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Speaker 3: let's get into the calls. Goes on the line, taking

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Speaker 3: your phone calls every night. He's teaching your.

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Speaker 4: Expert all from Sierra.

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Speaker 3: Sierra.

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Speaker 4: Hey, geck, what's up?

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Speaker 3: You know, Sierra? Can you so missed so many things?

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Speaker 3: Do you mean, what's up with me? Or just what's

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Speaker 3: up in the world in general? Because I don't. I

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Speaker 3: really I'm an expert on what's going on in my world,

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Speaker 3: but I as far as the world at large, you know,

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Speaker 3: I feel like I feel like I'm working through, you know,

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Speaker 3: personal problems that you know, I you know, I mean,

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Speaker 3: I know that there's a lot of problems pressing the earth,

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Speaker 3: like climate change and wildfires and politics. But I'm too

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Speaker 3: busy trying to think about what I'm gonna eat for

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Speaker 3: dinner tonight and that, and is that selfish? Probably?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, but I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I only have so much brain power.

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Speaker 6: You know what.

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Speaker 4: Think about yourself, man, Yeah, it's okay, think about you.

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Speaker 4: It's really fine to take yourself as a priority. I'm

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Speaker 4: just gonna like fangirl for a little bit because I

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Speaker 4: I've been listening to you, like your podcasts or like

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Speaker 4: a street run you like get me through my work day.

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Speaker 4: I just want to say, like, thank you for doing

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Speaker 4: you and like it's.

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Speaker 7: The same that.

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Speaker 4: You like see someone across the street and like I

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Speaker 4: I wonder what he does when he goes home, and

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Speaker 4: like that's what your podcast is for me, and like

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Speaker 4: lets me know, you know, there's guys that want to

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Speaker 4: fuck like minotaurs, and you know people that are like

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Speaker 4: totally the swingers and they're okay with it. I just

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Speaker 4: think you're with it and it makes me I leave

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Speaker 4: your streams like thinking it's okay.

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Speaker 8: Not to know what's going on.

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Speaker 4: And it is a blessing and a curse to have

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Speaker 4: problems and have feelings about having problems because this is

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Speaker 4: life and life is like an amazing thing to have,

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Speaker 4: even if it's shitty sometimes. So I just want to

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Speaker 4: thank you, honestly.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much, Sarah. I really appreciate all the

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Speaker 3: Sierra and not Sarah, thank you so much, Cierra for

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Speaker 3: all those kind words. I must ask you now after

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Speaker 3: having listened to the podcast, after having listened to the stream,

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Speaker 3: after having you know, really enjoyed the voyeuristic experience of

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Speaker 3: learning so many things about so many people. Uh uh

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Speaker 3: through this, through this stream, uh, you must have Sierra

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Speaker 3: formed some idea perhaps of what you might say were

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Speaker 3: And I am curious what that might be.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I know I've been thinking about this all day.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, fuck, I had to have something great, okay.

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Speaker 4: I mean we can get like personal and I could

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Speaker 7: You'll know.

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Speaker 4: When you hear something spicy or it makes you sound

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Speaker 3: You know what I wanna. I want to let's get spicy.

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Speaker 3: I want to hear the spicy thing.

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Speaker 4: All right. So I used to work at this restaurant.

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Speaker 4: So like I was like, all right, I'll let you know.

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Speaker 4: Like what I kind of thought it was funny. It's

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Speaker 4: He kind of like advanced it up when he's around

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Speaker 10: So like that what.

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Speaker 11: I felt like I was going through.

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Speaker 4: It was like he knew I was being nice to

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Speaker 4: so yeah, that's that's all I got.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if you're a dick. I mean, listen,

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Speaker 3: You have every right to have those boundaries respected, you know.

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Speaker 3: I mean what was he do? Was he like he

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Speaker 11: Just touching boom.

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Speaker 4: But that's where like comedy came from. But like if

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Speaker 4: Like I didn't think that we were talking about this.

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Speaker 4: It's just like you maybe.

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Speaker 3: When you said you said just did you say just

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Speaker 3: now that's where the comedy came from.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's kind of funny, Like who's gonna be like

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Speaker 13: Like that's nice?

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Speaker 3: You know, you know there's a couple. There's a lot

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Speaker 3: this is Uh did did you feel as though this

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Speaker 3: this this these sexual conversations did you like I don't know,

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Speaker 3: were you like inviting them in any way?

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Speaker 13: No?

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Speaker 4: I mean like if you asked you like here, it

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Speaker 4: So like yeah, I ask, and then it would be

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Speaker 4: like would you give me a blow drop? And I'm like, whoa, whoa,

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Speaker 4: why are we talking about me? And I don't know,

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Speaker 4: give me a little chuckle because it's just some some

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Speaker 4: men have the crazy confidence that just jump the friend hurdle.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I have a boyfriend anyways, but jump that

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Speaker 4: friend hurdle, Like all right, I'm gonna I can see

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Speaker 8: So that's I guess.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I sound like a fucking asshole, but it's too

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Speaker 4: late now. But I just I got a little chuckle

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Speaker 3: What is the current status of this relationship? Are you

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Speaker 4: I well, funny a funny thing as I'm watching the

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Speaker 4: I can't believe I'm one of the first like one

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Speaker 4: he's like, I don't know where it's like ten thirty

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Speaker 4: So of course, I mean, you're priority ways more than that.

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Speaker 4: So I just ignore them. So I don't know what

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Speaker 4: they would what they could have been about.

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Speaker 3: Well, I have no guidance for you in this situation.

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Speaker 3: I would say, Okay, I wasn't act. I would say, though,

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Speaker 3: you know, uh uh, probably not the best idea to

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Speaker 3: use this guy for comedy. Also not good for him

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Speaker 3: to be asking a random strangers these questions. You know.

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Speaker 3: I mean, good luck with whatever you decide to do

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I mean it's nothing. I mean I don't

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Speaker 4: I don't work it there anymore anyway, So I just uh,

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Speaker 4: I answered something spicy, and I don't have much going

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Speaker 4: on other than that unless we want to talk about

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Speaker 4: like actual therapist stuff. But I know you're not certified,

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Speaker 4: but it's okay.

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Speaker 3: Well listen, Sier. I appreciate very much you sharing with

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Speaker 3: us this evening, and thank you again for the kind words.

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Speaker 4: Very thank you, Gick.

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Speaker 8: I love I love you.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna go see chat shooting on you right now,

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Speaker 4: so thank you so much.

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Speaker 8: Sake.

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Speaker 4: I hope, I hope the calls get better. You know,

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Speaker 4: we don't get a lot of people dropping calls.

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Speaker 3: That is what it is. But thank you so much.

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Speaker 3: Here you have a good rest of the night.

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Speaker 13: Thank you.

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Speaker 3: I don't know how I feel about that. I don't

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Speaker 3: know how I feel about anything that ever happens.

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Speaker 14: Ever, all from Jay Jay.

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Speaker 5: Yes you called me, Yes I didn't.

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Speaker 3: What's your deal?

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Speaker 5: My expectations are too high for everything.

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Speaker 3: Your expectations are too high for everything? Yeah, man, this

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Speaker 3: I'm actually really glad you called in because this is

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Speaker 5: Oh thank you.

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Speaker 3: Tell me about the last time your expectations were extremely

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Speaker 5: Well, So the other day, I wanted pizza. So I

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Speaker 5: So I was like, fuck it, there's a pizza place.

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Speaker 5: It was a Little Caesars right around the corner. I'll

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Speaker 5: go get me a little Caesar pizza. Well, the commercial

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Speaker 3: So claim that there was nine feet I was.

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Speaker 5: I was promised nine feet of pepperoni in this commercial.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, there's nine feet of pepperoni in the crust, on.

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Speaker 5: The whole pizza. It was it was like there was

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Speaker 3: Why would you I was surprised at of pepperoni on

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Speaker 5: I didn't want it. The commercial promised it to me.

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Speaker 3: How big was the pizza?

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Speaker 5: It was a good sixteen inch diameter.

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Speaker 3: How would nine feet this is your fault, how would

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Speaker 5: I mean, I'm I'm no a mathematician. That's what I

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Speaker 3: I was told, all right, continue what happened next?

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Speaker 5: Well, so of course, wow, I got interested. I measured

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Speaker 5: it out. Sure, So I measured every single slice of

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Speaker 5: it was only like two feet of pizza of pepperoni.

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Speaker 3: Still two feet of pepperonis a lot.

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Speaker 5: So then I stacked it edge to edge. They were

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Speaker 5: only it was only seven seven feet and three sixteenths

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Speaker 5: I was very disappointed and it ruined the experience of

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Speaker 3: Did it ruin the rest of your day?

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Speaker 5: Luckily not?

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Speaker 14: You know.

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Speaker 5: I had other things to do that day and that

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Speaker 3: Did how long did the effects of this disappointment last

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Speaker 5: Oh? A few hours? A few hours, about three o'clock

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Speaker 5: to six. I'm over it. I'll think about it again, though,

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Speaker 5: and it'll piss me off.

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Speaker 3: What's your name?

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Speaker 5: Jay?

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Speaker 3: Jay? You know, Jay, Expectations are different from hopes. I

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Speaker 3: to experience so many situations like this in which you

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Speaker 3: maintain the hope that you have. But as far as

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Speaker 5: That sounds like a pretty good way to live your life.

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Speaker 5: You know, some people would object and say you'd always hope,

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Speaker 5: but you know it's it's my hopes were crushed a

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Speaker 5: little bit by that. But if I had known, if

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Speaker 5: I had hoped not to get nine feet and I

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Speaker 5: I'd i'd be out of my pants excited for that

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Speaker 5: much Pepperoni.

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Speaker 3: I just go to the store, man, Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, But what I want to do with what I

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Speaker 3: You got to do with nine feet of pepperoni?

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Speaker 5: I was gonna eat it on a pizza. That's totally different.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much for sharing, Jay. You have a

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Speaker 3: good rest of the night, you too.

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Speaker 14: Can I.

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Speaker 11: All from moments?

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Speaker 3: Moments moments moments.

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Speaker 8: Moment like movement Valley?

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Speaker 3: I have I have moved done?

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Speaker 14: Oh?

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Speaker 11: What do you mean?

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Speaker 3: Tell me?

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Speaker 5: Anne?

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Speaker 3: What are you doing right now?

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Speaker 15: Uh?

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Speaker 8: I just got done washing my hair. I didn't expect

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Speaker 8: you to answer, so I'm kind of nervous, but I'm grateful.

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Speaker 11: That you answered.

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Speaker 3: Oh, Okay, why do you let me answer you thing.

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Speaker 3: Are you a nervous person in general?

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Speaker 12: Oh?

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Speaker 8: Not really, only getting nervous when other people getting nervous.

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Speaker 8: Like I work at Starbucks, so it's a lot of

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Speaker 3: We're anxious people around you all the time. With these

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Speaker 8: Because Starbucks is a crazy chaotic ass place. I mean.

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Speaker 14: It is crazy.

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Speaker 3: Starbucks is a crazy chaotic ass place.

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Speaker 11: Yes, very much so.

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Speaker 3: And why would you say it's so crazy? Let me

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Speaker 3: as though, secretly, secretly, secretly, secretly you're actually attracted to

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Speaker 8: No, I'm not attracted to it at all. I want

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Speaker 8: like to be a Barissa, because I actually like being

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Speaker 8: a Barisa. I just do not like Starbucks because it's

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Speaker 8: because of like the culture of it, like it enforces it.

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Speaker 8: Like they'll be like, oh, we enforce positive positivity and

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Speaker 8: attention to that kind of thing when they hire people,

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Speaker 8: Like they just say it, but they don't pay attention

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Speaker 3: You know, you said they don't pay attention to it. Okay,

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Speaker 3: So what have you noticed about your experience of Starbucks

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Speaker 8: I mean, I feel like my like coworkers, they just

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Speaker 8: you're doing so good. But other than that, it's like

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Speaker 8: of it, like I'm focusing on what they say that's

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Speaker 8: like I feel like I don't hear anything positive about me.

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Speaker 8: I've been there for two years, never been employee of

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Speaker 8: the quarter or anything. But like everyone always says, oh,

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Speaker 8: I love you, I love you so much, but like

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Speaker 3: So that is so so they are giving you some

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Speaker 8: No, no no, But it's like they say, but then

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Speaker 8: don't show the love. They just say it.

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Speaker 3: And you know, sometimes look if nobody, if you don't

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Speaker 3: feel the energy, if you don't feel anyone in your corner,

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Speaker 3: you gotta be your own cheerleader. Okay, you gotta look

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Speaker 3: at your vanilla frappuccino and you gotta go. That's a

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Speaker 3: damn good vanilla fracino. Nobody in the history of the

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Speaker 8: You know, my customer, you're right. My customers always say

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Speaker 8: But I've never really gotten complains from customers anymore. They're

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Speaker 8: I'm like, yep, Well, I have a question for you.

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Speaker 3: If you are not getting the praise that you clearly

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Speaker 3: two years? How long have you been feeling this like?

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Speaker 8: They made me feel in confident from the first time

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Speaker 8: they don't forth like positivity or anything like when I

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Speaker 8: And I would ask questions because I didn't remember everything

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Speaker 8: many shocks does this get? And they would just look

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Speaker 3: All right, so you but so let me am so listen.

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Speaker 3: So you've been feeling like this for two years, and

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Speaker 3: yet two years you've you've you've stayed, You've continue to work.

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Speaker 8: Then I'm a slave to capitalism.

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Speaker 3: You're a slave to capitalism.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, I'm broke.

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Speaker 3: You're not a slave to capital.

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Speaker 8: I'm going I'm nineteen.

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Speaker 3: What I have. And what if I told you you

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Speaker 8: I guess.

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Speaker 12: So with all this debt that I've.

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Speaker 3: Accumulated, what are you accumulating that? Are you going? Are

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Speaker 3: you in college? Yeah? Waiting college for biology? All right,

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Speaker 3: that's a real thing. I want to go, but you shouldn't.

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Speaker 3: All right, so you're in debt with Well? Okay, you say,

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Speaker 3: have you have you? Have you gone and tried to

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Speaker 3: apply at other places?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 10: I have.

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Speaker 8: I actually got another job, like I just had an

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Speaker 8: interview for it and I'm waiting to hear back from

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Speaker 8: them Friday.

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Speaker 3: Where where are they at?

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Speaker 8: It's another coffee shop, like I said, looking somewhere more

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Speaker 8: local and they pay more a chain. Yeahs are you?

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Speaker 13: Huh?

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Speaker 3: Was the interview process good?

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Speaker 14: Yeah? I think it went pretty well.

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Speaker 3: Hmm. I'm sorry what were you going to say?

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Speaker 8: I was saying?

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Speaker 3: You said you were from Missouri forests, deserts and cold

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Speaker 14: Oh all right, all right.

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Speaker 3: And thank you so much for calling. And I wish

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Speaker 5: Okay, I'm trying.

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Speaker 8: I'm trying.

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Speaker 3: Next time you, next time you, next time you pour

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Speaker 3: a cup of just regular black coffee, I want you

448
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Speaker 3: to look at it and go Nobody could have poured

449
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Speaker 3: that fucking coffee the right the exactly the way that

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Speaker 3: I did. I'm a genius. I am the most valuable

451
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Speaker 3: Starbucks employee that ever lived. Because I believe it is true,

452
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Speaker 3: and I want you to believe it is true.

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Speaker 8: But yourself, all right, I appreciate it.

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Speaker 12: Have a good way, Paul from Caleb.

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Speaker 16: Okay, I wanted to talk to you about my new job. Sure,

456
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Speaker 16: I live in the Bay Area and I originally got

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Speaker 16: a job working for a defend attorney. I'm still in college,

458
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Speaker 16: but uh I I work for a defense attorney and

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Speaker 16: I like the work a lot, like what I do,

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Speaker 16: but you know the nature of the work.

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Speaker 5: It's like I've lost some friends over it, you know,

462
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Speaker 5: because of you know, the kind of clients we take,

463
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Speaker 5: and it's just been bumming me out.

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Speaker 3: I guess you're a defense attorney. Do you do you

465
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Speaker 3: like a criminal defense attorney?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

467
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Speaker 16: Well, I'm not sorry, I'm not a defense attorney.

468
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Speaker 5: I'm like a paralegal.

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Speaker 16: I work for a defense attorney. I'm still in college,

470
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Speaker 16: but I want to be a defense attorney.

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Speaker 5: That's correct, That's correct.

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Speaker 3: Okay. Uh And you say you've been losing friends over this.

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Speaker 16: Yeah, you know, like, uh, I live in Berkeley. I

474
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Speaker 16: guess where I go to school, actually Berkeley, California. And

475
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Speaker 16: it's you know, the political like you know, everyone's kind

476
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Speaker 16: of like to the left, I guess, which I am too.

477
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Speaker 16: But you know, I tell people about some of the

478
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Speaker 16: clients that we take in and we take like, you know,

479
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Speaker 16: alleged rapists and.

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Speaker 5: Stuff like that. And that's and I I've also also

481
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Speaker 5: I've also like friends friends over that, like people, you know,

482
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Speaker 5: people who are like, well, if you were really uh

483
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Speaker 5: you really stood with rape victims and victims of sexual assault,

484
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Speaker 5: you wouldn't be helping to get them acquidit or whatever.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, what is your interest in this career path?

486
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Speaker 5: Well, I want to be a come on defens attorney.

487
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Speaker 16: And I I like, I like the idea of you know,

488
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Speaker 16: I like I like the adversarial nature of our core

489
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Speaker 16: system where it's like, you know, one party against the other.

490
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Speaker 16: And I was I'm on the debate team right now.

491
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Speaker 16: And I was always good at debating and stuff, So

492
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Speaker 16: you know, I like I like debating.

493
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Speaker 5: I like arguing.

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Speaker 16: I like uh, you know, proving a point, even if

495
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Speaker 16: it's something aren't necessarily believe in.

496
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Speaker 11: So doing.

497
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Speaker 3: And I like the fact that here's the thing, the

498
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Speaker 3: way that the court system works, everyone gets no matter

499
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Speaker 3: what you're uh suspected of doing, you get legal there.

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Speaker 3: You want to be like a public defender.

501
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Speaker 16: Oh no, I'm going to own my own business. I

502
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Speaker 16: want to be a private defense attorney.

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Speaker 3: Oh sure, sure. Well look, I mean you know that's

504
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Speaker 3: how the court system works. Is you get a defense

505
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Speaker 3: attorney if you have been accused of committing a crime.

506
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Speaker 3: You know, right, that's now that's a tough gig. You know,

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Speaker 3: I personally would not want to do that, but I

508
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Speaker 3: mean it's a legitimate career.

509
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Speaker 4: For sure.

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Speaker 16: And you know I think, uh, you know, my my

511
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 16: friends call me like they call me anihilist, which I

512
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Speaker 16: don't I don't agree with. They call me an iilist

513
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 16: because they're like, well, when you own your own firm,

514
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Speaker 16: are you going to take like rapists or whatever? And

515
00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 16: I'm like, yeah, like you know, I'll take whoever, whoever

516
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Speaker 16: pays me money, I'll tell I'll defend any one.

517
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Speaker 14: And you know I don't.

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Speaker 16: I don't think they just they don't understand, like the

519
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Speaker 16: the thrill I get I get out of, Like they

520
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Speaker 16: don't understand how how much I enjoy doing this, and

521
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Speaker 16: it just it just hurt hurtful.

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Speaker 3: Well, look, I'm not here to judge anyone on what

523
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Speaker 3: career path they want to take, you know, I mean

524
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Speaker 3: everyone gets there. You know, again, this is how the

525
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Speaker 3: court system works. Whatever you did, you get legal defense.

526
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Speaker 3: I mean, damn. You know, look, if this is what

527
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Speaker 3: you want to do, then again I personally wouldn't want

528
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Speaker 3: to do it. I you know, I'm not here to

529
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Speaker 3: judge you and give my opinion on what I think

530
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Speaker 3: about the thing. But if it's what you want to do,

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Speaker 3: then uh, you know, you should be able to uh

532
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Speaker 3: withstand the backlash that you might get if it's something

533
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Speaker 3: you want to do that badly.

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Speaker 5: What what do you think about the thing? I want

535
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Speaker 5: to hear your.

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Speaker 3: Opinion, you know what, you know what I think? You

537
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Speaker 3: fucking like when people tell you that they disapprove because

538
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Speaker 3: you know my opinion. Yeah, I'm not giving you my opinion.

539
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:14,440
Speaker 3: And you know my opinion. You're asking me for my

540
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Speaker 3: opinion because you know that I'm gonna not agree with you,

541
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Speaker 3: and you enjoy that.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, I mean I do.

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Speaker 3: I do because you enjoy adversarial arguing and that's why

544
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Speaker 3: you want.

545
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Speaker 5: To do it, so yet to know.

546
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 3: So, yeah, I like people getting pissed off of you.

547
00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:35,040
Speaker 3: That's the vibe I'm getting.

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Speaker 16: I like, Yes, you're you're sort of right. I do

549
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 16: like people getting pissed off at me. I do, like,

550
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 16: you know, at adversarial situations.

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Speaker 3: So well, here's what I understand. You like people getting

552
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Speaker 3: pissed off of you. A bunch of people are pissed

553
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Speaker 3: off at you. What's the problem.

554
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Speaker 16: Okay, So I like people, you know, I don't like

555
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Speaker 16: my friends getting pissed off of me. And I don't

556
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Speaker 16: like them getting pissed off at me so much that

557
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Speaker 16: they want to break it because they're like saying I'm

558
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Speaker 16: a bad person and stuff, and I I never I

559
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Speaker 16: don't like going there.

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Speaker 5: You know. I don't like being thought of as a

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Speaker 5: bad person.

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Speaker 3: You don't like being thought of as a bad person? No,

563
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Speaker 3: I think you're lying. I think you enjoy any adversarial

564
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Speaker 3: vibes that come your way, which I mean look different.

565
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Speaker 3: You know some some people like that you might be

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Speaker 3: some sort of emotional masochist.

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Speaker 16: I enjoy some address sort of vibes that don't enjoy

568
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Speaker 16: all of them. Like I don't like it when you know,

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Speaker 16: like just today, I was like walking to my bart,

570
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Speaker 16: my you know subway, not not subway, but like it's

571
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Speaker 16: called it's like high speed rail train we called bart

572
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Speaker 16: in San Francisco, and the some like homeless drag addict

573
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Speaker 16: person started like following me and chasing me and stuff.

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Speaker 16: And I don't like that situation, you know, I like,

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Speaker 16: I like a intellectual base.

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Speaker 3: See yeah, what if they what you know, how would

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Speaker 3: you let me ask you some if someone came if

578
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Speaker 3: someone you know came up, you know, beat the ship

579
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Speaker 3: out of you in the street, would you like give

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Speaker 3: them your card afterwards and be like, hey, you know,

581
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 3: if I assue you, I can I can at me.

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Speaker 5: That's that's that's not allowed.

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Speaker 16: And you say that, you know, the victim can't be

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Speaker 16: the defense like the defense attorney. That's a conflict of.

585
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Speaker 3: Interest, says, who dude, go do it.

586
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Speaker 16: You can do the bar, the conflent and state bar.

587
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 3: They would, Yeah, but you can. Here's what you do

588
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:44,160
Speaker 3: is you do it, and then they'll say you can't

589
00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:45,760
Speaker 3: do that, and you'll go, fuck you. I can do

590
00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:49,240
Speaker 3: whatever I want. I love conflict, Bring it on. This

591
00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:52,760
Speaker 3: is your life now, just as you going around the world,

592
00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 3: causing as much conflict, getting as much people pissed off

593
00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 3: at you as possible, soaking it all in with this

594
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 3: just deep pleasure. That's your life. And again I wouldn't

595
00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 3: want it. But different, you know, things for different people.

596
00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 3: Different people are wired differently. So I hope that you

597
00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 3: enjoy your battle with the court system. I hope that

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00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 3: you enjoy the battle with your friends. And thank you

599
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:20,719
Speaker 3: so much for for calling in. And I hope that, uh,

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00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 3: you know, I'm not mad at you. I don't. I

601
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:26,120
Speaker 3: hope you're I hope you're not upset that I'm not

602
00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 3: mad at you.

603
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:34,400
Speaker 5: No, thank you, call back again later on another day.

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Speaker 5: That's allowed.

605
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Speaker 3: Goodbye, Hey folks, it's Lyle here with an extremely brief message,

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Speaker 3: just letting you know that if you are interested in

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Speaker 3: supporting the stream and making it easier for me to

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Speaker 3: do more therapy gecko stuff in the future, you can

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Speaker 3: head on over to patreon dot com. Slash Lyle forever,

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Speaker 3: and for only five dollars, you can make get a

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Speaker 3: heck of a lot easier for me to put this

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Speaker 3: whole shebang together. That is Patreon dot com, slash lyle forever.

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Speaker 3: You also get access to exclusive streams, exclusive GAK content.

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Speaker 3: You also get access to the exclusive gek Legends discord

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Speaker 3: Patreon dot com, slash lyle forever. All right, back to

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Speaker 3: the calls Paul from JP Jonathan, Hey, Hello, what's up?

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Speaker 12: Jon?

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Speaker 5: Hey?

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Speaker 3: What's up?

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Speaker 6: Man?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 6: Be gone?

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Speaker 10: How are you?

624
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Speaker 6: It's not too bad. I was just thinking, like when

625
00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 6: I called it asked for my name, and almost every situation,

626
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Speaker 6: depending on where I'm at, I go by something different,

627
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Speaker 6: so it's hard to like kind of think of something

628
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Speaker 6: on the spot.

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Speaker 3: Have you ever heard the expression that a man who

630
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Speaker 3: tells the truth never has to remember what they said?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

632
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Speaker 3: Absolutely, because I believe that the opposite is true. A

633
00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:06,840
Speaker 3: man who has a different fake name for tens and

634
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Speaker 3: possibly even hundreds of situations has a lot to remember.

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Speaker 6: You got a point there.

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Speaker 3: Do you feel like if you've got into a situation

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Speaker 3: in which all your different aliases have gotten mixed up

638
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Speaker 3: and it's caused you some trouble.

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Speaker 6: So see, I guess it's the people that I'm with

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Speaker 6: that kind of determine my name. So when I'm at home,

641
00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:36,279
Speaker 6: I go by, you know, just my first well my

642
00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:39,320
Speaker 6: first and middle name. But then when I'm at work,

643
00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 6: I'm called Pope and then my friends call me JP.

644
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Speaker 6: So it's kind of determined by the setting that I'm in.

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Speaker 3: So you would consider me your friend, by the fact

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Speaker 3: that you called me, that you refer to yourself to

647
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Speaker 3: me as JP. Absolutely, now we've never met each other,

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Speaker 3: we have no.

649
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Speaker 6: But I feel like we have at least I have

650
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Speaker 6: a connection with you. You have no idea who I am,

651
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:08,040
Speaker 6: but I definitely, over these last couple of weeks have

652
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:13,040
Speaker 6: developed the connection bond with you that you have no

653
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Speaker 6: idea that existed.

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00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:18,840
Speaker 3: But I feel that you've developed a bond with me

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Speaker 3: without me knowing that you exist.

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Speaker 6: So it's actually kind of surreal because I've done that

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Speaker 6: with a lot of different like different musicians and athletes,

658
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Speaker 6: but this is the first time I've actually been able to,

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Speaker 6: you know, speak to someone that I've kind of developed

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Speaker 6: this one way bond with and it's it's just really interesting,

661
00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:45,319
Speaker 6: very It's it's they say, you don't want to meet

662
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Speaker 6: your heroes. But it's pretty sweet.

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Speaker 3: Well, it's interesting because by the nature of what I

664
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Speaker 3: do in comparison to a musician is, you know, all

665
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Speaker 3: I really do is talk to people who watch me.

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Speaker 3: So I do feel like I have a little bit

667
00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:02,520
Speaker 3: more interaction with people who have formed these these weird

668
00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 3: sort of one sided relationships more than a you know,

669
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 3: like like Lebron James talks to people that watch him

670
00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 3: play basketball or something like that.

671
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:15,720
Speaker 6: Yeah, but I mean, uh, with those kind of guys,

672
00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:17,880
Speaker 6: like you know, they they do meet and greets and

673
00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:22,719
Speaker 6: they put themselves out there quite a bit. But it's

674
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:26,600
Speaker 6: it's you know, it's just like I'm almost nervous right now.

675
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 6: It's just it's pretty sweet.

676
00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:31,799
Speaker 3: JP. I have a question for.

677
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:34,239
Speaker 6: You, Absolutely go for it.

678
00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:35,360
Speaker 3: What's your deal?

679
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 6: My deal right now, I've kind of you know, gone

680
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 6: past I wish I had like a clever one word answer,

681
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 6: you know, the but my deal right now if I've

682
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:53,279
Speaker 6: kind of gotten past the you know, party stage of

683
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:55,880
Speaker 6: my life and I'm kind of settling down now into

684
00:36:56,719 --> 00:37:00,799
Speaker 6: I guess I would say a career, but you know,

685
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:06,399
Speaker 6: have the partying behind me kind of you know, just yeah,

686
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:11,320
Speaker 6: like I'm learning different trades now and just kind of,

687
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:14,440
Speaker 6: you know, just moving on the stage. I'm twenty five,

688
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:17,160
Speaker 6: so kind of you know, have the partying done and

689
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:19,799
Speaker 6: trying to just settle down here. So yeah, I wish

690
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:22,319
Speaker 6: I had a clever one word answer for you, but yeah,

691
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 6: my deal is just kind of.

692
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:25,920
Speaker 3: For me, JP. I have a question for forgive me

693
00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:28,040
Speaker 3: if I misheard something, But are you with someone?

694
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:33,400
Speaker 6: My mom's actually in the background speaking, you know, I

695
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 6: am on speakerphone.

696
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:35,840
Speaker 3: Here, but can I talk to her?

697
00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:36,919
Speaker 5: Yeah?

698
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:37,560
Speaker 6: Absolutely?

699
00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:41,920
Speaker 12: Hello?

700
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:43,640
Speaker 5: Hi?

701
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 12: Hi?

702
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 3: Would would you be going to take me off speaker

703
00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:49,560
Speaker 3: missus JP? Missus P?

704
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:51,879
Speaker 14: I guess how do you take it off?

705
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:52,240
Speaker 7: Speaking?

706
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:56,760
Speaker 6: Hello?

707
00:37:57,600 --> 00:37:58,239
Speaker 3: Hello, missus P?

708
00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:00,279
Speaker 13: How are you good?

709
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:00,759
Speaker 12: How are you?

710
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 3: I'm good? So your son JP, he tells me that

711
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:07,799
Speaker 3: he's sort of getting out of his party phase and

712
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:12,640
Speaker 3: trying to take on a serious adults career, and I

713
00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:14,719
Speaker 3: want to sort of get your thoughts about where where

714
00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:17,640
Speaker 3: he is in life and your perspective on.

715
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 13: That he's doing a good job. It took we had

716
00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:29,080
Speaker 13: a tragedy or his dad and my husband passed away recently,

717
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:32,759
Speaker 13: so that was tough one of the kids. And he's

718
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:38,880
Speaker 13: pulling it together and taking care of me and the

719
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:42,960
Speaker 13: house and trying to decide what path he wants to

720
00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:46,279
Speaker 13: take in life. He's learning a lot of trades, and

721
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:48,920
Speaker 13: you know, he wants to move forward and get a

722
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:52,560
Speaker 13: family and settle down some day in his own house.

723
00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:58,759
Speaker 13: So he's in a good path right now. It's taken

724
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:01,279
Speaker 13: a while to get to this this path because, like

725
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:06,040
Speaker 13: I said, we had a lot of heartache, but we're

726
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 13: all working towards getting everybody healthy.

727
00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:14,440
Speaker 3: And you said that JP was did a very good

728
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:18,040
Speaker 3: job of sort of stepping up and comforting everyone in

729
00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:19,000
Speaker 3: this very hard time.

730
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:23,520
Speaker 13: Yes, at first it was rough, but right now he's

731
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:26,200
Speaker 13: figuring it out and doing an awesome job.

732
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:30,759
Speaker 3: That's great, that's great. What do you know, what do

733
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:31,480
Speaker 3: you hope for him?

734
00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:38,480
Speaker 13: I hope to find somebody, develops a relationship that he

735
00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:43,360
Speaker 13: can have for the rest of his life and you know,

736
00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:46,600
Speaker 13: you have a family and a home and be happy,

737
00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:49,040
Speaker 13: because that's what his goals are, that's what he would like,

738
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:51,759
Speaker 13: so I'd like them for him.

739
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:54,200
Speaker 3: How would you describe your relationship with your son.

740
00:39:56,640 --> 00:40:01,319
Speaker 13: I think we're pretty close. I think it's a good,

741
00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:07,040
Speaker 13: healthy relationship. We can talk open about anything, and we

742
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:09,960
Speaker 13: try to help each other good or bad. You know,

743
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:13,359
Speaker 13: we we're honest and just try to help each other,

744
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:21,160
Speaker 13: especially if we see one might be you know, dragging along.

745
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:23,520
Speaker 13: You know, we try to be there for each other.

746
00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 3: Sounds like a very valuable relationship to have, you know,

747
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:32,600
Speaker 3: not every mother and son relationship seems like it, says,

748
00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:39,799
Speaker 3: you know, open and I'm close as you guys are right.

749
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:41,440
Speaker 13: I'm fortunate, yes.

750
00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:44,320
Speaker 3: Glad to hear that from you. Guys.

751
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:47,719
Speaker 13: Yes, I've always told them they can come to me

752
00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 13: with anything, whether I'm going to like it or not,

753
00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:52,280
Speaker 13: but you know, always come to me and we'll figure

754
00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:52,560
Speaker 13: it out.

755
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:55,120
Speaker 3: Well, thank you so much for sharing, missus.

756
00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:59,360
Speaker 13: P Well, thank you for talking to me. Here's dp.

757
00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:03,640
Speaker 6: GHEK, my man, what's up?

758
00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:06,360
Speaker 3: Not a whole lot of champing. I'm a get go

759
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:09,680
Speaker 3: on the computer. Thank you very much for sharing with me, JAP.

760
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:11,160
Speaker 3: I hope you and your mom have a good rest

761
00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 3: of the day.

762
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:14,279
Speaker 6: Absolutely, take care of guess.

763
00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:21,760
Speaker 11: All from Hello?

764
00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:22,879
Speaker 3: What year were you born?

765
00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:25,000
Speaker 11: What year were born?

766
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:26,000
Speaker 3: Yeah?

767
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:26,280
Speaker 11: Hello?

768
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:30,720
Speaker 3: What you read one to two? So you're nineteen?

769
00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:33,920
Speaker 11: No, I'm eighteen. My birthdays in October.

770
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 3: Your birthday is in October? Are you excited for your birthday.

771
00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:38,800
Speaker 11: I'm very excited.

772
00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:40,560
Speaker 3: Really, why.

773
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:46,600
Speaker 11: My friend is born two days after me, So we're

774
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 11: going to merge our birthdays and it's on a weekend.

775
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:57,439
Speaker 3: See this is interesting to me because you you find

776
00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:00,319
Speaker 3: that it's better that you're you are looking full word

777
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:02,520
Speaker 3: to the fact that you will be sharing the attention

778
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:03,400
Speaker 3: on your birthday.

779
00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:06,680
Speaker 11: Yes, I love my friend very daily.

780
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:10,560
Speaker 3: That's so sweet, so sweet. How old are they turning?

781
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 3: Same age? Nineteen?

782
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:12,920
Speaker 14: Yes?

783
00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:15,400
Speaker 11: No, actually he's turning eighteen.

784
00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:17,400
Speaker 3: He's okay, he's turning eighteen.

785
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:23,240
Speaker 11: Yes, you love him, love him very much. He's actually

786
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:24,720
Speaker 11: my best friend's brother.

787
00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:29,040
Speaker 3: He's your best friend's brother. What do you love so

788
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:30,360
Speaker 3: much about him?

789
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:34,080
Speaker 11: What I love so much about him? Well, he got

790
00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:42,480
Speaker 11: me into smoking weed and that has changed my life.

791
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:48,720
Speaker 3: He got you into smoking weed and that has changed

792
00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:49,320
Speaker 3: your life.

793
00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:52,960
Speaker 11: Yes, I love it very much. Every single day I do.

794
00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:58,239
Speaker 3: Now, you smoke weed every single day. And would you

795
00:42:58,239 --> 00:42:59,800
Speaker 3: say that smoking weed every single day is at a

796
00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:02,640
Speaker 3: pot positive effect on your life?

797
00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:06,800
Speaker 11: Yes, Well, it's gonna be very close to people.

798
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:10,239
Speaker 3: In what way do you believe it has gotten you

799
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:10,920
Speaker 3: closer to people?

800
00:43:12,719 --> 00:43:15,320
Speaker 11: Well, when you're high and you're with a group of people,

801
00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 11: you just let go, you know, like I don't. I

802
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:26,360
Speaker 11: have anxiety, so sometimes it's hard to like get close

803
00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:29,960
Speaker 11: to people. But if you're if you're high, like, I

804
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:30,680
Speaker 11: don't care.

805
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 3: Let me ask you a question, Coleslaw. It's a do

806
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:39,319
Speaker 3: do you have a real therapist?

807
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:42,719
Speaker 11: Uh no, I'm trying to get one though, because I

808
00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 11: was in an accident recently.

809
00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:49,040
Speaker 3: Mhm, because I'm curious what a real therapist would say

810
00:43:49,040 --> 00:43:50,359
Speaker 3: about you smoking weed every day.

811
00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:51,759
Speaker 7: Now.

812
00:43:51,800 --> 00:43:55,920
Speaker 3: Look, I don't think about it. I don't actively do it,

813
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:57,919
Speaker 3: but I also probably smoke weed every day.

814
00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:01,200
Speaker 11: You probably smoke either.

815
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:02,719
Speaker 3: No, no, it's like a thing I don't. I don't

816
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 3: really think about it. Like I'm not high right now,

817
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:10,560
Speaker 3: if I would hate Oh yeah, but uh uh is

818
00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:13,319
Speaker 3: it a good thing to be doing at eighteen years old? Well,

819
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:15,400
Speaker 3: here's the thing is if you're doing it as a

820
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:19,400
Speaker 3: crutch to try to talk to.

821
00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 11: People, Oh no, no, no, no, no, not a crutch.

822
00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:24,920
Speaker 3: How you were describing it at least?

823
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:28,080
Speaker 11: No, no, no, no, definitely not a crutch, I would say.

824
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:30,840
Speaker 11: I just I live in New York City and weed

825
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:32,160
Speaker 11: is on every corner.

826
00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:33,319
Speaker 14: You.

827
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:37,440
Speaker 11: I get that so easily. I was smoking back like

828
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:38,200
Speaker 11: in eighth grade.

829
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:46,120
Speaker 3: None of what you said addressed any of what I said.

830
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:48,240
Speaker 11: I'm so sorry.

831
00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:52,080
Speaker 3: You don't have to be sorry. But you saying that

832
00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:56,080
Speaker 3: you've been smoking since you were thirteen doesn't answer the

833
00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:59,200
Speaker 3: question of are you Do you believe that you're using

834
00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:01,000
Speaker 3: it as a crutch for a learner, for you know,

835
00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:01,800
Speaker 3: talking to people?

836
00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:07,600
Speaker 11: No, so I answered, no, I don't think I am.

837
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:11,320
Speaker 11: I think it's just super accessible, which you of itself

838
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:12,400
Speaker 11: is probably a problem.

839
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:14,800
Speaker 3: What is super accessible.

840
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:16,200
Speaker 4: Weed?

841
00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:20,920
Speaker 3: That's really that doesn't answer the accessibility of weed is

842
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:27,279
Speaker 3: irrelevance to what I'm asking. You say that you say

843
00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:30,640
Speaker 3: you have anxiety, which totally legitimate. Totally respect that, but

844
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:33,560
Speaker 3: that smoking weed helps you talk to people.

845
00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 11: I see where the name therapy Jacko comes in right now,

846
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:43,160
Speaker 11: because you're making me realize a little stom.

847
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:45,520
Speaker 3: What what do you believe I am making you realize?

848
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:48,840
Speaker 11: Maybe I am using you have a crutch.

849
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:54,040
Speaker 3: It's quite possible, do you know. Look, you to be

850
00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:56,840
Speaker 3: ashamed of this. I'm not here to shame you, but

851
00:45:57,400 --> 00:45:59,680
Speaker 3: you know you should think about that.

852
00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:07,840
Speaker 11: I will think about that, Yeah, I will. I really

853
00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:10,400
Speaker 11: tried to call in today for a very specific reason.

854
00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:12,440
Speaker 3: Do you have to call into it for a very

855
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:14,640
Speaker 3: specific reason. Okay, what was the very specific reason?

856
00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:22,600
Speaker 11: Last Friday I almost died and I wanted to call

857
00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 11: in and tell my story.

858
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:30,800
Speaker 3: How did you almost die last Friday?

859
00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:34,320
Speaker 11: I almost drowned in at the beach.

860
00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:41,080
Speaker 3: Were you high?

861
00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:45,480
Speaker 7: Maybe?

862
00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:51,600
Speaker 11: Quite possibly, but not very.

863
00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:54,920
Speaker 5: Do you think I got caught?

864
00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:57,640
Speaker 3: Do you think it was Do you think you were

865
00:46:57,680 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 3: so high you forgot that you got you were so

866
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 3: hih you forgot that you were in the ocean your

867
00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:09,960
Speaker 3: mind transport. I forgot you were in the ocean, and

868
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:12,960
Speaker 3: the daisies pulled you closer and closer into the sort

869
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:14,920
Speaker 3: of horizon line of the field. And then you woke

870
00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:16,960
Speaker 3: up and you realize you weren't in a field of daisies.

871
00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:18,040
Speaker 3: You were in the ocean.

872
00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:22,359
Speaker 11: I don't think I forgot, No, I think it was

873
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:25,880
Speaker 11: just I was a subject to the elements.

874
00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 3: You know how to fuck with nature?

875
00:47:33,040 --> 00:47:33,759
Speaker 14: I don't.

876
00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:36,840
Speaker 11: I really don't. Nature is really scary, and I learned.

877
00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:39,840
Speaker 3: That close closely. You should go see a real therapist

878
00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:41,080
Speaker 3: and you should get their opinion on whether or I

879
00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:42,319
Speaker 3: should be smoking weed every day.

880
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:44,760
Speaker 11: I was eighteen.

881
00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 3: By the way, Look, by the way, I'm not shitting

882
00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:49,520
Speaker 3: on you. When I was eighteen, I was probably also

883
00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 3: smoking weed every day. I had my times when I

884
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:53,600
Speaker 3: was smoking weed.

885
00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:55,439
Speaker 11: I'm just living it up right now.

886
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:58,319
Speaker 3: But do you got but look, you gotta take some time.

887
00:47:58,320 --> 00:48:02,160
Speaker 3: You gotta take inventory coleslaw, because eighteen years old is

888
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:07,000
Speaker 3: a good time for you to learn the skills of

889
00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:08,960
Speaker 3: talking to other human beings.

890
00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:15,399
Speaker 11: Talk. It's just helped, sure, But you know.

891
00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:17,520
Speaker 3: Here's what here's here's the thing is again, I'm not

892
00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:19,880
Speaker 3: here to fuck with you because I smoke weed. I

893
00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:22,200
Speaker 3: like smoking weed. But but you don't want to get

894
00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:25,240
Speaker 3: into a situation in which you feel like, here's the danger,

895
00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 3: here's the danger. You want to be you You look,

896
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:30,359
Speaker 3: I don't think there'snything wrong with smoking weed as long

897
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:35,520
Speaker 3: as you were avoiding this danger, which is the danger

898
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:39,680
Speaker 3: of thinking to yourself, Oh, when I smoke weed, I'm

899
00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 3: better at talking to people. I'm gonna smoke weed all

900
00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:45,279
Speaker 3: the time I get I'm I'm fucking getting the zone.

901
00:48:45,320 --> 00:48:48,759
Speaker 3: I'm going fucking business meeting. Let's get high. Birthday party,

902
00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:51,560
Speaker 3: let's fucking get high. You know, you know you don't

903
00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:53,960
Speaker 3: want to you don't want to feel like you're you know,

904
00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:56,080
Speaker 3: I understand it's getting high it's like something to take

905
00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:57,719
Speaker 3: the edge off. That's what I use it for at

906
00:48:57,719 --> 00:49:00,120
Speaker 3: the end of the day, take the edge off. But

907
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:02,640
Speaker 3: you don't want to use it to escape things or

908
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:06,279
Speaker 3: to like become a totally different person, you know what

909
00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:09,120
Speaker 3: I'm saying. That's that's what you want to avoid. I

910
00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 3: want to make sure you avoid that.

911
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:11,120
Speaker 13: You know.

912
00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:13,120
Speaker 3: It's one thing for take the edge off, or you

913
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:16,040
Speaker 3: at a party you want to fucking you know party,

914
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:18,400
Speaker 3: But I don't want I don't want you using it

915
00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:22,080
Speaker 3: to like become this better version of yourself, because that

916
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:23,120
Speaker 3: that that never works out.

917
00:49:23,160 --> 00:49:27,520
Speaker 6: Well, yeah, thank you.

918
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:30,239
Speaker 11: That's that's really good advice that I think I will

919
00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:31,359
Speaker 11: one hundred percent take.

920
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 3: Okay, good good.

921
00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:36,560
Speaker 11: I have definitely gotten fines that I need to calm down.

922
00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:40,880
Speaker 11: Friday was definitely a big scare that like I'm not

923
00:49:41,040 --> 00:49:43,640
Speaker 11: immortal and like untouchable.

924
00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:47,840
Speaker 3: You know, no, no, we can't all be immortal.

925
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:53,200
Speaker 11: You can't you can't be all like you just to

926
00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:53,920
Speaker 11: live on forever.

927
00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:58,680
Speaker 3: Thank you for sharing Cole Slam and continue to say

928
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:01,160
Speaker 3: you think about what we said, think about what I said.

929
00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:04,560
Speaker 3: Don't use uh you know, I won't repeat myself. I

930
00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:07,560
Speaker 3: think you sound you sounded like you got it. Thank

931
00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:09,880
Speaker 3: you so much coming into this conversation open minded, and

932
00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:10,920
Speaker 3: you have the rest of the night.

933
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:13,279
Speaker 11: You too, have a great day.

934
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:17,000
Speaker 3: I hate cole Slaw, not the caller, but I did

935
00:50:17,040 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 3: the food. I don't like cold Slaw. It's kind of

936
00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 3: fucking It's gross. It's like a big does anyone else

937
00:50:23,160 --> 00:50:25,240
Speaker 3: see what I'm talking about? Like it's like a fucking

938
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:33,000
Speaker 3: like all like weird, like cummy cream.

939
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:37,080
Speaker 14: So I don't like it all from ooga boogle.

940
00:50:38,560 --> 00:50:39,320
Speaker 3: Ooga booga.

941
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:45,479
Speaker 14: Hello, Hey, Hello, Hey, how's it going.

942
00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:51,479
Speaker 3: What's the most persistent problem in your life right now?

943
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:53,839
Speaker 14: I'm sorry? Can you repeat the question?

944
00:50:54,239 --> 00:50:56,480
Speaker 3: What's the most persistent problem in your life right now?

945
00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 14: Uh uh? I'm not entirely sure, to be honest, I

946
00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:09,600
Speaker 14: guess just trying to figure out what's going what to

947
00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:10,520
Speaker 14: do after high school?

948
00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:13,160
Speaker 3: Are you in high school right now?

949
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:14,600
Speaker 12: No?

950
00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:16,560
Speaker 14: I just graduated last year.

951
00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:21,560
Speaker 3: Yes, okay, So what are your options? What are you

952
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:22,719
Speaker 3: what's are you looking at here?

953
00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:26,480
Speaker 14: I mean the things that I have laid out right now?

954
00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:31,840
Speaker 14: Are trade school, do some kind of welding or hvac,

955
00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:42,879
Speaker 14: work on mac unions and yes, or work sorry, work

956
00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:47,040
Speaker 14: at an O'Reilly potentially become a manager. That's kind of

957
00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:50,120
Speaker 14: have a family friend that can help me out that school.

958
00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:50,480
Speaker 6: I like.

959
00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:53,640
Speaker 3: I like all those options. They all seem like good trades.

960
00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:57,160
Speaker 3: I like a trade reade. You know, you come out

961
00:51:57,160 --> 00:51:58,960
Speaker 3: of the trade. You come out of the trades as

962
00:51:59,000 --> 00:52:02,240
Speaker 3: like you're a guy that you can you can do something.

963
00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:04,759
Speaker 14: Yeah, like empowering, you know.

964
00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:08,959
Speaker 3: I can. I can fix a vacuum. I could fix

965
00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:11,719
Speaker 3: an air conditioning unit. It's a powerful thing to be

966
00:52:11,760 --> 00:52:16,080
Speaker 3: able to do. I can't do anything. I mean, I mean,

967
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:19,000
Speaker 3: you know, not empower me.

968
00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:24,560
Speaker 14: You empower many people on the internet and nothingiate.

969
00:52:23,880 --> 00:52:29,960
Speaker 3: That, but you you empower you know, things that people

970
00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:32,680
Speaker 3: use that it's you know, I like, if I didn't

971
00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:36,400
Speaker 3: have ac right now, I would be melting and I

972
00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:39,720
Speaker 3: would be dying. It's good to have a hard skill

973
00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:42,400
Speaker 3: of a thing that you can do. I respect that.

974
00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:45,319
Speaker 3: I respect a hard skill.

975
00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:47,840
Speaker 14: That is very respectable.

976
00:52:47,880 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 3: I agree people when someone's fucking air conditioning unit breaks,

977
00:52:52,320 --> 00:52:56,000
Speaker 3: you know what they say, they say, Oh no, my

978
00:52:56,040 --> 00:53:00,680
Speaker 3: air conditioning broke, And I'm a fucking moron and I

979
00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:02,400
Speaker 3: don't know. I don't I'm stupid. I know how I

980
00:53:02,520 --> 00:53:07,480
Speaker 3: use the thing every day constantly. But I'm so dumb.

981
00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:17,319
Speaker 3: I'm such a dumb, silly, horrible person. I'm going to

982
00:53:17,400 --> 00:53:20,040
Speaker 3: hell because I don't know how to use this air

983
00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:21,520
Speaker 3: CONDI I don't know how to fix this air condition.

984
00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:26,600
Speaker 3: I need to call. I need to call someone who's smart.

985
00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:30,520
Speaker 3: I need to call a genius who's going to heaven.

986
00:53:31,880 --> 00:53:34,440
Speaker 3: I need to call a messenger of God that he

987
00:53:34,560 --> 00:53:38,719
Speaker 3: that God, someone that God trusts, someone who has skills,

988
00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:41,719
Speaker 3: someone who did something with their life to come and

989
00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:46,239
Speaker 3: fix my air conditioning unit. And that guy that I

990
00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:49,160
Speaker 3: need to call someone handsome. I need to call a

991
00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:59,360
Speaker 3: beautiful man, likely well endowed in the penis, who's the

992
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:03,680
Speaker 3: good person, who's a good guy, gives to charity, probably

993
00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:07,239
Speaker 3: would do it for free if he wasn't well. I

994
00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:09,640
Speaker 3: need that guy. I need this guy to come and

995
00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:12,320
Speaker 3: fix my air conditioning unit because I'm an idiot, asshole

996
00:54:12,920 --> 00:54:15,560
Speaker 3: who doesn't know how to takes things. That's gonna be

997
00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:17,399
Speaker 3: You're gonna be that guy that people need.

998
00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:21,440
Speaker 14: And yes, sir, of course, you know if it's a

999
00:54:21,440 --> 00:54:24,960
Speaker 14: real hot summer day, you know it's getting real, real extreme,

1000
00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 14: of course you gotta go out there as fast as

1001
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:31,319
Speaker 14: you can take it for free and the world will

1002
00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:35,080
Speaker 14: repay it. Karma come back, superpod.

1003
00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:36,280
Speaker 3: Karma you believe? Do you believe in karma?

1004
00:54:37,680 --> 00:54:40,960
Speaker 14: I somewhat do. It's a little bit iffy, but I

1005
00:54:41,080 --> 00:54:42,720
Speaker 14: I guess I would say, yes.

1006
00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:44,279
Speaker 3: Really, why why is it if?

1007
00:54:44,280 --> 00:54:44,320
Speaker 11: He?

1008
00:54:46,080 --> 00:54:50,000
Speaker 14: I mean, there's been times where I'm like, I'm a

1009
00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:54,200
Speaker 14: bad person. I've done different things, you know, I've sucked

1010
00:54:54,239 --> 00:54:56,840
Speaker 14: things up, and I'm like, that's gonna buy me in

1011
00:54:56,880 --> 00:55:00,320
Speaker 14: the ass, and then I never does, and then I

1012
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:04,880
Speaker 14: did do good things, and then I mean, then good

1013
00:55:04,920 --> 00:55:07,840
Speaker 14: things happened back. I mean, I don't know. I believe

1014
00:55:07,840 --> 00:55:09,800
Speaker 14: in the idea of it, but it's.

1015
00:55:09,680 --> 00:55:12,600
Speaker 3: Just, what's the last really good thing that happened to you?

1016
00:55:15,640 --> 00:55:24,760
Speaker 14: Huh? Honestly graduating high school? I'd say, because I never tried.

1017
00:55:25,760 --> 00:55:30,120
Speaker 14: I just it was I was kind of I was

1018
00:55:30,200 --> 00:55:34,000
Speaker 14: kind of the the guy that didn't try. Like, if

1019
00:55:34,040 --> 00:55:36,719
Speaker 14: if I actually put effort into it, it wouldn't it

1020
00:55:36,760 --> 00:55:39,800
Speaker 14: wouldn't have been a problem. But I never really cared.

1021
00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:44,000
Speaker 3: Do you feel like, do you feel like if you

1022
00:55:44,000 --> 00:55:45,560
Speaker 3: were to enter a trade school, do you feel like

1023
00:55:45,560 --> 00:55:47,160
Speaker 3: you would you would be able to care? Do you

1024
00:55:47,160 --> 00:55:50,439
Speaker 3: think if you were to learn how without a doubt.

1025
00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:55,280
Speaker 17: Okay, great, like I like from I believe my junior

1026
00:55:55,360 --> 00:56:00,160
Speaker 17: year I was I was ready to do like some

1027
00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:02,280
Speaker 17: kind of trade, and I figured that's just being easy,

1028
00:56:02,440 --> 00:56:03,920
Speaker 17: always going to need some kind of trade.

1029
00:56:04,360 --> 00:56:06,640
Speaker 14: So I kind of just gave up on normal high

1030
00:56:06,680 --> 00:56:11,040
Speaker 14: school and then I just kept my mind focused on

1031
00:56:12,320 --> 00:56:12,800
Speaker 14: the trade.

1032
00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:15,839
Speaker 3: I love that. I respect that high You don't learn

1033
00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:18,680
Speaker 3: that I when I graduated high school, I was so stupid.

1034
00:56:18,719 --> 00:56:20,279
Speaker 3: I didn't even know, you know what. I didn't even

1035
00:56:20,280 --> 00:56:22,160
Speaker 3: know how to fix a fact. I didn't even know

1036
00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:24,800
Speaker 3: how to fix an air conditioning unit. When I graduated

1037
00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:27,399
Speaker 3: high school. They don't teach you how to do shit

1038
00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:31,080
Speaker 3: in there. You can graduate high school. You can be

1039
00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:33,319
Speaker 3: so dumb and graduate high school. They really just let

1040
00:56:33,320 --> 00:56:36,120
Speaker 3: anyone do it. But you're going to come out of

1041
00:56:36,120 --> 00:56:42,000
Speaker 3: these these trade schools knowing stuff, knowing actual practical skills.

1042
00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:43,239
Speaker 3: So I'm proud of you for that. I think that's

1043
00:56:43,239 --> 00:56:43,600
Speaker 3: a good I.

1044
00:56:45,680 --> 00:56:46,960
Speaker 14: Think I appreciate that a lot.

1045
00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:50,480
Speaker 3: Lord for sure. For sure, don't call men you're the

1046
00:56:50,520 --> 00:56:52,759
Speaker 3: lord man when I when you see how much of

1047
00:56:52,800 --> 00:56:55,040
Speaker 3: a fucking lord I am when my air conditioning breaks?

1048
00:56:56,880 --> 00:56:59,520
Speaker 14: Well, I mean all right now, now, mister, get go,

1049
00:56:59,760 --> 00:57:02,719
Speaker 14: I I can't. I mean, you sit here for for

1050
00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:07,280
Speaker 14: hours a day, you know that? What three times a week?

1051
00:57:07,600 --> 00:57:07,960
Speaker 13: That is.

1052
00:57:08,200 --> 00:57:10,560
Speaker 14: I'm sorry, It's been a while since I've been to

1053
00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:11,760
Speaker 14: a stream.

1054
00:57:11,800 --> 00:57:14,080
Speaker 6: But you, uh, you.

1055
00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:17,360
Speaker 14: Sit here, you inspire, you bring, you bring your king

1056
00:57:17,520 --> 00:57:20,680
Speaker 14: and the people. I mean, you have one thousand, you

1057
00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:23,280
Speaker 14: have eleven hundred views right now, and you're sitting here

1058
00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:31,200
Speaker 14: thing random idiots ramble and and you're just flying entertaining

1059
00:57:31,240 --> 00:57:31,760
Speaker 14: the world.

1060
00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:36,720
Speaker 3: This world is sucked up, but luckily I agree to

1061
00:57:36,760 --> 00:57:39,240
Speaker 3: bring us light in these weird times. Thank you so

1062
00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:39,840
Speaker 3: much for calling.

1063
00:57:39,880 --> 00:57:40,040
Speaker 5: Man.

1064
00:57:40,080 --> 00:57:41,080
Speaker 3: I hope you have a good rest of the night.

1065
00:57:41,120 --> 00:57:42,959
Speaker 14: Thank you very much, you too, Man.

1066
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:47,400
Speaker 4: All from Abigail.

1067
00:57:49,080 --> 00:57:59,320
Speaker 15: Abigail, Hi, what's up, Abigail, Well, watching my daughter.

1068
00:58:00,720 --> 00:58:01,760
Speaker 7: Kind of roll around.

1069
00:58:03,200 --> 00:58:05,360
Speaker 3: You're watching your dad run around?

1070
00:58:06,320 --> 00:58:08,640
Speaker 13: No, no, no, no, my dog.

1071
00:58:09,560 --> 00:58:12,720
Speaker 3: Okay, I thought you said you're watching your dad. You're

1072
00:58:12,720 --> 00:58:15,160
Speaker 3: watching your dog around you. What are you noticing about

1073
00:58:15,160 --> 00:58:18,200
Speaker 3: your dog, anything in particular, anything special?

1074
00:58:19,760 --> 00:58:23,000
Speaker 7: Well, I just told you the rat dog. So she

1075
00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:27,440
Speaker 7: kind of has like big eyes a human almost, So

1076
00:58:27,480 --> 00:58:28,360
Speaker 7: I don't know how rat.

1077
00:58:28,240 --> 00:58:29,120
Speaker 14: And human go together.

1078
00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:34,440
Speaker 3: But she's a rat dog, you said, yes, so a

1079
00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:39,400
Speaker 3: tiny dog. Yes, I hate tiny dogs. They're a waste

1080
00:58:39,440 --> 00:58:41,720
Speaker 3: of dogs. It's like, if you're going to be a dog,

1081
00:58:42,200 --> 00:58:44,320
Speaker 3: be a dog. You know, if you're going to be

1082
00:58:44,320 --> 00:58:47,000
Speaker 3: a rat dog, be a rat. I don't like the

1083
00:58:47,040 --> 00:58:51,240
Speaker 3: hybrid of rat and dog. But I'm not God. The

1084
00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:53,240
Speaker 3: judges decisions on what creatures to make.

1085
00:58:55,720 --> 00:58:58,640
Speaker 7: Well thankful that you're not God because I love my

1086
00:58:58,760 --> 00:58:59,240
Speaker 7: rat dog.

1087
00:59:01,280 --> 00:59:03,040
Speaker 3: I'm not saying that you shouldn't love your rat dog,

1088
00:59:03,160 --> 00:59:06,160
Speaker 3: but I'm saying that I personally, I wasn't bringing it

1089
00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:08,520
Speaker 3: up to the mean to you always bringing it up.

1090
00:59:09,400 --> 00:59:11,360
Speaker 3: I don't actually I don't know there's I don't think

1091
00:59:11,400 --> 00:59:13,840
Speaker 3: bringing it up really brought anything to the conversation. But

1092
00:59:13,920 --> 00:59:16,200
Speaker 3: I did bring it up. I don't think it took

1093
00:59:16,240 --> 00:59:18,400
Speaker 3: away from the conversation either. I don't think it messed

1094
00:59:18,400 --> 00:59:21,000
Speaker 3: with our dynamic. But I did say it, and I

1095
00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:23,920
Speaker 3: cannot take it back, and I will not take it back.

1096
00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:27,720
Speaker 3: I mean it completely. I hate rat dogs, but I

1097
00:59:27,760 --> 00:59:30,800
Speaker 3: don't think that you. I don't think that you should

1098
00:59:30,800 --> 00:59:33,320
Speaker 3: interpret it as any sort of attack on you. I

1099
00:59:33,360 --> 00:59:35,440
Speaker 3: think you sound I mean, I don't know you, but

1100
00:59:35,600 --> 00:59:37,280
Speaker 3: I think that you sound like a nice person. I

1101
00:59:37,360 --> 00:59:41,160
Speaker 3: think that we can build this relationship on a on

1102
00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:43,240
Speaker 3: a greater foundation of trust in one another?

1103
00:59:44,400 --> 00:59:44,920
Speaker 11: Of course?

1104
00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:47,320
Speaker 3: What's your favorite idea.

1105
00:59:50,720 --> 00:59:50,880
Speaker 13: Yet?

1106
00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:53,760
Speaker 3: What's your favorite idea?

1107
00:59:54,640 --> 00:59:59,240
Speaker 7: My favorite idea? Oh, it's that people don't exist to

1108
00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:01,960
Speaker 7: me if I don't think about them.

1109
01:00:02,400 --> 01:00:02,960
Speaker 3: People don't.

1110
01:00:03,120 --> 01:00:05,920
Speaker 7: People no longer become ideas if.

1111
01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:11,760
Speaker 3: You do not think about them.

1112
01:00:11,880 --> 01:00:14,160
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1113
01:00:15,800 --> 01:00:19,240
Speaker 3: Have you ever had a person in your life that

1114
01:00:19,320 --> 01:00:22,480
Speaker 3: you wanted to no longer exist and so you made

1115
01:00:22,520 --> 01:00:25,560
Speaker 3: a deliberate decision to never think about them ever again?

1116
01:00:29,240 --> 01:00:33,800
Speaker 7: Yes, but it doesn't work out that well.

1117
01:00:35,520 --> 01:00:38,880
Speaker 3: You know this is difficult because I would love to

1118
01:00:38,920 --> 01:00:42,400
Speaker 3: ask you follow up questions, but in order for you

1119
01:00:42,440 --> 01:00:45,920
Speaker 3: to answer these follow up questions, you would have to

1120
01:00:45,920 --> 01:00:48,720
Speaker 3: bring this person into your mind. Are you comfortable with that?

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01:00:50,600 --> 01:00:54,080
Speaker 5: I am comfortable, Abigail.

1122
01:00:54,120 --> 01:00:56,120
Speaker 3: Please, I would love to hear about the last person

1123
01:00:56,120 --> 01:00:57,840
Speaker 3: that you had to deliberately not think about.

1124
01:01:00,520 --> 01:01:08,600
Speaker 7: It is a past friend who I have an infatuation with,

1125
01:01:09,680 --> 01:01:15,160
Speaker 7: but I kind of already know myself that it's unrequited,

1126
01:01:15,800 --> 01:01:18,640
Speaker 7: so I want to get rid of them in their minds.

1127
01:01:21,080 --> 01:01:29,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's a musician, a musician, Yes, okay, so.

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01:01:31,720 --> 01:01:32,200
Speaker 13: I don't know.

1129
01:01:32,720 --> 01:01:34,520
Speaker 16: I just like him.

1130
01:01:34,520 --> 01:01:36,960
Speaker 3: What what about him? Do you find so infatuating.

1131
01:01:41,960 --> 01:01:44,919
Speaker 7: I would say, it's just that, like I could have

1132
01:01:45,120 --> 01:01:48,320
Speaker 7: it sounds like the bare minimum, but a conversation with

1133
01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:52,920
Speaker 7: him and he would kind of like give me like

1134
01:01:54,320 --> 01:01:56,880
Speaker 7: hm hmm. I don't know what's so infatuating. To be

1135
01:01:56,920 --> 01:01:59,320
Speaker 7: honest with you, I talked to my grapist about it,

1136
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:03,800
Speaker 7: real therapist. She said, he's a normal dude. You just

1137
01:02:04,520 --> 01:02:06,840
Speaker 7: like that he can give you intellectual conversations.

1138
01:02:08,040 --> 01:02:10,640
Speaker 3: I mean, of course he's a normal dude. Everyone is it,

1139
01:02:10,960 --> 01:02:14,760
Speaker 3: I mean, in one way or another normal person. I

1140
01:02:14,760 --> 01:02:18,360
Speaker 3: don't think that your infatuation with someone automatically means that

1141
01:02:18,400 --> 01:02:22,160
Speaker 3: they are like not normal. And by the way, I

1142
01:02:22,160 --> 01:02:23,800
Speaker 3: know you say it's a bare minimum, but lots of

1143
01:02:23,840 --> 01:02:28,000
Speaker 3: people have a hard times, you know, finding people that

1144
01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:31,080
Speaker 3: they can connect with, so you know it might be

1145
01:02:31,120 --> 01:02:34,200
Speaker 3: a I don't I would. I would consider it a minimum,

1146
01:02:34,200 --> 01:02:37,640
Speaker 3: not even a bare minimum.

1147
01:02:38,040 --> 01:02:40,320
Speaker 7: Uh I guess, okay, a minimum.

1148
01:02:41,000 --> 01:02:44,440
Speaker 3: What else did your therapist tell you about your infatuation

1149
01:02:44,520 --> 01:02:48,320
Speaker 3: with this guy? What is your therapist's opinion on this

1150
01:02:48,440 --> 01:02:53,040
Speaker 3: strategy that you have of not thinking about people and

1151
01:02:53,120 --> 01:02:54,040
Speaker 3: having them disappeared.

1152
01:02:57,080 --> 01:02:59,800
Speaker 7: Well, I think she approves of it, but I don't.

1153
01:03:00,280 --> 01:03:04,520
Speaker 7: She's very like, I think she's skeptical because I told

1154
01:03:04,560 --> 01:03:08,000
Speaker 7: her about this and she was like, okay, so how

1155
01:03:08,040 --> 01:03:08,600
Speaker 7: do you feel now?

1156
01:03:08,600 --> 01:03:10,880
Speaker 13: And I'm like, oh, well, I'm good.

1157
01:03:10,960 --> 01:03:14,800
Speaker 7: I'm great now. Come to find a couple days they

1158
01:03:14,880 --> 01:03:18,200
Speaker 7: I'm thinking about him, so it doesn't really work, so

1159
01:03:18,240 --> 01:03:20,000
Speaker 7: I gotta tell him that later.

1160
01:03:20,280 --> 01:03:24,880
Speaker 3: So you said that you know for sure that this

1161
01:03:25,040 --> 01:03:28,040
Speaker 3: was unrequited. But when you said that, you said, I

1162
01:03:28,120 --> 01:03:32,200
Speaker 3: know myself and I know that it's unrequited. What does

1163
01:03:32,200 --> 01:03:36,200
Speaker 3: that mean? How does your knowledge of yourself clue you

1164
01:03:36,280 --> 01:03:38,560
Speaker 3: into the fact that this is unrequited. Why are those

1165
01:03:38,560 --> 01:03:39,400
Speaker 3: two things related?

1166
01:03:41,120 --> 01:03:47,200
Speaker 7: I guess because I know what I currently want and

1167
01:03:47,680 --> 01:03:50,520
Speaker 7: I know what he wanted a while back in to

1168
01:03:50,600 --> 01:03:52,760
Speaker 7: throw so I've kind of put two and two together

1169
01:03:53,240 --> 01:03:59,200
Speaker 7: and those things aren't the same. So yeah, So.

1170
01:03:59,160 --> 01:04:04,200
Speaker 3: It's not necessary that he doesn't, you know, find you, uh,

1171
01:04:04,240 --> 01:04:08,520
Speaker 3: you know, romantically suitable, but rather that your interests do

1172
01:04:08,680 --> 01:04:11,240
Speaker 3: not align in terms of what you would like out

1173
01:04:11,240 --> 01:04:14,040
Speaker 3: of your romantic lives of course.

1174
01:04:14,920 --> 01:04:15,320
Speaker 5: Mm hmm.

1175
01:04:16,280 --> 01:04:20,040
Speaker 3: Okay, what is it that you would like? Are you

1176
01:04:20,160 --> 01:04:21,680
Speaker 3: looking for a long term relationship?

1177
01:04:24,200 --> 01:04:30,040
Speaker 7: Yeah? I used to, but currently on this girl journey

1178
01:04:30,200 --> 01:04:32,840
Speaker 7: I got going on, which you know I call every

1179
01:04:32,880 --> 01:04:36,280
Speaker 7: man a trap, So no more relationship period.

1180
01:04:38,200 --> 01:04:43,720
Speaker 3: You know what what you say? Your name was, Abigail, Abigail,

1181
01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:45,800
Speaker 3: I love the girl trip. I love the girl journey.

1182
01:04:46,560 --> 01:04:49,560
Speaker 3: I love taking some time to find yourself. I think

1183
01:04:49,600 --> 01:04:51,960
Speaker 3: that's always a good idea. I think a lot of people,

1184
01:04:52,160 --> 01:04:54,400
Speaker 3: you know, they they I like that. I like that

1185
01:04:54,440 --> 01:04:57,560
Speaker 3: you're taking the girl journey. You know better than Russian

1186
01:04:57,600 --> 01:05:00,560
Speaker 3: in better than you know, filling that hole with other people.

1187
01:05:00,720 --> 01:05:02,760
Speaker 3: You know, a lot of people don't take the deliberate

1188
01:05:02,760 --> 01:05:04,479
Speaker 3: time to get to know themselves, to get to build

1189
01:05:04,480 --> 01:05:07,000
Speaker 3: themselves up before they rush into a relationship. I'm proud

1190
01:05:07,000 --> 01:05:08,400
Speaker 3: of you, Abigail. I think it's a good I think

1191
01:05:08,440 --> 01:05:10,680
Speaker 3: it's a smart move. I think you're doing good. I'm

1192
01:05:10,680 --> 01:05:14,600
Speaker 3: proud of you. Keep going to real therapy for sure,

1193
01:05:14,880 --> 01:05:17,120
Speaker 3: for sure. Thank you for sharing, Abigail. You have a

1194
01:05:17,120 --> 01:05:17,880
Speaker 3: good rest of the night.

1195
01:05:18,800 --> 01:05:25,840
Speaker 12: Thank you. Paul from Baha, I'm hello.

1196
01:05:27,080 --> 01:05:29,040
Speaker 14: Hello's up?

1197
01:05:30,320 --> 01:05:38,640
Speaker 12: No way, I'm on, You're on all let's go. What

1198
01:05:38,840 --> 01:05:39,439
Speaker 12: is your deal?

1199
01:05:39,520 --> 01:05:39,880
Speaker 9: Gecko?

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01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:44,400
Speaker 3: What your name was? Alejandro?

1201
01:05:45,680 --> 01:05:50,240
Speaker 12: No, my name is Baja Baha. Yeah, Baja b a

1202
01:05:50,560 --> 01:05:51,640
Speaker 12: h a like the Baha men.

1203
01:05:52,800 --> 01:05:53,640
Speaker 3: What ad the Baha men.

1204
01:05:55,520 --> 01:05:56,360
Speaker 14: They're are like.

1205
01:05:56,320 --> 01:06:00,080
Speaker 12: The ones who let the dogs out who.

1206
01:06:00,600 --> 01:06:05,440
Speaker 3: Literally musical group. Yeah yeah, okay, I'm familiar with the song,

1207
01:06:05,480 --> 01:06:06,959
Speaker 3: but not the name of the people to make the song.

1208
01:06:07,800 --> 01:06:11,040
Speaker 12: Well now you know, now you know what's your life like?

1209
01:06:11,080 --> 01:06:11,480
Speaker 3: Baha?

1210
01:06:13,600 --> 01:06:16,280
Speaker 12: Yeah, I just want to Can I shout out my family?

1211
01:06:19,560 --> 01:06:21,040
Speaker 3: Can I be honest? Look, I'm wanna be honest with

1212
01:06:21,080 --> 01:06:24,240
Speaker 3: you about things like that. Here's the thing is, you

1213
01:06:24,240 --> 01:06:25,880
Speaker 3: know a lot of people when they come on, they

1214
01:06:25,880 --> 01:06:28,360
Speaker 3: either want to like you know, I've had people who

1215
01:06:28,360 --> 01:06:30,840
Speaker 3: come on they want to like shout out people or

1216
01:06:30,880 --> 01:06:33,400
Speaker 3: like promote themselves in some way, shape or form. And

1217
01:06:33,480 --> 01:06:35,480
Speaker 3: I think it always works best if you do at

1218
01:06:35,480 --> 01:06:38,960
Speaker 3: the end, right because well because no, I mean I'm

1219
01:06:38,960 --> 01:06:41,200
Speaker 3: being said, you know, look, because we don't have anything

1220
01:06:41,200 --> 01:06:44,120
Speaker 3: from you yet, So I feel like for you to

1221
01:06:44,240 --> 01:06:46,560
Speaker 3: give a shout out. You know, we don't know. I

1222
01:06:48,160 --> 01:06:50,440
Speaker 3: don't know anything about you yet, you know what I mean,

1223
01:06:51,440 --> 01:06:53,040
Speaker 3: a little too early for me to for you to

1224
01:06:53,080 --> 01:06:55,640
Speaker 3: shout someone out. I don't know anything about your family.

1225
01:06:55,680 --> 01:06:58,240
Speaker 3: I don't know anything about you. I would feel bad.

1226
01:06:58,680 --> 01:07:01,240
Speaker 3: But if your family are bad people, I don't think

1227
01:07:01,280 --> 01:07:03,720
Speaker 3: that they are. I'm not saying that they are, but

1228
01:07:04,560 --> 01:07:07,040
Speaker 3: I don't know. They could be, and I want to

1229
01:07:07,280 --> 01:07:10,160
Speaker 3: sort of I live in sort of a I'm just

1230
01:07:10,240 --> 01:07:12,520
Speaker 3: it's just it's like risk management. Do you understand?

1231
01:07:13,720 --> 01:07:16,040
Speaker 12: I under think completely. I get what you're saying. It's

1232
01:07:16,040 --> 01:07:19,680
Speaker 12: actually a really good idea.

1233
01:07:19,280 --> 01:07:22,760
Speaker 3: Set you now much more that you like you've understood me,

1234
01:07:22,800 --> 01:07:26,720
Speaker 3: and I understand that that was nice. Who are you with?

1235
01:07:28,000 --> 01:07:29,640
Speaker 12: I'm with my mom? You want to stay high?

1236
01:07:30,560 --> 01:07:32,720
Speaker 3: Sure? I would love to. Can't talk to her?

1237
01:07:33,320 --> 01:07:33,480
Speaker 13: Hi?

1238
01:07:34,480 --> 01:07:35,600
Speaker 12: Right here?

1239
01:07:36,640 --> 01:07:37,200
Speaker 3: What's your name?

1240
01:07:38,520 --> 01:07:39,120
Speaker 5: What's your name?

1241
01:07:40,560 --> 01:07:41,400
Speaker 10: What do they call you?

1242
01:07:42,520 --> 01:07:43,520
Speaker 3: They call me ghek.

1243
01:07:45,040 --> 01:07:52,720
Speaker 12: And he doesn't answer the they called me mom? Mom?

1244
01:07:52,800 --> 01:07:54,960
Speaker 3: Do you mind if i'm I'm on speakerphone right now?

1245
01:07:55,000 --> 01:07:55,160
Speaker 6: Right?

1246
01:07:56,200 --> 01:07:56,400
Speaker 12: Yeah?

1247
01:07:56,440 --> 01:07:56,760
Speaker 14: You are?

1248
01:07:57,360 --> 01:07:57,560
Speaker 16: Do you?

1249
01:07:57,600 --> 01:07:59,160
Speaker 3: Do you mind handing the fund to your mom? And

1250
01:07:59,160 --> 01:07:59,960
Speaker 3: I could just talk to her.

1251
01:08:01,000 --> 01:08:01,720
Speaker 14: He's right there.

1252
01:08:01,920 --> 01:08:02,800
Speaker 10: Go ahead.

1253
01:08:03,920 --> 01:08:05,880
Speaker 3: Oh, could you tell me off a speakerphone?

1254
01:08:06,960 --> 01:08:09,120
Speaker 12: Can I take you up as speaker phone? Yes?

1255
01:08:11,040 --> 01:08:11,400
Speaker 11: Okay?

1256
01:08:12,480 --> 01:08:12,760
Speaker 3: Hello?

1257
01:08:13,360 --> 01:08:15,880
Speaker 10: Hello, hello, yes be.

1258
01:08:17,360 --> 01:08:19,920
Speaker 3: So tell me about your relationship with Baha.

1259
01:08:21,080 --> 01:08:21,640
Speaker 12: Baha.

1260
01:08:21,800 --> 01:08:23,840
Speaker 10: Well, like he's a good kid, but I want to

1261
01:08:23,880 --> 01:08:25,360
Speaker 10: kick him out of the house. Do you have any

1262
01:08:25,360 --> 01:08:26,559
Speaker 10: other homes he can go too?

1263
01:08:27,200 --> 01:08:28,639
Speaker 3: Why do you want to kick him out of the house?

1264
01:08:29,880 --> 01:08:30,880
Speaker 13: He's on my nurse.

1265
01:08:32,200 --> 01:08:33,600
Speaker 3: He gets on your nurse. What does he do to

1266
01:08:33,600 --> 01:08:34,120
Speaker 3: get on your nose?

1267
01:08:35,320 --> 01:08:38,559
Speaker 10: He won't put his hair up. He looks like Jesus

1268
01:08:38,560 --> 01:08:43,439
Speaker 10: when his hair is down like that. He's got a

1269
01:08:43,680 --> 01:08:48,040
Speaker 10: he's got a couch downstairs that I hate that brown saying.

1270
01:08:48,000 --> 01:08:50,000
Speaker 9: I was just laying on it mm hmm.

1271
01:08:50,120 --> 01:08:53,400
Speaker 10: And then what else? And he doesn't want to go

1272
01:08:53,439 --> 01:08:55,559
Speaker 10: to work. I just want to stay home in the

1273
01:08:55,560 --> 01:08:56,720
Speaker 10: basement forever.

1274
01:08:57,280 --> 01:08:58,920
Speaker 8: You work every days?

1275
01:09:00,120 --> 01:09:01,880
Speaker 10: This not beside who is this person?

1276
01:09:02,120 --> 01:09:02,559
Speaker 6: Is the good?

1277
01:09:03,360 --> 01:09:03,720
Speaker 13: Is the gick?

1278
01:09:06,960 --> 01:09:08,120
Speaker 10: I hear you, you're a good man.

1279
01:09:09,640 --> 01:09:12,880
Speaker 3: So he doesn't work. So so you're saying he doesn't work,

1280
01:09:12,920 --> 01:09:14,559
Speaker 3: but he's saying he does work. Why is he saying

1281
01:09:14,600 --> 01:09:16,040
Speaker 3: he does work but you're saying he doesn't.

1282
01:09:16,760 --> 01:09:18,960
Speaker 10: He thinks he does work. Does anybody do work while

1283
01:09:18,960 --> 01:09:20,360
Speaker 10: they're laying in bed and snoring?

1284
01:09:20,960 --> 01:09:24,240
Speaker 3: Whoa whoa, whoa, whoa whoa, whoa, whoa whoa.

1285
01:09:26,479 --> 01:09:30,880
Speaker 10: He called all his clients today, according to him. But Jack,

1286
01:09:31,040 --> 01:09:33,480
Speaker 10: you know, have you ever tasted our tacos?

1287
01:09:34,280 --> 01:09:35,080
Speaker 3: Have ever tasted what?

1288
01:09:35,160 --> 01:09:37,080
Speaker 11: Now tacos?

1289
01:09:37,479 --> 01:09:38,280
Speaker 3: I thought tacos?

1290
01:09:39,400 --> 01:09:44,519
Speaker 10: You no our tacos, your tacos. He's never tasted our tacos. Oh,

1291
01:09:44,600 --> 01:09:47,280
Speaker 10: he lives in them. Didn't you invite him over for

1292
01:09:47,720 --> 01:09:48,879
Speaker 10: when he comes to Chicago?

1293
01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:51,040
Speaker 8: You just met him.

1294
01:09:51,280 --> 01:09:53,600
Speaker 14: He's a steamer and it.

1295
01:09:53,240 --> 01:09:58,479
Speaker 10: Oh interesting, interesting, he's a therapy gecko.

1296
01:10:03,439 --> 01:10:05,280
Speaker 12: Yeah, I'm sorry I put you back on speaker. I

1297
01:10:05,320 --> 01:10:06,840
Speaker 12: just want to let you know. She didn't believe me.

1298
01:10:07,600 --> 01:10:08,880
Speaker 12: She thought I was just playing.

1299
01:10:08,600 --> 01:10:10,080
Speaker 14: A prank and you're one of my friends.

1300
01:10:10,880 --> 01:10:15,120
Speaker 12: Oh really, Yeah, I'm gonna put I'm gonna show her

1301
01:10:15,120 --> 01:10:16,280
Speaker 12: the live stream really quick.

1302
01:10:16,840 --> 01:10:18,080
Speaker 3: Sure is she still there?

1303
01:10:19,240 --> 01:10:20,040
Speaker 14: Yeah, she's still here.

1304
01:10:20,080 --> 01:10:23,360
Speaker 9: How old are you?

1305
01:10:20,720 --> 01:10:21,000
Speaker 12: Guys?

1306
01:10:23,360 --> 01:10:24,840
Speaker 3: You run a small business?

1307
01:10:25,880 --> 01:10:27,439
Speaker 8: Are you run a small business? Okay?

1308
01:10:27,800 --> 01:10:28,160
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1309
01:10:29,240 --> 01:10:30,880
Speaker 3: No, no, no, I'm saying that about your son. Your

1310
01:10:30,920 --> 01:10:33,200
Speaker 3: son you because because I'm still confused here, because your

1311
01:10:33,200 --> 01:10:35,120
Speaker 3: son says that he works, but you're saying that he doesn't.

1312
01:10:36,280 --> 01:10:36,439
Speaker 11: No.

1313
01:10:36,439 --> 01:10:38,160
Speaker 9: No, I thought I bet you were related to I

1314
01:10:38,400 --> 01:10:39,960
Speaker 9: thought I'm talking to one of his cousins.

1315
01:10:40,000 --> 01:10:41,280
Speaker 4: But yeah, he does work, he does.

1316
01:10:42,840 --> 01:10:46,800
Speaker 12: Okay, she runs a nonprofit organization.

1317
01:10:47,800 --> 01:10:50,200
Speaker 3: Okay, so you're both are entrepreneurs. That's nice.

1318
01:10:50,600 --> 01:10:50,800
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1319
01:10:50,880 --> 01:10:52,920
Speaker 12: Yeah, and I worked for her.

1320
01:10:53,600 --> 01:10:54,559
Speaker 8: I worked for her.

1321
01:10:55,240 --> 01:10:57,840
Speaker 12: I'm I'm I'm doing some different stuff right now. You know,

1322
01:10:57,840 --> 01:11:00,360
Speaker 12: I got a podcast shut out my podcast.

1323
01:11:03,040 --> 01:11:05,120
Speaker 3: Do you feel like your mother has been very influential

1324
01:11:05,160 --> 01:11:05,880
Speaker 3: to you in your career?

1325
01:11:07,479 --> 01:11:07,840
Speaker 12: Very much?

1326
01:11:07,880 --> 01:11:07,960
Speaker 13: So?

1327
01:11:09,240 --> 01:11:16,400
Speaker 3: Mhm? What else has your mother influenced about you? Mom?

1328
01:11:16,520 --> 01:11:17,000
Speaker 3: Are you there?

1329
01:11:18,040 --> 01:11:18,240
Speaker 14: Yeah?

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01:11:18,320 --> 01:11:18,880
Speaker 9: Yeah, I'm here.

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Speaker 3: How do you feel like you've influenced your son? What

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01:11:22,800 --> 01:11:23,840
Speaker 3: do you think he's gotten from you?

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01:11:25,200 --> 01:11:29,800
Speaker 10: What is his good looks and his down to earth

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01:11:29,840 --> 01:11:31,320
Speaker 10: and his honesty and his.

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Speaker 9: Kindness? But I'm really concerned, because I'm honestly concerned. Which

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Speaker 9: dare are you in? And what am I concerned about?

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Speaker 12: That?

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Speaker 9: I'm talking to a complete stranger that I saw was

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Speaker 9: one of my kid's friends. And of course wouldn't you

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Speaker 9: be concerned when you talk to people you don't know.

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Speaker 3: I'm talking to someone very calm.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, I know.

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Speaker 9: That's why you should be. Because, so, what do you do

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01:12:08,640 --> 01:12:10,439
Speaker 9: for a living besides gaming?

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01:12:11,600 --> 01:12:12,439
Speaker 3: Besides gaming?

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01:12:14,640 --> 01:12:19,120
Speaker 12: What you do? From what I gather your stand up comedian?

1347
01:12:22,320 --> 01:12:24,800
Speaker 5: Get ye, he's a gecko?

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Speaker 3: You he's therapy therapy.

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Speaker 9: You're a therapy guy. So what type of there provide.

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Speaker 3: Does you? Does your dad live with you? Guys? Is

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Speaker 3: there is the dad there?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: He is?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Okay? Is he in the room?

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Speaker 10: No, he's not here.

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Speaker 3: Okay, who do you Who do you think has had

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Speaker 3: a bigger influence on on your son? Between you and

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Speaker 3: your dad and you and your.

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Speaker 9: Husband, I think it's me and I think at this

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Speaker 9: point I'm gonna put us off to the questioning. And

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Speaker 9: it was really nice to meet you. Yeah, yeah, you're

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Speaker 9: very interesting. I'm gonna look you up and see what

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Speaker 9: else do you do.

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Speaker 3: Awesome, Thank you so much for talking to me. Absolutely, well,

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01:13:30,360 --> 01:13:32,040
Speaker 3: there we go. You don't have a shout out your family.

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Speaker 3: Your family shout out themselves by talking.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, there you go, There you go.

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Speaker 14: I might have some cousins watching too.

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Speaker 3: Do you have a good rest of the night?

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Speaker 6: Man?

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Speaker 12: All right, wait, my body, can't you shout out my podcast?

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Speaker 12: An anime podcast?

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Speaker 3: You know what? Sure?

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Speaker 12: My guys, all right, anybody watching? If you like animes,

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01:13:56,680 --> 01:14:01,639
Speaker 12: go and see us on Spotify, Apple, podcast, anywhere. We're

1377
01:14:01,640 --> 01:14:04,960
Speaker 12: called B B as in boy M as in Mary

1378
01:14:05,479 --> 01:14:09,360
Speaker 12: B Pirates, B M B Pirates and we talked about

1379
01:14:09,360 --> 01:14:11,960
Speaker 12: all ship anime, all that kind of stuff, you know,

1380
01:14:12,360 --> 01:14:15,880
Speaker 12: so see us, let us know how you like it.

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01:14:15,920 --> 01:14:21,920
Speaker 12: We're also on Instagram, so there you go. All right, Jack,

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Speaker 12: it was nice talking to you.

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Speaker 3: Let's talk at youtubebout huh have a good night you too,

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01:14:30,720 --> 01:14:33,400
Speaker 3: that I would listen to that guy's anime podcast, but

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Speaker 3: only if it was him explaining various animes to his mom.

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01:14:38,320 --> 01:14:41,759
Speaker 3: Maybe it is time for him to move out. Goes

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Speaker 3: on the line.

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Speaker 17: Every night, every

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Speaker 9: Teaching you