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Speaker 1: To Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and Cambridge Edge.

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Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of two Teas in

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Speaker 2: a Pod with myself, Teddy Mellencamp and Dolores Catanya. Hi

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Speaker 2: for Hi. First things first is I need to say congratulations, thank.

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Speaker 3: You so much. It's an exciting time for the family. Geez.

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Speaker 2: I mean, how are you going to do three weddings?

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm definitely gonna do too. I'm not you know,

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Speaker 3: I'll put mine on the back burner. I've waited twenty

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Speaker 3: seven years. It's another couple of years. But I think

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Speaker 3: that Gabby said she wants to wait a little while,

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Speaker 3: like thank god, because not only is Frankie getting married

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Speaker 3: this year, but my niece Valerie is getting married like

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Speaker 3: my sister daughters. So it's like a whole thing. And

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Speaker 3: so that's two big weddings and then now this, Oh

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Speaker 3: and my nephew's getting married next year. They just got engaged.

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Speaker 1: It's just.

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Speaker 2: Everybody's getting married. Everybody's getting married.

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Speaker 3: Did Paul plan this, Like, Paul, did you literally plan

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Speaker 3: to get engaged when we like can't get married or

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Speaker 3: something like that? Did you say, oh, now, let now

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Speaker 3: I could buy myself some time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's like, perfect, I'm not the priority at the moment.

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Speaker 3: I know it's so funny, but listen, whatever Gabby's coming on.

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Speaker 2: I'm excited for Gabby coming on. Were you surprised at all?

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Speaker 3: No, he spoke to me. He had to ask my permission.

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Speaker 3: And the first thing that Gabby said, oh I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: say when she comes on, what's my mother? Nice to you?

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Speaker 3: Not like anything? But because I'm rough, you know, teddy,

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Speaker 3: I just want them to get it right the first time.

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Speaker 3: How hard is that? Very hard, as we all know.

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Speaker 2: Very hard. Yeah, and I haven't gotten it right two times.

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Speaker 3: That's why I haven't gotten married in twenty seven years. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you just don't like I think My thing is. I'm

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Speaker 3: afraid for them to have to go through. She's on,

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Speaker 3: let's not talk. But oh you look so pretty today?

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Speaker 3: Oh thank you? Well, I have a hand. Hello, so

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Speaker 3: so misengaged woman. How does it feel? It feels not

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Speaker 3: much different? Are you? Are you doing surgery with your

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Speaker 3: ring on? No, it's on.

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Speaker 4: I have it on a necklace actually tucked into my

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Speaker 4: bra right now.

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Speaker 3: Oh so lovely?

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Speaker 2: Hope you fun pretty?

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Speaker 3: Yes, Gabby, Gabby have you ever met my Teddy?

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Speaker 4: No, I don't think I have met you yet, Teddy.

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Speaker 2: I know. Nice to me and congratulations.

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Speaker 4: Oh, thank you, thank you very much.

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Speaker 3: Her daughter's ride like you did in question? Oh wait, no,

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Speaker 3: Dove does it? Does she?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: Just like s late. She's good, Gabby. She wins a lot.

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Speaker 4: What does she what does she ride? What's for her?

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Speaker 2: She does hunters and jumpers. Nice.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's super fun.

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Speaker 4: I do miss riding a lot.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I think it really keeps when life

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Speaker 2: is hard. It's you know, it gives you that stability.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, did you find that gap?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Oh my god. Absolutely. I would still do anything with

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Speaker 4: horses if I could, if I had time.

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Speaker 3: So tell us about your engagement. Are you excited and

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Speaker 3: were you surprised?

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Speaker 4: I was so surprised.

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Speaker 6: I had a feeling was coming on the trip, but

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Speaker 6: I think the top of the mountain really caught me

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Speaker 4: But I was very, very excited. I'm still very excited.

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Speaker 3: So when are we getting married?

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Speaker 4: That's a great question. I got to get in line

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Speaker 4: behind you and Frankie.

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Speaker 3: So, oh you could get in front of me.

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Speaker 6: I don't know, I'm not We've got time. I literally

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Speaker 6: just got engaged like two days ago. I'm not trying

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Speaker 3: All right, good, but you looked well we knowed you

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Speaker 3: were really surprised you didn't have your nails done.

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Speaker 4: Oh well I can't. I did surgery all day on

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Speaker 3: Oh all right, Well, Teddy, do you have any advice

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Speaker 3: for her? Because it's better to come from someone else

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Speaker 3: than a mom.

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Speaker 2: I would say the biggest thing that I've learned from

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Speaker 2: my two marriages is I kind of had a hard

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Speaker 2: time being vulnerable and being honest when things were bothering me,

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Speaker 2: and then I would let everything fester. So I think

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Speaker 2: the more that you can just be open and honest

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Speaker 2: and share your feelings. I know none of us like

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Speaker 2: but it does help.

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Speaker 4: All right, noted, Yeah, we were not. We were not

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Speaker 4: a big feeling family, So that will be you new

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Speaker 2: Or not a big feeling family either.

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Speaker 3: I think that to echo that, Gabby and Teddy's so

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Speaker 3: right because in the meantime of you trying to be

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Speaker 3: much pride to ask somebody to do the right thing,

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Speaker 3: because you're like, you should have known to do that,

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Speaker 3: and sometimes people don't know to do that. Yeah, And

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Speaker 3: I think that you lose your work your self worth

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Speaker 3: also when you don't speak up. Yeah, no, definitely, So

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Speaker 3: be the bitch boss that you are always. Yeah.

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Speaker 6: No, I I think that between me and Michael, our

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Speaker 6: conflict resolution is very, very good. So I don't think

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Speaker 6: that should be too big of an issue.

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Speaker 3: Conflict resolution.

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Speaker 6: Yes, like whenever we have if there's a problem in

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Speaker 6: the relationship we don't have, we don't really fight about it.

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Speaker 4: It's never me versus Michael. It's us versus a problem.

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Speaker 3: Oh god, yes, Okay, So I still want you to

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Speaker 3: ask for things that you think you deserve them maybe

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Speaker 3: you know, aren't done.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you're absolutely right.

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Speaker 3: And so did he tell you that we spoke?

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Speaker 4: He did, Actually he did.

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Speaker 3: And what did you say?

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Speaker 6: Well, literally right after he proposed, like probably within the

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Speaker 6: same breath, I was like, was my mom nice? Like

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Speaker 6: I'm telling you like we had not even moved from

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Speaker 6: the photo op spot.

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Speaker 4: And he said absolutely. He said that you were very

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Speaker 4: kind in anything you said was true warranted.

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Speaker 6: And that you spoke the way a mother who loves

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Speaker 6: their kid more than anything.

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Speaker 2: Would Oh you guys.

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Speaker 4: Yes, he did say that.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm glad that he saw through that. It was

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Speaker 3: all out of love. Of course, I'll tell you what

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Speaker 3: he did do. He didn't just tell me what I

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Speaker 3: wanted to hear. He said the right things. He wants

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Speaker 3: to be his best self for you. And I asked

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Speaker 3: if he's not, and he said, I want you to.

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Speaker 3: So that was our conversation hour and a half to

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Speaker 3: two hours later, and we shook on it, Gabby, and

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Speaker 3: we good. Good. As long as he says I could

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Speaker 3: be involved, then that's all I wanted to hear. Good.

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Speaker 3: But I'm very happy for you.

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Speaker 2: And I'm very happy for you to congratulations.

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Speaker 5: I am.

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Speaker 6: I'm very excited, and everybody's been so kind. Are It's

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Speaker 6: more social media attention than I've ever ever wanted.

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Speaker 3: He's usually on the back burner, like Frankie gets so nice, Gab,

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Speaker 3: you deserve it all. So we want to see more

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Speaker 3: of you on social media. I tell her all the time,

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Speaker 3: but she doesn't.

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Speaker 2: No, No, she seems pretty busy.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I think she's busy doing real stuff.

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Speaker 2: Teddy. I know, I'm like.

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Speaker 3: Us so anyway, go ahead, do your thing. Gabby. Congratulations,

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Speaker 3: we love you you, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Congratulations.

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Speaker 5: All right, bye family, Bye bye.

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Speaker 2: She is so cute. I can't even take it.

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Speaker 3: She's cute. She's always handled things the right way, Teddy.

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Speaker 3: She's been through a lot, things weren't always easy for us,

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Speaker 3: and she always put herself last and took care of

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Speaker 3: her brother, took care of me at times, and she's

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Speaker 3: just got her head on straight. So I want the

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Speaker 3: best for her, you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Well I think she's got good things coming.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and if she doesn't, I'm stepping in. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: If not, better be afraid.

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Speaker 3: He's cute. It's a good looking kid.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So now we're going to talk a little bit

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Speaker 2: about housewife headlines.

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Speaker 3: Talk about marriages.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 3: Teddy, I want to hear what you think.

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Speaker 2: On which part.

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Speaker 3: Well, we'll get there anyway. I'm just was curious because.

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Speaker 2: Well, first, let's talk about Amanda.

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Speaker 3: Let's talk about Amanda first, because we're gonna I just

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Speaker 3: can't get this video out of my head. It bothers

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Speaker 3: me so.

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Speaker 2: Much, I know. So Amanda posted life lessons from last

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Speaker 2: week's episode, and then she said, if you make a

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Speaker 2: habit of looking for the worst and women a happy

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Speaker 2: life will look suspicious. Being obsessed with your work is

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Speaker 2: a good thing. Looking for the worst, expecting the worst,

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Speaker 2: attempting to dig up the worst, and women as gross?

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Speaker 3: Why do you sign up for this show?

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Speaker 2: Then that's my exact point, Like, why do you know

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Speaker 3: Watch the shows? Watch If you're a businesswoman, when do

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Speaker 3: you ever sign anything unless you know the risks and

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Speaker 3: the gains from it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not a free commercial. Yeah, if you're going

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Speaker 2: to come on, do your job.

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Speaker 3: Nothing's for free, Amanda.

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Speaker 2: Then she said, positioning someone as an authentic because they're

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Speaker 2: not explosive, reactive, endlessly argumentative and digging up dirt on

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Speaker 2: you while they attempt to dig up dirt on them

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Speaker 2: as dysfunction disguised as discernment. When your piece is called

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Speaker 2: people who don't actually want either, you know what, I think.

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Speaker 2: I think she's very bothered. Do I think she's bothered

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Speaker 2: by this? Because why else would she put out this

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Speaker 2: sixteen page Instagram scrolling thing that I had to read?

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Speaker 3: You're upset that you had to read it? You're bothered

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Speaker 3: that you have to read which you wrote as I see.

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Speaker 3: Here's the thing. Let's get to this positioning someone as

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Speaker 3: an authentic because they're not explosive, reactive, endlessly augment. You

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Speaker 3: had the chance to say all of this to their face.

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Speaker 3: You didn't. There's no time to go home and chat

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Speaker 3: ebt what you want to say or use all these

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Speaker 3: this word salad stuff that's got to roll off your tongue. Amanda,

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Speaker 3: you know what's inauthentic that you didn't say this right

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Speaker 3: to their face, that you had to go and think

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Speaker 3: about it. I am a person, and I understand sometimes

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Speaker 3: you're going to say to say the right thing. But

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Speaker 3: you do this for a living. You speak to people

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Speaker 3: for a living. You're supposed to talk sense for a living.

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Speaker 3: You've made your money on speaking since say it do

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Speaker 3: it for yourself. Then that's what I don't understand, because

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Speaker 2: I'm just a little bit confused used on how she

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Speaker 3: So, like all this stuff, like she's commenting on the

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Speaker 2: Why say it now? And why go on the show?

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Speaker 3: I think she's very bothered. I think, you know what,

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Speaker 3: Well, she's getting that. She's knocking them down without a

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Speaker 2: It's working for her and for her clientele.

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Speaker 3: You know who's unbothered Stacy.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Stacy's unbothered.

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Speaker 3: That's an unbothered queen.

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Speaker 2: And it's kind of to make the others feel and

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Speaker 3: Do Yeah, well she's she's doing it. But see, I

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Speaker 2: Yeah. And also she even felt the need to come

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Speaker 3: So you know, here's what people don't understand. You don't

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Speaker 3: I answer to myself. So, Amanda, if you want me

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Speaker 2: To reveal status of her home on w'ch what happens

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Speaker 3: Why did she say that? Do they not get along?

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Speaker 2: No? I think she was just saying, like, because their

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Speaker 2: I don't even know what you said. But I saw

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Speaker 3: And well, now what did I get in trouble for now?

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Speaker 2: But this is what I'm curious about. So reveals that

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Speaker 3: I haven't been divorced, and so like, I don't. It's

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Speaker 3: Explain it to me, Teddy Okay, so when you tell

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Speaker 2: Well, you would assume if you're not doing your research,

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Speaker 3: Right, it's it's hopefully you could do it that way back.

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Speaker 2: I know. So remember how Dearie all of a sudden

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Speaker 3: Maybe they didn't have that meeting yet.

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Speaker 2: But don't you think that's the first meeting you have

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 2: But also who does their bills? Do you think that

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Speaker 2: Well, I think it's one of those things that she

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Speaker 2: Yeah. And I just couldn't imagine not knowing if your

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Speaker 3: I was that girl. So I get it.

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Speaker 3: Nope, Nope. I was not educated. I never balanced a checkbook.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I mean Edwin and I have separate finances.

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Speaker 3: But it's so scary, Teddy. I am not going to

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Speaker 2: Speaking of financial issues, LVP puts tom Tom up for sale.

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Speaker 2: Why it says Tom Tom and assets from Pump are

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Speaker 3: How much are it is it up for? Do we know?

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Speaker 2: No? I don't think we know. But who wants Tom Tom?

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Speaker 2: I feel like there's a curse on that place.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I I don't. I wouldn't want it.

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't want any business like that. It's it seems

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Speaker 2: But it just shows. So what did the Toms get

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Speaker 3: So after it's sold, of course, I think. I don't know,

442
00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 3: But good luck to them selling it, because it's not

443
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:09,920
Speaker 3: easy to sell things these days. It is not, no,

444
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:12,040
Speaker 3: and what's it worth? And what are they going to

445
00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:12,600
Speaker 3: get out of it?

446
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,439
Speaker 2: And if they're selling it, clearly it's not making a

447
00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:16,320
Speaker 2: ton of money.

448
00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:21,439
Speaker 3: Right, So what's five percent or nothing? Is nothing?

449
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:27,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then now we've got to get into secret

450
00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:32,640
Speaker 2: lives of Mormon wives. So much as how it feels

451
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:35,399
Speaker 2: like it's been a full time job for me keeping

452
00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:37,680
Speaker 2: track of what's going on with.

453
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:42,160
Speaker 3: This, Oh so much so, Jesse's husband files for a divorce,

454
00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:43,640
Speaker 3: what's going on?

455
00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 2: How brilliant to file for divorce on the same day

456
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:52,440
Speaker 2: that everything goes down with Taylor.

457
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 3: Do you think that was planned or clear? Yes?

458
00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:58,359
Speaker 2: Of course I forgot who it was, but there was

459
00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:03,520
Speaker 2: a housewife that like filed for divorce on the day

460
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 2: of like election day or something like. You always want

461
00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:08,160
Speaker 2: to like be pushed to the bottom of the things

462
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:09,119
Speaker 2: people talk about.

463
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:11,800
Speaker 3: Well, this isn't pushed at the bottom.

464
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:14,280
Speaker 2: No, we have it up at the top. But I

465
00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 2: think we're the only ones that have it up at

466
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 2: the top just because Jordan, just because Jordan Circlehead drives

467
00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:26,400
Speaker 2: us nuts. Okay, well, but Jordan went to Utah court

468
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:30,119
Speaker 2: last Thursday filed for divorce after five years of marriage.

469
00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:32,199
Speaker 2: They have a son and daughter together. I think we

470
00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:33,560
Speaker 2: saw the writing on the wall.

471
00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:36,240
Speaker 3: I know, but I feel bad to see. I really

472
00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:41,840
Speaker 3: hate to see. I hope it's an amicable and everybody's nice.

473
00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:45,399
Speaker 2: I think that all of these guys are going to

474
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:47,399
Speaker 2: be really heartbroken that they're going to have to come

475
00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:49,320
Speaker 2: up with a new name other than dad Talk.

476
00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:52,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, dad Talk.

477
00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:55,199
Speaker 2: Because they're not like now, none of them are together,

478
00:25:56,560 --> 00:26:00,280
Speaker 2: not one of them, not like except for the show

479
00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 2: that's cursed. Yeah, because we've got Whitney, but she's in

480
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 2: New York. I doubt she's coming back. And then we've

481
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:11,040
Speaker 2: got Jen Affleck, who's supposedly coming to do Orange County

482
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 2: Mormon Wives. Okay, Demi doesn't show up anymore. They just

483
00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:20,000
Speaker 2: show the empty couch. But Demi also had her moment

484
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:21,159
Speaker 2: of saying, told you so.

485
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:23,760
Speaker 3: Isn't that a nice moment?

486
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 2: Such a nice moment. But it's so sad this whole thing,

487
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:30,640
Speaker 2: it really is.

488
00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:34,040
Speaker 3: I hate especially kids are involved, and it's the breakup

489
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:37,919
Speaker 3: of a family. That's not a good headline. It's a

490
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:39,000
Speaker 3: real shit headline.

491
00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 2: Well now I've seen so many sides of this because okay,

492
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:46,680
Speaker 2: so Duma's submission about Bachelorette Taylor is allegedly luring lawyer

493
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:52,400
Speaker 2: after ABC Disney blamed the resurface video for canceling her season,

494
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:55,160
Speaker 2: even though they already knew about it when they casted her.

495
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:59,159
Speaker 2: There's nothing in the video that isn't in public records.

496
00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:01,280
Speaker 2: Sounds like the video it was just an easy way out.

497
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:04,560
Speaker 2: The real issue was her season was just not good.

498
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:07,359
Speaker 2: She will not lose any money though, because they knew

499
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 2: what they were signing up for and she followed her contract.

500
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 3: So that's what Demois said.

501
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what Demas said.

502
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:16,479
Speaker 3: Do you think that's true that it was such a

503
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 3: bad season that they wanted to. I don't think ABC

504
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:22,400
Speaker 3: wanted this out there. Yeah, I really don't.

505
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 2: I think it was a toxic season, but I think

506
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:28,639
Speaker 2: I mean, yes, every single thing that we saw on

507
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:33,680
Speaker 2: that video was said in the paperwork from the last

508
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:34,720
Speaker 2: time she was arrested.

509
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 3: But so it doesn't make sense that.

510
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:41,639
Speaker 2: But seeing it and hearing it are two different things.

511
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:45,080
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, seeing.

512
00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:46,639
Speaker 2: And hearing it are two different things. And do you

513
00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 2: think Dakota is the one that released it because TMZ

514
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 2: said that it was an individual source. It's like didn't

515
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:56,680
Speaker 2: come from the courts.

516
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:00,199
Speaker 3: Well, if we go all the way down and what

517
00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:03,639
Speaker 3: you know, when we talk about Dakota's ex wife's closest

518
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:06,480
Speaker 3: friend and what she says, then I want you to

519
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 3: think about that and we'll go back to this question. Yeah,

520
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 3: said Dakota. After what we read what the ex wife.

521
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 2: Says, Yeah, the ex wife's closest friend speaks out. Dakota

522
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:20,159
Speaker 2: was abusive, creepy, and weird toward my friend from the

523
00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:23,439
Speaker 2: get go, extremely jealous, paranoid, and controlling, just like Ki

524
00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:26,600
Speaker 2: acts on the show. I vividly remember him becoming unhinged

525
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:29,159
Speaker 2: at my friend because she wanted a sunbathe with her

526
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:31,560
Speaker 2: friends in a bikini. I could see all the signs

527
00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 2: of an abusive relationship. Their marriage ended when she found

528
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:38,040
Speaker 2: him heating his heroin on an aluminum foil in the bathroom.

529
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 3: Well, it doesn't sound like Dakota is an altar boy here, No.

530
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:49,120
Speaker 2: It does not, But Dakota and Dakota is living his

531
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:53,320
Speaker 2: best life, posting all over the gram, doing tiktoks, like

532
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 2: doing like now, just be quiet.

533
00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 3: He's so it seems like he's very happy that this

534
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 3: video got out.

535
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 2: Do you think he's happy that the video got out

536
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:09,400
Speaker 2: because now him and Taylor Frankie Paul's husband ex husband

537
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 2: are aligned and trying to get custody of the kids.

538
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:15,040
Speaker 2: Or do you think he just didn't want her to

539
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 2: have any fame without him.

540
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:20,760
Speaker 3: Well, if he, let's well let's I mean, did you

541
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:24,800
Speaker 3: see that Taylor temporarily lost custody of her son. Yeah,

542
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 3: that's like, but why take the I mean, I understand

543
00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:33,160
Speaker 3: that taking the child out of a bad environment, but

544
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:37,120
Speaker 3: everybody knew about this environment three years ago. But now

545
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:40,120
Speaker 3: you're taking the baby away. Damn it. There's a lot

546
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 3: of damage done in between.

547
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:44,479
Speaker 2: Because something has happened. I'm telling you, I don't know

548
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:47,440
Speaker 2: what it is, but something has happened between when she

549
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 2: left the Bachelorette and when just recently. Yeah, I feel

550
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:54,560
Speaker 2: like there was another big blow up fight and I

551
00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 2: feel like he probably got a video of that. There

552
00:29:56,640 --> 00:30:01,800
Speaker 2: was another altercation, and I think she broke parole, all right,

553
00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 2: I mean this is all me making it up.

554
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 3: I mean probation.

555
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:09,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, she broke probation. And I think that that's what

556
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:12,320
Speaker 2: caused all this to spark because ABC already knew all

557
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:16,240
Speaker 2: this happened. We all knew it happened. The fact that

558
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 2: somebody would pay big. How much do you think Dakoda

559
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:20,320
Speaker 2: made to release that video?

560
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:25,280
Speaker 3: I mean, I have no idea. I don't know that

561
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:31,120
Speaker 3: they pay. Allegedly that there was money, allegedly.

562
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 5: He was.

563
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:36,640
Speaker 3: Paid by it, but but we don't know if he didn't,

564
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 3: we don't know. We don't know. This is all allegedly. Well,

565
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:41,480
Speaker 3: a lot of people, by the way, a lot of

566
00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:42,400
Speaker 3: people had that video.

567
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:46,520
Speaker 2: A lot not really, they said, not really, they said

568
00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:48,520
Speaker 2: cut the courts and.

569
00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 3: The dad, and the dad sent it to every fucking

570
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 3: body he knows.

571
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 2: I think the dad. No, I bet the dad held

572
00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 2: on to it till now.

573
00:30:58,160 --> 00:30:59,480
Speaker 3: You think so to try to.

574
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 2: I think until she became the bachelorette, he thought for

575
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 2: sure they were going to get back together.

576
00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 3: Well he thought that because the night before she left,

577
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:08,800
Speaker 3: she slept with him.

578
00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:11,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, no matter what, this is a time

579
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 2: and he.

580
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 3: Wanted her back. So he wanted her back after That's

581
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 3: not the first incident, that wasn't the last incident, and

582
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 3: he wanted her back. You know what, guys, fuck all

583
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 3: of you because there are kids involved, and this violence

584
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:32,200
Speaker 3: and the damage that's happening is disgusting for those kids.

585
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:34,040
Speaker 2: But the thing that I find is hard is like,

586
00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 2: there's no way that this is a shock to ABC.

587
00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:41,040
Speaker 2: Because I even watched The Vile Files when Taylor Frankie

588
00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 2: Paul was on and she's hysterically crying and she tells

589
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 2: the entire story that she picks up that like she

590
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:51,120
Speaker 2: lays it out for you.

591
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 3: Oh right, what did she say? Because I didn't watch it.

592
00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 2: She's like, I picked up, you know, the barstools, and

593
00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:59,160
Speaker 2: I was throwing them and I didn't think my son

594
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 2: was there, but he will, I mean, my daughter was there,

595
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:03,800
Speaker 2: but she was. I thought she was upstairs with the babysitter.

596
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:08,720
Speaker 2: I was emotionally just broken at that point in time,

597
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 2: and I had a miscarrit she said she had a miscarriage,

598
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:15,800
Speaker 2: and then she had had a chemical pregnancy and she

599
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 2: just was in a really, really bad there's no excuses

600
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 2: for what happened happening. There's no excuses. I think there's like.

601
00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:29,040
Speaker 3: So you think that he pokes her buttons and I

602
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:32,120
Speaker 3: mean pushes her button, like instigates her and plays on

603
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:35,120
Speaker 3: her to get that way, And a lot of women

604
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:35,640
Speaker 3: are saying that.

605
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:38,120
Speaker 2: By the way, somebody said, you know, like if this

606
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 2: was a man, and then they named that like twenty

607
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:47,480
Speaker 2: different men who remained on television shows after being accused

608
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 2: or even arrested for the same type of behavior.

609
00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 3: Well, Jace MICHAELA. Matthews has been responds to a DM

610
00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 3: and he says, I don't support anyone who physically abuses

611
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:01,800
Speaker 3: their chi children. I don't give a fuck who it

612
00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:04,320
Speaker 3: is or why, and neither should you. And there was

613
00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:06,560
Speaker 3: loads more we found out about.

614
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:09,120
Speaker 2: Now Jason is talking now that's.

615
00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:14,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's about Taylor. So there's loads more, you know what.

616
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:19,000
Speaker 3: Shame on everyone who knew that these kids were not

617
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:22,600
Speaker 3: in a good environment. Shame on anybody close to her

618
00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 3: that knew that this caused a whole violent relationship and

619
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:29,720
Speaker 3: there's kids involved.

620
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:34,760
Speaker 2: Shame on anybody who pushed for them to film together,

621
00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 2: that invited Dakota to film these things. Dakota is on

622
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:42,760
Speaker 2: the only on the show because people kept inviting him

623
00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:45,680
Speaker 2: to go. And you have to remember this happened at

624
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:49,480
Speaker 2: the beginning of season one, so.

625
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:51,960
Speaker 3: That I mean a lot has happened since then.

626
00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:55,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot has happened since then. But I mean, yes,

627
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 2: you know Macy from the beginning, is that how talks

628
00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 2: at the relationship is and you know she was in

629
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:05,520
Speaker 2: a toxic relationship herself, and she's talked about it before,

630
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:10,440
Speaker 2: it's in her book, but she she has been dead

631
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:14,280
Speaker 2: set the entire time on like this is not okay.

632
00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:18,640
Speaker 2: No one listens, No one listens, No one listens.

633
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:23,440
Speaker 3: The right people don't listen, and the little people get hurt. Yeah,

634
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:24,880
Speaker 3: this is my problem.

635
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:27,960
Speaker 2: Here, I know. But what do you think is gonna happen?

636
00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:28,279
Speaker 3: Now?

637
00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:29,960
Speaker 2: Do you think they're gonna be Is she gonna be

638
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:31,160
Speaker 2: off Mormon Wives?

639
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:35,879
Speaker 3: I think she's gonna be off Mormon Wives. And I

640
00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 3: think that we're gonna hear more about what happens, like

641
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:43,640
Speaker 3: maybe things happened with the kids, which I never want

642
00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 3: to hear. I don't want to know. I hope it's

643
00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:50,439
Speaker 3: all wrong. I don't it's gonna kill me. I lose

644
00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:52,480
Speaker 3: sleep over kids and dogs. Let me tell you right

645
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:53,040
Speaker 3: the fuck now.

646
00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:55,719
Speaker 2: No, when you could hear her daughter crying.

647
00:34:56,560 --> 00:35:00,359
Speaker 3: She's five years old, she's gonna remember everybody. I could

648
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 3: tell you what happened in my house when I was

649
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:07,200
Speaker 3: five years old, and you know what it really really

650
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 3: it takes its toll on these kids for the rest

651
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:11,760
Speaker 3: of their lives.

652
00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:14,400
Speaker 2: I remember the fights my parents used to get in,

653
00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:22,800
Speaker 2: like it's just that, and how alone. And now when

654
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:26,640
Speaker 2: you've got two parents. So now we've got both dads

655
00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:32,319
Speaker 2: who are coming against Taylor. So now the alienation's going

656
00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:37,360
Speaker 2: to come into the Parntal alienation right exactly.

657
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:40,840
Speaker 3: But you know you're also coming in now because it's public.

658
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:46,280
Speaker 3: Her daughter's five years old. A lot of things, God forbid,

659
00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:49,400
Speaker 3: could have happened to her in five years, and a

660
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:51,919
Speaker 3: lot of damage has been done from that one fight

661
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:55,920
Speaker 3: alone that we saw. Forget about the other thousand fights.

662
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:59,840
Speaker 3: We didn't see that little we're bothered by what we saw.

663
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:02,319
Speaker 3: We didn't live it. We weren't in the room. It's

664
00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:05,479
Speaker 3: not our mother, it's not an experience we personally had.

665
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:09,040
Speaker 3: She's a child. We're all watching a little girl. Watch that.

666
00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:12,839
Speaker 2: It makes me fucking sick. Yeah, it really does. It

667
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:18,800
Speaker 2: really does. And I just I can't. I can't believe

668
00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:24,160
Speaker 2: that they just kept on going after we already knew

669
00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:28,799
Speaker 2: this happened. Yeah, so I can't believe that ABC went

670
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 2: that far to cast her and do all of this

671
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:34,759
Speaker 2: like that.

672
00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:37,880
Speaker 3: To me, that's and they knew what you're saying, they

673
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 3: knew about it.

674
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, they knew about it. The beginning of season one

675
00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:45,319
Speaker 2: is the beginning of season one is Taylor Frankie Paul

676
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:46,080
Speaker 2: getting arrested.

677
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 3: Well, you know, I think this sets a precedence now

678
00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:57,080
Speaker 3: that maybe they're not going to hire people who act

679
00:36:57,120 --> 00:37:00,560
Speaker 3: like this because they've lost a lot of money. Now, yeah,

680
00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 3: what is it one hundred million dollars, fifty million dollars?

681
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:05,240
Speaker 3: What is it? Millions and millions of dollars?

682
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:07,799
Speaker 2: Millions and millions of dollars. But then also all the

683
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:12,760
Speaker 2: ad revenue, Oh that too. Think about all the ad revenues.

684
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:14,839
Speaker 2: I didn't think about that, And then think about all

685
00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 2: the production people that are lost their job, because I

686
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:21,799
Speaker 2: guarantee they weren't done editing that season yet. So think

687
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:25,319
Speaker 2: about the producers get a job and they think it's

688
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:27,760
Speaker 2: going to last throughout to the show's over, right.

689
00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:30,960
Speaker 3: Well, don't they have to pay them out for their contract?

690
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 2: I don't think. So this is the shows.

691
00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:38,880
Speaker 3: All the way around. Well, now finally that this is

692
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 3: all happened, maybe people will check in and see what's

693
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:43,200
Speaker 3: going on with the kids.

694
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:46,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe people will check in and see what's happening

695
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:48,319
Speaker 2: with the kids. But then I also it makes me

696
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:57,880
Speaker 2: nervous about her son being with Dakota too. Yeah yeah, yeah,

697
00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:01,319
Speaker 2: because there was something about Todi's face when I was

698
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 2: watching that video, like I think that fight had been

699
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:09,319
Speaker 2: going on for a very long time, and it was

700
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:11,440
Speaker 2: like he knew exactly what to do.

701
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:21,360
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, well how about put the phone down or

702
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 3: call the cops, so maybe she'll stop what she finally did.

703
00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:27,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I think it was even the neighbor

704
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 2: that called the cops.

705
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 3: Take the daughter, Remove yourself so it stops. How about that? Yeah,

706
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:37,359
Speaker 3: remove yourself?

707
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:41,760
Speaker 2: The new fight apparently they get into a fight, he leaves,

708
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:43,760
Speaker 2: and then the next night he comes back again.

709
00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 3: Was he trying to leave and she was standing in

710
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:48,840
Speaker 3: front of the door throwing the stools at him. Was

711
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:49,959
Speaker 3: he trying to leave?

712
00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:53,400
Speaker 2: I think that's what's happening.

713
00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:56,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I don't want to say too much

714
00:38:56,880 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 3: against anybody here because I don't know the full details.

715
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:09,240
Speaker 3: And it's just like everybody's human. Couples get in fights.

716
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 3: We do things in front of our kids. We wish

717
00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:13,359
Speaker 3: we never did. We say things in front of our kids.

718
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:16,520
Speaker 3: We wish we never did. We're all human. But to

719
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:20,360
Speaker 3: have it happen all the time, to not correct what's

720
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 3: making you guys act like that in front of your kids.

721
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:27,560
Speaker 2: Now you're wrong, yeah, And to keep putting each other

722
00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 2: in each other's faces, that's the things.

723
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 3: You know, when cops show up to a domestic violence,

724
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:37,600
Speaker 3: that's the most dangerous call for a police officer. Did

725
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:38,000
Speaker 3: you know that?

726
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 5: No?

727
00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:43,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, it is. That's when the family, you're there to

728
00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:46,399
Speaker 3: help the woman who's getting beat up or the man,

729
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:49,440
Speaker 3: and that person now turns now the person who you're

730
00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:54,760
Speaker 3: helping turns on you, and it's just a vicious cycle.

731
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 3: It is really a vicious cycle. So maybe people have

732
00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:01,000
Speaker 3: tried to help and they you know, it turned on them.

733
00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:04,160
Speaker 3: Who knows, who knows. What we do know, though, is

734
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:07,359
Speaker 3: it has to stop, and those kids now need help,

735
00:40:07,719 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 3: and they all need help.

736
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:12,440
Speaker 2: They all need help, they all need therapy. And I

737
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:15,760
Speaker 2: think that you know, Taylor, Frankie Paul has been telling

738
00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:18,080
Speaker 2: us for a long time how much she's been struggling.

739
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:21,880
Speaker 3: Well, people need to listen when somebody says.

740
00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:23,600
Speaker 2: That, Yeah, like remember when she went to a mental

741
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:26,959
Speaker 2: health place because she didn't start filming for the first

742
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:29,920
Speaker 2: two weeks because she went to the mental health place.

743
00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 2: I didn't know. No, Yeah, yeah, So I mean it's

744
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:39,040
Speaker 2: just all it's all a lot. And then I mean,

745
00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:41,360
Speaker 2: we're still going to be recapping the rest of the season.

746
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:45,680
Speaker 2: But I've noticed that they keep dropping more and more

747
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:52,960
Speaker 2: little blurbs from this season of The Bachelorette. So it's canceled,

748
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:57,000
Speaker 2: or it's not, it's canceled, but we keep seeing like trailers,

749
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:02,439
Speaker 2: different trailers, and so let's that's a little weird. Yeah,

750
00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:04,440
Speaker 2: it's not. I keep seeing different ones.

751
00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:06,759
Speaker 3: Because there's been a Girls Trip that was canceled. We

752
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:09,000
Speaker 3: never saw a trailer from there. We never heard nothing,

753
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:10,839
Speaker 3: saw nothing, nothing.

754
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:15,400
Speaker 2: Nothing, nothing, not even a peep that from that ultimate

755
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:16,320
Speaker 2: Girls Trip.

756
00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 3: Right So that's why I'm confused. Is it really canceled?

757
00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:22,320
Speaker 3: Are they kind of waiting to see if the crowd

758
00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:25,640
Speaker 3: wants about a lot of people are like, show it, Eric,

759
00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:26,960
Speaker 3: I want to see it anyway.

760
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:30,080
Speaker 2: Well, I think the only way you could do that

761
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:32,440
Speaker 2: is by doing it as a paid programming. If you're

762
00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:34,160
Speaker 2: sick enough that you want to watch it, then you

763
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:38,719
Speaker 2: have to pay I don't know whatever company and it

764
00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:43,279
Speaker 2: is to watch it, right, But I mean I think

765
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:49,160
Speaker 2: ABC needs to stick to what they know and what

766
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 2: it's worked for them for a lot of years.

767
00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:55,759
Speaker 3: Right, Okay, Well, well you know, time will tell. I

768
00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:58,000
Speaker 3: just hope everybody gets the help that they need here.

769
00:41:58,560 --> 00:41:59,480
Speaker 2: I know me too.

770
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:02,840
Speaker 3: And kids first, remember that guy's kids first.

771
00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:06,440
Speaker 2: And check your finances, guys, find out if your bills

772
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 2: are getting paid.

773
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:11,280
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, don't trust. Don't trust anybody with your money.

774
00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:14,880
Speaker 3: I don't care if your husband's prince fucking charming, and

775
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 3: I don't care if your wife is like the most

776
00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 3: perfect wife. Check as a couple, finances should be done together.

777
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:27,440
Speaker 2: Yeah you should know that's going on.

778
00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 3: Only you can never look back and say I wish

779
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:31,319
Speaker 3: I knew what I didn't know.

780
00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:32,200
Speaker 2: Yeah.

781
00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:34,200
Speaker 3: True, Then it's too late.

782
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:37,360
Speaker 2: Then it's too late, and then you've got to uproot

783
00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:38,880
Speaker 2: your family and figure it out.

784
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:41,680
Speaker 3: Or go to jail. We know someone that happened.

785
00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 2: To Yes, we do, my gosh. Well, thanks guys for

786
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:49,480
Speaker 2: tuning in for another episode of to Teas in a Pod.

787
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:51,960
Speaker 2: We'll back later this week to talk about all the

788
00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 2: new shows coming out