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Speaker 1: Happy holidays. Here's one of our favorite moments of twenty

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Speaker 1: twenty four from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: Something that Gandhi told me after we got back from

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Speaker 2: our vacation a couple weeks ago. You said that your

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Speaker 2: heart was full of joy because you witnessed so many

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Speaker 2: grand gestures. I'm using your words. You noticed grand gestures

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Speaker 2: of love. Yes, and it made you feel as if

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Speaker 2: the dying art of romance wasn't dead.

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Speaker 3: Yes.

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Speaker 2: What did you see that rehashed your belief that love

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Speaker 2: still exists in this world?

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Speaker 3: Where do I even begin? I felt like it was

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Speaker 3: just everywhere, and I loved it.

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Speaker 2: So.

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Speaker 3: I have one friend who's in a new relationship and

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Speaker 3: she wanted to get a note to this guy that

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Speaker 3: she's dating before a big event. She drove to meet

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Speaker 3: up with his father to give the love note so

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Speaker 3: that his father could hand deliver it in another state

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Speaker 3: when he got there. I thought it was so sweet.

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Speaker 3: Friend wanted to go to the top of the Empire

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Speaker 3: State Building to tell someone that she was in love.

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Speaker 3: They did that. It was amazing. Yeah. Another friend of

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Speaker 3: mine hiked did a little hike for a whole romantic day,

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Speaker 3: looking at leaves and trees with a new person also,

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Speaker 3: and I was just like, you know what, all I

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Speaker 3: hear all the time is about how the dating pool

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Speaker 3: is full of poop, and I don't believe it. I

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Speaker 3: think that there are still these lovely things and lovely

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Speaker 3: people out there who care about love, who are trying

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Speaker 3: to show people that they love them without just making

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Speaker 3: it all about you know, transactional things. It's an I

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Speaker 3: love you here it is and it was so great

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Speaker 3: to see. I loved it.

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Speaker 2: Well. They got me to think it. Oh what about

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Speaker 2: people who are in relationships and they basically are, as

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Speaker 2: they call it, making the sausage every day? Hear me

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Speaker 2: out right? You know the term making sausage means Jesus,

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Speaker 2: it's just this mechanical thing. You make a sausage, then

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Speaker 2: you make another sausage. If you are into sausage making

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Speaker 2: videos and who is it? Yeah, you know what I'm

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Speaker 2: talking about. So some people are in relationships where there's

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Speaker 2: just making sausage every day. It's the same thing every day.

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Speaker 2: You get into routines with the people that you're with

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Speaker 2: in this relationship. You wake up to the same time

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Speaker 2: every day, you do the same thing every day and

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Speaker 2: ever you get to get home from work, you do

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Speaker 2: the same thing and you go to bed. When's the

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Speaker 2: last time he actually looked over at them. He looked

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Speaker 2: them in the eye and went, Oh, my god, I

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Speaker 2: really do I really do love this person I'm with,

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Speaker 2: And I feel like maybe maybe we've kind of forgotten

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Speaker 2: about us, the two of us, with this crazy world,

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Speaker 2: this hurricane of a world that's ripping around around us,

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Speaker 2: it's still the two of us in the eye of

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Speaker 2: this hurricane, and we're here for each other. Let's do

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Speaker 2: something for each other. Let's do the top of the

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Speaker 2: Empire State building like Gandhi was talking about. Let's go

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Speaker 2: on a hike with just us. It's more than a

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Speaker 2: building that's really tall. It's more than a hike on

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Speaker 2: a trail in the woods. It's about you and me connecting.

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Speaker 2: Let's go do it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I really think you owe it to you, yourself actually

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Speaker 2: and your relationship to think that through, because you owe

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Speaker 2: it to them, and you o it to yourself, like

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Speaker 2: I said, do it.

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Speaker 3: I think about that all the time because you hopefully

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Speaker 3: start dating your partner because you think there's something magical

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Speaker 3: about them and wonderful, and you put an effort in

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Speaker 3: the beginning, and then for whatever reason, people just stop

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Speaker 3: putting in that effort, and that magical person who is

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Speaker 3: still magical, maybe even more magical than they were before,

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Speaker 3: is just they're like not appreciate it. Probably both ways.

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Speaker 3: It's not necessarily one way, but both ways. And I

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Speaker 3: think that's when it opens up the door for someone

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Speaker 3: else who might treat them like they are magical to

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Speaker 3: slide in. But I think that that happens a lot,

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Speaker 3: and I think that sort of is what kills a

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Speaker 3: lot of romance and stuff in life.

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Speaker 1: I think people need to realize also that relationships change,

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Speaker 1: that it's never going to stay exactly the way it

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Speaker 1: was when you guys first met. You have kids or

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Speaker 1: things happen or whatever. You got to grow together, and

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Speaker 1: then you know, just keep appreciating each other. And it's

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Speaker 1: not always it's not always easy. Things get in the way,

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Speaker 1: but sitting down at the end of the day saying like, gosh,

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Speaker 1: this is the person I want to come home to

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Speaker 1: every single day and I still do and let them

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Speaker 1: know that it's very important.

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Speaker 2: You know, there's something I want to say and I

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Speaker 2: want to move it to the next level because you

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Speaker 2: know us, we just can't. We can't just leave it

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Speaker 2: as simple and move on. Let's say you're in a

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Speaker 2: relationship with someone and it's not going well. You're in

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Speaker 2: the middle of a crazy, awful storm with them, and

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Speaker 2: of course when those things are going on, the positive

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Speaker 2: interaction is depleted, it's gone, it evaporates. It's all about

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Speaker 2: just struggling to get along with them, just live with

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Speaker 2: them whatever. Maybe this is the time, even though it

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Speaker 2: could be over, Actually this is the time to look

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Speaker 2: in the eye and go, oh, look, I know that

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Speaker 2: things aren't great for us, but I do love you,

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Speaker 2: and I just got to tell you I appreciate everything

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Speaker 2: that we've been through. And who knows, this could be

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Speaker 2: the end, but you need to know I love you.

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Speaker 2: Something to think about.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that definitely is, because you.

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Speaker 2: Know what, I always get pissed off when relationships between

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Speaker 2: this bond and and then it's gone. Well, does that

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Speaker 2: mean it was it wasn't really worth anything when you

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Speaker 2: were in it. They're not your friend anymore. No, I

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Speaker 2: don't think so, because what Danielle said, you know, things change.

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Speaker 1: I get that, and you fell in love with them

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Speaker 1: for some reason. There was something that attracted you to

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Speaker 1: that person in the first place. It always amazes me

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Speaker 1: how quickly people get over. Like if you're with somebody

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Speaker 1: in this relationship for like ten years, just say and

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Speaker 1: then all of a sudden things go south, and then

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Speaker 1: five minutes later you're like with this other. It always

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Speaker 1: amazes me how hearts can change that quickly. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I know, maybe things have been going on that we

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Speaker 1: didn't know about, but it's just like, there's some reason

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Speaker 1: you were there and if you could just find out

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Speaker 1: why and connect back to it, if you can, that's incredible.

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Speaker 2: Or your bags could be back to you're out to

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Speaker 2: freaking side, but still but still. My point is this,

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Speaker 2: no matter what the state of your relationship, you owe

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Speaker 2: it to each other to at least acknowledge the respect

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Speaker 2: you have or had for each other and say thank you,

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Speaker 2: Y