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Speaker 1: I banned my kids for my uncle's funeral, But I

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Speaker 1: is Okay Ope, where we read the Craziest True Stories

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Speaker 1: on Earth and Riley. The question today is should Ope

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Speaker 1: have banned his kids from uncle's funeral?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, kids and funerals don't mix. Men like they're over there, oh,

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Speaker 2: like colored on the walls and like you're morning the

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Speaker 2: death of your uncle. Like did you go to any

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Speaker 2: funerals as a child? Oh, dude, I I have an

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Speaker 2: okay story, Tom, Actually, okay, did you Yes, Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: went to Please don't say you went to a lot

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Speaker 2: that's sad. A few that's said, maybe at least two

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Speaker 1: One of them was an open casket. Actually, so my

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Speaker 2: Mon's about my grandfather dying. Wait wait you yeah, that's

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Speaker 2: your okay storytime. My funeral was spun dude, that is

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Speaker 2: a I was ten. But anyways, we's hear about this.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well that's going to stay in my

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Speaker 1: only one way to find out what happens to this story, Riley,

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Speaker 1: of a long one, and I apologize for the grammar.

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Speaker 1: Me male twenty seven and my brother's male twenty five.

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Speaker 1: Starting with the present day, my uncle has suddenly passed away,

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Speaker 2: Interesting, what's up with this brother? Now to the.

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Speaker 1: Lore of the situation. My younger brother, let's call him Finn,

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Speaker 2: Fan was the mother in law before this, and now

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Speaker 1: That's fine, Finn. The very first instance of this was

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Speaker 1: The problem started when he had some friends over, which

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Speaker 2: producer Riley Big Protein talking.

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Speaker 1: About that paper packing like a print like a baker.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, that no thing you can do is.

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Speaker 2: Be a more tricky situation. But no, you're not the

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Speaker 2: You don't know what Finn would do. I mean, he

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Speaker 2: I was not close with his grandfather. He had like

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Speaker 2: The way my house is laid out, like my grandpa's

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Speaker 1: I know, I know Riley's been petitioning me because you

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Speaker 2: Every time I do a little tour, I got to

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Speaker 2: my Grantrandpa's got to go to my grandma's got see mom.

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Speaker 2: Gotta do it again, see my cousin.

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Speaker 1: It's been a long time, but the last we had

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Speaker 2: Do you have like a favorite cousin, like every time

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Speaker 1: I do. I do.

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Speaker 2: My third cousin's two twice removed. Yo, what's her name?

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Speaker 2: Did you forget their name? I did?

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm literally bro. I literally just blanks so that

437
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Speaker 1: they cannot see this now. See I want to say

438
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Speaker 1: it's it's Carmen. But now I'm like, I've had a

439
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Speaker 1: brain fart, and now I'm guessing myself in remembering this name.

440
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Speaker 1: And I'm almost too embarrassed to try.

441
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Speaker 2: I probably dedicated listeners.

442
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Speaker 1: And now they're like, I feel like we talked about

443
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Speaker 1: podcasts too the last time that we saw each other.

444
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Speaker 1: She's she's a fire she's a volunteer firefighter. She speaks

445
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Speaker 1: Russian fluently. She's like a bad ass, yo, and she

446
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Speaker 1: could kick my ass, like yeah, three times over and

447
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Speaker 1: Russian alone.

448
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Speaker 2: You can kick my ass.

449
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Speaker 1: Too, I mean yeah, yeah, just your just your tongue

450
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Speaker 1: could just slap somebody around. But wait, wait, wait, wait,

451
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Speaker 1: he's gonna look at it in two seconds.

452
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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's probably afraid, like she'd hunt him down.

453
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Speaker 1: Now, dude, I don't even know if they have social media.

454
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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna cap Yeah, family funerals, it's all a

455
00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:38,520
Speaker 1: thing me and Riley's background. You learned a little bit

456
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Speaker 1: about me and Riley today, so in our connection, which

457
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Speaker 1: is great, But I think do we have Okay, would

458
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Speaker 1: I be the a hole if I canceled my mother's

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Speaker 1: flight for Christmas? Riley?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Honestly depends on the mom. Depends on the mom.

461
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Speaker 2: We read one that was kind of crazy, but you're

462
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Speaker 2: the ahle Oh that's my take. Okay, what's your thing?

463
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Speaker 1: I think if you're willing to fly out your mom

464
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Speaker 1: in the first place, you're not flying at your mom.

465
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Speaker 1: That's like crazy and like deserving of it to be canceled. Yeah,

466
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Speaker 1: so I'm gonna.

467
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Speaker 2: Go with your the ahole two because but like your mom,

468
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Speaker 2: I wouldn't do that to my mom.

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Speaker 1: I know there's probably some crazy cooking, but like again,

470
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Speaker 1: I'm like, would you pay for a flight to a

471
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Speaker 1: mom who really is so great? Like, there's definitely moms

472
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Speaker 1: who don't deserve to be flown out because they had

473
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Speaker 1: to be doing some crazy stuff.

474
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Speaker 2: Get me on crack well, Riley's only one way to

475
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Speaker 2: find out.

476
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Speaker 1: Spill that team And this one comes from Donkey Kong

477
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Speaker 1: one two oh seven. Uh oh, they say my thirty

478
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Speaker 1: mail mother booked a three hundred and fifty dollars flight

479
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Speaker 1: to come visit me and my girlfriend twenty four female

480
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Speaker 1: for the holidays. This would be her first time meeting

481
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Speaker 1: my girlfriend, and we made plans to get dinner with

482
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Speaker 1: my girlfriend's family her last night in town.

483
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Speaker 2: I really hope this isn't something racist. I just smile it.

484
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Speaker 2: That's why I say, I really hope it's not.

485
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Speaker 1: Oh God, Today my mom called to express our concerns

486
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Speaker 1: about common law marriage in Texas. My girlfriend and I

487
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Speaker 1: live together, and accused my girlfriend of trying to manipulate

488
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Speaker 1: me to gain control of my assets and producer, Riley,

489
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Speaker 1: could you very quickly google or chat? Shept common law

490
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Speaker 1: marriage in Texas specifically because I am curious to see

491
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Speaker 1: what exactly that means.

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Speaker 2: Oh an informal marriage.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. In Texas, common law marriage, also known as it

494
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Speaker 1: informal marriage, is legally recognized even without a ceremony or

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Speaker 1: a marriage license. However, there are specific requirements that need

496
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Speaker 1: to be met. Contrary to popular to belief, the length

497
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Speaker 1: of the couple's time together is not a determining factor

498
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Speaker 1: in establishing a common law marriage in Texas. To establish it,

499
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Speaker 1: the partner must agree to be married, live together as

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Speaker 1: husband and wife, hold themselves as a married couple. So

501
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Speaker 1: it kind of sounds like you both have to be

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Speaker 1: agreeing on it, and there is still some form of Like.

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Speaker 2: I think what she's worried about is, Oh, they're spending

504
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Speaker 2: a lot of time with each other and they're like

505
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Speaker 2: basically married and their girlfriend is taking your things from you.

506
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Speaker 1: Yeah, be weary mother in law using the girlfriend of

507
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Speaker 1: being a gold digger. But let's see, let's see, this

508
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Speaker 1: upsets me since she has never met my girlfriend and

509
00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 1: barely knows anything about her. I called her crazy and

510
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Speaker 1: she asked me to cancel her flight, but then backtracked

511
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Speaker 1: when she realized that she couldn't get a refund or credit,

512
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Speaker 1: not my three hundred and fifty dollars. She requested that

513
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Speaker 1: I kick my girlfriend out of our house for the

514
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Speaker 1: duration of her stay and said that she would not

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Speaker 1: meet her parents as originally planned. Whoa, whoa, Yeah, let

516
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Speaker 1: me just kick my girlfriend out of her own house,

517
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Speaker 1: like they're living together, right, you don't even like you

518
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Speaker 1: got a meeter. This is crazy.

519
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Speaker 2: You have no vibes to go off.

520
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you have nothing nothing. My girlfriend is disappointed

521
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Speaker 1: as she bought non refundable gifts and prepared several vegetarian

522
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Speaker 1: dishes for my mom so she could be comfortable during

523
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Speaker 1: her stay there. It is see wait what what there's

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Speaker 1: what like? Oh, is a mom vegetarian? Yeah, the mom

525
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Speaker 1: is vegetarian? There, it is ah serius saying, guy, she's

526
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Speaker 1: not just pigging about her food, she's picky about her people. Yeah,

527
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Speaker 1: I exactly.

528
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Speaker 2: Yeah a smell.

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Speaker 1: And also, like, look at the girlfriend going above and beyond.

530
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Speaker 1: She's buying non refundable gifts, which means.

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Speaker 2: Trying to make a good first impression.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like these gifts are probably really nice if they're

533
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Speaker 1: not refundable, and she's going out of her way to

534
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Speaker 1: like make her dishes to make sure that she feels

535
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Speaker 1: comfortable and you know, is at home. Like, girlfriend is

536
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Speaker 1: a peach so far pun intended. It's a vegetable. Peaches

537
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Speaker 1: are vegetable. Okay, I'm an idiots, deal with it. We

538
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Speaker 1: love you man, Thanks so girlfriend, said that she doesn't

539
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Speaker 1: want to drive a wedge between my mom and I,

540
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Speaker 1: and offered to leave when she visits. Wow, she's so nice, dude,

541
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Speaker 1: stop stop. I however, realized that I don't want to

542
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Speaker 1: deal with my mom's drama if she did come, and

543
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Speaker 1: also didn't want to make my girlfriend leave. If I

544
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Speaker 1: cancel her flight, I would send her back the two

545
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Speaker 1: hundred dollars she gave me for Christmas. So would I

546
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Speaker 1: be the a hole if I cancel my mom's flight

547
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Speaker 1: before Christmas, knowing that she wouldn't get a full refund

548
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Speaker 1: and has already taken the days off.

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Speaker 2: Wor compromise, Your mom comes, but she deals with a girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: I'm almost like, do you want your mom there now

551
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 1: for the holidays? Like I feel like she's just gonna

552
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 1: it's just gonna be so lame. Here's another compromise. She comes,

553
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Speaker 1: you op pay for her own hotel, give her her

554
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:24,360
Speaker 1: own space near like it's in Texas, probably not too expensive.

555
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Speaker 2: Find a nice airbnb.

556
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Speaker 1: Find a nice airbnb. Be like, Mom, I'm gonna one

557
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Speaker 1: hundred percent cover you. It'll be close by, It'll be

558
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Speaker 1: like what five ten minute drive away or less. You

559
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:35,399
Speaker 1: can come see us at all times, but be able

560
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Speaker 1: to have their separate space. I feel like that is

561
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Speaker 1: like a very considerate move. But I'm also like, I

562
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Speaker 1: kind of like the idea of being like, Mom, you

563
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Speaker 1: gotta chill out. Yeah, I'm gonna want to come. If

564
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Speaker 1: you want to come, you need to respect me and

565
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Speaker 1: my girlfriend. And if not, then maybe then you could

566
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Speaker 1: be like then I'm just getting you your own place

567
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Speaker 1: and then having you stay there better.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, go on, Like that's what I would say. Her

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Speaker 2: mound actually.

570
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Speaker 1: Bro op op. Like it's looking like I don't know

571
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Speaker 1: who raised Op with these ideals, but it seems like

572
00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:08,679
Speaker 1: OP has ideals that the mom does it man, Like,

573
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Speaker 1: come on now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but we have an update.

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Speaker 1: First of all, thank you to everyone who commented. This

576
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,439
Speaker 1: is a shared account with my girlfriend, so she was

577
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 1: able to read through a lot of her comments and

578
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 1: it helped her feel better about the situation.

579
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Speaker 2: Let's talk about that.

580
00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:26,080
Speaker 1: Let's talk about that shared readited account. You don't like it,

581
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Speaker 1: I don't like it? Is just use your Gmail and

582
00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:33,160
Speaker 1: make another account. Isn't that hard?

583
00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:36,119
Speaker 2: Because like, sorry, from my user experience, I'm gonna be

584
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:39,359
Speaker 2: seeing like scrolling through a video thing your now editing

585
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:41,639
Speaker 2: and then it's gonna be like whatever her apprhythm is, like,

586
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:42,200
Speaker 2: you know, like.

587
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Speaker 1: I would feel the same way. I was under the

588
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Speaker 1: impression that they kind of made this righted account for

589
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Speaker 1: this situation.

590
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Speaker 2: Okay, that's cute. You could be right there. You totally

591
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:50,960
Speaker 2: could be right that.

592
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Speaker 1: Maybe they do share readit account read yeah, which like

593
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Speaker 1: if someone shared my Spotify account?

594
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Speaker 2: No what, No, I'm okay with a Spotify account?

595
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Speaker 1: Are you kidding me?

596
00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:01,280
Speaker 2: Yes, it's not joking. That's two know's a month. Dog

597
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:02,400
Speaker 2: they made their own playlist?

598
00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, you are going to change my algorithms.

599
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:07,760
Speaker 1: I need my algorithms to cater music to That is

600
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 1: that is key, That is crucial. You can mess up

601
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:13,479
Speaker 1: my Reddit algorithm. You cannot mess up my Spotify algorithm. Anyway,

602
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:15,240
Speaker 1: It's total science. Track back to the story.

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Speaker 3: We received some good advice from an early commenter and

604
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:21,720
Speaker 3: tried to salvage the trip. So late last night.

605
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Speaker 1: I called my mom long story.

606
00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:25,879
Speaker 3: Short, she will still be visiting and my girlfriend is

607
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:27,680
Speaker 3: not going anywhere.

608
00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 1: Whoo, there we go.

609
00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:31,919
Speaker 3: Mom didn't apologize for implying that girlfriend was trying to

610
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:35,359
Speaker 3: manipulate me, but still refuses to meet with my girlfriend's family.

611
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:37,919
Speaker 3: We told my girlfriend's family that we would try to

612
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 3: convince mom to go to the dinner, but if she

613
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:42,520
Speaker 3: was too stubborn, my girlfriend and I will leave her

614
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:46,000
Speaker 3: at home and still get dinner. Unfortunately, this extreme paranoia

615
00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 3: slash anxiety is not out of character for her.

616
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:51,440
Speaker 1: She makes everything more difficult than it needs to be.

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Speaker 3: To the people who commented about early stage dementia, I

618
00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:57,159
Speaker 3: think there is a strong possibility that she has this

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Speaker 3: or some other serious mental health issues, but she refuses

620
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:03,159
Speaker 3: to go to a doctor. I've tried to make an

621
00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 3: appointed for her, but she always finds an excuse slash

622
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:08,560
Speaker 3: issue that prevents.

623
00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:10,399
Speaker 1: Her from anyways. We'll have to hear.

624
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:13,359
Speaker 3: Again after her visit if there's any more drama, but

625
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:16,399
Speaker 3: hopefully this is the last y'all.

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Speaker 1: We'll hear from me. That is the end of the story. Wow,

627
00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:25,600
Speaker 1: I'd be curious if ended you in the comments have

628
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:26,760
Speaker 1: any experiences like this.

629
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Speaker 2: Yeah, we'd love to hear your story, but I think

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Speaker 2: that's a wrap.

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Speaker 1: If you love us, make sure to subscribe, and we

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Speaker 1: love you and see you tomorrow. Boom.

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Speaker 2: This is an episode from Deep Within the Archives.

634
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Speaker 1: Time for okop rewar.

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Speaker 4: Am I the a hill for not inviting my whole

636
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Speaker 4: kid's class to his birthday party.

637
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Speaker 1: I'm just imagining like three hundred six year old. It

638
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:52,760
Speaker 1: is just like like like like termites, just like how

639
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 1: many can once? Yeah, yeah, that's exactly. So you just

640
00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 1: read my mind? How many six year olds can I murder? It?

641
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Speaker 4: And it's like, if you have a swarm of six

642
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:04,960
Speaker 4: year olds like coming at you with knives, could you

643
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,360
Speaker 4: not just like spin around really quickly with a baseball

644
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 4: bat and just like knock them all out?

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Speaker 1: Jesus Christ, this guy, because like the nine what is

646
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:15,040
Speaker 1: it like a like a nine foot one.

647
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Speaker 2: Year old or ninety one year olds or whatever.

648
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 1: It's like one of those.

649
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Speaker 4: Or would you rather would you rather fight a hundred

650
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Speaker 4: would you rather fight one hundred t rex sized chickens

651
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:32,040
Speaker 4: or one chicken sized t rex?

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00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 1: So they're all the size of chickens. Definitely the one

653
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 1: t rex? Then actually that no, still the one t rex?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Would you rather fight one hundred chickens or one t rex? Oh,

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Speaker 1: one hundred chickens or one t rex? Bro? Definitely one

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Speaker 1: hundred chickens. Bro on bodying? Are you getting me? One

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Speaker 1: hundred chickens?

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Speaker 2: Bro?

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Speaker 1: Body, so you would be more afraid.

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Speaker 2: Like, but I mean one.

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Speaker 1: Hundred t ren one with the chickens.

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Speaker 4: Bro, you would rather fight one t rex sized chicken

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Speaker 4: then a hundred chicken sized t rexes.

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Speaker 1: Oh see, okay, okay, chicken sized t rexes because I'm

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Speaker 1: not familiar with t rexes.

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Speaker 2: T Rexes are pretty you know.

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Speaker 1: Uh, probably probably the big, the big, the big chicken,

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Speaker 1: the big chicken, because I would have a hard time

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Speaker 1: running away, probably from the hundred. They probably bite my

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Speaker 1: ankles and stuff. Dude, but a chicken is fast, true,

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Speaker 1: I guess, and I guess in the scenario, I'm assuming

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Speaker 1: it's a very vindictive giant chicken that wants to kill me. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I wants to kill eating. I mean I eat chicken

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Speaker 1: every day, so like they.

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Speaker 2: You're going to eat for weeks.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is cute.

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Speaker 4: I twenty eight female, am a mother of a wonderful

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Speaker 4: eight year old son. This whole thing happened last April,

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Speaker 4: but I'm still getting complaints. So here I am asking

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Speaker 4: strangers for judgment on the internet. Hell yeah, So last

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Speaker 4: year was my kid's first year in big kids school,

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Speaker 4: like he calls it, since his first grade coincided with

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Speaker 4: the pandemic. We're not in the best place financially most families.

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00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 4: Our consumer debt piled on and we were throwing every

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Speaker 4: spare scent at it. Unfortunate, So it was time to

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Speaker 4: throw him a party. I only invited five of his classmates,

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Speaker 4: the one he considered his friends, which is completely normal.

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Speaker 4: That's what you're doing, right, Like, I mean, like, what

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Speaker 4: do you think? What do you guys think? Like, come on,

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Speaker 4: you invite your friends? Yeah, buy your friends, go guys

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Speaker 4: for the others. I sent two dozen cupcakes and juice

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Speaker 4: boxes to class. The invites were delivered to their houses

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Speaker 4: and not in front of the other kids. Tactful, nice,

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Speaker 4: like I said. Money was tight, so I got creative.

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Speaker 4: I made nine small cakes, box cakes, vanilla, chocolate and funfetti.

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Speaker 2: What's fun fetti? Has anyone ever heard of fun fetti?

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Speaker 4: Edible confetti? I have no idea, butter cream and different colors.

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Speaker 4: Also made big sugar cookies in different colored frosting and sprinkles,

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Speaker 4: damp go.

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Speaker 2: Going all out. Yeah, such a delicious cake.

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Speaker 4: Go off, queen go off, And finally brought tortillas, made

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Speaker 4: pizza sauce and had variety of toppings. I asked that

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Speaker 4: the kids bring swimsuits and water guns. We had to

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Speaker 4: make your own pizza station for lunch, and then they

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Speaker 4: played with their water guns. Dude, just kill it, just

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Speaker 4: catch come on like you gotta bet, you gotta bet

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Speaker 4: she's crushing it.

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Speaker 2: You just crushing it.

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Speaker 4: Then they decorated their cakes and finally their cookies they

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Speaker 4: took home with them.

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Speaker 1: Well.

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Speaker 4: The next Monday, the kids would not stop raving about

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Speaker 4: how fun the party is cause she did a forget

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Speaker 4: awesome job. Yeah, mom, Hey, I've your mom done that shit?

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Speaker 4: I see you, mommy, Mommy, set us up with your moms.

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Speaker 2: Please. The other kids were not happy to not be invited.

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Speaker 4: At pick up Tuesday, a couple moms confronted me about

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Speaker 4: not inviting their kids. I said that I'm sorry, but

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Speaker 4: it was a small party for his close friends only,

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Speaker 4: and they kept complaining about me excluding their kids. I

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Speaker 4: didn't take it seriously, but now it is a new

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Speaker 4: school year, almost six months later, and I am still

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Speaker 4: getting the occasional comment thrown at me.

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Speaker 2: So am I the a hole?

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Speaker 1: I think we should go like all the way on

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Speaker 1: this one. I think you need to make like a presentation,

728
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Speaker 1: being like I am poor you all you are are

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Speaker 1: finance shaming me?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, or just be like, Okay, we're throwing a new

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Speaker 4: birthday party. Pay up one hundred dollars. Now we're talking tickets.

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Speaker 1: Now, that's right.

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Speaker 2: Now you want to come buy a ticket.

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Speaker 1: Now the mom starts throwing a children's event. Company, they're

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Speaker 1: out of spite billionaire you know, op, did you ever

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Speaker 1: watch Kirby Enthusiasm the Spite stores.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, it's dude, dude, it's a Spike business. Dude,

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Speaker 2: it's so good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Hey, any Curby your Enthusiasm fans, you guys got to

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Speaker 4: tell us bro holler.

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Speaker 1: We we love it. Also, speaking of our of our

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Speaker 1: wonderful fans, we have a few comments.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, we got to read good comments for the

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Speaker 4: people that really stick to here and tell us what

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Speaker 4: they think.

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Speaker 1: Yes, so, uh, let's see Beta Savadra. I am definitely

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Speaker 1: butchering that said, I just want to say I love

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Speaker 1: you guys. I'm from a little town in Chile at

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Speaker 1: the end of South America. You're not the only Americans

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Speaker 1: in the world. Shut up, what are you talking about?

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Speaker 2: No kidding? Awesome?

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Speaker 1: I do you want to go to Chile to you?

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Speaker 1: And when Chile is the really really long one. I

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Speaker 1: think that's along the long skinny one. It has like

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Speaker 1: like it goes like like I think it covers the

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Speaker 1: the longest area or long longest length like of any country. Really.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because it goes to like like Chile goes from

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Speaker 4: Antarctica to like all the way up. Look look at

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Speaker 4: a picture of Chile. Chile is crazy, bro. Look Look

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Speaker 4: it goes like that's that's all that's to the tip

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Speaker 4: basically of Antarctica all the way to like the middle

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Speaker 4: goes all the way down.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right, it does go all the way It's

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Speaker 1: a little.

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Speaker 2: Strip baby, oh I see Caleb.

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Speaker 4: Caleb Schweizer says that first story was so wholesome. I

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Speaker 4: love it with I fell in love with a trans friend.

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Speaker 4: That story was wholesome as heck. That's right commenting this one.

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Speaker 1: Because it's just completely out of context and hilarious. The

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Speaker 1: comment is from Anna Maria shout out to you, Anna,

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Speaker 1: and the comment is it's more of the texture of

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Speaker 1: the eggs. True.

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Speaker 4: Alana Bear says, I personally love the banter. Y'all are

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Speaker 4: so entertaining. I appreciate you.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 4: We get mixed comments. Some people are like, fuck you guys,

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Speaker 4: I hate you. I can't believe you would talk during

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Speaker 4: our Reddit story.

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Speaker 1: And I saw one recently that was like, imagine starting

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Speaker 1: a podcast with zero talent and zero good stories that

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Speaker 1: I was considering making it my Twitter banner. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: this is an all time comment right here. Hey, but

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Speaker 1: hey here, we are here, we are We got Gary

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Speaker 1: Ghost outdoors man. You are so cunning le mao Klutzy Mouse.

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Speaker 1: We did a story about asexuals. We wanted like any

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Speaker 1: asexual people like com reach out. Yeah, yeah, love your videos.

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Speaker 1: A sexual here I can understand op side.

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Speaker 2: Fully.

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Speaker 4: I was sex repulsed at one point, but I've moved

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Speaker 4: on the spectrn to the demi gray sexual side.

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Speaker 2: Oh there's asexual and gray sexual. I like that that

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Speaker 2: that ryans. Thanks Kletzi Mouse.

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Speaker 1: Keep keep talking to us because we're going to be

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Speaker 1: reading them comments.

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Speaker 2: Okay, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you,