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Speaker 1: But James, you still want to go out with Cammy?

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Speaker 1: She can't tell me all of that stuff right away. Yeah, yeah, like,

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Speaker 1: one more time? No, I can't. It's already gone way

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Speaker 1: I believe in it, Cammy. Since you won't go out

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