WEBVTT - Say Yes to the Ex: Unlucky Number 13 

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<v Speaker 1>All right, you were in for a Sunday treat. My friends,

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<v Speaker 1>you have found the second Date Update podcast. It's Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the Morning and Sunday is where we

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<v Speaker 1>introduce you to something new, yes, something different that we

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<v Speaker 1>do on our show, because we do do a full

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<v Speaker 1>hour podcast over on our main feed, and this one

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<v Speaker 1>is a segment called say Yes to the X Alexis.

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<v Speaker 1>Have we run this in the second day? I think so.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys might have heard it once or twice. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's where I mean, it's pretty obvious, right you want

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<v Speaker 1>to get back together with your ex, and we help

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<v Speaker 1>facilitate that. This one's going to be a big discussion

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<v Speaker 1>about cheating. Yeah, and if if once a cheater, always

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<v Speaker 1>a cheater. I think it's going to be the comment

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<v Speaker 1>section for sure. But before we start the podcast, Alexis,

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<v Speaker 1>let's highlight some of the great comments that people are leaving.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw one from Keegan Barnett who said that point

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<v Speaker 1>when you wake up from a ton select to me

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<v Speaker 1>go to the recovery room and the first thing you

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<v Speaker 1>ask for is your phone and headphones to listen to

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<v Speaker 1>your daily Brook and Jeffrey episode. I think I have

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<v Speaker 1>a problem. I think I think we're better after a yeah, totally. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks for being with us, and hey, if you've got

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<v Speaker 1>a great comment, please leave it. We'd love to highlight them,

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<v Speaker 1>like subscribe and sit back and enjoy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, there's a lot of things that you'd happily say

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<v Speaker 2>yes to without even thinking about it. Oh okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>Like yes to free costco samples. Yes, yes to concert

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<v Speaker 2>tickets for a band I don't even like.

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<v Speaker 1>God.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I'd even say yes to a free trip to

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<v Speaker 2>Mexico with the stipulation i'd have to hide balloons somewhere

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<v Speaker 2>on my body.

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<v Speaker 1>WHOA wait a minute yet, be that bad? Right?

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<v Speaker 2>Nothing's free in this world drug mules, but it's much

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<v Speaker 2>harder to say yes to your X. Oh yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 2>what one of our listeners is hoping for today, And

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<v Speaker 2>all I know is this, after today's call, I will

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<v Speaker 2>never look at escape rooms in the same way ever. Again,

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<v Speaker 2>You're not wrong, and you're gonna understand why when you

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<v Speaker 2>hear it in a brand news, say yes to the X.

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<v Speaker 2>Right after this, it's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's time for another charming addition. Say yes to

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<v Speaker 2>the X. This is what we're doing where we try

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<v Speaker 2>to help a listener reconnect with an old fooling to

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<v Speaker 2>see if there's any chemistry or desire lingering there hoping

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<v Speaker 2>to be explored.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know what, it's worked once this has Ye,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not a high success rate, but it's better than

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<v Speaker 1>before that.

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<v Speaker 2>Time it worked. Yes, a success rate is there, and

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<v Speaker 2>today's caller has actually been on the show with us before.

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<v Speaker 2>You might remember one of the more disturbing second date

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<v Speaker 2>calls we did last year, involving two people going to

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<v Speaker 2>a red envelope party where after midnight, the party turns

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<v Speaker 2>from nice to super naughty.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, kay, I do remember Red? Why did they end

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<v Speaker 1>up dating?

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<v Speaker 2>So Natalie was the woman that we called that day

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<v Speaker 2>she said yes to our offer of a second date.

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<v Speaker 2>But now she's back this time for say yes to

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<v Speaker 2>the X. I think not the same guy that we

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<v Speaker 2>hooked her up with that time on the show. But first, Natalie,

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<v Speaker 2>we want to welcome you back. Thanks for being on again.

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks for having me.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I thought I'm not saying yes to this relationship

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<v Speaker 2>that just happened like a month or two ago.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh you mean Alvin.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what happened with that? Guy in the red envelope party.

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<v Speaker 3>You're not going to believe this, but he turned out

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<v Speaker 3>to be kind of a freak.

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<v Speaker 1>No, that is literally the least shocking thing that you

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<v Speaker 1>could have said.

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<v Speaker 2>No way, You're right.

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<v Speaker 3>I probably should have known. But it really sunk in

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<v Speaker 3>when he started referring to his bedroom as the arena.

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<v Speaker 1>Like he has, oh god, oh.

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<v Speaker 3>Neon sign above his bed that says the arena.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well, hold on, now, he's starting to sound like

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<v Speaker 2>he's kind of a good guy. Are you sure that

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<v Speaker 2>you should have ditched him a neon sign? Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>welcome to the dedication.

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<v Speaker 1>Which is worse that he's single, which means he's bringing

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<v Speaker 1>new ladies into that place.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but apparently this isn't about Alvin in his arena.

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<v Speaker 2>We're focused on a new old guy. Yeah, tell us

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<v Speaker 2>about your new old fling.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay. So we dated like three years ago, and we

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<v Speaker 3>dated for like six to seven months. His name's Caleb.

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<v Speaker 1>And what made you start thinking about him again? Is

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<v Speaker 1>it just by comparison to Alvin everybody, he's the only

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<v Speaker 1>one that seems normal.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, that's part of it. This guy was so

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<v Speaker 3>sweet and I just I had like really good memories

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<v Speaker 3>of him, and I was the one who sort of

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<v Speaker 3>messed it up.

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<v Speaker 1>Can we know how you messed it up? Uh?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean I was. I was unfaithful and I

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<v Speaker 3>got caught.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah do you say you you got caught?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? And I totally deserved him breaking up with me.

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<v Speaker 3>But the thing is, I'm I'm not that person anymore,

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<v Speaker 3>and I just know he's a solid person that doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>have me on signs and giant arrows in his bedroom.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh there's arrows too, Yeah, Okay, I like a map

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<v Speaker 2>to follow.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like, why would he want to take you back?

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<v Speaker 1>I know that you know you're a change person, but

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<v Speaker 1>why do you deserve Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I've done the work to improve myself and

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<v Speaker 3>like be a better partner for him, And I just

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<v Speaker 3>know that if you do get him on the phone,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sure the questions of trust will definitely come up,

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<v Speaker 3>because that was kind of a big thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, that is a good question. What do you

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<v Speaker 2>guys think can you come back from a cheating scandal?

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<v Speaker 2>It depends on the person, Like how hot they are?

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<v Speaker 1>You mean, if you're already cheating six months into a relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't feel like you're you're fully I mean I think,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't think once a cheater, always a cheater.

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<v Speaker 1>Just doesn't sound like you were fully into him. A

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<v Speaker 1>marriage you try to work out, you're just dating, doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>find someone else, Like, it doesn't sound like you're you're

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<v Speaker 1>really into the relationship to begin with.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I was. I just think that I've changed

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<v Speaker 3>and I've done a lot of work on myself and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just a better person than I was when we

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<v Speaker 3>were dating.

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<v Speaker 2>Whether he takes you back or not right, And it's

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of the grasses greener on the other side

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<v Speaker 2>type of thinking. But in the last three years since

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<v Speaker 2>you broke up, have you had any contact with your ex?

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<v Speaker 2>Like at all?

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<v Speaker 3>I tried, you know, I tried in that first year.

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<v Speaker 3>I reached out more than a few times, and he

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<v Speaker 3>made it clear he needed more time and space and

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<v Speaker 3>he's gotten that now it's been three years, So yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>he can't.

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<v Speaker 2>Get three years. The problem?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh man, do you know? Do you know is Caleb

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<v Speaker 1>single right now?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, honestly, And I like, I don't expect

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<v Speaker 3>him to be like jumping at the chance to get

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<v Speaker 3>back with me, but I would like to just grab

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<v Speaker 3>a coffee and see if we have that same, like

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<v Speaker 3>comfortable fun vibe between.

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<v Speaker 2>Us, Okay, and invite him back into your arena.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it's the Colisseum, what.

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<v Speaker 2>Name, it's a bigger arena with people watching Madison Square Garden,

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<v Speaker 2>that's right. Yeah, so obviously, Natalie, you know how this works.

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<v Speaker 2>We had our producer reach out to your ex Caleb

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<v Speaker 2>and was able to get him on the phone. He

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<v Speaker 2>is waiting on hold right now, just doesn't know who

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<v Speaker 2>he's about to be talking to. Are you ready to

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<v Speaker 2>talk to your ex from three years ago and see

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<v Speaker 2>if he's willing to say yes to the X?

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<v Speaker 3>I think I'm ready. I'm ready. I can do this.

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<v Speaker 1>If he hangs up, I mean, it's a tough one.

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<v Speaker 2>It's understandable.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, that's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>But oh yeah, you know why I'm hanging up.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe he's up into it though, maybe we're wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, she claims that she's changed a lot in

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<v Speaker 2>that time, So we'll find out if that's enough and

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<v Speaker 2>we come back and put them together for say yes

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<v Speaker 2>to the X right after this.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, hold on, if you're just joining us, we're in

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<v Speaker 2>the middle of say yes to the X with Natalie too.

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<v Speaker 2>She's attempting to reconnect with the guy that she dated

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<v Speaker 2>three years ago, and she told us that they had

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<v Speaker 2>a fun, casual vibe together, but admits the biggest issue

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<v Speaker 2>in their relationship was her unfaithfulness. Yeah, a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>of an issue. Yeah, a little problem. She was caught,

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<v Speaker 2>admitted it to the guy, regrets it, and since then

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<v Speaker 2>has taken accountability for her actions. Chose to move on

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<v Speaker 2>and work on herself and like to know if there's

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<v Speaker 2>any chance at a second go around with this guy.

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<v Speaker 2>And yeah, you make that sound great, because most cheaters

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<v Speaker 2>won't admit it and fall on the sword and be

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<v Speaker 2>the bigger person. Any Well, it's because personally, I believe

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<v Speaker 2>in forgiveness, and in certain situations, maybe this is one

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<v Speaker 2>of them. I'm hoping that enough time has passed that

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<v Speaker 2>Caleb could find it in his heart to at least

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<v Speaker 2>sit down and have a cup of coffee with her.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you've never You've never been cheated on?

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<v Speaker 3>Have you?

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<v Speaker 1>I have?

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<v Speaker 2>And I believe that there is goodness.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I mean, I do think that people can

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<v Speaker 1>grow and change and make different choices. But doesn't mean

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<v Speaker 1>that's not on Caleb though you know that's.

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<v Speaker 2>Onn have fun with your new life. It doesn't seem

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<v Speaker 2>like too much nest for him to come sit down

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<v Speaker 2>for coffee, right, Natalie, you're right about that, Natalie, you

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<v Speaker 2>would agree.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's all I'm asking for, like just a coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't mean he owes you that it would be

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<v Speaker 1>a kind Yeah, you could meet in the middle.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but he should pay for the coffee. No, it's

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<v Speaker 2>just a gentleman.

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<v Speaker 3>Now you're having it.

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<v Speaker 1>Last time you've talked to him on a scale of

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<v Speaker 1>one to like super angry, being ten, where was he at? Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>I would probably say ten?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, because she said that she tried texting him,

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<v Speaker 2>but he was like, I don't want to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 2>I need more time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's not to sounds a lot more vulgar than that.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, let's see what number he's at, because he is,

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<v Speaker 2>remember waiting on hold, has not heard this segment happen

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<v Speaker 2>up to this point, does not know the reason that

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<v Speaker 2>he has been called by a radio show. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like he might not be a full ten.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's find out. I'm gonna punch him up. Let's producer

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<v Speaker 2>Boyd really riled him up before putting him on the phone. No,

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<v Speaker 2>boy can really get under your skin sometimes he does that.

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<v Speaker 2>But here me. We're gonna talk to him a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit and then we'll tell him that you're there. Okay, Natalie, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>thank you. Okay, So here we go everyone, Duck, Hello,

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<v Speaker 2>Cayleb be there.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Hey, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 2>Caleb, good morning, Hey, good morning. How are you guys

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<v Speaker 2>are doing? Man, thanks for being on the show with us.

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<v Speaker 2>I know you don't know the reason why you're here yet.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's all mysterious.

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<v Speaker 3>What's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it could be really fun. The reason.

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<v Speaker 2>It could be what is it? It's this is a

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<v Speaker 2>segment we do. It's called Say Yes to the X

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<v Speaker 2>where somebody from your past who you've dated before wants

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<v Speaker 2>to know if there is any shot of a second

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<v Speaker 2>chance with you. And I know we don't even know,

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<v Speaker 2>like what your situation is, if you're single, or what

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<v Speaker 2>you've got going on in your life right now. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>if you are taking we're not trying to disrespect right.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah I am single.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's a good thing. I'm not sure if I

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<v Speaker 2>want to talk to this person unless I know who

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<v Speaker 2>it is.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's a valid request.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh really, Okay, here we go drop that bone. We

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<v Speaker 2>normally Okay, normally I wouldn't do this. Normally I just

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<v Speaker 2>put you on the phone with them. But I can

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<v Speaker 2>tell you it's somebody you dated for about half a

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<v Speaker 2>year and her name is Natalie. Yeah, are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>No, that was like, are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 2>That's this isn't going to be a thing. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to talk to her.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, maybe she did come with a lot of regret

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<v Speaker 1>for her actions and you may just want to hear

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<v Speaker 1>her out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because I'm assuming you're hesitant because of the whole

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<v Speaker 2>infidelity thing. You're you're going to have to make that plural,

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<v Speaker 2>my guy intidel teeth. Yeah, it wasn't once she cheated

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<v Speaker 2>with thirteen people.

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<v Speaker 1>Gosh, some work.

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<v Speaker 2>But it sounds like you guys only dated for six months. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's what she told me when the truth came out

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<v Speaker 2>when I called her.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, oh my god, Cayleb Caleb, Hi, we don't need

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<v Speaker 3>to tell them all.

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<v Speaker 1>That would happen.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we do. You told me thirteen different dudes, the landlord,

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<v Speaker 2>the cocaine guy, and my brother.

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<v Speaker 3>Who okay, no, no, no, no, no, no no, your frat brother.

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<v Speaker 3>That that's it's not like you're related.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait what what brother?

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<v Speaker 3>His frat brother?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, fraternity. They're not even real people, right?

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, right, heavy, it counts. It just doesn't as

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<v Speaker 1>a brother.

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<v Speaker 3>There was a lot of people, and I knew most

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<v Speaker 3>of them, so listen. No, here's the difference. Back then,

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<v Speaker 3>I was unhappy with myself and that had nothing to

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<v Speaker 3>do with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Except that we were together and you were cheating on him.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, right, But I was honest with you about it.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't hide it. I told you what was for

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<v Speaker 3>a while until I found out with guy number thirty Okay, eventually,

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<v Speaker 3>And that's my karma and something I dealt with and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm over it now. I'm so much better.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh sorry, I'm not over it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Natalie, did you really think like you didn't tell us?

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<v Speaker 1>I had just assumed that it was one time.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I said that I was unfaithful. You didn't

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<v Speaker 3>ask for like a specific number, you know what.

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<v Speaker 1>I just caught her cheating.

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<v Speaker 2>Well it's fair. We need to be better at asking

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<v Speaker 2>questions when we're doing these segments. Let's keep that in mind.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you cheat in any relationships after him?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, that doesn't matter about that word.

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<v Speaker 1>Because she says she's grown and changed.

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<v Speaker 2>But we're not worried about her other relationships. We're worried

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<v Speaker 2>about this relationship with Caleb. Caleb, she's done the work,

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<v Speaker 2>she's moved past it. Are you ready to move past

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<v Speaker 2>it yet?

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<v Speaker 1>She was well done?

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<v Speaker 2>But wild question.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, here's the deal with Like, I still live in

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<v Speaker 2>the same building and I still have the same landlord.

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<v Speaker 3>Who occasionally looked.

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<v Speaker 2>At me weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe the word messed up that you didn't get a

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<v Speaker 1>rent discount.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not just the landlord. I mean she slept with

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<v Speaker 3>the freaking escape room in Okay, Okay, stupid.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I need to hear this.

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<v Speaker 3>It just kind of happened. We're locked in separate rooms.

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<v Speaker 3>He was a team leader. You do what the team.

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<v Speaker 2>Leader said, Oh, we have to get out of this room.

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone take their pants on.

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<v Speaker 1>Is the scape room employee? That isn't it? Twenty year

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<v Speaker 1>old act d d You.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys, Okay, you guys can see why we are not

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<v Speaker 2>together now, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she slept with the guy in the middle of

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<v Speaker 1>your date. Of course got together.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't want to say anything that I think

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<v Speaker 2>her and Jeff are falling around a little when she

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<v Speaker 2>was on hold. Yeah, by the way, team leader, you

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<v Speaker 2>have to listen to the team leaders. Don't appreciate that guys.

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<v Speaker 3>Are not helping.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would you ever think that he would move past this? Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>why did you ask this question? You just need to

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<v Speaker 1>move on and give up.

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<v Speaker 2>Brook What you're forgetting is this is all past stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>That's great. We're talking three years ago, and I would

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<v Speaker 2>hope that Caleb, you could find it somewhere in your

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<v Speaker 2>heart to say yes, because this girl deserves a fourteenth

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<v Speaker 2>chances today.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what the saying is Fool me once, Shame

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<v Speaker 1>on you, fool me fourteen times.

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<v Speaker 2>Shame on the landlord.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you guys are making such a big deal about

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<v Speaker 3>the number of people, and the truth is like I've

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<v Speaker 3>changed and I just want a cup of coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, that's fine, but just maybe do it with

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<v Speaker 1>a new guy. Well with Barista, may you get free coffee.

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<v Speaker 2>That's before we even do that, we need to ask

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<v Speaker 2>the whole purpose of this segment is Caleb, she wants it, Brooks.

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<v Speaker 2>She's begging us for the coffee with Caleb.

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<v Speaker 1>So, Caleb, that's like that team leader that escape.

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<v Speaker 2>Caleb. Would you be willing to say yes to the

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<v Speaker 2>X and meet up with Natalie for coffee? You know what,

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<v Speaker 2>I think I actually have a thing or two of

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<v Speaker 2>yours still at this apartment, So yeah, I can meet

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<v Speaker 2>you up the coffee.

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<v Speaker 3>Idiot, j Just so.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, there is zero chance of me ever trusting

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<v Speaker 2>you again or being in any kind of relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you're gonna hook up over coffee.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I hear there's a coffee themed escape from that

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<v Speaker 2>they just started downtown.

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<v Speaker 3>I am really a new woman, so you will see

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<v Speaker 3>the new me. It's gonna be great.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, let yourself shine.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I can see this new woman and we're

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<v Speaker 1>proud of you for that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, just go to coffee, bring your landlord, and let's

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<v Speaker 2>squash old Ques. You know what, Bring all thirteen of

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<v Speaker 2>those other guys back and we'll hash this out.

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<v Speaker 1>What is this Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,