1 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:06,880 Speaker 1: How you doing? Oh, I know what you're thinking. How 2 00:00:06,880 --> 00:00:12,039 Speaker 1: did I get so sultry? Will you know? You can't 3 00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:15,240 Speaker 1: spill sultry without the S, the L, the U, and 4 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:21,119 Speaker 1: the T. No, that's a fact. Anyway, My e bark 5 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:23,159 Speaker 1: is E bike is parked out front. Want to go 6 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:25,919 Speaker 1: for a little ride with me? Wait? Where are you going? 7 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 1: I hadn't even gotten started yet. It's the Jewbil Show. 8 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 1: And let's face it, it's tough to be sexy, especially that sexy. 9 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:36,000 Speaker 1: And do you want to be a little more sultrier 10 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:40,840 Speaker 1: or perhaps the most sultryist. Well, there's an article that's 11 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 1: going viral that tells people how to be more sultry 12 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:48,639 Speaker 1: in order to get dates. Okay, we'll see if any 13 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:50,320 Speaker 1: of this will actually work for you. We'll tell you 14 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 1: what it is right after this. It's the Jubil Show. 15 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 1: What do you think of when I say the word seductive? 16 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 1: It's the Jewbil Show? A pan of fresh bake lasagna? 17 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, probably Mark Zuckerberg on a unic cycle. Not 18 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 1: much is more seductive than that. But there is an 19 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 1: article that's going viral that says how you can be 20 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:14,400 Speaker 1: more seductive in order to get dates? And it has 21 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:18,320 Speaker 1: techniques for anybody who wants to become more seductive in life. 22 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:20,959 Speaker 1: Really over right now to see what you think if 23 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: this will be something that will work for you or 24 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:25,039 Speaker 1: something that you would find attractive on somebody else. But 25 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 1: here's how they say you can be more seductive. If 26 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 1: you say it like that, that's really the only way 27 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 1: you can say seductive. I think true. But if you 28 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:36,680 Speaker 1: want to be more seductive, here are the key things 29 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 1: that you need to do in order to attract the 30 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:42,680 Speaker 1: people that you want and seduce them into doing whatever 31 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:46,480 Speaker 1: you pleases. You. Wait, I like actually want to know 32 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 1: what these are. 33 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 2: But I just wanted to say that I had a 34 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 2: friend who there's a book on. 35 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 1: Seduction and the seduction is oh yeah, before. 36 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 2: Wanted to sleep with this guy so bad that she 37 00:01:57,360 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 2: knew of And I was like, girl, give it, like 38 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 2: what does leave it? 39 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 1: Let it go? She actually buy the book, the Auto 40 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:05,559 Speaker 1: Seduction you get to try to get with the dude. 41 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 2: She bought the book in after two weeks. It's so fast, 42 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:13,520 Speaker 2: like I've never seen. 43 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:14,079 Speaker 1: Or read anything fast. 44 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 2: You're gonna buy me this, Victoria, Nina. I will buy 45 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:18,799 Speaker 2: you this just as an experiment. 46 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:22,639 Speaker 1: I was I had a friend who read that book 47 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 1: and a few other books on being seductive and didn't 48 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 1: work for him. I think it might have been just 49 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:33,960 Speaker 1: a waiting to drist anyway. Here are the ways that 50 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 1: they say you can be more seductive in life. The 51 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 1: first thing that you need to do is be less reactive. 52 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:45,120 Speaker 1: They say, when you don't flinch overlaugh, or rush to 53 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:49,079 Speaker 1: fill silence, you signal confidence. Psychology calls it self assured 54 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:53,800 Speaker 1: nonverbal dominance. So, in other words, if you're out and 55 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 1: someone tells you a little joke, don't laugh at it 56 00:02:57,760 --> 00:03:01,240 Speaker 1: and just let it sit there with nothing but silence 57 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 1: and just look at them. What seductive? Right to me? 58 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: Somebody comes to afforded me, like, hey, what's your name? 59 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:13,080 Speaker 1: Going to buy you a drink and just stare. I 60 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: guess that's seductive. Be less reactive. 61 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:17,560 Speaker 2: I mean that's one way to make them feel small, 62 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:19,800 Speaker 2: So that's more domination. 63 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 1: I'm seductive af I didn't realize that because I'm fine 64 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 1: with silence, like it doesn't bother me, and I don't 65 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:28,960 Speaker 1: never rush to fill in the silence. But it's not 66 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:31,799 Speaker 1: that I'm trying to be seductive. It's just that I'm like, okay, cool, 67 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 1: if you want to be quiet, to be quiet or 68 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 1: whatever on me. You know, but I know for a 69 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 1: lot of people that awkward silence is very hard, and 70 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:40,120 Speaker 1: I do enjoy those awkward moments when it's awkwardly silent 71 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 1: and you know the other person is like uncomfortable because 72 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 1: it's funny for me. I'm like, can't they just relax 73 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 1: and enjoy the silence, but they're so uncomfortable. But I 74 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 1: didn't know I was being seductive. Self assured nonverbal dominance 75 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 1: is what that's called. So that's step number one to 76 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 1: being more seductive, according to this article, So be less reactive, 77 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 1: don't overlap, don't rush to feel silence, just stand there. 78 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, we've only gone through one thing and it's making 79 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 2: me stressed. Yeah, you don't do well with silence, Victoria, No, 80 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 2: because it's just quiet and I can't help. But like, 81 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 2: I don't do well silence. So then I'm thinking in 82 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 2: my own mind, like funny things, and what do I say? 83 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:17,920 Speaker 1: What do I do? Oh my gosh, wait, he's looking 84 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 1: way I'm looking. What am I looking at? Oh jesus, 85 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 1: here's the next tip to being more seductive. Slow down 86 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:27,599 Speaker 1: your speech, says ause between sentences and let the silence 87 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 1: hang to create tension. Absolutely not. So there's a fine 88 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 1: line between that and just like really weird creepy. You 89 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 1: have an awkward pause and then you're like, well, I 90 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 1: enjoin the silence, lick my lips. What your name O? 91 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:55,560 Speaker 1: Way for it. It also says to soften your tone 92 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:59,159 Speaker 1: and lower your pitch slightly. This makes sense. People rate deeper, 93 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 1: slower voices more trustworthy and emotionally intelligent. So dowry your 94 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:08,919 Speaker 1: voice and slow down your speech, Victoria, you want to 95 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:11,160 Speaker 1: try to seduce? Yeah, everybody right now? 96 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 2: You can read an email if you want. Hey, guys, 97 00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:18,080 Speaker 2: how was you're not going? That does not sound seductive. 98 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 1: That's somedimes somebody trying to do a bad cowboy impression. 99 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:24,280 Speaker 2: Like your voice is going like wow, saying to go deeper. 100 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 1: All I can do. Didn't say to sound like a cowboy. 101 00:05:28,880 --> 00:05:36,280 Speaker 1: L Hey, y'all come this watering hole often. But you know, Victoria, 102 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:39,360 Speaker 1: I mean you. 103 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:41,839 Speaker 2: Think about like that cowboys standing and the thing talking 104 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:44,159 Speaker 2: real slow going. 105 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 1: Hey, baby, you look like a wild horse needs to 106 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 1: be broke. I got it. I've been breaking horses for 107 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:52,359 Speaker 1: a long time like you. 108 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:58,280 Speaker 2: That's when you start going, I'll go to. 109 00:05:58,279 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 1: A cow, Hey baby, let me go steeven. 110 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:03,920 Speaker 2: I would not be able to say any of these 111 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 2: things or in the tone that it needs to be 112 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:09,799 Speaker 2: done without laughing at the whole scenario. 113 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 1: You just focus on silence and want to be more seductive, 114 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:16,719 Speaker 1: be less reactive, don't really talk much, don't feel in silence, 115 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 1: pause between sentences, and speak slow, speak with a lower voice, 116 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 1: and also hold eye contact longer than usual, it says. 117 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: Research calls this the intimacy equilibrium. Holding just a second 118 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 1: longer than the social norm increases perceived interest. Yeah, so 119 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:36,160 Speaker 1: let that eye contact just linger. This sounds like. 120 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:38,040 Speaker 2: A really bad date I once went on, and let 121 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:40,119 Speaker 2: me tell you, I never saw that man again. 122 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:43,280 Speaker 1: Why it was weird. It was awkward. 123 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:45,280 Speaker 2: We were both sitting in silence because no one knew 124 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:47,600 Speaker 2: what to say, and all you know, it was finance, 125 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:49,200 Speaker 2: and so I didn't want to respond, and then I 126 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 2: left it in silence. 127 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 1: And then it's just it was weird. Trying to seduce 128 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:57,120 Speaker 1: you with silence and money. That works for people, No, 129 00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 1: not me. Here's it has on how to be more seductive. 130 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 1: And this is another one that you have to really 131 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 1: kind of perfect, I think, but it says, be unpredictable, 132 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 1: especially in the way that you walk. It says, if 133 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 1: you normally walk grounded, slower, breathing, and compostured, you project control. 134 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 1: So sometimes you need to also walk jittery. Ay, no, 135 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:21,680 Speaker 1: it looks like you're anxious. So in other words, go 136 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:27,000 Speaker 1: from just walking normal to having a seizure quick. That's seductive. 137 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 1: It makes me nervous on. 138 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 2: The corners seductive, you gotta look Marty from Madagascar. 139 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 1: Go and zigzag. That's unpredictable as you can be, It says, 140 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:41,040 Speaker 1: don't always text back. Oh, I hate that rule. That's 141 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 1: so blowney that tacks back. Your phone is in your hand. 142 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 1: Don't be rude. Basically, in order to be seductive, you 143 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:49,720 Speaker 1: need to look like a total psychopath. Don't laugh or 144 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 1: talk to anybody. Let the silence just fill in. Talk 145 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 1: very very slowly, and let people hang on your every 146 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 1: word in a low pitched voice than you normally have, 147 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:04,920 Speaker 1: hold eye contact super long, and be crazy unpredictable. Kanye 148 00:08:04,920 --> 00:08:07,520 Speaker 1: West is seductive if he's the most seductive person on 149 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 1: the planet, probably