 3: get your life together. I want women to stop thinking 78 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 3: that once a cheater, always a Cheatah, that's not true. 79 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 4: It doesn't work that way. 80 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 3: Men get to get it together and make a lot 81 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 3: of mistakes and can get it together and become a 82 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:17,920 Speaker 3: better person. 83 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:20,599 Speaker 4: So that's not always the case. 84 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 3: And he's out now while you healing, staying out all night. 85 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 3: When a man stay out all night, I can't help him. 86 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 4: I can't. 87 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 3: I can't help you, dog, because there's nothing out there 88 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:40,279 Speaker 3: all night. But trouble once you stay out all night 89 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 3: is trouble you have got. You've got to go home. 90 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 4: It's only a way. Yeah, I can fix this. You've 91 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:52,880 Speaker 4: got to go home. 92 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's right, that's right. 93 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 3: Do you understand that's the most important lesson I learned 94 00:04:58,360 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 3: in my life. 95 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:02,799 Speaker 2: To go go, go home. 96 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 3: From and if you got a cool one to go to, 97 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 3: that's what you want. 98 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 2: Now. 99 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 3: Now, if there's trouble at the house, ain't nobody gonna 100 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:15,920 Speaker 3: keep driving up to that because they're sitting out in 101 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:18,039 Speaker 3: the driveway looking at the door, not wanting to go 102 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 3: in your house. 103 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:20,160 Speaker 4: That ain't where you want to be. 104 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:26,279 Speaker 1: And women, Steve, women have to stop doing things for 105 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:30,720 Speaker 1: other people like getting classic surgery, you know, for her husband. 106 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:33,839 Speaker 1: If you want plastic surgery, get it for yourself, not 107 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 1: because you're trying to keep your manners. 108 00:05:35,680 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 3: In the words of the late great Frankie Beverly Maids, 109 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:43,600 Speaker 3: do it for yourself, joy and pay. 110 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 1: Come on now, sunshine, yeah at. 111 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 4: A ray, do it for yourself. Just do it. 112 00:05:51,520 --> 00:06:00,839 Speaker 3: Do it for yourself. Listen and follow your instincts. I mean, 113 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:03,720 Speaker 3: and your intuition. Women have a built in thing that 114 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 3: God provided you would call intuition, is to protect you 115 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:08,840 Speaker 3: from the predatory hunter that. 116 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:09,839 Speaker 4: We are as men. 117 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 3: If you if if your intuition tells you something, it's 118 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 3: probably true. Yeah, because you have that because how many 119 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 3: times have you stopped seeing the guy went I knew 120 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:26,880 Speaker 3: he wasn't no good. Well, when you knew it, you 121 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 3: should have stopped. 122 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 2: Yeah right, that's right. 123 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 3: And they don't need to fighting that intuition because it's 124 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 3: really I wish I had it. I wish I had 125 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 3: that thing women have, man called intuition. I could have 126 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 3: saved myself a whole lot of pain. 127 00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:48,240 Speaker 2: We knowing we Bill and this poor woman that had classic. 128 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:55,920 Speaker 1: For this man and he's still needs yeah one. Yeah, 129 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 1: but this is from Johnson and Tulsa. Last one, Steve 130 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:02,839 Speaker 1: Johnson writes, my wife had started wearing short shorts and 131 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 1: I love it. I love it, but it bothers our sons, 132 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:09,280 Speaker 1: who are ages eighteen and twenty. I tell them to 133 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:12,679 Speaker 1: talk to her if it really bothers them. And they 134 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 1: think I should talk to her. Should I entertain the 135 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:19,160 Speaker 1: boys or tell them to leave their mom alone? 136 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 3: Well, you know, man, listen, some stuff is age appropriate. 137 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 3: This is the first woman that them boys have ever loved, 138 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 3: and they see her as her mother. They don't want 139 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 3: to see her as houchie mama. You're enjoying the houchi 140 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 3: mama stuff because it looks great to you. She just 141 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:44,120 Speaker 3: shouldn't dress that way around her children, her sons. And 142 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 3: then y'all can go out and wear whatever you want 143 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:48,560 Speaker 3: to wear. But it is only your job to talk 144 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 3: to them, not the boys. And that's why they came 145 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 3: to you. I try to be the father where they say, 146 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 3: let me call my day. 147 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, I got it. 148 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 2: I like all that today from you. Okay, all right, 149 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 2: thank you. See ala hoops. You're listening to the Steve 150 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 2: Harvey Morning Show.