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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Elijah is on the phone today for our first Day

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Speaker 2: follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Isabelle.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

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Speaker 2: get him another date. But first, Elijah, how long has

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Speaker 2: it been since you heard from Isabelle?

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Speaker 3: Oh, let's see, it's been It's been like a week.

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Speaker 3: So I've obviously been ghosted.

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Speaker 4: Okay, maybe she was busy.

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Speaker 5: Let's just kind of flush it out a little bit

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Speaker 5: before we jump to conclusions.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So have you been trying to hit her up?

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Speaker 4: How is that?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Of course, okay, text I even texted her yesterday.

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Speaker 3: I had nothing.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, let's talk about the date then. How was that?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 6: The day was amazing, Like ah, I took her to

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Speaker 6: this really nice Italian place.

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Speaker 3: You know, whether the waiters pretend to be your friend.

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Speaker 6: So nice, they had the candles, it was romantic, it

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Speaker 6: was fun.

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Speaker 3: We had a really good conversation.

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Speaker 6: We were laughing about our bad dating experiences.

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Speaker 3: The energy was just amazing.

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Speaker 4: So did you feel like she was as into it

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Speaker 4: as you were?

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Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, yes, she just made it so easy,

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Speaker 6: like effortless, and she was like into me, and then

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Speaker 6: she was like challenging me, and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 6: I loved it.

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Speaker 4: Like challenging. It is like a fight outside.

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Speaker 3: A fight like that. But I'd be down.

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Speaker 4: Okay now I know.

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Speaker 2: Now, of course, of course, But why do you think

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Speaker 2: you're getting ghosted a dude?

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Speaker 3: I honestly, I think I know. It's it's just all

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Speaker 3: a thing that I did.

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Speaker 4: Did you say all of the things that you did?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 6: She told me she hated all of us, and I

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Speaker 6: was I was trying to be funny and creative, and

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Speaker 6: I put all of them the fork and I fed

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Speaker 6: it to her and she looked absolutely mortified.

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Speaker 5: Well, if she hates something, she didn't, were you just

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Speaker 5: trying to stuff it down her throat?

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Speaker 7: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I thought she would like change her mind and try

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Speaker 3: a different thing. I love alive, So I was like,

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Speaker 3: how could so? I don't know what I was doing.

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Speaker 6: She said here, yeah pretty much.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So how did you recover after the olive stuffing?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Man, I don't think I recovered.

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Speaker 2: Did the mood after the day after the olive incident change?

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Speaker 6: I thought I recovered, But now like if she ghosted me, and.

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Speaker 3: That's gotta be it.

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Speaker 4: Man, Well, how did the date end?

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Speaker 8: I mean the date ended with con I mean we kissed,

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Speaker 8: but that was I don't look, it was like we're

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Speaker 6: The olive thing happened, the all of thing passed. I

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Speaker 6: thought we left on good terms. But I'm really really analyzing.

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Speaker 3: This, like this has gotta be it.

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Speaker 4: What did What was the last thing she said to you?

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Speaker 3: Let me think she. I was like, so we should

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Speaker 3: do this again, Ryan, and she was.

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Speaker 4: Like yeah, okay.

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Speaker 3: She was either just yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Obviously she hasn't texted you at all or gotten back

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Speaker 2: to any of your nothing.

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Speaker 3: No, completely ghosted.

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Speaker 6: And I was trying to be funny, like with my

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Speaker 6: last text, I was like, on a new Alive pizza place, and.

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Speaker 4: That is funny. That's funny.

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Speaker 3: She didn't text.

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Speaker 4: All right, Well, we'll see if we can figure it

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Speaker 4: out for you.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song, come back and then call her

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Speaker 2: and see if chattels why she's ghosting you, and maybe

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Speaker 2: get you another date if you still want one. Okay, cool, okay,

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Speaker 2: play a song, Come back and get your first day follow.

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first date follow up.

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Speaker 2: Elijah is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Isabelle.

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Speaker 2: So we're about to call her and see if she

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Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him. But first, Elijah, why

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Speaker 2: don't you recap your date for us real quick?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 6: We had a really good date. Our energy was amazing.

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Speaker 6: We're being fun, being playful. I took her to this

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Speaker 6: amazing Italian restaurant and then to olive incident. She told

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Speaker 6: me she hates olives, but I was being fun and

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Speaker 6: playful and I fed her.

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Speaker 3: And olive and she looked mortified. And I can't. I

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Speaker 3: don't think I ever recovered.

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Speaker 5: I just don't picture you feeding it. I picture you

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Speaker 5: stuffing ol.

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Speaker 4: Believe you know?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 4: Well, are you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Let's do it? All right?

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Speaker 4: Here we go. Hello, Hi, I'm aspeaking to Isabelle.

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Speaker 5: Uh.

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Speaker 7: This Isabelle.

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Speaker 2: Hey isabel how are you? My name is Jebel I'm

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Speaker 2: calling from a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi Isabelle. I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and

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Speaker 4: I'm Victoria. How are you doing?

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Speaker 7: Okay?

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Speaker 4: What is this? Have you ever listened to this show before? I?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, it's just one of those like radio like I

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Speaker 9: don't know, like awkward, I don't know.

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Speaker 7: What is this?

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Speaker 2: The radio press right? The radio part is right. We

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Speaker 2: do a segment on the show called the First Date

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Speaker 2: follow Up. That's where if you go out on a

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Speaker 2: date with someone and then you ghost them, that person

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Speaker 2: can email us to get you on the phone and

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Speaker 2: ask why you're ghosting them. So we got an email

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Speaker 2: about you from somebody that you've been on a date with.

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Speaker 7: Wait, people really do this? Okay, yes I do.

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Speaker 4: Do you know who would email us about you?

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Speaker 7: It's Elijah, isn't it.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it is Elijah emailed us. We talked to him

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Speaker 2: a little bit about your date, and he told us

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Speaker 2: that he really liked you, thought you guys hit it off.

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Speaker 2: He did say that he knows that trying to shoven

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Speaker 2: all of down your throat was probably not the best move,

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Speaker 2: but he's wondering if that's the reason you're ghosting him.

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Speaker 7: I just I don't trust him.

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Speaker 4: Okay because of the Olive No, it's like, I.

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Speaker 9: Mean, yes, but it's like I don't know, It's like

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Speaker 9: the man's like too smooth.

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Speaker 3: How so wait, what being charming as a crime?

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Speaker 9: Though?

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Speaker 7: Is that Elijah?

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Speaker 3: Is that you?

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's Elijah. He's actually on the phone and wants

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Speaker 2: to talk to you.

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Speaker 9: Okay, Yeah, it's not just that, it's like, okay, so

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Speaker 9: the waiter asked if he'd been there before, and he's like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 9: I love this place, and five minutes later he tells

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Speaker 9: me he's never been you know.

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Speaker 6: Oh, come on, I was just trying to cool, but

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Speaker 6: like I was a I was panicked.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, and then you said you speak a little Italian,

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Speaker 9: and then you proceeded to butcher the only sentence you attempted.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I've been trying on dual lingo, so I know.

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Speaker 4: So maybe he's trying is not good at it.

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Speaker 9: And then let's not forget the olive incident, which apparently

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Speaker 9: you've talked about.

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Speaker 3: I knew it. I knew it. I was come on,

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Speaker 3: you got to admit I was trying to be cute.

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Speaker 7: You were trying to be forceful.

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Speaker 9: I said I didn't like olive, and then you went

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Speaker 9: full like, oh, trust me, you'll like it, and I

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Speaker 9: did not.

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Speaker 4: So were you lying during the day, Elijah.

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Speaker 3: No, I wasn't lying.

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Speaker 6: Yes, if I had been there, I mean, I've been

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Speaker 6: around the area, I just haven't been there to stay,

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Speaker 6: and I've been practicing my my dual linger, so I

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Speaker 3: Come on. Oh my god.

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Speaker 6: So the later asked if I had been there, and

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Speaker 6: you know, I've been around the road, I haven't actually

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Speaker 7: Why would you even lie about that? It doesn't make

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Speaker 3: I was just trying to have conversation with the waiter.

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Speaker 7: You lied conversation.

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Speaker 4: I mean I kind of get it, though.

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Speaker 3: I was being fun and playful.

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Speaker 7: You know, come on, it wasn't funny to me or playful.

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Speaker 7: It just makes you seem fake.

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Speaker 9: I don't know it's fun and playful to say you

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Speaker 9: haven't been there before. You don't have to lie to

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Speaker 3: To me. I don't.

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Speaker 7: It's like, okay, well, what else is he lying about?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I was just trying to let my

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Speaker 3: troops here jeez.

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Speaker 7: No, that's an opposite you're doing.

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Speaker 3: I mean I've been around there, so I've kind of

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Speaker 5: Okay, So other than that, Isabelle, Is that really the

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Speaker 5: one hold up for you? Is that really why you

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Speaker 5: don't want to see Elijah again?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I don't.

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Speaker 7: I don't know. I don't do well with fast talkers

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Speaker 7: who ever commit.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, wow, there ouch, I don't know.

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Speaker 9: It's just like, how do I know you're not lying

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Speaker 9: about like I'm I'm like thinking back to the day

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Speaker 9: and I'm like, wait, did you actually go backpacking in

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Speaker 9: the Sierra?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 7: Did you actually like run a food truck with your brother?

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Speaker 7: I like don't know what's real?

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Speaker 6: Well, I mean me and my brother, honestly, we've talked

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Speaker 6: about a food truck.

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Speaker 1: I mean.

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Speaker 3: That a lot of food truck. So it's basically.

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Speaker 2: What I'm saying, all right, wild Well, would you like

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Speaker 2: to go with Elijah again?

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Speaker 4: We'll pay for it?

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Speaker 3: No, what come on, give me one more chance?

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Speaker 7: How are you this delusional? I like don't understand.

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Speaker 3: Seriously, is this all just because of the olive?

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Speaker 7: No, it's because you're a liar.

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Speaker 3: I'm not a liar.

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