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Speaker 1: What's up Y'all's your girl Lexp And it's your girl

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Speaker 1: Dre and the Cold and you are tuned in to

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Speaker 1: another episode of Poor Minds where a drunk mind speaks sober. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we got another solo. They're gonna be happy, and said

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Speaker 1: were starting a new y'all. Are we still Christmas? Yes,

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Speaker 1: we're trying to get on y'all good side. So we're

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Speaker 1: starting a year off, right, So what's been a girl?

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Speaker 1: Girl ntin? I just came back from a vacation. How

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Speaker 1: was that? It was fun? Me and my mom. I

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Speaker 1: took my.

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Speaker 2: Mom to Hawaii, so you know, it was fun. We

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Speaker 2: had a good time. But like, I don't know, it

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Speaker 2: was crazy on my I went through the airport and

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Speaker 2: I had like a little crazy little situation happened when

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Speaker 2: I was at the bar, which kind of prompted me.

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Speaker 2: I kind of wanted to make this a topic today,

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Speaker 2: but you know, I guess we could just talk about

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Speaker 2: it right now. But basically, when I was at the airport,

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Speaker 2: it was like two different couples, you know, Caucasian cook Caucasian,

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Speaker 1: But I don't really know if they was couples or not.

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Speaker 2: Because it seemed like, you know, they was like on

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Speaker 1: It was like a double day.

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Speaker 2: No, it was two separate situations. It was two separate people.

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Speaker 2: When I was sitting at the bar, so like the

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Speaker 2: first I couldn't help. But it's not even that I

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Speaker 1: Okay, So basically like the first couple, they was arguing.

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Speaker 2: At first, I was getting along and they was taking

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Speaker 2: let's get another round of shots, and he was like, no,

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Speaker 1: All of a sudden, I don't know, you know, when

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Speaker 2: Well, we was in the air fort, like, no, fuck

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Speaker 2: this ship. He was like, women, y'all always do the

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Speaker 2: fucking most. Y'a always gotta take it there. And she

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Speaker 2: was like, what are you talking about. You said we

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Speaker 2: can order more shows. She said no, I said that

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Speaker 2: we could order three drinks and you've ordered five and

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Speaker 2: I'm not paying for this sheep. And he literally left

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Speaker 2: her at the bar with the tab and she was

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Speaker 2: so fucking mad that she had to pay the tab, right,

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Speaker 2: So then this other couple end up coming. I'm just

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Speaker 2: like no, I'm good because I already had some wine

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Speaker 2: right right, So she was like okay. She was like, well,

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Speaker 1: She was like cheers. So we took a drink together.

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Speaker 1: We took a little you know, sip together, and then this.

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Speaker 2: Man came up and the man was like, you stole

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Speaker 1: Now she was baying drinks on hisself.

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Speaker 2: She he was like, you stole my fucking card and

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Speaker 2: she was like, no, I didn't, and he was like, yes,

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Speaker 1: He was like, call the authorities. Just getting juicy. He

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Speaker 2: People behind the bar called the airport police.

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Speaker 1: She had his card. So you know, she starts crying

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Speaker 2: And she looking at me and I'm like, baby, don't

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Speaker 1: You were that gift. They arrested her going viral. When

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Speaker 2: Police, yo, police, yeah, no, seriously, he was making a

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Speaker 2: the airport for anything, you be on a no fly list?

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Speaker 2: Like you can't fly for anything. It doesn't matter what

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Speaker 1: I don't know, and I don't know how true. DC's

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Speaker 1: learn something about the no fly list that it's actually

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Speaker 1: very hard to get on the no fly list? Is it? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Because I know how they make it seem on the internet,

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Speaker 1: So how they be making it seem like somebody's on

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Speaker 1: I follow a few flight attendants and she like did

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Speaker 2: Maybe if we have some flight attendants the kid right now,

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Speaker 2: if it's true or not?

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Speaker 1: But I don't know. He was dropping crazy pals. Oh no,

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Speaker 2: But But the reason that I had wanted to bring

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Speaker 2: be wanting to date white men. Okay, but I feel

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Speaker 2: But when if I've seen that shit, I'm like, sh

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Speaker 2: is looking like an asshole?

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Speaker 1: Is an asshole and I'm met other race, right. I

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Speaker 1: But to purposely try on either, well, I don't care

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Speaker 1: He's gonna say, headed, motherfucker, I'm not playing with you.

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Speaker 1: Fun get out fun Cuisha is fucking crazy.

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Speaker 2: But then so, yeah, but that's the thing to a nigga.

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Speaker 2: Ain't gonna call the police on you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, a police, y'all. We're gonna be in at the squabbing.

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Speaker 1: Are he gonna turn their card? We just gonna leave

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Speaker 1: even I think my man was like at the airport

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Speaker 2: I just don't like people who make scenes the public, Like,

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Speaker 2: especially if y'all on a day like even if he's

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Speaker 2: not going well anymore. At one point y'all liked each

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Speaker 1: Was Ryan? She was crying hard? Wouldn't you have been

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Speaker 2: But honestly, I don't feel like I got arrested in

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Speaker 1: I don't feel bad for her though, because it's one

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Speaker 1: thing to take his car. But you were showing to order.

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Speaker 1: Everybody dreams what you want? You want to cast amigos?

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Speaker 1: Is that what y'all drink?

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm glad I didn't accept it because I was

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Speaker 1: I am wai. You would have been an accomplice of crime. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I know, always got something going on. It was crazy.

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Speaker 1: It was wild. So how was Hawaii though, because I've

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Speaker 2: We went to a luau that was like really fun.

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Speaker 2: I did a little shopping while I was out there.

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Speaker 2: They have like a lot of nice shopping areas out there,

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Speaker 2: The food was really good and like we just chilled

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Speaker 1: It don't make it feel like if you buy a

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Speaker 2: Well, a lot of places having sales too, because it

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they were doing that. Like right when I left London,

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Speaker 1: I was so surprised that when we dropped our episode

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Speaker 1: lot of podcasts just don't drop around the holidays. But

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Speaker 1: a little one two to get the people something people

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Speaker 1: so strange when people have podcasts and do them in season.

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Speaker 2: think that people just be online fishing for like fishing

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Speaker 2: for a compliment.

433
00:20:51,119 --> 00:20:53,159
Speaker 1: So you don't really believe that they think that they're I.

434
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Speaker 2: Think some people do, but I think the people that

435
00:20:58,119 --> 00:21:00,840
Speaker 2: really really feel theyselves the most, not the ones that

436
00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:03,120
Speaker 2: be saying how fine they are all the time.

437
00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:04,280
Speaker 1: I agree because.

438
00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:07,000
Speaker 2: I feel like I feel like people who do that

439
00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:09,880
Speaker 2: all the time, like who are always saying, oh, I'm fine,

440
00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:13,439
Speaker 2: I'm so fine, I'm this, I'm bad, I'm the baddiest whatever.

441
00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:16,399
Speaker 1: I don't feel like they astray.

442
00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:34,000
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I am fucking w.

443
00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 1: The baddest me.

444
00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:42,920
Speaker 2: But no, for real, I feel like people who always

445
00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:45,520
Speaker 2: say don't really feel me as much. They be trying

446
00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:48,000
Speaker 2: to convince themselves and convince others.

447
00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:50,800
Speaker 1: Okay, so what do you think is the difference between

448
00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:55,960
Speaker 1: being conceited and being confident because I always say others

449
00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:58,840
Speaker 1: will speaking for me, like I don't have to be like, oh,

450
00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:00,800
Speaker 1: I'm fine or I'm fine me, or I'm this or

451
00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:02,760
Speaker 1: I'm that. I just let other people say like I

452
00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:05,199
Speaker 1: don't have to. And I'm not saying me particularly, I'm

453
00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:07,359
Speaker 1: just saying in general, when I see a confident person,

454
00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:11,400
Speaker 1: I see everybody around them being like, oh man, she's this, her,

455
00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:13,800
Speaker 1: he's that, and this and that, Like they don't be oh,

456
00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:16,160
Speaker 1: I'm this, I'm this person. You know what I'm saying.

457
00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:18,560
Speaker 1: Does that make sense? Yeah? Yeah. And to me, conceited

458
00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:21,040
Speaker 1: as somebody who's like, well, I'm this and i'm that

459
00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:23,959
Speaker 1: and i'm that's the difference for me and I I

460
00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:26,359
Speaker 1: feel like, sometimes I agree with you, like conceit it.

461
00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:29,399
Speaker 1: Maybe they don't necessarily believe it, but everybody is really

462
00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:31,160
Speaker 1: on an extreme hot horse for real.

463
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Speaker 2: I think that that's more boastful than conceited.

464
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Speaker 1: I don't know.

465
00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:38,400
Speaker 2: I guess when I think of like somebody that's like conceited,

466
00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:40,879
Speaker 2: I think it's somebody who is like really really like

467
00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:46,040
Speaker 2: self absorbed to where they don't care about nobody else's feelings.

468
00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:51,440
Speaker 2: They don't care about nothing unless it's like centered around them.

469
00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:53,280
Speaker 2: I think that people that do that all the time

470
00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:56,240
Speaker 2: are very boastful though, Like Braggadoci's, I.

471
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Speaker 1: Get Braggadocia's I don't like it. Now, before we get

472
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Speaker 1: to the topic, before we get into this hot time,

473
00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:04,640
Speaker 1: what we drinking on today? What we sipping on? All right,

474
00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:06,680
Speaker 1: so we all know that it's dry January.

475
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Speaker 3: Everybody's on a detox or at least a plan, just

476
00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:12,480
Speaker 3: trying to get some of that alcohol from the holidays.

477
00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:16,640
Speaker 3: We had what Thanksgiving through Christmas to January. So this

478
00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:18,720
Speaker 3: one is gonna be called Blood on the Leaves. This

479
00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:21,520
Speaker 3: is a mocktail. You can always add whatever spirit of

480
00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 3: choice to it. But we have some fresh presh juice.

481
00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:29,320
Speaker 3: We have some blood orange, pomegranate, lemon, elderberry, and then

482
00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:32,399
Speaker 3: it's topped off with some blood orange ginger beer. So

483
00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:34,920
Speaker 3: that's what's given a little bit of that spice. Ginger beer,

484
00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 3: and ginger is also very good during this time this winter,

485
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:40,159
Speaker 3: people getting sick out there. So you can add whatever

486
00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:42,480
Speaker 3: spirit you want to this. And this is the Blood

487
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Speaker 3: on the Leaves. We have it garnished with an orange,

488
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Speaker 3: a cherry and then cement leaves.

489
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Speaker 1: I like that. This is real tasty, this is good,

490
00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:52,280
Speaker 1: this is really Now, I'm not gonna lie. I'm doing

491
00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:55,480
Speaker 1: dry January, but at last's birthdays at the end of

492
00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 1: the month, it is.

493
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Speaker 2: But I'm still not gonna drink. I'm gonna go to Houston,

494
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Speaker 2: but I'm not drinking.

495
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm getting fucked up. I'm getting I'm getting a

496
00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 1: good three weeks and that's all y'all getting out of me. Yeah,

497
00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 1: I'm doing forty days, but you know, amen, always do

498
00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:11,320
Speaker 1: it at the beginning of the year. But y'all may

499
00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:14,720
Speaker 1: have fun in Houston out, but I'm definitely not gonna dream. Yeah,

500
00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:18,840
Speaker 1: we're gonna see how long I'm making. Now, we gonna

501
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:21,120
Speaker 1: see I ain't making No, It's really not that hard though.

502
00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:21,960
Speaker 1: You just gotta like.

503
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Speaker 2: I think that the key to being able to like

504
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:27,359
Speaker 2: not drink for an extended period of time is just

505
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:28,399
Speaker 2: like staying in the house.

506
00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 1: And that's that's my problem. I like to go out

507
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:33,440
Speaker 1: to eat. Yeah, I'm trying to go out to eat.

508
00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:36,399
Speaker 1: Won't with my men, get that bottle of wine at me,

509
00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 1: bust that thing over, and I'm trying to get freaking dicky.

510
00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:41,720
Speaker 2: No yeah, I feel you. But yeah, that's the key though.

511
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:44,000
Speaker 2: You gotta just not go nowhere.

512
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Speaker 1: Well per usual, y'all know, this episode is brought to

513
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:49,240
Speaker 1: you by LS Cream Liqueur. I've seen a lot of

514
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:51,960
Speaker 1: y'all trying it over the holidays, and I'm glad y'all

515
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:54,560
Speaker 1: liked it. Make sure you go to your local liquor

516
00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:57,119
Speaker 1: store and request it. This is a black owned liquor.

517
00:24:57,320 --> 00:24:59,760
Speaker 1: It's so good, y'all are gonna love it, as we

518
00:24:59,800 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 1: all say, added in your coffee, drinking straight, warm it up,

519
00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:06,199
Speaker 1: have it on ice, however you like it, get it

520
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 1: in a little dessert, make you a little spiked brownie

521
00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:12,719
Speaker 1: or something, you know. Okay, So now we gonna get

522
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:16,600
Speaker 1: into the topic because we were talking about attractiveness, you know.

523
00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:19,240
Speaker 1: And let me just say that we're not calling so

524
00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 1: they don't y'all get offended in the comments.

525
00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:24,800
Speaker 2: Okay, if they get offended, maybe you ugly, because I

526
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 2: don't understand. My thing is with people. If it don't apply,

527
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:34,880
Speaker 2: let it fly. If you get an offended will.

528
00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:40,240
Speaker 1: Okay, So I'm gonna let you introduce this topic. So okay.

529
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Speaker 2: So for the first topic I had kind of wanted

530
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:44,320
Speaker 2: to talk about because I was having this conversation with

531
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Speaker 2: somebody recently and they was basically saying that they feel

532
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 2: like attractive people aren't good.

533
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:54,360
Speaker 1: People and what was their reasoning behind that? Because they say,

534
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:57,719
Speaker 1: usually people that are attractive and get afforded a lot

535
00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:02,000
Speaker 1: of opportunities that you know, people that are less attractive

536
00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:03,920
Speaker 1: don't get, and they get to get away with a

537
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:06,720
Speaker 1: lot of things, and so in turn, it makes them

538
00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:09,159
Speaker 1: like really not good people who don't really care that

539
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 1: much about other people and other people's feelings or you know,

540
00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:17,640
Speaker 1: how they make other people feel. I'll say I don't

541
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:21,320
Speaker 1: necessarily agree with that, but I do think like people

542
00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:23,640
Speaker 1: who have been like attractive their whole lives or never

543
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:27,439
Speaker 1: or you know, got awarded that pretty privilege all the time.

544
00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:30,760
Speaker 1: I don't tend to really click with people like that

545
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:32,840
Speaker 1: because there's usually not a lot of depth to them

546
00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:38,440
Speaker 1: because you know, they never really had to be entertaining

547
00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:41,040
Speaker 1: in the conversation or do because all they had to

548
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:43,959
Speaker 1: do was just show up and be pretty. And I

549
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:46,119
Speaker 1: hate to say that, but I do. I do believe

550
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,919
Speaker 1: that every time I meet somebody that's like extremely pretty

551
00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 1: or extremely handsome, like I told you, no offense to

552
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:54,399
Speaker 1: anybody that I've ever dated, But I do not like

553
00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:57,800
Speaker 1: extremely fine niggas. Extremely fine niggas are the worst thing

554
00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,520
Speaker 1: that ever happened on this planet. They're so it's so

555
00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:04,360
Speaker 1: surface level with them every time I've dated and extremely like.

556
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:06,439
Speaker 1: And when I say extremely fun, I just mean like

557
00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 1: typical what you would imagine like an attractive black man

558
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 1: to be. It's it never works out for me, like,

559
00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 1: don't get it twisted, like my nigga's gonna be ugly.

560
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:17,240
Speaker 1: But they don't be like, oh my god, like a

561
00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:21,200
Speaker 1: who is like a extremely fine like actor or somebody

562
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 1: that's like a hmm like Boris Kojo. Yeah, yeah, something

563
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:28,760
Speaker 1: like that, something like that, like a Boris or like

564
00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:31,399
Speaker 1: a Mooris Chestnut. And we don't know these men, you know.

565
00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:33,240
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that they're boring, but like somebody that

566
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:37,119
Speaker 1: looks like that, like just chiseled and just ur. I don't,

567
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:39,199
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't fool with it. They be in

568
00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 1: a mirror more than me. They want to take selfies.

569
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:44,840
Speaker 1: I hate as selfie taking ass nigga. I don't like

570
00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 1: none of that. So I won't say that they're not

571
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:50,160
Speaker 1: good people. They're just boring people. A conversation. I would

572
00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:54,400
Speaker 1: literally rather watch paint drive than talk to a fine nigga. Yeah,

573
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:55,239
Speaker 1: I don't know.

574
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:58,720
Speaker 2: For me, I more so took the conversation from like

575
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:03,399
Speaker 2: the perspective of, like, find people be finisers if they

576
00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:07,040
Speaker 2: finish their way through life. And I think that technically

577
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:11,439
Speaker 2: to finiess people, you don't really always have good intentions.

578
00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:14,520
Speaker 1: Well, but and to finesse people, you don't have to

579
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:17,680
Speaker 1: necessarily be fine either too. No you don't. But we're

580
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 1: speaking on specifically fine people. Well, I don't necessarily think

581
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:25,399
Speaker 1: that's true either, because I see a lot of fine

582
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:32,119
Speaker 1: people who aren't living a lifestyle or you know, or

583
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,199
Speaker 1: doing things that they could be doing. You know, you

584
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 1: can literally go to a public and see a fine person,

585
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 1: you know, working at the cash rest. You're not saying

586
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 1: that's a good job or anything or like that, but.

587
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:47,240
Speaker 2: A lot of times that finising though, I feel like

588
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 2: just people have this idea that like you have to

589
00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:53,240
Speaker 2: be living a certain life or be living a certain

590
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:55,640
Speaker 2: way to be like finissing people. You can still be

591
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 2: finishing people in little ways you don't never know. They

592
00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 2: could be finising people out of teams, I don't know. Yeah,

593
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:01,160
Speaker 2: And you're right.

594
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right, like finessing the hours that they want,

595
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:04,520
Speaker 1: Yeah they could be.

596
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 2: Yes, it's a lot of ways that you could finess

597
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:08,920
Speaker 2: like you could still and even with like you said,

598
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:11,720
Speaker 2: being an attractive person, even working a job like that,

599
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:13,760
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure it's a lot of shit that like

600
00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 2: other coworkers have to do that that person might not

601
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 2: have to do.

602
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 1: Okay, that makes sense when and this is.

603
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:23,479
Speaker 2: Speaking from my own personal experience of like working in

604
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:25,400
Speaker 2: retail when I was in college and stuff. When I

605
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:27,680
Speaker 2: used to work at Lows, I used to always finis

606
00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 2: my way out of having dolution certain thing that other

607
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:31,760
Speaker 2: people had to.

608
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:33,920
Speaker 1: Do and see. For me, it was just like like

609
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:37,280
Speaker 1: I said, I grew up in a different environment, so

610
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:40,160
Speaker 1: like I always say this, like I never felt attractive

611
00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:41,920
Speaker 1: even until I moved to Houston because I grew up

612
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 1: in a very small town all white people almost never,

613
00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:48,080
Speaker 1: so I always was like relying on my personality and

614
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:49,840
Speaker 1: this and everything. But also I've always just kind of

615
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 1: been like I like to get shit done. I like

616
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:54,560
Speaker 1: shit done my way too. So when it comes to

617
00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 1: like working, like I never minded like I never really

618
00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 1: try to finesse anything because I want shit done a

619
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 1: certain way when it comes to anything, so I'll be like,

620
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:05,040
Speaker 1: you know what, instead of me trying to finish this,

621
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 1: let me just fucking do it myself, because if I

622
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:08,680
Speaker 1: don't do it, it's not gonna get done right. It's

623
00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 1: either not gonna get done or it's not gonna get

624
00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:12,760
Speaker 1: done right. And I've always been that way when it

625
00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:15,320
Speaker 1: came to my job. So I don't know. I've never

626
00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 1: been a.

627
00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:18,920
Speaker 2: Somebody else could have cleaned the toilet.

628
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 1: Oh no, I never had a job where I would

629
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 1: do stuff like that.

630
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:24,480
Speaker 2: I was not maybe was not about to be cleaning

631
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 2: those twillet salos y'all had me fucked. Uh.

632
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:30,760
Speaker 1: Yeah. So I do feel like attractive people. I don't,

633
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 1: like I said earlier, I don't necessarily think that they

634
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:35,600
Speaker 1: aren't good people, but they do tend to be boring

635
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 1: bumps on a log. Very not I think that they not.

636
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:40,800
Speaker 2: I think that they I think it's true what the

637
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:43,040
Speaker 2: person was saying about them not being good people.

638
00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:44,400
Speaker 1: I don't necessarily think they're boring.

639
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:46,320
Speaker 2: I done met a lot of fine people, are attractive

640
00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:49,480
Speaker 2: people that are like coolest you know what I would say, personality.

641
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:52,640
Speaker 2: So I think that's like a very broad statement, but

642
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:55,240
Speaker 2: I definitely think that a lot of the time they're

643
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 2: just not necessarily the greatest people because I just think

644
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:00,400
Speaker 2: they be out for self and they've always got praise

645
00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 2: for they love.

646
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I do think that sometimes they be delusional too,

647
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 1: Like especially in twenty twenty three, Like I'm sorry, it's enough.

648
00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:10,720
Speaker 1: We all have access to a lot of things, like

649
00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 1: everybody's fine now. Like back in the day, I feel

650
00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 1: like it was rare because you had to have that

651
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 1: rare beauty you know, you know, you wasn't coming across

652
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 1: a lot of like neo lungs and sonah like this,

653
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 1: you know, things like that, and those beauties are very

654
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 1: still red because they're natural and they're beautiful. By what

655
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:29,240
Speaker 1: I'm saying is now the beauty standard is a lot different, Babe.

656
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 1: We all fine at the end of the day. It's

657
00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 1: like a lot of fine people out here, so it

658
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:35,320
Speaker 1: kind of be like what else for me, Like so

659
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:38,480
Speaker 1: I don't know, I guess we can we can kind

660
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 1: of agree. Well, I'm kind of about what about attractive

661
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:45,200
Speaker 1: people usually aren't good people, Like I don't know, I

662
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:46,640
Speaker 1: guess I would like I said, I just think that

663
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:49,480
Speaker 1: I agree with that you don't think they're good people.

664
00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 2: No, I'm just speaking on like personal experience, knowing yes,

665
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:58,120
Speaker 2: most majority of the very attractive people that I know

666
00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:02,400
Speaker 2: are not good people. I feel like they're not bad people.

667
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 2: But I also can speak on my own personal experience.

668
00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 2: I feel like I spent a lot of my life

669
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 2: like VANESSI. Yeah, and I think that in order to

670
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 2: do that, like you are out for self. You don't

671
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 2: really care so much about how you're making other people feel.

672
00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 2: It's just about what you can get out of the situation.

673
00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:21,480
Speaker 2: As I get older and I grow as a person,

674
00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 2: I don't think I'm the same person that I used

675
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:26,080
Speaker 2: to be. But when I was younger, I definitely used

676
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 2: to take advantage of the fact that I knew I

677
00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 2: was overly.

678
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:31,520
Speaker 1: Traded right, right, And I don't. Yeah, And I don't think.

679
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 2: That I I don't think that I necessarily always treated

680
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:38,760
Speaker 2: people right. I don't think I was just like a

681
00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 2: buck the ass person. I feel like you got people

682
00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 2: who really just treat people any kind of way. I

683
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:44,720
Speaker 2: don't think I was ever that type of person. But

684
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:47,320
Speaker 2: I always sometimes knew that I didn't have.

685
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 1: The right motives. Okay, that makes sense, that sense, and I.

686
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 2: Knew how to mask it will, but I still knew

687
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 2: what my motives were. Whether or not the other people

688
00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 2: knew or the other person knew, you make sense. So

689
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 2: I just and I feel like most people that I

690
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:04,240
Speaker 2: come across that are attractive, they a lot of the

691
00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 2: time be the same way.

692
00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like you grow in the ball. Yeah,

693
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 1: And I think for me, I think that goes with too.

694
00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:16,600
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that you didn't have a good heart,

695
00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 1: but like how I was raised, I just I have

696
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:24,840
Speaker 1: a really big heart. And I'm just always like very

697
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:27,120
Speaker 1: straightforward with the things I do. And I'm like, I'm

698
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 1: not perfect either. Everybody has their ways, but I don't

699
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:32,160
Speaker 1: know when it comes to like certain things, I'm just

700
00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:34,120
Speaker 1: always like, you know what, don't worry about it, I'll

701
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:35,520
Speaker 1: do it, or don't worry about it. I'll take care.

702
00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:38,320
Speaker 1: I've never been like now, don't get me wrong. Have

703
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 1: I finished before and done some things out of being

704
00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 1: selfish and want my way? Of course, I think we

705
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:46,760
Speaker 1: all have to a certain extent, you know what I mean, Like,

706
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:50,240
Speaker 1: but I don't know some people. I mean, I think

707
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:53,680
Speaker 1: everybody has finessed. I don't at least one time I.

708
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:57,160
Speaker 2: Think some people really don't use people, and honestly, I

709
00:33:57,200 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 2: really don't. I think that, and I feel you friend,

710
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:01,320
Speaker 2: I agree, I get what you're saying, but I feel

711
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:04,240
Speaker 2: like you know you have used people before. I really

712
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:06,680
Speaker 2: feel like you got people out here that really don't

713
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:09,959
Speaker 2: do that for real. And I'm and even just thinking

714
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:11,919
Speaker 2: about Like, for example, I could talk about my mom,

715
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 2: like my mom is a person, like she is really

716
00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:17,160
Speaker 2: a person who try to do right, vibe everybody, you

717
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:19,400
Speaker 2: know what I mean. She don't try to use people,

718
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:21,239
Speaker 2: She don't try to get over, she don't try to

719
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:24,399
Speaker 2: finish she if anything. Sometimes when I would do things,

720
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:26,120
Speaker 2: She'll be like, no, you shouldn't do that because you

721
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 2: don't really like this person for real, or you shouldn't

722
00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:30,160
Speaker 2: accept it because you don't really like this person. I

723
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 2: think you really have people out here who have good

724
00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:33,759
Speaker 2: hearts like that, and they be like, no, no matter

725
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 2: the circumstance, I'm not gonna use this person, or I'm

726
00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:37,920
Speaker 2: not gonna take what they're gonna give me.

727
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go out and get it on my own. Well,

728
00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:43,920
Speaker 1: I'll say this too. A lot of the situations where.

729
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:46,359
Speaker 2: I was using people, they wanted to be used, but

730
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:47,640
Speaker 2: that's still not an excuse though.

731
00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 1: That's it is. It's nice. I'm sorry, but if you

732
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 1: approach me, it's not. I'm gonna do this for you,

733
00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:55,719
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna do that for you. Okay, you want

734
00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:57,440
Speaker 1: me to use you, that's not true.

735
00:34:57,560 --> 00:34:59,480
Speaker 2: Maybe they want you to like them, and that's the

736
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:00,960
Speaker 2: way that they I think they could get you.

737
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 1: To like them. No, some niggas they know straight up

738
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:05,440
Speaker 1: they want you to use them because they don't want

739
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:08,120
Speaker 1: you to bother them. They want you to come get

740
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 1: this money, get these gifts and blah blah blah, and

741
00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:13,000
Speaker 1: we don't have to worry about all the extra shit.

742
00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:14,960
Speaker 1: Some men do want to be I disagree.

743
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 2: I think everybody want to be likes, and I think

744
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:20,400
Speaker 2: that people be wanting to buy people liking them.

745
00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:22,719
Speaker 1: I mean, I agree, but I do I.

746
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 2: Don't think anybody wants like I don't think nobody goes

747
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:28,719
Speaker 2: into a situation like, oh yeah, bitch, use me, use

748
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:29,239
Speaker 2: me up.

749
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:34,160
Speaker 1: Yes you remember they ain't got a song. Yes yeah,

750
00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:37,040
Speaker 1: I'm telling you. Some niggas they know because they finna

751
00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:39,440
Speaker 1: use you. They finna use you to be on their arm.

752
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:41,880
Speaker 1: They finna use you for some pussy. They finna use

753
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 1: that a lot of times when you get to the

754
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:48,520
Speaker 1: base level of dating, when we're not trying to really connect.

755
00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:50,879
Speaker 1: He trying to finesse me out some pussy. I'm trying

756
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:53,200
Speaker 1: to finesse him out of a back. Yes, people be

757
00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:55,919
Speaker 1: using each other and sUAS like that.

758
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:58,719
Speaker 2: Sometimes you do have situations where both parties are trying

759
00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:01,719
Speaker 2: to use each other. But you do have situations where

760
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:05,040
Speaker 2: sometimes you just using that nigga.

761
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:08,000
Speaker 1: Me, no, I'm not gonna lie I get no. No.

762
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 1: I had a situation recently when somebody was trying to

763
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:12,800
Speaker 1: buy me an extravagant gift and I turned it down

764
00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:16,560
Speaker 1: because I'm a good woman. After you turn after you

765
00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:17,640
Speaker 1: accepted the other.

766
00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 2: Fine, hey hey hey finally you turn one down him.

767
00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:32,040
Speaker 1: That's debatable. No, it's not debatable. It is I thought, no,

768
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 1: you didn't. Okay, you're lying. Okay, but we've moved on

769
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:40,839
Speaker 1: and you know all as well. But yeah, I don't know.

770
00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:44,759
Speaker 2: I definitely feel like you have people out here who

771
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:47,160
Speaker 2: be trying to finish and be knowing that they're trying

772
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:49,319
Speaker 2: to get over, and then you have people who really

773
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:52,040
Speaker 2: don't be trying to do that type of stuff to people.

774
00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:53,719
Speaker 2: They just feel like it's not good to be that

775
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 2: type of person. But a lot of the time, I

776
00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 2: think it's mostly attractive people that move that way because

777
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:01,280
Speaker 2: they know they can get away because I know niggas

778
00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 2: is gonna put up with it.

779
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:04,719
Speaker 1: In the same thing with men me and know women.

780
00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 2: Are gonna put up with it because they want to

781
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 2: keep them around because you fine.

782
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:11,480
Speaker 1: You look good. That's why I don't fine niggas. Y'all

783
00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 1: got too much, because why is we acting like each other?

784
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:19,799
Speaker 1: I don't like that like that, yeah, yeah, because I'm like, yeah,

785
00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:22,960
Speaker 1: he's like, yuh, I don't know what. I don't know.

786
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:25,480
Speaker 2: Like that just sounds like a sassy nigga that ain't

787
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 2: got nothing.

788
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:28,440
Speaker 1: Fine me sassy.

789
00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:31,360
Speaker 2: Ugly niggas be sassy too. Niggas these days, it's just sassy.

790
00:37:31,680 --> 00:37:33,440
Speaker 2: It's just a group. It's just a lot of sassy

791
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 2: niggas in the world right now. I don't think you

792
00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:38,800
Speaker 2: have nothing to do with being fine compliment.

793
00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:40,239
Speaker 1: A nigga no more. You're like, oh babe, you put

794
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 1: that off there together, real nice and nah, I ain't

795
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:48,719
Speaker 1: met them. I ain't met a man. That's what I'll

796
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 1: be saying. I'll be seeing it. I'm not lying. I'll

797
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 1: be seeing it. I'll be seeing it. That's why I said,

798
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:58,080
Speaker 1: I like nigga a little rough midder from the hood.

799
00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:01,280
Speaker 1: You do not like a rough nigga from the hood. Okay,

800
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 1: not a rough nigga from the hood. But I do

801
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 1: not like no, no, no no. I don't like hoods. I

802
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:12,160
Speaker 1: like an in between. I don't like it too rough,

803
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:14,359
Speaker 1: but I don't. We don't need to be. We didn't

804
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:16,680
Speaker 1: need to both come up in Orange taxas in a

805
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:19,120
Speaker 1: nice house and ship. I need a little something. I

806
00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 1: need somebody. If my car break down, you're gonna come.

807
00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 1: You're gonna change a little time. You like you a

808
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:26,680
Speaker 1: little country. I love me a little country nigga that

809
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 1: know what to do with it. You know what I'm saying.

810
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:31,080
Speaker 1: He ain't. He ain't scared to go to Orange with me,

811
00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 1: little chit now back in my day, I love hood nigga.

812
00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:37,759
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. That's why. Okay, that's what I

813
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 1: meant to say. I like a country. I mean, you know,

814
00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 1: I like a country nigga that can build something. I

815
00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 1: need to feel the little calluses on your hands a

816
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 1: little bit. You know what I'm saying that's what I like.

817
00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:50,360
Speaker 1: Not not a hood nigga. Let me correct myself, So

818
00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:51,200
Speaker 1: not a hood nigga.

819
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:54,040
Speaker 2: You want you a little, a little, a little rough

820
00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:56,040
Speaker 2: around the edges, you know what I'm saying, Got some

821
00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 2: life experience, got a little what is it called suits

822
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 2: under news suits.

823
00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:06,080
Speaker 1: Under the nails is the wild, No nigga, I don't

824
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:14,560
Speaker 1: want suit a construction workers nigga working all read No, no, no, no,

825
00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:18,280
Speaker 1: not that far. But you. But I like a manly

826
00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:20,560
Speaker 1: man like I want to be able to call my

827
00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:23,040
Speaker 1: man if like something goes wrong, like he knows what

828
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829
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:29,080
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830
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:31,960
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831
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Speaker 1: hold on baby, we'll see you. I can come on

832
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833
00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:40,680
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834
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Speaker 1: nigga come and fix my pipes and work these pipes.

835
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863
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:04,920
Speaker 1: into this next topic because you know, one thing I

864
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:06,960
Speaker 1: will say, I hate when people be like, oh, but

865
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 1: you single though, but you single though? Like that's an insult,

866
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:13,200
Speaker 1: first of all. But I also don't like when people

867
00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:15,560
Speaker 1: like to throw out there when I'm married. I'm married.

868
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:17,080
Speaker 1: First of all. I think everybody just needs to leave

869
00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:21,319
Speaker 1: everybody alone. But I truly believe that the quality of

870
00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:26,279
Speaker 1: your husband is the quality of your marriage. And let

871
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:31,080
Speaker 1: me tell you why. I do think a lot of

872
00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:34,880
Speaker 1: times a certain type of woman gets talked down on.

873
00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:37,120
Speaker 1: And when I say a certain type of woman like

874
00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:40,200
Speaker 1: I'll say, like a woman like me. You know, I

875
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:46,799
Speaker 1: am very outspoken, you know, I'm not shy to talk

876
00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:50,320
Speaker 1: about my sexuality and things that I like. And a

877
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 1: lot of times people say women like that, you know,

878
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:54,359
Speaker 1: they're fun girls. They don't get chosen, you know, And

879
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:56,399
Speaker 1: I think I don't think that's true because I feel

880
00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:58,000
Speaker 1: like a lot of girls that I know, like me,

881
00:41:58,120 --> 00:42:00,399
Speaker 1: are married. You know what I'm saying. Like my best

882
00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:02,239
Speaker 1: friend that I grew up with, we literally act just

883
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:04,400
Speaker 1: to like and she's been married for almost ten a

884
00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 1: little over ten years now, should be so I'd be like,

885
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:12,440
Speaker 1: you know, there's somebody for everybody, but I'll let you

886
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:15,440
Speaker 1: take it from here, cause you cause we were kind

887
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 1: of disagreeing a little bit. What was you saying, well,

888
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:20,279
Speaker 1: cause basically I was saying, like, there's somebody for everybody,

889
00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 1: and you can't tell somebody, oh you're not gonna get

890
00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:24,600
Speaker 1: married cause you're a funger, or you're not gonna get

891
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 1: married cause you're a pick me in X y Z.

892
00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:28,640
Speaker 1: Because I truly believe there's somebody for everybody. And you

893
00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:31,360
Speaker 1: were like, mm, yeah, that's cool. But a lot of

894
00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 1: times these women are be like, I'm married, I got picked.

895
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:37,840
Speaker 1: I'm cool. But you're you married an undesirable man that

896
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:40,720
Speaker 1: really nobody wanted. So is that really like a goal

897
00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 1: or are you really in a quality mass Well, not

898
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 1: necessarily somebody that nobody wanted, But I think that for me, like,

899
00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 1: if I'm gonna get married, the goal is to be

900
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:52,399
Speaker 1: in a healthy marriage with like a good man, right,

901
00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:56,239
Speaker 1: a upstanding man, Like a man is staying on values principles.

902
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 1: That's not gonna have me out here looking crazy airport.

903
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:01,920
Speaker 1: If that's well, I don't think they was married.

904
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 2: But cause to me, if that's the case, then what

905
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:08,279
Speaker 2: is the point in fucking being married? Like, I feel

906
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:11,880
Speaker 2: like nobody values how sacred marriage.

907
00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:12,640
Speaker 1: Is supposed to be anymore.

908
00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:14,600
Speaker 2: So I feel like when women be out here bragging

909
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:17,040
Speaker 2: about oh I'm married this, and oh I'm married, that

910
00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:19,360
Speaker 2: nobody give a fuck. If y'all nigga be cheating on

911
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 2: you all the time, that ain't nothing to brag about.

912
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:24,440
Speaker 1: Or if he's just not a good person in general.

913
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 2: Or if he's just not a good person in general,

914
00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 2: Like if you paying all the bills and your husband

915
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:29,919
Speaker 2: don't put in on it, then why are you who

916
00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:30,560
Speaker 2: gives a fuck that.

917
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:33,400
Speaker 1: You're married right right? While they're not in a partnership.

918
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:36,280
Speaker 2: This is a one sided relationship if you paying for everything,

919
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:38,839
Speaker 2: and of course that nigga staying because you paying his.

920
00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:41,879
Speaker 1: Way, right right? But like, is it real love?

921
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:46,600
Speaker 2: Probably not, he's probably it's probably just beneficial or you know,

922
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:49,399
Speaker 2: easy to deal with. I just think that a lot

923
00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:52,520
Speaker 2: of time people brag about being married and their marriages

924
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:56,399
Speaker 2: aren't sustainable marriages or it's not nothing that anybody else

925
00:43:56,400 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 2: will want to be in anyway, Like that's good for you,

926
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 2: but like congres.

927
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:03,440
Speaker 1: Nobody saying because I know people gonna misconstrue what you're saying,

928
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:06,400
Speaker 1: because she's not saying that we're we're in marriage just

929
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:08,719
Speaker 1: to please other people, and that you're supposed to want

930
00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 1: to be in a marriage. But it's different when you're

931
00:44:11,080 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 1: always bragging about it and talking to people like my

932
00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:16,200
Speaker 1: husband and my husband and my husband. It's like, Okay,

933
00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:18,400
Speaker 1: you're bragging about your husband all the time, but nobody

934
00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:20,400
Speaker 1: cares to hear that because your husband is not a

935
00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:20,920
Speaker 1: good person.

936
00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:22,879
Speaker 2: Well it's not even that, because I don't even care

937
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:25,200
Speaker 2: so much if somebody is bragging about their husband all

938
00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 2: the time. If you love your husband and you happy

939
00:44:27,160 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 2: that you married, and y'all and you love the marriage

940
00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:32,120
Speaker 2: or you love the relationship, that's good for you. It's

941
00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:34,839
Speaker 2: more so the people that be talking shit about other

942
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:38,800
Speaker 2: people not being married, be like, oh, I'm married, and these.

943
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:41,240
Speaker 1: Bitches ain't married, or these bitches can't find a husband.

944
00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:43,120
Speaker 1: But then what does.

945
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:45,560
Speaker 2: Your husband doing And it's a lot of people qualities

946
00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:47,480
Speaker 2: your husband, what qualities you're married.

947
00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:49,399
Speaker 1: And not only that's a lot of people that brag

948
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:52,799
Speaker 1: about here like they're they're ring collectors. I call them

949
00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:57,680
Speaker 1: thanos bitches, the thanos. There is a lot of Thanos

950
00:44:57,719 --> 00:44:59,799
Speaker 1: bitches out here. They brag because they always get a ring.

951
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:02,160
Speaker 1: I got thring, I got three. But you ain't never

952
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 1: walked down out oh, because a lot of times men

953
00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:09,360
Speaker 1: will do that, especially men with money. Men with money,

954
00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:11,120
Speaker 1: because they like you, they fuck with you, they cool,

955
00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:13,080
Speaker 1: they'll buy you a little ring because they don't care

956
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:13,520
Speaker 1: to make it.

957
00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:16,240
Speaker 2: I think niggas be buying rings too. They don't necessarily

958
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:17,080
Speaker 2: be proposed.

959
00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:21,160
Speaker 1: I don't care what they're doing. But these but and

960
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:22,040
Speaker 1: that's why I say.

961
00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:24,279
Speaker 2: I mean, you're not engaged unless the nigga really get

962
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:27,600
Speaker 2: you want and formally ask you to be his wife.

963
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:30,320
Speaker 1: A nigga give you a ring being like here, yeah,

964
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:33,160
Speaker 1: but that's what be happening, that's what be happening. They

965
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:36,239
Speaker 1: might even propose, but a lot of times they don't

966
00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:38,960
Speaker 1: have any intentions of getting married. And I hate to

967
00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:42,279
Speaker 1: say that, but that's why I'd be like, ooh, it's

968
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:44,360
Speaker 1: a thin line because like everybody, I am a ma

969
00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:46,360
Speaker 1: man ass bitch. When I'm in love. I love to

970
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:49,839
Speaker 1: let the world know it. But I will also say though,

971
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 1: that's why I be keeping it. You know, I say,

972
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:54,560
Speaker 1: my man, I don't ever post them. I don't even

973
00:45:54,560 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 1: post a pinky toe because I don't. I don't need

974
00:45:56,760 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 1: all that embarrassment. Let me be embarrassed behind close by myself.

975
00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:05,280
Speaker 1: I mean, the girls, y'all just be doing a lot

976
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:07,279
Speaker 1: for a little you know what. I wanted to ask

977
00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:08,960
Speaker 1: you this, and I'm glad that we're talking about this.

978
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 1: We've talked about this a little bit before.

979
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:15,720
Speaker 3: Are you posting a man before he posts you, before

980
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:16,480
Speaker 3: he posts me?

981
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 1: Yeah? Like are you posting him all the time, Like, say,

982
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:20,759
Speaker 1: he's never posted you and you just start posting it. No,

983
00:46:21,120 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 1: I think that he I don't know.

984
00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:25,880
Speaker 2: To me, it needs to be like understanding, Yeah, you

985
00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:27,440
Speaker 2: wanna be on my page, I need to be on

986
00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:28,239
Speaker 2: your page.

987
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:31,960
Speaker 1: I agree. Your people need to know we together. So yeah, yeah,

988
00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:34,520
Speaker 1: because sometimes I don't know. Sometimes to me, it just

989
00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:38,080
Speaker 1: seems a lot of things get to be very heavily

990
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:40,160
Speaker 1: one sided. And I know as a woman, I'm a

991
00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:43,000
Speaker 1: lover of girl. And I had a conversation with my

992
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:46,960
Speaker 1: best friend Killer the other day and I love love.

993
00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:49,359
Speaker 1: Nobody can ever take love from me. No matter how

994
00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:51,680
Speaker 1: many times I get my heart broke, somebody hurts my feelings,

995
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:54,040
Speaker 1: you cannot take love out of me. I love being

996
00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:56,800
Speaker 1: in love. I love feeling love love. It feels fucking

997
00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:59,640
Speaker 1: amazing and I'm never gonna stop. And that's something that

998
00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:01,960
Speaker 1: I actually love about myself. Like, for so long, I

999
00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:04,160
Speaker 1: try to convince myself that I didn't want romance and

1000
00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 1: I didn't want love because I kept falling for these

1001
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:08,360
Speaker 1: people who are bad for me, and I felt like

1002
00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:11,120
Speaker 1: I wasn't good with discernment. But I'm like, you know what, God,

1003
00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:13,839
Speaker 1: I was made out of love, literally, like my mom

1004
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:15,920
Speaker 1: and dad were in love with each other and I

1005
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:17,799
Speaker 1: was made out of that. So of course I want

1006
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:20,919
Speaker 1: to feel that and there's nothing wrong with that. So

1007
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:23,160
Speaker 1: I say all that to say, it's like, but I'm

1008
00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 1: also not gonna be in a one sided love situation. Well,

1009
00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:28,680
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just have never been no eager

1010
00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:29,840
Speaker 1: beaver ass beach.

1011
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:32,719
Speaker 2: I don't want to post, no need, don't want to

1012
00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:35,000
Speaker 2: post me, Like, if you not posting me, why am

1013
00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:36,359
Speaker 2: I so thirsty to post you?

1014
00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:38,360
Speaker 1: Right? And That's what I'm saying youre talking about, oh

1015
00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:39,840
Speaker 1: what I got the ring? I got the ring, But

1016
00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:42,279
Speaker 1: what does that mean? Cause at the end of the day,

1017
00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:47,480
Speaker 1: and I have and I'm not trying to offend anyone,

1018
00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:51,960
Speaker 1: but y'all do all this talking down. And I'm specifically

1019
00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:54,480
Speaker 1: talking about the thanos bitches who be talking down on

1020
00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:56,480
Speaker 1: other women because they maybe don't have a ring, or

1021
00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:58,440
Speaker 1: they're not with their the father of their children, or

1022
00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:01,399
Speaker 1: they're not married. But it's like, Okay, you got the ring,

1023
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:04,120
Speaker 1: you got the man, but if he leaves you, y'all

1024
00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:06,440
Speaker 1: never got married. You ended up in the same position

1025
00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:10,120
Speaker 1: as the other girls. You're still a baby mama. So

1026
00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:11,719
Speaker 1: that's why I said, when you have a ring, or

1027
00:48:11,719 --> 00:48:13,760
Speaker 1: when you're married, or when you're in a relationship, stop

1028
00:48:13,840 --> 00:48:17,640
Speaker 1: using that to throw in somebody's face, like like you

1029
00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:20,160
Speaker 1: just play Joe big one, because it's really not that

1030
00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:22,760
Speaker 1: because we cannot these men cannot be trusted.

1031
00:48:23,200 --> 00:48:26,279
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know, And I just definitely feel like, yeah,

1032
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:30,240
Speaker 2: the value of marriage is diminished by like the quality

1033
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:34,560
Speaker 2: of the nigga. Right you married to, Right, it's nothing

1034
00:48:34,600 --> 00:48:38,080
Speaker 2: to some of these niggas. It's nothing to brag about, nothing,

1035
00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:40,919
Speaker 2: nothing to brag about. So I think that we should

1036
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:45,640
Speaker 2: stop using oh you single as try to like this somebody,

1037
00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:48,359
Speaker 2: I mean, and I think people be forgetting to it's

1038
00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:51,000
Speaker 2: a lot of people that want to be single, like

1039
00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:53,480
Speaker 2: it's a lot of people who have no plans on

1040
00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:55,839
Speaker 2: getting married, don't care to.

1041
00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:58,400
Speaker 1: Have like for marriage to be a part of day life,

1042
00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:01,200
Speaker 1: right right, And I think they can't look at people's

1043
00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:05,080
Speaker 1: social media and tell who from whose people actually say

1044
00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:08,160
Speaker 1: right right? And I think also too, like we were

1045
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:10,040
Speaker 1: talking about earlier, we're using people and this and that,

1046
00:49:10,160 --> 00:49:13,279
Speaker 1: I think that we have lost the idea of what

1047
00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:17,759
Speaker 1: relationships are. I think we have gotten so deep in

1048
00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:19,920
Speaker 1: that what can you do for me? What can you

1049
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:22,520
Speaker 1: do for me? Take? Take, take, take, take, take take

1050
00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:25,480
Speaker 1: that we just really people really don't love people no

1051
00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:28,200
Speaker 1: more like you really don't get to know people no more.

1052
00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:30,360
Speaker 1: Like do you really love this person? Or do you

1053
00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:32,960
Speaker 1: love what they can do for you? Yeah? You know

1054
00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And a lot of the time it's

1055
00:49:34,560 --> 00:49:38,520
Speaker 1: the latter, like people are going for them for sure,

1056
00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:41,799
Speaker 1: or people fall in love with the idea of love.

1057
00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:44,080
Speaker 1: You don't love this person, you just want love so

1058
00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:48,120
Speaker 1: bad that you will just go for anything, or you're

1059
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:53,520
Speaker 1: just accepting anything, right, But yeah, be careful about bragging.

1060
00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 1: And and for the other side too, for the men

1061
00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:58,759
Speaker 1: to be careful because sometimes you know, the women be

1062
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:01,879
Speaker 1: low key you be bragging about a girl. I think

1063
00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:05,400
Speaker 1: it's both sides. They go both both sides for sure,

1064
00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:07,399
Speaker 1: But I mean, I feel like they could brag about

1065
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:08,600
Speaker 1: what they want to break about. I don't.

1066
00:50:08,719 --> 00:50:10,520
Speaker 2: I don't want to think about me. And I've always

1067
00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:13,520
Speaker 2: said this. I literally have no problem with people bragging.

1068
00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:16,120
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1069
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1070
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1071
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1076
00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:40,719
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1077
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Speaker 1: But it's like, if you want to brag about your

1078
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Speaker 1: nigga girl, go here. I agree. I agree with that because,

1079
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1112
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Speaker 1: a liar. I love love a good lie. Lion is

1113
00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:35,000
Speaker 1: just it's in my blood. You know what I'm saying.

1114
00:52:35,560 --> 00:52:38,760
Speaker 1: It's on me, it's in me, it's all around me. Okay,

1115
00:52:39,760 --> 00:52:42,319
Speaker 1: I've been saying it since day one. Niggas be like, yeah,

1116
00:52:42,480 --> 00:52:44,800
Speaker 1: I seen you, show you. I seen you as a liar. Okay,

1117
00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 1: so you know that whole you already. So niggas already

1118
00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:50,880
Speaker 1: know I say it publicly. I ain't got nothing to

1119
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:55,360
Speaker 1: be ashamed of, you know what. I'm a black person first,

1120
00:52:55,960 --> 00:53:02,680
Speaker 1: a woman, immediately after, I'm a sister aunt. And number five,

1121
00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:06,120
Speaker 1: I'm a liar. That should probably be higher than five. Well,

1122
00:53:07,480 --> 00:53:09,400
Speaker 1: I'm a lot of things, okay, but those are the

1123
00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:13,239
Speaker 1: top five things, right. I agree. So why all of

1124
00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:16,600
Speaker 1: a sudden, when I get in the bedroom and I'm

1125
00:53:16,640 --> 00:53:20,040
Speaker 1: doing that freaky shit. You know what that freaky shit is.

1126
00:53:20,160 --> 00:53:22,400
Speaker 1: I don't know you know what that freaky shit is.

1127
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:24,480
Speaker 1: I don't know what you do in your bedroom, but

1128
00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:26,680
Speaker 1: you know what that freaky shit is. You know when

1129
00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:30,879
Speaker 1: you're okay? So when you in the bedroom with your men, right,

1130
00:53:31,600 --> 00:53:35,080
Speaker 1: and you know, sometimes sex can be different. Sometimes y'all

1131
00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:37,279
Speaker 1: having sexish like you know you, miss y'all making love

1132
00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:41,560
Speaker 1: under the sweet sweet sweet blue corn move okay, okay,

1133
00:53:42,120 --> 00:53:44,640
Speaker 1: And sometimes y'all on that freaky shit. You know what

1134
00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:47,800
Speaker 1: I'm talking about, that nasty shit. That's what I'm talking about.

1135
00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:50,400
Speaker 1: When y'all off that cosamigos, don't act like you don't know.

1136
00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:53,120
Speaker 1: I'm not aching like I don't know. I'm always on

1137
00:53:53,239 --> 00:53:55,920
Speaker 1: that freaky shit. So why all of a sudden you

1138
00:53:55,960 --> 00:53:58,919
Speaker 1: want to believe me when I say nothing me? Why

1139
00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:01,719
Speaker 1: you want to believe me? Now? Why you want to

1140
00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:02,120
Speaker 1: believe me?

1141
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:02,279
Speaker 2: Now?

1142
00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:05,600
Speaker 1: A nigga, I didn't mean I'll be loud about everything

1143
00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:07,319
Speaker 1: else when I say and when I say, yeah, this

1144
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:10,440
Speaker 1: show pussy nonhing, this pussing, and you actually do it?

1145
00:54:10,920 --> 00:54:14,399
Speaker 1: Why would you do that. Why who ass nigga? Why

1146
00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:20,560
Speaker 1: I don't like that? So I need to know when

1147
00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:23,439
Speaker 1: you when you doing that freaking you know that freaky shit.

1148
00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:25,840
Speaker 1: When you're doing that freaking shit, you tell nigga no

1149
00:54:25,920 --> 00:54:29,480
Speaker 1: of me, you mean it? Yeah, ooh you a freaking

1150
00:54:29,560 --> 00:54:33,359
Speaker 1: big for real, you be taking them unt truy. No,

1151
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:35,640
Speaker 1: I don't. But that's what I was about to say.

1152
00:54:35,840 --> 00:54:37,919
Speaker 2: If I say it, I mean it, because I don't

1153
00:54:37,920 --> 00:54:39,200
Speaker 2: be telling niggas to nut at me.

1154
00:54:39,280 --> 00:54:42,160
Speaker 1: Do not nut at me. So you ain't never said

1155
00:54:42,160 --> 00:54:44,000
Speaker 1: it in the bedroom. I have said it.

1156
00:54:44,040 --> 00:54:46,160
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is when I said it, I

1157
00:54:46,360 --> 00:54:48,440
Speaker 2: meant it because I do not be saying, bitch, I

1158
00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:49,920
Speaker 2: don't be playing them games.

1159
00:54:49,960 --> 00:54:50,759
Speaker 1: Well I don't either.

1160
00:54:50,840 --> 00:54:53,279
Speaker 2: I'm just saying I do not play. You just not

1161
00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:54,920
Speaker 2: about to shoot this club up.

1162
00:54:56,400 --> 00:55:03,000
Speaker 1: So when you said I, where are you going? So

1163
00:55:03,040 --> 00:55:07,480
Speaker 1: we just gonna avoid that altogether. I just feel like

1164
00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 1: that's not something I say all the time. I'm not

1165
00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:14,640
Speaker 1: gonna sit up here because I we are protecting ourselves

1166
00:55:14,719 --> 00:55:17,320
Speaker 1: first of all. No glove, no love.

1167
00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:20,000
Speaker 2: If I look you in a relationship, if you sleeping

1168
00:55:20,040 --> 00:55:22,200
Speaker 2: with one person, like it's fine.

1169
00:55:22,000 --> 00:55:24,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's fine. Yeah, I know, I know. But what

1170
00:55:24,360 --> 00:55:28,640
Speaker 1: I'm saying is if me and you are having sex

1171
00:55:28,640 --> 00:55:31,200
Speaker 1: and I say nonhing me, I don't mean it. So

1172
00:55:32,040 --> 00:55:35,480
Speaker 1: because I'm on that freaky shit, I'm on freaky time,

1173
00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:37,680
Speaker 1: I feel like it's other freaky ship you can do

1174
00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:40,680
Speaker 1: saying nothing me, you know. I mean like, that's when

1175
00:55:40,920 --> 00:55:44,600
Speaker 1: that's when we reaching the climax. That's when it's like

1176
00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:50,600
Speaker 1: it just came out. But I was really come out,

1177
00:55:50,680 --> 00:55:53,480
Speaker 1: and it did. You don't need to do that. That

1178
00:55:53,480 --> 00:55:55,279
Speaker 1: ain't right. That ain't right.

1179
00:55:55,680 --> 00:55:58,080
Speaker 2: You don't ever, but it ain't wrong either because you

1180
00:55:58,080 --> 00:55:59,440
Speaker 2: shouldn't have saying none in me.

1181
00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:02,439
Speaker 1: I just feel like a lot of times women say

1182
00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:05,399
Speaker 1: things and everybody says things in the bedroom that they

1183
00:56:05,400 --> 00:56:08,880
Speaker 1: don't mean, like what I love you, I be meaning it.

1184
00:56:09,280 --> 00:56:14,160
Speaker 1: Oh you you a freaky, soppy, real ass bitch in

1185
00:56:14,239 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 1: the bed. You don't. You don't lie enough for me.

1186
00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:19,439
Speaker 2: I really don't. Like I'm not gonna say I love you, Duris,

1187
00:56:19,920 --> 00:56:20,680
Speaker 2: I don't love you.

1188
00:56:21,080 --> 00:56:23,319
Speaker 1: I do. Sometimes I'm just in a moment I might.

1189
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:26,480
Speaker 1: I might have that Marvin Gaye playing girl, M what

1190
00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:29,160
Speaker 1: should be listening to Let's get it on. I like

1191
00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:33,399
Speaker 1: that old ship let get it. I'm making sweet sweet love.

1192
00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:38,200
Speaker 1: Don't they too old? Baby like that? I like it.

1193
00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:43,960
Speaker 1: Let's being that old school. That old school. I like that,

1194
00:56:43,960 --> 00:56:45,839
Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. But I like, I might say

1195
00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:49,640
Speaker 1: I love you, say this your pussy should I might

1196
00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:52,799
Speaker 1: even say it feel good, and it might not. Back

1197
00:56:52,840 --> 00:56:54,640
Speaker 1: in the day, I did used to. I don't lie

1198
00:56:54,680 --> 00:56:56,279
Speaker 1: no more like that. I was gonna say, I hope

1199
00:56:56,320 --> 00:56:58,319
Speaker 1: you ain't lying about that. No. I used to, though,

1200
00:56:58,600 --> 00:57:00,880
Speaker 1: So you ain't never in faked the orgasm?

1201
00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:04,840
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, But see you're saying, did I say it

1202
00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:05,720
Speaker 2: felt good?

1203
00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:08,640
Speaker 1: No? I probably was just like trying the giddy to

1204
00:57:08,719 --> 00:57:13,080
Speaker 1: hurry up. That's still lying. That's the same lie. It's not, though,

1205
00:57:13,120 --> 00:57:16,440
Speaker 1: because I'm not saying, oh, it's good, but you were saying, oh,

1206
00:57:16,480 --> 00:57:20,560
Speaker 1: and he thought it was good. He was, He was like,

1207
00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:28,240
Speaker 1: and he was rolling your eyes. Why would I be

1208
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:31,240
Speaker 1: rolling my fucking eye because he like, you don't say

1209
00:57:31,280 --> 00:57:35,520
Speaker 1: he like hit it from the back. He was probably

1210
00:57:35,520 --> 00:57:42,400
Speaker 1: doing that. Huh No, that's what should be doing. You

1211
00:57:42,520 --> 00:57:45,880
Speaker 1: got a little too much experience. You did that when

1212
00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:47,360
Speaker 1: I was in my twenties, Like a nigga hit it

1213
00:57:47,400 --> 00:57:49,200
Speaker 1: from the back. He'd be like, yeah, I got I'm

1214
00:57:49,240 --> 00:57:55,280
Speaker 1: tearing this out. I'm like, oh, yeah, it's so good. Daddy.

1215
00:57:56,120 --> 00:58:08,000
Speaker 1: I like that, you said, Daddy like that, Yeah, Daddy up.

1216
00:58:12,560 --> 00:58:15,360
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, no line in the bedroom. I feel

1217
00:58:15,440 --> 00:58:19,080
Speaker 1: like it's expected. It's expected now. It's different if you're

1218
00:58:19,120 --> 00:58:21,960
Speaker 1: like deep in a relationship, like that's different, or like

1219
00:58:22,000 --> 00:58:25,080
Speaker 1: if you're dealing with one person in y'all exclusive whatever.

1220
00:58:25,560 --> 00:58:28,120
Speaker 1: But I don't know. I feel like niggas be lying

1221
00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:32,320
Speaker 1: in the bedroom. Niggas be lying. I didn't talk out

1222
00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:34,760
Speaker 1: of conversation with this guy the other day and he

1223
00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:36,480
Speaker 1: told me that he actually faked them up before.

1224
00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:39,840
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I had a conversation with somebody.

1225
00:58:40,360 --> 00:58:44,919
Speaker 1: Y'alls have y'all faked guys? Have y'all faked it up before? See? Yes, yes,

1226
00:58:45,040 --> 00:58:47,360
Speaker 1: guys have faked them up before. So me and be

1227
00:58:47,440 --> 00:58:49,440
Speaker 1: taken too. I feel like they.

1228
00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:57,160
Speaker 2: And then they probably get up and go through all right, what.

1229
00:58:57,160 --> 00:58:58,720
Speaker 1: You finna do? Like you just never know.

1230
00:59:01,280 --> 00:59:01,360
Speaker 2: You?

1231
00:59:01,680 --> 00:59:07,040
Speaker 1: Oh see, girls, y'all don't be having that good bad? Yeah?

1232
00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:10,120
Speaker 2: I mean so, so what's the reason though, Like, what's

1233
00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:11,640
Speaker 2: the reason why you fakety?

1234
00:59:11,760 --> 00:59:12,400
Speaker 1: It was bad?

1235
00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:14,160
Speaker 2: Oh?

1236
00:59:15,000 --> 00:59:20,040
Speaker 1: I mean it was bad? So he had stop being good.

1237
00:59:20,080 --> 00:59:22,080
Speaker 1: I feel like sometimes that'll happen, like you know, God,

1238
00:59:22,120 --> 00:59:24,040
Speaker 1: when they get off that that handy dick, that handy dick,

1239
00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:26,840
Speaker 1: don't ever nothing. Maybe I quits on handy dick. I

1240
00:59:26,880 --> 00:59:28,240
Speaker 1: don't give a fuck if you know that or not,

1241
00:59:28,320 --> 00:59:31,040
Speaker 1: Nigga go to sleep. I don't really like having drunk

1242
00:59:31,080 --> 00:59:33,240
Speaker 1: sex though, what that said.

1243
00:59:33,440 --> 00:59:36,160
Speaker 2: I feel like drunk sex period, Like, if you're drunk,

1244
00:59:36,280 --> 00:59:37,640
Speaker 2: sex be lasting forever.

1245
00:59:37,840 --> 00:59:40,120
Speaker 1: Well. I feel like if you're sloppy drunk, if you're

1246
00:59:40,160 --> 00:59:45,200
Speaker 1: like yeah, like tipsy, but tipsy ain't drunk, you know,

1247
00:59:45,800 --> 00:59:50,440
Speaker 1: little tip tip is good, but when you drunk, sex

1248
00:59:50,560 --> 00:59:52,400
Speaker 1: is not good. I don't care what nobody. I'm not

1249
00:59:52,400 --> 00:59:54,720
Speaker 1: gonna lie. I have sloppy drunk sex one time and

1250
00:59:55,120 --> 00:59:57,920
Speaker 1: we literally passed out. I beg. We walk up the

1251
00:59:57,960 --> 01:00:00,040
Speaker 1: next morning, butt ass snake, and we was like did we.

1252
01:00:02,400 --> 01:00:04,280
Speaker 2: And that's why it don't be good because the next

1253
01:00:04,400 --> 01:00:07,000
Speaker 2: day you can't even remember what happened, because you know, I.

1254
01:00:06,920 --> 01:00:10,320
Speaker 1: Love having flashback little you know you get that Raven,

1255
01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:16,720
Speaker 1: it's so good, daddy.

1256
01:00:16,760 --> 01:00:19,080
Speaker 2: I just don't like drunk six I always wake up

1257
01:00:19,120 --> 01:00:21,040
Speaker 2: and I nun drooled on myself.

1258
01:00:22,920 --> 01:00:25,680
Speaker 1: Probably. I mean that's how I know when I be drunk,

1259
01:00:25,680 --> 01:00:31,360
Speaker 1: I drew, I wake up and I'd be like, oh,

1260
01:00:31,680 --> 01:00:35,320
Speaker 1: when was the last time you fake? It was a

1261
01:00:35,320 --> 01:00:38,560
Speaker 1: while ago, like a long time ago, like some years. Okay,

1262
01:00:38,640 --> 01:00:47,440
Speaker 1: that's that's good for you. That's good. That's good. Okay,

1263
01:00:47,680 --> 01:00:49,240
Speaker 1: So we're gonna move on, y'all. Let me know if

1264
01:00:49,240 --> 01:00:51,800
Speaker 1: I'm tripping in the comments about you know, the none

1265
01:00:51,840 --> 01:00:53,320
Speaker 1: that means because I don't mean it and I don't

1266
01:00:53,320 --> 01:00:55,880
Speaker 1: even care like that. So are you gonna stop saying it? There? No,

1267
01:00:56,000 --> 01:00:57,440
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not.

1268
01:00:57,920 --> 01:00:59,720
Speaker 2: So why did you ask us our opinion?

1269
01:01:00,280 --> 01:01:02,040
Speaker 1: I just wanted to know if I was just the

1270
01:01:02,080 --> 01:01:05,440
Speaker 1: only liar out here, because I'm not gonna lie. Like sometimes,

1271
01:01:05,480 --> 01:01:09,360
Speaker 1: like when I'm doing it with my man, it's like shit,

1272
01:01:09,560 --> 01:01:11,680
Speaker 1: my back hurt, I'm tired. So when you say nothing

1273
01:01:11,640 --> 01:01:14,360
Speaker 1: to me, it's like he can't do it. That's like

1274
01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:16,880
Speaker 1: the key It's like you know, the key word to

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Speaker 1: get it, you know what I'm saying. It's the key

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Speaker 1: word to get pregnant. That's what it is. Girl. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm on baby time. Like it's I'm

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Speaker 1: getting old you ready, I am. I'm on baby duty.

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Speaker 1: Like I'm I already know when I'm getting pregnant. Everything

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Speaker 1: I've decided on my date, everything it's going down anyways. Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, so that I was time to get into

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Speaker 1: the bop. Hey, the bob ow the bob bout about

1283
01:01:50,000 --> 01:01:51,720
Speaker 1: about boy about this is how you know I ain't

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01:01:51,720 --> 01:01:53,440
Speaker 1: shit because this drink is really good tie, but I'm

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01:01:53,480 --> 01:01:57,040
Speaker 1: on some liquor. It's good to me, it is very good,

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Speaker 1: but I can't have no liquor. I know, God damn

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Speaker 1: it very tasty. Okay, So for my bop this week,

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Speaker 1: I wanted to shout this artist out. Y'all know I

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Speaker 1: love a good independent artist that makes a bomb music.

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Speaker 1: I shot him out before. My bop of the week

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Speaker 1: is Give It Up by Zay France. He's just an

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Speaker 1: amazing singer and he fine too. I love hearing like

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Speaker 1: an R and B song and he's singing yo draws off,

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01:02:27,600 --> 01:02:29,880
Speaker 1: he getting the poom poom wet and then you go

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01:02:29,920 --> 01:02:32,200
Speaker 1: look at him and he finds they is really fine.

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Speaker 1: They don't make fine niggas like that, no more. They don't.

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Speaker 1: They really don't like when you see it finding like damn,

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Speaker 1: they don't make fine niggas song. Very fine young man,

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Speaker 1: so give it up by Zay France. That's my bop

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Speaker 1: of the week. Very fire song, very amazing artist. Y'all

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01:02:47,240 --> 01:02:48,080
Speaker 1: go check that out.

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Speaker 2: My cup of the week. I don't even remember if

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01:02:51,520 --> 01:02:53,960
Speaker 2: this was if. I'm like hoping that you haven't said

1304
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:56,440
Speaker 2: this as before. But it's not like a news song.

1305
01:02:56,600 --> 01:03:00,080
Speaker 2: What double back by Coco Jones who.

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01:03:00,080 --> 01:03:02,280
Speaker 1: Double back, double Back? No, I hadn't make that. Oh

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01:03:02,320 --> 01:03:03,920
Speaker 1: that's my song. I love this song.

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01:03:04,400 --> 01:03:06,160
Speaker 2: I love it's such a good song. You know they

1309
01:03:06,240 --> 01:03:08,920
Speaker 2: sample rain from it is, But I don't know. I've

1310
01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:11,640
Speaker 2: been having this song like in heavy rotation lately. She

1311
01:03:11,720 --> 01:03:14,440
Speaker 2: got a song with Brett Fire that's really good her

1312
01:03:14,720 --> 01:03:17,880
Speaker 2: Larger than Life from the album Larger than Life. I

1313
01:03:17,880 --> 01:03:19,600
Speaker 2: can't remember the name of the song, but I know

1314
01:03:19,680 --> 01:03:21,680
Speaker 2: what song it's talking about cause I love because I

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01:03:21,720 --> 01:03:24,160
Speaker 2: love that song too, because remember I had did about

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01:03:24,240 --> 01:03:25,840
Speaker 2: from his album like last week.

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Speaker 1: I think. So I'm almost done by the time this

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01:03:28,320 --> 01:03:30,240
Speaker 1: episode airs, my sex playlist is gonna be done. But

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01:03:30,240 --> 01:03:34,240
Speaker 1: that's on my sex playlist. Oh yeah, it's the moment

1320
01:03:34,320 --> 01:03:36,880
Speaker 1: of your life. Yeah my song. Yeah, it's a good song.

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01:03:37,120 --> 01:03:39,480
Speaker 1: Coco Jones has that's a good twenty twenty three. I'm

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01:03:39,480 --> 01:03:41,240
Speaker 1: really rooting for her this year. I hope she has

1323
01:03:41,280 --> 01:03:43,320
Speaker 1: a really good year. But because I'm really I love her,

1324
01:03:43,360 --> 01:03:47,040
Speaker 1: that own love her. Shout out to show Girl and Brent.

1325
01:03:48,240 --> 01:03:51,120
Speaker 1: So yeah, I'm gonna have a sex playlist so by

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Speaker 1: the time this episode drops, it'll be in the bio.

1327
01:03:54,560 --> 01:03:58,000
Speaker 1: I promise you, I'm going to be dropping more playlists

1328
01:03:58,320 --> 01:04:00,680
Speaker 1: this year. I'm really gonna be on on my shit

1329
01:04:00,720 --> 01:04:03,640
Speaker 1: for real. But the playlist is almost done. It's fifteen

1330
01:04:03,640 --> 01:04:04,960
Speaker 1: minutes right now, and I really want to make it

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01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:06,800
Speaker 1: thirty minutes. So I just got to add a few

1332
01:04:06,800 --> 01:04:09,440
Speaker 1: more songs on there. Okay, And you know what's crazy,

1333
01:04:09,440 --> 01:04:11,280
Speaker 1: some of y'all be fine on my playlist and I'm

1334
01:04:11,280 --> 01:04:12,920
Speaker 1: gonna have to lock them because I don't know, like

1335
01:04:13,000 --> 01:04:15,760
Speaker 1: somebody like I got like ten downloads on the playlist

1336
01:04:15,760 --> 01:04:18,360
Speaker 1: already and I haven't even released it yet. Y'all stop

1337
01:04:18,400 --> 01:04:19,760
Speaker 1: going through my Spotify stuff.

1338
01:04:21,000 --> 01:04:25,880
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, So now it's time to get into

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01:04:25,920 --> 01:04:27,400
Speaker 2: our favorite segment of the show.

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Speaker 1: First. Before we do that, I do have an item

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Speaker 1: of the week. Oh you do? Yeah? So I have

1342
01:04:31,040 --> 01:04:32,960
Speaker 1: this hat on because my hair is kind of nappy

1343
01:04:33,040 --> 01:04:34,920
Speaker 1: right now. But I'm gonna lift this up. Can y'all

1344
01:04:34,960 --> 01:04:38,600
Speaker 1: see that? Can y'all see my eyebrows? My eyebrow, Oh yeah,

1345
01:04:38,640 --> 01:04:41,600
Speaker 1: they're a little dark today. I just got my eyebrows

1346
01:04:41,760 --> 01:04:47,560
Speaker 1: micro bladed yesterday. I went to Suneique Beauty in Houston.

1347
01:04:47,760 --> 01:04:51,920
Speaker 1: It's s a n iQue beauty. Y'all go follow her

1348
01:04:52,000 --> 01:04:54,840
Speaker 1: on Instagram. Let me tell y'all, twenty twenty four is

1349
01:04:54,880 --> 01:04:57,880
Speaker 1: the year of doing high maintenance. So your every day

1350
01:04:57,920 --> 01:05:00,680
Speaker 1: is low maintenance. When I tell you, getting your eyebrows

1351
01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:04,200
Speaker 1: micro bladed cut my makeup time in half and it's

1352
01:05:04,200 --> 01:05:06,320
Speaker 1: so easy. So I get the nano brows so they're

1353
01:05:06,360 --> 01:05:09,200
Speaker 1: like hairstrokes. So they're really dark right now, just because

1354
01:05:09,200 --> 01:05:11,000
Speaker 1: I got them done yesterday. But it's a tattoo. It's

1355
01:05:11,000 --> 01:05:13,720
Speaker 1: gonna fade. And when I tell you, like I love

1356
01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:16,520
Speaker 1: getting my eyebrows micro bladed, I'm never gonna do anything else.

1357
01:05:16,560 --> 01:05:18,760
Speaker 1: I literally don't have to do my brows. I just

1358
01:05:18,800 --> 01:05:20,600
Speaker 1: go get them waxed and I'll be ready to go.

1359
01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:23,160
Speaker 1: So I go to Sneek Beauty in Houston. Y'all, make

1360
01:05:23,160 --> 01:05:25,440
Speaker 1: sure y'all follow her on Instagram. I'll put the Instagram

1361
01:05:25,600 --> 01:05:28,120
Speaker 1: in the buy y'all, y'all tell the LEXP sent you.

1362
01:05:29,240 --> 01:05:31,080
Speaker 1: But yeah, I feel like getting your lash is done,

1363
01:05:31,360 --> 01:05:34,480
Speaker 1: getting your brows done, getting a low maintenance hairstyle. Like,

1364
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Speaker 1: no offense to the wig girlies, but we're leaving wigs behind,

1365
01:05:37,960 --> 01:05:39,880
Speaker 1: like y'all, we need to be able to get ready

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Speaker 1: in twenty thirty minutes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, baby, I cannot do the week. The wig is

1368
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Speaker 2: not for me. The wig is not my friend.

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01:05:45,840 --> 01:05:47,960
Speaker 1: I try now, I'll do like a little closure, A

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01:05:48,040 --> 01:05:49,720
Speaker 1: closure is closure.

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Speaker 2: Is cool, but a full frontal, well yeah for me

1372
01:05:52,680 --> 01:05:54,880
Speaker 2: with the frontals, it's just mine wasn't lasting.

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01:05:55,000 --> 01:05:57,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean they don't last. They but I think

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01:05:57,200 --> 01:05:59,560
Speaker 1: some girls be lasting though, But that's because they're doing.

1375
01:05:59,600 --> 01:06:03,080
Speaker 1: You gotta spend thirty minutes reviving that motherfucker. We are

1376
01:06:03,080 --> 01:06:06,760
Speaker 1: getting ready in twenty thirty minutes and twenty twenty four, girlyes. So,

1377
01:06:06,920 --> 01:06:11,360
Speaker 1: like I said, micro blading, a little cute little lash

1378
01:06:11,880 --> 01:06:15,160
Speaker 1: and be on your way. Cute little low maintenance hairstyle

1379
01:06:15,320 --> 01:06:18,080
Speaker 1: and be on your way. Okay. So Suneek Beauty, she's

1380
01:06:18,080 --> 01:06:21,320
Speaker 1: in Houston, y'all, go get y'all browsing. Okay, okay, go ahead.

1381
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Speaker 2: So now it's time to get into our favorite sigma

1382
01:06:24,080 --> 01:06:25,920
Speaker 2: of the show, which is for your heart out. So

1383
01:06:25,960 --> 01:06:27,760
Speaker 2: you know, if you have any questions, you can always

1384
01:06:27,800 --> 01:06:32,160
Speaker 2: send them to ask for Minds at gmail dot com.

1385
01:06:32,200 --> 01:06:37,360
Speaker 2: Thank you, which one you know, the short one? You

1386
01:06:37,400 --> 01:06:39,920
Speaker 2: can always send it to ask four Minds at gmail

1387
01:06:40,280 --> 01:06:44,080
Speaker 2: dot com. Send us show questions, send us your testimonials.

1388
01:06:44,160 --> 01:06:47,000
Speaker 1: Okay, oh yeah, let's get into Oh y'all, make sure

1389
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Speaker 1: y'all subscribe to our channel because we're trying to get

1390
01:06:48,920 --> 01:06:51,280
Speaker 1: our subscribers up. Oh yeah, go sign up for the

1391
01:06:51,320 --> 01:06:54,240
Speaker 1: Patreon saying it at the beginning of the show. Patreon

1392
01:06:54,360 --> 01:06:56,600
Speaker 1: is reloaded, so make sure y'all go sign uf patreon

1393
01:06:56,680 --> 01:06:58,160
Speaker 1: dot com backslash poor mind.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and we're about to start going live on pay

1395
01:07:00,520 --> 01:07:03,800
Speaker 2: until twice a month, so make sure y'all join our Patreon.

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Speaker 1: Question number one, what's up? Drea and Lyck shout out

1397
01:07:07,600 --> 01:07:10,520
Speaker 1: to y'all's continuous growth and success. So I dated this

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01:07:10,600 --> 01:07:13,760
Speaker 1: woman for five years, my longest relationship, but unfortunately we

1399
01:07:13,840 --> 01:07:16,760
Speaker 1: broke up with the toxic ending. I've been doing well

1400
01:07:16,800 --> 01:07:19,040
Speaker 1: on my own, started a whole new career, and even

1401
01:07:19,080 --> 01:07:20,760
Speaker 1: found out my purpose in life.

1402
01:07:21,000 --> 01:07:23,640
Speaker 2: The only thing is it's lonely out hear y'all. I'm

1403
01:07:23,680 --> 01:07:26,040
Speaker 2: not gonna lie. I've been on a couple of dates,

1404
01:07:26,040 --> 01:07:28,880
Speaker 2: but they honestly weren't worth the time and effort. Honestly,

1405
01:07:28,960 --> 01:07:32,200
Speaker 2: I just want my expect We're both single. The only

1406
01:07:32,240 --> 01:07:34,720
Speaker 2: thing stopping me from approaching her is she had a

1407
01:07:34,800 --> 01:07:36,800
Speaker 2: kid recently, and I'm not sure if I want to

1408
01:07:36,800 --> 01:07:38,800
Speaker 2: play step pop or if I can deal with her

1409
01:07:38,840 --> 01:07:39,960
Speaker 2: baby daddy drama.

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01:07:40,080 --> 01:07:43,240
Speaker 1: What type of advice would you suggest for me? Don't

1411
01:07:43,240 --> 01:07:46,560
Speaker 1: do it? I agree. I feel like you're you just

1412
01:07:46,600 --> 01:07:48,640
Speaker 1: want to go back because it's something of comfort that

1413
01:07:48,680 --> 01:07:51,720
Speaker 1: you know and dating has been uncomfortable for you. But

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01:07:52,040 --> 01:07:54,240
Speaker 1: I feel like once something is toxic, it's hard to

1415
01:07:54,320 --> 01:07:56,400
Speaker 1: kind of get out of that and learning how to communicate.

1416
01:07:56,480 --> 01:07:58,840
Speaker 1: You deserve to start fresh. She done have a kid.

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01:07:59,320 --> 01:08:01,560
Speaker 1: You don't know what her her baby daddy. Man start

1418
01:08:01,600 --> 01:08:04,800
Speaker 1: over with somebody new. Don't give up. It's a billion

1419
01:08:04,960 --> 01:08:07,800
Speaker 1: people in the world, Okay, y'allow.

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01:08:08,480 --> 01:08:10,080
Speaker 2: If you say, if you didn't say that it was

1421
01:08:10,120 --> 01:08:13,760
Speaker 2: a toxic ending, then I would be like, Okay, you know,

1422
01:08:13,880 --> 01:08:16,679
Speaker 2: maybe let's try to revisit it and see what can happen.

1423
01:08:16,680 --> 01:08:18,639
Speaker 2: Because nothing is wrong with going back to your ex.

1424
01:08:18,720 --> 01:08:20,920
Speaker 2: I do want to say that if that's if it's

1425
01:08:20,920 --> 01:08:23,280
Speaker 2: somebody that you love and you feel like y'all want

1426
01:08:23,280 --> 01:08:25,080
Speaker 2: to give it another go around, ain't nothing wrong.

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01:08:24,960 --> 01:08:28,360
Speaker 1: With that either. But if it's toxic, then I don't know.

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01:08:28,400 --> 01:08:29,600
Speaker 1: I think you should probably let it go.

1429
01:08:29,640 --> 01:08:31,599
Speaker 2: And then on top of that, her having a kid

1430
01:08:32,080 --> 01:08:35,280
Speaker 2: that changes the whole dynamic of whatever y'all used to have.

1431
01:08:35,439 --> 01:08:38,400
Speaker 2: It's gonna be a whole different relationship now because now

1432
01:08:38,600 --> 01:08:40,519
Speaker 2: you're dating a woman with a kid and she didn't

1433
01:08:40,520 --> 01:08:42,280
Speaker 2: have a kid in the past. And like Lex said,

1434
01:08:42,320 --> 01:08:44,720
Speaker 2: you don't know what type of relationship she ha or

1435
01:08:44,760 --> 01:08:46,280
Speaker 2: her baby daddy. You don't know if he gonna be

1436
01:08:46,280 --> 01:08:49,360
Speaker 2: tripping on you. It's just I don't know much. It's

1437
01:08:49,400 --> 01:08:51,479
Speaker 2: just gonna be a lie too much. But I mean,

1438
01:08:51,560 --> 01:08:55,320
Speaker 2: if you think that you're ready for it, then try it.

1439
01:08:55,600 --> 01:08:59,880
Speaker 2: But I would say reconsidered and I'll get back out there.

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Speaker 1: No hell no, no, okay, question. I'm a two I'm

1441
01:09:04,760 --> 01:09:06,920
Speaker 1: twenty three. My husband is thirty two years old and

1442
01:09:06,920 --> 01:09:09,439
Speaker 1: we have two kids together. He moved to South Korea

1443
01:09:09,560 --> 01:09:11,479
Speaker 1: for the military for a year, and I found out

1444
01:09:11,479 --> 01:09:13,679
Speaker 1: within two much of him being there that he cheated

1445
01:09:13,720 --> 01:09:15,479
Speaker 1: on me with a nineteen year old, and then cheated

1446
01:09:15,520 --> 01:09:18,080
Speaker 1: on me prior to us getting married, but lot about

1447
01:09:18,080 --> 01:09:21,040
Speaker 1: it and manipulated me for a year straight. Ooh, he's

1448
01:09:21,080 --> 01:09:24,120
Speaker 1: a libra by the way, Well there you go there.

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01:09:25,240 --> 01:09:27,960
Speaker 1: I asked him numerous times to be honest about everything

1450
01:09:27,960 --> 01:09:29,960
Speaker 1: before we got married, and he wasn't. Should I divorce

1451
01:09:30,040 --> 01:09:35,599
Speaker 1: him or let him prove himself for our kids? Divorce him?

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01:09:36,640 --> 01:09:38,960
Speaker 1: I don't like to tell people to get divorces because

1453
01:09:40,080 --> 01:09:42,760
Speaker 1: I just don't. But because that's not my besig ain't

1454
01:09:42,760 --> 01:09:45,320
Speaker 1: never been married. I can't say she asked though, but

1455
01:09:45,479 --> 01:09:50,000
Speaker 1: she did ask. But I'll say this, for somebody to

1456
01:09:50,360 --> 01:09:52,760
Speaker 1: be able to lie for you, lie to you for

1457
01:09:52,880 --> 01:09:57,599
Speaker 1: a year straight and continuously lie. Do you really think

1458
01:09:57,640 --> 01:10:01,320
Speaker 1: this thirty two year old man is going to he's

1459
01:10:01,360 --> 01:10:04,400
Speaker 1: thirty two, you're twenty three. Y'all are almost ten years apart,

1460
01:10:04,520 --> 01:10:06,280
Speaker 1: and then he cheat on you with a nineteen year old.

1461
01:10:06,320 --> 01:10:08,360
Speaker 1: It sounds like he likes young women to try to

1462
01:10:08,479 --> 01:10:10,640
Speaker 1: mold them, and he's like, what do they call it

1463
01:10:11,520 --> 01:10:12,160
Speaker 1: a pedophile?

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01:10:12,240 --> 01:10:12,320
Speaker 2: No?

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01:10:12,400 --> 01:10:15,679
Speaker 1: Not a pedophile, bitch, when they like to mold people,

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01:10:15,680 --> 01:10:20,920
Speaker 1: what is it a groomer? It sounds like he likes it,

1467
01:10:21,040 --> 01:10:23,360
Speaker 1: sounds like he's a groomer. He likes to groom women.

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Speaker 1: Because you're only twenty three. Now, I will say this

1469
01:10:27,840 --> 01:10:32,160
Speaker 1: the woman in me once you know, I don't like

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01:10:32,240 --> 01:10:35,000
Speaker 1: to see kids in a household, you know, and a

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01:10:35,040 --> 01:10:37,400
Speaker 1: broke I hate seeing broken up households. I will say that.

1472
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Speaker 1: But you're only twenty three, and you have so much

1473
01:10:40,240 --> 01:10:43,920
Speaker 1: to live for. And I'm telling you. I always tell

1474
01:10:43,960 --> 01:10:46,400
Speaker 1: this to women. The type of men that you like

1475
01:10:46,439 --> 01:10:47,880
Speaker 1: at twenty three is not going to be the same

1476
01:10:47,920 --> 01:10:51,040
Speaker 1: type of man you like at thirty. And don't be

1477
01:10:51,120 --> 01:10:55,160
Speaker 1: afraid of starting over. And I just feel like sometimes

1478
01:10:55,160 --> 01:10:56,920
Speaker 1: we put other people's happiness first.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was gonna say, I hate to see kids

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01:10:59,200 --> 01:11:02,760
Speaker 2: an unhappy house. At the end of the day, if

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Speaker 2: you're gonna be more, if you're gonna be much happier

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Speaker 2: not being with this man who is obviously taking you

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Speaker 2: through a whole bunch of bullshe then I say, and.

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Speaker 1: I say, leave him. Yeah, It's like, at the end

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Speaker 1: of the day, you don't You're not obligated to stay

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Speaker 1: with somebody just because y'all have kids. I agree, because

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Speaker 1: I do feel like too, though a lot of times.

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Speaker 1: Men will use that family dynamic though to kind of

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Speaker 1: like throw in somebody's face, like, oh, you're gonna break

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Speaker 1: up my happy home. Nigga, you broke up the home

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Speaker 1: when you was in South Korea with old ting me?

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Speaker 1: Did you say ting me ting me? Girls?

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Speaker 2: You ain't lying though, she fed it up then he did.

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Speaker 2: I'll say, leave that nigga. Like Lex talk about she

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01:11:43,840 --> 01:11:45,600
Speaker 2: don't want to tell nobody to get a divorce. I

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Speaker 2: feel like you asked, and that's my advice. Divorce their nigga.

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Speaker 1: Okay, And I thought she's so young. Twenty three is young.

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Speaker 1: You have a lot of life to live. Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: can get married like three folk more time. Hey, niggas

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Speaker 1: love a bit with kids, they do, y'all. She didn't

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Speaker 1: stay on the market loan she baby. She said no

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Speaker 1: to me and she meant it. He he meant it.

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Speaker 1: this puss it for y'all. I'm just paying all right.

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Speaker 1: I'll see y'all next week. I can't blame it on top.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't drinking today. Thanks. That's how doin't know? You

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Speaker 1: lying every day?

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Speaker 2: Praying by my I love emotions. That's Alena got me open.

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Speaker 1: I'm know where to tea to me. You know you're

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Speaker 1: my girl, to let you know your my.

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Speaker 2: Baby, and they say we gonna stay, We're gonna stand around.

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Speaker 1: We know that we will mean to be together wherever

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Speaker 1: and whatever whatever. Me and you, girl, that's why right

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Speaker 1: you love let the same. I like the way you look, Gammy.

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Speaker 2: I like the time we spin, baby. I like what

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Speaker 2: we have grown to me. I like it, girl, don't

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Speaker 2: you know? I like it the way you look, Gabby.

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Speaker 2: I like the time we spend baby. I like what

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Speaker 2: we have grown to me. I like it, girl, don't

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Speaker 2: you know?

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Speaker 1: I like it here. Sometimes I want to be a

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Speaker 1: loved to check up all getting sackle. All I'm in

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Speaker 1: won't bit, and that's nothing entertained to the damning whatever

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Speaker 1: he said. I'm tired. I see y'all next week. Perry H.