1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:01,880 Speaker 1: And this is the fight you get to walk away 2 00:00:01,880 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 1: from Renette. 3 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:10,040 Speaker 2: Hello, Hey, Caitlin, how are you? I'm great? 4 00:00:10,240 --> 00:00:11,280 Speaker 3: We have so much to talk about. 5 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 4: We do okay, So here we are at the Ludlow 6 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 4: House on the Lower East Side. 7 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:17,320 Speaker 3: You just returned from Chicago. 8 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 4: We did a fantastic interview that you did with incredible 9 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 4: luminary coach. 10 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 3: Come out, Murray Come. We're going to get to that 11 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 3: in a second before we do. Should we do? 12 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:29,080 Speaker 2: We ever had background music podcast? 13 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 3: What do you think is it? It's kind of getting 14 00:00:30,520 --> 00:00:32,479 Speaker 3: me in the group. Maybe it's the cocktail. 15 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:34,159 Speaker 2: Maybe it's the two cocktails you've already had. 16 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 3: Kaitlin with CBD, I'm real relaxed. Yeah we could. 17 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:42,080 Speaker 4: Should you so choose to get into some topical news 18 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 4: and talk a little bit about Justin Gimmelstob Yeah, the 19 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 4: former uh he won a Grand Slam, He won a 20 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 4: couple with Venus Williams with mixed doubles, mixed doubles Grand 21 00:00:53,080 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 4: Slam champion player, Tennis Channel broadcaster, a TP Player Council representative, 22 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 4: board member, board member, and former colleague of yours when 23 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 4: you were working at the Tennis Channel. Now has been 24 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 4: arrested on Halloween for beating up. 25 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 2: An assault an assault and. 26 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:18,240 Speaker 4: Is awaiting alleged trial and is now has taken a 27 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:21,040 Speaker 4: leave of absence from the Tennis Channel while he sort 28 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 4: of sorts out his legal stuff. 29 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's a big deal. Obviously, we have to 30 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:29,679 Speaker 2: wait to see what happens. You know, everybody's innocent until 31 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:33,320 Speaker 2: proven guilty. But what we've seen over the last couple 32 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 2: of days with things that have come out in the 33 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:39,120 Speaker 2: press from people that have sort of bringing up past 34 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 2: incidences of his and you know, we're hearing about stuff 35 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 2: from his wife in their divorce, and you know, it's 36 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 2: looking pretty ugly for Justin right now. It's not looking good. 37 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 2: But again, you know, he is obviously vehemently denied these allegations. 38 00:01:56,720 --> 00:02:01,919 Speaker 2: So I believe going to court December well yeah something 39 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 2: tenth or twelfth something soon to determine what's going to happen. 40 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:09,640 Speaker 2: So yeah, I mean in tennis terms, you know, Justin 41 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 2: is a big deal, certainly on the men's side of 42 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 2: the of the tour and television, So it's going to 43 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 2: be interesting to see what comes out. Certainly, it's a 44 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 2: polarizing figure to a lot of people. He's had his 45 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 2: history of some issues with you know, the anacorner cover situation, 46 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:28,240 Speaker 2: that he said some derogatory things. He's also said some 47 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 2: homophobic things in the past, and you know, he's worked 48 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 2: through those issues in the past, but maybe his his 49 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:37,800 Speaker 2: history of these types of things are coming back to 50 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 2: haunt him a little bit now. So, as I said, 51 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:42,480 Speaker 2: we're going to see how and what happens. Tennis Channel 52 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 2: have a lot of things on their plate when it 53 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:46,080 Speaker 2: comes to this, and also obviously the ATP bought so 54 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:47,040 Speaker 2: we'll see what happens. 55 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:48,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, it'll be very interesting. 56 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:51,920 Speaker 4: When he was on tape on the Howard Stern Show 57 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 4: talking in derogatory ways about on a corner cover and 58 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 4: calling Ali's a cornea sexpart, justifiably got a lot of 59 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:02,359 Speaker 4: backlash for that, to which he profusely apologized and said 60 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 4: that wasn't him and he was going to work on himself. 61 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 4: And you know, in no way does any of those statement, 62 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:08,960 Speaker 4: you know, represent the. 63 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 3: Way he feels. 64 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 4: And I think for a lot of people, especially sort 65 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:16,520 Speaker 4: of on the tennis twitter chatter that we at Rackam 66 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:19,919 Speaker 4: Magazine cannot turn our eyes away from on occasion, there 67 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:23,240 Speaker 4: has been obviously a lot especially you know for me too, 68 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 4: like a sort of critical positioning, like, well, let's see 69 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 4: what pans out in court. But this is not a 70 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 4: good look for this dude. 71 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:32,920 Speaker 3: This is now his like third or fourth controversial sort 72 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:33,920 Speaker 3: of thing that he's tied up in. 73 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 4: And you know, just coming from a perspective of the 74 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 4: tennis media, there hasn't been a lot of conversation about it. 75 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 4: Do you think everyone's kind of taking a wait and 76 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 4: see look about it? 77 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, obviously, look, it's like with anything. I mean, 78 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 2: you know, some people are taking when you see the 79 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 2: me too movements and what we're seeing in media of light, 80 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 2: you know a lot of people have sort of lost 81 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 2: their jobs quickly. A lot of people haven't waited to 82 00:03:56,760 --> 00:03:59,120 Speaker 2: see if someone is found guilty or they're just sort 83 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 2: of this is enough for us. So at the present moment, 84 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 2: as we speak here at the Ludlow House in New York, 85 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 2: he is on suspension from the Tennis Channel or has 86 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 2: taken a leave of absence the ATP board, I believe, 87 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 2: of discussing on what they're going to do. And you know, 88 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:17,279 Speaker 2: by the time this airs, things could change as well. 89 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:20,799 Speaker 2: So you know, from my standpoint, yeah, obviously, being a colleague, 90 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 2: and obviously being in that situation, you would want at 91 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 2: least to have your time in the court at least 92 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 2: to have your voice be heard. And until that happens, 93 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 2: we'll see. As I said, he's quite a polarizing figure 94 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 2: to a lot of people, so sometimes people like that, 95 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:38,279 Speaker 2: a lot of people want to bring you down and 96 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 2: a lot of people want to support you. So when 97 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:41,520 Speaker 2: it comes to justin, we'll see what happens. 98 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:44,280 Speaker 4: We in fact, that racket did some initial digging into 99 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:47,719 Speaker 4: you know, some court people work in the Santa Monica 100 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:50,200 Speaker 4: Cleric's office, just kind of trying to sniff around to 101 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 4: see what his story was because we heard, you know, 102 00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 4: through a lot of whisper networks that there was a 103 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:56,039 Speaker 4: lot going on behind the scenes with this guy. 104 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 2: And you know, hey, that's why you're the journalist in 105 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:00,160 Speaker 2: this group and I'm just the mouthp. 106 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 4: Well it's also why we haven't come out with anything, 107 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:03,920 Speaker 4: because we don't have that much that's substantiated. 108 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 2: And then hearing this, you don't want to be fake newsboy. 109 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:09,239 Speaker 3: Fake news exactly right. I don't want to go out. 110 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 4: We would never want to you know, cast aspersions or 111 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 4: make a statement that was not defensible by the facts, 112 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:15,720 Speaker 4: but it seems like a lot of people are kind 113 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:17,840 Speaker 4: of sitting on some interesting stories and anecdotes. 114 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:18,839 Speaker 3: So we'll see what happens. 115 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 2: Well, I know you're rubbing your hands together and you're 116 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 2: dying to hear what happens in the future because that's 117 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:25,359 Speaker 2: your journalistic exampoint coming out. And you me, I'm just 118 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:27,600 Speaker 2: a stupid tennis player who does a podcast kind of knows. 119 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:28,719 Speaker 2: So we'll see what happens. 120 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 3: Let's see what happens. 121 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 4: Okay, Now onto sunny air topics. You had a fantastic 122 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:37,200 Speaker 4: sit down in Chicago with the current coach of Slan Stevens, 123 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:40,840 Speaker 4: a fantastic Grand Slam winning coach now, Kamal Murray, who 124 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 4: you have known for a couple of years. Talk a 125 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 4: little bit about how you got there, how you guys 126 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:45,160 Speaker 4: know each other. 127 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:48,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, we became friends because I was sharing 128 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:50,919 Speaker 2: an apartment at Wimbledon a number of years ago with 129 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 2: Billy jin King and Alana Class and I told Billy 130 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 2: and Alana that I was moving to Chicago, and the 131 00:05:56,760 --> 00:05:59,280 Speaker 2: first thing that they said to me was you. Billy 132 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:01,279 Speaker 2: said to Mela, is a little bit more relaxed than 133 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 2: Billy but Billy said, you move in to Chicago, you 134 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 2: got to meet him out, gotta meet Kamaal Murray. Do 135 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:08,479 Speaker 2: you know Kamal Murray's And I said, no, I don't 136 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 2: know who Kamaal Murray's. And at the time he was 137 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 2: coaching Taylor Towns and so he was out on the 138 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:13,280 Speaker 2: tour a little bit. But she said, you got to 139 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:15,159 Speaker 2: meet him. Ou you know, he's building his tennis facility 140 00:06:15,160 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 2: on the South Side to go and he's trying to 141 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 2: raise all this money. And this is how Billy talks, 142 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:21,600 Speaker 2: just so everybody knows it. And I said no. She goes, 143 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 2: I'll introduce you. You got to meet come out, and 144 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:26,720 Speaker 2: I literally ran into Camal at the transport area at 145 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:29,040 Speaker 2: the US Open that same year. So Wimbledon cut to 146 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:32,040 Speaker 2: three months later, US Open. I see camel and I 147 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 2: walk up to him and say, hey, come out, and 148 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:35,600 Speaker 2: I'm Renee Stubs. He goes, yeah, I know who you are. 149 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:38,840 Speaker 2: I said, listen, Billy Jean King says, I'm moving to 150 00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:40,720 Speaker 2: Chicago and I got to know you, and here's the 151 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 2: reasons why. And he was like, amazing, great, Can I 152 00:06:44,680 --> 00:06:47,480 Speaker 2: take you to fundraising lunches? Can I pretty much abuse 153 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:49,160 Speaker 2: and to use you as much as possible to raise 154 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:50,680 Speaker 2: as much money as possible. 155 00:06:51,160 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 1: And so we did. 156 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 2: We went to a lot of lunches together and I 157 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 2: tried my best. You know, he had already done so 158 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:58,320 Speaker 2: much by that stage, but you know, getting a few 159 00:06:58,360 --> 00:06:59,840 Speaker 2: more people to sign checks I did. I spent a 160 00:06:59,880 --> 00:07:01,720 Speaker 2: lot of time going down to the South Side at 161 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:04,840 Speaker 2: his old facility, which was a dump. And he will 162 00:07:04,839 --> 00:07:06,479 Speaker 2: tell you it was a dump. Literally the lights were 163 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:08,120 Speaker 2: going out and go come out. I can't see anything 164 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 2: when I'm hitting out here. He goes, We're leaving here soon. 165 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 2: But you know, he managed to get about seventeen million 166 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 2: dollars of philanthropy money from a lot of amazing people 167 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:20,960 Speaker 2: in Chicago to build this incredible tennis facility on the 168 00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 2: South Side, Excess Tennis Village that is an educational and 169 00:07:24,720 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 2: tennis facility. It's you know, it's one of the things 170 00:07:27,200 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 2: that you'll find out it's it's not only tennis, but 171 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 2: it's also educational. They use the Tough Program, which is 172 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:36,800 Speaker 2: also something that I represent an m an ambassador for, 173 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 2: which is a life skills program. You know, and if 174 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 2: you've been to the South Side, they need places like 175 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 2: this to make these kids feel safe, to give them 176 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 2: some kind of place to aspire to be a tennis spier, 177 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 2: and also his biggest goal is to get them to 178 00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 2: go to college. 179 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 4: And what impressed me so much about this conversation you 180 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 4: guys had and clearly you had so much shared history, 181 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 4: And there's something really profound about understanding someone in their 182 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:03,280 Speaker 4: vision and their backstory and their own personal sort of 183 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 4: motivations and then when they choose to put that into 184 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 4: action and create a vision for something larger. And it 185 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 4: seems like, based not only on what he's managed to 186 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:15,720 Speaker 4: achieve with help from wonderful people in Chicago yourself, from 187 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 4: his own experience growing up as a kid playing tennis 188 00:08:19,280 --> 00:08:21,960 Speaker 4: and having access to other people in his community, that's 189 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 4: obviously very meaningful. 190 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, listen, I mean he was very serious. Yeah, I 191 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 2: just want to preface that he's very serious in this conversation, 192 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 2: and you know, I think he's search and he understands 193 00:08:33,440 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 2: the importance of his voice. Yeah, but you know, away 194 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:38,079 Speaker 2: from that, because I had dinner with him that night, 195 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 2: he's very different. You know, he's drops the F bomb 196 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:41,839 Speaker 2: every now and again, which he managed to not do it. 197 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:46,200 Speaker 2: I think through the whole thing but you know, he's 198 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 2: a real person. But I think when he talks and 199 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:50,920 Speaker 2: he is talking about his foundation and when he's talking 200 00:08:50,960 --> 00:08:53,440 Speaker 2: about things that are important to him, he's very serious 201 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:55,719 Speaker 2: because it means so much to him. And obviously you'll 202 00:08:55,720 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 2: find out Kamal is a great guy and he's changing 203 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:01,199 Speaker 2: the dynamic of tennis in Chicago, but he's also changing 204 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:03,959 Speaker 2: the dynamic of coaching around the world. He's one of 205 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:04,760 Speaker 2: my best friends, and. 206 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 3: I love the guy and he's a great, great, thoughtful tiger. 207 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 3: All right, enjoy our interview with Camal Murray. 208 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 1: All right, So here I. 209 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:20,920 Speaker 2: Am in Chicago, and I've been joined by one of 210 00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:22,959 Speaker 2: the best coaches and actually off the coach of the 211 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 2: years here, Camal Murray, and we're at his Southside tennis 212 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 2: facility called Excess Tennis Village, which we'll get into and 213 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:33,439 Speaker 2: explain a little bit more about that. But come out, 214 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:35,199 Speaker 2: hey man, thanks to one of my best friends. So 215 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 2: thanks for joining me for this episode of the Racket 216 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:38,199 Speaker 2: Magazine podcast. 217 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:39,079 Speaker 5: Thanks for having me. 218 00:09:39,320 --> 00:09:42,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, so come out, all right, So let's face it. 219 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 2: You're the black kid growing up in the South side 220 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:47,560 Speaker 2: of Chicago. How in God's green Earth did you get 221 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:48,439 Speaker 2: into tennis. 222 00:09:49,320 --> 00:09:51,360 Speaker 5: So I was seven years old. 223 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 1: My parents took forty young men to Africa. Actually, my 224 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 1: my brother's AAU team took them to Senegal for like 225 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:02,400 Speaker 1: in exchange, where they played against the Senegalese national team. 226 00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:04,559 Speaker 5: I was obviously seven years. 227 00:10:04,400 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 1: Old, and it needed that drugged me along because they 228 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:08,160 Speaker 1: couldn't leave me here in the States for ten days. 229 00:10:08,600 --> 00:10:10,640 Speaker 1: So when we came back, it was July twenty seventh, 230 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:14,079 Speaker 1: and all the summer came from full except for a 231 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:16,920 Speaker 1: tennis camp. Naturally, in my community, no one wanted to 232 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 1: play tennis, so that was the only one at the 233 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 1: end of the summer that still had some open enrollment. 234 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:23,959 Speaker 1: So my mom was at a high school principal, so 235 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:25,360 Speaker 1: she used to work in the summer, and my dad 236 00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:27,400 Speaker 1: was an attorney, so he had to work, you know, 237 00:10:27,480 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 1: three hundred and sixty five days a year. 238 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 5: So they needed someplace to stash me until school started. 239 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 1: And so the tennis program, we were driving down eighty 240 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:38,439 Speaker 1: seventh and Jeffrey and my mom saw the tennis court. 241 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:40,960 Speaker 1: So my uncle used to play and he said how 242 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:42,760 Speaker 1: much for the rest of the summer, And the guy said, 243 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 1: it's twelve bucks for the rest of the summer, and 244 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:47,400 Speaker 1: she said, boy, get out, and so she literally kicked 245 00:10:47,400 --> 00:10:49,559 Speaker 1: me out the car right kicking and screaming. I was 246 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:51,240 Speaker 1: crying like, I can't play tennis. I don't want to 247 00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:54,559 Speaker 1: play tennis. How am I going to get home? You know, 248 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 1: I get beat up in my neighborhood if they found 249 00:10:56,200 --> 00:10:59,000 Speaker 1: out I played tennis. You know, this is you know, 250 00:10:59,120 --> 00:11:01,559 Speaker 1: not a cool sport. But it was convenient babysitting for 251 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:03,599 Speaker 1: my mother. So at the time, it was out of 252 00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:07,960 Speaker 1: pure convenience. That's it. That's it. No aspirations of being 253 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 1: a tennis player, no interest, just convenient baby city. So 254 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 1: what happened, So the convenient baby city continued. So I 255 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:17,640 Speaker 1: was a basketball player of until that point. You know, 256 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 1: I played at the YMCA. My brother's six foot nine 257 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:22,760 Speaker 1: played basketball to Paul. My dad six foot five, played 258 00:11:22,800 --> 00:11:25,439 Speaker 1: basketball in college as well, and Norm Vali where was 259 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 1: the best man in his wedding. So basketball was in 260 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:29,800 Speaker 1: my jeans. And so obviously if you're in a tennis 261 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 1: court with a bunch of kids who probably did not 262 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 1: all make the basketball team, you're the best athlete out there. 263 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 1: So at the end of the summer, the tennis coach 264 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 1: told my mother that this kid has potential, and he 265 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:43,480 Speaker 1: informed her about a free program that was a mile 266 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:46,280 Speaker 1: away from my grammar school. So once again, my mom 267 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 1: gets these great ideas about convenient babysitting. So I had 268 00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:53,319 Speaker 1: three siblings, and so they all played different sports. My 269 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:55,720 Speaker 1: sister played and it was free, and it was free, right. 270 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:59,000 Speaker 1: So my sister played, was a swimmer, my brother played basketball, 271 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 1: and my older sister played. And so if there was 272 00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:05,080 Speaker 1: any program a mile away from my grammar school, then 273 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 1: my mom didn't have to pick me up and could 274 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:08,080 Speaker 1: worry about the other three. 275 00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:09,520 Speaker 5: I was gonna do it. So it could have been 276 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:10,559 Speaker 5: like underwater polo. 277 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:13,560 Speaker 1: And but don't you think that. 278 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:15,880 Speaker 2: Your mom maybe actually thought tennis was a good sport 279 00:12:15,880 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 2: for you. 280 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:19,319 Speaker 1: My mom was an academician, she was she had no 281 00:12:19,559 --> 00:12:22,079 Speaker 1: interest in sports. To this day, she's never seen me 282 00:12:22,080 --> 00:12:25,280 Speaker 1: play a tennis match. So it was literally no interest 283 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:27,880 Speaker 1: at all, no aspiration of being a crazy tennis parent 284 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:30,679 Speaker 1: driving all across the country at the tennis tournament. It 285 00:12:30,840 --> 00:12:33,959 Speaker 1: just was I've got three other kids who played three 286 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:38,000 Speaker 1: different things. My Vovo station wagon is like a route around. 287 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 1: This is one kid that I don't have to worry 288 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:43,240 Speaker 1: about because he can walk here and it's free five 289 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:45,439 Speaker 1: days a week, and so it was a safe place 290 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:48,680 Speaker 1: on the South side Chicago, which there aren't that many. Wow. 291 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 2: So okay, so you get into tennis, she's stopped being 292 00:12:51,200 --> 00:12:53,480 Speaker 2: pretty good actually then and then your mom and dad 293 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 2: are like, hey, maybe we can get a college scholarship 294 00:12:55,840 --> 00:12:58,280 Speaker 2: out of you too, So you're technically being free your 295 00:12:58,320 --> 00:13:00,600 Speaker 2: whole life. Yeah. Yeah, so you got it. You got 296 00:13:00,679 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 2: a tennis scholarship at f correct Florida and L Florida, 297 00:13:04,840 --> 00:13:08,120 Speaker 2: A and L. So how was that experience for you 298 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:08,559 Speaker 2: as well? 299 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:09,640 Speaker 1: It was great. 300 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:09,960 Speaker 4: It was. 301 00:13:12,040 --> 00:13:15,200 Speaker 1: You know, my my parents when I was fourteen, right 302 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:17,320 Speaker 1: and right around fourteen is where all the kids started 303 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:19,960 Speaker 1: getting a little squirrely. They started seeing how tennis kind 304 00:13:19,960 --> 00:13:22,720 Speaker 1: of invade your social life. How do you miss homecoming 305 00:13:22,800 --> 00:13:24,480 Speaker 1: because of a tennis tournament or whatever? 306 00:13:25,160 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 6: Uh. 307 00:13:25,520 --> 00:13:27,800 Speaker 1: And it was about the time where I was like, 308 00:13:28,160 --> 00:13:30,600 Speaker 1: this is cool. I'm pretty good, but I'm not great. 309 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 1: I don't love it. 310 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:35,719 Speaker 5: I just kind of am good at it. And it's 311 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:37,520 Speaker 5: kind of getting the way of hanging out. 312 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:40,719 Speaker 1: After school with the girls, with the girls going to 313 00:13:41,040 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 1: the hair washing library after school and hanging out and 314 00:13:43,080 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 1: pretending to do homework, so you yeah, exactly right. So 315 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:49,920 Speaker 1: then my parents said, well, look, we've all blessed you 316 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 1: with good jeens. My mom was very smart and my 317 00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:53,560 Speaker 1: dad was a great athlete. 318 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:54,680 Speaker 2: All of you all. 319 00:13:56,200 --> 00:13:58,079 Speaker 1: And smart and smart. You know what is he a 320 00:13:58,120 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 1: John By? Yeah? Can he's a smart dude too, but 321 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 1: he's one with the height in the athletics. So he uh, 322 00:14:06,920 --> 00:14:08,839 Speaker 1: you know, he said, you all better find the ball 323 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:10,800 Speaker 1: and hit it, kick it, shoot it, spike it, because 324 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:12,599 Speaker 1: we're not paying for college because we shouldn't have to. 325 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:15,920 Speaker 1: And so although my parents probably could have paid for college, 326 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 1: my older brother at that time was being recruited for basketball, 327 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 1: my oldest sister was being recruited for volleyball. I was 328 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 1: fourteen and sort of indifferent to tennis. And my younger 329 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:28,880 Speaker 1: sister was a superstar swimmer and track star, so she 330 00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:30,480 Speaker 1: was a stay high jump champion in two years in 331 00:14:30,480 --> 00:14:34,600 Speaker 1: a row. So you know, my dad said, you can 332 00:14:34,680 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 1: quit if you want to, but I'm not paying for college. 333 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:39,880 Speaker 1: I'm like two O two for two right now, you're 334 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:42,560 Speaker 1: number three. You better keep it going here, right, uh, 335 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:44,960 Speaker 1: And so I just kept going. And then when I 336 00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:47,400 Speaker 1: was a you know, junior senior in high school. I 337 00:14:47,400 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 1: started getting letters from all types of schools, and you know, 338 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 1: ended up at Florida and m another kid from Chicago 339 00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:55,680 Speaker 1: was the graduate assistant coach there, so there was a 340 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:58,760 Speaker 1: relationship there, and that's how I ended up with family. 341 00:14:58,920 --> 00:15:02,440 Speaker 2: All right, So get to the crux of like why 342 00:15:02,520 --> 00:15:05,720 Speaker 2: we're here today. But you you graduate from school, you 343 00:15:05,840 --> 00:15:08,400 Speaker 2: go to New York. I believe you do pharmaceutical sales. 344 00:15:08,920 --> 00:15:11,080 Speaker 1: You enjoying that. 345 00:15:11,200 --> 00:15:13,160 Speaker 2: You come back to Chicago, and this is kind of 346 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:15,200 Speaker 2: where everything changed for you. You came back here and 347 00:15:15,640 --> 00:15:15,920 Speaker 2: did what. 348 00:15:16,840 --> 00:15:19,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I came home right about this time, you know, 349 00:15:19,640 --> 00:15:21,440 Speaker 1: Christmas season to visit my parents. I was living in 350 00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 1: New York and the old facility where I learned to 351 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:25,840 Speaker 1: play have been taken over by another. 352 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:28,600 Speaker 5: Club operator, and what used to be a place. 353 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:31,840 Speaker 1: That had tons of minority kids with free and affordable 354 00:15:31,920 --> 00:15:40,280 Speaker 1: programming was now sort of underutilized, underpopulated prices through the roof, 355 00:15:41,520 --> 00:15:45,320 Speaker 1: not the pricing structure could not be supported by the neighborhood. 356 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:47,360 Speaker 1: And so you know, I stayed home for a weekend, 357 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 1: hung out, went back. I was on my United flight 358 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:54,400 Speaker 1: drinking a jack and coke, and I had well. 359 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:55,800 Speaker 2: That's big time for you, because I know you don't 360 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:58,440 Speaker 2: drink jack and coke anymore more about the fruity drinks. 361 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:01,720 Speaker 5: So I had this bright idea. 362 00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:03,640 Speaker 1: I said, you know, I'm going to buy out the 363 00:16:03,720 --> 00:16:08,080 Speaker 1: current operator and like, you know, restart the program. And 364 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:11,160 Speaker 1: you know, went back to work obviously in New York, 365 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:12,960 Speaker 1: called my parents and said, hey, I want to buy 366 00:16:13,040 --> 00:16:15,680 Speaker 1: out you know, the current operator at the old club. 367 00:16:15,800 --> 00:16:17,360 Speaker 1: I want to make it like it was. I want 368 00:16:17,400 --> 00:16:20,440 Speaker 1: to have free tennis. I want to have affordable private lessons. 369 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:22,560 Speaker 1: I want to have affordable groups. I want to have 370 00:16:22,640 --> 00:16:26,000 Speaker 1: this melting pot of black, white, Asian, Hispanic all who 371 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:28,960 Speaker 1: used to come here and just hang out, you know, tutoring, mentoring, 372 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 1: all these other things that I think helped me sort of, 373 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:35,520 Speaker 1: you know, get through life and stay out of trouble. 374 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:38,680 Speaker 1: And you know, I was very much a kid in 375 00:16:38,760 --> 00:16:41,760 Speaker 1: the middle middle child or a middle class family in 376 00:16:41,800 --> 00:16:48,000 Speaker 1: the middle class neighborhood, and without sort of clear direction, 377 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:49,920 Speaker 1: I didn't know what I wanted to be in life. 378 00:16:49,960 --> 00:16:53,520 Speaker 1: And so that kid could easily go the other way, right, 379 00:16:53,600 --> 00:16:57,480 Speaker 1: And so tennis helped me continue to move forward as 380 00:16:57,560 --> 00:17:00,520 Speaker 1: opposed to going backwards. And so went to create a 381 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:04,040 Speaker 1: safe haven where people could come and all move forward together. 382 00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:07,960 Speaker 1: And you know, got the courage to do it. Took 383 00:17:08,000 --> 00:17:10,399 Speaker 1: a loan from my parents. Right Wait, wait, hold on 384 00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:10,879 Speaker 1: a second. 385 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:13,000 Speaker 2: You went to your mom and said that, and she 386 00:17:13,119 --> 00:17:13,920 Speaker 2: said yeah. 387 00:17:13,960 --> 00:17:15,560 Speaker 1: She's like, boy, you out of your mind. She said, 388 00:17:15,560 --> 00:17:18,840 Speaker 1: I'm two years from retirement. I don't have X amount 389 00:17:18,880 --> 00:17:21,280 Speaker 1: of dollars to give you. You know the houses I 390 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 1: got only on twenty grand on my house. Good luck, right? Uh? 391 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:26,600 Speaker 1: And then my dad called me a couple of days later, said, hey, 392 00:17:26,640 --> 00:17:28,760 Speaker 1: I talked to your mom. She told me what you 393 00:17:28,880 --> 00:17:31,000 Speaker 1: want to do. I think you're out of your mind, 394 00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:33,880 Speaker 1: but I'll refinance the house and loan you the money, 395 00:17:34,359 --> 00:17:38,000 Speaker 1: but I need it all back, right, And you know, 396 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 1: my mom again called me and says, yeah, I know 397 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:40,359 Speaker 1: you and your dad. 398 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:40,760 Speaker 5: Had a conversation. 399 00:17:40,840 --> 00:17:42,960 Speaker 1: She said, I just want to know I didn't have 400 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 1: to pay for you to play tennis. Why do I 401 00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:47,040 Speaker 1: have to pay for other peopil's kids to play tennis. 402 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:50,399 Speaker 1: I was like, well, it's an investment, you get it 403 00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:53,720 Speaker 1: all back, it's something good for the community. You know, 404 00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:56,879 Speaker 1: we should do it, you know whatever, right, And so 405 00:17:58,359 --> 00:18:00,000 Speaker 1: she was like, okay, fine, So the refinance the house 406 00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 1: was loaning to money. Thank God paid them all back 407 00:18:03,760 --> 00:18:10,240 Speaker 1: six months later. And yeah, well they got all their 408 00:18:10,280 --> 00:18:13,359 Speaker 1: money back, so I'm out of debt from them. The 409 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:17,880 Speaker 1: excess tennis has paid off its startup capital, and we're 410 00:18:17,880 --> 00:18:19,360 Speaker 1: in a good shape now. And now we moved into 411 00:18:19,440 --> 00:18:22,479 Speaker 1: a twenty seventeen million dollar facility twenties at the courts. 412 00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:25,480 Speaker 2: But okay, okay, but what gave you the impotence to 413 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:27,200 Speaker 2: think that you could do what you've done, which was 414 00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:31,760 Speaker 2: rise seventeen million dollars approximately, right to build one of 415 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:33,800 Speaker 2: the biggest tennis facilities in the world. 416 00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:35,679 Speaker 5: Yeah, other than big balls. 417 00:18:36,080 --> 00:18:36,399 Speaker 4: You know what. 418 00:18:36,520 --> 00:18:40,920 Speaker 1: It's funny, you know, from where I was in life, 419 00:18:41,359 --> 00:18:42,960 Speaker 1: I didn't really have anything to protect. 420 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 5: I wasn't wealthy. 421 00:18:44,600 --> 00:18:46,920 Speaker 1: I was making one hundred and ten grand you know, 422 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:49,440 Speaker 1: my current job, which you know, in the grand scheme 423 00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:51,800 Speaker 1: of things, it's not great. 424 00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 5: In New York, right, in New York, right, it's not great. 425 00:18:55,040 --> 00:18:57,159 Speaker 2: We're married by this time, I was still single. 426 00:18:57,920 --> 00:19:00,840 Speaker 1: Still single, no kids, right, which I also makes you 427 00:19:00,960 --> 00:19:04,800 Speaker 1: very brave. I think that you know, a lot of 428 00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:07,320 Speaker 1: times people, you know, we kind of go through life 429 00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:10,040 Speaker 1: and we try to protect our position. We protect where 430 00:19:10,080 --> 00:19:12,439 Speaker 1: we are, We protect we live this very safe career. 431 00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:13,679 Speaker 2: The unknown it is scary. 432 00:19:13,880 --> 00:19:16,440 Speaker 1: Unknown is scary, and for me it was like, I'm 433 00:19:16,520 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 1: kind of at the bottom already. I don't have anything 434 00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:22,560 Speaker 1: to protect. I mean, I'm from nothing right and the 435 00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 1: only thing I can do is go up. So you 436 00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:26,960 Speaker 1: know what I was though, I will say is that 437 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:30,280 Speaker 1: being from Chicago and doing the right thing my entire life. 438 00:19:30,359 --> 00:19:33,359 Speaker 1: I had a great support system, right, and I grew 439 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:36,240 Speaker 1: up in a family that was used to things going right. 440 00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:40,200 Speaker 1: I was used to seeing people start things and finish things. 441 00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:43,000 Speaker 1: My mom had the attitude, if I'm going to be involved, 442 00:19:43,080 --> 00:19:45,200 Speaker 1: it is going to work and it's going to be successful. 443 00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:48,560 Speaker 1: So I had that level of courage. I had also 444 00:19:48,640 --> 00:19:54,920 Speaker 1: had great mentors like Les Coney or Mary Emmanuel or 445 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:59,600 Speaker 1: James Bell or John Rogers or Robbie Robinson, who I said, 446 00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:00,359 Speaker 1: you know what, all. 447 00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:03,040 Speaker 2: Great entrepreneurs and great business minds of Chicago. 448 00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:06,919 Speaker 1: Yes, all very prominent business people in Chicago, African American guys. 449 00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:13,240 Speaker 1: And you know when you have those people around you, A, 450 00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:15,840 Speaker 1: you know they won't let you fail, right, but B 451 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:20,679 Speaker 1: you know that with them behind you, it's going to succeed. Right, 452 00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:24,720 Speaker 1: because they have the financial wherewithal, they have their relationships, 453 00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:28,160 Speaker 1: they have the mindset to challenge you to keep making 454 00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 1: sure you're making the right idea. 455 00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:30,520 Speaker 5: Of the right moves forward. 456 00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:33,320 Speaker 1: And so I think that, you know, a growing up 457 00:20:33,359 --> 00:20:36,920 Speaker 1: in a household where the expectations success was the expectation 458 00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:39,800 Speaker 1: taught me to say, Hey, I'm gonna do this, and 459 00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:42,560 Speaker 1: when I started something I expected to work right, and 460 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:45,359 Speaker 1: I'm not going to stop until it does. Be having 461 00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:48,360 Speaker 1: to support of some key individuals, you know, like Peenny Pritzker, 462 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:51,680 Speaker 1: you know, Don Edwards, and the list goes on and on, 463 00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:53,120 Speaker 1: Billy Jean, yourself. 464 00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:56,200 Speaker 5: So I saw them all the family Melody hops. 465 00:20:56,240 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 1: I had a lot of. 466 00:20:57,080 --> 00:21:00,359 Speaker 5: People here who was like, you know, I guess some 467 00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:01,440 Speaker 5: pretty good supporters. 468 00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:04,600 Speaker 1: If this doesn't work with that line up of supporters, 469 00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:07,119 Speaker 1: it won't work anywhere, right, And so that kind of 470 00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:09,520 Speaker 1: gave me the courage and the confidence to kind of 471 00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:10,080 Speaker 1: go forward. 472 00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:14,280 Speaker 2: Okay, So you're literally in the middle of building, as 473 00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:16,360 Speaker 2: I said, one of the great tennis facilities, and if 474 00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:18,639 Speaker 2: people are out there that come to Chicago, you need 475 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:20,720 Speaker 2: to come to this facility and check it out, if anything, 476 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:24,280 Speaker 2: and see what it's doing. But you also, as that 477 00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:27,240 Speaker 2: was all happening, you decided to take a full time 478 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:31,280 Speaker 2: coaching role with Sloan Stevens. So I mean the juggling 479 00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:33,159 Speaker 2: that you were doing that and how difficult was that 480 00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:36,080 Speaker 2: because you just said that when you do it, essentially 481 00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:39,280 Speaker 2: saying when you do something, you want to do it excellently. Right, 482 00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:43,720 Speaker 2: So you're doing this amazing program, You're building this incredible facility, 483 00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:45,760 Speaker 2: so you want to do the excellence behind it, and 484 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:48,120 Speaker 2: I know you you sleep like two hours of fucking night, 485 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:51,320 Speaker 2: which is like insane. But then you take on Sloan, 486 00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:54,200 Speaker 2: So what was the juggling act like for you? 487 00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:57,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, so initially and we were already under construction, right, 488 00:21:57,800 --> 00:21:59,880 Speaker 1: we were just walking around and you know, in Chicago, 489 00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:01,680 Speaker 1: construction Chicago's hard. 490 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:08,280 Speaker 5: Whether it is tough, there are always hurdles. 491 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:12,280 Speaker 1: There are always political issues that need to be constantly monitored, 492 00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:16,600 Speaker 1: the community engagement that needs to happen, you know, on 493 00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:20,639 Speaker 1: a consistent basis. And you know, there was a lot 494 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:26,440 Speaker 1: of criticism actually for not stepping away but traveling so much, 495 00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:30,320 Speaker 1: committing to a very intense travel schedule. But I think 496 00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:33,720 Speaker 1: that the people didn't understand that this was actually could 497 00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:36,000 Speaker 1: be a great complimentary thing to what we're doing. It 498 00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:40,160 Speaker 1: could be a great example. Working with Sloan would be great. 499 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:43,920 Speaker 1: It would be great to take the mission here, give 500 00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:48,280 Speaker 1: it a global platform with a very talented player, a 501 00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:54,080 Speaker 1: very charismatic player, one who was also African American, one 502 00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:56,840 Speaker 1: who was very philanthropic and had a great heart for kids, 503 00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:04,680 Speaker 1: could personally, as me, being the figurehead behind excess, could 504 00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:06,440 Speaker 1: get rid of this notion like, oh, he's just a 505 00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:09,399 Speaker 1: good south side coach. Yeah right, Oh he's building a 506 00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:11,639 Speaker 1: community center, because that's not what we were building. We 507 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:13,440 Speaker 1: were trying to be one of the best places to 508 00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:16,680 Speaker 1: play tennis in the country that just so happened to 509 00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:19,240 Speaker 1: be located on the south side of Chicago, And so 510 00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:22,320 Speaker 1: early on people were reducing what we were doing to oh, 511 00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:23,680 Speaker 1: he's building tennis YMCA. 512 00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:26,760 Speaker 5: I was like, guys, come on, I think I'm. 513 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:30,200 Speaker 1: A pretty good coach. I think I have great mentors 514 00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:33,480 Speaker 1: and great people. I talked to Xena Garrison, Beijing King Renett, 515 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:35,080 Speaker 1: I mean a lot of people I talked to. It's like, 516 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:37,879 Speaker 1: we're not just building YMCA, right. So I think working 517 00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:42,800 Speaker 1: with Sloan helped sort of elevate your status, my status 518 00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:43,800 Speaker 1: which also. 519 00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:45,479 Speaker 5: Helps people believe more in the program. 520 00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:48,840 Speaker 1: Right, And so I always knew it was complimentary because 521 00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:50,359 Speaker 1: I was connecting all the dots where I think the 522 00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:52,720 Speaker 1: people who were criticizing it earlier, like oh my god, 523 00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:54,959 Speaker 1: he's not committed, or he's kind of stepping away, they 524 00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:56,159 Speaker 1: weren't really connecting it. 525 00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:57,440 Speaker 5: I think now they all get it. 526 00:23:58,440 --> 00:23:59,840 Speaker 2: But how stressful was that time for you? 527 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,800 Speaker 5: That's very stressful. But you know, I've learned you just gotta. 528 00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:04,440 Speaker 2: Hey, listen, you gotta work. 529 00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:06,520 Speaker 1: You gotta work. I've learned you got to just keep going, 530 00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:09,680 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So you gotta keep going, 531 00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:13,359 Speaker 1: and you gotta just you know, trust that you know 532 00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:16,680 Speaker 1: all the dots to connect because Tenna is like a 533 00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:19,600 Speaker 1: very small fraternity. There aren't a lot of people who. 534 00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:21,800 Speaker 5: Played tennis on the South Side in the Inner City program. 535 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:26,280 Speaker 1: Went to college, still has a relationships with went to 536 00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:30,000 Speaker 1: work in Corporate America. Right has a relationship with tennis legends, Scilica. 537 00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:33,080 Speaker 1: Get all the Things at Play, has that context of 538 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:37,480 Speaker 1: the black history in tennis from you know, my old facility. 539 00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:40,400 Speaker 1: Xena Garrison used to come to Arthur Ash came to Vence, 540 00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:43,240 Speaker 1: and Serena came to Margina as lower came to Pam 541 00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:45,600 Speaker 1: Sriver's been there. So there was a lot of things 542 00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:47,600 Speaker 1: that we're trying to kind of put together in this 543 00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:51,080 Speaker 1: big pot of gumbo, where I think someone who doesn't 544 00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:53,240 Speaker 1: have that perspective really didn't totally get and was hard 545 00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:55,720 Speaker 1: for him to understand. But I think now everyone is 546 00:24:55,760 --> 00:25:00,440 Speaker 1: crystal clear on why taking the job was important. A 547 00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:04,200 Speaker 1: people also forget I'd left a full time job to 548 00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:06,480 Speaker 1: get into the philanthropic world, right, and. 549 00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:07,359 Speaker 5: Also had a family. 550 00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:11,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I and when I had Sloan, I was 551 00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:14,120 Speaker 1: my my wife is pregnant, you know, the first kid. 552 00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:17,000 Speaker 1: So there's also like, you know, I also have things 553 00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:19,359 Speaker 1: personally that I want to achieve. I have people I 554 00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:22,359 Speaker 1: have to take care of, and this sort of facility's 555 00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:24,760 Speaker 1: program is my gift to the community, but it doesn't 556 00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:27,840 Speaker 1: necessarily pay my bills, right, And so in that spirit, 557 00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:30,400 Speaker 1: it was also a great, you know, a great opportunity. 558 00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:32,800 Speaker 2: So you go on the rovers line, you start working 559 00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:37,520 Speaker 2: with her, you have a great start to your teamwork together, 560 00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:40,880 Speaker 2: and then she gets injured for a period of time. 561 00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:45,679 Speaker 2: You come back and how give us a little bit 562 00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:48,399 Speaker 2: of background into those couple of months and you know, 563 00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:50,400 Speaker 2: the culmination obviously winning the US Open. 564 00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:51,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, how crazy. 565 00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:52,680 Speaker 5: Well, it was more than a couple of months. 566 00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:55,840 Speaker 1: It was eleven months, right, And I think for the 567 00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:57,680 Speaker 1: first three or four I mean she literally was in 568 00:25:57,760 --> 00:25:59,680 Speaker 1: the boot and couldn't do anything, and so she had, 569 00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:01,680 Speaker 1: you know, a good amount of time for her to 570 00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:04,240 Speaker 1: focus on her foundation, focus on her social life. I mean, 571 00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:07,280 Speaker 1: you know, tennis players give up a lot of their childhood, 572 00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:09,160 Speaker 1: a lot of things they don't experience because. 573 00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:10,160 Speaker 5: Of constant playing tennis. 574 00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:13,159 Speaker 2: From vacations, trust me, I get it. 575 00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:15,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, and Sloan graduated from college during that time. 576 00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:16,320 Speaker 1: Yep. 577 00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:19,120 Speaker 5: So you know, to her credit, she used that time wisely. 578 00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:21,640 Speaker 1: And so it was like probably three or four months 579 00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:24,359 Speaker 1: were we didn't even speak, right, and then you know, 580 00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:26,440 Speaker 1: about the fifth moment, we started getting touched, start watching, 581 00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:28,240 Speaker 1: you know, talking about things that are having on tour, 582 00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:30,760 Speaker 1: cracking jokes, making fun of people, you know, sort of 583 00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:34,479 Speaker 1: re engaging and checking back into the professional tennis world. Right, 584 00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:37,440 Speaker 1: and then starts getting clear to okay, you can do 585 00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:40,440 Speaker 1: non weight bearing. Okay, now you can do weight bearing, 586 00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:42,600 Speaker 1: but no movement, right, and so sort of a process 587 00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:45,080 Speaker 1: and for me as a coach, you know, I'm probably 588 00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:46,800 Speaker 1: one of the few people to coach on tour and 589 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:50,240 Speaker 1: also coach five year olds. It was a great opportunity 590 00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:56,000 Speaker 1: for me to actually teach right as opposed to just coaching. Okay, 591 00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:58,000 Speaker 1: this is a cross course doing two on one, let's 592 00:26:58,000 --> 00:26:59,919 Speaker 1: do up and back, let's do all the surf plus one. 593 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:01,280 Speaker 5: You know, that's coaching, right. 594 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:03,640 Speaker 1: It was a good opportunity when we have someone where 595 00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:06,159 Speaker 1: they can't move and they have to sit there and 596 00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:10,800 Speaker 1: listen to you, especially especially Slune right and especially me right. 597 00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:13,040 Speaker 1: I can be hard to be around on tennis courts sometimes, right, 598 00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:15,600 Speaker 1: So we were sort of trapped together, and I thought 599 00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:17,960 Speaker 1: that was a good time for her to actually slow 600 00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:22,000 Speaker 1: down and improve on some things. And I think that 601 00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:26,480 Speaker 1: is why she's a different player now, because the eleven 602 00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:29,560 Speaker 1: months gave her and I an opportunity each other's, you know, 603 00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:31,800 Speaker 1: dissect a game a little bit. Let's dissect and let's 604 00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:35,160 Speaker 1: isolate a few things, work long in a very patient, 605 00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:39,640 Speaker 1: methodical manner, because we're not preparing for Rome in two weeks, right, 606 00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:40,800 Speaker 1: and let's do it. 607 00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:45,040 Speaker 2: And I think were you shocked when she played as 608 00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:48,280 Speaker 2: well as she did in Canada and then Cincinnati. We're like, oh, 609 00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:51,400 Speaker 2: this is great because she had to battle. Okay, back 610 00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:53,320 Speaker 2: up a little bit. What was a part of that 611 00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:55,720 Speaker 2: period of time, because I know for me what I saw, 612 00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:57,560 Speaker 2: But what do you think the period of time was 613 00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:02,960 Speaker 2: in that month period of Cincinnati and in Canada? 614 00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:07,320 Speaker 1: What did you see differently? Well, let's be clear, when 615 00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:13,600 Speaker 1: we started working together in November of fifteen, right, she 616 00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:20,320 Speaker 1: won Okland in January six and she won Charleston, which 617 00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:23,960 Speaker 1: is a premiere, right, and so she had already started 618 00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:27,200 Speaker 1: to kind of learn how to win, right, and learn 619 00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:29,480 Speaker 1: how to finish matches and learn how to put a 620 00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:35,480 Speaker 1: whole week together. Right. And so I think if you 621 00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:37,960 Speaker 1: look at her the past three years for her, you 622 00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:40,320 Speaker 1: can't A lot of people look at it from you know, 623 00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:42,320 Speaker 1: Canada to the US or to now. 624 00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:42,840 Speaker 4: Right. 625 00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:46,400 Speaker 1: I look at it at January to let's say, March. 626 00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:50,520 Speaker 1: Then you get injured, right, and then we restart again 627 00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:51,160 Speaker 1: and we pick up. 628 00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:52,000 Speaker 5: So I think what you. 629 00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:56,800 Speaker 1: See in Canada is sort of sloan learning how to 630 00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:58,960 Speaker 1: win over the past year and a half, but now 631 00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:02,800 Speaker 1: with a few more tools, right now hitting the ball 632 00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:03,320 Speaker 1: lot cleaner. 633 00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:06,280 Speaker 2: Is it learning the tools as you said you talked, 634 00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:11,800 Speaker 2: But is it also having a better appreciation of her 635 00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:14,880 Speaker 2: life a little bit as well, So she she learned 636 00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:17,120 Speaker 2: how to win. She won, you know, particularly Charleston was 637 00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:18,440 Speaker 2: a big tournament for her to win, and then she 638 00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:21,440 Speaker 2: gets injured. So at that moment, she's learned how to 639 00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:23,160 Speaker 2: win big tournaments. She's learned how to win a lot 640 00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:25,440 Speaker 2: of big matches under pressure, and then the game was 641 00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:28,240 Speaker 2: taken away from her a little bit. So do you 642 00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:30,840 Speaker 2: think that they're also for Sligine in particular she learned 643 00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:34,560 Speaker 2: that she loved the game as well, and did that 644 00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:39,640 Speaker 2: was that the extra impotence to win the you know, 645 00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:41,360 Speaker 2: do as well as she did in Canada and sincey 646 00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:43,120 Speaker 2: and then eventually went that you was open, so she 647 00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:45,520 Speaker 2: already had the base that you had worked on her with. 648 00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:51,040 Speaker 2: And then sometimes it's the real total desire, right is 649 00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:53,880 Speaker 2: the next step? Do you think that she learned maybe 650 00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:56,320 Speaker 2: something when she when the game was essentially taken away 651 00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:57,680 Speaker 2: from her and you don't know, Hey, you don't know 652 00:29:57,680 --> 00:29:59,760 Speaker 2: how you're going to recover after a major injury. 653 00:29:59,800 --> 00:29:59,960 Speaker 4: Life. 654 00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:09,520 Speaker 2: Um, it's kind of scary, you know, because really tennis 655 00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:12,440 Speaker 2: is so much about that little bit of passion. Okay, 656 00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:14,720 Speaker 2: when when the shit hits the fan on the court, 657 00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:17,520 Speaker 2: and you have choices, am I gonna fight really hard? 658 00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:20,360 Speaker 2: And am I gonna dig in or not? And it's 659 00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:22,239 Speaker 2: normal to not dig in all the time because it's 660 00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:24,720 Speaker 2: really bloody hard to be really good. Do you think 661 00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:26,120 Speaker 2: that that sort of helped her a little bit to 662 00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:27,880 Speaker 2: appreciate what. 663 00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:29,920 Speaker 1: She actually was doing for a living? 664 00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:30,960 Speaker 5: Okay? 665 00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:35,120 Speaker 1: You know, I think that you're a. 666 00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,520 Speaker 2: Tough like you're tough, so you're like, yeah, with the 667 00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:40,360 Speaker 2: emotional bullshit. But but you know, think about it from 668 00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:41,480 Speaker 2: that perspective a little bit. 669 00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:43,240 Speaker 1: You know, I'd think this, you don't play tennis your 670 00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:47,320 Speaker 1: entire life because it's very isolated sport. It's a very 671 00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:49,840 Speaker 1: hard sport to be out there by yourself, you know, 672 00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:52,960 Speaker 1: taking all the all the accountability for of the wins. 673 00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:53,960 Speaker 5: And the losses. It's very tough. 674 00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:56,480 Speaker 1: So I think that you don't really get as good 675 00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:59,760 Speaker 1: as she is without loving the sport. I think there 676 00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:05,800 Speaker 1: are are you know, stretches in the tour right and 677 00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:10,280 Speaker 1: moments in your tennis career where it is tough and 678 00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:14,040 Speaker 1: sort of the look and your demeanor, you know, is 679 00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:17,600 Speaker 1: not that it doesn't match right, It doesn't doesn't doesn't 680 00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:19,120 Speaker 1: matter what you feel it doesn't mean you're out of 681 00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:21,160 Speaker 1: love with the sport. It just means you're in a 682 00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:23,240 Speaker 1: tough time. And I think sometimes we take that we 683 00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:26,120 Speaker 1: ever play it. So I think that she always loved 684 00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:29,680 Speaker 1: the sport. I think that it's like people go on 685 00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:32,360 Speaker 1: vacation sometimes you work in corporate America, you take two 686 00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:34,520 Speaker 1: week vacation, you come back in January, and you renewed. 687 00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:37,520 Speaker 1: I think she had an extra long vacation and she 688 00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:41,680 Speaker 1: came back with a renewed love. I don't think she 689 00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:43,440 Speaker 1: ever I don't think she ever not loved tennis. I 690 00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:45,240 Speaker 1: don't think that she was ever fall. 691 00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:46,560 Speaker 2: Through for the fight. 692 00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:48,720 Speaker 1: But it was like love of the fight, and she 693 00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:51,640 Speaker 1: was fresh. You know, she started back that year in July, 694 00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:54,640 Speaker 1: where everybody had played for six months, right, and so 695 00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:57,480 Speaker 1: she also had a fresher body, right, She had a 696 00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:02,360 Speaker 1: fresher perspective, She had taking some time to enjoy her life. 697 00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:05,200 Speaker 1: So she probably was a bit happier because she has 698 00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:09,400 Speaker 1: some freedom and some time to do some normal, normal 699 00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:13,200 Speaker 1: person things. And so I don't know that it was oh, 700 00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:14,480 Speaker 1: the game is taken away from me. 701 00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:15,360 Speaker 5: Now, I appreciate it. 702 00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:18,520 Speaker 1: I think it was like that was probably the longest 703 00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:20,480 Speaker 1: stretch where I really couldn't play a tournament since I 704 00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:23,200 Speaker 1: was seven years old, right, And it was good to 705 00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:25,720 Speaker 1: take that long with vacation, right. I mean, the tennis 706 00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:28,040 Speaker 1: off season is very short, almost too short, right, So 707 00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:30,080 Speaker 1: I don't know, it's not short. 708 00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:32,680 Speaker 2: Were you out of your mind? The tennis is long. 709 00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:37,200 Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, come on, so it's too short. 710 00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:40,160 Speaker 2: The off season too short, the off season too off season. 711 00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:41,080 Speaker 5: Is way too short. 712 00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:44,320 Speaker 1: For his grueling of a tour. Did so, I think 713 00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,440 Speaker 1: that that's what it was. She was fresh, at a 714 00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:49,520 Speaker 1: fresh perspective. She had already started to build some confidence. 715 00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:52,160 Speaker 1: We had had some momentum together, and so I think 716 00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:55,080 Speaker 1: there was because we had those three tournament victories together, 717 00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:58,520 Speaker 1: there was some belief in those teaching times. Okay, he 718 00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:00,400 Speaker 1: knows what he's doing. I'll just do it. I do 719 00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:02,440 Speaker 1: what he says. Right Where they can be tough, because 720 00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:04,440 Speaker 1: sometimes it's hard to get a players twenty three years 721 00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:07,600 Speaker 1: old who's already top twenty in world to say, Albill, 722 00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:08,600 Speaker 1: let you tinker with my game. 723 00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, right, But. 724 00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:11,280 Speaker 1: Because we had, you know, a year and a half 725 00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:13,280 Speaker 1: was some very successful tournament, she says, Okay, I let 726 00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:15,720 Speaker 1: you tinker and I thought that was a good thing. 727 00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:17,840 Speaker 2: So what do you tell her before the final? 728 00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:20,000 Speaker 1: And what did you do the day before? 729 00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:21,840 Speaker 2: I know this story, but it's kind of fun to 730 00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:25,440 Speaker 2: hear you because you're somebody who really is a You 731 00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:28,640 Speaker 2: like to listen to others and to help you be 732 00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:31,240 Speaker 2: better at what you do in whatever it is. Building 733 00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:34,920 Speaker 2: the south Side facility here was listening to great particularly 734 00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:38,520 Speaker 2: African American black entrepreneurs that have done great things, and 735 00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:41,680 Speaker 2: listening to them to make this facility better now with coaching, 736 00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:44,280 Speaker 2: tell me what you did the day before the final? 737 00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:48,000 Speaker 1: So hey, I was you know, Slona just makes fun 738 00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:49,400 Speaker 1: of me because I wear the same thing every day. 739 00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:53,480 Speaker 5: So you know, who knows? Who knew you're going to 740 00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:54,280 Speaker 5: be in New York for two and. 741 00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:57,400 Speaker 1: A half weeks, right, and so I think by that 742 00:33:57,600 --> 00:34:00,920 Speaker 1: time my little white shirt was a little smelly and 743 00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:01,920 Speaker 1: it was time to wash it. 744 00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:04,640 Speaker 2: So wait, don't tell me you wear the same fucking 745 00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:06,600 Speaker 2: shit without washing it. Please tell me you're not that 746 00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:09,680 Speaker 2: four days guy, I'm gonna do. 747 00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:10,600 Speaker 1: Come on, I gonna die. 748 00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:14,440 Speaker 5: I go three or four days and wear the same hoodie. 749 00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:16,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, you wear the same hoodie and you 750 00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:17,640 Speaker 2: have the same breakfast every morning. 751 00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:21,080 Speaker 1: What's your breakfast? Downs? Number five, A medium coffee, six 752 00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:23,280 Speaker 1: and six. You know it's very predictable. 753 00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:25,239 Speaker 2: Do not people at home do that? 754 00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:28,399 Speaker 1: Okay? So you know I was it was about time 755 00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:30,920 Speaker 1: to wash, you know, so I've texted I hadn't really 756 00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:33,560 Speaker 1: had time because you know, it's busy. 757 00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:34,120 Speaker 5: It's busy. 758 00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,760 Speaker 1: You're like got the match days and are like full days. 759 00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:39,000 Speaker 1: Then you have the off days in between where it's 760 00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:44,000 Speaker 1: practice and it's you know, massage, and it's babysitting, babysitting 761 00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:46,600 Speaker 1: dinner and you know, you know you're on call right 762 00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:47,959 Speaker 1: your job is to be there for the player. 763 00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:49,880 Speaker 5: So I hadn't really hung out with Billion in a line. 764 00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:55,360 Speaker 1: Yet, and so I had so I was a needing 765 00:34:55,400 --> 00:35:00,279 Speaker 1: to wash the clothes and they don't be from a 766 00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:03,080 Speaker 1: hotel and I hadn't hung out with him. So I've 767 00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:05,279 Speaker 1: been texting Ability He's like, oh, we got Rosie over here, 768 00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:07,480 Speaker 1: and you know everybody, I said, I'm gonna come over 769 00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:10,760 Speaker 1: and bring my laundry, right and then bring my laundry, 770 00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:13,239 Speaker 1: wash clothes, sit there for a couple of hours, a 771 00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:14,960 Speaker 1: line of folds, my ond thewear, you know, and just 772 00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:16,600 Speaker 1: I was like, you can just throw it back in 773 00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:16,879 Speaker 1: the bag. 774 00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:18,959 Speaker 2: Wait a second, I've stayed thrilling in Alana. They didn't 775 00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:19,720 Speaker 2: do my laundry. 776 00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:23,800 Speaker 5: They must love me a little more, so, you know, 777 00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:25,040 Speaker 5: go there and wash my clothes. 778 00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:28,440 Speaker 2: And sorry for you. Clearly, Yeah, that's incapable of folding 779 00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:29,680 Speaker 2: your own clothes too. 780 00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:31,680 Speaker 1: I'm the baby of the crew, so I give a 781 00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:34,080 Speaker 1: little bit of special treatment. But you know, I sat 782 00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:35,839 Speaker 1: there and I was like, you know, so then tell 783 00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:38,799 Speaker 1: me about your first Grand slaand final because I've never 784 00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:41,520 Speaker 1: played at Grandstand final. Yeah, And so my job was 785 00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:44,000 Speaker 1: to help this player. And I don't know what she's 786 00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:46,640 Speaker 1: gonna feel tomorrow. She doesn't know what she's gonna feel tomorrow. 787 00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:49,080 Speaker 1: I have an idea on what I think she needs 788 00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:51,799 Speaker 1: to feel, right, but let me sit around and learn 789 00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:55,040 Speaker 1: and listen to other people talk about what it's like 790 00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:57,120 Speaker 1: to walk out there and off the air stadium. PSM. 791 00:35:57,200 --> 00:35:59,520 Speaker 2: By the way, to every coach out there, this is 792 00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:03,239 Speaker 2: a great some for you. You don't know everything. Don't 793 00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:04,120 Speaker 2: try and know everything. 794 00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:06,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I don't. You know who knows right? So 795 00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:08,480 Speaker 1: go to dinner with Sloan, I go over Line's house 796 00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:11,359 Speaker 1: by line Billy's like nine o'clock, wash my clothes. Sit there, 797 00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:15,080 Speaker 1: have some chicken and some fried chicken. 798 00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:16,120 Speaker 2: I think I had that when. 799 00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:18,920 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's they're famous for ordering in fried chicken. Right, 800 00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:22,839 Speaker 1: So sit there, listen to her and Rosie Alana actually 801 00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:24,759 Speaker 1: was not a part. She was doing the laundry, and 802 00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:29,040 Speaker 1: we just talked about, you know a few moments. You know, 803 00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:31,160 Speaker 1: Billy gets in her story. I remember when I was 804 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:34,680 Speaker 1: and it was nothing specific to Sloan, right, because they 805 00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:35,680 Speaker 1: don't know her that well. 806 00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:38,120 Speaker 5: So it was not like if I were you, I 807 00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:39,640 Speaker 5: would tell her this, right. 808 00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:42,680 Speaker 1: It was more I remember in nineteen blah blah blah 809 00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:44,920 Speaker 1: when I played blah blah blah, and I was feeling 810 00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:46,640 Speaker 1: this this, this this this, and it was just I'm 811 00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:50,160 Speaker 1: just sitting there and listen sponge, right. And then. 812 00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:53,640 Speaker 5: Happened to have some of Sloan's laundry in my laundry. 813 00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:54,560 Speaker 1: Okay. 814 00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:56,959 Speaker 5: And so got back to the hotel. 815 00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:00,640 Speaker 1: And you know, the entire two week, I had never 816 00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:03,840 Speaker 1: gone to Sloans room. I'd never like bothered her night before. 817 00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:06,839 Speaker 1: No text. Yeah, we text, We do the work over dinner, 818 00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:08,239 Speaker 1: We do the work in the car, do the work 819 00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:09,319 Speaker 1: at the site. 820 00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:10,560 Speaker 5: I had never gone to her. 821 00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:13,080 Speaker 1: Room, but I knew she'd probably be like filling it 822 00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:15,840 Speaker 1: a little bit, and so I'd taken some of her 823 00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:17,200 Speaker 1: laundry down right. 824 00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:20,920 Speaker 5: And you know, actually Sybil sent me a text and 825 00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:21,600 Speaker 5: says her mom. 826 00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:23,800 Speaker 1: So her mom sent me a text and says Slans 827 00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:26,560 Speaker 1: a little nervous. She's like in a full body sweat. 828 00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:28,080 Speaker 1: You may want to go talk to her. I'm like, 829 00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:30,319 Speaker 1: maybe she has the flu or somebody can go down 830 00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:32,200 Speaker 1: there and make sure she's okay. Right, this is the 831 00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:37,000 Speaker 1: hell of a night to be sick, So go down there. Hey, 832 00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:39,240 Speaker 1: I got your tank top, you know, and the sports 833 00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:39,560 Speaker 1: brought it. 834 00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:41,360 Speaker 5: You need Like, I don't need that. 835 00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:44,080 Speaker 1: I've got my clothes already and blah blah blah. You 836 00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:45,600 Speaker 1: just want to come check on me, I said, dan R, 837 00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:47,480 Speaker 1: I don't want to come check on you, So come 838 00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:48,239 Speaker 1: on right. 839 00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:51,200 Speaker 5: So it was like, hey, open invitation to sort of. 840 00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:53,560 Speaker 1: Like talk about it, right, And so you sit there 841 00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:55,960 Speaker 1: and you let her talk, right, and then you know 842 00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:59,360 Speaker 1: it's good not to respond right away, all right, And 843 00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:03,600 Speaker 1: so didn't respond like, oh, you'll be fine, no big deal. 844 00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:06,080 Speaker 5: You know, no one will probably come. You know, you 845 00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:07,160 Speaker 5: two are young players. 846 00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:12,799 Speaker 2: One's gonna come. Don't worry out. The rest stadium will 847 00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:15,640 Speaker 2: be empty. Just pretend you're playing Madison on the back 848 00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:16,880 Speaker 2: court somewhere. 849 00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:19,279 Speaker 1: You playing there multiple times, just like playing a little 850 00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:22,759 Speaker 1: practice mat. We actually played Madison our first practice of 851 00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:24,400 Speaker 1: the New York of the tournament. 852 00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:26,439 Speaker 2: How many times does that happen? 853 00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:26,640 Speaker 4: Though? 854 00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:27,600 Speaker 1: Random? 855 00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:30,680 Speaker 2: I always like the first player I see, I'm gonna 856 00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:32,799 Speaker 2: play for sure, And it happens all the time. 857 00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:35,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, So you know, I was like, oh, no big deal. 858 00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:36,719 Speaker 1: You know we'll be all right. You know, you just 859 00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:39,759 Speaker 1: keep the ball on the court. You know you'll be fine. 860 00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:42,120 Speaker 1: Stay will only be half half empty because Serena's not 861 00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:44,560 Speaker 1: playing this year and everybody come to see West Arena. 862 00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:46,719 Speaker 1: You know you'll be fine. No big deal, right, And 863 00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:47,919 Speaker 1: she was like, you know, our. 864 00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:48,960 Speaker 5: Lives could change tomorrow. 865 00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:51,200 Speaker 2: I was like, wow, she said that to you. She's like, oh, 866 00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:52,120 Speaker 2: last tomorrow, I. 867 00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:54,000 Speaker 1: Could be a grands Dame champion, the person that lost it. 868 00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:55,800 Speaker 1: And I was like, yeah, I could be a grandson. 869 00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:58,879 Speaker 1: I was like, my life can be the same regardless. Fine. 870 00:38:59,000 --> 00:38:59,160 Speaker 4: Right. 871 00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:00,840 Speaker 1: So it was like not really right, but you know, 872 00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:03,399 Speaker 1: you try to like kind of like reduce and help 873 00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:07,480 Speaker 1: them manage the moment, manage your stress, and then went 874 00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:09,360 Speaker 1: back to my room and sort of process right. And 875 00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:11,719 Speaker 1: so by that time I had already figured in my 876 00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:13,640 Speaker 1: mind how we should play the match. 877 00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:15,960 Speaker 5: Right, And so we very briefly. 878 00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:19,279 Speaker 1: Give it to her, you know, just so she has 879 00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:22,120 Speaker 1: extra twelve hours to kind of soaka and think about 880 00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:23,520 Speaker 1: it tactically. 881 00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:24,719 Speaker 5: Tactically what to do? 882 00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:26,160 Speaker 1: You know, how to play? 883 00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:27,680 Speaker 5: How do you set yourself up? 884 00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:29,600 Speaker 1: You know Madison is a great player, does they have 885 00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:31,360 Speaker 1: a lot of things that she doesn't do well. So 886 00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:33,000 Speaker 1: it's how do we kind of focus on ourselves for 887 00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:35,080 Speaker 1: tomorrow because it's really hard to be your first Grand 888 00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:38,880 Speaker 1: SEMD final, right and to focus on somebody else, right. 889 00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:40,880 Speaker 1: So it's like, here are the things that you need 890 00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:44,439 Speaker 1: to do right to sort of manage your nerves, manage 891 00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:46,560 Speaker 1: your stress, and manage the moment and so and the 892 00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:49,000 Speaker 1: truth of the matter is five or ten minutes for 893 00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:51,040 Speaker 1: the match, it all goes out the window anyway, because 894 00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:52,840 Speaker 1: in that moment you're just so stressed you're trying to 895 00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:56,319 Speaker 1: make the ball. And so the night before was great, 896 00:39:56,320 --> 00:39:58,080 Speaker 1: and then after that I went out for drinks, you 897 00:39:58,160 --> 00:39:58,759 Speaker 1: know what I mean, so. 898 00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:04,320 Speaker 2: To Billy and I went off a drinking because I 899 00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:07,760 Speaker 2: don't think people realize at home how bloody stressful coaching 900 00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:11,360 Speaker 2: is because you feel you feel so responsible for everything 901 00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:13,120 Speaker 2: that you've just told your player and you know that 902 00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:15,080 Speaker 2: it could be the difference between when you're losing. 903 00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:16,880 Speaker 1: So how tough is that for you? 904 00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:19,640 Speaker 2: Because I know you you're I don't know if people 905 00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:23,799 Speaker 2: realize watching you in the stands, which is a joke, 906 00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:27,040 Speaker 2: okay for everyone at home. Everybody knows how you feel. 907 00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:28,840 Speaker 1: In the stands, But how stressful is that? 908 00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:32,200 Speaker 2: Like moment? Where is There have been times too where 909 00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:33,719 Speaker 2: you're like, oh, Ship, what you told them is not 910 00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:37,799 Speaker 2: working and you're like that wrong, yeah, and they look 911 00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:39,239 Speaker 2: at you like that side I. 912 00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:42,840 Speaker 1: Like, huh, I can name I can name two matches 913 00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:47,200 Speaker 1: where there were one or two things that was like, Ship, 914 00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:49,320 Speaker 1: we should have did something different instead of that, we 915 00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:52,200 Speaker 1: should have did this right. Lucky for us, now we 916 00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:53,920 Speaker 1: have the own core of coaching and when it's tendance, 917 00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:55,880 Speaker 1: so you get to go out there and kind of regroup, right, 918 00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:58,920 Speaker 1: but the grand slams you don't. But you know, A, 919 00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:01,400 Speaker 1: I think you want to make sure you got it 920 00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:03,080 Speaker 1: right right. You want to make sure you did your 921 00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:05,520 Speaker 1: job and help them as much as possible be you 922 00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:07,880 Speaker 1: want to make sure they interpreted what you said correctly. 923 00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:09,919 Speaker 5: Sometimes you can say the right thing and they don't 924 00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:10,760 Speaker 5: hear it correctly. 925 00:41:10,800 --> 00:41:14,600 Speaker 1: They're either too literal or not literal enough, and so 926 00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:19,759 Speaker 1: you know, those things are always you don't really know 927 00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:22,120 Speaker 1: until the first three games. Like the first three games 928 00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:26,600 Speaker 1: you're like, I probably wasn't clear enough, or I don't 929 00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:28,440 Speaker 1: make you understood what I meant right, you know what 930 00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:31,359 Speaker 1: I mean. So but that night you're kind of like, damn, 931 00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:35,200 Speaker 1: did I say too much? Or should I left this unset? 932 00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:39,400 Speaker 1: Like sometimes a good coach leaves certain things unset, like 933 00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:41,360 Speaker 1: don't don't talk it up, like, don't bring it up, 934 00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:44,479 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Don't don't don't like, don't 935 00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:46,279 Speaker 1: bring it up and make them think about it even more, 936 00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:47,040 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. 937 00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:50,640 Speaker 2: So things are going swimming lay in the final. You 938 00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:52,920 Speaker 2: get up pretty comfortably in the second set, and are 939 00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:55,200 Speaker 2: you just thinking, oh my god, this is gonna happen, 940 00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:58,960 Speaker 2: Like this is gonna absolutely happen. I mean, how crazy 941 00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:01,880 Speaker 2: was it when that last was played? I mean, everybody 942 00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:03,879 Speaker 2: knows the herd look of just turning around and looking 943 00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:06,359 Speaker 2: at you guys, like, did this just fucking happen? Yeah, 944 00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:11,560 Speaker 2: I think that other than the birth of your children, 945 00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:13,920 Speaker 2: which we know is you've had couple. 946 00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:18,239 Speaker 1: I had to thank goodness. I think that, you know, 947 00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:20,520 Speaker 1: I was happy for her. I was happy for her mother. 948 00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:22,360 Speaker 1: I mean, her mother has invested more than I have. 949 00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:23,080 Speaker 5: Right, her mother. 950 00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:27,279 Speaker 1: Invested seventeen years into into this whole process, essentially as 951 00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:30,200 Speaker 1: a single parent, right, you know what I mean, and 952 00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:32,440 Speaker 1: a lot of money financially, you know, a lot of 953 00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:36,360 Speaker 1: mental energy and strat Obviously, her mother happy for Sloan 954 00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:39,480 Speaker 1: because I think we all, you know, the entire tennis 955 00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:41,640 Speaker 1: world knew she had the potential to do this, and 956 00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:44,439 Speaker 1: I think had given her some grief about not having 957 00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:45,319 Speaker 1: done it right. 958 00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:47,160 Speaker 5: So that monkey was finally off her back. 959 00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:51,400 Speaker 2: But how much imputence did it? How much satisfaction it 960 00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:54,759 Speaker 2: also give you as a minority coach, because ironically, that 961 00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:58,319 Speaker 2: year there was every I believe every person that wanted 962 00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:02,080 Speaker 2: Grand Slam that year was a female coach, and then 963 00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:04,160 Speaker 2: you were the last one, and it was either. 964 00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:05,800 Speaker 1: Gonna be you or Lindsay Dovenport. 965 00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:12,840 Speaker 2: So essentially, minority coaches, women, Medina Griguez, Kunschita Martinez, I 966 00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:14,799 Speaker 2: can't remember who only strewn up in that year, which 967 00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:18,080 Speaker 2: is terrible, but you potentially it was one of the 968 00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:21,040 Speaker 2: two of you, and then all of a sudden it's you. 969 00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:25,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know. For me, I was I looked at 970 00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:28,000 Speaker 1: it like, wow, okay, when African American coach took coach 971 00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:30,319 Speaker 1: somebody to a Grand Slam, right, And there's only been 972 00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:36,200 Speaker 1: two others Walter Johnson coached Arthur ash and Arthur Gibson, 973 00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:39,719 Speaker 1: and then Richard Williams coach obviously his two children. And 974 00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:41,959 Speaker 1: then it was me, And so I was like, whoa shit. 975 00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:45,520 Speaker 1: You know, now you're in like an elite sort of historic, 976 00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:52,600 Speaker 1: very small group of people, right, And that was very satisfying, 977 00:43:52,719 --> 00:43:54,480 Speaker 1: and you never know what that's gonna do. 978 00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:54,719 Speaker 4: Right. 979 00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:55,640 Speaker 1: But I was also. 980 00:43:57,040 --> 00:43:59,920 Speaker 5: Excited for the people who had supported me, right. 981 00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:02,239 Speaker 1: You know, you get people early supporters of XS and 982 00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:04,480 Speaker 1: early donors and say, all come outs, really good guys, 983 00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:07,120 Speaker 1: a rising star as a great coach, right, and then 984 00:44:07,160 --> 00:44:09,120 Speaker 1: this was like, guy, I told you all he was 985 00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:10,160 Speaker 1: a great coach, right, you know what I mean? So 986 00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:13,200 Speaker 1: I think it was happy for Sloan's entire family and 987 00:44:13,280 --> 00:44:17,600 Speaker 1: everybody had handed it, happy for Sloan, happy for not 988 00:44:17,719 --> 00:44:22,000 Speaker 1: necessarily myself, but happy for the people that had supported 989 00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:25,439 Speaker 1: me because now they had something tangible to say, told 990 00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:27,640 Speaker 1: your guys he was a rock star, right, And then 991 00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:31,560 Speaker 1: you know, I was happy for history. I mean, I 992 00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:35,480 Speaker 1: think that you know, it's it's it's significant that you 993 00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:40,920 Speaker 1: get an African American Grand Slam champion, right who you know, 994 00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:44,640 Speaker 1: since Lindsay, all the US Grandslamp champions have been African American, 995 00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:48,560 Speaker 1: right credible, right, being a Serena and Sloan, And you 996 00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:49,680 Speaker 1: get an African American. 997 00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:51,279 Speaker 6: Coach, right, And so I thought that that that's not 998 00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:54,200 Speaker 6: another American that is won of Grand Slam, correct since Lindsay, 999 00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:57,920 Speaker 6: other than Williams sisters, right incredible, And so you know, 1000 00:44:58,239 --> 00:44:59,600 Speaker 6: it's a lot of it right now, I take a 1001 00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:01,719 Speaker 6: lot of us a lot of pride, but there's also 1002 00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:01,960 Speaker 6: like a. 1003 00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:04,880 Speaker 1: Lot of responsibility because you have someone's career in your hands. 1004 00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:07,920 Speaker 1: And so I was also relieved I got that right, 1005 00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:10,640 Speaker 1: or that top last night helped, or you know, the 1006 00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:11,799 Speaker 1: top five men. 1007 00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:12,879 Speaker 5: We were walking on the court help. 1008 00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:15,560 Speaker 1: You know, you don't really want to be the reason 1009 00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:18,400 Speaker 1: someone doesn't achieve something, and so I was happy that 1010 00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:20,320 Speaker 1: I was able to help her I was happy for 1011 00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:22,600 Speaker 1: her team again and happy for all of my supporters, 1012 00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:27,919 Speaker 1: and you know, it was like, Okay, that was pretty fun, 1013 00:45:28,120 --> 00:45:30,479 Speaker 1: you know. And I think my mom was a history teacher, 1014 00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:33,719 Speaker 1: so I'm a big historian. I was like, Wow, this 1015 00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:36,360 Speaker 1: is like gonna be a big story, Like this is 1016 00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:37,680 Speaker 1: kind of a big deal. Not that you get a 1017 00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:39,239 Speaker 1: big ahead about it, but it was sort of a 1018 00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:40,239 Speaker 1: big deal, right. 1019 00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:45,240 Speaker 2: So you and with the facility here in Chicago at excess, 1020 00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:47,160 Speaker 2: is it important for you to also make sure that 1021 00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:50,520 Speaker 2: you know, you're giving kids that look like you, you know, 1022 00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:53,120 Speaker 2: that belief that they can do whatever it is coaching 1023 00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:57,439 Speaker 2: or playing or going to college. And the biggest what's 1024 00:45:57,480 --> 00:46:00,680 Speaker 2: the most important thing about access to you access tennis 1025 00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:05,120 Speaker 2: village here in Chicago. What's the what's the most important 1026 00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:05,440 Speaker 2: thing for you? 1027 00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:06,000 Speaker 1: Well? 1028 00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:07,320 Speaker 5: I think number one. 1029 00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:12,960 Speaker 1: That the success and the caliber of coaching in this 1030 00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:17,359 Speaker 1: building transcends its location. Right. Normally the south and West 1031 00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:20,600 Speaker 1: side gets the opportunities that can afford right, you know, 1032 00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:23,360 Speaker 1: people take advantage of programs they can afford, not necessarily 1033 00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:26,319 Speaker 1: the best programs that oh wow, they can also afford them, right, 1034 00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:31,080 Speaker 1: And so you know, I was proud that now all 1035 00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:33,960 Speaker 1: the people in the program who may not have really 1036 00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:37,440 Speaker 1: understood the value that we're getting. We're like, oh my goodness, 1037 00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:39,000 Speaker 1: I'm like a part of this. 1038 00:46:39,520 --> 00:46:39,640 Speaker 4: You know. 1039 00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:42,759 Speaker 1: The guy that runs my program is actually you know, 1040 00:46:44,239 --> 00:46:47,759 Speaker 1: one of the class coach, right, And so I think 1041 00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:51,719 Speaker 1: that raised their level of pride, which is what's needed 1042 00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:54,520 Speaker 1: in these communities, right, pride. I think we were able 1043 00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:57,560 Speaker 1: to drop that access to access to that right. I mean, 1044 00:46:57,840 --> 00:46:59,200 Speaker 1: to be able to walk in here any day of 1045 00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:01,440 Speaker 1: the week and I'm just in here, right, or be 1046 00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:02,719 Speaker 1: able to see me on the court with a five 1047 00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:03,560 Speaker 1: year like what are you doing? 1048 00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:05,360 Speaker 5: Or to see me cleaning tis court this week. I 1049 00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:05,800 Speaker 5: was cleaning. 1050 00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:07,680 Speaker 1: I was sweeping the course this week and somebody said 1051 00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:10,080 Speaker 1: I got to get a picture day. They hate to 1052 00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:11,200 Speaker 1: see you sweeping the course. I was like, you know, 1053 00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:12,960 Speaker 1: I'm all right if everybody knows I'm down to earth, 1054 00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:14,959 Speaker 1: and I'll like, you know, pick up the little mouse 1055 00:47:15,040 --> 00:47:19,440 Speaker 1: that runs around here, right. But I was happy for 1056 00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:21,759 Speaker 1: them because I knew it would allow us to drop 1057 00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:24,719 Speaker 1: that whole tennis YMCA tag and it will be able 1058 00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:26,719 Speaker 1: to legitimately say, hey, this is one of the best 1059 00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:29,800 Speaker 1: places to play tennis. That just so happens to be 1060 00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:33,759 Speaker 1: located south of Chicago, not like, oh, it's a great 1061 00:47:33,880 --> 00:47:38,120 Speaker 1: community program. Yes, we serve the community, that's our mission. 1062 00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:42,040 Speaker 1: But and education and education. But I think, you know, 1063 00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:44,920 Speaker 1: sometimes people knew that were community as a way to 1064 00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:49,200 Speaker 1: reduce the impact and the expertise that exists in the building. 1065 00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:52,520 Speaker 1: And I know everybody on my staff I respect. We 1066 00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:56,200 Speaker 1: have great coaches here who are all in fully committed 1067 00:47:56,960 --> 00:47:59,520 Speaker 1: to doing it. And you know, we hope that people 1068 00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:01,800 Speaker 1: from house outage men you continue to come and see it. 1069 00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:03,200 Speaker 2: Well, I got to tell you one of the first 1070 00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:04,680 Speaker 2: things that I said to you when I was living 1071 00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:07,919 Speaker 2: here in Chicago was the thing that was so cool 1072 00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:11,200 Speaker 2: was watching I remember the day when we had a 1073 00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:13,080 Speaker 2: one white girl that was on the court with me 1074 00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:16,400 Speaker 2: and two black girls that was at the Sisters that day, 1075 00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:20,560 Speaker 2: Madison and Mackenzie were on the court with us. Very 1076 00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:24,640 Speaker 2: poor family, if you've given them essentially free ability to 1077 00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:27,120 Speaker 2: come and play tennis, you know, playing with one of 1078 00:48:27,160 --> 00:48:29,360 Speaker 2: the white kids was one of the wealthiest kids in 1079 00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:32,160 Speaker 2: the city of Chicago. Well, coming from a wealthy family, 1080 00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:36,200 Speaker 2: they were playing tennis and their level was the same. Actually, 1081 00:48:36,239 --> 00:48:40,480 Speaker 2: the girls, the twins were better and we were playing 1082 00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:43,160 Speaker 2: the doubles, and I said to you afterwards, I said, 1083 00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:46,680 Speaker 2: and then after the set, they were all talking at 1084 00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:49,240 Speaker 2: the net together and just chit chatting and talking about 1085 00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:52,120 Speaker 2: you know, tennis and golf, and they were talking about 1086 00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:53,840 Speaker 2: all different things at school. And I said, to you, 1087 00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:58,200 Speaker 2: the coolest thing for me is watching these these kids 1088 00:48:58,280 --> 00:49:00,840 Speaker 2: that would probably never talk to one another or know 1089 00:49:00,960 --> 00:49:06,200 Speaker 2: each other's stories talk to each other because they particularly 1090 00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:09,960 Speaker 2: the young what was the white girl, Bella Bella? Oh god, 1091 00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:11,200 Speaker 2: I know that all these guys, you know, they don't 1092 00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:14,640 Speaker 2: have a terrible memory, but Bella is there talking to 1093 00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:20,880 Speaker 2: Madison Mackenzie, and there was no barrier of socioeconomics color. 1094 00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:23,600 Speaker 2: It was like, hey, we played tennis. We're both the 1095 00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:25,520 Speaker 2: same age, We're all the same age. We all have 1096 00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:28,160 Speaker 2: the same struggles about this and that. And they became 1097 00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:32,160 Speaker 2: friends because of tennis and the fact that Mackenzie and 1098 00:49:32,200 --> 00:49:35,279 Speaker 2: Madison were better. You know, may Bella realized, oh man, 1099 00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:37,439 Speaker 2: I want to be better, you know, but she wasn't 1100 00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:40,320 Speaker 2: thinking socioeconomically about where she was. And to me, that 1101 00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:42,000 Speaker 2: was the coolest. And I said to you, that's the 1102 00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:45,360 Speaker 2: freaking coolest thing for me is making a difference in 1103 00:49:45,480 --> 00:49:47,640 Speaker 2: the city of Chicago, not just here on the south Side. 1104 00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:50,840 Speaker 2: You're actually bringing community, the community together. 1105 00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:51,359 Speaker 6: Yeah. 1106 00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:53,759 Speaker 5: I think you know, tennis is a global sport. I 1107 00:49:53,800 --> 00:49:54,960 Speaker 5: mean it's like one of the few. 1108 00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:57,800 Speaker 1: No basketball is trying to become global, h right, American 1109 00:49:57,840 --> 00:50:00,160 Speaker 1: football is trying to become global, having games obviously ease, 1110 00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:00,560 Speaker 1: et cetera. 1111 00:50:00,760 --> 00:50:01,560 Speaker 5: Tennis is global. 1112 00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:03,960 Speaker 1: It's way ahead, right, And I think that when we 1113 00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:07,839 Speaker 1: create programs, we need to think globally. We don't need 1114 00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:09,400 Speaker 1: to say, how do we create a program that serves 1115 00:50:09,440 --> 00:50:11,800 Speaker 1: this immediate community, you know, this one square mile. We 1116 00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:13,960 Speaker 1: need about how do we create a program that is 1117 00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:16,840 Speaker 1: good enough so that people from outside of the community 1118 00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:18,200 Speaker 1: want to come here. 1119 00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:22,640 Speaker 2: The north Side, all the way down suburbs. 1120 00:50:21,960 --> 00:50:23,880 Speaker 1: All the kids you saw here today from the suburbs 1121 00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:26,560 Speaker 1: and out of state and Texas in Wisconsin. How will 1122 00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:30,359 Speaker 1: we create that kind of program where a they come 1123 00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:32,560 Speaker 1: in from the obnestly play tennis, but b to come 1124 00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:35,600 Speaker 1: to get exposure. Because the peer to peer experience in 1125 00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:38,960 Speaker 1: this building is second to none. I mean, you got 1126 00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:42,520 Speaker 1: Jewish kids who have kids come to the bar minceva, 1127 00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:45,080 Speaker 1: yeah right, but black kids come in to our Missvan 1128 00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:47,040 Speaker 1: you got black kids who like, I'm not going to 1129 00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:48,879 Speaker 1: that kids anymore as they eat all day right because 1130 00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:50,960 Speaker 1: celebrating Jewish holiday where you can't eat, right. 1131 00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,440 Speaker 5: So I think that that experience is different. 1132 00:50:53,600 --> 00:50:55,880 Speaker 1: You got kids with them in public housing, meaning rich 1133 00:50:56,000 --> 00:50:59,480 Speaker 1: kids and not even knowing about the disparity, right. And 1134 00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:01,919 Speaker 1: I think as they grow up, think about it, they're 1135 00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:04,600 Speaker 1: gonna have ten years of a relationship together. They're here 1136 00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:07,040 Speaker 1: four days a week for the next ten years, they're 1137 00:51:07,040 --> 00:51:09,839 Speaker 1: gonna be best friends. And perhaps that kid who comes 1138 00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:14,279 Speaker 1: from money will pull that kid who doesn't along with them, 1139 00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:16,879 Speaker 1: expose them to their network, help them get a job, 1140 00:51:17,400 --> 00:51:19,279 Speaker 1: et cetera, etc. So I think that that is the 1141 00:51:19,360 --> 00:51:23,120 Speaker 1: potential of tennis is to really unify the globe. 1142 00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:25,440 Speaker 5: Right, even if you look at the. 1143 00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:28,759 Speaker 1: Tour, I always tell people on tour, we are part 1144 00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:32,480 Speaker 1: of a traveling circus and our job is to promote 1145 00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:35,560 Speaker 1: this circus. We're gonna take the circus from They're gonna 1146 00:51:35,560 --> 00:51:38,240 Speaker 1: start in Australia, then we're gonna bring it to America, 1147 00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:41,000 Speaker 1: then we're gonna take it to Europe, then we're gonna 1148 00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:44,600 Speaker 1: take it to England. Right, we are like we are 1149 00:51:44,640 --> 00:51:47,839 Speaker 1: a family that sees each other thirty weeks a year, 1150 00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:51,560 Speaker 1: and our responsibility is to grow the sport. And so 1151 00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:55,680 Speaker 1: when we think about these kids' responsibility, it is to 1152 00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:58,799 Speaker 1: expose each other, to love each other because we're all 1153 00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:01,160 Speaker 1: here fighting for the same thing. Everybody's trying to get better. 1154 00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:03,600 Speaker 1: Some people are fighting for a scholarship because they need it. 1155 00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:05,839 Speaker 1: Some people are fighting with a scholarship because they want 1156 00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:07,719 Speaker 1: to play college tennis. Right, We're all. 1157 00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:08,520 Speaker 5: Fighting for the same thing. 1158 00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:12,160 Speaker 1: And I think that, you know, if we learn to 1159 00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:15,279 Speaker 1: understand that we all kind of want the same thing, 1160 00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:17,080 Speaker 1: then I think we'll be better off. 1161 00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:19,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that, all right. So a couple of 1162 00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:20,240 Speaker 2: last questions. 1163 00:52:20,480 --> 00:52:22,000 Speaker 1: How many kids have you put through this program? 1164 00:52:22,080 --> 00:52:22,840 Speaker 2: They've gone to college? 1165 00:52:23,000 --> 00:52:26,040 Speaker 1: Forty seven kids have started this program, left this program, 1166 00:52:26,160 --> 00:52:27,960 Speaker 1: gone on to division on colleges. There you go. 1167 00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:30,239 Speaker 2: So that's your goal, really, I mean, yes, you would 1168 00:52:30,239 --> 00:52:33,960 Speaker 2: love to find another Sloan, another Madison Keys, another you 1169 00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:37,240 Speaker 2: know seen Serena and Venus here or you know Taylor 1170 00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:38,839 Speaker 2: Towns and who you worked with for a long time. 1171 00:52:39,520 --> 00:52:42,160 Speaker 2: But you want to really make sure a they're safe, 1172 00:52:42,719 --> 00:52:44,640 Speaker 2: be there playing tennis and see they're doing what you 1173 00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:46,759 Speaker 2: just talked about. Which is bringing community together but also 1174 00:52:47,080 --> 00:52:48,320 Speaker 2: getting college scholarships. 1175 00:52:48,360 --> 00:52:50,000 Speaker 1: So yeah, people always walking in here and they say, 1176 00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:52,320 Speaker 1: all right, so do you have anybody that's got pre potential? 1177 00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:54,080 Speaker 5: And I say no, it was like not one. 1178 00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:55,319 Speaker 1: I was like, not one. 1179 00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:56,719 Speaker 2: They're like, what do you mean. 1180 00:52:56,800 --> 00:52:58,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, I've been on a court with a lot 1181 00:52:58,640 --> 00:53:01,160 Speaker 1: of pros this year. No kid in the building right 1182 00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:03,719 Speaker 1: now looks like that. I said, But they can all 1183 00:53:03,719 --> 00:53:06,600 Speaker 1: go to college, right And I think that, you know, 1184 00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:10,279 Speaker 1: it's just being honest, Like these people you named are 1185 00:53:10,440 --> 00:53:14,719 Speaker 1: like freaks of nature, just gifted people were born to 1186 00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:18,520 Speaker 1: do this. Sloan Madison. You don't get one here, maybe 1187 00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:20,640 Speaker 1: one in the next twenty thirty years, but. 1188 00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:22,520 Speaker 2: You're getting a hell of lt going to college. 1189 00:53:22,640 --> 00:53:24,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, most all of them go to college. There's so 1190 00:53:24,680 --> 00:53:27,799 Speaker 1: many college opportunities, so many opportunities to you know, come 1191 00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:29,440 Speaker 1: here to the tutoring and get your education, get a 1192 00:53:29,480 --> 00:53:32,400 Speaker 1: good acts at score, get good enough to go to college, 1193 00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:34,839 Speaker 1: and then perhaps see what happens, you know what I mean. 1194 00:53:35,160 --> 00:53:39,640 Speaker 1: But the goal is not to produce a tennis pro, 1195 00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:41,600 Speaker 1: because that is I mean, there are there are actually 1196 00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:43,799 Speaker 1: a lot of good pros who are out on tour 1197 00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:47,080 Speaker 1: should have gone to college, who probably could have benefited 1198 00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:48,400 Speaker 1: from a year or two in college, you know what 1199 00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:50,160 Speaker 1: I mean, or or even kids who are great like 1200 00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:53,840 Speaker 1: Nicole Gives is a great tennis player. Yeah. Right, But 1201 00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:56,160 Speaker 1: it's like, you know, living the hard road on tour. 1202 00:53:56,920 --> 00:54:00,840 Speaker 2: Okay, So to finish up, what's of the funniest stories 1203 00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:03,959 Speaker 2: that you can remember on TUA? Talk about the stress? Okay, 1204 00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:08,080 Speaker 2: talk about the stress of the job. And two how 1205 00:54:08,120 --> 00:54:10,600 Speaker 2: bad you're eating habitat and what happened to you on 1206 00:54:10,640 --> 00:54:12,719 Speaker 2: the road with Taylor Townsend wasn't. 1207 00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:13,600 Speaker 1: Funny, but it was like. 1208 00:54:16,040 --> 00:54:18,360 Speaker 5: Life changing events. 1209 00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:25,680 Speaker 1: Was I was in Dulthan, Alabama, playing fifty K with 1210 00:54:25,880 --> 00:54:29,080 Speaker 1: Taylor with Taylor Townlon and I think we were going 1211 00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:31,960 Speaker 1: to play the Semis and it had been raining for 1212 00:54:32,080 --> 00:54:34,800 Speaker 1: like three days now, just so you know, bothan, Alabama 1213 00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:37,920 Speaker 1: is the place in the country where all new police 1214 00:54:37,960 --> 00:54:40,560 Speaker 1: technology is tested, so it's not a place that the 1215 00:54:40,560 --> 00:54:43,360 Speaker 1: black man wants to be like, you know, stuck for 1216 00:54:43,480 --> 00:54:46,640 Speaker 1: like a week, right, So the three day range delight, right. 1217 00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:49,560 Speaker 1: And at the time, you know, Taylor and I were struggling, 1218 00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:51,239 Speaker 1: you know, we were trying to make it. This is 1219 00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:53,160 Speaker 1: before she made the third round in French. It was 1220 00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:55,920 Speaker 1: that season and you know this is when she won 1221 00:54:56,120 --> 00:54:58,880 Speaker 1: like the Wildcat Challenge. You have seen Wildcart Challenge with 1222 00:54:58,880 --> 00:55:02,279 Speaker 1: the play court season. We're standing at the kind of 1223 00:55:02,360 --> 00:55:06,480 Speaker 1: Watch because Shela Townsend booked us in the account of 1224 00:55:06,480 --> 00:55:08,800 Speaker 1: Watch was for twelve bucks a night, which was not 1225 00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:11,239 Speaker 1: the tournament hotel by the way, Yeah okay, and it 1226 00:55:11,440 --> 00:55:17,840 Speaker 1: was roaches and it was working girls and everything in 1227 00:55:18,239 --> 00:55:24,520 Speaker 1: that hotel. Okay. So I would eat dog food every day, 1228 00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:27,160 Speaker 1: which I do. You know I eat bad food every day. 1229 00:55:27,200 --> 00:55:28,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, McDonald's every morning. 1230 00:55:28,560 --> 00:55:30,640 Speaker 1: But when it comes to like a hotel, I need 1231 00:55:30,680 --> 00:55:33,200 Speaker 1: a decent bed, right, I needed a decent sort of 1232 00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:35,360 Speaker 1: place to get lay man, especially when you trapped in 1233 00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:39,400 Speaker 1: the hotel for three days. So after three day rang 1234 00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:41,279 Speaker 1: like we were finally able to get back on the course. 1235 00:55:41,360 --> 00:55:46,000 Speaker 1: We're driving to the next match and I'm like sitting 1236 00:55:46,080 --> 00:55:47,799 Speaker 1: at the stop and now, for my time in pharmaceutical 1237 00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:52,680 Speaker 1: sales helped me become really good with anatomy and medical 1238 00:55:52,719 --> 00:55:55,320 Speaker 1: conditions and all that kind of thing. So we're sitting 1239 00:55:55,320 --> 00:55:59,040 Speaker 1: there a stop like it's Taylor, I'm having a stroke. 1240 00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:03,560 Speaker 1: Yeah right, I'm like, no, I'm serious. Grab the wheel 1241 00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:05,520 Speaker 1: I'm having a strub now at this time the kid 1242 00:56:05,600 --> 00:56:09,040 Speaker 1: that didn't even have a driver's license. Okay, so I'm 1243 00:56:09,120 --> 00:56:10,440 Speaker 1: like grab the wheel, pull over. 1244 00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:11,160 Speaker 2: So we pull over. 1245 00:56:11,520 --> 00:56:14,480 Speaker 1: So I'm like right foot on the gas. Left side 1246 00:56:14,520 --> 00:56:17,600 Speaker 1: of my body is completely numb, and like I'm I'm 1247 00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:22,719 Speaker 1: like peddling until like steers the car into a parking lot. 1248 00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:24,799 Speaker 1: And then this is when the iPhone here a little 1249 00:56:24,840 --> 00:56:28,680 Speaker 1: thumbs on my iPhone, so she takes my thumb unlocks 1250 00:56:28,760 --> 00:56:32,520 Speaker 1: my iPhone to call up jin right. I said yes, 1251 00:56:32,600 --> 00:56:34,640 Speaker 1: My wife says, come outside the stroke, so she calls 1252 00:56:34,719 --> 00:56:38,680 Speaker 1: nine one So then nine one one comes and the 1253 00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:42,160 Speaker 1: ambulance come. Put me in. All right, Taylor, we're actually 1254 00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:44,799 Speaker 1: not that far from the site. You can drive this car. 1255 00:56:45,040 --> 00:56:49,319 Speaker 1: Just drive really slow and go play the match. Come on, right. 1256 00:56:49,520 --> 00:56:51,600 Speaker 1: She's like, I'm not doing that. I'm like, just take 1257 00:56:51,640 --> 00:56:54,520 Speaker 1: the car, play the match, jumps us do this this, 1258 00:56:54,680 --> 00:56:56,439 Speaker 1: and we've been here for five days. You might little 1259 00:56:56,440 --> 00:56:58,480 Speaker 1: finish the jobs. We get to the French open, right. 1260 00:56:59,880 --> 00:57:02,000 Speaker 1: She ends up not doing it right, which I was 1261 00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:03,080 Speaker 1: still pissed at her for that. 1262 00:57:03,120 --> 00:57:04,680 Speaker 2: She should have just took a little renal car well, 1263 00:57:04,719 --> 00:57:06,200 Speaker 2: because she was concerned about you, I. 1264 00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:07,759 Speaker 1: Would have been all right, and I ended up being 1265 00:57:07,800 --> 00:57:11,239 Speaker 1: a right. So anyway, we are a hab an ambulance 1266 00:57:11,360 --> 00:57:14,480 Speaker 1: and turns out I did have a stroke. It takes 1267 00:57:14,520 --> 00:57:17,040 Speaker 1: me to a hospital, which I don't want to be 1268 00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:22,160 Speaker 1: in the hospital and don't tink about. Okay, So they're 1269 00:57:22,200 --> 00:57:26,760 Speaker 1: about to give me a drug called TPA. TPA can 1270 00:57:26,840 --> 00:57:29,400 Speaker 1: cause bleeding in the brain, so if you don't have 1271 00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:32,880 Speaker 1: a full blown stroke, it's not worth the risk of 1272 00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:36,400 Speaker 1: taking this drug. Right. So I'm like Stalin, I'm don't 1273 00:57:36,440 --> 00:57:37,800 Speaker 1: give me that because I knew about it from. 1274 00:57:37,720 --> 00:57:38,520 Speaker 5: A pharmacucle day. 1275 00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:39,160 Speaker 1: Don't give me that. 1276 00:57:39,240 --> 00:57:39,720 Speaker 5: Don't give me that. 1277 00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:41,720 Speaker 1: No, you need it, You need it, You need it 1278 00:57:41,800 --> 00:57:43,480 Speaker 1: right away. You got to take it with you ninety minutes, 1279 00:57:43,680 --> 00:57:47,240 Speaker 1: et cetera, et cetera. So within that ninety minutes, the 1280 00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:51,320 Speaker 1: function on my left side actually started to come back. Right. 1281 00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:53,800 Speaker 1: So it turns out that I had a TA which 1282 00:57:53,880 --> 00:57:57,680 Speaker 1: is a mini stroke, right, and so before taking TPA, 1283 00:57:57,920 --> 00:58:01,840 Speaker 1: which could have like mess me up, the function came 1284 00:58:01,920 --> 00:58:03,320 Speaker 1: back and I didn't have to take the shot, which 1285 00:58:03,320 --> 00:58:04,720 Speaker 1: you think, God, but let me tell you that was 1286 00:58:04,840 --> 00:58:06,280 Speaker 1: like life changing. 1287 00:58:06,480 --> 00:58:08,760 Speaker 2: So so now you just have McDonald's in the morning. 1288 00:58:09,040 --> 00:58:10,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. So now I'm set at McDonald's three times a day. 1289 00:58:10,960 --> 00:58:17,000 Speaker 1: I only have it one today, now, three star better hotel, So. 1290 00:58:17,080 --> 00:58:18,920 Speaker 2: That's what you're a better hotel. I happen to have 1291 00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:19,400 Speaker 2: it struck. 1292 00:58:19,760 --> 00:58:22,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I'm not going to play anymore fifty ks 1293 00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:26,440 Speaker 1: in small towns it's big leads or I just stay 1294 00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:29,040 Speaker 1: home and work with my five year old. That just 1295 00:58:29,120 --> 00:58:31,760 Speaker 1: tells you how it is. I mean, it was the 1296 00:58:32,080 --> 00:58:33,560 Speaker 1: entire but at the time I was also going to 1297 00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:35,880 Speaker 1: buy the stress up trying to get this thing done 1298 00:58:35,960 --> 00:58:38,120 Speaker 1: and get this thing built. But you know, now, I 1299 00:58:38,200 --> 00:58:40,960 Speaker 1: actually that actually taught me to just slow down and breathe, 1300 00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:43,160 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, like not to be stressed, 1301 00:58:43,200 --> 00:58:45,680 Speaker 1: to just breathe everything will be okay. Because I do 1302 00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:48,040 Speaker 1: have a tendency to get kind of wound up and 1303 00:58:48,160 --> 00:58:50,680 Speaker 1: be a little intense. And I will say over the 1304 00:58:50,760 --> 00:58:54,400 Speaker 1: past couple of years, even Songe's very kind of cool, calm, 1305 00:58:54,600 --> 00:58:57,880 Speaker 1: kind of collective, I've had to sort of learn to just. 1306 00:58:58,000 --> 00:59:02,040 Speaker 5: Be very calm and a little more quiet and breathe, even. 1307 00:59:01,880 --> 00:59:05,360 Speaker 1: If I'm like, you know, shooting myself inside, to just 1308 00:59:05,560 --> 00:59:07,840 Speaker 1: externally just you know. 1309 00:59:11,000 --> 00:59:14,360 Speaker 5: And so that is probably the scariest moment of my 1310 00:59:14,760 --> 00:59:15,320 Speaker 5: short life. 1311 00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:15,880 Speaker 2: Uh. 1312 00:59:16,040 --> 00:59:19,360 Speaker 5: It definitely changed my eating habits. Uh, it changed where they've. 1313 00:59:19,200 --> 00:59:24,080 Speaker 1: Made and taught me just to breathe. And that's that's 1314 00:59:24,120 --> 00:59:27,240 Speaker 1: the one thing always. You know, even as a coach, 1315 00:59:28,040 --> 00:59:31,000 Speaker 1: you know always tells longa, just breathe, You're. 1316 00:59:30,840 --> 00:59:34,120 Speaker 2: Fine'll be okay, trust me the side the right. 1317 00:59:34,840 --> 00:59:36,520 Speaker 1: You know, if we have a strong car on the 1318 00:59:36,520 --> 00:59:39,720 Speaker 1: other stadium, you'll be all fine. She'll give you another chance, right, 1319 00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:42,040 Speaker 1: Because the great thing about the sport gives you another chance. 1320 00:59:42,520 --> 00:59:46,360 Speaker 1: Your opponent most of the time will give you another chance, right. 1321 00:59:46,440 --> 00:59:48,600 Speaker 1: And so I think that's a great metaphor for life. 1322 00:59:48,800 --> 00:59:51,560 Speaker 1: You know what I mean Where tennis is is just 1323 00:59:52,040 --> 00:59:53,960 Speaker 1: you always get another chance. You always is to fight 1324 00:59:54,120 --> 00:59:56,280 Speaker 1: you get to walk away from sometimes on the street, 1325 00:59:56,720 --> 00:59:58,400 Speaker 1: you know, kids make bad decision if in the wrong 1326 00:59:58,440 --> 01:00:00,000 Speaker 1: place the wrong time, and you don't get to walk away, 1327 01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:02,120 Speaker 1: all right, Tennis is the fight you get to walk 1328 01:00:02,160 --> 01:00:02,600 Speaker 1: away from. 1329 01:00:02,920 --> 01:00:06,160 Speaker 5: And so I've learned to just always just breathe and 1330 01:00:06,240 --> 01:00:08,800 Speaker 5: take it easy and just you man. 1331 01:00:08,840 --> 01:00:10,880 Speaker 2: Okay, we're going to finish on that, because that is awesome. 1332 01:00:11,600 --> 01:00:14,120 Speaker 2: Come ol, thanks for joining me. You are one of 1333 01:00:14,160 --> 01:00:17,320 Speaker 2: my best friends. And I respect you what you've done 1334 01:00:17,400 --> 01:00:19,960 Speaker 2: so much, yeah, as a coach, but more importantly what 1335 01:00:20,000 --> 01:00:22,880 Speaker 2: you're doing for your community here in Chicago. And you're 1336 01:00:23,040 --> 01:00:26,920 Speaker 2: changing tennis the landscape of this country, not only a 1337 01:00:27,040 --> 01:00:27,800 Speaker 2: city of Chicago. 1338 01:00:27,920 --> 01:00:29,440 Speaker 1: But thanks for joining me, and. 1339 01:00:29,960 --> 01:00:30,960 Speaker 2: Hope everybody and join it. 1340 01:00:31,120 --> 01:00:31,800 Speaker 1: Thanks for having me. 1341 01:00:31,960 --> 01:00:34,440 Speaker 2: Hey man, let's go have a drink, Let's go have 1342 01:00:34,520 --> 01:00:34,920 Speaker 2: a burger. 1343 01:00:35,320 --> 01:00:38,440 Speaker 4: Just keeping and that's it for this episode of the 1344 01:00:38,520 --> 01:00:39,760 Speaker 4: Racket Magazine podcast. 1345 01:00:39,840 --> 01:00:43,080 Speaker 3: Thanks for listening. Our host is Renee Stubbs. Our co 1346 01:00:43,280 --> 01:00:46,920 Speaker 3: host and producer is me Caitlin Thompson. 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