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Speaker 1: Welcome to This Country Life. I'm your host, Brent Rieves

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Speaker 1: from coon hunting to trot lining and just general country living.

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Speaker 1: I want you to stay a while as I share

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Speaker 1: my stories and the country skills that will help you

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Speaker 1: beat the system. This Country Life is proudly presented as

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Speaker 1: part of Meat Eaters Podcast Network, bringing you the best

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Speaker 1: outdoor podcast the airways have to offer. All right, friends,

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Speaker 1: pull you up a chair or drop that tailgate. I

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Speaker 1: think I got a thing or two the teacher Father's day.

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Speaker 1: Being a father is the best job I've ever had.

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Speaker 1: I started out as a cheer and tennis dad, none

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Speaker 1: of a football dad, and now I'm in my dance

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Speaker 1: dad era pretty simple. I drive, I clap, and I

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Speaker 1: pay for things. Also, I tell my kids in my

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Speaker 1: grand kids stories, some of which are true, and it

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Speaker 1: reminds me of listening to my dad tells stories when

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Speaker 1: I was their age. This is a special episode for me,

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Speaker 1: and I've got a pretty cool surprise for y'all as

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Speaker 1: we get further into the show. First, I'm going to

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Speaker 1: tell you a story. This story comes from This Country

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Speaker 1: Life listener Ethan Powell down in the Great State Louisiana

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Speaker 1: and Ethan's words in my voice. Here it is Ethan,

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Speaker 1: writes Uncle Brian. If you're still taking hunting stories from

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Speaker 1: the public, I have won, along with photographic evidence to

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Speaker 1: back up my claim. No it's it's not Bigfoot. But

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Speaker 1: may I dare say this tale is equally as terrifying

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Speaker 1: as running into a sasquatch. Twenty fourteen, my best friend,

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Speaker 1: my best friend since grade school, Clay Ray, the man

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Speaker 1: with two first names, and I decided to venture north

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Speaker 1: for our first out of state turkey hunt. At the time,

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Speaker 1: the other airs besides our stopping grounds in northwest Louisiana.

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Speaker 1: I haven't always been intrigued with the mountains. I suggested

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Speaker 1: to my compadre that we hunt the Washing Tall Mountains

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Speaker 1: in western Arkansas. I just happened to have a very

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Speaker 1: turkey beers. Armed with that knowledge, we made our plans

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Speaker 1: thought to myself, God, Lee, we have to be the

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Speaker 1: only souls for miles around. We haven't seen or heard

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Speaker 1: Ethan Powell in northwest Louisiana. I'd say we all learned

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Speaker 1: something there, the most valuable being if you're if you're

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Speaker 1: to your birthday soon and start running. Someone bound to

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Speaker 1: see you. And according to Ethan Powell, that's just how

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Speaker 1: It's just like he said. A naked man wearing a towel.

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Speaker 1: Father's Day, a day set aside to honor our fathers

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Speaker 1: and bring others with him. Deed, now his reward for

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Speaker 1: toiling over the flame is historically new socks, drawers, and

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Speaker 1: behind Mother's Day. Typical Mother's Day usually follows the same

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Speaker 1: But that's okay. We like it that away. We like

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Speaker 1: our club. Stories are what keep us bound together, just

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Speaker 1: The stories, the stories, and memories. I always say that

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Speaker 1: A lot of this podcast is about my memories. Of

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Speaker 1: days spent with my father, who passed away at seventy

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Speaker 1: four on September seventh, twenty eleven, almost thirteen years ago.

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Speaker 1: Over four thousand and six hundred days that he's been gone,

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Speaker 1: there hasn't been one of those days that I hadn't

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Speaker 1: relative to the subject matter. Now, that'd be a long

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Speaker 1: Unlike my older brother Tim, my dad, Lloyd Wilton Buddy

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Speaker 1: Reeves never met a camera he didn't like. He liked

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Speaker 1: If it ain't fun, you make it fun. I have

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Speaker 1: I don't care what readers died, just says broke Leg.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to the er, not the comedy club, but

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Speaker 1: They talked about recipes mostly, but my dad, being my dad,

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Speaker 1: both stories had the hats being shot on purpose, and

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Speaker 1: one you're about to hear now him tell was when

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Speaker 1: he was a teenager. The other team in the story

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Speaker 1: is Wayne Fry. Now Wayne was Valerie's father and one

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Speaker 1: of my dad's favorite cousins. They were squirrel hunting with shotguns.

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Speaker 1: I'll give a little context here and there, but from

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Speaker 1: now on the fame the squirrel dog training, cayu, chasing,

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Speaker 1: brim catching buckskin, horse loving, hog gutting pistolero. The storyteller

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Speaker 1: of all storytellers. Here he is my dad, Buddy Reeves,

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Speaker 1: me and him.

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Speaker 2: And Uncle EVI and Uncle Ball had been done, bought

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Speaker 2: had a good sport, all go, Bob, but that you

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Speaker 2: guess he would tod he died, But uh, we done

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Speaker 2: got down to the lake, and we crossed the lake

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Speaker 2: we done got across him. Oh, Bob had run a

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Speaker 2: We back up that lake, across the lake. I didn't

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Speaker 2: went to get h So we were gonna play that

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Speaker 2: I said, off my hat up, and then you shoot

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Speaker 2: it if you throw years of him and he SHO

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Speaker 2: did it? He said, okay, so I throw the man up.

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Speaker 2: He shot it.

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Speaker 3: He never touched her fut when he threw it up.

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Speaker 3: I wish now I hadn't he mischief, But I didn't.

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Speaker 3: I mean not to all the pieces.

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Speaker 2: And I'm playing like a bob. I heard them shots.

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Speaker 2: Oh I got back down there, Bob. Should y'all shooting that?

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Speaker 2: And what happened in your hat?

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Speaker 1: If I could only see a picture of Wayne wearing

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Speaker 1: that hat that was shot, all the pieces of my

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Speaker 1: dad on that on that squirrel hunting drill, I swear

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Speaker 1: that would be the best thing ever. But in the

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Speaker 1: last tw week's episode, I talked about hogs and how

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Speaker 1: my family and others in the area had hogs running

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Speaker 1: and what my great grandfather did to survive and provide

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Speaker 1: killed during World War Two in an industrial accident in

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Speaker 1: a shipyard out in California. My father lived with several

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Speaker 1: great grandfather, whom everyone called Grandpa. He talks about going

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Speaker 1: to my great uncle Henry's home place that was down

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Speaker 1: Years later with my uncle Jimmy Ray, now my dad's

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Speaker 1: younger brother, who's listened to this from ground zero right

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Speaker 1: now at our family's home place in Cleveland County, Arkansas.

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Speaker 1: And I'll bet you anything, he's wearing overalls and a

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Speaker 1: white T shirt. Hey, uncle jim Ray. Anyway, here's the

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Speaker 1: sweet voice of my cousin Valerie asking my dad about

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Speaker 4: He farmed most of the time, right, so he was

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Speaker 4: there most of the time. How many acres did they have,

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Speaker 4: you know, mm hmm, cotton or just mostly like subsistence farming.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he didn't, right, I don't ever remember. And raised

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Speaker 2: in cotton they had. He had a hole in the

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Speaker 2: on the place down there in the bottle. He lived

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Speaker 4: In the woods, you know.

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Speaker 2: Camp I right, a good big corn patching la little garden.

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Speaker 2: You cow of the morning, I don't never remember. There's

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Speaker 1: Lived on.

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Speaker 2: And when he when on any dive, I'm all of

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Speaker 2: them got older being here, everything down on, walking old,

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Speaker 2: I'm even had an eighty eight boy dig came.

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Speaker 4: He was right down there in the river bottom, ye see,

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Speaker 4: the one that had a spring down there. And he

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Speaker 2: There, a well down there he kept a gold dipper.

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Speaker 2: And and then I just whim, I just walking five

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Speaker 3: Get in there, now, you can get in there.

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Speaker 2: I remember out in here front yard he had a

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Speaker 2: me generally was down and that years later, I told

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Speaker 2: you myself, I'm gonna come down and he can get

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Speaker 2: never kid I like that.

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Speaker 1: Man. I wish he'd had gotten that ring out of

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Speaker 1: that tree too. But more than anything, I'd like to

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Speaker 1: have a drink out of that spring, fed well with

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Speaker 1: that gored dipper on a hot summer day. My dad

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Speaker 1: and I would get watermelons in the summertime when we'd

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Speaker 1: so cold coming out of that spring water that they'd

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Speaker 1: This last story is a favorite of mine, And any

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Speaker 1: time I get to feeling sad about only having my

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Speaker 1: having his a little over six. Here's my daddy talking

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Speaker 2: It is ombo he wear overall we show back down,

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Speaker 2: he'll going to the house.

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Speaker 1: I'd be standing up.

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Speaker 2: Time on foot each one of his back pockets and

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Speaker 2: holding on to his gallases. He'd be saying, you can

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Speaker 2: hear him, old god boy, he sing, and I that

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Speaker 2: where you get out on the road. A flying squirrel

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Speaker 2: way up a little dead Yeah, pine tree snag went

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Speaker 2: I said, yeah, he's sitting me down out there. Ut

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Speaker 4: Flying squirrel.

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Speaker 2: Now I have he call him that mort.

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Speaker 1: Did you?

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Speaker 4: Did you take him home? Take the squirrel home?

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Speaker 1: Now that's a story that I can see from his

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Speaker 1: feel it because he used to carry me the same

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Speaker 1: way on that same road, right where this happened. My

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Speaker 1: connection to those people in that place has many facets,

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Speaker 1: and that's why they're both so special to me. My

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Speaker 1: My dad never met a stranger. He loved life, and

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Speaker 1: he loved having fun. He made folks laugh, and that

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Speaker 1: you don't know me, and you probably don't know half

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Speaker 1: of the four hundred people that are at this service.

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Speaker 1: But I promise you two things. Number one is that

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Speaker 1: as long as folks hunt with dogs, your daddy will

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Speaker 1: never die. They'll talk about him until judgment day. And

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Speaker 1: number two, you see all these people here. I looked

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Speaker 1: around and I said, yes, sir. He smiled and said,

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Speaker 1: every one of them thinks to they were his best friend,

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Speaker 1: because that's how he treated all of them. He took

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Speaker 1: the eyes and he said, you be that way. Happy

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Speaker 1: Father's Day to all the dads out there, and cherish

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Speaker 1: your time with them. We only get them for so long.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate all of you so much for listening, and

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Speaker 1: hope you've enjoyed hearing my dad tell his stories as

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Speaker 1: much as I have. I've got a few more that

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Speaker 1: we may share in the future if it fits what

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Speaker 1: we're doing. That's all from now and until next week.

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Speaker 1: This is Brent Reeves signing off, y'all be careful.

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Speaker 2: I don