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Speaker 1: some of this. What's up, everybody? Everybody cool? Good, can't complain? Yeah,
Speaker 1: she's coming back to your Yeah, okay, yeah, that's what
Speaker 1: uh what we're doing. Okay, I saw the word of
Speaker 1: the days. We actually have a two part word. The
Speaker 1: first word is toxic and then the second word is
Speaker 1: the active being or the the the process of being toxic,
Speaker 1: which is toxicity. So the textbook Saltine definition of toxic
Speaker 1: is poisonous, very harmful, or unpleasant in a pervasive or
Speaker 1: insidious way. And the urban Gerban definition is coming right up. Okay,
Speaker 1: toxic urban definition is going to be fun. Okay. The
Speaker 1: urban Gerban definition of toxic is an adjective uused to
Speaker 1: describe usually very a usually very negative person that bitch
Speaker 1: about everything, okay, and adjective views to describe we gotta
Speaker 1: pre read these urban definitions and adjective views to describe
Speaker 1: usually a very negative person that bitch about everything, spread
Speaker 1: unnecessary hey, or just talk about others. You can meet
Speaker 1: these people in any online game community and they are
Speaker 1: the main coin of online gaming. Okay, they talked about
Speaker 1: also gaming ship. So overall, toxicity is basically being a
Speaker 1: fucked up person. Being toxic is a fuck up person
Speaker 1: in the act of being toxic creates toxicity. You don't
Speaker 1: have to be toxic fun up to be toxic. I
Speaker 1: think you can just be. I think toxic people are
Speaker 1: traumatized and they haven't accepted previous episode that they need
Speaker 1: to deal with their issues before burdening other people with
Speaker 1: those issues. Mm hmm, because I feel like, like, like
Speaker 1: for instance, like for the like, a majority of the
Speaker 1: toxic people that I know have been wrongfully fucked over
Speaker 1: about other people, and that's why they subconsciously pick fights
Speaker 1: and other people that they deal with. They can't help it.
Speaker 1: It's like they don't know. If I got a glass
Speaker 1: of pure fresh water here right then I got a
Speaker 1: glass of toxic stuff in a port into the pure water,
Speaker 1: it becomes toxic though, So that's toxicity. But this this
Speaker 1: glass of toxic ship, you would say, if you knew
Speaker 1: it was toxic, what would you say about its fucked
Speaker 1: up water? That's what I'm saying, Like when people, most
Speaker 1: people that are toxic don't even really fully understand that
Speaker 1: they're being toxic, and that's what causes them to continue
Speaker 1: to do it over and over again in because they
Speaker 1: don't see what's really going on with them. They cause arguments,
Speaker 1: they start fights, you know what I'm saying. They fucking
Speaker 1: pick at every little thing whatever, whatever. But they're doing
Speaker 1: that because that's what they're accustomed to, and they don't
Speaker 1: understand that that's not how things are supposed to go
Speaker 1: in real life. M what what's the same thing toxicity?
Speaker 1: I said, the toxic people. Most toxic people are toxic
Speaker 1: because they don't understand that they're being toxic toxic people.
Speaker 1: And I think people know when bush Yeah, But I
Speaker 1: don't think. I don't think. I think sometimes in some situations,
Speaker 1: they don't intentionally try to inflict their bullshit on people.
Speaker 1: They just can't help it because that's who they are
Speaker 1: as a person. They do some sad like you said,
Speaker 1: be the past trauma. A lot of ship you haven't
Speaker 1: been through you know what I'm saying, like if a female,
Speaker 1: if a female have been through a whole bunch of
Speaker 1: abusive relationships or something like that, she knows how to uh,
Speaker 1: she associate with love from fighting or whatever, stuff like that,
Speaker 1: she ain't gonna bring that in. She might she might
Speaker 1: sell consciously bring that to the next relationship. Not saying
Speaker 1: that she just but I feel like you're saying, right, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know you're touched. You know you if you busted
Speaker 1: out a cover when yeah, you know when you see
Speaker 1: something the nigga phone, you want to bust it head.
Speaker 1: You know that you because the woman is not like that,
Speaker 1: she's just gonna cry. Not but listening what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: A person that's like that might not know that they're toxic.
Speaker 1: They might just think this is how I'm supposed to
Speaker 1: handle things. That's what you know. What's different between write
Speaker 1: and roll good or bad good even you know the
Speaker 1: difference I should I probably should have my feel of her.
Speaker 1: So I probably was just walking away from you. But
Speaker 1: if I feel like nothing when you get in here,
Speaker 1: we got a toxic relationship. This is a toxic ship. No,
Speaker 1: it's def but the girl that's being to whoop the
Speaker 1: nigga's ask might not know that she's talk to because
Speaker 1: this is what she's used what you used to? What's
Speaker 1: up back? She said? She fighting, She's saying that it
Speaker 1: becomes so normal that they've accepted it, and it's kind
Speaker 1: of like the second like that is not right. I
Speaker 1: don't know what you do, what you're doing, like you
Speaker 1: know it's not right once you're grown period that they
Speaker 1: know too. If a little kid go grant that bottom
Speaker 1: and slamming of the gun, that was wrong because you
Speaker 1: don't see other people. You don't see this thing they do.
Speaker 1: Some people do. It ain't done and that's why they
Speaker 1: think is how it's supposed to go, depending on their environment,
Speaker 1: facts the fact. But you still know when you when
Speaker 1: you go outside into the world or look at TV,
Speaker 1: that's not happening. It's not happening the side of the world.
Speaker 1: It's happening the side of your world. But a lot
Speaker 1: of life as a kid, we just go to the
Speaker 1: bars and girl club ship we go to the other
Speaker 1: bars and girl club outside out We know we was
Speaker 1: in a different environment. So what we're doing gotta be wrong,
Speaker 1: right because we're being toxic and bringing the bullshit to
Speaker 1: these other boys and girls. No we're not. We're trying
Speaker 1: to walk a straight line because we see that this
Speaker 1: ship different up there. We're coming alway from our club,
Speaker 1: alway to brook Brooke haveven but club they got Jim bags,
Speaker 1: we got you not handwalking anymore. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like woman, Jim, we played on basketball on the carpet
Speaker 1: ship different. But see, in order to be able to
Speaker 1: understand that, you had to remove yourself from your environment
Speaker 1: and go to Brookhaven. Right, That's what I'm saying a
Speaker 1: lot of when you go to school, when you go
Speaker 1: around from people, you're gonna know if you're the you're
Speaker 1: the child is always arguing and fighting and this you're
Speaker 1: gonna know your talks about the people by going around
Speaker 1: different people. No, that's what I'm saying. Some people don't
Speaker 1: go outside of their box. Yes you do. Even if
Speaker 1: you don't go outside your box, you just don't see
Speaker 1: outside your box. If you go to the fucking if
Speaker 1: you go to the d m V with your mom
Speaker 1: to get a license, you you see how normal people
Speaker 1: acting def uh, cussing and doing all that loud like
Speaker 1: your mama doing you your Mom, get done there, barrass
Speaker 1: You're like, why you got that on? Mom? When you
Speaker 1: come to when you come to mind, when you come
Speaker 1: pick me up from school. I know that this wrong
Speaker 1: because I don't see no other kids Mama got this on.
Speaker 1: I think they know they got a problem or something,
Speaker 1: but they might not know how to deal with it
Speaker 1: or where it's coming from. That why you might need
Speaker 1: some caling. They're saying, be a subcountant adjusted. But you
Speaker 1: still know the difference, right, I'm not as right. You
Speaker 1: still know the different some people. Some people really don't.
Speaker 1: That's just like a female getting molested about her want,
Speaker 1: her parents, her parents growing up as a child. She's
Speaker 1: gonna notice and it's not right because I gotta them
Speaker 1: to keep this on the rug. It's something's gonna show
Speaker 1: you what's right and wrong to me. Okay, yeah, if
Speaker 1: you manipulated, manipulate, but you still know that he's wrong
Speaker 1: for manipulating me, if that makes sense what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But once you figure it out, you know it's wrong.
Speaker 1: You said. You're saying that human nature gives you somewhat
Speaker 1: of a notion of what's right and wrong. You are correct.
Speaker 1: What they're saying is that sometimes you can be so
Speaker 1: submerged into the wrong that for sure that's just a mindset.
Speaker 1: And now you don't program just said, But you still
Speaker 1: know once you that's the same thing we're just talking
Speaker 1: about the last time, about lying to yourself. You still
Speaker 1: know because no matter when when you do wrong, it's
Speaker 1: a feeling that you feel. Yeah, when you say something
Speaker 1: wrong to a person, hurt they feeling. It's a feeling
Speaker 1: that you felt. I know, I just hurt your feelings.
Speaker 1: I know that's wrong most toxic, but if I'm still
Speaker 1: don't mind hurt your feeling. I'm just like funk your feeling.
Speaker 1: That don't mean I don't know it's wrong some toxic ship. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I agree with Jay when she was saying toxic
Speaker 1: people are mostly hurt because most toxic people they try
Speaker 1: they're hurt, so they try to hurt people. So you
Speaker 1: can feel what I feel. So when you have her
Speaker 1: toxic relationships, nine times I attend if the girl is toxic,
Speaker 1: whatever you did to hurt her feelings, you could have cheated.
Speaker 1: She may feel that now I gotta hurt you. I
Speaker 1: know if I cheat on you, ain't gonna hurt you.
Speaker 1: This same so'mna swing on you. So now we're just
Speaker 1: in this toxic sip swinging on you know. She know
Speaker 1: before I swing on this man, I could hurt him.
Speaker 1: And if I'm hurting him, this is wrong. Yes, I'm
Speaker 1: I'm kind of no, I'm saying yes, and because I
Speaker 1: kind of agree with them when they're saying some people
Speaker 1: don't know, like and agree with him when he's saying
Speaker 1: love language. Some people like really in the hood, like ghetto, ghetto,
Speaker 1: ghetto people, that's all they've known. Fighting that be their
Speaker 1: love language. That Netflix movie when they was arguing on
Speaker 1: like a Motherfucker's and they and h denzel Son you
Speaker 1: know I'm talking about are you talking about? I don't know.
Speaker 1: It was arguing that it was bad and like every
Speaker 1: time somebody says something, the other person to say something
Speaker 1: lower and then lower and lower, then then start sucking. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Because that was the normal.
Speaker 1: That's how some people identified with love though. Like I
Speaker 1: know a girl told me no, she said, how dude
Speaker 1: by slam on her like in front of the apartments
Speaker 1: outside on the sidewalk, And she told me and she said,
Speaker 1: oh that when I knew he funked up about me.
Speaker 1: Oh he loved me. Some people be thinking like people,
Speaker 1: and that's how she really identified with like a nigger
Speaker 1: really loving her like that. Some people are like that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know you said. They know it's you know, because
Speaker 1: the ain't nobody else getting by the slap, So you
Speaker 1: know that that's wrong. But I like it. I like wrong.
Speaker 1: If you're like wrong, just because if you like wrong,
Speaker 1: is it you're right? Nosily you're right at that time. No, well,
Speaker 1: I guess I ain't making sense if you if you
Speaker 1: like what's wrong, is that you're right. They're coming out right,
Speaker 1: come out when I ain't smoking this ship. What I'm
Speaker 1: saying just because I can justify that's a word from
Speaker 1: big fact. Just because I can justify something and make
Speaker 1: you see it my way, doesn't mean that I don't
Speaker 1: know what I did what's wrong correct. They're saying that
Speaker 1: because I could be right, I could be dead as right.
Speaker 1: Somebody come in and do something one of y'all rch
Speaker 1: way and not and not overreact and shot him in
Speaker 1: the face. To me, I can make that right. To me,
Speaker 1: that don't still in the court of law, you are
Speaker 1: wrong and guilty, but you don't believe right wrong. You
Speaker 1: don't believe right or wrong. It's sejected. Yeah, right and
Speaker 1: wrong be factual because everybody's right. What's the other word
Speaker 1: that we used when we were talking about justified account?
Speaker 1: I want to count it was justified and what else? Validate, validate, validate?
Speaker 1: So damn where you talking about? Actually? No, it's but
Speaker 1: it's like, but it's like I feel what black and Sam,
Speaker 1: But I don't think he totally gets what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You're saying you could be doing something so long that
Speaker 1: it becomes right in your mind and in your heart. No,
Speaker 1: it's like you don't. It's not even about right or
Speaker 1: wrong because you haven't even consciously gotten to the point
Speaker 1: to realize the difference what they say. You're talking about
Speaker 1: the human notion of it. Right. But if a woman
Speaker 1: grew up watching her parents do all kind of abusive
Speaker 1: and crazy toxic ship, she might be clearly what yall
Speaker 1: are I'm gonna make a perfect extent of like I
Speaker 1: grew up saying my mama, I got I got whoopings
Speaker 1: like most of the guys. Woman's um. But now I
Speaker 1: want my little daughter when I grew up, when she
Speaker 1: when she was born. I used to whoop her. But
Speaker 1: now when she was born, no, no, after she grew
Speaker 1: up or whatever, not no baby, but when she she
Speaker 1: got weapons, you know what I'm saying. She got womens,
Speaker 1: she over disobey, she got weapons. But now when I
Speaker 1: look at it, I don't feel like I don't know
Speaker 1: about woopings no more, because I feel like maybe that's
Speaker 1: some trauma from me getting beat, from us getting beat,
Speaker 1: and now I'll grow from that. So so basically I
Speaker 1: kind of feel what she's said. Yeah, because like I
Speaker 1: really know, then you feel what I'm saying. That's all,
Speaker 1: that's all. You're not wrong in her opinion. Everybody right
Speaker 1: and wrong, but then some people feel like wrong. But
Speaker 1: to me, as swipings give you consequences early, this is
Speaker 1: my perfect example need consequence. This is my perfect example. Wait,
Speaker 1: but everybody, you okay, you you feel like a shippings
Speaker 1: weren't wrong because you were brought up on a swappons
Speaker 1: exactly went that. But that's what I'm saying. But she
Speaker 1: had My grandma had been the men through some trauma
Speaker 1: she to do us, so she probably and knew she
Speaker 1: knew she was wrong. She might not have known she
Speaker 1: might have felt that this was the only way to
Speaker 1: properly raise you. Guys. She was right because certain ship
Speaker 1: the man asks would have been killed me out a
Speaker 1: lot of ship that could have LED's my demise. Okay,
Speaker 1: consequence and give you second thought, like because the first
Speaker 1: time you ever thought about the wrong you thought about
Speaker 1: that ad whipping Like, Okay, I know I want to
Speaker 1: I know, I want to uh show out in school today.
Speaker 1: Now they're gonna get that ad whoop that kind of whipping,
Speaker 1: so now you you just it really makes you clever.
Speaker 1: The man ass was to make you clever. It makes
Speaker 1: you sneaky. But the ass because she felt like it
Speaker 1: was a proper way to rage, y'all, is no different
Speaker 1: from me going with scream and getting into it with
Speaker 1: him and whipping his ass because I saw my mama
Speaker 1: whipped on my daddy's ass because I felt like that
Speaker 1: was a proper way to teach him how to love it.
Speaker 1: Anything with consequences, you know they are wrong. Okay, if
Speaker 1: you come in whip on, scream and scream press charges
Speaker 1: on you, then with now you now you somewhere in
Speaker 1: the in the cale, not what is it not? We're
Speaker 1: not even going ho but you don't know if this
Speaker 1: thing of police or now, how are you gonna feel
Speaker 1: about his hip? You don't know how they're gonna feel
Speaker 1: about you putting your hands on them. Now when you
Speaker 1: got accepting what accountability? Yeah, now you're not you and
Speaker 1: jail thinking. You don't let the way you was raised
Speaker 1: take you to a point to now you're gonna have
Speaker 1: to accept it. No, I get that, And that's the
Speaker 1: wrong time to be right. You are. What I'm saying
Speaker 1: is when you knew that was wrong. We didn't even
Speaker 1: get that part to the consequences. We're just speaking on
Speaker 1: why it happens in the first place. But anything with
Speaker 1: consequences are wrong. You get what I'm saying, anything with
Speaker 1: anything with because everything everything with um consequence that can
Speaker 1: hurt you. Yeah, I guess punishment, I get anything, But
Speaker 1: punishment is wrong, right, Yeah, some people get punished. It
Speaker 1: depends what with punishment not wrong? You might get somebody
Speaker 1: get locked up wrongfully punished. Yeah, saying that I'm saying
Speaker 1: if you did it personally, you know you did it personally. Yeah.
Speaker 1: The punishment though, because your mama might take your PlayStation
Speaker 1: if you come home late. Is that wrong? Is she wrong,
Speaker 1: but you wrong what I'm saying you you say it's
Speaker 1: a bad anything with a bad punishment or consequence, that
Speaker 1: means you've done something wrong. Well yeah, well according to
Speaker 1: wrong according to the person who's that, they could be
Speaker 1: not wrong. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, they could be
Speaker 1: just overdoing so like the law. So for clarity, a
Speaker 1: person knows when they're toxic, They just know. I think
Speaker 1: so because people brand on it. I think people know
Speaker 1: when they talk relationships. Do a person if a person,
Speaker 1: if a person gets strong out on a drug or
Speaker 1: something like that and it feels so good to them
Speaker 1: and they feel like they've told theirselves this is me
Speaker 1: I'm saying, is that person I know that is wrong?
Speaker 1: Is it wrong? That's what I'm saying. Like some people,
Speaker 1: some people correct, some people turn wrongs in the rights
Speaker 1: advice result, this is my right. I feel like this
Speaker 1: is right, and you can't tell me nothing like this
Speaker 1: is what I feel is right. But with about your
Speaker 1: teeth and ship missing but wrong. No, But at that
Speaker 1: point they're not even the right. You can't compare that
Speaker 1: because that's being under the influence as opposed to somebody
Speaker 1: only seeing this exactly be as simple as watching too
Speaker 1: much TV, on too much social media, or you die
Speaker 1: or whatever. Like it can go to so many things,
Speaker 1: but it's like toxic. You ain't watching too much TV
Speaker 1: can make somebody toxic. If you are you watching this
Speaker 1: toxic ship. Yeah all you're looking on social media, this
Speaker 1: toxic ship a real ship. Music too too much of
Speaker 1: that ship can click a different switch. If you just
Speaker 1: listened to the ship that I listened to. So you're
Speaker 1: thinking when you listen to this, you listen to all
Speaker 1: this music, did you know this music was wrong before
Speaker 1: you were listening to it? That's all that's you got
Speaker 1: a step on the front of the seat. Don't listen
Speaker 1: to asking my own when you when you go on
Speaker 1: these websites and stuff, they got what they gotta rightside
Speaker 1: of explicit, What does explicit mean? You want to be
Speaker 1: listening explicit? I'm just saying, like so it always warning
Speaker 1: for destruction, is what I'm saying. If you account of
Speaker 1: know when you're doing wrong and what's right or wrong
Speaker 1: to tell you on the cigarette you if you keep
Speaker 1: smoking this ship, you're going to die when you're a
Speaker 1: product of your environment. That's the same thing and saying
Speaker 1: I know, I'm I'm living wrong? But fuck it? Then
Speaker 1: what it is? How when you're a product of your environment?
Speaker 1: True enough, some people are able to differentiate and understand that.
Speaker 1: But it's a lot of people that don't understand that
Speaker 1: just because this is all I know, it's not right.
Speaker 1: It's a lot of people that don't understand that that
Speaker 1: feel like, I just feel like you could be you know,
Speaker 1: right from wrong. But once you accept it that wrong
Speaker 1: is right. Funk, what's right? That's what you're saying. But no,
Speaker 1: not a kid. Some people hold on on some people.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying is some people haven't even gotten to
Speaker 1: the point to be able to understand that something is
Speaker 1: wrong to accept they got to be a kid. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: you know the phrase, you know the phrase if if
Speaker 1: you knew better, you do better. That's pretty much what
Speaker 1: you said. Some people don't eat ignorance. Something ignorance is
Speaker 1: thin about the bank you changing them your lifestyle and
Speaker 1: your diet and your fitness because you know better. Now,
Speaker 1: some people don't know any better. Yeah yeah, and they'll
Speaker 1: they'll never I knew them, I knew like fuck it right.
Speaker 1: Nick can't tell me, But I ain't get from the
Speaker 1: statements everybody else it just become fit to fit the
Speaker 1: rule if I do identifying, so fuck it. I know
Speaker 1: how I'm living is wrong. Mh. But you just but
Speaker 1: you're making yourself you You're you're choosing ma. It is
Speaker 1: what it is. It is. I feel what he's saying
Speaker 1: to everybody has a great valid What about these kids
Speaker 1: that coming up in the household. Some kids just adept
Speaker 1: to it because it's in me. You got something. Kids
Speaker 1: be like, Man, I hate my parents. I hate everything
Speaker 1: about that. I don't deal with that. That's true because
Speaker 1: they made a choice that this is wrong. I know
Speaker 1: it's wrong, but something is a know it's wrong, and
Speaker 1: the crowd about it for a few months. You want
Speaker 1: to be right, But no, that's wrong. Those people to
Speaker 1: do that what you just said are dead ass wrong.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to But what I'm saying is
Speaker 1: it's some people that hadn't even gotten to that point
Speaker 1: to even be able to comprehend and understand. I totally
Speaker 1: get what you're saying, and you right when I got
Speaker 1: big no y'are both making points on both say. It's
Speaker 1: no right or wrong answer. It's not a right or
Speaker 1: wrong answer. I feel like I don't really believe in
Speaker 1: objective universal right a wrong anyway, because like right a wrong,
Speaker 1: it's abjective. You create right or wrong in your mind.
Speaker 1: You might have some people feel like abortion is right.
Speaker 1: Some people feel like it's wrong. What is it really?
Speaker 1: Some people feel like the deaf pendity rights. So I
Speaker 1: feel like it's wrong. What is it? Really? It's right
Speaker 1: or wrong according to who, the law, the Bible, what like.
Speaker 1: So it's like right or wrong. It's really just back
Speaker 1: again another. So there's so many of them that like
Speaker 1: it changes different whatever geographical location you in. Over here,
Speaker 1: right might be something totally different than wrong over here
Speaker 1: we was brought up on, So you know, it's really
Speaker 1: according to who. So it's a deftly that really when
Speaker 1: you think about it, But what is where do we start? Toxicity? Yeah?
Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah toxic people? Yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: when it comes into relationship, Like you said, they'd be knowing,
Speaker 1: maybe knowing. They got a lot of time, a lot
Speaker 1: of time they be They might not know where it
Speaker 1: came from a high but they know they gotta film out.
Speaker 1: They know, they got an attitude. They know something, but
Speaker 1: people don't. They might they I think what they're saying
Speaker 1: is they might get that feeling and not I think
Speaker 1: in relationship, if that feeling but they know they know
Speaker 1: what they're doing, is yeah, I think you know, I
Speaker 1: like like some people they might get that feeling, but
Speaker 1: they not might not know how to identify. And I
Speaker 1: think that's a lot more just being out. I think
Speaker 1: that women deal with that probably a lot more. Let yeah,
Speaker 1: I think that's actually yeah. I think because you have
Speaker 1: a lot of mixed emotions more exactly, I think what
Speaker 1: relationships is No, I don't think that, but niggas act
Speaker 1: like bitches too, though I'm not the first way exactly,
Speaker 1: but I think what relationships you kind of know when
Speaker 1: you're being toxic if that ship ain't right and it
Speaker 1: ain't smooth selling like you even if were fighting every
Speaker 1: day nine times attend, it's toxic. We're not good for
Speaker 1: each other. If you're calling me bitches and house and
Speaker 1: I'm calling you things all that we talked in to
Speaker 1: each other, Like, I don't think that that is unless
Speaker 1: that's y'all comment verbage to each other, like it's the
Speaker 1: nigga and a bit to You don't mean ship, that's
Speaker 1: your own subjective communication, So it's not really toxic. But
Speaker 1: if you know that a person isn't used to that
Speaker 1: and they don't speak that way, that they don't like that. Bro,
Speaker 1: we're being toxic. If if we get into it because
Speaker 1: I didn't went through your phone. I'm going through your
Speaker 1: phone every day. It's toxic. You're going through my phone.
Speaker 1: It's toxic me every time I see something. We in
Speaker 1: this big as argument, we're fucking toxic. Bro like that.
Speaker 1: I think that at that point, you know you're being toxic.
Speaker 1: But I also agree with Jade. If you're from a
Speaker 1: certain part and this is all the funk you know
Speaker 1: and you just getting your ass be, then you think
Speaker 1: that the love. I agree with you. If you think
Speaker 1: that the way a person show love is through violence
Speaker 1: or if he hit me or swing on me, I
Speaker 1: know he loved me. He going crazy? I think that's
Speaker 1: off your upbringing and it's not your fault. You don't
Speaker 1: know that. It's a perfect example to try to get
Speaker 1: my point across slavery. M what about it? Slavery when
Speaker 1: slaves were growing up and slaves were being having babies
Speaker 1: and all that kind of ship whatever, whatever, they didn't
Speaker 1: know that slavery was wrong. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: they didn't know that that's not how you're supposed to live,
Speaker 1: that you're not supposed to be another man's property. That
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, you're not supposed to slave
Speaker 1: yourself for free for somebody else. But they didn't know
Speaker 1: until a certain point that they should rebel against that
Speaker 1: and try to fight for their rights, which is totally
Speaker 1: fucked up. But at the end of the day, for
Speaker 1: however many years, that's all they knew. So that's all
Speaker 1: they did was get up, go to work pit cotton
Speaker 1: every day, lay back down and try not to you know,
Speaker 1: try to walk on eghell so that they wouldn't get
Speaker 1: in trouble and get beaten. But they didn't know. They
Speaker 1: didn't they didn't know, and they didn't understand that they
Speaker 1: were just as them and as their masters were, and
Speaker 1: there there was no difference. But that's all they that's
Speaker 1: all they saw, and that's all they knew was being enslaved.
Speaker 1: So it took, however many years. Slaves to the slave
Speaker 1: masters would be considered toxic. Slave masters would be considered toxic.
Speaker 1: But you can also related to that too, because even
Speaker 1: though a lot of slave masters knew that beating on
Speaker 1: these people and making these people feel beneath them was wrong.
Speaker 1: The kids that came up in that, and you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, the all of the people, well, I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna say all of the people, but a lot
Speaker 1: of the people that were like born into the masters
Speaker 1: side and the slave side didn't understand because there was
Speaker 1: no other example for them to see. Going for that,
Speaker 1: I can go into masters that they were being wrong.
Speaker 1: Did they feel wrong? Did they feel wrong? They? Sure?
Speaker 1: I think some of them. I think it was just
Speaker 1: all on who the type of person you are a period.
Speaker 1: If you think about it, because you have some slave
Speaker 1: masters that if you read books, they didn't treat they
Speaker 1: didn't beat their slaves. States just was like here a
Speaker 1: job and your people over here, and that's cool. Then
Speaker 1: you have something that was on the high horse that
Speaker 1: beat the funk out of their people. You know what
Speaker 1: I mean? Um, I think that even even then, I'm
Speaker 1: sure black people when they was in their rooms, like bro,
Speaker 1: we ain't trying to be slaves. I don't think that
Speaker 1: people just was chilling with it. Slave masters, slave masters
Speaker 1: being toxic and what you mean because they that's what
Speaker 1: she was saying slaves into born into it s was that, Okay,
Speaker 1: I have to get up and pick cotton every day.
Speaker 1: But it took them over and they knew it was
Speaker 1: how this funk out that they knew that them folks
Speaker 1: are staying in the house. Did she can't be right, man?
Speaker 1: How the dogs and ship this ship gotta be wrong?
Speaker 1: Not But what I'm saying that something for whatever, they
Speaker 1: don't mean, you don't know you in the position. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. That's not what I'm saying. You're
Speaker 1: you're that makes sense what you're saying. But what I'm
Speaker 1: saying is is like to a certain extent, they didn't
Speaker 1: understand until after a certain amount of time had passed
Speaker 1: that hey, we got to do something about this because
Speaker 1: this is not how we're supposed to be living. I
Speaker 1: think your point would be super valid if we use
Speaker 1: the the white kids and the black kids growing up,
Speaker 1: because when they first grow up into the slavery, they're
Speaker 1: playing with each other and then eventually they tell that
Speaker 1: white person like, Okay, now you gotta make your friend
Speaker 1: go do this, and now they're in that weird situation
Speaker 1: where they don't know that they're being talk to. This
Speaker 1: is what I was talking to you seeing your power
Speaker 1: whipping this other nigga, this black man. You know how
Speaker 1: clean your clothes is, how dirty he is is. That
Speaker 1: is something going on and it just doesn'tect. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: know we eating Nash the part of the pig, and
Speaker 1: y'all eat the ribs and all the good ship. There's
Speaker 1: something going on here, man. Yeah what you say, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel, I feel what you're saying. But I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: I just think it's no right a wrong. Yeah, because
Speaker 1: I feel ja, And I also say, accept the ignorance, yea,
Speaker 1: even even like say right now, if they just tomorrow,
Speaker 1: that's what it is like. Accept the ignorance. That's what
Speaker 1: you do. You have yourself in the situation where you're
Speaker 1: gonna make the best out of the wrong. In that
Speaker 1: situation with the slaves, Okay, they're gonna cook and make
Speaker 1: chickens and ship tastes better than that ship they're eating there,
Speaker 1: because we know how to pick the season and the
Speaker 1: herbs and all kind of ship that they don't know.
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. So they're making the best
Speaker 1: out of the situation. But at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: I know him in a funked up situation. That's what
Speaker 1: I'm trying to say. You're saying, no matter what happens,
Speaker 1: you know you in a situation, human instincts kicking and right.
Speaker 1: And what Jade is saying is you're basically your product
Speaker 1: of your environment. You don't always know. Yeah, that's because
Speaker 1: it's subjective. It keeps changing. So if you if you,
Speaker 1: if you say you're over there overseas somewhere and your
Speaker 1: parents on some suicide bombership and they teach you that
Speaker 1: this is how you honor you know, you goddamn Americans,
Speaker 1: and you really grew up in your heart feeling like
Speaker 1: you know, but you know, but you're knowing. Okay, I
Speaker 1: agree with that. I agree with that. But still you're
Speaker 1: still hearing the opinion of these people want some people,
Speaker 1: I'm being blowed up. You're looking at all these families
Speaker 1: and ship crying that still, but they don't see that.
Speaker 1: If you ain't blowed up, you're seeing this all over
Speaker 1: your life. You know, went on that blow the body folk.
Speaker 1: Look at all these people crying the ship. Why do
Speaker 1: you vote crying? If it's not wrong? But why are
Speaker 1: people sad? But they fit? They feel like people, They
Speaker 1: feel like these people are doing haunted like how you
Speaker 1: felt when when they killed a terrorist, and so how
Speaker 1: they make you feel? Do you feel bad for the teterriant?
Speaker 1: You feel like they've done something good? Ter didn't feel
Speaker 1: bad for I've look into everything what we undid to
Speaker 1: this man for him to be a tears I feel that.
Speaker 1: That's how I look at ship, bro, Like I guess
Speaker 1: I look at it the wrong way, like it's deeper
Speaker 1: than what I know, because there ain't nobody the niggas
Speaker 1: who don't know what it's wrong. And when it's terrorism
Speaker 1: and all this ship come from Wanta took some ship
Speaker 1: years and years, and that nigga still bucking in these
Speaker 1: different countries. What I'm saying, they probably feel like they right,
Speaker 1: like you know what I'm saying. Yeah, So that's why
Speaker 1: it's objectives. You're gonna feel the non terrorists are gonna
Speaker 1: feel like they just took a murderer off the street.
Speaker 1: Like when you're very mind saying, like you said, I've
Speaker 1: been mind fun like this, you grow into this ship.
Speaker 1: This is is the same thing as product of the environment,
Speaker 1: because if you're a product of your environment, you've been mine.
Speaker 1: But that environment, Yeah, something inside of us. And I
Speaker 1: don't know if I'm the only person gutting inside of
Speaker 1: me that I know no matter what I'm doing, I
Speaker 1: know when you when you get to because why I'm
Speaker 1: terri just be mad when they're ready to blow some
Speaker 1: ship up. Yeah they got ready. I'm mad because open
Speaker 1: go do some bullshit that the niggles still either they
Speaker 1: right or wrong. If you're pure, there's no wrong you're
Speaker 1: gonna bring to someone else. So what about you're not
Speaker 1: gonna take a life? What about the man shootings that
Speaker 1: get the court and stand on it, be like I
Speaker 1: ain't guilty. That's what I was supposed to do. The
Speaker 1: Niggers are supposed to die out all that crazy ship.
Speaker 1: What about like them type of brainwashing? Then don't be
Speaker 1: really brotherhood and all that down this road? Yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: yeah I still know I did. Yeah yeah, yeah. I
Speaker 1: don't think I can say whatever the funk I want
Speaker 1: to say to make myself look like how I want
Speaker 1: to look. But deep down, yeah you talk about deep down?
Speaker 1: You know, I'm just talking about deep down your core
Speaker 1: when you look in the mirror. But ignorance still, But
Speaker 1: ignorance is this something is don't know, bet Turf they
Speaker 1: might know, but they don't know. Bet turf. They don't
Speaker 1: want to know. Nah, I can't go for that. They
Speaker 1: don't want to They haven't damn't got to the to
Speaker 1: the place of their journey where they know better. Think
Speaker 1: like the American soldiers, right, we go over there and
Speaker 1: go to war. They think they're going over for the
Speaker 1: greater good, and they see the people they're killing. They're
Speaker 1: killing the wrong people. You think they don't know that
Speaker 1: that's wrong. I'm gonna but I'm gonna go as far
Speaker 1: as to say right a wrong, what you think is
Speaker 1: right a wrong is like your feelings is programming the engineer,
Speaker 1: and't you I know it sounds crazy, but I'm gonna
Speaker 1: go like, like, okay, we can say killing um, just
Speaker 1: as far as let's say somebody I know a spider.
Speaker 1: They killed the spider, right, and then I said, as
Speaker 1: soon as they killed it, I said, how did you feel?
Speaker 1: I said, did you feel like you did something wrong?
Speaker 1: And he said, no, that's a spider. They don't feel like.
Speaker 1: But somebody else with a different ideology, repeter, some or
Speaker 1: dog or anything, they're gonna really feel like. They're gonna
Speaker 1: feel something totally different. Yeah, Yeah, now you're right some
Speaker 1: people I'm trying to kill buzz and from up I
Speaker 1: got a hup. She don't like that ship the programming
Speaker 1: when you come to writer, I don't really believe in
Speaker 1: the objective universal right right with that notion that I
Speaker 1: mean that is true, just bag, so back back to it,
Speaker 1: a universal objective. Whatever you just said for toxic, I
Speaker 1: don't think so. But still what I'm saying. Then let
Speaker 1: me let me say this too, because you know I'll
Speaker 1: be stuck on my point. Your point of valid, your
Speaker 1: point is valid. I feel like if a nigga do something,
Speaker 1: it may not be wrong to him, you still know
Speaker 1: the effect of what you've done. It could be wrong
Speaker 1: with somebody. That's just like somebody do something to somebody
Speaker 1: I love dearly, and I go out me running around
Speaker 1: look for him, knowing fuck that I'm on some moorship.
Speaker 1: Not yeah, because somebody else will sit in the house
Speaker 1: and call nine one one and cooperate and figure out
Speaker 1: how to do this thing. But you feel like you
Speaker 1: want to be a slider or a shooter, you knowing
Speaker 1: fuck that I'm on some more. Yeah, yeah, no matter
Speaker 1: if it was right, I gotta get you because that's
Speaker 1: how I live. I gotta get you because you did
Speaker 1: this to my My mother's crying about her son or
Speaker 1: whatever whatever. I gotta do this, But that's still in
Speaker 1: my mind. I had to say funk this to do it.
Speaker 1: And what am I saying? Fuck? Fuck if I'm wrong? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean both. You all right still because I nigga's no,
Speaker 1: but you You're definitely right because there there are people
Speaker 1: out there who just it's program. But I still feel
Speaker 1: like along the way you doesn't have your If you
Speaker 1: got doubts on things, then you know it's something in there.
Speaker 1: Like if you're asking questions like instead of just nicka,
Speaker 1: who just going with this? What it is? You? You
Speaker 1: ask a question like, well, mom, well why don't we
Speaker 1: like black people? I'm talking about this? What it is? Niggas?
Speaker 1: This what it is? NA that's only talking about I'm
Speaker 1: on it, but I know what we don't still, nah man,
Speaker 1: I'm on that. But I know what we all because
Speaker 1: I still got people in school like why y'all, Why
Speaker 1: y'all do people like that? Why I still got people
Speaker 1: that's asked me like that, because I'm going I'm not
Speaker 1: going to just be stuck in a coat in the house.
Speaker 1: Most people are though people people she's talking about. The
Speaker 1: people she's talking about stand on all of that. To
Speaker 1: the people in school, why y'all do neggat because that's
Speaker 1: what we're supposed to do. It is what it is.
Speaker 1: But guess what I'm questioning that you're getting making you
Speaker 1: still don't make some people think. No, I'm telling you
Speaker 1: it might not make you think, but it's still making
Speaker 1: you consider. No, some people, it doesn't. It doesn't click
Speaker 1: like that with some people. I promise you. It's just
Speaker 1: like racism and really don't know look at it. Look
Speaker 1: at the super super super young dude that it might
Speaker 1: be twelve or thirteen or fourteen. Rent it went and
Speaker 1: there some major crimes for serious shit, spinning the block,
Speaker 1: killed some things or whatever, right, and they didn't know
Speaker 1: the severity of it, if they felt known by it,
Speaker 1: because they just figured this is what we're supposed to be,
Speaker 1: this is what I'm doing. Then theyre in front of
Speaker 1: the judge and the judges like you're facing this or
Speaker 1: you're facing this or you're facing this year and then
Speaker 1: they break down and ship they might not have known
Speaker 1: the severity of what that crime might get them. You
Speaker 1: see what I'm saying, but you still know, point your
Speaker 1: gun and another person and killing them, even if you
Speaker 1: get away with it, it's just morally wrong. And then
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, you know that, yeah,
Speaker 1: right wrong. And nine times at attend that twelve year
Speaker 1: old is hiding that gun. Mom and daddy don't know
Speaker 1: they got that gun. And she started off on the bullshit. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so if the case you ain't my mom, and then
Speaker 1: go out there slide, yeah, ain't wrong because I'm done
Speaker 1: to it. But it's something, it's something no, and I'm
Speaker 1: not I'm not I'm not trying, and it's some mama's
Speaker 1: it allowed, Yeah, and you know what I'm saying, and
Speaker 1: bringing the ship to their mom the house. Yeah, like
Speaker 1: and then counted up everybody else one of my own
Speaker 1: I'm on that ass niggas. So the whole house is
Speaker 1: on that, and that's why they are on that, and
Speaker 1: they don't understand the difference because nobody that's around them
Speaker 1: is not on that. And you can also be pressured
Speaker 1: to be on that, and you don't want to be
Speaker 1: on that pressure to be on that. That's just like
Speaker 1: you said, you know that, you know the difference if
Speaker 1: you have to be pressured, like you said, But niggas
Speaker 1: that eat sleep, wake up ship and go to bed
Speaker 1: with that ship and don't even flinch because this is
Speaker 1: all they know. That's the niggas that I'm speaking to,
Speaker 1: and I'm speaking but would smoke up blunt. Whenever you
Speaker 1: think you still of thinking whether it is right or
Speaker 1: wrong or what are you doing, you might still come
Speaker 1: back to it if you still what if the person,
Speaker 1: what if the person though that that that taught you
Speaker 1: you like like your son, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: and your son admire you like your hero. You see
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, And you taught him the way that
Speaker 1: you know, which might be wrong, subjectively wrong, whatever the
Speaker 1: case is. And then he just running with that because
Speaker 1: that's all he knows. That's what she kind of said.
Speaker 1: All he knows is whatever my pops tell me is right.
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna give to slide and be a slave.
Speaker 1: I'm going to slide to be a slave, like you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Whatever it is, my daddy told
Speaker 1: me this, and my daddy is my world. So that's
Speaker 1: that's what I'm gonna do. And it's no wrong in
Speaker 1: that because this is my daddy telling me that I
Speaker 1: don't know if it's a cult, it's it's teaching different
Speaker 1: blood that before you went and change and he smoked
Speaker 1: Craig mm hm, and you're my hero, but I don't
Speaker 1: want to smoke crack hero. That sh ain't got you
Speaker 1: looking right? Can't that the consequences, the negative consequences bringing him?
Speaker 1: So you're like, man, no, that's something in me telling
Speaker 1: me that. Ain't that. Ain't that? Ain't it? That's what
Speaker 1: I'm trying to say, Like I feel like he's always
Speaker 1: gonna be signs. But but see, that's a substance. Like
Speaker 1: like I said earlier, we can't really compare substances to
Speaker 1: mind frames because it's two different it's two different things.
Speaker 1: You can see you can you can see us. You
Speaker 1: can see the effects that a substance has, but a
Speaker 1: mind frame you can't necessarily tell how detrimental it is
Speaker 1: until it's too late. Dum facts facts a the way facts,
Speaker 1: the big facts. Something some parents would teach their kids
Speaker 1: not to call the police on. Parents will teach their
Speaker 1: kids to which one is right or wrong. We know
Speaker 1: how we feel, but yeah, it's back to being subjective.
Speaker 1: That ship fuck up? What all this ship because you're
Speaker 1: definitely right about what you're saying, nigga, because some niggas
Speaker 1: be stuck, like, did you what it is? I me personally?
Speaker 1: To me, I feel as if though, and I'm saying
Speaker 1: it's to any nigger who feel like it is what
Speaker 1: it is right now. If you haven't any type of slight,
Speaker 1: that's what it is. It's the schlit king. It ain't
Speaker 1: what you're thinking. You this what it is not. It's
Speaker 1: the schlight, the slight trying to kick in or you
Speaker 1: can ignore that all day facts. But if something making
Speaker 1: you feel like you can't sleep after you do ship,
Speaker 1: or you did you didn't brand something else because niggas
Speaker 1: who do that, nigg is going to get a cheap
Speaker 1: bird who goddamn that's what they own. But if you knowing,
Speaker 1: you know, you know that she ain't sitting right with you,
Speaker 1: or god damn, you feel like you're gonna tell your
Speaker 1: way out of some ship, then that one for you.
Speaker 1: But that ain't for you straight up, But I I'm
Speaker 1: gonna stick on that. I feel like everybody still know.
Speaker 1: I think I think that's because you've got something that
Speaker 1: everybody don't have in this insight you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I don't even call an insight. I call it discernament.
Speaker 1: Discernment insight something within you that the sting was just
Speaker 1: right for wrong. But there are some people. There are
Speaker 1: some people that don't have that, or they don't know
Speaker 1: how to say into it. Yeah, I guess it just
Speaker 1: sounds kind of like weird because I can't see a
Speaker 1: motherfucker not seeing what you're wanted to see, if that
Speaker 1: makes sense, Because you have I just said it. You
Speaker 1: have insight. You are able to see clearly, and you
Speaker 1: probably see more clear now than you used to, but
Speaker 1: more inside. I'm saying, I still even when I was
Speaker 1: a dumbash nigger, I knew I was a dumbash niggle.
Speaker 1: Did you feel like you was wrong? Yes? Or toxic? Yes?
Speaker 1: We're smoking weed, drunk weeds. She know, my wife. I'm
Speaker 1: doing everything. I know this is wrong, but I like this.
Speaker 1: You like the feeling of the toxicity, all toxic. Sh
Speaker 1: it feels good. That's what I'm saying. I know I'm wrong.
Speaker 1: I try to make right out of that, cause COG
Speaker 1: got them. When I'm coming out, You'll be man, shut
Speaker 1: the funk up. But if you're doing that because that's
Speaker 1: what you wanna do. M I see what he said,
Speaker 1: but basically it would have to be he's saying, I'm
Speaker 1: I'm I'm I know I'm wrong. According to who taught me,
Speaker 1: this was yes, basically, yes, I know I'm wrong. I
Speaker 1: know it's gonna be some opinions about how I am,
Speaker 1: but fuck you and y'all could be right. But y'all
Speaker 1: standing on this is this is That's what I'm trying
Speaker 1: to say, Like, how are you going like like you
Speaker 1: were saying about the people who blow up blow up
Speaker 1: the terrorship, they still knowing no matter what our beliefs are,
Speaker 1: we know we're about people feel like this some bullshit.
Speaker 1: Yeah it's gonna hurt some people, but you don't care.
Speaker 1: But I don't give a fuck. Y'all, if that's what
Speaker 1: you talked was right, then you're gonna you talk. If
Speaker 1: you was talking that that was wrong, you're gonna you're gonna, yeah,
Speaker 1: you might go get back to fuck it. But I
Speaker 1: felt that first because we already and what are we
Speaker 1: what what? What all have we been taught that was wrong?
Speaker 1: So if we go, we go by the Bible, the laws,
Speaker 1: your parents, we have been taught this. Yeah, okay, yeah
Speaker 1: we're fighting this year, but such they had to do
Speaker 1: twenty years, so that's wrong. We just tell who who
Speaker 1: because if you go up in the household, that's what
Speaker 1: they don't. They don't lost people, people don't die, people
Speaker 1: don't win the jail, people don't woo woo. So it's
Speaker 1: still this is what comes with this. As a child
Speaker 1: used to know that you're going to lisen. They the
Speaker 1: hell I got them three art of two stroke, got
Speaker 1: the open heart surgery, all this ship from folk let
Speaker 1: them go. They thought they're gonna check out their motherfucker
Speaker 1: and they're going in land. Man, so you want that.
Speaker 1: I feel kind of better for that man from the
Speaker 1: nick forever, like all your kids don't see that, Like
Speaker 1: this is what he did, and this is what he did,
Speaker 1: This is what he stood on and this is what happened.
Speaker 1: Like examples right, the wrong, right, right, right, Like I said,
Speaker 1: it depends on what you've been taught. But um, like
Speaker 1: I said, right or wrong, gonna keep changing. But it's
Speaker 1: gonna keep changing. Like if you if you keep like
Speaker 1: because if you say over here, the legal ladies consent
Speaker 1: is eighteen. That's what we feel is right, you go
Speaker 1: below that belt. We've made a social countract and agreement
Speaker 1: that we don't go right. But in other parts of
Speaker 1: the world they started grooming, they started their family together,
Speaker 1: having six, getting kids. So who wrong or right? You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Yeah, but what you said according
Speaker 1: to what we was taught, Like what I was taught
Speaker 1: this was wrong. Stand on that. I feel that I'm
Speaker 1: gonna know within myself when I do this, that something right.
Speaker 1: But in fact, but it just it just it gets
Speaker 1: tricky though, because when you got de folks that believe
Speaker 1: is and d folks that believe is, and then they clash,
Speaker 1: it's like, damn, who really right a wrong? So then
Speaker 1: you got to go to right a wrong according to
Speaker 1: who some people go according to the bibble, this is
Speaker 1: my right or wrong? I do everything according the right
Speaker 1: a wrong quarter this some people they believe the law
Speaker 1: the law. I don't believe that it was once right
Speaker 1: a wrong. So I can't make the law of all
Speaker 1: be all right. How you feel it comes from within you.
Speaker 1: Like how you feel. I'll trying to say you like
Speaker 1: fuming the cup about to do something. If I feel nervous,
Speaker 1: it's wrong. You ain't nervous about the ship that you
Speaker 1: that feel right, right, You ain't got no butterflies, you
Speaker 1: ain't ship. It's regular. Yeah, that's that's what I feel like.
Speaker 1: The termines right or wrong within a person, how you
Speaker 1: feel when you're doing Yeah, some people do wrong knowing
Speaker 1: they're doing wrong. They don't feel ship though, like what's wrong?
Speaker 1: That ain't wrong to them, that's my whole point, that's all.
Speaker 1: It's not wrong to them, but it may be wrong
Speaker 1: to the majority in the masses. Like you got some
Speaker 1: people that are go slide kill somebody, and I feel
Speaker 1: like they're wrong at all. But to the masses, you'd
Speaker 1: be like that that's sucked up. You don't have to
Speaker 1: kill that. To that man mama or to his family
Speaker 1: is super fucked up. But to you on your way
Speaker 1: over there, you feel like, I'm gonna go kill him
Speaker 1: because I got beef over Instagram or whatever the case is,
Speaker 1: and that's just what I'm supposed to do. But he
Speaker 1: knows if he go kill that lady right there, that
Speaker 1: I'm wrong for that. But going to go kill this person,
Speaker 1: he just feels like it's whatever. Yeah, So sometimes people
Speaker 1: do ship and they know they own bullshit. They just
Speaker 1: don't give a fuck. I don't know. I'm just guess.
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to make it right out of my wrong.
Speaker 1: I'm crying, just trying to make it right out of
Speaker 1: you know, if I'm wrong, if somebody raping a kid
Speaker 1: and I kill him, I ain't gonna feel wrong about that.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna feel like I stopped somebody from door. But
Speaker 1: somebody else on the other side of the fence, his
Speaker 1: his his his wife or his daughter. You could have
Speaker 1: did something else. Maybe you could have or even you
Speaker 1: should have stopped him them. Know what I'm saying. But
Speaker 1: I'm standing on now that you've done, then when you
Speaker 1: go to the court and you have no remorse, they're
Speaker 1: still making you twenty five you know. But that's how
Speaker 1: deep that that's my yeah, all right, now, you know
Speaker 1: we still you're trying to make this the conversation, keep
Speaker 1: it going. But you know, I just think still I
Speaker 1: feel like you know when you're doing wrong. Now, that's
Speaker 1: big fact. You know. If you talk that ship just
Speaker 1: just like somebody could be deaf for blind and some
Speaker 1: I'm telling you some people like that ship exactly the
Speaker 1: numb to it, but they don't have that nerve. They
Speaker 1: might be the word might be evil or this or
Speaker 1: talking or whatever the word is. But some people are no.
Speaker 1: Some people know. I'm like, you know they know, then
Speaker 1: they're not wrong that they are. What's that movie with
Speaker 1: Mihali and Jackson. They ain't got no soul the white lady.
Speaker 1: That's like saying no people that just like no, that's
Speaker 1: like saying people that's going to go shoot up these schools.
Speaker 1: They don't know soul. And it was mean as to
Speaker 1: the white lady. And then when a white lady found
Speaker 1: him die. But Hella Jackson movie, I know what you
Speaker 1: talk about beautiful life or the color of something or
Speaker 1: whatever the beautiful about the color of something? What about it?
Speaker 1: Or about it? No, But that's that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Like the girl didn't feel no kind of way about
Speaker 1: doing her mother dad as wrong until it was too late.
Speaker 1: Some people don't have it. Yeah, they just don't. And
Speaker 1: it might be how they grew up their circumstances. They trauma.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about. People are so conscious. If you got
Speaker 1: any type of anything within you for humanite it you
Speaker 1: know when you talk to fresh fact, if you just
Speaker 1: wanted Yeah, if you got that in here. If you
Speaker 1: want your niggers who lack a soul or lack any empathy,
Speaker 1: then I can't speak for them type. That's what I'm
Speaker 1: speaking for. Yeah, I can't speak you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: If you got that in you, then hey man, we
Speaker 1: got to the bottom of do what it do? Yeah, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what That's what a different was. I'm speaking like
Speaker 1: a nigga with common sense. What the word was, toxicity? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel like if you got a soul, common sense,
Speaker 1: you know when you're toxic, Yeah, you just be like
Speaker 1: fucking but yeah, I don't have none of that. You
Speaker 1: just let empathy, you let opinions like fucking nigga opinion.
Speaker 1: Then the just it's like a narcissus like Jada. That's
Speaker 1: another coming. Yeah. Everything you don't they don't feel they
Speaker 1: just I don't know. That's some other ship going on
Speaker 1: what that is. But I'm speaking for that. What we're
Speaker 1: doing screen, that's that's that's that's the bottom of it.
Speaker 1: We got to the bottom of it. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Yeah, because so I cut So I don't
Speaker 1: disagree with what you are saying. I don't what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You gotta soul like a nigga who talks it like
Speaker 1: you gotta so you know you m If you don't
Speaker 1: you know damn or if you're ignorant too, we can't
Speaker 1: even say. That's what I've been saying all the time too.
Speaker 1: You don't know better, so you just don't know. You
Speaker 1: just don't know better. Some people honestly don't know better
Speaker 1: because they have or know or don't have a soul. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if you don't you know better, don't give a funk.
Speaker 1: Then you might have some soul issues. But if you
Speaker 1: just don't know better, you just ignorant. And then oh,
Speaker 1: then in that case, it is what it is. It
Speaker 1: always is what it is. We're not get big. So
Speaker 1: once you realize you talked, now you've identified this, then
Speaker 1: what you have to make a concerted effort to change
Speaker 1: your ways or to stay away from the things that
Speaker 1: trigger you to make you become that toxic six six person.
Speaker 1: But what of toxic is what gets you off? Though?
Speaker 1: What are you trying to be read? What's toxic? At
Speaker 1: the end of the day, where it's still all on opinion,
Speaker 1: It toxic just the way I talk or the way
Speaker 1: I carry myself with the way I treat my female way,
Speaker 1: How's that toxic? Because it could jump to the subjective
Speaker 1: generally generally toxic energy and behavior. It creates this like
Speaker 1: we got a good vibe, right, So, no one's in
Speaker 1: a toxic but someone whoever that may be, could come
Speaker 1: in here and toxic this ship and start talking about
Speaker 1: bullshit and start bringing it down. Start. You see what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So do you knowing something this time? Toxicity
Speaker 1: is pervasive right right? For sure, That's what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: that's the person that That's why I was saying earlier
Speaker 1: to Jade about the pure glass of water and then
Speaker 1: you poison it. It don't need to take that much
Speaker 1: poison a little drop. She's like, I only took a
Speaker 1: drop of black nigga blood for Thomas Jefferson to be black.
Speaker 1: What Thomas Jefferson was black because his mama was black. Really,
Speaker 1: but it only took a drop of the nigga blood
Speaker 1: to make him a nigga? What. You can't mix that
Speaker 1: ship with nothing, period. Yeah, I'm crying. That's why his
Speaker 1: hair was currly. Yeah. So you're saying a toxic person
Speaker 1: can come in and change the environment for sure, Well,
Speaker 1: that ain't saying week They're gonna make us permanently toxic.
Speaker 1: They can start talking about some ship, just make the
Speaker 1: vibe toxic. He's saying that. He's saying what, what's what's topic?
Speaker 1: What's toxic? To definitely know what's toxic is definitely subjective.
Speaker 1: It ain't. It is subject You're not gonna drink like no,
Speaker 1: but it is subjective because so listen, rest in peace
Speaker 1: to the day. A lot of women if Kenny said
Speaker 1: is coming here and say some ship, a lot of
Speaker 1: women will be like, that's toxic. He made me feel No,
Speaker 1: I'm just saying he's right, but I feel the facts exactly.
Speaker 1: But facts are also subjective. Fact about like facts, mats
Speaker 1: validated fact. We get to the bottom of it. Fact.
Speaker 1: Let's bring the ship back up. How how is seven
Speaker 1: us toxic? I want to I didn't say I don't
Speaker 1: think he's toxic. I think that if some women would
Speaker 1: think that he's toxic, I'll explain why I would say,
Speaker 1: not even just that the man's no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: no no no. I think that some women will say
Speaker 1: the truth and people don't want to hear the truth.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I agree with eighty five percent
Speaker 1: as a woman, I agree with eighty five percent of
Speaker 1: the ship that Kevin sent me say, I agree as
Speaker 1: a woman, but I also see why other women will
Speaker 1: feel a way. Some women don't can't take the truth,
Speaker 1: and some women don't want to hear the truth. And
Speaker 1: so because it's the truth, it makes him toxic because
Speaker 1: he's selling the truth to the massive. So to me,
Speaker 1: Kevin Samuel's had some valid points enough, but a lot
Speaker 1: of some of the ship that he said was coming
Speaker 1: from a place of I feel like hurt and anger
Speaker 1: from situations that have traumatized him from his past. And
Speaker 1: his delivery was also sucked up. So I feel like
Speaker 1: we can compare. If we're comparing and you're not trying
Speaker 1: to make examples and ship, we can compare Kevin Samuel's
Speaker 1: to Charleston White. Yeah, real nigga ship. If we're gonna
Speaker 1: just keep the ship all the way tall, no, nobody's gonna.
Speaker 1: I don't agree his delivery was sucked up to certain women,
Speaker 1: But in reality he was saying was this fact it
Speaker 1: was just some crazy as ship. But he's saying he
Speaker 1: ready to die about this ship, so that's different. So
Speaker 1: he know he toxic, Suels Samuels, just, I don't feel
Speaker 1: like he's he's saying nothing that's toxic. He's telling you
Speaker 1: that you're calling me asking for my truth. That is
Speaker 1: the truth. He didn't give wanted. He ain't Yeah, he
Speaker 1: ain't giving up. Yeah, he wasn't getting Yeah, you called
Speaker 1: him off and to break you down and tell you
Speaker 1: what I think of you. Now he ain't wrong. That sucks.
Speaker 1: You called him like, yeah, he wasn't like he was
Speaker 1: doing unwanted calling out women don't wanted lee and just
Speaker 1: talking about him. That woman was calling okay, so take
Speaker 1: away to women that called in when he was just
Speaker 1: giving just general dialect General B fifty years old was
Speaker 1: sixteen kids who don't want you? Who? He not even
Speaker 1: body will? But the ratio is says hardly. No. I
Speaker 1: think a lot of the times he was contradicting itself.
Speaker 1: That's the only part that I didn't agree with. Some
Speaker 1: parts he contradict hself, Like for example, he would say
Speaker 1: I got everybody at some point, yeah contradicted. Yeah, at
Speaker 1: some point he contradicted to Like for example, I'll be
Speaker 1: with Kevin saying I thought a lot of she was
Speaker 1: saying was acts. But he would say, a woman over
Speaker 1: thirty with the child is undervalue, Like she's not valued
Speaker 1: no more, Like she's no value to a man because
Speaker 1: she's over thirty and she has a child. Right. But
Speaker 1: then the girl would get on there saying that she's
Speaker 1: been dealing with her baby daddy or whatever whatever, and
Speaker 1: he would tell her she's dumb for dealing with her
Speaker 1: baby daddy. So my point would be, so you're saying
Speaker 1: that if a woman leave her baby daddy for whatever
Speaker 1: reason it is and try to go find something better,
Speaker 1: she's undervalue. But if a woman stay with this man
Speaker 1: and she don't want to be with that ship, she's
Speaker 1: the dummy. So now where do we like? So he
Speaker 1: would say that that's just like, okay, what's what's up?
Speaker 1: Like it just doesn't make sense. A man on what
Speaker 1: he's talking about, I can go. I ain't really never
Speaker 1: seen them, but the clips home, I go, eighty five
Speaker 1: percent of the stuff here went viral that I've seen,
Speaker 1: Like yeah, And he would tell you as a woman,
Speaker 1: like how would you as a sus sssful one like
Speaker 1: some of your say it would be crazy? Like how
Speaker 1: are you, as a successful woman think that you deserve
Speaker 1: a successful man. Huh, And then he would tell the women,
Speaker 1: how do you how do you as an unsuccessful woman?
Speaker 1: I think that you deserve a successful man? So now
Speaker 1: with which one is it? So you're saying that basically,
Speaker 1: men that's successful can't pick and choose who and what
Speaker 1: the women here gonna deal with it. Because he's successful,
Speaker 1: he can now treat the woman that he pick and choose.
Speaker 1: However the funk he wants to pick and choose, I mean,
Speaker 1: however the funk he wants to treat them based off
Speaker 1: of his success. That's the bullshit. To get what I want,
Speaker 1: That's what I did. I want what I want. I
Speaker 1: put myself in a position to be with who I want.
Speaker 1: If I ain't already got it, I ain't already. If
Speaker 1: this ain't if if you want with me shooting in
Speaker 1: the gym, I want what I want. If I can
Speaker 1: go buy what I want, I should be able to
Speaker 1: if I go get what I want. I want what
Speaker 1: I want. How never gonna be mad at that? Not
Speaker 1: saying that nobody's supposed to be at the other and
Speaker 1: you leave the one now you don't want because you're sensor.
Speaker 1: You're a bit okay, I agree, a bit all right. Now,
Speaker 1: if you got somebody with you that's been around you
Speaker 1: no matter what, and you become successful, and then you
Speaker 1: start trying to treat defaults some type of way because
Speaker 1: your successful use a bit. It's just stay the same
Speaker 1: way it is. But if I come into this ship
Speaker 1: with all man, I want what I want. I want
Speaker 1: what makes me feel how I want to feel. I agree.
Speaker 1: But we're trying to do weight folks up to reality,
Speaker 1: like for real, like like real deal reality, because a
Speaker 1: lot of women like ain't no in a dreams fallacy,
Speaker 1: a dream brow up from a kid here this this
Speaker 1: wedding day. This I'm saying. All he's saying. If you
Speaker 1: got three thousand, five thousand dollars in your pocket and
Speaker 1: you're going to the car lot and you're like, I
Speaker 1: don't give a funk, I'm getting a raid. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: get a Lombot. I don't give a damn. Kevin Like, look,
Speaker 1: you ain't got the five thousand dollars you're passing up
Speaker 1: this Toyota. This this correcting some NiFe cars that could
Speaker 1: get you from point A to B. But I agree,
Speaker 1: humble with five thousand dollars in your pocket, and so
Speaker 1: he trying to really wait, motherfucker's I agree with that.
Speaker 1: And a lot of women we've been living in this
Speaker 1: got them alone that it's like, damn, he got down.
Speaker 1: He who is he to tell me that he just
Speaker 1: really just trying to help the truth that what I
Speaker 1: feel to the truth hurt because because you got some
Speaker 1: women that feel like, I don't know what women think
Speaker 1: that they have this so valuable to a man that
Speaker 1: he's supposed to just think you're something that you're not.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, you know what it is. I'm just saying, like,
Speaker 1: like I'm not bashing a woman. You should feel like
Speaker 1: a queen by all me, but don't think that you
Speaker 1: have something that's so that's you to a man that
Speaker 1: he's supposed to lessen himself because you don't. And yeah,
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, please say so to put it
Speaker 1: like when y'all said about a successful man, then he
Speaker 1: gets to choose because this is what I'm leading with.
Speaker 1: I'm leading with my success, so I want something that's
Speaker 1: as equal to that that is. That's what I'm gonna
Speaker 1: just go. I'm gonna go work all my life to
Speaker 1: become whoever I become. And I'm gonna go get so
Speaker 1: ship that ain't even mind, ain't trained to well up
Speaker 1: and go get another nigga. We're gonna get all that.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm gonna go get. You know what I'm
Speaker 1: saying is okay, skip, okay, cut out the kids. You
Speaker 1: can't eliminate that. No man was saying. Now listen, I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You're saying that I'm man works hard to become successful
Speaker 1: and goes to get a woman that you should be
Speaker 1: able to choose the woman you want, somebody that's comparable
Speaker 1: to his level or whatever. But when most niggas get
Speaker 1: rich or you know, get to some certain level of success,
Speaker 1: the type of bitches that they go get are not
Speaker 1: comparable to their level. Like most niggas go get bitches
Speaker 1: that never would have given them the time of day
Speaker 1: had they not matter. I still got what I want.
Speaker 1: I would have never wrote wrote in the motherfucking Road
Speaker 1: Russe if I didn't grant it's the same thing. I
Speaker 1: want what I want with prems and all this. I
Speaker 1: want what I want and it's already got what I got.
Speaker 1: That's yeah. If you build up a company, say just
Speaker 1: look at it like this. You build up a company
Speaker 1: you're a king guy and you build your whole kingdom,
Speaker 1: or you build up a fire fortunate fire hunting company
Speaker 1: and you go do interviews. You ain't want to hire
Speaker 1: no bullshit. You know you know how much work you
Speaker 1: didn't put into building this ship. You didn't did all
Speaker 1: this ship. You know you know what I'm saying. So
Speaker 1: you just want. But I see what she said to
Speaker 1: they get, they get the one that they like, uh,
Speaker 1: that they couldn't never get, but that might have been
Speaker 1: what they really didn't want. The bitch that that's literally
Speaker 1: only for their money. But you got something to feel like.
Speaker 1: I ain't I wouldn't even want it me. I'm not him,
Speaker 1: no who you wouldn't want it. I'm who you want
Speaker 1: right now. It ain't even matter what it took, bitch him,
Speaker 1: that's I need to feel this. What's gonna make me
Speaker 1: feel what? I won't because I don't got true love? This,
Speaker 1: I ain't feeling like this is my true love. Hoping
Speaker 1: they don't think he don't want about no true love.
Speaker 1: Now some of them do use a fool. I got
Speaker 1: what I want at the moment, Yeah, I got what
Speaker 1: I want. That's what I'm saying. Like when it comes
Speaker 1: to that when you don't work hard, bro, because it's like,
Speaker 1: when you don't work hard, how can you trust love anyway? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's basically how I want seeing it with a couple
Speaker 1: of billionaires like Bill gateson Jeff Bezos, like they just
Speaker 1: like bowed out, like here, take half the money and
Speaker 1: go do what you want to do. But I got
Speaker 1: something else in my mind. That's what they won't. That's
Speaker 1: what makes them happy at that point. I'm not saying
Speaker 1: it right, but for them cares already set my people
Speaker 1: straight whatever it is going on. No, but I want
Speaker 1: some motion now. Man, I'm ready to god damn and
Speaker 1: this ship is gonna hurt you. Ship I'm gonna do.
Speaker 1: I didn't know if it beat him. Now, I don't
Speaker 1: think you feel and you ain't with this that said,
Speaker 1: what it what it is? How can you How can
Speaker 1: you get mad at the person for evolving the change
Speaker 1: they go back to what it is, Go back to that.
Speaker 1: That's just your opinion. You. So we're feeling like that,
Speaker 1: But I'm over here feeling good with what I want.
Speaker 1: You can think about whatever that ship I'm thinking about it.
Speaker 1: When I did give you half my money, I'm crying.
Speaker 1: All right, so what do you work out? That's all
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, we can't, we can't, we can't. Goddamn
Speaker 1: beat up had a remote control or somebody else. Life
Speaker 1: because all about being happy. So if I'm happy with this,
Speaker 1: because at the end of the day, you don't know
Speaker 1: how this man feeling at home with this woman. This
Speaker 1: could be the ship that's throwing me all my game.
Speaker 1: You can meet it. You can meet it. You can
Speaker 1: meet a girl in in in in Walmart. She working Walmart,
Speaker 1: you can meet her. You could be a beating now
Speaker 1: you're being a regular. If she makes you feel how
Speaker 1: you want to feel, then you can turn into what
Speaker 1: you want. M hm hm. That's basically feel I see
Speaker 1: a pretty woman. All she's missing is meat. Come on, baby,
Speaker 1: I got this. You ain't gotta happy. Somethings feel like
Speaker 1: that too. Something is feeling like that. I want you
Speaker 1: to be able to buy middle number for my birthday,
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna get that. That's what I want. Successful
Speaker 1: the same equally, Yeah, how are you gonna be mad?
Speaker 1: He worked hard to baby to do with He want
Speaker 1: to do right the same way with a female. She
Speaker 1: gonna go get what she wants. She got on money,
Speaker 1: she's gonna do what she wanna. Don't want it no more.
Speaker 1: On God's the ship. So what's the difference. It's not difference,
Speaker 1: but only on the part about it. It's a goddamn
Speaker 1: shortage on niggas. Get what I'm saying. So that's what
Speaker 1: makes it so much of some bullshit, especially to make
Speaker 1: it so much bullshit women, Like, it's a shortage on
Speaker 1: the ideal nigga's the shortest on the successful nigga. It's
Speaker 1: a shortage one goddamn a straight nigga. You know what,
Speaker 1: It's a shortage one just a straight man. It's a shortage.
Speaker 1: Shortage you get what I'm saying. So women or men
Speaker 1: just being men exactly, women, if it makes niggas build
Speaker 1: and again niggas the advantage, like so I can find,
Speaker 1: I can find want to use tomorrow big facts. Yeah,
Speaker 1: a matter of fact, I got want to use in
Speaker 1: my d M and in my phone all I got
Speaker 1: one of you? What am I missing? That's what That's
Speaker 1: what takes the value now because it's so many. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's tending on right now more like you think it's
Speaker 1: a hundred oh to the successful man. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I agree, I definitely agree. Yeah, Like and with a
Speaker 1: successful woman like that's how they it's hard and on
Speaker 1: the fine because them niggs already take it. That's what
Speaker 1: Kevin Sammons was saying. All you women are basically chasing
Speaker 1: after success, and then it's like, if I'm gonna be
Speaker 1: in there, why the funk would I want to deal
Speaker 1: with the woman that's out here. She working just as
Speaker 1: hard as I am. We talk about work and blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. I need a woman that would be more submissive,
Speaker 1: somebody that would be I ain't gotta worry about work.
Speaker 1: I'm making this money. I don't need to be sitting
Speaker 1: here having these work conversations. So now you have a
Speaker 1: whole bunch of successful women that's now forty years old,
Speaker 1: no kids, not married or whatever, because she didn't grinded
Speaker 1: her whole life, and she's like, Okay, I'm gonna get
Speaker 1: myself to this position so that I could be equally
Speaker 1: yoke for my man. But then reality, Kevin Kevin Samuels
Speaker 1: is telling us, well, you successful hosts that spent all
Speaker 1: your college years trying to go get successful and chase
Speaker 1: after your careers all y'all men is gone now and
Speaker 1: ain't know' that's who all the women is mad at
Speaker 1: because you want that's what she gotta do. You can't
Speaker 1: get you you you, you sacrifice that you like, the
Speaker 1: true love and to grow with the nigga. So now
Speaker 1: go get what you want, Queenn, if you want the
Speaker 1: false couple of niggas here enough, like, get what you want,
Speaker 1: because that's what the nigga gonna do. Yeah, But in reality,
Speaker 1: most women at the age and once, most women wants family.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. After you already didn't work,
Speaker 1: you didn't grind it, being by yourself through college and
Speaker 1: all this time working, The average woman wants to have
Speaker 1: a family. The average woman wants to feel protected. So
Speaker 1: then you have a man like Kevin Samuels that get
Speaker 1: on the Internet and tell hundreds of thousands of hard
Speaker 1: working women like, look, unfortunately for you guys, y'all didn't work.
Speaker 1: Y'all don't want to. However, y'all lawyers and doctors, ain't
Speaker 1: no man out here for y'all. It's over. Because all
Speaker 1: he was like basically I could call he's gonna help
Speaker 1: baby molmost exactly, he was like way around to that
Speaker 1: to that time, to beat that right. And then he
Speaker 1: was like, he's gonna call his homeboys. If he called
Speaker 1: all his successful friends nine times oft of ten, they're
Speaker 1: not gonna want you because if you're successful, you got
Speaker 1: too much of an opinion. You got too much of opinion.
Speaker 1: It's bullshit. He was saying, all of that talk how
Speaker 1: to be the perfect submissive woman? Was it on spiritual word? Um?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she basically said. I watched that. She said
Speaker 1: how she said how to get a successful man? It
Speaker 1: was on spiritual where as a girl, she basically she
Speaker 1: married a lawyer. She said that she became what is
Speaker 1: that princess? What are that little? A paralegals? But paralegal.
Speaker 1: She became a paralegal. So the best way to get
Speaker 1: a successful man is to become submissive and start working
Speaker 1: for him. So, if you want a doctor, become a nurse.
Speaker 1: If you want to a lawyer, become a paralegal. Be
Speaker 1: around this man and find out what he likeking. At
Speaker 1: that point, he's gonna turn to you because you've always
Speaker 1: been there giving him everything filled in his law firm
Speaker 1: and ship. So now when he's tired of being going
Speaker 1: after everything, he's gonna be comfortable with you. You already
Speaker 1: right there, you're already doing already. But she was right,
Speaker 1: it's like, if you think about it, she was right.
Speaker 1: She was like, and also, y'all talk so bad about
Speaker 1: being you're gonna go to work that the same girl
Speaker 1: said you're gonna go to work for somebody else or something. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she was like, you're gonna go clean the shelves for
Speaker 1: your job, at them for your job. But being a housewife,
Speaker 1: it's the same thing. You clean the ship for your man.
Speaker 1: You're doing the same thing. She was like, people undervalue
Speaker 1: the women that's out here, basically being housewives and ship
Speaker 1: like that. And she was like, it's a job, but
Speaker 1: that's if you if you if that's what you want again,
Speaker 1: that has to be the thing you That's what they
Speaker 1: all come back down to, Like, what's gonna make you happy?
Speaker 1: What do you want? Yeah, if you can be in
Speaker 1: the house and you want your own money, your boss,
Speaker 1: you want to be a boss chick, do that, But
Speaker 1: just know how that ship go? Do you think too?
Speaker 1: People can, man, you gotta short, but the most successful
Speaker 1: you get, you're gonna like, you're gonna want somebody that
Speaker 1: you're gonna want a woman that's co operative. Man, I
Speaker 1: hate to say it like that, like like I ain't
Speaker 1: trying to say like but literally like a child or
Speaker 1: nothing like that. But somebody that's that's cooperative and understanding.
Speaker 1: But you also got to be a king that's that's
Speaker 1: leading her somewhere too, because the woman ain't gonna to
Speaker 1: be a coopertive. Somebody's gonna lead them off. For cliff, right,
Speaker 1: you gotta put it in the work as a man.
Speaker 1: You gotta put in the world. You gotta get to
Speaker 1: findance department together. You gotta get your knowledge of she
Speaker 1: wanted to know that you can put onto some games,
Speaker 1: some new ways to get some money, ship like that.
Speaker 1: And once you do the work as a king, she
Speaker 1: gonna a good woman gonna naturally submit to something that's
Speaker 1: actually that make her feel safe. I got some ship.
Speaker 1: But if you're want boy shit, that's why a lot
Speaker 1: of these women getting masking and and and got down.
Speaker 1: If r you know you got you know it goes
Speaker 1: both ways. Though you don't agree in the work, yeah,
Speaker 1: I agree. I just feel like it's the shortage on
Speaker 1: niggas for women, and that's fun up cause niggas killing
Speaker 1: nign just be like, fuck you do you think it
Speaker 1: said shortest because of the quality of man now and
Speaker 1: the quality of women. It's the shortest because of the
Speaker 1: men that the women feel ideal or comfortable with being with.
Speaker 1: So that's gonna be a shortage, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Like the nigga that you want to funk with or
Speaker 1: who you're gonna like? He somebody got somebody, or he
Speaker 1: got some situations or he b is when he's trying
Speaker 1: to get this ship together. You's know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: He changing his chasing heels or not. Is his purpose
Speaker 1: come first? So you ready to settle down that for
Speaker 1: the for the two whatever, But you want a nigga
Speaker 1: as for the but he's still chasing his purpose. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, I might have got a couple
Speaker 1: of baby mamas here who I left them alone, So
Speaker 1: I'm never finna get into this again with somebody else
Speaker 1: who I see that. That's what you point. I see
Speaker 1: you got everything, but now you're ready to I ain't
Speaker 1: ready to do that yet. We can suck around, but
Speaker 1: at for the motherfucker's ain't trying to work around. That's
Speaker 1: pretty much where it's at that forty most women are like, okay,
Speaker 1: so what we're doing, That's what I'm saying. So there
Speaker 1: is like and for me, and now that comes to
Speaker 1: resentment like these niggas out he ain't ship. Yeah, And
Speaker 1: that's why I don't go to the younger one because
Speaker 1: by the time you go through that cycle, you can
Speaker 1: got scoring you mad niggas ain't ship hold on and
Speaker 1: you just come with that toxic yes to the bottom. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I agree with you. I ain't man, I agree.
Speaker 1: It come with its territory. That's just like like you
Speaker 1: said what we were saying earlier to not the um
Speaker 1: environment is ship. That's why it is. That's why them
Speaker 1: knel niggas be cheating and ship too. It's like so
Speaker 1: many good heads women out here, Like damn, I wish
Speaker 1: I could be five niggas. You get what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: like real ship because it's like saying it's like it
Speaker 1: funked up for him and like damn, you know, like
Speaker 1: good women like submissive to all this ship for their nigga,
Speaker 1: ready to do this ship for a niggle but it's
Speaker 1: just like you can't because eat niggas is ain't right.
Speaker 1: Or whatever they say it so that that so what
Speaker 1: you'a what they do? Then what they're to do? Acceptance it? Now,
Speaker 1: I gotta say their submissiveness they are at the moment.
Speaker 1: How the right person come? How the right person look?
Speaker 1: Keep working on that. What you gotta understand what the
Speaker 1: female like they gotta they don't know how to write
Speaker 1: on the inside that you get a lot of people
Speaker 1: get the feeling off some ship you're lacking. You might
Speaker 1: not like the way the nigga. Shoot, oh and now
Speaker 1: you got lacking something like here country, yeah, he corny
Speaker 1: or whatever, But then it could mean the one. So yeah,
Speaker 1: but if you can't get passed away shoes times, you're
Speaker 1: never gonna be able to get passed Hey, baby, hey,
Speaker 1: one thing about it, tie my shoe for me, queen,
Speaker 1: I'm crying. You want the motherfucking time time or put
Speaker 1: me now? Yeah, if you funk with me, show me
Speaker 1: how the web show stop me uncountry this ship. But
Speaker 1: it all depends. You gotta feel it, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. What it is that's the part about the
Speaker 1: bitch want to nigger is already like out of mic
Speaker 1: away already that you ain't already that that go back
Speaker 1: to what I'm saying. You can't be already that for
Speaker 1: another person. You could be already that to yourself, but
Speaker 1: for me, you ain't already that because I ain't. You
Speaker 1: don't even know what I like. M Yeah, that is true.
Speaker 1: Are you already? So that ain't gonna work because you're
Speaker 1: already thinking you something that I'm supposed to praise. No,
Speaker 1: we gotta build what we praise each other. We gotta
Speaker 1: be We gotta get this ship. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like I see tie the issue right and get me
Speaker 1: the right one and get me right paying too bagginge. Okay,
Speaker 1: show me where to get this ship from that. We
Speaker 1: don't seen some female get around and unique started looking
Speaker 1: and acting different than being better. A lot of these
Speaker 1: rappers like the turn it to some kings by dealing
Speaker 1: with these queens because that's where it was, like it was,
Speaker 1: I fought with you, so I can show you how
Speaker 1: to now didn't need to start a look different like that.
Speaker 1: You put the right queen in position, and the same
Speaker 1: way with the with the king, he gonna get his
Speaker 1: queen and make sure she to the standards of what
Speaker 1: she trying to take him to and what she already
Speaker 1: looked at him as you know what I'm saying, If
Speaker 1: I look at you some bullshit, we're gonna we're just
Speaker 1: gonna stay some bullshit. Yeah, I think y'all. Y'all said
Speaker 1: the key words king and queen. So when then you
Speaker 1: start looking at each other like that, of course, naturally
Speaker 1: it's gonna play his courts and it's gonna turn out right.
Speaker 1: You ain't gonna let me slip. Yeah you're not, because
Speaker 1: y'all say exactly, King and queen. But the average people
Speaker 1: out here it just be like oh boy and oh girl,
Speaker 1: like yeah that. Yeah. So it's never gonna the average
Speaker 1: man out here not even viewing himself like a king
Speaker 1: to even be able to think I'm gonna provide for
Speaker 1: us another woman. True queens attract true kings. You already something.
Speaker 1: You gotta start checking into yourself and see what you is.
Speaker 1: If you keep on running to these same type niggas,
Speaker 1: that's something thin you. Some women got a vibe. Nig
Speaker 1: You see a woman and you know what, woman, you
Speaker 1: can get down there, any nigga like she'll go, you know,
Speaker 1: but you can see some women. I don't gonna what, nigga,
Speaker 1: you is be a certainty imidation like she probably ain't
Speaker 1: working with me because it's an error she giving off
Speaker 1: about herself. I still try my hand, but I already
Speaker 1: know like she ain't ready. So if you might be
Speaker 1: giving off a vibe to the world that shows she
Speaker 1: needs toxic I'm crying. Some of these women like bro,
Speaker 1: we'll be having these conversation and nigga like, ain't nobody fun?
Speaker 1: Hell no, but she'd be around everybody. She cooled him up.
Speaker 1: But I want to. I want to do too. I
Speaker 1: do too, I do too. Ain't no a lot of fun.
Speaker 1: She ain't going as hell now I should like tried,
Speaker 1: but she ain't like she. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: We can already see that. So if I ever or
Speaker 1: we ever bump into a place, already know how to
Speaker 1: treat you, because you ain't there one of them gonna go.
Speaker 1: I already know what I got, but everybody saying, but
Speaker 1: you know, yeah, you know such such such names in
Speaker 1: them Wooda, who I know when I when I finally
Speaker 1: get my turn, I can't treat you like nothing but
Speaker 1: what we already know. You was in the community of
Speaker 1: niggas wrong. You were all the way right, even with
Speaker 1: a nigga, even with niggas wise and ship like nigga
Speaker 1: that should be spread around like but he ain't got
Speaker 1: this ship. That ship goes around in the circles like that,
Speaker 1: going around and you you see what they did, like
Speaker 1: I'm gonna try and they just held them back in
Speaker 1: the back. You know what I'm saying, you're going around
Speaker 1: how you treat yourself, it's how you know, it's gonna
Speaker 1: reflect how a man really, you know, treat you. You're
Speaker 1: gonna look at how you how you move, and how
Speaker 1: you treat your how you respect yourself first. That's that's
Speaker 1: what kid of that ship, You're gonna know what you
Speaker 1: got from how she is like ship, look jokey jokes
Speaker 1: ship and he could be trying to joke up on
Speaker 1: that tell that what like we even have joke that
Speaker 1: off I'm crying, is just talking about Yeah, like this
Speaker 1: gonna let you know what it ain't giggle b yeah
Speaker 1: yeah this dude, sir my mouth. Yeah you feel what
Speaker 1: I'm say. Gigglub gig gigg Like he's playing with certain
Speaker 1: ways that we don't even like even with a man
Speaker 1: like you mean you mean the player, you know how
Speaker 1: he what he you know what I'm saying, what he tolerates,
Speaker 1: like what type of jokes and who who you can tell?
Speaker 1: Like but ain't with all that joking. Yeah, I gotta
Speaker 1: stop this ship. Yeah you definitely know you're right, you know? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess you gotta have insight for that too. Know,
Speaker 1: really do you really? Do? You really do? Very important
Speaker 1: because sometimes you really don't know you really. I'm with
Speaker 1: Jade on that, sometimes you really even when you talk
Speaker 1: about the little jokey Joki ship, like I know for me,
Speaker 1: I could give a prime example. I'm with Jade on
Speaker 1: this one because I remember, like when I like talk
Speaker 1: to guys or whatever, I used to like say whatever
Speaker 1: the funk because like I don't care, Like it's just
Speaker 1: I say whatever came to my mind. I didn't really
Speaker 1: see it as you're superior or you're a man and
Speaker 1: I'm a woman and blah blah blah. So my jokes
Speaker 1: are just fly the funk off until I started dating
Speaker 1: somebody that was like, I'm not one of these niggas
Speaker 1: that's gonna be going first. You can't talk to me
Speaker 1: like that, like until you get somebody to check you,
Speaker 1: to check you, you really don't know because for me,
Speaker 1: in the beginning, I'm like, who are you talking to?
Speaker 1: And I tried to book but then I realized, like,
Speaker 1: oh ship you for real? For real? Okay, you're right,
Speaker 1: I can't say that ship. I can't my bad Yeah,
Speaker 1: yeah exactly. So now I know, So I'm gonna us
Speaker 1: my jokes and I'm gonna I'm not even gonna say
Speaker 1: no ship like that because you ain't want of them
Speaker 1: to play with. Yeah, I didn't know, so I'm with Jay.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you really don't know. Like I didn't know how
Speaker 1: to talk to niggers. I was talking to them the
Speaker 1: same way I was talking to my home girls, talking
Speaker 1: the same way, like I ain't even really see no difference,
Speaker 1: and so the ship but they could check me, and
Speaker 1: that's just what it was. You got checked and that's
Speaker 1: just use everything. Ain't gonna go for it old but
Speaker 1: exactly period. Yeah, never call your phone again like I'm
Speaker 1: real fun. Yeah, yeah, ain't even that. It's just like
Speaker 1: I know you're not gonna do that, but I'm saying,
Speaker 1: like it's Nigga's out before I ut. So I can't
Speaker 1: give you a warning on that, yeah, because that's in
Speaker 1: you queen, specially the age we are. Yeah, you're too
Speaker 1: grown to be. You've been doing that too long, so
Speaker 1: you get upset. You might have did it plainly this
Speaker 1: time and I check it. Yeah, okay, yeah we're right.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but you get upset. That's your character, right,
Speaker 1: So we're just gonna put the moon walk on upout this.
Speaker 1: I'm crying, you know what I'm saying, Like you got to,
Speaker 1: especially if you know you don't who ain't going for
Speaker 1: that ship? Yeah, but that made you respect the most. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it made me like, but honestly, not even just him.
Speaker 1: It may to be honest, like I'm just being a
Speaker 1: thousand right now. It didn't even made me just respect
Speaker 1: him or of course, granted naturally it does that, but
Speaker 1: it made me look at men totally different. I start
Speaker 1: to look like, damn, I can't you right, I shouldn't
Speaker 1: talk to men like this. It made me start looking
Speaker 1: at all men different, like I don't sit here, y'all.
Speaker 1: Don't hear me saying here, bitch da da da. I
Speaker 1: don't do that to me. I don't talk like that.
Speaker 1: But it made me just check myself in like conversation,
Speaker 1: like granted, I'm in conversation. I'm not gonna sit here
Speaker 1: banking screen, bitch. I'm not gonna do that. But I
Speaker 1: could do that with Cash, I could do that with Jay.
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. But prior to that, it
Speaker 1: wasn't that. It was just conversation with conversation until somebody
Speaker 1: checked you about respect being respectful, because the point was
Speaker 1: you wouldn't want people to just have a conversation with
Speaker 1: you a man have in the conversation with you, bitch,
Speaker 1: And I had to think about it, like damn you right,
Speaker 1: So now I have to respect men in general. Facts, right,
Speaker 1: that's fact. Okay, Yeah, good, good old, good old check
Speaker 1: is always sexy. Ain't number a little bit of check
Speaker 1: that raised the attraction level. And I'm telling what I
Speaker 1: be trying to tell the nigger, but it's super super
Speaker 1: queen ship and the bitch no, she's supposed to got
Speaker 1: checked get you checked out on yes, Like god, damn
Speaker 1: nig I've been came out six o'clock in the morning drunk.
Speaker 1: His fun apparent looked like they're going up and down,
Speaker 1: all down. But like you ain't even to ask me
Speaker 1: that's it. Yeah, I'm going to test you like that's
Speaker 1: a ship test. Yeah, like he just I just walk
Speaker 1: all over this nigger. It's literally gonna lower the attraction level.
Speaker 1: Like you know what I'm saying, because you you you
Speaker 1: like you said you you game more respect once you
Speaker 1: see like, damn, nigger, really ain't just gonna let me
Speaker 1: run while? Can you put me in my place? You
Speaker 1: feel what I'm saying. Yeah, ain't no putting in place.
Speaker 1: But I got you paying, But you know I got you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you get your woman too. You don't feel secure with
Speaker 1: a nigga Like okay, if you can't, you're gonna chick
Speaker 1: me running here and do whatever exactly exactly. Yeah, well
Speaker 1: if I can run over you, everybody going run over
Speaker 1: you see woman disrespecting? You know what I'm saying, Shut up, bitch,
Speaker 1: ain't everybody I'm gonna think, brother. But the one thing
Speaker 1: about the women thought kill the top one. They don't care.
Speaker 1: You could be on the new them for looking for
Speaker 1: you for seventies six murders. You're still a bit your niga. Huh,
Speaker 1: she's sing them. Yeah, so what plets say? And you
Speaker 1: don't care about that ship you don't did why you
Speaker 1: ain't calling me horry? I'm still running the chill back
Speaker 1: to what Jay was saying. That's all she knows. She
Speaker 1: don't care. You know it's wrong though at the end
Speaker 1: of the night, Yeah, all right, niggas don't know when
Speaker 1: they're wrong. We got to the bottom of it, Triple
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Speaker 1: and what do we get from this? Don't be toxic?
Speaker 1: Don't be toxic? Check your chick, check your check and
Speaker 1: understand that it's some people out here that just don't
Speaker 1: give a funk, not because they just don't give a
Speaker 1: because they just don't know no better facts. And you
Speaker 1: definitely know when you're being toxic. You know what if
Speaker 1: you so if you got a soul, if you got
Speaker 1: it wrong, if you know right out here we go
Speaker 1: to see how do you how do you know the
Speaker 1: ones that just toxic and they know they don't some
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