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Speaker 1: Here Stephen Shirley, I am a wife and a mother

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Speaker 1: I've already beat his behind? Should I beat hers? Too?

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Speaker 1: if you do beat her behind, since you beat his behind,

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Speaker 1: She's throwing her affair with your man up in your face. Uh.

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Speaker 1: So what is he doing to stop all of this?

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Speaker 1: He just reaping the benefits that, you know, he slid

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Speaker 1: that you know now that you've taken him in, he's

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Speaker 1: to continue in this situation. Steve, surely, I think you

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Speaker 1: missed a piece of information here, Darling. She said that

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Speaker 1: hold him responsible for all this, So nothing he can

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Speaker 1: You have a damn sure sure this man ain't cheated

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Speaker 1: Yet my wonderful husband, this woman says, found out he

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Speaker 1: This is a skank move. See. She number two trying

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Speaker 1: Now you're sending everything to her friends. God, has this

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Speaker 1: about you? Stuff? Oh no, I'm on tabloids. I'm on

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Speaker 1: your damn Facebook. Just hes just off the huck. Ain't

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Speaker 1: But my sister Mowna, she good. I'm praying for you baby.

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, thank you. He's wrong, he's wrong, he's wrong.

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Speaker 1: They've been married for eleven years. Contacting this wife and

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Speaker 1: You're not and I and I'm not understanding. Unapologetic, but

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Speaker 1: posted on her job. Well, maybe she'll write us back

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Speaker 1: Steve and let email on her employer and notify her church.

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Speaker 1: Take a week off from sine merit, get yourself together.

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Speaker 1: You need to go up in the mouth. Whatever, man,

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Speaker 1: If you don't want to hear it, I want to thinking.

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