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Speaker 2: Elijah is on the phone today for our first Day
Speaker 2: follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Isabelle.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
Speaker 2: if she tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
Speaker 2: get him another date. But first, Elijah, how long has
Speaker 2: it been since you heard from Isabelle?
Speaker 3: Oh, let's see, it's been It's been like a week.
Speaker 3: So I've obviously been ghosted.
Speaker 4: Okay, maybe she was busy.
Speaker 5: Let's just kind of flush it out a little bit
Speaker 5: before we jump to conclusions.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 4: Okay, So have you been trying to hit her up?
Speaker 4: How is that?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Of course, okay, text I even texted her yesterday.
Speaker 3: I had nothing.
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, let's talk about the date then. How was that?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 6: The day was amazing, Like ah, I took her to
Speaker 6: this really nice Italian place.
Speaker 3: You know, whether the waiters pretend to be your friend.
Speaker 6: So nice, they had the candles, it was romantic, it
Speaker 6: was fun.
Speaker 3: We had a really good conversation.
Speaker 6: We were laughing about our bad dating experiences.
Speaker 3: The energy was just amazing.
Speaker 4: So did you feel like she was as into it
Speaker 4: as you were?
Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, yes, she just made it so easy,
Speaker 6: like effortless, and she was like into me, and then
Speaker 6: she was like challenging me, and I was like, oh,
Speaker 6: I loved it.
Speaker 4: Like challenging. It is like a fight outside.
Speaker 3: A fight like that. But I'd be down.
Speaker 4: Okay now I know.
Speaker 2: Now, of course, of course, But why do you think
Speaker 2: you're getting ghosted a dude?
Speaker 3: I honestly, I think I know. It's it's just all
Speaker 3: a thing that I did.
Speaker 4: Did you say all of the things that you did?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 6: She told me she hated all of us, and I
Speaker 6: was I was trying to be funny and creative, and
Speaker 6: I put all of them the fork and I fed
Speaker 6: it to her and she looked absolutely mortified.
Speaker 5: Well, if she hates something, she didn't, were you just
Speaker 5: trying to stuff it down her throat?
Speaker 7: I don't know.
Speaker 3: I thought she would like change her mind and try
Speaker 3: a different thing. I love alive, So I was like,
Speaker 3: how could so? I don't know what I was doing.
Speaker 6: She said here, yeah pretty much.
Speaker 5: Okay, So how did you recover after the olive stuffing?
Speaker 3: Oh? Man, I don't think I recovered.
Speaker 2: Did the mood after the day after the olive incident change?
Speaker 6: I thought I recovered, But now like if she ghosted me, and.
Speaker 3: That's gotta be it.
Speaker 4: Man, Well, how did the date end?
Speaker 8: I mean the date ended with con I mean we kissed,
Speaker 8: but that was I don't look, it was like we're
Speaker 8: having good vibes.
Speaker 6: The olive thing happened, the all of thing passed. I
Speaker 6: thought we left on good terms. But I'm really really analyzing.
Speaker 3: This, like this has gotta be it.
Speaker 4: What did What was the last thing she said to you?
Speaker 3: Let me think she. I was like, so we should
Speaker 3: do this again, Ryan, and she was.
Speaker 4: Like yeah, okay.
Speaker 3: She was either just yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: Obviously she hasn't texted you at all or gotten back
Speaker 2: to any of your nothing.
Speaker 3: No, completely ghosted.
Speaker 6: And I was trying to be funny, like with my
Speaker 6: last text, I was like, on a new Alive pizza place, and.
Speaker 4: That is funny. That's funny.
Speaker 3: She didn't text.
Speaker 4: All right, Well, we'll see if we can figure it
Speaker 4: out for you.
Speaker 2: We'll play a song, come back and then call her
Speaker 2: and see if chattels why she's ghosting you, and maybe
Speaker 2: get you another date if you still want one. Okay, cool, okay,
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Speaker 2: Elijah is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Isabelle.
Speaker 2: So we're about to call her and see if she
Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him. But first, Elijah, why
Speaker 2: don't you recap your date for us real quick?
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 6: We had a really good date. Our energy was amazing.
Speaker 6: We're being fun, being playful. I took her to this
Speaker 6: amazing Italian restaurant and then to olive incident. She told
Speaker 6: me she hates olives, but I was being fun and
Speaker 6: playful and I fed her.
Speaker 3: And olive and she looked mortified. And I can't. I
Speaker 3: don't think I ever recovered.
Speaker 5: I just don't picture you feeding it. I picture you
Speaker 5: stuffing ol.
Speaker 4: Believe you know?
Speaker 3: All right?
Speaker 4: Well, are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Let's do it? All right?
Speaker 4: Here we go. Hello, Hi, I'm aspeaking to Isabelle.
Speaker 5: Uh.
Speaker 7: This Isabelle.
Speaker 2: Hey isabel how are you? My name is Jebel I'm
Speaker 2: calling from a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 4: Hi Isabelle. I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and
Speaker 4: I'm Victoria. How are you doing?
Speaker 7: Okay?
Speaker 4: What is this? Have you ever listened to this show before? I?
Speaker 9: Yeah, it's just one of those like radio like I
Speaker 9: don't know, like awkward, I don't know.
Speaker 7: What is this?
Speaker 2: The radio press right? The radio part is right. We
Speaker 2: do a segment on the show called the First Date
Speaker 2: follow Up. That's where if you go out on a
Speaker 2: date with someone and then you ghost them, that person
Speaker 2: can email us to get you on the phone and
Speaker 2: ask why you're ghosting them. So we got an email
Speaker 2: about you from somebody that you've been on a date with.
Speaker 7: Wait, people really do this? Okay, yes I do.
Speaker 4: Do you know who would email us about you?
Speaker 7: It's Elijah, isn't it.
Speaker 2: Yes, it is Elijah emailed us. We talked to him
Speaker 2: a little bit about your date, and he told us
Speaker 2: that he really liked you, thought you guys hit it off.
Speaker 2: He did say that he knows that trying to shoven
Speaker 2: all of down your throat was probably not the best move,
Speaker 2: but he's wondering if that's the reason you're ghosting him.
Speaker 7: I just I don't trust him.
Speaker 4: Okay because of the Olive No, it's like, I.
Speaker 9: Mean, yes, but it's like I don't know, It's like
Speaker 9: the man's like too smooth.
Speaker 3: How so wait, what being charming as a crime?
Speaker 9: Though?
Speaker 7: Is that Elijah?
Speaker 3: Is that you?
Speaker 2: Yes, that's Elijah. He's actually on the phone and wants
Speaker 2: to talk to you.
Speaker 9: Okay, Yeah, it's not just that, it's like, okay, so
Speaker 9: the waiter asked if he'd been there before, and he's like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 9: I love this place, and five minutes later he tells
Speaker 9: me he's never been you know.
Speaker 6: Oh, come on, I was just trying to cool, but
Speaker 6: like I was a I was panicked.
Speaker 9: Yeah, and then you said you speak a little Italian,
Speaker 9: and then you proceeded to butcher the only sentence you attempted.
Speaker 3: I mean, I've been trying on dual lingo, so I know.
Speaker 4: So maybe he's trying is not good at it.
Speaker 9: And then let's not forget the olive incident, which apparently
Speaker 9: you've talked about.
Speaker 3: I knew it. I knew it. I was come on,
Speaker 3: you got to admit I was trying to be cute.
Speaker 7: You were trying to be forceful.
Speaker 9: I said I didn't like olive, and then you went
Speaker 9: full like, oh, trust me, you'll like it, and I
Speaker 9: did not.
Speaker 4: So were you lying during the day, Elijah.
Speaker 3: No, I wasn't lying.
Speaker 6: Yes, if I had been there, I mean, I've been
Speaker 6: around the area, I just haven't been there to stay,
Speaker 6: and I've been practicing my my dual linger, so I
Speaker 6: know a little bit of time.
Speaker 3: Come on. Oh my god.
Speaker 6: So the later asked if I had been there, and
Speaker 6: you know, I've been around the road, I haven't actually
Speaker 6: been inside, so I kind of bit there.
Speaker 7: Why would you even lie about that? It doesn't make
Speaker 7: any sense.
Speaker 3: I was just trying to have conversation with the waiter.
Speaker 7: You lied conversation.
Speaker 4: I mean I kind of get it, though.
Speaker 3: I was being fun and playful.
Speaker 7: You know, come on, it wasn't funny to me or playful.
Speaker 7: It just makes you seem fake.
Speaker 9: I don't know it's fun and playful to say you
Speaker 9: haven't been there before. You don't have to lie to
Speaker 9: have a conversation. It just makes you feel phony.
Speaker 3: To me. I don't.
Speaker 7: It's like, okay, well, what else is he lying about?
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I was just trying to let my
Speaker 3: troops here jeez.
Speaker 7: No, that's an opposite you're doing.
Speaker 3: I mean I've been around there, so I've kind of
Speaker 3: been there.
Speaker 5: Okay, So other than that, Isabelle, Is that really the
Speaker 5: one hold up for you? Is that really why you
Speaker 5: don't want to see Elijah again?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I don't.
Speaker 7: I don't know. I don't do well with fast talkers
Speaker 7: who ever commit.
Speaker 3: Sorry, wow, there ouch, I don't know.
Speaker 9: It's just like, how do I know you're not lying
Speaker 9: about like I'm I'm like thinking back to the day
Speaker 9: and I'm like, wait, did you actually go backpacking in
Speaker 9: the Sierra?
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 7: Did you actually like run a food truck with your brother?
Speaker 7: I like don't know what's real?
Speaker 6: Well, I mean me and my brother, honestly, we've talked
Speaker 6: about a food truck.
Speaker 1: I mean.
Speaker 3: That a lot of food truck. So it's basically.
Speaker 2: What I'm saying, all right, wild Well, would you like
Speaker 2: to go with Elijah again?
Speaker 4: We'll pay for it?
Speaker 3: No, what come on, give me one more chance?
Speaker 7: How are you this delusional? I like don't understand.
Speaker 3: Seriously, is this all just because of the olive?
Speaker 7: No, it's because you're a liar.
Speaker 3: I'm not a liar.
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